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Women are all vanity. To "tell her the unadulterated, unfiltered thoughts on her value" is to offend her vanity and nothing is worse. What we call validation is what used to be called vanity. Never flatter her vanity.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 04:07 PM
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You can tell her you can get a ring, a dress, and the party, but you're not signing any legal documents.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:12 PM
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Players, PUAs, and Petruchio http://blog.jim.com/culture/players-puas-and-petruchio.html
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:15 PM
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Whatever you do, don't go onto Tumblr and find all the blogs run by Asian women talking about how they lust after white men and dislike Asian men.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:40 PM
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Thanks. I think this is really good advice. I'll give it a try.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 06:09 PM
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I think you might have hit the nail on the head. It is as if she wants the beta provider but I'm being too alpha. Working out, dressing better, being strong, hasn't impressed her. She has stopped giving a shit. So what advice do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 04:49 PM
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Here's some more background. I seduced her before I knew anything about game, but in hindsight it was pure game. Her SMV was higher than mine and I thought I had scored a major coup. But then when the relationship started I did major backslide into beta. I realized I was probably the beta provider she hoped to snag before hitting the wall. I realized my peril and worked to increase my SMV and now it is probably higher than hers. You might say that she feels insecure that I've improved myself, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:55 PM
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That's just it. She says I'm withdrawn, but when I'm affectionate, she withdraws. Yes, there is something severely and structurally wrong. Some basic communication problem I am not getting.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:44 PM
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Don't approach. Just send IOIs and have him approach you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 01:33 PM
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Is there anything that can't be explained away by pop psychology as coming from lack of self-esteem? What a disaster that whole movement has been.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:13 PM
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"the organizing principle of female sexuality is the desire to be desired" I'd change this to say it is the desire to be desired by an alpha male, they don't care if they're desired by betas. That's why aloofness works, if you're alpha they want to be desired by you so bad, your aloofness just proves to them they you're alpha and increases their desire to be desired by you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:22 PM
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Those are all abnormal syndromes, there aren't more than two sexes, these are abnormalities of the two sexes.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:07 PM
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Pride is a kind of happiness, happiness with who you are, what you have, what you've accomplished. Take your happiness and turn it into pride.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:31 PM
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It's not easy to express pride because pride isn't a facial expression like a smile is. In the linked study they show a guy with his arms raised up in victory as their example of pride. You can't walk around like that all the time :) I guess pride is more in the body than in the face. I struggle with this because I'm a naturally happy person, but I agree, women tend to get turned off if you express too much happiness, and I don't know why. Any ideas? I think women feel like you shouldn't be so e…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:30 PM
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I think grace is the outward manifestation of inner peace.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 09:15 PM
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Feminine doesn't mean "show lots of skin." Winter is a great time to wear attractive clothes. The thought of taking off lots of clothes can be as sexy as seeing someone wearing very little. Just make sure attractiveness is as important as warmth when buying. Don't go for the typical formless drab parka or ski coat. Find something ladylike. Maybe get one of those big fur Russian hats rather than a ski hat, and the like. Boots can be very sexy as can a warm fuzzy sweater. It's too bad fur coats ar…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 07:01 PM
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The Dark Enlightenment is basically just biology vs. political correctness. The Red Pill is part of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 09:12 PM
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Do you have sex more now than before you went red pill??
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:32 PM
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The link in there to the Juggler article is really worth a read.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 02:39 PM
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This article confirms Sailer's Law of Female Journalism.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:00 PM
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Passing shit tests is funny. When Princess Leia says "you're a scoundrel" and Han Solo says "I like the sound of that. You like me because I'm a scoundrel" it's funny. Or when the girl says to Bart Simpson "you're bad" and Bart says "I'm bad to the bone honey" (which I always use when a girl says I'm bad and it always gets a great reaction) it's funny. Both of these examples are great agree and amplify. Or when a girl says "I have a boyfriend" and you say "I don't care" it's funny. What makes it…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 03:26 PM
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"part of being a feminist, for me, is taking control of my sexuality" And thus the hamster rationalizes her tingles. The two kinkiest girlfriends I ever had were staunch feminists. One worked in an abortion clinic, but like to be chased around the apartment, tackled, tied up and violated. The other would fly into violent rage at any sexism in the media, but liked to dress like a whore and be called a slut.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 03:53 PM
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He was Omega: a total unsociable introverted nerd who had no relationships with women, or other people, really.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 04:41 PM
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So you have lots of money and power and attracted women. Where have I heard that before...
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:06 PM
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This is pretty much right on, especially about not exposing your weaknesses, present or past. I've ruined relationships by wanting her to know "the real me" by discussing my past failures and losing her attraction.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:53 PM
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I hope she doesn't get all the fame after you ladies did all the groundwork.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 02:16 PM
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If she wants you to take her back, do it. She will probably be more accommodating now that she knows you won't put up with her crap. But let her know that from now on you do what you want.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 09:23 PM
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Laws against murder haven't stopped people murdering each other, so we should repeal laws against murder. Laws never fully end anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 06:43 PM
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Because you end up with a society of fatherless bastard spawn. Men can get sex without commitment, so they will have no incentive to commit and raise children.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 06:41 PM
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I have a son and it is the greatest thing that has ever happened in my life. Your perspective on what's important totally changes. Plus, it's kind of a rush to know that I would rip my best friend's throat out with my teeth without a second thought if I had to in order to protect my kid. However, I wouldn't get married. I would tell her, you can have a dress and a ring and a party, but I'm not signing any documents.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 07:54 PM
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Nope.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:08 PM
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Tons of old movies deal with a woman torn between a beta and an alpha. --Gone With the Wind: Rhett Butler is the epitome of amused mastery; Scarlett has incredible girl game. --Palm Beach Story: woman wants beta bucks, but can't escape her alpha --The Lady Eve: Watch epic girl game in action. --The Grass Is Greener: Alpha Robert Michum steals beta Cary Grant's wife. --The Philadelphia Story: Katherine Hepburn is torn between alpha Cary Grant and beta Jimmy Stewart.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:37 PM
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That's the idea. He doesn't need. Why? Because he has and must be high quality. Tingles.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:53 PM
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There's a great poster named Obsidian who posts at JustFourGuys who is black. His stuff is great.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 03:14 PM
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If a girl said "don't use Game on me" generally you would say "OK." And then use Game on her. She will then like what you are doing and consensually act out of her attraction. The burden is on her to walk away if she doesn't like how you are acting and she has many, many opportunities to do so. She might regret that she gave engaged in consensual sex so easily, but regret doesn't imply immorality as long as it is consensual at the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:22 PM
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If two consenting adults get together to do stuff to each other, and everyone knows exactly what the other wants and expects from the situation, I have no moral qualms whatsoever with that. That's all it is. With a slight caveat, people often don't know what the other wants, and you are under no moral obligation to do something you never promised to do.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:13 PM
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If you want to view TRP morally, think of it along the lines of contract theory. You are just giving women what they want, everything is consensual. The whole point of Game is to figure out what women are attracted to, and give it to them. Any women who says "Don't use Game on me" is saying "don't act in a way that I am attracted to."
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:52 PM
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Sorry I'm late to this debate, but I think you touch on where we need to move the whole Red Pill discussion. Men and women are designed for each other. In fact, it is not male and female which is important in nature but male/female pairs. A male/female pair is a single unit or system designed by God or nature to produce and care for offspring. Getting this system to work is what we should move the debate towards; we should be talking about the male/female unit and how it functions best, not men …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/13 09:28 PM
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What you're talking about is congruence. We are aware that women test for congruence, that is what a sh!t test is. We know women hate fakers and constantly test to see if men are really alpha. Most of the advice is to be really alpha and pass congruence tests.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/13 09:25 PM
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There are different kinds of conservative households. Many conservative households try to teach boys to be alpha. And many liberal households teach boys to be delicate emotional betas. You can be conservative but without all the shaming and beta-ness.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 02:30 PM
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At least in the movie, Ashleigh seems very beta, at least after the war. I couldn't figure out why Scarlett pined for him for so long, but then I realized, she can't get over him because he rejected her. She's an alpha widow. So after that any man who would like her, even Rhett, must be a worse quality man than Ashleigh, otherwise, why would they have lower standards and accept what Ashleigh rejected?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/13 02:20 PM
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All you can do is laugh as you let them know you aren't falling for it, amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:45 PM
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They call this the backslide to beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:20 PM
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"Confused" means sexually attracted to another man + way to justify acting on sexual attraction.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:19 PM
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Her great post "The red Pill according to danabanana" (or whatever it was called), should be permanently linked in the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/13 05:25 PM
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