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You have not digested the Pill as yet. Once you do your entire view on woman and the world as a whole changes. Read the sidebar and Lift. BTW - I too was a Staunch Muslim when I came here 4 years ago, my views have since changed!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 07:59 AM
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He ignored the point, no response!
/r/askMRP21/12/18 11:03 AM
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Have you even Read the Sidebar?
/r/askMRP20/08/18 07:33 AM
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"I am throwing all your things out tonight" Dont say things you wont follow up with
/r/askMRP18/05/18 10:29 AM
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" All Rail thin" - I am sure that it says somewhere that Gluttony is a sin
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/18 09:33 AM
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Same thing got my attention.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 06:35 AM
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I am looking forward to hearing what you have to say as I needed to read your story to get my own life back together.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/17 05:26 AM
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If you cant see Stones response for what it is you have a Long Way to go.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:51 PM
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How do I get these feelz out of my head and get my alpha back? My good man you have still to swallow the pill, because once you really do you dont get these feels and you never lose your alpha. Hang in there it gets better with time
/r/askMRP16/10/16 10:50 AM
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Act as if you don't care of the opinions of others. Act as if you don't require their permission, or approval. Don't explain, rationalise, or otherwise demean your desire to do what you want for yourself. And throughout this mind shift, and refusal to accept the judgment of others, you can free your self imposed prison, and start to experience life, on your own terms. Life is Beautiful once you do!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 03:52 PM
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Says someone who has been here for less then a month.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 04:53 AM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 02:19 PM
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Keep an eye in the coming days I will post, its been on my mind for some time.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 02:18 PM
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I pop in from time to time.I have been thinking about posting for ages. Will post it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 02:18 PM
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Yeah Aye, Finding the Pill was all i needed to completely lose my faith....I was a Hardline Muslim
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 04:59 AM
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HAHAHAHAHHAH
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 09:14 AM
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Lots of men openly say their wife is in charge at home. Its amazing that this is All over the fucking World....All races...All religions....I am South African....I interact with Caucasians, Africans, Indians, Coloureds and this seems to be universal. When I laugh in these guys faces when they tell me that they have to run something pass the missus or get her permission to buy something I get looked at as if I am Crazy
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 04:48 PM
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You lucky Fucker, you found the RP before you got married. I was a fucking STAUNCH Muslim and identify with Lots of what you wrote..Fucking praying 5 times a day and begging god for a "Good Pious Woman"....... Long story short I ended up losing my faith when I found out AWALT and live a better life ever since...Consider yourself Fortunate!
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:01 AM
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I think about death often....We generally live life as if we will live forever yet death is inevitable. Its partly why i have so much regret in my life(Still cant shake the fact that I squandered my youth in religious fanaticism and not live the life I wanted to live) However I have to live with what I have and there is nothing that I can do about the past, look at the present and the future. It is what drives me to work to be the best Dad and husband that I can be. I often think about her dying…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 10:55 AM
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When I initially took the pill i was Reckless and living on the edge(driving down one way streets, speeding excessively etc etc etc). In hindsight not very intelligent of me however as time went on and I got to understand more about what the Pill really is about I have calmed down but fuck I am now living the Life I want to live. I now greet and talk to any woman who I share the lift with, I am sure that almost every female on the 2 floors above me knows me by now( From the CEO to the clerk ;) I…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 07:28 PM
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And here I am encouraging my wife to smile at the "Old dude" that she has been checking out at the gym!!!!
/r/askMRP26/07/16 06:39 PM
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A bit late to the Party however I get my shoulders, Back, Nape(back of neck - Hurts like a motherfucker) and upper facial cheeks waxed. If you can afford the lazer go for it, I cant so waxing for me until I can afford Lazer.
/r/askMRP21/07/16 03:32 PM
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As long as you are a STARVING Beta you will need("Need"is the word I prefer use as I will Always desire a beautiful woman) woman more than they desire you. As soon as you wake up, smell the coffee and understand the real world your Need for them diminishes and you realize your value and worth as an Alpha Male.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 05:15 AM
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Unlike a basic full body routine, upper/lower split or legs/push/pull split, bro splits target just 1 or 2 muscle groups per workout while utilizing a lower overall training frequency for those muscles of just once per week as opposed to the 2 or 3 times per week you'd get from most other popular training approaches. - seannal.com/articles/training/bro-split.php
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 02:58 PM
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What's your motivation for losing Gaining weight? Want to be a great example for my kid and daughters, Puny dudes are never taken seriously and do not have presence. I want to be admired when I walk into a room and not just another stick figure What didn't work? Not following a correct diet and keeping to Macros. Cholestrol has gone up slightly What has worked? Strong lifts 5*5 gained 20lbs, shirts and jeans no longer fit and i needed to buy new What are you doing next? Need to get some cardio I…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 02:46 PM
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Great takeaway here for me. Thanks again!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 03:16 PM
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Fuck, this is deep mate. Thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:14 PM
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Hey Bogey Got Ya! Zee
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 03:42 PM
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No mate, because I agreed and amplified, A year ago it would have been A typical Beta response, can you see her response back to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 06:19 AM
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You angry over your religious upbringing try being brought up in a Muslim household and leaving the religion after 31 years! Making the choice on your Wife based on a religion that you now Look at with disgust and disdain..... Fuck Man I feel you. Its almost a year since I found this place and lots have changed but like you I still have the anger however This thread has some Gold in it.....I have identified lots of shit that I need to sort out in my life..Quotes I need to pull and memorize...How…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 06:26 PM
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Not what i was expecting, I like it!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 09:50 AM
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Do these guys just miss the parts that refer to all woman as being the same???? Even in the fucking crazy religious sects...They are all the fucking same....
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 03:18 PM
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Woman are Woman..All the same mate. You need to implement more
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 04:44 PM
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Good luck mate. You are an Awesome dude and I wish you all the luck!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 06:01 PM
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April would be a year for me to finding the pill. I still Get Rage and Anger. I dont think i will ever truly get over it due to religious indoctrination and upbringing. What matters is how you channel the anger and move on.
/r/askMRP20/02/16 09:33 AM
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I argue cheating as a blessing in disguise. It cuts to the core of men, and forces them to make a decision, one way or another. This is the Gospel mate. If i never find out about her past(Technically not cheating but she lied to me before we got married) I would have never become the man I am today!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 04:35 PM
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PAH!!!! I DGAF any Longer..I actually encourage her to wave and smile at men who look at her....I am well past guarding shit....But she Absolutely LOVEs it when I do really gets her revved up...and hungry for me....
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 03:17 PM
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He is Fantastic!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 03:22 PM
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Thank you for this response
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 11:47 AM
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For all intents and Purposes I am a Father with Regret, However I am the ONLY father around friends and family that does not have a Dad Bod or is a Twig, much to the delight of my Wife..... I have a Son and 2 daughters. As much as I want him to be assertive and aggressive, his nature is cool and timid however he is as sharp as a razor and I continue to do activities that will enhance his abilities. He must be his own man and pursue his own life. I will not encourage him to spin as many plates as…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 11:46 AM
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Ultimatums in my opinion are weak. Do this or I'll do that. Imagine being on the receiving end of an ultimatum. Would you like it? There are better ways to move on. Biggest mistake in my 10 years of marriage Is not giving ultimatums. I had to man up and give it for my own life. It Is now a case of get your fat ass in shape or I will be moving on. Ultimatums are a part of life.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 11:31 AM
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Your grandfathers would rightly fall down laughing if they heard this silly jibberis This is a discussion that I had with another recently. The men of Old gave no fucks. If he wanted a Second wife he would get her and no fucks would be given. My mom used to tell me stories of my grandfathers(he was Blue pill as fuck, sadly if reflects in his sons as well) brother who was alpha as fuck and living his life as he wanted.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 03:30 PM
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just be yourself. they will like you for who you are BWAHAHAHAHAH.....Yes until you get a nice firm round ASS and some thick thighs and solid shoulders.....Wrapped in clothes that fit you correctly magically LOTS of people just automatically like you
/r/askMRP26/01/16 04:22 PM
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I have also noticed that the Betas take notice and are very attentive to what you do and what you say.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 01:22 PM
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Graphic T shirts My t shirts now cling to me and show of my traps, The 1st thing i get told by someone who has not seen me in a few months is Damn you are looking good Zee, When I am wearing a T shirt...However I have drifted away from them and prefer wearing a fitted Shirt with a jeans these days
/r/askMRP26/01/16 12:33 PM
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Shit I wish i could write as well as you mate!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 03:06 PM
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And your point is? Redpill men know better then to harass and argue with woman!
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:43 PM
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Yup. Thank you MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 01:34 PM
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I hear you mate up until about 2 years ago i was an orthodox Muslim, Praying to god 5 times a day. I currently provide a very disciplined environment however what religion states is right and wrong is not what I believe is right or wrong(any longer), simple example: dating, its HARAAM...however I want my son to date as many girls as he can, however its wrong according to religion, made worse if i encourage him. The school that we have them in is an islamic school and teaching them about religion…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 01:19 PM
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It's your responsibility to supplement their education and prepare them for the world. It's your job to lead them, not live vicariously through them. Hmm this is something I would like to discuss because I grew up religiously. I am now an aetheist. I would like my kids to do as they please(within reason) not taking religion into this equation at all. Would that be me wanting to live vicariously through them?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 12:36 PM
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Well done mate!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 12:30 PM
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On asking my dad whether or not I should ask that cute girl out: "Son its better to shit your pants then die of constipation"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:42 AM
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Dude rest easy in the notion that you can still enjoy the type of Life you want to live. Some of us need to make the best of the situations that we are already in
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:17 AM
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HAHAHHAHAHAHAH
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 04:44 AM
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Without a doubt
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/15 08:12 PM
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There are more guys like him out there If I was to spin plates I certainly would not let my plates fuck other guys. Same with my wife. Do as I say, not as I do. A good mate of mine..on marriage num 3 and doing this. I once questioned him as to why he fucks around N count over 140 but won't let his wife fuck around... His answer because she is mine
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 08:01 PM
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This is what I have started doing. I was a boring Fuck....she knew me like the back of her hand... Now it is a different ball game... I just do shit out of blue and it gets her excited and frustrated...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:44 PM
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Good for you mate. Enjoy the single life
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:36 PM
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This is it!!! I did not give a fuck if other guys hit on her. Fuck I encourage her to smile at strangers.... On the other hand my SMV is much higher than hers and she's rubbing my feet as I type this
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:23 PM
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Hmm That would be a difficult test but i hear you. Thanks Prof
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 05:36 PM
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She will still fuck me when I am sick...Thats how baby number 2 came
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 04:07 PM
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Do i have a Unicorn if she is all over me with care, love and affection when I am sick?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 08:31 AM
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Hmm I need to look into doing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 04:47 PM
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That's the new view I have in life. Interesting how I have changed since April.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 02:39 PM
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Applicable to everything in life
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 02:22 PM
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This my man is the Gold right here.....amandla!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 09:05 AM
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Yes yes yes...My son and I wrestle, fight and have great times. I make him service the car, jack the car and rotate the tyres.Get him dirty and try as much as possible to make him see the world for what it is. His 7
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 08:29 AM
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Once u unplugged you don't act differently
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 04:30 PM
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Looking forward to reading them
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 04:28 PM
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While MRP has a growing base of subscribers the amount of men who need TRP and don’t Reddit is too damn high! This exactly, Its amazing how many men there are out there that need TRP, sadly none will never get here and will continue to lead poor unhappy lives. I have subbed and will promote you as and when I can...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 05:06 AM
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Have a great one gents.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 04:37 AM
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I 'believed' in true love, the 'one' and what not. you put pussy on a pedestal. Always works out bad for you. Life is so much better and more enjoyable when this is removed from our minds.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 05:48 AM
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Its inevitable that she will tell you what she wants to tell you never more never less ESPECIALLY when it comes to ensuring that she locks you down...That hamster can spin really fast at times. I could argue that you didn't screen her properly before marrying her. That is something I have made peace with and I agree with you, however her actual words to me were "I never told anyone anything that could ever put me at risk" she told no one of what she did ever, no friends, family, no one knew..It …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:54 AM
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Shalom my brother..I was from the other side of the fence(Muslim - I have since lost my faith) I too shared your beliefs and never slept/Kissed a woman before i was married, reading your post makes me cringe as I see myself in you(Orthodox, religious) I married an aalima(Female who went to madressa to study the religion) and I believed she was a snowflake....After 10 years of marriage I found out that it was not the case....To say that it fucked me up is an understatement.....Thats because I mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:37 AM
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BWAHAHAHHA
/r/askMRP24/11/15 04:25 AM
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Well Done mate. This resonates with me as I too have started taking charge and being the man we need to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 06:50 PM
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DAMN!!!!!! Looking forward to hearing the update
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 09:14 PM
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Wow. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 06:57 PM
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I too have a 7 year old son, Acta Non Verba....
/r/askMRP17/11/15 10:26 AM
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SLOW THE FUCK DOWN..You had a fight and dove deep into RP where would you be if you did not have the fight? Remember RP is a Lifelong process not a 2 week quick fix. Calm down and rationalize..get yourself to where you want and need to be, get a better understanding of yourself and dont make rash decisions in the heat of the moment. You will then be in a better place to know what to do
/r/askMRP16/11/15 06:30 PM
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Yup In my part of the woods there are Snowflakes..Fuck...Her sister who was the black sheep for getting pregnant out of marriage was one... Mad that I believed in the made up ideal and the fucking religious indoctrination.... Even if i did not get a snowflake I threw away a HB 9 because i found out she was not a snowflake before we got married and have a HB4 that I am now living with so Yeah..FML... HOWEVER thats not the end of the road for me..I am working on myself...And if things dont change …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 02:27 PM
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Its been 7 months and I still have bouts of anger when I think that She is no snoflake. Its not as bad as what it was but I am working at getting it out of my system.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 02:00 PM
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hahahahah....Yeah
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 07:13 AM
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Heres my answers as an Exmuslim(I am now a culteral Muslim) 1)I never had sex before marrriage. Never dated out of marriage. My wife states that she was a Virgin. We fucked like rabbits and Still have sex regularly 2)No not as a high value muslim male. Its relatively easy where I am from. 3)No Wife is as the day we met 4)NA 5)I was never truly happy but I was content(until I found out she was no Snowflake), My wife has always been overweight. She is an Amazing Mother and Does anything that I ask…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 02:53 PM
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Is there a benefit in knowing the truth? I sometimes wish I could go back not not find out the truth, Life truly was better. Do not dwell on it, Do not care for it. Just make yourself better!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 05:45 AM
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Blue pill thinking had me apologise for the fact that my wife was overweight and I was a Dick for wanting her to lose weight and look hot. Guess what....I dont give a Fuck any longer...Its my Nature to want an attractive woman and Has always been in my nature. I just repressed it..
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 05:35 AM
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Why the fuck is this getting downvoted? This is Gods Truth!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 05:33 AM
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Its her issue to deal with, I am lifting and constantly improving. I have set expectations with her in that I do not know how much longer I can continue with her in my life looking the way she does and she needs to ensure that progress is made or we may not be together.
/r/askMRP30/10/15 10:14 AM
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Dude the more you lament on it the worst it becomes..I know I am coming from there...Stop thinnking that you married the wrong person. You are the one that needs to change, work on yourself and if your wife is not adding value to your life by the time you are a High value Alpha Male move on.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 03:38 PM
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To add in and tell you what I done for years...My wife is Overweight and i was "honest" with covert contracts...I never openly stated that I am not attracted to her and I need her to lose the weight as it is going to become a major issue in our marriage if she does not. There are times when I STFU and times when I need to be honest.....Well done mate
/r/askMRP29/10/15 02:05 PM
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Wow...I cant believe it..Another Troll
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 11:18 AM
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Have you read the sidebar? I suggest you start
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 09:18 AM
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Not yet, still ongoing
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:55 AM
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Oh she shit tests all right but in her own way. I also though my wife did not shit tests me but it becomes clearer in time. I got tested in different ways and not in the manners that guys here usually get tested
/r/askMRP22/10/15 12:50 PM
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Yup. Thats the plan
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 07:31 AM
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I did not mention but a few days before the post I had dropped the Hugs and I love you's the Dread was never like before. It has led the Main event which took place last night. This time I did not mince my words. She has threatened to Leave. Its her decision to make.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:38 AM
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So Main event took place last night. This time I did not mince my words. She has threatened to Leave. Its her decision to make.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 04:35 AM
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I have practically no interest in sex with my wife I am sexually attracted to many women I meet and see is your wife overweight?
/r/askMRP21/10/15 12:04 PM
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STFU and get abundance mentality in your head.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 06:19 AM
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Good luck mate
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 06:29 AM
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Got ya
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:54 AM
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I used to touch, hold and caress her before, Initiate as least 3 times a week. This is non existent these days, unless she asks. It very difficult to really implement the dread for me because other than the fact that she is over weight she is a Model citizen of a wife. However I hear your point and i need to do what I need to do
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 05:43 AM
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Gotcha
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 05:35 AM
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why you keep her in your life Kids She is an awesome friend
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 06:43 PM
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Yup that is the Plan. I Have explicitly stated "I cannot continue living like this" when she was moaning and complaining about her not being able to eat what she likes etc... The fact that I have 3 Young kids is the fucking anchor right now..esp as We have an awesome relationship...This past week she has been constant however My plan is more along the lines of a 2nd wife instead of leaving... The threat of a second wife will come within the next few weeks if there is no progress made.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 06:42 PM
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Goes to the gym but does not keep to the diet, cheats to often and falls off.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 08:08 PM
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It still Fucking makes me shake my head in disbelief..Its been 6 months and I still at times cant believe it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 07:39 PM
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I still haven't let all of that go. I don't know how. I shoved it down really deep, got rid of what I could, accepted my own role in how things got to where they were. But a part of me still hates my wife. Me too mate
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 02:13 PM
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Well done!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 01:25 PM
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AWALT regardless of church or not... Judge her on what she does not what she says
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 01:09 PM
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Fuck you are a little bitch with tons to learn.. Did you even read the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/15 03:00 PM
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U fuckers have no idea of how lucky you are... I found it after 10 years of marriage
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:38 PM
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Really u asking for pics from a throwaway? Never been Fat always been lean..On a Bulk at the moment. Have gained 14lbs of Muscle so far. Ass is bigger, visible improvements in arm, shoulders and chest...consistently getting compliments from everyone around me on the gain. Pants are tight in the ass and thighs for the 1st time in my life. I catch the ladies at work looking at my ass...
/r/askMRP09/10/15 07:06 AM
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I am in a situation where my wife is not taking her weight and diet seriously. In a few months I may need to move on
/r/askMRP08/10/15 06:37 PM
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FUCK culture and RELIGION... I Was a staunch MUSLIM... let me tell you ALL woman are the same..ALL you need is to get them to tingle
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:32 PM
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Kids
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:53 PM
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Little bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:00 AM
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Man up and stop being a little girl...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:00 AM
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Fucking great read. Time to put this tablet down and go do manly shit!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 10:09 AM
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STFU
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:58 AM
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I really can believe this. Thanks for sharing
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 01:06 PM
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get fucking Hot, Dress to impress and Fuck him solidly as often as possible...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 05:44 AM
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Man it was difficult for me when I thought My wife was a special snowflake..Can you imagine once I found out AWALT and my wife is 40lbs over weight...Yes its a struggle..every time I see er shovel some fatting unhealthy shit into her mouth I get put off....You are not alone mate...I too am fit and attractive and currently on a bulk
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/15 09:01 PM
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Nope.. All quality food.. She knows exactly what to eat just does not really care anymore
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 06:37 PM
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Can't I am on a bulk she needs to lose...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 06:27 PM
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Damn this is eye opening as I continuously try to influence my wife's eating habits....That stops NOW! She can continue eating what she likes and I will continue with the Gainz
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 12:36 PM
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Hell Man I encourage my wife to chat to her old school mates..All out of shape Beta Bitches...I have no fucking quams if she feels the need to run off with one..Because I know I am the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 01:13 PM
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Where? I can't find it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 06:42 PM
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I am in a Similar situation although I have never gained weight since getting married 10 years ago. I am lifting to get big and as such i am eating more. I have explicitly over the years told my wife to get in shape. Sadly the dread was never implemented and due to my love for the kids she is comfortable. my wife 40lbs overweight. a few months ago she was moaning and complaining about how she cant enjoy her food and is scared of eating in front of me, that was it and I told her that I will not c…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 07:40 AM
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well done!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/15 10:24 AM
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This is an awesome post..well done mate and keep it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/15 05:37 PM
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I am with Whine Remove the TLDR. RP is about self improvement and if the Lazy Fuck cant spend a few minutes reading the post he is not interested in Self Improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:42 PM
1

In real life, fuck honesty. Talk power. Be machiavellian. FUCK YEAH!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 05:40 PM
1

Women often tell us what they think we need to hear Awesome words of advice
/r/askMRP07/09/15 07:12 PM
1

Hear Hear!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 03:23 PM
3

the fact that your woman needs to see the angry/disappointed you from time to time is simply how it is, AWALT. I have ignored this for too long....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 02:34 PM
2

The fine line you're walking is eating disorder vs proper eating. That is what I dont want to get into. you may end up having to leave to show her how serious you are about this issue Lets both cross fingers it does not get to this point. However I am ready to cross that bridge in due time. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 02:27 PM
2

Only since I swallowed the pill have I started demanding, It was always subtle hints and covert contracts before. Weight watchers was her idea. I am at the point wherein I really want to throw in the towel, I feel that I have given her as much support as I can. She will for one week be motivated and the next DGAF. She will work out but whats the use if her intake is excessive. I have tried explaining to her energy and how even sauces have sugar in it...suggested Keto/Paleo but she Loves food mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 02:05 PM
1

What are you doing about this? Have done shit loads: Enrolled into weight watchers for years - she does not stick to diet Got her a PT for a period of time, used savings money, went well PT helped her with her fear of squats as she hurt her knee YEARS ago and showed her that her knee is fine, she goes to gym, diets but is not consistent, binges and throws away the losses She told me to sort out her diet as she was bored. Got her meal plans, she stuck it for a week, went back to old habits.. Afte…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 12:43 PM
3

Is it just about the Fucking or the quality of the one you are fucking? Reason I am asking is because I Get the porn star sex..She is up for almost anything..Yet I am unsatisfied..been unsatisfied for years...she is 40lbs overweight....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 11:29 AM
2

HAHAHAH..This had me in stitches
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 11:25 AM
1

Thanks for doing it
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 01:12 PM
1

I have gained 10lbs with another 10 to go. It's difficult for me but fuck the gains are worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 01:08 PM
1

Ever consider that they might be individuals that vary from one another? I really believed that..honest to God..only ever been with one woman my entire life(because of Islam).. I was a staunch muslim.. She was a 3rd year AALIMA(like a pastor) when we met...after 10 years of marriage I find out AWALT...I almost lost my mind...its a very difficult pill to swallow
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 08:55 AM
1

(Quick soapbox: that’s why such phenomena as non-biological homosexuality, affairs, sensationalist media, consumerism, entitlement, etc have come into vogue in the last century. Another talk for another time.) Will look forward to hearing about it
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 08:49 AM
1

U getting back in the game man....well done...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 08:46 AM
1

I see the same at my gym.. Dudes be squatting heavy with that shit form
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 08:45 AM
2

Married 10 Years..Have never had a Hard No. If I Mention that I want some cookie and I notice that she is not in the mood, I will not continue..She will notice and I ask me why "I am not using her"?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/15 08:53 AM
2

You are far from unplugged.. Once you unplug you will be free
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 06:53 AM
1

Keep enjoying life man. Use the anger to fuel your improvement. Fuck this world and the lies it teaches. Own your shit and dominate everything in your power. That is the Goal right there..Everyday..All the time
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 10:23 AM
1

Keep at it
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:47 AM
1

Its dependent on the context..In my context it was religious indoctrination..Dont go out..Dont have a girlfriend..no sex before marriage and you will get the same type of woman....get my drift?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:35 AM
9

Betas believe that universe will somehow reward them for being good. They believe that they get women by being "nice guys" and they believe the same lie in the larger context of life too. This is the fucking gold right here. I speak from Personal experience. I did not do Shit and expected that the universe and "God" will reward me for being a good boy! What a fucking joke. The world is not a Fair and Just place. I threw away opportunities because of what I believed the World will reward me with …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:41 PM
2

Awesomely done mate!!!! That's right. My primary concern is me. My health and well-being. My income. My life. My happiness. Thats the Gold right there
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/15 05:17 AM
4

I am curious, Has she ever fucked you in the manner that you want? Is this a new behavior or has she always been like this? The reason I ask is because the general consensus here is that the Slut that we married now no longer cares to Fuck us as we want and we need to swallow the pill to get that Slut back..Was she ever the Slut that you wanted?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 12:36 PM
1

A couple of days ago she (jokingly) asked me if I'd marry her. I said no. Dont fucking throw away a good thing.....
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:39 AM
0

what he said
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 06:05 PM
2

Once you are unplugged it becomes very easy....Its the unplugging and not giving a damn about upsetting her that needs to be removed..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 05:59 PM
1

Hmm when my wife has the body for nice sexy PJ's. I will buy what I would like to see her in. Right now I take off her clothes, if i feel the need for her body.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:57 PM
1

About the going to church thing I don't know I used to be a Practising muslim staunch(It was one of the things that my wife said she liked about me)...Now not at all..However My behavior around the house has changed..I fix shit that breaks immediately...I have started lifting consistently and eating more..I dont waste time on shit like games and social media...Initially she used to bitch and moan about me no longer going to the mosque etc etc but now she does not GAF...She performs her prayers a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 09:03 AM
1

Focus on your career, focus on yourself, take charge of the home as the Captain ready to work with your First Officer. Thats the Gold right there man..That is what will make the difference in your life. JUST DO IT!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 08:51 AM
2

Honestly....Finding out unplugged me abruptly - Literally imagine Neo getting unplugged and vomiting. I lost my oneitis all at once and it was fucking difficult, I do sometimes wish i never found out and lived in blissful ignorance.... However the flipside to that is I have now become a better man.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 05:59 PM
2

Time it gets better with time bud. Its been 4 months since i found the pill and the make belief world world that i had came crashing down on me....It gets better with time...work on yourself and continue doing so all the time
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 05:30 PM
1

the importance of a strong father figure in the household is vital. It what will set expectations with how boys must be as men and what sort of guys the daughters will accept....
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 04:54 PM
1

Exactly what I was thinking....
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 09:40 AM
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She filed an hr complaint against me Fuck thats funny....Sorry Mate
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 12:38 PM
2

Good Luck Mate.....All the best and always Keep in your mind AWALT!!!!! With AWALT you will never get disappointed when shit fucks up and in time it will. AWALT deal with it and move on.....
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 10:02 AM
1

write me up your concrete plan of action to change it. Its already in effect...Will give myself a few more weeks/months before I post an update however to give you some clarity I am no where close to where I used to be before. I have made peace with the fact that my wife is a woman and AWALT thats that. The occasional anger that i have now stems from the beliefs that I had that led me to the path that i followed. I am now on a new path and its Glorious.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 07:36 AM
3

Small steps, but I'm standing up for myself, what I want and what will make me happy. Thats the spirit!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 02:50 PM
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Really trying to leave the past behind...all the missed out opportunities and the beliefs that I had...I was taught and believed that if u don't fuck around before marriage u will get a similar woman...the pious for the pious...FUCK THAT SHIT....life is not fair and we don't always get what is promised to us...deal with it and move the FUCK on!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 09:59 AM
1

(an experience I was robbed of) You and me bru(my wife pretended to be a snowflake... Found out after 10 years that I was not the 1st guy she was naked with, was a very religious person at the time)....life sucks but its what you decide to do after that matters...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 09:54 AM
2

Married 10 years...Never been in a dead bedroom..If we go without sex its because I dont want it...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 05:57 AM
1

and here I am guzzling food to get get bigger...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 05:36 AM
1

Well done man
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 05:52 PM
1

I know the feeling of needing to speak to someone... Pm me when u feel the need to offload...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 05:48 PM
1

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!! FUCK OFF MATE
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 05:47 PM
3

Solid post man!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 07:03 PM
1

Keep at it man
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 07:06 PM
1

Great reply thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 05:29 AM
2

Time
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:42 AM
1

Sounds like a dream man..u living the dream
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:15 PM
1

Send him to married redpill
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:46 PM
1

He needs to find himself here by himself...you can't force redpill ideologies onto a person...
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:42 PM
1

Hell yeah!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 04:24 PM
1

I too had a lack of shit tests. I now notice comfort tests
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 04:23 PM
1

Nice...I need to get my soninto boxing as its closest to where we live. He is a softy and his sisters are the fighters but charmers as well...shit tests from them as well
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 04:03 PM
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Marriedredpill
/r/askTRP14/07/15 04:35 AM
1

This is good very very good...It will be used
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 03:33 PM
2

Shave it!!! I am 32 but have lots of white hair..thick full crop of hair but white lots of white. I started shaving it off and I prefer it that way.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 03:22 PM
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For a 17 year old you write incredible well. You have everything else covered and will get better with practice... Lift and Stay Manly
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:24 AM
1

Good work Mate. Identifying when you mess up is vital... With time and practice you become a Pro.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:56 AM
3

I can relate completely with you mate from the settled bit to the bit about you being worried about hurting her feelings, to the mother fucking covert contracts and being higher then her in regards to SMV..I am still in the same shape that I was when we married. Married 10 years + 3 kids 7,5,2..Settled because I believed she was Pious and a Snowflake..I started unplugging after the last baby because she never start taking care of herself..strangely enough I found the red pill and decided to man …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 02:47 PM
0

Fuck this again??? There are a number of posts here that talk about this already...Go search and you will find them. FWIW i am an indian myself
/r/askTRP08/07/15 04:55 AM
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You are 17..Life just gets harder mate. Hang in there, get tough and dont put yourself in compromising places
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:05 AM
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Its part of their genetic make up. Sisters, Mothers, Aunts, Grandmas Cousins...AWALT AWALT!!!!!!!
/r/askTRP06/07/15 10:01 AM
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2 You dont know what will happen 3 You dont like that you dont know what will happen Therefore You will get what you want or enjoy learning what you need to get what you want. The worst that will happen is that nothing will happen. That's it. THATS IT!!!! Not just with woman but with EVERYTHING That you do in life.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 08:55 AM
1

I love using silence
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 04:48 PM
1

Well done man
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 08:13 AM
2

power corrupts
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 08:05 AM
1

the no divorce thing beat into our heads Ditto however i beat this into my own head because of my childhood, however Its a reality of life and sometimes you have to acknowledge it. To move forward
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 04:42 AM
1

Holy shit that's my grocery bill for the month...Hmm groceries or Sex ..Groceries or Sex..Gro..SEX..SEX..SEX!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 04:40 AM
1

Time, it takes time
/r/askTRP02/07/15 06:18 AM
2

Welcome, Great to have you on board!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 04:21 AM
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She is still your Wife..Hold her hand man.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 02:08 PM
3

Life gets better...You Grow Balls...most importantly for me I now do what Makes me happy...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 07:13 AM
0

The internet...Google will help
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:15 PM
0

This would help.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:13 PM
1

This is one of the reasons why I stopped posting. I need to get my shit together, give it time and then post a FR of what worked, what did not and what is the way forward. My next post should come after at least another 2 months giving me 5 months since my first post
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:13 PM
3

You know what...It is real..I have been married 10 Years..My wife ALWAYS made herself out to be a snowflake yet I always deep down had a feeling a very very slight feeling that she hid shit from me....GUess what I found out after 10 years of marriage?????
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:51 PM
1

Read my married red pill submissions!!!!!
/r/askTRP30/06/15 04:13 AM
1

Saddest bit for me is that for me I will never do the things that I wanted to do. My revenge is internal, and thats the most difficult to beat.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:11 PM
2

32 myself..I had a beard (islamic one) for Years..Decided to shave it off...Shaved my head as well..Started dressing better....The wife thought that I am going through a phase..You know what she is right..Its a phase of me doing what the fuck I want to do because I want to do it..Not because it will keep her happy or because religion says so..Do what you want for you!!!! Keep yourself happy and life will be better.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 02:42 PM
0

Awesomely said!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 02:37 PM
2

Well-done stay consistent now
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/15 04:06 AM
1

"divorce is not an option" That used to be ME... No more
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 12:06 PM
2

For those lurking, swallow it now and find comfort in the discomfort. Live a full life that is hard instead of enjoying the safety of a lie. GOLD!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 12:04 PM
2

Thanks Gents! Life is better. I have realized that she had a life before me and there is nothing I can do about it now. I am to blame for negotiating lower and fuck it its done. I have let go of lots but its still difficult at times... Not all the time once every couple of days...I have to remind myself of what I have learnt here and be better every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 11:54 AM
1

Judge men on deeds, not titles. Exactly!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 08:07 AM
1

I still get frustrated and angry when I think of my pre RP days..When I was a good muslim Boy who obeyed because religion dictated and did not do what I want.. I still get irritated and angry when I think that My wife did not share the same religious ideologies that I had and I was foolish enough to believe that she was a snowflake.....
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 08:03 AM
1

I love my wife, i'm not attracted to her anymore. Shes not out of shape, shes very pretty, submissive, kind, loving, blah blah. Welcome to my world man We share the same history, If i had to RP the fuck up years ago (married 10 years) I would not be here and she would be in shape. Anyways I let her know that I expect her to get in shape and now its a waiting game. She does not get into shape I am going looking for what I want
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 08:01 AM
1

HAHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP23/06/15 10:38 AM
1

Time man its all about time. I lost my oneitis all at fucking once.ONCE man at one go..To a woman whom I thought was a snowflake when I found out she was no snowflake....3 months ago..I am getting worked up just typing this but you know what? It gets better man..Suck it up..Deal with it...It gets better!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 09:35 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP20/06/15 06:46 AM
3

This is exactly It. for Years my wife knew and knows that I was not happy with how she looked. Yes she nevver made a real effort to lose the weight. After I unplugged I explicity stated that its an issue for me and when she decided to try and pull the "I am scared to eat in front of you at friends and family(aka Junk unhealthy Shit)" I lost it and told her that I will not continue living like this, when she asked what I meant I told her thats exactly It I will not continue living like this and l…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 04:38 AM
3

TLDR: Face your fears and conquer them. That is the shit right there! Its what I have been doing these last few months and Damn it feels good
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 04:19 AM
2

Yeah we need this as I noticed lots of new folks in the last couple days
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 04:09 AM
1

Its all over the world Mate. In south africa its cheaper to eat junk as well
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:52 AM
5

Fast food man its them Burgers and fries
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 04:34 PM
2

I set the standard she'll perform to. Now that I see she is capable of more, then the bar has been raised and she'll meet it. That is what I did for my wifes focus on her physical condition, I used the situation to my benefit and have now set a criteria for her to meet.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 04:07 PM
2

Just keep holding on to the fact that nobody really cares about you Sadly I found out that fact later on. However its all Good..I lost my Oneitis all at once and that was the biggest hurt for me
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 04:05 PM
4

Holy shit you're not tossing me to the curb let me fucking reward that decision Thats exactly it. My wife allowed me to cum on her face and opened her mouth for my cum soon after her past came out..Bare in mind that I never got that in 10 years of marriage, it was always only ever on her tummy/chest..she had a phobia for cum in her face and mouth for 10 years and now it magically vanished..pull the other one woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:55 PM
1

Awesome..Loved it..well done
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:46 PM
2

Fuck Man your story speaks to me on a personal level. Although I will admit I fucking broke down like a pussy and did not handle my shit initially. Thanks to this forum I have managed to sort shit out however its early days for me and will give a FR in a couple months time
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:41 PM
1

well done mate. Amazing what one can achieve when you keep frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:37 PM
1

comes with practice. I fucked up royally as well. I got a good kick up the arse from the men here and learnt
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:46 PM
1

Also what are some of your tips or tricks you use to stay quiet when you just want to vomit out your thoughts? I come from a family of talkers so I'm trying hard to break the habit of saying everything I feel. I too come from a family of talkers..What has helped me is the thought the constant thought"What is the benefit to me or her if I say X Y Z" thats it man. If there is no benefit keep your mouth shut.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:42 AM
2

Hear Hear
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:11 AM
1

Time Mate, Time..I know the Exact feeling...I was Numb but in time it got better...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 04:38 AM
1

Shit man if one is not that personality type, it would probably backfire pretty bad, pretty soon. Care to elaborate on what you mean?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:38 AM
1

Yup Religion plays a big part Lols the rage is gone. Read my past post submissions if you want detail. Dread..knowing how to"discipline" your wife. Understanding the hamster...How to have sex with her..Lots man.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:10 PM
1

Also, it reminds me of girls who keep falling "bad boys" all this time before wanting the "good" guy now, is that correct? Exactly Below are my opinions based on my community and the people I have interacted with...This is not to say that What i am saying is the gospel as there are exceptions to this rule. Good Muslim Guys Do not drink, take drugs or go out clubing. They are grounded in that the muslim beliefs that we have make us good providers and home builders. The general all round good guy,…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:06 PM
1

Do what is going to make you happy. You want to stay with her for the Kids...Will that Make YOU happy? Do it? Will living with her for the rest of your life knowing that she lied to you make you unhappy? Than do something about it! Either way You need to decided on what will make you happy and Do It!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 05:52 AM
1

AWALT regardless of hair color
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:15 PM
1

Lucky man. I hate my old man. He is dead now!
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:05 PM
1

More likely guilt and the want for a "good" guy...guy who is inexperienced and will be a proper beta bus.... Lots more...if u interested in knowing
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 01:13 PM
2

Fuck This "Wife is Happy BS"....This is the shit that I believed for 10 years that kept me from doing what would have made us awesome..I was too concerned about keeping her happy instead of doing what I wanted to do to keep me happy and moving forward......Start doing what makes you happy and let her know what it is that you need to keep you happy
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 05:25 AM
3

Captains don't need to tell anyone what they are doing, but the crew should be made aware of the commanders intent (this is actually military parlance.). A captain should be steady of hand and word and should not wildly change habits or schedules as it disrupts the crew and the vessel. This is exactly it...I unplugged abruptly and was tempted to just not keep her in the loop..Wrong method and would have led to serious issues..Instead I now keep her in the loop without worry of how she will feel.…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 05:20 AM
1

She cannot/will not do that. Explicitly asking for it Me: Well I guess that means we won't be having sex tonight? Will get her anxious about doing it Just continue from where you left off...why do you feel that you have to ask?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 12:29 PM
4

I'm feeling pretty good and I join her and cuddle her whilst she watches her psuedo-porn, do a little wandering hands and the like. She reciprocates. So after a little while the kids are definitely asleep and she doesn't seem tired or ready to go to sleep. The TV show ends we have this exchange Er..Why did you have to wait and need to do it in the bedroom...Everyone is asleep..your hands were wandering and she was Reciprocating...Continue from there..No need to talk and explain...Escalate the to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 11:50 AM
1

I am going to speak about my personal situation Hate to break up the family though, he's a great dad. I say the same thing about my wife(Awesome mom, Sex whenever I want, awesome housekeeper, etc)...But the fact that she is overweight was killing me, literally...I was down in the dumps and giving up.....We had spoken about it for YEARS and she knew and knows how the excess fat irritates me..... The only thing that really made her ship up was me having to literally drop the bomb...I told her in n…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 05:38 AM
2

The only thing that really worked for me was dropping the Bomb, we been married 10 years..HOWEVER i was and still am at a critically stage in my life...My wife stopped really focusing on her weight after the 3rd and final baby and in 2 years never made any significant progress. Is is 35lbs overweight.... The usual nice talk and soft explanation was done... The bomb went off when we were chatting one evening about 2.5 weeks ago wherein she was moaning about eating and being scared to eat in front…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 04:52 AM
1

Hey Man....Its a bit fucked in the Muslim community as the girl will go into Hijab and then start becoming the 5 times a day prayer girl and want a guy who never done shit....Fuck!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:37 AM
2

Good luck mate...I am crossing fingers for you...shit like this blows my mind
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 09:52 AM
7

dude I agree with you...It is the same in the indian muslim community....however there are those that do have sex and HIDE..act like good girls..but are sluts
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:47 AM
1

Be happy in the fact that you found RP before you made any perm life decisions........life is just beginning for you
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:44 AM
0

As an indian i will have to agree HOWEVER If you are part of the upper 5TH percentile of men this does apply...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:36 AM
5

you muslim? lots of muslim "religious girls" do shit and act holy...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:32 AM
1

you done well...keep it up
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 02:06 PM
1

Damn...Sorry Mate...Besides the great advice that had already been provided have you started lifting if not start!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 01:34 PM
6

open 2 browsers 1 in incognito the other not. Open a couple pages in the normal browser and browse MRP in the incognito one....
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 12:41 PM
1

I have a X360..LOved and still love playing games with my son 7 (he makes for a great Halo partner)..However since coming here i have realized that there are better things to do...I actually enjoy reading..Besides stimulating the mind it gives me interesting shit to talk about and increases my vocabulary. I have since signed up for the Library and have made it a goal to read at least 4 books a month. Instead of games I would rather spend that time playing ball with my son or watching him ride hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:12 PM
1

This!
/r/askTRP29/05/15 02:40 PM
1

I need a gut check. My plan is to stay another 12 - 18 months and continue to get my shit together and get myself ready to leave. If things get better with her great, if not, I will be in the place I need to be to leave. That is the spirit Mate! Good Luck!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 01:48 PM
1

This deserves Gold!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 04:59 PM
1

Even worse, this may actually be encouraging Blue Pill futures for your kids! This is how I became to be a pacifist with My wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 11:52 AM
2

Good Job!
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:03 PM
2

As a fellow Exmuslim I salute you...You got out in Time... Anyways dude a Vasectomy is a drastic step Bra, You will never truly know if you want kids, Right now you are at a very very exciting stage of your life but that will soon pass..you will get older and the thrill will go...What happens when you have a change of heart??? I speak from experience as 10 years ago I was a Flippen Staunch Fundamentalist muslim..I married at 21....I am now an Exmuslim...What were the chances???? Dont ever do any…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:00 PM
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This reads like a Fairy Tale.....Sigh....A man can dream
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:31 PM
1

Forgot to add. Going to teach this to my son from a young age
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:25 PM
1

Yeah...however I was being a Beta bitch at the time and was in no mood to touch her esp after spending 1.5+ hours on her the previous night
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 07:23 PM
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once you realize that you aren't happy Thats it man, that is IT!!!!! Its that self actualization that is needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:42 PM
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Awesome report Mate! Keep it up "Happy wife - Happy life", That is what I also believed what a load of balls...Her being happy and overweight was bringing me down and I was always too concerned with her happiness instead of mine...Now its a strict diet and a PT to get her fatass in shape so that I can be happy!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:30 PM
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She asks where the old me has gone (that fucker is gone for good). Amen My wife also misses the Old me(her actual words - My change has been drastic though)...I hate that fucker...I killed him..and sealed him in a concrete tomb he will never be coming back...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:15 PM
2

Do shit for you, Not for them! They will come.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:01 PM
3

You don't deserve shit, either you earn it through blood & tears or you can stay in the basement whining about how unfair the world is. AMEN!!!!!!
/r/askTRP26/05/15 01:01 PM
1

I recommend the book "the power of now" by Eckhart tolle, its slowly helping me along. Good luck mate
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 11:16 AM
1

Of course there is...Once you are married. You cant expect to want to bang the shit out of the hot chicks when its Haraam to do so in a Muslim country.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 02:55 PM
1

Nice!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 06:15 AM
2

Hahaha yeah next time
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:20 PM
1

Yeah man..next time I call her bluff
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:19 PM
0

This is the only woman I have ever had in my life and BP programming meant I believed it...its the shit I have been telling her for years
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:18 PM
2

South Africa... We far from that stage...hoping to not get there
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:17 PM
1

besides shutting up...which i mentioned...school me on how you would have handled the situation...taking into consideration that I have had ONEITIS for 10 solid years and daily professing my undying love for this woman(prior to a month ago....i have tamed it)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 09:04 AM
1

Flippen A Man!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 07:15 AM
1

Plus, in between, we talk about it all the time, he flirts, teases, everything... Its been crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 02:24 PM
2

I would agree with what Bluepillprof has said. Some communication and expectations need to be set.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 08:09 AM
3

Due to my childhood(constant fights in the house) I was always concerned with keeping her happy, I was a Pacifist..Never do anything, or say anything that may upset her...Keep the peace all the time no matter what. Since finding the Pill, I have realized that I need to Do what will make me happy. Without having to make a scene and fight about it. You dont like it its Ok no big deal..I will do it..You are allowed to not like it..its OK.. Initially it took some courage but once you get it figured …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 08:05 AM
1

Zeeyardsa Has had the night to digest the feedback that this community has provided. u/jacktenofhearts was the one that made me understand that I was to blame for negotiating my own desire. It struck a cord with me and has made me realize a way forward. A new foundation has been laid and expectations set with MrsZeeyardSA, a very expensive PT has been consulted with and will begin training MrsZeeyardSA after the Holy month has passed. Mr ZeeyardSA has began imagining what MrsZeeyardSA will look …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 07:42 AM
1

That's the only safe thing you can do until you've rediscovered your manhood and got your balls back from your wife's purse. YES YES YES YES YES
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 03:00 PM
1

AWALT man - My wife feels she done absolutely nothing wrong in not disclosing to me that she had 3 LTR's before me...She feels that she did not lie to me about it and I should be fine with it as its no big deal. I was a STAUNCH muslim and never had any LTR's Its a Fucking big deal because I negotiated down because I felt she was Pious....However I have had to keep my mouth shut because other then that she is a good wife...I can seriously damage shit if i have to say exactly what is on my mind..I…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 02:58 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 12:09 PM
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Awesomely done man!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 11:33 AM
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I need to stop worrying about what she will think Dude this is Gold. I managed to do this and Now no Damns are given. I always liked my hair short - I am 50% white haired at 32 - she always wanted me with long hair...I now Shave my head weekly, let me correct that, Wife Shaves my head for me weekly. I was always concerned with what she would think to keep the peace...Well I decided its My ship and she can sail with me or jump overboard...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 11:20 AM
1

Awesome Post! Really hits home for me. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:30 AM
2

I hear you man. I also relapsed a couple weeks ag...Its all part of the growing process.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:02 AM
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I used to always explain and tallk about EVERYTHING. recenntly I keep my trap shut. Its led to less issues esp with what i am going through, she wants me to spill esp at times my natural instinct(its a 10 year old habit) is to tell and explain Everything to her. She told me this morning that I am shutting her out. I hugged her, kissed her and told her I loved her and drove of to work
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:00 AM
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glad you're taking the criticisms in stride We are Fucking men here. No need to pissy about! I am facing the fact that I am fucking Pathetic right now and need to do something about the fucking Pussy. I have a 7 year old son who has a very high level of intellect, who needs a role model Alpha Father not some Whiny fucking Puss of a Dad!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:29 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:26 PM
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I know that, its why I have had to hold my tongue and shoot my hamster dead every-time she says something that I can turn on her and use to make her feel like Shit!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:24 PM
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No - see a post that I submitted today - how to move on
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:09 PM
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Thats exactly it. I want too deal with the anger and get rid of it. However I want to be angry, I want to make her cry, I want to hurt her..I have been able to control myself and not act on these feelings... I do you are right its something I am trying to do but its a constant battle.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:03 PM
1

Excellent...Thank you! I am already actively looking at some of the advice that you have given me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:00 PM
1

Its fucked, it meant that I did not trust her. thats just one from among others
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:58 PM
1

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:58 PM
1

Thats exactly what I am trying to do
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:57 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:57 PM
1

Look man, this is your problem. You were never all that attracted to your wife, you've only gotten less attracted to her as she's gradually become more and more of a fatass. But you thought she was pious and would be a devoted wife and good mother, which your culture taught to value. Spot on You negotiated your own desire, when you think about it. You made a compromise with yourself. You convinced yourself you'd be okay with a homely wife, as long as she was pious. Well, turns out she's not even…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:56 PM
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Only if they were kept on chains locked in their house and taken out in a burka with a male guardian dedicated to being with her 100% of the time she was not home. In other words only true if here family is 100% strict with her. Otherwise AWALT. Women are people too. Be happy it was just a handjob, most guys in civilized society don't marry a virgin. Sure, some guys will deflower a girl (I deflowerd 2 in my time with 2nd being my wife) but even my wife gave some dude a hand before I met her. The…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:33 PM
1

."the lean athletic guy" reeks to me of lanky futbol player. Since she seems fine being overweight, i'm seeing a gross overestimation of your own SMV. HAHAHAHA. Nope man. I have the attention of plenty of females in my place of work and Lanky futbol player is far from it. or get the fuck over it. And LIFT more, less futbol. Thats the plan
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:28 PM
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wat?... are you kidding? you're making an assumption that high value attractive women ... wat? you're deluding yourself if you think this. I seriously doubt this in any society that's considered modern. The Staunch Indian muslim community is like that Bud, There are muslims who are liberal and there are ones who are staunch. We are indoctrinated young if we are part of that community. There is a little girl cant be more than 12 in my sons school who is already in the Hijab..I fucking cringe when…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:26 PM
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This Magical Purity Exists. Its a sad state of affairs but it really does...We have some woman who are indoctrinated young and really hold out and wait for that 1. Fucking look at me mate. I had pussy ringing at my door bell but turned it away because it was Haraam, is it so difficult to believe that there were woman like that as well? "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." - Buddha I want and need to get…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:15 PM
1

Being upset about this and setting up a philosophy by which a perceived slight against you is grounds for taking everything else apart is YOUR decision. Yes it is my decision I know that. Its something that I am trying to work on and fix! You want to stay with this woman and continue life with her? Then jump in with both feet and work on yourself. But I don't think you'll do that -- you've convinced yourself she's dead to you. You have one foot on the dock and one on the boat. You're going to en…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:12 PM
1

I think you are angry for following a blue pill path with an unattracrive woman because you thought you had to. That is exactly it...That fucking frustrates me...She is working on herself now. I made it clear that I expect the hambeast gone...But the hambeast took some time to make its appearance and is going to take some time to go away. I cant continue living like this for months on end. however I hear you mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:09 PM
1

Fuck.My.Life......
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:07 PM
1

3 Handjobs (western society's rule of 3 with women) Yeah its what I have also been telling myself but I really do not need the increased numbers right now.. My SMV is already high..Higher then hers...I have been hitting the gym to burn of anger increase my size if anything else... I hear you man..I hear you...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:06 PM
2

Yup. I know that Very well Now. Very Very Well!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:33 PM
2

Will make a post and we can discuss it there.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:21 PM
2

Life was OK with the old captain and I would never have come here if she took care of her body, the fact that she was overweight was bringing me down but I was never at the point that I am at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:13 PM
1

She had 3 LTR's before me...Was practically naked with the last guy..Led me on to believe for 10 years that all she ever did was give him a quick kiss. Bare in mind that we are Muslim and I was STAUNCH(Never touched a woman before I was married)......in our community we still do have woman who are never touched up until they get married....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:10 PM
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The old captain is DEAD, Buried and Concrete sealed!!! The lie of omission that I found out after 10 years made sure of that... I came here because of how she looked and was unhappy with her weight...It has ended up with me being in a more difficult situation then I was in before..The Irony...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 11:15 AM
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This is why I am angry: The Lie of Omission Less obvious than the others, a "lie of omission" is to remain silent when personal morals, ethics, professional or even legal responsibilities call for one to speak up. A lie of omission is a method of deception and duplicity that uses the technique of simply remaining silent when speaking the truth would significantly alter the other person's capacity to make an informed decision. The biggest lie about lies: a lie of omission Is not a lie! The bigges…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 10:48 AM
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It been a Month...My anger has moved from a Rage point to a point where it comes and goes. Depending on my state of mind, I can control it at points but i cant seem to cap it and put it away. I am currently reading self help on living in the now, however the anger has detached and unplugged me from the 1st mate, she wished she had the old captain back and frankly there was nothing wrong with the old captain in the grand scheme of things....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 09:01 AM
1

Hmm Seems like I really need to read this book ASAP!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 04:58 PM
2

Slow Clap to Stand up and Applause...Well Done Mate..Well Freaking Done!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 09:37 AM
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To Answer your question, I Shut UP! Shut Up Shut Up Shut Up! Its the best thing I can do to keep my frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 04:00 PM
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Lucky you. Learn from him mate
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 07:08 PM
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losing frame and degenerating has the potential to ruin relationships just as much as rediscovering one's self has at fixing one's life This is the cross road where I am at...leaning towards fixing myself
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 01:06 PM
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Its a complicated situation, I was a Staunch muslim(hence absolutely Zero side plates). Read my submitted posts to get a better understanding of my situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:42 AM
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Thats it..Working on it!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:56 AM
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Depends on you man. From the start I was higher at least by 2 points. Sex on the daily, no issues, things sorted all the time. House clean, food ready, hardly any shit tests, But it becomes difficult as she ages and gains weight really difficult. I am at the point where I have stated that I need to have her work out and if not........
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:53 AM
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I agree with you mate. I fucking Hate to admit it however its the fucking cold hard truth..It is my fault.. Is it also my fault to have been led into a religious sect(i was 14) that preached a whole lot of shit that I lapped up because of my fucked up childhood, that led me to believe the fucked up notion that the "pious get the pious" and led me to turn down every opportunity that was ever presented to me as a young man? I do want to make her jump through hoops..Man oh Man you have no idea of h…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:31 AM
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I totally hear you Prof but the issue here is: The Lie of omission. There are Snowflakes out there...Fuck her own sister and all my Sis in laws had NEVER been with any guys before their own husbands. I personally know of many other girls like that. My issue is not so much AWALT but the Lie of omission, the fact that I cant seem the bring myself around to believe her any longer... This is brought on by what she used to tell me over the years: "Good thing I never knew much about guys or else I wou…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 05:01 AM
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LOve it Man!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 04:38 AM
2

Please can you elaborate for me? As I am going through a daily not to be nasty to my wife as I feel that I don't know this woman any longer.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 04:20 AM
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This is great man...I really need to forgive the wife but don't want to...she Got me with a lie of omission which I found out after 10 years!!!! Thank you for this post...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:59 PM
1

Great post all the best
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:56 PM
1

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:46 PM
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The majority of women will do things that damage their reputation, but they will go to great lengths to protect their image as much as possible This is fucking me up man.....after 10 years of marriage I was living in a "lie of omission", and now realized that My unicorn was not a unicorn
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:02 AM
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Dude You have no idea of how Much I would relish the opportunity of someone hitting on my wife. Fuck Man! You are over thinking this. Appreciate it for what it is, you dealt with it beautifully and it made her want you. Work on yourself and be proud of the fact that you have a partner that is attractive!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 05:10 AM
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It will serve no purpose to keep it hidden. I have to be a Muslim to be married to my wife as our marriage will automatically be annulled if I am not, So I am a muslim I am just not a practising muslim any longer. That makes better sense for everyone
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:47 AM
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I wouldn't wish the agony I feel right now on my own worst enemy. Yup I know that feeling....Its a Bitch! That is what I am trying, alas its a tough field to plough
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 07:11 AM
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Your recommendations do apply, I do need to Fix the shit in my head. Because its a daily struggle and if left unchecked will escalate. I feel your pain bru, I really do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 06:38 AM
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Dude I am at a place in my life where I am trying to get as much Help and Advice as i can. I hear you I totally do, however Its the fact that I feel so cheated. I married my wife because when I saw her she was looked like a "good muslim girl".....I turned my nose up at the others who dressed like "sluts" Yet My "good muslim girl" was a "slut".... In my community there are woman who have NEVER been touched by a man before marriage..there are lots of them...I lived my life a certain way and expect…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 06:03 AM
2

Great post, Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:46 AM
1

Great Advice. I am 32 and this has now become my Mantry. I found the pill recently
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:43 AM
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I hear you mate, I am married 10 years next month. Wife was also a wee bit overweight from the start - 10 - 15lbs but carried it well and I was a Horny 21 year old who would not date outside of married(was a staunch muslim) As the pregnancies came so did the weight and she Ballooned, worked out lost it, this happened a few times... After the last baby she lost all motivation and never lose the weight..it was depressing me and i was losing it. Strangely enough I found RP and then MRP..Manned up t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:29 AM
1

Classic!!!!! Can hear the Old mans voice right now!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:40 AM
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My interest in my wife dropped when she stopped caring about how she looked, since the last baby she has made no effort in getting back in shape and my SMV has always been at least 2 points higher. I have found myself not interested in sex with her, however biologically I still bang her because I enjoy the feeling of power I have when I make her osgasm. If she loses the 35lbs I will be banging her everynight, nowadays its like maybe once a week
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:35 AM
2

This resonates with me so much...Did you raise the issue of her weight with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:32 AM
1

I could have narrated what was going on like Attenborough! HAHAHAHA, Love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:16 AM
3

Thats the spirit!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 06:55 PM
3

AWALT - Does not matter - I know I experienced AWALT after 10 years of marriage
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:14 AM
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HAHAHAHA..Its crazy. My poor kids are all different colors oldest daughter is the darkest but is the prettiest of the lot.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:03 AM
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As an Indian of south african nationality This does not apply....Indians are crazed with looking "white" the paler the better... a mans SMV goes up just based on the color of his skin..Its crazy with Indians...Lols..Racist against their own because of the hue of the skin colour. SO if you Indian STAY out of the SUN!!!!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 09:36 AM
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Well done Boet(little brother - afrikaans from SA) I commend you.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:26 AM
1

Ever since finding TRP I have started being a much better father. Its sad because its something my wife had been encouraged me to do for years. I needed to find myself and once I did I realized what I needed to do
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 06:13 AM
0

I don't have an issue with getting sex...however before my life got side railed(check my submissions if it interests you) playing with my kids used to get my wife dehydrated and frothing for me
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 06:13 PM
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Its a hard pill to swallow man. I was reading a book that had me weeping in bed, wife wanted me to stop I carried on. I needed to do it for me. She let me be. Life fucks us all over. Its how we move on that counts!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 09:48 PM
1

Great advice and Some hard hitting points here buddy. Gives me some points to ponder.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 06:45 AM
0

Good luck Mate. Gets better with time
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:22 AM
1

This is an awesome read. Thank you for Sharing!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:11 AM
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First, does she add value to your life? Would you be happier without her? This is Gold!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 04:47 AM
2

No my friends, you should always look at her actions as they are, outside of the context of the past. This is what its about for me
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 05:18 PM
2

Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/15 06:51 AM
2

Suits on a man are like lingerie on a woman
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:48 PM
1

Dude my issue was and still is my wife's weight. I was always too afraid of hurting her feelings as she is an awesome wife and fantastic mom. Sad reality is that is was not enough for me and I had to have an open conversation with her explaining how I felt her weight made me feel. Made her understand that I do love and appreciate all that she does but she has to do something about the weight as I cannot ignore it any longer. She started making an effort. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 09:30 PM
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You and me both! Imagine living your life by a set of rules just to find out that your partner of 10 years did not! Let it go and make a better life going forward
/r/askTRP01/05/15 08:47 PM
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You are a human, If you dont like it you dont, you cant change that. You can though, Fake it till you make it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 11:58 AM
1

Oh she knows Exactly how to do it. She has been dieting and exercising for years on and off, she was 10lbs away from her goal weight before she fell pregnant with the last and final baby, she had zero motivation since then and has made no progress in the past 2 years. So Yes she is very well aware of nutrition and working out. I have Always been in Shape(Wide chest, flat stomach, V lines). I have not changed in the last 10 years this is due to me being aware of my diet and cutting out junk. Sinc…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:35 AM
1

Where is the strong, in control, dominant alpha male behavior? THAT is exactly what I was trying and it was killing me, trying to be in control and dominate all the time was just not working for me. I read lots of posts here and we are all at different levels in our relationships. I have been married 10 years with this woman and in those 10 years I have never ever had the issues that I see some of the others having. If anything the issues that I experienced in the last decade have been due to me…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:28 AM
1

All Valid Points, Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:13 AM
1

Interesting that you say that. Initially I was in a Rage Phase, when I initially found out, the 2nd day after the shock had subsided I was Raging like a crazed Bull. Then it was anger and then grief and jealousy. My anger and rage have reduced significantly in the past 2 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 09:39 AM
3

Getting over what I cant Change or do anything about! My mind has been Fucked recently over shit that I cannot do anything about. Understanding that I need to deal with it and move on has been most challenging for me. I have realized that the more I talk about it the better it gets, Deal with it and move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 08:41 AM
1

Gold!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 07:31 AM
1

I had a sledgehammer moment where I realized Mormonism (and religion in general) is absolute horse shit. My entire worldview changed. Dude I share the feeling. I was Strict Muslim!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 06:08 AM
1

This journey is about you changing what is inside your heart. That is IT!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 06:03 AM
6

Each situation is different. Beware of following what everyone says, understand your woman. My wife will allow me to fuck her caveman style but she is sore afterwards and her Gina is broken, whats the point if I do that and cant fuck her again after a few hours? I am not like the usual group on here in that I have never had issues with sex from my wife(married 10 years sex on average 3 times a week if not more depending on how I feel). However I always ensure that I make her cum a few times befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 05:57 AM
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So while he may be able to process this rationally, I doubt he'll be able to process this emotionally Spot on
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:29 AM
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its a case of the Images that I see in my head, the stories that she told me about what she did. For christ sakes we used to talk about the dude and she created this image in my mind that he was this Beta as Fuck Ugly ogre and she could never understand why she allowed the relationship to go on for so long, in my mind Ogre = No more than the one kiss she told me about...Then I found out that she was practically naked for him and on a number of occasions they got hot and heavy. That is what is no…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:28 AM
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Thanks. I do not intend on doing anything rash I have learnt that acting on impulse is the easiest way to mess shit up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:27 AM
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I suggest that there is a void in you right now - by discarding your faith, you don't really have a bedrock of morals/code/ethics and have issues relating to it. Its the faith that I had that Led me to this point in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:25 AM
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Can you suggest some good reading?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:23 AM
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Thank you for the response. I do not want to destroy my family, I really do want to get over this but it is very very difficult at this moment. Reading of my other responses will provide some additional clarity
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:23 AM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:21 AM
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Dude my faith led me to marry my wife. I married her not for any other reason other than faith reasons. Please read some of my responses so that you can get a better understanding.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:21 AM
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Dude that Brainwashing aspect is the worst aspect of this entire situation. My brain was so washed that I believed that All "pious" muslim girls are the same. What a fucking wake up call
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:18 AM
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From my perspective, you are out of line. I'm familiar with some Muslim cultures (not sure where you're from). And from my experience within those cultures, you're still way out of line. South africa - Muslim culture Dictates No sex before marriage..No Anything between males and females before Marriage...for 10 YEARS I believed that I was the only one that got to experience my wife Naked..10 YEARS!!!! Now that I find out its not the case do you expect me to just accept it as if nothing ever happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:17 AM
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Thanks. Growing up My Dad was a cheater, When I first found out that was the 1st idea that Came to mind. Alas the moral dilemma that I have around my old man and the shit that he gave my old lady. Led me to become the type of Man I am today.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:13 AM
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Its not so much a case of me feeling I wasted my 20s but rather this, copied from a previous responses: For christ sakes we used to take about the dude and she created this image in my mind that he was this Beta as Fuck Ugly ogre and she could never understand why she allowed the relationship to go on for so long, in my mind Ogre = No more than the one kiss she told me about...Then I found out that she was practically naked for him and on a number of occasions they got hot and heavy. That is wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:07 AM
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Oh yes...This is Bitter really bitter..So bitter I am needing to force feed myself - Literally
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:04 AM
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Thats exactly it! My wife reads me like a book at all times. Guilt would be a major issue for me again due to my experiences as a child with my dad and his ways. I made a firm commitment to myself as a teen that I would never cheat because of what my Old man did. Damn what a Pity that he robbed me of my childhood as well...No 14 year old should be thinking shit like that
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:03 AM
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So lets get to OP's real problem currently, it's that he feels there's an inherent imbalance in his relationship, namely that his wife got splooged on by multiple men before he met her while he was a chaste, good boy I am passed that point, its now a point of WHY, WHAT was the point of it all. When I saw her She never looked like the "type", She was not very attractive and I believed she was a good muslim Girl, Because it was what I was led to believe. Go and marry a good muslim girl and you wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 06:00 AM
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His issue is he's moping about how he didn't get to feel the touch of other women, not the emotionally connection. He's pissed off that he hasn't had those experiences while she has. You can't just magically jedi mind trick yourself into getting over that. The most pragmatic approach would be to get those experiences. That was It initially, However now its a case of the Images that I see in my head, the stories that she told me about what she did. For christ sakes we used to talk about the dude …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 05:45 AM
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Growing up My Dad was a cheater, When I first found out that was the 1st idea that Came to mind. Alas the moral dilemma that I have around my old man and the shit that he gave my old lady. Led me to become the type of Man I am today.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 05:41 AM
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Not intending on doing anything Rash, However I am going Nutz This sounds to me like a frame thing, an anger thing, a jealousy thing all rolled into one. Yes possible My frames weird, never had an anger stage, never been jealous. I was Never like this in 10 years! Shit I encourage my wife to smile and greet guys who look at her Hold it together. At a minimum, just until the guys with the right knowledge to advise turn up. Thanks have been trying to do that
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 05:27 AM
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Will make a better post
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 07:15 AM
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Delete it. I agree
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 07:14 AM
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Great idea. Will do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 06:41 AM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 03:28 PM
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THIS
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 06:01 AM
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Getting pissed IMO is not losing frame but rather our consequent reaction to getting pissed. I got pissed the other day at what the wife said to me and immediately reacted in a manner that was uncalled for. I realised that next time I get pissed I must respond in a cool and calm manner and not shout, huff and puff, That will get a better reaction from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 05:56 AM
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Yup thats what I have started doing, tallk once no action...right I now take action.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 05:48 AM
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Yes, if she can show improvement, great!! I want that. I do love this woman, but if she is unwilling to meet my sexual needs, that is a deal breaker for me. Dude Thats the spirit. My wife had no motivation to lose the extra 35lbs she been carrying and it was destroying me. I had to do something about it and have clearly set my expectations. She has started to make progress and it feels great however my resolve has increased to the point where if she goes back to old ways I will have no issue in …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:54 AM
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Have you dealt with the weight issue? I know the feeling, it is the same with my wife although I do not turn her down. She is 35lbs over weight and weighs more than me. My wife knows exactly that her weight has a direct impact on my attraction to her. Due to me swallowing the Pill I had set expectations in regards to her weight and We are seeing some progress
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:44 AM
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Noted thanks - Very True, although its not the east in SA Religion is still a big deal in my community and circle of friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:32 AM
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ake immediate action. As in punishment. They don't believe your words, at the moment. After you make your actions congruent with your (calm) words, they will believe Thats some awesome advice right there. Will implement from today!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:31 AM
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When I'm passionate about something I go all out. Motorcycles, MRP, you name it... I get obsessed Man you summed me up here. I have an additive personality, When i Get into something I do it all out.Its Crazy! I would love a new career path however when you are the sole provider and taking a new path would mean a drop in salary, its not possible
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:30 AM
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Everything is Hard...Practice makes it easy :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:14 AM
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LOLS..I can relate. I have 3 Kids(7,5,2) They only listen when I Scream. Talking with with them does not listen so it becomes a skill to be able to switch on and off depending on situation at hand
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:01 AM
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Nope, Go have a look
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:00 AM
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Thats how I see it. RP is a way of life regardless of whether or not one is married, in a LTR or single.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:59 AM
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You need to realize whats happening to you as its happening in real time, then breathe and breathe some more. Understand yourself and get to know what it is that gets you worked up. Start writing down everything that works you up. Read it a couple times and ask yourself, if it is worth my time and effort getting worked up over it? Whats the benefit of you getting worked up? Who benefits? Whats the outcome? I will give you an example, I used to have crazy road rage...Someone cuts me of in the mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:03 AM
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Awesome Article! Whats also amazing is how she kept herself in Shape over the years...
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 06:54 AM
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I think /u/whinemoreplease will be an awesome addition to the team. I like his style. Well done Boet!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:42 AM
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Great Post!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:30 AM
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Awesome Words!!!! That photo is fucken Awesome...Frame IT!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:17 AM
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THIS is what I have been telling myself and ensuring that I hit the gym and never miss a training Day. I want to be the day who is gawked at when I walk into my kids school, I want to be the dad who can step up and do anything that is required and never be afraid to remove my shirt....
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:10 AM
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Hell man this is exactly the approach I have started using. Its all about frame, Shut up and relax...I used to get very emotional at times and shout and misbehave. Now before I do I remind myself about keeping Frame and then just shut up and relax and then talk if need be
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:07 AM
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Procrastination - This is a big weakness of mine that I have actively started working on. It led to the Wife having to Nag me to get shit done. I realized that it also frustrated her as I am an adult and procrastinating led her to treating me like a child. I now OWN MY SHIT and get my ass in gear when something needs to get done.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 09:09 AM
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Oh no.My purpose is now to work really hard. Study and progress. Make life as easy as possible for my kids and her. Purpose is there mate more then ever before. I don't care if she follows or not I am fair in that regard. Religion dictated how I should live my life and sadly that went on a tangent. Are you a pious believing man?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:19 PM
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That's the difference. My wife LOVES being dominated. Let's not forget that some serious tongue would be needed in public to get that shit out. Win win. KNOW your wife
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:16 PM
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I am in South Africa. She is not so Conservative please read this post to understand a bit more about her. Oh she understands completely where I am coming from it and why I have become the person I now am. I hear you however I had a messed up childhood and made a promise that My kids will never experience the same. Right now we are a great family. I am not anti religion and some people need it in their lives it gives you hope. SA is a unique country and our community is very islamic our surround…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 01:45 PM
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Our lives are nothing more than a string of moments, make sure you have solid moments with the ones you love as you never know when it will be the last. That is gold right there!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:42 AM
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Sorry dude I would be honest especially if its an issue for you. My wife always knew that I was not happy with how she looked however I never honestly raised my concern in a controlled manner up until a few weeks ago where I Straight up told her that I needed her to lose the weight and take care of herself as its what I need. My response would have been:"Well I would appreciate it if we could work on firming and toning those amazing thighs of yours", However you have to be an example and cant be…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:31 AM
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Dude this is a work in progress and you get better with it as time goes along. You cant expect to want to achieve results overnight. You need to understand that you are the captain and you need to do what will make you happy. Will you be happy in leaving without the goodbye kiss? No then kiss her..There is no magic pill that will fix the situation that she has gotten used to. It takes time. You cant expect to switch of and change over night. Its a gradual process have the end goal in mind and un…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:21 AM
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Keeping calm is vital, Its something that I did not have before, My initail reaction some time ago would bbe losing my shit and asking her if she felt that was an appropriate answer to me asking a simple question and then giving her crazy dread. However My reaction to that would be more along the lines of me expressing how that answer made me feel.....
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 07:05 AM
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I would say it depends on the woman and I may get shot down but the sort of sex you give her as well. From early on in my marriage(married 10 years and we are 32) I learnt how to get my wife off. I usually give her a few orgasms before anything and lots of foreplay. As such Sex is never an issue for us and Its a regular occurrence with her initiating as much as I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:56 AM
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Totally agree with you. Case in point was yesterday I made an excuse that cleaning the garage was going to be enough of a workout for me. It went much quicker than i expected and I had lots of time left. I had previously told the wife that I will not be going to the gym but noow decided to go. She started moaning but suggested that I go and take the Kids(7,5,2) with me. I agreed and went. Had a Great workout and she enjoyed the peace and quite.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:47 AM
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Hmm I would have kissed her and used my tongue to get that snack out of her mouth and proceed to spit it out. My wife would love me doing that!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:41 AM
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To answer your question - YES! I want my SO(married 10 years with 3 kids) to Look great whenever we go out and in the house. Obviously when i dont expect it when she is busy with the kids, cooking etc. However when she looks good I feel good. I have also made it a priority to ensure that I am always also looking great all the time
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:37 AM
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The issue with that comes in with the fact that If i do that my wife and I are no longer married. She will fell that I am no longer her husband and that will Kill her. I have 3 kids, 7, 5 and 2 Lets not forget that I am very RP, even before i found RP and I had lost my faith I told her that from now on(a couple months back) I will DO what makes me happy with no concern about religion. Let me give you an example, In my Muslim days I never listen to Music as it was HARAAM(forbidden) even though I …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:23 AM
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Thanks Great words of Wisdom, Here are some additional thoughts: The issue with that comes in with the fact that If i do that my wife and I are no longer married. She will fell that I am no longer her husband and that will Kill her. Lets not forget that I am very RP, even before i found RP and I had lost my faith I told her that from now on(a couple months back) I will DO what makes me happy with no concern about religion. Let me give you an example, In my Muslim days I never listen to Music as …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:21 AM
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Totally agree. Lets not forget that I am very RP, even before i found RP and I had lost my faith I told her that from now on(a couple months back) I will DO what makes me happy with no concern about religion. Let me give you an example, In my Muslim days I never listen to Music as it was HARAAM(forbidden) even though I loved it, I lost my faith and decided its time for a sound system. I told her that I am going to get a system for a car, went out and got it(we talking a BANGING system here) she …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:20 AM
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The issue with that comes in with the fact that If I do that my wife and I are no longer married. She will feel that I am no longer her husband and that will Kill her, A non muslim man cannot be married to a Muslim woman Lets not forget that I am very RP, even before i found RP and I had lost my faith I told her that from now on(a couple months back) I will DO what makes me happy with no concern about religion. Let me give you an example, In my Muslim days I never listen to Music as it was HARAA…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:19 AM
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Thanks mate. Totallly agree with you. I live in South Africa and as such it is not very bad if I dont follow the religion. The issue comes in with family and friends. I am still a token muslim but do not follow any of the practices any longer and will do certain practices to keep the peace as I mentioned already I have a GREAT life(Sex, Food, Respect) compared to some of the other men on here and as such Do I really want to throw it all away because of my pride and wanting to make a point?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:16 AM
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Thanks, but no BF to lose. I am trying to Gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 06:12 AM
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Hey Captain, The issue with that comes in with the fact that If i do that my wife and I are no longer married. She will fell that I am no longer her husband and that will Kill her. Lets not forget that I am very RP, even before i found RP and I had lost my faith I told her that from now on(a couple months back) I will DO what makes me happy with no concern about religion. Let me give you an example, In my Muslim days I never listen to Music as it was HARAAM(forbidden) even though I loved it, I l…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 05:58 AM
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I dont get you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 05:36 AM
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Hey, Nice to hear that man. I totally get and agree to what you are saying. However lets take a step back. I assumed for 10 YEARS that I was the only customer that got to not only see but taste the biscuit I waited for all my life, to find out that another fucker had a small taste before me. What was the kicker is that as a youth I was a STAUNCH MF. I used to pray 5 times a DAY EVERYDAY for god to save me from temptation add in the fact that I always had a high SMV and never reciprocated the adv…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 05:18 AM
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Thanks found that reddit before I found MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 05:05 AM
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Yeah..I was Staunch man..Its sickening when I think of the wasted time of my youth!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:33 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:17 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:11 PM
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Dude you have no idea, Once you go Islamic crazy you really do go crazy. Its like an addiction and very sustainable, I know of guys who are "Pious" for Years and never change. If anything they get worse. Yup South african Muslims (the real followers) see other Islam as a Race and if you leave it you are no longer part of the race and you are now regarded as dirt because you will burn for eternity. As far as I know anyone who has renounced has lost their family and friends and life really becomes…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 12:11 PM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:50 AM
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The question is whether its worth destroying My Entire family for it? Destroying the lives of my kids and that of my Mom and Wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:50 AM
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Well my wife was already questioning and upset with the fact that I no longer pray 5 times a day. Not worth coming out in the long run
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:47 AM
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HA! that is an awesome idea. The idea of Bacon does not appeal to me, the smell man that smell.......
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:46 AM
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Shot, Will do!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 10:33 AM
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You summed it up perfectly. I do the exact same. Lols. I am actually eating more these days. Need extra energy for lifting. My Body Fat % is already very low so that is out of the picture. Guess I will have o squirrel away some funds for food at work.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:51 AM
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Thats the difference man, I was at the point in my life where I could pick, chose and refuse woman...Reality is that I picked her....Its how it works this side especially when you have a MUCH higher SMV than the woman. Yeah Man, I am I am trying really hard because reading some of the stories on here I got it easy Really easy. I learned nothing man, I was a hard line fundamentalist who only saw the world in Black and White those were dark days for me and i only really started changing as I got o…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 08:00 AM
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Lucky you. I envy you man I really do. I feel that I threw away the best years of my life because of my religious ways, On top of the envy that I have for my wife having more experience that me(which I found out after 10 years - I had never been with anyone else prior to her and she had 3 LTR's that she failed to mention to me). There is no possibility of me moving and I have to make the most of the Plot of I have purchased
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:42 AM
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I hear you man, I totally do. I was the type to go and pray at work. Dude you have no idea of how much I wanted to fuck before marriage. Alas I married to Fuck. Those needs as a man had to be fulfilled right. Your belief allows you to use the belief that things moved in the last 1500 years, My upbringing and social circle does not approve such thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:32 AM
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As a south african of Indian ethnicity I wholeheartedly agree. Make changes to what you can and improve yourself. There are many indian guys who have White woman but lets look at their game, They are lifting, dress well, keep frame and always looking at progressing. That is what attracts open minded woman of all races. Improve your vocabulary, leave the sandals at home, get shirts that fit properly, Lift and be confident!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:28 AM
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As Usual TGP gives me food for thought. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:22 AM
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Liberal attitude is what separates you from me. I was staunch too the extent where i did not date, at times wish i was liberal but alas those days are gone
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:19 AM
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We are married religiously and not communally so thats the other point to be considered. However I hear you and understand your very valid points. Yes now that I am a non believer some of the rules are CRazy...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 07:18 AM
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Dude you are having a Blast..Why do you want to ruin a good thing. I would understand if things were not going well..however look at the positives.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:53 AM
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/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:44 AM
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If I May add, every man is different and you need to understand what your Man Loves. I for instance would LOVE to see my wife in the most "sluttiest" lingerie available. I love it when she talks dirty and makes makes moves on me. Take what you want from me and use me for your pleasure is my motto, Just dont try putting anything up my ass, that shit does not get me off
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 06:37 AM
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HAHAHAHA, Suicide vest and fucking goats. I have gradually dropped if over 2 years but its now almost non existent. Coming out would not be possible because a Non muslim man cannot be married to a muslim woman. I come out and my marriage is automatically annulled
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 06:13 AM
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Thanks, I have started lifting but using machines. I can understand exactly what you are talking about as i feel my right arm is taking more strain then the left. Free weights soon....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 05:22 AM
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I have a Full crop of Thick hair, but LOTS of White..I am 31..I decided to take it all off and LOVE it. I look sharper and assertive. No need for gel in the mornings and it separates me from the rest of the crowd
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 05:20 AM
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BWHAHAHAHAH - Genius!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 08:46 AM
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I would have absolutely loved that, Sadly my wife feels that no one checks her out, well not the guys with a High SMV. Believe it or not i have been actively encouraging her to smile at strangers. She at times tells me when a guy looks or stares at her and my response has been to smile at them. It makes them feel great and it would make her feel great as well. For a long time i have known that I have much higher SMV then her and as such any attention that she gets does not bother me in the least…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:42 AM
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Dude I feel you man, I totally Do. We share similar paths although mine is not as extreme as yours. I also did not have any experience prior to my wife as I fell into the religious crowd and also have the regret of not sowing my seeds...Just to find out that after 10 years my wife whom I thought was a Snowflake that was never tasted was tasted...anyhoo I digress..Over and above what has already been mentioned I will give you what I did. My wifes weight was an issue for me as well. I was down and…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 05:47 AM
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This is Gold right here, Not only for Lifting but for Anything that you do in life! - "My point is, if you have confidence in yourself. If you believe that what you're doing for yourself is right, you will be stronger and bolder. Take some time and do a self examination to figure out what is your pace, what you want, and what is right for you. You will have more confidence if you are sure of yourself. Even though this is more for the newer guys like myself, this is still an important lesson. Hol…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:27 AM
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If I can add one more thing to be done - Daily self reflection - Reflect on the day, how it went and what can you change tomorrow. Understand that you dont need to be asshole to get people to respect you, I work in a leadership position and used to get trampled ovver all the time. It did not get me the results I wanted. I had to make a stand and get my subortinates to understand what i wanted and held them accountable. I was never nasty or an asshole. Give me a report at 17:00, Not done no probl…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:25 AM
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I have realized that communication is KEY. WE have to be honest in our communication as that sets the context.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 05:12 AM
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Dude I get you, I totally Do. Its the fact that she kept it hidden from me for 10 YEARS! Thats what is eating me up inside, when you have a perception of your partner of 10 years and to have that Drastically Change after 10 YEARS is really a difficult pill to swallow. It is being swallowed no doubt but its a difficult pill none the less.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 04:46 AM
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Flippen awesome post mate. This bit really resonated with me: "At any point when I should have done something -anything- about anything, I deferred, I asked, I talked, but I didn't act." I agree with you on the RP is not a cookie cutter formula as we need to be able to take what is applicable for our individual situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 07:01 AM
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Thanks, however its more the image that was formed based on appearance and behavior that was portrayed. On top of the fact that I never fooled around because of my religious beliefs at the time and then believing that my partner shared the same beliefs. Just to find out 10 years later that it was not the case
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:38 AM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:38 AM
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Thanks, however its more the image that was formed based on appearance and behavior that was portrayed. On top of the fact that I never fooled around because of my religious beliefs at the time and then believing that my partner shared the same beliefs.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:37 AM
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Yup that is correct. I had the image of my snowflake only ever been seen and never tasted. I was OK with MY snowflake being admired. Now when I found out MY Snowflake was tasted a number of times and I never ever tasted any other snowflakes, It killed me. I am recovering from it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:35 AM
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Its more a case of my regret eating at me. All those years wasted because of a perception I had. All those prayers to be saved when my wife enjoyed. That i guess is what is my issue
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:57 AM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 05:35 AM
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I am getting over it. Thanks. Did u miss the part where I mention I am now a non believer?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 06:47 PM
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Good post thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 06:45 PM
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No, she specifically mentioned how she was looking at him with his glasses and Kak hair not thinking much and he Held Frame. Never let me get to him and Gave me as much shit as I gave back. Take into consideration I am 31 and he is 20.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:00 AM
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This resonates so much with me. I used to always not want to do shit and wait for my wife to tell me what to do. In recent times I have started doing what needs to get done. I need to OWN MY SHIT I stopped asking her what needs to get done and instead just done what needed to get done. Has made some nice improvements and changes to our relationship dynamic
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 08:12 AM
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Accepting it is what I am trying to do. However you need to understand that I had an idea and an ideal that i stuck to and believed for 10 YEARS!!!! That belief and ideal has come crashing down and now i need to rebuild.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 06:53 AM
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Sorry to hear that man, hope life is better the second time around
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 05:52 AM
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I manned up and spoke to her. She always knew that her weight was an issue for me but never to the extent that it bothered me, Esp as my SMV was higher than hers. So after getting a dose of the pill I decided that I needed her to lose the weight for me as before it was always a case of me not caring about how she looked and me ignoring the fact that how she looked bothered me. Bare in mind that she has been pregnant a number of times and always worked on losing the weight but after our last baby…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:34 PM
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I manned up and spoke to her. She always knew that her weight was an issue for me but never to the extent that it bothered me, Esp as my SMV was higher than hers. So after getting a dose of the pill I decided that I needed her to lose the weight for me as before it was always a case of me not caring about how she looked and me ignoring the fact that how she looked bothered me. Bare in mind that she has been pregnant a number of times and always worked on losing the weight but after our last baby…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:25 PM
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Agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:15 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:15 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 11:50 AM
1

Ha, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 11:50 AM
1

Agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 09:13 AM
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Awesome. Thanks. Had the beard....Lots of fun to stroke but makes me look very fundamentalist.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 09:10 AM
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Thank you. Will read up
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:49 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience with me. Initially I was so Hurt and Angry that The idea crossed my mind and i was seriously contemplating doing it...Now not so much but it good knowing the possibilities.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:47 AM
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Thank you for the reply. You have put to words how I am feeling perfectly. I acknowledge all the Good and know how fortunate I am. Why does it bother me So much: would not have felt the way i Did IF: When I saw her she was dressed Sexy...She was not..She was modest had a scarf and fully covered(perception) I made assumptions based on that dressing.. If i was not the more attractive spouse in the relationship.....I saw her and thought mmm she does not look like the type that guys will really chas…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:11 AM
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Thank you for the reply. I no longer identify myself as a Muslim but its something that I am willing to try. Everything else is going ok, Baring the fact that she has not been focused on loosing weight after baby number 3...I red pilled myself up and we spoke about it and she has now committed to making an effort and that is what i wanted...Lols..Spin of to that Is that I find this out however it has put greater perspective to her as to how much I do love her. I used to have a DGF attitude befor…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:04 AM
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It does thank you! The idea of somone else touching me is exciting but not sure if I will or can do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 08:00 AM
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Thank you! I need to read this a couple of times!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 07:39 AM
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I dont get you?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 06:49 AM
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I am here because I want to get over this. I read that post the other day. Please understand that to you its a small problem, the worlds smallest problem. However try and understand that I had NEVER being alone with any other woman besides my wife ever. I had the image that my Cock was the only one she ever touched and made cum and I find out that its not the case. I find out that 3 other guys got to enjoy her body at her Finest and it was never me they have memories of her. I would not be butth…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 06:45 AM
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Dude look on the bright side you have a chance to make your life better. Not all of us are as fortunate. I too grew up in a similar manner as yourself however I do not have the luxury of change.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:59 AM
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Thanks for taking the time mate. I know the feelinng to an extent. I have been married 10 years with 3 kids...I am 31!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:32 AM
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What disgusting behavior are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:17 PM
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I take EVERYTHING with a pinch of salt in Life. I dont think the TRP is the be all and end all of life..however there are a few choice gems here that would have made a huge difference in my life growing up.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:05 PM
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To an extent...its give and take IMPO
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:01 PM
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well said mate well said. I intend teaching my son about the red pill from an early age.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:23 AM
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Get wit the program you may be better of then me!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:54 AM
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I am attractive, have a Fit body and very confident however...I am married 10 Years(31)...Used to be EXTREMELY Religious(Muslim - Now atheist) 3 Kids, etc etc etc...reading TRP just fucks me up because my beliefs have changed so drastically..Yeah The sob story of my life..My wife is an awesome person and a great partner...I Never dated outside of marriage because of the Fucking Religion bit and hence the getting married young bit..My upbringing was also fucked...FUCK YOU DAD....and yeah i never …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:52 AM
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I am married 10 Years(31)...Used to be EXTREMELY Religious(Muslim - Now atheist) 3 Kids, etc etc etc...reading TRP just fucks me up because my beliefs have changed so drastically..Yeah The sob story of my life
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:48 AM
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I have...depressed me more already😖
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:46 PM
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This post on 2X brought me here...I am Loving it here..Never knew about it before...
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:45 AM
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This is some good shit man!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:24 AM
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Dude you have no idea of how your post fucking depressed me the fuck up! Thank you for sharing....Reading these sorta stories are the closest i will ever get to fucking a 18/19 year old...FML
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:01 AM
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Man thats the fucking truth..Its worst when you did it because of religion!!!!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:36 AM
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FUCK THIS!!!!! WHERE the Fuck was I 11 years ago to not know about the RED PILL!!!! Motherfucker!!!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:23 AM
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Fuck wish i found the Red Pill earlier on in Life!!!!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:11 AM
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