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There is no relationship left if only one person jumps on the fumble! Both people have to be engaged. It's over if she's indifferent.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 01:36 AM
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When in doubt about who gets her all tingly, it's big bone Tyrone.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 01:16 AM
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Rule #1 for pulling her string is to have mystery! Is she pulling your string or are you pulling hers?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 01:14 AM
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Narcissists will be forever and constantly looking for their next supply. They would rather have positive supply, but negative supply is better than no supply at all.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 01:07 AM
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Feel free to contact me if you want info on how I started a local group in our area. I have tons of materials prepared and we use them all the time. We have about 40 guys that have been through our program so far. Its great stuff. We have saved a lot of lives. I get about 2-3 suicide calls a month from guys who need help. Good luck in all you do. We are developing a road-show program where we can go to churches or men's groups and teach our concepts. Its exciting stuff. Joe Mak Compassionate Alp…
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 09:35 PM
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The person with the lower notch-count will not be happy with the number. Period!
/r/RPChristians03/05/19 08:31 PM
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Congrats on your book. I know how much effort it takes to put your stuff out there like that. I know it was a huge effort to get my audio product up and going also. Good luck in all you do to reach more and more people for Christ. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians01/05/19 10:49 PM
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Thanks for th note. I am still reaching guys in my little corner of the world. I just got my first Audio Product back from the publisher on Friday. We will see where it all goes. Compassionate Alpha
/r/RPChristians11/03/19 12:43 AM
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Hey man, that's great. You started a group and are headed down the trail. That's more than most guys are doing. Keep your head up and keep doing it. Let me know if I can be of help. Compassionate Alpha
/r/RPChristians11/03/19 12:41 AM
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I haven't had a chance to follow up with you here recently. Last time we talked you wanted to start up a local group in your area. How is that coming along? Is that still a project you are pursuing? Let me know if you need any help with materials or whatever.
/r/RPChristians05/03/19 04:25 AM
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I will pick up my audio product at the publisher on Thursday. The first case will be for 50 units. We have the 2nd product underway also. It has been a lot of fun working on these materials. I have about 50 pages of course materials and content that I have developed during the classes and that has taken a lot of time, but it's been a great ride so far. The basic materials are the same for each class, but the application of those items is implemented differently for each group. Each group has dif…
/r/RPChristians05/03/19 04:07 AM
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Thanks for the note. I am doing fine here. Staying busy working with local guys on their awareness issues. We are starting up another group in 4 weeks. That will be our 4th group in a year. We have 30 guys now. Another group will get us right around 40 I figure. Great guys working on tough issues.
/r/RPChristians05/03/19 03:54 AM
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Several things come to mind as I read through your post. I try to understand where you are coming from and where others are coming from and try to put myself in their shoes as they read your post here. People do things in life for various reasons. Sometimes they gravitate towards things and other times they push things away. People and their actions are dominated by fear, greed, love, and pain...among other things. You started your post by talking about a certain sentiment. Then you said the sen…
/r/RPChristians03/03/19 08:18 PM
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Is anyone planning to go?
/r/RPChristians01/03/19 10:33 PM
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Hey, you're on the right track. Celebrate that! You don't have to get all wild with every kind of fad diet. Start getting rid of sugars and breads. The pounds will melt off. The other thing is to start being a leader in your own home. It might take longer than you want, but at least you are on your way. It will take about a year to raise your sex rank 1 point. That's how it works. Keep your head up man. Compassionate Alpha
/r/RPChristians01/03/19 07:52 PM
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Great stuff. thanks for puting this all together. I know it took a while to get this all out on here. Keep up the good work. We are going through a similar series here in our local group. This idea of vetting a woman can be tricky stuff. One of the things that we teach is to learn about attachment styles. Attachment styles are crucial because some personality types can go undetected during even the longest of dating periods. For example, a covert narcissist is skilled at hiding and obfuscating a…
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 05:00 PM
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Well put! Good Luck in all you do. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians26/02/19 12:49 AM
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Fit Testing is not sinning.
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 11:22 PM
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I'm not sure hypergamy creates better human beings. Maybe better specimens, but the human being part of the deal is created by a whole other multi-headed monster of upbringing and programming and awareness, etc. IMO. Not trying to split hairs or take away from this thread, just trying to clarify my opinion is all. Hypergamy can be used for good or bad depending on the culture and many other factors. Females us it as a way to get increased status, etc. Many gals chase after the worst kind of guys…
/r/RPChristians20/02/19 11:13 PM
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I think the problem is weak male leadership. It's the same problem as it was back in the Garden. Feminism is just a fit test on a macro level. And men aren't passing it. Campassionate Alpha (Joe mak)
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 04:42 PM
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That's right. You still have to be grounded in scripture so that you can sniff out a counterfeit in the secular world. There needs to be a balance. So when I first read Rational Male, I saw a lot of truth in it. At least enough to keep reading. Lol. Yes, there is profanity and yes, there are some crude things here and there. But that stuff was just scenery. It didn't make the stuff not true just because Rollo used his own vernacular. And actually, his approach helped a lot when I tried to develo…
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 03:38 PM
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Great stuff man. I know what you mean about the anger and all. Anger about lost years. Anger about missing out on all those guys we could have reached if we had only had a higher awareness level. Anger about elders. Anger about church leadership. It can go on and on if you let it. The thing I realized is that we all, to some degree or another, go through some version of the stages of grief. It happens with every guy I work with in our program. When they get a different perspective and improved a…
/r/RPChristians24/01/19 02:43 PM
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Fantastic stuff. Replacement value is basic stuff. It's a vital concept in fantasy baseball and population studies also. LoL! You can't have a strong country without having population replacement levels. I know it seems so basic, but so does the concept of capitalism vs socialism. Still, people think they can make some new Utopian society by taxing the rich. Wow, how long will this incorrect thinking go on? Until we are taken over by a more sensible people who understand basic concepts. 2nd wave…
/r/RPChristians23/01/19 05:04 AM
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That's great man. It's always good to see some evidence out there. Keep your head up and stay at it. Compassionate Alpha
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 03:10 PM
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In many cases, leaders of today have turned their leadership duties over to the youth group. Youth groups are a relatively new phenomenon. I don't have the whole history of it all, but I bet they weren't a force like they are today.
/r/RPChristians15/01/19 02:49 AM
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Lol #NCB. Thats great man.
/r/RPChristians15/01/19 02:40 AM
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It's a life-long journey.
/r/RPChristians12/01/19 08:24 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. I hope some of it is helpful.
/r/RPChristians12/01/19 05:36 AM
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There is still good news in all of this stuff guys... We can work on our awareness and make huge progress. None of this stuff should have blind-sided any of us. Not the APA position on masculinity, not the communist platform...none of it. But here is the good thing...if we work on our awareness we can close the crazy gap. The crazy gap is that large gap between our awareness and reality. If any of this wild stuff blind-sided you or caught any of us off-guard, I just means our awareness was not v…
/r/RPChristians12/01/19 05:29 AM
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Headline to Read: The Top 10 Things They're Coming After Next Maybe someone can fix it. In a blizzard here and not a techie anyway. Thanks
/r/RPChristians12/01/19 01:58 AM
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The easiest way to defeat your opponent is to get their playbook. If we could get their playbook, then we would know how they think and how they strategize, etc. Man, that would be great if we only knew what they were thinking...lol We have their playbook and its readily available. Their playbook came out about 50 yrs ago and its their Bible. It was written by Saul Alinsky and the Title is Rules for Radicals. He dedicated it to Satan in the intro. That's your starting point. Go read their playbo…
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:38 PM
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It's a long process my friend. The other side has had this in place for several generations. Trump didn't stop anything. He only bought us time.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:02 PM
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Read Hoffer's True Believers book. Read the reviews on AMZN to see if you might like it.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:00 PM
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I have never thought of this idea before, but if you substitute the word EGG for the word EGO, it's a wild idea. This idea that men run around carrying women's ego. That's what white kinghts do. They are always running around protecting the ego of women. In a larger sense, men carrying eggs are the same as carrying their egos.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 05:58 PM
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Yeah, it's not an issue of credibility. The APA is a credible institution. The issue is more about how things happen in this country. Things change over time. In our country this is how things get changed societally. First we start to see policy changes. Then things get implemented as a result of policy changes. Then the law comes along to endorse those changes, or not. Then things get fought over in the courts. The abortion issue is one example of the evolution of that process. Another example …
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 05:24 PM
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The APA does have a lot of power. All the school counselors and the whole legal system in this country falls in line with their most recent material every time it's published. It's not a govt entity, but it may as well be considering the pwoer and influence they have. I view the APA like I do the un-elected gov bureaucrats. We don't vote on them, but they make policy just the same. Similar to all this in-grained lifetime govt workers that Trump has to fight against each day in the govt. The APA …
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 04:46 PM
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One of the first to expose this thinking was W. Cleon Skousen in his book, The Naked Communist. I have the book and its a good read. It's kind of frightening to see how many of the goals they have already achieved. You have to go way up-stream to stumble onto this book. Not a faith-driven book per se, but I guess it's part of being in the world but not of the world. We have to be aware of what's going on around us and how they are trying to eliminate us. All this stuff is the same play-book that…
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:12 AM
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I think #41 would apply also. They use that particular tactic to remove kids from parents. This is the heart of the bullying rationale. So in this case with the APA, they are building a position that traditional males are dangerous and thus a a case can be built to legally remove children from their parents -- for the good of the state, etc.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 06:01 AM
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Communist platform as read into the congressional record in 1963. See #39 and #26 as they relate to the recent APA decisions: https://www.citizenreviewonline.org/2010/Jun/communism.html This has been in the works for decades. That's why we should pay attention and care about what these people do.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 05:18 AM
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We have to pay attention because otherwise we get blind-sided. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 04:59 AM
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I saw that when it came out a couple days ago. Scary stuff. That's how they get in the door. They use their position to normalize all kind and manner of aberrant behavior. It's just a continuation of Alinsky principles: attack through the courts, attack through the schools, attack through the APA. Do it all and do it in a massive way. Overwhelm the system. Conservatives have still not learned to use these principles. Sad indeed. Stay vigilant.
/r/RPChristians11/01/19 04:58 AM
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I guess some loved ones are family and some are not. LOL He was a protector, no doubt about it. He fell short in many areas like we all do. He probably didn't protect the people that were closest to him, like family, all the time. I am sure it was a tough time for him to balance that whole thing of being a leader of his people and being a protector of his own family. Most leaders of that scale struggle with that balance. I think he was more at home with his Mighty Men running around the country-…
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 04:08 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. Life can be brutal at times. I also grew up in a tough environment. But my family was very loving and supportive. I am glad to hear that you are doing well. Let me know if you ever need anything.
/r/RPChristians10/01/19 07:00 AM
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There is some conflicting opinions about the numbers as age increases. Some of the researchers saw it one way, others saw it another way. The point I was making with the post was that to just tell young guys not to masturbate is a tough sell in the modern world. Also, it's not something I want to be involved with anyway, this practice of telling guys they can or can't masturbate. I think a better use of my time is to reach out to guys who have no knowledge about Jesus at all. That's where I spen…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:43 PM
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So where is the healthy balance for the A/B Scale? I teach that a healthy balance is about 3/4 Alpha and 1/4 Beta. I think that's a healthy balance for a guy to be a well rounded person. It's funny that the guys who push back on that number the most are the guys who tend toward the Alpha-Jerk side of the continuum. They protest too much me thinks... I am fine also with a target of 2/3 Alpha and 1/3 Beta. Most of the guys engaged in these conversations are guys who have spent many years down on t…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:35 PM
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In 2017 there were many reports out about a large research project related to men, prostate cancer, masturbation, etc. Just do a search about masturbation as it related to prostate issues. The study detailed about 50K men over a 30 year period. Prostate cancer is the 2nd leading cause of cancer in men. Men need a healthy sexual release about 19-21 times a month to keep things healthy in the reproductive areas. I hope that helps.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 06:27 PM
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I just put up a separate post about this and explain it more fully there. I hope it helps.
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 05:37 PM
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I agree with you on living a content life. I don't tell men not to masturbate. I leave that up to them. Having a sexual release is part of having a healthy body and keeping the fluids going, etc. To not masturbate and not have a release will cause a lot of problems in reproduction area. The body has to work as designed. Body fluids have to flow. Again, each guy needs to figure how what a healthy sexual release means in their own life. If men don't have a healthy sexual release on a regular basis…
/r/RPChristians09/01/19 04:29 PM
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If I had to choose an archetype, I would choose David. Total warrior of a guy. Be he could emote also. He had all 5 pillars of an Alpha male. True alpha guys do have some beta. The question is, how much beta is a good balance? What %? Everyone has to find a good balance for their own life. If your balance is 100%’, make it work for you. I think you will find that 100% alpha is not a healthy way to live or maintain relationships. Actually, I can’t think of anyone I know who is 100% alpha who I wo…
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 11:49 PM
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Yes to all. Go no contact ASAP!
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 06:35 PM
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I understand what you are saying, but you have to have some beta also. You have to pass BOTH fit tests and comfort tests. Everyone has to choose their own archetype. I am aiming for Jesus. He was not 100% gladiator. He had a beta side too. He wept. He healed people. He had compassion. Again, everyone has their own standard. Gladiator is great.
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 06:14 PM
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The best way I have found is to start taking back real estate on the Alpha/Beta Scale. With my men's group I teach the A/B scale as a continuum with Alpha behavior on the far right and Beta behavior on the far left. Ideally we want to be in the 75% Alpha range, give or take. So you have to understand where you are currently in order to know where you want to end up. Alpha and Beta are relative terms. So be honest with yourself now and put yourself on the A/B continuum. When most guys get introdu…
/r/RPChristians08/01/19 05:31 PM
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Hey buddy, what's up?
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 08:45 AM
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Lots of good info for you to consider. 2 basic things stand out for me: She is not waiting for a signal from God. That’s just a lame fit test. She is waiting for a man to show up and be a man. Decrease your supply to increase your value. No woman wants to think that you only have one option. She will despise you if she is your only option. It doesn’t mean she won’t choose you, but she will despise you until her dying day if she is your only option. Why? Because she will understand on a molecular…
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 08:11 AM
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One thing I would tweak is your premise. And maybe your terminology. I feel that my mission is to tell others about Jesus. That's it. I can live out that mission in any number of ways. As a younger person in school I had some options available to me. Maybe my platform was more limited at that time, maybe not. But certainly my awareness was more limited. So with a limited awareness comes limited options. As your awareness in life is raised, you realize that you have more options, etc. I wouldn't …
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 01:47 AM
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It's not really about being rejected. It's about having options. If you are married to a certain outcome, it limits your options. Develop a mindset of outcome-independence and you will have an increased awareness. Increased awareness will take care of your anger problem.
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 01:28 AM
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The answer is found in awareness... Awareness... Awareness... Awareness... In real estate, the answer to making money is location, location, location... In anger related issues...the answer is awareness, awareness, awareness. Without awareness, there will always be a large crazy-gap. The crazy-gap is the gap between our awareness and reality. The more awareness we have means that we have a smaller gap between where we are and where reality is. Anger is primarily caused when our awareness doesn't…
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 01:25 AM
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One thing that really helps me is to look for truth wherever I can find it. There is truth in the bible and related sources and there is also truth in secular sources. As far as a reading list for helping guys to find their God given mission in life, some of the best books I have found are what some would call secular. For example, I consider No More Mr. Nice Guy to be a secular book. But that book is also listed here in the sidebar. Another fantastic book is the Secret of Ultimate Self Confiden…
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 12:50 AM
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I hear you. We all have to keep growing and searching for truth. Because of the current state of the church, we have to look for help outside of the church sometimes. Keep your head up. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians06/01/19 12:08 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to check it out. There are a lot of hurting souls out there. Keep your head up!
/r/RPChristians28/12/18 11:30 AM
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We are on a crusade big man.
/r/RPChristians28/12/18 11:29 AM
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Thanks for the info. I will have to check it out.
/r/RPChristians24/12/18 05:13 AM
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I would say it’s more church related than Christian related for sure. But most people have not unbundled those two yet. BC is a factor for sure. Very underrated.
/r/RPChristians24/12/18 05:12 AM
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Absolutely...I think many churches do the best they can within their awareness level.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 05:26 AM
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Yep, it’s a mad world out there. It’s so different out there today.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 02:59 PM
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Same page.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 02:58 PM
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Me either.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 02:58 PM
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Good for you in your arrangement. I think that should be more of how we behave. What then shall we call it? Underground marriages? There’s a term for you. I really think we have something here. Short circuit the civil folks and have an underground marriage. I know many older folks who are torn up by this whole idea of living together...I like this solution.
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 08:13 AM
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Believe me...guys are exceedingly worried about losing their material possessions...why wouldn’t they be in this current environment?
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 08:08 AM
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So all we can do is try be careful in picking someone...then hope for the best? Hold me back...where do I sign up for that deal? Show them what they’ve won Bob... a beautiful a marriage... That’s sounds like a finger-crossing exercise at best...and a gas-chamber trek at worst. In real life we have to raise the awareness of every young man and teach them high-level leadership skills aimed at an outcome of becoming a compassionate alpha. Part of that mindset means that guys have to be active in bu…
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 08:07 AM
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Thanks for the thought. I will see if I have time. This is a really tough space for us all to be in right now...this space of our modern world combined with ancient scriptures, etc. But I am sure we can find functional solutions to all of it if we are willing to go into messy places... We can't really call this a Red Pill group unless we are willing to work on raising awareness in all areas. We can't pick and choose to have awareness in some areas and not in other areas. That's just Biblical che…
/r/RPChristians22/12/18 12:46 AM
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Here, how about this for a solution... Get the government out of our churches...and... Get the government out of our bedrooms...and... Get the government out of our parenting... A few years ago only...many pastors were waffling on a lot of things regarding political talk from the pulpit...why?...because governments were requesting sermon notes, etc. from pastors...So pastors were intimidated into watering down their messages...over fear of losing their non-profit status...I am sure you all remem…
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 11:26 PM
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So we are trying to run our modern brain in this modern world with a 2000 yr old operating system...? We are trying to solve current problems with a 2000 yr old awareness...? That sounds like a macro-level crazy-gap to me, this idea that our awareness is way back here and the reality that we live in is way over there...there is such a large gap in there between our awareness and reality on this issue... So the question is the same then: How can we attract our young people to this kind of a parad…
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 11:12 PM
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We probably behave like the world because we go by the world's laws, etc. Again, when folks file for divorce at the courthouse, they are playing by those rules. I would be happy to play by only the church rules, if everyone else agreed to do so...but that's just not the deal in this world right now... Yes, Paul says to go get married if we can't behave ourselves. I am sure at the time his current awareness didn't take into account current legal situations, etc. How can we teach our kids to live …
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 09:32 PM
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Many pastors are in a dead bedroom situation. Their percentages probably mirror the rest of the crowd.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 07:08 PM
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That's right. Each person has their own level of comfort with all of this. I haven't found any cookie cutter method that works to the satisfaction of all.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 06:02 PM
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But we have to find a functional pattern-interrupt somehow. It’s not enough to color pictures of Noah’s Ark and it’s not enough to just tell people to not sin. It’s also not enough to tell people to “give your problems to God.” We have been doing those things for years and they still don’t work.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 03:18 PM
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Coloring Noah’s Ark for sure. That’s what we’re doing in the church. We hang out and color Noah’s Ark. Lol. That’s great
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 03:12 PM
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More interesting for sure
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 03:09 PM
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That answer is not gonna work. That’s not functional. We need real help with this issue. In 2018, that answer is not enough. Why? Because just to tell everyone to hurry up and get married so they can have sex is an awful idea. Young people have little awareness and no toolbox of tools to help them navigate vetting process. Also, to tell guys they have to stay in a biblical realm while close to 70% of all divorces are initiated by women is not a functional solution in this modern world of ours. G…
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 03:06 PM
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We have to have functional solutions. Telling people not to sin is one thing...but not giving them functional solutions doesn’t help at all. It just brings us back to shame. And no one wants to go there. So what’s our functional solution here?
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 02:47 PM
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We have bundled those two items for so long, that most people can’t imagine a scenario where they aren’t bundled.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 02:44 PM
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I think so too. But what to do about it...
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 05:13 AM
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Thanks for the note. It’s a tough topic i think mostly because we make it tough. Especially today where sex is so available outside the church. And inside the church it is so put down. Probably a good place to start is to have separate groups for men and women. The groups need to be able to talk about the real issues that people are having. I bet in the groups I work with maybe 90% or more of the guys have a major problem with porn. Can there be a healthy process for masturbation? What would tha…
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 05:08 AM
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I meant that people in the church teach that masturbation is a sin. I haven’t found any scriptures that specifically say it’s a sin.
/r/RPChristians21/12/18 04:45 AM
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Welcome to the new church. It’s just like the old church. People care more about externals than they do about internals. Folks still major in minors and minor in majors. Over at TRP they care more about content. People over there use all kinds of fonts and sizes, etc. I’ve said it before, you have to leave the church to find authenticity. It proves my point about shame.
/r/RPChristians20/12/18 04:05 PM
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Not sure what you are talking about. I didn't know your gender until you mentioned it. I have know idea about your IQ or other qualities you brought up. Good luck winning souls for Jesus, however you can do it.
/r/RPChristians16/12/18 04:48 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. I do have some great field reports. I'm just not sure this is the time or place for me to get into all of it. You're doing fine enough without hearing all about my lifts, etc. Lol Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 09:14 PM
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The thing is that none of us can define what is too much scripture or too little scripture for anyone else. That can only be defined by the individual reader. I think I'll pass on digging up examples of posts where I have been told that there was too much scripture to the point of being off-putting. That's not going to serve a productive drill here in my opinion. And that's not the point of the post anyway. There are many different learning styles. There are many different styles of receptivity.…
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 09:03 PM
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Sounds good man. Go reach people for Jesus. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 08:50 PM
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Examples of the guys I send here? Or examples of scripture like footnotes? Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 08:10 PM
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Thanks man. I hear you on the barriers to entry. Here is something for you to think about and maybe we can both help each other on this. You have the font thing figured out and I don't. I have the part figured out about how to go get lost souls off the street and reach people for Christ. You are trying to figure that deal out. I can help you there. I am sure we can help each other in our areas of weakness. Also, the truth is that when I send some of my guys here to check out the posts, they can'…
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 06:43 PM
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A far as I know there are 2 things that clog up a guy's RAM more than any other: SEX and SHAME. I think SHAME is more dangerous. I will get to SEX when I have time. I want everyone to have a great Christmas season. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 06:04 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 06:02 PM
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You are right on the money. Great stuff here. Untrained people will think it's conspiratorial in nature until they do some research and digging. I sure hope this sub doesn't turn into another area where people censor every off beat post just because some unknowing person on here cries foul. If that happens then this whole environment will just become another me-too casualty. I have been following the demise of the NIV version for years. What a sad story. The 1984 NIV is still my favorite. Joe Ma…
/r/RPChristians15/12/18 07:23 AM
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Transmutation is a concept that Napolean Hill talked about in his all time bestseller Think and grow Rich. Great stuff. Check it out.
/r/MGTOW14/12/18 10:17 PM
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The NIV had such a strong reputation back in the 80s and through the 90s. They got caught up in all the politically correct vortex and is now a tremendously damaged product, IMO. You can still find some old versions of the NIV around, but it's getting tougher to find them. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians14/12/18 12:07 PM
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Sounds great. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians14/12/18 03:41 AM
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There are many difficult issues facing our movement. This is one of the bigger ones I feel. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 09:16 PM
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Yeah, it's a tough issue in our world today. Not about if it's a sin or not...it is a sin. The Bible clearly says that it's a sin. The Bible also clearly says that many other things are a sin too. Not all sins are created equal. Some are more equal than others. And some sins are more condemned than others. Some sins have been shamed more than others...LGBT issues have been shamed by gossipers for eons. We do what we can, man. Either way in the end, you gotta go through Jesus. Tough deal with all…
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 09:09 PM
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That's probably a whole other post. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 09:01 PM
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We should be moving toward Christ for all our days...the process never ends. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 09:00 PM
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Well put! Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 08:56 PM
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How many sins does it take to condemn a person to hell? It depends on the sin. God doesn't work in percentages...It's all or nothing. Joe Mak
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 08:56 PM
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It's time to move on down the road. You have been given a fresh start. She abandoned you. You probably need help with "The Missing Piece" stuff, but other than that enjoy your new life. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians13/12/18 08:35 PM
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Sounds good. Looks like you're on your way man. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 11:39 PM
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How are thing coming along for you buddy? I hope you're not getting discouraged out there with all the people beating up the folks. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 11:33 PM
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I am thinking more of a Pro-growth vibe than teachable vibe. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 10:34 PM
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I think overall you probably would get more traction with a different acronym. Seem like we are trying to shoehorn everything into that acronym. There are easier ways to go I am sure. I think the word available could be replaced with a more proactive word. If some gal is making time for me, then maybe I am just an OK deal in her life. For attractiveness, I mean where do you rank that in your system of needs and things you are looking for in a gal? The FAT words don't address attractiveness anywh…
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 10:21 PM
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We can do better than FAT. F is for Faithful. I don't see using up one of of the letters with something that I control. If I am pulling the string how I should be, she will be faithful. A is for available. That's just too low of a bar and screams beta. I might keep the A if it was for Attractive. T is for teachable. That can't fly because I won't marry someone who needs to be taught stuff. We can ge this figured out I am sure. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 02:55 AM
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Interesting post for sure. I gotta say that Teachable was not in my top 10 when I got married 28 yrs ago, and it wouldn't be there now for me either. I wouldn't consider to marry anyone who I had to teach. How/where do you rank attractiveness? Hey man, it's a good concept, but I know we can do better. Available is too low of a bar for you. How about something in the "crazy for you" vibe? We need something along the HOT or BABE line of thought, right? Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 02:03 AM
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I think you are headed in the right direction, this idea of doing a better job vetting future mates. You have some great ideas to get us started. I'll be back before long. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 10:57 PM
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It's a difficult space in which to work. It's rewarding helping all these guys I see each week. They are tremendous human beings. They just need some help along the way. Have a great day man. Keep up the good work in your corner. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 09:54 PM
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I agree with some of what you write and some of it I don't agree with. That's fine to me. We have some differences of opinion and we also have some different ideas about how to get our thoughts out. Again, that's ok by me. If I have said things that are not Biblical, feel free to share. As far as the editor, I don't know much about that. Have a great day and may God bless you in your work. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 09:35 PM
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Shaming can happen with or without scripture. Shaming can happen with good intentions or bad intentions. So you are not sure where I get the idea that Christians are shamed? The evidence is all around. It's the number one thing I deal with in my men's ministry. And if you didn't recognize the shame in the above case study, I am free to talk with you about it at your convenience. Feel free to contact me at your leisure. Have a great day Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 05:52 PM
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totally agree. It's a different world. So how do we stay biblical and relevant? That's the thing we are all trying to figure out.
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 03:45 PM
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I absolutely agree buddy. I am not trying to blow up anything here. Just trying to start conversations. ​ Always feel free to contact me if you need further clarification, here in comments or any other way. It doesn't matter to me. ​ I just want to make sure we are on the same page on this item: Worry about the practical first: I don't have any other choice. I find people in the practical situations as life hits them. Unless I find a person in an actual Bible study or in a church pew, then i wil…
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 03:33 PM
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That's too bad. Standard advice needs to be looked into. There can't be standard advice. Every situation is different. It's not a good reason to get married just because a guy wants to have sex. It's also not a good reason to get married when there are financial issues. Divorce brings on many more Financial issues. This is a different world than it was a couple thousand years ago. The legal world is stacked against males in a terrible way. The old rules concerning divorce don't apply. I didn't c…
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 05:14 AM
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I will not get into your back and forth debating here. However, if you read the first several comments you will see that marriage was suggested. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 05:02 AM
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The have only dated for 6 months. The girl is only 18. The guy is in his early 20s. The girl doesn't know much at 18 the guy knows very little compared to all the legal issues he is about to run into should things go south. Historical marriage-age numbers have nothing to do with whether or not a particular guy and gal should get married. That is not a reliable measure of maturity, soundness, financial viability, or wisdom.
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 04:53 AM
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I don't know if this specific pairing is a bad idea. I never said that. I think you are missing the point of the whole post.
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 04:40 AM
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There is quite a bit of info out there on the Internet. That's not the point of my post. That particular sentence was there to show that the trend for marriage age is far from what it us to be. Today the average age for marriage in the US is 27 for females and 29 for males. That is up from the low 20s just 25 yrs ago. You can also find this without much trouble
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 04:38 AM
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I posted a long comment in regard to your post. But I had to make a post of it in the main section becasue I had over 1000 words. Please go there in the main section if you want to read my comments. Keep your head up man. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 03:39 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. It's a brutal topic and it has torn up families and caused untold grief forever. Keep reaching people for Jesus. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians11/12/18 03:36 AM
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Great stuff for sure. We have such a great time in our class talking about all of these topics. Looking forward to seeing about 30 guys tonight. Have a great day. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians09/12/18 05:20 PM
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There are 2 sure-fire ways to beat SHAME: 1. Study SHAME and have an increased awareness about SHAME. This is a tremendous help in understanding all the ways that SHAME gets a foothold in our thinking. Don't be afraid of SHAME. Talk about SHAME. Learn the SHAME terminology and dig into it. If you are truly going to get a scalpel and carve the SHAME out of your thinking, then you have to understand what you are looking for and how to get rid of it. Call it by name and go after it in a fearless fa…
/r/RPChristians09/12/18 01:33 AM
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SHAME is a way for SATAN to leave rent-free in your head. Get him out of there! Guilt doesn't always lead to repentance and restoration with God, but guilt can be a part of that process. Some people have very hard hearts. These concepts are worth struggling through to get a better understanding of it all. It's not a fun journey, but the end result can be unbelievably freeing. Keep up the great work man. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians09/12/18 01:08 AM
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Sounds great man. Yes, feel free to contact me. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 07:59 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. Yes, we have to have a non-judgmental attitude if we are to reach people for Christ. We can still speak truth and be non-judgmental. As far as changing church culture and the role of masculinity, I will go in the direction of Jesus' calling as I can best understand it each day. I will continue to move toward receptive people and I will continue to chase energy. I will not chase after arguments or people who do so. Neither will I unnecessarily get pulled into petty figh…
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 07:41 PM
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That's great man. lol. The updates take some time to install. That's tremendous metaphor. Too many born again people ar still operating with the previous operating system. And the problem is that whenever the lizard brain moment hits, everyone reverts back to the previous operating system. Everyone! The only answer is to program the new stuff in with stronger emotion than the old stuff was when it was put in. And the tough part about reprogramming SHAME is that it was programmed in with such emo…
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 06:47 PM
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Adam and Eve had an increased awareness after their sin. That's their version of swallowing the Red Pill. Once you have increased awareness, you can't go back in the past with current awareness. They lost their innocence after they sinned. Shame entered the world as a result. They had to live with their SHAME until Jesus came and provided another pathway to God. Jesus has taken away our sin, but we are still programmed to take on SHAME. We need to update our operating system. We are still operat…
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 04:59 PM
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Just let me know if you need to go over some stuff. I started 8 months ago and have right about 30 guys moving in a great direction. All my stuff is copyrighted and I am working on the trademarks. I have some other things in the works also.
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 03:41 PM
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There are some functional things you can do for sure. One thing you can do is to talk about your SHAME. Another thing you need to do is to have empathy and understanding for your own situation. Empathy creates a hostile environment for SHAME. SHAME cannot survive around empathy. SHAME can only survive and flourish with Judgment, Secrecy, and Silence. Find some one to talk to. You can call me anytime. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 05:38 AM
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How to carve the SHAME out of your life: The first thing you need to do is to raise your awareness on how SHAME works and how people, satan, and your own thinking can continually put you back into your SHAME prison. Understand that SHAME is voluntary. You ALONE control whether or not you want to take it or own it or get rid of it. SHAME is in your mind. It resides there. It stays there until you CHOOSE to get rid of it. The Brene' Brown book: I thought it was just me This is a fantastic book. It…
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 04:15 AM
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You have to either find the "missing piece" or let it go and be fine with it. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 03:32 AM
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How can I help you get started man? I have tons of materials and content. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 03:30 AM
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Did you get the book yet? Any thoughts? Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 03:22 AM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts buddy. It's refreshing to find someone who will share his real thoughts and vulnerabilities. Good for you to face life even though it may be checkered by fear and doubt. Life can be a tough gig some times. Don't be afraid of all those thoughts. We all have similar thoughts at different times in our lives. You are NOT alone in all this. In fact, if truth be told you are well in the normal range of thought processes. I don't think you need more scripture and I also…
/r/RPChristians08/12/18 03:00 AM
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There are some functional things you can do for sure. One thing you can do is to talk about your SHAME. Another thing you need to do is to have empathy and understanding for your own situation. Empathy creates a hostile environment for SHAME. SHAME cannot survive around empathy. SHAME can only survive and flourish with Judgment, Secrecy, and Silence. Find some to talk to. You can call me anytime. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians07/12/18 11:43 PM
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There are some functional things you can do for sure. One thing you can do is to talk about your SHAME. Another thing you need to do is to have empathy and understanding for your own situation. Empathy creates a hostile environment for SHAME. SHAME cannot survive around empathy. SHAME can only survive and flourish with Judgment, Secrecy, and Silence. Find some to talk to. You can call me anytime. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians07/12/18 11:43 PM
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There are some functional things you can do for sure. One thing you can do is to talk about your SHAME. Another thing you need to do is to have empathy and understanding for your own situation. Empathy creates a hostile environment for SHAME. SHAME cannot survive around empathy. SHAME can only survive and flourish with Judgment, Secrecy, and Silence. Find some to talk to. You can call me anytime. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians07/12/18 11:43 PM
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Chewin' up RAM: Chewin' up RAM is a phrase I came up with to explain how your mental capacities are dragged down when you constantly worry and can't get over things. A computer has RAM also. We have all seen this principle in action with computers. Sometimes there is so much background stuff going on in your computer that it totally drags down the programs you are trying to run. Then viruses find their way into your computer and corrupt everything. Everything gets ruined. For example, SEX takes …
/r/RPChristians07/12/18 01:53 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. Here is the thing: When you learn to get rid of SHAME, you cast off all the worst parts of humanity. You get rid of your old self and all of your most awful thoughts and desires. Everything melts away and you rise to a new awareness level. The freedom you feel is indescribable. You have never imagined a life without SHAME before, so when you get a peek into a world without SHAME none of it makes any sense. The freedom and liberty available to us is unbelievable. But as…
/r/RPChristians07/12/18 01:23 AM
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The only time he might have felt SHAME on the cross is when he was naked in front of his mom and others. SHAME can exist without SIN. But, I am not sure Jesus ever felt SHAME even though was part man. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 10:14 PM
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Awesome stuff man. Keep it going. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 09:48 PM
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The whole topic is so fascinating. To me it's the key to everything. We have to deal with SHAME. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 09:48 PM
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Great stuff man! Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 09:47 PM
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I believe that SHAME and SIN are parallel tracks. It's hard to break it down like that, but there is a difference. You can have SHAME without SIN, so they are already de-linked. SHAME and SIN don't necessarily go together. Sometimes they are found together. They are as thick as thieves those two. Sometimes they are found on their own. SIN can exist without SHAME. Serial killers and people with those personality types are uncaring and ruthless in their wrong-doing. They move on through their terr…
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 09:46 PM
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That's a great book to start with. She also has one called: The Gifts Of Imperfection. Both are great. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 09:20 PM
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Amen. That's what it's all about man. Feeling guilt is a natural response to sin or other wrong-doing. But Satan wants you to feel SHAME! Get rid of it man. You are a child of the Creator of the whole universe. He made you in his likeness. He wants you to be the best and biggest version of you. Not some small insecure wimpy version. Take on the full mantle...you can't do that when you live in a SHAME prison! Let yourself out of the SHAME Prison! Only you can do it! SHAME is a first cousin to rep…
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 08:36 PM
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Sounds great. Remember: Have a plan about everything! You aren't a man unless you have a plan. She will want to know where you are going. Don't tell her! Just go where you need to go. She can be surprised when you pull up to the place in your car. Take care of everything: the seating, the bill paying, and everything. All night as you are out and about show confidence and security by #flippinSwitches with everyone you see. Flippin switches means to change the state of everyone you see. Change the…
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 08:21 PM
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You are right on the money regarding the terms. We have to get clear on our terminology so we can proceed with talking about SHAME topics and conversations. GUILT is about the ACTION: You did a bad thing, etc. SHAME is about you as a person: You are a terrible worthless person, etc. You have put yourself in this SHAME Prison or allowed others to humiliate you until you morphed into this SHAME Prison. That's what you get when you allow others to dump SHAME GRAVY all over you for every little thin…
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 01:38 PM
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Thanks for the kind words and encouragement. We have to learn to deal with this SHAME in the church. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 01:09 PM
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You can do this thing buddy! Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians06/12/18 01:07 PM
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You've got that right buddy. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 11:49 PM
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I am sure you are right about traction. The most important post I have written is this post here on SHAME. lol...and almost no one has read it. They all just want to read about how to text a Christian girl or whatever. Thanks again for the input. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 11:31 PM
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Yeah, what he said.
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 11:18 PM
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You keep talking about telling her your intentions... What does that mean anyway? What are your intentions? Whatever they are, don't tell her about them. Keep some mystery. Just go have some fun and let the thing evolve of its own volition. Pursuing or initiating? Don't worry about it. If she looks cold on the hayride, put your arm around her. If she slips on the ice, reach out to steady her. If she is NOT wearing gloves, reach down and hold her hand. If she pulls her hand away, that is feedback…
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 11:06 PM
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No, you don't need to "work on your relationship with Jesus" before you date. It's not an either-or deal. It's a both-and situation. You can work on your relationship with Jesus while you date this babe. What are you doing anyway...reading your Bible 24 hrs a day? No where in the Bible will you find when to ask her out or when to text or when to touch knees, or anything like that. You have to use your head. You have to have some inputs here. Staying home and praying about it and reading your Bib…
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 10:48 PM
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You are over-thinking this thing to the Nth degree. You have too many rules. It's just a guy wanting to get to know a girl. That's all we are talking about here. Have a plan. Just call her and tell her you are going to get a Coke, or an ice cream, or look at Christmas lights, or any other thing in the universe. If she says yes, you win. If she says no, you also win. You are the prize only if you think you are the prize! Always assume that every girl will want to go out with you. Don't worry abou…
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 10:32 PM
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Here is an article I wrote a few months back. This article is an in-depth look into the program I have developed and some of the details. https://old.reddit.com/user/RPCJoeMak/comments/903ioi/10_ways_to_build_a_strong_and_lasting_redpill/ Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 10:12 PM
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I create my own materials for all of it. I could find almost no materials that were appropriate for the way I wanted to teach this type of stuff. I wanted to stay in a PG-13 type of delivery. It's very ironic that I had to leave the church to get the materials. I used secular sources. the ironic thing is that we should be able to talk about anything in the church. That's just not the case. So, I had to leave the church for materials. I went to the secular world, then I had to reverse-engineer ev…
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 10:06 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement. SHAME is so pervasive in our society and especially in our churches. What can we do about it? Where do we start? It's such an awful topic that NO ONE wants to deal with it. Sunday we started a new group for our Positive Masculinity Crusade. We had 8 guys show up at the meeting. That makes 30 guys now including all the elite guys also. For each class, part of the discussion/curriculum I talk about is what males need in life. It goes like this: 1. Breathing 2. Sex 3. …
/r/RPChristians05/12/18 07:47 PM
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Sounds good. Thanks buddy Joe Mak -- PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 10:49 PM
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Sounds good. I will get something worked up. The trick is to be in a state of continual emotional engagement. We have developed what we call STRING Theory. Look for that terminology in a future post. Thanks. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 10:49 PM
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It's a common SHAME tactic. Shame is used to control people. It's just a SHAME trigger. Learn to recognize the triggers and you will be well on your way. I had a post on SHAME a couple days ago here. They use shame as a way to keep other guys from getting sex. It's also what I call a "biblical cop-out" technique. It's basically hiding behind the Bible and trying to force guys into a nice guy mode. We have to move beyond that stuff. Basically, it's just weakness. Pure and simple
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 05:13 PM
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Yep, exactly. Begging is bad sex. Stop it. If your way to initiate is to just try your best "point to the c0ck" move, yeah your will fail more times than not. And I will take the girls side on that. If that's all you do is point to your junk, then you deserve to get turned down and you deserve bad sex. This is a high stakes deal here guys. Put some energy into it. If you set the table and light the candles and put the music on, you can't blame Barry White when you don't get any action. Amen Joe …
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 04:58 PM
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I don't worry about people who say it's manipulative. Those are not real leaders. Those people have some leaks in their thinking. I would direct them back to 48 Laws of Power. Every sale is just a transfer of energy. Plain and simple. It's true for every single thing. Do you want to make the sale or not? Good sales are a win-win for al involved parties. Do you believe in your product or not? Do you believe in yourself or not? Manipulation? That's weak talk and it has no place in Christian homes!…
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 04:48 PM
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Thanks for the info man. Good stuff. How do they'll rate/measure happiness in the context of sexless bedroom? In the work I am doing, I have to question that anyone would be extremely happy in a sexless bedroom. In fact I seriously have to question the findings. I will check out the link. Thanks for tackling this tough topic. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 12:54 PM
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Do you have evidence for this? How do you measure happiness? Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 06:30 AM
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Constantly initiating sex is begging. And begging is breaking the #1 rule. Stop it. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 06:22 AM
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Thanks for the post. Great stuff. Guys will be well served if they can remember this one thing: Limit your access to increase your value. Remember, there will be some guy in the world for whom your wife or girlfriend will get excited. If it's not you, then you are not engaging her emotional right-brain. You have to ping her right-brain to get her fired up. Why did 50 Shades sell 150million copies? No, it's not about the sex. It was about engaging the emotional side of the brain. Go figure it out…
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 06:18 AM
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In this situation I use the term "moral intent." I think it applies more appropriately to how Christian men ought to apply Red Pill principles. Discernment has more to do with judgment than it does with how we apply information. So, I ask guys why they want to attend my Positive Masculinity Class? What is their moral intent in learning all this stuff? I teach my class with a more holistic approach. Sexy time topics are only one leg of the table. There are at least 4-5 other legs in our table. Jo…
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 05:57 AM
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Great post. Thanks Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians04/12/18 05:22 AM
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Now we're talking. All babes want to be with fun and exciting guys who have a plan. Make sure you have a plan for each meeting or happenstance.
/r/RPChristians28/11/18 06:12 PM
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Sounds like you have started your RP journey. Good for you. I would read a few books to get started: 1. No More Mr. Nice Guy 2. The wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists 3. The Ultimate Self Confidence Book by Robert Anthony This will give you some great material as you get started. They are not tough books to get through once you get going and can see how they will benefit you. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians28/11/18 01:55 PM
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You have to stay in outcome independent mindset throughout.
/r/RPChristians27/11/18 06:02 PM
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How about this for a novel idea: just go have fun getting to know this babe. If you are on an adventure, she will want to come along for the ride and enjoy the ride too. You have to maintain frame and control state during during whole process. You can't just let your head get all out of joint about her. Keep things simple. Keep up mystery. Keep her guessing. Go have fun man. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians27/11/18 05:59 PM
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Here is an article from Rollo that might give some more insight: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9sui1m/widows_war_brides/?utm_source=reddit-android">https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9sui1m/widows_war_brides/?utm_source=reddit-android</a></p> Joe Mak PMC
/r/RPChristians24/11/18 02:08 AM
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The post is not about submission. The post is not about blaming men. The post is not about blaming women. The post is not about blaming scripture. Th post is not about setting up some other system. The post is a cautionary tale of what will happen to the church if we continue to fail in our duty to raise up strong male leadership. It doesn't matter that women are commanded to submit to men. The hypergamous nature in women will not allow them to submit to weak male leadership or the lack of male …
/r/RPChristians23/11/18 03:23 PM
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You say you are getting sick of weak men, huh? How do you think women feel being forced to submit to weak men? W must do a better job of training male leaders in the church.
/r/RPChristians23/11/18 03:08 PM
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Bless your soul girl. It's hard to reinvent your self and move on. Especially while keeping a good attitude. Kudos to you. Keep your head up! Have a great Thanksgiving. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 05:17 PM
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I am sorry that you had that experience. It really can hurt a lot of people. Yes, both people need to keep fighting for the relationship. Otherwise, it's doomed. Keep your head up.
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 02:09 PM
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I seems that you have been hurt along the way somewhere. I have found that the whole porn topic is a tough slap-in-the-face for a spouse who stumbles upon open porn browsers and sexting chat sessions. The offended spouse will many times launch into a barrage of shame-triggered language as shame gravy is dumped all over a frustrated spouse. This type of behavior rarely is helpful in getting to the root of the problem. It's not helpful. So, if there are skillet-wielding wives running around lookin…
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 03:52 AM
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I'm with you guys... Quoting scripture is fine with me too. Have at it buddy. It's all good to me. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 03:19 AM
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It works both ways. If a man acts in masculine ways, women will find him more attractive. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 01:43 AM
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Red Pill awareness and Red Pill strategy is like anything else. It can be used for any outcome. It all depends on the moral intent of the individual. I am working from the assumption that people on this sub are working from a Biblical framework and moral intent. Joe Mak PMC -- Member
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 01:39 AM
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Some context here on an issue: My quote from the post was: "You can't negotiate desire." Here is the reason I am saying that. As males, we must set the table for romance. We have to be ever vigilant and involved in engaging the emotional side of our wives. Women are mostly right-brained in their thought patterns. This is an emotional reference point. Guys are more left-brained analytical in how they deal with things. So, for a guy to put no more energy into his wife's sexual strategy than to jus…
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 01:13 AM
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I hear you and am on board with you. My issues is with hypergamy and the nature of females to despise weak male leadership. My problem is not with scripture. Again, the solution lies in our appropriate training of compassionate alpha males to lead the church. I am with you on scripture.
/r/RPChristians21/11/18 11:21 PM
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It's all about control.
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 11:11 PM
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I have so many thoughts concerning this scenario. In working with men for many years, it is with a lot of concern and trepidation that I even write this here. The main thing I am concerned about here is the safety of the wife and children. I have seen these types of controlling husbands before. I don't have the whole context so I am not privy to all the info, obviously. But my main concern is for the safety of the wife and children. In my experience, these types of controlling men tend to get ph…
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 02:51 PM
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Feel free to send me a message anytime. Also feel free to take a look at my other posts on how I got involved in setting up our men's group.
/r/RPChristians19/11/18 11:44 PM
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Not sure. I wanted it to be done already. LOL! It won't be too much longer though. Looking forward to another good PMC class tomorrow.
/r/RPChristians18/11/18 05:38 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. I am growing the group through word of mouth. We don't advertise what we do other than word of mouth. Members are free to invite someone f they feel it would be a net positive situation for the group. They usually ask me first if they can invite a friend, but I don't require it. I am fine working with whoever shows up in a particular meeting. The two guys who help me have been friends of mine for many years. One is a full time minister and the other is a doctor. Neithe…
/r/RPChristians18/11/18 04:57 AM
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I hear that. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 06:53 PM
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Agreed Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 04:54 PM
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I understand what you are saying about the pitfalls of RP thought. I think people have to be cognizant of all the angles. The real gist of what we are trying to do is raise awareness in the group of guys I am working with. The idea is to raise awareness in all areas, not to follow RP people or whatever fads come and go. I think any item that's a topic in our culture can be dealt with in a Biblical framework. That's t main thing for me, to set up an environment for guys to discuss a variety of to…
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 04:52 PM
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I doubt that is the purpose of the study. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 02:44 PM
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It's a post about porn in general: What is porn? Does it belong in a Christian relationship? Is it necessary? Is it a sin? All of these topics, and more, are available for discussion. Feel free to add a verse. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 02:42 PM
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I have some very good audio that will be released soon. Yes, a book would be great. It all takes a little time. Lol
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:47 PM
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I also think churches are dying because of a lack of true Alpha male leadership. I have had guys tell tell that they don't want to go to certain churches because there are too many beta males in leadership there. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:23 PM
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I don't think the church is dying because of a lack of "conversion." I think that's only a symptom. And I don't think it's about a lack of sexual conversation, however you want to phrase that. I think churches are dying because people don't see them as relevant. It takes more than just talking about sex. People can get that on TV or on their phones. To me it's more about providing a functional toolbox. Guys must have proper tools to deal with these issues. That's where the church drops the ball …
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:16 PM
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I agree. You gotta be smart about things in today's weird environment. In my PMC group, I develop my own stuff to fit our situation in our Biblical framework. I keep everything PG13 a much as we can. We take a lot of secular stuff and make it fit what we want to do. We come up with our own terminology, etc. Out of our 20 guys, I work really hard with 2 other guys in developing our stuff. It a great time. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 12:57 PM
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Sounds great. Let's do it. We can talk soon. See my other post from the summer about how to start a red pill group in your own area. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 07:43 AM
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I started it in April as I started teaching a men's group of about 10 guys. I started teaching Red Pill awareness topics to our 10 guys. We had so much demand for it that I had to start another group in earl September. We recently combined the first two groups into one Elite group so we could make room to start our third group of guys. We currently have 20 guys in our program. Our third group will start up on 12/2/18. We are doing tremendous work with guys teaching Red Pill awareness in a Biblic…
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 07:36 AM
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PMC is the Positive Masculinity Crusade.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 07:17 AM
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Yep. You can't negotiate desire!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 07:16 AM
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That's classic! Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 06:05 AM
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It's ok to let it flow, bro! If things aren't flowing properly, things turn into a swamp in the reproductive area. We have to get this thing figured out. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:38 AM
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You got that right!
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:35 AM
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If you find other info, send it along. Thanks again. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:23 AM
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Yes, #DCB is a symptom of a lot of things. But either way, the frequency has to be there to keep things flowing. When body fluids are blocked, problems start happening in all kinds of areas. You are right on! Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:21 AM
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Great post. In my post that you referenced, I touch on the subject of Shame and its role in the church. Shame has to be addressed in these issues so we can have a healthy appreciation for beauty. Your wording is so viseceral as you say that men are "killing themselves" as they try to find a balance between being a guy and dealing with natural urges on the one hand and also dealing with the unhealthy Shame-Gravy that gets dumped all over them by an overzealous and judgmental church culture. I am …
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:17 AM
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Again, the Dead Christian Bedroom is a real epidemic in our culture. If we don't get a handle on this situation, marriages will continue to fail and families and churches will continue the downward spiral. It's a real problem. The good news is that guys still control about 75% of the whole thing.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:04 AM
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I know what you mean about such a high number of sexless marriages out there...ouch! That's brutal! Looks like everyone has some work to do in this area: Guys: Do a better job of leading your hottie in the romance area. Gals: Do a better job of meeting his needs. Please Read: I just posted a recent post about what a healthy sexual frequency might look like...19-21 times a month for a healthy sexual release helps to prevent prostate cancer. See the above note for more details.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 05:00 AM
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New Info About Sex/Masturbation and the link to Prostate Cancer: There are so many problems that arise from a lack of a healthy sexual release. Again, it's not a surprise that the #2 cause of cancer in men is prostate cancer. The 1921 Club: There is a recent study about the connection of sex/masturbation to prostate cancer. The magic number to shoot for seems to be 19-21 times a month. That seems to be the number where prostate cancer is reduced in men over 50 yrs of age. For men under 50 yrs, t…
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 04:56 AM
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There are so many problems that arise from a lack of a healthy sexual release. Again, it's not a surprise that the #2 cause of cancer in men is prostate cancer. There is a recent study about the connection of masturbation to prostate cancer. The magic number to shoot for seems to be 19-21 times a month. That seems to be the number where prostate cancer is reduced in men over 50 yrs of age. For men under 50 yrs, the results are a little mixed it seems. This research is based on several similar st…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 04:52 AM
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I understand what you mean about transactional sex (accommodation sex), but we are always trying to move toward validational sex. Duty/transactional sex is humiliating to one or both parties. You are right about the #DCB, it shouldn't happen in a Christian context if the couple is shooting for a biblical model.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 04:40 AM
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That is a great survey. It has everything for an initial study except for a larger sample size. But about 200 respondents is a good start for sure.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 04:31 AM
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You both were created as sexual beings. She has the right of first refusal with you and your sexual needs. If she doesn't take care of your needs, you will still have the needs. And you will go take care of those needs. You will go look at Porn, or some other girl, or masturbate or whatever. But she can't complain about you doing that because as your spouse she had the opportunity to take care of your needs and she didn't do so. The same is true for her. You have the right of first refusal with …
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 03:50 AM
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Both spouses have a huge part to play in keeping their mate in a healthy state of mind when it comes to sexual areas. Spouses have the right of first refusal in the bedroom. It's beyond naive to think that guys are being denied in the bedroom that they won't seek some other outlet for their needs in this area. It's not healthy for a guy to have all that build up in the prostate area. Why do you think that prostate cancer is the 2nd leading cause of cancer among men? Spouses, do your job in helpi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 03:47 AM
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Sexual sins are an all-important topic. The 10 Commandments list sexual sins 2 times: Once for committing adultery once for just thinking about it Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 02:04 AM
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Looks good. Yeah, I don't think we need to go with the top-down approach of "Porn Is Wrong...Shame on you sinner!" I think most in a church atmosphere understand the damage that porn does. That's not my issue. That has been done to death by a million people in articles all over the place. My deal is more about trying to address the underlying reasons for the porn habits. I am trying to address how guys can deal with it. We could go in a lot of different directions from that starting point. The s…
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:56 AM
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I will address the suicide issue in another post. Yes, its a real issue out there.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:28 AM
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The work that I do puts me in a position to take many of these calls and get involved with many of these conversations. People look for ways out of this life when they struggle to find hope. My job is to get them to HOPE.
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:24 AM
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It's great that you and your wife can get after it. Unfortunately, in my experience working with guys, that is just not the norm. Of course, there is a whole continuum of activity on the "Sexy-Time" scale. The definition of a sexless marriage is having sex 10 times a year or less. You can google search it and see that the number range from 40 million couples and up being in a sexless bedroom. I call that a "Dead Bedroom." Whatever number you choose to go with, it adds up to a lot of frustrated c…
/r/RPChristians17/11/18 01:22 AM
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Thanks for the feedback man. I have read many of your posts recently and in the past. I haven't read any of your posts that I disagree with (that I remember right off, anyway). Porn is a sinful activity and in the work I am doing I have all kinds of evidence that it's not a healthy activity in any regard. I have no problem approaching people about the damage that porn does to our relationship with God and with our spouses and other relationships in our daily lives as well. I don't think that cal…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 11:42 PM
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One of the things I have really stressed to our groups is that we are looking for guys who have a lot of pain. Guys who have pain will be motivated to struggle through the tough times in order to through to a better life. We can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped, but what we can do is help them learn to talk about things. We can help them learn how to view things through a RP lens. We can also develop a vocabulary of terms that specifically address issues without the same old general …
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 11:02 PM
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I get the most traction from guys when I get them to open up about their most troubling issues. We develop trust and safety by working in a non-judgmental environment. I am sure someone here will raise their hand and talk about "confronting sinners" or some other biblical principle like that. We have been able to back-door these issues by role playing or going into 3rd person conversation. It makes the topics a lot easier to choke down for people. We try to kill shame at every turn. And I don't …
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 10:53 PM
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I want to make sure you know where I am coming from when I state that the church as we know it will no longer exist in 50 yrs if we don't fix this Dead Christian Bedroom issue. I feel that RP Awareness issues have to be taught early and often in our families and churches. We can't depend on public schools to teach this material. We are lacking male leadership in the church and it's causing a total collapse in the institution and culture of our fellowship and related membership. Without teaching …
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 10:38 PM
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I don't think we can really have this discussion without adequately dealing with Shame and the component it plays in all of this. So I will have some follow up posts related to this discussion. I also think it's important to discuss some related topics such as the marriage covenant of both parties, etc. I will get to those topics at another time. But for now, this will get it all kicked off the cliff and get us rolling. Joe Mak PMC Member
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 09:02 PM
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Thanks man. Working on it now.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 08:39 PM
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Somewhere in here we probably need to clarify some of the statements so we can all keep moving down the trail together. This issue of porn keeps coming up. As I have said before, it's tough to make condemning statements about blanket topics without commenting a little bit about context. So, I'll give it a go now. Porn is such a lightning-rod issue in churches and in society in general. To make a blanket statement that "porn is bad" or "porn is a sin" is missing the mark in my opinion. What is th…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 08:21 PM
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Agreed. These issues need to be talked about. As far as the repentance issue, the process is the same as far as cleaning out the heart. Getting rid of shame and repentance go through the same process. That can be for another post. I don't want to throw another algebra problem into all of this. Thanks man. Have a great day.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 02:39 PM
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Agreed. Embrace the oppo. Just join the conversation in her head. And obviously, the conversation in her head is "I need more sex. And, I need it so bad I have to use a mechanical device." No harm done here. Just get in there and help her out. You don't need to feel inadequate or upset or jealous or anything else. Just help her discover more of her sexual side. It should be fun for both of you.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 02:00 PM
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I am not encouraging anyone to look at Porn. The fact is that he stated in his post that he has looked and Porn and also stated that it's "no longer a problem." He did not state that he no longer looks at Porn. All I did in my response was state the obvious. That he is looking at girls playing with dildos on Porn. I work with guys on this particular issue of sex issues all the time and I will tell you that when guys say they used to look at Porn but that now it's no longer a problem...it doesn't…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 01:15 PM
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Sounds great. I think we should use all available media.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:54 AM
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Amen to that!
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:42 AM
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She will calibrate to your leadership in this or other areas. Just go have fun and see where it goes for now. You don't have to use up a lot of RAM to figure out all the contingency plans right now. Just go have a coke or an ice cream for now. See if you could even imagine being with her in a long term situation. You don't have to get pulled into oneitis at this point.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:33 AM
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You are on a different path now. Your eyes have been opened and awareness can be a lonely road at times. Never fear, just keep working on fine-tuning your filters and listening to the spirit. Keep looking for functional teachings.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:16 AM
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Don't volunteer info she doesn't need? Really? Just tell her you're filing for bankruptcy? What!?! That's terrible advice. I think she needs a lot more info than that. You used some of her money to get yourself into trouble I presume? Tell her what's going on and start getting yourself out of this mess. This could spiral into an awful situation in a hurry.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:09 AM
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There is more to this story than you are telling in order to get solid advice from us. If you are in a real mess financially, it doesn't matter the motivation behind starting your next project. Start your project and get yourself out of this mess, and that right soon.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 05:06 AM
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In all reality, her "wanking with a vibe" might not actually be uncharacteristic for her.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 04:59 AM
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When you say that this is a spiritual problem, you have turned this thing into an Algebra problem. When you tell a guy to stay within the guidelines of scripture, you have turned this thing into an Algebra problem. I think I missed the scripture that deals with a married lady playing with her dildo. The problem with Algebra problems is that they are left-brained analytical by nature. And that is bad sex...It's not sexy. I submit that we can talk about sexual problems without scripture-shaming pe…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 04:53 AM
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Tired of the Dead Christian Bedroom? I work with many guys on this issue of the Dead Christian Bedroom. I call it the #DCB. Raise your hand if you would love to walk in and find out that your wife has such a sexual appetite that she not only can handle everything that you can offer, but that she also has a surplus of sexual energy... Good for you if you have a wife who needs to get off... Now you only need to tune-up in 3 areas. You don't need to solve her frigidity, or her self image issues, or…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 04:17 AM
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You all have totally turned this whole discussion into an Algebra Problem. Algebra is not sexy. Also, arguing about scripture when trying to help a guy in this situation is totally counterproductive. This whole thing is overblown. They guy just needs to focus on keep her attention on a more proactive basis. If you're boring, she's whoring. It's as simple as that.
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 03:28 AM
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Totally! Don't leave a note. That's begging and begging is bad sex. NEVER have bad sex! Go in with a Non-Judgmental attitude if you bring it up to her and the world will be yours and everything that's in it. If your wife has healthy sexual appetite and has not gone outside the marriage to satisfy her needs then say a prayer of thanks for that. If you want to be fun and cocky, you only need to leave her a new package of batteries next to her favorite toy and she will get the message and know that…
/r/RPChristians16/11/18 03:21 AM
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She is not a good pick for you...go look around some more...keep dating other girls...too many red flags...not enough good energy here...find someone who appreciates you...develop an attitude of outcome independence
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 03:34 AM
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Great stuff. Thanks.
/r/RPChristians19/09/18 12:35 PM
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The post about cologne is a great post. Any guy with a minimal operating level can surely handle working on some basic RP stuff while at the same time looking down the cologne aisle. The fun thing about the RPC world is that we can all work concurrently on a wide range of topics. I sure hope we don't have to get all the basics figured out before we can start looking into topics on the level of cologne. If not, we might never get to the cologne topics. Most folks work on the basics for the rest o…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 06:47 PM
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Marriage is a huge step. I have been married for 28yrs the same woman. It's an absolute blessing with the right woman. It's an absolute nightmare with with wrong woman. You have enough red flags to be concerned about for sure. I feel that the red flags could turn into a lot of regret and ill-will later on. I think it would help to work on your frame quite a bit more. In marriage you will need to be a confident leader. You are not ready for that role yet based on all the self-doubt exhibited towa…
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 03:23 PM
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There are a lot of #Shame based behaviors and attitudes in #BDSM practices. #Shame is a universal feeling that is understood by every human. It comes from a feeling that we are #Flawed a not worthy of love. I have a hard time believing that Christ would be pleased with us participating in #BDSM practices outside of marriage. As far as #BDSM practices in a marriage context...Hey man, that's your bedroom not mine. But in terms of #RedPill behavior...I don't see a man on the receiving end of #BDSM …
/r/RPChristians25/08/18 02:40 PM
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The question on reading was meant for ironmonk, but that's ok. It works for all. Lol. Sometimes it's hard to get in reading time. It's tough for me too! I do have some drive time, so I try to listen to audio when I can and knock out some reading material fairly quickly. For example, No More Mr Nice Guy is a terrific start down the RedPill trail. What I found was that you can find the author Robert Glover, interviewed on youtube. During the 10-15 minute interview he goes into the 5-6 main points …
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 01:45 AM
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Keep your head up man! All guys have these issues with women. You might want to go #NoContact for a while with women. At least until you can trust yourself in their presence. Have you found a local #ManGroup to be a part of yet?
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:31 AM
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It's a good book for sure. What are you reading currently?
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:24 AM
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As far as the out of control texting: go get an old-school flip phone. As far as talking dirty to women: you are defiling women of God. Somethings are a huge no-no. That is one of them. You, as a Christian man, are supposed to serve as protector and guardian of their physical person as well as their spiritual growth and well-being.
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:21 AM
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Again, you have free will and are choosing not to exercise it for Christ. In this #metoo age we live in, these types of actions will result in jail or sexual harassment, etc. You will be without a job before long. You might want to find a local addiction group in your area. Good luck with your life style.
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:15 AM
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That might be helpful. Let's stay in touch and maybe get together for a phone call. Best
/r/RPChristians24/08/18 12:04 AM
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I really hard to give advice with so little info. How long have you been dating? Who is the more mature Christian? Are you fairly equally yoked? Where are each of you in your walk with Jesus? How was he brought up compared to your situation? So many questions. Everything matters. Everything.
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 03:16 AM
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It sounds like you have a lot of internal conflict. The bottom line is that you will be who/what y want to be. You are currently being the person you want be right now. If you were motivated to be a true Christian, you would be. Everyone is motivated. Everyone. The couch potato guy is motivated to be on the couch. That's exactly what he wants to do at that moment. It's pretty simple really. The real issue is that you are hurting. You are seeking validation in your life. You have a huge hole of e…
/r/RPChristians23/08/18 02:53 AM
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Top 3 Ways To Build A RedPill Church: If a RedPill Church is to be developed, then RedPill principles must be taught and woven throughout the culture of the body of believers. In theory, it shouldn't be such such foreign concept. In my way of thinking, RedPill principles are Christian principles. So, here we go... Top 3 Ways to Build A RedPill Church: Develop A Core Group of Men Who Are Well-Versed in RedPill Principles! A pastor can't do it all alone. There is just too much to overcome. There i…
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 03:36 AM
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You are right on the money with your ideas. It's tough to build a RedPill Church with everything stacked against it in our society. We need strong pastors who will model Christian principles with true conviction.
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 02:45 AM
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I agree with your position on this issue.
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 02:43 AM
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I already know that. Was just trying to get some thoughts out. I think I will do it alot more now.
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 07:50 AM
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That is a great question: What can we do at a grass-roots level? There are many things we can do. We can start teaching #RPC classes. See my posts related to starting up a class in your local area. I have more posts about that topic coming soon. Keep your head up and keep working with the guys in your local area.
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 07:17 AM
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tremendous post! Women don't want to be the destination. So true!
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 07:06 AM
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yep, yep, and yep!
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 07:03 AM
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Your post actually does directly reference scripture. David and Michal had an absolutely terrible situation going. After he came back to town parading with the Ark, Michal shamed him and rejected him outright. This is covered in 2 Samuel Ch 6. David failed many of her Fit Tests along the way. He had a lot of deserve-level issues with women, at least with the bratty daughters of King Saul. He seemed to do alright with Bathsheba and Abigail. LoL! Put David on the battlefield and David is your #1 c…
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 06:46 AM
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Both are great books.
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 06:14 AM
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3 Ways to Stop #DutySex: STOP Having Bad Sex -- Just stop it already. If you are in the middle of #Starfish sex, pull out and go on with your day. Don't give her the satisfaction of having your seed. Be willing to say NO to #BadSex! Starfish sex and duty sex are humiliating. It's not worth it. Somewhere there is an intersection point between where the "masturbation satisfaction scale" intersects with the "sexual satisfaction scale." So, in other words is a level 4 on the masturbation satisfactio…
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 06:08 AM
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I am getting close to finishing up the first part of my audio series. So far I have 8 audio CDs and I have another 6 going through the editing process right now. Most of them run about 90 minutes or so. They are the audio tracks I made from the Positive Masculinity Crusade class that I teach on Saturday mornings. I am not sure how to get the word out here once I get them finished. Any ideas?
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 04:46 AM
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I have the maxwell book. It's a great book. It really is. But it's not really a RedPill type of book. It's more in line with Brian Tracy. Great Head-Trip stuff, etc. But not where I would go for real RP content.
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 04:40 AM
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Thanks man. I am getting some more content ready to post on here, but things in other areas need attention right now. Keep an eye out for my other stuff soon. We have been having some tremendous classes with out PMC men's group. Lots of fun.
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 04:52 AM
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That's a great question. I am not sure what you mean by "Christian worldview," please let me know what you mean by that. Do you mean "Christian viewpoint?" I have an idea what that means to most Christians. But "Christian Worldview" kind of leaves a lot of things hanging out there and it would depend on the Christian as to what their world view is, etc. The short answer in a generic answer is that: No More MR. Nice Guy is what I would call a secular book. It is not a biblically based book. We us…
/r/RPChristians23/07/18 02:50 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy is a great book to start with. It has a very readable presentation and format. It's a nice introduction to the RedPill world. I would follow that up the Married Man Sex Primer book. Tremendous resource. I like all the Rational Male books also, but they are more grad school.
/r/RPChristians22/07/18 10:29 PM
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I posted it over there also.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/18 09:33 PM
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If you don't have Outcome Clarity, you will have a terrible time making decisions. Be clear on what outcomes you are after. It simplifies the whole process. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 10:32 PM
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yep
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 06:56 PM
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Let me know if you all need anything regarding starting up an RPC group. I started one here locally and its been great. You can read my other posts about it also for more info.
/r/RPChristians20/07/18 03:41 PM
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There a lot of books about it. One that comes to mind is Jeffrey Gittomer's Book: Little Gold Book of Yes attitude! You can get it on Amazon.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:41 AM
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The more awareness you have, the less apt you are to fall into the #CrazyGap. I try to work on outcome independence. It has helped me to maintain better state-control.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:46 AM
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sounds great. Do it. Feel free to comment on the main post so others can benfit from our dialogue also. You can also send me direct messages, whichever is good for you. Thanks,
/r/RPChristians19/07/18 07:21 PM
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Totally. It has been tremendous for us to have a support group. We call it a Master Mind group. I will have a separate post on what we have done. Look for it soon.
/r/RPChristians19/07/18 12:16 AM
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Wow. Just wow, man. Too many issues here to go into during one post. But a few quick thoughts to start out: There are some major narcissistic tendencies here to understand. First of all it sounds like she is a COVERT narcissist. If so, good and bad. The good is that she can go ahead and make good on her divorce threat and move on down the trail. The bad is that she can't be fixed. Covert Narcissists can't be fixed. I don't know the whole situation, so I can't diagnose her professionally, but the…
/r/RPChristians18/07/18 12:47 PM
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There can be a lot of anger in the #RedPill world. What has helped me the most is to focus on the awareness trail. I keep trying to raise my awareness about people and the world. It helps to think of life here on Earth as a temporary place. This isn't my long term residence. I keep reading more books. The Road Less Traveled was a good starting place. Part of having #RedPill awareness involves going your own way. It can be a lonely trail a lot of the time. I have had to learn to unplug from all t…
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 04:14 PM
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I'm with you fellas.
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 01:21 AM
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I will see what I can do
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 12:04 AM
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Here is how Merriam Webster sees it: 1 a : an annoyingly stupid or foolish person was acting like a jerk b : an unlikable person; especially : one who is cruel, rude, or small-minded a selfish jerk This is how I use the term JERK. A JERK is someone who is "unlikable" and cruel, etc. I am not really worried about how women choose to use the word. The examples that you listed above looks like they belong in a Fit-Test Primer. The items listed above look to be the result of how women feel when men …
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 12:02 AM
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I am interested in helping Christian males in any way I can. What did you have in mind?
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 10:19 PM
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We can Maintain Frame as Christian men without being JERKS. We can maintain frame with females and in our congregations as well. Great book by Glover in the sidebar. He has some things to say about that. The issue is that you have to maintain State in order to maintain Frame. Once you turn into a JERK, you have an emotional side that has gotten away from you and you have lost State-Control. And, as a result you lose Frame more easily.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 03:10 PM
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Sounds like the guy needs some help with his overall awareness. You have to have the Head and the Heart to reach people and to have influence.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 02:58 PM
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Balance is the key in all of it. We all have to find the appropriate mix of Alpha/Beta. Where should we fall on that continuum? I understand Fit-Testing and all. Maybe the vocab is where we can start. The douchebag church isnt where I want to attend and I don't think many other people do either. Jesus wasn't a douchebag. Nor do I want to attend the gathering where all the Christian males act like Jerks. So where is the balance. We have to push back, but we don't want to lose our influence for Ch…
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 02:48 PM
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In my own system I view things on the Alpha/Beta continuum, rather than the Doormat/Douchebag level of things. But it looks like we both have the JERK tag in our syntax. For me personally, I like the Alpha/Beta vocab because I want to be able to talk with my sons about it in a cleaner way. Douches and Douchebags are not a part of our normal language. I think course talk is similar to profanity in that once it gets its nose in the tent, the whole camel will soon follow. And to me course talk is j…
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 08:55 AM
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Yes, it's possible. But it will take some work on the reset. You have to have outcome-clarity though: 1. Do you want to live according to a Biblical model? Or worldly model? 2. Are both people of the same mindset?
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 06:24 AM
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