PyjamaTime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What are good presents for your husband when he is the sole provider? I've been working lately and I can see the benefits of the wife staying home. I feel that everything is messy.	/r/RedPillWives	16/05/18 08:40 AM
3	In-laws problems. I advise against it. I think they fuel hatred	/r/RedPillWives	16/05/18 08:35 AM
5	Short term daughter Start with tickle games like This little piggy, and then say tickle me, and then move to Try to stop me from tickling you. Do dumb ass dad jokes like Give me 5 (Too slow) to teach her that banter and light teasing is ok.	/r/RedPillWives	14/05/18 10:20 AM
12	Short term daughter Wrestle with her like with sons. Be jolly and silly. Crack jokes. Then ask her to teach you how to play dress ups.	/r/RedPillWives	30/04/18 11:15 PM
2	What are good presents for your husband when he is the sole provider? Well in that case, it's a great time to be a stay at home wife. With Netflix and cafes everywhere, free time is great.	/r/RedPillWives	29/04/18 12:02 PM
2	Unsolicited advice I think that nothing is black and white / absolute / 100%. Sometimes he'll have better mate ideas and you'll have better captain ideas. As you're in a partnership it's sensible to let the other swap roles occasionally and also in doing so can give you guidance.	/r/RedPillWives	29/03/18 01:47 PM
2	What are good presents for your husband when he is the sole provider? Do you mind my asking why you quit your job? Do you have children or hobbies or other commitments?	/r/RedPillWives	29/03/18 01:30 PM
12	Working wives, how do you find time for cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. alongside working full time? It's not; you need to do your share.	/r/RedPillWives	14/03/18 10:48 AM
1	What is your current relationship focus? What are you striving to understand better about your man, and/or improve about yourself? I find it helps to stop thinking about housewife skills and just focus on one thing he needs. It's usually food, then clean undies, then IF you yourself has time and inclination, a tidy room for him to relax in.	/r/RedPillWives	02/02/18 11:44 AM
1	My husband needs his alone time often when he’s stressed and not stressed. Need advice. It's introversion, so he just needs space, and after 20 min you could join him.	/r/RedPillWives	16/01/18 10:09 AM
3	Table Ettiquette with Gloria Starr Her hand movements are too practiced and fake, causing me to dislike / distrust her.	/r/RedPillWives	18/12/17 10:39 PM
2	Wondering what are appropriate songs for a wedding playlist? Hi, also aspie :) Think of the wedding reception as a gift that you are giving to everyone. A wedding can be self-indulgent and only about the couple, or a celebration of your relationships with everyone. Music might include some swing, 60s 70s, etc. Sadly it might even need some stupid crap songs if that's what it takes to get people to get up and dance. Eg Macarena. I tried to make my wedding have only my kind of music, and it would have been elegant, but the band played horrid dance crap at t…	/r/RedPillWives	18/12/17 02:21 AM
7	I believe I need to let go, but I don’t want to. People can change. They can grow into better beings. But do you really need to dedicate ten years waiting to see if he grows up, having your heart break again and again in the process, when if you moved on you might find someone who is already mature and already at your level? Your life should be fun and comfortable, and you shouldn't sacrifice your daily happiness to help a jerk grow up. My gut instinct is that he was too gutless to tell you not to move, has inconvenienced you incredibly in the…	/r/RedPillWives	03/11/17 07:38 PM
1	'Storing' emotions What a bloody clever idea.	/r/RedPillWives	19/10/17 08:04 PM
1	Waiting for Engagement before having sex. Unrealistic? Waiting for engagement is bullshit. You either do it now or wait til marriage. It's just sex. If you do it now and he leaves you, you learn that you were lucky that you didn't marry a user.	/r/RedPillWives	16/08/17 11:17 PM
3	HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby. Lead by example. Eat well. Exercise. Catch up once a week with friends. And remember that you are not perfect. Babies are hard work and it's so easy to resent your partner. So keep the resentment away. Say thanks to him for things he does well. Tell him having a baby is hard and you aporeciate having him there. He's probably depressed. And yep he HAS lost his freedom to be spontaneous. But he needs to process that and get on with it. Single parenting is hard so do your best to not fall into rese…	/r/RedPillWives	25/07/17 11:07 PM
2	How do I stop liking gossip? As someone in their mid-forties I can tell you that you will naturally become less interested in it as you age. Yes, celebrity gossip is shallow. However, if your networks at school or work read it, gossip gives you a topic of conversation, a way to connect. Flicking through a shallow story takes your mind off your day and helps you to relax. The pictures teach you what's in fashion, which can be useful since fashion IS a sign of status, whether we follow it or not. As you age you'll find other …	/r/RedPillWives	23/04/17 09:11 PM
3	What NOT to say to your man – ever. -Shaunti Feldhahn Blog This is what not to do to anyone, regardless of gender.	/r/RedPillWives	22/04/17 11:35 AM
2	[Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselves I understand how this churns your insides with doubt. I've been there too. But if you go or stay, you don't need to justify it to anyone.	/r/RedPillWives	24/03/17 02:42 AM
3	[Advice] Husband pays girls for pictures of themselves Hi, I don't think it matters how we classify it. Your main issue is deciding if it will stop, continue as is, or continue and turn into something else. Then, you need to work out what you feel about it as a future thing. Ignore the past, it's done. You can control the future in that you can make decisions about what you will accept.	/r/RedPillWives	21/03/17 08:19 AM
8	What are your best homemaking "hacks"? Dry your laundry on clothes hangers. Once dry it takes only a minute to put them away - no ironing or folding.	/r/RedPillWives	18/03/17 10:07 AM
3	Husband keeping secrets, and I think I am at least partially responsible - is there anything I can do to fix this? porn is what you do when you don't want to engage with a person. ot just means he's tired and just wants to do it quickly and selfishly (eg without putting in time to another body). It's like having a spoon of sugar (porn) because it requires too much communication and effort to get the box of good cookies (sex with person). I don't think you need to be jealous. Having said that, I was jealous for yearrrrs, but I'm now in my 40s and my jealousy faded once I viewed sex as just an itch. I bet this…	/r/RedPillWives	28/02/17 07:39 AM
5	Okay To Be a Housewife With No Kids? I think as long as you stay engaged with committees or clubs or hobbies, you'll be ok You need to feel like you are meeting your own needs to be social, and to be an engaged member of society. Life has plenty of time to try different things. Ask him, if he's happy for you to be a STAW, would he if necessary support you if you returned to school?	/r/RedPillWives	28/02/17 07:30 AM
1	When you're too smart to find a guy that's smart enough for you Hmm. Or change the circles you move in.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/16 09:04 PM
1	Boyfriend said he doesn't want to be with me See a psych. This stuff here is not going to help you evolve.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/16 09:00 PM
5	Does anyone else find themselves behaving in a way to show other men you are of high worth? Nah you're fine. But you'll end up with low quality friends, because more highly evolved people won't tolerate your games.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/16 08:56 PM
3	I don't feel like I have a feminine brain Autism in women can leave you feeling like that. There's an amount of freedom in it. But that's just a droplet in a sea of possible explanations.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/16 04:24 AM
1	FR:When their hand is on the lifeboat, kick it back to sea I guess there's a lot of girls that use sex to feel loved, that's why I felt sorry for her. I thought you might have taken advantage of her neediness. I'm frustrated to hear that you were affected by war; I have suffered trauma too, and I am sad at the idea of so many people suffering after trying to help their country. It is horrible that ex- soldiers have to struggle with the after effects. Can I advise that the red pill is often a place of men feeling wary, but that emotionally-healthy women …	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/15 11:07 PM
-1	FR:When their hand is on the lifeboat, kick it back to sea Why would you have sex with an emotionally vulnerable person? You have poor morals and compassion.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 08:21 PM
2	"Don't Talk to Women Like Men" Oh my god, REALLY? I hope there's mutual attraction and compatability, not just manipulation. See here's the thing - if this strategy gets you the girl, is the girl mature enough to be a strong and wise partner for you?	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 08:18 PM
1	Should have known better, but I wanted her to understand what she was really saying. She eats from an anus?	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 12:49 PM
4	Should have known better, but I wanted her to understand what she was really saying. Um what issues of inequality do you men face? I'm intrigued to find that there's so many guys agreeing with the Blue author, and I'd love to hear what experiences you've had with gender inequality. Thanks.	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 12:38 PM
-2	Should have known better, but I wanted her to understand what she was really saying. She meant that in general, where a man and a woman might be doing equivalent work, they would receive different salaries. This often occurs by using different job titles for similar roles.	/r/MensRights	10/06/13 12:36 PM