RPWfortheWin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	FR: Death of the Honey Do List	FIELD REPORT	RPWfortheWin	/r/RedPillWives	17/10/17 12:03 PM
1	Former single mom, tired of being the dominant in marriage	LTR/MARRIAGE	RPWfortheWin	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/17 02:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	FR: Death of the Honey Do List They certainly did! Weekends are when they usually have chores alongside me, so when I decided not to make him a list i also forgot to make them one.	/r/RedPillWives	17/10/17 06:09 PM
3	How to make your home pretty and fresh (aesthetics)? Dumping clutter is a great first step. The stuff around your environment should bring you functionality and/or warm feelings, plus the less you have the more you can enjoy what's there. I'd also recommend a strong neutral tone wall color (dark grey has served me well, and I can decorate seasonally or change up accents with little clashing). Finally, I think plants are always a nice touch. Strong deep green ivys or flowers in a vase, or both.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/17 03:42 PM
9	will breaking up with him make him respect me more? If you think you'd be better off without him, move on. If you leave with the intention of scaring him into shaping up you run the risk of 1) him deciding it's not worth it and moving on or 2) you caving and entering back into the same bad situation. Ultimatums are manipulation, plain and simple. On the other hand if you break it off and later allow him to court you after he has reflected on things, it may work out. DH and I had a three year FWB arrangement. I didn't see him as someone I could ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/17 11:39 PM
5	CMV: Tall women don't have the same dating problems as short men. The assertion that men are less picky about height isn't necessarily true. I'm 6'0" barefoot, generally athletic build. Outside of a novelty one night stand, lots of men are resistant to being with a tall woman. My husband is an inch shorter than I am. He still makes comments about my height and gets his best posture on in photos. I find that my androgynous build equates to men treating me as more of an equal socially and professionally, which is great, but that never carried over to dating. Whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/17 12:15 PM
2	[NOT a shitpost] Seriously: How can women even be insecure? Well, not everyone compliments every woman. So even if some grandpa-aged fisherman who hasn't seen a shower in weeks tells me I've got a great smile, that may not exactly carry over to the moment when I hear the hot, successful, muscular bachelor at work mention to some other guy how he's into big old boobies. Now I'm insecure and feeling self conscious. We know we could easily get laid, but we'd like it to be with the people we're into. Sometimes that's built off of general societal ideas of be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/17 01:12 PM
1	Depression under control but still feeling insecure Are you still actively addressing your mental health? You say your depression is "under control" but also that you may be a mild form of bipolar (look into cyclothymia). Are things better through your efforts or because it's just a better time for you naturally? That said, I think that when it comes to mental health challenges, there's no way to get others to hold our perspective, so the burden falls to us to be sure we are getting what we need in those dark or difficult times. If you aren't rel…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/17 11:50 AM
4	How should men show their anger and how should us as women respond? "... anger often is a product of helplessness" This. If he can't handle emotional discomfort over not having control (essentially over others like spouses or commuters in this sense), that's a bad sign, especially paired with powerful physical expressions. Safety first, nothing trumps that.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/17 03:47 PM
9	Uni girls claim most men are "too dumb" for them Most researchers I've known personally have spouses who work in completely unrelated fields. The one couple I knew who collaborated in their research were recently divorced. I appreciate that when I explain my research to my husband he gives a pleasant "that's cool, honey" rather than questioning the methods or statistical analysis used. Peer review is often anonymous for a reason :)	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/17 05:52 PM
26	Uni girls claim most men are "too dumb" for them These women are looking to be intellectually stimulated by the same person who stimulates them sexually and romantically. I have a graduate degree and a strong interest in social and political issues/theory. My husband is a skilled tradesman with a high school diploma and zero interest in things beyond his control. Trying to bait him into deep talks about the world is frustrating for both of us, so I save those talks for my very dear and intellectually similar best friend, a colleague or two, an…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/17 05:45 PM
1	Height Vs Weight The Showdown It does suck, but I also think that as humans we have stereotypes like that a small guy who has lots of muscles is either a) obsessed with looks (which is intimidating) or b) is making up for insecurities (which could be grand gestures of masculinity or asshole chest thumping later on) When your stature is less naturally appealing you may have to bank on personality and other positive qualities. I hope you find your mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/17 12:56 PM
2	Height Vs Weight The Showdown I'll give you my take as a 6ft tall woman who has been friendzoned by more than one guy taller than me and asked to play wing woman so they could throw some game at a short chubby chick: People want to feel true to their gendered stature. That's less weight and more height. Forget that in my case there would have been much less neck strain for a hug or kiss, it's just not familiar for a tall man to be eye to eye with a woman. For most women it is not familiar or desired to be eye to eye with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/17 03:45 AM
1	cmv: The looks part of dating isn't just about physical attractiveness in a vacuum, but also about how 2 people look together I see lots of couples who look like siblings. Always makes me chuckle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/17 03:35 AM
2	How is YOUR Superiority Complex? I wish I would have had your level of self-reflection at your age. I believe that my natural inclination to "find the best solution" and "cut through excuses" probably kept me from being accepted socially, and certainly has impacted my marriage. As I've worked in the last two years or so to separate this automatic thinking style from my delivered responses I've seen great results at work, socially, and at home.	/r/RedPillWives	28/09/17 12:56 AM
7	OYS, female edition? This! MRP has had some great content that I'd love to encourage DH to read. One on the silliness of infidelity was especially encouraging.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 07:30 PM
2	OYS, female edition? I know my first is get into employment that allows me to repay my pre marital debts. That's my biggest feminist flaw - that I deserve to hold massive student loans and work for peanuts in a low paying flex non profit while my husband bears the burden. Still there is plenty of room for improvement at home and with my self.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 05:41 PM
4	OYS, female edition? I'm very new, and was planning to make an OYS list this evening. I'd love to see what other women have in their plans.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 05:28 PM
2	Why does the MGTOW / Red Pill community think that all single mothers are bad? Former single mother. Having just found the red pill community and agreeing with many of its tenants for marital roles, I can give you a few of the challenges that would have scared away a single, die hard red pill swallower. 1) I was extremely financially independent. Worked two jobs, lived on my own, received only Medicaid for the kids, govt student loans (still paying back) and childcare assistance. Food stamps less than a month over 5 years single. (Not exactly the welfare queen of lore) Tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/17 11:56 PM