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Totally untested, but you can try narrating what's going on around you or your own actions. It's a method to get out of your head. It's taught to people with anxiety as that's largely about overthinking and being stuck in your head. I think it might be viable in pick up as some theory talks about similar methods or having an inner dialogue that seems to serve a similar purpose.
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:20 AM
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Just keep it in mind and make note of the date when you have those insane highs or lows where either everything or nothing is possible. If this is true, you'll see them often coinciding with specific week intervals.
/r/seduction20/11/17 01:17 AM
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Fun Fact: There is some evidence that we have our own hormonal cycles, just like women. If you watch your mood over a long period, you'll start to notice consistent highs and lows.
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:46 PM
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Well they barely reach your age standard so you make sure they know that. You also state your age in a positive way. I usually go for how young I look because it's true.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:07 AM
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Yeah you're right. Seeing alcohol not work for me is showing me how much of a crutch it's been for me. I think that, lack of action and lack of good women are my three biggest problem. I'm going to work on all of them. Thank you for the comment.
/r/seduction27/06/17 12:48 AM
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The fact that I want to improve doesn't mean I have low self-esteem. I want to improve because I know I can be better. Not because I think I'm currently worthless.
/r/seduction27/06/17 12:46 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction25/06/17 01:13 PM
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You're most likely right, but this is just something I do. This instance is funnier than the ones I usually go for, but this is something that just seems to be built in to me. I even do this subconsciously sometimes. There's a guy who started hating me because I was with his ex... only I was never with her. It was my best friend. He still hates me though even though he has no reason to anymore. So I go out of my way when I'm out to try to have a friendly chat with him. I'm a single dad and my ba…
/r/seduction30/05/17 06:28 AM
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Thanks man. But it's not women that are downvoting me. It's newbies that are mad that I'm saying that I could have had sex but didn't. That'll touch a nerve with those that have trouble having getting sex at all.
/r/seduction30/05/17 06:08 AM
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That's kind of what I do. I like to think they think over the night, wondering if they should have done something differently and realize that they should have made a move. It's also pretty hilarious seeing their reactions. One said: "Well that's new. Never just slept in some guys bed before." With the most confused tone I've ever heard.
/r/seduction30/05/17 05:58 AM
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Because it's is hypocrisy and I hate hypocrisy. I have a tendency of overtly or unwittingly attacking hypocrisy. We go through all of this trouble to hit on girls, mustering up all this courage and most often getting nothing from it. It's how things work and I accept that. Girls are in much higher demand and therefore we have to pursue them. So it pisses me off when it's the other way around and the girl still doesn't pursue. Instead she overtly gives me permission to seduce her. So I answer the…
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:24 PM
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They'll go much further than that where I'm from. I hate it when girls I wasn't hitting on start giving me signs that I have their permission to seduce them. ugh I really don't want to go back to my apartment. My roommate is going to give me shit for getting back so late. you know I'm not tired at all. Really just want to stay up longer. do you mind if we go up to your place? I usually punish them for it. I act the oblivious part and say yes to everything they ask of me and eventually they stay …
/r/seduction29/05/17 11:44 AM
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Reading this chain
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/17 03:32 AM
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One guy jumped in against him and took the brunt of the force, but that guy was sitting with them so I'm going to guess that he was one of their boyfriends. So more of an Andre. In total you have the two girls + the boyfriend vs 8-ball with two guys intervening. One of those ended up fighting one of the girls and the other managed to calm the situation down.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/17 03:30 AM
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You should think of tattoos by what what you can wear without them being visible. That serves as your guide to how visible it will be and (along with what it is) what kind of work you can do. Underwear shorts Pants wifebeater T-shirt shirt The further down, the better off you are.
/r/seduction23/04/17 11:57 AM
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Changed the ordering to make it more cohesive. Improve your posture Work out, don't have to get fucking buff af, stay fit Take good care of beard, hair Smell good Have balls to say hi Smile Make eye contact, never look down Joke around when talking but not too much, dont be a clown Make fun of her when she fucks up but don't overdo it Be chill and cool, but not too chill and too cool (dont be a nice guy or a cunt) Make physical contact/ get physical Know when is the right time to make a move/ re…
/r/seduction23/04/17 11:46 AM
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Your post is pretty true, but terribly worded. I hope you don't mind that I reword it a bit: If you are friendzoned, it means you aren't being enough of an alpha. You need to tease her more. When you are hitting on a girl, you should tease her to build up her attraction. When she starts liking you more than you like her, you should tease her less as it might have the opposite effect. This is being Alpha. A great trick is to start out playful and cute and let her start rejecting you. Then you swi…
/r/seduction23/04/17 11:40 AM
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That would also apply to trying to arrange a meet up or approaching her or talking to her in any way shape or form.
/r/seduction23/04/17 11:33 AM
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It's necessary to know how to use it since most communications go through text today. Still, it's pretty bad. You have to deal with awful latency (typing speed and not answering immediately), you're not getting her full attention most of the time, doing pull/push might have her take a break from you (negating the effect) and she's probably talking to multiple people meaning any concealed efforts of yours wont be connected straight to you.
/r/seduction23/04/17 11:04 AM
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I've never had a run in with any nut. I've slept with a couple of crazy chicks and I've awkwardly met a few fathers, but honestly I've yet to have someone bashing down my door or doing anything worse than shit-talking me. It might have to do with where I live though so YMMV. Most girls have just stopped talking to me or we've become friends. It's not like you're the only guy in the world and most girls just focus their efforts elsewhere, I think.
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:50 AM
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That's the Romeo and Julie clause and is not the same as the age of consent.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:55 PM
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She probably [...] wants more but is trying to give you anything you want to be with her. I may get downvoted for this, but I don't think we should be making concession based on others trying to trap us. It is a bad idea for them, but it's one they've decided to undertake. Not to mention that it is underhanded towards us and saying that we should effectively not let them try to bluff us when we have a winning hand is absurd. We shouldn't lead on girls, but when a girl ingores what we say and dec…
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:54 PM
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I'd say it depends on a combination of three factors: How public this tryst will be (who'll know about it) The public perception on this kind of age difference (will try care) How swayed you are by the public perception (will you care) Personally I'm 26 and I'll go down to 18. Lower if she's hiding her age (happened once). That kind of age difference is frowned upon here (perfectly legal though) but I don't give a fuck and those whose opinion I curry are either not going to know or not going to …
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:44 PM
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Really late response (going through top of all time). I was curious so I looked it up on his profile using controversial and ctrl+f to search for relationships. Found it pretty easily. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3l14b9/update_2_my_21m_girlfriend_21f_is_angryupset/cv29c4k/
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/17 10:46 AM
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Even later response. I was curious so I looked it up on his profile using controversial and ctrl+f to search for relationships. Found it pretty easily. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3l14b9/update_2_my_21m_girlfriend_21f_is_angryupset/cv29c4k/
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/17 10:46 AM
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There are a lot of people posting more information, including a sticky at the top.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 05:19 PM
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All that matter is what is clearly visible in the video. The 'Free Speech activists' and the Anti-Fa are clashing violently, the girl decides that she wants a piece so she goes to the front line, she goes in to the fray (00:28), goes for the push against blondie, gets decked, then sits on the sidelines and cries over the apparent injustice that she has just received (00:48). The PPD is not that she got hit. It's that she didn't expect anyone to hit her simply because of her gender even though sh…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 04:11 PM
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Not the best time for it. There are a couple of people making that exact point in this thread, meaning that you're not an extreme outlier and so removing the absurdity that would make your comment funny.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 03:04 PM
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I think you're a bit confused. The PPD is not that she got hit. It's that she didn't expect anyone to hit her simply because of her gender even though she was standing in the middle of the fray and most likely taking part in it (she could leave at any point with the rest of the crowd that is very actively retreating, but chose to stay). The video all of these clips are taken from is right here. You can see that after she's clocked she stops participating and stays to the side crying. When she re…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 02:23 PM
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This going to sound weird, but I've heard it's the same story with Paris Hilton, she just failed to leverage well enough.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 12:23 PM
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Hey Mustaka, love how big the sub has gotten!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 12:14 PM
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Yeah the system was really ripe for a dictator. They just intended that dictator to be the Emperor.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:54 AM
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Well. Guess I'm going to hell now.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:14 AM
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It's a funny story actually. Coca Cola was an international company before WWII and had a sizeable assets in Germany. When the war broke out, Coca Cola of course continued their business in Nazi Germany. When the sanctions against Germany hit, the German arm of Coca Cola could no longer get the ingredients necessary to make Coca Cola in their factories, so they made a new drink to make instead: Fanta. They kept selling Fanta through WWII. After the war the Coca Cola company decided that Fanta wa…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:13 AM
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Her asshole is hairier than mine. And her bush looks like somebody accidentally had the wrong size set on the spraypaint tool in paint.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:05 AM
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NSFL!!!!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:04 AM
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That man is trying to send him to Jesus.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:01 AM
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That's not how this works. This subreddit is for those instances when a girl relies on the privileges provided to her gender. Most often 'a man will not hit a woman'. I don't want this subreddit politicized and saying that this instance of PPD should be removed simply because the guy is onerous is politicizing it. All that matter is what is clearly visible in the video. The 'Free Speech activists' and the Anti-Fa are clashing violently, the girl decides that she wants a piece so she goes to the …
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 09:00 AM
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The only thing that should matter to us is that, in this congregation of violent idiots, a 100 pound girl decided that she was going to show the guys who's boss, went up against a 200 pound guy, got decked and then cried over the injustice of him hitting back.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 08:47 AM
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Amen.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 08:45 AM
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It's amazing how often I hear that because Hitler's rise was an insane combination of a lot of really really big factors and events. People always act like he subverted some great democratic system, when the truth is Germany had been ruled by an emperor twenty years before and Hitler's greatest foes were those that wanted to reinstate the empire. So Germany was ripe for a dictatorship. It was what they were used to. Even then you still needed a very fertile field of dissatisfaction (what's most …
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 08:44 AM
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She was bragging on FB that she was going out to collect 100 nazi scalps. The protest she was going to got violent. The Anti-Fa, which she belongs to, got routed by the Free Speech activists through a multitude of scuffles. During one of which she, along with a few others, got the shit kicked out of them. I think the video does it more justice as you see everyone fighting, camera pans to her and the blonde guy. Blonde guy goes in for the swing and she goes in for a push. Blonde guy has at least …
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/17 08:32 AM
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If you ever find yourself in that position: Lie down on your bed and take the photo from above your head or chest level down towards your dick. It's the best angle in my opinion. You look more muscular and it's a bit more than just your dick.
/r/seduction15/04/17 02:46 PM
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I've never understood why guys send dick pics. No girl has ever been convinced by a dick pic. If she's still talking to you after you send one, then it's pretty much sure you're going to fuck and it was before you sent it.
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:47 AM
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Ugh I'm pretty conflicted about this! I've slept with a number of girls that at some point pumped the breaks and I just dealt with it, but I've had one girl blue ball me twice by being pretty fucking persistent. Honestly I'm much better now than when I met her, but I don't recall any I would have done differently. She was insanely ready to go, she just kept stopping me and herself from going all the way.
/r/seduction14/04/17 07:14 AM
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What if that tequila shot was coming back to haunt her? Maybe her friend just asked if she wanted another? Maybe she meant the guy behind you? And that's just them giving the signals without them being pointed at you. Then there's the stupid idea that you are some kind of expert at body language. PUAs who have been at this the last 15 years still make mistakes when it comes to body language. And all of them verify the signals instead of just assuming they're right. Finally, let's assume you're r…
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:45 PM
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You know how depression works. You're going to be dismissive of what goes against the idea of you being shit in every way. He accurately guessed depression, because that is literally what is wrong. You answered with 'no I perfectly read their disgust at a distance, it has nothing to do with my depression'. It's especially bad since you're making their interest - something that is entirely up to interpretation and changes with every moment - into this concrete, permanent, obvious thing.
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:38 PM
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You can't be rejected from far away. They don't have giant 'no' signs. That is all in your head. What would you say if your gym buddy turned away 10ft from the bench and just say 'nah. I saw it wouldn't be able to lift it'. Without even knowing the weight?
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:23 PM
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Promise you you're destroying things for yourself. Seen it happen often.
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:19 PM
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"It's funny you said that because I actually do have diagnosed depression." You think it's funny because you had already intended to completely dimiss what he had to say. I'm struggling with general anxiety. Interactions are 60% just your interpretation of what's happening. For us it's more like 80-90%. It's all so much in your head it's not even funny. Remember your training and ignore your brain. Remember exactly what you thought would happen, then lord over your fears how wrong they were when…
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:18 PM
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"Why are you playing so hard get when you're already so hard to like?"
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:09 PM
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They don't see you as boyfriend material. Ask one or more of the girls why they don't think you'd make good friend do material. Try to go for the most honest ones. I'm sure there's something obvious you aren't seeing.
/r/seduction08/04/17 12:07 AM
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Attractiveness has to do with more things than just looks, though. I know a guy who looks like Tom Cruise's younger brother, but his alpha persona is absolutely made of glass. So he gets girls, but if he opens his mouth he pushes them away.
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:08 PM
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Well this says otherwise
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:06 PM
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That society will not tell you what you are supposed to do to find a mate and will feed you misinformation, that you need to 'man up' and take control in your life and the above information as well. Probably more, but I don't really frequent the sub.
/r/seduction03/04/17 12:52 AM
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This is just the groundwork. Think of it like a car. You can go racing in a shitty car and even win, but you'll be winning in spite of your car. Now your car isn't holding you back, bit you're not going to win anything keeping it in your garage. And you do not expect to win every race, e specially when you've just started racing.
/r/seduction02/04/17 05:39 PM
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Also in the context of not feeling well and wanting that pleasure kick.
/r/seduction02/04/17 05:35 PM
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Because everything about what you're saying is flawed. You're relying on your own internal biases to judge her as credible as well as her telling you the truth about how many guys she's been with. As flawed as that is, you're then correlating her being easy with how many guys she's slept with. You'd need to know how many men she's slept with, how many years she's been sexually active and during how many of those she was single to get any kind of idea of her virtue. Even then, that's overlooking …
/r/seduction31/03/17 06:46 PM
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She's enjoying having the Great Player at her beck and call and being able to boss him around. I don't know if she's doing it for her ego, because she wants to distinguish herself from all the other women or some other reason, but you need to stop letting her get away with this. Chase after some other girls, physically stonewall her or just don't meet up with her. Show her that with action that there is a timer and that you're not going to fawn over her.
/r/seduction31/03/17 05:25 PM
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If you are I strongly suggest that you stop doing it. It's a pretty unhealthy way of looking at things.
/r/seduction31/03/17 05:18 PM
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The third one had more going on. Some people don't understand themselves or really care to explain themselves. If she felt it was stale and wasn't going to her BF about this issue, that alone is indication of an issue. Example: When you have a relationship problem and you go outside the relationship for a "solution", that means something went wrong earlier in life that taught her that being direct about problems is not the way. Making a diagnosis off of a brief secondhand account is problematic,…
/r/seduction30/03/17 11:54 AM
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Awh. OK.
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:26 PM
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The average woman is more in demand than the average man. Therefore she is going to be more successful whatever she does. The advice doesn't work for them, they simply succeed even with the advice. A similar example: Usain Bolt broke the record in the 100m dash with a terrible starting method. When he tackled the record once more, he'd been coached how to start the correct way and broke his own record.
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:25 PM
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I am an advocate of always trying to see the situation from the other side's perspective, but honestly there are situations where the other side's perspective is just awful. I've been the guy she cheated with (is there a term for that individual?) three times and been propositioned a number of times (made a decision not to do shit like that). One I lack enough information about, second felt trapped in a bad relationship, but the third had little excuse besides feeling like her life had gotten st…
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:00 PM
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It still sounds like you're treating women differently than men. Unless you love and respect them too.
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:59 AM
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I meant that there were shitty people in relationships that will cheat even if there's nothing wrong with their relationship, simply because they feel bored or simply want to cheat. Of course there are shitty people doing pick up as well, but I consider 90% of the blame to lie with the cheating person, not the person they cheat with.
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:54 AM
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Can you imagine being able to go out with a female PUA wingman?
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:03 AM
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There are also shitty people... just saying...
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:02 AM
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She's mentioning the guy as a 'look how easy this is for me' to sell her skills. Male PUAs do this a lot as well. Her definition of alpha is most likely different from ours. She's not just going for sex so she had to find someone compatible with her while still being 'alpha'. So it's not about some persona but the fact that she can't adequately show him her personality in such a short time. And let's remember that your standards for through the roof when you get good. I think your criticism had …
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:01 AM
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Honestly I think they just need a good talk down from someone on here. Show them their behaviour isn't acceptable among their peers and why theyre acting like that and they'll do a bit of self-inspecting. At least that's what I've seen in FB groups.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:48 AM
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I'm pretty sure we're susceptible just as women are. Hell, it's pretty common for PUAs to accumulate male groupies when going out.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:44 AM
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Honestly it's funny seeing that women are getting the same bad advice as guys.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:42 AM
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I see no reason to love and respect women from my deepest core. They're human beings just like us and I don't love and respect everybody of my own sex. Just treat them like human beings. That's enough.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:41 AM
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That's the tricky bit. The best way is to be a cool guy to begin with (which you should already be prioritizing) and to get a foot in the door. Once you get into a party and are a positive part of it, they should think of you next time and at least consider inviting you. Until then don't push too hard, but if you hear them talking about a party in front of you it is a sign that you aren't explicitly not invited and so ask for an invitation.
/r/seduction25/03/17 12:00 PM
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I was just about to drill you for your snapchat secrets. I have a lot of trouble getting traction on it. Thanks!
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:36 AM
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I honestly don't know what you're saying.
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:31 AM
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I honestly don't know what you're saying.
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:31 AM
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Also, ask to be invited if they talk about something in front of you. When you're holding something there's often very real limits to who you can invite and you usually go by a mental list (best friends, girls, interested parties, etc) so you might just be below the cut off line currently.
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:30 AM
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www.voat.co The next thing will be something different, not the same. Reddit has done Reddit about as well as you could expect so the next big thing has to do it differently.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/17 02:21 PM
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Not in my right mind either and I'm not sure if you're not making sense, or if I can't understand you. I'll come back to this after a good night's sleep.
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:08 PM
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Fuck you're everywhere man! But remember: Fuck being complacent.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:41 PM
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Please do! Otherwise you come off as someone who just found this the most appropriate place to brag.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:37 PM
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Guy isn't privileged, but I know what you mean. Still he'd be stupid not to take advantage of what he has going for him (including college life). We've spent our chance and he's making good use of his.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:10 AM
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He said he got some free jackets. Maybe he's including that?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:08 AM
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Number of ways to do that. One you can try is make it emotionally seem like it's been longer. You can do that by changing venues. For example: Go with her to a couple of clubs, walk with her, get something to eat together, maybe walk in a park, then take a ride home to her or your place. Suddenly it seems like you've known each other much longer. Another is to emotionally engage her. Make her emotions fluctuate. Make her happy, angry and even sad. It's the downs as much as the ups that make her …
/r/seduction15/03/17 10:57 AM
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He's in school as well so you have parties, events and classes that also serve as great places to meet girls.
/r/seduction15/03/17 10:48 AM
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It's great how you decided to take better care of yourself and actually make an effort with the fairer sex... but you didn't really try pickup. You said it yourself. You didn't change anything about how you interact with people, only how you look (which probably impacted your confidence). I'm pretty sure that while most of us want to be super happy for you like we are for everyone else, it's kind of hard when you didn't really need to put any effort into it. You just happened to already have the…
/r/seduction15/03/17 10:47 AM
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Shit just noticed that. This guy needs to hit the restart button fast on this relationship.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:31 PM
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Negging was meant to simulate coming from the same place of worth as the girl when really you were terrified of how much better she is than you in the easiest way possible. It's been outdated and unused since pretty much the early days of pickup. And that's in a field that's evolving about as fast as the internet. BIMN gave you absolutely stunning advice. I just felt like the obvious about negging needed to be said for all those thinking of using it.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:29 PM
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I'm not sure if you know what you're talking about or not, but the DSM isn't meant to be used like a questionnaire. It's meant as a tool for diagnosis and is actually quite easy to misuse in exactly the way you are using it right now.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:19 PM
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The girl is shitty, but honestly this is mostly him letting her get away with it I'd say. He just needs to pump the brakes and not let her get away with it. We all can be shitty if we give in to our vices.
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:00 PM
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Same applies to you. Never stop doing what you are doing. You are truly making this subreddit a better place.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:54 PM
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No most people seek validation from others in some way. You have to have your shit pretty together or actually suffer from something not to do that.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:52 PM
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Bringing this back on topic: I don't think the answer to this is to consider yourself less and them more. I think the problem here is that OP is acting on his feelings without really knowing what those feelings are or why he's having them. I think the answer here is for OP to consider himself and what is pressing him more, figure out why he is so insecure and actually deal with the root cause.
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:50 PM
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Be man to woman as well as physical. You need to engage them physically while you're entertaining them. So you're assuring them that you're fun and not someone to be on guard with while getting more intimate.
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:37 PM
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Be man to woman as well as physical. You need to engage them physically while you're entertaining them. So you're assuring them that you're fun and not someone to be on guard with while getting more intimate.
/r/seduction25/02/17 09:37 PM
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Most important lesson on here: We've all got a history and there will always be others that have been in your shoes and can tell you what they wish they could have told themselves.
/r/seduction20/02/17 04:52 PM
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Well you've listed every general category there is except for sane so I'd say try looking in the are in and around the city where you live as there tend to be women there.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:58 AM
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Three awful 'truths' today: Your opinion is what you feel and cannot be changed. You are immutable. Without any agency and should be both praised for what you are and never be expected to change. Effort has no meaning because everyone puts forth effort. People just have differing talents and starting positions which define their outcomes. You can expect a person to take you disagreeing with these facts as well as a born again Christian taking you disagreeing that there is a God.
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:03 PM
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I'd go a step further and say that there are no seduction 'rules', only seduction guidelines. And it's as situational as knowing moves in chess.
/r/seduction14/01/17 12:48 PM
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Yeah taking it seriously is something you should never do and I sometimes fall for. Happened again now. Talked to an inspiring girl and seemed to be hitting it off. Didn't go on Tinder for 6 days (I was busy) and she unmatched me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction14/01/17 01:21 AM
1

I'm afraid I can't do that. Way too few people where I live, so few Tinder conversations and everybody knows each other.
/r/seduction07/01/17 10:17 AM
1

It was pretty sweet, but damn did I get disillusioned with Tinder! I keep deleting it and re-downloading it.
/r/seduction07/01/17 10:08 AM
2

No doubt. Tinder is also an incredible training ground for upping your text game.
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:52 AM
3

Tinder doesn't hold a candle to anything. Period. It's an awesome app, but it takes the abundance women usually face to a whole other level. You drop down more than a few notches on there compared to in real life. Had this hilariously spelled out for me when I met a girl I'd matched on Tinder at a party. After talking for a while she apologised for having unmatched me (something I'd missed). Slept with her later that night.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:15 PM
6

Look around. Join various activities and clubs. I joined a board gaming one, boxing and a parkour gym. Thinking of taking some forms of dance next, but I live in a place scarce with stuff like this so you probably have a wealth of options.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:02 PM
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It's meant to solidify you and your brothers into a single unit. You are all different individuals with few things in common, but break you guys down and you will hunch together for safety. You will develop a bond as strong, but different from family. It breeds the kind of bond we see in the military and other extreme environments. A remnant from our turbulent past when we hunted as a group and you trusted your fellow hunters to be in perfect sync with you and willing to put their lives down for…
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:00 PM
1

Unfortunately, I think we've reached the era of needing to question the political motivation behind academic material. It's actually that we're moving away from that. We still need to keep that in mind, but before it was just a hard truth that it was happening. Honestly I can't give you more than what was in that link so take from it what you will.
/r/MensRights03/01/17 08:21 AM
2

Yeah it's also the reason why you see corporations like Google stressing people's differences being a good thing and stuff like that. You have to radically change a corporation's culture to fully capitalize on diversity.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 05:13 PM
1

I can try and give you some source. I came upon this info when I was making an assignment on something related so I might have a link here somewhere. This here Encyclopedia entry on Diversity (I'm afraid you're going to have to scroll down to the Diversity one) is the one I read. You can check the references at the end. I'm afraid that's the only one I've got for you since the Encyclopedia was the only one of the references I read that I ended up using in some way.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 05:11 PM
1

Was reading about this around two months ago in a number of reliable places in a number of studies touching on similar subjects. Didn't see any debunking or opposite views (though there were of course a number of cons and caveats) but I must admit I wasn't looking to find any so I'd be more than willing to read some over.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 04:57 PM
1

That is true, but the group should be diverse in experience and qualifications as well. All members should be qualified in some way, but those qualifications shouldn't be the same for every group member. The idea is to have a more diverse pool of insights and ideas to solve the problem. There is more than one way to come at a problem and that's where the increased performance lies. People with different work experiences, ages, ethnicities, sexualities, genders, cultures and nationalities, etc. w…
/r/MensRights31/12/16 04:50 PM
1

Thank you for the advice. I have trouble keeping my mouth shut, but thankfully I'm slowly learning what I should and should not say to which person. Still it's hard not to talk about this stuff. It's so obvious at times and is even hinted at in popular media. I think I had the above argument (which I detailed in another reply) with my parents when we were talking about a couple they know. I think the furthest I've gone against the societal norm is when I talked to a girl I met about the idea of …
/r/seduction31/12/16 04:39 PM
1

Sorry for the late reply. I made the point that it is a good thing when women want you while you are in a relationship. They argued that it was bad since it was temptation and that the woman would feel neglected, insecure or jealous. My argument was that it strengthened the relationship as it made her more aware of what she had and the 'market-price' of that. My favorite was to point out all those that break up with their SO only to realize later what they had. Often those individuals active dis…
/r/seduction31/12/16 04:30 PM
1

I also love the idea that a woman should be grateful to me for something her father did rather than three opposite way. As apparently gender trumps actual relations.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 09:12 PM
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Funny thing is groups perform problem solving and other tasks better the more diverse they are. This is why cutting-edge companies have such a motley arrangement of employees. They sell it as being for equality, but it's skewed way past where it should be. It's become a matter of making the group as diverse as possible to increase its efficiency.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 09:09 PM
46

Well for us, but I've had regular people argue with me against this.
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:05 AM
4

Absolutely fantastic article. I sometimes liken the evolution of pickup to the evolution of psychology: The start of it was pretty weird and only accidentally helpful, but we've only kept a few fundamentals and have completely moved to better things that are usually helpful. He'll we even have it just common that there are still a lot of kooks around trying to pass of some snake oil.
/r/seduction27/12/16 07:57 PM
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It will always have those discussions and it will always have the bullshit as well. I quit because of it and now I'm giving it a second shot to see if it's alright. Not going to great though.
/r/MensRights22/12/16 10:27 PM
12

Or is simply terrified of having that picture up and not explicitly making it clear that he is not trying to body shame her in any way.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 04:12 AM
1

She's known for working against the Nazis. Not to ruin your point, but I read somewhere she never did that. Remember that she was just a teen then and so incredibly malnourished, it caused her health problems she struggled with for the rest of her life.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 04:09 AM
1

It's not sex that's the power here. It's that he keeps coming to you. You are the prize. You have more value than him in his eyes. I wrote another comment about what I think you should do, but I have to stress that you should not lose your virginity with this guy. It's pretty common for girls to put too much emotional investment into the guy they lose it with simply because they lost it with him. You might think you are beyond all that, but it would be a much better idea to find someone discreet…
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:30 PM
3

... You're still doing all the work though so I don't really get where you're coming from. Oh and your technique leads to them seeing you as boyfriend-material rather than fuckable. If you don't get stuck being friends from just learning her quirks without any escalation.
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:14 PM
2

Cool story bro Now go out and have a meaningful relationship where you are rewarded for your affection. Got me mad haha.
/r/seduction31/10/16 01:51 AM
2

And one more thing, don't take advice from any guy that tells you not to be manipulative. Most people are sheep and sheeps can't tell you how to act like a lion. http://imgur.com/naQtH9b
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:52 AM
2

I love your comment. XD
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:42 AM
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I know you're being sarcastic, but either you do all the work or you become such an existence that girls will try to bag you. Which sounds easier? PS: The latter often follows the former.
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:40 AM
20

Those damn PUA assholes brigading us!
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:39 AM
3

OK first, fuck you. Second, she could sleep with this guy and a ton of other guys if she wanted. Doing so is not going to change where her mind is at as she already knows she can sleep with pretty much anyone, but she can't get a commitment. The 'sleep with 10 girls' solution is meant for them to realize that they can get sex elsewhere. She's looking for commitment. Sleeping with 10 guys might actually put her in a worse position as none of them might be willing to commit, strengthening her onei…
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:27 AM
1

I think you should withhold sex for now. I believe girls hold the key to sex and boys hold the key to a relationship. He has only given you very minor commitment so far, so you should only give him a minor reward. When he starts giving you more (like a date), you should start giving him more. Going all the way might go well and lead to a relationship. You are trying to build an emotional connection and sex is a pretty decent way to do that, but it might very well end with a similar situation to …
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:11 AM
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The rules are different here. She already has abundance when it comes to sex so that doesn't work.
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:43 PM
1

I like you.
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:39 PM
3

No I'd say plausible deniability is still pretty good. It's not even just for the friends. It's also for her to feel comfortable with the situation. Maybe she has issues with the concept of the slut and doesn't want to see herself that way. Then it 'just happening' after she's already at his place is much better than her coming to his place to fuck. And if you think that's dishonest on your or her part, you're more than welcome to feel that way and act on those emotions, but I would pursue her.
/r/seduction23/10/16 07:30 PM
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Honestly it's most likely all some stuff with her. Just keep playing the field and meet other girls and keep her on the backburner. Being cool and fun will hopefully get you all the way and being involved with other girls will keep you from becoming emotionally invested in her. Oh and by the way. If she is trying to hook you by doing this (and it's unlikely she is) then she's doing it by getting you to mentally fixate on her like you're doing right now. So read this stuff and form a plan for how…
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:33 PM
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OK I just glossed through your history too. You need to develop some emotional strength. Everyone hates doing stuff they don't like and being uncomfortable. You need to learn to live with that. You're already miserable so why care if it's uncomfortable when you know you'll feel better after? Stop letting your sadness go into a feedback loop. It's ruining and you might need professional help for that. Let off that bomb of neediness, low self-esteem and social inability. You've been cooped up way …
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:11 PM
1

Eliminate the idea of saying anything more from your head. Tell yourself you're not allowed to say anything more. You're just going to say something small like 'hi', 'hello', 'do you know what time it is' or even 'excuse me this will only take a second of your time... thank you' if you want something sillier. It's not as hard as you think and it helps you with approach anxiety.
/r/seduction16/10/16 02:55 PM
1

This is what I fucking love about this whole movement. People can hate all they want. I wish every last guy who doesn't feel confident in himself found this sub.
/r/seduction16/10/16 02:45 PM
1

Make her just another girl by hitting on tens of perfect matches.
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:56 PM
1

Sorry. The way to get past lmr is to follow the ladder of escalation.
/r/seduction02/10/16 07:03 PM
2

I do. You have a good day and you feel you need to match it. I don't have a good answer for it, but it might help to think 'there's no way I can follow that so today I'll just try something new since it's already not going to go too well'. Wish you luck!
/r/seduction02/10/16 06:53 AM
1

As a reminder it does perfectly. I think I fucked up tonight and lost sight of myself. I should have been enjoying the night instead of trying to force myself into enjoying it. Thank you for the reply.
/r/seduction02/10/16 06:35 AM
1

Sorry but could you elaborate what you mean by false pretense? And thanks for the comment! :)
/r/seduction02/10/16 06:33 AM
3

25 year old single dad reporting in. It's tough because we need a girl that can be a mother and will actually last. I think I'm becoming more hopeless from pickup. I was close to swearing off sex the other day because I just felt disgusted with women. Especially those that are in a relationship and you can just see how they're waiting for you to give them an excuse to be fucking trash.
/r/seduction02/10/16 05:22 AM
2

You didn't hit up. Guys have this sort of wrong-thinking about that. Since girls dominate the nightlife you're usually hitting down, because you're on their home field. Pick up is about changing that. Most likely you're much more desireable than you think you are and your girlfriend was on par, or worse than you should be able to get. Do me a favor, go out to the club and find a girl that is as hot as your ex was. Not higher but as close as possible. Now go up to her and hit on her knowing that …
/r/seduction02/10/16 05:17 AM
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Easy. Go to some place where you don't know anybody. Now you don't have to worry that someone will tell all your friends what a fool you are. You could literally piss yourself and you'd never hear about it. Go up to a girl and talk to her. This isn't approaching. This is warmup. I doubt you count it as a part of martial arts practice when you're running in circles? Why should you count it when you're talking to some girl that you have no plans of getting anywhere with (PS: Good to start with som…
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:56 AM
1

Some guys point to kino being the solution here. Read the ladder of escalation. They say that the way to get through the last minute resistance is to follow it. That what is happening is that you're escalating too quickly all at once without having laid the groundwork.
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:45 AM
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Don't worry man. You should cherish this moment. Tune into that hopelessness that's completely wrecking you. You know what comes next. That fury. The laser-eyed determination to do better. Dude I fucking envy you because you're going to channel this into next weekend and you're going to go through that place like a fucking hurricane! You can't have highs without lows man. Cherish the lows! They're what make life fun! I could ramble on but let's leave it at that. If you want to talk some more jus…
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:43 AM
1

Ok. Damn. That's twice.
/r/seduction01/10/16 10:32 PM
2

This is a good thing. If everyone practiced or put some effort into seduction, it'd be a lot harder for us to get anywhere. Thankfully they don't so we don't have to do that much.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:08 AM
2

And now you also know salsa! I actually need to try this. I've always wanted to learn to dance.
/r/seduction28/09/16 04:06 AM
1

RSDLuke. He pulls a student to the side in one of his videos and goes over it. I'd check him out. He's pretty candid in his youtube videos. Eye contact is something I'm completely in the dark about. It's pretty easy for me to give strong, 'fuck-me' or warm eye-contact, but I keep hearing and seeing such different ideas about when to use it and how long you should maintain it. I'd love some simple pointers, if you'd mind?
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:57 AM
2

Situational stuff always works best for me. Usually a question. Often it can be something obvious or slightly dumb sounding. Usually it has to do with something about the girl, but it's never been something about me. I tend to slip right by the 'bitch shield' that way. They're usually completely unique and they might not have any rhyme or reason or work for you to be honest. A few I can remember: A bar I went to had a charge listed for the drinks, but you needed a deposit on the glass as well. M…
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:54 AM
1

Thanks just downloaded it.
/r/seduction28/09/16 03:25 AM
2

How about we add links to articles or other material that clearly explains each concept? That way we can keep it abbreviated to terms like 'push and pull' without anyone not knowing exactly what is going on.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:57 PM
5

Touching is key. Learn to be a touchy person. A lot of guys are uncomfortable with touching the girl and project that vibe. They're afraid that it's wrong to touch her like that and that makes it wrong. A very common mistake is to stare at where you are touching her when you do it and even looking at her right afterwards for non-verbal consent.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:51 PM
2

I wholeheartedly agree with you! Do remember though that the best thing about seduction is that everyone has their own specific method. You could be at the top of your game and still learn as much as a newbie from another master simply because you could have an entirely different way of getting the girl!
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:46 PM
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Well you want to open with something that gives you the best chance of maintaining the conversation. 'Hi' might work perfectly well, but only if you're willing to follow up with something. Honestly don't think of it as an opener. It's like saying 'how are you?' everyone has a rote response to that and therefore aren't engaged. 'Sorry I'm late' is pretty good since you and the set have multiple things they can answer with. The trouble would be having the confidence to do it and you already got th…
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:43 PM
1

Well shit. Guess we just hope the next one gets some traction.
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:31 PM
1

Do people think you're super serious? Have people asked if you're mad about something? Do you think people wont approach you because of your resting face? Yeah I've been there. I called it the disappointed face though. Honestly the fact that you don't feel confident because of this is the only thing you need to deal with. It's the same as with how you're dressed. It doesn't matter as long as you're confident that you don't look wrong. So either deal with it or accept it as ok. I dealt with it wh…
/r/seduction27/09/16 05:22 PM
4

Remember that snapchat is an extension of your image. Make fun snaps as well as interesting ones to show her you're high status. Put them in your story and even if you don't mass send them you can see who's viewing and who isn't. Good way to gauge interest. Besides that. Don't send dick pics. Do not. Ever. You want them to see your penis. They do not want to see your penis. You usually succeed even though you showed your penis, not the other way around. You can break this rule when you get good …
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:04 PM
0

one girl i quite liked was talking to this guy who was a bit of a jerk talking to him. Like actually following him, but then again most people were. It was like he was leading the group. He also chats rubbish a lot. I've heard that "nice" isn't what I wanna be. Apparently "nice" just makes you a (best) friend. I'm also afraid I might push her away if I'm like this. It's fun to have banter but I also don't wanna annoy her too much / upset her. Some people are talking about oneitis which i have pr…
/r/seduction27/08/16 05:22 AM
1

Well those that get into pickup are going to work on themselves and look better by working out, dressing better and styling themselves. Even if they don't do that, their confidence shines through and makes them a more attractive figure. All of that said, you should work on your looks for yourself. Being attractive is known to positively impact your life socially, so why not work on it even if it doesn't bring you girls?
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:18 PM
1

Not all use a friends story to cover. There's the classic looking for a boyfriend and no ONS and stuff like that.
/r/seduction23/08/16 12:47 AM
2

Yeah I hate that! I come from Iceland and there women are actually pretty open with their sexuality. I've watched women hunt as much as men do so I know for a fact that women can do it. But you see that in popular guys too. Even when those people want to get more they never try. It's like this inability to even consider getting better at attraction . I don't know how often I've felt like a sociopath that I'm even trying this stuff.
/r/seduction22/08/16 08:26 AM
2

Honestly I doubt there are a lot of women out there scared of running out of suitors. She'd just find what she wants out of the hundreds that would be left.
/r/seduction22/08/16 05:33 AM
5

We obviously have very differing opinions on this topic and frankly I think we should let it rest, since this boils down to our preferences in women.
/r/seduction22/08/16 05:32 AM
2

OP used the term "'real' guys". Most likely referring to her considering men that do not fit a specific criteria boys (or at least something other than real men). What that might be I have no idea.
/r/seduction22/08/16 05:07 AM
4

Guys that fit her criteria.
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:33 AM
7

Blame it on society, not them. It's the right way for them to react. Society does judge women based on this, and rather harshly at that. You wouldn't blame a woman for lying about how many men she's been with, right? Well this is the more overt example of that repression. You can also think of some of the ways you're repressed. What things you hide from people or abstain from because of your image.
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:32 AM
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Just as Nodos said. There's soft NOs and HARD NOs. Everyone has layers of both behaviour and communication. You know this. You're just thinking of this as the stereotypical rape scene. We're not talking about that. We're not monsters here. We're talking about those ambiguous areas. Those times you've coaxed someone into buying cake with you, when you said no to a movie before it was revealed that it was your favorite movie or decided to go out with your friend even though you had school in the m…
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:28 AM
2

Thanks man. :)
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:13 AM
12

Women have a lot of social pressure on them so don't take a girl saying that she only wants to be friends or isn't interested in having sex as being the whole truth. You need to be decisive and take the initiative. She's probably going to say no to your advances at first (maybe dodge the first kiss or something like that) but she'll most likely go all the way eventually. She just has to rid herself of culpability as being up for no string sex would make her a slut according to society.
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:06 PM
2

Dude I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but suck it up. If you're dead tired after work, don't go everyday, rather every other day or whatever you find works for you. Prepare yourself mentally and physically for going out. Get enough rest, food and be in the right state of mind. Stop think 'I'm so tired' and start think 'tonight will be awesome! I should load up on some caffeine to keep from yawning though.' I work 12 hour shifts, 2-3 shifts in a row with two day breaks in between. I have my…
/r/seduction20/05/16 01:09 PM
3

Oh nice! A post that seems to have been written by me two years ago! I live in a small town of 18k people. I'd just ended a 3 year relationship with the second girl I'd slept with. I was terrified what would happen when I started going out with how inexperienced I was and how small the town was. Turns out I didn't need to worry that much! I went out, I made new friends and I met girls. I pretended I was confident and I constantly thought of what I did before and how effective it was and let that…
/r/seduction12/05/16 11:09 PM
3

I'm from Iceland. Here women do approach men and often are the leading party in the seduction phase. You'll actually see girls (some pretty hot) doing the group hop thing going around and flirting. I've seen two girls competing over one guy and everything you've seen guys do.
/r/seduction01/04/16 10:19 PM
1

You're supposed to: 1. go for what you want, 2. be non outcome-dependent and 3. abundant. So you shouldn't beat around the bush, have it affect you when you don't get what you want nor be SOL when things don't go your way. Tell her that it's ok you're going to [insert meaningful/fun/rewarding activity here] instead. Tell her that you want to meet some other time instead. If it happens again. Tell her the same thing with the caveat that, if this kind of thing becomes a pattern, you're going to st…
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:00 PM
8

A good variation on that one is not to hide it. Instead stand up as if you're going to the bathroom and then gently slap her face with it.
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:06 AM
3

I'm pretty much the same. I have a lot of trouble getting through that initial stage, but the moment I see blood in the water, I frenzy and get her.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:34 AM
13

Additionally: If whatever you're trying to do was easy, everyone could do it better. You'd still only be as good at it as everyone else. If it's hard it means that it will actually be worthwhile.
/r/seduction14/01/16 11:15 PM
2

Ah I see you make the same mistake as I: Blot out the name at the top, but forget the 'You matched with ____' line.
/r/seduction07/12/15 08:58 PM
2

Well I first started following the rule when I was in college but it wasn't until later that it really started to have any sort of impact as I never hit on any girl. Then my anxiety issues further cemented (maybe even created) the rule in my psyche. I've been dealing with those issues as well as becoming a more social person and I guess this was just one of the blind spots I had left over. I posted about this on /r/askseddit as well and they already gave me a talking to. It's a dumb rule from a …
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:23 PM
1

Grab some of their stuff off piratebay. Best way to know if it's worth it or not.
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:42 AM
1

I'm studying it right now... got a long road ahead of me. http://www.rsdnation.com/ < Their site. They also have some youtube sites. They all start with RSD.
/r/seduction17/10/15 12:10 AM
1

Real Social Dynamics. Tyler's school of pick up. It's based on improving yourself and the way you interact with the world - Basically turning yourself into a natural - instead of learning lines and manouvers to try to imitate naturals.
/r/seduction14/10/15 01:20 PM
1

Preaching to the choir here. A partner isn't there to fill in that gap in yourself. Only you can fill that gap in yourself. Big RSD fan so I understand that well. A partner is like a glass of wine with a steak. You don't need it, but it makes the meal much more enjoyable if the wine is good and is drunk in moderation. And if you find that perfect vintage it takes the steak to a whole different level.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:03 PM
1

Good to know it was helpful for someone. :)
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:54 PM
5

It's also to squash a feeling you think is a fundamental part of you and that you think accurately describes the world: That there is a 'The One' out there for you. There are actually multiple people out there that are perfect for you and will help you complete your life. Since you just want a soulmate to spend the rest of your days you might be tempted to write this off as one of those lessons not meant for you but think about this: Seduction is value based and a lot of the stuff we do is to in…
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:38 AM
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I think OP is getting to an even more fundamental truth here. There are more than just one person out there that would be perfect for you. Not just good or better than others. Perfect. So there isn't just one soulmate out there for you that will make you complete and be right for you now and to the end of time. There are multiple Ones.
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:30 AM
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Dude. You failed that badly and nothing bad happened. Everytime you're having trouble from now on you can think 'shit this isn't even close to being as bad as that time' You missed one girl that was never going to hit on you and you would never have hit on if you didn't seize this chance. Becoming good at this is about being rejected over and over. Shit even Tyler from RSD says he'll sometimes start his night out failing with a ton of girls before his mojo kicks in. You did awesome man! We're al…
/r/seduction06/10/15 02:05 PM
2

I think the only reason you're told to avoid relationships is because they can pretty easily become a crutch. A lot of people might slow down because they already have a fantastic partner and want to do stuff with them rather than put constant work into themselves.
/r/seduction04/10/15 10:44 PM
1

It really doesn't that much. Besides, it's not like they go around talking about some guy that hit on them and show them a picture of you. Besides, it isn't necessarily a bad thing. Believe me. I'm starting this out and I live in a town with around 20k inhabitants and no one cares.
/r/seduction26/09/15 11:14 AM
1

Don't worry about it. People are not going to care. Do you ever in your daily life notice some guy that's hitting on some girl (tastefully) and think 'oh I'm so glad I'm not him. What a loser.' I bet you don't. And I wouldn't be surprised if you've seen someone hitting on a girl during the daytime with her giving him positive feedback and wished it were you.
/r/seduction25/09/15 02:23 PM
1

I hate this sick game they play We're all a part of that game. It is as much unintentional as it is intentional. We're just using analysis to figure it out and play our cards in the most optimal way possible.
/r/seduction21/08/15 04:34 PM
2

Exactly. The best revenge is to be the person she would want to hang out with, but you don't want to. Show her no interest, but do show others near her interest.
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:49 PM
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I'm as new as green grass around here, but I think you're question isn't going to get a good answer. First of all, I think /r/askseddit would be a better place to ask. That subreddit is specifically meant for questions like these. Second, from what little I've read this isn't like lockpicking a girl and more like card counting a bunch of them. You're not being taught things that will help you unlock some specific girl's heart through effort, skill and perseverance. You're being taught to see mor…
/r/seduction17/07/15 12:29 AM
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