Here's a Short background:

  1. Been married for 8 yrs, Have a son and been getting statements from her increasing lately - "Your gonna leave me for someone younger later on, you will cheat on me etc... and she witholds sex and affection, I don't beg for it."

  2. Like 2wice a month if we ever do it.

  3. She's been always accusing me of chatting with other women etc. I usually don't justify or say anything about it.

  4. Theres a lotta beautiful women that talk to me give me attention, I don't even get 5 % of that from my wife.

  5. I do not want to leave this relationship, for my sons sake, that's whats keeping me tied in to this whole affair.

  6. A month back she leaves to her parents house, with my son, for a vacation. . . And she shit tests me - Telling me she wont come back, and I said ok,

She calls me increasingly the first days to check if im still at home, and not with some woman.

The point is I am fed up with this behavior, I haven't been dating or sleeping with other women, but she insinuates that I will do it.

  1. I ask her yesterday when she is returning - She asks me why do I wanna know ?, So I can plan bringing around some woman or go somewhere else like thailand or phillipines and enjoy the company of women ? I reply back -" Don't bother coming back, I am tired of your behaviour, I am throwing all your things out tonight"

  2. I do love her a lot, I have been trying to focus on my work and hobbies last few months, more than focusing on other women, Point is I feel blackmailed by statements like this -
    If you do this or go here, I will leave you etc.