This is an observed pattern amongst some of my red pilled friends and my reading of posts here and askTRP.
You got introduced to The Red Pill. You started lifting, eating right and are six months into this journey. You look the best you have in a long time and in process to look better than now. Your career has picked up, you can game some average girls easily and get quite a few hot matches in online dating scene.
However, you can't help with oneitis or closing the deal with a real HB9 or above. You go and have good dates but they flake in the last minute while closing. If this is your recurring pattern, your main issue is cultivating abundance mentality. Especially if you've been always alone or in a relationship.
Some newly red pilled guys I know and read failed FR in this forum fall into this trap. They don't understand that abundance mentality is as important as looks or even game if you want to plate an average girl or fuck a hot girl.
A lot of hot girls in their early 20s say shit like - "I don't know, I wanna move to New York or Paris or whatever in 3 months" even though you fully know she's gonna be a barista in that coffee house till a white knight rescues her. Sometimes they give not so obvious signals like they are gonna move out in a month or something - "my lease is ending, I'm gonna live with my sister for a while in Kansas".
This is when a lot of guys deal with "OMG she's interested in me and she's probably going to bang me but I need to convince her to fuck me asap" and they get all clingy. I have known atleast 3 guys in the past 2 months who accommodated a little too much or gave a little too much attention and "she lost interest".
Guys, there's plenty of whores in the street don't get that temporary "I need to bang her" cling, be cool and close the deal.
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