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Remain chaste, don't slut it up, get married, have kids, go to church on Sundays. If they need to work, get a normal job -- teacher, hairdresser, nurse, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:00 PM
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Well, yes, women aren't exactly smart regarding what they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:16 PM
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My parents marriage was shitty. I'd see growing up my parents always fighting, arguing, and yelling. As I got older and understood what the fights were about, I noticed a pattern. My mom was incapable of sticking to deadlines. Incapable of feeding me on a regular basis, and then when she did, I'd eat burned food. I have some health problems now as an adult that stem from poor nutrition as a child. I saw how she was overly emotional and how my dad had to acquiesce to her, repeatedly. Then I saw h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:07 PM
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Because marriage only benefits women. The women who thinks it only benefits men are stupid and/or deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:00 PM
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Marriage is a tool of the patriarchy and as a feminist I cannot support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:58 PM
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I went to an Ivy league school for my undergraduate studies, and another Ivy League school for my graduate studies. Straight out of school I worked at a tier 1 company, a company whos name everyone has heard of. I eat healthy, I exercise almost daily. I have been complimented by random women on the street, some of them have tried cheesy pick up lines at me. I'm not an obese 300 pound whale that's an incel that doesn't know how to shave or take a shower. I have an education. I have a career. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:13 PM
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Yes. Both of those suck. I find it very telling that the most ardent left-wing/liberals will in one breath say "we need Obamacare and we need to transition to a single-payer healthcare system" and then in the next breath say "if you're unvaccinated you deserve to die and should be denied healthcare." They are complete and total hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:05 PM
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Obese people need to pay more in healthcare premiums and us healthy people should get to pay less, CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:30 PM
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25 year old women are definitely hot enough to compete with 18-24 year old women, not just 18-20, so long as they don't become alcoholics in college and put on 50 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:07 PM
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It's the truth. The truth you've never been told. Find me a man that has at one point in his life been straight and then became gay or vice-versa. I'll wait. Nearly all homosexual males know they are homosexual by the time they've finished puberty, or are unwilling to accept it due to social pressures. For women, society influences how they think (because they are much more prone to being subject to social pressures) and influences their sexuality as a result. It's rare that you find a homosexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:00 PM
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Well, obviously pictures of you naked, among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:54 PM
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The wall is at 30, unless that's changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:38 PM
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Because, from a cursory look at your profile, I am of the opinion that the content you put out does not justify a "top 1% OF" income, which according to the first commenter was something around the ballpark of 100k a month. I have nothing against you personally, I just think it's a sad state of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:38 PM
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Virginity is only “cute” to men when she’s like 20. After that it’s a red flag Really? Then why are there women in their late 20s and early 30s that auction off their virginity to multi-millionaires and billionaires for hundreds of thousands of dollars? Could a man do the same? No, no he could not. Female virginity has always been and will continue to be prized. Male virginity generally is not, except in certain cases in religious circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:36 PM
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I don't have a "hate boner" for non-STEM academia. I do think non-STEM majors are less knowledgeable about statistics, data analysis, math in general compared to STEM majors. I don't think that should be considered a "hot take."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:34 PM
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No. Here is the galaxy brain take. About 90% of self-proclaimed "lesbians" are not lesbians. They're either 1) sluts going through a slutty phase with other women 2) indoctrinated/brainwashed with the feminist #killallmen propaganda so they've chosen to live as a lesbian because they've been convinced this is how they should live their lives. Only about 10% (or less) of women are actual, true lesbians, i.e. the female analogue to a homosexual male. Only very few lesbians out there truly are inca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:30 PM
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Well, if that's true, I've lost a lot of hope for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:25 PM
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What makes you say that? I don't think it's a stretch to say that very attractive women, i.e. the top 1%, can make substantial money. I'm curious though what that actually means. For example, people have a generally good understanding of what a Victoria's Secret Model is, given that VS has had annual fashion shows for about 20 years. There is a generally agreed upon understanding that VS models are 5' 9" to 5' 11", a size 2, hourglass figure, good facial symmetry, long legs, and obviously a warm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:20 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the greatest predictive factor in a young adult's political leaning the leaning of their parents, rather than their school? It used to be, not anymore. When kids are being indoctrinated in the classroom by their genderfluid teachers, and reading pornographic books, and being coerced into joining LGBTQ clubs at the age of four, and when they are being medically transitioned without a parents knowledge, the parents views are no longer the greatest predictive fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:34 PM
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They do. The teachers are left wing zealots who indoctrinate them. This is why parents have been speaking up at schoolboard meetings. It's why Glenn Youngkin won in Virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:33 PM
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What's her handle? I want to see what top 1% looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:05 PM
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Yes, but the vast majority of those in the public school system are completely brainwashed. Let's say for the sake of example, 60% of all students politically are on the left, and 40% are on the right. Now suppose that within a public school, 70% of all students are politically on the left, and 30% are on the right. Suppose that in a private/charter school, it's flipped: 30% of all students are politically on the left, 70% are on the right. Finally, let's say 85% of kids go to a public school, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:19 PM
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The truth is the latter is better in terms of reducing the political power of liberals/feminists, but the former is the morally correct thing to do. The baby is an innocent life that hasn't been corrupted and brainwashed by feminism. Unfortunately after it comes out and is put in the public schooling system they will be feminist agents at the ripe old age of 3 years 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:22 PM
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Men do not cry about their dad packing their lunch wrong 20+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:10 PM
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To make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:09 PM
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Technically, I'm still correct. When I last looked up these things it was a number of years ago. A quick google search leads me to believe your numbers are more accurate. Still, my point still stands. If a man is X height, nearly 100% of all women X height and above will automatically reject him. Most women want a man taller than themselves. It has been proven, even after correcting and adjusting for the naturally occurring difference in human height between males and females, that women are del…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:09 PM
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The height alone won't. Re read what I said. If a man is muscular, 6 ft +, and is ranked 3/200 in a medical school track, so long as his face isn't completely terrible, in a group of about 100 women, anywhere from 1-4 will be sending unsolicited provocative pictures to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:05 PM
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But when we say women are overly emotional and neurotic somehow we're the sexists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:06 PM
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and they noticed that I was almost always in the top 3 in the batch of 200 students, I started getting way more attention like I could literally feel their eyes on me in the classes. You are a med student. You're ranking in the top 3 out of 200. At this time they pegged you as a stable provider, one that is intelligent and has good future earning potential. At the start of second year, I decided to hit the gym and really bulked up a lot (gained 10 KG of muscle in just 4 months) and that's when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:04 PM
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They should live their lives the way they want without being forced into a box by society and the feminist lobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:54 PM
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I agree. There are so many things to make fun of FDS for. No need to invent new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:52 PM
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No. It's not important to me. Looks, personality, values, and being a virgin are way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:24 PM
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You can, but I would not recommend it. It lowers your chances, and if the good manTM thinks you're not a slut but then finds out you had a slut phase earlier things aren't going to go over well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:05 AM
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Most billy's prefer 3D but settle for 2D because they can't get 3D.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:04 AM
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Not all of them are sunshine and rainbows but I think it's better than slut stacy marrying beta billy and having once every 6 months duty sex and then milking him for his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:05 PM
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Disagree on this topic. A lot of partygoers are screw-ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:04 PM
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bad, good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:03 PM
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he never promoted it enough and people were begging him to promote it. This is a lie. It is revisionist history Throughout ALL OF 2020 Trump was pro-vaccine and promoted it up until election day. On the debate stage he touted operation warp speed and said we'd have a vaccine very shortly, and he was mocked by Biden. Then 2 days after the election the vaccine got released, which was entirely political becuase big pharma was on the side of Biden and the democrats. Literally everyone wanted to stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:35 PM
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Just found that someone I went to high school with just got married one month ago. He is Christian and found a good Christian girl from the south. They're in their mid twenties which by today's standards would be considered crazy; why didn't both he and she slut it up and get married only after the age of 35? That's what liberals would probably be asking. Can't wait for him to have kids. His parents and my parents are friendly and I'm happy for his and his entire family. Shows to go that if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:29 PM
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You're being deliberately obtuse or you're naive. Men can't "just sleep around" without women first allowing them to. Historically, social pressures placed upon women combined with their own choosiness and their requirements for a man to marry her or at least get engaged to her made it near impossible for men to casually sleep with plenty of women. The culture of casual sex that exists today is solely because women allow it to. If tomorrow all of a sudden you had a cohort of men that wants to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:49 AM
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Which is a good thing. Women hate it when they're actually treated as equals. Their version of "equality" is men treating them with benevolent sexism, which they need since they are physically weaker, more neurotic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:07 AM
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British period drama actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:04 AM
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It is directly correlated. Have you not seen Bridgerton? She kept saying that if she was unmarried she would be ruined. That Burbrook guy didn't want her if she wasn't intact. As the kids say, they be spitting fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:35 PM
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They can. No one said they couldn't. The whole point of TRP and WAATGM and MGTOW and related subreddits would be to lift the veil and show men that this is what women were doing. Prior to the internet and the growth of the manosphere this wasn't well understood or known.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:10 PM
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So there’s those men who want to marry a virgin Yes, that's me but want to be able to sleep around before doing so Not really, I've never been interested in casual sex. and look down on women for not being virgins. Yes, because they shouldn't engage in moral depravity. So here’s the flaw in that thought process, if all women saved themselves until marriage, you men would not have multiple sexual partners. That's correct. It's why women shouldn't be sleeping around. By sleeping around you've made…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:08 PM
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I actually would love to go to an art class just for the art. It's something I'd love to do sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:28 PM
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When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is to stop taking advice from other women, because most women (and men) unfortunately are plain stupid regarding this topic, evidenced by the growing divorce rates and dead bedroom marriages. If you want, read some books and studies and research papers about human attraction, what makes a good life partner, how to be successful in relationships, etc. However, since you're already reading my book, here is some advice that is guaranteed to help. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:21 PM
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So help me understand, because I was not raised as a conservative catholic, once you're in a marriage, let's say the man gets an urge to masturbate, which is a sin. Is the correct course of action to just sit there, never masturbate, and be sexually frustrated, or is it to approach his wife for sex? What if she then says no, which a lot of women do in a marriage? I'm curious what you think of the phrase "it's not rape if it's your wife" which I have heard some ultra conservatives say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:42 PM
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Before marriage poppy, not after marriage. Once you're in the marriage you should love your husband and express that love physically, and express it often and enthusiastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:39 PM
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Yes, you should practice abstinence. Don't be promiscuous. Glad we cleared it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:47 AM
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I think it is in man's nature to want sex more than women. The amount of research I've done into this is nontrivial and goes beyond just browsing PPD. I have read studies, books, and attended academic classes about human sexuality. You're not obligated to do anything, but as a man, I think it's unfair to strip him from having sex (because you're a virgin) and also strip him from relieving himself (no porn). It can make men legitimately go crazy. You can masturbate without watching porn. You can …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:47 AM
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Well, yes, the church makes the rules. So there's an argument to be made that the church gets to control a man's sexuality, and to an extent they do and have in the past; this is how modern society came to be. It's wrong for a woman to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:13 AM
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So now dating makes you a slut? I mean you do realize that normal healthy adults date. Don’t you? You can date without having sex. Like people who are in LTRs also talk about “settling down.” When mr blu and I were dating for a while, people would say “so when are you two going to settle down?” The phrase settling down does mean to get married (and have kids). That said, most women end up settling down only after settling for someone, i.e. after spending their 20s with wild sex-fueled parties wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:58 AM
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This is ideologically inconsistent though. Women here have said that him watching porn is essentially him virtually having sex with women which is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:55 AM
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No, it's not, but when you type the following: a lot of you are just white and ignorant It makes you look like the racist, meaning you've stooped down to the level of those you are criticizing (if that criticism is accurate), or that you've stooped lower than them (if that criticism ends up not being accurate). Not everyone who browses this subreddit is white, and of those that do, not all of them are ignorant of other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:43 AM
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The quote in of itself is not offensive. The quote does reveal what women actually think and do, and how women actually talk to other women, given that the author is a woman that is looked up to by other women. The quote confirms that women really do want to have their cake and eat it too. Sheryl is unapologetically saying that women should sleep around and be promiscuous (strike #1), that they should then "settle down" (emphasis on the word settle i.e. settling) after their slut phase (strike #…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:41 AM
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CMV: If you are a virgin woman, and you are holding out on having sex because of religious, moral, or any other reason, that is perfectly acceptable, and in my opinion should be encouraged. However, it is wrong to use your virginity as a way to control a man's sexuality. Statistically, 100% of adult men have watched porn at some point. Men have a higher sex drive when compared to women, on average. This is due to the nature of testosterone. If you hold out on having sex, for X amount of time (1 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:35 AM
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Incel son by a mile. You can teach him to be happy through the metaphysical world. You can teach him to still be appreciative of the gift of life. The onlyfans girl would be a plague upon the family and bring nothing but disorder and debauchery to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:23 AM
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What women mean when they say that there are no good men on dating apps is that there are no men who fit both their attractiveness threshold and who are looking for relationships The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:43 AM
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What's your problem with white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:42 AM
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If she really were my dream girl, yes I'd get married to her. Problem is she doesn't exist. But your post is different than what you say in the title. Is “husband material” still an insult in this case or are you going to embrace the title because she’s showing interest in you here and now? It would still be an insult unless she couched her statement in some manner to show that she sincerely meant it as a compliment. Protip for girls is just never use the phrase "husband material." Instead, if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:26 AM
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It’s very obvious that somebody’s who’s done oral is not a virgin. Not everyone of your gender agrees on this point, hence my linked comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:22 AM
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I don't view petting as sexual. Petting is romantic, sensual. Not sexual, there's a difference. In any case, my comment stands, and unless you explicate exactly what it is you are and are not doing, you've torpedoed your credibility, and my linked comment explains why you and other women torpedo their credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:56 PM
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Girl to girl - "He's husband material" = good. This part is wrong. Some women will refer to men as husband material with other women to classify them as the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:55 PM
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Actually, no, it's not, and those kinds of cheap one liner insults aren't convincing anyone. This is why I bring up your so-called virginity Women like yourself continually say things like "I'm a virgin" but also "I do sexual stuff." The comment I linked, and the comment it's responding to and the post the comment thread is in underscore the lies and omissions of truth that women engage in because they don't want to be ideologically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:53 PM
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Congratulations, you proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:49 PM
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FDS is prescribes conservatism for men, which is good, but doesn't do so for women, which is bad. To be specific, these are all of the things they do not say: A woman NEEDS to be able to take care of her and your needs comfortably, make love every night A woman should never pms or act crazy in front of you, we're not paid psychiatrists and she's not a teenager A woman MUST be conventionally attractive, slim (< 23 BMI), beautiful, fit and has curves, tight and overall incredibly feminine If a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:04 PM
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we do some minor sexual stuff so. So you're not a virgin then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:12 PM
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How do you feel about your current partner watching porn to get off and relieve himself since you are waiting for marriage and not having sex with him? Is that fair, or is that a big no-no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:16 AM
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Actually, I understood that. I was asking about the "Wannabe stacy" part. I don't understand what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:10 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:44 PM
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They wokified it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:44 PM
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What does your flair, "Wannabe Desi Stacy" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:43 PM
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Incredibly based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:42 PM
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Portland is still being burned today. ANTIFA hasn't stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:59 PM
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it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:38 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:38 AM
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i think you're missing the point. living in the cities and suburbs have become unbearable because the roving marauders of blm "mostly peaceful protesters" have taken over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:39 AM
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when did I claim to be neutral about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:02 AM
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overtaken by hippie wine moms who are sympathetic to the roving marauders and post lawn signs in support of them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:29 AM
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hot take living in a farm in the middle of nowhere with your own chickens and dairy cow and guns and god and land is superior to living in the city where roving marauders of blm aronsists burn down your cities in the name of "mostly peaceful protests."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:20 AM
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Women do not know statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:40 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:49 AM
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If a woman says it we have all the questions and caveats. Are you actually a virgin or technically one? Have you done everything short of PIV? Backdoor loophole? It's kind of exhausting to have to answer the same questions over and over. Yeah but that's your own (gender's) damn fault. When men say "I'm a virgin" It's understood by all men that at maximum they've hit 1st base at maximum but it's likely to be a strikeout. Very few men say I'm a virgin, but actually I've had a blowjob. In fact, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:36 AM
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Studies have shown #1 will hurt them way more than #2 because #1 is more likely to progress to a situation where the man will start devoting financial resources to her, have kids with her, provide for her, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:31 AM
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So you're saying she got alpha widowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:20 AM
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It's always the man's fault, don't you know anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:16 AM
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they're going to say no, but the truth is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:26 AM
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Then you're automatically a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:09 AM
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Finally Jussie Smollet's attacker has been identified, and his attacker has been found guilty. This is a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:24 AM
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An airfryer is a tabletop convection oven.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:31 AM
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CMV: The death penalty should stay. But we should make two changes. 1) Make the burden of proof to put someone on death row higher. Maybe for instance, they need to be found guilty in two separate, independent trials, making it less likely an innocent person is convicted. Or maybe the burden of proof in a single trial must be higher. 2) Once they are sentenced to death, none of this "on death row for the past 17 years bullshit." Actually perform the sentence. That way the state doesn't keep wast…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:30 AM
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Good. Punish single motherhood. Shame them. We need to live in the society portrayed in the scarlet letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:59 AM
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All major cities are liberal shitholes infested with druggies who shit on the street and criminals who riot and loot. They're all run by demonrat mayors and district attorneys who refuse to prosecute crimes because "muh racism." Move out of the cities if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:05 AM
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It's not if you're a 5'10" size 2 36-24-36 supermodel with excellent complexion and facial symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:09 AM
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You're lying. I just did 5'0" and 10k, not touching anything else and I get 28.3%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:07 AM
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So do women who wear hosiery separate out their nylon tights from their wool tights for winter wear from their silk tights for special events. As an observer I don't think I could easily tell a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:08 AM
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I'm wondering now, are the nylons super thin and must be thrown away with a "snag" and as a consequence they are made so cheaply (I've seen them sold at CVS and other pharmacy stores), or is it that they are so cheaply made that as a result they fail with one snag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:07 AM
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Slow passionate lovemaking in missionary is superior in every which way to other types of sex and nothing you say will change my view on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:05 AM
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Agreed. Weed is satanic, hence why it is called the devil's lettuce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:04 AM
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Well, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:51 AM
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CMV Conjugal visits should be banned. If you committed a crime, you don't get to have sex, that's part of the punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:51 AM
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What is nylon hosiery and how is it different than non-nylon hosiery? I'm uneducated on these topics as I do not wear hosiery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:43 AM
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CMV there's nothing good about ripping tights to enhance sexual desire/pleasure. Tights, stockings, and other hosiery is nice and can add fun to the bedroom, but the act of ripping clothes is barbaric. When engaging in coitus, it is civilized to take off your clothes, not to rip them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:36 AM
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Storytime. Once upon a time, I had an interaction with a cashier. I bought something, and the cashier replied 7 dollars. For a second I thought I was getting scammed. The items I were buying were marked as 1.99 each, and I was buying 3 of them. This means the total should be 5.97. I was in Manhattan at the time, so the tax is 8.875%. In my head, I was thinking about all of this, and I thought 7 is too high. So I asked, how is it 7 dollars? He just looked at me and said "with tax." Now I was conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:26 AM
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Yes, cashiers have gotten ruder, but it's not just them being ruder, it's a combination of a few things. Cashiers in general are just any other wage slave making little money, and just like other low wage jobs, they're all angry and bitter, generally speaking. Add COVID. Now they have to wear mandatory masks even after being vaccinated in their stores, which I'm sure they don't want to do. Add in Bidenflation and now the little wages they do make don't stretch as far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:18 AM
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Forgive my lack of understanding. My understanding is that tights, or pantyhose, are essentially an undergarment. So just like any article of clothing, it is susceptible to rips, tears, etc. If one really wanted to, they could try to stitch it up with some thread and a sewing machine, but 99.99% of people don't do that, instead they throw the clothing away. So ... is the only reason you didn't just throw away the pair is because you and your boyfriend wanted to utilize the already torn pair of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:16 AM
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We don't want everything on the planet to be women's fault. We recognize that a lot of things on the planet are women's fault. We are angry about the fact that when we try to point out X, Y, and Z are women's fault we're shamed as misogynists. There are legitimate things that are the fault of men. No one seems to be debating that, including men. But then when a small minority of men that have not been brainwashed by women attempt to make the case there are things that are the fault of women we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:06 AM
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What's a "snag" in your tights? I don't understand what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:03 AM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:57 AM
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That's not what I said lmao. This plus your "0%" body fat comment shows your (lack of) reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:55 AM
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You're the one who wrote "0%" body fat, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:51 AM
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White. That is a picture of a VS model. Not as slim as the first girl I posted but still very slim, and a healthy weight. Black, from the same fashion show. Again, this woman has a slim figure. Maybe you're right about bone structure, I don't know. Any woman and man is capable of having a healthy figure with lower body fat if they don't gorge themselves on mcdonalds every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:50 AM
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Well with men it's easy, we're not mentally ill all the time women are. With republicans its also easy. WE're not mentally deranged like the demonrats. With churchgoers its also easy. We have a strong religious lifestyle that helps anchor us, so we don't end up becoming mentally deranged like those atheists. For higher income it's obvious, we don't need to worry about stuff when we have money, so we don't act mentally ill like the poors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:42 AM
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I said excess body fat. A certain amount is normal. Anything over that is excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:40 AM
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Definitely a byproduct of being Americanized. In Asian countries where she is from, as well as parts of Europe, she is a healthy, normal weight. Americans are fat as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:33 AM
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The face is attractive but I'm ignoring that. Just looking at the figure, both asses are acceptable, but I think my girls, which is smaller is a bit better out of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:33 AM
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Explain how her thighs are healthy in this picture. You can clearly see the excess body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:32 AM
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That women does have "meat." She has toned leg muscles. Her arm muscles probably aren't there. The key is she has very low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:27 AM
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She is not healthy. She is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:26 AM
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I am correct as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:26 AM
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I can find images/videos of white, black, latina, etc women. This was just an example. The thing I'm talking about is the figure, not the race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:26 AM
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I think your girl is less attractive than mine, but not entirely unattractive. But what you posted is probably the upper limit for ass fatness I'd tolerate. Any more and it starts to be repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:25 AM
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25 is kind of fat. girls with 22 or 21 are more attractive imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:22 AM
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Men and women have always been attracted to a healthy weight. A consequence of having a healthy weight is that your butt is not unnaturally fat. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:16 AM
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Explain how this is not attractive. Slim figure with small butts are superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:13 AM
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big booty is bad. small , slim figure all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:10 AM
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Fat asses and being fat generally have an overlap, like a venn diagram. I dislike both. Nice, small, slim butts are superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:02 AM
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Not a red flag, it's indicative of your personality and your degree of femininity. Some guys may like it, most won't care, very few will find it concerning. There are plenty of other things women do that cause problems, having plushies is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:48 AM
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CMV the obsession with "thicc" body types as the young people call it, or the "big booty" types as primarily african americans call it, or "healthy at any size" as the feminists call it, is a concerted disinformation campaign to normalize obesity, particulary obesity in females, and convince men to be attracted to obese body types. I have never in my life been attracted to anything remotely overweight, and I don't think I ever will be. I have always been attracted to slim women. I saw a video ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:33 AM
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The liberals have made math a political shit show. Have you been paying attention to the schoolboard meetings across the country? They are literally teaching pornography in English class. They've said math is racist because typically white and Asian students perform well at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:55 AM
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home schooling or conservative catholic private schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:31 PM
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It's from this 538 article. Scroll down to the pie charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:22 PM
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An oldie but a goodie. 6 years ago it was viewed as ridiculous satire. Now it's the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:01 PM
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Let's be real, Americans are dumb as shit. When polled, a majority, 60%+ say roe should not be overturned. But then if you ask should abortion be allowed in the 2nd trimester, only 29% say it should be. Roe made it the law of the land to allow abortions in the 2nd trimester. The cognitive dissonance exists because most Americans are too stupid to understand the full scope of the court case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:50 PM
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Listening to the oral arguments today doesn't suggest they're going to uphold it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:49 PM
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Today we may finally get roe v wade, one of the worst supreme court decisions ever, overturned. Here's hoping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:17 PM
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Maybe, maybe not, depends on the guy, doesn't change the argument in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:15 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:15 PM
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If you put a gun to my head forcing me to choose, I'd look you in the eye and say pull the trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:39 AM
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Today is a great day. The last of the cuomo brothers have finally been defeated. That entire family has ruined America, starting from Mario. He trashed the state of NY. Then his son andrew came along and killed a bunch of people in nursing homes. Then tweedle do dumb-dumb chris went on fake news cnn and lied to his audience about his brother's failings. I'm glad there are no more cuomos in positions of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:34 AM
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Protests are the worst way to "help." Any individual that attends a protest is automatically flagged by the FBI and put on a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:38 AM
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the vagina can be gradually stretched out by larger objects, as is the case for women who like shoving increasingly large things into them, like those massive dildos and those with a fisting fetish. They refuse to believe this and think that you're a misogynist for daring to suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:33 AM
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We know you don’t want us to say our degrees, characters, sex, education, cooking skills, life-partner, car, apartment, or love since you guys obviously don’t “care” about that. So, then, what is an answer you’re looking for? Men care about food and sex. Where did you get the idea that they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:00 AM
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How old are you? If you're 17, that's not age discrimination, that's because you're a minor. If you're 18-25, it's because you are statistically at a high risk of crashing the car, and businesses are allowed to choose their customers, despite it being uncommon. You discriminate on which businesses you give your money to every day. Businesses can and should discriminate on which customer's they'll serve. They usually don't because they're greedy and want every penny. Even in the case you're likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:00 AM
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There are no organizations. All you can do is not actively shit on them like all other women your age do. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:42 AM
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You can't, it's too late to fix it, hence the phrase "enjoy the decline."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:41 AM
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Same as 90% of other women. Turn 18. Slut it up Develop alcoholism in college/constant partying. Repeat until age 29. Along the way get pregnant from some random dude. Panic sets in as she realizes she's hitting 30 without a stable partner. Create hinge account. Pray some prince charming rescues her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:43 AM
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You have no idea the magnitude, scope, and scale of problems men face. Claiming that all men who perceive injustices against them are incels, which is what you are doing, is myopic, doesn't seek to identify (much less assuage) a problem, and will ultimately not accomplish anything. It is also a sign that you are a rabid feminist /FDSer and are not worth talking to. I encourage you to continue living in your make believe world that every man that presents an even mildly different worldview than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/r31du4/daily_community_chat_megathread/hm8k7r3/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:29 AM
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Pray tell what "evidence" did you post? A thread from askmen? Isn't it you hippie liberals that are always whining when people bring up anecdotes. Last I check you folks demand peer-reviewed articles rubber stamped by your "approved" left-wing think-tanks and universities before you even begin to mildly consider the premise is possibly true. That entire thread from askmen are a bunch of anecdotes. It's you people who love the phrase "the plural of anecdote isn't evidence." So by your own logic y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:27 AM
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Some men are scared of rejection. Those that are, which are not all men, are not intimidated by the woman herself. You said it yourself, they are scared of rejection. The woman herself is not intimidating. The consequence of his action is what brings him worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:22 AM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:21 AM
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Nothing I said is untrue, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:21 AM
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Heterosexual men are sexually attracted to beautiful women. Go look at the dictionary definition of the word intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:20 AM
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I support men every week more than you and most women ever will in your entire lives. Men are not intimidated by women. They're angry, frustrated, and saddened due to injustices against them that they have correctly perceived as a result of society catering to women's every whim for the past 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:10 AM
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Not bothering to read that horseshit. Any ways, real men don't get intimidated by women. There's nothing to be intimidated by. They're smaller, physically weaker, lower muscle mass, they cry at everything, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:08 AM
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Regarding the thread about intimidation, OP is 100% correct. Women are intimidated by men, not the other way around. Women say men are intimidated by them because they are projecting. That's literally all it is. Solipsism. Edited to help you guys out. According to your own "rules": 1) multiple anecdotes is not a scientifically peer reviewed studied rubber stamped by a well-known leftist and feminist institution. Therefore, anecdotes are useless. This is the common quip liberals and feminists on …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:01 AM
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The degeneracy is why they don't want to get married. Fixing the degeneracy solves the root of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:00 AM
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This post is useless. Show me the graph of share of adults under 35 that have never had sex ever. The proportion of men is much higher and forever will be. That's the bigger issue. These women are choosing not have sex because there aren't enough dream men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:42 AM
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This is the truth they will never acknowledge. Women are a net drain on the taxation system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:21 AM
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Guys will start to care about you a lot more the more food, sex, and silence they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:50 AM
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What you're describing is having an intelligent conversation. That's fine. That's a minority of the type of talking women do. Most of the talking is how she saw Brenda the grocery store and she was buying lots of cookies so Brenda must be a lard-ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:49 AM
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If you want to develop hobbies, you can try to find some groups to take classes or lessons with, or just to participate in. For women I know book clubs are a common hobby. A bit less common would be ceramics classes (i.e. pottery). Gardening is somewhat common hobby for women, it depends where you live. Painting and art if you've been interested in art. In this day and age, honestly anything other than scrolling instagram all day is a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:45 AM
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The more esoteric or rare a hobby is, it is seen as unique, or at the very least interesting. This seems to matter a hell of a lot more for women than it does for men, for whatever reason. All hobbies definitely have the potential to be lame, but it's disengenious to say that they have an equal probability of being perceived as lame. The reason why video games get a bad rap is because it is extremely common. Most 20 something men and younger play video games. So to women, playing video games is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:43 AM
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I think the biggest thing is that women genuinely don't understand that we don't care about a lot of the stuff they care about. To us like 80% of what they do and say gets filed under the bullshit column. Like, if you had a really emotional day at work because some coworker looked at you the wrong way, that doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Chris Rock was right. In one of his stand up's he said "do you know what men want? Food, sex, silence. Feed me, fuck me, shut the fuck up." Like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:30 AM
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I've done a lot of thinking recently about sex and relationships and I've come to what is a rather obvious conclusion for most. I want to have sex with hot girls. But then I think about all the work that's involved with that--time, energy, money, effort, etc--and it straight up isn't worth it. That helped me understand something; it was a lightbulb moment. This is why so many men are turning to porn. Because of how easy it is. Because there's no effort. There's no financial obligation. You don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:20 AM
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He went to clean graffiti. He was offering first aid to the people who were rioting and burning the city to the ground. Go educate yourself. Not everything that you listen to on MSDNC and Fake news CNN is true (in fact, most of it is is false).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:15 AM
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If a guy has a type, and he finds a woman attractive, the woman will be of that type. You can't have a type and then find women attractive that aren't of that type, that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:57 AM
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This post was written by a woman. So obvious. So I'm a straight female. We know. I don't mean to be rude, but honestly, this is the most solipsistic post I've seen, and I've seen many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:04 AM
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CMV: It is not yellow fever (or jungle fever, or white fever, etc) if your disproportionate attraction toward that particular race is based on imprinting that took place while you were a child, teenager, and young adult. That is to say, if as a child you were surrounded by people of primarily one race (e.g. East Asian), and your first childhood crush was east asian, and then in middle and high school you were surrounded by east Asian people of the opposite gender, and then as a young adult you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:52 AM
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Agree with everything except the age gap. Age gap is relative so it differs from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:46 AM
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I do. Now the burn loot murder squad know if they threaten people , i.e. if they "fuck around", then there will be consequences, i.e. "they'll find out."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:44 AM
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He did though. He got rid of a couple of child rapists. That's bettering the community right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:44 AM
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He was acquitted. You better be careful what you post, it could be considered defamation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:43 AM
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I am. What makes you think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:43 AM
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WRONG. Ethically kyle is a HERO. The police abandoned Kenosha to the whims of the jackals who vandalized and looted and the arsonists that turned buildings into rubble. It was courageous of him to go there to try and protect the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:10 AM
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You're more forgiving than most. The minute deliberations went longer than 3 hours, it was concerning. It was obvious to all that it was self-defense. Reporters were getting intel that there were a couple of holdouts that were scared to vote not guilty because they were afraid Kenosha would burn again. The mob was taking them hostage. I think the apex was last night when an MSNBC journalist stalked and followed the van transporting jurors. That's what led the judge to ban MSNBC from the courtroo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:27 AM
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When the girl is the dumper, she already has a backup ready to go. Most often it's an orbiter. This has been proven by the way https://curlytales.com/new-research-shows-that-over-50-of-women-in-relationships-have-a-back-up-partner/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:24 AM
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not entirely false. there's a reason women enthusiastically have sex with these type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:22 AM
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That's not true. It's a lie people purport about republicans to make them good bad. If anything, I argue Republicans care more about the environment. We're statistically more likely to hunt, fish, trek in the backcountry, go camping, backpacking, live in rural areas with farm animals and other wildlife, garden, homstead/live off the land, and so much more. The difference is we reject your philosophy. We agree the climate is changing; it's always been changing. Is human activity contributing to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:20 AM
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Well, it's not quite that simple. The law in question, I forget the exact statute, in the Wisconsin legal code, had to do with short barrel rifles. Kyle's rifle was long barrel, so the law didn't apply to him. It was a technicality, but the law is the law, and technically speaking, Kyle didn't violate it. That's point number 1. Point number 2 is a big more nuanced. "Self-defense" is not the same in all 50 states in the U.S. In some states, the law is more robust, or more forgiving than in others…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:06 AM
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Today is a great day to be an American. The justice system prevailed. Kyle is a hero. When I have children, I want them to grow up to be like Rittenhouse. Fearlessly protecting our streets from the hordes of roaming vandals looting and burning cities to the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:00 AM
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You're correct. I read that name and I went "who" in my mind. It took me a few seconds to realize. The highlight for me was when Grossgoutz or whatever his name is admitted he pulled his gun and the prosecutor actually facepalmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:58 AM
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100% agree, but not based solely on ugliness. It's wrong for your taxpayer money to subsidize other people not being able to take care of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:57 AM
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Depends. If they do it in a similar manner, i.e. multiple times a week they just post random shirtless mirror selfies on instagram with nothing else, it's probably vanity. If they post those photos, but are doing it to detail their body transformation, as well as posting their workout routines, pictures/videos of them working out, details about their macros, pictures of the food their eating, then it's probably just a fitness focused account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:33 AM
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That's different. It's not vanity, it's the desire to share a part of your life. It's harder to determine the intentions behind that. For some, it is a way to show off, as having pets could be seen as a status symbol, or as something to take pride in. For others, it's a genuine love of animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:32 AM
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CMV If you're a woman, and you post provocative pictures on Instagram--including ones where you are fully clothed--with the sole intent of getting more likes and follows, then something is wrong with you in the head. You are less likely to be able to form healthy relationships because you're too self absorbed with your image and how people react to your image. It's one thing to dress nice and put on make up so you look your best when you're out in public. It's another to do that, then snap a sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:30 AM
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Agreed, if he doesn't walk, it would be a grave miscarriage of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:27 AM
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Defending property from hordes of looters and arsonists is a courageous thing to do. These tweets sums it up better than I ever could: If the government surrenders your community to the mob, and allows it to descend into anarchy and ruin, you are not under any moral obligation to sit back and watch it happen. That's what the "he shouldn't have been there" people are arguing, and it's false and deranged. https://twitter.com/MattWalshBlog/status/1461001198534807569 and People to blame for the Ritt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:26 AM
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Low-value women get impregnated by low-value men, more at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:42 AM
2

the classic books are "no more mr nice guy" and "how to win friends and influence people."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:42 AM
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They think they have a rock-solid understanding of it. They don't understand any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:11 AM
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I watched hours of the trial deliberations. He is clearly innocent. Bill Ackman, a LIBERAL billionaire donor, posted on twitter that he thinks Rittenhouse is innocent after watching the trial deliberations. Someone from the media thought his twitter got hacked because they couldn't comprehend that a liberal donor came to the conclusion that he was lied to by the media after watching the trial and seeing the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:07 AM
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Maybe, but he's still a hero for defending the community from a child predator and arsonist (Rosenbaum). The other 2, Huber and Grosswhats his name also had long rap sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:59 AM
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Ah yes, thank god she supports the party of tolerance, that will peacefully burn down the city (again) if he gets acquitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:56 AM
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they need a meal ticket. then when they get bored they press the divorce button to get a free house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:22 AM
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Where exactly does one "buy women?" Especially in the western world I'm pretty sure that isn't possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:22 AM
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You strike me as one of those left-wingers who are adopting the new slogan "People of color minus Asian" just to discriminate against them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:30 AM
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Ah yes the classic "stop having standards! accept the fact that she slept around in her youth."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:52 AM
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If she's not a virgin, I'm not marrying her, and this is the hill I am willing to die on. For a long term LTR that does not include marriage I'd be willing to relax that requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:50 AM
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I've met several of these men in real life How do you know? Men who engage in these philosophies do not advertise it. Of the rare minority that do, I say they are not an accurate representation of the group as a whole. Stats are showing men are becoming more sexless, woman are opting out of relationsips all together, people are becoming more and more lonely like... there are no good results being produced here. I agree, I just think women are the problem, by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:32 AM
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With the supply chain crisis, don't expect any deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:19 AM
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haha no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:52 AM
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Women make a choice when they enter the sexual marketplace. Are they going to sleep with any chads in their life, or not. If they choose to, then they are loose. If they don't, then they won't be seen as trying to make a man her beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:30 AM
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Intuition, experience, judging her character. It's not foolproof but that's what we've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:48 AM
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from your bank account. the purpose of setting up shell corporations is to protect your assets, you obviously can't divert every single penny to fake companies. you need some for your mortgage payments, credit card bills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:48 AM
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It depends on the girl. If she's someone who historically waits until the 3rd date to have sex, then if we aren't having sex on the 3rd date, I'm going to question why. If she drops her panties with 15 minutes and does anal in a bathroom stall, but then makes me wait 2 months, then she's classified me as BB and it's time to bail. If she's a virgin and waiting for marriage, well then waiting for marriage isn't too long. It depends on her history and what she's after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:53 AM
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There's very little "ongoing effort" required. Maybe like once a year you need to double check that everything is being handled correctly, and even that is just due diligence. Once you set it up it's kind of like set it and forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:51 AM
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That's different. Obviously I would like her not to cheat on me, but that's not what I want. I want a way to empirically determine previous number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:50 AM
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How would you tell them apart? How would you determine if they are lying or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:49 AM
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Yes, but my point is you don't have to be superrich to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:49 AM
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It's literally always men's fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:41 AM
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Devise some empirical way to confirm with certainty how many previous sexual partners she's had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:35 AM
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I think you seriously do not understand what it's like to be a man. Yes, it's possible to attract women without trying, so long as you are not in the bottom 10% lookswise. Even if you attract them though, that will not blossom into a relationship, or lead to a casual sexual encounter unless the man capitalizes on that interaction. There are plenty of times for example where I have received positive interest from a woman--smiles from across the room, a woman at a bar walking up to me and chatting…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:30 AM
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Yeah, that's actually not entirely true. You can set up a shell corp in panama for $400. The super rich do it because they get more value from it, but I argue once your net worth hits $1M liquid, you need to start going down this route.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:28 AM
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This is why you use shell companies and bearer shares to protect your wealth. You can promise the transfer of bearer shares upon divorce, but then liquidate the underlying assets owned by that company and funnel it to another shell company you own. That way, after divorce, those shares which were worth X amount, are now simply worth pennies, and you keep everything. Men take note. This is how you protect your assets. None of what I'm saying is illegal. There are so many tax loopholes and lax reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:13 AM
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She's already a Christmas cake unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:04 AM
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If a man stays a longer until 27 and never bothers to even try attracting a woman, does that mean that he is missing the skill of attracting a woman because he is unable to develop it, or is he missing that skill because he is unwilling to? My money is on the latter. You can't be unable to do something if you've never even tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:04 AM
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I have access to the article. There is no evidence. No videos, no photographs. All of the quotes showcase the girls making moves on him. Trying to get his attention. One girl posted a sign outside her house saying "free pizza and pussy come in dave!" This is what happens when you're a famous man. Some crazy women will try to go after you. Here's an example: "I mean actually this ones kind of common," she wrote. "Like a rape fantasy, where I don't have any control of what's going on." "You and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:26 AM
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"evidence" Unless there is a video recording showing Portnoy raping women, it boils down to he said she said, and I believe Portnoy instead all of these disgruntled women who want their 5 minutes of fame. Portnoy is good looking, owns a business, and is wealthy. This is a classic case of women using pussy to try and win him over, and once they were unsuccessful, they play the rape card.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:17 AM
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Left wing/wokeness and pro-feminism is highly correlated. All this rape culture hysteria is a feminist myth. All of your quotes are likely bullshit because all of this metoo stuff, with the exception of some stuff regarding weinstein and bill cosby has all been a bunch of bullshit. Notice how all of these hit pieces are always geared toward men who are not part of the liberal orthodoxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:10 AM
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It's all bullshit, as is always the case. What's surprising is that it's Insider, not Jezebel. I'm surprised they're this woke/left-wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:51 AM
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If she is a virgin with marriage in mind and wants kids, I'm not expecting sex on the first night, second night, or third night, or even for many months, and I'm willing to pay for everything. But she actually has to be a virgin, not a "well I did anal so it doesn't count" virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:55 PM
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The benefit of feminism is that it has increased the supply of sluts letting men get some action easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:53 PM
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Sounds like you're describing socially conservative, religious men. I don't think there's anything abnormal about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:39 AM
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Out of curiosity, is "All Lives Matter" a racist statement? Is it a dog-whistle for white supremacists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:31 AM
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What racist insults have people, Asian people specifically, levied against you? Can you point to specifics?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:13 AM
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Actually I attended an Ivy League school so he does represent me. As for the rest of your point I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:28 AM
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You should add another row: Traditional: Has a private instagram account, posts pictures of herself with friends and family rarely. Modern: Has a public instagram account, posts racy photos of herself in an attempt to gain followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:08 PM
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He's not wrong. I really like Hawley, he has a bright future ahead of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:49 PM
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That's what women already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:11 AM
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Take notes from the seminar and write up a post here to share your take with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:39 AM
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considering the average woman is significantly overweight and 5'4", maybe like 3 or 4 simultaneously if I'm unarmed. Five is pushing it and I might actually lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:39 AM
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That's not precisely what that word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:58 AM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:35 AM
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I learned it in undergrad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:22 AM
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....... You have quite the first world problems. Moist is a perfectly normal word to use. I like making sure my cakes are moist. As for panties, I don't wear them, but I'm fairly certain that's the terminology used to refer to women's undergarments, and I know for a fact women refer to their undergarments as panties. I'm curious, what do you think about the word nulliparous?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:18 AM
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100% true. Then they accuse you of being hostile when you type in a manner that is completely devoid of emotion. They are so used to mixing emotions into everything that seeing something unemotional is alien to them, and so they react with hostility and shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:10 AM
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adjective (of a young woman) suitable for marriage, especially in regard to age or physical development; marriageable. (of a young person, usually a woman) sexually developed and attractive: the nubile girls in their bikinis. ? What's so wrong with the word?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:08 AM
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I disagree. An escort that has slept with X men is different than woman who slept with X men off of tinder in that the sex the escort had was emotionless, unfulfilling, and detached from herself. That's not true for the tinder woman. They're both bad. I don't think the escort is somehow better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:02 AM
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Joe is correct. Michael Knowles and Matt Walsh, on their podcasts, recently deconstructed the whole paternity leave arguments. Men don't need to take 6 months off. Their bodies have not undergone the trauma that the female body does during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:49 AM
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Women are delusional about a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:25 AM
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Men of Reddit, when you say women have it better/easy do you really mean all women? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:07 AM
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We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:41 AM
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This is an incredibly overused and trite expression, but maybe it can work against hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:12 AM
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The GOP has been and is full of social conservatives. You're the odd one out, not us. And for the record, I am socially, fiscally, and politically conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:34 AM
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Conservative has never meant to simply let the other side walk all over you and sit back and do nothing about it. That is libertarianism which has caused the Republican party to simply lose, lose, and lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:18 AM
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Yeah, no. You got my politics completely wrong. I'm a lot younger than you probably realize, and I'm not white.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:17 AM
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I read books too. I have Bernie Sander's "Our revolution book" on my bookshelf. I also have Hillary Clinton's "what happened." I have a book written by a feminist who compiled data about the women's marches. I also have the books "ship of fools" by tucker carlson, and "adios america" by ann coulter. I also have Andrew Yang's "The war on normal people." I read all kinds of books, including those of viewpoints I tend not to agree with. Can you say the same? I'm not going to pretend you and I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:16 AM
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What did I say that was racist? Is it not true that people rioted in support of BLM and burned down buildings in the "summer of love" protests? Is it not true that a Wendy's came burning down in the Atlanta area? Is it not true that people aimed lasers into the eyes of federal officers protecting a federal courthouse? Is it not true that some rebels set up the "Capital Hill Autonomous Zone," or CHAZ for short in the Seattle area? All of what I said is true. I do not support what those people do,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:10 AM
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You really should watch it when you get home, maybe you'll learn something. You strike me as the type of guy that posts on twitter publicly about how you oppose Trump and everything he stood for and relish all the compliments you get from democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:44 PM
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I am pro-choice, and pro-sex ed Wow, what a shocker. You even included "pro sex-ed" as a dig against me, because I must be a bible-thumper that only believes in abstinence. I am for the government using its power to close the border and improve border security, get to the bottom of voter irregularities, to fight critical race theory in our public schools, and to stop woke ideology from taking over. Yes, I am for government used to advance an agenda that is conservative, i.e. conserves the nation…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/hULbCV9AZIM?t=381 Watch until the 9 minute mark. He's talking about people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:34 PM
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Because I'm actually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:29 PM
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Yeah, no. It's people like you that have ruined the party and our ideals. We lost on gay marriage. We lost on transgenderism. We lost on the border. We keep losing because you people go to GOP fundraisers and lecture to everyone "you must abandon your principles and simply accept the social change pushed by progressives! It's for the good of the Republican party!" Next you're going to be telling me that you're pro abortion, and you think gun rights should be restricted, and that these positions …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:28 PM
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I’m a registered republican . But even I posted in support of BLM and Pride Month Pick one. You can't call yourself a conservative and be in support of an organization that burned down city centers in the "summer of love" protests, or be in support of an organization that is pushing transsexual ideology and pornography in children's public school classrooms all across the country. I do not want court jester conservatives ruining the party even more. Please consider leaving. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:19 PM
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Here's what really happened. She found him attractive and hooked up with him. He probably didn't like her that much, so when she asked for a relationship, he said no. She got pissy and gossiped to her girlfriends and spread rumors about how he was an incel/virgin etc, and is posting this confession as a way to deflect blame and make him look like the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:18 PM
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Unconstitutional. Unenforceable. Against the spirit of American Freedom. Tyranny. Must be protested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:29 AM
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shouldn't you be milking your cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:28 AM
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Bless you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:16 AM
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Right. Exactly. Most women don't have nerves of steel. Most women don't want to be alone. Hence they break the promise. Hence $100 you'll fold.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:53 AM
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Make Grooming Great Again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:24 AM
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What i mean is, she got a long term boyfriend, fell in love, and had sex with him before marriage. She broke her own promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:24 AM
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Doesn't matter what your husband wants. I'm saying you should be prepared to doll up, use skincare products, wear good clothing, be presentable, look nice and look sexy to elicit desire from your partner in a marriage. Getting married is not an excuse for the man or the wife to gain 100 pounds and be slobs for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:54 AM
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There was a post by a woman who complained about how stressed she was and she ended up deleting her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:52 AM
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CMV If you're married and the concept of skincare and makeup and dressing nice and being sexually desired by your partner brings you stress, you are not wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:38 AM
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$100 it won't happen. I remember years ago there was a poster here and on RPW who proudly stated she was waiting for marriage. Then she got a boyfriend and gave it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:23 AM
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I'm not sure the point of this post. Yes, good men expect a lot. Women expect a lot. This is nothing new. If you want to stop dressing nice and wearing make up, go ahead, but then you run the risk of him being less interested in you, and in the worst case, cheating on you. Relationships are not 50/50. They are 100-100. Each partner needs to put in 100% effort for it to survive. If you're not committed to putting in 100% effort, then that is a "you" problem, and it is foolish to distill that into…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:40 AM
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First, 2021 is way too recent to form a conclusive determination of how Trump would rank historically. We are still living with the effects of the Clinton administration. It is simply too recent. Second, there is still a chance he runs in 2024 and wins in which case it makes that gallup poll look even more stupid, considering the "trump era" would not be over in that case. Third, most US adults are complete and total idiots, and that has been true long before Trump and will continue to be true l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:45 AM
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Those "historians" are left wing hacks and you know that. All of these "historians" and "experts" and talking heads and pundits are all part of the ruling class that have always hated and will always hate Trump. They are not unbiased arbiters of truth. They have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:00 AM
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Is this your blog or a blog of someone else you found?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:21 PM
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This is a silly comment. Yes, the character isn't real, but she is a character. She is representative of a woman with real human emotions, i.e. the story tells how a woman could have interacted with Leo and how she could have fallen in love with Leo. The movie is fiction, but it is in the realm of possibility. It is possible for a woman to have fallen in love with a man that was not her fiancee while aboard the Titanic. It's not fiction on the realm of Avatar by James Cameron where people meet a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:20 AM
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You know this how? Inference. It is obvious in the storyline that she fell in love with him. If you cut out the scene where she sleeps with him, she still falls in love with him. Ergo, the torch still burns, but arguably less bright because she never shared a physical connection with him. There's something unique about everyone's first time, unless that person truly is emotionally detached from the experience, which is true for only a small minority of people, and even less so for women because,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:17 AM
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yes but which is the least worst and most worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:27 PM
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Time for a thought experiment. Rank from worst to best. a woman stripping her way to pay for college A woman being a camwhore/onlyfans creator, posting naked pictures/videos of herself and pornographic content online, to pay for college. A woman getting a "sugar daddy" to pay for college. No. 1 is the "traditional" way of how working girls earn money. They get barely naked, to topless, to fully naked (allegedly) for paying men in private rooms in buildings. Nothing of what they do is posted onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:19 PM
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I don't know you or your husband so I can't speak to you specifically. All I know is Kate Winslet's character demonstrates a possible thought process that inhabits woman's minds (with regards to a former lover, especially with regards to the man she had her first time with) at the very least, and likely is present in a lot of women nowadays. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad. If you feel bad that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:11 PM
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If she hadn't slept with him, she would still have carried a torch for him for the rest of her life, but that torch would not have burned as bright. The act of him taking her cemented in her mind just how special Leo was, and made him that much more impressionable to her. And you seem to be suggesting that someone who loses someone they loved deeply because they died (no ones fault) is somehow a bad person not capable of being a good partner because a part of them still loves their lost beau. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:09 PM
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It's not guaranteed to be 100% effective, but it helps protect you against the woman having feelings for another man. Kate Winslet's character would have been less satisfied with Billy Zane's character had she never met Leo's character, but she wouldn't have had feelings for Leo throughout her marriage while married to Billy Zane, assuming she got off the boat with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:05 PM
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Petition to have a vote so the userbase can decide when the daily thread resets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:08 AM
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True, but that doesn't disprove any of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:07 AM
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Too tired to do a full blown analysis, also I haven't read or watched that crap. It's still feminist drivel, it's just that it includes bdsm stuff. It's about power fantasies. Women don't actually want to be in control. They want a strong man to control their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:54 AM
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It was undoubtedly feminist, and it was marketed toward women. They go hand in hand. The reason why it was so successful with women is because of how feminist it was. The impact of him being her first man stuck with her for the next 70 years, lasting through her adult life and while she was married. Remember, at the end of the film, she's dying, and she's recounting this experience from 70 years ago. Since then she got married, had kids, had grandkids, but Jack Dawson (Leo's character) was alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:17 AM
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I finally watched the film Titantic from start to finish for the first time ever. I now understand why it was so popular and grossed over 2 billion. It was a very well made movie and I now understand why Cameron is regarded as a great director. It was a good movie. Now, how this relates to PPD: it was clearly a feminist movie. The female lead was suicidal at the beginning, but found her voice as the film went on. She practiced swinging an axe two times on a bookcase, with the two swings being wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:58 AM
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Your standards can be whatever you make them. At the end of the day it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:47 AM
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FDS podcast I don't normally unironically use emojis, but in this particular case, it is completely appropriate. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:41 AM
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Telling that you didn't directly answer either question. That said, I'm not telling you what to do. I'm just stating my belief that if women deliberately try to be attractive, their experiences will be better, generally speaking. Your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:40 AM
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They would lose their shit and genuinely believe they are victims of hostile sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:12 AM
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I agree, men should try to be attractive too. I'm glad we're in agreement. You focus on what I wrote and I'll focus on what you wrote. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:04 AM
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Have you ever thought maybe your husband would find you prettier when you do try? Have you ever randomly, completely on a whim, dressed sexy with the intent of getting a (positive) reaction out of your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:03 AM
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I'm not offended at all. What gave you that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:02 AM
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You don't like GUESS? Ok fine, Honey Birdette.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:48 AM
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CMV Women should aspire to be hot. Lose weight, put on makeup, wear high heels, wear a dress instead of jeans. According to recent research by /u/poppy_blu if the woman is hotter than the man in a relationship, then the couple is happier. Ladies, stop dressing like slobs. Dress hot. Put on foundation, eyeliner, blush, lipstick. Don't settle for $12 jeans from Costco. Buy a trendy skirt and top pair, one that shows off your midriff preferably. Don't wear normal or "functional" undies. Wear some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:40 AM
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The feminist lobby today routinely preaches HAES, healthy at any size, glorifying obesity. There are obese female lingerie models, which would be funny if it wasn't so sad. You cannot be healthy at any size, and fat women wearing lingerie is not attractive. Size 2 victoria's secret models wearing lingerie is extremely attractive. "Normal" hot women (size 00 to size 8 and in between) wearing "normal" underwear (solid colors, no lace, no special designs), is much more realistic for most women, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:52 AM
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So what this tells me is that women should aspire to be hot. Lose weight, put on makeup, wear high heels, wear a dress instead of jeans. Because, by your own admission, if the woman is hotter than the man, then the couple is happier. I'm glad we're in total agreement poppy. Ladies, stop dressing like slobs. Dress hot. Put on foundation, eyeliner, blush, lipstick. Don't settle for $12 jeans from Costco. Buy a trendy skirt and top pair, one that shows off your midriff preferably. Don't wear normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:23 AM
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Rape is binary. It either happened or not. 95% of these drunk campus flings are not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:08 AM
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What women do (are too ignorant to) not understand about their own sexuality/behavior is that it isn't about an absolute metric, but about relative comparison. 6 feet is the standard for height because it is the top 14% of male height. If this FDS idiot got her way and all the short men went bye-bye, and all of a sudden male height ranged strictly between 6 feet and the max height out there, women would still be wanting 6'1", or 6'2", or whatever, just so that she could have a man that wasn't ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:01 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:37 AM
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My view of marriage is not that it is entirely transactional, it is partially transactional and it involves give and take, and part of that give and take means sometimes the wife having sex even if she's not particularly in the mood might be beneficial for the marriage as a whole, even if it mildly inconveniences her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:41 AM
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You can decide whatever you want. My point with the comment is that in the thread that's currently up asking women if they ever have sex when they're not in the mood, there seems to be some sort of moral outrage about the fact that women perform duty sex in their marrage. yes, that's called marriage. Men and women do things in a marriage for their partner when they are not particularly inclined to do so, because it is a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:43 AM
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CMV Duty sex is a part of the wife's duty. Husbands are expected to put food on the table, to put a roof over their family's head. Sometimes he's not in the mood to put up with his wife's stupid emotional temper tantrum but he's expected to be her "rock." The requirements for husband today are the 3 6's, emotional "rock," provider, manly-man that's sexually attractive but also soft kind-hearted tender loving man, excellent with kids but wait no he's not pressuring you to have kids or anything, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:08 AM
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Most men would say something to placate her feelings. I would tell her what I honestly think. Though if she and I were in a relationship and we communicate well enough, I'd expect her to be open with me about what she enjoys me wearing and what she dislikes me wearing, and I would do the same to her. So there should be relatively little ambiguity or risk posed when she tries on something new or I try on something new. In other words, she should have an idea of what I consider appropriate and ina…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:24 AM
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Leftover women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:26 AM
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This is why you'll end up as 剩女 ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:09 AM
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I have no idea what I'm looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:53 PM
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No. And as a rule of thumb I never wish her, or my father for their birthdays, nor do I ever celebrate mother's day or father's day. Those holidays were rendered null and void the moment I left for college. My parents forfeited their right to have me acknowledge these holidays/celebrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:04 PM
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Many men, including myself, say that women need to shut up and stop talking because 95% of what comes out of their mouths is useless drivel. The truth is, we'd much prefer a woman that talks, but when they talk, it not be useless drivel. That's kind of rare. So it's easier for us to just say "I wish women would not talk so much" but at the same time in our heads think "I wish I could have more intelligent conversations with her." We do a bad job of communicating this in person because, well, in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:03 PM
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I believe sex dolls are still too far from going mainstream. But the minute that there is a viable sex robot with the same feel as human skin and flesh, but with an AI chip in the back of their head and can replicate human behavior, but can also be programmed to get rid of women's negative effects (talking too much, acting jealous, PMSing, getting mad at you because you cheated on her in her dream, etc), and then can also be tailored made to your specific height, weight, eye shape, eye color, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:00 PM
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That's not a good comparison. Video games are an activity one engages in. Being fat is simply being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:47 PM
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What is the female equivalent of an adult man who plays video games? Keep in mind that there are a cohort of women that view men who play video games with derision, while there is another that doesn't. What kind of female equivalent is there to this? Is there a female-dominated hobby/sport/activity that is mocked/ridiculed by some men and ignored by other men the way video games are by women? I can't think of any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:35 PM
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I don't think they care about the distinction though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:26 PM
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Average 18 year old, but neither are particularly good options, and age alone is not a good way to judge partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:25 PM
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Don't worry, I'm not looking for your help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:08 PM
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In a grocery aisle, you'll usually find cookies and ______ sold together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:07 PM
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I'm not complaining, I'm merely stating an observation. In today's culture you cannot comment about Black culture/politics/events/social issues/etc unless you are Black yourself because if you comment while not being Black, you get called a racist. Hell, sometimes you're called a racist even if you are Black. Larry Elder, a Black man, was running for governor of California and was called "the Black face of White Supremacy." The silver lining to all of this is that the word racist has lost all me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:17 AM
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Ah so we don't agree, how shocking. My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined. Funny how you agree with all the requirements I put upon men, and disagree with one out of the only two requirements I posit for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:11 AM
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I literally spent 3 years living in majority black areas, 2 years in harlem, talking to and interacting with black people on a daily basis, but yes let's talk about how I "actually don't know [anything] about black people."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:09 AM
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Agreed, and we can also agree that men should be the breadwinners, provide for their family, not cheat on their wife, and partake in raising their children, and in exchange for this women should stay pure until marriage and exercise to maintain a slim and healthy figure, right? We definitely agree on this? Why do I have the feeling that women go apeshit at this....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:02 AM
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Maybe he just has standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:51 AM
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Yeah that was implied. His view was that first dates were "serious" events where you're supposed to put your best foot forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:43 AM
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Many years ago, pre redpill discovery, I remember reading a comment on askmen about men and date expectations. One man bravely commented that if the woman he went on a first date with didn't wear a dress and heels then in his mind it's like she wasn't even trying. I remember at the time I smirked, finding his comment funny. He got mixed responses, some men supporting him, a lot of women annoyed. I think of that comment fondly. That man was a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:26 AM
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I can imagine her calling me another word, starting with "c" and ending with "r," another word I've been called on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:10 AM
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Oh, I definitely think huffpo is feminism, because that's what feminists say is feminism. This old and tired "that isn't real feminism" excuse won't work with me. I have literally attended feminist conferences at university. I am not ignorant of these issues. Feminists take huffpo, the atlantic, jezebel, Jessica Valenti, etc as "real" feminism, so there's nothing incorrect with me accepting their premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:09 AM
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The point is feminists/women loudly proclaim from the rooftops that they are strong and independent capable of making their own decisions, but everyone knows that 18 year olds--which legally are adults--that are in relationships with older men are not held responsible for their actions, and instead all of the blame is shifted on the man. You can't say women are independent but at the same say they aren't responsible for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:00 AM
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Not taking the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:50 AM
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You’re not even revealing what is provoking these reactions in people. Being one nanometer to the right of left-wing wokesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:48 AM
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But often people who say things like this aren’t totally innocent victims of the reactions they get. There it is. Again I'm a racist, this time for merely opining on the fact that I'd be called racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:44 AM
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Women: We are strong! We are independent! We can decide for ourselves who to date! Society: Oh ok so if an 18 year old woman decides to date a 30 year old guy then there's no problem because she's strong and independent right Women: You're a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:39 AM
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Do You Think That Many Men Women Nowadays Don't Accept Responsibility For Their Actions & Blame Women Men For Everything, Even When Guys Girls Are At Fault? I 100% agree with the premise of the above, revised question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:03 AM
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Commenting here because I don't really have anything to say in response to the OP. I lived in majority African-American neighborhoods for over 3 years. 2 of those years were in Harlem. I would genuinely like to talk about race, specifically about African Americans, without being called a racist. I don't think I can have that kind of conversation. The minute you say something that is mildly critical of Black people, culture, schooling, parenting, etc you are tarred and feathered as a racist. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:02 AM
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Wrong. Literally the opposite of what you said. Alpha is synonymous with aggression, unchecked aggression sometimes. Betas and omegas by definition do not have it in them to be physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:31 AM
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More men have never had casual sex compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:09 AM
0

What is FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:58 AM
5

yaas kwean you go gurl never settl!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:55 AM
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I disagree. Gabby was the one who hit him. The police asked him if he wanted to press charges on Gabby, and the police said they would have arrested Gabby had he chosen to press charges. Gabby busted out the crocodile tears. Crocodile tears + pretty white girl = no charges pressed imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:29 AM
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Not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:28 AM
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Right. You don't understand what alpha means. alpha = / = good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:59 AM
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Those men were looking for sex, and probably only sex. A man who is interested in a long-term relationship would not mind waiting and would not reject you for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:42 AM
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The video was first shared on this subreddit many years back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:27 AM
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Not him. The guy in the video I'm thinking about was younger, slimmer, and definitely not as famous. He never made it to comedy central, at least not at that time. It was more of an indie thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:11 AM
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I need some help from this community. A long time ago-- at least 3 years ago, but likely even earlier than that--I watched a vide on youtube of a man doing stand up comedy. The man was not super famous, not on the same level as Leno, or a late night host. It was stand up at a club in front of an audience of maybe 30 or so people. The man was white and tall. The gist of his stand up was something along these lines. He said "you ever had a bad day? Just come home and tell your wife you had a bad d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:51 AM
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How am I making him look like the good guy? They are both bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:39 AM
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The body cam footage showed that they were both toxic. alpha doesn't just mean sexually attractive. It also means violent, prone to having outbursts, not thinking through things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:38 AM
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My money is on that they had a fight, it got out of hand, he smacked her hard, and she died. I don't think this was premeditated. I think it was a toxic relationship with gabby being a solid 9 or even a 10 in terms of craziness, and the man having too much of an alpha personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:20 AM
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Women care so much about the size of our genitalia, but when we tell them that they should lay off the ice cream and lose 10 pounds it's like we just murdered a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:45 AM
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You're literally raping me with this comment. I've never felt so violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:35 AM
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Can someone please define what a pick me girl is? I've seen the term thrown around but I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:40 PM
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Neither is good. It's myopic for you to think it's good if there are more women than men simply because men like women competing over them, or that it would be good if there were more men than women because women would enjoy men competing for them. They are both bad for society. Period. It alters the way the gender dynamics play out. Men shouldn't physically fight each other for a chance to bed a woman. Women shouldn't immediately sleep with a man in order to hope that he chooses her over anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:40 AM
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Your welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:08 AM
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...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:02 AM
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I guess. But that wasn't what I was implying. You wrote "fine" implying that you think it's fine if there were more women than men. It's not fine. I showed you an example of why it's not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:01 AM
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After WWI the population decline by percentage was so huge that many European women in the 18-30 bracket legitimately could not find male counterparts. There are stories of women gathering with other women in the cities hoping to meet men. There are tales of French women, upon meeting a male soldier, would sleep with him upon first meeting him, just for the hopes that he'd stick around and literally pick her. They were playing a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:01 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pr0a95/if_you_want_to_date_9s_and_10s_daygame_is_the_way/hdf8mrv/ I have a new theory as to why women hate being referred to as a number. Women are bad at math. We all know that fact. Thus, when seeing themselves referred to as a number, rather than something else, it gives them undue stress, because they think math is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:28 AM
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The man, whose name has not been released, was not taken into custody. “None of the allegations involved criminal behavior,” Sutton said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:23 AM
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Ding ding ding we have a winner. She also took acting lessons and there was a theory (never definitely proven) that her running for congress was meant to be a launch for an acting career. Allegedly, the primary win was unexpected, and they didn't actually plan on her going to congress. It was supposed to be a tale where she tried but failed to smash the glass ceiling which indicates how racist America is and how "we need to do so much more." It's part of the reason she goes on instagram live and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:32 AM
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Think about how stupid the average person is. Then realize that half of the people out there are stupider than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:27 AM
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submission is innate to womens sexuality fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:57 AM
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I think you misunderstand my comment. Taking responsibility is not the same as feeling remorse or guilt. Think long and hard about all the possible implications of my comment. How it relates to women in the workplace, in relationships, how they interact with others in society, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:25 AM
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My utopia would be a world where women were capable of taking responsibility for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:12 AM
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You're never going to get a perfect answer. Different men will want different things. There is variance among members in the RP community because this isn't a focus of the philosophy. The whole purpose of RP is to see the world as it is, and once you've done, act in accordance with your own goals and desires. The focus is never on reforming the world to fit your worldview, or to pine about a fantasy world that doesn't exist. In short you shouldn't be confused on "our dream," you should just igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:08 AM
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I'm all for due process but when it's "he said she said" for the same he and 70 different she's I feel like like they should do some investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:35 AM
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Women demanded commitment from men, then men demanded chastity from women. That's the premise of marriage, and it's not negotiable. Why? Because there is no way for a man to know his woman past, and there is no way for a woman to know if a man is going to stick around after sex (and, in ancient times, getting her pregnant) so the foundational stone of marriage was set on another social contract, public trust. Exactly. This is why I will live and die by #NoHymenNoDiamond. It's the hill I am willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:10 AM
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They can get vaccinated to protect themselves. When you get vaccinated, you immunize yourself. You immunize yourself from a virus to protect yourself from its deleterious effects. If you are in an age bracket (19) where the deleterious effects are nonexistent, there's no reason to immunize yourself, ESPECIALLY if the vaccine carries heart complications as side effect for your age group. For older people, especially those with other health issues, there haven't been reports of heart inflammations…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:38 AM
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We live in an upside down society. Here we see a man who spends time with his child confused and scared about expressing love for the mother of his child. He has sex with her and fathers a child before marriage. Backwards. Then he does the responsible thing and moves closer to them and spends time parenting his son and is legitimately confused about being a loving boyfriend, and he should be a loving husband not a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:29 AM
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It's on the CDC website: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/vaccines/safety/myocarditis.html Also the CDC is extremely pro-vaccine so they are very biased, and at the end they recommend you still get vaccinated. I disagree with them on that point. Based on what I've seen the virus is statistically less likely to result in complications for your age group, assuming you are otherwise healthy (not obese, no diabetes, etc). This teen died after getting the vaccine: https://fox8.com/news/teen-…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:16 AM
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At your age you have higher risk of complications from the vaccine, namely pericarditis or myocarditis--heart inflammation--than from the virus itself. It is extremely unlikely at your age you get any life-threatening complications from the virus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:05 AM
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I would disagree with you about your comment regarding T20 schools. True for some girls, definitely not all, not most I interacted with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:54 AM
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Can't or won't say your job (or industry, which is more generic)? I understand if you don't want to share, but when you say you can't share, that seems weird. What do you mean by T20?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:51 AM
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How would you double it in 3 weeks, and why is it that no one else knows how to do that or is capable of doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:45 AM
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Are you a woman or a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:44 AM
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What industry do you work in if you don't me asking? And if you could, elaborate on why you find some of those jobs interest. Plenty of women report finding surgeons/doctors impressive. Tech/software engineering is seen as "impressive" mainly because they know those people make good money, or at least that's the impression I get. Most women I've encountered don't mention PE, VC, or HF jobs (quant or non-quant), it's less commonly known/understood from what I've observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:44 AM
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It's not my account. I don't know, could be plenty of reasons. Maybe it's his emergency fund. Maybe he just won the lottery. Maybe he lost money in the stock market and is scared of it. It could be fake, someone else commented this. But there is a video accompanying this screenshot, it doesn't seem fake to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:42 AM
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What is an incredibly huge amount of money to you? How would knowledge of how the money is obtained change your view? Or, more specifically, how would you go about finding this info, in order to change your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:20 AM
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With 95k only he's not in an income/wealth bracket to sustainably go ATVing in Dubai or zip lining in Costa Rica. It would be more for show. That said I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:19 AM
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Really? No one on the original thread claimed the screenshot was fake. They just talked about how the behavior was cringe. I've never banked with WF so I don't know. It looks reasonable to me. Maybe the app recently changed, or his user options for graphics are different than yours? Or you view yours through a web browser app and he doesn't or vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:14 AM
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Are you unimpressed because it's not in the proper account type, or because of the number? I don't know any more details, you may be able to find more details on the original reddit post, which you should be able to easily find right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:08 AM
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What I'm asking is if you remove the social context in which it's presented, and consider the number in a vacuum by itself, is that impressive, or is it still not impressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:02 AM
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Is this screeengrab of a man's wells fargo bank account impressive or not? Would especially like to hear women's opinions since the question was posed toward women. The context is that a man is at a bar trying to attract women with his bank account balance. I think it's tasteless, but that aside, are you impressed or not. I'm on the fence. His balances total 94.5k. Statistically speaking, this should be impressive. Most Americans can't withstand a $400 out of pocket unplanned expense. Most Ameri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:51 AM
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The woman is posting it for attention. That's usually why they post things online in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:09 AM
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I think if you view a public park/hike first date as "boring as F" it speaks a lot about your personality, or lack thereof. Two intelligent adults with vibrant personalities should have no problem carrying a conversation in that kind of environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:11 AM
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assault is a violent, physical attack. I'm pretty sure telling your partner what to wear is not assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:02 AM
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I don't know. Maybe the guy is some islamist fundamentalist who mandates she wears a burqa. Maybe he was raised traditional and doesn't plan or keep track, but notices if she's showing too much skin. Maybe he's a fashion designer and constantly gives her new pieces he's designed. Maybe he's a nerd and he keeps a spreadsheet to track what she wears. You didn't answer my question though, do you think it's abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:34 AM
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I left it deliberately vague/open-ended. How would your response vary depending on specifics?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:21 AM
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He should go for a first date that doesn't require money, e.g. walking/hiking in a public park or something. I don't understand why most men don't do this. It will get rid of the golddiggers quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:08 AM
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Is it abusive for a husband to tell his wife what to wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:01 AM
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They tend to be younger, they wear dresses/skirts, tights, and heels. In other words they are women that dress like women instead of dressing like slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:45 AM
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I'll do it for you free of charge. You're unlovable, none of the men in you're life ever loved you. You were a fleshlight to them. Do you understand now why your comment is stupid and seen as attention-whoring?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:28 AM
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Yaas kween you go gurl! Show him who's boss!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:26 AM
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I'm literally off the chart. I'm so proud of myself https://imgur.com/a/KMJ7JpZ
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:25 AM
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heresy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:15 AM
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Women are bad at math.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:31 AM
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Life begins at conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:23 AM
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Women learn oil and water
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:18 AM
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Who cares how it affects the dating market. It's a good thing men are dropping out. College is a scam. It's a place where left-wing radicals indoctrinate the youth to hate America, embrace communism, idolize Blacks and denigrate Whites, and to embrace woke politics. It's a waste of time and money unless you are pursuing a highly specialized field that requires a 4 year degree from an accredited university and/or a masters/PhD program. Most people, men and women, don't do that. The men have reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:12 AM
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There is no "pro-choice." There is pro-life, and pro-murder. I'm very happy that Republicans are finally pushing back against the leftist orthodoxy that has been controlling, dominating, and influencing the culture in the U.S. for the past 100 years. Women should not kill their unborn children because they want to shirk the responsibilities of motherhood. If women are concerned about getting pregnant, there are a variety of birth control options to choose from, abstinence being the only guarante…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:29 AM
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I want to know how to be fair in a relationship in which I won't be having kids or doing any traditionally womanly duties. Marry another woman, please don't bring this misfortune to a man, we already have enough problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:28 AM
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Men did build society. The water that comes out of the faucet? That was put in place by men, who studied and developed plumbing, calculated the required water pressure necessary for you to have running water at the flip of a switch, and then made that a reality. The light switch you press to turn on the lights? That was put there by men. It was men who invented electricity. The toilet bowl in your home that makes your literal shit disappear by depressing a button for one second? That was put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:27 AM
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Conciliatory? Of course not. I'm never going to win you over on anything, why bother trying. But I thought the expectation of neutrality was not unreasonable. Again, my comment was the following: The active mods were never majority RP, and you're wrong in your prior comment. No real rp men were ever considered as actual mods. The most right-wing mod you have is a RP moderate, not a deep crimson pill. The fact that u\GridReXX became a mod tells me everything I need to know about the leftward shif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:16 AM
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How should I have engaged you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:01 AM
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Nothing. No argument has changed my mind here. I came here first many years ago hoping to have my mind changed. I very, very frequently engaged in debates. Put time and effort in my posts and comments. Tried very hard to have honest debates. I was ridiculed, mocked, and castigated. I left this subreddit after spending a couple of years here. Only very recently, say 5 months ago, I decided to come back because circumstances in my life have changed, and I believe it was prudent for me to try again…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:58 AM
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Fine griddy, I may be wrong about those two things, and I'll even concede that if you're being honest, maybe you're not far-left, but you're definitely on the left. Similarly, you are blue, maybe not far-blue, but definitely blue as the ocean. I stand by my main points. The moderation team is not down-the-middle purple. They never were, they aren't today, and I don't think they ever will be. I wish they would just admit it. For what it's worth I don't have a "hard-on" for billionaires, and addin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:54 AM
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Your interpretation of me, my political views, my "pill" leaning, are in my view wrong, because you and a couple other commenters seem to believe that my definition of TRP is not correct. I disagree, but in fairness, I could have done a better job explaining myself. 1 I believe, and have enough evidence and experience through the years to know that you are not moderate, no matter how hard you try to convince me you are. I never commented on your behavior as a moderator, I commented about your be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:45 AM
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Republican politics does not endorse TRP just as TRP does not endorse republican politics. I don't think I claimed they ever did. All I'm saying is an intersection exists, and that intersection has been known for a while. I believe that the intersection is no accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:41 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:47 AM
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Here's how I'd change your view. I agree with the first half, but disagree with the second. It's not a strawman to justify their entitlement. In my opinion, entitled people in general, not just women, don't really care about justifying it. Yeah on the surface level they may make up some reasons to "justify" things, but most people who are not entitled can see through entitled people and understand they're full of shit. I think the reason women make the argument that men want domestic slaves is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:39 AM
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Every male friend I have are all great cooks who are married to women who don't even know how to turn on a stove. Literally the case with 4 of my male friends I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:29 AM
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Red pill is not solely about sex. That's a big part of it, but it includes a re-evaluation of how one lives their own life, how they see the world, how they view politics. It was an open secret that the people on TRP years ago (again, I don't know what it's like now) who were liberal were a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:11 AM
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I tagged you because I believed that it was appropriate for you to be aware of the fact I was talking about you. I felt that talking about you and not tagging you would be considered rude. It would essentially be gossip. Antagonizing you was not my goal. My post was not a self-righteous neurotic screed. It was a deep criticism at moderation in this forum that has lasted for many years. I have never been on parler, I don't have a therapist, and I never believed in Qanon. I must simply restate tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:07 AM
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I'm not arguing for either. I'm simply discussing a thought experiment how in a marriage a man watching porn can relieve tension and prevent cheating in the worst case. I argue that women don't want to admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:01 AM
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The sexual strategy exclusively is less "conservative" and more alt-right. But things like taking responsibility for yourself, going to the gym and eating healthy, getting a firearm for self-protection, and believing in fundamental differences between men and women are all way more aligned with U.S. republican politics than U.S. democratic politics. The democrats don't believe in personal responsibility, they believe in a nanny state; they don't believe in staying healthy, they push the healthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:00 AM
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I'm not saying it's impossible, I was commenting about the flippancy of your statement. I'm not disagreeing with you, people shouldn't watch degrading porn acts in my opinion, I just don't think that's a practical solution, much like how world peace is impractical. I have no idea where you're getting that I'm an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:58 AM
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You are wrong about my political beliefs being "tangential extremist," and I promise you I'm not bastardizing RP origins because I was there at it's start. You have not changed one iota in the past seven years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:21 AM
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How about world peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:20 AM
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Literally none of the OP applies to me, it's a thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:20 AM
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I agree it's pathetic. Maybe they shouldn't be classified as benefits. Maybe they are also negatives, but not as negative. That's the argument I'm making. Cheating on your partner is worse than watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:19 AM
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I agree watching porn in general is bad. The question is it worse than the alternatives (pent up frustration, cheating). I don't think it is. I think literary erotica is just as bad if you reverse the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:18 AM
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Men typically would want to masturbate to pornography, rather than with no aid whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:17 AM
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Those are not the only things in RP. Highly correlated does not imply every single thing between them is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:16 AM
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You literally proved my entire point, except you were too cowardly to answer "no" and just deflected with "what does that have to do with hetero dating dynamics." Red pill and strong conservative values are highly correlated. Most people that were around, at least in the early iterations of RP (god knows what it has become now, I don't go there) were almost guaranteed to be U.S. republican, or the equivalent for whatever is in their country. I chose political examples because they were at the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:27 AM
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The assumption in this post is that the man will have sex with the woman when she is willing. I agree a man not having sex with his wife when she is willing could be indicative of a different problem, which I am sympathetic to, but is unrelated to this specific post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:47 AM
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Would you wholeheartedly embrace a moderator who genuinely, truly believes that BLM is a marxist black supremacist domestic terrorist group? Would you allow a moderator who genuinely believes giving women the right to vote was a mistake? Would you allow a moderator who thinks voting rights should be restricted across the board en masse? Would you genuinely be accepting of adding a moderator who believes LGBT culture has gone too far in the U.S.? Would you genuinely accept a moderator who thinks …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:34 AM
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Women have always argued that it reflects poorly on men, that's not new. In fact, generally speaking, women always blame men for everything, that's like saying water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:29 AM
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Obviously every relationship is different, and ultimately everything comes down to an implicit (or explicit, if it needs to be) agreement between both counterparties. My examples reflect the reality of men "average blokes" as I like to call them. Men who have no knowledge of "pill" issues, gender wars, etc. The situations I presented are not uncommon. Again I'm not condoning any of it, but I am making an argument that in these scenarios (as an example) porn can benefit women because it removes p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:28 AM
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I know all of those names fiat_lux was a moderate dakru is an MRA, is a self-described centrist in terms of "pill" views but actually leans blue very slightly. hyperrreal was always down the middle. alreadyredschool did not start the subreddit, I don't recall him being a mod, and he was "normal" red pill, not far-right red pill. drok was also a moderate. My issue with Griddy is that she always has been, is today, and forever will be far left/blue and continue to purport that she is much more mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:25 AM
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Yes, it's depressing--for the man. Perhaps if the wife was slimmer and younger she could satisfy him better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:23 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/nwyxg1/women_have_no_problem_stating_the_negative/h1cnb4g/ TL;DR your comment is whataboutism and doesn't address my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:22 AM
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I agree a lot of men do this. Women seem to have a problem with it. I'm arguing they shouldn't, because the alternatives are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:22 AM
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Good question. Probably not. But they want it in the relationship. The cat's out of the bag. Now, as a woman, what do you do? Do you morally degrade yourself, or do you say "honey I respect my body, I don't do those kinds of things, go watch porn and keep yourself happy." I think the latter is quite sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:21 AM
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I never said porn is a requirement. I'm posing a hypothetical--which I venture occurs in many relationships--that a man would turn to porn after being rejected by his gf/wife. I think it's not a stretch to say that masturbating to porn is more pleasureable than masturbating without it. Some partygoers drink. Others drink and do hard drugs, and those who do claim the drugs make their party going experience more rich. I'm not condoning it. In fact, I think it's bad to do hard drugs, just as it's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:20 AM
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So then why do women get mad when a man wants to recreationally view porn? Especially in the context of the post where his needs are not being met?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:18 AM
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but why do guys even watch porn in a relationship? Because they are sexually unsatisfied with their partner. If they are satisfied, there would be no need for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:18 AM
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That is a problem, I acknowledge it's a problem in my intro where I explain that I agree with many of the negatives, and you, like many women, are circling back to the negatives without addressing any of the positives. I agree with your statement. It does nothing to change my view and is an invalid counterargument to my post because it fails to address any of my points. In short, this comment is whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:17 AM
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I am 100% confident it is possible for a man to not be addicted to sex and still feel sexually unsatisfied in a relationship and use porn as a coping mechanicsm. You can't just blame men turning to porn because they're addicts. Plenty of men drink alcohol without becoming alcoholics. Women too. Vices are not addictions simply because they are a vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:16 AM
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How am I "justifying" a porn "addiction?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:15 AM
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Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:31 PM
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Agreed. This is the case for my best friend, and he is way more satisfied with his life than men men I know who slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:04 PM
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Complete BS. I've been here for years. It was always a blue pilled userbase with a blue leaning mod base that has simply become bluer over time. The active mods were never majority RP, and you're wrong in your prior comment. No real rp men were ever considered as actual mods. The most right-wing mod you have is a RP moderate, not a deep crimson pill. The fact that /u/GridReXX became a mod tells me everything I need to know about the leftward shift on this subreddit. The mods never have and never…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:46 PM
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Yes, he was. He dedicated his life to scientific achievements, and hoped that his purity would be rewarded in the afterlife. I thank him for that. He moved science in his field so far forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:52 PM
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I misread the question, and upon reading it properly, I realize I probably shouldn't have responded. I'm not actually struggling with women, but I don't think my looks help me in any great way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:51 PM
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You're mixing up several different things, and you are limiting your focus due to your own life experiences. First, let me address each of your questions in order, and then explain. But the question is- how many men truly prioritise these "virtues" in real life? Nearly all men value them--to differing degrees--but not all men prioritize them. If I had to guess, a sizeable minority, say 35%. If both girls were interested in the same young man, who do you think he would be most likely to choose fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:48 PM
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Don't know about Newton, but that is incorrect regarding Tesla. Tesla deliberately did not sleep with women. He believed he would be rewarded in heaven for staying pure throughout his life. Tesla was propositioned by many women and turned them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:59 AM
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I don't know the number. My height is not in my favour, and neither is my weight, but my face is my one redeeming feature, to whatever extent. You posted a photo of a guy who looks very similar to me some time ago. The other day a woman on the street chatted me up. I thought she was going to hustle me for a dollar. She made me take out my earbud just so I could hear her say "have a great evening."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:53 AM
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This is the most egotistic comment I've read in a while. Women get ghosted because they willingly have sex with promiscuous men who only want to pump and dump women. You women made the choice to sleep with a man who had no intention of committing to you. That's your own fault. There are plenty of men out there that are in want of a wife that aren't sleeping with women left and right and ghosting them. You women need to accept responsibility for your actions, but of course you never will. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:48 AM
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I am willing to, but there are no non-slut women with conservative values in my socio-economic class with the kind of educational background I have. I agree with you on the youth part. But that age is gone. You can't marry a virgin bride when she's 16 or 18 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:43 AM
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Eh it was produced by a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:42 AM
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I am familiar with divorce draining men of their resources, I don't think I need to watch a video about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:42 AM
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Watched it many years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:39 AM
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What are some good documentaries related to marriage, gender wars, dating, etc (the usual topics discussed here) that you'd recommend to watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:39 AM
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The analogy is bad because it reduces men to keys and women's to locks in an overly simplistic way. The key point though is not incorrect. Women who sleep with a lot of men have no self-control, men who sleep with a lot of women are--at least physically--very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:35 AM
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I agree. I would be willing to marry a woman, taking on the huge financial risks associated with it in the U.S., but only one condition. She must be a virgin. #NoHymenNoDiamond for life. This is a hill I am willing to die on. I'll either remain single my entire life, or get married to a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:33 AM
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Yes because it's unlikely she'd be interested. And what might make you more confident to ask? I'd have to receive clear signals she's interested, and I'd have to be interested as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:07 AM
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Tbf, I'd say pornography is allowing men to get their sexual release without having to risk talking to a girl and potentially being rejected. being falsely accused of rape and haven't their lives destroyed. Only the bottom omega-tier men are scared of rejection. Most men can handle rejection. Men are checking out because the legal system is stacked against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:57 PM
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they're selling images of their bodies; exactly, they are selling their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:55 PM
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They're losers. I've never given a cent to a slut and I never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:02 AM
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I already told you. The issue is that OF made it easier, and so the number went up, and it hit a critical threshold for the dam to break, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:00 AM
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My comparison is that “too many men are consuming porn and women don’t like it” too. You are correct too many men consume porn, you are correct most women don't like it, and I don't understand how it's relevant to your question in the OP. In fact more men are daily porn users than there are women on OnlyFans. Right. In fact porn (which many ppl used to find degenerate and secretly still do) is ubiquitous and men think it’s a default necessity of life. uh-huh I don’t say the moral outrage from me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:42 AM
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That's true, but separate from your original question. Onlyfans democratized porn. Previously, the barrier for entry was being a young attractive female that went to a studio, signed contracts, and filmed in front of a director/producer. Now you just need a webcam and don't even need to leave your home. So more women are able to effectively become pornstars as 1099 contractors and market themselves through OF. Now, your question is badly posed (because it's foundation is not entirely correct) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:25 AM
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I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:11 AM
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The truth is an 18yo girl absolutely can be groomed and likely are if they are in a relationship with older men, but they are too dumb and arrogant to believe they can be groomed so they spout all the feminist BS about how they are amazing independent strong women. I say if you're a man, go ahead and groom them. Once they're past 18 you can't go to jail for having sex with them, and you can just play the feminist card and say she was old enough and mature enough for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:09 AM
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Do her social media followers influence how attracted you are to a woman? For physically attractive, there's a correlation. A hot THOT is likely to have thousands or more social media followers. In terms of attractiveness in terms of RMV, it's the exact opposite. The more of a social media presence she has, the less I'd want to date her. If she looks like she could be a model but has no social media, This is the dream scenario that doesn't exist. If she's model tier, she has an insta, and she's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:06 AM
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Because it shows how slutty women are. Hordes are selling their bodies for only 9.99 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:52 AM
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Ok, well I don't think cooking, cleaning, or sex are demeaning or negative. Therefore I am not a misogynist, by your logic. Woman have a laundry list of things they want from men, yet funilly enough, everyone is dead silent on the whole sexism/High expectation towards men. Wonder why.... That's exactly the point of this post, and why I bring up the male imperative and the female imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:41 PM
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Did you take a look at what those comments said? I think you and I have a very different view on what is unclean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:40 PM
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He should be doing whatever it is the woman needs in order to feel loved. If it is genuinely cooking, cleaning, and sex, then they can split it and find a balance that works for them. If it's flowers, quality time, and taking her out to eat, then he can do that. If it's something else entirely, then he can do that. In a healthy relationship a man and woman should seek to show their love for one another. There are many ways to do this. My argument is that a man wanting a woman to show her love fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:39 PM
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Yes, that's fine with me. I understand exactly what you're saying in the rest of your comment, and I expand upon that in detail in my part 3 post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:36 PM
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He expects her to do certain things in a relationship because Some of these things just need to get done and there has to be some division of labor He feels loved when some of these things are done for him. There is no ill will or malicious intent here. Conversely, there are plenty of things women expect of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:35 PM
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Suppose a man is desiring and expecting certain things--cooking, cleaning, and sex to take the titles example--because he feels loved when his partner does those things for and with him. Suppose this man is a heterosexual male and expects his partner to be female. Is he now a sexist and misogynist? I'd still say no, it's because the intent isn't to make a woman do certain things because she's a woman, and the goal is certainly not to demean her. The goal is to feel loved in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:34 PM
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Well, to some degree, I don't care what they think, but this is a debate forum. I'm trying to defend my position that as a man, I and other men, are not sexist, misogynist, rapitsts, this-ist or that-ist for wanting women that perform traditionally feminine roles in a relationship. We simply have our own preferences. Some women won't like that and that's fine. The point of this post was to showcase how women can't let it go. There is, in my view, a concerted effort by the feminist movement at la…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 PM
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I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:30 PM
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The mods have a filter that took down my part 3 post. I'm not sure what's wrong with it, so it may take some time. If the mods don't approve it within the hour I'll reach to out to them so you can read it. Although my part 3 is the longest post, I really would like women to read it. I think I was unfairly judged from the first post, as I've laid out in this post, and part 3 I think will clarify a number of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:18 PM
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Yes. No left-wing woke bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:11 AM
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There is a negative view of promiscuous women because they make worse long-term relationship prospects. I'm not sure what you're arguing, because I disagree with all of it. I associate women that dress revealingly with sluttiness, which I look down upon. I associate women who dress modestly with chastit--actually I'm lying, I don't, I think they're also sleeping around, which I look down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:59 AM
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I don't think you're mentally ill for being a virgin, I think it's a good think and you shouldn't be shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:53 AM
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The "traditional" role of the woman in a committed relationship is to do stereotypically feminine activities, i.e. cooking and cleaning. If you as a woman want men to be traditional and do their traditional roles, but refuse to do your traditional roles, you are a hypocrite and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:47 AM
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Wrong. They are more crass and disgusting in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:39 AM
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Locker room talk is a bad thing because it hurts women's feelings, and women's feelings are the most important thing in the whole wide world and must absolutely be preserved under any conditions and if you as a man say anything that remotely hurts their feelings you are a misogynist, sexist, rapist, classist, ableist, scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:39 AM
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Each partner damages the pair bonding mechanism for all future partners, and the damage follows an exponential decay. So in other words, a virgin losing her virginity with man #1 will have significant trouble pair bonding with men 2, 3, 4, ... When she goes from man #1 to man #2, that capacity for bonding is lowered even further for 3, 4, 5 ... By the time she's on guy number 7, the amount lowered for number 8 is not as huge because by that point so much damage has been done it's kind of hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:32 AM
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in exchange for... I don’t know? Beer? (Is beer to men as “flowers are to women”?) I think you don't know anything about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:07 AM
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This is also why, I cannot fathom the reasoning behind expecting or wanting a traditional woman. Yeah I'm not surprised you or other women can't, given that I was literally called a rapist in my thread. Let me give you a hint. Men can't fuck your degree. We aren't attracted by the amount of money you make. We like you as a source of comfort in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:06 AM
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I think you and most women severely overestimate the importance of "quality time" for men. Going on dates, partaking in a woman's book club, going on walks, etc, are largely done for the woman in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:32 AM
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I misunderstood where you were leading the conversation. Obviously if a woman was a virgin I would wait and not expect sex immediately. I could envision myself waiting 6 months, beyond that it would really depend on whether I considered the woman a long term prospect. If by 6 months I felt like it wouldn't be a good long term relationship I'd end it. Nevertheless, my point was that it isn't worth for me to go out and do that because statistically, chances are she isn't even a virgin to begin wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:29 AM
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No, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:26 AM
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But part of showing someone love is not letting themselves be a martyr just to make you happy. Love is not letting your husband kill himself at work for 80 hours a week, even if supporting his family is the way he shows love. Same with a wife who works and does all the household work. Very important point. I'll reflect on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:59 AM
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Number 3 should be obvious. It includes holding hands, hugs, kisses, and cuddling, in addition to sex. I edited my post well before you submitted this comment to reflect this. I also acknowledged in many other comments that physical touch isn't just sex. That was never my belief, nor was it my intention to suggest that the expression of physical touch as a love language is only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:57 AM
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Why does this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:55 AM
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Time doesn't mean much to you, are you kidding? She should put in more time cooking and cleaning for you — while you spend 5 mins on flowers — because that will make you feel loved? What about her? Life is way too short for someone to be so unappreciated. I don't make a habit of documenting on a spreadsheet the exact number of hours someone spent doing something for me, and the hours I spent doing something for her. And by the way, no one does this. It is always about the subject feeling of bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:55 AM
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Maybe the quality time is important to the woman, and in return for the quality time of them bonding while eating the potato soup, the woman cooks the potato soup and cleans the dishes? What's the issue with this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:50 AM
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How is a woman with N count of 4, at age 25, a slut? Because it's not just about count, it's also about behavior. She's a slut if that n count of 4 is from a gangbang that happened in one night. Why would they wait for YOU of all people to finally lose their virginity? Well, the idea should be that a woman would wait for any man to lose her virginity because she think's he's a good long-term life partner and that they could have a future together, but in reality, nowadays a woman gets drunk and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:48 AM
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You don’t have an issue with a wife that expects you to earn plenty of money so that you have a great lifestyle without her having to work outside the home, right? I’m an engineer so I expect you to be able to make twice what I make. Otherwise, I’m hiring a maid. No, I don't have an issue. I can't speak for other men, just as you can't speak for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:45 AM
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What does ownership look like to you? Slavery. Women were never literally owned by men unless they were enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:44 AM
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I have stated in other comments that "fairness" in the realm of time and effort were not front of mind when I made this post. My reasoning is that the resulting feeling of being loved matters more. That is, if a woman or man feels loved by her or his partner, that matters more than whatever time or effort went into the thing/action that makes them feel loved. Do you agree, that ultimately it's the subjective feeling of being loved, which can very well vary based on the amount of time and effort …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:43 AM
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It's not so much about the dollar amount. You may very well make enough money for $55k a year to be worth 2 hours of your time a day. What's rich is that in this hypothetical scenario--and again, this is hypothetical, I don't think this kind of situation would play out--not only are you seeking financial compensation for the task--which implies that it's something you can't do out of love, you can only do it for money--but upon receiving the financial compensation, you use it to hire a third par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:39 AM
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Few things. As I've addressed in another comment, my focus was not on time or effort, because to me, and I imagine to many men, time and effort are not what matters. What matters is the end result of feeling loved. A woman making her man feel loved, and a man making his woman feel loved are what matters. Some things will take more time and effort than others, but the goal should be making your partner feel loved, not spending X amount of time on something. I will also add, that there was conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:29 AM
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I address this comment here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:25 AM
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You make a good point, how do you separate quid pro quo's from gifts and true acts of service. I guess that comes down to what people discuss in the confines of their relationship. So, let's suppose there is no quid pro quo. A man seeks a wife that will cook and clean. A woman truly enjoys cooking, and doesn't mind cleaning. They get married. There was no discussion of equivalent exchange. No harm no foul?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:20 AM
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You missed my point, either unwittingly or deliberately in an effort to avoid responding to the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:18 AM
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I think women who want men that are 6 feet tall, make six figures, have a six pack, etc may not be sexist, but are probably cunts, and should do some introspective work to determine why it's so important to her that her husband have those attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:15 AM
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You do realize hardly any man "buys flowers" or takes their partner out for dinner, We must be living on different planets. You seem to have a very warped view of men. As for "fucking" I wrote that simply because it was faster than typing having sex, but now I see how the connotation could be misinterpreted. I didn't mean a negative connotation by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:14 AM
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If your SO can only be made happy with diamond jewelry, or specific sex acts as you described, and the man (or woman) is not able to provide those things, then I don't think the relationship should. You seem to be very angry for some reason and are trying very hard to get me to give some sort of emotionally charged response. I really don't care. If a woman wants those things out of a relationship, good for her, it doesn't concern me. Similarly, it shouldn't concern a woman that a man can want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:13 AM
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Conversely, men aren't obliged to do anything for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:04 AM
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Really? You've never met a woman who feels loved when a man buys her flowers? May I ask, are you living on Jupiter, or Saturn?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:59 AM
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There's plenty more to physical touch, I thought I didn't need to elaborate, but apparently I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:57 AM
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Lmao you literally proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:55 AM
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You do what works for you. We’ll do what works for us. Ok great, so you don't have an issue with a man wanting a wife who cooks and cleans then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:53 AM
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Takes me maybe 6 hours a week in total for cooking. Cleaning is probably 1 hour a week, but that's because a) my home is small b) admittedly, I'm not the best at cleaning. I've been getting better, but there are still improvements I can make
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:49 AM
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I find this so, so rich. When I ask about what would happen if a man wanted you to cook and clean, your response is you must be paid an annual salary of 55k for 2 hours of work 7 days a week, which if scaled up by 40/14 is effectively annual salary of 157k. This implies that he is rich enough to be able to give you a salary of 55k to begin with, and then you yourself admitted you would take that money and hire someone else to do the work, thereby defeating the whole purpose of love languages and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:48 AM
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This is an insightful comment. I never thought of it that way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:43 AM
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Men don't enjoy buying flowers to gift to their wives for themselves. They enjoy it by proxy by knowing that their wives will appreciate it. In other words, they do it out of love. The quality time example, again, was the boyfriend doing it out of love. Him reading the book didn't do anything for him directly. Neither of these things are punishments. They are the cost of the relationship, so to speak. In those situations, if the man wants to be in a relationship, that's what he has to do. I'm ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:40 AM
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The reason why he said men are more likely to get hit by lightning is because in the context of a committed relationship men are more likely to feel loved through sex and other things (acts of service, quality time, etc). Even if a man's love language is receiving gifts, most women don't do that in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:38 AM
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I love this response, but alas, I think women are going to be offended rather than address the point at hand. Which, for the women reading this, is this. Love languages are provided and received differently for men and women. The stereotype of women wanting flowers exists because enough women appreciate flowers as a gift. The stereotype of men receiving gifts significantly less than men is because more often than not, women show their love through sex and cooking for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:38 AM
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I wouldn't call this hypothetical scenario a "love language." That could very well be your dream relationship. Other people can judge it, and, many women, including yourself and other people in this thread, have made judgements about me, many of which are quite fantastic (as in, rooted in fantasy).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:35 AM
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Well for starters I'm pretty sure men did not literally own their wives back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:30 AM
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I'm not dog whistling anything. I'm aware that women get offended when a man says he wants a woman to cook and clean. My entire argument in this CMV is that there is nothing wrong with a man wanting that. Also, no one is forcing you to date such a man. If you truly, deeply despise cooking and cleaning so much, you're not forced into dating that man. You can simply walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:29 AM
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If you're only willing to date someone that will cook for you then you're kind of an asshole Why? How is that any different than a woman only willing to date someone who's 6 feet tall? Or only date someone who makes more than 6 figures? Or only is blond haired and blue eyed? Or only some other thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:24 AM
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I didn't downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:19 AM
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Now you're being disingenuous. For someone who brings up the concept of time and equal number of hours, you're moving the goalposts. I never stated that she would have to do dishes for 14 hours per week per a single car waxing. I was stating, that, literally, while the car were being waxed, if she was doing the dishes, would that be a fair exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:19 AM
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Anybody who is in a relationship for multiple decades will have plenty of times when they are shown love in ways that fails to register to them as love at all. Even the most compatible couples misfire on communication. Oh well. Very insightful point. Most people fail to communicate enough in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:17 AM
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I think you bring up a good point about the concept of a "permanent role." I think both the husband and the wife would end up filling their own permanent roles eventually, and they would need to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:16 AM
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So, by this logic, in this hypothetical, the husband should just know what gifts to give his wife. So would you agree then that the wife should just know that she could cook for him and keep the house tidy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:13 AM
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Ok, fine you're not compatible with this hypothetical man. Is this hypothetical man still sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:10 AM
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You can spend quality time at home over the dining table while eating potato soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 AM
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non sequitur. A loving relationship is not nothing but a series of transactions; however, in a loving relationship, transactions can, and in my view, often do take place. How is this a non sequitur?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:08 AM
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Sex should be a desire, but we both know, that on average, in most relationships, men want sex more than women do. When this happens, women have a choice. Either give in, or not. I'm not stating that men should go out and rape their wives if she doesn't put out. I'm saying that it is an act of love for a wife to have sex with her husband in a scenario when he is in the mood and she isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:06 AM
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This comment does not change my view. Your entire argument is that acts of service is the wrong love language, and that quality time is the correct love language. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:03 AM
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Have you ever lived on your own? Did you feed yourself? Yes, I cooked for myself, but when in a relationship, I don't see it as a problem for one person in the kitchen cooking for both. In some cases it could be more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:59 AM
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But I thought it was up to me to determine my feelings, hmmmm? You can determine your own feelings. You can't determine the feelings of others. You misread what I wrote. As for broadly the rest of your comment, I disagree that I was shit-stirring. I was trying to make the point that traditionally feminine and non-feminine acts of service are equally valid, but only the feminine acts of service draws the ire of women, and that isn't fair because women can't dictate what men want just as men can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:51 AM
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3) Your attitude about sex has some serious issues. Sex can be about love, but it does not have to be. Anyone who expects their partner to perform sex as an ‘act of service’ is not expressing love or intimacy in sex - what they are doing is using their partner’s body to satisfy their whims. Again, that’s not love. I think if a woman wants her boyfriend to take her out to a fancy restaurant, when the guy would much prefer to eat potato soup at home, then she is using his wallet to satisfy her whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:47 AM
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They are not just a series of transactions, but the transactions take place in a relationship. There's no avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:46 AM
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Please explain how buying flowers and restaurant meals is the equivalent “punishment” I think the fact that you view doing things for your partner as a punishment is very revealing, and it shows in the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:44 AM
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It was an example. I've noticed women are getting really hung about the examples I chose, which is extra funny given that these examples are the most common. Men compliment a woman with "You look great today honey" way more often than "Oh my god honey I'm so proud of you for X work accomplishment."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:42 AM
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I agree, broadly speaking, but I disagree regarding the topic at hand. Men are pretty consistent about what they want in relationships, and knowing what women like. They have to figure out what women like in order to get in a relationship with them, since they are the ones doing the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:38 AM
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You seem to have a very funny definition of healthy relationships. Doing things for the others = bad, sitting through a therapy session = good. And I never implied that the woman should get raped, you're putting words into my mouth. I was saying that there are times in a relationship where a woman isn't enthusiastic about having sex. This happens often and is not new. When that happens, the woman has a choice. She can tell her husband she's not interested suck it up, understand that she's not fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:37 AM
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I used flowers as an example. It is a very typical thing in a relationship for a man to buy a woman flowers. When I wrote my post, I didn't bother equating "effort" because to me it wasn't front of mind. From the comments, it seems like the concept of "effort" matters quite a bit to women, but to me--and I imagine for many men--it was an afterthought. What was really important was the resultant feeling of being loved. If something takes a massive effort, and something else takes minimal effort, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:31 AM
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I am being sarcastic to draw a point, which is that sometimes women are not consistent in their views, although it sounds like you are being consistent to a fault. I make no comment about you're virginity, it's irrelevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:29 AM
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I used flowers as an example. You and other women are getting very hung up about the specific example.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:27 AM
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But that defeats the purpose. Him funneling money to you to keep the house clean by hiring cleaners is no different than him hiring the cleaners himself. Imagine in this hypothetical scenario he wants you to clean out of love. Let's say he'll pay you, but he doesn't want you to go hire an outside agency. Is that still fair? Or is he being sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:26 AM
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So cleaning and having sex, because your husband feels loved when you do that, means the relationship is toxic. Very interesting. I think it's toxic when women expect their husbands to just sit there and let them cry on their shoulders. It doesn't benefit the husbands one iota.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:24 AM
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Got it, so each married couple should draw up some excel spreadsheets to make sure their effort is within a 0.001% tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:23 AM
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One night I worked late and came home exhausted. My husband drew me a bath and poured me a glass of wine to take in with me. I was using flowers as an example. What you wrote here is also perfectly valid as an expression of love language. You're getting very hung about about my specific examples and not addressing the larger point. Is it not fair, if you appreciate it when your husband draws up a bath for you, that your husband can appreciate it when you cook for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:21 AM
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Ok, so the issue isn't the tasks of cooking and cleaning, the issue is effort. How should the man make up the effort gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:18 AM
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By your logic, it's emotional coercion for a woman to ask her husband to buy her flowers every so often when he really doesn't want to be bothered to go and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:17 AM
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Men can want whatever they want. I don't have any problems with men wanting something. I have issues with them expecting something from their partner without a conversation, especially when their partner has wants and feelings of their own. Ok, so if a man says "honey sit down. From now on I need you to cook, clean, and fuck daily. In return I'll do whatever you want." If this exchange takes place, it's all good? I highly doubt couples have conversations like that, and I'm 99% positive if a male…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:16 AM
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Let’s not be disingenuous here, when males say they want a woman to “cook and clean” they are rarely if ever talking about their personal love language. Well, I can't speak for all men, but I think it's certainly possible for a man to be speaking about his love language. I genuinely feel loved when a woman does things like that. One time, in college, as a way of repaying a favor I did for a woman, she did my laundry for me. She was always physically attractive, and in that moment I found my mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:14 AM
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If that's what floats her boat and her husband's boat, sure. Like I said in my post, women seem to not have a problem unless it's cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:09 AM
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Is it sexist when a woman feels like it's a man's responsibility to take her out to eat, to buy her flowers, to be a shoulder to cry on, to make her feel special, to compliment her, and to give her surprise gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:08 AM
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I agree, both the man and woman need to be in agreement about how they interpret these things. So if the man interprets the wife cooking and cleaning for him as an act of love, and the wife agrees, there's no problem, right? You're position is the problem is when the wife doesn't agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:00 AM
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Well yes, she could, but that's meaningless if that's not what the man wants. Love languages are important for both who is providing that love language and who is receiving it. If genuinely both the man and woman enjoy providing gifts (flowers) and receiving gifts (flowers), then sure good for them. The problem is most men don't like receiving flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:56 PM
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But I doubt doing all the household chores is truly what the “acts of service” love language is all about. That sounds like some sort of cop out to justify your partner doing most of the chores. Well, doing chores is something that needs to get done. If a man likes it, and feels appreciated, and feels loved when his wife does it for him out of love, it doesn't sound like a cop out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:55 PM
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Ok, but you have to eat every day. So what's the solution? Eat takeout everyday? Or ... you and him split the cooking everyday? If so, what frequency is "fair?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:50 PM
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If a woman demands you bring her flowers daily and take her out daily, is she reasonable then? She's reasonable if the man thinks she's reasonable. It's not society's place to tell the couple how to run their relationship. Of course, we can have opinions, but if a man buys her flowers daily and takes her out daily, and she has sex with him daily, and they are both happy ... I don't see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:44 PM
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Ok, so your issue is with the frequency of the acts, not the acts themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:43 PM
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Then why is it that women routinely state their requirements of service? They almost always say in their dating profiles "you must be 6 feet, make 6 figures, have a six pack, do this, buy me X, take me to Y, etc" Why are women allowed to state plainly what they want, but whenever it's a man stating "I want a wife who cooks and cleans" he's tarred and feathered as a sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:43 PM
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Ok. The examples I described may very well be unequal in terms of physical exertion. Does that make the examples any less valid? I argue no. If the concern is things being "equal" then maybe the man needs to step up in the relationship in other ways? But it doesn't mean that what he wants--cooking and cleaning--is somehow wrong or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:41 PM
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Where did I state that he isn't performing acts of service? There are no assumptions made about this. All I'm saying is that various things--like wanting flowers, or compliments, or spending quality time--are all valid things to want in a relationship. Then I said wanting your wife to cook and clean is also valid. In my book they are all equally valid, for some reason women get very offended at cooking and cleaning. He is calling back to "traditional" (aka sexist) values where women cater to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:40 PM
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I agree with your elaboration to physical touch, I just didn't feel like typing it out because it's tangential to the main argument I'm making. I agree with everything you said regarding acts of service except sex. I can view sex as an act of service if the woman isn't really all for it but does it anyway knowing that it means a lot to her husband/boyfriend. Women get upset I think you summed it up. The rest of your comment is about wanting an equal exchange, which, while it makes sense, will ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:36 PM
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Why do the acts of service have to exclusively be traditionally feminine ones? They don't have to be. I chose traditionally feminine acts of service because They are the ones that draw the most ire from women. They are equivalent to non-feminine acts of service. Given points 1 and 2, it shows the hypocrisy of women for downplaying their importance in a relationship. I don't think everyone has the capacity to sufficiently appreciate all five love languages--everyone has one or two they need to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:28 PM
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You really seem to have an unhealthy obsession with quality time, and it speaks volumes that you're confident you understand my parents relationship better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:17 PM
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You can have interaction without quality time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:11 PM
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When did I say they don't interact? How did you come to the conclusion there is no connection? You stated there "must be quality time." I disagree. They show their love with the other love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:09 PM
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If you consider the lack of one out of the five languages being present as the same as two people effectively being roommates, then yes. But I'd advise you to think about how silly that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:05 PM
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So it's fair if as he's waxing your car outside you're cooking and doing the dishes for him, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:04 PM
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together is literally necessary for a healthy relationship. That's your opinion. My parents have been together for almost 30 years. I've never seen them spend quality time with each other. Literally only one time I can remember as a kid they planned a date night. They almost always do their own things around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:02 PM
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It's not about class, it's about values. If I find a woman who shares my values, I'd consider her. Am I more likely to find such a woman in my class ... possibly? I don't really know and I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:00 PM
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A virgin is by definition non-slut. I guess it's possible for a non-virgin to be a non-slut, but there are more nuances involved so it's harder to identify the non-slut non-virgins. Why bother dealing with that extra effort when it's easier to ignore them? You can insult me all you want and consider me whatever "value" you want. I really don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:33 PM
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The percentage of women that are virgins as an adult is like <10% Then you add on the fact that they need to not be obese, not have aids, be able to bear children, now you're talking <1%. Then if you add preferences, e.g. slim, long hair, etc, now you're talking <0.000001%, the point at which it's no longer worth even looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:40 AM
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It's not that they are rare, they no longer exist, and it has nothing to do with my "value," I'm not bothering to look because I know they don't exist. Even the women that throw themselves at the top 0.000000000001% of men in terms of value are still sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:19 AM
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I know exactly what I want, I just can't have it because most women are sluts. I have a decent idea of what I'm worth, but it varies per person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:37 AM
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No idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:32 AM
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No, but not for the reason you suspect. It's because once she becomes more attractive, she'll ditch the man that decided to be with her and upgrade for a more attractive man. I've seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah, that's what I've noticed. I have zero debt and a credit score in the 800s. I dress cheaply, have second hand furniture, live in a poorer neighborhood. I think this notion of women "smelling money" is bullshit. They're simply drawn to shiny things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:12 AM
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If she's had sex in the past, and she's been adventurous in the past, and she's not being adventurous with the current man she's dating, then, from the man's perspective, it's a problem and it means she doesn't respect the man, or find him sexually attractive, or something else. If she hasn't had sex in the past, i.e. she is a virgin, it's unfair to expect pornstar level sex from her, although I think that is the fantasy of some men. Men would essentially need to choose virgin + prude/experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:33 AM
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I would choose virginal + prudish as opposed to count + adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:29 AM
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I think women would be surprised at how some men live. I wear jeans and t-shirts I buy from costco. I don't have a car. half of my furniture I picked up for free at dumpsters or off of craiglist. My watch cost $20 from target. I think women really expect men with money to show it, which some do, but I definitely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:26 AM
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Don’t have crazy or stupid expenses/investments What would you consider to be a crazy or stupid investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:36 PM
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This is one thing I think is unfortunately true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:57 PM
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This doesn't work. We may pretend to be bamboozled but we can smell money on you. I would really appreciate some details on how you "smell money" (yes I know you're being metaphorical). If you could provide some examples that would be really helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:55 PM
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What if one of the things the guy was ambitious about was making $X of money a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:43 PM
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Assume the man is not trying to emphasize provider qualities, but he isn't trying to hide it either. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:39 PM
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It's because most women have skewed perceptions of income/wealth, especially because statistically speaking they make less and have less wealth than men, so their assumptions and estimations are, often, not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:39 PM
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I don't disagree, but unfortunately this doesn't really address the question. I'm also very curious if you're a woman. If so, you're very self-aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:38 PM
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It's not that the man wouldn't want to provide, it's that he wouldn't want to be boxed in an as solely a provider. He would be fine providing but also wants the woman to love him for his hobbies, personality, looks, work ethic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:34 PM
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Date a woman who isn't looking for a provider? Don't provide for her as a way to win her affection? That is much easier said than done. I believe strongly that if a man doesn't provide for her, even a little bit, he'll be seen as uncaring, aloof, and/or stingy and the woman won't like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:37 AM
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The intention of the man in question is to simply not be boxed in as a provider. He doesn't mind keep his financial situation cloaked in secrecy, but that isn't the goal. The goal is to avoid being seen as a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:35 AM
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I'm talking about both. A man can choose when to discuss his finances. The consensus seems to be he should discuss it later, not sooner. That's fine. My question is, regardless of whether or not it is discussed sooner or later, how should he discuss it in a way that helps him avoid being boxed in as a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:33 AM
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Would you date a woman who was middle aged with an entry level job? I would date a woman my age or younger ideally. Honestly, I don't care what kind of job she has. Or at least, I don't want to care, but I think I have to do some soul searching based on a lot of comments I've been reading. Maybe I should look for a woman in my socio economic class. but I do expect men to pay for more stuff simply because as an average woman I put so much thought into our dating life that the man doesn't, in any …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:31 AM
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So to simplify, your suggestion is for the man to be modest, gauge the woman's reaction, and then proceed from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:11 AM
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I think you're overreacting. The goal isn't to hide his financial status. The goal is to not be boxed into the provider role. The man in this scenario isn't against sharing, he just doesn't want to be seen as solely a provider, i.e. he wants the woman to love him for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:10 AM
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So you’ll probably want to date women who are financially secure themselves. What markers of financial security in a woman should a man look for? In addition, based on what /u/sage_planter has been saying: How would a woman convey financial security to a man without being relegated to the provider role for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:08 AM
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I think we disagree on the terms. In my view, having a mortgage--while more impressive than paying rent--is not the same as owning a house. I would consider someone to own a house if they've paid off a mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:06 AM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:33 AM
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I understand what you're saying, I'm just bummed out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:22 AM
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I think you're conflating two different things. Being completely open and honest about finances inside a marriage is very different than being completely open and honest with friends, or even relatives. Growing up my parents never, ever did that, in part because of their income and savings amounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:02 AM
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Women are more than happy to date men who make less than them. As a high earning woman, I'm totally open to dating a man who doesn't have the same salary or net worth as me. So is the solution to look exclusively for women like you, that are also high-earning? If so, that's really saddening to me. There could be some really good women out there that are low-earners, but they'd be too difficult to find among all the other low-earners that do put the man in a provider role.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:00 AM
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So many marriages end because of financial issues Agreed. I wish people were mature before heading into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:55 AM
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I would never disrespect a woman for her being in a superior/inferior financial position than I am, and because a woman's financial status doesn't affect my attraction to her it's very difficult for me to imagine that I would treat her differently based on it. The struggle for me is understanding how a woman's attraction is shaped by men's finances. I know women care about money. I don't hate them for it. I'm grappling with what is "fair" for them to know and what I and other men should be caref…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:54 AM
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So are we assuming he wants to communicate “hey I’m financially secure” or “hey I’m wealthy”? The question was left open-ended, since different people have different definitions. To some people, owning a house could seem "financially secure," while to others it could be in the latter category. It depends on the location and other factors. Regardless of how you interpret it, the goal is the same, which is to not be relegated to the provider role. If the procedure is different in each case (financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:48 AM
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Fido Sorry, what is Fido? You're the only commenter thus far that gave a direct answer to my question. I'll counter with this. There's plenty of evidence to suggest women want to be with a partner that makes more than them. So is a man supposed to look for a woman who doesn't fit into that category?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:44 AM
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Ok, but if he does that, has he succesfully gotten out of the "provider" role? I would argue that a woman doesn't need to see $X in a bank account to register a man as provider. If she sees other markers of wealth she could still peg him as a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:41 AM
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Ok. Let's suppose the man and woman are getting married. How does he be open, honest, and transparent--which are things women have said time and time again they would like men to be--without being squarely put in the "provider" column?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:39 AM
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Why are you getting super in-depth about your finances, she isn’t your accountant There are many reasons why a man would want to be transparent about his finances with a woman, and vice-versa, unless nowadays people don't do that anymore when it comes time to getting married and planning for kids. Even before marriage, I imagine women and men would prefer honesty and openness to dishonesty and having their finances cloaked from one another. If I had to boil your entire comment down, it sounds li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:38 AM
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You don't need to tell them anything. The question isn't "should you tell a woman your financial status?" The question is "assuming you are going to (for whatever the reason may be), how do you not get locked into the provider role?" The comments so far seem to not be answering that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:34 AM
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I think that's a lot more difficult than you would imagine. The average man has more in his savings account than a woman does of the same age. Men are more likely to control finances in a relationship. Men save more for retirement. Men disproportionately are account owners of brokerage accounts. I could go on and on. Then, even if a man finds a woman with a similar "level" of financial status, there's no guarantee the woman would want to be with him, since most women want a man who makes more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:33 AM
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You are expecting a long term play-for-play arrangement with her. Do you mean pay-to-play, i.e. prostitution, or as the young'uns call it nowadays, "sugaring?" Or are you referring to something else. You have moved to a phase in the relationship where your debt to income helps her decide if she wants to combine assets in marriage. Ok, let's assume the man and woman are at that stage. How does he not get locked into the "provider" role?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:31 AM
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if you want to be loved for other things then why are you leading with your wallet ? The man is not "leading" with his wallet. But a woman is going to notice whether her dates are at a fast casual restaurant or an upscale fancy sit down restaurant. However, if you insist, just let her know your occupation and education/skillset (they usually go digging for the rest of info based on this). The man could, but that doesn't really solve his problem. I'm not disagreeing with any of what you said, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:22 AM
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... good for you? I'm not sure what the point of the comment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:16 AM
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Then, if that's the case, he's overestimating just how many men are financially secure, to the point where it looks like a woman's view of men's finances. I hear women talk often about "ugh I just want a man who makes six figures" when a six figure income is like the top 15% of income earners or something. Or they say I want a guy without any debt, which is like the top 60%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:53 AM
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I'm not sure what the point of your comment is. I'm estimating a percentile. Yes, height you can't control, and income/savings you can. That doesn't mean percentile estimations aren't useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:51 AM
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Level 1 is more 'have your sh!t together' level of money. For example, you have a house that you own, you have a car and 'stuff', and you are not in debt, ie you are not just pretend rich, you are 100 % stable in your life. I That alone is the top 30% or so of men in the United States, especially because of your requirement of him owning his own house. Level 2 money is a little more iffy. This is either a man having a huge income, or lots of investments. This is top 10% ~ 5% depending on the spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:10 PM
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I'm not upset that my attractiveness is determined in party by my salary and financial habits. I'm not even upset that women lie about it. I just wish women were honest. There's a reason why sugar lifestyle is becoming more popular. Men state how much they'll pay, women state how much they want, they either agree or disagree. If they agree the woman gets her money and the man gets sex and both are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:57 PM
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Plenty of high earning men in NYC too though, right? Or am I not informed about the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:12 AM
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Well duh. Married women are responsible, single women are not. They neglect their children and go do drugs and collect welfare checks and sleep with their new boyfriend, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:31 PM
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Before I got my degree, degreed women looked down on me, even though my earnings were double theirs. I'm interested in knowing what non-degreed job you held that made double what they, with degrees, made. It sounds like you had to be in a trade and they literally had a gender studies major or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:29 PM
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I'm very curious, why? They are both big cities with a disproportionate number of white collar men making a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:28 PM
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So yes, (if you exclude the possibility of exceptionally strong religious convictions, health problems or sexuality issues), you would have to be VERY picky,- to remain a virgin as an average-pretty+ woman in today's cultural situation in the west. It has nothing to do with pickiness. It has everything to do with self-control. A 5+/10 woman being picky implies she would have sex with a man who was attractive enough. A 5+/10 woman with stronger values would hold out no matter the attractiveness o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:26 PM
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Why are you only looking at 3 or more partners? Because the link you posted groups everyone in the 3+ partner category.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:04 AM
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Looking at sex statistics, if Chads and incles are based on sex partners acquired, there’s more Chad than there are incels, even at 18 to 24 age range. Go to table 5. ? I think you're misreading the data and/or coming to a different conclusion. Table 5 shows that the percentage of men with >= 3 partners is 14.5% across all age ranges, and the men with 0 partners is 16.4% across all age ranges, meaning there are more "incels" (if we assume virgin = incel which is not necessarily correct) than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:43 PM
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Women seem to lack self awareness that they don't actually like men, they like expectations imposed upon men. They don't critically analyze their own behavior because they have no need to. Feminism tells them that everything is the fault of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:26 AM
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It just demonstrates to most women that men aren't viable options. How many of the men who are demanding virgins are virgins themselves? The point is completely irrelevant. You still don't understand. The buyer does not get to determine the interest of the seller. If you are a woman who considers virginity important in men, you are allowed to do so, and men can't stop you from doing so. Similarly, if a man decides that virginity is important in a woman, he is allowed to do so, and you can't deny…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:19 AM
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The comment was correct up until this part: And in all honesty, in that kind of situation , unless you are genuinely, very, very picky, it is actually MUCH easier to end up losing your virginity at some point before you marry, than not doing so. It has nothing to do with being picky. It has to do with culture. There's a reason why, as depicted in the scarlet letter, in the 1640s if a woman was caught having premarital sex she would be banished from the colony. There's a reason why the pejorative…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:21 AM
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For money and security. Why do you think women desperately look to get married after 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:49 AM
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Picture this. A couple is in their 40s or 50s. The man doesn't get sex from the wife, because, in her words "she's too old," or "sex isn't really important," or "it's just too much pressure." You know, the standard excuses. The man is a mid-level manager, or a ceo, or succesful in some other way, and he's able to attract some 27 year old hot girl. Or maybe he signs up for a sugar dating website. He cheats on his wife. The wife finds out. But instead of getting mad and filing for divorce, she tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:15 AM
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Because daddy government (your taxes) pays for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:00 AM
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Discord mods can see the hash ID of your username and from there can get your IP address if they're tech savvy. On reddit mods can't see that, only admins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:25 AM
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Don't forget the wedding. The entire ceremony is about worshipping the holy pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:55 AM
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Just curious: are you a Christian and if so do you frequently post about Jesus on facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:55 AM
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A huge risk for women. Literally how.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:54 AM
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Is it possible that a woman that has a LTR, a ONS, then a FWB, and bounces around between some combination of these three in search of true love<sup>TM</sup> is a slut even though she doesn't enjoy the fact she's having sex so much? I think it is. A woman doesn't have to particularly enjoy sex or be sex-positive to be a slut. It could simply have to do with not having the self-control/self-respect of limiting your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:50 AM
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Hmm, I can look at them in more detail, but honestly I can't even tell a difference. What kind of content/tone differences should I be looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:46 AM
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All I will say is that you and democrats at large still do not understand why he won in 2016 and he why he lost by only 40,000 votes in 3 states in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:46 AM
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This username is anonymous and tied to dummy accounts. It's a lot harder to cancel me based on comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:45 AM
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I said working in NYC not living in NYC. If it's not NYC then it's philadelphia or D.C., some east coast metropolis. Maybe SF/LA but I'd be a bit surprised if you're there. From your own admissions on this forum you're a black woman with an ivy league education engaging in upper-middle class society. I'm not surprised you're not a registered democrat. Most people aren't registered with their state party. But we both know you either did vote for Biden or would have voted for him over Trump. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:26 AM
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Let me spell it out for you. I post something on the discord that some left-wing activist thinks is wrong. They screen cap it and post it on twitter where it gets a number of re-tweets. Someone recognizes my discord name and leaks my real name to the twitterverse and/or media my employer finds out and I'm forced to resign I am excised by polite society. I'm not surprised you don't think cancel culture is a problem griddy. you're a black female working in NYC with the "correct" political views i.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:18 AM
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What does ran through mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:13 AM
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I think you severely underestimate what people are getting canceled for. There's plenty of things I've said on reddit, in this very forum that would get me canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:13 AM
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Why would people join this community's discord? If you have an even mildly different opinion than what the feminist gynocentric society determines is "correct" you'll immediately be identified and cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:00 AM
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Can a woman be in between a virgin and a slut? I know you guys are all going to respond yes, but hear me out for a second. A virgin is defined as never having sex before. It's a strict definition. There is nothing subjective about it. You either are a virgin, or you're not. Being a slut is subjective. One person might say a woman with n = 10 is a slut, another might say she's "normal," and some feminist sex-positive wacko might think the n= 10 woman is a prude. So given that being a slut is subj…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:59 AM
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If a woman posts on facebook about Jesus and her Christian faith, does that mean she is more likely to be a virgin, because she adheres to her Christian faith so strongly that she doesn't practice pre-marital sex, or is she more likely to be a slut, trying to keep appearances or posting heavily about Jesus because she's "born again." There's some context to this question but I don't want to share it because I don't want to influence the respones (if any) I'll get to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:54 AM
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Tbf 10k is lowballing you. Women sell their virginity for 6 to 7 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 08:51 AM
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I'm 25m. I'm marriage minded, for the right woman. The problem is they are too hard to find. It's nice to know you exist, but I'm not going to bother looking for you because statistically 99% of women I come across will be sluts. What should you do? I don't know. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:13 AM
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Well, most girls are sluts period, so you're probably right. From what I've observed, a lot of south asian girls slut it up quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:45 AM
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Don't know what to say about south asian culture. In a vacuum, I think if a guy is able to find a loyal, chaste wife, then doing that through an arranged marriage is perfectly fine. If he finds just another slut, well, he could have done that through a regular marriage, so I don't see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:25 AM
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Does coercion still apply? "Fuck me or else ill tell your gf you've been cheating with me?" There was a story on reddit I read a while ago where a man didn't want to have sex with a woman, and the woman told him privately in their dorm (this was on a college campus) that if he didn't have sex with her right then and there she would injure herself and claim that she was raped by him and ruin his life. Women like this exist, although it's the minority. More often it's women having sex with men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:16 AM
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Women should be chaste. Too many reasons why. Lower partner count leads to better marriages, better mothers, etc. Each additional sexual partner increases exposure to STDs. It can make her more resentful of her partner for not performing the same as prior partners. There's just so many reasons. Virginity in women has always been valued in all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:55 AM
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Probably. They honestly don't understand that we are physically stronger than them and are holding back. It's why high school soccer teams can beat the U.S. women's soccer team.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:09 AM
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I'm unsurprised you are offended by my comment. Your English is broken. I re-read it several times and I don't understand what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:26 AM
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What outside of a women’s physical appearance do you look for in a women? Personality. How she was raised, how she treats others, what is her overall behavior. What are the qualities that make a women more attractive and valuable to a man outside of her physical appearance? In general, femininity makes a woman more attractive. Adding value to a man's life is different depending on the man. For me, she needs to convince me that my life is better off with her than without her. As much as this offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:21 AM
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I find it telling that you list all these requirements and then "choose" to end up with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:53 AM
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UBI is stupid because it incentivizes people to not work and to be dependent on the government for their income, which causes the power and influence of government to grow. Stimulus checks are bad because it's an increase in the deficit which future generations are going to be forced to pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:52 AM
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The women on dating over thirty, or more generally, the women who use dating apps (a minority to begin with as we can see from the data that is released from these dating app companies) are only going to match with the men in the upper bracket in terms of looks. This has already been confirmed by OKCupid, Tinder, etc. So those men that they are matching with and having sex with are all alphas/top tier in looks, and its these men that typically want sex, can get sex, and then move on to a new gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:42 AM
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Prior to the 1830s in America, in parts of the east that persisted to the 1950s, in parts of middle-Asia (kazakhstan, pakistan, kyrzighstan) that still persists to a degree today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:59 AM
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You know absolutely nothing about me. I have met religious women, and gone to church with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:57 AM
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It was, for the most part at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:53 AM
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If I had a SAHM as my wife I'd just give her a credit card with her name on it linked to my bank account. If she ever hit the limit then we'd have a conversation as to why (ideally the limit would never be hit as to keep utilization low). I'm not saying your wrong. There are some unrealistic men that fantasize about having a woman at his beck-and-call. I'm not one of those men. I understand that if I want a SAHM I have to pay for everything and support her, and I'm willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:52 AM
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I think what you are saying is true about some men, but not all men. I am in the upper-bracket of income earners. I can easily support myself, my partner and kids in not just a LCOL but also a HCOL area. There are no good women. I am a tradcon, and I was on the lookout for tradcon women, but they don't exist anymore. Nearly all of them have slutted it up in their college days. I am fine with providing for a SAHM. I understand and accept that a true SAHM who makes it her full-time job to keep the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:50 AM
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The problem is working class women are just as slutty as upper-middle class women. This is makes working class women a worse option because upper-class women go to planned parenthood and get abortions, but working class women end up becoming single mothers out of wedlock. If you can find me a virgin/low-N working class woman with strong, moral, religious, family values, then I'd consider it. Otherwise, it's just another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:46 AM
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Typical leftist feminist censorship. Why debate when it's easier to just ban those you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 02:42 AM
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I don't get the point of this post. If it's your life's calling to be a prostitute then go forth child, no one's stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:37 AM
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We are critical of Mackenzie not for divorcing, but for getting so much in Amazon stock when it was Jeff who built the company. It isn't even a criticism of her really, it's more a criticism of divorce courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:34 AM
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He won't believe that you aren't passing judgement on him silently in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:32 AM
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What if women decided you didn’t have to commit? I think men would love that until they realize it means women will not have to commit either. Pretty sure that's what we have now with hook-up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:24 AM
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But if the V question pops up then I will usually let the person know that there’s no shame into being a virgin and that I respect them regardless of body count so they can feel comfortable talking about the topic openly. Yeah, he won't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:22 AM
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There are three types of male virgins. 1) The male virgin that's obese/overweight, unshaven, unkempt, irresponsible, is taken care of by his parents. These are like 10% and are commonly referred to as incels. 2) The "average" guy that never really sought women for sex, doesn't have a skillset for picking up women, and kind of drifted as life went on. This is probably 80% or so. 3) The super religious/moral guy that wants a virgin female partner. These are rare and make up the last 10% The proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:20 AM
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They care about female virginity because of an unconscious paternity insecurity. This is tone-deaf. There are many reasons why men care about female virginity, and not being a victim to paternity fraud is one of them. It's not merely an insecurity. You as a woman will never understand what it's like to doubt whether or not a child is truly yours because it is impossible for you to have doubt. You are acutely aware if you are pregnant with a child in your body or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:08 AM
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Yes. It's 100% true. I've seen it in real life and on social media. Every time a man states he's a virgin on reddit or twitter he's automatically dubbed an incel, mostly by women, unless he's very religious in which case he would be a voluntary celibate. But the word incel is pejorative and is associated with school schooters. There are plenty of "normal" men--with jobs, degrees, etc--that have average looks and are not mentally insane, i.e. are not going to shoot up a location that are virgins …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:31 AM
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I’m a straight woman. I’ve had a handful of gay experiences/experimented You're not straight, and this quote is emblematic of why we laugh at and look down on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:00 PM
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I didn't realize you were the same poster. Unlike you, I don't pay attention to the username. I evaluate each comment on their merits, and your original comment about quality men was incredibly stupid. Now, having put it in the context of your other comment where you claimed you were raped, I have done some more thinking about the matter. Yes you should give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:35 AM
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You should give up. Not women in general, just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:04 AM
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female: ''i am so upset that you got dinner without me and crashed my car and ruined my favourite jumper'' male: ''okay but we can get dinner another time?'' He is trying to propose a solution. When men speak to women's problems, they try to solve their problems, because that is how men speak. There are legitimate differences in how the brain is wired for speech in men than in women. When women air their grievances like this, they just want to be heard and comforted. They don't want problems "so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:49 AM
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Just for example. I imagine a college aged girl never having worked would be ecstatic at 2,000 a month for sugaring. But a 24 year old that with 100k insta followers would probably be more full of herself and demand something like 4,000 a month. I'm not entirely sure, I'm just guessing. I've never given a prostitute money before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 04:30 AM
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It's not about the amount of money a man has or makes, it's about how much he spends on her. A man who makes $80k before taxes spend 2k a month on a woman will have the same effect as a man making $800k before taxes spending 2k a month on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:01 AM
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Someone posted recently asking "can't women understand where men are coming from?!". It's almost ironic because I'm often on PPD asking myself the same question in reverse: "Can't men understand where women are coming from?!" Specifically, as much as men want women to outwardly desire them for sex within 1-3 dates, can you understand that most women want you to outwardly desire them for girlfriends/more than sex, in 1-3 dates? What does an LTR really even mean to you (especially in the early sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 04:40 AM
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Scratch what I said in the other comment. Don't get married. You will find eternal bliss by yourself. You go girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:30 AM
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Are you divorced? You mention husband here, but in another comment you say you're allocating 15k to child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:28 AM
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Being a gold digger isn't wanting a man that can have a high earning job, that's just being a woman. Gold diggers solely value men for money, and don't actually love them. It's basically prostitution. Wanting a man that makes good money and actually loving him because that is an element of your attraction to him is different. My advice for you, after reading this thread: find a high earning man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:26 AM
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No. I am a high earner as well, so that probably colors my answer. But even if I were not, it sounds like a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:23 AM
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