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CMVQncyFie/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:54 PM
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CMVQncyFie/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:36 PM
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Lol u can aproach anyone. Is just weird when u approach soneone with obviouw horny intent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:10 AM
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Groups will by default show variance in results due to how statistics and the universe works. What you do is condemning one group merely for showing different results from another group. Calling this silly of you would be a kind of understatement equivalent to calling a redwood a plant shaped micropenis
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:29 AM
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Men are more easily satisfied and content with the relationship dynamic, whereas women might experience more negative stagnation or dissatisfaction. Its caused by mere slight psychological group differences which translate to these statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:17 AM
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Well men need to stop being so easy then 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:23 AM
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Oh, that's just because your first sentence was condescending from the get go. Have some self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:22 AM
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". Men's competition is the tribe," Dumbest thing I've ever read. "women's competition is usually another woman trying to extract resources(" Both genders compete with one another. When men compete on the dominance hierarchy that's basically for resources. "can be something as simple as Instagram likes)." Calling likes resources and talking about tribes, k, you are a fking dimwit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:02 AM
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Unspecific vs specific, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:46 AM
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The use of the word objective is just utterly rettarded
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:51 PM
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Women know men watch porn and continue to do so in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:46 PM
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That's why everyone injects their lips, because it's objectively less beautiful. That's why being THICC is hot in the west but not so much in the east, because subjective perception of random redditor decides what is objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:44 PM
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I'd say that yes, women pluck men from the top of the hierarchy while men care very little about hierarchical position. But women have a maximum range of course like anyone, and since there's about equal amounts of both, most men and women settle most easy during the time they are in college within limited range. It's not like all women settle way above during this time simultaneously, that's just statistically impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:23 AM
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Yeah you have shitty moms who do things very wrong, and just moms who are single and lack where they can't possibly compensate for lack of dad. Its unfair to treat them the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:05 AM
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This indeed. J Peterson's work is for women as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:59 AM
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Extreme incompatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:55 AM
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JP is for women too silly! Not only men see him as a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:46 AM
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Red pill behavior for the most part but without the cringy theory crafting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:45 AM
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No, people date within their own socioeconomic range mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:38 AM
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Most people date within their own socioeconomic range, so high status career doesn't matter. Timing and exposure is very important, meaning during university years you find most suitors. Goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:37 AM
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This is the only correct answer. I think woman 2 looks prettier than 1, but I'd like to look more like 3. Btw 3 is so different from 1 and 2 that raters will default to either 1 or 2 due to similarity. This has a psychological reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:03 AM
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Well it's true that most women already settled by then with their university-period sweetheart. After that it becomes significantly harder for guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:59 AM
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A) Sexual display gives feel good hormones and stimuli, it's a personal thing that isn't specifically directed to anyone. B) Liking pictures of sexual display also gives feel good hormones and stimuli, but it's specifically directed towards the one being 'liked'. This makes it more 'problematic' perhaps. Why not watch whatever you want and not like the pictures. This removes the problematic part of point B, thus making it more like point A. Point A would've been problematic in a similar way if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:49 PM
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Stupidity is a massive turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:38 AM
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Toxic masculinity doesn't benefit anyone. It's an unfair expectation that pressures men to adjust their behavior to display masculine traits at the cost of well-being and suppression of themselves and or others. Example: A persistent stoic frame. Not display emotions of sadness, and or behave feminine in any way whereas women can adopt masculine traits and are encouraged to do so. It's emotionally restrictive and unfair. But honestly, both genders have toxic default expectations. Ive never heard…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:02 PM
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Don't rl need that shit tho but is easier and faster when not in the right mood. Still slower than when in the mood tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:40 PM
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Well said =]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:21 AM
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Probably also plays a part. And people love gossiping about why their spouse, or anything, sucks haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:41 AM
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This rhetoric the OP describes isn't as serious as it sounds. I think a portion of the rhetoric comes from the fact that males and females have psychological differences. These differences cause these general complaints the genders have for each other and differ in seriousness per context: "Men are lazy etc." Since men are less bothered by certain things on average and therefore feel less motive to move before a woman does. This also explains the following: "Men are rude or blant or w.e." Men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:35 AM
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I think not obsessing over attention and attraction from other people is a good thing. But its obsessed over nonetheless. Doesn't seem to me anything changed much in that department, but then again, i don't really know in exactly what way my generation is different fron gen Z and those who are 5+ years younger than me. I assume its about the same due to hormones and our drive to procreate. The only difference is that a lot of sex and LEWD stuff is all over the place and in all media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:25 AM
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The men you talk about are an extremely small set so this post is impossible to take serious. You are taking multiple sets of people and categories them as one lol. Is like doing this: Cats are grey and when these cats get pet they bite your hand. it's so silly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:08 AM
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"I know choosing not to is not a choice. A man can chose not to stick his bare dick in women" That useless space between "in" and "women" makes this hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:05 AM
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Switch hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:04 AM
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Procreation > Nothing, according to every biological organism ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:04 AM
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No study that denies leprechauns in the sun either. Burden of proof lies for the ones who make claims
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:27 PM
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This is not the reason LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:26 PM
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Thats true, but that has nothing to do with bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:03 PM
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Thats so lame. And what when gay people date, if men they pay for each other and if women the bartender pays?? Its so dumb and ridiculous in a culture where both work. In the Netherlands when people agree on a date or w.e both pay. Don't pay for the other one its bs, come on lads!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:52 AM
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How degenerate to just post that. Yikes x 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:53 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:52 AM
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"Not paying far dates" LOL?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:50 AM
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Link to the study? Correlation isn't causation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:28 AM
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I see men disproportionately suffering from loneliness judging by the manosphere and forever alone type subs (old incels). Male attractiveness corresponds directly with their position on the dominance hierarchy, which they seek to climb constantly On the female equivalent of manosphere subs (female dating strategy and gender critical) people complain(ed) about the other gender while still actively dating or having dated. So to me it seems that men suffer more from lack of a mate, also because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:52 AM
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I don't think anyone applies this consciously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:47 AM
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Kinda a big thing to desire with nothing to bring in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:53 PM
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Provider expectation is out-dated as fk and women with jobs don't look for that. People generally date within their own socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:34 AM
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Porn and actual sex is kiiiiinda very different. Don't men get erectile dysfunction from overconsumption? What is a porn brain, is it like an addicted brain? Not being able to take something less is very different from addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:15 PM
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Ahwww
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:08 PM
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Such a cute little interaction between the both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:00 PM
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The answer is evolution. Women spend a lot of energy when having and rearing children. Men only spend a little sperm. So women need more "reasons" to sexually desire a man whereas men only need indications of fertility, which are visual indications.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:47 PM
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I agree that such a tendency is there and differs between the sexes, but not the extent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:19 PM
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I don't know what or if she made any impact. Similar as to no any one person can significantly make an impact on how i feel towards their demographic, hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:03 PM
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My parents should've never gotten together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:01 PM
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Who said that suggestion was toxic though, some other commentator perhaps? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Differentiating between "needing" and "wanting" a 'Someone' to drive your point while we were talking about a multitude of "someone" (men) is lame af
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:28 PM
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Condoms???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:15 PM
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"Loads of women nowadays don't need men in their lives" People need particular people in their lives. The kind of people someone needs seems gender independent. Of course there are group differences between genders. On an individual level these difference fluctuate so greatly that i find statements such as yours silly and somewhat toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:14 PM
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I find gender a poor predictor of whether i like people or not. Similar to race, ideology, and looks. Romantic interest dependency i find extremely hard to divine for myself. I suspect I'm not fully capable of experiencing romantic love towards anything to a normal extent due to psychological-, physiological-, and physical- issues perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:05 PM
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Biology. Conflift between couples are often very hostile and hateful, yet they stay together and make-up. It's a frustrating dependency humans are subjected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:03 PM
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My wording was kinda bad. I like your kind and respectful demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:10 AM
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Let me rephrase: I meant to say its lame that our psychology, especially for men, bases self-worth off the ability to attract. This results in men having lowered self-worth when they are unable to attract anything. So actually i can put myself in their shoes and therefore declare this dependency as lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:56 AM
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Depends on whether she snorts mine or I hers. JKJKJK
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:19 PM
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Small steps and keep a goal that improves you or your environment. Make the goal small enough initially to make it very doable (organize closet or do dishes, or 1 plate, ANYTHING). The brain will rewire and reward you, this will increase exponentially and your goals + determination increase. When depression decreases and status increases, the amount of punishment you can take and shrug off to try again will stagger the current you =]
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:58 PM
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More accurate imo would be that any of the redpill strategies or points that work are insanely logical. Like "workout, be assertive, have good conversation skills, dress better, etc." It's redundant and not even strictly redpill. The problem comes at application and stress resistance + determination. Honestly its lame to value so much on ability to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:53 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah males in humans are like males with paradise birds. They are expected to do the courting and are judged
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:17 PM
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I'd want to so that the children have better prospects without unfairly burdening the father who might not want to father a child but has no say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:45 PM
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How does that explain the steady decline then? Perhaps it's not much of a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:27 PM
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Indeed positive feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:25 PM
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Agreed. The stress / reward ratio needs to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:24 PM
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I saw a video of Jordan peterson where he stated that female math geniuses were more likely to be provisioned in other areas as well such as languages, where as male math geniuses were less likely so. This explains why female math geniuses persue other careers. Btw, emotional fields? You say psychology below but how bs is that. How are those emotional fields and wtf is that even. If you refer to people vs things, then that explains differences between job outcome, but that has nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:15 AM
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Perhaps because testosterone correlates with risk taking behavior. Not sure if the sole factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:00 AM
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Yeah everyone is emotion driven. And when it comes to those drunk senseless bar fights, that's all pure emotion. Till now i thought women experience negative emotion more intensely, but this study says: "Men had stronger emotional experiences, whereas women had stronger emotional expressivity, particularly for negative emotions. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27362361/ If true then that explains conflicting findings if those depended purely on measured expressiveness. Willingness to express emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:58 AM
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"When men figure this out it can cause resentment. Because they've been getting bullshitted their entire lives about how the "right, nice" girl will come along for them. And, when that doesn't happen, people get jaded." How much is this the case still. Redpil, pick up artist, and terms that used to be very niche such as 'hypergamy, game, Chads, etc' have become mainstream. So it's not like people are unaware or ignorant of other perspectives. "funny guy with a great personality: as luroot below …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:23 AM
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Correct, but those points are not the core reason for why incels give up, it's to favor giving up and not exposing to stress by trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:19 AM
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Such a good attitude, admirable even. I'd agree, but me and all people (especially with social media age) value themselves based of others in their environment. Not sure how much social media influences this, but this effect makes that attitude\goal less potent sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:16 AM
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No way that can be the case. So you have 0 things to even slightly improve on that others would also count as an improvement? Like, let's say, a hobby or some other arbitrary thing that widens interests, skills, w.e HEAVY BS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:11 AM
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Yeah but simultaneously, it's more dreading for some individuals to hone such skills since they are trial and error. Too much error will demotivate and reevaluate fairness and prospects, often concluding futility when stress from error becomes too much. Solution would be to pick trials with reduced risk reward values, one way can be simply exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:06 AM
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Aren't those incels only, basically disliked by everyone but incels? Other than that, correct. Giving up on itself is a significant stress alleviator. (This test is too hard il get it on retry and have more time dedicated to it) The high it gives when deciding this is so relieving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:02 AM
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Its also an argument for that, but come on, does anyone think people can completely not care about physical traits and looks? Like no care at all? That's just silly, there is a bias and it will influence emotional response such as attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:57 AM
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It's not THE reason incels think like that, it's merely to reason in favor of not trying and assuming its futile. This is the path of least stress, but also a downward negative self-reafirming spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:54 AM
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Well i think people are generally less likely to vote for something that doesn't benefit them, even without the intention of wanting to make use of it. But i realize now that it's not so much the points that OP makes in regards to the tendency of certain political\ideological viewpoints favoring those points, but nore so the first paragraph where he establishes why this is the case. This kills the discussion haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:19 AM
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Tribalism causes both carelessness about general support provided by the government within own country AND eagerness to dominate and not care about completely foreign groups. This is ironic since government funding will reduce friction between groups, and therefore tribalism + the unwillingness to help out, at far lower cost both financial and moral. The problem however is the fact that tribalism is effective at keeping a group protected vs other tribalistic groups. So defense and willingness to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:12 AM
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Taxpayers. Likewise they pay for victims of diseases and accidents in first world countries. There is no objective reasoning behind favoring collective laboring besides inherent psychology (due to both perspective and biology) and the ideological view of wanting there to be as little suffering as possible in a humane way by giving sufferers the best prospects of regaining a form of functionality within the collective at a relatively (especially comparably) low cost per individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:02 AM
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That's a fair point. I agree with that it should be the burden of the collective. This also prevents scenarios where the man gets crippled by the burden, especially young ones, while simultaneously make support easier and more reliable for the woman when via the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:52 PM
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It is unfair to the man since he has no say in the matter when a child is going to be born true. But such laws are to benefit the child which could be argued to be higher priority fairness than fairness to the man. Whether the application is done well differs per country. The US for as far as i know is fking bs in how unfair it is I honesty don't have a strong opinion regarding this. I can simply see the unfairness but also the reasoning behind favoring such unfair laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:45 PM
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The current US laws are busted however. But yeah, things like child support are to benefit the offspring by making both parents invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:42 PM
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Any statistics on the number of women and men favoring the things you mentioned in the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:40 PM
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"Greater activity in the structure linking with empathic brain and evaluation attractiveness was observed for the less attractive man than for the more attractive man, and for the attractive woman compared with the attractive man. This is an intriguing finding that could suggest that being an attractive man reduces ones likelihood of receiving empathy." "In the absence of behavioral effects in compassion ratings, we observed stronger activation in empathic brain structures (ACC; AI) for less att…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:33 PM
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Depends on the request. The things i mention come off as controlling if blatantly requested in a general sense. Why not draw a scenario where you think the request is fair and see if we agree on that since context here is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:03 PM
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Men get way more sense of self-worth from sex than women, agreed. Quite lame honestly, but from a biological perspective quite logical. Men's ability to get laid directly corresponds to their attractiveness and social status, for women this isn't the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:53 AM
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Probably because blatantly requesting it in a general sense is weird and controlling AF. Similarly to requesting women to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:49 AM
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It's not about wasted money, it's simply courtesy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:01 PM
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Exaggerating much? Most men are in a grey zone for women where they feel indifferent towards them. This can turn into attraction over time, or repulsion, or nothing happens and all is good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:37 PM
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I think rating looks is perceived as more offensive by women than men. Men do it constantly and most women find it rude really haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:33 AM
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Doesn't everyone work now? And according to studies women still do most of the housework despite also working lol, but I haven't been on these kind of topics for a few years so have things changed? Are en overworked now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:31 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:48 PM
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I agree. Thats why i specified that there is only tribslism between the sexes due to identity politics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:24 PM
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"I cannot agree it's even okay to desire to ask a question like "are black people more violent," or any iteration of the concept. That's YOU (or, for the sake of this, anyone asking) putting a human into a group/tribe/whatever and making them the 'other.' " So untrue and toxic to have this perspective. You can create a normal distribution about any trait and any group. Men vs women. Race vs race. These studies give insight and understanding, and whether the outcome is flattering for the weaker g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:25 PM
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"You are selfish to you, your family, your social group, your community, your town, your country, your planet in hierarchical order. ." Yes but i don't perceive other tribe members as hostile as soon as they sufficiently diverge from my viewpoint. For example, i can hard bash Christianity or Islam, the latter makes me seem like some kind of braindead hillbilly who is afraid of any ethnicity that strongly correlates to the religion, but i don't do that. Because when i discuss an outgroup perspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:11 PM
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Not freely expressing is due to conforming to the consensus. You see this with scientists and researchers all the time. Nationalism is also something that can cause strong tribalistic behavior regardless of IQ. Especially in dictatorships that restrict the free thinking of their citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:01 PM
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Womeone wrote me this comment, and i agree with it: "I disagree with you. Double standards are created due to the difference between the sexes, some double standards favor women and some double standards favor men, but there is always an explanation to why that double standard exist. For example: Men are sent to fight wars and women are displaced to a different place to preserve their lives. See Ukraine. Why does this happen? Women's bodies are more valuable in the context of reproduction and pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:13 PM
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I agree, i will copy last your comment to someone else. That's how glad i am someone understands what i mean yay ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:09 PM
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My definition of double standard is different from yours. So this isn't going anywhere. I'll give an example. When a female goes to a male bathroom, people generally don't care at all, but vice versa is just not-done. This is a double standard and it emerged in societies because of differences between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:41 AM
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"How do you know that? Well, in any fight between a man and a woman, women would be knocked out." Statistical analysis, biology. Are you seriously asking me how i know that men have more physical strength on average? "There's no reason why men are stronger than women, they just are. Evolution and nature aren't thinking beings that had a reason for making men and women different." You misinterpreted what i mean by 'double standard'. I didn't mean to say the difference is a double standard. I mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:41 AM
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Okay, random and also bsseless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:50 PM
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What do you mean by "roles." "We humans think we are smarter than nature and can use technology to force our way out of our roles." Care to give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:52 PM
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Funnily enough i always associate it with minority groups vs dominant groups and men vs women. But ofc it applies to any situation where one party is allowed something over the other even though it should be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:48 PM
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But isn't what i described also due to double standard? Where minority groups are more allowed to express certain things (fully dependent on context ofc) Also, i added a paragraph to previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:36 PM
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Yes i think i agree with that. I assumed that double standards were by default in favour of the weaker party, but this isn't always the case. I failed to fully understand what that word means, jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:31 PM
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Can't really agree with that. For example, when a white individual experiences racism from a black one in an environment that is majority white, it is perceived as less bad than if that situation were reversed in that same environment. That's because a minority is perceived as part of a weaker group. So this double standard corrects for that. (I'm not arguing in favour of any such double standard) Btw i agree that double standards aren't always in favour of the weaker party. I failed to recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:27 PM
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