| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Buses and eye contact | Quizmaster119 | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 02:41 PM | |
| 7 | [FR] Wingmaning | Quizmaster119 | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 11:24 AM | |
| 0 | Music festival fatality | Quizmaster119 | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 05:49 AM |
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| 46 | More club advice, and how a group of guys completely failed with my female friends.Good post. Has a lot of basics and some excellent insight. Two comments. 1) you also have the option of going clubbing alone but this takes some practice. You have to immediately start approaching or you "orbit" all night. 2) Accidents can make good openers as long as they're natural, even if they're not real accidents. I have a buddy who sucks at juggling, but he'll often throw whatever he's juggling right into the middle of a group of chicks to start conversation. I would consider him an openi… | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Hey, everyone. Tell me about your fastest f-close.The best nights I have are the ones where I don't expect anything. I once met this hb7 at an acting conference, started by playing it super cool and not pressuring anything. I ask "are you another chick who thinks she can dance?" Did a bit more framing making her feel like a bad girl. Got her on the dance floor. Did a bit of grinding. The best part is I ditched the shit out of her to dance with another girl(friend of mine) so she sees that I have no dependency. Later in the night I see her grind… | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A week after I discovered seddit, I went sarging. Very happy with the results.I'd like to point out something impressive that doesn't get pointed out often enough. If all of this is true, talking to this many girls should be an average night. It takes a lot of energy and tons of practice to keep confidences at this level all night. Good work. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 05:54 PM |
| 13 | Billy's Guide to Shit TestsOP sounds like he went on a bit of a confidence trip. The reality is a lot more of the situation outcome is based on environment and body language. There was a post recently about ignoring some of what girls say and this could be comparable. By simply ignoring some questions or comments you passively show what you're willing to respond to (or not). | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 06:57 AM |
| 2 | This is my biggest obstacle.You're right, that is tough. The best thing for you to do, honestly is to look for chicks your height. Yes it limits your pool but you can definitely use it to your advantage. If you meet a chick who's even only slightly taller than you, that can be to your advantage. Girls are used to guys being taller and you'll just have to surprise them. Are you good at drawing? Can you do math hecka good? That's what you need girls to focus on. Also focus on settings where you're sitting, they'll notice les… | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 08:49 PM |
| 4 | How to throw a fun party, and how being a good host helps your gameIt's just too easy. You just have to invite a girl over and pretty much let her know before hand. I get a lot of, "Can I bring any friends?" which you have to respond with, "If they're girls, because I don't want to have to fight any body over you tonight." Bam She knows what's going to happen and you don't have to pay hardly any attention to her at this party. You don't even have to say the second part of that response. Example FR: Met a girl in Cali. Started dancing k-close, didn't #-close. Bu… | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 12:47 AM |
| -2 | Getting over fear has never been this hardIt's a bad funk man. You've already gotten over the hardest part, admitting it. Honestly you need change. One small thing, it can be in your appearance or your daily routine but it should be pretty drastic. Grow a pony tail, start reading Shakespeare, get really good at animal noises. Something that you can add to the persona that is you. I personally wear contacts but I just decided to wear glasses for a week. Changed a lot of the way I interacted and how people reacted to me. Gave me some fres… | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 08:18 PM |
| 13 | How to talk more...sexually?Check the comments. These guys are getting the right idea. Body language and kino can speak much louder than sexual innuendo, though verbally you can let her know what the possibilities for the night. Use her first name more than normal, breathe noticeably slower and make sure at least some part of your body is making contact with her. Hands, knees, footsie, whatever. Once you k-close you're good. If you are grasping at straws just straight up talk about sex. Do you have a weird fetish? Any unfu… | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I need your advice on my next move..Tough call. Depending on your conversations previously you really have two options. If she knows she's coming over to get the d, just tell her when where and what she should wear. If you've still got ground to cover you'll have to make sure your invite has zero sexual pressure. Either way make sure you have fun regardless of if you're getting your p in the v. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Pua identity discovered, how should i deal with this ?Because successful nights usually don't make you a better PUA. The nights where you get turned down and struggle past AA are much more valuable. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 07:16 AM |
| 0 | My friend has been with his girlfriend for 8 months and hasn't gotten passed kissingYou really think that? Honestly I think this post would be better in /r/relationshipadvice If she's waiting for marriage or something it's understandable but as a 21m he should be banging bad bitches, not considering kids n crap. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 05:59 PM |
| -5 | How would you handle sitting next to an attractive girl for an extended period of time (say a 4 hour plane or train ride)? Would you run out of things to talk about, or would your game change in any way?This. One of my favorite ways to open in these situations is to straight up state the current situation. "Hi, we're going to be sitting next to each other for x amount of time so we might as well make use of the time." If conversation starts to dwindle you can straight up berate her for being a bad conversationalist or ask her "what, are you an introvert or something?" | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Ever have a girl that stood out?I have a best friend, (guys I have a friend I promise, at least one) who has chosen to make himself better because of the girl of his dreams. I think that's the best way to deal with oneitis. I'm crazy about a girl right now but I know she won't go for me because I've put her on a pedestal. I can't help but always twack out when she's around. Instead of being bummed about it I just try to think of it as a chance to better myself and look for someone I won't obsess my life over. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Really good at drawing in women, getting their attention, but bad at closing. How do you tend to close?It's painfully simple. If a girl is giving you IOI's all you have to do is isolate and escalate. Isolate is the big tip off, if she's down to watch a movie alone back at your place, she's probably down to bang it out. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 08:33 AM |
| 12 | Girl hasn't responded to three separate texts, delete # and forget?Kinda harsh analogy buy yeah, if she isn't seeking you out, she's missing out. Her loss, plenty of even more interesting girls to get to know. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I am a guy with horrible social anxiety that needs help with flirting and talking in generalI hate how true this is. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What to do about an annoying friend that ruins game.Oh man I hope he doesn't read this. He's from Germany and really likes to make that known. He'll literally cut you off mid sentence to tell you he was raised in Germany or that he speaks German. So when he does I drop the rest of the conversation and force him into the spot light. Girls think that's cool the first time they hear it, but not the second...or third. Just show genuine interest to the point where they're clearly bragging. Chicks don't dig bragging. He'll say something like "well pros… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl looks from one of your eyes to the other quicklyI'd say number two. She's trying to read you. Ask her. Notice extended eye contact. Smile. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Practicing 'Talk to Everyone'I love this subreddit specifically for the huge psychological possibilities. Drugs on a whole are generally used as social lubricant (when used in moderation) and I do personally believe extroversion can be learned. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Wow, not a good idea to be playful immediately.Fo sho. You have to sincerely mean this. If she doesn't believe you this could be the douchiest thing she's ever heard. Last time this happened to me I turned all psych major on her "I'm only insulting you to hide my own insecurities." You just don't want to neg her so much that she wants is to go home and cry. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:23 AM |
| 4 | What to do about an annoying friend that ruins game.I respectfully disagree. I have a super arrogant friend who ends up looking like an ass and making me look hecka alpha. I don't know op's exact situation but I've found that you can over feed the cock-blocker's ego so that you look calm and cool. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Drink listIf you want naked bodies, invest in tequila. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:58 AM |
| 2 | How to reconcile two conflicting "trains of thought."They're talking about being yourself and not chasing. When you chase prey what would be it's natural reaction? To run. This being said, you can put yourself in situations that create natural conversations with people, boys or girls, where you can compare interests and ideas. Try to avoid desperation, consider how relationships can be mutually beneficial, not just satisfy your needs. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Tips for getting out of a slumpDear baconmcnasty, Stop shaving. Wear a ridiculous shirt. The funk you're in may be due to (one of the most overused ideas on this subreddit) extreme outcome dependence. You know you look decent right? Then who cares. Go out and have fun. Walk up to a babe, ask her where she's sleeping tonight. I was in a very similar situation. I didn't understand why it wasn't clicking, then I let my facial hair grow out for two weeks. Now my phone is blowing up. Do your best to care a bit less. Now night game… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 05:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 'Friend' cockblocks me, I take home a different girl in front of the original girlThe next logical step would then be kino. Strong eye contact ends up registering as "we both know where this night is going." It also depends on the kind of guy you are and your personal seduction art. Screw wingmen. They're only good if you can't get a girl alone. If she's in a circle of friends, walk up to her and turn her away from her group or start a smaller circle with her and one friend. That would be starting with kino and giving you more than just one girl to escalate with. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Sometimes no response is the best answer!This is a step in the right direction. The only comment I have is that you shouldn't necessarily get a power trip from this, the goal is to get to the point where girls get put in your friend zone, but it does sound like this was a pretty good response for this situation. I upvoted the other comment though because, intentionally or not, that is also a good response to someone trying to edit and/or control your emotions towards them. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 03:43 AM |
| -16 | How do you react to girls wanting to wear your jacket/hoodie?You're joking right? You might as well start carrying around rocks and sticks, trying to pick up women like a cave man. What kind of uncultured swine straight up says "I'm alpha"? By simply telling her you "don't normally do this" or you're "breaking your rule for her" you'd get essentially the same effect with much better results. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 03:36 AM |
| -2 | Daygame- I need some high energy openers that work on groups, 2-3.Alpha's don't care what their username is on a forum website. Oh it's reddit? Nah I'd just use a throwaway account anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 06:33 PM |
| 3 | How to fit in with people above your age groupSorry I can only give you one point. This is exactly right. Just because they're older doesn't mean they're not also into cars or movies. Just don't force people into that awkward lecture mode where they think they can teach you lessons. You already have plans for the future right? Focus on those. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Good lines to isolate a girl?The only problem here is her friends. I'm generalizing here but most girls like to stick together. Depending on how many friends she is with you should approach with care. The easiest are the two extremes. If she's with just one friend then...well...you hit on the friend and give the actual targeted girl only about 10% of your attention, leave, let the grenade become your wing woman and come back to her later in the night switching focus. If it's a huge group of people in a circle or crowd you l… | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 07:02 PM |
| 3 | [Theory] Gods gift to Man in keeping a conversation moving.Spinning might be a bit much but the whole idea is to make you the one shopping, not her. I'm trying to not itemize women too much but you're switching what she would consider the normal gender role where she and her friends sit in a circle around their phones and only bat their eyes at male models. Make her prove herself and be worth your time. Blatantly showing your high value as apposed to creating it with verbal pressure. Trust me, it's painfully easy to k-close when she's the one trying to … | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some "tricks" to build kino early in an interaction and also seems natural?Hand massages are one of my favorite. If you do this you either have to be very genuine or the polar opposite and super sarcastic. I love being super cheesy about it and when the massage runs its course just openly say "I was just looking for an excuse to hold your hand." | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 07:29 AM |
| 5 | Responding to a negative as a guy and retaking control of the conversation? TipsActually though. "Sup hoe" would be an appropriate response. I love chicks like that. All they're doing is protecting their ego. They're trying to tear you down so they still have power, if you remain strong and tranquil you'll be accepted and control the conversation. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 07:18 AM |
| 5 | My girlfriend got gamed by someone who wasn't me...They sure do love being called smart. Especially the ones that are not. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 06:16 AM |
| 1 | When a guy rubs his knees, what does it mean?Um, probably nothing. Maybe his hands were clammy or something.>In a seated position. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What's your one rule?Is this thread still alive? ZERO OUTCOME DEPENDENCE Girl turned you down? Did you poop your pants? Which one ruins your night and which one gives you the opportunity to talk to the next babe? | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 11:27 PM |
| 34 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?If you're looking for something that will stick in her head give her a code word. When a girl gives me her number I whisper some thing like "The code word is Monkey-Taco" then right before you leave whatever shindig you're at text that to her. She'll immediately know who it's from. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Everytime I talk to girls it turns to an interview.Have you ever done any writing? Elementary school they teach you: Opening, fact, opinion. You should be telling your opinion, or maybe swap it occasionally with stories? You are kind of interviewing, but what you're really looking for is either something interesting or something you have in common. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 03:51 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with a jealous beta male that's provoking you?I have a roommate/friend who flat out says "I hate you" especially when I bring girls home. I just tell him I love him and everything he does after that makes him look like an asshole. Green eyes always show through my friend. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 06:48 PM |
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