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| 1 | Looking for helpYou said a texting affair, is that all it was? Yes its bad, but texting and real physical sexual contact is miles apart. The former can be dealt with way easier than the latter. You say you are not super intimate and your wife desires it badly. Not sure how to analyze this. Are there reasons why you don't want to be super intimate with your wife, or are you incapable of being super intimate with anyone? And let me add, I am not really sure what super intimate means. A relationship without intima… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Its OverI'm sorry you had to go through that. I was lucky in a sense mine was at the tale end of covid and it was actually done virtually. It would have been extremely difficult if we were both there in person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Going through divorce after discovering my wife's affairs and now experiencing some form of ED? Anyone else experience this?I had same experience, though I was a little younger in my 40s. No trouble with the ex, but when I first met my current wife and we got intimate, had a hard time staying hard. She was also very attractive. Its a mental thing. Being with someone new after 20 plus years with the same person will do that. Luckily my current wife was very understanding and we talked about what she could do to turn me on more and relax. I was back to normal in no time and it has been the best ever. I think a laid bac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to doThis may not be a popular opinion but it is the truth. Physical attraction is a real thing. You cannot stay with someone you are not attracted too out of fear of being labeled an ahole. It will eat away at you. Especially if you are young. When older, yes looks fade, but then so does your sex drive and its easier then. I know there is so much more to a relationship than physical attraction, but its a huge part and anyone who says its not is not living in reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 11:36 AM |
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