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Quitmyjobss/r/askMRP28/04/24 04:40 PM
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Quitmyjobss/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/24 12:03 PM
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Every woman is a hoe, some just hide it better
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:32 AM
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Comfort gets you laid. Isolate her and escalate. Pass her shit tests and assure her.
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:47 PM
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talk to the girls without the PUA nonsense. WTF, OP asked for advice on the subreddit build on PUA literature. You want him to not use the knowledge? Be funny be charming and inclusive of all the women. Nah, bad advice, men take that advice and become dancing monkey performers to the whole group. He is gonna fail miserably. Applying formulae to organic human relationships is idiotic. Its more of a controlled chaos than applying a formula. You would know that if you read anything on the sidebar.
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:43 PM
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Mystery Method is hands down the bible of Group Dynamics, it was designed for it. Be warned though, you need singular focus to become good at group game, you are gonna make fool of yourself more times than you can count. Its worth it though, if you get preselected by group, then you are gonna get laid like crazy
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:38 PM
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I have never seen a comprehensive framework for women dating. There are edgy maxim articles but nothing as detailed as the literature that exists for men. How do you guess go about handling the advice for women?
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:35 PM
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Lets see I'd say good, Bullshit I know about the game, And I know about Kungfu, I am not winning any championships but the only place I think where I suck is actually that I don't get the female hints Nah bro you suck at lot of places. BTW, "female hints" are known as IOI(Indicator of Interest) that's the case and another is not taking big action like when the tension was very high Its called sucking at leading and escalating i didn't take any step Approach Anxiety and lack of courage. and was s…
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:27 PM
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Buckle up. Me: “What would you like to do after high school?” Dont ask boring questions, You: "You seem like you will make good hairdresser, do you plan to do become one after high school" She: No, blah blah You: I think you underestimate your potential here. Her: shut up, lol. I am not good at cutting hair blah blah. See, keep things playful instead of boring. Her: “I’m not sure” Duh, what other response did you expected? You are not leading the conversation you are doing a boring as interview.…
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:21 PM
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Kino is NOT silver bullet, how tight is your game?
/r/seduction21/04/24 09:58 AM
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Hot chicks are cold as fuck. Especially if you havent generated attraction. You should post your texts and we can tell u how to handle it
/r/seduction21/04/24 09:57 AM
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90/10 rule applies when you pick up. You will have to lead 90 percent of conversation before the hook point. Woman is not invested in you, so you gonna have to do more work. Attraction is not about showing interest, it's about demonstrating high value behaviour. Being not very interested is part of doing that. So think of it like that, a woman who goes out of her house half naked is demonstrating her value by showing off her body. Same way by being playful and being social you are showing off yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/24 11:26 AM
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can see how initiating with full intention and no fear of rejection is the way to go No man the point of the post is for you to not lie to yourself. giving yourself an "emotional out" in case you get rejected is not gonna do you any favours. You need to start learning what context is. It's not enough to copy paste what you read, you need to understand why I linked that post to you. playful with her challenging me with shit tests, and less of a "if she doesn't want to it's her loss" frame which i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 09:30 AM
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Would love to hear how it would be better to deal with a woman repeating "I'm serious. Stop with this type of remarks" if not laughing (because I found the swift change genuinely funny) and then stfu. If woman is resisting your attempts to be sexual it means that she is not attracted to you at that moment. Your job is to tone down the sexual and focus on attraction. So take the "I am serious" and misconstrue it as something offensive that she has to react. e.g. You: damn you are a serious person…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 09:21 AM
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If you look comfort in context of game then it's different. When a woman is emotionally stimulated and has entered your frame, then comfort is mostly to demonstrate to her that she is welcome there. Otherwise emotions gonna take her all over the place. Comfort in context of while relationship is not required unless divorce is on the table
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 06:33 AM
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I am not awesome enough to call her out on this shit and have it resonate. Doesnt matter, its the truth she knows it. You care too much. The purpose of calling her out is not to change her behavior. Thats her decision to make. You need to create a frame for yourself where you are not afraid to call a spade a spade. If you cant even call her out on her shit, why would she even respect you? I've tried. You tried to change her behavior, thats a fools game. Suppose I meet your wife and she acts like…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 07:12 PM
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Wife has been using every excuse in the book to not sleep in our bed at night. Has been doing so for the past ten years on and off. Excuses are “you’re mean”, “you stink”, “you snore”, “you only want sex”, etc. She has laid out a list of things I need to “fix” in order for her to grace me with her presence in our bedroom. I have quietly fixed most of the issues, but tried not to do that in a way as to be seen as bending to her will. I did them because some of them are legit albeit small issues. …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 06:17 PM
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I probably lost my frame somewhere along the way. Yup I mean laughing it off is not an invalid response for this situation I feel. optimal >>> not invalid I didn't have any reason to argue. Its not a negotiation, there is nothing to argue. playful with her challenging me with shit tests, and less of a "if she doesn't want to it's her loss" frame which is why I found her shutting my sexual talk down funny. (https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/kxxe5j/initiations_youre_not_that_funny/)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 05:00 PM
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Why is her saying in full seriousness that she wants me to stop acting like this any different than a hard no like "don't touch me" when escalating? Because "being sexual" is something you just introduced to your marriage. Its new and she does not know whether its the real you(Its not). There are lot of shit tests that happened before this that you have failed. Suppose you approached a woman and started being sexual. She shit tests you. You fail and fail and fail until she tells you to go away y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 03:55 PM
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This may not be the exact application /uQuitmyjobss was implying, but it was a start. I had to look at your comment history to figure out what I advised This is definitely not what I was describing. Not that what you did was bad. Ofcourse you should praise good behavior Look, people want to feel valuable and wanted. Its normal and her deep cleaning and stuff is good. But if she is leading then she will do what she wants to do but not necessarily what you want her to do. Makes sense? So she will …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 02:40 PM
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stop, you're too much. You don't have to make everything sexual. I'm serious. Shit test changing subject (stfu basically). Boooooooo.. Pass the fucking shit test. I was always very sexual and we had fun talking like this, recently it's always shit test or straight up "hard no"s when I say anything remotely sexual. I am gonna take a wild guess. You are not congruent about being sexual. you are just doing it to get a reaction out of her(DLV). Women eat incongruency for breakfast. One thing you nee…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 12:35 PM
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Quitmyjobss pointed out that I was avoiding pain/protecting my ego. He was right. So I guess you decided to stop avoiding pain/protecting your ego None of them sexual, none of them even remotely close to number closing. maybe someday I’ll get there. I postponed until last minute’ish to do a (below) bare minimum. So until I really put in the effort, I have no business being here. Now I either need to put in the work and figure this out by myself, making the mistakes needed and getting the learnin…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 12:05 PM
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so where you from? Booo, never ask direct questions like this. They are BORING. So instead of where you are from, tell her "You make your hair like someone from LA". Instead of "what do you do for living" tell her "You look like you are a nurse" . If you are right, tease her for being so predictable, if you are wrong tease her for looking like a nurse. In this way you are leading conversation and can drive her into more sexual territory. I’ve been told by some women I come off a bit creepy Its a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 11:48 AM
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I'm probably way too communicative, There is nothing wrong with being communicative per say. Just be selective of what you want to communicate. If you are communicating boring shit or are being insecure or stuff then its better to shut up. If you are gaming her, teasing her, giving her emotions then communicate away. "be careful or I'll make sure this will be a boring and cold night" This is "Indicator of Interest" that women tend to give after you pass their shit test. Its a cue to turn things …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 11:27 AM
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I haven’t been able to be grateful for because I’m so wrapped up in sexual covert contracts There is nothing wrong with dumping a chick if she wont fuck you even if she is the best woman there is. What is stupid is the covert contract that if you improve enough, she will fuck you. So can you find a hot woman to fuck you by this weekend. If answer is no, there is no point of dumping your GF. Because she is literally irrelevant when it comes to your attractiveness
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 11:05 AM
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Seriously considering whether it’s worth trying to turn this LTR around at all - or whether I would learn faster / get what I want starting from scratch. Let me blow your fucking mind. You can leave your GF 3 months from now. You can also leave her if she becomes your sex kitten Wanna know something very cool, you can leave her anytime you want and there is nothing, NOTHING she can do about it. Fuck, you can leave her for being the best woman there is. / So what's the fucking rush ? Or maybe you…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 10:22 AM
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Dude if you want to give away free money, just put that money in an index account. There is nothing you cant learn by actually practicing and reading.
/r/seduction16/04/24 08:33 AM
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Your endless pseudo positivity is fake. Your passive aggression (with a light and carefree tone) belies deep seated anger and resentment that you're suppressing. You are the king of the nice guys. I can't imagine the energy it takes to police your own thoughts so heavily. Yeah, the incongruency is fucking him up. He did all the surface level work and when it didnt work he decided to do more surface level work in hopes that things will change. Core identity level work is still missing. Thats the …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 07:28 AM
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Lets see Emotional Stimulation Qualifying her social circle Qualifying her Preselection Domination Passing Shit tests Giving comfort at the right time in right amount Outcome Independence Being Social by default Enjoying yourself
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:36 PM
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Leave the single mother and find a non single mother. Life is that simple . Noob questions should be asked in r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/24 12:18 PM
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She kept putting her arm around me and stroking my hair, etc. Most affection she's showed in years. Yeah, she is feeling dread so she is trying to be affectionate to you. But she is not attracted to you. DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY, no women will be attracted to you because you are fat and have zero game. She is trying to ignite some form of arousal by doing that When we got back home she went back to no touch. She failed, so she withdrew. We also discussed this anger as the main reason why she's no…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 07:10 AM
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You care too much. Okay so as a mental exercise think that you single, and your wife is a a plate and did the same to you. She said she will make you food and didnt. Would you care? Not really, because you should have other options. Let go of the basic assumption that your wife is somehow special, let go of your investment in her. Open yourself to the open dating market. Consider her as just a woman in the dating market. Unless she invests in you, she is not special. Unless she adds value to you…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 06:55 AM
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%bf unknown Make it known Still a virgin. Never made-out or had sex before. Last relationship was in high school.Started cold approaching about 3 months ago. I absolutely suck at it. Had (to an extent, still do) a ton of limiting beliefs and low self-worth. Super nice-guy. Started with alot of approach anxiety. Hired a coach to help me with game (mentorship/bootcamps). He said that my problems include, but are not limited to: nice guy syndrome, lack of certainty/assertiveness, negative thinking,…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 11:35 AM
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Not going to get into the details Do it I need to do a better job at not relying on her for anything, even if she offers. If I CAN do it by myself, then I will. Nice leadership Being a captain means zero-days off. lol This realization came after an argument which led to me DEERing my feelz, her having a breakdown, caused by me being an angry butt-hurt asshole. So let me guess, you gave her a task maybe because she said she would do it. She messed up most likely because you are a poor leader and …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 11:30 AM
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Girl 1 - We took an elevator in my office building together and I opened indirectly, with an observation. I didn’t really think much here, I just opened my mouth and it felt natural. We talked for maybe 15 sec before getting to my floor. Didn’t make it man to woman though. Game is about 3 things, logistics, logistics, logistics. Girl 2 - I was walking around a mall for a while, without approaching anyone and thought to myself “ok, at least try asking for directions”. After a while I finally did.…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 11:21 AM
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Mission: I am here to have new experiences. My mission is to taste all the variations in life that captivates me. The world is my playground. Sounds very good, too good to be true. Also sound like utter bullshit. Mentality: this week has been the hardest week I’ve ever had. Really, oh I am so sorry man. Tell me, Why exactly? The combination of missing my daughter when I’m not with her Because of the free time that could have been invested very fruitfully if you intended to? and anger/sadness of …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 11:06 AM
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There is no reason to step on your own dick. Go out with her again and escalate. If she doesnt come, game other women
/r/seduction03/04/24 03:09 PM
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"Hook point" is basic game. Pick up a copy of Mystery Method.
/r/seduction03/04/24 02:38 PM
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you need to learn when the woman has passed the hook point. If you escalate before that, she will ghost. If the woman is attracted to you, she will fuck you in secret
/r/seduction03/04/24 02:11 PM
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I have good news and a bad news. Bad news is that you have a disadvantage. Good news is that disadvantages CAN BE a good thing. Take peacocks they have shiny feathers that tell the predators, come and catch me, I am right there. So the best of the best peacock survives and has best genes. That is why peacocks take so much time grooming their feathers. Some scientists tagged few birds to study migratory patterns. Tags were colorful so the birds who had those tags were more successful in mating. Y…
/r/seduction03/04/24 02:09 PM
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Your value in sexual terms is not determined by you, it's determined by the market. Post divorce life is what you can make of it.
/r/askMRP03/04/24 04:31 AM
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Tracking again with calculator but struggling with home made meals - not sure of the macros so estimates throw me off Prepare meals for whole week on Sunday with exact macros you want. Make sure each day contain, healthy fats, protein and vitamin and mineral needed for optimal health. Fill the rest of the calories with rice. Breakfast lunch and dinner. Eat same stuff everyday without complain. Do it for a year without a cheat day and you will have the body you want. You don't need calculate macr…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 03:41 PM
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1- Not good because of injuries and a congenital musculoskeletal issue. Still, the point is that my lifts are not as good as they can be. then get them as good as they can be 2- No, I can't. Honesty is a good thing 3- Maybe a 4. ONEitis has atrophied me from where I used to be and what attracted girls to me in the first place. Excuses 4- To be honest my game plan is shitty. I know Hard goals are necessary so in the short term I want to refinish NMMNG in April What are you hoping to achieve from …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 03:23 PM
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45yo, You need to appreciate how lucky you are that this number is not higher. Start learning game, you are gonna need it. This year you can turn your life around if you just start learning and practicing game. No time to waste, get a woman's number this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 10:40 AM
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I've dug into the divorce prep stuff, and I have a full checklist of things needed. I also spoke with a lawyer in secret. Should have happened long time ago. I am still at her mercy whether she wants to come after half my shit or not Losing 50 percent is not big of a deal, my high school buddy lost all his assets because of his addiction. After he became sober, he just went extreme minimalist and is on track of recouping it all in next 7-8 years. 50% is easily recoverable. You can even give her …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 10:33 AM
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Very confused with “do the sidebar” https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/index/
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 04:14 PM
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That was a giant word vomit. Answer these quesitons What are you lifts? Can you get a woman who is hotter than your wife to fuck you this week? From 1-10 how much would you rate your game? What is your gameplan?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:54 AM
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Got a tiny compliance/shit test last night where I was asked to get her phone. Shit test, Do better next time, let me explain I laughed Good and said we are in the same bed and it's your phone you go get it! here you need to ask yourself, why did you felt the need to explain yourself to her. Make sense? You didnt need to, she knew you were on the same bed. Next time just play it off as, something cocky, like "Oh I am sorry dear, I borrowed your legs and forgot to give you back, let me attach the…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:47 AM
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I started to think about shit and realised how much time I spend analysing my wife’s actions and responses. Which in turn makes me over sensitive and reactive (because my analysis is proven/disproven or because I get even more confused). And I started to think that every minute I spend analysing (and not getting to any useful conclusions anyway) is time I’m not spending on myself/my MAP. Whenever I catch myself starting to analyse something, I am shutting it down fast. I can only imagine how muc…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:34 AM
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I think I'm done. Yeah, that doesnt mean jack shit. What do you think you mean when you say you are done with her? Are you gonna divorce her? You are fat, you dont have good game, there is no point divorcing her until you can get better sex from a hotter woman than her. Or you mean you are not gonna give her attention and focus on yourself? You should have been doing it all the fucking time. What you need is focus. You have a habit of sleepwalking through life, thats why you got to almost 400lb.…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 06:22 AM
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So, basically I’m at OYS 1 😮‍💨 Thats what people were trying to say to you last week. Congrats!! you realized you were full of shit for last 40 or so weeks. Its a good thing. Start focusing on yourself, start learning game. How about some homework. Think about your mission and write it. Its doesnt have to be perfect, dont you dare cater it in a way you get validation from people here. You have done enough validation seeking in past 40 weeks to last you three lifetimes. Time to be honest with you…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 05:56 AM
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1) prepare for potential divorce (still where I am at) Learning game IS A PART of preparing for potential divorce. Blabbering about divorce to your wife is NOT. Then changing your mind and going to therapy is not. 2) start gaming both wife and other women Funny! you forgot to do that. Where is the progress in your game? 3) if necessary, divorce (with a better foundation because of 1) What the fuck does "if necessary" means, what are your conditions to divorce?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 02:54 PM
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Mood the next days switched from “obviously no sex ever” to unprompted “we can’t have sex today because [reason]”. Shit test. Happens when woman regrets fucking who she now feels is a low value man, so she shit tests to reassure herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 01:55 PM
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Moderators have been hard on you once and you respond by not doing anything the whole week. But atleast you had the balls to come here. So let me tell you what you did wrong, you never left your wife's frame, you made all your decisions based on your wife's reaction. You never developed a narrative that was about you. There was never a mission, there was nothing. You were just floating around in the ocean carried along by waves (your wife's emotions). There was never a direction in which you pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 01:47 PM
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Its high time you start implementing advice that is given to u
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 02:35 PM
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Covert contract is not, asking if the wife is worthy of his newer better version Covert contract underlines his anger and spiralling out of control. " I am improving so why don't my wife fuck me." The question, is my wife worthy of the newer improved me is a very cold blooded question, there is no place for anger when you ask yourself this question.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 02:09 PM
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A small disagreement over making waffles spiraled into an unexpectedly tense confrontation Either you have lot of free time or your priorities are fucked up.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 10:58 AM
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I’m improving myself, I’m looking and feeling better, why do I have to put up with this low energy, low effort wife that doesn’t put out”. Covert contract I wouldn’t expect any results from this for 6 months. Covert contract Again I have to own my shit - this brought up some sadness. Maybe mourning the old relationship I thought I had? Nah just a covert contract I am being shit tested to high heaven. You name it, I’ve done it wrong She is horny. I would say I have about a 50% pass rate (A&A work…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 10:56 AM
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I can freely try and have that need met with any women I decide too, if my wife ain’t appreciating the opportunity. Not with your game you wont I haven’t been able to become high value/attractive enough and now my wife wants to follow through on it. If you only stop judging your attractiveness based on your wife, you will be surprised by your value. “I dont wanna move out, but your behaviour forced this. I need time alone to heal” * “You are so cold, and act like you don’t care about what happen…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/24 10:48 AM
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Regression this week. I haven't cold approached anyone. Not good I've teased my coworkers as normal but my heart isn't really in it, I don't want to fuck them. No need to waste time of coworkers Got blunt/challenging in a board meeting with a senior coworker who I think is an idiot. I'm fine pushing him around a little bit, but I'm acting viscerally and not planning my moves well. I'm sure he despises me and will undermine me soon. I am finding more methodical ways to cripple his credibility and…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 08:40 AM
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We agreed to respect the sanctity of our marriage. lol
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 08:33 AM
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Is this an area where I should put effort at this point, Yes. or am I better served just focusing on lifts/diet Let me tell you a secret, even if you are overweight, if you have good game you will get laid. A nice body just makes things easier. Also only focus you need in your fitness front is hitting gym regularly and eating right. How much time does that even take?. An hour at gym 5x a week and an hour on sunday prepping chicken, and vegetables for the whole week and maybe 1 min everyday loadi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 08:30 AM
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Metric tons of shitty comfort tests, which I mostly fail by not complying since I resent giving comfort on command. No worries, its more important to pass the shitty part then the comfort part. This then escalates the situation emotionally until it get to a point where I end up folding or DEERing STFU I don't want to blow up such a long relationship, but the status quo is definitely not sustainable. Good, STFU after a while I ran out of things to say, Well yeah, you didnt have any goals to get l…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 08:23 AM
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We have bad sex and my erections are weak You need to increase nitric oxide levels in your blood. Beets, they contain a lot of nitrates which converts into nitric oxide in blood. They will give you rock hard erection. Also improve your oxygen saturation, dont breath through mouth, breathe through nose, also after a beet smoothie do some deep breathing exercises.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 12:54 PM
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I could tell I was in hard no territory, always assume attraction Don’t know how to eliminate this Best way to do it is to get a harem. Not sure whether that is a viable solution for you
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 12:51 PM
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I’m prepping myself for living on my own with my daughter in rotation while I (and wife) move in and out of our apartment and some smaller temp apartment You dont need to do that. I told you to look up shit tests and shitty comfort tests but you didnt so let me explain it to you. I’ve had to deal with a wife getting ready to move out (couple living aparts idea she “feelz is right for her to heal”) - instead of trying deer out of it, It was a shit test bordering a shitty comfort test. I just said…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 12:42 PM
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There are many reasons women stop having sex. There is no way to know for sure so only thing man can do is cast a wide net. Chores are one, although not doing chores is more of a planning issue. If you have to take heavy mental load while doing chores, you just suck at planning. Thats why I laugh at women who complain about mental load, they just suck at it and they want brownie points for making an effort lol. Attractiveness is another one. You cant lose by getting six pack abs, nice glowing sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:49 AM
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oh yes. comfort of marriage is a libido killer, women tend to put effort when there is a real chance of it blowing up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:17 AM
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what does bring back sex is​ possibility of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:14 AM
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. There just isn’t anything arousing about having to follow a man around the house and clean up his messes. There is nothing arousing in not doing that also. they have played this game in marriedredpill. Chores does not work in getting your wife wet. They are neither sexy nor non sexy, they are good excuse though. When you are attractive, there is no need to do chores, she will fuck u. Men are in deadbedrooms for two reasons, either they are not attractive, or they are not willing to cheat and/o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:54 PM
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Nah, woman dont have claim on husband's assets I know it because feminists tried to make 50-50 split of assets and parliament told them to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:05 PM
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Dude, I am not saying whether she is better off or not. If she wants money she is not gonna get it because thats not how it works in india. She cant just divorce like in USA. She need to give a reason and court will need to recognize it as valid. Even then she wont get half of his money because assets are not split in divorce in india. She will only get alimony IF she does not have a job and thats not a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:01 PM
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She is in for a rude awakening. Women in india dont get half of assets after divorce. They get what's in their name. There is no no-fault divorce so she cant divorce without good reason. She will get small amount of alimony if she is unemployed. If she can take care of herself she wont get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:48 PM
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I assume that you can tell the DIFFERENCE between a "non-serious" comment( filled with absurd and exaggerated remarks with jargons from feminist vocabulary chosen and written in such a way to make mockery of said jargons and create humor) that was written in response to a "joke" comment by Tines0 (which takes a quib on prevalence of convert contracts in this subreddit in a humorous way) AND ACTUAL FUCKING ADVICE.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:51 PM
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Unfortunately I'm not good at responding, I feel like I'm a slow thinker. No, you are trying too hard. Passing shit test is not hard, you just dont have to give a fuck. How is it that you are seeking validation while passing a shit test? You dont have to be witty you just have not care. My wife laughed at me saying it was hilarious watching me stare blankly trying to come up with a response. That was a shit test, here is a tip take something from what she said and take it out of context. So in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 01:24 PM
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Women don’t respond to dad jokes. They definitely respond to daddy jokes.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 12:58 PM
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Among all the covert contracts, this one actually has a good chance of coming to fruition. Although, that testosterone being absorbed all the time may lead her to grow a beard and an Adam's apple. I would prescribe making her do squats and hinges so at least she gets a good ass out of it. Channel the feminist in you. Dont be selfish, cum in her pussy, . It will cure her depression, prevent cancer, prevent acne, help with preeclampsia. Men who use condoms dont love their wives, men who use condom…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 10:19 AM
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I have trouble lasting long enough in bed for a good pounding Practice reverse kegels
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 06:13 AM
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Received criticism for my Kino moves, Shit test and a heated argument ensued when I mentioned her low availability. Failed the shit test Uncertain whether to continue initiating intimacy or to focus on self-improvement. Hiding behind self improvement to avoid rejection However, not initiating results in bad moods, while initiating carries the risk of rejection. Initiate better, pass shit tests, learn some game
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 06:05 PM
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“Do you want to give me a massage?” Shit test Me: “Yea, I want to massage your pussy.” Weak. You want to stir up emotions, role play as a masseuse who just started working and thus is very bad at the job.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 05:55 PM
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I let it turn into long-winded arguments where my statements were pure ego-inflating truth-bombs that left nothing but carnage in their wake. All so I could “win”. I am still a hurt little child trying to make the person who loves me most hurt too. Thats because you lack a proper vision of your life and waste time on fruitless arguments I have abandonment issues. The issues are deep and they are strong inside of me and I can barely confront them myself let alone talk about with strangers on the …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 05:45 PM
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My wife was with me in Vegas so going too hard would have been Rambo. No, u just felt scared that ur wife will notice that you don't have any game. So you were being "careful".
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 05:30 PM
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Went passive aggressive last week with sex and didn't initiate during our "scheduled night" to see if she'd mention it So you learned nothing from your previous OYS? I told you to focus on yourself. Screw the scheduled night, stop caring about sex and start caring about being attractive. I have been focused on MA the last few weeks and it's beating up my body without the returns I want. Stop it then, MA is good and dandy but if it is not serving your vision and creating obstacle then you need to…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 05:19 PM
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Started eating eggs Soft boil them and blend them.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 04:49 PM
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Let me get you in on a secret, you dont HAVE to call the number even if you get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 02:18 PM
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Same for my wife, when I fuck her good she mostly wants more but it is work to get there. If you are having sex without condom her vagina absorbs testosterone which makes her horny and improve her mood. You on the other hand are a different story, you are not seeking sex, you are seeking validation of your attractiveness, thats why you feel less horny when you are not getting any. Its not a sin to want validation for your attractiveness. A better way to do it is through gaming other women. So my…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 02:16 PM
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I’ve had to deal with a wife getting ready to move out (couple living aparts idea she “feelz is right for her to heal”) - instead of trying deer out of it, I just said “great, but I don’t want our daughter to switch place all the time, so she stays here, and we switch back and forth. Shit is getting real. Start prepping for divorce, start taking notes, start saving messages. War is on the horizon, only thing that will save either your marriage or your divorced life is preparation. PREPARE PREPAR…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 02:08 PM
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I am not a Chad I am 5' 8 guy with average face. I could think about chad privilege or I can get laid, I can't do both. So if I have to deal with asd, so be it. There is enough sex for everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:26 PM
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I dono man asian friends of mine are killing it which I suspect is due to kpop craze. It's not that they see you in asexual way, it's just that their anti slut defence triggers because no white women in a white majority place wants to be seen fucking an asian guy. My approach will be to set frame from get go that you are just a guy to fuck with one night and it will remain secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:42 AM
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What do you mean make it your personality? Be the man who fucks Should everything I say be a sexual inyourendo? No, there are other ways to make things sexual. Sexual roleplaying, teasing, just talking about sex in general without being judgemental. Sexual innuendos are for people who need plausible deniability because they are not confident in their own sexuality Should I avoid getting into conversation about anything serious even if they bring it up? Why the fuck would you want to get into ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:12 AM
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Dude do you know what your problem is you put too many limitations on yourself. If a woman does not like you she will just ignore you. If she is talking to you, she is showing some interest in you. Trick is to just be sexual from the get go so that you are not just doing things abruptly. Be sexual be flirty, make it you personality. Rest is just building rapport so that she feels comfortable and impress upon her that you can be trusted with not being a serial killer and you are gonna make sure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:32 AM
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Fuck it, I will write a whole post about gaming your wife. People here lack basics of game
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 02:53 PM
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I want to include BJs as a part of our standard sexual routine Best time to make a woman experiment is when she is horny. So your job is to give her very strong emotions that lead to shit test, pass the shit tests but dont escalate, keep the emotional swings high, keep passing the shit tests. Once the IOI's increase or as women say it when the "emotional connection" becomes strong, escalate and guide her mouth towards your dick. She will shit test you, pass them, and she will suck your dick. Tri…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:42 AM
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I really only fell behind on laundry How does anyone ever fall behind laundry, washing machine does the work for you. I do laundry while meal prepping, do the same. Do it parallel to something else. I was pissed at her while being a dancing monkey Dont be pissed then, you care too much she is going on and on about how she can't trust me Its a shit test, she is trying to make you promise that you wont do it again and then get in her frame so that she will lose attraction to you. Women do that to …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:25 AM
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Focus on yourself, you care too much about her. When you become an attractive man, its very difficult decision to stay in marriage. Because you can always get someone better than a 50 something year old woman. Oneitis go away when you have options. So change your mindset, MRP is for you. If your focus is to save your marriage, you are gonna fail. Because you will be using your precious time hamstering about your wife when you should be hitting the gym and losing that fat. Once you have lost that…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:09 AM
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“I understand” Shit test “Your enthusiasm is intoxicating” (said with a smile) Nice, a little neg, “I would love to cuddle with you” Its a shit test. Take a shower and come to bed Weak, “You really don’t want to cuddle, do you?’ Shit test No, I want to fuck you Ehh, weak game. Better would be agree and amplify. Mine once gave me excuse of " cant we just cuddle" ME: I always wanted to cuddle a bear, would you mind wearing a bear costume. Her:"What the fuck" Me: I also like it to be authentic, so …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:42 PM
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I just lifted instead and ended up feeling great. Ah the sweet comfort of not putting yourself in vulnerable position, it kills you from inside, talking from experience
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:19 PM
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6'4" 297# (-0) Focus on this, this is your kryptonite . The resulting sex was predictably terrible. Worst Consent can be revoked anytime. I have walked away mid sex and not give a flying fuck. All I can think of now is RS's "Every unhappy wife is a grape victim" quote. you take it too personally, she is a woman who is not attracted to you but feeling dread because she wants to use you for comfort and money. So she is using you, dont feel bad about using her. Dread is good thing, IF you have good…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:11 PM
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My wife and I became married She must be an incredible woman then
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:05 PM
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Still waiting for genuine desire Easiest way to get genuine desire is to become desirable then find a woman who desire you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:00 PM
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I am not ready for sex after all these years of you being angry and bitter. I need to heal and feel loved first Shit test, not a comfort test. I’ll just keep initiating in different ways until something happens. No, my man you are still trying to mr miyagi it. Ask yourself this question, does this woman add value to your life? If you a If answer is no, then ask yourself this question, can you get an attractive woman to fuck you? If answer is no, then work on your game. If answer is yes, then ask…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 01:45 PM
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Maybe that's why I feel calm about the decreased frequency and intensity of sex You are not calm about it you are just seeking comfort in the belief that you are not attractive now but will be soon so your dick will be sucked soon. If I become attractive my wife will have more sex with me. Thats not how it works. That's not real outcome independence. You can be most attractive person in the world but a woman who does not want to fuck you will not fuck you. Abundance involves willingness to walk …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 07:48 AM
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Dude you are avoiding the conversation. You are focusing on what comes easy to you and hiding where you struggle. Look at your OYS, you rambled on and on about other bs but gave measly 3 lines for relationship and sex. MRP is sexual strategy, I told you before you cant do a "Mr. Miyagi". You can lift and read all you want, sex will not appear like that. So I am gonna ask you again and answer the fucking question Why are you not initiating sex properly? Are you afraid of being rejected, are you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/24 01:31 PM
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Logistics proved to be a lot more difficult than I expected, Game is about three things, Logistics, logistics and logistics.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/24 11:39 AM
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I tried initiating two times this week. It was a couple of half-assed attempts, and both attempts were rejected. do you want to even fuck? Just because you are not gonna get rule 9ed does not mean you are making progress. What exactly is your action plan for sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/24 11:35 AM
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You have big problems to sort out stop worrying about sex. Quit drinking, stop fighting, start taking notes of the childcare you do and time you spend with your children. Squirrel away some money maybe as a loan or a gift to you parents. I used to spend 10 dollars a day on coffee 5 days a week that's 2500 a year. Instead of buying coffee now I gift that money to my parents to show my "gratitude" on my birthday. They put that money in a fixed deposit. I have been doing it for past 10 years and th…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 04:31 AM
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have a REALLy hard time “rewarding” my wife’s shitty behavior by being awesome. You don't become awesome for her, you become awesome for yourself and people around you get to take advantage of it. It won't make you less awesome. But if you think she doesn't deserve your awesomeness then get over it. Some people get more than they deserve. Your time is suited better thinking about yourself Being in her frame is idiotic
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 04:21 AM
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Doesn’t that count as competition? Dude, my neighbor is a 300lb chick she can get dudes to fuck her in 5 minutes, its not a crowning achievement for a woman. she now says I’m a narcissistic asshole Shit test probably Maybe I don’t understand oneitis correctly, because I do still consider the kids, house, finances, family, history, all that shit that would be gone, when thinking about this. If we separated I would still have to live in the same town due to custody - I’d still have to get them to …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 05:42 PM
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and no I don't wish to have advice given about being with someone else during that time Oh no ma'am you are gonna hear it from me in full. I took the liberty of reading your post history and I am gonna tell you very clearly what the fuck your problem is. You are not attracted to your husband, you are confused and clueless, you have an alphabet soup of mental health issues(ADHD, BPD,anxiety depression), you separated from your husband and fucked a bad boy without protection got an STD. Now that y…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 05:26 PM
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5’11” 220 lb 15% BF. You seem jacked Took me a long time to catch up after years of slacking, she may have a little edge thanks to a great upper body doc but we look good together. Dude, she is 44 there is no need for you to catch up with her SMV, you only need to catch up with SMV of your competitor, which for a 44yo mother of two is none. You dont understand this basic, thing, you are jacked and are still wasting time on a 44yo mother of two who does not fuck you(and has take BJs off the table…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:56 PM
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I want her(my wife) to put some effort into her(my wife) looks so that I can feel like my perception of her(my wife) matters Let me reframe it for you. "I am attracted to a woman who looks good and a woman can look good by putting effort into her(any woman) appearance" Pronounce can represent different nouns based on context but this is not a grammar lesson. When your mental point of origin starts to replace her(my wife) with her(any woman) then you will get out of her frame. Which seems kinda i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:44 PM
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300# (-5), 35% BF Navy Method Yeah, this is it man, you need to lose weight, otherwise nothing will work. Previous OYS made me wonder if I could keep the weight loss going and that kind of made me nervous. Well understand something, you dont have a choice but to keep the weight loss going. You life hinges on it, your future hinges on it. Forget about past, forget about lost opportunities, what matter is the future and in that future you CANT be fat. So its not the time to feel sorry for yourself…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:32 PM
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fat is coming off slowly. Burning fat is easy, dont think too much Wedding date is coming up soon Congratz, now if you need to write it down, why exactly are you marrying this particular woman? I think a grass is greener approach won't get me what I want in terms of building a family. Hmm, grass is greener elsewhere World is full of green grass. If you are willing to forgo, all the lush green grass, for one particular patch of grass, either your patch of grass is incredible or you are not confid…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:17 PM
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Initiating conversation has felt like a lot of acting. It will always feel like acting, trick is not to wait till it feels natural, trick is to think of yourself as an incredibly good actor. So you are acting but you are very natural at acting
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:11 PM
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I will just get another rule 9 ban if I dwell to much on this askmrp is your friend After 3 sessions of couples therapy I told both the therapist and wife that this wasn’t working. Hmmm.. why exactly did you go to couples therapy I’m working on setting boundaries. okay? Since this is something new, I get a lot a resistance every time. No you get resistance because she does not think you are good leader she needs to follow. Its nothing to do with it being new. I’m improving in terms of (not) Deer…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 04:06 PM
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BP 45, OHP 27.5, KB BC 14 (in kg for 3 x 10) Yeah, whats your diet like??
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 03:35 PM
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I will be spending at least three hours practicing between now and the class. One thing I learned from my experience is that if you wanna improve, you need to be willing to fail. Mental fortitude to be vulnerable and ability to not hide your weakness by avoidance is something people need to develop. Key is to not care what others think. Easy to say, a bitch to follow
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 03:31 PM
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I covertly tried to reward that by providing more attention. No need to be covert about it. Learn to stop categorizing women as sexual or non sexual, and categorize them as individuals Women can be characterized as sexual and non sexual. I am not gonna fuck a 350lb woman with no neck, no sir. The mistake you make is thinking that you HAVE to be attracted to your wife. You dont have to. Your wifey is not that special of a woman. Now question you need to ask yourself is why exactly do you feel you…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 03:24 PM
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laundry done daily and put away Thats just poor planning to be honest. NO one needs to do laundry everyday
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/24 07:43 AM
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It's not coming naturally just yet Honestly it will only come off naturally if you actually think of her as plate which means you are willing to dump her without losing sleep. Oneitis is a great pussy dryer
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/24 07:40 AM
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