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Whether she's trashy or a nice conservative girl, don't listen to what she's says. Instead watch her actions. Women's native language is covert (not overt like a man's), so what she says isn't objective truth... Even if it is truth, it's only fleeting, as woman emotions are a chaotic as the sea.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:39 PM
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What makes it bad is everyone tells you this because it sounds so nice.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:27 AM
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I know the feeling. It's like learning to walk again. Once you find your footing you'll be unstoppable, or at least will know the reality of women and dating.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:02 AM
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Women only have your back when you're winning
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:25 PM
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Women are loved, when they provide something too, like their beauty/looks and sex. I think you're right. It's just that we often don't care about the ugly fat chicks so we don't include them in our analysis.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:23 PM
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I don't really have any of these to be honest. Then that's what you need to pay attention to. I think you'll be better off focusing on raising your T levels naturally (be careful because there's a lot of shit advice out there). If you ever notice any of these symptoms cropping up then you may want to revisit getting T at that time. Additionally, since you're not seeing those symptoms of low T, I suspect your lifting program may need to re-evaluated. I could be wrong, but that's my guess based on…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 04:16 PM
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How old are you? Have you looked at the typical symptoms of low T? When I finally moved into it, I was relieved to see an explanation for how I was feeling; not just the difficulty gaining muscle, but things like mind-fog and sadness. I've been on testosterone for a year now. I'm packing on muscle now which is great, but honestly the relief of all the other symtoms is so much more worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 03:35 PM
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Ok. What made you get your levels checked? How are you feeling?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 03:18 PM
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but I wanted to be under a doctor supervision You may find that even under a doctor's care your program sucks. The vast majority of family doctors don't know what they're doing with TRT and you become their guinea pig while they learn on the fly. Educate yourself as much as possible. If your doctor set an arbitrary value of 400, that's already a huge red flag. You'll be better off finding a men's clinic or using underground labs (my route). If you really want to stick with your family doctor, th…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 03:11 PM
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You really need to learn to format bro
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 04:30 PM
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For me tattoos are like short hair. A woman can look good with either, but in every case, that woman would look much better with long hair or no tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 04:27 PM
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Maybe I'm an outlier, but I am not attracted to women with personality traits consistent with high testosterone (dominant, aggressive, not submissive, combative, etc)
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:45 PM
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I assume evolution gave them that to help them keep a man under control I'd argue it's to make them less attractive to men. If older women are less attractive in every way (physical, emotional, physiological) then men are going to stick to the more attractive women (more futile, healthier wombs) for procreation.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:10 PM
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I'm glad to hear things have worked out for you and your family. The unfortunate reality for the majority of kids nowadays who have older parents is that those older parents are most likely separated or divorced. Your life would be much different had you been raised by a single mother. Imagine how things would be different without your father showing you how to be a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 02:08 PM
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Hey bro, I'm also in the Philly suburbs. Night game will resume as soon as our dick governor wolf allows the bars to reopen (I forget which color phase that is). It's completely up to overlord wolf, but as soon as the bars reopen, the game is back on.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:52 PM
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All their horniness is reserved for the top tier of men I had no idea how true this was until I became a top tier guy to a few girls I met after my divorce and becoming redpilled. The things they'd do and talk about doing with me were complete fantasies while I was married. It was only after I started becoming the best version of myself that I began seeing those fantasies become reality.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:55 PM
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You're asking what you can do to keep her interested and attracted to you while you're apart. There isn't anything you can do to increase her attraction, but you can decrease it. If she's really, actually interested in you, she'll reach out, she will chase you. The more available you are however, the less attractive you'll be to her. Since you live together, being apart is the best way to increase her attraction to you. Remember, familiarity breads contempt. I was going to paste a commandment of…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:43 PM
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You do realize Mad Men is a fictional TV show, right?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 02:33 PM
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I love reading stories like this. It warms my heart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 07:48 PM
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A man’s future matters more to a woman than his past. But a woman’s past matters more to a man than her future. Profound! It’s a legitimate question, but I would have asked it before getting into an LTR. Why would you even ask at all when they never give you the real answer?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:02 PM
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making overly sexual jokes, Yes... that's what agree and amplify means.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:34 PM
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I actually got myself into a very similar situation. With other plates I was able to do everything by the book, so to speak, but I allowed this one girl to get inside my head and I caught feelings. I followed advice I got here to back off. I haven't talked to her in a week, and she hasn't reached out to me either. This may sound like a loss, but it's a win for me because I got my self-respect back. Remember YOU are the prize.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:00 PM
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I imagined you surveying your strong and healthy lawn, until it dawned on me you were referringing to something else.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:24 PM
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I think you're reading the situation and your actions correctly. It sounds like you know where you fucked up and why. Don't do that again. Learn from your mistakes. As to whether you fucked up your plate? I don't know, it depends on how hot she is for you. If she has lots of (better) options she may drop you for someone less needy/incongruent.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:12 PM
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You're right, but saying alpha is a lot easier/simpler than constantly writing what you just explained.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:11 PM
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if the case is that women don’t decrease SMV You're incorrect here. Women's SMV decreases with time. Some women may have a shallower SMV curve, but a 35yo woman will always have looked better when she was 25. Rare exceptions do not disprove the rule. it makes it hard for men to make a high value woman the mother of his children A woman, regardless of her SMV, will always want the best, highest value male. If you're interested in this kind of information/theory, I highly suggest you check out The…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:27 PM
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So... What's your question? The point about women's SMV is that it peaks around 20ish and decreases from there, while men's SMV increases until it peaks around 35-40ish. Use this info to your advantage.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:16 PM
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Redpill 101 - Agree and Amplify Here's a video to illustrate how to deal with guys like that. https://youtu.be/e2hTzkecuO8
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:45 PM
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In all seriousness, I acknowledge there are some girls that have a harder time climaxing from penetration. However my point stands. The more attracted to you and turned on a woman is, the easier she'll climax. If you're in an LTR and doing everything you're supposed to do (game, passive dread, etc), she's hot for you (her be strong alpha) and still not climaxing, I'd recommend you read Sex God Method. If that doesn't work, try some toys (but only if you want to though). Her orgasm is her respons…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:15 AM
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No, but I never asked either.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:48 AM
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I'm in my 40s now. I was married for 17 years and a total beta. During that time, I always made sure she climaxed. She came first, then me. I could never understand why in all that time, she NEVER came during sex. After the divorce and learning redpill, game, etc. the girls I fuck ALL cum during sex. I don't worry about their orgasms, I worry about mine. My pleasure comes first... and they ALL fucking love it. What I've learned is that the more *alpha* I am with them, the easier they cum. In oth…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:26 PM
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Plates will spin themselves, if they're invested in you. I've read stories and know girls who pine for their long lost alpha. Rollo even has a great article on it. If she's interested in you, her hamster will spin. If you're the prize, she'll be worried you'll forget about her. The fact that you're worrying about her, tells me she's the prize. If that's true, why would he she give a fuck about some guy who's value is beneath her's?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:17 PM
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Sometimes the comments here are terrible, and sometimes they're gems.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:10 PM
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you have everything to lose and nothing to gain by texting Exactly this
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:07 PM
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I've referred heavily to this resource as well. Good stuff
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:39 PM
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Your problem is a common one (something I've grappled with), frame. You're framing your life, progress, value all wrong. Your post makes you sound like a victim, but I see you have value and you're working on increasing it. Men are human doings while women are human beings. Women just have to exist, but men have to work, and it looks like you're working on yourself. Here's an example... I went out on a date last week with a woman who would have been soooo out of my league just 3 years ago that i…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:43 PM
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high value women do not put out until they get commitment from a man in some form. I used to believe in high value women. Now, I refuse to pay a higher price than the previous guys she's fucked. Now, I assume every woman I date has had a ONS. Addendum: These 2 maxims from FIFTY SHADES OF RED seem applicable. IM MAXIM #29: “Work on the presumption that the women you date are promiscuous. Your inclination will be to assume her innocence, but you are wiser to assume her guilt.” IM MAXIM #30: “It is…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:24 PM
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She just moved from South Korea and by all indications they have a different kind of culture there. Are you implying girls from South Korea wouldn't fuck Chad on the first date of they could? AWALT. give her one last chance? That's up to you. I just said you need to have boundaries.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:09 PM
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No sex is with the wait You need to have boundaries/self-respect. Personally, if a girl doesn't put out by the third date, I move on. It's either fuck yea or fuck you
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:58 PM
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You digged Dug
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:56 PM
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I’m hitting the gym 6x a week boxing wearing fashionable clothes I should be swimming in pussy but my life is boring asf Your life is boring because you're not working on your mission. You do have a mission don't you?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:25 PM
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Am irregular schedule would create tension, likely increasing attraction. Familiarity breeds contempt.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:47 PM
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WTF your entire profile (like 10 posts) is about this incident?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:43 PM
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This is probably the single best post I've read on a redpilled mission. Thanks for making it so succinct. I'm realizing now that I have to come up with a better (life long) mission.
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 03:27 PM
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Holy shit. I don't suppose you can link that study/survey? I had assumed I was just doing "ok", but if what you're saying is true, I'm actually doing pretty good
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:05 PM
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Not enough context. Is she an ex of yours? If so, she only wanted to know that you still like her. She got what she wanted. Next time just ignore.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 12:38 PM
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Arkansas
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:33 PM
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Oh. That sounds like a dead end honestly. You should always check the sidebar for tips, advice, and guidance, but I'm not sure this guide is on there. I think it may help you in the future. http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:35 PM
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She could be attention seeking, but she could also be interested. Only way to know is to try again, always assume attraction. If after the second attempt you don't sense a spark, move on.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:30 PM
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Law 25: Re-create yourself Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that command attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you. Incorporate dramatic devices into your public gestures and actions - your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:27 PM
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What's the context? When a plate texts me hey, i know she wants fucked.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:22 PM
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It still happens to me, but I instantly recognise what's happening and can shake myself out of it quickly. It must be a biology getting us to commit for child birth, but then it also causes the girl to lose attraction so she can move onto the next guy (generic diversity).
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:17 PM
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Are you serious? You'll be arrested if you step outside your house? What country are you in?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 06:16 PM
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This is the best answer (to most questions)
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:41 PM
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I was reading the FIFTY SHADES OF RED and thought these applied perfectly here... IM MAXIM #24: “As her control increases, her attraction and respect decreases. As her control decreases, her attraction and respect increases. If a woman is with a submissive man trying to become dominant, she will utterly oppose him. She has accepted he is submissive and so she revels in the power her control gives her. If he becomes dominant, she loses the power and resources her monopoly granted her. And she wil…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:22 PM
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I'm really curious to hear what you'd think about the A2 milk.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 03:19 PM
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Have you tried A2 milk? It comes from a subset of cows that cause less digestive issues. Have you tried milk that is lactose free? There are a bunch of new tires of milk it now that have more protein and less sugar.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 03:10 PM
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This whole situation is so politicized it's infuriating
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 02:27 PM
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Same. Gotta think long term
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 02:25 PM
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That's great
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:34 PM
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It's getting warmer out, maybe go outside and enjoy nature
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:32 PM
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I was reading the FIFTY SHADES OF RED and thought these applied perfectly here... IM MAXIM #29: “Work on the presumption that the women you date are promiscuous. Your inclination will be to assume her innocence, but you are wiser to assume her guilt.” IM MAXIM #30: “It is not so much a question of if she is a whore, but rather, a question of if she is not.” Refer to Maxim #29. IM MAXIM #31: “Prudence necessitates one requires evidence of womanly innocence rather than assuming the existence of su…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:08 PM
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I was attracted to this girls innocence That's all in your head. All women are sluts (for the right guy).
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:09 PM
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Thanks for answering my question. Also, Un-invest yourself. Working on this. Got 2 new dates lined up this week. It's crazy how onetitis can grab you. Before this chick I was a king. I felt like I finally got the redpill. I was doing everything right. Plates begging me for sex, time, attention. Then BAM! ... Invested.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:36 AM
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I know. I was asking if I should ignore her plating or make fun of her.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:08 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, but it hasn't hurt me before this. Maybe to your point, this chick really wants kids unlike the other girls I've been with.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:36 AM
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That totally makes sense to me. I don't think I'd change my answer, knowing that it hurt her interest. I'd rather pump and dump her than unscrupulously waste her baby making time. I think vasectomies would be confusing to women. Consciously they know I'm a dead end, but subconsciously everything appears to work fine.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:26 AM
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Responses like this makes me want to stick with online dating.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:23 PM
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If that's the only thing you pulled from that resource, you're doomed.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:28 PM
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First things first, read the side bar. Your text game sucks. Read this - http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:07 PM
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This was a cordial and informative discussion guys. It's a nice break from the usual shit-posting I see on here. A+
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:29 PM
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Do you think the cuck will believe the bull?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/02/20 01:45 PM
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Right on man. So just be aware of that and don't get messed around So true. I got redpilled when my (ex) wife cheated on me. Divorced her immediately. Now I'm living the dream.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 01:44 PM
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Thanks for the explanation. Why would you want to join them? I don't want to join them. I want to fuck the girl. My newest plate has 500 followers. I don't really care if she has more. As long as I'm fucking her (it's my turn), I'm happy. If she wants to fuck someone else, my turn's over, but I have other girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 01:32 PM
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Supposedly this is the new site https://heartiste.net/
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 01:21 PM
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Hey man, I'm kind of ignorant to your point. Mind educating me? Why is the number of IG followers a red flag?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 12:55 PM
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The iron rule applies to n-, notch-count, or plainly how many girls you've fucked. For questions like whether a girl has eaten you ass or not, I think that's situational, but can't go wrong with Agree and Amplify. Regardless always reply with a smirk and a twinkle in your eye. Here's a recent example I encountered on a first date with a tinder girl I met at her place. We start seriously making out, then she stops and asks, "Have you ever done this before?". I immediately replied with a devilish …
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:42 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:11 PM
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I'm running 300mg/week, no AI. Labs look good. I feel great and making significant gains in the gym. Be sure you eat enough though.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 04:20 PM
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They changed their ways after seeing all the women they cared about go after the bad boys so they became bad boys themselves This describes me. Now I have multiple girls begging for my commitment. No thanks...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 04:12 PM
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Given your username, I was expecting you to say cold approach
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/20 12:45 AM
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What's your preferred way of meeting these young women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/20 10:53 PM
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I stopped deleting numbers, because I'll get random numbers that text me and it helps to know if those numbers are new or old
/r/askTRP19/02/20 01:33 PM
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I agree with your statement. I just want to point out that not all 151 million males are having sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/20 11:52 PM
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You need to read this https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/07/ultimatum/
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:53 PM
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Hey go for it. I'm just saying you should avoid the selfie. If you don't have anyone to take a pic, look into a tripod or something.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:55 AM
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I think everyone would agree that someone taking a shirtless pic of you would be much better than a selfie.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:52 AM
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Bitches like a guy who takes no shit and gives em a lot of shit. Treat em mean, keep em keen. My only tool in the toolbox to accomplish this is spinning plates. I feel like my unavailability and aloofness is all I've got. What other ways can I give them shit and treat em mean?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:37 PM
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I've seen that too and I understand the logic they present. I miss them on the first date anyway, because that's just me. One thing I've learned though is don't go for a dirty makeout session unless your reasonable sure you can f-close that night. That will raise her ASD because she'll feel pressured the next date to fuck, and will likely flake. Oh and if you do kiss on the first date, pull away first.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:44 PM
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I just scheduled a date with a new girl for Valentine's day. I told her to being me chocolate. Remember, you are the prize, not her.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:54 PM
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Was that movie any good?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 05:57 PM
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What's to stop you from just leaving the country permanently? Just disappear and start a whole new life somewhere else?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/20 03:02 AM
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This is the way
/r/askMRP03/02/20 06:19 PM
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I'm in the same boat
/r/askTRP31/01/20 09:51 PM
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There are excellent Tinder guides on the main RP sub. A simple search will give you what you want.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:13 PM
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I've read Rollo's books and I think you did a great job encapsulating the concept and answering OP's question. I don't know how anyone could explain everything going on today without coming up with this same paradigm, but I continue to wonder exactly what "good" and "bad" genes are. I've seen "alpha" father's produce cowardly beta males and vice versa. This is a piece of the puzzle that eludes me.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:50 PM
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Have you seen the jobs numbers? In their effort to be men, women are working more now than ever. After a day slaving in a cubicle, women are too tired to go out anymore.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 10:04 PM
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I did some digging and you are right on the mark according to an old chateau heartiste post In the future, push for kissing by the middle of the first date, but don’t overdo it. Making out with a girl for too long and too hard on the first date — again, unless you are gunning for a SNL — will gradually lower your value and, hence, raise her buyer’s remorse, leading to flaking on subsequent dates. The perfect seduction moves two steps forward, one step back. No kissing = celibate LJBF. Too much k…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:14 AM
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Thanks for replying to an old comment.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:08 AM
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I've been having trouble myself and I think your explanation might be what I need. Do you happen to have a link to that old info or anything else I can read for more info?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:14 AM
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Why is a heavy makeout beta or childish? This is the first I'm hearing this and would like more info.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:11 AM
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You increase bench press by doing bench press. It's not rocket science. So you would bench on your chest days.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:17 PM
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Why do men want to accumulate notches? They have their hands for that
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:49 PM
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Men want to conquer women sexually. Once they open their legs, we're looking for the next one. Women want to conquer men emotionally. Once we open our hearts, they're looking for the next one.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/12/19 05:13 PM
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SMH Thank you
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:53 PM
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Thanks for replying. Do you think a man can be hypergamous, or a woman polygamous?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 01:51 AM
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Your comment makes me wonder at what point polygamy turns into hypergamy. ( honest question)
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:50 PM
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Does this apply to closing dates too? I usually kiss-close dates but don't escalate further. More often than not, I don't hear from the girl again. I assumed that later the girl realized she just wasn't into me. However there were times that I was really confused and wondering what happened because the make out session was so hot. Is it possible I get them going so much that when I stop/say goodbye they get pissed or resentful? I'm not sure I'm applying what you're saying appropriately.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:41 PM
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This is blowing my mind right now. I need to read more about this.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:37 AM
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You're welcome to join us over in the Testosterone sub.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:34 AM
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Sometimes you can just put it in right there and then. Be careful just spontaneously going in. Be prepared to get dirty.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:29 PM
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Look, I do my thing when I need to. I don't advertise it. If she wants to stick around and smell my excretions then whatever. The point is that you do you. Maintain frame. If you're sneaking around or asking if you can do, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:08 AM
61

This is one topic I don't give a fuck what other guys think. I shit with the door closed in peace and quiet. I don't fart around women. I don't want to smell their shit or farts either. I do what I want, not what others tell me I should.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:28 AM
11

I can t fuck her anymore as I used to. And you never will. You will always remember this interaction every time you guys are intimate. I don't know if you're able to walk away right now, as you sound like you have oneitits, but you'll be better off dropping her and getting more experience. I say this based on my own similar experience.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:38 PM
6

I totally agree with your post. I experienced this exact issue with my last LTR. I struggled with it, constantly regretting that I asked about her past, which was pretty vanilla, but still exceeded my own.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:20 PM
22

I appreciate the simplicity and wisdom of this comment. When I first started I wondered if the girl I was meeting would like me. Now I wonder if I'll like her, for the exact reason you mentioned.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:22 AM
5

Her feelings are never wrong.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:23 PM
3

Most men do not get to reproduce, but the ones that do have lots of children with different women. Doesn't this imply that "alpha" isn't genetic? Because if it was, most new born males would be "alpha", since the "alpha" males are the ones reproducing.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 04:51 PM
1

I’ve made out/played around with at least 10 girls but only 2 I was able to close. My ratio is very similar. I was actually thinking about posting something like what you wrote, because it seems very difficult to identify what exactly to improve. It looks like you've got everything on point, so it could just be your game, but I wonder if your ratio is actually just the norm.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:24 PM
1

I think you could substitute it with whatever response your father told you when you were a child. The basic premise is that you don't need a reason, because you are above her (like your father is above you). Your authority stands on its own. This is basically "putting her in her place" (below you).
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:36 PM
1

You: No Her: whyyyyy? You: Because I said so If you did your homework, you'd know you should be treating her like the oldest teenager in the house. I have 2 daughters, and anytime they question me, I give them the "because I said so" line. End of discussion.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:51 PM
-1

You shouldn't care what the number is. How do you feel?
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:29 PM
1

The attitude is, she did nothing to deserve the effort of kissing her. Just had a similar date as OP. I really like this.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:33 AM
6

What was your crime?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 06:04 PM
1

just looking to meet new people and see where things go
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:06 AM
1

Why do you want to hard next her? I think the problem with your "beta approach", is that you have too much outcome independence and are displaying other attractive masculine traits you may not be aware of; not to mention your "muscle boy" physique grants you a ton of leverage. I mean where else if she going to find another you? Look around. So many guys are disgusting fat beta slobs.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 10:33 PM
1

You actually did the beta thing with her? I would like to hear much more about this situation, and the eventual outcome.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:32 PM
1

"The man must set the tone and take the lead". That's great advice. You don't actually need anymore info than that. Just go on dates and implement. Honestly if I had to guess, you're spending too much time reading and not doing. When was the last date you went on? How many dates have you been on in the last 6 months? Get out there and put that you've learned into practice.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 12:26 PM
69

You basically described the typical woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/19 03:10 PM
1

Sugar
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:30 AM
2

All women are sluts For the right guy
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:16 PM
1

Cool thanks
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:59 PM
1

While I am curious about using a drone for tinder pictures, I'd like to hear what else you use it for.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:50 PM
3

Totally agree with Vasiliy A. Yeah agreed ... but we said we would be exclusive. What I didn't realise is she just meant physically... I just wanted to point out that you listened to what she said not what she did. Women do this kind of shit constantly. What she said at first might have been, I'm exclusive, but before long she starts adding footnotes and exclusions to keep her in the clear. Before long there's a huge list of terms and conditions to her original statement.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:01 PM
29

See how that works for them? Yep. They both get fucked regardless of their ability to make you laugh. They would both carry your seed if you were prehistoric. More to the point of this article, I assume you're a funny confident guy. You get girls on any day of the week. See how that works for you?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 08:52 PM
1

Many girls restrain their affection after showing high interest as a shit test to see if you are going to act needy afterwards I didn't know this. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:15 PM
2

I've used coconut oil for anal and agree with you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:51 AM
6

Don't make us dads bro You gave good advice, but he is asking about anal.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:49 AM
1

I want to believe this because it's happened enough times to me. What hurts your claim is that most RP threads are about AWALT and you're not her best option on OLD. So the fact that I never read anything about girls being lazy/nervous makes me doubt what you're saying. I hope you're right because that would make me feel better about my dates flaking.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:29 AM
1

How long have you been with her?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:35 PM
2

I mean who the fuck asks such questions In my last LTR, I asked her (before TRP). I regretted hearing her answer and the number bothered me even until I broke up with her after 3 years. Now that I'm redpilled, I never ask this question, because 1) IDGAF anymore and 2) they'll never tell you the truth anyway. Even if she still has her hymen in place (that magical membrane the beta world thinks proves a girl's virginity), she could still have fucked someone...
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:07 PM
2

Wtf is a girl gonna do to you I don't know, she could accuse you off rape. That usually worries some people...
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:32 PM
1

I don’t like the moral issue of them expecting a relationship when there can never be one... I've only been gaming/online dating for several months now and I already know exactly what you mean. I was kind of hoping that feeling would fade away eventually.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:55 AM
1

truly women are ruthless animals. Truly
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:43 AM
7

When I think about the shitty sex I got throughout my marriage and how much the divorce cost... I have no problem with OP's "arrangements". Despite all the bitching in this thread, OP isn't anymore beta than I was before TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 01:56 AM
3

I assume you're OK with me dating other women. I assume this regardless of whether she's putting out or not
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/19 01:45 AM
1

Yep. You can only cook organic meat that was butchered "humanly"
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 06:52 PM
1

I'm open to ideas on long term relationships, and enjoy a few of them myself. Exclusivity though... that fucking sucks.... Do you ever communicate your non-exclusivity overtly, or do you think it's better to be covert about it? I get the sense that for most things it's better to be covert with women, mysterious.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:52 PM
15

Once you become a father, your priorities are really just success and keeping your child happy... any spare focus/attention after that is a bonus. I enjoyed your post. I'm divorced with 50% custody of 2 kids. I'm right there with you on never marrying again and the limited time. After working, taking care of the kids, lifting, eating, and hobbies, there isn't much time left in the day. Dating apps certainly help me get girls, but I really find your experience with SA interesting and intriguing. …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:55 PM
72

The eye roll emoji really drives your point home
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/19 12:21 PM
1

Do you do stomach vacuums? I didn't think they did anything?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:50 AM
1

Just adding clarification for OP, when "flipping the script" be careful to add a shit-eating grin or smirk (think Han Solo). Don't try it with a butt-hurt attitude or else you'll be worse off than if you just ignored her.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:39 PM
19

i'm driving While you have good insight, I can't overlook that you posted while driving. Don't fucking post to Reddit while you're driving!
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:18 PM
3

any woman you meet there will be somewhat dominant and aggressive by definition. I've also found this to be true.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:27 PM
12

A downside I found with bumble is that it attracts more masculine (strong independent) women.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:26 PM
4

His comment had nothing to do with past hurt. It has to do with female biology/evolutionary psychology.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 05:54 PM
26

This is basically every woman, if they were honest. AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/19 12:52 PM
1

Mountain bikers tend to be more chill and inviting. Very true
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:04 PM
1

I've thought about learning to ride, but then I remember how dangerous motorcycles are.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:01 PM
1

That's it. It was miserable. I'm curious how you turned things around. I'd like to hear more about what motivated you to change and what do you that helped or didn't.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:00 PM
1

Find a different church then
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:49 PM
4

Commence operation dry spell Fuck 10 Other Girls. Ftfy
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:17 PM
1

You don't owe it [time] to anyone, male or female, friend or date Good post. This is a really important point you made that I wanted to highlight for OP and anyone else reading.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:56 PM
1

That was an awesome read. Thanks!
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:13 PM
7

I don't disagree with anything you guys are saying, but I did think the episode about security theater was enlightening. I don't bother signing my name on those credit card pads anymore.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 11:34 PM
3

Use your head, look for red flags, then just roll the dice. Odds are slim you get anything, but if you do get something, go to the doctor like everyone else.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:02 PM
108

As soon as she gets bored with stable and loyal Billy beta, she'll be back on the CC with all those sweet sweet feelz.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 05:46 PM
3

Ha. Tell that to one of my plates.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:39 PM
2

I have no logical reason. It's just a want. I also want a billion dollars...
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:36 PM
2

what more do you want I want them to want me with every fiber of their being... I know that's unattainable but when you get close, it's wonderful; until one of us gets bored then I'm out.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:51 PM
11

Happy man happy life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 02:08 PM
5

Amen brother. Never again will I marry. Never again will I stray from the redpill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 02:07 PM
2

You just gotta know how to do it. But that's kind of my point, you can't just speak plainly about RP concepts in church. You have to be covert. The RP subreddits allow guys to speak overtly about their issues and (hopefully) get sound advice. In my experience, you have to watch what you say in today's churches, which isn't very conducive to growing and becoming a Man. The caveat is if you already have a good group you know and trust in church. I'm referring to a general audience, eg. a random Bi…
/r/RPChristians02/10/19 02:20 AM
8

Let me know how discussing TRP goes at church
/r/RPChristians01/10/19 04:43 PM
1

If you like our efforts on trp.red, join our patreon here When I consider how much TRP has helped me, I really think it's worth contributing to and keeping it alive for other guys.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 03:39 PM
3

This is awesome news and a feat of programming ingenuity. Should we migrate away from trp on reddit now, or does they come when the new red forums launch?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 03:37 PM
73

Women have emotional brains. They get addicted to feelings. You can use that to your advantage. The first time you meet her—tell her she looks amazing. But never give her a full compliment again. She’ll always chase that validation. It’s like a drug. Tell her ‘she looks beautiful for her age.’ Tell her ‘she looks good in this lighting.’ Keep her insecure with half compliments. Keep her feeling like there’s something wrong with her. Like she’s not good enough for you. Like she needs sex for valid…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 10:26 PM
2

Extended fasts are healthy too, but not something you jump into on your first try.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:25 AM
2

Comfort tests are easy to pass if you're really interested in a girl, so there's a reason why you failed them. Accept that you really weren't that into her and move on. I think if you try invest more, you'll regret it and lose some power in the process.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:22 AM
1

It reads like a justification to avoid companionship alltogether. That wasn't my intention with my comment. Thanks for clarifying things.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 02:33 PM
3

My point was just that women will do what women do sometimes irrespective of what you do. So don't put them on a pedestal, trying to qualify yourself to some standard you think they are looking for.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 01:43 PM
1

16 is legal in my state Maybe, but think about trying to convince a jury of your peers that she's not a child at 16. Just be careful dude.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:07 PM
7

I think you'd be better off focusing on other things that are easier/more achievable in a shorter time period. From the book, The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism, here are 3 tips for a quick charisma boost: Lower the intination of your voice at end of sentences. Reduce how quickly and often you nod Pause for 2 full seconds before you speak/respond. I have a guy that works for me that doesn't do number 1 and it drives me nuts. He sounds like a chick …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:53 AM
3

Just because you can't stay alpha in a relationship, that doesn't mean others can't. You're probably right, some guys can stay alpha through a LTR, but the truth is that it doesn't matter. AWALT. She'll eventually get bored and leave for another guy, who may not even be better but different.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 11:46 AM
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She's your colleague. Don't shit where you eat. If she's identified you as a beta in her mind, then it's next to impossible to change her impression, even if you're improving. Don't throw pearls to swine.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:12 AM
1

I piss off more women off by not hitting on them, than by hitting on them. I'm curious about this statement. How do you know?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:47 PM
1

There are plenty of women 40+ who would put out for you while making me wait. I'm a catch to them. I'm 47, good looking, stable career. So what do you do? Go after younger/hotter I assume
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:07 PM
2

I broke things off with a plate because she was too masculine. I put up with it a little while for the sex but eventually just couldn't stand it anymore. There are chicks everywhere so they're not worth dealing with their shit/issues. Good for you for being dominate/masculine
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:16 PM
2

I'm pretty straight up with telling the women I date that I'm non committal Do you wait until The Talk to announce that?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:59 AM
3

I agree. If like to see our age/decade as flair. Of course I'm not sure how accurate it would be...
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:56 AM
2

Do you get your plates from day game, night game, and/or online dating?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:55 AM
1

This is a shit test and covered in the side bar.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:27 PM
0

Do guys actually step up to offers like this? I mean is there actually data to show this happens?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/19 02:08 PM
1

The first part of Killing Me Softly with Joseph Fiennes. Heather Graham's character is describing her beta boyfriend to a shrink and if you're RP, everything she says is describing unattractive traits. Then she meets the Alpha, who is displaying very attractive traits. You can shut off the movie after they fuck, because the alpha quickly changes character and becomes beta, but the first part is very clear.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:59 PM
1

I'm researching intermittent fasting and keto diet, and will sometimes come across mentions of a ketogenic diet helping with ADHD. You might want to check into that if you want to avoid meds
/r/askTRP21/09/19 05:45 PM
8

I don't fuck women for their personality
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:29 PM
1

Facebook limits the number of times you can change your age
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:23 PM
1

It's fairly easy to create a fake Facebook account, so if you want to participate in that group you could do so safely with a fake account. What does this new Facebook group offer that redpill subreddits don't?
/r/askMRP17/09/19 04:42 PM
2

Thanks for the quick overview. I knew some of this but not the final part. I wondered why he stopped posting his articles.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:30 PM
4

I assumed that he must post pics of himself with other girls on IG.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 12:10 PM
-2

So I can't spend an entire weekend with a chick I just met?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 12:07 PM
1

Since I gave it up 1.5 years ago, it is such a relief not to have to approach. So do you just not meet women since you don't approach anymore?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/09/19 07:46 PM
1

Supposedly. I do know the procedure to reverse the vasectomy is quite expensive with no guarantee of success.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:13 AM
11

I'm not sure what to make of this research. I'm particularly interested because I had a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 02:55 PM
68

Female mice housed with castrated males have higher stress levels. Despite having no way of knowing (unless pheremones come into play?), the female rats were stressed out by vasectomised male rats with no visible castration. Which is it? Were the mice castrated or vasectomised? Edit: Nevermind. The research looked at both.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 02:21 PM
3

I feel like there's a lot of BS sex advice out there that's like "kiss her whole body, go down on her for a long time and see how she responds That advice is meant for betas
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:50 AM
1

What was the excuse given in your church as to why this verse should be ignored? I don't recall exactly. It's been over 4 years since I attended a service there. They basically taught that it was Paul's opinion and not something everyone had to follow. What sort of church do u go to now? I go to a similar church, but don't get involved. I know what's waiting for me if I do. I don't quite know how to make peace with that.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 09:55 PM
5

That's an interesting question I never considered before, but no, I don't think that's it. I think the reason was because both men were completely beta/BP and had their wives on a pedestal. The church we attended didn't believe in the "wives submit to your husbands" verse in the Bible. Moreover, they didn't believe in divorce, despite the Bible giving clear examples when it was warranted. The men broke ties with me because I divorced and believed I was wrong for doing so. If they accepted my cho…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 06:27 PM
1

You can talk to your primary doctor and get a referral if you need one. Ultimately, a urologist would perform the procedure. You should do some research to find a good one.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:51 PM
3

High school is your entire world right now. I've you graduate that world will begin dissolving and you'll be responsible for creating the next one. Make it what you want it to be.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:41 PM
10

After I discovered the adultery, there was a period of time where I was not well (thinking clearly). I felt like I was losing everything and so I wanted to prevent that from happening. I reached out to a couple friends from the church for guidance and wisdom, who counseled me on how to accept and forgive my adulterous wife, because that's what they did with their wives (seriously). The moment I pulled my head out of my ass and decided to divorce, my "friends" stopped talking to me entirely. Ever…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 02:32 PM
0

If you have health insurance, it should be "free". I think you have to be VERY sure that you don't want kids. Supposedly, it can be reversed, but it's expensive and not guaranteed to work.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 03:50 PM
2

I got a vasectomy after I divorced at age 39 with 2 kids.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 03:41 PM
44

Basically, by turning marriage into a gay thing it no longer holds any special meaning for heterosexual couples, so why marry? The whole "gay marriage" thing also devalued married as a stable institution for child rearing - arguing that if gays can't procreate then marriage isn't advantageous for raising children, either. This sounds like the conservative Christian argument I was very familiar with before I got divorced. I heard it everywhere from the Christian leaders I listened to at the time.…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 02:19 PM
2

Fascinating. Love to see this over time too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/19 02:03 PM
8

Long answer... I divorced like 4 years ago after 15+ years of marriage (I don't feel like figuring out the details atm). The last year of my marriage was utter shit as I watched her finally get into decent shape. She got liposuction, which I happily paid for (huge covert contact, as embarrassing as that is to admit). She looked the best she'd looked in a decade. Towards the end of that year I became consumed with thoughts that she was cheating, and eventually I uncovered the truth despite her be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 10:19 PM
1

If you don't have abundance, you have a lack of options and more than likely will have oneitis. Abundance can be solely a mental attitude (monogamous LTR/marriage) or it can be manifested by spinning plates (fucking multiple girls). The advantage of abundance is that you don't give a fuck (IDGAF mentality), which is very attractive and gives you peace of mind. Girls have a natural ability to tell if you don't have abundance.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:24 PM
1

Amen! My dad is 75 and still mountain bikes with me.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:16 PM
46

Anti slut defense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 04:05 PM
1

I couldn't get hard with a different girl. This gives me pause for concern. I hope you're familiar with the idea of abundance and spinning plates (if you aren't you surely need to read the sidebar). I'm not suggesting you start cheating on your LTR, but you should be able to. After all, the ability to get other girls is very attractive, but it's also an indicator of health (redpill). Are you having any issues with ED? this is what's holding me back to some extent. This sounds like alarm bells to…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:35 PM
19

30+ is also that age, when men are at least partially red pilled. Fuuuck. I wish this were true. I was the most bluepilled in my 30s married to a bitch. Thankfully I finally swallowed the redpill in my 40s, divorced, and spin plates now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 01:13 PM
3

That's why I replied, I suspected things weren't going well for you. Are you posting in the OYS threads? There's so much great info in the MRP sidebar. Have you read all of it? Are you using dread?
/r/askMRP05/09/19 11:43 AM
2

I'm talking about not having the want/need to fuck anymore. Are you lifting heavy weights and sleeping well? Are you eating lots of protein and healthy fats? I just don't know what's the problem. My mind is still sexually active since whenever I see a dif girl with a body type I like I really enjoy being with my ltr of 5+ yrs Check out the "Coolidge Effect". If you got a different women in bed, you'd be totally amped up to fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:41 AM
2

I think there are some good suggestions in this thread already. I wanted to chime in with my experience and you can do with it what you will. My ex wife started doing that shit a year or two before I divorced her for cheating on me. I was totally betabux at that point and drunk on the bluepill. I was trying to negotiate desire and used covert contacts constantly. I HATED when she would do what you're describing. I failed all of her compliance tests and would bitch when she barked orders for thin…
/r/askMRP05/09/19 11:27 AM
4

I think you got your answer. (The bill is in the mail)
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:54 PM
1

Ok. I see. I think that it's normal to fall back into scarcity of you're not constantly working towards abundance, just like how you lose strength when you're not lifting constantly. Use it or lose it. Train your mind, as you do your body. It's an ongoing process. Never give up; never surrender; least you be lost to the chaos.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:39 PM
12

Abundance (preferably actual plates rather than just mental) fixes most issues. I don't know the episode you're referring to in your post, but I doubt Joe mentions anything about dating multiple women simultaneously. So, yes if you're only seeing one girl, the oxytocin released post sex will drive you to oneitis. So take steps to prevent that (eg. Spin plates).
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:30 PM
29

If I matched her criteria, I wouldn't have to waste my time on her pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/19 04:54 PM
1

You're right it's hard, like lifting. How long did it take you to see gains from lifting? It's the same concept except you're working your mind instead on your muscles. Some guys see interested results, while it takes others longer to see the same results. It depends on many factors, but with good form, discipline and persistence you WILL get better.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:09 PM
3

I think it's because some part of you still wants to follow the feminine agenda that the world has instilled in men since birth. You've lived your whole life hearing from your parents/family, friends, school teachers, Hollywood, etc that men should do this or that for women. We've been taught to put women on the pedestal and put them first. The nice guy gets the girl, and the player is a selfish lowlife. I started spinning plates about 5 months ago. I'm 42 and I also feel guilty to some degree a…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 12:37 PM
11

He could give her everything, and she could still label him as abusive.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:03 PM
1

but most of it is pretty trash imo. Like what?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 05:59 PM
2

I think your theory is correct. I've seen actual data that supports it, but I don't feel like looking it up. The 25% may be too high though...
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:36 PM
3

Always enjoy reading your responses Vasiliy women like a man who can keep them in line What does this mean? Since I've swallowed the redpill, I just next girls who get out of line. I've read plenty of articles here that there's no point in arguing with women and the way to best modify their behavior is withdrawing your attention/presence/validation. So I assume you mean I have to stay with her, in order to keep them in line, right? Maybe I'm thinking too autistically right now, but I don't know …
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:35 PM
15

LOL. We must be swiping in very different areas. Tinder around me is as you are describing hinge.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:01 AM
1

It's one of those classic PUA 'tips' that doesn't really help much in my experience. I suspected this was the case, but haven't had enough experience yet to definitely say so or not. Who's Julien?
/r/seduction28/08/19 04:55 PM
1

"yeah, but I passed math class" smirk You better believe that she'll lie or gaslight you about her past. There is no reason whatsoever to be an open book to her. It will only hurt you.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:46 AM
1

I had to look up what "dipped" meant. SMH. Kids these days...
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:35 PM
5

0% if you never try
/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:10 AM
20

And they just love my Boston Terrier, he's "owmigawd soooo cute!" I hope you're not involving the kids. Fuck the milfs but don't mess with the kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 11:17 AM
2

I bailed on 2 different chicks because they were recovering alcoholics.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:11 AM
6

Most marriages last the duration (> 50%). You know, as much as trp shits on marriage, this is true. However, the quality of those marriages should be in question.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:03 AM
2

Whatever you do, always breakup with a girl in public. You can avoid many false accusations that way. Maybe a stupid question, but you basically schedule a date to break up with her? What do you think about breaking up with a plate or fwb over text?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:30 AM
3

I kept plates in an exclusive LTR I see where you went wrong...
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:46 PM
3

Mindfulness. I'm pretty sure there's a post on the main sub about mediation/mindfulness. Also check it the app, Headspace.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:40 PM
9

I'll do you one better. WHY is Gamora!
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:40 PM
-12

Did you get her number? Setup the logistics/date? If so STFU.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:36 PM
6

Cool. I guess whatever you did to collect all of these posts included a character limit or something? In any event, thanks for your time and effort. This is truly a gold mine!
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:28 PM
12

At first glance this is amazing! But when I tried reading one (eg. 12), I'm frustrated that it doesn't include the entire post, as it's cut off prematurely.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:14 PM
10

Sleep is absolutely critical to a healthy life. There's a great post of the main sub about it that references a terrific not I read recently called, Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams, by Matthew Walker. Edit: The post I referred to above is from u/offthebeatmeoff
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 11:25 AM
31

why the fuck does she expect men she meets at work to ask her out in the wake of the #metoo movement? The #metoo movement is only meant to remove betas from the mating pool. A woman's worst fear is being deceived into getting fucked/pregnant by a beta. It's not supposed to apply to the hot alpha chads, as long as they willingly give up their dick to the thot demanding it. metoo and false rape allegations are meant for betas and alphas who said "no".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 04:59 PM
10

Based on your comment, I understand you're concerned about your sleep, but only you know if you're really prioritizing sleep. Everyone, on average, needs 8 hours of sleep, so if you're not already, always strive to allow that much time for yourself. I highly recommend the book, Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams, by Matthew Walker. There's even a post about it by u/offthebeatmeoff on the main sub. There are a host of things you can do to improve your sleeping habits. I also th…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:16 PM
3

and I knew what had actually happened. Thank you for sharing this. I'm now at the point where I recognize stuff like this happening. Next step for me is capitalizing on this knowledge in the moment.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:36 AM
11

Sidebar refers to the "community info" in this sub and other related RP subs
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:18 AM
2

I'm divorced. Women don't care. Actually if anything, it helps you more than hurts you, even if you have kids, because it's a kind of social proof. I think age may factor into your question. I'm 42 so I think it's kind of expected that I would have been married. If you're 18 and divorced, I can see how that might be a stigma. Getting back to your question, it's only a big deal if you make a big deal. If you're embarrassed about it, chicks are going to smell that on you. Don't misunderstand me, y…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:45 AM
41

Stick around here, read the side bar, and work on improving yourself. When you're a top 10% man, that shit will still happen to you, but you won't care, because you'll know there are 3 billion more thots to choose from. If that doesn't motivate you and make you feel better, then know that in 10 plus years, she'll look worse and you'll be getting all sorts of younger/hotter.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:33 AM
3

Thots I'm fucking are not equivalent to my Bros. I would gladly help out a friend, but not so much some chick I fucked a couple times.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:36 PM
1

You're actually very wrong. First, let me say that I'm introverted and struggled with social interactions too. In any event, an easy/simple way to show that you're wrong is to spend any time in the fitness and related subs. There are countless threads along why people can't build muscle, blah, blah, blah. You're saying fitness is easy, but it's not. It's as complicated or simple (depending on your perspective/training) as social skills. Everyone else here is right in telling you that you will ge…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:02 PM
3

Abundance my man. There are a lot of other kinky chicks out there.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:06 PM
2

As soon as you bust a nut, you'll return to your senses. The glorious clairvoyance we get post-nut
/r/askTRP14/08/19 09:58 PM
3

If I could upvote the other guy's posts here about abstaining from porn I would. OP, look into https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ You're in a losing battle with porn. Our brains aren't capable of dealing with the infinite variety of attractive naked bodies we see on porn. Our brains are helpless to deal with the flood of dopamine and other feel good hormones. Don't feel bad that you are where you are. You honestly had no choice, porn is that addictive. Now you have a choice, you can quit porn for …
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:30 PM
2

I think you forgot your sarcasm tag
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 12:34 PM
6

And now you're bedding 'younger/hotter'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 05:27 PM
34

I really wish I could have met you when you were younger This! So much this! I was with my previous LTR when I swallowed the pill. She was pretty, but so much prettier in her youth. I felt exactly what you're saying. It really messed with my head, until the redpill explained everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/19 05:25 PM
2

WTF is "gentle touches"? Are you in middle school? She wanted you to escalate like a man. If that's what you actually did, then you try twice more. If that doesn't work, then you GTFO. Your time is your most valuable resource. Don't give it away for free.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:42 PM
4

Everyone else here is right. You screwed up. Read the side bar and forget this chick. However, I think the best way to save face and possibly have a chance with her, is to uninvite her and go on the trip by yourself. Focus on having an awesome time and approach girls on your trip. Doing this will show her that you're not invested in her, which MAY cause her to be interested in you. But even then that's putting her on the pedestal and too close to oneitis for comfort.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 12:14 PM
47

Creepy vibe. She looks like she could stab me with a kitchen knife and never blink.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 11:53 AM
2

I assume the ED is psychological and not physical because I can get erections when I'm not with a girl. Also there have been times when I'm grinding with a girl before sex and I'm hard as a rock, but when it comes time for sex, I go limp. I'm assuming it's due to me post above, but I acknowledge it could be caused by something else. That's why I'm here.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:05 PM
1

I have a similar situation. Keep the explanation brief and just the facts. A sentence or two is enough. Chicks don't care. Any more probing is just a shit test to see if you're over it or still hung up on it.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:58 PM
2

I can definitely go into more detail if this is something of interest. Please do. I'm curious for what you look for to identify the low value girls (sugar babies).
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 05:02 PM
2

Ohhh. I thought that was a sugar daddy site.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:46 PM
1

I've never heard of that. What is it?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:43 PM
4

I'm looking for advice as an older guy (42). I've had modest success on dating apps, but haven't had much luck with younger chicks who aren't looking for a sugar daddy. I've resisted lying about my age or hiding it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 08:24 PM
1

Calling bullshit. Keeps you sharper seems like some major placebo and confirmation bias. There are plenty of documented studies showing the benefits of fasting on mental and other areas of health. I pulled the following sources from the book, "The Complete Guide to Fasting," by Jimmy Moore and Jason Fung. Anne M. Cataldo, Corrinne M. Peterhoff, Juan C. Troncoso, Teresa Gomez-Isla, Bradley T. Hyman, and Ralph A. Nixon, “Endocytic Pathway Abnormalities Precede Amyloid β Deposition in Sporadic Alzh…
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:47 PM
44

I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. Haha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/19 11:54 PM
1

Also the huge variety and number of different naked women.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:00 AM
48

+1 for "crotch fruit"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/19 01:33 PM
2

How does Tinder fuck over women?
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:27 PM
1

https://youtu.be/vik-7MjKDa0
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:36 PM
2

https://krauserpua.com/2019/02/21/blackdragon-is-a-pathetic-delusional-cuck/
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:38 PM
2

Maybe work on kegels, which would help you be more aware of when you're going to cum.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:34 PM
3

I think you'd have better luck looking into fasting. I'm reading a guide to fasting by Jason Fung. Very interesting!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 01:41 AM
15

She will forget people tried to warn her. This is so true, even necessary, because forgetting allows her to avoid responsibility for her actions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 04:12 PM
38

whereas being a slut is all about choices and behaviour. Typical response - "But it just happened!! It wasn't my fault!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 02:46 PM
7

Masturbate before the date to last longer. Don't do this. It'll sap your testosterone. You won't feel as much like an animal. There are better ways to help you last longer without taking away that masculine energy that jerking off does.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:01 PM
2

Fair enough. I didn't recognize the format and just wondered if there was another I should be using.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 03:58 PM
1

What dating app is this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 02:45 PM
20

Wait. You're not fucking your other options? Sorry to break this to you but your fwb is your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:49 PM
9

You're developing feelings too? Do you think this fwb will make a good LTR?
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:47 PM
12

That last sentence ruined a wonderful story
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 03:07 AM
3

I didn't realize you could tell if someone has tinder gold?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 02:46 AM
1

Hinge is the new up and comer, but it has its negatives too.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:47 PM
1

I'm familiar with this concept both personally and academically (Rollo's piece on War Brides comes to mind). Something I don't quite understand however, is how the phenomenon of alpha widows comports with this premise. If women are biologically able to switch off the light as it were for her last guy (provider), then why are there any alpha widows at all?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 03:05 PM
3

the more you think about your ex the more your brain is wired to think about her, you're creating a continuous circle of vapid negative emotions. Boom! There it is. Thank you! Incidentally, that would also explain why getting a new LTR would fix the issue. Profound.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:06 PM
15

If she lied once, she'll lie again.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:41 PM
2

Don't expect yourself to drop all of your viewpoints, because I suspect that some of them are tied to something deeper inside you. I per much stopped giving a fuck about politics (and many other things) when I got divorced 4 years ago. I immediately jumped into another LTR with a great girl for the next 3 years. She never brought up politics until about 6 months into the relationship. First a little here and there, then after about a year, she was fully candid with her views. I didn't care, ever…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:23 PM
1

My favorite response of the day
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:14 PM
6

I'm not from a big city, like NYC. I'm not sure what you are saying
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/19 01:20 PM
3

I just finished reading this book. Great and informative read. Glad you're making people aware.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:47 PM
25

You can get herpes just from skin contact, so while a condom would lower your chance it won't completely protect you. Edit: Added CDC reference (emphasis mine) https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm Be aware that not all herpes sores occur in areas that are covered by a latex condom. Also, herpes virus can be released (shed) from areas of the skin that do not have a visible herpes sore. For these reasons, condoms may not fully protect you from getting herpes.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:22 PM
19

Eventually, all LTRs end, either by someone dying or someone leaving.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:58 PM
1

You'll regret her when she turns 40
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:44 PM
11

Scarcity mentally (is very unattractive and) will make you do some cringe-worthy stuff, like staying with a cheater. You're a RP toddler; you can't quite walk on your own yet. You hear your guardians talking about all these complicated concepts. You can understand the words they're saying, but you don't really get it yet. So you can either ignore us, or you can follow our advice (on faith) until you finally get it. I hope for your sake (as a man) that you gather up the courage to take the leap o…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:26 PM
21

I read your whole story. I've been in a similar position, which is what brought me to TRP. I understand what you're going through. However the fact that you're RP aware and haven't IMMEDIATELY nexted her shows that you lack any sense of abundance and haven't really swallowed the pill. A true RP man would have abundance and know that after dropping this cheating whore, he could easily pick up another chick tomorrow. To be clear, you need to take option 1.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 12:59 PM
3

Search the RP subs for openers. I've also seen good ones on random websites by googling your question, but as others have said, if she's into you it doesn't matter what you open with. In my experience, girls below my smv respond to whatever. Girls at or above mine require special openers, and even then usually flake. Don't overthink this too much.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:32 PM
2

My bad. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 04:54 PM
39

If you voted conservative, you're intolerant and radical If you voted liberal, you're tolerant and open-minded Edit. I meant that as sarcastic. Emphasis added. It fucking irritates me that we're painted that way simply because we don't drink their all billshit feminist agenda. It's never about objective reality/truths.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 04:49 PM
1

I'm a father of 2 girls. I don't expect you to understand how I want to protect them from themselves and from bad boys. I know I'll fail miserably, but I'm going to try anyway, because that's what a good father would do. I assume your father wants something similar for you. The fact that you're ok "locking him up" shows that I've either seriously misunderstood your situation or (more likely) you're just a horny teenager thinking with his erect dick and pouting that you can't get your way.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:11 AM
1

I think you're leaving something out. My guess is that you want to use your family's basement living room to make out or fuck your girlfriend. Your dad had cameras there either for security or to alert him of you breaking his rules. You're his child, living in his house, under his rules. Deal with it until you're old enough to move out. You're probably right about it being illegal if you have sex on camera. If you're ok with sending your dad to jail for something you did, then fuck you.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:47 AM
1

I started it maybe a couple months ago. I'm not an expert or anything and continue to find ways to improve it. I decided to track my dating after reading Black Dragon's blog.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:50 PM
1

I keep a spreadsheet of my dates. It's been helpful to me to identify what works and what doesn't (openers, closers, etc). Hopefully I'll continue to get better.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 10:44 PM
1

This should help you get started https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:51 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:43 AM
1

That's my point. You aren't born with it. Similarly, people aren't naturally charismatic, that's a myth (I'm reading the Charisma Myth presently). Charismatic or confident people, work at it. You're on here posting so you have the desire and want the motivation, but the funny thing about motivation is that it doesn't generate on its own. However once you take that first step then you get motivated. With each forward movement you take you get more and more motivated. As soon as you stop, your mot…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:14 AM
2

Being a man is not easy and requires work. If you want to become a man (men are made, women are created), then start doing the work. You can't change the past, but you can change you. You can't forget it, but you can force yourself to move on, towards your personal betterment. Use the past you regret to forge the future you desire.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:11 PM
18

alphafy the beta to have a strong man Does this happen? By the time the man is betafied, the relationship is essentially over, she's lost all attraction.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:07 PM
4

You asked for advice and got it. Now follow it. Grow some balls and follow through on your decision to breakup. Then go fuck 10 other girls.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:56 PM
1

This. Use about 5-6 messages to hook her and get her number. If she doesn't provide her cell, move on. Check out some of the tinder guides on the TRP sub.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:54 PM
1

Happy hunting
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:49 PM
7

Not having kids is selfish because it goes against the feminist agenda. It needs AF to be the sperm donor to produce the children and BB to be the good father. If you don't follow that agenda, you're selfish.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:37 PM
2

There's a girl who I've worked with for 10 years. She was so hot when I first met her. She always flaunted how much she tanned, and it looked good initially. Over the years, the tanning only accelerated her to the wall and past. Now she looks 5-10 years older than her actual age. Sad
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:14 PM
29

I'll never forget the first time a girl eagerly swallowed my cum after a horrible marriage/divorce and taking the redpill. My mind was blown away that a hot chick would do that for me. Fuck the bluepill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/19 12:36 PM
2

Maybe your church isn't as bluepilled as others. I continue to be angry and bitter about the churches I've been apart of and their apparent worship of the female, in retrospect. I try not to think about it too much, because those churches helped reinforce my bluepill conditioning for many years. Sadly, I have an increasingly difficult time attending church nowadays because I see it everywhere.
/r/RPChristians27/06/19 03:23 PM
1

...but who's child is it?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:58 PM
9

That is so brutal but true. It reminds me of that image with a half-naked chick sitting beside a Superman, and she's wondering if she can do better.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:00 PM
2

I unplugged when I was in my late 30s freshly divorced after 17 years. Yes, some things overlap with the youngsters, but some don't.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:48 PM
2

Roosh has a newer book called "Game" that is updated and better than "Day Game"
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:32 AM
10

Single white professional 39 yrs young. No kids, never been married and drug/drama free. She's still attractive at 39 (she must have been absolutely gorgeous in her 20s) and rode the cock carousel for longer than most girls. Believing the feminist propaganda and capitalizing on her looks, she priotized her career over a loving husband and family. I'm an honest person who is very determined, selfless, and isn't into playing head games with men. Now that all her fellow Sex and the City girlfriends…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 02:20 AM
20

Good for you! That's awesome that your boss is helping you out like that. I was able to do something similar. Honestly I would have been screwed if I didn't get a promotion/pay raise immediately after the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 01:10 PM
2

I don't know about OP, but you're showing me. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:15 PM
2

Is mindfulness/meditation really that powerful? I know I need to do it, but I don't prioritize it enough.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:12 PM
1

That might be why you had problems, you were too invested in her. Otherwise, did you take any meds prior? I found that antihistamines (Benadryl) give me ED until they wear off.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:16 PM
2

Your date will be expecting more than just a "hi". Either hug (US) or kiss on check (other countries); it's expected. If you don't, she'll wonder why you're being weird.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:51 PM
8

So Matthew, the beta nice guy, alpha widowed her and not Richard?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/19 02:41 PM
2

Snooping is only justified IF you find something.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:13 PM
2

I hear you. I broke up with my LTR for legit reasons and I really hate that over time I am forgetting those reasons but remembering only the good. My cycle involves thinking about the great sex and the intimate connection, then forcing myself to recall all of the reasons why I left. It's a real mindfuck. I don't have any answers for you (or me), but rest assured you're not the only one going through that.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:04 PM
3

I'm actually going through the same thing right now. It's that deeper connection that I'm missing right now. I've been plating girls since the breakup with my LTR, but the connections are very shallow (because they're plates). I wonder if the only way to get over that desire for a deeper connection is to get into another LTR, which I don't want.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:19 PM
1

I wish there was more (definitive) info on first date closing on TRP. There seems to be 2 different camps in this topic: 1) the Black Dragon take on not kissing on the first date (unless you're absolutely sure you can F-close) and 2) the Roosh take on always escalating (F-close if possible otherwise K-close). I've searched askTRP on this topic and it seems the consensus is to always K-close, unless the Black Dragon is referenced, in which case don't K-close.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 02:59 PM
2

No couple has a permanent future. Even if you wanted to marry her, you'd eventually divorce or one of you would die. So why get so caught up on the "future"? If you want to be with her for now, be with her. If she wants to get married but you don't, she's a big girl and can leave at any time to find someone who does. However, if you want to go fuck other chicks then go fuck other chicks
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:51 PM
5

This. If you're not sleeping 8 hours, you're slowly killing yourself.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:44 PM
15

While sucking Chad's cock
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/19 09:23 PM
4

https://blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/11/several-real-life-examples-soft-nexts/ https://blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/18/16297/
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:43 PM
3

Black Dragon had a great article on this, explaining in detail how to correctly Soft Next a girl. He also had an extensive FAQ.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:42 PM
3

You're failing before you've even gotten started. If you aren't absolutely willing to walk away/nuke the relationship, there's no point in using dread. She'll smell that unwillingness/desperation on you a mile away. She knows she had the power, BECAUSE you're not willing to walk away. She can see your lack of abundance in your attitude and actions. Now that you're in an LTR and living with her, leaving is the only power you have left. Dread is a demonstration of that power. So if you're not will…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:45 AM
3

The more attractive (and famous) you are, the less game you need (eg. most professional athletes/actors). Conversely, the less attractive you are, the more game you need (eg. average guys). Unlike women, men can increase their attractiveness, so get to work bettering yourself (sidebar, lifting, grooming, etc).
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:45 AM
3

If you f close the second date, do you k close the first date?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 11:30 AM
5

I understand the rationale and wisdom behind the claim that men are at fault for women cheating. However, I don't like it because it implies that if a man were perfect enough and could keep her hypergamy in check, she'd never leave. No man can accomplish that, so he's destined to fail, which substantiates your final comment. I guess I'm not sure what to take away from this blame game. Men and women are biologically programmed to lose interest in their partner over time (post honeymoon phase), bu…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:09 PM
1

How so? I've tried mindfulness a handful of times. I think I like it, but I'm not sure if I got to the point of it helping with living in the moment. When did you start to notice that?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:14 PM
1

The only thing I know about yoga is that it forces you to stretch. Does it really help you live in the moment? I've never ever considered trying it until you comment.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:13 PM
1

I really liked this analogy, until the "get a different boat" part where you lost me. Wouldnt you get a different girl at that point? What does the boat represent?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:25 AM
1

How long do your "meet for drinks" usually last? I'm starting to think I spend too long with the girl talking.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:56 PM
1

Don't make up random stats dude
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:29 AM
12

Marriage v1.0 is dead
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 09:23 PM
11

Me too bro
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 09:21 PM
3

Word. Got 2 plates. Working on getting more.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:18 PM
2

I agree with you. I lightly gamed when I was younger. The only thing I want to add is that my last LTR and I played the same game (legend of Zelda) when we were kids. I used that as a conversational topic and often teased her, because she talked about how good she was at it. I called her a "nerd" and smacked her on the ass. I miss that ass...
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:01 PM
2

Don't fret man. I had the same thing happen to me with a new girl. It really got me down. Then the next night I went back to my other plate and everything worked fine. The other posters are right. Focus on yourself and not your performance, and pick up some meds to help with the first encounter until you regain your mindfulness/confidence
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:39 PM
6

Time mostly. Being redpill aware in my relationships. Constantly trying to implement redpill ideals into my life. Pushing myself to improve (lifting, appraising, etc). You can't expect to change overnight, which is both freeing and disappointing. Always be improving. Always be pushing past yesterday's limits. Always be lifting.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:39 PM
9

You can, but it is not easy and requires consistent deliberate effort.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:42 PM
17

An obvious bluepiled hobby would be playing WOW in your basement all night (no face to face interaction, no physical benefit, encourages isolation, doesn't make you grow as a man).
/r/askTRP25/05/19 04:20 PM
2

Not related to your specific question, but a book you definitely should read is Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:25 PM
1

This is good stuff. I hope you expand on this concept and post it to the main sub.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:40 AM
3

Amazing stats. How do they avoid paying support?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 12:09 PM
2

Thank you for spelling that out. I learned a lot from this.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:38 PM
7

Did you just swipe right on EVERYONE?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:22 PM
7

I'm not sure what to think of that guy. Some of his stuff is at odds with Rollo, Roosh, and others in the redpill community.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 10:20 PM
57

And what percentage of that 1% is taller than 6 feet? LOL Edit: spelling
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/19 04:47 PM
1

Is it really?
/r/askTRP13/05/19 09:18 PM
1

Yes. I broke up with her after 3 years. She kept breaking a boundary. While it ended amicably, I haven't heard from her since.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 01:27 PM
3

Actually your example comports with Rollo's definition, because they have no control (boss is riding them) thus no power.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 01:20 PM
2

Based on the nature of your question, I assume you haven't read, "Sex God Method." Go read it. The book covers this topic and explains why it so important to be verbal during sex, among many other things.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 04:00 PM
2

I thought posts on this sub had to be a question
/r/askTRP12/05/19 03:57 PM
1

Is this an apple thing?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:48 PM
2

Perfect. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:29 PM
1

Awesome. I appreciate your advice.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:26 PM
9

Obviously you're going through a tough time. I'm sure it's very hard for you. Do whatever you need to do to get through this, except leaning on your girlfriend for support. I know she wants you to tell her everything and open up to her. I'm sure she honestly believes that's the right and true thing for a good relationship, but her hindbrain will think you're a pussy and hate you if you do. You need some good guy friends to lean on and support you. Guys will give you a hard time, like many on her…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:43 AM
6

I haven't followed your OYS posts. We've got a lot of tools in our RP toolbox for dealing with this. I assume you're well versed in them (amused mastery, she amplify, fogging)? You chuckling is a good sign you understand she's the oldest teenager in the house. Do you have an exit plan? At what point is all of this not worth it?
/r/askMRP09/05/19 01:54 PM
2

You're exactly right. Although, I do find it ironic that a funny line actually requires a lot more investment and thought than just saying hi.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:56 PM
5

A king doesn't need to declare himself a king.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:10 PM
23

I just read study about yet another chemical affecting testosterone, suntan lotion.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 01:07 AM
29

Now that I figured out how to use the apps, I'm overwhelmed with matches. I don't have enough time to see everyone I match.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 01:04 AM
2

That's why LTR is redpill on hard mode. I broke up with my 3yr LTR because I got sick of her giving me shit. Eventually, in some circumstances, it's just better to find a new one.
/r/askMRP07/05/19 09:30 PM
13

That's fucked up. It really sucks that you (any man) can't relax. You've got to game women your entire life. It never ends.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 09:16 PM
2

I guess it worked. LOL
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:12 PM
2

Be aware of who's frame you're in. I don't you really want to stop and talk to the guy, meaning you're in her frame when you do. I'm sure you'd rather keep walking and ignore the guy, which is what you should do. This will cause her to either stop and talk to him (his frame) or run to catch up to you (your frame). Either way, dngaf.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:34 PM
10

Citrulline Maleate is the better supplement in this case.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:29 PM
1

The only time meeting an ex would not be a red flag, would be when the woman was previously married and has children with her ex, and she needs to meet and discuss co-parenting details or child support. That being said, it's not a good thing either. Consequently, I would not recommend you date women in that situation, if possible. I'm older so there's a large number of women in my age group in that situation, that I now know to avoid.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 04:44 PM
5

If you're going to use an acronym in your post, please define it.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:19 AM
4

Avoid the Smith machine
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:40 PM
20

I enjoy watching the video interviews of new church members where they tell their stories of debauchery and how the church saves them. The church is yet another safety net for women when they're done riding the cc in their youth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 10:36 PM
3

I'm not sure why you're focusing on Christian women. Your post applied to ALL women. AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/19 09:40 PM
3

Great question
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:27 PM
3

This sounds completely unintuitive and backwards, but it's absolutely true.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:04 PM
18

Holy shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 07:03 PM
46

I just broke up with a woman who had 3 children with her ex-husband. She's doing just fine collecting those extra large child support payments.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 12:53 PM
7

If you like those example responses, you should read "When I say no I feel guilty." It's a great book and often applicable here.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:09 PM
2

There are some excellent guides on here if you search for them
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:43 PM
1

Good for you! Focus on you, not them, and you'll do well.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:58 PM
1

You're playing with fire (oneitits). Dial it back as best you can and read everything you can about extinguishing that lack of abundance mindset. Get back out in the field as quick as you can to game other chicks. Going right back into another relationship will end badly for you.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:05 PM
2

I signed up with Defy to get my testosterone checked out. I'm 42 and started noticing some things I didn't like. Turns out my testosterone is ok but some other things need tweaked.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 01:03 PM
1

Does this only apply to plates? What about ex-LTR? Does it matter if I broke up with her vs she breaking up with me?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:26 PM
5

This a gold mine. Perfect advice.
/r/askMRP30/04/19 06:12 PM
2

Men always want more sex (until you get bored of her pussy). Women always want more commitment (until she successfully betatizes you). If you're in an LTR with a woman and still married to a different woman, she'll won't be able to deal with the anxiety and will constantly push for you to divorce your wife.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:22 PM
7

You need an abundance mentality. I don't see a need to shove your status in their face, but any desire you have to hide that info shows a lack of abundance. I know you want to get out there and find fresh pussy right away, but if I could give you advice, I would suggest you really learn and understand the redpill and game before you start dating. I didn't know anything and immediately got into an LTR after leaving my ex-wife, before plating any girls. So I made a lot of mistakes that could have …
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:28 PM
3

I'd say it depends. If you're using OLD, you can put that on your profile. If you're approaching IRL, I would let it come up naturally in the course of the conversation. I highly doubt you'd get very far in the conversation with a girl you're trying to pickup without your current status coming up.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:13 PM
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I started dating 2 weeks after deciding to get a divorce. I moved out of the marital home 2 months later and was finally divorced 10 months later. If the girl is really into you, your marital status won't matter. However it will become an issue if you want to get into an LTR.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 04:02 PM
3

If you were to enter that relationship again, from the start, what would you do differently? I had a relationship that I just ended with a liberal. I always kept my conversative politics to myself except when she would start an argument. I'd destroy her reasoning then she'd start throwing insults and I'd leave. Later she'd apologize. After the third time, I broke up with her. Now I wonder if I had been more forthright with my views, if I could have changed her.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 02:03 PM
2

Thanks for explaining
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:06 AM
0

Maybe I'm wrong, but I was thinking that movements in front of the face and chest were blocking behaviors.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:03 AM
9

I never would have believed a word of what you're saying until I started lifting. Now I completely agree. Now I realize how much work and discipline it takes to lift those weights. Now I see other "men" who don't lift with disdain.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 03:12 AM
2

Ok. I'm just wondering if there's a good way to estimate if you're in the top 10-15%, as it relates to the discussion of online dating.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 06:50 PM
3

How do you know if you're in the top 10-15%?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 05:58 PM
1

Follow the advice given by other users and trust me, it's much better that you've found out now rather than finding TRP at 45 after you're special one has divorced you, took your children and at least half of your assets while you just stay at home wondering what you did wrong. Exactly what happened to me. So I have little simpathy for the young 20 something's complaining about their life being over.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:31 PM
4

You can't rush butt stuff. Since you're a newb with anal, you need to take it slow. I highly recommend you check out the book, Sex God Method, as there is a chapter that addresses your question.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:56 PM
3

One thing I've realized is that your success (meeting up with the girl) depends obviously on your smv and hers, but also what she's looking for. I don't know your age or the ages of the girls you're trying to match, but their age will play a big role in how best to interact and game them. You can likely rush the interaction with a young girl in her party years but have to take it slower with girls closer to or past the wall. The following link may help improve and tailor your game. https://heart…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:54 AM
3

Ok. You're referring to older in terms of peak smv. Rollo Tomassi has a graph comparing real smv over a lifetime. Men peak around 37, so if you're younger than that, your observation makes sense.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:40 PM
12

Replace "older" with "better"
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:34 PM
1

For me it happened slowly at first. Like most here, I started really bluepill and over the last 3 years internalized the redpill by lifting and improving myself. My eyes started to open and I saw how the world actually worked and that I was (becoming) a Man. I continued growing and eventually broke up with my LTR because I realized I wasn't living my life how I wanted or according to my mission. I also realized I could do better. Now I'm dating/hooking up with better women than I ever thought po…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:33 PM
1

I've read both Models and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. I've not decided I don't like Mark Manson's increasingly mainstream message. There's enough that goes against TRP that I think you're better off choosing other books. For example, Roosh V's new book called Game is much better and comports with TRP much more than Models and is more comprehensive in helping you improve your game.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:02 AM
1

Eww
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:53 PM
4

That's very true. OP should not despair though. Every man should always be improving, until they're dead.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 08:16 PM
30

Extradition over child support? For fuck's sake
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 07:07 PM
21

Right. But in my question, he would be in a different country. What then? I'm just curious. I have to pay child support myself, which sucks, but having to pay for another man's kids...
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 05:52 PM
37

What would happen if the guy just up and left to another country?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 05:12 PM
1

A man is disciplined. You are neither
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:13 PM
1

Do wife#2 want their own kids or are they happy with the man's kids? I'm assuming the former, but curious what you think
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:54 AM
13

You determine what is acceptable to you in the relationship. Consequently, you have to be willing to walk away if they don't deliver.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:48 AM
1

3 years into my LTR, while the sex was still great, she started more arguments and dropped increasing hints about marriage. So I knew it was time to eject.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:25 PM
2

I saw the movie. I know books are always better, but I'd never want to relive that story. Fuck
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:49 PM
1

I dated a speech therapist. OP definitely needs to see one.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:47 PM
2

Best bet is to approach girls IRL. If you still really want to use apps, there are some good guides on here if you search for them. Personally I have better luck with Bumble and paying for the subscription. I don't bother swiping, instead just wait for girl to like me. Because I have a paid account, I can see who liked me and like them back if they're hot. Since it's bumble, the girl has to initiate the chat. Even after all that, getting a date is still only like 1%. So again, approaching is bet…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:49 PM
1

If you're having that much success on apps, and you still want more, I think you're not focusing on your mission. Fuck around in college, but don't fuck around too much. That's a lot of money on the line. In any event, I'm reading a new book by Roosh V, called Game. I think it's decent and answers the questions you're asking.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:15 AM
2

Is this a joke?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:11 AM
133

Sounds exactly like what happened to me, which ended up being the best thing for me. Now I'm free to date hotter/younger and my ex-wife is miserable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 12:27 AM
7

If OP is caring this much about his plates, his mission is suffering.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:16 PM
17

I think "confidence" works better than "arrogance" in your statement. Regarding the OP, arrogance is often associated with confidence, but arrogance without confidence is really irritating.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:14 PM
20

After thinking about this for a minute, you're absolutely right. I find a submissive man repulsive and irritating.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:12 PM
3

Head over to the \r\Testosterone Lots of smart guys over there will help you
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:49 PM
2

Spot on diagnosis
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:42 PM
1

I found heartburn and certain cold medications to also cause ED
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:29 PM
2

If you watch porn, there's your problem. Quit it. Otherwise, check out the testosterone sub. A surprising and increasing number of young men are finding their levels are lower than expected. Personally, I just found out I have elevated Prolactin levels. I noticed that the more sex I had, the harder it was to keep it up.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:27 PM
3

Have you checked out married redpill? They also have their own askmrp sub. I think you might do better over there with implementing what you learn here. If you try to start doing what you read here, your wife who is expecting her dependable beta will give you heaps of shit because you're changing too fast. It won't be pleasant for you. It's better to slowly implement the redpill if you're married or in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 12:11 PM
3

Amen
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:19 PM
1

I have my shit together (job, mission, lifting, etc). I'm just looking to get into day game, after being in long term relationships my whole life.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:18 PM
1

Simple advice is the best advice. I tend to overthink. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 03:16 PM
1

Sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal, which is the fastest way for you to show low value. She's just like any other girl and will kick you to the curb as soon as you fuck up. YOU are the prize. If you don't know that, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:02 PM
1

What about when YOU dump her?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:49 PM
1

Maybe you could. I don't know...
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:02 AM
2

You can insult me, but if you insult my family, you've crossed my boundary and I leave.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:31 AM
1

I've had issues getting it up too. Part of it was mental, while other parts medication (cold meds and heartburn meds). I had times when it just wouldn't work and I hated myself for it. Eventually, following advice from here, I was able to get out of my head and just let things happen. When you're giving her head, don't worry about your dick. Stop thinking ahead (to fucking her) and worrying about whether you'll get it up. Concentrate on what you're doing and focus on enjoying it. Start assuming …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:16 PM
1

Before my first daughter was born, I had zero connection or feelings towards the lump in my ex-wife's belly, but once she was born, it was like something activated inside me and I was instinctively connected to her now. That's me, but I know of guys that have zero connection to their kids.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:52 AM
2

Does the term "tinder chick" only apply to tinder or also to other apps (eg. Bumble)?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:33 AM
3

This. All women lie about their past. AWALT
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:20 PM
1

I'm not OP, but this is really helpful info. When tracking your encounters, does it matter what the rejections are?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:45 PM
1

Great stuff here
/r/askTRP05/04/19 01:57 PM
6

Does this data suggest that, generally speaking, black men are more "alpha"? I agree that the data comports with your assessment that the men in this study have a superior genetic strategy, but I'm not sure what else to take from it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 01:48 PM
2

Don't pay for her. That's a huge BB signal. If you're hot enough, she'll gladly buy YOU drinks.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:05 PM
2

Don't work through pain when lifting. If you're feeling pain, you're most likely doing something wrong. Proper form is critical.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:19 PM
7

https://youtu.be/S_93yIKub98 Athlean X is what you want to look into. This video will explain what's wrong with your elbow, but there are at least 4 additional videos that Jeff has regarding your issue. I suspect you're contracting your fist/wrist towards you at the top of the curl, when you should be keeping your fist straight throughout the exercise. I have the exact same pain (golfers elbow) from doing bicep curls and pullups incorrectly. Part of my problem is that I'm 42 and my tendons are l…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:41 PM
2

I think you can only get so far on a Bowflex. While it's better than nothing, I seriously recommend you join a gym with some free weights. Lifting heavy weights is only way to get what you (and all of us) really want.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:20 PM
1

What are your lifts? I'm not so sure about your BF unless you can actually move some serious weight.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:01 PM
2

I believe an ultimatum comes from a position of powerlessness. A person would issue an ultimatum if they want something but can't get on their own. Here's a "Nice Guy" example, "If you don't have sex with me, I won't do the dishes." The nice guy here has no power over the girl and is at her mercy.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:59 PM
2

There's a big difference between a boundary and an ultimatum. YOU control your boundary.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:41 PM
1

This question came up in my last LTR pre-trp. I regret talking about it. I don't know why girls ask. It's not like they're truthful in their answers.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:27 PM
1

I broke up with my 3 year LTR over text, then in person a couple days later when I picked up my stuff. However there's a huge caveat that was very situational for me. If you can, I think it would be better in person.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:41 PM
2

Dude that's over an hour long. What was it from that link that you think applies here?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:37 PM
2

Is this the first time you're considering breaking up? If you feel like you're very invested in her, it will be easier if you've been thinking about breaking up for a while before pulling the trigger. Regardless, breaking up sucks. It will be hard, awkward and painful, but it is what it is. I just broke up with my LTR of 3 years last week. I'm still feeling it, but it's for the best, as it is for you, I'm sure.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:44 PM
5

Came here to say something similar. OP Will crash and burn on so little calories and trying to lift. I think the accepted standard for sustainable weightloss while lifting is like 1-1.5 lbs per week. I'd suggest something more like 2000 calories per day. However, there are calculators available online to determine the exact amount (TDEE).
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:23 PM
22

First, read the sidebar man. Ignore what women say. It's their actions you need to watch. Women are Chaos to our Order. She thinks she wants you emotional to connect to you, but her pussy wants you strong as a fucking rock in a storm.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:29 PM
31

Why are you listening to anything that comes out of her mouth? This is basic stuff.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:24 PM
1

I meant treat, not test
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:12 PM
2

Hard next
/r/askMRP29/03/19 05:05 PM
3

They're not thinking, they're feeling.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:31 AM
9

Your question would quickly be answered by reading the sidebar... Women treat alphas like gods and betas like trash. Beta > woman > alpha. Whatever chick you're thinking of, would do ANYTHING for Chad, while a beta would do anything for that chick. Edit: changed test to treat
/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:19 AM
2

Skittles
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:21 PM
1

I don't recall the name, but the relevant "law" started that 20% of men fuck 80% of women. Alpha fucks beta bucks
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:50 PM
1

Ok cool
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:37 PM
1

I'm not sure that's accurate
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:31 PM
1

"it's not about the nail", have you seen that video on YouTube? Girls don't want you to solve their issues. She just wants you to listen while she mentally masturbates as she relives the emotions of the day (I'm totally serious). Once I learned that women love all emotions, [including] the bad ones, everything started failing into place. I read somewhere that women get a high of sorts just by talking, which totally solved it for me why they talk so much.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:21 AM
2

We're on opposite ends of the political spectrum, which is fine, but she started saying shit about my family, which is unacceptable to me. She said I was sneaky and shady for investigating my ex-wife, who I found out recently got married, but was still collecting my alimony payments (stealing from me). She accused me of keeping secrets, which I don't. I'm just not an open book.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:28 PM
1

Your commitment shouldn't be like shares in a company she just bought and now owns. Everyday she has to earn your commitment, otherwise what is given freely has no value.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:20 AM
6

That awkward conversation happened last year. It caused some drama, but she stuck around despite me dismissing any notion of marriage. Not long after your first fuck, things just slowly but steadily decline. You can fight it, but you can't stop it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 03:19 AM
8

I have a similar situation as yours, but I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. It's been wonderful but slowly, ever so slowly, she's giving more shit and I think it's time to move on.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 11:53 PM
1

Haha. Yeah. Hey, btw, I had my brother listen to your entire series on YouTube. Very well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/19 12:38 AM
1

Thank you. That's exactly what I was looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 07:45 PM
2

The most action from the most experienced anyway... Hey, I was just looking for a simplified definition. I've read the story on the sidebar. I've seen different people use the term in different ways...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 07:25 PM
1

I have. I was just looking for a definition, like SMV means "sexual market place".
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 07:14 PM
2

Stroke it too while you're at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 06:58 PM
1

What does "main event" mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 06:03 PM
2

What do you consider "kinky stuff"?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 03:04 PM
1

Amen brother! If that's your honest attitude, then welcome aboard.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:18 PM
3

Look, TRP isn't a place where everyone gathers around you with group hugs and prayer blankets. Becoming a man is chiseling yourself out of the stove you have. Some guys have gorgeous marble to work with and others have volcanic rock. The point is that some have it better or worse than us, but the measure of a man is what he does with what he has. If you're willing to put in the work, we'll help you, but if you're giving up before you've even started, don't waste our time (or yours). Cheers
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:15 PM
3

Fuck off loser. I didn't swallow the redpill until I was 40, after my shitty wife had an affair. Now I'm fitter and stronger than guys your age, because I am the prize!
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:06 PM
1

What the hell op. You come on here telling us how much of a beta pussy you are (with examples), then respond to great advice saying you're alpha af and can get any girl you want. Check the ego and listen to the wisdom you're given.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:21 PM
1

As am I. Since swallowing the redpill, I've worked on improving my SMV and game, and now I can really feel that SMV disparity with my LTR. For now, I'm just riding the wave, having fun, until it's no longer my turn... Although I may have to make a final decision on the near future.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 03:18 PM
1

If TRP is amoral, why the downvotes?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 02:51 PM
7

My guess is the book was "Models"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 10:38 PM
1

I did that with my current LTR before I swallowed the pill. We were both hot for each other, so it didn't hurt anything. Still, I'd do things differently if I could do it over again.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:30 PM
1

Who broke up with whom?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:08 AM
1

Why don't you think it's ADHD? Have you seen someone about it? If you can't finish a book, why rule out getting checked?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:16 PM
1

What happens when an alpha widow finds a bigger alpha? Besides the fact that she's hit the lottery... Be the bigger alpha
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:11 PM
1

This is a great explanation
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:25 AM
10

That's right. I don't know how old you are but assume you've lived amongst blue pill teaching most of your life. It can be challenging to undo all of that brainwashing, depending on what your friends and family are like. Keep reading the sidebar. It will eventually click. If it doesn't, try harder.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:29 PM
3

You are the prize. If she were out with Brad Pitt, do you think she'd give a fuck what some random dude days to her? She's with Brad Pitt! And do you think Brad Pitt would care? He's Brad Pitt!
/r/askTRP13/01/19 06:05 PM
1

Just curious. Do you have a sister or first cousin in that she range? Do they all smell like old ladies, as you describe?
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:31 AM
1

I think I might be in a similar situation. I've been with my LTR 3 years now with NO intention of marriage, which I know she wants. Would you mind describing how you broke up with your LTR? I assume you just didn't ghost her.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:06 PM
1

Keyword is "potential". He had a long way to go before his game/frame are at peak.
/r/askMRP22/12/18 04:40 PM
7

I think blue pill and low T are synonymous
/r/askMRP21/12/18 05:06 AM
3

He better find out!
/r/askMRP21/12/18 04:56 AM
2

Fair enough. I was just curious
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:19 AM
12

What does "successful dating" mean?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 01:33 PM
18

She posed with the whitest looking kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 01:18 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2012/10/02/up-the-alpha/
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:44 AM
1

For a better relationship, learn game. For better sex, learn Sex God Method. The only thing that this research shows is that your offspring would likely fair better against disease... and your girl would love smelling you.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:49 AM
2

The science behind smell and attraction is grounded in generic diversity and actually pretty fascinating. The idea is that the more dissimilar a male and female are, the better they're offspring will be at fighting of disease. The opposite is well established as being prone to disease, think first-cousins or siblings having babies. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major_histocompatibility_complex_and_sexual_selection
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:07 PM
1

My guess is your girl is kind of smart and thinks she likes talking about those things. If you want to fuck her, don't talk; if you want to be her friend/orbiter, talk. Those types of conversations are best had with men.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:59 PM
4

https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/02/alpha-tells/ https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/11/beta-tells/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2018/02/27/mate-guarding-degrees-of-alphaness/
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:54 PM
1

OP doesn't deserve this amazing in-depth analysis
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:32 PM
1

Why is it a red flag if a woman initiates the "relationship"? Does that only mean asking for exclusivity, or is it also a red flag if a woman approaches you?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:59 PM
1

It's never too late
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:53 PM
1

Need more context. Do you live with her? Did you leave after telling her you wanted to break up (soft next)? If you hung around after telling her you wanted to break up, you have more problems than just breaking frame. Now she knows that your actions don't follow your words. She knows that you're the one being clingy and needy (otherwise you would have left/broke up with her). You need to figure out some things out for yourself and learn more. Are you lifting? Reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 03:49 PM
10

"push rope" I've never heard that before. Haha l
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:27 PM
14

More often than not, if you "win" an argument with a woman, she won't acknowledge that you've vested her, instead she'll just start insulting you. No amount of logic or tactics will ever overcome feelings.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 02:25 PM
9

The rationale male, blog and books Chateau Heaetiste blog You seem like a wise man, don't forget to enjoy your LTR. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in frame, game, etc that I forget why I'm in an LTR.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:37 AM
2

Not enough dread. You're down to your pre-marriage weight but what does that mean? What are your lifts? BF? Does she notice other women looking at you with fuck me eyes? Does she worry you're going to find some hot skinny chick at the gym? Up the dread and the weight will go down.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/18 04:28 AM
1

Sounds like you already know the answer.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 04:24 AM
1

Sounds like there's a couple questions here. First about her cumming. That's her responsibility. You can do everything right, but that's only half of it, the other half is on her. I can make my GF cum from fucking, but not all the time. I've come to the conclusion that her cumming is due to how much she wants it (sometimes she just really wants me to cum) and if she's in the right position/doing some of the work. I know there are 2 positions that will make her cum and a certain action she needs …
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:47 PM
7

It's only spying (insecurity) if he finds nothing. Since he found something, it's all justified.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:18 PM
2

You are the prize
/r/askTRP14/12/18 03:03 PM
3

Thanks for the edit
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:43 PM
7

Read "Sex god method" and all your questions and more will be answered. Edit: changed "good" to "god"
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:35 PM
5

Pronebone
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:33 PM
3

I really enjoyed reading this thread as I'm introverted as well. I wish I could change it...
/r/askTRP13/12/18 02:44 PM
1

If you cheat, own it. Take it to your grave and never admit it. Lots of material on here about guys who felt guilty afterwards and admitted it to get it off their chest, to their detriment.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:34 PM
4

You mean, "Intimidated"
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:29 PM
2

This is the right answer. She'll respect you if you show you don't care what she thinks, otherwise she'll think your just supplicating like all the other nice guys.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:26 PM
0

Don't argue with women
/r/askTRP13/12/18 12:09 PM
0

Lift! like your life depends on it
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:05 AM
9

Game is game, just like AWALT. However, you're going to have a harder time than extroverts. The issue you'll run into is your heavy reliance on logic and introspection (over analysing), which are 2 things girls don't do. You'll have to learn power talk or covert language when you're flirting (overt or logical language is boring/not as fun). Moreover, you'll need to learn to be "in the moment", because if you're in your head all of the time, you won't be quick enough to use good game (ie. Amused …
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:48 PM
2

Nice
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:44 PM
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In the US, it doesn't matter if she cheated or not. The guy is fucked in a divorce. Edit: Adding a little more info. While it depends on the state you were married in, cheating will only save you about 40% off spousal support, and won't change child support at all. Plus it's nearly impossible to prove cheating unless you actually have photos of the act. Divorce is so pro-women, it's disgusting.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:43 PM
1

You should be too busy being awesome to answer everyone of her texts. Also, listen to the other comments about your frame. She found your weakness and is poking at it. It's obviously a real weakness for you else you wouldn't be posting about it. You need to overcome this hole in your armor or she'll find someone stronger.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:13 PM
1

Find a linear weight lifting program (eg. Strongest 5x5) until you stop making progress, then switch to something like 5/3/1.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 10:02 PM
1

Once you start losing that interest, you'll wish you had it back in a hurry
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:01 AM
1

In my experience, as unintuitive as it sounds, they'll take care of creating emotions themselves. You don't need to worry about that. However what is important for you is to be a women's rock. She is chaos and you are order. She knows her emotions are "crazy" and will look for a man that can weather the storm of her emotions. You don't need to be more emotional. You need to STFU and be her rock.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:13 PM
53

The other guy doesn't have to be more alpha or better in any way, he just has to be different.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 05:51 PM
1

She "loves you more than anything" RIGHT NOW. Get in the habit of adding "right now" to everything she says about her feelings. Girls only speak in terms of what they feel and only in the present. AWALT. Read more about this from illimitablemen.com
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:16 PM
9

If you're asking her, you're doing it wrong
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:11 PM
5

When you're with a girl who treats you right, a voice in your mind tries to convince you she's a unicorn, which is why what you're saying is always necessary to remember!
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:59 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. We're all trying to improve ourselves and each other. Similarly, I'm struggling with self pity. I was bluepilled until I was 39 when my ex-wife cheated on me. I divorced her and got redpilled. My problem is that I think about all those wasted years! It's too easy for me to dwell on the past. I'm trying to focus on lifting and improving myself, but I think I need to find a more clinical solution.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:22 PM
5

beneficial scars I like that. That's very helpful advice. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:21 AM
5

What is "cleaning an account" and why should I do it?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 08:41 PM
4

You're probably just not recognizing their IOIs. Read up on body language.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:28 PM
2

Thanks for the backup link. I'm reading it now and it's exactly what I've been looking for. If this is one of the top 3 posts, what are the other 2? Maybe I've missed those too.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:51 PM
4

Agreed. I have never seen that post (Always DARE never DEER) before. Thanks for referring me to it!
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:05 PM
3

Also, less boys become men these days
/r/askTRP05/11/18 10:09 PM
12

I don't "shrug" enough. Always good to add another tool to the toolbox.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:22 PM
2

LOL. She'll be on another guy's dick so fast your head will spin.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:03 PM
8

Agreed, but I don't see how companies can come back from this slippery slope.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 01:37 PM
1

No, the consensus is to be WILLING to leave an LTR. Girls are the gatekeepers of sex, while we're the gatekeepers of commitment. That's the ONLY thing we can really control in a relationship (plates, LTR, marriage). You must always be willing to leave the relationship, otherwise she has all the power and your relationship will suck.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:29 PM
3

Is "not engaging" just amused mastery/agree and amplify? What if she buys books for the 2 of you to read together? This already happened to me. I just ignored the topic and she eventually dropped it, but I feel like I could have handled it better.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 01:12 PM
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Unless she knows he was actually diagnosed with BPD, I would just assume that's her way of hamstering why he acts that way.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:13 PM
1

That was great. Thanks
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:32 PM
4

It's cool that you feel empathy for the guy, but the only way to successfully impart RP wisdom to him is to have her cheat on him, because he can't see any RP truth while he's got BP goggles on.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:09 PM
4

That suggests they're finding girls that are genetically similar. In other words, don't fuck your cousins. LOL
/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:46 PM
13

If you really are going through the various stages of swallowing the redpill, then you're going to start developing a greater sense of abundance mentality, and with that is the realization that you can do better. When you realize you can do better, you start looking around at other options and comparing those options to what you have. So, not only are you seeing that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but you can actually get those options if you chose to.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 08:35 PM
1

Just found this post a little late. With that whole MeToo-Ford-Kavanaugh thing, I'm hoping you're not just going to ignore the accusation against you. Did you end up seeing a lawyer?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:57 PM
1

You're going too fast, Rambo. How exactly was she pissy? My guess is that she gave you a comfort test and you failed horribly. While AWALT, I think the older a woman gets the more insecure she gets (less abundance mentality due to her worsening appearance). So you're trying young woman game and it's too much for her. What exactly do you want? Do you want your marriage to continue or do you want a divorce? If you want your marriage to continue I think you need to clearly tell your wife that. I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 09:46 PM
2

Up the alpha. Kill the beta.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:28 PM
8

Im 42 and fell in love with my current LTR. We've been together about 3 years now. I was "in love" for about a year and half, and realize it was just the dopamine high of limerence. Honestly it felt amazing (dopamine) and can see why people get addicted to falling in love. During that time I had oneitis and was very concerned about how to get out of it. Once the dopamine high wore off, the oneitis wore off too.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:42 AM
1

You can only deviate so far from your most inherent traits. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. The more I learn about the redpill, the more it seems I'll never be an Alpha, spinning ample plates, etc. I'm not the pathetic beta I used to be, but I just wonder if there's a limit to how much I can change. I'd seriously love to read Moore about this if you have any suggestions.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 09:20 PM
2

Details man
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:26 PM
1

Curious what you consider "freakiest/kinkiest"?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:33 PM
1

No difference
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:42 PM
1

Fix your frame, then switch to Android.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 12:55 AM
3

Plan to leave her. Go ahead and mentally commit. You're done with that marriage and with her. As of right now, it's over. Begin immediately improving yourself. Read the sidebar (all of it). Become the hottest, manliest MF you possibly can. LIFT!!! She'll eventually do a 180, but recall #1. Learn game and how to pick up women. Game your wife in order to learn the concepts, but recall #1. Talk to a divorce lawyer and begin the steps to Divine. Note, this can be step 2, I don't care. Get your life …
/r/askMRP24/09/18 11:14 PM
0

Only 17,000 cases? I thought HPV had a bigger impact...
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:56 PM
11

Imagine you had life on easy mode, all the attention and drama (because girls love emotions, good or bad) you could want, Then one day all that goodness happened less and less until one day it all stops. No notices you anymore, life is hard, and no one cares (gives you drama/emotions). You'd be bitter too.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:59 PM
1

No matter how long I'm on here or how many times I read similar comments, this truth always impacts me. So true.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:51 PM
2

You know the answer! Great job, now pick a lifting program, get your macros in order and go!
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:21 PM
4

Don't do the long distance thing. There's so much content regarding this blue pill dream, I won't repeat it. There's so many other girls out there that you could be with instead of your monitor.
/r/RPChristians01/08/18 10:06 PM
2

If you want commitment/LTR then get one, but don't compromise. Find the hottest HB you can find with no red flags, because AWALT. Be the best (RP) man you can be and she'll stick around (until someone better comes along). I think you are still struggling to really accept AWALT. Do whatever you need to do to "get it" and you'll be better off.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:01 PM
2

Really like your metaphor. How do you let her know she's fucking up? Just wondering if you tell her directly, or indirectly. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:05 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:19 AM
5

This is so true! So the higher you climb, they tag along and readjust their expectations, but they also can't help but look around and see all the other chumps that are beneath their now higher smv man. Passive dread
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:58 PM
1

Thanks. I'm curious if you were you once an "introvert", and now you've evolved into an "extrovert"?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:36 PM
1

Appreciate your point of view on this. Have you read anything regarding your comment, or have more info I could use to follow your advice?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:03 PM
0

This
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:01 PM
1

Have you read the rationale male and illimitable man? They have lots of this theory stuff.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:33 PM
3

What are your lifts?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:28 AM
6

Just walk away. Don't "talk" any more than to say "good bye"
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:10 AM
7

Faggot
/r/askMRP22/06/18 01:05 AM
1

Haha. Thanks.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 03:56 PM
1

HOW did you break up with her? I'm curious because I might be in a similar situation.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:12 PM
11

I think your pecks are hiding your question, because I don't see one
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:45 PM
1

When she's not on Facebook, she's always DTF (thank you TRP) and sweet. However when she's on Facebook, I'd rather walk away...
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:25 PM
1

Thanks for explanation. This is helpful. It's there any issue you won't do this with? The current issue for her is the kids being separated from their parents. I don't think I'm tactful/wity enough to touch that.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 09:18 PM
1

I've been doing the same thing for about 15 years! I recently had an eye exam where I told the doctor this, so she brought out some machine to check the health of my eyes. She was so indignant that my eyes were totally healthy! I couldn't help but laugh.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:15 PM
1

That's really interesting! Serious question - When TRP mentions BJs as the metric of attraction, does that have to mean BJ+ejaculation (no sex), or is BJ+sex+ejaculation equivalent?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:24 PM
5

Just curious what the sex is like? Are you getting the dirty whore sex from her you really want? If you are, great! Enjoy the ride. If not, next her immediately.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:30 AM
2

I honestly don't give a shit what my body fat percentage is as long as I look good without my shirt on and I'm healthy. Sorry to break it to you, but that means you do care about your BF%, which you absolutely should. I think you keep saying you don't care for the plausible deniability. Sure, you need to own your goals. If you want to be a hawt fucker without your shirt on, own it! Research the fuck out of diet/cutting plans and lift heavy (again). There are lots of posts here about exactly that…
/r/askMRP19/05/18 11:49 AM
13

Don't listen to what women say, instead listen to their actions.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 12:14 AM
1

Oh, you mean she found you, not some other guy, right?
/r/askMRP18/05/18 10:10 PM
1

Wait, she cheated on you?
/r/askMRP18/05/18 08:44 PM
1

I tried individual supplements, not an all in one booster. I tried all supplements recommended on various testosterone website and read as much as could. I had my T tested and again 6 months later and only raised it by 10. Since then, I stopped taking everything except a multivitamin, fish oil, creatine, and citrulline malate. The biggest and most effective thing you can do for yourself is lift.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:33 PM
3

Why do you think you're BB? Because she won't swallow? Just looking for extra info. Also there's no way you're 16%bf. What method are you using to check that?
/r/askMRP18/05/18 08:27 PM
1

Taking back control of your life isn't breaking frame. You don't have to give a detailed or itemized list of reasons for breaking up. Just do it. If you want to say something, say you don't feel like you're compatible or something. Don't justify, defend, or explain why you're breaking up. If you do, then you are breaking frame and that gives her an opportunity to argue. She's totally using you (BB) while riding her ex's dick (AF). I wish you could see that. I hope you eventually understand what'…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 12:03 PM
1

Wow. That article was great! It answered all of my questions and now I know what to do. Many thanks!
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:11 PM
2

Just don't admit that to any girls
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:34 PM
1

When did "can" become a euphemism for fuck? Is this a millennial thing? When I was your age, getting "canned" meant you got fired from your job.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:08 PM
1

Hey that was an interesting article. I wish there was more info on what to do instead of bulking. I'm cutting presently, losing about 2lbs per week. When I'm ready to start gaining weight (muscle), what should I do instead of bulking?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:04 PM
1

You're exactly right, it is happening more frequently, as she (unconsciously) intends. http://www.personalpowermeditation.com/forum/social-dynamics/the-betaization-process/
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:59 PM
1

I think you're underestimating yours, if everything in your post is accurate. She's very attracted to you (at the moment) and overlooks your infections as a result. When I first swallowed the pill it took me a while before I understood what my actually SMV was and what value I can bring. If you two are actually about the same, expect her to ditch you asap.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:49 PM
5

How long have you been with your LTR?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 09:59 PM
1

Wow. That really sucks to be in that situation. Use text messages, voicemail, or any kind of message to document your disagreement with her actions. Start keeping those looks immediately. If you wait around to determine what you need and haven't done any correspondence with your ex, then it will look like you're ok with what she's doing.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:20 PM
1

Don't you have a legal custody agreement in place? Are you saying your ex is disregarding your rights to your child? If that's the case and she's leaving the area when it's your time to see your child, it's unlawful if not possible kidnapping...
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:01 PM
1

Why are you messing with resistance bands? The best answer is to get into the gym and use weights. Bands can't compare to pushing heavy weights for strength and size gains.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:01 PM
2

CICO. Im cutting now, so i always have 2 eggs and bacon for breakfast. 3 service of whey powder throughout the day. Lunch and dinner is usually chicken, steak or salmon with a veggie. I fit carbs as needed to fill my macros. So far it's been very sustainable and I'm seeing weight loss. I can't wait to get back to maintenance/bulking though.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:09 PM
2

41 here. So thankful I learned even learned it. Thanks to TRP
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:23 PM
1

This post really got me thinking. I had been bulking and making fair gains, but since reading this, I decided to cut. Thanks!!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 09:03 PM
12

What was your Test before you started TRT?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:17 PM
3

What lifting program are you doing? As you doing the same program now as when you started?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:22 AM
3

I just read that thread mystery man. I need to rethink how much I text my LTR.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:57 PM
1

You sound upset that some men don't Just Get It
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:45 PM
1

No, it just means they know you well enough to determine a change in behavior. My daughters will say this to me sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:21 PM
1

Lift like your life depends upon it, because it does.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:39 AM
1

It sucks that you're having issues with your wife after all that time. Women don't appreciate what you've done for them so don't expect her to "owe" you because of how much you've helped her. They incident with the boyfriend from years ago reminds me of "5 min of alpha" (look it up). You're on the right path by being here and improving yourself. Keep it and contribute more here.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:58 PM
6

What's the question?
/r/askMRP09/04/18 11:16 AM
1

The point is to give her only sexual attention, until she's extremely invested in you. How does this change AFTER she's invested in you?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:16 PM
1

I switched to madcow after I maxed out of Stronglifts. I ran a cycle, but didn't like it. Then I switched to 531 Big But Boring, because I wanted more volume and hypertrophy, while maintaining/increasing strength. That program runs 3 months and is pretty tough, but very doable. I haven't got much stronger on it, but I've gotta bigger. I'm very happy with it.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:46 PM
1

Once you've done 5x5 and can't keep going, the linear gains have stopped. So actually a 10 pound increase is good. OP, if you haven't downloaded the Stronglifts app, you should. The app will make the deloading process and the switch to 3x5, 3x3 or 1x3 a lot easier.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:43 PM
3

I think the key (easier path) to simultaneous cumming is the (emotional) bond, primarily from the woman. That's my guess anyhow, because my LTR and I can cum together often.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:17 PM
1

How'd it go? What did you learn?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:58 AM
1

Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:50 PM
5

I don't get the blue hair. I just assumed it was anime-inspired. What does the blue hair represent?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 11:54 AM
15

OP, this is the honest truth. If you ignore this, I don't know why you're even here asking advice.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:15 AM
4

Alright. You seem to know what you want. I just wonder how you can go back to her now that you've seen you can get better. Let me just say that I thought getting divorced would be bad for my kids, but the truth is that staying in my marriage (she cheated) wouldn't have been any better for them.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:09 PM
3

She cheated on you. You can take her back in which case she'll never respect you, because only a low value BP cuck would take back a cheater, or you can walk away with self respect like the high value RP alpha you want to be.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:20 PM
1

Check out Jim Wendler's 531 Boring But Big 3 month challenge.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:47 PM
2

I assume these also occur in LTRs as part of the beta-ization process. Regarding rapport-bombing in an LTR, you can break rapport by teasing, not taking her seriously, etc, but when DO you take her seriously as part of the alpha-beta-beta ratio needed for an LTR?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 10:48 PM
1

If you need help learning how to say "no" to people, I highly recommend you read, "When I say no I feel guilty."
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:18 PM
2

I appreciate your answers to all the questions here. So have you done a RP program yet? Do you have a RP program picked out? Do you recommend any particular app for RP?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 04:38 PM
2

Here is a link, though he his own website and book. https://www.t-nation.com/workouts/boring-but-big-3-month-challenge What I like about it is that it tries maintain/increase your strength while implementing hypertrophy. However your program is a lot more focused on the later. I assume strength would decrease on your program, but I wonder if it would be significant?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 03:08 PM
3

What do you think of Jim Wendler's 531 Boring But Big program? I'm almost done with the 3 month challenge. It seems to have some of the concepts that you're describing (sets 60-80% 1RM), though not as many sets as you recommend.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 02:46 PM
2

LOL
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:56 PM
2

There are desensitizing sprays you could try (I have no experience with them). Also, if you haven't you should read "sex good method"
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:57 PM
1

Are you lifting, raising your SMV as much as you can? Are you the best most attractive man you can be? Would you screw you? Also, you need to be gaming her daily. Get those pussy tingles. Past success doesn't equal present or future access.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:53 PM
1

Always use DREAD, but you'll need to calibrate to determine what level is necessary. Why are you asking? Is there something that's prompting you to question yourself?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:37 PM
1

need to take care of family Do you live with her?
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:29 PM
1

I'm really curious what you finally decide to do.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 05:23 PM
1

This. He needs to be doing compound movements like starting strength or StrongLifts, which I suggest because of the freaking awesome app that goes along with it.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:15 PM
1

Only cardio that is on the lower half of your max heart rate, otherwise you're hurting your muscle gains.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:14 PM
1

It's easy to understand if you turn things around. Would you love to eat the pussy of an sweaty overweight hag (low SMV)? Fuck no! What about a supermodel? Fuck Yea! If you have a high SMV, she'll WANT to do anything and everything with you. She'll tell you her body is your's to do with as you please and she'll be saying Fuck Yea! to everything. If you're low SMV, she'll be disgusted by you and won't want to do anything except lay there wishing it was over.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:12 PM
1

Report back if you find anything
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:18 PM
1

Knowing what we know about women, I can't suggest you keep this LTR, given the long break you mention, especially at your ages. Just let her go and have fun.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:03 PM
1

How old are you? There's no point in trying to keep it going. Women are not known for their loyalty.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:21 PM
11

If you work in the corporate world, capitalize on that number. Get your shit done right away, but don't tell everyone you did. Sit back and relax or start on the new project and hand it your completed project on time. If you always get things done early (again in the corporate world), people will expect that new expedited turn around time, leaving you stressed and short on time if you suddenly get swamped with multiple projects.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:55 PM
1

I can't give you a conclusive answer. It's hard to get a good answer because of the industry not wanting bad press. In fact, all milk has estrogen in it. Whether those levels are enough to significantly impact men is unknown.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 08:39 PM
1

I'm hesitant to recommend GOMAD, because of the estrogen hormones in milk.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:15 PM
2

You could have read 99 other books in that time. Sheesh.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:43 AM
1

Important clarification
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:48 PM
1

Lift and build muscle. Heavy cardio will eat muscle. Download the Stronglifts app. It's seriously one of the best apps period. The program isn't perfect but it's dead simple and teaches you critical compound movements. It's so easy to follow you won't have to think too much.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:41 PM
2

Because she cheated on me.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:03 PM
2

I think you're spot on, because this basically describes me. I overanalyze like there's no tomorrow, and it's something I'm finding very difficult to stop/overcome.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:13 PM
1

Haha. I just mean that there are books written on this (eg. day bang), which makes it seem more complicated. Thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:24 PM
1

So you just make a silly comment, and if they start a conversation, you're in? If YouTube shouldn't be followed for this, then what?
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:19 PM
1

From WISNIFG, The Bill of Assertive Rights, II: You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:09 PM
3

Lift!!!
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:34 AM
3

Second that
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:44 PM
2

My GF likes me natural too, however I always make sure to wear deodorant when I'm not with her or going to the gym. I will go without if I'm with her for the weekend. She loves it.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:51 PM
2

It's curious that you said you "want" to be a tough guy, not that you "are" one. I don't think you need to be any more vulnerable or giving to an LTR, they don't require much. You can be conference and giving to your guy friends. Instead, you might want to examine why you're flipping out on her for wanting comfort. It sounds like she easily found some holes in your armor and kept picking away, and that pissed you off.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:31 AM
3

She saw right through me You may be an awesome player, but I think there's some things you should work on before getting into another LTR.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:19 AM
1

Taylor Swift
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:03 PM
2

Where are you meeting there 20-25 year olds that you're getting IOIs from?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:58 PM
2

So, what are you going to do with her?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:00 PM
2

I do provide the attention and the D, she doesn't need it from anyone else Your GF's behavior says otherwise
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:52 PM
1

String along a girl they date in a weird, dissonant way. Would expand now on what this looks like? I'm not totally understanding what you mean here.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 12:15 PM
1

Why is that? Does female meat taste better?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:38 PM
7

why if we are happy does she want to ruin it by thinking about her ex Because she's not happy or attracted to you. You sound like a mess. You need to fix you first. Start by reading the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 05:23 PM
1

I didn't know about that study. That's crazy. What about organic milk?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:34 PM
3

It's not "stupid", it's logical thinking. The problem is that women are emotional and NOT logical. I don't think you've read very much of the sidebar. I can see you want to KNOW things, so divert your energy over there -> Asking a woman what she's feeling is like opening Pandora's box. The more you want to know, the more comes out, and it will never be good.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:24 PM
2

Saliva too
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:08 PM
1

You and I have very different opinions on what "good strength gains" are. I was on SL for a year and got my squat to 315lbs. Yes, it was boring, but simple as fuck. The app does everything for you and my gym time was easy (I knew exactly what I had to do that day without any hesitation). IMO, you should stick to a beginner program for at least 6-9mo to learn the lifts and get used to lifting heavy, even if it's boring.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:03 PM
1

Great! What are your stats? Did you make out on Stronglifts?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:55 PM
1

WTF? Another version of Starting Strength? Don't bother with AWorkoutRoutine, either do Starting Strength or Strong Lifts. The former has an awesome book that goes into great detail about the lifts and proper form. The latter has the best app I've ever used (seriously). Also, regardless of what beginner program you do, look up Mark Rippetoe and the Art of Manliness on YouTube. They have excellent videos on how to do those compound lifts that a beginner must watch. When the lifts get heavy, you W…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:51 PM
2

I want details man
/r/askTRP07/03/18 01:30 AM
2

Serious question - Are you basically saying that if he's not her alpha, he won't get good sex? Does alpha=sex, beta=resources (no/bad sex)?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 09:44 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:59 PM
1

I'm introverted and familiar with personality types. However it never clicked with me before your post that my analyzing things was due to me trying to understand my world versus how extroverted people understand theirs (taking action). Your advice to stop thinking and go take action is simple (and may be hard to implement), but makes sense that I might "switch processes" and learn by doing (not analyzing). Thank you for writing this post!
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 02:19 PM
1

I need to get her out of my mental space. I think I'm in her frame too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:16 PM
1

Thanks for the comments. I'll work on coming up with better defined goals, per your suggestions, for my next OYS post. You're right, my frame goals are generic. I'm discovering that I don't fully understand frame yet. So, I need to work on that first. I think my biggest issue with reacting has to do with trying to prevent my GF from cheating/leaving and failing to be a Man. Everytime my GF acts a certain way, that I get suspicious of, I immediately start wondering if she's going to leave/cheat. …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:14 PM
4

That's sucks. Walk away. It's already over. She's trying to make you her orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 04:58 PM
1

Thank you for posting this link. I didn't realize you had a blog. It's great writing and I have so much to learn.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 04:54 PM
8

Good for you man. Keep working on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 02:35 PM
2

How do you know she resents you? Why do you think you're beta now?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 02:34 PM
1

Thanks for the kick in the pants. I posted in OYS.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 07:20 PM
1

OYS #1 My Info: 41yr, 6'1", 200lbs, ~19% BF; Divorced (married 15yr); 2 Daughters 11yr & 8yr (50% custody). Lifting: Squat 335lbs, BP 230lbs, OHP 140lbs, DL 365lbs. Program: Jim Wendler BBB Background: BP my whole life. My ex-wife cheated on me in 11/2015. I decided to divorce her after begging and pleading for 2mo. My ex-wife is an ugly, overweight, bitch, who I let Captain my ship the entire relationship. It absolutely disgusts me how BP/beta I acted (my whole life really). I thought I was att…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 07:17 PM
1

I recall seeing that link before. I think I'm doing everything I can (lifting heavy, supplements, etc). I got a blood test back in October for the first time, but am waiting until April (6 months) to see how it changes. That will be the real indicator of I'm doing things right. Regardless, it's great to see your example.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 05:09 PM
1

Wow that's awesome man.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 11:41 PM
1

Are you on TRT? How'd you get your Test up so much?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 05:36 PM
1

It would be awesome for you to share what you learn in a field report or something. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/02/18 01:31 PM
1

I know I like being with her, but I'm not sure how to handle situations like this. I'm still trying to figure everything out.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:21 PM
0

You're right. I need to figure out what I want to do.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:20 PM
1

You're burying something. Do you mean you think I'm hiding something? you are in her frame. I think you're right. I have to figure out how to turn that around.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:20 PM
0

I think you're right. I've got to get my shit together.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:19 PM
1

You've been posting random thought bubbles regarding your situation for ten months now. But all I know about you is that you're 40 with an 11yo, she also has a kid/kids, and you spend a week on and a week off with each other, you aren't married and don't live together. Every post focuses on her. I did this, she did that. She says. We argue. So, Run on over to the weekly "Own Your Shit" thread in mrp. That's hard to hear, but I appreciate you taking the time to check up on me and write that. I'll…
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:10 PM
3

I'm typed as INTJ. It's accurate that I'm introverted and overanalyze everything but I don't let it tell me what/how to think. I'm not in a box and ever since finding the RP, I'm growing beyond my MBTI designation.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:27 PM
10

You'll be back when your GF eventually cheats on you
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:21 PM
3

This is great advice for anytime, autistic or not.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:56 PM
3

You're spot on, though I never thought of Bugs in that light.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:50 PM
1

I'm curious about this topic too. I suppose my mission is 1) Taking care of my kids, 2) Career, 3) Me. Is that "enough" of a mission?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:44 PM
6

If you tell her, she'll suddenly be pro-marriage.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:00 PM
3

It is serious, but there's not much you can do to eliminate it completely. Don't cook, or reheat, in plastic. Avoid BPA, soy, and sugar. Get water filters. Eat clean and smart. Do manly things and use manly posture (yes this does in fact busy testerone).
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:58 PM
5

Good for you for being receptive to all this amazing wisdom!
/r/askTRP07/02/18 09:53 PM
4

12 months? You've already committed. She'll soon stop asking and just listen to your actions. Enjoy your LTR and ride it out as long as you like.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:35 PM
2

What supplements were they?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 12:02 PM
1

If you're serious, you need to fix you (your drinking problem) before seeing women
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:51 PM
1

Curious. What happens if you do the beta thing with HB6 and below?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 10:12 PM
1

Spend the next 6 months focusing on you and remaking yourself into the best man you can be.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:01 PM
2

There's an upper limit to the amount of protein your liver can tolerate based on your body weight. Make sure 360g isn't too much. Edit. What program are you doing? High intensity low rep is great for building strength, but are you including enough volume to spur hypertrophy?
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:17 PM
1

Banana Republic
/r/askMRP20/01/18 06:49 PM
2

I've either tried or am currently using the supplements you listed with the exception of lecithin. I don't have any issues, but would you still recommend it?
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:45 PM
1

So you can do that fasting, but still get your needed calories in that shortened time period? Is this strategy only for cutting?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:40 PM
2

I found MRP after reading Rollo's book. I don't know what I'm going to do concerning my marriage because it not a priority. I'll get to that when I'm ready and there is no urgency at the moment. It will be addressed, just not now. Why is it not a priority? Are you happy with your sex life? My question about the book was purely an intellectual one. Ok. Based on what you replied, I can see that I misunderstood how much you knew. I think the 5LL has some merit in making people feel loved, but it wi…
/r/askMRP17/01/18 05:25 PM
1

What's the deal with your marriage? 10 mo ago you were posting in the INTJ forum (I'm an INTJ too) about wanting to walk away from your marriage. What happened? I guess you're still in it. Why? It looks like you're trying to fix your relationship the way you would fix a bridge, logically (which is the wrong approach here). You say that the testing your wife gives you has decreased? That's not necessarily a good thing. As others are saying here, you're just buying her compliance, likely with some…
/r/askMRP17/01/18 01:34 PM
2

That was awesome
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:25 PM
2

the state of being in action or of exerting power; operation:the agency of Providence. a means of exerting power or influence; instrumentality:nominated by the agency of friends.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:38 PM
1

How old are you? What program are you following?
/r/askTRP14/01/18 08:04 PM
1

Tell me more about your experience with cabergoline. I've never heard of that (just read it's wiki).
/r/askMRP14/01/18 04:34 PM
2

And that's when you lose me
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:25 PM
2

What makes you think you're so redpilled? You don't seem to even recognize basic terms.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:02 PM
29

Actually, it does work out well for them. It's just that the government is the BB instead of a blue pilled provided man.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:17 PM
1

You're probably right. Should I just ride this out until that happens? What would you do?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:05 PM
1

I believe I lost frame when I let her picking get under my skin. I got angry and DEERed why I wouldn't move in with her. I should have kept the AA/fogging/broken record going until she gave up. However, I got drunk and couldn't maintain that. I also should have left at some point, but I couldn't because I knew I couldn't drive. My question is I'm not sure what to make of her reaction the next day. Am I in her frame now?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:58 PM
2

I'm already debonding. How did you know WHEN to start debonding? Did you start after the nuclear dread incident you mentioned?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:18 PM
2

I understand what you're doing (based on the links and your description), but I'm wondering why you just don't end it with your current LTR? I'm basing this question on the reference to the betatization curve (sounds like you're in the "bad times" part of the curve). Given your timeline, the usual progress of LTRs, and her losing attraction (denial of sex), shouldn't you start the debonding process? Fyi, I'm particularly interested in your answer because I'm kind of in the same situation (I'm in…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:25 PM
3

Those were very interesting links/reads. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:18 PM
2

Maybe look for better fitting condoms?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 11:40 AM
0

I'm sure you're right about that first part, but I fucking love eating pussy... However, I'll try noticing if not eating her out had any impact like you suggest. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:56 PM
1

Don't be so fucking lazy and just read the sidebar. It's all there.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:45 PM
5

I disagree. If he was entirely in her frame, he would have had starfish sex that morning. Now his strategy may have sucked, but I can see that he is trying to get his frame back.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:02 PM
1

Ok. How did she respond after you said that? Also, what kind of sex could she be imagining will happen tonight? In other words, do you (honestly) fuck her good? Do you fuck her like it's your last time? Have you read the Sex God Method???
/r/askMRP04/01/18 02:51 PM
3

That sounds interesting. Would you expand on that?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:24 PM
1

Great quote. I'm curious what you think he should have said (or done) to his GF, instead of what he did? I think I'm in a similar situation.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:19 PM
1

That was awesome. So true too.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:32 PM
1

What program are you following? If you're not following on that's your first problem. Most programs include strategies on how to deal with plateaus. I've had good results with strategic deloads and a set number of failures to get reps. Sounds like you're eating enough calories, but what are you eating? Are you getting enough protein? Are you eating clean enough?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:14 PM
2

Just read that. Thank you for writing it.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:14 PM
2

Your comments are great here. I have a question regarding your leaving/setting a boundary. Why not just take her phone, set it down, and fuck her? I've done both (this and leaving), but I need more guidance in determining what is the best response in this kind of situation.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:46 PM
7

GOMAD - Gallon of milk a day
/r/askTRP02/01/18 07:51 PM
9

This is so true! The sad part is that this path is next to impossible for anyone still plugged in (Bluepill).
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:05 PM
2

I can share my feels like anyone if I wanted to. However I think being emotional and vulnerable was one on the factors that caused my ex-wife to cheat on me. I see it written throughout the sidebar that a guy sharing feeeeeelings is unattractive.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 03:18 PM
1

Seriously what? My girlfriend gave me a book about sharing your emotions for Christmas. I don't understand what about my question makes me spineless.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 03:16 PM
2

I've used minoxidil since I was in my 20s. It has slowed my hair loss, but eventually I'll probably end up shaving my head. Don't use propecia, the side affects (reduces testosterone) aren't worth it
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:48 AM
1

Use anger to fuel change.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 01:44 AM
4

Women don't want to win, they want a winner.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 01:43 AM
1

Good to hear. I assume you own your house. Therefore, OYS. Fixing shit - Awesome! This is a great way to SHOW that you are leading. It's also traditionally a man's thing (masculine) Clearing up (cleaning) - Be careful with this. Cleaning is traditionally women's work (feminine). By the way, make sure you read the side bar and the suggested readings, NMMNG and WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 12:17 AM
1

I think you should have laughed at her (A&A), but what's done is done. Girls TALK, men DO. Make sure you are leading and taking care of things. If you sit around doing nothing all the time, while mom is taking care of the house, the kids will notice that Mom really is the boss.
/r/askMRP31/12/17 12:06 AM
1

Yep. You've got a lot of work to do. She easily pulled you into her frame and you DEERed.
/r/askMRP30/12/17 11:50 PM
0

I figured as much! Appreciate someone else catching that this was a mine field. Any suggestions on how to dodge this? Just advanced fogging?
/r/askMRP30/12/17 04:23 PM
2

This is the answer I was looking for. Thank you!
/r/askMRP30/12/17 03:21 PM
1

Yes, I've read that great book. Speaking your mind is different from sharing your feelings and emotions.
/r/askMRP30/12/17 02:58 PM
1

WTF
/r/askMRP30/12/17 02:28 PM
0

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
/r/askMRP30/12/17 02:10 PM
-1

Because I don't want to talk about my emotions and feelings...
/r/askMRP30/12/17 01:55 PM
1

The general TRP consensus is that you DGAF about what she does (in other words you don't snoop). So if I understand correctly, you're just being awesome, doing what you do, and she tells you (somehow) that she cheated, THEN, you drop her?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:59 AM
1

That is a weird story
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/17 09:47 PM
2

That's very interesting.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:45 PM
3

I'm reading WISNIFG, and I finally understand the tactic of HOW to use fogging, but I still need to understand WHEN to use it. In other words, when do you use AA vs fogging?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:51 PM
16

Welcome. Hope you post some more background sometime, for a post-mortem. Getting cheated on sucks, but do you know why it happened?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 08:04 PM
2

Was this your first date with the girl? What are your "geeky hobbies"?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 06:49 PM
9

This is the best answer.
/r/askMRP22/12/17 06:47 PM
5

Yes, it's true. AWALT and they don't give a shit about your feelings, rather theirs are the only thing that matters. They don't want a weakling, they want a winner. They want you to "just get it". If you don't, they'll tell you, either overtly or covertly, and by then it's too late. Yes, LTRs need an emotional connection, but that doesn't mean you show her your vulnerabilities and weaknesses. She wants (needs) you to be a real man, a rock for her emotional tides to break against and steady her. …
/r/askTRP22/12/17 01:32 PM
1

This is so true, but trying to tell this to someone who's only been with one girl is almost useless. I know because I was that way. Makes me want to beat my head against a wall when I think about all the advice I ignored when I was younger.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:34 PM
2

Upvote for YouTube, but don't START with electricity. If you've never done any handy work, that's a good way to get electrocuted.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:31 PM
1

You need to read the sidebar more, the rationale male, and other sources. You got lots of good responses here, but you're arguing. You don't "get it" yet.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:15 PM
2

You need to listen to u/Auvergnat. I was in the same situation you are (I started dating her when I was 16, married her at 23, then divorced her at 39, because she was having an affair). In retrospect, my entire relationship with her fucking sucked, because I was a total beta the whole time. You should end your LTR, because you have no idea how bad it is. Once you fix you and improve yourself, you'll find a hot new babe, and realize how sweet and enjoyable a woman can be. Discard your bitch, imp…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:04 PM
1

Your question seems to make some assumptions that the men who wrote the Bible would establish laws and guidelines based on what men want. However, the men who wrote the Bible were inspired by God to write what He wanted them to write (whether you believe in God or not, I think anyone would agree that those men "believed" they were writing what God wanted). The monogamy taught in the New Testament reflected a radical departure from other cultures of polygamy and hedonism at the time. For much of …
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:59 AM
1

I'm not really sure what your question is...
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:42 AM
19

Mind blown. I only caught maybe half that when I watched the movie, but now reflecting back on it, you're abso-fucking-lutely right.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 09:22 PM
4

Why are you snooping around her things? Do you think if she found pics of your past that she would care? Nope, because she's has something you don't, abundance.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:56 PM
7

Another red flag. Are you sure you want to be with damaged goods?
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:53 PM
1

You're new here. Read the sidebar before asking basic questions explained in the required reading.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 03:23 PM
6

Great comment.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 03:13 PM
3

We'll put, and with evidence
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 01:11 PM
4

Do tell
/r/askMRP18/12/17 07:34 PM
6

Doesn't this create all sorts of drama for you, because of the increased dread caused by your withdrawal?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:28 PM
2

Sounds good. Keep lifting and forging ahead. You've got to stop looking back. I know that's easier said than done (I still struggle with it). Why are you so hung up on her? Who broke up with whom?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:22 PM
-6

I know what people say about squirting. I've seen the research that says this and that. Once I got my GF to squirt, I realized I didn't care what the liquid was. It's just so fucking sexy and hot because of her uncontrolled ecstacy at that point. For what it's worth, my gfs squirt isn't pee.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:33 PM
5

Are you asking if you do the Spiderman technique before or after penetration? You can try it whenever, but I think the ability to gush and the volume are linked to how horny she is. So if you want to increase your chances, try it after hot sex.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:31 PM
3

Honestly, when I try to make her gush during sex, she doesn't. So I'm sad to say it just happens. Like I mentioned before, if she does gush/squirt it will usually happen when she's on top. Squirting during anal was just a wonderful miracle. We do anal about 2-3x a month. I've been seeing her for 2 years. So that's not great odds.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:29 PM
17

I followed some other guides on TRP to get my LTR to squirt. I had pretty low expectations, but was pleasantly surprised that I could get her to squirt consistently. She was probably more surprised, since she didn't realize she could herself. Once she starting squirting from this technique, she starting gushing even during sex. It's like I unlocked something inside her. That being said it doesn't happen during sex that often, but if it does, most of the time it happens while she's on top. She's …
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:16 PM
2

I know it's not relevant to your question, but how did you meet your plates?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 12:20 AM
1

Listen more
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:29 PM
2

What happened?
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:47 PM
4

Actually, I have seen that suggested in another thread or two in the past. He's not wrong that women love drama and if they are bored they'll start a fight or something for the excitement. Where he's wrong is that a man doesn't have to start fights to keep a woman entertained. He can of course, but it's not in his best interest. Men like order; women like chaos, order is boring, so creating drama is exciting and feminine. The better way to give women excitement/drama is to give them dread.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:29 PM
1

Thank you for writing this. I found it very helpful and learned what it means and that I have yet to fully kill my ego.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 08:30 PM
1

Truth is objective, honesty is subjective and relative. Every woman is going to give you her perception of reality, which she'll call honesty. Do not for one second think you will ever get the objective truth from a woman. I learned this the hard way, but it's found throughout RP literature/sidebar. As some others here have said, she'll want honesty and full disclosure, but her hind brain really doesn't want to know it. She wants to figure you out by herself. She'll get a validation high everyti…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:49 PM
1

Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:35 PM
1

Out of curiosity, in your example/experience, what do you mean when you say "commitment"?
/r/askMRP04/12/17 05:08 PM
1

Have you written about your experience? I tried looking at your posts, but there were too many unrelated.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 01:03 PM
13

This
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:40 PM
7

More then anything anal is about dominance. Her resistance COULD be a reflection of your lacking dominance out of the bedroom.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:02 PM
15

When I was still BP, my wife was cheating on me and I tried marriage counseling. Fuck, I hate my old self. I think about the old me everytime I lift. Talk about motivation.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:50 PM
3

Sucks to be her! Haha
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:38 PM
5

You'll get through this and end up being better than ever. I divorced a year ago and beat myself up for waiting as long as I did because life is so much better now. Listen to the advice here. Kids are tough and will bounce back as long as you remain a rock. Be the best you and everything else will fall in line.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 03:30 PM
3

Ok serious question. I started lifting a year ago, doing SL5x5. My squat is now 315, but I'm not huge. When you say the more you lift... Are you referring to your strength or your build? How long have you been lifting? Do you look like a body builder? Thanks
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:25 PM
10

I would hear more on this topic please!
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:29 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:29 PM
3

Basically. Stronglifts uses bent over rows while starring strength uses power cleans. More importantly, SL has one of the best apps I've ever used.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:27 PM
2

Alan Thrall gives a fair review of stronglifts here https://youtu.be/-DqtIxL_ek4. Stronglifts and staying strength are balanced programs (strength/intensity). The programs are beneficial for novice lifters because they are very simple to follow and force you (and your central nervous system) to learn proper form. I've done Stronglifts 5x5 for the past year and am currently doing Madcow 5x5. I'm planning on starting a hypertrophy program after that. I have put on muscle and people can tell I'm bi…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:18 PM
1

I don't disagree but do have a question. It seems that self improvement is very masculine. If that's the case, why would women be uninterested (unattracted) in knowing all of the work you've done?
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:04 PM
1

I did stronglifts 5x5 for the past year and made significant gains. I'm now on Madcow 5x5.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:36 PM
1

Did you start with these programs? What's your opinion of SL/SS 5x5?
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:34 PM
128

Guarantee if you break up, she would lose the weight.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:54 PM
4

Agree about OP acting beta by following her. The second point, he acted beta by going to her again about his daughter. He should have just handled his daughter and gone back to bed.
/r/askMRP19/11/17 09:03 PM
-3

That's awesome.
/r/askMRP19/11/17 08:59 PM
1

You're right on the diagnosis. I plan on following your suggestion tonight.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:13 AM
4

I'm not in a healthy place, to be honest. Now that I'm RP aware, I can see all of my BP failures throughout my life. I see declining sexual interest as an indicator that she would be more likely to cheat or hurt me, thus my ego. I say all of this to acknowledge what you say is true and to be open and honest about my lack of abundance. Doubtless, I have a long way road ahead of me.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:52 AM
1

It's frustrating that I allowed myself to act that way. I guess I should appreciate that I recognized my passive aggressiveness, but by then it was too late.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:39 AM
2

Read the details pages on the stronglifts website, but I also learned a room watching Mark Rippetoe on The Art of Manliness on YouTube. Those 2 resources should help you a ton.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:38 AM
1

Ok. That makes sense. Yes, you need the safeties. What's up with your shoulders during the bench press?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:13 AM
1

Do you have a power rack in your basement? If you don't, stop doing stronglifts in your basement! When the weights get heavy, they get dangerous and you need proper equipment to lift safely. Also, going to a gym with a power rack has the added benefit of dread, since your wife will hamster about the potential hotties there. If you're having shoulder pain doing bench press, your form needs improved. If you have some medical condition causing the shoulder pain, could you try close grip bench? The …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/17 04:02 AM
2

Great post, but I'm not pleased, because I want more!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/17 10:15 PM
1

The explanation here about "why texting is for logistics" is the best explanation I've seen regarding this rule. I really appreciate this wisdom.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 08:55 PM
1

Just read this. I appreciate your words here. Your reaction above worked of course, but I think you implied you could have handled it even better. How would you handle that situation today, knowing what you know now?
/r/askMRP17/11/17 03:45 PM
2

I tried both of those apps. They kind of... suck.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:28 PM
2

After reading that book, I had similar questions and really appreciate your response and wisdom.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:18 PM
14

This happened to me. To be clear, it's not really "revenge", but just her raising her smv in preparation to branch swing.
/r/askMRP12/11/17 10:42 PM
1

Have you read the examples in the book, or online? Edit: Obviously, it's a hell of a lot easier to quote this law than actually implement it.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:02 PM
7

Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-38-think-as-you-like-but-behave.html?m=1
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:59 PM
1

What I'm saying is you need to set boundaries for what is acceptable behavior from her. You don't tell her what your boundaries are. Talking is feminine, doing is masculine. So you communicate your boundaries through action. You improve you; become the best, hottest guy you can. Determine what you will accept and not accept from her. If she doesn't do her part, according to your standards in the time frame you set, then you move on, because you are the prize and there are lots of other women out…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 06:05 PM
1

Agreed with u\BobbyPeru, in addition to the changes you are making (for you), you also must set a time frame for her to respond. You need to have a goal or metric for yourself to achieve and a threshold for how she responds. For example, if you increase your SMV (lifting, game, etc) then she must also respond to those changes in whatever way you want. By establishing that threshold, you can determine whether you want to stay or go. If you don't set that for your relationship, then you'll be more…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 02:06 PM
2

Lift! I've also been thinking about getting a punching bag...
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:59 PM
3

That is so true, however having issues with your dick (which is a huge component of what makes you a man) can really be a challenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 11:05 PM
2

Sweet! Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 06:48 PM
2

This is such an amazing resource! Thank you so much. I'm definitely going to add those books to my reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 05:32 PM
2

Cube Do you have a favorite link referencing the 'Cube'? I just tried searching and I got a ton of seemingly unrelated posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 05:27 PM
1

Can't upvote this enough!
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:57 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2015/12/16/the-awalt-misconception/
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:15 PM
1

I think being scared of the weight is a good thing, because it forces you to take it seriously. The great thing about stronglifts, or any compound lifting program, is that those compound lifts cause you to get fucking strong all over. It forces you to learn proper technique. If you were getting such marks then it was working. Your muscles have to get bigger to lift bigger weights. The muscles of your upper body are small muscles compared to your legs so they take longer to build. Edit: Corrected…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:33 PM
2

I don't think we're talking about the same program. Stronglifts is all about getting stronger and lifting heavy. If you tried it and it didn't work, I don't think you tried long enough. Try it again, but use the app this time.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:28 PM
1

Stronglifts 5x5
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:39 PM
3

This. OP can't control her, only how he responds to her major disrespect. Going out with other guys is an obvious act of disrespect from his LTR, but the message is in the medium and it may be better to dump her since attraction is non-negotiable.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:19 PM
1

Amen brother!
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:00 PM
1

I'm not totally sure I understand what you're asking. What now? I can understand being demotivated, so take done time to get right with yourself. You've read the sidebar, but don't like that answer, so what are you looking for?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:07 PM
1

Ok. That's cool. At first, I thought you were just a troll, so thanks for the explanation!
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:52 PM
1

Why are you caught up on the word techniques? Would you prefer aspects, actions, maneuvers, whatever? Game is essential for attraction, but I know some things are better for initial attraction versus long term attraction (alpha/alpha/beta vs alpha/beta/beta). I'm just curious if anyone knows of a handy comparison/list/chart.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:15 PM
1

I actually just finished reading that last week! It's a great book and recommend it. In fact, that book prompted me to ask this question. During the conversation with my LTR, while she was talking about how my actions made her feel, I was thinking that I need to connect with her emotions, not what's she's saying. My problem is that I KNOW what I need to do, but I don't know HOW. I'm sure I'm overthinking it. Maybe it's just a matter of being aware of that and slowly practicing it, but I'm really…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:31 PM
1

More info please. How old are you? Who broke of the relationship?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:49 AM
3

Fuck dude. No words.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:46 PM
2

LOL
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:41 PM
1

If I was passive aggressive, then you're right, I fucked up. I know I have a lot to learn still. I was BP for most of my life, which sickens me now. Thanks for the quote from Roissey. That's what I mean, I know I should do/act as he describes, but I can't seem to actualize it. Its like I need a "stronglifts program" for implementing that.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:46 PM
-1

Appreciate your response. I didn't want to write a book, but she did want to know how I felt. In fact that's all she wanted to know. I never told her. I don't think DEER'd, though it's kind of impossible not to if someone asks you directly why you did/didn't do something, right? I'm pretty sure she was frustrated with the conversation, because she didn't get the closure she wanted. She still doesn't know what my feeeeeelings were.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:41 PM
1

Break up with her, in whatever way you like, and move on. Everyone here is right. There is a high likelihood of her cheating. Regardless, you will ALWAYS wonder...
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:35 AM
2

Nice! Small steps. Be careful not to go Rambo (too fast). Since you're starting to change, keep an eye out for the testing she's going to throw at you. Keep us updated on your progress.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 06:53 PM
5

Appreciate this response
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:53 PM
2

What was your T score when you started TRT?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:36 PM
3

Power rack + Stronglifts
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 12:13 PM
2

Are you being the right kind of asshole? https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/27/being-the-right-kind-of-asshole/
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:13 PM
1

This. OP, what's your issue with being overt? Men are overt and chicks are covert. Be a dominant man, that's what she really wants.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:06 PM
1

Do you have any suggestions on buying lingerie?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:04 PM
2

What workout are you doing 5d/week? If that's all heavy lifting, you could cut back, since rest is so very important for building muscle.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:55 AM
6

https://illimitablemen.com/2015/12/16/the-awalt-misconception/
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 01:44 AM
2

sol·ip·sism (noun) the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist. The whole world revolves around her.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:00 AM
1

Very well put!
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:11 PM
1

Women don't judge status that you have, but status that you show. You should hold this statement. Awesome post. Exactly what I needed to read this morning.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:54 PM
2

I don't like the idea of spitting ON my GF, but we both like when I spit in her mouth. I think it gets her turned on thinking about swallowing my cum.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:31 AM
1

If you think she's getting ready to branch swing, there are going to be lots of signs (watch her actions) as indicated in this recent post. Either way, it appears that she is trying to make you beta so she feels better about the breakup and/or branch swing. Abandon ship. You already had the breakup talk, so now follow through and find another chick.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:56 PM
2

More info please. Edit. I can Google end of honeymoon articles, but they all seem to talk about the importance of communication, sharing feelings, and other BP crap. Just looking for more RP truth on this topic.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:16 PM
2

Great response and cogently written!
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:02 PM
2

It shouldn't take too much effort to search Rollo's blog. He's written extensively on this topic. therationalmale.com
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:10 AM
8

This response is so simple yet so challenging in the beginning.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:34 PM
1

Upvoted and saved. Thank you for this wisdom and advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 03:22 PM
18

The ship has sailed man. Save what's left of your dignity and leave without another word. At this point, the longer you stick around the worse you'll be when she finally leaves you.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:27 PM
5

To be honest, yes, I do. My ex-wife cheated on me. While that brought me here and ultimately into the light of truth, I continue to struggle with the fear that it will happen again. Because of TRP, I can rationally understand that hypergamy (cheating) is woman's nature, but knowing that doesn't help me sleep at night. I'm sure all of this is due to scarcity mentally and so on. I see where I need to be, in my thinking, like many of the men here, I just have a ways to go before I get there. Living…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:08 PM
2

Ive had good success with stronglifts 5x5
/r/askMRP13/09/17 11:48 AM
1

If those numbers are real, I'm an idiot for not cheating in my LTR. The more I sick around here, the more I think I should just go cheat in my LTR, because it's only a matter of time before she cheats on me...
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:27 AM
2

I clicked on this topic, because I expected it to be about signs you should give up on the relationship. You're question it's really about "green" flags.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:47 PM
3

Wouldn't there be a third option, because of passive dread and her hamster spinning overdrive?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:43 PM
1

Awesome. Thank you for the examples.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:37 PM
1

Haha. Gotcha. Thanks
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:12 PM
1

I know the hamster. It spins. However besides her asking me questions about what I'm doing our where I've been, what other evidence should I look out for?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:11 PM
1

Alright. I shouldn't argue with her, but if I have an opposing thought and I want to share it, I should. This far, I've just STFU when she starts something I disagree with. I know about AA, AM, and CF, but I usually can't mentally come up with anything get enough to use. I'm getting better though. Thank you TRP!
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:02 PM
4

Thanks for the reminder, mate.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 05:00 PM
1

So if your beta displays were well received, what ultimately caused breakups?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 11:02 AM
1

Thank you. I was asking what happened in your life that caused YOU to change your beliefs.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 12:25 AM
1

It sounds like you're no longer a Christian. Mind explaining what happened? How did you find TRP?
/r/askTRP10/09/17 10:40 PM
2

This is such a true (and deep) answer.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 10:04 PM
1

Did you break up with her? How did it go?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:52 PM
2

Don't "aim" to workout. Get on a specific program and follow it. I've had great success with stronglifts 5x5 and there is an excellent app for your phone. Do it. I suspect your (ex) girlfriend had already found another cock to ride in your absence. Lift, Improve and Move on.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:00 PM
6

Is Chad married?
/r/askMRP07/09/17 06:14 PM
2

Dude, listen to Vandaalen. Do not meet with her. She just wants "closure" as Kisstafer1 says. Ghost her and move on.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:39 PM
3

I used to hamster, like you, over my ex-wife regarding health stuff. Now with my current LTR, I just think "not my problem", and carry on being awesome.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 12:20 AM
2

Your ex has a picture of her ex? So... a picture of you?
/r/askTRP05/09/17 06:32 PM
1

Report back what you decide to do and how it goes.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 12:37 PM
1

I tried downhill a few times, but realized it would require more time and money than I was ready to give. Then I had kids, got divorced, and got older. Haha. I'm happy trail riding, but since finding TRP, I've devoted most of my time to lifting. As much as I loved riding, lifting has made such a huge difference in my life compared to riding. Happy trails.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:54 PM
3

Thank you for saying this. I know all women CAN cheat, but not all WILL cheat.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:11 PM
2

If you pull this off, I want to read the FR.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:29 PM
1

Just when I feel like I'm starting to get a handle on applying redpill to my LTR, I find another nuance to be mindful of.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:38 PM
1

Great piece! Info like this is so helpful and appreciated. I have a question on application. Do you soft next (blackdragon method) to withdraw your attention or something less severe? Generally, how do you know how long to withdraw? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 12:14 PM
2

It's not a good sign.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 09:46 PM
1

I've never realized this, until now. Mind blown.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:12 PM
1

Report back.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:11 PM
1

Yes, but after you've added all that muscle Andrew strength, you'll look and feel great.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:18 PM
1

Halo effect
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 02:46 PM
3

All of the stuff that gets discussed here are aspects of male/female biology is true, but biology is "messy". People aren't clones or robots, so there are going to be differences. I suspect that she's buying the Disney story as much he is. She's willfully pushing her hypergamy down for whatever reason. The reality is that she won't be able to do that forever, and sooner or later, she's going to dry up (if she hasn't already) and start looking for a guy that "gets it".
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:22 AM
1

If you were him, how would you "drop" his LTR?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:28 PM
1

Very good info. Thanks. I've been using citrulline for the past year with good success. Wondering if there's something else I could also take?
/r/askMRP28/08/17 10:30 PM
1

Is there any downside to taking so much Viagra when you're young?
/r/askMRP28/08/17 06:48 PM
8

Dude, come on. She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:33 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:32 PM
1

What kinds of things does she bring up about her ex?
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:52 PM
3

Not enough info. You'd be better off reading, "what every body is saying", by Dan Navarro. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061438294
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:03 AM
1

Don't tell future employers it took you 7 years for a year degree.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:13 AM
1

How old are you two? I assume no kids?
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:06 AM
1

Fair point!
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:41 PM
1

If she's going to pay, she'll be up front about it. Don't argue if she wants to pay. If she is quiet, then it's up to you.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:33 PM
1

I don't think the agenda was hidden. She clearly told him she wanted his "company".
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:32 PM
7

Do not ASK her to do "freaky shit". She wants dominance in the bedroom, so you should show her what you want to do.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:29 PM
3

Amen!
/r/askTRP13/08/17 03:38 AM
5

LOL
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:59 PM
1

Why are you going away for 5 months? That seems like important info to include in your question.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:21 PM
32

Fuck her like it's the last time
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:58 PM
1

Trust your gut
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:38 PM
2

You've got my attention, but I agree that this article could use more examples.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 09:17 PM
7

That's cool. For everything you encounter here, Trust but verify.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 02:06 PM
5

You're here for a reason, either you randomly stumbled upon TRP or you read something provacative that peaked your interest. I would suggest you read some more from the side bar before deciding on TRP. Additionally, be sure to check out The Rationale Male blog.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:57 PM
7

Your response indicates you haven't read the side bar and don't "get it". You need to understand that girls are the oldest teenager in the house and treat them as such. If you don't like the truth, go ask your question on /r/relationships.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:42 PM
2

For me, it's a great way to display dominance. My girlfriend gets so hot and horny with the lead up to anal. She gets so submissive, which is such a turn on. Also, she lustfully tells me she can "feel" me the next day.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:34 PM
2

He's not taking about all lubes. He's saying that those numbing lotions aren't necessary, and could actually be a bad idea.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:28 PM
1

I agree with your points. who cares about internal consistency? I do, immensely, which is why I value all of the RP blogs (eg. The Rationale Male, The Family Alpha, Illimitable Men, etc). Actually, the internal consistency is why I swallowed the RP, I finally found something that explained EVERYTHING.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 01:12 PM
3

I've had the best results with citrulline + L-arginine and switching to looser underwear (so surprised by this).
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:41 AM
1

She needs to feel "Shiva", according to The Way of the Superior Man.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:25 PM
2

Don't go Rambo, OP
/r/askMRP02/08/17 09:15 PM
1

That logic can lead to lazy writing. Redpill posts should be written for veterans and newbs alike. It's best to cover a topic completely and succintly, than leave anything to interpretation.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 01:28 PM
3

By the sound of it, you should "fix" yourself, by becoming a better man before anything else.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:23 PM
0

This explanation should be in the post.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 01:11 PM
3

FYI, I think that purchasing the app is worth it for the features it unlocks.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:18 PM
6

I've had great success with stronglifts 5x5. It's a great beginner program, as it forces you to learn proper technique and form. The website is very helpful and the app is totally worth it. You'll get strong fast.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:07 PM
3

That you found the RP is awesome for you. Use it to become the best man you can be, for you. Since you're being honest about the likelihood of divorce, take precautions now. I just got divorced because my ex cheated on me. As soon as I knew, I was out, but in retrospect, I would have done a few things differently. Unless things are really bad, use the current time to improve yourself and learn everything about RP. Lift, read and improve. If you divorce, you'll want to be at your highest SMV. Don…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 01:06 PM
2

Dude, your dedication is impressive
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:28 PM
2

How old are you? What were the red flags you noticed? Are you just looking for a hookup, plate, LTR, or a unicorn?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:07 AM
2

Trickle truth. Why wasn't this in your main post?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 02:20 PM
4

I love reading the positive outcomes of a RP changed man. Great job. Keep it up.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 12:23 PM
5

Right on. If he's reacting to her, he's in her frame.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 10:44 PM
4

I'm sorry you're going through this situation. I was where you are 2 years ago when I discovered my ex wife's interest in another guy. At the time I contrived her, she hasn't cheated, but the way I reacted with begging and pleading (like a pussy BP beta) drove her fully away. I divorced her a month later, which I know realize I should have done a long long time ago. I don't know if you'll act on any of the wisdom here, because it may feel too impossible to consider divorcing her. I hope you'll s…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 01:22 PM
1

Thanks for adding your experience!
/r/askMRP07/07/17 10:01 PM
4

+1 for linking The Rationale Male. This is a hard lesson.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:06 PM
1

You're not getting it, the wisdom being given to you, so generously. You can't salvage your current relationship. I've been where you are, except I didn't catch on and get it until my ex was fucking Chad on Christmas day. You're so young (I found TRP at 40) and the fact that you are here, aware of something called the redpill, is such a blessing to you. You need to completely swallow TRP, only then you'll see the holy truth being spoken here. Hard next her. She's not yours, it WAS your turn and …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 05:57 PM
1

He's right. You need to read the side bar and "just get it".
/r/askTRP06/07/17 12:53 PM
1

TMI LOL
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:32 PM
1

I don't think it's the "bragging" that's specifically wrong here. If your wife was talking to Brad Pitt and he told her about that situation with the attorney, would she see that as unnattractive? No, because she would totally believe him (ie. there is congruence). When the a chick hears the caveman bigboss bragging about his harem and how much food he brought back from the latest hunt, does she scoff and only want her wimpy devoted guy who brought back a squirrel for dinner? So when you tell yo…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 12:13 PM
2

L-Arginine + Citrulline
/r/askTRP29/06/17 11:48 AM
2

This is the best answer.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:11 PM
1

This is spot on!
/r/askMRP26/06/17 03:14 PM
2

What's all this about ducking? Haha. Gotta love auto-correct.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:07 PM
1

No. Don't take YOHIMBINE HCL. I tried it and it gave me a headache that lasted a week after stopping. There are better supplements to take than that POS.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:44 PM
1

Do you really acknowledge the red flags? Everyone on here is telling you to next her, but I don't get the vibe you are taking this advice seriously... What happens in 2 months?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:37 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:04 AM
1

So what happened next? It's she sticking to her ultimatum? Are you leaving?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:46 PM
3

Your situation smells bad. You should trust your gut and don't let yourself try to finalize it. Sounds like she wants a last bit of fun before committing to you (cohabitating).
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:39 PM
4

https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/03/31/the-number-one-dead-giveaway-that-your-wife-is-about-to-cheat/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/08/07/signs-that-a-woman-is-cheating-in-her-heart/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/02/11/female-infidelity-red-flags/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2017/02/28/another-female-infidelity-red-flag/
/r/askTRP07/06/17 02:58 AM
8

If she's not getting attention/validation from OP, she's getting from another guy.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 02:04 PM
7

She's not acting like a child, she's treating OP like a child.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:46 PM
1

If OP doesn't want to soft next, consider operant conditioning (punishment) http://www.girlschase.com/content/operant-conditioning-your-romantic-relationships
/r/askTRP05/06/17 12:14 AM
7

You already know what's up, you just don't want to admit it.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 11:31 PM
1

Repeating "she's not mine. It's just my turn" has become a daily ritual for me. Hypergamy doesn't care...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 07:12 PM
3

I divorced my cheating wife and share 2 kids. I agree with the pragmatism of your statement. However, I still believe the best environment to raise children is with a married (submissive) mother and (redpill) father (marriage v1.0). The problem is that is no longer possible with marriage v2.0.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:45 PM
1

More examples please! I'd be interested in more examples of how to generate negative emotions.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 12:51 PM
6

This is so true. Unless you've swallowed the redpill though, this advice won't make sense and down the drain goes the relationship...
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:01 PM
3

Don't ever respond. Stay strong and move on.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:04 PM
28

When my ex-wife cheated, I would login to our cellular account (Verizon), which would allow the user to read and send messages right from the website. Once she found out I was doing that she logged into her account and changed the password. Another method is to access her Google account history (if you have her Google password). Of course Google doesn't have any cell phone records, but it does keep your voice to text records and GPS location history (unless she disabled the history tracking). My…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 03:39 PM
0

Thanks for replying (I enjoy your blog). Truth is before my wife cheated on me and divorce, I helped out tremendously. I never thought of it as covert contacts and (perhaps fooled myself into thinking that) I helped responsibly. Now, I'm in a wonderful LTR after swallowing the RP, but I'm wondering if I swung too far the other direction. I pretty much let my GF do everything, while I work (exclusively) on the house when I'm there.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:46 PM
-1

It seems like it would too easy to drift into choreplay...
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:35 PM
1

Thanks for clarifying. I appreciate the explanation.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:03 PM
1

I don't understand responses like these where the OP is berated for asking the RP community. Asking questions is how I learn and improve.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:59 PM
1

I met her ex-husband. He wanted to meet me oddly enough.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:57 PM
2

Ugh. Really? Then I would assume if my ex is over weight and ugly (was married for 17 years), my new hot girlfriend will get an ego boost? If that's the case, wouldn't I want to prevent them meeting?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:02 PM
6

Fuck no. My ex is a disgusting human being. Absolutely zero interest in that idea (from me anyway).
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:47 AM
2

I'm curious to hear how this turns out.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 11:45 PM
2

If you're doing SL 5x5 then you should read the website. It will answer all of your fitness questions.
/r/askMRP25/05/17 10:13 PM
3

How does it fuck their heads up? What would be some tells?
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:37 PM
2

I've been where you are, with the exception that I did everything wrong when the shit started to hit the fan. I think the first thing you've got to do is get your head clear. If your wife hasn't cheated, she WILL given the right circumstance. AWALT. Once you've read about all you can about Dread and started implementing/living it, read The Rational Male, by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 01:50 AM
6

If you're read those books, you should know that you're life as you know it, is on a precipice​. If your wife is doing and saying these things, your marriage is on serious trouble. You should know that you need to get yourself straightened out. Swallow the redpill and implement dread (Google 12 levels of dread). My ex-wife cheated on me and I learned the hard way the truth spoken here. You must listen to the wisdom given to you here, or you will regret it. .
/r/askMRP24/05/17 01:39 AM
1

(1) kids that aren't yours are dangerous to live with Would someone expand on this or direct me to more reading?
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:31 AM
1

Once kids are involved, whether yours or hers, you will never be the priority.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:30 AM
1

You just started stronglifts 3 months ago? Are you doing everything the program tells you to do? Did you get the app, it really makes following the nuances of the program a snap. Are you eating enough? Getting enough sleep?
/r/askTRP20/05/17 07:31 PM
1

One last test to see of she truly thinks you are her alpha god if she is holding back, are you fucking her in the ass? Not sure if you're just being sarcastic. Is anal the ultimate test for Alpha?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/17 12:55 PM
1

Unfortunately, your experience is a common issue with the MTBI tests. Don't overthink things. Try to take big picture concepts from it. Many disregard them for the variability you've experienced, but I don't think you have to throw the baby out with the bathwater, so to speak.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 02:56 AM
1

Don't do joint accounts.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 11:01 PM
1

This
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 05:28 PM
6

Dude, finding this sub and the other related redpill subs are your life preserver, but you're almost out of time. Your youngest is about to be self-sufficient, which will trigger a new stage in your wife's hypergamous schedule of mating. She'll be free to branch swing and cash out of your marriage. You need to man up, crank up your smv and "just get it" before it's too late.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 01:41 AM
3

Then I think this post should be in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:02 PM
4

Shouldn't this be posted in r/TheRedPill?
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:55 PM
1

go run (better yet, lift). This. I used to bike a lot, until I read someone point out that lifting is like "fighting" (in reference to fight or flight response). Fighting is a hell of a lot more attractive!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 12:31 PM
2

I met her in high school when I was 15. I had no idea about the true nature of women and was total bluepill. I did everything wrong so to speak. To be honest, it's surprising that she stayed with me as long as she did, because of hypergamy the way that it is. It wasn't until after I left her and the marriage that I discovered the Redpill.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 10:33 PM
13

I married my first lay, had 2 kids with her before she cheated on me after 17 years of marriage. That happened when I was 39. Enough with your pity party. There will always be someone with a worse story. Be thankful you're redpill aware when you're 30. How I wish I had known sooner AWALT. You need to learn how to be awesome apart from women. Once you do, then you'll find one.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 09:18 PM
1

What happened next???
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 11:21 AM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/
/r/askTRP15/05/17 01:32 PM
5

It's this porn-induced fantasy? You should be porn-free.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:30 PM
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