TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

RPNoober Archive

View 4 posts and 57 comments by RPNoober on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
9

RPNoober/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 11:07 PM
7

RPNoober/r/askMRP24/03/16 06:07 PM
1

RPNoober/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 05:51 PM
1

RPNoober/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:25 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I like Kohlberg's stages of moral development myself. Once you reach the top you truly dngaf and feel OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 09:10 PM
7

we get pregnant Both of you at the same time? What are the chances?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 09:03 PM
1

used to take such great pride in being spontaneous. Well, that works when you're in college and really lacking direction and just having fun. Doesn't work when you have businesses, wife, kids, etc. I used to think this way too. Wife used to love it back in the day, now she finds it annoying as fuck. Got to adapt and lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:42 PM
1

E-books at the gym. Books at bedtime are like 4 shots of vodka for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 10:58 PM
1

Montage is life
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 05:39 PM
1

I guess I don't see the problem with doing better at things that either I have done erratically (lifting) or she has openly asked me to do (dress better, lead). I'm no where near showing interest in other chicks. She also knows I'm always available for comfort as one of my biggest complaints in the past had been her lack of reciprocity in that area. I have still made it abundantly clear that I'm interested in her. The other day she commented on how our relationship had been much better over the …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 05:08 PM
2

I think I just had a seizure.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 05:00 PM
2

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 04:51 PM
5

I think I've confused OI with frame as in my mind I think of OI when she gets upset but I don't. My mistake. I don't think she's walking on eggshells. She's a tough lady. I still get shit tested, but less so and non sexual affection has increased. I was in the middle of NMMNG and hadn't yet had my aha moment. I see now what she meant. I've read the pregnancy warnings about dread. Yes, I have ruffled her feathers with my changes, but this is all stuff she had been nagging me to do for years anywa…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 04:19 AM
1

It was cathartic to put all that down in one place. It's been running through my head for awhile, hopefully now that it's here it won't be in my head. Will do.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 03:59 AM
1

For sure. It's all soft dread now.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 12:56 AM
2

Little? I'm way bigger than you. Haven't given the toast yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/16 12:52 AM
1

Gotcha
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 09:51 PM
1

"The last 3 days have been gruelling because of work, long commute times and stronglifts, and I am having a hard time to make it light & fun when she shit tests me" This used to be a big problem for me. STFU was/is my best friend when I feel this way. When I'm not at 100% I only make things worse by talking.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 06:48 PM
2

Basically you're living with your mom. I wouldn't bring any mammal into a relationship like this. Real question is whether you can maintain frame (or even want to maintain frame) and not intervene in the face of a mistreated dog. Secondary, 6'6" 200? What made you lose 20lbs? I have a similar body type and have gained 20lbs in last 6 months. Tall and skinny needs gains not weight loss. This change in mindset has been huge for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 04:16 PM
3

Second this. I've learned not to expect her to make me happy. I make myself happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 03:54 PM
2

Lonely people with no purpose who feel that bringing others down makes them happier.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 08:15 PM
2

I think it's been pretty recent. In the past your family or society would find you a woman. Also it wasn't acceptable for a woman to be unmarried so she had incentive to find a man when she was young and unpregnant. Probably in the last generation or two Western culture has left finding a woman up to the man and allowed women to remain single past their use by date.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 08:05 PM
1

Are you having a seizure? Cause you repeat yourself.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 10:44 PM
1

I just reread the intro to askMRP on the side bar. Feels to me like things have strayed from the original intention. To quote... To provide a supportive and less confrontational forum than the no holds barred locker room atmosphere on /r/marriedredpill.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 09:00 PM
1

To ease your worry, I haven't lost any sleep over it. When you shit talk with your friends you know about their dead mom and can see their expression which adds a lot to your understanding of what they are feeling, thinking, saying. The Internet gives you none of that, so why try emotionally charged language without the emotion? Unless you think you write on Reddit like Hemingway and read mind like Penn.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 07:54 PM
1

Awesome. I like the prophet, I'll have to reread it. Thanks man.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 07:42 PM
1

:)
/r/askMRP26/04/16 07:40 PM
1

Lack of shame? Sounds like you can dish it but not take it. Good article, but my point still stands that I'm not looking for friends. I'm looking for answers. I don't see the Internet as a place for friends. Imagine if you posted a question to r/ask science and were hazed. Seems like a waste of everyone's time to me. Good point on the charisma thing. What am I training for? I don't get that.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 07:39 PM
1

Cancer man. Fuck. Have a heart. So what you're saying is that dudes here act like women? I get it. I just think it's lame. I shit talk with my friends, but I don't come to the Internet for friends. I come here to learn.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 01:04 AM
-1

Just seems like a place called ask... Should provide answers or opinions, not shit talking.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 12:00 AM
1

Fuck you. My mom is dead. . . . . . . . . ..... .. . . ...
/r/askMRP25/04/16 11:56 PM
-1

I don't see how that improves anyone's life.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 11:47 PM
-2

I'm not "insisting". How do you think you helped anyone with this comment?
/r/askMRP25/04/16 10:34 PM
1

What's wrong with subtle?
/r/askMRP25/04/16 08:47 PM
0

For sure. I don't want to embarrass or be a dick, but I don't want to say the usual sappy shit. It's going to be very brief too. Any thoughts on what would be good to say. Any good quotes.?
/r/askMRP25/04/16 08:47 PM
-1

I really don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:47 PM
1

What?
/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:43 PM
-2

I don't see it as "snark". I see it as advice. Toasts I've seen before usually have some nice words about the couple and a soppy quote about love or marriage. So what's a good RP quote that will not be viewed poorly.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:40 PM
1

Hilarious. I always thought that was a myth. Poor dudes with painful balls.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 07:09 PM
1

Thanks for the insight.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 06:46 PM
1

Good advice. Thanks.
/r/askMRP25/03/16 12:46 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 11:24 PM
1

The jobs have always been a step up. Id like to think my wife is different than a job, but maybe I'm being naive.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 11:24 PM
1

Just looking for opinion and experience. I don't think the questions require much context. I don't want you to tell me what to do. I want to hear whether you have experienced what I am feeling and what you think about it.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 11:17 PM
1

Well put.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 09:00 PM
1

Point taken. Good advice.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:59 PM
1

Probably because I'm a beta and leaving jobs or towns is easier than fixing or suffering through them. However for that same reason the wife is different.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:58 PM
1

Probably because I'm a beta and leaving jobs or towns is easier than fixing or suffering through them. However for that same reason the wife is different.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:58 PM
1

Truth
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:35 PM
1

Isn't a goal in life to have a job you're not bored with? Maybe I'll just never be satisfied. I've move towns and jobs and careers numerous times in my life in search of utopia that has never come. Unfortunately I feel unable to do that when it comes to women. Maybe I need to be satisfied with what I have. That is going to be a tough pill to swallow.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:33 PM
1

Maybe it's fear that she won't change and we're stuck with a lemon.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:30 PM
1

This is not me or my wife. The issue for me is that if the goal is to not care, why stick around?
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:28 PM
1

Explain how I will find different value in her?
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:25 PM
1

Im actually further away from thinking about divorce than I was before I found the RP. I'm just bored with her, not physically, but mentally. I find myself trying to get through dinner quickly and avoiding hey add much as possible. It's great for my hobbies and lifting but just feels wrong.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:24 PM
1

She's not a moron, she's just a woman. She sees the world so differently than me. I used to find her perspective interesting, but now it nauseates me. I would be disgusted by my kids if they acted this way. No doubt about it. I don't have a daughter though, so maybe that would be different.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:17 PM
2

Never felt like that about girls. The interesting ones (for me) are usually batshit crazy and not wife or mother material. All the others could fall in a hole for all I cared. I've got to figure out why I liked this one back then and figure out if that can come back.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:14 PM
1

Just seems shitty spend so much time with someone you find boring. There's only so much time one can spend away from the wife before it would make more sense to split.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:07 PM
1

You're probably right. I just wonder what is going to change. Or, how is she going to change that I'm going to enjoy sittingg across the table from her every night. I think of friends I've dropped because they were boring or dramatic or plain shit heads and I wonder why I would drop them but not my wife.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 07:58 PM
1

A lot people around here say things like " treat you wife like your little sister " and I think "I wouldn't hang out with my little sister". That's where the cognitive dissonance comes from.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 07:54 PM
1

That's a good point. I appreciate the perspective.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 07:50 PM
1

I just wonder what she's going to improve at? Is she going to become a more interesting person? I guess that could happen, I hope it's happening with me.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 07:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter