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Well if you started off your relationship with psychological abuse e.g. intentional manipulative games like making her jealous to get laid, the 'relationship' never really started and you trained or she was used to being sexually manipulated to accept you\ppl into her life. I personally look down on people who allow themselves to be controlled and wouldn't have respect or admiration for them. So I would never allow myself to pervert their mind, I rather be with a capable human that wants me. You…
/r/askMRP22/02/24 04:40 AM
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This was my last post since the threads get older, and i had fruitful interactions. Now if you'll excuse me I dont plan to bother you any more. Btw women on the spectrum are male-brained, amongst other things, probably why I fit in so well.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 09:47 PM
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I mostly talk about husbands side of the story.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:26 PM
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"i got the heart eyes emoji" - well what did you expect, you're sending your wife dirty texts while she's at a party and she doesn't know what to do to get back home and see what the heck is this new game and why he wants me like this. She saves the reply for later when she can actually be free from the party. I think she partied twice that day. 🤭
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:51 PM
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Y'know this gives me an idea to say thank you more after having sex with my bf, it seems like I focus too much on improvement and he takes it as criticism if I'm vocal.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:39 PM
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Sexy times are generally fixed by other fixes and time. humans don't need to sex constantly to be happy and much of our lives isn't gonna be spent copulating. Try to survive by getting your actual needs fulfilled, because at the root of sex there is often a lot more that we need. Me and my bf have times when it's not the time even if the other wants it. There is of course wishful thinking but in the end if it's a good relationship in other aspects it will pass these things naturally. Cultivate p…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:25 PM
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Autism is la pretty nice feat in some ways because you don't get stuck following the mass of cattle or mainstream and you don't get stuck in appearances or people pleasing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:11 PM
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I would frame it differently like "I would like some feedback from you on my progress in the relationship"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 01:52 PM
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That's desperation, perhaps not how I would describe desire. But yeah there's no need for arguing when a woman has the right man for her. My guy is surprised sometimes why I don't get pissy, and it is very unnecessary to argue a man who is not a butt to me or anyone else and has awareness of the world we live in, philosophically not a clown so to speak. I can accept him having slightly different views of the world and being schizophrenic and celebrate his growth. In turn he works with me on the …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 01:34 PM
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<"Standing up" in the past has almost led to her getting violent. It doesn't work. It only escalates the anger.> Of course it doesn't work. It only escalates the anger like you have experienced. It's a criminal offense to instigate for a reason. But so is violence from her. Violence is the weapon of desperation, when every other thing fails people resort to force. I have achieved with mom some carelessness and it is just accepting that arguing with her is actually very draining and unproductive …
/r/askMRP24/01/24 05:28 AM
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It sounds to me like you need emotional support and motivation. I've lacked drive throughout life, thats how i was always and that isnt gonna change for nobody. It also runs in the family. Got myself a bf like me and we have so much relaxation. "Emotionally, I miss competitive sports." - maybe a clue to what you need although dont be afraid to do various things and discover different fun activities. Join clubs and hangout with people and whatnot, find your crowd like you have been relenting your…
/r/askMRP24/01/24 03:26 AM
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I think the question isnt if its impossible but if it should be made possible. Because if this happens you can keep trying and it can work for a while, you get tired and die inside and it just gets back to the decision of not in love. Meanwhile it becomes so messy you wonder how to unwarp yourself from it. Unrequited love is one sided. Whats on the other side is not appealing.
/r/askMRP24/01/24 02:57 AM
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This is what professional dating coaches suggest. Then when at some point you hit burnout, you need to find some motivator to keep you going.
/r/askMRP24/01/24 02:48 AM
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This is true in my opinion as well, people need a long time to know each other and trust each other and along the way things change as you have probably experienced now unfortunately.
/r/askMRP24/01/24 02:44 AM
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"LTR broke it off cause she wanted marriage and more kids" - god damn. isnt one enough especially because he has a different father. idk why people complicate their lives and want more and more kids when situations arent stable "I have a reversible vasectomy to prevent unwanted pregnancy and have them on my own terms" - tbh if i had surgery for something like this it must be super important to me. I was at a point in your situation in a way, this ex demanded that i have kids, and he never brough…
/r/askMRP24/01/24 01:49 AM
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"Believe me the way she talks every word pierce through body." - thats shocking. She lost it Theres really not much you can do at such a point i mean anything you might say is not gonna help in the moment and have fast results. Think about a cat chasing a bird, you cant stop that, its instinct. When the cat dashes, its gone in the hunting realm. I suppose you could act like youre listening even if its like fucking demons arising. I think maybe try a conversation when shes not angry and make it s…
/r/askMRP24/01/24 01:12 AM
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Yw. Dont take this the wrong way, im not talking badly about poly, I stand for all it entails for the right people. It just hurts if you have been with people and have to let them go, no matter the numbers or labels I guess is what I'm saying. But to each their own boat n happiness.
/r/askMRP24/01/24 12:50 AM
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It actually isn't. Read this to see how cults and mind control works on smart fellas https://thriveworks.com/blog/protect-yourself-from-mind-control-techniques/
/r/askMRP24/01/24 12:30 AM
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You should be asking a doctor how much or if you should be lifting, for your own good. Hope you get better soon.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 10:34 PM
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Not really, since you are using her emotional vulnerability to get something out of her instead of genuinely wanting to marry her. Also not even caring to ask who she really is, if shes a lazy girl she cannot live her life acting unlike herself, she will just do until she seals the deal then the incentive is gone. Its not in her. She is unfit for children as well, you will only make misery happen by complicating life for someone like this. Life should be lax for such a person, and if lax isnt fo…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 09:21 PM
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"I’m also concerned she’s raising him to not so much embrace masculinity. " - A boy needs his mother, dont try to change her, and if shes a woman accept her as a woman. She aint gonna teach him about cars, football, that is your interest probably. You are the paternal figure. Your wife is probably not masculine, many women aren't. Boys can have mommy issues if they dont get shown how a good woman acts and that women are strong and happy. You are good enough, he dont need 2 dads.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:52 PM
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"Wife got upset looked at me and I told her I changed my mind about the evening because I didn’t feel like spending time with an ice cube." - you even speak out of bitterness, and you are unwell, but you shouldnt be taking it out on the family. Instead of arguing and policing the other persons behaviour try keeping track and focus on your own. You cant get better if you dont put your swords down and Satan forbid its gonna be your sons head off if you fight like this in front of the children. Try…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:43 PM
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Changes warrant doubts, so. Just explain you would prefer not to disclose how much you earn and why.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:31 PM
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never get married period.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:28 PM
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I think its pretty stupid to provoke a woman who's violent.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:21 PM
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This is clearly mentality of a cult where there is no such thing as freedom because they threaten you with an afterlife of hell. That stuff is hard to escape and anyone no matter how flex they think they are are susceptible to being dragged into the cult, especially kids that have been brainwashed when they didnt have the ability to make logical connections. Please read https://thriveworks.com/blog/protect-yourself-from-mind-control-techniques/
/r/askMRP23/01/24 08:06 PM
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Are you on a path for growth physically or mentally or a combination? you have admitted to a problem, it is a first step, the problem is you are taking her for granted and rethinking your future. You have the right to pursue your happiness as long as it doesnt harm anybody else so you can start working on it if any choice makes you happy. If its a tie for now, I would say it aint love and love cannot be just created. But you can only grow mentally if you choose the mental path, and it is often t…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 07:50 PM
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"But you don't need to be 100% mysterious and effortlessly awesome 24/7 to be attractive." - I think I used to delude myself into thinking I always need to try to be some way, until I realized the less I tried, the better I felt and the success actually improved. But it just really feels good to be good enough.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 07:26 PM
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"PMS got worse" - i suggest stop arguing with someone whos experiencing PMS but in general a good rule of thumb to avoid unnecessary arguments that have no meaning to either of you. Resolve your conflicts by simply agreeing to disagree "won't be giving you money' shit tests" - shes pissed, dont take her angry threats seriously when shes pissed and dont ask for important things when she is, and she should do the same for you "miss started going out with friends more and pay more attentiont to her…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 07:03 PM
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The things you have adopted in your relationship are clearly not working and backfire for both of you leaving you angry and stripping you of empathy. I suggest searching psychology documentation. Good luck.
/r/askMRP23/01/24 06:53 PM
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"She is also taking a job that will require her to work late and so she won’t be able to pick up our son after daycare and has asked if I could pick him up, then she would get him after work." - i find this very important here, and the fact this has become a chore to you when spending time with your son is involved is concerning. I do however see where you are coming from. From a woman whos been within poly rships, i can tell you it doesnt feel any better if you find someone else and you are att…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 06:35 PM
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