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They're one of those couples that are gross in love even after like fifteen years. It's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:20 PM
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He works in a computer repair place, she works retail. It's definitely not the money. They met in the tail end of highschool. She'd had a few (significantly more attractive) boyfriends before him, he had dated some too. It's not as if she's never had the opportunity to trade him in for a "better model," but she loves him. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:19 PM
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I mean he's an awesome guy. Hilarious, compassionate, intelligent, fun to hang out with. He just looks like a water buffalo. And it's true, there's generally nothing actually exciting or impressive about being "hot," leaving aside how totally subjective it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:16 AM
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One of those couples are dear friends if mine. Girl I went to highschool with, absolutely gorgeous, her husband is objectively goofy looking and they've been together for like fifteen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 03:18 AM
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I know plenty of neurotic, jealous women, and the basis of their behavior is their sense of self-worth being externalized onto their partners. The availability of a relationship is not the issue, having enough self-esteem and self-respect not to allow yourself to be treated poorly is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:24 AM
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Male or female, my point remains valid. You can play whatever mind games you want, implement dread, improve yourself to the absolute peak of your possible performance, and you STILL CANNOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:58 PM
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The idea that you HAVE to control your partner's sexuality is baffling to me. There's billions of people on the planet. Learn to be happy single, and if a person you're dating fails to hold up to the end of the bargain, dump them and move on to the next. I have never tried to control my partners because it's an exercise in futility. The only thing you can control is your reaction and the boundaries you set.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:02 AM
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This is SO TRUE. It doesn't matter what you say, they assume you're lying or compensating. You only like short dudes? You're fat. You only like chubby dudes? You're ugly. It's like a tremendously boring script they all follow. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:31 AM
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I absolutely understand. I had a very similar upbringing only I was a daughter instead of a son. My mother assumed I had the same issues she did and favored my younger brother because he was enough degrees of separation that she couldn't use him as a psychological prop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:24 AM
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I ask this strictly out of scientific curiosity, I promise it's not a gotcha. What negative attributes can you apply to your mother? What did she do that you can unequivocally say was negative for your upbringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:12 AM
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I got them to take it seriously so they're all beng careful, but I still worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 08:27 PM
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Both my parents, both my grandmothers, and most of my aunts and uncles are seriously high risk. I can't see any of my family in person right now, it's driving me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:51 AM
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Hmm, people are dying, their families are at risk both economically and health-wise, and suddenly there are no light-hearted jokes? Fancy that! The VAST MAJORITY of my direct family has health issues that puts them in the highest bracket of at-risk population. So you'll have to forgive me for not giving a shit about what the "thots" are up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:15 PM
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Absolutely! So long as he's a financially secure adult I have zero issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:57 PM
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My standards have increased, not because I expect a man to pay for my lifestyle, but he needs to MATCH it. I'm not gonna pay his bills. He needs to take care of his own shit. I don't need a millstone around my neck, I grew up dirt (hunting for meat) poor, and any man who can't kill to feed his family is an instant rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:52 AM
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When I personally wear makeup it's for two distinct reasons. The first one is that I find it fun and creative. I like the process and the end results, and when I'm doing my warpaint for personal reasons, I have more leeway with colors and styles. The second reason is because of social pressure. It's considered "unprofessional" to go without it, people will ask if you're sick or tired or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 08:48 PM
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I'm bisexual too, that's just a bonus. We can check out dudes together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:49 AM
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Do you have difficulty with context? See my previous statement. Run along.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:07 PM
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Low-effort bait there fella. Run along now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:05 PM
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Both of my boyfriend's parents are nurses, you should hear some of the stories they've told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:07 PM
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The MLM huns are the WORST.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:06 PM
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It could, but it could also low-grade mutate all spring and summer long and come back worse in the next winter. That's what happened with all the really bad flu outbreaks. The place I live is at the 500 miles from the nearest real city, but tourists pass through all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:47 PM
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Oh lordy yes. I've already seen some nonsense where I live, and we're MONTHS away from tourist season and legitimately having a to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:20 AM
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I had a woo-woo hippie bitch try to tell me today that you could cure the coronavirus with essential oils. I don't have the patience for this horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:56 AM
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I'm 5'3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:55 AM
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My current boyfriend fits that description EXACTLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:34 PM
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I've never been attracted to"alpha" traits. The vast majority of the time, the behaviors that the RP describes as supposedly being alpha and attractive, invoke a visceral disgust and dislike in me. The men I've dated have always been openly emotional, straightforward and honest about their feelings, and absolutely dorky in love with me. Anything less fails to grab my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:30 PM
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It depends entirely on how they approach it. I had an ex who was suicidal and depressed and he would do NOTHING about it. I tried for years to get him to go to therapy, get meds, literally anything, but he just wouldn't. When it got to the point that he not only wanted to die, but wanted me to die with him, because somehow he'd rationalized that as being romantic, I left. The point is that you, if you have mental issues, have a responsibility to deal with them proactively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:14 PM
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I'm white as fuck and I have zero preference. I have dated outside my race multiple times, and the only issues I've dealt with have been cultural stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:56 AM
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All I have ever wanted out of a man is someone who's done his psychological work. Someone who has done DEEP self-reflection, who has recognized, owned, and worked on his shit. I don't want to be your therapist, your mommy or your punching bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:54 AM
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Men who harbor a cartoonish amount of hate for sluts almost UNIVERSALLY want what sluts have, which is near effortless access to sex. Whatever justifications they make up, however they rationalize it, they're jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:45 AM
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Christ on a communion cracker, I hate this dumb fuckin' stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:17 PM
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Depends on how you define "shallow." I have a very specific type, parts of which are directly opposed to the RP picture of an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:07 PM
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If you think men don't engage in emotional and financial abuse, I have a bridge to sell you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 03:49 PM
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Women are generally better for emotional or intellectual shit. Willing to learn about my interests, emotionally supportive, much more likely to pay attention and remember things you tell them about yourself. Men are generally better for more practical shit. Volunteering help without being asked, willing to teach skills you don't know, basic chivalry shit. When a woman loves you, ACTUALLY loves you, she admires you, looks up to you. When a guy loves you, he sort of idolizes you, loves all his fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:08 AM
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I've dated men and women, both have their own problems. Both can be assholes in a spectacular variety of ways. The idea that "all men are bad" or "all women are bad" is just heterosexual selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:29 PM
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That's why I said "sometimes." It happens more often, in my experience, to women like me who have predominantly male friend groups, male-dominated hobbies or nerdy interests. We're seen as a "safe choice" or a "nice girl," and when that illusion comes crashing down, men respond poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:12 PM
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In the greater cosmic sense of being "right?" Maybe not. But "men" in that broad general sense have proven to me that they're unworthy of my trust. They present a very real danger to my well being if I'm not cautious and skeptical. My safety, both physical and psychological, is more important to me than the feelings of strangers. Maybe that's callous, but I'm comfortable with the idea that it's justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:13 AM
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Absolutely yes. But I'm a bisexual who hangs out with a variety of different queer folk so my metrics for "real man" are fairly nonstandard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:59 AM
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I've seen a couple "I loved who I THOUGHT she was" answers in this thread, which lines up with my experience from the other end. A lot of guys who think they love a girl, love an imaginary, idealized version of her. I think, in part, this is what's responsible for the lashing out that happens sometimes if these guys get rejected; an illusion is shattered and they place all the blame on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:35 AM
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Just a smidge or it fucks up the structural integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:09 AM
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Musubi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:04 AM
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Please, I've been dealing with supposedly RP guys for almost ten years. But some issues are universal. I have a friend who is probably being abused by his wife RIGHT NOW. I have been trying to get him away from her for almost five years. Some shit is beyond gender roles, and spouting slurs at someone who agrees with you is fuckin' retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:02 AM
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Ecru 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:53 AM
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Men on Twitter are the WORST. I made a comment in FAVOR of expanded services for male DV victims and almost immediately got a DM calling me a vile feminist cunt. Like I'm sorry that your masculinity is threatened by the idea that men can be abused but I'm ON YOUR FUCKIN' SIDE YOU DILLHOLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:34 AM
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I find it's helpful to avoid people who make you jealous or wistful (block them if you have to) and only follow people who inspire, motivate, or otherwise uplift you. I've been doing this internet thing since the AOL dialup days, and the very best advice I can give you is this- The block button is your friend. Use it frequently and with zero guilt or shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:24 PM
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I adore men. My closest friends are male, my younger brother is the single most important person in the universe for me, my boyfriend is incredible. However, those men are individuals who I love, know, and trust. MEN, as a faceless, generalized mass, are much more unsavory. I like individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:18 PM
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Social media has become the modern version of "keeping up with the Joneses," and tons of people take it to unhealthy extremes, trying to project the image of happiness and whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:43 PM
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I call my actual real life father daddy, AND I have been the victim of an actual, real life pedophile during my childhood. There's a whole swirling galaxy of "fuckin' nope" there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:35 PM
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Oh I get it, but apparently you don't. "Gamer grills" is nerd bitch shorthand. Because the uncouth creatures who accuse us of faking it exaggerating our credentials frequently misspell things. It's a flavor of irony apparently too advanced for your palate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:25 AM
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Damn skippy. Bois better beat my record at Battle Toads AND Earthworm Jim before they wanna talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:56 AM
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I wanna be mad but I'm a sucker for that grampa level dad joke. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:55 AM
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The only thing I would have an issue with is the piss, and that's logistics. Waterproof rubber sheets? Get in the bathtub? Whatever. If that's how you get your jollies, cool, but you're responsible for figuring out how to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:51 AM
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LOL way ahead of you there, it's usually a "buy me lunch and I'll tell you why you're an idiot" situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:28 AM
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Yet another "sell me on women" post. Here's the short version- No. If you can find no redeeming qualities in the opposite sex besides sex, whatever, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:08 AM
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LOL that's the cringiest thing I've read all day. My private social media is for memes and nerd jokes, my public social media is all related to business. The only time I "show off" my boyfriend is in IRL situations, where his humor, competence, and intelligence are a million times more important than anything looks related. Also I don't give a shit what other people think about my relationship so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:05 AM
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The last time a guy tried to talk shit about me being a "gamer grill" I pointed out that I own a console older than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:01 AM
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Oh don't worry, I don't actually invest in the outcome, I know better than that. And I have a few specific friends who keep my head screwed on straight. I appreciate the concern tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:24 PM
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I know all the ho shit my friends get up to, male and female, but that's because I'm the designated "therapist friend" and they come to me for a scolding when they know they're doing something dumb and they need extra motivation to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:58 AM
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Extended family is good like that, gives you a perspective you might not otherwise have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:53 AM
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My parents had zero positive influence on me besides keeping me alive and supplied with books, but my grandmothers were polar opposites. My maternal grandmother was a traditional type, mother to five children, homemaker Betty Crocker queen. She was always very specific about what I should require in a man, and her advice was good, if a bit dated. My paternal grandmother was a fully fledged bra burning "like a fish needs a bicycle" 60's feminist. My father's father was a convertible driving, coke…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:19 AM
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Give me a break. We have climate change and world war to worry about, women breeding with men you disapprove of is WAY the fuck down the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:29 PM
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Obviously there's a certain amount of compromise that has to happen, but there's still an upper and lower end of the spectrum between two people. Ideally you find someplace between the two that works for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:56 PM
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I agree that the language is gross, and I agree about sexual compatibility. That was just my (maybe too charitable) interpretation of what the original poster was trying to get across.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:55 PM
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Why do y'all always default to basic bro schoolyard insults when you're wrong? Do you not have siblings? Is that why it's so difficult for you to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:53 PM
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Jesus christ. 🤣 Let me spell it out for you EXPLICITLY. My very best friend who I was literally raised with, is not sexually attracted to me. The one time that someone asked why we didn't date, both of us immediately responded with a level of disgust equivalent to stepping barefoot in warm dogshit. Just because we aren't blood related doesn't mean we aren't siblings. If you've never had a friendship like that I'm sorry, but just because you've never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:14 PM
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Oh it's not just women. My boyfriend could cook exactly two things before we got together, but I have vastly expanded his abilities. It's mostly an American thing I think, there's such an abundance of shitty fast food, frozen stuff, and general garbage that a lot of people wouldn't know good food if their lives depended on it. I had my grandmother as an example to look up to, who cooked everything from scratch, but not everyone has that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:00 PM
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Absolutely not. I will not enter into a relationship without agreed upon exclusivity. If you wanna fuck other people that's fine, more power to you, but you don't get to fuck me at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:29 PM
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I think you have to look at it contextually with each individual woman's sex drive. I'm a sex once a day kinda girl, so a guy who wants it say three times a day is going to be asking too much of me. However, if you're talking about a once or twice a week kinda woman, then a guy with the perfect drive for me will be way too much for her. There is a line sexually where it goes from being something fun that you do together as an expression of attraction or love, to being one more chore on the list.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:19 PM
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I don't like romance OR porn sex because both seem fake and performative. We have a good sex life without any crazy stuff, though I'll try anything he wants at least once to see if I enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:05 PM
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I feed him. I'm an excellent cook and baker, and men are whores for good, home cooked, made-from-scratch food. Doesn't even have to be fancy, just tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:07 AM
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That's bullshit dude, I hope you find something better soon. Nothing like a bad job to fuck your whole vibe up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:11 AM
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Lots of dudes THINK they want more than sex and they're totally wrong. They see a girl, she makes them horny. They cook up a whole fantasy about what she's like, who she is. It's "romantic." They manage to fuck her and the illusion falls apart, and they bail. And that's the charitable interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:35 AM
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I think a big part of the problem is a lack of realistic examination of their motives and desires. People are afraid to go against tradition or the status quo, and do things because "that's what you're supposed to do." I personally don't value the idea of traditional marriage or dating because I put in the work to recognize my biases, where they conflicted with my goals and desires. I realized it wasn't for me and that I would have to look outside the box to get what I wanted. I have seen SO MAN…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:40 AM
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And most men aren't? I know just as many beer and football basic bros as I do basic bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:32 AM
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These are people I was raised alongside as siblings, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:30 AM
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The majority of my friends are male. I can't imagine how narrow-minded one has to be in order to find a whole half of the human race intolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:41 PM
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LOL you obviously don't know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:40 PM
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Nobody is getting involved in that video, and the vast majority of the time it's because they've never been in a physical fight and they're scared shitless. I have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:39 PM
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Nope, I'm WAAAY north.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:15 AM
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I'm a feminist and I would 100% intervene. Domestic violence is NOT OKAY NO MATTER WHO IS DOING IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:14 AM
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Honestly I love my boss but she makes me do all the stuff she's not interested in. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:53 AM
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No sir this is a buying trip, not a selling one. Still hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:52 AM
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I have to go on a business trip in a couple of weeks and I'm DREADING it. I need to demand a raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:25 AM
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Oh man I'm so sorry. Losing a pet is awful, losing them that young is so much worse. Bad shit happens sometimes, but remember that your little buddy loved you with all his heart and you gave him the best life possible. We don't deserve dogs, but they love us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:21 AM
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The fact of the matter is that people who hate the opposite gender will NEVER have a truly satisfying relationship. They will be eternally on alert for "bad behavior," blow shit out of proportion, be unwilling to compromise or sympathize, and will feel alone and isolated even when their partner is laying right next to them, thinking everything is fine. You want a good, solid, healthy relationship? FIX YOUR SHIT. There is no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 10:41 PM
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If he has no history of infidelity, it wouldn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:14 PM
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Sounds fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:31 AM
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Don't be silly, kale is far too fibrous to be in sausage. You'd throw off the whole texture!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:53 AM
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Y'all having anything good for dinner? I made orzo with asparagus and chicken in a white wine lemon butter garlic sauce, and I'm quite pleased with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:29 AM
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It depends. Do you want a traditional housewife? Then yeah you're gonna have to pay. My boyfriend has paid for nothing in 2 1/2 years because I have my own money and I'm vigilant about keeping it that way. I'm never going to be his wife or have his kids but he gets to keep all his money to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:38 AM
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Dude there was a set of pics of her on Twitter the other day in the most FANTASTIC see through white shirt and my little bisexual self had to put down the phone and go have a cigarette. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:47 PM
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See that's something I would be chill with. Too much romance gives me the heebie-jeebies, it's just not in my nature and it seems performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:56 AM
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I've had guys get neurotic about it before, and/or try to dictate what I should be doing with my money. Emphasis on MINE. He doesn't get a vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:50 PM
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LOL that's one way to get around it I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:19 PM
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I cannot wait until Valentine's day is over. I hate all the dumb "romantic" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:13 PM
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Whatever edgelord. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:06 PM
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Nope. My SMV is irrelevant to my ability to lead a productive, satisfying life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:18 PM
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Exactly. It's the kind of language used by people who lack the ability to recognize the inherent personhood of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:18 AM
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No, women are LITERALLY human beings with thoughts, emotions, and desires as valid as anyone else's. If you don't see women as people, that's a YOU problem, not a women problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:16 AM
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Women are not "goods." It's a profoundly gross and deeply immature phrase, and the kind of thing that will have me warning my girlfriends if I hear a dude say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:47 PM
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I have never told, or heard anyone tell, someone to "man up." That's idiotic. I will, however, tell people to act like fucking adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:40 PM
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I was born with fucked up arthritic joints and the recent cold weather in my zone has got me half crippled. I can't do most painkillers, I'm allergic to opioids, and all I have is CBDs. I cannot WAIT for bitchin robo-limbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:24 AM
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Definitely not. Their suggestions are worse than going in blind, frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:19 AM
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I have predominantly male friends and I have definitely noticed that the ones who are more open and affectionate with each other are less desperate. Human connection is important no matter who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:18 AM
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Absolutely. I had a crush on him for YEARS but neither of us were ever single at the same time and we've known one another 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:10 AM
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Nope. He's married with a very cute baby now, and with a woman his family approves of, unlike me. We're still friends but we're both very much better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 12:03 AM
3

God no. My parents aren't allowed to discuss dating or relationships with me, end of story. My mother has HORRIBLE taste in men, and my father is a misty-eyed romantic that desperately wants me to get married and have babies and be "normal."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:08 PM
2

Whole lotta tinfoil hats in here today. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:01 PM
2

They don't have to fix anything, but they do have to respect boundaries. Too many dudes take that shit personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:31 PM
5

I definitely have VERY little desire for novelty over stability. But I always have, and I've always known I could do "better," but "better" socially isn't always better in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:02 AM
6

I totally understand that perspective, but on a conscious level, that's not how people think about it. And on unconscious level, people examine it even less closely. Nobody wants to be "the last choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:17 AM
18

A lot of it is insecurities. "What if I'm not the best, what if she can do better?" Most dudes eventually want a "relationship" and the idea of that breaking down because she can do better AND SHE KNOWS IT, sends them into a tailspin. They don't want her to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:30 AM
1

Nah they suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:47 AM
2

I actually second this, put on some angry ass music and do something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:46 AM
2

I don't get the rage some people have towards it, honestly. It's supply and demand, and a bitch needs to pay her bills one way or another. I'm friends with a few sex workers, to me they're just human beings reacting to the market. If you don't like it, don't go looking for it, and quit bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:45 PM
1

I'd give myself a six. I'm cute, not hot, which gives me limited and specific appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:21 PM
2

Who wants me to do the lady version of the genie thread? FYI if you're going to yell "solipsism" or "virtue signalling" I don't give a shit about your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:19 AM
2

Had a guy tell me yesterday that female orgasms don't exist. Bitch WTF 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:16 AM
3

I'm a woman, and personality is mostly a litmus test for me. I'm bisexual, I have a fairly broad range of types I can be attracted to, but if you have a shitty or incompatible personality it immediately kills all attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:28 PM
3

Nope. Conservative men generally have beliefs directly opposed to my well being and the well being of people I care about. Hard pass, no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:10 PM
1

I personally don't find it offensive, it's just not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:54 PM
1

No, she genuinely loved and respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:11 AM
1

Neither woman exists until you choose one, the genie created her magically, and if you kill the one you picked the genie kills you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:10 AM
1

Neither woman will ever cheat, and you can't divorce, if you pick one you're stuck with her for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:08 AM
2

Just the one, and it wasn't really his fault. Mental illness is a bastard, but it doesn't excuse horrible behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:36 AM
1

Totally a valid choice. She sounds like a very nice person, but there's only so much you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:35 PM
2

Most women realistically fall somewhere between the two. Very few women are the hottest woman you'll ever meet, who will deign to fuck you, but perpetually disrespects every aspect of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:30 PM
1

She is inarguably ugly, not fat or old but just an absolute butterface.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:24 PM
2

I would tend to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:22 PM
1

It does indeed. No infidelity on either side of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:20 PM
2

Nope, I'd pick option one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:19 PM
1

Depends on what you prioritize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:34 PM
1

LOL RUN AWAY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:54 PM
1

You can definitely do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:54 PM
1

Plastic surgery is not an option. They come as-is and there's nothing you can do to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:52 PM
1

Interesting take, I can see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:07 PM
1

You really don't think either has value? I have no horse in this race but I can see upsides to both choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:03 PM
1

I LOL'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:02 PM
5

Nope, that's part of the deal. You aren't allowed to change either woman in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:01 PM
7

It's a thought experiment, don't be a killjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:00 PM
1

Sound reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:38 PM
3

Then you have to fuck the genie from Aladdin and listen to Robin Williams sex noises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:37 PM
2

You have to be 100% monogamous with both choices OR opt out via option 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:35 PM
1

That's fair. We'll assume it's an Ifrit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:33 PM
2

Totally valid choice. I honestly assumed more people would choose option 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:31 PM
1

LOL no it's not a gotcha, I had a friend pose this question to me mostly-male group of friends and I was just interested to see what the answers here would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:30 PM
1

Plenty of people are shallow enough to be ashamed to be seen with someone dramatically less attractive than they are, if you aren't one of them, obviously it doesn't apply to you. And both of these women are "created" by the genie, they didn't exist before you make your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:27 PM
1

Number one not only enjoys it, she will happily try anything you ask for. Even if it's not something she enjoys physically, she will enjoy it if you do, because she loves you and loves to make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:23 PM
2

I think thought experiments have their place, if only in prompting further trains of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:18 PM
1

I don't doubt that, you seem like a pretty chill dude. It's just a thought experiment anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:16 PM
1

Some men are real neurotic about that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:13 PM
2

No open relationships allowed. You only get to fuck one of them for the rest of your life, or you can take option three and take your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:13 PM
1

Are you 100% certain about that? She doesn't suck dick, she doesn't do anal, she will do literally nothing in order to enhance your enjoyment of the experience. And she'll fuck you MAYBE every two or three weeks, and you can never sleep with anyone else again or you'll drop dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:12 PM
3

Nope, you're right about how bad option 2 is. Sex maybe once every two or three weeks, she doesn't suck dick EVER, lights off, and only as much participation on her part as it takes for her to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:08 PM
3

Nope, plastic surgery isn't an option. Genies are jerks and there's literally nothing you can do to make her more attractive, you're stuck with what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:03 PM
2

It's not meant to represent reality, it's just a thought experiment. Examining our biases and motivations, what and where we're willing to compromise, what do we place the most value on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:00 PM
1

You get smote.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:57 PM
1

Genies are assholes, what can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:57 PM
1

Haven't you ever heard a story with a genie in it? Something bad ALWAYS happens. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:55 PM
3

The genie is genderless, without holes or genitals of any kind, and if you try then your dick falls off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:52 PM
2

Option one isn't fat or old, just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:50 PM
2

Option one is neither fat nor old, she's totally healthy and in prime childbearing years, but she's just plain old ugly and there is no way to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:49 PM
0

LOL nope, if you try to trick the genie, you become totally unfuckable for the rest of your life, you'll never get laid ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:47 PM
4

Maybe she doesn't exist in the real world, but she does for the sake of the thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:44 PM
1

The second chick has no interest in babies. She's totally sterile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:42 PM
1

Valid choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:39 PM
1

I wasn't aiming for anything in general, I had a female friend pose this question to my group of (primarily male) friends and I thought the answers were interesting. I was just wondering along what lines most of the men here would fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:39 PM
2

It's been different for me each time it happened. With my current boyfriend, I was just sitting there, listening to him talk about work. Nothing special or different was happening. And my brain just goes "hey guess what you're in love with this dude." I think it's highly subjective and it depends a lot on the two people in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:17 AM
1

I'm also bi, so I get where you're coming from. Still, at least in my experience, there's a point where attraction and love meet that turns both into something more. A sort of tipping point I guess, where it goes from "I love you" to "I'm in love with you."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:51 AM
1

Love and attraction exist independently, but romantic love is when you experience both for the same person. When I think of "love" I tend to think about it in the broader sense; my younger brother, my closest friends, my youngest cousin who I helped raise. In that sense "love" is just knowing someone inside and out, being willing to do whatever it takes to help them, and fierce loyalty. Attraction is just plain old wanting to sleep with someone, for which love is generally not a prerequisite, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:21 AM
6

My mother and I have polar opposite approaches to relationships, and it's always driven her crazy. She was boy crazy as a teenager, I was EMPHATICALLY not. She's codependent and can't go more than a month or two between boyfriends, whereas I can happily be single and celibate for years at a time. She's also DESPERATE for me to get married, which is probably not going to happen, or if it does she'll be dead by then. I have her trained not to talk to me about these subjects, however. If she starts…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:06 AM
30

Aggressiveness. Both sexual and just in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:29 AM
0

Assuming it's not like 70+ I don't care in the slightest. I am good friends with at least three of the girls my boyfriend has slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:05 AM
1

No, I just personally have zero desire for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:19 PM
3

The majority of the guys here would consider my boyfriend beta, and I find him wildly attractive. We fuck on average about 5-7 times a week. And no, he doesn't pay my bills, buy me things, or do dumb romantic shit. There is no provisioning going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:21 PM
0

I have seen maybe three episodes and every single one made my want to poke my eyes out. Vapid, tiresome, shallow and dreadfully boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:06 AM
10

It does feel good when properly aroused, but not like earth-shattering or anything. As for the "trying other dicks" part, I can only speak for myself, but I don't want just any old dick, I want a specific dick. The idea of dick in the abstract does absolutely nothing for me. The guy attached to it is the important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:48 PM
2

Insecure women are unhappy with themselves in one way or another. That unhappiness will come out eventually, and it's only got two ways to go, inward or outward. Both cause problems in relationships, even casual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:21 AM
1

Great White. Northern California beer, coriander and citrus, quite tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:13 AM
1

It's a plus as far as I'm concerned. Any man who is overtly concerned with what cosmetics I put on my face is not the one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:00 AM
3

I don't think I own any neutral or nude shades of makeup. If you don't like my sparkly three shade eyeshadow, that's a you problem, not a me problem. Honestly, every time I hear a man say, "I don't like bright hair/crazy makeup/whatever," I just roll my eyes. Random men don't get a vote on how I express myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:46 AM
3

Attraction can't be negotiated but it's a lot more flexible than people like to think. I've had a few boyfriends that made my female friends go "really, that guy!?" In every case it was because his humor, his intellect, or something else won me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:42 AM
2

LOL I'm at home drunk reading drafts of other people's fiction in my sweatpants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:58 AM
3

I just got chosen as a beta reader for a novel soon to be published and I'm excited. It's old school pulp Dick Tracy style detective stuff which is my JAM.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:48 AM
1

There's a website called Waft that lets you custom blend a perfume, you might be able to make something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:35 AM
1

She is SO CUTE.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:33 PM
4

That happens often, sure, but it doesn't have to. Like I said, both parties need to put in the work to make the other person feel desirable, appreciated and invested. Love isn't the finish line, it's the beginning of a long, slow marathon, and if one person doesn't pull their weight, it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:45 AM
4

The question was "does comfort KILL desire," which presupposes there was some desire to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:38 AM
2

Do you mean for emotional versus physical abuse? Because until recently emotional abuse wasn't even recognized as a legitimate thing. It's much more difficult to qualify the damage to your self esteem than it is a black eye or a broken bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:36 AM
2

My grandfather didn't hit women because he didn't need to, he was in control of himself. And when his wife got shitty with him, he left her for a hot 18 year old, my grandmother. Here's what I think. If you allow someone to goad you into being abusive back to them, you lose. You're weak, you're impulsive, and you're allowing someone toxic to dictate the terms of your interactions with them. You are, to use the RP terminology, "breaking frame." There's no justification for them abusing you, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:33 PM
2

Getting hella stoned first. Works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:22 PM
1

I wholeheartedly agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:18 PM
4

Not if you put both put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:17 PM
3

The Edgar suit!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:14 PM
14

What you're describing is emotional abuse, which means your premise is, "if one partner is abusive, the other one should be allowed to be abusive too." Do you think that sounds healthy or remotely rational? I'll tell you what the RP guys always say when cases of abuse come up - LEAVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:14 PM
5

Authenticity is one of the primary things I select for. I spend all damn day being fake and perky and bubbly and charming at work. When I come home I want to be my real self, with someone who is also their real self. Besides which, people who are not authentic to themselves generally have at least a little bit of a complex about how they're perceived socially, and I have no time or energy for dealing with that kind of neurosis in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:27 AM
2

I wouldn't change a damn thing, honestly. But that's because the only things I change when I'm in a relationship is keeping my partner updated on my plans and whereabouts, doubling my food purchases, and making room in my closet/bathroom. I know there are people who rearrange their whole lives for their romantic partners, I'm just not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:22 AM
1

You've never been in a room full of drunk disinhibited people as a 5'3 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:33 PM
3

Well, I'm home from the furry convention and I had a FABULOUS time. My friend was right, furries really do party harder than any other kind of nerd. As a bonus, I've also never been at a party/club that felt so SAFE. Everyone was super respectful and laid back, and I had a great time with zero worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:41 AM
3

This is a sad, edgy Jr high tier bait post. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:19 AM
1

Number one is just WEIRD to me. Although I guess it would make sense if they have kids. I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, and we average about 5-7 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:28 PM
3

Nope, I've seen it go wrong too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:21 PM
2

Because male oriented movies aren't full of romantic horseshit written by old men fantasising about "the good old days." And, just because I'm in the minority doesn't mean it's healthy or good. People here like to talk about the Disney movie effect, this is the exact same fuckin' thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:03 AM
1

American Beauty is pretty good but it's on the edge for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:59 AM
1

This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:56 AM
1

Agreed. I hate them. Give me straight forward action or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:34 AM
1

Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:34 AM
3

Yes but in the end he still charms the girl, which is gross. That shit is why I hate romcoms, they set an atrocious behavioral example for men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:27 AM
9

The dude from 27 Dresses, the dude from "There's Something about Mary," Mark from "Love Actually," the guy from "She's All That," the guys from "Twilight" and "50 Shades of Grey." Those are just off the top of my head, I can go on if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:21 AM
23

The stalker guy winning over the girl with shit that would get him arrested in real life. That's gross and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:39 AM
2

I think they do give up too easily, most of the time. I also think that popular culture pushes the idea that you HAVE to be in a relationship in order to be a successful adult, and that's not true. But people who buy into that idea get angry and depressed when they aren't meeting the expectations of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:36 AM
2

Cancer is a bastard. Best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:47 AM
2

I've got arthritis I was born with, so I have a similar problem, especially if the drink is cold. Solidarity!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:45 AM
1

Dirty martini, hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:09 PM
6

I haven't known many women who struggled to get a relationship, but plenty who struggled to keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:49 PM
1

Honestly if I ever end up single again, I'm going to make a profile that just says "Men over 5'8 fuck off" just to see what happens. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:10 PM
1

And I'm not saying you so. I'm saying, if you're thinking about it, you better be REAAAALLLLYY sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:06 PM
2

Exactly! If they're happy and nobody is getting hurt or deprived, fantastic! More power to them. I'm not one to yuck somebody's yum. But just because it works for them doesn't mean it'll work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:05 PM
1

Dude no. Unless you're already at the point where the conversation is SUPER sexual, this is a gross, cringy move. This is the kinda shit you don't say unless you're 90% certain she's interested, and even then, only if she's already proven she's not easily shocked and offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:35 PM
5

That kind of lifestyle is fine, IF IT WORKS FOR YOU, but that doesn't mean it works for everyone. I would totally go crazy if I stayed home all the time and did this kind of "Better Homes and Gardens" thing. A part of me gets the appeal. Minimal responsibility, a clearly defined role that tells you what you're supposed to do, and probably a certain sense of moral and intellectual superiority over the women who are "doing it wrong." But relationships aren't one size fits all. You have your needs …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:43 PM
1

I know a lot of furries, they're generally pretty cool people. They're super queer friendly, lots of talented artists and Crafters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:24 PM
14

These threads are always SO funny to me. RP guys- "Women are SLAVES to their biological impulses, they can't control themselves, hypergamy AWALT blah blah blah." ALSO RP guys- "Bro I fucked a literal gargoyle last night and I kinda threw up in my mouth a little, but it still totally counts!" Just LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:13 PM
5

I have met tons of attractive creepy people, looks has nothing to do with it for me. The biggest "creep" trigger in my experience is when you can tell someone's coming into an interaction with you with some kind of motives, wanting to get something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:01 PM
1

Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:04 PM
2

It's actually a high end convention place, there's going to be an escape room and all sorts of fun stuff. Honestly, looking at the schedule, I doubt I'll have time to get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:38 AM
2

Right? If ANYTHING can possibly snap me out of my funk, it's watching furries do.... Whatever it is they do. My friend says they actually party pretty fuckin' hard, so it should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:52 AM
3

After this long ass week I decided I needed a vacation, and I happened to get an invitation from a dear artist friend of mine. The best part? I'm going to a furry convention. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:16 AM
3

Sorry, didn't mean to disturb you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:48 AM
4

RP guys like to say that sexual strategy is amoral, and that's fine, even true, in a sense. But the problem is when that mentality gets carried over to relationships. Your approach to relationships should be compassionate, a "us against them" mentality, not "me against you." Eventually, to have a functional relationship, you need to take a leap of faith, and you can't do that if you look at every interaction like a zero-sum game or a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:35 AM
1

The only time I've had this problem was with an ex, who wanted to do all sorts of things but planned nothing. If I suggest an activity, I will do all the planning, but your ideas are your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:58 PM
1

Join a theater group! It's fun as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:22 PM
24

I'd have no issues with the femmedom stuff, been there done that, but the escort I would be HELLA mad about. Like, you want me to boss you around and break out the strap on? I can totally do that, no problem. But if you're getting pegged by hookers behind my back because you were too chickenshit to talk to me about what you want, you're getting dumped IMMEDIATELY.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:21 PM
1

Part of being a stage geek is studying other people so you can use bits and pieces of them for performances. Source- am former stage geek.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:50 PM
2

No friends, only potential prey. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:48 PM
5

Both have their own hazards. With a widow, you're constantly being compared to someone who's viewed through rose colored glasses, someone who no longer has the ability to fuck up. With someone who was raped, she could be dealing with PTSD, or a host of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:55 AM
4

I think it's more a matter of experience and personality. Everyone I've dated fell in love before I did, but I'm cynical and fairly guarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:52 AM
2

She did grow up kinda trailer park like me, so yeah. And I get taking pics for yourself, but... Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:50 AM
3

Appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:49 AM
5

Generally speaking mainstream news sources are on that whole clickbait train now, anything they report on is going to be exaggerated and sensationalized to lure in and keep viewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:53 AM
5

So I spent all day in a group chat that had MULTITUDES of pics of my friend's dead baby in it. I get it, everyone grieves differently, but Jesus christ, that was a literal, unmistakably dead baby. I am never, ever, EVER going to be able to get that mental image out of my head. Time for lots of cocktails. Let's see if we can wipe the hard drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:10 AM
1

I also live in a smaller city, I wonder how much of this is just population density?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 12:23 AM
14

As a bisexual person, I hate this idea so fuckin' much. Just because I am capable of being attracted to someone doesn't mean I will be. I have multiple friends whom I love PLATONICALLY. Zero desire to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:54 PM
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LOL well good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:10 AM
1

What kinda ungrateful horseshit.... I LOVE MOCHI.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:45 AM
2

Thich Nhat Hanh is actually one of her favorites, thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:36 PM
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Whelp, a dear friend of mine and her husband just lost an almost full-term baby. How exactly is one supposed to console someone who has to deliver an already dead child, who had a name, and a nursery, and a big sister who isn't old enough to understand why her baby brother came out blue and still? Today is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:17 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:13 PM
1

I think "boring." A perfectly normal face is unattractive to me unless there's something out of place or interesting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:53 AM
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The fact of the matter is that despite the "sky is falling" mentality that you see all over the manosphere, there are still plenty of good people getting into satisfying relationships all over the world. And one of the cornerstones of those relationships is personal responsibility. Plenty of "good men" are "getting rewarded with sex." Usually, when I see a complaint like this from a man, it boils down to one of maybe four things. One, he's in an oversaturated market and makes no effort to make h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:48 PM
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So we're supposed to what, train men like toddlers or dogs? Encourage them with headpats and cookies when they don't piss on the rug? Bullshit. Part of being an adult is managing yourself and your own expectations and desires. It's not the responsibility of any other individual to encourage you to participate functionally in society. Also, the definition of "good" is so broad and subjective as to be entirely useless. If you ask a tradcon Evangelical woman, and a liberal "Burnie or bust" type wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:46 PM
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LOL holy projection Batman! This sounds like a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:24 PM
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Agreed. The whole "I'm a strong independent man who don't need no woman, you can't change my mind, but I want you to try so I can tell you you're dumb" bit is tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:42 AM
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Ah, yet another "sell me on women" post. Here's the short version- no. Nobody cares. The wife police aren't coming to get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:55 AM
2

Having a difficult time finding a partner you can trust is not a gendered experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:20 PM
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I expect more from both men and women. Your outlook is bleak, depressing and inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:14 AM
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The fact of the matter is that male or female, that level of trust is hard to come by in a romantic relationship. It has to be both sought out and earned, which makes it rare. The goal is to know what you want, be what they want, and find the middle ground, which is difficult. Sometimes you'll choose poorly. Sometimes you'll get bored, or she will. None of that means that women or men are bad, just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:41 AM
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This is true but the RP guys will never see it, because these women are "below their league."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:50 AM
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My parents didn't teach me shit, but my grandma stepped up in that particular arena. Her advice, in no particular order. Just because a man wants to sleep with you doesn't mean he gives a shit about you. Never mistake lust for genuine affection. Most men won't be worth your effort, and will try their hardest to convince you they are. Figure out what you want, and be the person who attracts that. Don't waste your time on men who aren't what you want, no matter how pitifully they beg. Don't trust …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:29 PM
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Thx
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:44 AM
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110
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:16 PM
1

We were at a MTG tournament back in the day (I know I'm a giant fuckin' geek) and a guy he was playing against was commenting on how hot I was. Boyfriend told him not to bother, he's not my type. Guy got defensive and angry, marched over to where I was in the middle of a match, and asked me out. I looked up, gave him the once over, said "no thanks" and went back to my game. Apparently that was the most horrible thing I could have done because he rage quit the whole tournament and marched out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:53 PM
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It depends a lot on the individual woman. For example, my primary love language is touch, which lends itself to a lot of sexual activity, obviously. But it's not the sex itself that makes me feel loved, it's the physical contact. A lot of time in LTRs people also tend to stop trying. They see the relationship as an end point instead of something that needs maintenance in and of itself. And if your partner stops making you feel attractive and appreciated, the sexual energy just kinda dies off. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:44 PM
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I'm 5'3 and I have a hight cutoff. My absolute maximum is like 5'8 otherwise it's just impractical. The closer to my hight the better, I don't wanna have to climb somebody like a tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:33 PM
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The vast majority of my friends are male, and I've known most of them literally my whole life. If someone tried to tell me I'm "not allowed" to hang out with them, I'm booting the guy, not my bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:18 PM
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I don't accept drinks but I do get a little amusement out of telling my boyfriend about the guys who gave it a shot, if only because his reaction is usually to roll his eyes and be amused by their idiocy. To be fair, we were friends for fifteen years before we ended up together, and he's seen what happens when a guy I'm not interested in pushes his luck. So we trust each other more than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:16 AM
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Usually, yeah. She had a complex about anybody seeing her "seal the deal." Like if nobody was there when she left with the guy it didn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:25 AM
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I had a friend in highschool yell at me because I wouldn't occupy/flirt with dude number two. Like she had a straight up tantrum. No bitch I'm not gonna occupy the spare just so you can get some stranger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:53 AM
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I mean most of the reason I'd want to go to the strip club is to save money. Strippers like to use girls as props, you get a good show with less money spent. Also I like titties but that's something we agree on so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:19 AM
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LOL calm down scooter, I don't even go clubbing. I'm much too boring for that. But the point remains valid- why would you be in a relationship with someone you aren't willing to trust? And this goes both ways mind you. The only time I'd be mad at my boyfriend for going to the strip club is if he didn't take me with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:09 AM
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Do you trust your partner? No? Then why the fuck are you in a relationship with this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:56 AM
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There is almost no universal "high value" people, especially in the arena of dating specifically. For example, and friend of mine and I have POLAR OPPOSITE tastes in men, and differing goals when it comes to relationships, so the guys that drools over are barely a blip on my radar, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:03 PM
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It's doable if they WANT to get better, and are actively working towards it. Otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:41 AM
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I have already changed literally everything about myself over the course of my life, but I did it for ME, not for dick. Sex is irrelevant and LTRs are nice, but only if they fall within very limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:55 PM
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Good lord no. People thought I was like fifteen in my twenties, I'm only now reaching the point where people sometimes treat me like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:28 AM
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His hair is dumb, and he looks bland as fuck. Like a Ken doll or something. He's technically attractive but there's nothing interesting about his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:26 AM
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LOL that explains it, I thought the writing style sounded familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:46 PM
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LOL what kinda 7th grade fear boner manifesto is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:47 AM
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On women who have a highly sympathetic nature, maybe, or women who have somehow come to the erroneous conclusion that that sex is a way to solve problems. I personally have a distinct lack of pity to begin with. My friends come to me for strategies and solutions, or a different perspective on their issues. If they want head pats and cookies they go elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:56 PM
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There are few things more profoundly revolting to me than someone attempting to guilt me into sex. My ex did that shit CONSTANTLY and now it not only turns me off, it makes me angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:14 PM
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I have a very large family, for one, which means if I'm planning a wedding, it's either going to be very expensive, or I'm cutting people off the guest list who will likely be bitter about it forever. Secondly, I never had that whole "dream wedding" thing. The idea of a big ostentatious party, picking out some dress I'll only wear once, all of that seems stressful and unpleasant to me. Third, aside from the legalities and benefits that come with it, it seems largely unnecessary to me. I don't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:15 PM
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Depends on the guy. What's his face, who played Lex Luthor on Smallville, pulled it off very well. For me it's mostly a confidence thing. If you don't care that you're bald, I don't care that you're bald. But no comb over, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:04 PM
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I'm not big on the idea of marriage, if I do it it'll likely be for strictly legal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:06 AM
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I would agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:32 PM
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A friend of mine just recently had to break up with a guy she'd been seeing for a few months because of an issue surrounding dirty talk. She's in her early fifties and HIGHLY sexually adventurous, but the only thing she REALLY doesn't like is degrading, porn-style dirty talk. It makes her uncomfortable, it makes it hard for her to focus on what she's doing, and she finds it offensive. And no matter how many times she told this guy "I don't like that," he just WOULD NOT STOP. He apparently got ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:28 PM
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There's a difference between joking around with your partner and willfully, knowingly saying things that hurt or distress them because you think it shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:23 PM
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For sure, some boundaries are arbitrary or nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:21 PM
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How so? You tell someone "I'm not going to do X because of Z," they either respect that or they don't, and you move on from there. It tells you how seriously they take your needs and wants, and it's a litmus test for how much effort they're willing to put into the relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:08 AM
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My mother, when she brings up weddings and I remind her that I'm not interested. "You never told me that! Who doesn't want to get married!? That's absurd!" My ex boyfriend, same circumstances. "That's a lie, you just don't want to marry ME because you don't actually love me! This isn't about you it's about ME!" Admittedly it's the same sort of thinking, "This isn't about what you want it's about what I want," but the approach is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:02 AM
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So then do you think boundaries aren't REAL, or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 03:53 AM
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I genuinely hope you're right, for her sake and yours both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:25 AM
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Disclaimer, this is obviously just my personal opinion and experience. But a woman will pretend she never heard of your boundaries in the first place, "you never told me that! I didn't know that!" Whereas with a man, they will admit that they've heard it before, but try to justify why they should be an exception, exempt from the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:22 AM
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It definitely depends on how strong your boundaries are, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:15 AM
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Agreed, but it's a matter of investment. Some people don't give a shit about you one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:49 AM
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If you want to call it a buzzword, it's about keeping people from doing things to you, not about the things you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:48 AM
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Do you ever wonder if she follows you out of genuine love, loyalty, and admiration, or if it's because she feels like she's sunk so much effort into you and your life together that she doesn't have any other choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:45 AM
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Yes, definitely. And I like your new flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:41 AM
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Maybe I didn't phrase it properly, because when I think "questioning the validity of a boundary," it boils down to an argument that at its core is "this rule shouldn't apply to me because I'm special and different, and any suggestion otherwise is a direct attack on my ego." It differs from the female version where they don't recognize your boundaries as valid or even present in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:38 AM
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Here's my question- and I mean this in all sincerity- do you really think you offer enough out of a relationship with you, that you are valuable enough as a partner, that someone would be satisfied giving up their personal boundaries in order to satisfy you and your wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:33 AM
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I agree that they aren't up for debate, but an explanation is rarely a bad thing. A reasonable person will hear your explanation and understand, or even potentially sympathize with you. An unreasonable person will make themselves obvious and make it easy to remove them from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:27 AM
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Do you object to explaining the reasoning behind your boundaries or the fact that people might react to them poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:16 AM
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Part of that is because you've never been in a romantic relationship with a man. Outside of family, romance, or particularly close friends, it's very unlikely to come up. In my experience, having dealt with it from both a man and a woman, women tend to pretend your boundaries are non-existent, whereas men will debate the validity of them. Both are equally likely to take it as a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:14 AM
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There are definitely healthy AND unhealthy ways to enforce your boundaries. Blanket "my way or the highway" statements with no previous discussion and no explanation of motives or reasoning can come off incredibly aggressive, demanding, and demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:10 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:06 AM
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This is a human thing not a woman thing. It does tend to manifest itself differently across the genders, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:06 AM
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Totally valid, and yeah, I'm thinking in broad generalities. Most of my experience with the subject comes from my narcissistic mother and one particular ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 01:03 AM
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Of course they're entitled to their feelings, but it becomes an issue when you say "it hurts me when you do X" and they take a false victim position, and act as if it's an attack in their character or morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:27 AM
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I would agree, to a certain extent, but I think some people are definitely more mindful of pushing other people around than others. A little push here and there is to be expected, it's only when it becomes a pattern that it's super unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:25 AM
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That's a good read, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 12:22 AM
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Was that supposed to be a counter argument of some kind? The comparison remains valid. Nobody walks into a first date saying "hi I'm an abusive fuckhead here to ruin your life!" People- not just women- get psychologically stuck in these abusive relationships through a combination of sunk cost fallacy and co-dependent manipulation. And the single most dangerous part of an abusive relationship is when the abusee is trying to leave. But go ahead and believe whatever you want. I just hope you or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:49 PM
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A lot of women are fuckin' stupid, just like a lot of men. A lot of women have abusive upbringings, dumb priorities, and skewed ideas of what a relationship is supposed to be like, just like a lot of men. Your point is not as compelling as you'd like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:40 PM
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That's AMAZING
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:18 AM
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It's 112% that funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:18 AM
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Happy new year! Hope you have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:28 AM
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Nah, those are exclusive to my man. You're welcome to imagine them if you want, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:27 AM
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It's a videogame reference sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:21 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:01 AM
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LOL you're so sweet, that's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:00 AM
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Boiling frog theory. Abusers are never terrible in the beginning. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:58 AM
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LOL too late, I've already been sent the bee movie script three times over the course of my life. You're going to have to find a better threat. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:57 AM
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I dig your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:54 AM
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"Submarine magician" I can't breathe 😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:41 AM
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I get that. The only option we have is to pack our limited amount of time on this Earth with as many things we enjoy, and things that enrich us, as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:30 PM
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LOL I was just reading a Twitter thread about this earlier!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:05 PM
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I rather enjoy life. I'm chilling on 60 acres of pristine forest property daydrinking champaign in my sweatpants. Sucks to suck I guess. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:25 PM
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My younger brother lives in an area they like to frequent. The last time they knocked on his door, his six foot, two hundred pound, hairy as a water buffalo self answered the door shirtless, and called the guy sweetheart. They haven't been back since. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:12 AM
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I imagine it was offended. I use that same "irredeemable heathen" bit on JW's all the time and they give me the WORST stink eye. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:19 AM
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Yeah and you guys only have one joke. What next, you gonna tell me that you identify as an attack helicopter? It's almost 2020, get new material. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:36 AM
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I have literally never rushed through a date like that in my life. When he called me a few days later I pretty much told him I'm a filthy irredeemable heathen, it's not gonna work out, good luck and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:33 AM
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He was normal in the beginning, but the depression made him jealous and insecure, to the point that I couldn't go anywhere without him, or he'd accuse me of infidelity. I tried my damndest but I couldn't help him and he wouldn't help himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:48 AM
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Right? I mean who knows, maybe if I was a demure little church mouse type, his whole "I want a wife to give birth to a whole baseball team" pitch might've been interesting. But I suspect not, given that he'd been begging his friends for blind dates for weeks. Apparently the church girls weren't buying it either. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:43 AM
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One of the very few times I allowed myself to be set up on a blind date, it was mega cringe. The guy was a DEVOUT Catholic, as it turned out, and spent the whole time talking about "no woman of mine will ever do this or that, I want to have nine kids and I've already picked out their names, blah blah blah." He also harped on about chastity and godliness, but tried to grab my crotch at the end of the night. So yeah, mega cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:31 AM
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I was depressed, but mostly from the stress of dealing with him and his issues, and not even remotely suicidal. It was more of a "if I can't have you no one will" sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:26 AM
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Our experiences shape our expectations. And it's not like I started conversations with "so what kind of crazy self-righteous prick are you?" I gave them the chance to carry on a civilized conversation and most of them failed. The fact of the matter is, MOST people aren't worth the effort. The process of dating is sorting through the losers until you find a winner, and OLD just changes the volume of people that you have to sort through. For me, personally, it's not worth it. All my relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:24 AM
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Definitely a smart move. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:13 PM
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It's not meant to be fair, it's my experience. The VERY FIRST DAY that I made an online dating profile, I got called a bunch of horrible shit, got directly asked to participate in at least two extreme fetishes, got at least two or three rape threats, and had one pleasant but ultimately boring conversation with a nice, normal guy. The fact that I tried it for as long as I did is a testament to my stubbornness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:13 PM
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Something he was, which was chronically, deeply depressed. But also something he did, by refusing to seek treatment or try anything to get better. Once he started talking, not just about dying, but about us dying together? I was out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:03 PM
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This whole "dominance" thing is so baffling to me. I am a grown adult woman of sound mind, capable of making my own choices. Why would I put the burden of making ALL the decisions on him? In areas where he has more knowledge/skill, I leave it to him, and in areas where I have more knowledge/skill, I take the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:08 PM
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It's a self-fulfilling prophecy and a way to protect themselves at the same time. Refusing to take that leap of faith means they're always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:58 PM
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The last time I tried online dating, was the only time, and I quit after about a month. For every one decent dude capable of having a normal conversation, there are a hundred assholes and weirdos. After a week or two you start to become kinda jaded. How long until this otherwise decent dude acts like a prick? How long until the next entitled, obnoxious random calls you a fat cunt because you didn't respond fast enough? OLD doesn't paint a flattering picture of either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:31 AM
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Music is fantastic for kids, and even if his attention span is too short now, it'll benefit him in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:01 AM
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This is beautiful 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:47 PM
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Except not wanting to fuck someone isn't bigotry? Again, I don't hate them or wish them ill, they're just not compatible with me. Besides, bigotry is a commonly accepted umbrella term for all sorts of unsavory pedantry. Here, I'll be more specific. No racists. No sexists. No homophobes, transphobes, or any other flavors of queerphobia. And no grammar Nazis. Satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:19 AM
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big·ot·ry /ˈbiɡətrē/ noun intolerance toward those who hold different opinions from oneself. Now, here's my point- I am a bisexual woman who's disinterested in both marriage and children, who is a staunch atheist. Tell me exactly what part of that description you think is going to be compatible with a tradcon Republican dude who goes to church every Sunday. Because I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:59 AM
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And yet somehow I still have no difficulties finding people who fit my specific criteria. Funny how that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:03 AM
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Not wanting to fuck someone who's worldview doesn't align with mine isn't bigotry, bud. Not wanting to touch someone's dick doesn't mean I hate them, but you folk seem to have difficulty with that concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:02 AM
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Tradcon/right wing/Christian Any and all types of bigotry Hipster Dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:19 PM
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To be fair, it's only about 75% pettiness. The rest is the fact that I would absolutely want to know, if a man was doing that shit to me. I'm not the "kill the messenger" type, I'd want to meet the other woman, buy her coffee and discuss the details, and then go throw all his shit out in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:45 PM
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Depends on the woman. And being "the prize" is, in reality, just a cross section of behaviors that make it more difficult for men to get sex. The motives behind those behaviors vary from woman to woman. For example, I won't date a guy who doesn't play TTRPG. Men have called me unreasonable for that limit, but there are multiple reasons why it's there. It's my primary hobby, first of all, and any dude who can't deal with me spending anywhere from 4-8 hours on it a week is out. Then what about jea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:39 PM
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LOL at the idea of fighting over a man in any context. Whoever met him first gets him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:16 PM
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I agree but in a slightly different direction. I always pay for myself on dates because if it goes poorly, I don't have to deal with that "but I bought you DDDIIINNNEEERRR" horseshit that happens afterwards if I decide not to see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:13 PM
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I wouldn't just tell, I'd send itemized proof organized by date. But I'm petty like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:49 PM
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I'm female and my brain kinda.... Defaults? To thinking about sex if I'm not thinking about anything else. It's not the all consuming obsession some of the guys here described, more like a screensaver almost. Additionally, I'm in my early 30's and my libido is MUCH higher than it was when I was younger. I only really thought about sex in sexual situations when I was in college and whatever, but it's been on a steady increase ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:19 PM
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Oh, absolutely. My childhood would have been better, safer, and more stable. But they were sixteen and twenty one years old, respectively. And I was an accident that kept them together far past the proper expiration date of their relationship. Some people have parents they want to make proud, I have parents I had to move past. But even negative experience can be used for growth, with the right mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:37 AM
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Oh man, this is full-body-cringe highschool logic. Thanks, I needed the laugh today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:30 AM
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I think it's easier for men to be manipulated by sex, but I think it also has to do with people's ability to examine their own motives. My parents were young, dumb and impulsive, and I spent my whole childhood watching them follow those impulses into one bad decision after another. I made a point of taking a step back from the things I wanted and trying to examine them critically, to determine if it was ACTUALLY a good idea, or if I was rationalizing my way into something that would be bad for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:19 AM
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Who else is watching the Witcher series on Netflix? I was super skeptical at first, but it's pretty awesome, and I'm a sucker for a well choreographed sword fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:09 PM
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That sounds absolutely delicious and definitely sappy but in a very good way. ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:01 PM
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I turn him down occasionally, but it's usually not a "no not at all" and more of a "not right this minute, give me a while."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:04 PM
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That sandwich sounds AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:52 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:30 AM
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Bullshit. I am the best cook, I have the skills, I make him chop the firewood. To each their own according to their skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:09 AM
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I actually have a stash of fancy salami for holiday snacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:20 AM
1

I love you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:20 AM
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I ask what kind of sandwich, and make one for myself too. Who is THIS juvenile? I make all the food anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:35 AM
3

Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:58 PM
1

Screen for men who don't have that Dudley Dursley "but last year I got THIRTY FOUR presents" attitude and the rest will sort itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:22 PM
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Dorky good-hearted types like Xander from Buffy. Earnest, silly, and a little bit clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:57 AM
1

I agree that some people have unreasonable expectations, especially in the current economy. People focus too much on outward signifiers of success and "keeping up with the Jonses" and not enough on base compatibility and goals. But unfortunately that's just the culture we live in, and all you can try to do is try to find people who think about it a little more deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:59 PM
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Y'all really hate it when a woman has boundaries huh? 🤣 Top-teir men is meaningless to me. I attract men to whom I'm attracted, I have good relationships with people who treat me well, and one of the biggest factors in that is me knowing what and where my boundaries are. Edit- a downvote? Really? Petty! 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:51 PM
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I disagree with parts of the redpill but I agree with other parts. One of the parts I disagree with is "all women like X." It's an average, not the totality, and some people end up in weird spots on the bell curve. Human sexuality is varied and strange, and treating it like a one size fits all thing doesn't do the variety of it justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:46 PM
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And you'd reject an unattractive woman. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:39 PM
2

Now I'm gonna treat myself to an Oreo mcflurry on your behalf. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:24 AM
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Oof, salty. 😂 It doesn't matter what you're selling, if your job is in sales, you're getting paid to part the customer from as much of their money as possible. I happen to enjoy my job, I'm good at it, and I make more than enough money to support myself and my hobbies and interests. Sales isn't any more amoral than "sexual strategy," you boys ought to be able to grasp that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:13 AM
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Oh honey yes. They can be terrible. Just don't take it personally and avoid anybody TOO gay. Gold star lesbians are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 01:27 AM
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That's my goal. Men here like to say women in general are too picky, but the fact of the matter is, if I'm excluding someone from my pool of potential partners, it's for my good AND theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 01:23 AM
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Nope, not if it's ACTUALLY important to you. Then it becomes passive aggressive bullshit. If someone tells me it's "whatever" then I'm going to take them at their word, and they have no one but themselves to blame when they end up disappointed and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 01:21 AM
2

I immediately remove guys from consideration if they DON'T read sci-fi but I'm a giant fuckin' geek so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:11 PM
1

Absolutely gorgeous!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:05 PM
2

So cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:04 PM
3

Just the other night I was at a cocktail bar run by a friend of mine, waiting to meet someone. I was talking to my friend, who was tending bar, about how I'd had to deal with a typical "Karen" type at work that day, and I'd successfully sent her away much happier and significantly poorer. There was couple of guys down at the end of the bar, one about ten years younger than me, one about ten years older, sitting together. The older guy was frowning the whole time, and when I was done with my litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:01 PM
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My confidence mostly weeds out weaklings and men who can't banter. To men who like wallflowers and shy or demure women, I come across as bitchy and boisterous, but guys who meet or exceed my confidence levels have no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:06 PM
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This is one I've never personally understood, because my rules have always been consistent across the board. I don't give a shit how attractive or witty or "alpha" you are, if you're persistent about trying to violate my boundaries, you're gonna be out on the curb like a bag of garbage. Furthermore, those boundaries aren't about "shit testing" or whatever, they're intrinsically tied to my self respect and how I expect to be respected by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 09:55 PM
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I love dad bods. Much better for cuddles and almost universally a sign that the man in question is non-neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:31 PM
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For sure, no disagreement here. But it can be an impediment if you're looking for a girlfriend, because women like me, who are looking for something serious, see it as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:34 AM
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In my experience it's been dudes pushing for cohabitation, almost always because they don't want to have to go anywhere to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:31 AM
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Nope, I had to deal with too much jealous nonsense in the past. One of my favorite things about my boyfriend is that when he sees some dude hitting on me, his reaction is almost always to meet my gaze, and roll his eyes like "look at this asshole."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:31 PM
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Nah but my gay buddy might know him. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:59 AM
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I'm about to make peanut butter chocolate chip cookies because tis the season for baked goods. Might bribe my boss with some tomorrow, depending on how they turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:49 PM
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That's true in some cases, but for me it's a matter of excluding things I don't want. I don't do casual, never have, never will. And generally speaking, Fuckaround Freddy with the phone full of other girls' nudes? He's not good boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:45 PM
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I don't date younger guys, and the oldest I'll go is like five or six years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:45 PM
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For me, it's definitely more behavior than looks. Any guy who's too smooth, too charming or too confident instantly makes me wary, because he's obviously had a lot of experience dealing with women. I trust a man who's a little bit dorky and awkward WAY more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:43 PM
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I think our "true nature" is often shaped by culture and upbringing, more than we think. Human behavior is wildly variable specifically because we are social creatures who adapt to the environment we're in. That being said, I think it lies somewhere closer to the middle than on either end of the spectrum. People raised with a happy childhood and no fear of scarcity are less likely to do "whatever" to support themselves if they have to, and people raised in poverty (like myself) will never quite …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:27 PM
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Oh christ my ex was like that. Muttering "I'm depressed," then staring at me as if I could unhinge my jaw and spit out a Xanax like a pez dispenser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:43 PM
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Men have told me I'm hot or sexy or just good for fucking, but never that I'm "special." Men will stick their dick in a piece of fruit, fuckability is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:14 AM
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Hot to me, no contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:08 AM
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Typical male thinking. When I say "I'm the better choice" I mean I'm less neurotic, more reasonable, more rational, and our lifestyle's and goals align better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:37 PM
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There's a difference between "I want the six figure income, six pack, six inch dick guy" and "I want a man who is compatible with my goals and values." For example, I live on a rural homestead. So the standard of "must know his way around a chainsaw and be comfortable with dirt roads" is not only NOT unreasonable or unrealistic, it's nonnegotiable. The fact that I won't date a high-maintence city boy isn't a matter of my standards being too high, it's realistic and practical. And frankly, every …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:32 AM
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As a woman who has tons of male friends, we're a good asset to have. And you can never have too many friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:01 AM
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LOL The whole condescending thing is so overdone. Find a new bit. First point, I'm in a relationship with a man who fits ALL of my requirements, who pursued me, not the other way around. As did all the men before him. I had competition, and she lost, because I'm the better choice. Second point, you don't even know what my standards ARE. Don't get triggered over hypotheticals you make up in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:59 AM
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I think a lot of men confuse "high standards" with "specific standards." I go for men who are on my level, but within that bracket I have very specific requirements, tailored to what I want out of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:18 AM
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I've made men wait and it's never been an issue for me. It all depends on what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:06 AM
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This is what I came here to say. Even if you have no issues dealing with weirdos and their absolutely weird sexual requests, it's a highly competitive market, and nowhere as easy as men like to think. I know several girls who do camming and have premium Snapchats, and even the gorgeous ones hardly make anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:26 PM
1

I get approached at least once a week at work. It's frequently guys significantly younger than me, or some FANTASTICALLY butch lesbians, on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:13 PM
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I personally don't feel like I need a partner. I have a good group of friends and an active social life, and for me, the only practical difference is that when I'm with someone, I have to check in with them, and split holidays between families. There's a lot of social programing that tells people they're weird or a failure of some kind of they're happily single. It's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:08 PM
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It's definitely a spectrum. I've met people who fetishize me for being bisexual, but it's hard to put your finger on exactly where the line is until you've experienced it, and it's a little different every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:18 AM
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Lots of people are insecure, most people don't take time to self-examine or work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:11 AM
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From fresh out of college up until my current boyfriend, so over the past ten years or so. All of them were people I met organically, through friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:10 AM
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A lot of "you don't need to work so hard, I deserve more of your time and attention, eventually you'll just be my wife anyway" type bullshit. What it boiled down to was fear and anger over the fact that I didn't NEED them. I don't like need, I like want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:08 AM
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I get it, I really do. Young men have that "protect and provide" thing drilled into them from a young age. But people let their egos and ideas of what they "should" be or do ruin otherwise good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:34 PM
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LOL very true, I misspoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:38 PM
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Essentially trying to get me to give up my independence to make him feel better about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:37 PM
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Aw, I thought it was gonna be the one with him hoisting the goat across his shoulders. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:04 PM
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A toxic partner is a toxic partner, regardless of gender, but it expresses itself differently. If you end up with one of the guys who's holding onto the idea that you, as a woman, are supposed to be subservient to him somehow, he'll do his damnedest to sabotage you, to keep you from "rising above your place."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:03 PM
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So long as he's not trying to drag me down, I don't give a shit one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:59 PM
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Every single time I've dated a man who made less money than me, it was a problem for HIM, not ME. That "protect and provide" instinct that y'all like to yell about turns into ego and neurosis when you don't NEED a man on a provider-ship level. I pay for dates? He gets butthurt. I buy myself stuff? He gets butthurt. I pay for vacation? He gets butthurt. The problem with dating a man who is "beneath" you on any axis is that generally speaking, he wants you to come down to his level, instead of ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:17 PM
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The number one thing I learned was was to never, EVER do shit just because "that's what you're supposed to do." Don't get married "because you're supposed to." Don't have kids "because you're supposed to." Don't make him pay for your shit "because you're supposed to." Set your terms and your boundaries, find what you want, and fuck tradition. Anything else leads to resentment and unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:43 AM
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Some people have no ability to control their impulses or baser instincts. Where the RP and FDS types get it wrong is thinking it's gendered. Every person on Earth has the capacity to be an unfaithful asshole. Don't be desperate, don't settle, know your boundaries and enforce them. There are no guarantees.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:35 PM
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In my experience it's the difference between the "life isn't fair/should be fair" crowd and the people who recognize that you have to put in some work. There's obviously people out there who got dealt a very bad hand, but if you're reasonably close to average, you can usually improve your circumstances. Some people don't want to put in any effort, or don't think they should have to, because it isn't "fair."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:40 PM
1

You too! I'm sure you'll look fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:12 AM
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Flapper, but more flapper-inspired than anything. I have no patience for tassels. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:31 PM
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They're interested in the "why," just like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:07 PM
2

A lot of people seem to buy into that whole "if you don't fight, you don't love each other" bullshit. I could never understand my friends, male or female, who stayed when their relationships consisted mostly of shouting, then making up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:05 PM
2

I'm going to a 1920's/Great Gatsby themed party. I have a fabulous dress lined up and ready to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:42 PM
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Videogames and TTRPGs, hiking and camping, firearms, weird small-batch craft beers. Actually thinking about trying my hand and brewing my own beer and/or cider.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:46 PM
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I know plenty of interesting, intelligent women, who other people perceive as boring. Why? Because they don't show those parts of themselves to people who they don't TRUST. Have you ever been talking to someone about something you're passionate about, only to catch them rolling their eyes, sighing, or looking away? Now combine that feeling with the RP mantra of "be hot and pleasant, nothing else is important." If literally nothing you do beyond looking good and not being a bitch matters, or is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:43 PM
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Nice "I'm 14 years old and I just got broken up with for the first time" manifesto. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:33 PM
1

The wind has died off but we're in the midst of a three to four inch rain downpour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:31 AM
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The whole "she has to apologise for being hit on" bullshit is KILLING ME. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:14 AM
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I am currently getting 50-60 mph winds at my house. If y'all never hear from me again it's because a tree fell on me and killed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:32 PM
3

That's so cute. ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:29 PM
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Selection bias. People who feel the need to talk to strangers about the specifics of their sex lives tend to be more sexually adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:28 AM
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Absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:04 AM
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Oh holy shit yeah. The absolute worst
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:02 AM
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Some women are definitely into those sorts of things, and I don't judge anyone's particular tastes. The issue is men who think ALL women want that sort of sex, even when a woman voices her dislike or even her outright hatred of a particular act. Honestly, it's exhausting to tell a man "I don't like that," and have him reply, with idiotic confidence, "yes you do!" Or, god forbid, "all the other women liked it!" I don't hate porn or people who use it, but it definitely sets a baseline that I disli…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:06 AM
1

Lenore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:23 AM
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So long as everything is proportionate and well done, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:46 PM
2

I think there's a Greek version too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:19 PM
3

I would say men in general have a rougher time, but it depends on the individual. I know men who are perfectly content being single, and women who are desperate to find a partner. I personally rather enjoy being single, so in order for me to get into a relationship, the other person's company has to be better than my solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:58 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:45 PM
1

I like Adam Driver's huge nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:44 PM
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I actually agree. Despite whatever frustrations I might have, despite all the bullshit I've been through, I still think of people as individuals, and I rarely get mad at them for pursuing their own agendas. The vast majority of people are assholes, but we aren't all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:25 AM
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Have you tried therapy? I didn't make any progress until I found a "mean" therapist, who called me out on my bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:17 AM
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LOL "sexy-ugly" is my type. I've always been more attracted to people who are interesting-looking rather than traditionally attractive, and my girl friends think I'm super weird for it. EDIT: For example, Gary Oldman. Nothing traditionally attractive about him. Still had a giant crush on him since Dracula back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:12 AM
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That sounds AMAZING
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:32 AM
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I think cooking stuff from scratch, in general, is what does it. I've had dudes obsessed with all kinds of food, it just depends on what their favorite is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:30 AM
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She's cute, I like the little chin dimple, good cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:25 AM
1

I love my boyfriend more than anyone else I've ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:15 AM
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Pie is love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:12 AM
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I'm sorry you got cheated on, but I have never been interested in relationship that weren't monogamous, and for me, fucking other people is a dealbreaker. There are very few things that will make me shut down a relationship instantly, with no discussion, but that is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:30 AM
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I listen to an oldies Christmas channel at work (Bing Crosby, Ella Fitzgerald, etc) and I hear it pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:05 AM
2

AHROOOOO!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:04 AM
1

Cathy Bates is so good ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:34 AM
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This is a fantastic analysis, you already pointed out all the issues I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:32 AM
2

Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:05 PM
1

The Halo effect means you think more highly of someone who is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:56 PM
1

I'm bisexual, so my partner's equipment is already irrelevant to me. I could see it being a benefit in that they would be significantly more comfortable in their own skin, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:16 PM
2

I notice maybe one dude a week? And the extent of that train of thought is "ooh he's pretty" and then I go back to whatever I was doing before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:12 PM
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He would totally fit right in to one of Rubens' paintings. 🤣 It was mostly a comment on the structure of his face. It looks.... Old fashioned, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:15 PM
2

I've never thought of sex as "just a casual thing," but it seems like I'm in the minority on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:05 PM
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LOL that's the dumbest shit I've read all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:32 AM
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Are you a heterosexual man? Then your opinion is invalid. Besides, I like people who are non-standard attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:31 AM
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Adam Driver is so weird looking he crosses back over into attractive. Like a Renaissance painting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:25 AM
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They don't matter to the guy getting laid, obviously. There's a higher chance of a guy who's famous or whatever getting a yes, but one out of a hundred is still one out of a hundred, even if the guy has fucked a thousand women. Not to mention that the odds are skewed in the other direction as well, because women who idolize athletes or whatever will seek them out, which further pushes the odds in his favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:34 PM
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I think it has more to do with how much you value relationships, or that relationship in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:30 PM
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I take serious issue with anyone who has children just "because." That is a whole-ass other human being, with their own thoughts and feelings, who you're going to make yourself responsible for because.... What, you're bored? You shouldn't have a child or children in order to give YOUR life meaning. Children aren't emotional support animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:22 PM
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I have zero issues with porn, assuming it doesn't involve children, animals, maiming, or anything else too disturbing, and assuming it doesn't fuck up your sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:16 PM
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Except there's info missing here. Out of all those women, how many said "no thanks, not interested?" AWALT is an average, not the sum total.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:51 PM
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Four serious relationships and I don't know how many random girls in between those.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:18 AM
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Well I hope you find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:48 PM
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I don't beat people over the head with my views. I offer my perspective when it's asked for, and I try to engage them thoughtfully. I am open to other perspectives, or I wouldn't be here, would I? But when someone goes on the "women/POC/gays/whatever are subhuman" type tangent, I disengage, because it's clear to me that they're interested in having their views validated or agreed with, not challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:47 PM
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Thanks for providing an excellent example of precisely the kind of thing I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:41 PM
1

Because I have a perfectly reasonable thing to be angry about, more justifiable than "he fucked me then ghosted me," but I managed to move past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:39 AM
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And? If he wants sorority girls he's free to chase them. A man is not a necessity. No person on Earth is more important than my dignity and my principals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:36 AM
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Have you ever tried, REALLY tried, to change the mind of someone who's absolutely certain they're right? It doesn't matter what you say, what proof you provide, what counterpoints you offer. They aren't going to change their minds no matter what. It's an exercise in frustration and pointlessness. It accomplishes nothing. Like I said, I'm not speaking for anyone else's point of view. But when I recognize someone's bias and give up on a conversation, it's because NOTHING I SAY WILL MATTER. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:34 AM
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There are always exceptions. But you have to ask yourself, what do you REALLY want? And when you know the answer to that question, find someone who wants the same thing. Be willing to compromise and work with someone who's compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:13 AM
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It's not a matter of being "corrupted." And this will probably offend some of the other female members of the sub. I do think "pair bonding" is a thing. But I don't think it's exclusive to one gender. I think it has to do with adrenaline issues, seeking excitement, or novelty, or whatever. Individuals who show a tendency towards needing that level of excitement aren't for me. Eventually, they'll get bored, because that's not who I am. I like peace and quiet, stability, and comfort. That doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:54 AM
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Anything above 50 and I'm going to be hesitant, anything above say 80 and I'm not interested. I will make a certain amount of allowances for general male horniness, but my count is single digits, and too much shows we're essentially incompatible. No judgement, but he's not the dude for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:06 AM
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I have spent most of my life talking to people online, since back in the Myspace days. And one of the first things I learned was there is no point in talking to, arguing with, or otherwise engaging bigots. They will find literally any tactic or angle that makes them feel like they've "won" and learn nothing at all. Now, not everyone who holds biased points of view is a bigot. Some people are simply ignorant, or behaving the way they do in order to fit in with a community or social group. Those p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:56 PM
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A point of view that comes from a place of negative bias cannot be impartial or rational. If a man makes it clear that he hates, or even merely dislikes women, and then voices an opinion on their conduct, that opinion is skewed. And inb4 MiSaNdRy- yes women do this shit too, and I dismiss their perspective just as quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:21 AM
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Not necessarily the first date, but definitely before anything sexual happens, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:33 AM
9

I don't do casual. I discuss my goals and expectations first thing, I always have. If he's not comfortable with them, no hard feelings, we're incompatible. The only times it's been an issue is when some guy thinks he's a special snowflake who should be an exception to the rule. I don't expect him to compromise what he wants, I expect the same respect in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:18 AM
17

I have no issues with spinning plates. But I don't date men without exclusivity. You can have as many plates as you want, I just won't be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:32 AM
1

The opinions of strangers on the internet have exactly zero effect on how I live my life or how I treat the people around me. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:42 PM
5

Except it WAS horrible. I was violently attacked by a pedophile. I do not need to downplay the seriousness of the crimes committed against me to recognize that men AS A WHOLE aren't to blame for the actions of the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:40 PM
1

Aaron could easily kill Claude if he really tried, but Aaron also places a high premium on his image in the community, and people are already talking about this. His mother and sisters are FURIOUS, and Claude got a copy of the security footage from the bar and is showing it to anyone who wants to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:52 PM
1

The last time Aaron was violent before this was in highschool, some kid on an opposing football team got him riled up after a game and they got into a scrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:46 PM
2

I personally am more attracted to men who "make" rather than "do." All of my exes were people who worked with their hands, who fixed things or built things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:12 PM
1

Too bad for them I don't respond to internet shaming from randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:58 PM
9

I didn't "fall on" anything, I was targeted by predators as a prepubescent child. My point remains valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:57 PM
1

I do my best. Anger is usually poison, and the person it hurts first is the person holding on to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:09 AM
90

This is one of those nature AND nurture problems. A certain amount of it is inherent, but some of it's learned, too. A girl I went to highschool with, who was a little bit socially clueless but very pretty, had a tendency to be very upfront and honest with men. Despite the fact that she remained a virgin until college, she was labeled a slut by the other girls for being too forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:47 AM
15

I see a lot of rage there, which is just as depressing as the angry RP guys. I've had some DEEPLY horrible shit done to me by men, and aside from a brief phase in highschool, I've never once blamed all men for the actions of the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:42 AM
4

The only time I find it irritating is when some dude won't take no for an answer. Don't get mad, don't be obnoxious, just take the L gracefully and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:40 AM
2

She DEFINITELY won't take Aaron back now, she's about as pacifist as they come. She hates any and all forms of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:28 AM
2

LOL it's from one of my previous posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:26 AM
3

A fun update for you guys! Betty, Claude and Aaron ran into each other on a night out (by which I mean Aaron was stalking her social media and went looking for them.) Claude now has a broken nose and Aaron is in a holding cell until someone in his family takes pity and gets him out. Betty has wisely taken my advice and blocked him across all platforms. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:28 PM
5

Every single man I've ever known who's held this opinion has EXCLUSIVELY been attracted to and dated the most basic of basic bitches. It's absolutely selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:58 PM
3

This is a comprehensive and fabulous answer and I thank you for articulating the details I didn't have the energy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:15 AM
11

I've been a gamer and a TTRPG nerd my whole life, and gatekeeping definitely happens. What's WORSE is the guys who go full rage mode when a mutual interest in geek shit doesn't make you want to touch their penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:35 AM
11

The whole goddamn point of feminism in the first place was to give women CHOICES. But somehow making choices you disagree with means they're not feminist enough for you? This shit is why nobody likes radfems. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:18 PM
26

I would consider myself a feminist, and no, I don't think that the strategies they outline there are feminist. It's the same tired, revenge fantasy, eye for an eye bullshit you see from the angry RP guys. "I was used and so I will use others in turn." If all they really want is an obedient, mindless provider, they're free to pursue it, but it seems... I don't know, lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:42 PM
8

I've known Aaron a LONG time, and from my perspective, it would seem he's legitimately unhappy. He never cheated on her while they were "official," but he definitely expected her to be there when he got his testosterone madness out of his system. Like, he loved her, but it was the kind of love one has for a reliable piece of machinery, or a non-direct but loyal family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:49 AM
1

We'll see. I'm honestly interested to see how it plays out, because Betty's goals and Claude's align, as far as long-term stuff goes. They might not have an exciting life together, but I could see them being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:26 AM
7

Honestly she really does seem much happier. I've had many girlfriends who always wanted the "exciting" guy and ended up getting burned, whereas I've always been more interested in the dude who seems dependable, honest, smart and practical. I wish you and your girlfriend the best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:23 AM
3

I told her exactly that, the first time they broke up, but her "nice Christian girl" programing meant that she felt everything was her fault, and she's only now coming out of the fog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:17 AM
5

No, they're definitely not exclusive to unattractive men, but she has the "buckle down and make due" attitude of many nice Christian girls. Casual hypergamy is abhorrent to her, she believes in putting in the work to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:15 AM
1

I'll have to look into that, sounds interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:04 AM
2

They're in their late twenties, the only reason it's worth mentioning is that it's literally the first time it's ever happened with this particular couple. They've been together seven or eight years at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:02 AM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:01 AM
2

LOL she's straight or I might've considered making a move. And as for the breakups, he's always been the one to initiate them, and the one to reach out and patch things up afterwards, but this time she's already moved on. In this scenario he's the one reaching for a safety net, only she's not interested any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:01 AM
5

Under most circumstances I would agree, but with Betty I'm not certain. I've talked to her about it, and she seems like she's realized all the things she was missing out on (comfort, compassion, communication) but because of that nice Midwestern girl upbringing she tends to stick like glue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:58 AM
1

It's definitely possible and your definition is interesting and one I haven't seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:55 AM
2

That was kinda my thought. Aaron doesn't have even a hint of beta to him and it destroyed their relationship, although right now he's WAY more torn up and emotional about it than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:54 AM
3

A valid point of view, tho his earning potential is significantly lower. Aaron owns two businesses he took over from his father, Claude has a standard desk job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:52 AM
3

I've been in the internet trenches for a long time, I know a "gotcha" when I see one. Refusing to answer means your point is dismissed out of hand, and the rest is just fishing for something to argue with. But there's not really anything to argue with, is there? And thank you. The bad days are few and far between at this point, but it still creeps up on me occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:24 PM
6

33, 5'3, 110, and less than ten. I have PTSD but it's been under control since before I graduated high school. I get that you want to invalidate my perspective, but this is seriously reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:28 PM
5

Except I'm not saying ALL men are crazy, because they aren't. Just like not all women are crazy. That's the whole point. To come from the position of "all one gender good, all other gender bad," is to INTENTIONALLY AND WILLFULLY ignore the fact that you, as an individual, have a biased point of view, shaped by your experiences and your demographic. And no, I'm not on any meds, or currently in therapy. I'm in a healthy, functional relationship with a man who is neither a RP alpha OR a helpless ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:41 PM
3

Except the post isn't referring to the "thug alpha" stereotype, it's referring to the men who want a sex-mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:33 PM
14

Have you ever dated modern men as a heterosexual woman? No? Then you don't actually know what they do or how they behave in the context of a relationship, just like women don't know what men deal with. Not to mention, being "normal" is so subjective as to be meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:04 PM
9

You're entitled to your opinion, but just like the RP dudes keep telling us ladies, you don't ACTUALLY KNOW how men are in the context of a relationship, because you don't date them. You like to think it's an exaggeration, because "men don't do that," exactly the same way most women respond to AWALT. But you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:58 PM
3

I actually agree that most people are assholes. There are certain gendered ways in which that asshole behavior expresses itself, so you get people from both sides claiming "nobody does that" because they haven't experienced it themselves within the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:51 PM
5

I agree that neither of these things is the norm. But humans in general are allergic to responsibility, and if they can find a stereotype that takes any blame for a situation off themselves, they'll use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:49 PM
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How many men in this sub alone have complained of dating crazy, irrational or controlling women? Why is it so difficult for some of y'all to understand that men do that EXACT SAME SHIT? Those "not all men" arguments cut both directions. Not every dude is a calm, collected master of his own fate. For every girl out there on her way to ruin some dude's life, there's a man who's just as bad, in his own unique, hellish way. Let's be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:42 AM
1

I don't think there are any laws on the books that prohibit it, but generally speaking, the default assumption is that all women want, or will want, children. And that a woman who is sterilized will probably change her mind later, and blame the doctor who performed the procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:08 PM
1

I have to assume it was some sort of woman hate that prompted him. It could have been religious, he could just be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:25 PM
1

Depends on the doctor. Fear of frivolous lawsuits, garden variety sexism, all sorts of reasons. A different doctor told me he wouldn't do it unless you were married and your husband gave his permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:23 PM
0

I've been studying the PUA and RP stuff since some guys I knew in college got into it, it fascinates me. There are parts of it that are totally valid, there are parts of it that get blown WAY out of proportion, and there are parts of it that are flat out idiotic. But it's still fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:19 PM
1

But if you WANT to get sterilized, it's "what if your future husband wants babies, what if you change your mind?" I actually had a doctor tell me "I don't perform ligations unless a woman is married with at least two children." It's RAGE INDUCING.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:59 AM
1

Yeah, that's the guy. Just goes to show, just because you graduate medical school doesn't mean you're qualified to be a damn doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:55 AM
1

Some doctors still do that shit. I was just reading about a crazy doctor in.... Virginia I think? Who was performing ligations and whole-ass hysterectomies without telling the patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 05:10 AM
3

Congratulate me folks, I think I finally found a doctor who's willing to tie my tubes without me having to jump through a bunch of bullshit hoops. It's only taken about ten years. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:57 AM
2

I put all kinds of stuff on my face but I don't have the list memorized. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 03:49 AM
2

I hope everything turns out good for you, and the new flair is delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:10 PM
6

I'm absolutely not throwing shade at anybody in this thread, but this shit reads like a Patrick Bateman monologue. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 03:27 AM
1

Mine wouldn't throw shit at each other if anyone could see them, but the yelling was CONSTANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:38 PM
2

Is anybody else following Borderlands or 2K on Facebook? Because they got hacked and it is HILARIOUS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:05 AM
3

Oh lordy, you have my sympathies and also my LOL. Neither of my parents had enough of a sense of humor for the answering machine stunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:36 AM
3

Turkey is good shit, hope you feel better soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:32 AM
1

A reasonable point of view. You don't have to be the best, just good enough for yourself. Anything else is a long path to resentment and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:21 AM
3

I spent my entire childhood listening to my parents scream at one another for hours at a time and resolve exactly nothing. Everyone is free to dictate their own boundaries in a relationship, and draw whatever hard lines they think are appropriate. If you think that's unreasonable, swell, no skin off my nose. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:19 AM
21

I have had a man shout at me once. He was single directly thereafter. If you cannot disagree without raising your voice, you're immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:54 PM
7

I'm perfectly happy, because I don't see myself as being in competition with the rest of the universe. Bad things happen sometimes. Grow up and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:10 AM
1

I have a friend in her fifties who routinely picks up dudes in their 20s and 30s. Her exact quote was, "very pretty to look at, zero substance."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:42 PM
4

Under these circumstances? I'd opt out. There's literally no enticement in the universe that could prompt me to consider a relationship under those circumstances. I already know I'm completely happy when single and celibate, so yeah. Mountain hermit time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:39 PM
6

I'm bisexual myself so I would happily date a bisexual dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:13 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:08 PM
1

Exactly. Unless an exceptional person comes along, generally speaking it's more work than is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:08 PM
1

Probably, but I don't value it to that extent. Like I said, I go out of my way to cultivate experiences and situations that keep the spark going, it takes work in an LTR. It would be totally idiotic to throw away a good relationship for the sake of sparkly newness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:06 PM
2

Been there, done that, nowhere near as fun as people make it out to be. I would probably do it again depending on the third we managed to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:31 AM
1

My initial crazy lust period with a new partner can last anywhere from six months to a year, but after that I go out of my way to cultivate it. The more things that I do for myself, to make myself feel attractive, the more sexually receptive I am. Obviously that doesn't work out if he's not putting in effort too, but it definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:22 PM
1

Nice reach there, but no. I have nothing but respect and admiration for women who can make the SAHM thing work, but I know, unequivocally, that it's not for me. Women are completely capable of finding fulfillment in different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:29 PM
1

It's the anniversary of his death this week so I'm feeling a little rough, I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:19 AM
7

Nice pile of assumptions there, let me correct a few of them. I'm economically independent, I own property, and I don't work for a corporation. Oh, and my degree is in English, FYI. Second, I'm already in my early thirties, not some helpless college bimbo. Third, my independence and the value I place on it has absolutely nothing to do with my ability to attract partners. Those people who might find it UNATTRACTIVE are incompatible with me, because I know where my boundaries are and I don't compr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:18 AM
2

Negativity is my number one red flag, but it manifests in a lot of ways. Is she rude to cashiers, wait staff, or baristas? Prone to road rage or impatient? Does she speak poorly of her friends and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:49 AM
3

Depression doesn't discriminate. My favorite cousin, who owned his own business, had a beautiful, traditionalists wife that any RPer would envy, and looked like the love child of James Dean and Hallie Berry, blew his brains out. It doesn't matter how good you have it, if your brain isn't working correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:19 AM
9

I already have a father, and no daddy issues. If I were economically trapped into the kind of relationship you describe, I would be the worst, most neurotic wife you could possibly imagine. My ability to be independent, to be an equal partner, is ABSOLUTELY KEY to my ability to be in a functional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:52 PM
2

Boundaries are a cornerstone of compatibility. It doesn't mean either party is right or wrong, but if one person sees an activity as harmless fun, and the other sees it as some sort of immoral behavior, they aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:00 PM
0

I offer my opinion when it's asked for. Sometimes it's helpful, sometimes it's not. But there's a difference between offering a different perspective, and trying to get someone to do things the way you would, because you think they can't come up with a solution themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:12 PM
0

People I disagree with aren't automatically stupid, but LOTS of people are. A stance on marriage doesn't mean you're stupid, positive or negative, unless you think you know what's best for other people. Thinking you know what other people need means you're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 05:30 AM
0

Some people are stupid. The metric of "some people" or even "most people" should never change the integrity with which you act.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 12:50 AM
3

I would tend to agree. I personally don't see much benefit in marriage, aside from the legalities like insurance and what have you. But part of that, I'm sure, comes from growing up watching divorces all around me, from people who got married because "that's what you're supposed to do."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:53 PM
3

And it's an individual choice made by the people in the relationship. If you don't like it, that's fine, the Wife Battalion isn't gonna come along and force one on you. The cost/benefit calculations are up to the people getting married and that's the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:59 PM
1

Love is a process, not an end point. I do nice things for my boyfriend all the time to "win him over" and he does the same, because that's how you maintain a healthy, functional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 04:18 PM
18

Marriage has value to people who value it. If you don't value it, don't get married. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 04:13 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 03:11 PM
2

Very true, although unless the person in question is a skilled serial cheater, there are almost always tells. Little stuff, yeah, but it all adds up once you know what you're looking for. Most people don't, or they willfully ignore it and convince themselves that everything is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 03:11 PM
6

To be fair, the only two times it's happened to me, I had either a trustworthy witness or I saw it myself with my own eyes. First time, my then-boyfrirnd fucked my best female friend, who was dating my best male friend, who caught them in the act. Second time, my boyfriend at the time fucked another girl, in my bed, on my birthday. During the party. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 04:25 AM
8

Personally I don't worry about cheating. I do make it clear that I have a zero tolerance policy and that even one instance will get you dumped, no exceptions. But there's no point in worrying about things that I can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 02:53 AM
1

Run for your LIFE. He needs a nice neurotic Christian girl and you need someone who isn't crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:33 PM
2

It's one of those "checklist" things and people get SO SALTY if you ignore the checklist. Go to college, get married, have babies, blah blah blah. I refuse to live my life by an arbitrary set of milestones because "that's what you're supposed to do."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:25 PM
2

My hair guy is a gay deathmetal enthusiast for almost exactly that reason. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:19 PM
1

In my experience, most men haven't "got the memo." It's about 3/4 normal dudes and the remaining 1/4 is RP types, PUAs and insecure dickheads, with a certain amount of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:18 PM
2

I had someone give me shit about not demanding marriage today. Why do people think it's their business? So tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:26 AM
3

Dude Dresden Files is one of my favorite series EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:55 PM
1

Guy number two, no contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:11 PM
5

I would agree with that, for sure. But in the moment it comes off very egocentric, especially with the slew of put-downs that usually come with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:58 PM
17

That may be the case in some situations, but when I'm talking about "male ego" personally, it's the guy who explodes with incandescent rage at the slightest hint of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:53 PM
1

Comfort and a feeling of security are very important to me, which is one of the reasons I never participated in the whole ONS thing. I'm not capable of reaching high enough levels of comfort in that short of a window. One of the only reasons my boyfriend was able to get me out of my five year single streak is that I trust him implicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:20 PM
2

My checklist of "has to have these qualities" is orders of magnitude smaller than my checklist of "emphatically CANNOT have these qualities." Having a slew of demands about what your partner SHOULD be like is, in my opinion, less effective than knowing where your boundaries are and removing unsuitable people from your dating pool that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:05 PM
2

I tip my geek hat to you for the excellent comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:58 PM
1

I agree, and furthermore, tradition is just peer pressure from dead people. Society is constantly evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:57 PM
2

Now I have the song stuck in my head 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:01 AM
1

There are other ways to do that, and I've used all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 02:42 AM
3

Leaving the rest of it aside, 5-6 children? Fuck off outta here with that. This pussy is not a clown car sir. I ain't trying to breed some motherfucker his own baseball team.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:53 PM
1

Me too, I hate it with every fiber of my being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:50 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:48 PM
3

That's such a good movie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 11:47 PM
3

I have ALWAYS split the bill because men need no added leverage to try to make me feel as if I owe them something. I genuinely don't understand women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:26 AM
3

What's worse is when they think they can "fix" your political point of view. I research my positions and my votes carefully and thoughtfully, your 20 minutes of Fox News isn't going to change my essential beliefs. And I'm still not going to sleep with you. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:19 AM
2

LOL I do that same thing to my boyfriend but with my legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:29 AM
9

I'm not ACTUALLY extroverted, but I fake it very well for work, and the number of men who take basic social niceties as flirtation is crazy. Put a woman with poorly defined boundaries, or a complex about saying no, in that same situation, and I could definitely see how it would end with her in suboptimal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:27 AM
1

Explain what specifically about the post offends you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:22 AM
0

LOL you guys get so salty over this. And she's not wrong. Probably a good.... Two-thirds of the things on the list there, are instant deal breakers. Exactly what is so offensive about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:05 AM
7

The fact that people are taking it so seriously is hilarious to me. A quick perusal makes it look like about 75% sockpuppet accounts and weird trolling designed specifically to irritate RP types, scattered with a few earnest posts here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:38 PM
1

Part ragdoll maybe? Certain breeds are way more cuddly than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:28 PM
6

You know, I never really put it together, but all of the chronic cheaters I've known in my life have been like, 4s? Except for one, but he got molested as a child and has a weird attitude towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 03:18 AM
1

One of mine is like that. She will straight up climb your body and perch on your shoulder, yelling in your ear until you snuggle her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:52 AM
1

Whatever floats your boat, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:45 AM
1

Nice little incel bit there, but no. Just because some women are crazy doesn't mean all women are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:45 AM
1

I've had male friends do everything from cry and scream, to threaten me, threaten to kill themselves, or pretend to be fine for weeks or months only to flip their shit. Out of the three stalkers I've had, two were former friends that I'd turned down who took it VERY poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:39 AM
2

I experience degrees of attraction, even to my boyfriend. There's the baseline, obviously, which meant I find him attractive enough to be in an LTR with. But that ebbs and flows depending on the situation and his behavior. Do something to make he angry or sad? Gross, don't touch me. Treat me kindly and thoughtfully? I'm all over him. Along with all the weird random triggers I have, like watching him chop firewood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:31 AM
1

This is very much better than the alternative. I've had male friends linger after I told them it wasn't going to happen, only to become resentful and jealous. If you genuinely can't move past your feelings, it's better for everyone involved that you give each other space.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:20 AM
2

There's a difference between developing feelings for someone you're friends with and pretending to be their friend in an attempt to fuck them. But in the end it boils down to attraction. No attraction, no relationship. I've had male friends shoot their shot, and even dated a few, but it's no more a sure thing than any other relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:17 AM
2

I am a relationship focused individual. And in order for a relationship to seem worthy to me, I have to not only choose, but feel chosen. There's very few things that make you feel less attractive than feeling like a replaceable cog, nothing more than "girl enters, stage left."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:06 PM
4

I have absolutely met someone who I wasn't attracted to initially that I became attracted to as I got to know them, and I've met physically attractive people who I ended up repulsed by because of their shitty personalities. The whole "it's got to be instant fireworks or it doesn't count" mentality is so incredibly toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 07:29 PM
1

High value men don't thirst comment on shit online, they approach in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 05:39 PM
8

This is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:12 AM
11

I put exactly as much effort into a relationship as my partner does. However, there's a lot of communication breakdown in modern relationships where men see effort as "A" and women see effort as "B." If you and your partner have differing love languages it becomes even more pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 10:34 PM
2

Jesus christ this thread is an absolute shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 04:31 AM
9

I would absolutely love to exist non-sexually online. So-called "validation" that I get from men is absolutely worthless, a nuisance at best and a legitimate threat at worst. If I feel cute and I post a selfie, it's not for creeps to salivate over, it's for my girlfriends and my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 04:24 AM
2

Seriously. Feminine wiles have their use, but they don't solve EVERY problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:47 AM
1

I prefer average, it's what I aim for in professional settings. Not exciting enough to get in trouble over, not boring enough to be forgettable or easy to gloss over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:46 AM
1

You have excellent taste 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:44 AM
3

She was pretty amazing, my parents were young and dumb and I credit her with most of my success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:18 PM
5

My grandma. She drilled the importance of self-respect and self-worth into me from a young age, along with the idea that just because a man wants to sleep with you, doesn't mean he gives a damn about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:51 PM
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Yes, I did. I've made it clear to every guy who's ever been interested in me that I don't do any kind of sexual activity unless a committed relationship is going to happen, and anybody who whined or insisted he was "special" got the axe within the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:07 PM
11

I've only ever worked in one male-dominated place, and my attractiveness was more of a hindrance than a help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:03 PM
1

If it DIDN'T lead to a committed relationship? One person, and it was another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:33 PM
11

Almost universally, when I give this advice to someone, male or female, it's because they're a doormat. You cannot have a healthy relationship without both parties respecting each other's boundaries, and you cannot assert your boundaries to have them respected if you don't know what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:30 PM
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I'd buy a couple fancy vibrators and get on with my life. I do not need another person to validate me or somehow complete my life, and frankly being able to go about my business without having to devote any brainpower to men and their desires sounds refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:23 PM
1

Excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:23 PM
1

I don't mind walking, I like a lot of exploration.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 08:45 PM
1

It should show up today, I'll post again if it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 08:45 PM
2

Most of my friends are dudes because I lean towards male-coded hobbies, but they're all like siblings to me, people I grew up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 08:27 PM
1

That's fair. Long involved RPGs are my favorite, even if I can only play a few hours at a time. I'll report back here and let y'all know if it's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:14 PM
1

Not an RPG guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 06:55 PM
1

Anybody play Greedfall yet? I just ordered it, looks interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 06:24 PM
3

For me, it depends on what he paid for. A good old fashioned Las Vegas romp? Pretty harmless, so long as it was not a habit. Going overseas and fucking child slaves? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:31 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:24 PM
10

This is beautiful 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:55 PM
1

Less attractive TO YOU. Someone out there somewhere is into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:53 PM
1

Nobody gives a shit about your virginity, just your hateful ideology. Nice projection tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:51 PM
2

What incels interpret as hate is usually just indifference, maybe distaste, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:34 PM
4

Are you high? Because this reads like you're high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:28 PM
2

You're confusing class with old-school femininity. Which is now, and was then, a manipulation tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:52 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:35 AM
1

Thank you, that was the other one! I couldn't remember the name of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:33 AM
13

People don't hate virgins. People hate creeps online who worship mass shooters and pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:31 AM
12

This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:06 AM
10

I make conversation with just about anyone, but I'm naturally friendly. That chick totally liked you though, she touched your beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:01 AM
2

To each their own. Still takes a guy immediately out of the running for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:42 PM
1

Kilts are sexy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:29 PM
1

And I do neither of those things. When I say I would rather die single I mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:55 PM
3

I have nothing against a guy with one or two kids from a previous relationship, but if you have more than one baby mama you're out of the running, period. You're either wildly irresponsible or a pregnancy fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:54 PM
4

She sounds like a twat. A relationship is a team effort and everyone's input deserves to be recognized.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:49 PM
2

The first one has a Stephen King sort of vibe, which I dig, but the second one sounds much more Lovecraftian.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:43 PM
6

I'm 5'3 and I avoid tall men like the plague. I'm supposed to what, have a conversation with your nipples? Fuck off. My absolute maximum is like 5'8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:37 PM
1

Ugly guy. You can turn the lights off if it's really that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:24 PM
7

Only if he won't share. That's a good shawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:19 PM
15

Okay in all seriousness, you should 112% post this to one of the scary subreddits. Like creepypasta or something. This is dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:57 PM
13

Yeah I'll die single before being part of a harem thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:06 PM
1

None, because I tell them to give up or go away. I dislike hovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:14 PM
2

Nah he just comes from an itty-bitty family. They're all under 5'5.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:05 PM
1

Is it the book in general or Stephen King's writing style? He's got a very distinct thing going on that doesn't work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:04 PM
1

LOL I've done that more than once. I go back and re-read it periodically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:03 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:02 PM
1

HyMan omg 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:55 PM
4

Shortest guy I've ever dated was five foot nothing, three inches shorter than I am. He's awesome, we're still buddies. His current girl is 5'5, he likes to stick his face right in her boobs. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:52 PM
1

Oh lord I'm SO not romantic. Honestly most romantic stuff makes me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:50 PM
2

My number one favorite long book of all time is "The Stand" by Stephen King, but make sure you get the extended version. It's like... 1800 pages, I wanna say?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:46 PM
13

I have sympathy for the ones who retain some basic humanity, and haven't been dragged to the bottom of the crab bucket. I have no sympathy for those who hate women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:43 PM
4

See, this is actually a sensible take on the subject. If you're talking strictly and specifically about the peak physical time to have kids, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:39 PM
0

I mean, actually yes? I like this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:11 AM
1

That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:30 AM
1

Literally all my bad OLD stories happened in the span of four months, because it was such a shitshow, that's how long it took me to give up. My favorites were the unicorn chasers who refused to send me pics of themselves, just the expensive stuff they owned. A black Aston Martin, a black Amex card, the wife's designer purse collection, shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:17 AM
5

I once had a guy, on a first date, tell me that he could see me as the mother of his children. You better believe I blocked his ass as soon as I got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:43 AM
1

I actually very much admire people who can make that lifestyle work, it's just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:36 PM
3

Oh man so, so many. The Thing, Nightmare on Elm Street, the first Saw movie, and oodles of others. I have to ration them though because my boyfriend is NOT a fan. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:23 PM
4

That was sarcasm dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:20 PM
4

Because I never want to be wholly financially dependent on someone else. I will not tolerate anyone having that power over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:15 PM
2

I LOL'ed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:09 PM
1

I'm already bisexual, so it would just mean we check out chucks and dudes both together. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:39 PM
1

As if any article of clothing in the history of mankind is capable of preventing a man from hitting on someone. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:36 PM
20

LOL at the idea that you think anything a random on the internet says is legitimately hurtful. Also this is not a "male space," there's other subs for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:19 PM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:17 AM
2

Whatever floats your boat, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:17 AM
4

Because it's wildly disproportionate and excessively cruel? How is that even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:48 AM
1

I got no insight on gender stuff, I'm firmly in the female camp and happy that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:47 AM
1

Get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:46 AM
1

Again with the cartoonish violence. No, use your fuckin' words like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:44 AM
8

Jesus christ no. Where do you people come up with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:01 AM
2

I knew I was bisexual before I knew what it was, way back pre-puberty. I think a lot of the cases who figure it out later were culturally or religiously repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:51 PM
4

Jesus christ. Mega cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:21 PM
3

Piss moan bitch whine, "women with a shred of self-worth won't put up with me or fuck me so I yell about them on the internet." Honestly, you're getting repetitive at this point. Find something else to cry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:20 PM
3

Witty rejoinder there, scooter. You come up with that yourself, or do you outsource your oh-so-hilarious material?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:16 PM
3

Actually my man quite enjoys my ball-busting, because he's not a scared little boy and I don't HAVE to bust his balls. He likes to read these threads and laugh at the neurosis y'all display. He also knows I chose him, not because I have no other choices, not because I was too much of a doormat to say no, but because I actually wanted him and what he had to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:29 PM
1

It's not just religious stuff that they'll say "give me a chance" to. Pretty much any any basic incompatibility will be met with, "But.... Muh dick!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:15 PM
1

Porn isn't an issue unless it's fucking with your sex life, but I will absolutely dump a guy for certain categories of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:12 PM
10

Men who specifically target women with low self-esteem are pussies who can't handle even a hint of a challenge. Oh no, she might tell you if you're being an asshole! Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:10 PM
0

OMG the asking why drives me up the fuckin' wall. Because despite what the guys here say, NO, it's not so you can improve yourselves for the next bitch or whatever. It's so you can argue with literally whatever reason I give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:45 PM
6

He looks like somebody took a fuckin' caveman and ran him through a couple of salons. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:41 PM
9

The problem is that most of these fellas don't realize how thirsty their compatriots are. Speaking in broad generalities, if you treat a strange man on the internet like a human being, he automatically assumes you wanna hop on his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:35 PM
3

Good lord what a shitshow. Sort it by controversial and get the popcorn!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:26 AM
5

Godspeed my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:12 AM
2

OMG that is EXCRUCIATINGLY familiar. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:50 AM
2

Peanut M&Ms, fite me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:14 AM
1

Oh fuck dude, I did the exact same thing with sourpatch kids once. Not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:12 AM
5

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:11 AM
2

I know it sucks, I hope you guys figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:11 AM
3

LOL your fella yells at YouTube too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:08 AM
8

What about A+ booty but like C- tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:02 AM
2

I had a friend who had success with an elimination diet. Pick the most likely culprit and stop eating that for like two weeks, then the next most likely, so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:56 AM
5

LOL I told this exact sort of thing to a girlfriend of mine who was "seeing" a guy and she got SO SALTY. Like bitch you have been doing this maybe dance for three months, have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:35 AM
1

Good answer 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:30 AM
2

Because it's morbidly fascinating, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:36 PM
1

My point was, it's STILL A CHOICE. It has nothing to do with asexuality, or how compelling their partner is, and everything to do with self-control. A better question would be, "how bad would your relationship have to be in order for you to consider cheating?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:29 PM
1

Racism mixed with a healthy dose of morbid fear of inadequacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:27 PM
1

Scenarios where you can't help yourself? What are you, a fuckin' five year old? There are no "scenarios where you can't help yourself," cheating is an active choice, not a puddle you step in accidentally. "Oh no, I got some dick on me, tee-hee." Either you have basic self-control and respect for your partner, or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:16 PM
2

I don't really do sexy costumes, not my thing. I will however have a plastic sword to smack people who irritate me, which I'm looking forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:02 PM
1

It's funny that you 1, don't understand hyperbole, and 2, think that all women are enslaved to their genitals as firmly as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:57 PM
1

That is super cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:29 PM
3

I'm going to be Joan of Arc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:28 PM
4

Because racists can't shut the fuck up about how racist they are when given the opportunity to talk about it, and low-intelligence assholes always have to pick someone to denigrate to make them feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:27 PM
3

Because they think that's gay or whatever dumb excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:12 PM
1

Why the fuck would I WANT that ring? "Oh look, here's a sparkly, depressing reminder of that guy who I broke up with?" Fuck that, he can have it and do whatever he wants with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:45 PM
1

It's funny that you think that's real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:36 AM
3

No! All people deserve a chance to live. Maybe they'll have shitty lives, but they deserve the chance to make it better, and nationalism is for idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:02 AM
6

I want to be in charge of my shit, I want him to be in charge of his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:04 AM
3

By looks I mean ONLY looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:03 AM
4

No this is fuckin' retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:13 AM
2

This is actually a really good theory, kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:10 AM
1

Who, this mythical trans guy or my real life boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:55 AM
3

I have a boyfriend who is three years older than me, and more than than happy with what I have to offer, because he's emotionally mature and not neurotic about his own attractiveness, or mine. We're in love, as irritating as I'm sure that is for you to hear. And on the off chance that I did have to go find a 40 year old? I can think of four off the top of my head. The wall is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:54 AM
19

Lord that shit is SO cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:47 AM
6

I'm mostly concerned about the sanitation. Obviously if they got thrush that thing was nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:57 PM
9

I did! Smart boy. Wanna know the funniest part? I absolutely love it. There are few things more satisfying than having a man ask how old I am and watching his face crumple in surprised horror. It weeds out the youth-fetishising, narcissistic twats SO efficiently, and despite all the shouting on the internet, there are still PLENTY more to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:55 PM
2

You ever see the way the RP guys here talk about what women are attracted to? They lack imagination or creativity. And frankly, for long-term, sexy just ain't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:48 PM
4

I like men, women, and everything in between. Wouldn't make a difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:45 PM
18

It's cute how y'all still think this is scary or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:56 PM
1

Funny, smart, self-sufficient, honest. No bigots, no traditionalists. Has to be at least as big a geek as I am, if not moreso.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:43 PM
12

If you're looking for an LTR and you screen for sexy first and compatible second, you're going to make your way through a LOT of duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:38 PM
1

Vans are good too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:25 PM
2

LOL I was wondering if you'd show up. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:24 PM
2

Both salty AND boring, fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:22 PM
1

Nope, I've found people from pretty much every part of the planet attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:17 PM
5

How easily amused most men are. One fart joke and the majority lose their minds. Frankly it's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:15 PM
3

Again with this tradcon horseshit. Boring, repetitive, mindless. Are you a one-hour wonder or do you have any other sparkling insight to impart to us? Maybe.... Feminist bad? Come up with some new material, christ this is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:36 PM
2

Oh no, poor thing! Does she run wide or long, size wise? Heels are almost impossible, but Converse are pretty comfy if your feet aren't too wide, and they're super customizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:25 AM
3

At least you're consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:23 AM
1

Uuuugghhhh 🤮 but also LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:13 AM
1

I have GIANT fuckin' feet. I gotta Wear a size 10 and it's nearly impossible to find cute shoes. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:14 AM
3

I've reached Nirvana. The meaning of life is, the vast majority of humanity is assholes, do your best and don't be a whiny little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:03 AM
2

mood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:59 AM
1

A pretty thought, but unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:36 AM
2

I mean, it's a LITTLE purgey, I try not to be quite so "old man yells at cloud" generally. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:35 AM
1

Y'know, the really tragic part is that I WANT to feel bad for them, I really do. The drive to seek a romantic partner is a fundamental facet of humanity. But the childish need to be as edgy, as gross, and as ham-handedly misogynistic as possible, makes that impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:36 AM
2

Man that movie makes my skin crawl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:28 AM
1

Exquisite 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:27 AM
1

So let's say by some fantastical miracle, you get everyone to agree with you. The crux of it is, the vast majority of people DO NOT CARE. And the reality is, even if you had a stone tablet from Christ himself declaring that your little circlejerk was real, it STILL wouldn't matter, because the vast majority of your online presence and community go out of their way to be as horrible as possible, which means you'll be tone-policed out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:16 AM
5

Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:09 AM
4

LOL them's fightin words, all Dragon Age games are valid and contribute to the overall experience!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:56 AM
7

I went through four therapists before I found one that was good, that called me out on my own bullshit and forced me to examine how I was contributing to the issues in my life. If you go to a "yes man" therapist, I agree, it solves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:55 AM
3

Yes, unfortunately some people are actively resistant to any form of self-examination.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:53 AM
1

Either commit to the beard or shave it off, change the shape of those glasses, and gain at least ten pounds, and I'd say yes to a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:51 AM
8

It's definitely entertaining, if nothing else!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:38 AM
1

LOL Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:37 AM
2

Humble DEEZE NUTS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:50 PM
5

Exquisite, that first video with the captions is my favorite one ever. All the updoots.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:17 PM
1

Pretty eyes!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:15 PM
1

Actually my boyfriend owns nothing but Carhartts and cargo pants, I was being legit. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:34 PM
5

BaD bEhAvIoR what are you, Catholic? Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:28 PM
1

This shit genuinely annoys me tho. I will block you across all forms of social media and pepper spray your ass, don't test me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:27 PM
4

https://images.app.goo.gl/2wjEj5H7yXbsZi9D9
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:24 PM
4

LOL he looks like he just farted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:23 PM
3

What a charming young man!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:22 PM
2

I only fuck men who wear comic book tee shirts and cargo pants. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:06 PM
2

You ever see Ron White's stand-up bit about his dick? "Don't fear the cheese wheel!" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:04 PM
3

Use of "gentleman," 6/10 neckbeard post, I LOLed a lil bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:02 PM
2

Copypasta? Really? Fuckin' yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:58 PM
1

Hiei 😍 That's my bae! Also Pathfinder yissss
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:55 PM
5

Fuckin' LOL 0/10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:47 PM
1

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:44 PM
2

Good rules! Although to be fair, my boyfriend and I check out hot chicks together. I'm usually the one who points them out. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:43 PM
1

Quality Ferengi, I approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:40 AM
1

I have an uncle who's a family court lawyer, but I wouldn't care. It's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:37 AM
17

How many successful male friends did you have growing up? A lot of male success with women, from what I've seen, is "monkey see monkey do."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:33 AM
1

You're a creative type? Move to a smaller area and work remotely. Bigger fish, smaller pond.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:28 AM
14

Because we are fundamentally incompatible, usually. Exaggerate your scarcity? Get dumped. Make me feel replaceable? Get replaced. Start with that whole begging/backhanded compliment shit? Next. You wanna spin plates? Fantastic for you, I'm not a piece of dishware. Generally speaking it's irrelevant anyway, because every "red pilled" guy I've met in real life has decided run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 10:35 PM
2

The problem with trying to explain this to men in general is that they want what we have. So telling them "I don't give a shit about casual sex, dick is everywhere" is met largely with jealousy and indignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:55 PM
5

This exact shit is why the whole casual sex, ONS thing never appealed to me, and I declined to participate. Dick is abundant and low-value, if that was all I wanted I wouldn't even have to change out of my sweatpants or leave the house. Unless you have MORE than just dick to offer, I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 05:43 PM
2

I've been lurking in RP and PUA spaces for a long time, and this is the only place that a voice her opinion on the matter and discuss it without getting shouted down and/or blocked. My biggest issues with the red pill mindset come from people treating it as gospel, instead of the average that it realistically is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 05:19 PM
2

Might as well maximize your ROI right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 02:37 AM
2

Honestly I find the PUA shit way cringier. At least the RP stuff has genuine advice to try to better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:52 PM
7

Eduthot holy shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:48 PM
4

This. People are largely unwilling to self-examine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:45 PM
3

Smart is the second most important thing for me, right after funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 09:21 PM
2

Every single time I've had someone comment on my standards, it was an attempt to get me to lower them, men and women alike. My girlfriends got mad because somehow, my refusal to settle for someone I didn't actually like reflected poorly on them, in their eyes. Men's objections usually boiled down to "you won't fuck me or men like me and I find that personally offensive." So yeah, I don't care about other people's opinions on my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:45 PM
1

Unfortunately for my boss SHE was the one who found it, which is why she's so mad. I'm just glad I wasn't there to have to deal with her rage. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:32 AM
2

So our bathroom where I work has now been declared "employees only" because some absolutely feral creature decided to shit all over everything, literally. Diarrhea sprayed down the side of the wall type situation. My boss is LIVID. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:11 AM
2

Have you watched American Horror Story? She makes a great witch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 10:51 PM
2

PCOS and other hormonal stuff can definitely play a role, but sometimes it's just unlucky genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 09:42 PM
3

In my thirty-odd years on this planet, I couldn't begin to tell you how many men I've turned down. At a rough estimate, I'd say MAXIMUM 30% of those were based on looks alone. All the rest, including traditionally handsome or conventionally attractive guys, were based on personality. Some of my boyfriends would have been considered weird or even unattractive. You want to know the difference between my sample and yours? I met every single one of those people IN PERSON. OLD is a cesspool of humani…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 09:40 PM
2

I personally believe you should be friends with your partner/spouse, because there's a certain level of communication that just works better in those circumstances. I've had friends complain to me about fights with their partners and been absolutely horrified by the heinous shit they said, because somehow being in a romantic relationship removes that "basic human decency" filter when they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:48 PM
1

My parents were young, full of drugs and idiots. Mom is a narcissist and an alcoholic who would scream and throw shit, and dad was a passive aggressive doormat who would instigate fights in order to feed his victim complex. I studied their relationship like a fuckin' science fair project, and vowed to be nothing like either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:42 PM
2

All valid, although I still think you're pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:18 AM
2

Oh for sure. It's a deeply personal choice that people get hella weird about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:16 AM
1

Honestly with that description I feel like we could be friends in real life. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:13 AM
1

I think insecurity is just common, really. That and he's got a nine year old daughter who remembers and loves her mother, and a lot of women are intimidated by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:10 AM
1

I've been in my relationship about 2 1/2 years, and we've stayed pretty steadily at once a day or more that whole time, barring illness or whatever. There's the occasional dip if one or both of us is stressing out about work or whatever too, but it always equalizes. It's definitely gotten better over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:40 PM
3

Personally, when I use it, I specifically mean "a feeling of being owed something which you haven't earned, reciprocated, or otherwise won the right to have," but that's just me. It's a word that's easy to warp and misinterpret according to one's agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:33 PM
1

Did something happen that could have set you off? I hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:22 PM
1

Dude I love that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:26 PM
1

Stardew Valley is pretty chill. Make a farm, raise some chickens and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:25 PM
1

Do you have family that could support you? Being a single parent is no picnic either way. Obviously if it's what you want to do, nobody can stop you, but you need to think long and hard about every possible outcome and issue that might crop up if this is the path you decide to take. Having a child SHOULD be the most serious commitment you make in your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:18 PM
1

My point still stands. Let's say this hypothetical child is a girl, you bring her to live with you in the US. Eventually she WILL ask why her mother doesn't also live with you. Being charitable, you give her the most watered down version of the "she'd leave me for Chad" explanation. What do you think is the likely outcome of this scenario? What if it's a boy, and you teach him about the "true nature" of women, do you think he's likely to go on and have healthy, fulfilling relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:00 PM
5

Every single person on Earth has a concept in their head of what a wife/husband should be, as it applies to potential partners. It's shaped by family dynamic and upbringing, media consumption, and the economic class they grew up in. Sometimes this archetype is healthy and realistic, sometimes it's warped, sometimes it's totally unsuitable and unrealistic given an individuals personality. The biggest problem I see is people demanding their perfect archetype while being wholely unwilling to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:52 PM
2

So either this hypothetical child grows up without a mother or a father. Alienated from one half of its cultural heritage or the other, biracial and all the issues that can arise from that, its only figure to look up to either a woman so desperate that she used a baby as a means of income, or a man who so dislikes and distrusts one WHOLE HALF of the human race that his only option for procreation was on the other side of the planet, motivated by money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:35 PM
1

Some people are very leery of the idea of competing with a dead spouse. They're gone, they can't fuck up any longer, and it becomes an issue of competition with an idealized version of someone. "Am I a second-place prize, did they love the first person more," that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:41 PM
3

Don't have a kid unless you're willing to go take care of the fuckin' thing and be an active part of it's life, jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:29 PM
1

LOL my vocabulary is full of outdated and largely useless words. I was an English major.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:03 AM
1

Yeah, but what would make a woman refuse to choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:01 AM
1

Well I wish you the best of luck. One of my best friends is a widower and it's awkward as hell, if you need to discuss it I'll be here to offer my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:00 AM
2

Agreed. Critters are pure and should be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:58 AM
1

Probably ADD or ADHD. Manageable, depending on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:53 AM
1

I'm not talking about what you think what women would consider a red flag, what do YOU think would be a red flag, among your behaviors? Which one of your habits would be a deal breaker for a person who would reasonably be interested in a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:49 AM
1

The communication could be reasonable with the right guy, but the anxiety is definitely hard to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:46 AM
1

Common but pernicious. My best wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:38 AM
1

Nice! I'm very happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:36 AM
1

It's possible. Do you have any women in your life that you trust to give you an impartial evaluation? A sister or a close friend? It might help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:36 AM
1

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:35 AM
1

Congrats! Best wishes on him continuing to stick!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:34 AM
1

What's your poison, if you're okay with me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:49 AM
3

Oof, my condolences. Sounds rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:58 AM
1

That can be attractive to certain kinds of women, but there's definitely an expiration date where it's no longer cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:57 AM
2

LOL that's fair. If she snoops I'll vouch that you're a pretty decent dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:56 AM
1

Violence you instigated, or violence you responded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:55 AM
5

Pretty mild, as far as red flags go. I hope you find your clingy girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:04 AM
3

Makes sense, and thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:02 AM
1

Fifth time's the charm?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:01 AM
3

Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:58 PM
2

That's a fair red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:56 PM
3

Emotional volatility is definitely high up on the list of things women tend to be wary of, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:56 PM
3

I can definitely see how that could be unsettling for a woman, depending on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:54 PM
2

LOL I relate to this on a spiritual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:52 PM
3

I was nine, prepubescent, flat as a board. It had nothing to do with my sexual attractiveness then, and it largely has nothing to do with my sexual attractiveness now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:40 PM
2

Not to mention it's a display of competence and skill. Seeing a dude do something confidently and skillfully gets the motor running. Watching my boyfriend chop firewood does it for me, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:55 PM
3

Your point on cooking is good. I'm always impressed if a guy can whip up a nice meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:10 PM
1

Depends on if it's necessary or not. I wouldn't be mad in that boyfriend's situation, but that's different from being willfully ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:28 AM
2

Attractive goes without saying. How each individual person defines attractiveness is up to them. But the most important thing for a LTR, male OR female, is understanding and ownership of your own issues. Being able to say, "this is what I need in order to be happy, these are where my boundaries are," and not compromise on those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:36 PM
1

If it's in your nature, sure. But most women don't want to be forever babysitting their life partner, which is one of the reasons they're so "hypergamous" in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:10 PM
5

This is the correct answer. We can guess, but you need to talk to people who've interacted with you in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 05:55 PM
3

I don't believe in marriage, never did, and the first guy was a sweetheart and dumb as a fuckin' post. I'm friends with him and his wife, she has the patience to look after him that I lacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 05:02 AM
8

In this scenario, I'm in a nunnery and married to my faith, thank you very much. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:51 AM
5

I was disappointed too. Although mildly amused to see a few links back to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:04 AM
15

If you don't think you can give her what she wants, let her find someone who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:14 AM
2

She sounds pretty low maintenance, all things considered. Not ALL men like high maintenance girls, and not all attractive women are high maintenance, but there's definitely significant crossover.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:32 PM
14

Every single time I see a post like this, all I hear is "the majority of women aren't doing what appeals to my cock SPECIFICALLY and it makes me angry."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 06:34 PM
2

I'm talking high maintenance looks-wise. Hair, nails, makeup, clothes, waxing. Most dudes like that shit, but they don't want to know how much time it takes, how much it costs. They like the end result but the process to get there irritates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:40 PM
3

They like the effect, but they don't want to know what goes on behind the curtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:13 AM
2

All men want sex. I had a cousin who was both the most principled, honorable person I've ever met, and also the biggest poon-hound. The two are not mutually exclusive. As for my "fear of commitment," marriage in America is a largely an industry-driven expensive side-show with it's roots in Christian tradition that holds exactly zero interest to me. The only benefits pertain to taxes, medical stuff, and children, all of which can be accomplished by other means. Don't like weddings, don't want one…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:10 AM
1

So he's what, virtue signalling to his own ego? Give me a break. I'm sorry you live in a world where people can't just be nice for the sake of being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 06:23 PM
2

I'm in sales, I literally make my living dealing with entitled people. Dealing with them day in and day out, it makes the genuinely good people stand out even more, like little islands of light in a sea of obnoxious twats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:36 PM
0

Celebrities are promoting their brand, and if they're smart literally everything they do is at least a little bit calculated to grow their fanbase and maintain their image. My friend who privately volunteers at the long-term care wing of the local hospital, playing chess with old people who have no family to look after them, isn't promoting anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:32 PM
1

There's very argumentative types lurking about, no hard feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:25 PM
1

Nobody can stop anyone else from being resentful. What you feel and how you deal with those feelings is entirely up to you. But jealousy and resentment are poison, and they decrease your ability to enjoy the things you DO have. Letting someone else's life dictate how you feel about your own leads to nothing but further dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:21 PM
5

Fella, I'm definitely "post-wall" as you boys like to say, and I have yet to receive the irresistible siren call of marriage and motherhood. I know you think AWALT means "literally every single woman on the planet is exactly like that," but in reality it's an AVERAGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:02 AM
2

I think it can be a mixture of nature and nurture, the two aren't mutually exclusive. But actively choosing to be good in a world that makes it difficult is an act of rebellion unto itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:27 AM
0

LOL you can be 2edgy4me if you want, but I have known inherently good people, both male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:25 AM
5

You can be a good man and still not attractive to a particular woman. I've turned down incredibly good men before, because I knew they ultimately wanted the whole "2.5 kids and a golden retriever" thing, which isn't who I am or will ever be. Better to sting his ego momentarily and leave him to find someone else more suitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:21 AM
3

That's horseshit. What that almost always translates to is "you don't live up to the idealized, imaginary manic pixie dream girl fake version of you in my head, and I find it offensive, so obviously it's your fault."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:14 AM
1

OMG what a cesspool! I've got some strong fuckin' views on unfit parents and people's irresponsibility bringing helpless infants into their shitty lives, but jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:11 AM
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The thing about labels is that they're not always accurate. If you turn down a good man when he asks you out, he might be bewildered or hurt, or even a little frustrated, but he won't take it out on you. If you turn down a nice guy, he will often rage, sulk, or guilt trip you, because in his mind, his "nice" behavior was a covert contract that obligated you to "give him a chance."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:46 PM
1

Assuming a blanket answer of "attractive to me?" Hysterically funny. Like "omg I can't breathe and I'm going to pee" funny. Most everything else is negotiable contingent on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 10:35 PM
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I've said it before and I'll probably have to say it again, but the difference between a "good man" and a "nice guy" is expectations. A good man is good not because it expects to be rewarded for it, but because it's intrinsic to his nature. His kindness, his empathy, and all his other good traits aren't performative for the benefit of others, that's just who he is as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:41 PM
1

Taking the morals of fucking someone else's wife out of it, you have to beware the women who see you as an out from their boring, dissatisfying marriage. Any woman who's looking for a "savior" is going to tearfully confess to her husband, because she can't "just break up" with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 04:51 PM
1

That's why I said some people. Most men are happy dating down, but there's always going to be one whiney motherfucker in the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 04:35 PM
1

I don't mind someone being a little bit of an asshole. I'm a lil bit of an asshole and so are all my friends. There is a stark difference between that and the guy who's consistently trying to fuck highschool girls, his buddy's girlfriends, and whatever other underhanded shit he can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 08:09 PM
9

The mistake is assuming that anything will ever be fair ENOUGH. Some people are absolutely never satisfied. Give them a 9, they'll piss and moan and bitch about how the next person got a 9.5 or a 10. Even if we made every single person on the planet identical and equal, they'd still find a way to organize themselves into a pecking order and complain about the people above them AND the people below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:52 PM
9

I only call a dude a fuckboi if he is maliciously manipulative in order to get his dick wet. Plenty of my male friends get around a lot, but they do it without being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:48 PM
3

What do y'all think the odds are of us getting banned too? Because I'm not gonna lie, I'd be a little disappointed, but it would be hilarious at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:55 AM
1

Damn, now where am I going to lurk and laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:12 AM
1

I'm a big believer in vetting. I'm pickier than my three closest girlfriends combined. Usually they bring their potential boyfriends to me so I can check them out for red flags. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:08 PM
6

I don't really think of it as romantic attraction, because I don't have even a little bit of a romantic nature, but I can't fuck someone I don't LIKE. You could be the most physically attractive person on Earth, and the minute you open your mouth and say something rude, stupid, or bigoted, I'm dryer than the Sahara and already on my way out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:59 PM
11

Nope. I'd be single before I was in an open relationship. Meeting the needs of one person is enough work thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:30 PM
8

Yes, but that doesn't mean I need to do anything to encourage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:50 PM
19

Eye contact is frequently interpreted as sexual interest, even if you're just being polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 06:57 PM
2

Yeah I got constant shit about it too. Families can be obnoxious like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:26 PM
3

She did apologize, and I didn't exactly let her into my life. She's.... Adjacent to my life, peripherally involved, and strictly vetoed from giving me advice or opinions unless I specifically ask for them. I do love her, but she's proven that she won't change, only that she can moderate her behavior when I threaten to take away the cornerstone of her ego- namely me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:23 PM
7

My mother was emotionally and physically abusive to my father, and emotionally abusive to me, although she left my younger brother alone, thankfully. I cut her off for a year and a half when I moved out, and we have a decent relationship now, if only because I call her on her shit and she knows I can and will pretend that she's dead if she starts shit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:20 AM
1

LOL I never said they were throwing GOOD men at me, thus why I was still single. Do your friends not trust your judgement or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:53 AM
13

My only real concern with the RP is that the anger "phase" isn't always a phase. It's fine to be mad at life's inequalities, but if you stew in that anger and live in it, you're going to be miserable for the rest of your life, and you're going to make the people around you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:32 AM
1

Right? It gets tiresome if you aren't interested, and people just won't leave you alone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:04 AM
2

I was celibate for five years, trust me, men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:03 AM
6

The only factor I take into account with a partner's exes is the "all crazy" test. The statement "all my exes are crazy" is a giant red flag and means one of two things; the person has shit taste and allows their genitals to override their common sense, or the person is an asshole/abusive and calling people crazy is their way of deflecting blame onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:16 PM
1

I have seen like three different threads on pissplay today and I just... Whatever makes you happy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:24 AM
2

A good man is a man who does good, and is good, even when there's nothing to be gained from it. He's rational, kind, and respectful by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:45 PM
0

What a fantastic, comprehensive list of reasons why I don't watch porn! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:12 PM
4

Assuming I like him? Absolutely! I would have no issues with it. All these people talking about "what if my friends and family recognized him" bitch please! If my mother recognized my pornstar boyfriend, I would be able to give her shit until the heat-death of the universe! "Watch any good porn lately mom?" Absolutely priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:37 AM
2

Your position is valid, but there's a world of difference between the men who just want someone who shares similar values, and the men who hate sluts while doing everything in their power to be one. It boils down to ego in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:13 PM
3

The only reason they care is because it removes people from their relationship pool. You ever see two kids fighting over a toy, and when one kid wins, he chucks it aside? He didn't actually want the toy, he just didn't want the other kid to have it. Same principal, only it's adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:36 AM
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Cheating is ALWAYS the cheater's fault. Full stop. If you're unsatisfied in a relationship, it's your responsibility to get out, and cheating is the "suicide by cop" method that lets people take the position of the dumpee rather than the dumper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:03 PM
3

It wouldn't bother me, depending on the circumstances. I'm friends with a couple who have two adorable adopted munchkins, and they're BOTH sterilized, because of dangerous medical stuff that runs in both family trees. People's obsession with having their OWN children has always seemed weird to me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:18 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:43 PM
3

If the person I was interested in was upfront and honest about it, and was actively working to keep it under control, I might consider it. But I would be VERY cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:26 AM
3

Your dad sounds amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 11:06 PM
3

My problem is that this wasn't "I'm sad" depression, this was "I'm going to kill myself because my brain doesn't work correctly" depression. So in his case, it was like not taking medication for a heart defect that might kill him, because "that's just who I am."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:57 PM
1

Before my current relationship I was quite happily single for five years. No sex at all, no dates, no nothing. Unless someone is adding something to my life I can't do myself, I won't date just to be not alone. If my current relationship were to fail, I could easily see myself being single for the rest of my life, and happy that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:51 PM
1

This kinda shit is why I don't put my pics on Reddit. Ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 04:40 PM
9

A lot of that is just people not taking time to maintain their relationship. You have to continue flirting with each other, continue wooing one another, and make time for the two of you to do things you enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:24 AM
5

His depression. It wasn't that bad in the beginning, but it spiraled totally out of control, and he refused to do anything to address it, claiming antidepressants or therapy would "change who he was." I still feel a spark of rage anytime someone uses that justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:20 AM
2

We've known each other for fifteen years, he liked me from the very beginning, but we were both dating other people. We finally got together two years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 11:41 PM
1

And he's so goddamn funny! I'm a sucker for funny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:35 PM
7

Most dudes act like I'm crazy when I tell them, if they want an unfiltered view of female sexuality and romantic desires, to go read some fanfics. Like bro, this is mostly porn. Just because it's not porn catered to you doesn't mean there's no insight to be gleaned from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:34 PM
1

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:51 PM
1

Seth Rogan 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:49 PM
4

This man understands fanfiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:47 PM
1

LOL you beat me to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:40 PM
1

Good god no. Managing the needs, desires, and affections of one partner is enough, why would I add to the workload on top of that? I have poly friends who manage that sort of thing admirably, but honestly it just sounds exhausting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:17 AM
0

If I were completely financially comfortable, confidant in my ability to care for myself and my child? Option C. Adopt. Why give in to the vanity of duplicating my own genes when I could give a kid opportunities they might not otherwise have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 10:08 PM
4

I find it super cringey to lie about your age, male or female. It speaks to desperation and insecurity. Aging is inevitable, it happens to everyone, and frankly the kind of person you attract by shaving a few years, or even a whole decade, off your age? You weren't going to be happy with that person in first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 03:20 PM
1

This is weirdly cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 02:37 PM
5

That kind of behavior is part of what people are talking about when they mention the power differential in relationships with large age gaps. He sees her as an object, and he takes every opportunity to reinforce the IDEA of her being an object, because it gives him the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 02:22 AM
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Because when I was in late highschool and college, every man significantly older than me who hit on me wanted a pet, not a partner. "Look at my cute little girlfriend, isn't she precious? Now go sit at the kid's table while the adults talk." Fuckin' gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:49 PM
1

I remember when it happened. I was in school, all our classes got cancelled and we just watched the news all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:49 PM
1

If I find a person physically attractive, I pay way more attention to what they say and do. Attractive is hurdle #1 but there's way more than that involved. Are they funny? Intelligent? Compassionate? Not a bigot? There's a much longer list of red flags that I instantly start looking for, and if I find one, I disengage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:58 AM
2

Agreed 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:39 PM
1

They'll be garbage mimosas, but it's better than nothing. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:04 PM
1

His patterns of violence have always been directed towards other men, and I only spend time with her without him, so I'm not too worried. That being said, I don't have to worry about it for another 3-5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:03 PM
2

Unlikely. Given the pattern of her previous behavior, she'll find some other white trash asshole who spends her money and tries to knife-fight strangers in bars because he's got self-esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:01 PM
3

I have to go to no less than 3 baby showers in the next couple of months and I HATE IT. Especially since in one case, she should absolutely NOT be having this kid. The child's father is literally in prison and she's got an older kid from a different dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:41 PM
1

The only time I've ever changed the way I treat a partner was an ex, who developed crippling depression and wouldn't seek treatment for it. He didn't just want to kill himself, he wanted me to die with him. And I still stuck it out as long as I could, because I loved him and I didn't want him to die. But eventually I had to go, because nothing I did helped, and I DIDN'T want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:21 PM
2

Hello fellow tabletop nerd!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:09 PM
1

Frankly, I hated dating when I was younger and only learned to enjoy it as I got older, because highschool and college aged boys are horny idiots that I wanted absolutely nothing to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:53 PM
1

LOL so very many nervous heteros on this thread. I would go through whichever way seemed safest for the performers, trying not to snag them with loose buttons or zippers or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:41 PM
2

I've been attracted to a fairly wide range of looks over the years, although I obviously have my favorites, but the they all had two things in common. They were all hysterically funny, like I can't breathe and I might pee my pants from laughing so hard funny. And they were all competent/good with their hands, like building and fixing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 05:36 PM
1

I've never met an accent I didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:21 PM
1

I might have to read this, looks interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:12 PM
2

A band name maybe? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 09:44 PM
2

Without some measure of optimism, hope is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 09:43 PM
2

There's definitely some loony toons in there. I posted there under a different account back in the day, but got bored quick with being called a bad feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:29 PM
2

Like I said, balance. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:25 PM
3

I didn't say one was better than the other, just that I need both to get through life. Given the experiences I've had, if I didn't have any optimism about relationships, I would have joined a fuckin' nunnery by now, and I'm not even religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:15 PM
2

I was more thinking Louis Vuitton but yeah. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:12 PM
4

I see tons of value in fatherhood and motherhood both. But I also very clearly see the line where "staying together for the kids" turns into "damaging you children's perception of how relationships are supposed to work," because I lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:11 PM
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I know plenty, and they're all guys who love kids and almost universally want more. A friend of mine actually PREFERS single moms, he's so excited to get his family started, and you've never seen a room full of women snap to attention so hard as when an ex Marine comes walking in the room and proceeds to play with little kids enthusiastically and genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:50 PM
13

Same principal really. The "trophy wife" stereotype in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:28 AM
14

Because a healthy balance of cynicism and optimism is required to maintain my sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:11 AM
9

Obviously humans are social animals, so I doubt it'll be THAT extreme, but yeah. If you're able to take care of yourself and whatever kids you have, why would you add a man to that equation unless he was contributing something more? Adding value, as it were?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:41 AM
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In this model, men are a luxury, not a necessity. Do you NEED that expensive handbag? No, but it's pretty, it makes you feel good, and you like the compliments you get when you carry it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 01:36 AM
2

I've seen it happen a couple of times, but it was exclusively with women who were damaged/unstable and did nothing to address their issues. Usually the kind of chick who cares more about the wedding than the dude she's marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 01:33 AM
3

LOL I'm dying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 08:13 PM
3

My boyfriend's parents are visiting next week and here's me scrubbing baseboards and planning an elaborate dinner and fun activities like fuckin' June Cleaver. I love them and I love when they visit, but they're just so damn NORMAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 07:07 PM
2

Well yeah, you see it, but I think a lot of the others don't, or if they do, they misinterpret it. The UMC types don't go to the fun bars where a girl will drop herself in your lap like a birthday present and invite herself over to your house. Also, gay or bisexual girls are way more obvious about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:16 AM
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I don't think it can be so broadly defined. A lot of things effect how a person loves- early family life, trauma or lack thereof, social programing, cultural expectations. Awareness of the influences that shaped your attitudes towards dating and relationships is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 03:57 AM
2

I think the problem here is twofold- first is demographics. Do you associate with people who feel it's appropriate to be raunchy and sexually forward? If not, you won't see women displaying thirsty behavior. Second is social conditioning. Women are taught "don't chase men, they want to chase you," and they only overcome that by conscious effort or by wanting someone badly enough to throw caution to the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:38 PM
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I have a few friends in the "thirsty" category, most of them are 40+, although very few of them are looking for relationships, just dick. Thirst can also be cultivated and conditioned in a LTR, if you know what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:22 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:49 PM
1

I am the weird Reddit girl, not that you could tell by looking at me LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:21 PM
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I knew two guys who got into it. One was attractive but awkward, and now he's happily married with a munchkin on the way. The other was bitter and resentful, now he lives in a spare room at his mom's house, does heroin, and still tries to pick up highschool girls. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:27 PM
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TIL I'm apparently a hoe despite having a single digit n-count. This whole thread is fuckin' hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 02:35 AM
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Yeah, "otherwise fulfilled" being the keywords there. I've seen plenty of guys be successful, but I've seen more guys drive themselves into the ground, basing their pride and sense of self-worth in how many notches they have, then collapsing when they oversaturate the market. The behavior is not limited to male or female, or even just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:17 AM
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It's not like women are the only ones trying to find meaning and purpose in their lives by getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:42 AM
4

The only men I've met with zero social media have been pretentious hipsters, paranoid libertarians, or people hiding from the cops. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:21 PM
2

You're entitled to your opinion, of course. I suppose we just interpret the data presented to us differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:41 AM
3

Hmmm, how very old school radfem TERF of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:35 AM
2

Are you one of those "all trans women are autogynophiles" people Atlas?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:47 AM
3

I have a friend in their early 40s who has decided to transition from male to female. I am assisting her with this, as she knows next to nothing about female grooming and what have you, but I'm interested to see what new perspectives this process will give her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:07 AM
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You have my sympathies. Sexual abuse, covert or overt, is a bitch, and I hope you find a way to come to terms with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:02 AM
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She probably figured she wasn't going to get an orgasm any other way. What is he bitching about anyway? Literally every dude I know likes cowgirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:20 PM
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Why the fuck would I care about how he conducts his sex life, so long as he's not an asshole and he's responsible? Beyond not catching STDs/not having any "oops" babies, my concern is that he's happy, healthy, fulfilled, and emotionally stable. Trying to raise a child to be a "certain kind" of person is a fool's errand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:36 PM
2

I have joint issues, I've had them my whole life, and I've had a lot of success using CBDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:23 PM
6

Jesus christ that's cringy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:20 PM
5

This is one of those things that I just.... Don't get. One of my non-negotiable baselines is that you MUST be clearly, enthusiastically, and genuinely attracted to me to even be up for consideration. The idea of having sex with someone who is clearly not into it is viscerally repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:18 PM
6

It's not even just "not stupid." Every man I've interacted with in real life who had a hangup about #metoo was one of three things. Stupid, which we've already covered. Someone who thinks he's "important" a la "she's just trying to undermine my SoundCloud rap career!" Or, someone notorious in my small community for being just this side of an ACTUAL rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:37 AM
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I'm generally suspicious of any man who says he's "worried about being #meetooed."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:01 PM
3

This is actually funny, because I have a zombie apocalypse/government collapse plan with a group of survivalist friends. Between the lot of us, we have plentiful weapons, livestock, diverse fruits and veggies, medical and technical rescue skills. Living rurally has its advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:58 PM
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No? Men don't get that shit, you have to be clear with them. The only time I say "nothing" if my boyfriend asks me what's wrong is when it's a me problem, either something I'm being irrational about or something that's not his issue to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 03:27 PM
1

The difference between me giving advice to my male friends about women is whether or not I think they have the capability to APPLY said advice. Are you motivated? Willing to do the work? Or are you going to do exactly nothing and come bitch to me later? Because if all I see is crying and complaining with no effort, you're getting nothing but dumb platitudes. Some people can't be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 03:27 AM
13

Yikes and yikes. Heroin addict or mega accountant? No thanks to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:16 PM
12

I have literally never once in my life gone out to a bar to get laid. Dick is abundant and of low value, why would I pick one out in some dark, loud place where everyone's inebriated? If I go out, it's to spend time with the people who came with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:52 PM
1

LOL how much did you pay him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:07 AM
1

Hm, a new flavor of crazy! Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:06 AM
8

This is exactly what I came here to say. A lot of victims of CSA who don't deal with their trauma become offenders themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:38 PM
1

My current boyfriend is the best, because he's the only man I've ever been with who can take direction cheerfully and enthusiastically. You don't have to start out the best if you're willing to LEARN to be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:32 PM
3

Some women consume too much bullshit romantic nonsense and think they can find a guy they like and "fix" him. Getting a man who's not interested in marriage and then browbeating him into marrying you is a fast-track to divorce. On the other hand, you'll see men on Twitter complaining about the exact same thing with different language, talking about "wife material." You don't get wife material if you aren't husband material, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:16 AM
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That's what I said, say or hear. People will go to any length to avoid the cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:39 PM
1

LOL whatever floats your boat dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:37 PM
2

That's why I said "for the most part." And just because you want something during sex doesn't mean you want it all the time. Basic human respect isn't that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:36 PM
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People don't like to have "difficult" conversations. Nobody wants to say, or HEAR, "I'm just not that into you, I don't find you attractive, I met someone I like better," blah blah blah. Thus, ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:28 PM
1

Approaching me exactly the way I like means he's funny as fuck, and for me, funny trumps just about everything else. Assuming he's looking for a relationship and not just a ONS, I'd give him a shot, see if it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:26 PM
7

Yeah, that first one was an example of her gently saying "no thanks." If she wanted to date you, she would have taken that opportunity. The second one, she didn't respond because you didn't get it the first time. Sorry dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:27 PM
2

Who the hell DOESN'T choose skilled, enthusiastic sex? Jesus christ, put on a blindfold or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:25 PM
4

There can definitely be a level of social stigma attached to it. My relationships with other women, which I considered quite serious, were treated like.... Waypoints, or stopovers, by a lot of my family, on the way to a "real relationship." It didn't change how I felt or behaved in the relationship, but most people are easily swayed by social pressure from people close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:27 PM
3

Women, for the most part, do not like to be objectified. A man who is catcalling you, groping you, or sending you unsolicited pictures of his dick isn't doing it because he likes your personality. He's doing it because he's thinking of you as nothing but a vagina to which he'd like to have access. He's thinking of you as less than human, which is fuckin' insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:06 PM
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I'm bisexual, but I have been since before I had the vocabulary to describe it. And I've seen a lot of the things you've described in other bisexual women, so there's definitely some truth to your ideas. However I think SOME of it can be ascribed to attraction percentages. My attractions are about 50/50, but two of my closest friends who are also bisexual would consider themselves 70/30 (trans man favoring women) and 90/10 (she considers herself bisexual in that she thinks she could, at some poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:45 PM
2

I find it deeply creepy, personally, but there are levels. You occasionally call your man daddy and act like a brat until he spanks you? Still creepy but pretty tame. It's the people who go full age-regression and have a whole playroom and use pacifiers that really freak me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:33 PM
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It can take time, obviously. And I personally don't think that a relationship that starts while you're in the process of divorce is cheating. I also don't think it's usually a good idea, you've got a lot of other emotional shit going on that you should be focused on. And having dealt with an emotionally unstable partner, that "right time" to leave almost never comes along, unless you're planning on packing up all your shit and moving out of state while they're at work. The threats of suicide, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:32 PM
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Of course it's not easy, it rarely is. But as the child of parents who never should have gotten married in the first place? Nobody's doing those kids any favors by sticking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:52 PM
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Cheating is always an idiotic thing to do, if you're in a relationship that isn't working, you should leave, full stop. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, just leave. That being said, there are cases where someone with bad relationship skills will USE cheating as a sort of last-ditch, "suicide by cop" method to give either themselves or their partner an excuse to break up. But it's still stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:15 PM
1

LOL calm down, I was being facetious. Or do you think that women, outside a handful of overgrown highschool mean girls, actually talk like that in real life? I don't even use soft no's anymore, but the point I was trying to make is that plenty of men willfully refuse to take the fuckin' hint unless you get bitchy. I don't WANT to be bitchy, but if a man responds to "I have a boyfriend" with "that sounds like a YOU problem" or some dumb shit like that, I will absolutely assert my boundaries aggre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:01 PM
2

I like my partners chubby l, so I sincerely doubt I'd ever have to deal with this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:44 PM
1

This exact kind of behavior is why I get called a bitch fairly frequently. Modern men who consider themselves "players" are taught to try to push past socially acceptable, soft no's, then have a fit if you tell them "no thanks, not buying what you're selling, run along now." But if the choices are be a bitch or waste my time, I'm going to be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:04 AM
2

LOL no I've got a head cold, I'll be all right in a day or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:32 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:32 AM
4

I honestly couldn't tell you. Optimism? Hope that this one is different? I trust exactly four men on the entire planet, I can't fathom putting myself in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:53 PM
1

Thankee!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:44 PM
4

It's my birthday and I'm home alone with a germ and bored out of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:47 PM
2

I understand that you're angry, and I get it. But I hope the opt-out comes without ever needing an abortion ban, along with entirely free BC of all types and scientific sex ed, with no religious nonsense. But maybe I'm just an optimist on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 12:39 AM
3

Brought him home a box of fancy truffles as a surprise, in his favorite flavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 12:35 AM
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