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What's a "boat shoe"? -woman without a clue
/r/MensRights09/04/13 01:50 PM
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it isn't a weapon, it's a stick So you wouldn't feel threatened if someone was screaming at you with a megaphone and waving a 4' long stick? I'm sorry, but I think the old guy was justified. He was a passerby, targeted by a feminist most likely because he was male. If I hit someone with a stick like that, I would most likely be charged with assault with a deadly weapon.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:14 PM
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OP proving that fedoras are still sexy.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:11 PM
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State of Louisiana v. Frisard
/r/MensRights08/04/13 02:59 PM
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Trying to slit someone's throat is not a DV Um, what? Trying to slit someone's throat is not a DV Yes, it is when it's your domestic partner. Lets do a little exorcise in critical thinking here: Trying to slit your girlfriend's throat is not DV it's attempted murder. And again: Trying to slit your boyfriends throat is not DV its attempted murder See where I'm going with this?
/r/MensRights02/04/13 01:29 PM
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I wouldn't send her anything unless a court ordered me to. Edit: I Spel güd
/r/MensRights02/04/13 01:25 AM
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Then if you have a lawyer, follow their advice. I would just worry about restraining orders and such. That's why I'm not a lawyer. Good luck!
/r/MensRights02/04/13 01:17 AM
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Ok OP, you might think this is kind of harsh, but here are my thoughts: •STOP contacting her. Document everything you can- voicemails, emails, record phone calls. I believe your state is a one party consent state, and I'm not a lawyer, so check on that. •GET A LAWYER. If you want to be there for this baby, you have to. Unfortunately, if you're not married, the courts won't recognize you at all unless she puts you on the birth certificate, and then you'll still have no rights, but will have to pa…
/r/MensRights02/04/13 01:01 AM
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Seek medical help. Report it to triage as domestic violence. Get a lawyer. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 12:32 AM
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She also likes to imagine that her piano is a lesbian, and has its own personality/life. I got dragged to "under the pink" in 94', and she pretty much humped the piano bench the whole time.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 11:27 PM
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That doesn't make her a feminist.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 11:24 PM
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....that's because you're a feminist.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 11:07 PM
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Oh- I read through twice, did not see Tori or "Peaches" there.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 07:39 PM
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All but one are refuted as "not crackpots". I think the jury's going to be out on this until you start using facts instead of opinions.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 07:35 PM
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That's the point: "good" feminists aren't feminists- they're egalitarians.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 06:57 PM
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No True Feminist Because its obvious.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 06:56 PM
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Tori Amos: Not considered a feminist because she's not "cool", and mostly because there are no "feminist" quotes from her. She never mentioned iit. and has not- other than in her weird songs- quoted anything anywhere I have seen. If she is, she keeps it to herself, may very well be an egalitarian. However; Tori Amos did help found RAINN, but that's about the extent I can find of any activism. I think it's more likely that feminists just like her shitty music. Edit: forgot word
/r/MensRights29/03/13 06:51 PM
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All of them.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 04:38 PM
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Feminists vs. basic human rights/respect
/r/MensRights28/03/13 02:07 PM
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Someone who treats you as subhuman for three years doesn't deserve pity. OP should move on with his life and find someone who sees his value and treats him well in a mutually respectful relationship. Not all women are like this sad sack.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 02:05 PM
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She doesn't deserve to take up space in your head. Just try to move on! And be well! I'm really happy you're relatively unscathed.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:35 AM
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Fuck that noise. I never said goodbye to my abuser when I fled. Someone who's willing to treat you that badly doesn't deserve a goodbye, or another chance to try to manipulate you further.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:25 AM
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Seriously. Freaking annoying.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 03:01 AM
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I'm showing the image has been deleted?
/r/MensRights24/03/13 03:23 AM
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Conversations, and the people who have them, that center picking apart the quick decisions that any woman makes in a moment of experienced sexual harassment, centering concern for harassers, are wrong. I do not support them. I support hollerin' the fuck back. Dafuq does this even mean? I've re-read this like five times and it just says "no reals, only feels"
/r/MensRights23/03/13 05:49 AM
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Iggy Pop? Really? Ugh. I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 01:01 AM
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"They" who? Feminists? Communists? Dothrackians?
/r/MensRights23/03/13 12:55 AM
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It's also an example of the societal pressure for a man to be a wallet with legs where women are concerned. It's been so mainstreamed/ingrained that men's only purpose is money or sexual gratification that there's a brand of shoes called "daddy's money", Walmart cards comparing males to rotten pumpkins.. The list just goes on and on. It's an MR issue in that these are the stereotypes and socially accepted treatment for 50% of our species. That said, when I have dates, we usually trade off "who b…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 12:01 AM
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"Your Honour, my feels.."
/r/MensRights21/03/13 10:18 PM
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Objection! Your Honour- my feels...
/r/MensRights21/03/13 07:08 PM
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The word of a teenage girl.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 07:02 PM
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^<sup>Daddy</sup> Warbucks!
/r/MensRights20/03/13 07:53 PM
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That's sweet of you :)
/r/MensRights20/03/13 12:22 PM
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Ain't no passing craze...
/r/MensRights20/03/13 04:25 AM
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My face Mine too.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 04:08 AM
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I watched those! Very insightful! I hadn't thought of it in that way before.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 04:06 AM
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Thanks for pointing that out.. I sometimes get sick of pointing that out, but I did choose a non-specific username
/r/MensRights20/03/13 04:05 AM
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I didn't want to be involved in her drama any more than I already was.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 04:02 AM
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It's so disturbing. I had a panic attack when I read them. Edit: fuck you, autocorrect. I know what I said.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:58 PM
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I think she's referring to thing discussed here
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:32 PM
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OhgodIdidn'tneedthatimage.jpg
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:15 PM
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Does this seem like someone who's an extremist to you?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 09:10 PM
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Wait, your wording is unclear- me, or her?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 07:41 PM
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I never claimed to be blameless. I just said that I didn't know how to handle it better. I posted, asked for someone else's opinions, and got "OMG I can't even watch this because MY FEELINGS" followed by lots and lots of her screaming at me. I attempted to calm her down, and express my intent, which was followed by more screaming from her. So yeah, I lost my temper a bit. That's still no excuse for her to message me a full ten days after she already unfriended me to try to make me feel that it w…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 06:29 PM
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I pronounce the "R": "OurDarkLord"
/r/MensRights19/03/13 06:00 PM
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This is Barbie Hitler. Does feminism ever have to "make sense"?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:57 PM
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VAGINA DENTATA!!
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:51 PM
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That's ok. I just don't like girly screen names, because I don't like "preferential" treatment. I prefer to be an equal.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:51 PM
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I have a penis? My gynecologist must have really fucked something up at my last exam...
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:17 PM
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Would a strong independent womyn feel suicidy if lightly questioned? Seems to me like she's having a hard time believing her own shit if a clumsy rebuttal such as mine can tear her little world down.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 04:24 PM
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That's why I'm not too upset. Fuck that manipulative bullshit.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:42 PM
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Honestly, her whole end of it makes me feel pretty firmly that MR has it right. The whole time, she was just "plugging her ears" and attacking. How dare I question how feminism makes her feel? It's also a sign of a pretty sick mentality that she blames the first thread for her suicidal ideation, of which I am the cause, yet who gives a fuck about my feelings? TL;DR: if your ideology can't stand up to argument, then it's probably wrong.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:22 PM
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Especially when losing them to a hate group.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:03 PM
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Here is the rest of the message she sent me Here is my response I was pretty blown away about her saying that I made her want to kill herself. It was hurtful, and completely insane. She says I attacked her, but in the original conversation she was the one who put her fingers in her ears while attacking me first. I don't see any difference between her reactions/logic and that of a cult member. I don't feel bad about losing this kind of "friend" anymore, but I don't know if there was a way I could…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:21 PM
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Give this Xer a soy latte! Shitlord. (Am I doing this right?)
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:30 PM
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Because, in her mind, he's a shitlord and she needs support and validation for her feels. How dare teh poor menz have feelings about their parents dying! I especially liked the part where she described him calling her beliefs "toxic ideology".
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:12 PM
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the real evil is the confinement of the penis within the vagina and of the man within the Feminist cabal. To speak of it otherwise is as ludicrous as saying Jews penetrated Auschwitz. I'm so offended and confuses.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 12:46 AM
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Because they want all the perks, and none of the responsibility. That what teh menz are for.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 12:39 AM
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Um. Wat?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 12:36 AM
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Because he was male. I'm happy to see that they charged domestic violence, but unfortunately, Lorena Bobbit is still held as pretty high feminist humor. It makes me sick,
/r/MensRights19/03/13 12:26 AM
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Thankfully, she reports later that he left her. I saw this when it was first posted, was so relieved when I read he called her in her shit and left.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 11:58 PM
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My ex. Again, serious mental health issues.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 11:02 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights18/03/13 10:12 PM
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My general feeling of the MR community seems less like a dictatorship than the feminist community; MRA's seem more open to logical discussion than hate-brigading. At first glance, it seemed that this sort of question directed at MR's "hey! Look! I got banned from r/feminism!", seems a bit like it would be designed to create those screenshots that SRSers did that caused rightsbot to come into existence.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 02:02 PM
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He said "dictator". The wording of the question, no matter where posted, looks like a "troll" question designed to trap people into saying they'd force people to conform to their own beliefs. I have no doubt that if it were posted here, it'd be taken down as an SRS troll post. He could have worded it differently, or added sub-text to elaborate his meaning, but as it sits, it looks trollish.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 01:54 PM
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Thanks for explaining! I get what you're saying now- a controversial statement being accepted due to anecdotal evidence rather than the merits of the statement. Either can have widely different responses, yet we were basically saying the same thing.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 04:16 AM
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Imagine having your beard stubble in your armpit. Sometimes having sparse hair is better than stubble. I bet my armpit looks nothing near as hairy as yours.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 04:02 AM
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I'm a woman. I wear makeup, I shave my legs. I got a nasty ingrown hair in my armpit from shaving when I was seventeen (r/wtf worthy) and it put me off shaving there once I recovered. I'm not a lesbian. I'm married, 3 kids. I would describe myself as a men's rights advocate, and humanist. Edit: Me
/r/MensRights18/03/13 03:47 AM
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Because its "gross"? So because I choose not to shave, I must be a feminist, lesbian or simply unhygienic? Gee. Does that apply to men as well? I mean, soap, water and deodorant works really well for 100% of the male population, and no one questions their ethics or sexual orientation because of it. Your argument seems to be one of personal preference rather than evidence. (Which is ok, as long as you say it's personal preference, and not because of sweeping, unfounded generalizations.)
/r/MensRights18/03/13 03:18 AM
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Hey, fuck you too buddy. Razors are expensive.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 03:11 AM
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Then how do you explain hermaphrodites who are given gender reassignment? What if the doctors gave them the wrong gender? What a closed off little world you must live in.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 03:10 AM
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Just throwing a rock in the dark here, but doing something like that here might also get you banned. A post like that is a one trick pony.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 02:59 AM
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I didn't down vote you. I agree with the photo. Controversial, yes, but still true IMHO. It's not rape if you get mad that he didn't call you the next day. It's not rape if you're afraid your SO will find out you cheated. It's not a way of getting attention because you're emotionally fucked. It ruins people's lives. God knows I worked a few cases where I wished I could drop the client and go represent the guy she was accusing. The things I've seen- the broken male & female victims- the true ones…
/r/MensRights18/03/13 02:39 AM
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I hope he finds her. I also hope that the mother gets the same sentence a man would for the same crime.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 10:32 PM
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I think the digital photo evidence, in this case, supports the sentence.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 03:16 PM
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What are the Facebook groups? I'd like to join.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:58 PM
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As an actual victim of rape, I can confirm how hurtful it was when a friend of many years repeatedly claimed rape/date rape whenever she cheated on her husband and he found out. The last straw was when she slept with my (now ex) husband and when I found out, she claimed he drugged and raped her. Some people are just mentally ill. Or scum. Or both.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:56 PM
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It's also interesting how ratings and comments are disabled on her video. Not open to criticism? Perhaps afraid of her "arguments" being torn down as BS.
/r/MensRights16/03/13 01:06 AM
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Have you noticed how she removes posts/comments that she disagrees with? Edit: hit submit before I finished typing.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 10:50 PM
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I wish he'd stop smoking the crack.. FTFY.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 07:54 PM
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Obviously he's writing this to get out attention, hoping Jimmy's will be rustled. Don't feed trolls.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 02:51 PM
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My mom sent it to me, wondering what I thought. I'd never read anything by him before, not a huge "cracked" reader anyway. Is this guy an SRSer? It sure looks that way. TL;DR: I recently got my mom to renounce feminism, she sends me articles asking questions. This pissed me off so much- it's obviously propaganda.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 02:46 PM
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Not even the "Occupy" protestors?
/r/MensRights12/03/13 03:35 AM
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I'm sure they have at least one day a week that they do them. Three weeks seems excessive. Do you know how far along she is? In most states, 13 weeks is the limit.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 05:14 PM
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I knew what you were talking about. My statement applies.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:44 PM
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It's pretty simple, actually; your suggestion that unprotected sex being a safe as sex with a condom is ignorant. Source: common sense.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:05 PM
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There is a hormonal element in the last weeks of pregnancy an labor that no amount of rugby can match. I see your point though. I've personally never used it as an excuse to be a crappy human being to my spouse.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 02:56 PM
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You can take the pill up to 15 weeks.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 02:54 PM
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pulling out is just as effective as condoms No, it's not. This is terribly ignorant advice.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:33 PM
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Something's Wrong with that. I had to have one, and because of the time sensitive nature, they had me in within two days. It was faster to do the RU486 (pill route). She's lying to you. Force the topic.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:30 PM
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Shark week is an excuse I hate. Only the last month of pregnancy and/or actual childbirth gives you a reason to be that much of an asshole. Source: I'm female
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:34 AM
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Girls do the same thing.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:32 AM
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Slice them open when raw and broil them with butter, rosemary & garlic. It takes care of the gas causing sulfites and makes them soo soft & yummy!
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:31 AM
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Fifty fifty.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:30 AM
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Had to double check your user name. By your fourth paragraph I was thinking you were my hubby! :D
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:29 AM
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Same here.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 03:22 AM
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It is the same woman. She seems like a really spiteful human being, just from reading her blog. Never anything positive, always extremely derogatory matter towards her spouse & kids. If she were a man writing about his wife & kids, they'd never allow it to see the light of day.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:27 AM
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Marriage isn't perfection. It takes work. I hear where you're coming from- I just think direct parallels are less confusing.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 12:13 AM
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Your stats are skewed!! NAFALT!!!11!
/r/MensRights10/03/13 12:41 PM
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Um. Wut? This is a stretch, at best.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 04:48 AM
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That's where her "troubles" started.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 04:38 AM
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Still, she's pretty threatening for such an adoring wife. Better not mildly annoy her.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 04:36 AM
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Don't feed the troll.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 02:30 AM
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You can't. You have to pay the dealership. I got rid of the car, anyway. I won't own anything I can't work on myself.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 01:56 AM
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Can'tUnderstandNormalThinking?
/r/MensRights10/03/13 01:55 AM
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65% of statistics are made up on the spot. /s
/r/MensRights10/03/13 01:30 AM
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Wouldn't it be more effective to just do this: She gets so hungry on outings, you give her the protein bar you keep in the glove box for snack emergencies. She would rather play on Facebook than clean the kitchen or do any chores. She'll leave her underwear on the bathroom floor. She forgets to hang up her towel. She leaves her ice cream bar wrapper on the end table by the couch. You have to remind her where things go in the garage. She would rather stay up and watch a stupid TV show than go to …
/r/MensRights10/03/13 01:08 AM
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Do you ever get confused by how full of shit you are? Because it just boggles me. Nothing you say makes any sense. It's just some lyrical BS you made up in your head. Repeating it endlessly won't make it true.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 12:37 AM
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In that case, I should get my equipment checked... Because that's one hell of a fucked up case of circumcision.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 12:28 AM
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It also explains the rabid response when they come upon a female MRA "gender traitor"
/r/MensRights10/03/13 12:00 AM
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You know what pissed me off? Ford took away the oil fill and dipstick in their engines. Felt like I was going nuts trying to find it until hubby confirmed they weren't there. They want you to take it to a dealership so they can charge you for using the machine that pumps it up through the bottom of the pan. Sry, just identifying with something your washing machine story reminded me of..
/r/MensRights09/03/13 11:57 PM
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You mean five? Four lugs haven't been used in years.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 05:53 AM
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Yes. Thank you for your skillful articulation! You put it into words way better than I was able to.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 05:51 AM
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Who said I was a man?
/r/MensRights09/03/13 05:41 AM
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Still not worth $100,000.+
/r/MensRights09/03/13 12:03 AM
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Wow. This is on par with the man who broke into his estranged wife's home and dumped lye all over her. Of course, in that case, he'll be in jail for the rest of his life. Must be they don't think she'll be able to withstand prison on account of how it's all just a misunderstanding. /S
/r/MensRights09/03/13 12:01 AM
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I was trying really hard to keep it an open discussion- it was obvious she was taking it waaay too seriously, and I didn't want to lose a friend over a difference of opinion. Then she flew waaaay off the handle and I kind of lost my patience with her illogical BS.
/r/MensRights08/03/13 06:53 PM
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It's brainwashing; in the classes one is taught to have an emotional connection to her classmates and professor, and it all makes sense in class because it makes you feel good. You gain a string emotional connection, rabidly strong feelings of respect towards the oh-so-wise woman professor. Outside of these classes, it's incredibly easy to poke holes in their "logic", and like a born-again Christian faced with an atheist, there is a strong reaction- anything other than blind acceptance and you'r…
/r/MensRights08/03/13 06:46 PM
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I had gone to sleep and didn't see her freak out replies until morning. Responding to her before I'd had coffee was prolly not a good idea. It just pissed me off that not only had she not bothered to watch the video, but that she was making half-replies consisting mostly about her feelings Wah. Feelings don't matter when you're talking about civil rights- only facts do. Edit: replays/replies
/r/MensRights08/03/13 04:50 PM
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Thankful I found you guys! You're all great! :D up votes for everyone! (Except that one)
/r/MensRights08/03/13 03:19 PM
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She's recently gone back to school for her MBA. Unfortunately, she's also begun taking women's studies. She used to be really cool, but since she started this class she's become fanatical and confrontational towards anyone who opposes her opinions, because, well, her feels
/r/MensRights08/03/13 02:41 PM
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Having had a wheel fall off while driving, I can confirm this. It starts out as an odd shake you notice in the steering. After about 50mph I saw a wheel shoot across the road. I had time to think "damn- where'd that wheel come from before my passenger side front hit the road. Very scary. It was a bad wheel bearing, had no idea something was wrong until wheel came off.
/r/MensRights08/03/13 04:47 AM
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It was posted as "haha this is funny because he deserves it!" To paraphrase. I'm getting really sick of the threated abuse of men being considered humor; the trope/jokes that men are stupid, poor care givers or just generally worthless. If the genders were reversed here, people would be calling the police to report the crazy violent man. This is misandry so mainstreamed that people don't even think twice about the implications. /endrant
/r/MensRights08/03/13 02:59 AM
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Your title is misleading. Although this is clearly a feminist article, it discusses mostly rape statistics, and the right to bodily autonomy, the latter of which I believe most MRA's can agree with. I saw nothing written that stood out as blatant misandry, other than your typical run-of-the-mill feminist drivel, and certainly nothing that stands out as a MR issue.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 10:57 PM
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That's a feminist viewpoint mixed with an egalitarian statement. Oppression is much different than turning gender into a weapon. Oppression is being withheld basic human rights- suffrage is generally a thing if the past as we live in a more feminist society. A good rule of thumb- when reading any article you read which holds a gender issue, reverse the genders and see if you still feel the same way about it. Most of us are here for true equality, but it swings both ways- accountability as well a…
/r/MensRights06/03/13 10:03 PM
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I only know of what my cousin told me she'd experienced. I know that women can be just as violent than men, and they fight dirtier.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 04:57 AM
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I think you'd be surprised what an imprisoned mother who doesn't get to see her own kids would do to a child abuser. Most crimes women get convicted of are drug related, or some kind of theft or violent crime.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 09:53 PM
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Having three kids myself, and a son not much older than this child, I actually started crying when she started punching the baby. They should lock her up in gen-pop and show the other prisoners this tape.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:29 PM
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Were there other instances that you know of? Just because someone's biased doesn't prove that they subscribe to a specific group. I'm not trying to be argumentative, I just think that labeling someone based off of what you believe their beliefs are is no better than their bias against you. I think one should strive to rise above those who have wronged them.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:15 AM
-4

But he had to fight tooth and nail for how long? How much did his family spend on attorneys? The point I'm trying to make is that it's absolutely terrible that even a boy should have to fight so hard for what seems like basic equality.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:12 AM
-2

Yeah? Tell that to Keeling Pilaro.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:54 AM
7

Can you explain how you knew the counselor was a feminist?
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:45 AM
2

Yes, adrenaline can cause unwanted erection- called priapism. It's painful, and is also caused by certain drugs that can be given covertly.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:53 PM
1

Don't forget to mention that a false rape claim against a woman by a man would be given just as much weight as a true rape report of a woman against a man in our society: absolute zip. This makes it something that I have never heard of occurring. In fact, in woman on man rape cases that aren't coercion, rape against men tends to be far more violent- strangulation, suffocation and sodomy are used as tools to cause unwanted erection and subsequent violation, yet no one compares a woman's unwanted …
/r/MensRights04/03/13 07:32 PM
7

As a former SA/DV crisis hotline worker, I can tell you that false accusations are often used as weapons against men. Real rape occurs, and the prevalence of false accusations is what makes it so hard for prosecutors. I worked for one of the only shelter/hotlines in the country to help male victims of SA/DV, and I have witnessed firsthand the abuse these poor men received from police, hospital workers and prosecutors. They are ridiculed, disbelieved and called "lucky guys" for having been assaul…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:45 PM
1

It makes me wonder why the photographer just stood by and let her take the abuse. Why not intervene? Was a story more important? Just stand by and let a toddler endanger themselves by climbing in the middle.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:35 PM
2

I didn't say that, either. Please don't put words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:05 PM
-6

Faux news is not really a source. It's opinion.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:10 AM
11

I think that gender equality is an issue worldwide. From the near-slavery of women Iran, to the honor-suicides of men and women both in Japan and China, to the mistreatment of men in America, where genital mutilation of infants is not only routine, but fiercely defended. Worldwide, both genders have rights issues. Unfortunately, worldwide, men's rights are not spoken for. Society laughs at men like John Bobbit, who are castrated by women. Society tells men to "man up" when they come forward abou…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:06 AM
1

Paging /u/nicemod
/r/MensRights03/03/13 03:42 PM
6

Me thinks thou doth protest too much.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 03:23 PM
6

This mindset is just.. Disgusting. In need of a psychological evaluation to say the least. Her "therapist friend" should be outed and disbarred from practicing, as well. Even though he isn't giving names, it's easy enough to gain identifying information, and things spoken about in therapy are supposed to be confidential.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 01:45 AM
1

Leave my puffy face out of this! sobs /s
/r/MensRights28/02/13 03:58 PM
34

I have PTSD as well. My "trigger" is people screaming in my face, or being belligerent. It causes panic attacks. I wouldn't stop someone from giving a talk about the dangers of screaming at people though, or how to avoid it.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 10:41 PM
1

That's why you have the corroborating phone records and witnesses as well as the notary. This worked perfectly for me with an ex that was stalking me.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 06:07 PM
1

I'm curious as to what OP means by "Gender Feminist". Is this different from a standard feminist or Radfem? I'm just confused by the usage.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:59 PM
1

That's dishonest. I don't advocate dishonesty. Especially since there would be no time or date stamp corroborating evidence. OP will need the original texts, as well as the phone records to back him up.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:48 PM
3

He can take photographs of the texts on his phone and have them notarized as authentic.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 02:43 PM
2

It hurt women too, so I don't know that that's the case
/r/MensRights27/02/13 02:12 PM
19

It's probably good that you held on to your documentation, and had witnesses. You could probably go for a defamation case and sue for damages, if you wanted.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 04:36 AM
1

/r/conspiracy
/r/MensRights27/02/13 04:34 AM
7

Me too. I was unaware of it, and was glad to hear of it. I felt as though the organization I used to work for was the only one trying to raise awareness and provide support & resources to men. Unfortunately, since I left, they've lost their grant funding :(
/r/MensRights27/02/13 01:47 AM
2

You're right- as a pilot, you'd receive intense piloting training. As infantry, you'd receive intense ground fighting and artillery training.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 10:13 PM
1

Yet both receive the exact same basic training.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 10:05 PM
1

The first female jet fighter pilot, Roni Zuckerman, received her wings in 2001. By 2006, the first female pilots and navigators graduated from the IAF training course, and several hundred women entered combat units, primarily in support roles, like intelligence gatherers, instructors, social workers, medics and engineers. Source: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_the_Israel_Defense_Forces#section_5
/r/MensRights26/02/13 09:43 PM
1

They don't have to lower the standards. That's a concern that they might, but that's not how this article reads. It's ok if you would prefer not to be in combat, but I'm sure that there are plenty of women who, with the right physical training, could meet the standards.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 06:14 PM
2

Why do you see a problem letting women into combat? I would gladly sign up for a combat position if I felt strongly in favor of the "threat" we were warring, and if I found I could meet the same physical standards as my male counterparts. Edit: so/do. Damn autocorrect.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:58 PM
4

Agreed. All abuse victims need to know that their abuser did not choose to be abusive because of something they said or did. It most definitely is not your fault. Perhaps OP would benefit from some one on one therapy so that he can work on some of his issues. There may also be support groups in OP's area for male victims of DV.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:56 PM
2

Agreed. I'm a somewhat larger than average woman- 6' tall and 210lbs, but I couldn't lift more than my own body weight for an extended period of time. In the first paragraph I quoted, the Major points out that there are men as well as women who are fit for front line combat, suggesting that those unable to meet the current physical standards might be put into a different position, such as medic support or computer related positions, which already holds true. There is also the subject of the amou…
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:41 PM
2

Maj. Mary Jennings Hegar, a California Air National Guard pilot who served three tours in Afghanistan, said excluding women from a draft reinforces a stereotype that they are less capable than men and need to be protected. Not every woman can handle a close combat job, she said, and neither can every man. I agree with you- a lowering of standards would most defiantly lead to more deaths. However, I would think that the military is going to be somewhat less forgiving than the Swedish fire departm…
/r/MensRights26/02/13 05:28 PM
5

Agreed. Well said!
/r/MensRights26/02/13 03:09 PM
9

I really really hope this starts happening- banning of MGM on a state by state until it reaches the federal level. The best thing we can do to support this is to promote education on why intact is best, write letters to our local representatives, governors, etc...
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:14 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:00 PM
5

That's ok. It's probably better that this not exist on a larger scale where some poor unassuming boy might fall for this scam. Damn two party grifters.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:23 AM
6

Wow. She's got a hook, but it's still baited with bullshit. Do you have a link to the full video?
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:00 AM
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Why would a woman who was raped want to carry a rape/incest baby to term? If she did, wouldn't adoption be a better course? I'm being serious here- it's obviously not the child's fault, but it does sort of fly in the face of those pro-choice proponents saying "what if the pregnancy is a result of rape/incest?" Isn't that what led to Paul Ryan's "legitimate rape" gaffe? I would worry about this being used (perhaps not successfully) to gain 100% PR&R as well as child support. The incentive alone c…
/r/MensRights26/02/13 01:55 AM
1

So again, an example if your inability to discuss a topic without feeling personally threatened and resorting to insults? What a shining example of an anti-MRA you are, sad child. Perhaps if you really want to help, instead of posting inflammatory comments and generally insulting anyone who seeks an intelligent debate, you could use all of your free time to open a Men's DV/SA support hotline and/or shelter. Lord knows we need that kind of support.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 01:19 AM
1

Your comment history seems to say otherwise. Not attacking you, just calling it like I see it. Especially all the comments when you call the disagreeing party a "skank".
/r/MensRights26/02/13 01:08 AM
1

As in /u/reconstrucht attempts to tear down women in general as a perversion of MR
/r/MensRights26/02/13 12:59 AM
1

Typical troll behavior. Go back to SRS. Edit: I also find it a little disturbing that you would insult me in such a childish way after you find out I'm female. All you're doing is working against your own cause, and I hope it doesn't damage the MRA movement because of it. Go in peace.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 12:48 AM
1

So I've noticed you keep using the word "perversions". Are you aware of the word's meaning? In all seriousness, though, I feel that MR is to break down the current lack of gender equality and change the currently feminist run society to give men truly equal standing in areas surrounding healthcare, marriage/relationship rights, family courts, SA/DV counseling, aware Ed's and support, equal treatment in family as well as the criminal justice system, equal parenting rights, as well as bodily integ…
/r/MensRights26/02/13 12:47 AM
1

I'm sorry, I'm having a bit of difficulty understanding your rant- are you saying that this is a conspiracy designed by women to fertilize plants and keep men in jail? Could you slow it down a bit- pretend like I'm five and explain it to me, because the way it is currently worded, I cannot make sense of your comment.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 12:39 AM
2

Again, I agree that infanticide is wrong, but posting videos with misleading titles does nothing to further what r/mensrights is here to accomplish. Posts like these, left with no explanation as to what OP is thinking, or questions to promote discussion, can be harmful- SRS jumps at any excuse to call us all "women hating mysoginists". Lets not feed their hate, but maybe talk about the deeper issue: Did these women lack a support system (such as a supporting male figure), or were they made to fe…
/r/MensRights25/02/13 11:04 PM
1

So then you have a view on what the MR issue is here? Please, I'm really actually curious.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 08:21 PM
1

Or trolling.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 05:57 PM
7

We can see that.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 05:39 PM
2

forced into useless discussions Then why post in the first place if you weren't trying to provoke a discussion of the topic?
/r/MensRights25/02/13 05:33 PM
6

If you're not open to discussion or providing examples other than your own opinion, perhaps you are in the wrong subreddit?
/r/MensRights25/02/13 05:31 PM
3

Your title is misleading. The news story seeks the mother because she is in serious need of medical attention, having just given birth. It makes no mention of these "safe havens" having come about as a result of mothers killing children. If this is a MR issue- the issue is that the father should be sought out and given rights to his child.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 04:31 PM
1

Ok- now I'm calling bullshit. Every comment I've made is to try to promote discourse- every one you've made is to say, in short, "I disagree", yet you've made no effort to support your argument. I really would like some debate or even discussion on this topic- for you to engage- to site some example on how these videos are MR issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 04:26 PM
3

Yet you provide no counter discussion to support yourself? Isn't this what MRA's always complain about when trying to have discourse with feminists? To be clear, I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong, I would just like to hear your thoughts on why you feel this way- supporting evidence of why you feel women are treated differently in the cases of infanticide. All of your videos suggest that they are being handled appropriately by law enforcement- and we have yet to see sentencing.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 04:10 PM
3

I don't see this as productive, or as advancing MR. I see it as almost rising to the level of cherry picking evidence. In none of your videos did there seem to be anything I would constitute as an MR issue, except that fathers generally did not seem to be involved. I'd caution you not to use the same tactics as the feminists; posting cherry picked examples to show that women are evil. I don't see /mensrights as a group of women haters, but as a group of men who wish to see true equality, and to …
/r/MensRights25/02/13 04:03 PM
0

I haven't seen any if your "three points" in this video. It's natural to wonder why someone would commit an atrocity as such, but that doesn't make it an MR issue.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:45 PM
1

I don't think that anyone here is under the impression that women are oppressed angels. To think that, you'd have to be completely unaware of cases like Casey Anthony, Lorena Bobbit, Andrea Yates and Susan Smith, just to name a few of the more well known. What I'm saying is- can you show how this affects MR either positively or adversely? I'm open to discussion, but blind "woman bashing" does nothing to uphold what we as MRA's are here to work towards; equality.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:34 PM
-1

I don't see how this is a MR issue. Perhaps you could elucidate your thought process here? Otherwise, this is nothing more than "oh look- another woman killed her child".
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:24 PM
6

"Hopefully he is in a safer place." Jesus. It's like she can't accept the idea of a father as a good, nurturing provider. One look at the mother & her friend and my brain was screaming "psychopaths!"
/r/MensRights25/02/13 01:44 PM
2

Because the menz is asking questions she doesn't want to know the answers to. Again, excuses + avoidance + no logic or discourse= modern feminism
/r/MensRights25/02/13 03:57 AM
24

Any firefighter should be fired if unable to break down a door within an acceptable time limit as required to save a life. FTFY
/r/MensRights25/02/13 12:58 AM
-4

I'm surprised they didn't just call themselves r/wehatedemmian.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 10:39 PM
3

What a convenient excuse, that she "had to take grandpa to the symphony". Seems more likely that she realized she was out of her depth, or simply did not want to hear the other side, and so she found a way out. In psychology, this is known as avoidance; they simply tell the person that "yes- you understand- I was right" and avoid the whole topic by speaking in vagaries.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 10:31 PM
13

What?!? Ok. Imagine the genders are switched: Man has wife and mistress. Man gets mistress pregnant, but because of new law, Man gets to decide who raises the child, choosing his wife. Mother/mistress goes to court for rights to her child and is shot down for being a felon for having slept with a married man, and as a felon, the court will not give her rights to her biological child. Seriously- what the ever living fuck. I know men's rights are skewed- men are receiving the short end, women are …
/r/MensRights24/02/13 09:14 PM
0

The comments there are even more sickening.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 01:47 AM
21

Didn't Sarkeesian skip out with the cash? I seem to remember a promised video that has yet to surface..
/r/MensRights24/02/13 01:22 AM
1

What about State of Louisiana v. Frisard? He wore a condom.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 01:16 AM
0

Like getting kicked in the stomach.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 09:49 PM
0

Thanks for the support. My train of though could not be conveyed by the photograph. I simply wanted to start a conversation- to hear what other's thoughts were provoked by this.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 07:33 PM
0

I understand being sick of screw caps, however, I also think that voluntary or no, I doubt these men fully understood that what they were about to undergo is nothing like labor. The female body releases hormones & endorphins to try to offset the pain and provide energy to the mother so that she can complete labor. Also, electrocuting the abdominal muscles is not the same as a uterine contraction. About halfway through the video, one guy takes off- wisely so. I also doubt that the woman providing…
/r/MensRights23/02/13 06:02 PM
1

I realize that this is voluntary, but at what risk? Severe intestinal or muscular damage? Neuropathic damage? Electrical stimulation to such an extreme that these men suffer Diastasis recti? I think it's irresponsible at the very least, and an example meant to further the idea that men are weaker than women- just as the "Woman when sick v. Man when sick" comic is misandric.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 05:52 PM
0

I found it to be another examples of misandry in the way that commenters were saying men are weaker than women, stupid, and generally being malicious at wanting to subject their SO's to this type of pain. The woman that "shared" this isn't even a mother, so I found it to be even more malicious. Obviously these men gave their consent to have this done, but the woman providing the shocks, or the person that came up with this- of in fact they were a medical practitioner- should not have agreed to d…
/r/MensRights23/02/13 05:45 PM
-2

So this was "shared" by someone on my feed. The photo was posted just an hour ago on the original page, and has over 625 "likes". The device they're plugged into is a TENS Unit. It uses electrical shocks to isolate a group of muscles and cause tiny spasms to offset back pain. It is specifically for back pain, and the warnings say it should not be used near the heart, abdomen, or head. My guess is that this is causing severe pain, as the person controlling the machine would have to have it turned…
/r/MensRights23/02/13 04:17 PM
8

It's not. I'm suspicious of trolling here..
/r/MensRights23/02/13 02:31 AM
20

My two year old son likes to watch me put on makeup. I don't force him to- he just wants to be near me. And bash my kneecaps with his toy truck while speaking in his "monster voice". He has two older sisters, and he plays with dolls. We let him do what he pleases when it comes to toys & videos- he has no concept of gender. He just knows what he likes. I will raise him to be proud to be a man, as well as wary- I feel that to do otherwise may be neglecting to inform him of life's cruelties- much l…
/r/MensRights23/02/13 02:27 AM
12

Sounds like a "no true scotsman" fallacy.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 04:11 AM
3

Cats.. With little bow ties. You can have them all, dear Debbie.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 01:44 AM
1

Is your name Debbie?
/r/MensRights22/02/13 01:34 AM
2

This makes me cry :'(
/r/MensRights29/01/13 08:24 PM
18

Yay Vermont!
/r/MensRights28/01/13 10:01 PM
-1

Maybe they're twins.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 04:25 AM
7

I'm guessing you're either an SRS troll, or you've never been to an SRS subreddit. Either way, you're grossly misinformed.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 01:28 AM
2

Silly me- how could I not have come to this logical conclusion?
/r/MensRights24/01/13 07:20 PM
2

I am a Jew, and regardless, I'm against circumcision. I think of it as a personal choice, and certainly not one I should make for my child. When he's old enough, he can decide. Edit: wording for clarification.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 02:01 AM
10

I agree. Her statement hurts me (as a woman and a recent victim of sexual assault), in much the same way that any generalized statement hurts a group/gender. As an individual, I often feel angry/mortified by the actions of my gender group, but I can in no way justify blaming that individuals actions as being a result of a different individuals actions. It's childish- "I hit him because this other person hit me". This didn't work in kindergarten, and it certainly doesn't work as an adult. It's ca…
/r/MensRights24/01/13 01:57 AM
4

So.. What happens when women cheat?
/r/MensRights24/01/13 01:11 AM
0

Agreed. As a woman, I'd freak the hell out and probably call the cops if I found out someone had secretly taken pictures of me like this for their website/blog.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 09:57 PM
16

I'm really happy for this guy that he was able to recognize the signs and get out.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 08:04 PM
1

"Benevolent altruistic representation of the earth mother" (Looks in mirror) Nope. Not me. Pass the Xbox controller, pls don't tip my beer. I hope the challenging trend continues.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:02 AM
2

Glad she's being charged, but I guess I'm not seeing where this is a MR issue? Can you elaborate your thoughts here?
/r/MensRights10/01/13 09:01 PM
1

So let me get this straight- as a woman, I can't give consent to raping another woman when I'm drunk- even if she's drunk when she posts nude photos of herself on the interwebs? I'm so confused..
/r/MensRights24/09/12 12:50 PM
5

Does it count when I'm drunk and looking at the photos? I'm drunk- non idea what I'm clicking on- thought I was in /r/WTF
/r/MensRights22/09/12 09:56 PM
0

I'm really sorry, I try to be nice, but this is the most irresponsible, childish thing I have ever read here. Men need more sex than women, as evidenced by women's control of sex? Bullshit. I'm a woman. I would have to say that I have a pretty high libido. Your comment is immature, poorly written, completely unfounded, and sexist against men to the point that I find it insulting. There is not a single form of birth control that is 100% effective aside from tubal ligation and vasectomy, and even …
/r/MensRights17/09/12 10:29 PM
4

More likely a condom that was never on a penis at all.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 12:35 AM
1

Perhaps you're a humanist/egalitarian? I wouldn't be surprised if you found that your views centered more closely with those ideals, once you really get a close look at what feminism in general supports. (like Andrea Dwarkin, to name a troll)
/r/MensRights15/09/12 11:37 PM
1

It sucks, I'll give you that. Unfortunately, it's the only way to guarantee (on your end) that you won't have an unwanted pregnancy. I'm also willing to wager that it doesn't suck as much as paying CS for the next 18 years, or working to pay hundreds of thousands in court related costs.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 10:19 PM
2

Why weren't you wearing a condom?
/r/MensRights15/09/12 10:05 PM
1

oh my god I'm screwed. There are no singles in Vermont...
/r/MensRights14/09/12 11:41 PM
6

Don't screw yourself. Go to a lawyer and ask them to look over the agreement first. Whatever agreement you make will be in place for the next 18 years. In the highly unlikely event that that changes, i can always go back to court to hopefully have it removed. Yeah, good luck with that. I've been in court for 6 years with my ex trying to have a couple of things changed, and it's cost me about $80,000 so far. The courts do not like to change these agreements once they've been made. Also, as much a…
/r/MensRights14/09/12 11:23 PM
2

Poor boy. It makes me feel sick that this could happen- and that people could care less because he's male and black. People would be falling the fuck over with riotous indignation if it were a white girl child. This reminds me of the 3 year old boy, Camden, who was found dead beside the road last year, wrapped in a blanket. People quickly lost interest in finding his killer after he was identified, but if it's a girl of the same age it's a goddamn national sensation.
/r/MensRights10/09/12 09:54 PM
1

Exactly- me thinks thou doth protest too much
/r/MensRights09/09/12 07:48 PM
1

It may be useful ammo for you. If the SPCA takes some/all of the cats after investigating the conditions at the house, that is evidence for you. Not to mention that they will be taking photographic evidence themselves...
/r/MensRights09/09/12 01:44 PM
1

Have you tried calling the SPCA?
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:05 AM
3

Don't put the kids in the middle, please. My mom tried to get me to do that kind of shit against my dad, and I still hate her for it.
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:04 AM
1

I posted this article two days ago and just now people are seeing that this is an issue? Just goes to show that it's not what you know, it's who you are.
/r/MensRights06/09/12 02:59 PM
2

I still don't see it as an excuse for what she did. She has awareness that what she did was wrong- this stands to prove that she is fit to stand trial and pay for what she has done. As a doctor, then, would you not agree that depression has varying effects upon people? At what point do you decide, if it is so severe, that her actions were attributed to depression? When she is unable to take measures to prevent her child from dying, but is able to provide care for herself, is that severe?
/r/MensRights06/09/12 02:32 AM
3

It stands to reason though, that if she was able to tend to her own basic needs, that she could also care for her children. Easy test: reverse the genders. Would you feel as though depression is to blame if the story was about a man?
/r/MensRights06/09/12 12:06 AM
-3

Are you replying to me, or to nigglereddit? Psychiatry. a depression so severe as to be considered abnormal, either because of no obvious environmental causes, or because the reaction to unfortunate life circumstances is more intense or prolonged than would generally be expected. I don't see where it says "murdering babies" Also, a pharmacist is not a doctor, or a psychiatrist. You're a chemist. Vastly different fields.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:55 PM
3

I am, indeed. However, I can also see that with the way things are right now, men tend to have fewer rights and opportunities (in the US, I've never been to Europe) than women do. Men have fewer support services. Men are treated as disposable- that's why I'm on /r/mensrights and not /r/egalitarian.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:49 PM
4

If she's well enough to maintain appearances- her own appearance- she's well enough to care for her children.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:46 PM
5

Neglect is a form of abuse. Example: You're hungry, you tell me, your care giver, that you would like a sandwich. I ignore you. You ask again. I ignore you. You begin sobbing due to hunger pains. I ignore you. You're covered in your own excrement, and ask for help. I ignore you. You see how this works?
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:44 PM
0

I've had doctors tap on my shoulder blades before, saying they were checking out my kidneys. I've had doctors write me prescriptions for Cimbalta and Wellbutrin during the same visit to treat panic attacks and help me quit smoking. The pharmacist saved my life when he went to fill them, and realized the possible interaction. Being a doctor doesn't make you Gregory House.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:41 PM
3

This is murder, or at the very least, involuntary manslaughter due to negligence and endangering children. I suffer from severe depression as well as PTSD. I don't get enough help with my kids, so my house is a mess. I can't afford insurance, and I can't afford therapy or medication, so I read a lot and don't leave my home except for work. I don't sleep more than 2-3 hours a day, I work close to 65 hours a week. My kids range in age from 23 months to 8 years. I pay my bills, I work. I live for m…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:37 PM
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What about male DV victims? Or male victims of sexual assault/abuse- would you say that you agree that they are underrepresented? If you look at facts, there are a roughly equal amount of male survivors of SA/DV, but the majority of support services are for women.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:00 PM
5

It sounds to me as though you identify more as an egalitarian than a feminist.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:58 PM
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Please don't, that doesn't help. What will help is if you continue to educate yourself, and stand up against injustice when you see it. If someone makes a "men are pigs" type statement- call them out! Don't stand by while others promote misandry. If you have kids, educate them. If you really want to make a difference, start doing outreach, become a true advocate- on and off the web.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 10:56 PM
2

I was a rape victim- I don't let my experiences color the world. I also don't fear all men. I hate my rapist, I never got justice, but that does not mean that I am going to take an irrational/hateful view of men in general or, for that matter, the world. I still believe that vigilante justice is wrong- it's the system that needs to be fixed so the people who are wronged can benefit from justice from the falsely accused to the "ones who got away". Women and Men, equally. Edit: I'm not disagreeing…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 01:19 AM
1

Speculation at this point is just that- speculation. Because we can never hear his side of the story, unfortunately it is now left to the authorities to investigate and establish fact vs. fiction. What really disturbs me is that apparently, feminists are latching onto this woman's story as "justice served"- people are praising a gruesome killing when, if the genders were reversed, the feminist society as whole would be crying for blood.
/r/MensRights04/09/12 12:50 PM
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but I want to get a sex change too! Edit: after reading articles that feminists hail as being "justice", it makes me not want to be a woman anymore so that they'll stop trying to recruit me.
/r/MensRights04/09/12 02:05 AM
0

Im assuming you forgot your /s? I agree that taking the woman's word for what happened may be the same as believing Jeffrey Dahlmer's alibi. (sorry for the male example, it was the only serial killer I could think of at the moment)
/r/MensRights03/09/12 11:46 PM
5

Show him this: Feminism and the disposable male Also, let him know that not all MRA's are male- there is an increasing amount of women who were feminists that have realized the fallacy of feminist argument- take a look at /r/femra, it is another good resource.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 11:14 PM
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From the way the article reports it, it was her claim after she killed him and dumped his head in the town square. Her claim is that he was blackmailing her with nude photos of herself. Again- no evidence or legal commentary, it's just the way the article makes her seem like a hero. I am interested to know if he is being charged, or if she is trying to use a claim of rape to support her asking for a late-term abortion. I would at least like to see more investigation into the matter before the me…
/r/MensRights03/09/12 10:47 PM
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As a note- no evidence to support the woman's claim of rape has been brought forth, and yet she is being hailed as a hero. I am wondering if she would be treated the same were she in the US or Europe. Obviously, if the genders were reversed and it was a man committing this crime, she would be treated with outrage.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 10:14 PM
2

I find it interesting that with all of her supposed arguments, she never once talks about what is best for her child-to-be. As with most feminists, all she says is me me me. She spends all of her time bitching about how other's choices are the wrong ones, and of course, (in the cases of the "experts" she interviewed) she cherry-picks the data in order to vilify an opposing view.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 01:35 PM
2

I'm following this in the hopes that justice is better served there than it tends to be here.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 05:34 PM
1

I see what you did there.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 04:47 PM
2

Damn sodium!
/r/MensRights31/08/12 01:56 AM
4

canceron sounds even worse than regular cancer.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 01:33 AM
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I don't have a penis :'(
/r/MensRights30/08/12 01:22 AM
1

I knew it was sarcasm, trying to echo the statement. That's the trouble with text-based conversations- no one can tell if I'm being sarcastic, or just an idiot/asshole. TL;DR: I'm terrible at text-based sarcasm, and always get downvoted for trying.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 07:00 PM
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Not harsh enough.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 06:23 PM
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ಠ_ಠ /s Edit: I suck at sarcasm
/r/MensRights29/08/12 06:21 PM
2

really, you're layering one additional danger on top of another. Exactly- If one possible negative outcome of outlawing abortion is an increase of false- accusations, I have to wonder what other possible negative repercussions are. Having been following the nationwide news regarding proposed legislation specific to family planning, I see the possible overturn of RvW as opening the door to all sorts of nasty things. I believe we should be taking a step forward, not reverting back 40 years: resear…
/r/MensRights29/08/12 06:02 PM
2

are you saying you really only allow abortions because you're afraid that outlawing it might lead to additional restrictions on birth control? Perhaps I was not clear enough. I am pro-choice. I believe it is the individual's right to decide if they want to carry a child to term, be pregnant, etc. It is the Right to Choice that is important to me. If an action is okay, then it's okay. If it's wrong, it's wrong. Agreed. But we shouldn't allow things we believe are wrong out of fear the outlawing o…
/r/MensRights29/08/12 01:39 AM
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I always took "Pro-Choice" to mean exactly what it sounds like: the ability to choose abortion, adoption, birth control, tubal ligation, or keeping it. My fear is that they take it a step further after outlawing abortion, and attempt again at limiting access to birth control, and possibly outlawing that as well- and eventually leading to the prevention of family planning altogether. It may sound extreme now, but I don't think it's that outlandish.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 12:59 AM
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Linda Peacher of Novato, a passerby who briefly debated with the demonstrators, said she opposes government placing limits on male circumcision. Peacher said, "In this instance, it's the doctors and parents who should decide what is best for their child." There is so much wrong with this. The same line could be used in defense of FGM.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 08:06 PM
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THIS. A million times this. Well said. I'm sure the OP can find a SO that truly cares about the issues he faces on a daily basis- instead of just going along and upholding what feminism tells her is "true"- when in fact it is a lie that only hurts and destroys people's lives, as well as retarding advancement in equal rights.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 06:13 PM
2

To clarify, they were talking about how sensitive their foreskin is. Again, I would think that individual results may vary.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 01:12 PM
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thank you!
/r/MensRights28/08/12 12:37 AM
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The foreskin is generally... not very sensitive at all I would disagree- I have had two partners (both uncircumcised) who have told me how much more sensitive it makes them, especially when retracted. Perhaps this is one of those things where "individual results may vary"- much like the fact that not all boys who are not intact suffer hideous side effects. I will say that regardless, I am very anti-circumcision. Raised Jewish, have seen the bris performed several times since I was 13- it is horr…
/r/MensRights28/08/12 12:26 AM
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Could you post a link to the circumcision harms website? I can't seem to find it and google comes up with other (also good) sites.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 12:19 AM
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A heart defect can be fatal. Being born with a foreskin is not. Would you give your baby a nose-job if you thought it would make them more sexually attractive as adults, reduce the risk of sinus infections, reduce bacteria/boogers and possibly help them avoid sinus cancer?
/r/MensRights27/08/12 07:03 PM
4

Here is a much less biased article. I hope she gets all 240 years
/r/MensRights14/08/12 06:06 PM
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I saw that episode! I thought it was pretty interesting that all of the upstanding-looking people ignored the girl's cries, and the two "gangster" looking guys helped- the very same people often looked upon suspisiously due to their appearance!
/r/MensRights14/08/12 11:49 AM
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<Are people really that daft that sexism overwrites any bit of logic that might come their way?> Because only pedophiles eat pasta on Mondays. As an aside, it happens to moms too if they don't "look the part": was walking through town a few years ago, when my oldest daughter was two. Had long black hair, facial piercings, tattoos, and a black hoodie with skull designs on it.. Crossing the street, my daughter throws herself down in the middle of the road (for no reason, she was 2) and starts thro…
/r/MensRights14/08/12 12:31 AM
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My two year old son is smarter than any farm animal. Watching a video of a circ. being performed, he pointed and said "Ouchy! No peepee ouchy! NOOOOO!" Even two year olds know it's wrong.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 08:35 PM
2

These poor boys! SO happy I decided against it... I hope more people see this info, rather than the crap you usually see/hear.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 08:32 PM
1

I think you're missing the gist of what I was saying: look at the situation, reverse the genders, and tell me that what she was sentenced to is fair. Any man who does what she did-- there's practically a lynch mob after him.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 10:53 PM
3

It's just wrong that having to live that way is "normal"
/r/MensRights10/08/12 12:40 AM
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How do you know they're not radical feminists (like Andrea Dwarkin) pretending to be MR in an effort to destroy MR? It wouldn't be that far if a stretch...
/r/MensRights10/08/12 12:38 AM
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Bless you for having the courage to come forward!
/r/MensRights09/08/12 09:22 PM
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The stupidest thing someone has said to me about my decision: "Don't you want him to look like his father?" I said "Oh, he does!"
/r/MensRights09/08/12 09:15 PM
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first offense slap on the wrist Since when are people ok with child molestation being a minor crime? I think that as a high school student, he's still a child. I guarantee that child services was involved. A man in her situation would have been dealt with much more harshly- as history has shown us- even if it was "consensual" with the student. http://www.wilx.com/mobi?storyid=163608766
/r/MensRights09/08/12 12:18 AM
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Yeah, it sucks, but it's still less than she deserves. She should have gotten the full five years.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 12:06 AM
1

Stop Kobe!
/r/MensRights08/08/12 11:47 PM
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This disgusts me that "good parents" are parents who circ. When I had my son, I was belittled by so many people who wanted me to feel awful for not doing this to my baby. I was a "terrible mother" who has condemned my son to a lifetime of health risks because I chose not to mutilate his penis. I was shut out by my synagogue, and I have never looked back- I wanted what was best for my son.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 10:01 PM
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I should rephrase: I understood what it meant, I was trying to comment what a ridiculous and horrible belief that is. I see the idea that "All men are rapists" as being the same things as "All Jews are lawyers", or "All blacks are theives".
/r/MensRights08/08/12 12:32 PM
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I.. I understand the individual words here.. They just don't make any sense. Might as well say "I suitcase the clown and five you!"
/r/MensRights08/08/12 12:51 AM
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My spidy sense is tingling... Could that be sarcasm?
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:13 AM
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Ah. Didn't catch the inference.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 12:46 AM
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There is no "default" setting: If the parents can not come up with a custody agreement themselves, then a hearing is scheduled with witnesses and evidence to decide who is best suited to make decisions for the child/children. I know several dad's who were granted full custody.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 12:22 AM
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Just one more thing to add to the list of why anti-circ is a good thing.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 12:13 AM
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Because Catholics have never molested anyone.. nor have blacks, Jews, prists, teachers, police officers.. You get the point.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 12:11 AM
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BS- Hasn't anyone ever seen "Forbidden Love"?! Females are just as capable of molestation.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 12:09 AM
3

Well said, sir.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:44 PM
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Does not detract from what an awful way to live that is. I'm not saying they deserve sympathy- too many awful crimes against men being committed.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:40 PM
1

Not in Vermont.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:35 PM
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I'm new here, and I've been reading a lot lately-I'm still having a hard time wrapping my head around how indotrinated these women are- that they homnestly believe that everything a man says or does that disagrees with them is opression. What an awful, hateful way to live.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:32 PM
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inviting dinner is a rape attempt. How dare you offer to cook. I can use a microwave, tahnk you.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:26 PM
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Yes. A friend of mine recently gained custody of his 3 year old child, and child support was ordered against the mother. Her recourse? She jumped state, and no one's bothering to look for her, so he unfortunately, will not actually receive any support for his kid.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:20 PM
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Reverse the genders, and it would have been a perfect article for Cosmopolitan. "5 Ways To Control Your Man" I just read that article. It was called "5 Ways to Drive Your Relationship"
/r/MensRights06/08/12 11:17 PM
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One question- and this may have already been answered- If the "adoptive" dad's name is on the birth cirtificate, why is there a dispute? Where I live, that's all that is needed to establish parentage & parental rights. I'd say let the guy have some visits (he is the bio-dad), but if he's actually harming the child, the original parenting agreement should be upheld.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 09:23 PM
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How is this any different from child abuse? Feeling sick to my stomach for these poor boys. Angry at the smiles on the women's faces as the child screams below them.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 09:11 PM
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It's a relatively minor surgery but it is still surgery. Have you ever seen one performed? I have, and I'd hardly call it minor. It's serious enough that it causes more deaths than neo-natal suffocation, and almost as much as SIDS in boys. http://www.icgi.org/2010/04/infant-circumcision-causes-100-deaths-each-year-in-us/
/r/MensRights06/08/12 09:06 PM
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I'm married to an uncut man- Honestly, I think it feels better if you know what I mean. I also chose not to circ my son (somewhat odd for a Jew, I know). Other things for her to consider: Can she think of One other mammel where the penis is an external organ? I have read many reports of babies dying as a result of the procedure, and have witnessed it performed- it's utterly barbaric. No anethetic is used, they strap the baby to a plastic board with an indented shape of the childs body, and tear …
/r/MensRights06/08/12 09:00 PM
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I was raised in a Jewish household, and I chose not to circumsise my son for precisely the same reason as the author: not my body. As a woman, I do not see the difference between the foreskin and the labia, and I see circumsicion as no less barbaric: it is the nonconsentual mutilation of another person's genitals. My son is almost two now- I have been ousted from my synagogue, but I could care less: my son's bodily integrity, and personal choices, are more important.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 08:24 PM
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If he was wearing a condom, isn't that non-consent on his part? Shouldn't it be treated the same as in Sweden, where sex without a condom can be considered rape, even when the sex was consentual? Words cannot convey how wrongly I feel this man was treated.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 04:08 PM
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Best of luck to you- I hope things work out
/r/MensRights05/08/12 09:29 PM
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Just like Huggies "celebrates dads"? * tell me another one* edit: fixed formatting
/r/MensRights05/08/12 08:44 PM
1

I truly hope that you receive continued support, I understand that there things never go away, it just becomes easier to say "I'm ok"- I myself became an advocate as I was a survivor myself, and wanted to help others!
/r/MensRights05/08/12 08:31 PM
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Im ok with it, I'm married now to a wonderful MRA, and no longer providing advocacy, and have since moved- link posted above.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 08:28 PM
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I eventually left the center, but only because I couldn't be an advocate and a single mom. Some of the things I saw still give me nightmares, but I can only hope I made a difference in these men's lives.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 04:29 PM
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Ugh. I still get sick thinking about it. I responded to a hotline call requesting a hospital trained advocate in the fall of 2008- about 3 am. I was greeted by hostile hospital staff and city PD. At first, I was not allowed access to the victim, because they said he was hostile. When I was allowed in almost 30 minutes later, I found out that he was not in fact hostile, but in severe pain. He was a bisexual individual who was a student on the local military campus. He had been drugged at a party,…
/r/MensRights05/08/12 03:44 PM
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I wasn't aware that feminists had a sense of humor when it came to their ideals. I saw the woman laughing about the statement comparing men to dogs as disdain.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 03:32 PM
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The same week it occurred, another case of an estranged husband breaking into a woman's house and dousing her with Lye, beating her with a bat and attempting to set her aflame. Women Helping Battered Women (WHBW) jumped on board and began a smear-campaign against men, and the local paper jumped on board as well. Again, really small area here- we don't even have a local channel.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 01:06 PM
2

I'm all for action! I want to raise awareness as this really is an important issue. No one should have to go through recovery alone- bless you and know you're not!
/r/MensRights05/08/12 01:02 PM
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Again, I am no longer with the center. When I was still active and perople found out what I did, the reaction was always "Oh thats good of you to help those poor women". I started to make a point of saying "men's rape crisis advocate" and then the question was always "You mean men who are raped, or do you defend rapists?" I would say that in my area, about 90% of people are in denial about men's issues. There is a high concentration of feminist men & women aged 40+ where I live, as well as the 2…
/r/MensRights05/08/12 01:00 PM
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I was receiving threats of violence: they were going to burn my house down, hurt my babies, mess with my car so I would wreck. I don't know who they were, the police never found that out.I received letters taped to my front door, where they called me a C___ and said that I was harboring men "who are the real offenders" and promoting "rape culture". The tires on my car were slashed, and windows were broken.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 12:50 PM
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Women Helping Battered Women, was a local feminist center, now closed.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 12:46 PM
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It was pretty scary- I was a single mother at the time, and had to move & change my name & phone number. Since then, I have remarried- to a wonderful man who got me involved in MRA
/r/MensRights05/08/12 03:01 AM
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Even as a survivor, if you are still coping with this horrible crime, you should feel able to seek support at my former center. They provide national support services to survivors, as well: http://www.sexualassaultcrisisteam.org/
/r/MensRights05/08/12 03:00 AM
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The biggest thing is to provide that man with the support he needs to make a report, and to help him find a good pro-MR attoney. Let him know that he should search his state gov's directory for local support. If none are available, there are centers that provide national support. I peronally provided support to a male victim of DV that acheived success in court: his then-wife had hit him in the head with a hammer six times, and he suffered a TBI. It nearly killed him, but he received a lot of lo…
/r/MensRights05/08/12 02:58 AM
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I have not personally seen this outside of my experience with WHBW advocates, but I have spoken with people who have experienced it directly. I know my SO is friends with a pro-MRA psychotherapist tho. EDIT: I should have addressed your first question; Most of the therapudic councilors I have encountered during my stint as a DV/SA advocate were pro-feminism, but they worked with WHBW.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 02:49 AM
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Again, I am not a councillor, that requires years of school and training. I will look up the book tho, thanks!
/r/MensRights05/08/12 02:47 AM
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I can tell that you feel stongly on the subject- as such a powerful MRA, have you considered opening a Men Only DV/SA organisation? God knows they are needed! Other than that, I promise I will never ask anything of you.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 12:47 AM
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Good point! I am not sure- I would assume the City Council "Minutes" may be available in the city hall archives. I was informed of this by my director when I began advocacy in 2007, and would have to verify the date with him. However, if I am able to obtain these, as public records, I will post them. I do know that SACT was founded in 1983 and was well ahead of it's time, so I may have to do quite a bit of digging.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 12:44 AM
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I do not disagree- as I said before, 99.9% of these advocacy groups are pro-feminism. I just happened to work for one that was not. I eventually left due to threats because of my pro-men's rights stance.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 11:55 PM
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I agree completely. The propeganda and acceptance of feminist ideals is what makes it difficult to open and sustain a shelter that is pro-MRM. SACT tried, and was rejected by the state/city zoning boards to host a male SA/DV Shelter. The director was told that there was a homeless shelter already available. Disgusting.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 11:39 PM
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I hope that your friend was able to leave what sounds like a dangerous situation.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 11:35 PM
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I'm not disputing what you've been saying, nor have I said anything in assumption of you "operating out of a vacuum" as you put it, I have merely shared my experience. I was also very up front in stating my recent joining of the MRM.. I am not a councilor: I am an advocate. emotional support and advocacy is not councilling, it is a service to help those who would like it "hook up" with services. As an advocate, I work to raise awareness. If anything, I'm trying to work to change the feminist iss…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 11:31 PM
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I'm NOT a feminist. Can't stand those who use gender as a weapon or won't accept or listen to logic.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 11:01 PM
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Thank you. I should say, that I did step down. Threats, etc. and my children being so young (newborn) prevented me from continuing on thw 24 hour hotline. Joining MRM now to show my support.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 10:59 PM
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http://www.sexualassaultcrisisteam.org/contact.html
/r/MensRights04/08/12 10:46 PM
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It's that kind of closed-mindedness that makes this kind of work so difficult.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 10:45 PM
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http://www.sexualassaultcrisisteam.org/ EDIT: I worked on the Men's "side"
/r/MensRights04/08/12 10:43 PM
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Unfortunately, women's groups are so prevelant, and Feminist groups spread so much propeganda that rape on men cannot occur, that I have found it to be a difficult thing to educate. The times that I hosted on-campus lectures, I was met with hostile disbelief. I actually had to move and change my phone number a few times due to threats of violence. I want to raise awareness that help is out there for men, I want to know that my son will grow up in a world where he will be treated fairly and human…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 09:09 PM
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I found during my advocacy that often times WHBW groups would belittle men seeking help who didn't know where else to go and found them first. This often made the men less likely to persue other types of help, and at times, our legal group would then be fighting against feminist WHBW groups who attemped to persue legal action against men who sought help, calling them the abusers/rapists. Have you had any experience with this?
/r/MensRights04/08/12 09:04 PM
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Thank you for posting this, I was searching for an appropriate link when your comment popped up.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 09:02 PM
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I married a wonderful man, and he got me involved in MRA!
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:55 PM
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Straight, Gay, abused all. In a relationship or not. Sexual/domestic violence is not just a hetero crime, nor is it all man hurting women.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:53 PM
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I would have to say that it's roughly 50/50. Male rape has got to be the most violent crime I could imagine. I have seen coersion with substances and threats of violence, I have seen penile mutilation, strangulation to induce erection, electrocution, sodomy and some other things that still give me nightmares. Female on male rape tends to be more violent, but hetero-male on homosexual male rape is the most life altering, as severance of the penis is common.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:51 PM
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Ok, I'll have to answer this one in parts- as I am a new poster, please let me know if I've forgotten to reply to something. First, we did not serve boys: anyone under 18 was referred to "Our House" an outreach center dedicated to CHINS cases, or children's cases. The men that we served, we offered male-run support groups, counciling, and many other support system with which I was not involved. I ran the Hotline and worked on the Law Project, where I worked directly under an attorney that would …
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:48 PM
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Straight, gay, transgender: it didn't really matter. We served those that the domestic violence centers and rape centers wouldn't serve, as well as those that the LGBT community centers did not help.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:20 PM
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A few of the cases I had seen, were men being slipped drugs: viagra among other substances, or having been coerced. The worst cases I had seen was where the other person had forcibly penetrated with objects such as lightbulbs or broom handles. I would have to say that from what I witnessed, rape on a man is much more violent, and has more seriously life-altering effects.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:18 PM
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It would be a terrible shame if I wasn't able to help those men. Quite a lot of them came to the shelter recovering from terrible injuries inflicted on them by spouses, significant people in their lives, and were trying to get on their feet again. If by providing them with shelter, a free lawyer and help becoming independant was harming them, then I don't know what else to say. I'm sorry you feel that way. (I forgot to say before that I never, ever told a man that his masculinity was the problem…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:16 PM
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As a woman, I find myself getting pretty peeved when people disregard the men in my life as "less important". A prime example of this is when someone tells my husband "You'd better help her out! She's got a lot on her plate" as if he has nothing important going on, or has never experienced stress/illness/pain. I appreciate all men.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:12 PM
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As a woman, I certainly know better than to drink to the point of blacking out. Of course I'm not going to tempt the fates by leaving a bag full of coin unattended in a room with people I don't know and expect everyone to be upstanding. Why would I say that it's unfair for someone to suggest I be responsible for my own personal safety? You might as well say that posters that advertise defense "anti rape" classes and mace/tasers as being evidence that it's a woman's fault that she got raped if sh…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 07:51 PM
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Because in order to be "equal", wouldn't men have the right to call "regretful sex" rape?
/r/MensRights04/08/12 07:43 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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