| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | succes > looksAgreed and I used to be in the same boat. "I'm just gonna focus on myself, get rich and successful, and then girls will come to me." That's not happening | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | succes > looksHaving game is the most important. Women will almost never come to you no body how successful or good looking you are unless you're famous | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guyMe too. I don't think casual sex will ever satisfy me. It's a never ending addiction. It especially feels this way when the sex was really good. I just want more and more. I'm spiraling down a path of chasing pussy and spending time with women I don't like that much just to get more. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have a sex addiction?That's true and that's what I want. I'm only attracting girls that I'm not interested in romantically on Tinder. I'm gonna start improving my cold approach skills. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnI don't call women sluts unless we are roleplaying in bed. The first girl I slept with liked me calling her a slut while we were fucking lol. I just know what women are slut shamed and it's important to not make them feel like sluts unless it's in bed. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnFor everyone who replied and downvoted my comment I realized how stupid I sounded while I was writing it lol. I actually do want to get to know women but the last 2 girls I wasn't really into personality wise and only wanted sex from them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnTinder. I basically just watched a shit ton of texting breakdown videos by Playing with Fire on YouTube and learned the fundamentals of how to text, flirt and move things forward with matches on tinder. I restarted tinder by using my dad's phone number. I paid for some professional photoshoots and put them on my tinder. The photos and what I learned from watching Playing with Fire were the 2 game changers for me. Paying for professional pictures isn't necessary but it's hard to get really flatte… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnI basically just watched a shit ton of texting breakdown videos by Playing with Fire on YouTube and learned the fundamentals of how to text, flirt and move things forward with matches on tinder. I restarted tinder by using my dad's phone number. I paid for some professional photoshoots and put them on my tinder. The photos and what I learned from watching Playing with Fire were the 2 game changers for me. Paying for professional pictures isn't necessary but it's hard to get really flattering pic… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnI answered it | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnI basically just watched a shit ton of texting breakdown videos by Playing with Fire on YouTube and learned the fundamentals of how to text, flirt and move things forward with matches on tinder. I restarted tinder by using my dad's phone number. I paid for some professional photoshoots and put them on my tinder. The photos and what I learned from watching Playing with Fire were the 2 game changers for me. Paying for professional pictures isn't necessary but it's hard to get really flattering pic… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:25 PM |
| -3 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnYea it's just hard to because I don't want to scare them off | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | My Hinge has been on fire, and I can't figure out why. Bumble and Tinder not as much.Since you're 37 I imagine you have a lot going for yourself which explains why more relationship oriented women are interested. I'm 26 and maxed out my looks pretty well and got good pictures but my profile doesn't show that there's anything that interesting about me which is probably a turn off for girls that are looking for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 11:53 PM |
| -11 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnI'm just wondering if I'm not really doing it right. It's also a money thing too, not just time. The second girl I got with was pretty hot, way more attractive than the first but I didn't like how she started ordering food at the bar/restaurant we were at and just expected me to pay for it. I did pay for it to avoid looking broke and I got sex in the end but idk I feel like I could've avoided overpaying for the date. I guess I'm a hypocrite because I don't want girls to use me for my money but I… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | My Hinge has been on fire, and I can't figure out why. Bumble and Tinder not as much.I only get results on Tinder and basically 0 results on bumble and hinge | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Get one match every 3 months, and when i do they ghostI paid for 2 professional photoshoots and took the best 2 from each plus added 2 activity pictures, a total of 6 pictures and now I'm actually meeting and banging girls off Tinder which I used to think was impossible. You need to absolutely look your best and a professional photographer will do that for you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | This girl I'm dating asked me about how my last long term relationship ended. How do I respond?Yea I said something along this line. Told her I didn't wanna get too in depth and she respected it | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | This girl I'm dating asked me about how my last long term relationship ended. How do I respond?It just seems like a massive DLV and would come as a shock for her because right now she thinks I'm the man | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 4 | How do I make my texting less boring?It sounds like you're just trying to be friends with her. Texting should really just be a way of setting up a date. I stole this line from Playing with Fire but I often like to open with "So I guess we're dating now". This comes across as a fun and flirty joke but can also be read as a cocky way of assuming we are already dating. They usually respond with something like "I guess so ;)". Then, I ask about their interest but I tie it back to us. So if I see she's a gamer I'd ask her if she's ever … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | I really suck at night game. Should I give up?Ok yea I've been looking at it the wrong way. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I really suck at night game. Should I give up?I just find the obstacle of blasting music too hard to get over. Like idk how I can confidently and naturally go up to a group of girls and start screaming in their ears. It feels weird. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I really suck at night game. Should I give up?So I'm not the only one that thinks this. Good to know. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | 10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and AnalysisSo basically if you make a lot of money and live in New York City and invest your money into displaying yourself as a high value guy you'll get success in dating. I'm graduating with a degree in business and accounting next year and will be getting into the financial industry myself. I'll probably move to somewhere in NYC since my family is close by in long island and I always wanted to live there but the thing is I want to get good at women right now when I don't have much money or a good caree… | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?I found a guy on craigslist that charges 200 for a 3 hour session gonna give it a try | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?Exactly. I think it's because I'm in New York why it's so expensive. Oh well I'm gonna improve on my own. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceNot sure if I'd even say that tbh. When I was a virgin yea but now I'd much rather have no sex than to pay for it and feel like complete shit about himself for paying for it. When I've paid for it in the past I was basically telling myself I'm not good enough to attract women I have to pay them to have sex with me. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceNo emotional connection and I knew the only reason I'm doing it is because I don't have the ability to get sex without paying for it which killed my self esteem | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceI've done that many times and it leads to me feeling bad about myself every time. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:41 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceI'm sorry man I honestly didn't mean for it to come off that way. I'm literally in the same boat. I'm terrified myself and I used my friend making excuses as an excuse for myself not to approach that day. We got this tho we just need to go out and do it no matter how scary it is. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceSo far I've already gotten some good advice but I'm open to what you have to say too. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceThanks man. Honestly that was my plan, just to throw myself out there and learn and grow from my experiences. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:23 AM |
| 4 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceThank you. This was very helpful and with practice I feel I can get to that point. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceThanks. You're right this makes sense. I guess my next goal is to figure out how to flirt. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 3 | I'm 26 with barely any experience and coming here for any tips or adviceBars and nightclubs are very intimidating for me. I think it's because of my introverted personality but every time I'm in a bar or club I feel super uncomfortable and not sure how to talk to anyone because the music is so loud. I might as well keep trying tho. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:46 PM |
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