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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet? It's common courtesy. Whoever asks pays. Always. Even in business or with friends, that's how it works. If you're close with a friend/family member/colleague, splitting or alternating is acceptable, but otherwise, whoever asks pays.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/19 11:47 PM
1	The actual nerve Believe it or not, I don't want to date someone who's in debt. I know, such a high bar.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 03:16 PM
1	Zoosk.com:”Though men are often attracted to women up to 10 years younger than them, the women they match with (AKA, the women who like them back) tend to be only 1 to 3 years younger.” (So much for all those “options” expanding in middle age) They're in denial about the wall. Yeah, it hits women, but it hits men too. They're lying to themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 03:07 PM
5	Single man complains about how difficult it is to meet women online and IRL. Daily reminder that you are the prize, you are pursued, valued and desirable while they wait for years for a response. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men who are easily replaceable! Yeah, I've noticed that a lot of men unconsciously ignore women they don't find attractive. Older women, less attractive women, they all are invisible to men. It's like they don't exist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 12:45 AM
2	Some men really do not realise how much male attention women get on a daily basis. This is my date's explanation why he was too pushy with getting physical and didn't respect my multiple "no"s. He really thinks complimenting a girl is enough for her to get all horny about him lol (after going dutch) I feel the same. I feel the need to make it clear that I'm not a gold digger or in it for the money, so I usually follow the rule of "whoever initiates pays." And since he's male and he should be chasing you, he'll be paying most of the time. If they pay, it means your time is valuable, that you have decided that they're worth a chance. You're signaling your value. It feels weird, yeah, but it sets the terms of the relationship in your favor.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 11:44 PM

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