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DiscussionRPslimjim/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:20 PM
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1

Who the fuck is spending amusement park money on a FIRST date
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:02 PM
1

They’ll be single but unless they’re unattractive, they’ll get more expensive dates.
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:00 PM
1

I’m able to discern if I actually like her or if I’m just horny.
/r/seduction11/06/23 03:30 AM
2

Post nuptial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:44 PM
2

Dude no matter what, if you divorce she’s going to take you for whatever you have. I hope you have a prenup in place because if not, there’s nothing keeping her from leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:43 PM
1

A woman dedicated to her career leaves us to believe she won’t be dedicated to her family. A dedicated career woman will attract an average guy but a HVM will wan a woman to be dedicated to him and the family more so than her career
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:41 PM
11

The hotter she is, the harder it is for her to take a normal guy seriously. If she’s not in an area with super attractive and well to do males, she will struggle because she’s an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:38 PM
1

That’s not the reason you’re not finding women your age. The reason you’re not finding women your age is because they just want older men. Women can guess your age by your actions much more than your looks. They also can look at lifestyle and possessions. Keep self improving and stop working about dating long term bro. You shouldn’t even get serious until you’re in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:37 PM
2

I’ve literally told women I’ve been with women in the triple digits and it hasn’t bothers them one bit. If the attraction is high enough, it probably doesn’t matter. That being said, if you’re really experienced and she’s not, that can make her super insecure. So play that down if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:45 PM
1

Mods probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:44 PM
1

Stop spreading false info.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:33 PM
1

Idk. Hugs from behind, cheek kisses, ass grabs don’t seem to be platonic. But I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:01 PM
1

Bingo I agree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:55 PM
1

Yeah that’s just wrong. That might be a black pill guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:51 PM
1

I’ve told her all of this. I’ve also said she needs to get therapy and heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:51 PM
1

Your name says mathematician. I assume you know numbers. By the time a woman is 40ish she’s lost around 80% of her eggs. Quantity is the correct term here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:39 PM
1

Stuff has happened and happens (dancing, clubs, drinking) but I’m not escalating. I’m not sure how where you’re meeting these women who let you grab their ass platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:38 PM
1

She’s will be 30 in a matter of months
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:35 PM
1

You meant egg QUANTITY not quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:34 PM
1

No you weren’t, just lack a fundamental understanding of the wall and moreover inter-gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:33 PM
1

Please link these posts. The accepted age for the wall is around 30. A woman’s peak SMV is probably around 23-25 so they may have gotten confused. For future reference when discussing the wall, no that it’s referring to women who wants an LTR with or without around the age of 30. This happens because the men her age that are HV typically date younger mid 20s women. Edit: Link the posts and I’ll correct the poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:31 PM
1

Platonic just means non sexual. The ass grabs I’m doing are inherently sexual. I can’t speak for men’s sports team because I too think that’s sexual and I never did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:27 PM
1

Yeah her bf is a POS. And yeah she needs therapy. I’ve told her to get a good therapist to talk these things through. I’ll say this. Lust doesn’t mean you’re not hitting the wall. Getting men to have sex with is easy for a woman. However, getting a man to stay in a relationship/ marriage is the hard thing for many women to do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:18 PM
0

My rotation includes ass grabs and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:08 PM
1

I’m from the US so many men don’t kiss on the cheek nor grab a woman’s ass if they’re platonic friends. That being said, all other women I’m friends with aren’t platonic. We hook up, go on dates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:07 PM
1

Hahahahahahahahahhahaha I’d agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:03 PM
2

I think physical attraction is probably one of the top reasons a dating pool will either grow or shrink. In your first comment you alluded to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:02 PM
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She’s great and she’s attractive but I’m not wise enough not to: Pursue a woman only for sex if I’ve know her this long Break up her healing process by giving her sex that’s going to be wayyyy better than most men she will date in the future. She’s a pretty cool chick but it’s not there past the physical. Hence ass grabs and kisses on the cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:01 PM
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The flair says discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:58 PM
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I’ve seen it first hand. Being a friend of the family and fairly close having my growth period where I had to be alone (hence me taking the red pill) it was a very humbling experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:58 PM
0

Love a curvier woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:51 PM
1

Why would I need a shot? Im not trying to date this woman lol. I already have a steady rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:46 PM
6

Me being a chocolate man, I’ve noticed that we like curvier girls but a lot of white guys have a thing for broom sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:45 PM
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I’d agree with that however I disagree with your wall definition. What about the prospect of having children? That’s a big aspect of the wall. Being able to bear children. I’ll say that this is in a generality as you can’t get every scenario when having a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:43 PM
2

Depends on what want. If you want kids and relationship/ marriage from a certain status of men, then it may be difficult, hence the “fabled” wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:31 PM
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They have stats on this. I believe it was 60% of men under 30 would rather stay home than date women. It’s a common issue. I’ve talked to kids at the gym and at a non profit that I volunteer for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:47 PM
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Just look on Instagram. There is always some broccoli haired kid in the gym complaining about some x and there is a Tate quote. It’s quite common. I got to a large gym tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:09 PM
1

If you’ve ever dated you’d know that the hotter she is, the more headaches you’ll get. There’s nothing wrong with an adjustable 6 for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:43 PM
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I understand them for what they are, entertainment. There’s good and there’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:41 PM
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I’m seeing more and more high school aged boys in the gym and just grinding. I’ve asked most of them why they’re here and they say something about Andrew tate or another red pill YouTuber said get in the gym and self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:40 PM
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I’m seeing more and more high school aged boys in the gym and just grinding. I’ve asked most of them why they’re here and they say something about Andrew tate or another red pill YouTuber said get in the gym and self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:40 PM
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Dude has blue hair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:46 PM
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His wife fr fucks NFL guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:46 PM
3

Definitely not. Aba and Preach are comedians and Destiny isn’t really a masculine figure especially with him letting his significant other have sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:45 PM
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It’s not really coming back. She or he just don’t have any options.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:37 PM
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Code for, “the alpha fucks me and when I’m ready to settle down I’ll pick the friend who’s always been in the background”
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:57 AM
1

Men and women can’t be friends. Remove her from your life and be great.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:56 AM
1

She’s not your best friend. You just want t fuck her.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:37 PM
1

Which proves my point. You have zero experience dating women as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:56 PM
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I’ve traveled all over the world my friend. Live 10 more years so you can see it from my perspective. You honestly don’t have that much experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:51 PM
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Generally the wall is around 30 years of age. That’s usually when looks start to fade and a woman realizes her biological clock is ticking. A woman who’s 40 doesn’t have the same SMV as a woman who’s 30. A woman who’s 30 doesn’t have the same SMV as a woman who’s 20. I think the OP is a little far fetched but in high earning industries it’s fairly common to see men which women 10 years their junior. The RP community has a few sects, and many of the men in the RP community won’t ever truly be des…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:50 PM
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No because I see the amount of college age women out with middle aged men in my industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:42 PM
1

I think my pics are good More than likely they are not. You need professional quality pics showing various activities that showcase your lifestyle. Women are finicky so you’ll need to be the absolute best on a dating profile.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:12 PM
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🧢
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:01 PM
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Dude those women agreeing with you that are 21 are the same ones with 40 year old sugar daddies sucking dick for a stack.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:57 PM
-1

OP is chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:53 PM
1

Your girl friend is 27, not 37, not 47. That speaks volumes as a response to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:52 PM
1

It’s not the majority. Men aren’t holding sex over a woman’s head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:47 PM
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Bingo, that’s what most women depend on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:11 PM
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I agree. A lesbian woman will not have the same standard placed upon her as a cis-hetero male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:37 PM
1

Simple. She wants to follow your LEAD. She can’t do that if she has to make the first move.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:34 PM
46

15% is more realistic and easier to maintain
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:33 AM
2

So you get rejected using cheat mode?
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:11 AM
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Plenty of them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:02 AM
3

Literally all you need to do is be your best self. If they don’t follow your program go get another that will. It doesn’t matter what they want. All that matters is what you want. You’re the man. You’re the leader .
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:39 PM
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Stop texting these girls so much. Set the date. Don’t text her at all between you setting the date and then confirming the date the night before. She sucks at replying because she’s losing interest. More than likely this girl will flake on you. Stop texting her immediately but continue to source other women.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:34 PM
1

You’re dating one girl at a time while most attractive girls have about 3-5 guys that they’re soft entertaining. You’re really doing yourself a disservice. Date like you’re buying a car. You’ll need test drives from multiple vehicles before you buy.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:30 PM
1

If you try to look more masculine you tend to be more masculine. Get in the gym get strong. Hang out with masculine guys. Over time you’ll come off as more masculine and it should help with the anxiety. I’m introverted as well abs the gym really helped my anxiety.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:25 PM
1

It literally means that you give off ZERO masculine vibes
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:08 PM
0

You’re not masculine. It’s simple.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:06 PM
1

If a woman pays her own way/ goes Dutch, she’s definitely not having sex with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:34 AM
1

Just apply for one. That’s all I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:07 AM
1

Laughs in hugh heff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:03 AM
-1

Alpha fucks/ beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:50 AM
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And this is why the red pill community tells men to have sex as quick as possible and always have other women on your roster. H just spent all that time proving himself for mediocre sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:50 AM
0

Dude, I’ve self improved tenfold over the past 5 years. 30s male, 6 figure income, 6 foot tall, recognized in my industry and community. I have my pick of the litter and won’t settle down any time soon. Purpose comes first. Women are a by-product of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:42 AM
1

Most men here have transactional sex. Three dates and they expect sex. However only a small amount have had women truly desire them and give them validational sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:40 AM
1

Thanks for the correction. You’re making excuses for your poor performance when it comes to meeting women/ dating. Not using social media game is a detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:37 AM
1

Should have used a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:31 AM
0

You’re right. Your obviously banging all the girls. Keep white knighting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:27 AM
0

Avoid women on Instagram if you like but it isn’t doing you any favors. The things that make you attractive on Instagram makes you attractive IRL. If you aren’t maximizing your value then you honestly will suck at dating and meeting girls. Hate the game all you want but at the end of the day you just won’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:16 AM
3

I think that may be changing. My longest relationships (including two engagements prior to being red pulled), I had sex before the 3rd date. A woman who can keep a man after sex is a rare thing. Women tend to make men wait because they have nothing to offer after. So if a man waits for sex he’s more likely to stay after he’s gotten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:47 AM
5

This is the alpha fucks/ beta bucks scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:45 AM
-1

They’re not acting entitled they’re just upset that they’re paying full price for a car that has a good amount of miles on it. For example I won’t seriously date a woman until after I sleep with her. She won’t get my utility for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:43 AM
2

The vast majority of women active on social media in the traditional sense (to showcase their life) will have a picture of their significant other together somewhere in that profile. It may not be all women but it’s definitely the majority. I’m not sure what hermit crab women you’re hanging out with but 9/10 women who are in a relationship have a picture of them and their significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:39 AM
1

Okay fine. Before I had a blue check I was getting responses by replying to stories and what not. My profile has been optimized. I’m tall, athletic, and have other pics of me and pretty women. There is a strategy here. Be strategic and be your best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:37 AM
2

Sureeeee. Again you’re not the majority. That’s fine. Plenty of women out there who respond to my DMs. There is a tried and true method to social media game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:30 AM
2

You don’t have to be a celeb to get a blue check. I’m not a celeb as I have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:28 AM
-3

If you don’t post pictures of your partner, means you don’t like them enough to post them. It’s always an issue when guys post pics of their girls but the girl posts no pics of him. Ive seen this all too often. Tends to be the beta bucks phenomenon that Rollo speaks of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:21 AM
2

That’s great. Means I won’t even try. I’ll just move on to the next girl who has a public IG and posts a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:17 AM
2

I will because it works. Girls do the same thing to us lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:09 AM
0

You must be 50 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:07 AM
1

Girls don’t post their thong bikinis on LinkedIn tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:05 AM
3

Her profile is public domain. She’s literally wanting you to look at her profile. Keep white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:03 AM
4

Blue checks get responses. I have a blue check. Social media game takes practice but it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:01 AM
1

You just have poor cognitive skills. If she doesn’t have a bunch of pics of her man, she’s on the market. Her story will have her location. It’s easy to deduce if she’s available and her location.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:00 AM
3

What’s your stats? Height? Body type? Occupation? Ethnicity? Salary?
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:50 AM
5

Increase your external attraction. Get buff, dress better, trim the beard. Try again. Gotta be top notch if you’re doing bar/ night game.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:47 AM
1

Brown as in Indian? If so the girl may think you’re a square/ lame.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:46 AM
1

Women in stem. That’s all you had to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:21 PM
0

You must not have much experience with women. You have a decent body count I presume (over 30 bodies?) Professor pill, women like attention, woman are petty. Women are much more emotional than men. That’s how women are wired. Any men making emotional decisions have some serious feminine energy they need to get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:19 PM
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You’re assuming that women are rational when it comes to exes. Women work off of their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:12 PM
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I don’t disagree. I just don’t think that those relationships are PLATONIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:32 PM
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Platonic female friends are excellent wing [wo]men even when they’re not actively trying… So to clarify your point here, that’s not what a wing man is, what you’re describing is social proof. If you hang out with attractive women then other attractive women will be attracted to you. Social proof is big, I tell all men to build their social status for this reason. However, women tend to make bad wing [wo]men if they’re doing it deliberately. A woman telling her friend that you’re such a great guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:07 PM
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I don’t have platonic relationships with women outside of family or coworkers. I will be friendly but I have no need to be friends with women. I’ve seen so many women take advantage of their guy friends all the well knowing the guy has somewhat of an interest in them. No adult male walks up to an attractive woman and says “I’d like to be your friend”. More than likely he’s attracted to her sexually. However, he will definitely stick around and play friend to her after she’s made it clear that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:01 PM
5

If you have sexual attraction then you aren’t platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:57 PM
1

Just tell them, “Hey I’m discreet, I don’t want her business out there like that, I never kiss and tell”.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:46 PM
2

Gotta get out of this blue pill mindset. You watch rollo and you are still very much plugged into the matrix. Go Monk mode for a bit and improve yourself and self worth.
/r/newTRP09/03/22 07:59 PM
0

It’s not high school. That’s how the world works, since the beginning of time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:48 PM
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Sex with no babies is what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:48 PM
1

Should have called him out. Or could have spoken to the manager.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:45 PM
4

The advent of birth control in the west. Sex without consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:42 PM
1

And that’s totally fine. That explains why you guys are married. He’s not a top guy, but he’s probably the perfect guy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:41 PM
1

I think there should be some clarification. High earning and high value men want submissive women and can generally get one if they understand women. Men not in that category want submissive women but often time cannot get one and IMO shouldn’t get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:40 PM
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My statement wasn’t about sex, it was about life. Having sex with a woman and keeping women are two different things. You’re using your emotional lens to understand the statement. Those men who are high earning generally had to work very hard to get there. I’m assuming your husband has been making 6 figure salary for a number of years, has pedigree in his field, and has a network of men who are essentially at his level?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:36 PM
3

BEEETTTAAAAAA
/r/newTRP09/03/22 06:27 PM
2

It’s not physical fighting. It’s more of a euphemism for the struggles that men go thru to be a successful guy who women desire. It’s not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:18 PM
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They’ll be masculine if they sense feminine energy from a man. Women tend to feed off of the male energy and react that will maintain balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:17 PM
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It’s just a nicer way to say submissive and/ supportive. You tell a woman that you want someone’s who’s submissive, they will get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:16 PM
1

Make her earn your attention. If you’re approaching women, they think you want sex because 99% of men usually do. However, if you’re aloof and make her earn your attention, she will then know you want something more than just sex. Your time is valuable. Don’t approach, they’ll put themselves in your way if you’re portraying yourself to be high value.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:14 PM
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Your attitude sucks. That’s why you’re not getting pussy.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:24 AM
2

Simple. Wait your turn.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:22 AM
1

But you could do better
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:01 PM
2

If the girl likes you she doesn’t want you to take it slow. She got friend vibes and you couldn’t deliver.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:01 PM
0

Ghosting is part of it. That’s why you should always source new women.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:00 PM
1

I was a d1 athlete in college. Played for a school in the conference USA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:16 PM
1

It’s like all the white knights on this sub lack common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:22 AM
1

Have someone from the outside looking in rank you guys. It may be more obvious than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:07 PM
2

Hard to meet that request. Many men in their 20s just aren’t successful yet. What constitutes successful for you?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 08:06 PM
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Men have always ranked themselves in their tribe. It’s no secret. Just look at group of boys who are friends. Even they form their own pseudo ranking structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:04 PM
1

A few years of being an electrician you’ll make lots of money. Apprenticeship isn’t as high but you’ll be good. I think that’s a good path. You’re still young and this takes time. Once you move find hobbies and meet people. Be organic and make friends. Continue to work on yourself, etc.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:55 PM
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The younger guys like Stephiscold, MJGetRight, and FITXFEARLESS are the young red pillers on YT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:42 PM
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I don’t cold approach at all anymore. I close with 8/10 women I meet roughly. I’ve been spinning 2-3 plates for close to 1.5 years. After a certain point, cold approaches become obsolete.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:36 PM
1

Gotta get hobbies where meeting girls is very common. Going to the gym, hiking, etc
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:32 PM
-1

I actually look at cold approach as an old tactic. The end of the PUA era. Someone like me who’s known in the community, networked, semi-public face, I can’t cold approach. It will kill my Professional credibility. Men who have a reputation to uphold shouldn’t be cold approaching. However if you’re fairly unknown or are traveling, cold approach is kind of okay, but you may approach 100 girls and get 10 numbers and 1 or 2 would actually meet up.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:30 PM
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Moving out of your parents house and increase your salary man. Atlanta is a good spot for meeting new people and the job market is fairly decent. Can you pick up a trade or something that will net you more income. It’s going to be hard to keep/ maintain relationships with women if you live at home. How old are you?
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:23 PM
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You’re a little young so it will be hit or miss. I’ve worked in both (consulting) and many of the girls your age are are dating men 5 years or more older than you. However I read that in Atlanta the female to male population is 9:1 so that could work in your favor. What’s your stats? Height, income, profession, own place, own car, number of roommates, ex wife, or kids?
/r/seduction10/01/22 06:01 AM
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With out the girl who dumped me right before covid, I’d still be a beta bucks. I thank her. From that I found coach Corey Wayne and AMS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:49 AM
1

Never kiss a girl on the lips on a first date. I have had plates in the past come to my place, fuck me and suck my dick, then go straight to a dinner date with a beta. Didn’t even wash her teeth.
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:52 AM
1

If a woman defends you in a situation like that, I’m telling you, she will lose attraction to you. Women want men to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:34 PM
1

Girls have a greater sense of smell on average than men. Girls even like it when you sweat at the gym or are smelly after a long day working outside.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:28 AM
1

No complaints on rollo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:33 PM
0

Stop the cap. If any woman is dating a guy and they like him, if he offers to take her to dubai all expenses paid, she’s going to go. Quit acting like money isn’t something that women look for. How many of your friends are married to baristas? None okay. Moving along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:56 AM
2

Again, it takes one ride on a yacht or a spontaneous trip to dubai. Not saying they’re good digging but a man that makes that much has a plethora of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:53 AM
5

You out here playing step daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:51 AM
1

With a total comp in the high 300s to low 400s for associates, I think they’d reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:51 AM
1

Don’t need that. Just need to know your stats so I can tell you if girls see you as worth their time.
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:45 AM
1

Coach Greg Adams, Poor Mans Podcast, Rollo, Myron (Fit), Stephiscold, AMS, Rich Cooper, FITXFEARLESS are the true red pill guys in my opinion. Anyone else I’m not too sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:17 AM
1

I’d say most of the new ones are definitely that. Folks like Rollo and the like just comment on the space as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:03 AM
1

You’re always “paying” women to hook up if you look at it from the 1000 feet view. Take a girl on a date and smash? The price of the date was her price for the box. Fact of the matter is, many of the girls off of seeking are looking for a certain lifestyle. Luxury lifestyle is her price but I guarantee you, you won’t find girls with that caliber of attractiveness not looking for that lifestyle in Miami. Both Myron and Fresh are probably smashing the girls who come on the show. Not all but defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:59 AM
1

He wasn’t going to marry her but he definitely found her off of seeking and was simping hard. Fresh had been married before and said he’s never marrying again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:55 AM
2

He cucked his wife. And he’s ashamed of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:54 AM
1

I did it for lots of years. Twice overseas. However many of my brothers still got tricked by women and their wives fucked Jody. So the argument isn’t that good. You can be tough and still be a blue pill beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:53 AM
3

Didn’t jack murphy cuck out his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:51 AM
8

If you aren’t her boyfriend, you’re her girlfriend. Don’t date girls and be friends afterwards. Cut off all contact.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:43 AM
1

You’d be much more upset if you were poor. Stop the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:37 AM
1

And you’ll never see that girl again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:36 AM
1

But if you’re in a shit situation they won’t stick around for more than a conversation. However if you work on yourself you’re much more likely to pull women. This shit takes hard work. I haven’t cold approached women in years but I’ve scored much more girls before I improved myself (in shape, good job, own car, own house). I have girls giving me choosing signals every I go.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:35 AM
2

I agree. The women I’m with love losing control
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:58 PM
0

Glad I have a hefty pecker lol. But I agree. If you’re average some stuff doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:57 PM
2

I dated woman who was just too small for me. Everything would hurt her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:12 PM
4

Men are still expected to provide security. If you’re spending time with a guy and someone robs you, you’re expecting that man to defend you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:59 PM
4

Thing is, a man can make less than a woman but if he has his own place, car, good job it might be fine. However plenty of women won’t date a blue collar if they’re making near 6 figures in a white collar industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:56 PM
1

Monk mode works but if you over do it, you’ll still be in the same spot when it comes to inter gender dynamics. Improve yourself but still meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:36 PM
1

She wants to fuck lol.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:32 PM
1

I love this. This needs to be a sticky.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:26 PM
1

My favorites are Johnny walker black and courvosier both on the rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:40 PM
2

Try some scotch or cognac my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:18 PM
1

Laying pipe like a pro is literally the best thing you can do. If you want a girl to be obsessed give her “hard dick and some Cheerios”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:20 PM
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I’ve done it. Super feminine. Always cooking for me and keeping me satisfied. It’s wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:17 PM
1

Not necessarily. Even the best looking men don’t do well on dating apps. I remember reading a study once that said the best looking men were getting matches 3/10 times compared to the best looking girls getting matches 9/10 times. For a man you need to maximize your outlets if meeting a woman is your goal. You need to use dating apps, social media, warm approach, and social circle game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:28 PM
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She’s withholding sex because she has nothing else to offer you. In the future don’t invest in women who aren’t investing in you. For a woman to invest in you she needs to invest her time, her body, and her money. You’re traveling with a woman and you’re not even sleeping with her? Dude you’re getting played because everyone on this sub knows she’s fucked guys with less. Leave her and be great king.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:53 PM
1

It’s saying the truth. I’m red pill thru and thru but I know for a fact that if a girl needs the traditional dating apps (think hinge, bumble, tinder) to meet men, then she’s definitely not top tier. If a top tier woman is on a dating app it’s probably seeking arrangements. Or she’s just in high circles and dating high earning men. You think the girls partying on yachts are on dating apps? Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:51 PM
1

$1000 is my price now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:29 AM
1

Look inward and figure it out. No more free advice. I charge $500 per consultation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:26 AM
1

Buddy, it’s a Snapchat filter. Girls love it. I’m not posting anymore pics. You can be an uncle and waddle in your miserable virgin life or you can put in the work. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:25 AM
1

Dude that’s not him that’s me and one of my plates. What gets girls is confidence and status, as well other attributes like looks. If you’re in shape you’ll look better than someone not in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:19 AM
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The actual attractive women tend not to use dating apps because they truly don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:15 AM
1

It’s not me, I’ll dox myself because our friend group is on this sub. I’ll upload a pic of a girl I’m with to Imgur Edit. Linky. https://imgur.com/a/CyFpm2i
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:11 AM
1

No i will not dox myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:09 AM
1

There is a guy in my gym who’s about 5’5 with his build, better hair cut and trimmed beard and he’s always hitting it off with the women. It’s the confidence and the abundance mindset. If girls see him with cute girls they automatically gravitate towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:08 AM
1

Enter the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:05 AM
2

Don’t worry about men as a whole. Worry about yourself. Improve yourself. Worrying about the lack of pussy most men get does nothing for you getting pussy. Fact of the matter is most guys on this sub are ugly, fat, and not accomplished. A girl shouldn’t like them. Men have to become and women just are. Men are not loved unconditionally. Get with the fucking program and improve yourself. I’m getting sick and fucking tired of the little bitches on her crying when they cold approach (which is dead …
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:00 AM
1

Right so a few people out of 7B had kids at 40. That doesn’t negate the fact that geriatric pregnancy isn’t common and is high risk. If everything was fine and dandy then fertility doctors would be out of a job, freezing your eggs, would be less common, and surrogate mothers wouldn’t exist. The mental gymnastics is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:55 AM
1

You get better for you. Not for a girl. This guy is literally a millionaire. He’s getting any girl he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:53 AM
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Look for a trusty woman but hide your jet from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:28 PM
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Just know because of your luxuries you’re a target and many women won’t really love you. They’ll see you as a way out of their current lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:27 PM
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Waiting until your 30s gives you a boost. These attractive women your with now are good but when you’re tired of her after 7 years and you’re interested in the younger 20s woman, you now have to either divorce your current wife and lose up to half your assets or try to finagle an open relationship. Being single will allow you to focus on your business more and being tied down will hurt your business potentially because you’ll be much more risk averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:26 PM
1

Give us your stats then. Age, weight, bf%, occupation, salary, own place with no roommates? Own vehicle?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:23 PM
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Yeah that’s the A spot/ deep spot. I’ve been with some women who love getting their cervix pounded and some who don’t. The ones who liked it were very shallow. Like I could only for half of myself on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:41 PM
6

Scarcity mindset. You need an abundance mindset with all women.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:54 PM
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This is why you make your intentions clear from the jump. Tell her you’re not looking to be her friend. Your actions should display this as well. If she’s not with that, then next her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:53 PM
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Stop cold approaching and work on yourself and your purpose. Women will be a by-product of self improvement.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:52 PM
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One of my plates loves it when I pound her cervix. Literally the most intense orgasms she’s ever had. It’s wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:51 PM
1

I usually wait a week tbh. I’m busy with other girls and I only text for logistics.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:51 PM
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Doggy style with a reach around arm rub the clit and hit the g spot. Put her on her back grab her feet and push them towards her face and poke her cervix :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:47 PM
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Women do in fact achieve orgasm they penetration. You have the G spot and the A spot/ deep spot. Certain positions and penis lengths makes it easier to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:34 PM
0

I’m not barking up a tree at all I hope you’re a submissive wife to him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:32 PM
0

And that’s perfect. Plenty of older men with younger girls and it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:29 PM
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A smart man. I’ll never seriously be with a woman older than 28. That’s just a standard I have for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:26 PM
0

Hopefully I have zero. I don’t plan on marrying or having kids. :) But if you wanna do risky stuff go ahead!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:24 PM
0

Think that if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:15 PM
0

There is a reason why geriatric pregnancies are high risk. I am from the US abs any sane doctor will tell you the risks of geriatric pregnancy. If you want the most healthy baby possible you need to have the baby in your 20s that’s science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:12 PM
0

Just like mid 40s women having kids with deformity or dying during child birth. There is a reason why 90% of your eggs are gone after 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:07 PM
1

But you can get in shape and improve your looks if you’re 5’5.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:05 PM
2

That university and a small percentage of women. Go to a hick town or a suburb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:38 PM
1

We’ve had teen moms since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:35 PM
4

Ugly and fat women get married all the time. Just go to the US south.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:55 AM
2

What you fail to realize is the chance of a woman having a healthy baby past 40 are much much lower than in their 20s. It’s literally dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:37 AM
2

That’s a small number. That’s not a lot and it’s not typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:25 AM
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It’s the reason DeVon Franklin divorced her. She ate some guys ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:07 AM
1

You think Drake or Elon Musk is cold approaching? That’s my goal. Lmao.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:45 AM
7

Because if they wanted to be married they would be married by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:40 AM
1

Thing is, when cold approach was king we didn’t have social media. If women wanted attention from guys they had to go out and show off and get the guys to come up to them. If you were clever enough/ attractive enough you got a number and moved on. Now, with every girl glued to her phone she doesn’t need a random guy walking up to her trying to get hurt number (she probably won’t respond anyways). However, if you’re getting choosing signals at a bar or a club then ofc approach and shoot your shot…
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:40 AM
1

Social media, dating apps, social circle game.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:36 AM
6

They were dating but not dating with the intention to marry and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:31 AM
5

How many women than you personally know had a child in their 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:30 AM
1

Girls are fickle. You’re not doing anything wrong. They just get cold feet. If they cancel do a soft next and move on.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:22 AM
1

Stop trying to game and just generally talk to women normally to build confidence. You rejections are killing your self esteem and making things worse. Personally I think cold approach is dead. You can get women other ways.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:21 AM
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You must not know about the Greeks in ancient times
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:16 AM
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He’s a blue pill bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:15 AM
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Meagan Good’s Harlem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:15 AM
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AMS literally said if a girl was acting up and then wanting to come back he’d make her rim him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:15 AM
1

Easy way to combat this is to tell her to put her phone down. First person to check their phone has to do some sort of act. Back rub. Kiss. Etc.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:14 AM
2

How long have they been dating? It can’t be long if she’s flirting with you.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:10 AM
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Be yourself but throw your buddies a bone. Tell the girl, “Did you know Charlie is a fucking Prince?! Marry this guy and you’ll be a princess” just talk up your buddies and have a good time. Better yet just bring a girl along and all is cool.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:10 AM
6

Act more beta? Wtf?
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:08 AM
2

Shave it bald and grow a beard. There you go.
/r/newTRP02/01/22 06:07 AM
2

She’s emasculating you because you told her you eat dick. You brought that on yourself.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:05 AM
1

And while you laugh I’m slaying pussy my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:18 AM
0

I’m not trying to convince you m8. I love the black pillers honestly. I benefit from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:16 AM
3

They broke up but here is the wiki https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wiki.ng/en/wiki/alexander-leonidas-wikipedia-biography-age-height-weight-net-worth-in-2021-and-more-742426/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:12 AM
2

The guy on the right has a cute gf if I’m not mistaken. He’s a YouTube creator. I think he’s got like 250k subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:07 AM
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He could trim his beard and get a nice hair cut like the guy on the left and his face would look much better. He doesn’t have the height so he has to maximize everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:04 AM
3

It’s the height. It’s hard to put on that much muscle and look big at over 6ft. I’m 6’1 and 225 pounds 15% body fat and it’s tough to maintain this lol. However I compete so I’m pretty stuck at this weight. I’d be much more comfortable at a lower weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:57 AM
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Rich Cooper has been saying that the swimmer build is what women like. Alex (guy on the right) is literally 5’5. He’s jacked but doesn’t take care of his face and his haircut is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:45 AM
1

I was a decently popular guy in college. Me and my buddies had a competition to see who could smash the most girls in a semester. I slept with maybe 20ish. The guy who won slept with 50 girls that semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:20 AM
1

You give me teep?
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:16 AM
1

Definitely not. Tip her the standard and don’t try to game your server. She just wants your money.
/r/seduction02/01/22 03:16 AM
0

That beta energy is strong with this one. Not all sex is good sex. These older women have masculine energy because you’re in the feminine frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:10 AM
2

Older women are definitely more experienced in the bedroom and I tend to have a good time but I won’t do anything with an older woman than be casual with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:09 AM
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So those are the only two things that you need from a woman to have a relationship with her? You need to vet this woman rigorously before you decide to have a relationship with her.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:34 AM
0

I’m a black guy. I’m hung so the guy has to be hung. Also has to be a tiny white girl lol with a fat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:11 AM
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This is the seduction forum. Do you think anyone is here trying to have a romantic relationship with a rando they met at a club on NYE. OP is just bad at the club game.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:42 PM
3

You missed out on a hook up that night dude. In the future don’t let go of her. Get her away from the crowd. Keep up the intensity and do your thing.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:41 PM
4

I agree with you. I have maybe 5 female friends and many of them I’ve known since I was a toddler. Mentally I see them as sisters. I don’t need female friends, if we aren’t having sex then I really have no reason to be with you. I recently had to tell a woman I wouldn’t hang out with her because I only hang out with women I’m sleeping with. It was hard for her to hear but she knew exactly what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:02 PM
1

This is the AF/BB trope. Respect is the wrong word here OP. A woman will fuck the Chad and never expect him to marry her an father her kids. They are having sex with him for her internal validation. Woman will marry the beta bucks Brian because he’s the logical choice to make a family with but she will only give him head once a year and transactional sex once a month. She doesn’t respect him and she isn’t attracted to him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:59 PM
3

Women want you to lead and make the first move. Be physical from the beginning and get her in your frame. If I don’t have sex with a girl by the 3rd date, I give her the boot not the other way around.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:48 PM
11

Adele doesn’t pay any support to her x husband
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:12 AM
6

Aka Adele.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:17 AM
1

One question. Studies show that 50% of marriages fail. Is that a scam to you? Or is that something to be cautious over?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:17 AM
2

Upset and hysterical? Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:30 PM
2

Just practice. Get a cheap ring stand or a friend (female) and find a cool spot to take photos. Most women take really good photos of themselves. Or consult a professional photographer.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:25 PM
1

Wanna get her attention? Then remove yours.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:12 PM
3

First mistake was I started talking with this girl from work Be cordial, ignore her, and earn your paycheck.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:10 PM
1

It can be. However just go to the bar and ask for a club soda or a coke. Tell them you’re driving and the bar tender probably won’t charge you.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:30 PM
3

The custody almost always goes to the woman. Again, the woman tends to have the upper hand in a divorce. Father’s losing a large portion of their paycheck to child support and alimony doesn’t seem like they’re better off no matter how you try to spin it. I’m done with the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:29 PM
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The vast majority of women are NOT financially supporting men. Also in what world is child custody, child support, spousal support, and alimony worse off? The men pay that to the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:46 AM
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Many of our current traditions don’t have pretty origins. However you must understand that a man choosing to marry a woman is literally saying, “I want to provide for this person and be responsible for her well being forever”. It’s a big deal especially when divorce is common and 70% of divorces are filed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:02 AM
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Fathers aren’t choosing but they have a vested interest in who their daughters decide to procreate with. Ever wonder why a father gives his daughter away by walking her down the aisle during a wedding? Marriage was the passage of ownership of the woman traditionally. Hence why the future husband often paid the father some sort of bride price. However, the amount of divorce in the US (50%) I don’t think much vetting is going on haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:24 AM
1

Your dad told you the truth. He doesn’t really need to give dating advice to you. He just needs to vet the man you date or eventually marry. Hence the “ask my dad for permission to marry me” thing. He’s the finally boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:50 AM
2

Finally someone else used this analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:48 AM
5

Glad I don’t use that. I do hate the 5 and 1 crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:48 AM
1

This is a rule of thumb. As for your question, social circle game is probably your best bet.
/r/seduction29/12/21 05:04 AM
2

If you’re always available then either you don’t have a job or you have zero hobbies.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:49 AM
2

Midwest?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:43 AM
1

Thing is, for small towns your options are limited and opinions form quickly. You’ll get a reputation if you date too many girls which will eventually work against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:41 AM
4

You have to work on this. That’s the only way. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:12 AM
2

Seems like you’re social awkward.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:09 AM
2

She’s 16 ignore her king
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:03 AM
1

It is a by product. Again it’s correlated so you have to look at all the facts and understand that no matter her motive, if you’re the bread winner you’re taking a risk and you must be smart and protect yourself from that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:03 AM
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You’re missing the point. The vast majority of men propose to women. This indicates that men are choosing who to marry. Women have the leverage over sex. They’re choosing who they will fuck. However a man chooses who he wants to be contractually bound to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:02 AM
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This assumes women hold the leverage to relationships/ marriages. That’s a right owned my men. I don’t see women buying rings and proposing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:38 AM
2

The top 1% on OF are doing some outrageous stuff. One of my plates was an OF girl in the top 1%. That shit was intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:32 PM
3

I think you’re too young to speak on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:11 PM
2

To be successful on onlyfans you need to be daring. If we are going to pay it needs to be much better than free porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:08 PM
3

A girl a know is married with a job and just started stripping on the side. I have lost all respect for her husband lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:07 PM
1

But numbers don’t lie. 50% of marriages end in divorce. You’re stupid to not ensure you’re protected before entering into a marriage (business) contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:02 PM
1

He’s 23. He’s no where near his true potential. He will be much better at 33.
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:02 AM
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I chased excellence. I was the typical normal scrawny timid guy. Hunkered down made some good decisions, put myself through school, landed a good job and made good investments. Women is a by-product of success. My first job paid me $7.50/hr USD. I now make about 15x that. Edit: I also am 225 pounds of muscle, 6’1, dress well, and smell nice.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:54 AM
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Gotcha. I bet you go out on the town in huge top hats using old school PUA techniques. Focus on yourself king. Chase excellence and not women.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:43 AM
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I don’t have to cold approach anymore. When I rent out VIP at my local club they come to me. Why cold approach when my status speaks for me.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:30 AM
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Emotionally resonant conversation? Nah, trust me on this if you’re an interesting person, have good social media game, she’ll answer. A girl loves a man who other girls want.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:29 AM
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Having no social media presence is only hindering you. It’s kinda creepy. Social media is the brochure to you’re life. I’m in the gym daily, I travel, I love cooking and eating at fancy restaurants. I showcase this on social media. Once this girl has checked out my social media pages, she wants to join in on the fun and it’s much easier to close. You may like doing it the hard way, but there are easier ways than cold approach. Cold approaching is dead my friend.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:11 AM
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Small talk with a cute girl and you’re just going to mess things up. The more you talk the higher chance you have of fucking shit up. Walk up. Say hi. Get the number or social and ensure she follows you and get out of there. Let your life (social media stories) do the talking for you.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:05 AM
1

And if that family was not stable you understand the woman was often killed and/ or discarded of. There has always been protections in place. Marriage is business. I still don’t see why you wont accept the fact that half of marriages fail. If you’re well to do, it’s bad business to go into one without protections. And if you want protections it’s up to you to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:21 PM
1

Traditionally marriage was the passing of ownership of a father’s daughter to a suitable buyer. Yes I said buyer because marriage was a business transaction as the Husband paid for the wife, hence bride price.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:19 PM
1

Stats show that 50% of marriages fail. That fact isn’t even disputed. Again you can feel whichever way you want to but that’s just the numbers. Marriage isn’t a “feeling” it’s a business decision. That’s why your wife/ husband has power of attorney if something was to happen and you can make decisions. That’s why you get tax benefits. Again, you don’t have to pay for a prenup if you don’t want to but if your wife wants a divorce, then you’re liable for alimony, loss of assets, and loss of custod…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:13 PM
1

Don’t double text in the future. If you want her to get her attention, just remove yours.
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:47 PM
2

Get your own lawyer but if your future spouse makes twice or even three times your salary, he should pay. Lawyers are paid to represent other people all of the time it’s not really grounds to dismiss the prenup. Also it should be video recorded and sobriety tests should be given. I worked as a paralegal for several years in family law. This is all too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:40 PM
1

Even if your confident that you’ll make it work, what’s the logical path to make sure you’re protected on the 50% chance that it doesn’t work? Again, treat marriage like a business decision because it is. If you have a 50% of failure would you take that risk without protections? It’s expensive to put protections in place. Also, if you’re out earning your future spouse significantly (if you aren’t then there really isn’t a need for a prenup), you should pay to have the prenup done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:00 PM
1

Because a properly done prenup is a divorce deterrent. Many men here speak as if they’re in the top 1% of earners when they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:07 AM
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I think your understanding of what a prenup is for is flawed. Generally a prenup is for when a man/ woman of worth/ wealth/ value marries another party where his/ her wealth is vastly different from there’s. The prenup is a contract that offers clarification on what to do in the event of a divorce. Marriages are business contracts and a man who has considerable assets WILL protect himself regardless if the woman agrees to pay 50/50 or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:58 AM
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Red pullers understand that marriage is a risk that could leave them broke. The husband should pay for both his lawyer and his future wife’s lawyer for the prenup in my opinion. 50% of marriages fail. Marriages are business contracts. It’s wise to make sure you’re protected in case the marriage collapses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:54 AM
1

Height and success are correlations. You Know what the average height of male millionaires are?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:42 PM
1

Studies show that the taller you are the more successful you will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:22 PM
1

The mid 30s male is generally fantasized by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:20 PM
3

I’d like to say this. Men who become high school teachers aren’t getting female attention like they are from younger female students. They eat it up, they love it and boom things happen. Women who partake in it with male students again like the attention and maybe they’re not getting that attention outside of the school. Growing up I had relations with a female teacher when I was a senior. I was 18 and she was in her 30s. Her husband didn’t give her any attention at all and I struggled in biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:16 PM
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But you’re in the gym. It’s hard to go consistently and not have anything to show for it. I bet you dress well too. Nice haircut and smell nice? It’s a package deal.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:59 PM
5

Biggest would be being unattractive. If you’re fat and out of shape you aren’t helping yourself.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:52 PM
1

Continue to be dense.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:17 PM
4

Report back when you meet her in person. Nudes are easy to get. Just check my Snapchat.
/r/seduction19/12/21 04:59 PM
2

So if you looked like you did 10 years ago and you knew PUA, would you be better at getting women? See what I’m getting at here. Don’t do half the work.
/r/seduction19/12/21 04:55 PM
2

If you looked better and everything else remained constant you would get more or you’d get more attractive women. Looks fucking matter.
/r/seduction19/12/21 04:54 PM
1

sigma male vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:53 PM
1

It usually is when you wait that long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:22 PM
1

Man men don’t see it that way. Especially a horny 15 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:20 PM
0

M. 27. 17. Girl I’d see sometimes. Never dated. Just hooked up. Casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:57 AM
5

Cold approach doesn’t work like it used to. And looks ducking matter. They matter a lot. You have to maximize appearance. That will help with self confidence and in turn help with game.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:21 AM
4

I look decent You need to look your best. Always. When you look your best you’ll get that confidence. Once you get that confidence you’ll get women. Continue to chase excellence and work on yourself. Money is good but discovery is much better than disclosure. But if you’re not confident enough they’ll never discover what you have to offer.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:19 AM
1

People are on OLD to be dated, random people on the street may not want to be dated. Cold approaching is bad. The game has changed. You can still run game off of choosing signals. A good choosing signal is a match on the dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:16 AM
1

Playing devils advocate here, but biblically, the engagement period was a matter of days after the groom payed the bride price to the father. Once the father passed ownership of his daughter to the husband thru the marriage ceremony, then the marriage was deemed official. Marriage today is purely legal, you could get married at the court house tomorrow and be married, but have the ceremony at a later date. Again, don’t be too upset with him, I’d be worried about a man who could really hold off h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/21 06:14 AM
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A woman told you to your face that you don’t have a chance. That means you actually don’t have a chance with her. She doesn’t believe you can woo her. She’s wanting you to step into her frame so she can get you to start giving her more and more attention for little gain on your end.
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:23 PM
1

Yeah she was telling you how she felt while laughing. That’s not a challenge at all.
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:22 PM
2

If she said that she was not joking. Don’t respond. Leave and focus on yourself king.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:48 PM
1

Cheap and quiet/ relaxing. I usually do coffee or a walk in the park. That’s good because it’s low cost and low effort. Depending on how much you’re dating it can get expensive. Worst spots are dinner dates or movie dates. Expensive and you can’t really talk to the girl and find out how much she’s into you.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:41 PM
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It’s holding true. I don’t make the rules I just make observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:38 PM
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I wouldn’t think any less of him. A man is only as faithful as his options. If he put in the work to self improve and now qualified for someone better than the current wife, if the current wife did not improve that’s the issue. Get in shape, good sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:13 PM
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Sounds like that’s going to happen. From my point of view, marriage is simply the passing of ownership from one male to another. Bride prices, dowries, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:10 PM
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Nope. I should mention that I alone hit rock bottom years ago and improved myself into the guy I am today. Had no help from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:09 PM
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Don’t act like men aren’t only as faithful as their choices. You have a plain ol chubby woman because that’s all you qualify for. You can’t imagine “supermodels” chasing you because it’s never happened. Get an actual harem of supermodels and I know for a fact you’ll fold.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:05 PM
3

I wouldn’t date over that age either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:03 PM
5

Isaiah 4:1. He can just marry her as well. He gets a total of 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:02 PM
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If I upgrade myself, she has to upgrade herself to the level of woman I now qualify for. That’s the only way she will be able to stay with that same guy. Ofc you have your exceptions like steph curry and lebron and their wives. However, if a woman cannot improve herself (lose weigh, sex, etc) she can’t get mad if her improved man leaves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:59 PM
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Get in the gym, change your look. There is a lots you can do and you’ll figure out most of it along the way. But just start hitting the gym. If you’re muscular you already got something going for you.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:56 AM
4

They haven’t said anything to you but I can guarantee you, it’s come up before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:35 PM
2

Even if you don’t flirt with them, if I’m someone’s husband, a male best friend outside of certain circumstances (known since kindergarten) is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:32 PM
2

How do the husbands feel about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:27 PM
0

Most of your best friends are women? Are they married or in LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:22 PM
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And who says I need confirmation? Look threw my post history and you’ll see me telling men to get in the gym and improve their lives. Where there that’s school or a trade, etc. I was born tall but I was a scrawny guy until I graduated college. Went monk mode for a year, finished a masters and pivoted into a new career. I help men find the best version of themselves. A few years back I almost deleted myself over a girl and I damn sure don’t want a fellow man to go thru that.
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:10 PM
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My n-count is over 100. But I’m also 6’1, 225 pounds of muscle, beard, make 6 figures with my own place and vehicle. My game is decent. Before I matured I really had to make sure my game was top notch. But as I started to mature and self improve I had to have less game. I could essentially just introduce myself and get a number of take a girl out to coffee and sleep with her in a few dates.
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:04 PM
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You can’t really change your face. You can make sure your skin is clean, you can grow facial hair, and you can play with hair cuts to make your overall look change. Also you can lose weight and workout (neck curls and neck extensions can help thicken your neck and change your face slightly) to draw attention away from your face.
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:03 PM
2

High N-count men probably aren’t looking to marry a high N-count woman because these two avatars have an inverse value relationship. A high N-count man has a higher SMV than a high N-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:00 PM
2

I’m there on one of my other accounts. Great sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:35 PM
1

No, not kudos. It causes a bunch of problems lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:33 PM
2

I’m the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:32 PM
4

The wall is for marriage/ relationships. It doesn’t truly hold water when you discuss sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:11 PM
7

Your observations are more or less correct however many women aren’t forthcoming about many of their activities. One of the plates I’ve been seeing for more than a year, has kept me secret from her friends. Women will tell you they look for long term commitments however there is always a Chad/ Tyrone (me) in the picture that no one knows about. That’s why women tend to like discreet men. Because they can experiment without judgment from peers. I’m going to ignore your red flag. I’ve had some sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:11 PM
3

You can date casually and be emotionally unavailable. You can be in a friendship and be emotionally unavailable as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:06 PM
4

Glad you’ve grown king!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:43 AM
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Like when it comes to men’s emotions, women don’t really want their man to have the same Type of emotions they have. They literally want us to be a rock. That’s why I tell men to not open up in the way they want you too. Keep it surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:23 AM
1

No you’re just mature
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:15 AM
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When I was going through a period of sadness before I planned out my self deletion I had a close female friend tell me to man up and she couldn’t be there to support me. So yeah, fuck opening up to women. I’ll open up to a close male friend any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:41 AM
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I agree and disagree. I spent a year on “monk mode” no serious dating but I hustled. Worked 60 hour weeks, and finished my Masters. I was emotionally unavailable because I needed to focus on myself. That period of getting my shit together spring boarded me into the place I am now. However, time and time again I’ve seen it where guys open up to women and the woman uses that against them in the future in an argument or a joke, etc. if you want us to open up, you need to hold that near and dear bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:39 AM
1

Thanks man I’m the weirdest
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:33 PM
3

This is the r/seduction sub. We have no need for white knights. Can the OP improve his situation? Definitely. So be constructive.
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:51 PM
2

You have to be cognizant of your surroundings in the future. If you frequent the mall, use that to your advantage. Make friends with the girls at the kiosk. Buy them a drink or lunch. Just be friendly. Tell them you’re just trying to meet people and get over social anxiety. It’s all how you spin it. Good luck.
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:45 PM
3

No more than 1 date a week. No fewer than 1 date every two weeks. That’s a good rule of thumb.
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:15 PM
1

You should be sexually escalating before she’s even at your place. Read up on Kino and don’t force it. She wants you to lead so lead. Wine, candles, music, etc. good luck!
/r/seduction13/12/21 07:14 PM
2

Focus on yourself and continue to date casually.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:53 AM
1

You posted this on the new RP sub. You’re not ready for an LTR you aren’t in the right mindset.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:52 AM
3

Delete this blue pill trash
/r/newTRP13/12/21 12:25 AM
9

Meh. Turning down a woman for sex is messy waters. I’ve had girls I turned down have literal mental breakdowns. Trust me I doubt it’s him.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:22 AM
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If you play this game, be ready for the shitstorm that could follow. I feel that most of the men here would agree that you need some sort of strategy, but turning a woman down who’s willing to have sex with you just to get her to fall harder is a bad move.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:12 AM
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This is the r/seduction sub. We have no place for a white knight here.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:08 AM
2

You think I’m mistreating women. It’s not fault she’s a pillow princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:13 PM
2

Yea but giving women orgasms without having one yourself is a power play. Like I said she’s a starfish. So I do my thing and make sure not to have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:07 PM
1

Funny because I started making her Orgasm and immediately cleaning myself up. I didn’t even try to finish. Doing that has made her want to participate more. We had a conversation about it because she just isn’t experienced at all and I’ve been helping try new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:03 PM
1

Don’t approach an entire group of girls buddy. Approach one girl in that group while acknowledging the rest. Short and sweet, get her IG and move on.
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:59 PM
2

I’m neatly trimmed and the balls are usually bare. If I want amazing head I’ll make sure I’m trimmed. The same goes for her. Trimmed bush or waxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:05 AM
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I agree man. Once you’ve been with a few good in bed women it’s hard to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:59 AM
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A woman I was with told me I was porn sick and I just had to tell her that she’s just not that good at sex. I can finish with plenty of other women but she’s just a starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:58 AM
1

Many do. I literally had a woman ask me to cum in her. Yeah I know for a FACT she’s not using birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:30 PM
0

No. Don’t agree to being friends or anything like that. She just doesn’t like you. You can force it. Next her.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:30 PM
2

Meal prepping, gym membership, programming isn’t cheap either. You make the money so work it into your budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:55 PM
5

Find a good MALE therapist. Bi weekly sessions, etc. you should have an end goal. You take care of your body in the gym right? Take care of your mind with therapy. I’m big on PRE HAB not RE HAB. I compete nationally, have competed at the Arnold twice. So I know how dedicated you are to fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:46 PM
2

I have to disagree. TRP saved me from self deletion. I found an AMS video the day of my self deletion plan and I’m happy that I did. At TRP’s core, it’s the study of inter-gender dynamics with a focus on male self improvement. I found TRP. Understood my faults in past relationships with myself, peers, and exes. Sought out therapy and made an improvement plan and it was up from there. I’m not pretending that a successful and desirable person is saner. What I am saying is someone who is HV in all …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:43 PM
2

I’d disagree here. Athletes, entertainers, celebs, shouldn’t be included but should have their own category. The rules tend to skew. PJ Washington gets trapped by Brittney Renner. He’s technically HVM in status and salary but he does not have the HVM mindset. He wasn’t able to see how she was literally trying to trap him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:17 PM
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You have all of the external but none of the internal. That’s why the RP preaches self improvement on all levels. There are some emotional and mental things going on here. I highly suggest you reach out to professional to get your mental health at 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:14 PM
2

What steps are you taking to work on your ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:12 PM
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You’re getting played. She’s not your plate. Your her plate.
/r/newTRP11/12/21 02:30 AM
1

I think you’re reading too much into it. Generally women say they want a guy to make 100k, be 6 feet tall and in shape (not obese). All of the other points you made are moot. This just gives women a general idea of how rare what they want is. However those variables are dependent on each other. You’re wayyyyyyyy over thinking this dude. I’m getting some Sigma male vibes from you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:28 AM
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The amount of true HVM are more slim than there are women suitable for a LTR. So essentially you have it backwards, more women to less men. However many HVM are married already. Lawyers, doctors, bankers, etc. But if you want a HVM you need to make sure you have the qualities that they want and have access to their social circles. If you don’t interact with them, then you’ll never have the chance to date them. Also, I’d say 30 is a hard cut off for many men who want children of their own. Genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:18 AM
1

Compatibility is up there with time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:19 PM
1

Then what is mathematically correct. Juxtaposition would help here for the good of the group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:09 PM
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I genuinely enjoy cunnilingus however not every woman gets it from me. Not sure what you’re asking I mean that conversation just doesn’t randomly come up. Is this someone you’re already dating or?
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:37 PM
1

I don’t have many female friends, the ones I do are the ones who’ve known me since my school years. I have no intention in being platonic so I haven’t tried to make any platonic relationships with women outside of social circles/ work, etc. However the few female friends I have, I do not have the same relationship as I do with my male friends. The dynamic is different. I also make it a point that I’m not a sub in for a poorly performing boyfriend. I’ve seen many women want boyfriend qualities fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:35 PM
2

Time is one of the most important things in a relationship in my opinion. Even if it’s non exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:32 PM
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But they’re all dependent if a woman is wanting a certain man of a certain race, height, and wealth status. If a woman is specifically stating that she wants a guy with my stats (single black male, I’m in shape, 6 figure earner, and 6’1) then she effectively wanting someone who’s less than 1% of the population. This data is pulled directly from the US census and yes each stat is dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:30 PM
1

Date them. Treat them well, like a gf, hold them accountable. Give them bf benefits minus the exclusivity.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:14 PM
1

You aren’t wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:39 PM
1

So how should it be fixed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:39 PM
1

This was just a response to folks saying you could do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:11 AM
1

Well that’s only men, the calculator doesn’t look at women. However, you could do much better but would you? It’s possible but it’s not probable. If you like your FWB then keep it going. No need to find someone better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:03 AM
1

I was only doing your current guy. I was trying to show you what caliber of man he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:47 AM
1

Per the US census stats, that guy is in the top 2% of men. https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=40&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=180.34&excludeObese=false&minIncome=80000
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:16 AM
2

You don’t. You leave.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:13 AM
1

Okay cool and what are those same stats for a guy that you’d be looking to seriously date? Salary is generally a factor for women, they higher they make the smaller the dating pool is for them. Women tend to date men who make more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:07 AM
1

Respond but keep it short. Tell her you want to plan another date. Texting is only logistics. In person communication is better.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:00 AM
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I wouldn’t be too flexible to the point we’re he’s dropping things for her, that sets a bad precedent for him. OP just needs to text her a response androgen move to set up the next date. Texting for logistics only.
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:59 AM
1

Could you really find a better partner? Care to give your stats? Age? Height? Weight? Salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:56 AM
1

When Neo left the matrix there was much he didn’t understand. I think it’s the natural progression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:24 PM
1

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:24 PM
1

I’ve seen a good number of good RP guys too. But I still think most guys here are just angry and not RP yet. Being RP takes time and maturity. Edit: I turned RP after my last “relationship” I was a super sayian simp. Cooking for her and seeing her every weekend, etc etc. she just didn’t want to date anymore out of the blue and it wrecked me. Found AMS and Stephiscold and it really changed my life. It actually saved my life. It took about a year for me to actually mature into the RP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:33 PM
1

If you aren’t her boyfriend then you’re her girlfriend. You need to be fully okay with losing this girl as a “friend”. If not don’t try to rest the waters.
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:21 PM
4

Take notes. This is social circle game. ALL men should do this!
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:28 AM
18

You asked her about making a move but you didn’t make a move? She’s losing interest dude. You may have lost your chance.
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:23 AM
3

Go to the gym and get swole
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:19 AM
1

Most of these guys here aren’t red pill. They’re just angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:05 AM
1

I’d say non traditionally masculine is almost an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:05 AM
3

If your sex is trash and the other girl has the gawk gawk, if everything else is equal, I’m getting with the gawk girl. Sex is super important especially for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:03 AM
1

And that is why you date lower quality men. And that’s completely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:59 PM
2

AMS’s videos saved my life. He’s one of the OGs.
/r/newTRP05/12/21 11:27 PM
1

No guy of worth would court/ date you for months without knowing you’re interested in them. I never said these guys are faking being friends. I think guys shouldn’t do that at all. They should date you with the expectation of some type of arrangement. However while they’re dating you they should be dating other women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:27 PM
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Just look nice and clean. If you dress like the typical metal head you’ll get metal head women. However if you wore a nice suit you’d probably get more women from all all sorts of groups.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:44 PM
2

Exactly. I’m of the opinion that women give plenty of shit tests. Some of it might not be on purpose but if you hold frame you’ll be able to find the girls who will come into your frame much easier.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:30 PM
1

I have a hard cut off at 28 years old. I don’t seriously date women after age 28.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:02 PM
2

I always leave the door open, because if she flakes, and then wants to come back, you are now automatically in the position of power. As AMS says “She gon’ have to suck a whole lotta d*ck!”
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:58 PM
1

I’ll explain it the way a plate explained it to me once. Here is the executive summary. “If I’m seeing a guy and I flake last minute to do whatever and I see him taking another girl out, I’m upset because I know that could have been me” If she flakes and you have nothing to show for it then it doesn’t matter. If she flakes she didn’t really respect you. Im always posting stories about what I do. So she’s used to seeing that. And if you’re with girls more attractive than her, that’s a plus. If yo…
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:48 PM
1

My read receipts are always on. Another advance tactic is to read the message within 15 minutes (normal convo) but text later that day. If a girl sends a message during work hours I’ll read it but I won’t respond until I’m done working.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:43 PM
1

My response is usually, “No biggie, take care of what you need to”. Usually the women I’m prospecting are following me on Snapchat/ IG. So I post what I was doing on there. Even better if I see a girl out and post pictures with her.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:40 PM
1

Turn your read receipts on and let her know you read it but didn’t respond.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:38 PM
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Seems like a lot of effort and convincing. If she flakes she’s never hearing from me again unless she reaches out. But once she flakes and then comes back you need to inform her that flakes aren’t tolerated. You can either do this in text or in person, but once she’s flakes I’m inviting her over to my place, fuck a date, she must prove herself that she’s not going to waste my time planning a date from that point on.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:36 PM
1

In what world would a man wait months for you to be interested in him? Edit: would you wait months for a guy to be interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:59 PM
1

Yeah it weeds out men with standards and options and keeps around the yes men and simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:10 PM
1

It’s nature. Those men with those traits tended to be powerful and that would maintain their legacy. We are all animals at the end of the day so procreating drives a lot of our desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:10 PM
1

You don’t have to be Adonis but you need to look better than average abs maximize your current self.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:09 PM
2

You also have to look at social media. Back in the day girls had to go outside to get attention from men. Now we have IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:08 PM
1

If you’re looking your best, physically fit, well groomed, confident, she will be more open to give you a choosing signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:08 PM
1

Physical attraction opens the door. Once that door is open, it’s on the men to invite the woman into his frame. Seems like these guys are really taking the time to get you interested. Seems like they need to re evaluate things. If these men were desirable, they’d have other women in their rotation so there would be no need to spend weeks and months trying to get you to become interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:06 PM
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False. Be ruthless. Chase success. Good luck King.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:23 PM
1

Choosing signals are very subtle. She locks eyes with you and smiles a few times? Choosing signal. She may still shoot you down but if her body language is open, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:20 PM
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Respectfully I disagree. If you aren’t chasing excellence you will be behind in life. Which is fine just understand you will More than likely be alone for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:18 PM
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No, men should be changing themselves for themselves. Self improvement will help you in every aspect of life. Women are just a by-product of success when you have that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:16 PM
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Women tend to have an abundance mindset, so they have no issue dropping you and getting another guy if they’re decently attractive. I’d say women have good standard and they’re good at keeping them but they’ll be flexible on a few things depending on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:55 PM
1

Are you in the US? I’m also in the black community and the sistas seem to love beards. It’s all over IG and Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:53 PM
1

Gotcha. The beard is just the in thing right now. Clean shaven will be back in style in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:49 PM
1

Even if you can’t grow a beard you can get in the gym and get muscular. If you’re buff you have a leg up compared to many men who won’t even touch a weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:47 PM
2

Check out r/minoxidil Used it to fill out my cheeks because I was patchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:46 PM
1

All you need is 60 seconds. Ask for her social media. Make sure she follows you. Only works if your social media profile isn’t trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:42 PM
1

The fact that there is a small percentage of rich athletes and entertainers means that hat they’re outliers. Basic stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:42 PM
1

I get them all the time, especially got them when I spent time in Wales. How desirable are your traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:40 PM
1

Eastern Europe bro
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:22 AM
2

Beard and muscles. Both can be had in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:18 AM
2

I agree. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:09 AM
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I automatically remove entertainers and athletes from these debates. They’re outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:08 AM
1

Looks invite. If you’re ugly, then it’ll be tough, if you’re attractive then you’ll have a leg up. Looks is huge!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:07 AM
1

Needs to be “interest at first sight”. The onus is on the man from that point. Approach and invite her into your frame. If his frame is attractive she will then follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:04 AM
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I agree. The guy has to improve himself. Women want the best and that’s nature. Be the best or get left.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:01 AM
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Because the majority of men don’t want to do the work and improve. They just want to complain on this sub. Being desirable isn’t easy for most. Get in the gym, figure out your style and dress nice, play with fragrances, and work on confidence. You’ll get choosing signals if you put in the work 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:01 AM
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Cold approaching was dying long before this. Men we have to work on our understanding of social cues. If she’s being stand offish don’t approach. If she’s smiling at you (choosing signal) then yes go approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:40 AM
1

Plenty of women are sugaring these days
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:56 PM
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I’ve been spinning plates for years. FwB doesn’t really exist, it never did in my opinion, however casually dating does.
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:56 PM
1

Lack of practice is lack of confidence in your skill (dating). Just date more. You’ll start to figure things out. Always be improving king!
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:15 PM
1

What you lack is confidence.
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:57 PM
1

Need a link to the fingering post I’m always up for new techniques.
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:56 PM
0

I have an 8 👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:50 PM
1

Not all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:05 PM
2

Invest in pet products
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:05 PM
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You have to understand that 80% of men aren’t really dating successfully. These are the guys that get upset when the average woman holds out for giga-Chad. Plenty of women will chase a Chad/ Tyrone but they won’t chase for long. Some may be delusional (they want a 6 foot and 6 figure guy, which is literally less than 1% of the US population). However when it comes to dating apps, and social media game, you gotta be top notch quality because women can be much more picky. You need to be digitally …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:54 PM
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They must be lower tier guys. You have to put in the work. If you’re fit, dress nice, smell nice, you’ll meet get choosing signals. Get a follow on social media, then make your move at that point. 2021 is different so you’ll have to change your strategy. Are you fit? Dress well? Pleasant smelling?
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:40 PM
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It’s not the message, it’s a little bit of luck and a good/ bomb ass profile. You must realize that there are way more men on these apps than women and most women will get all matches. So they have almost infinite options. My success it’s probably a little luck and just bring an interesting guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:32 PM
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That hasn’t been my experience, if it’s yours, maybe you need to look inward to see what you can improve? There are women that want something long term but if you’re giving off short term vibes, it could be affecting you and the girls you meet. However, I’m telling you a strategy I use. You have to create a at times invite that girl into your life. You can do that thru social media. If you look like a fun guy doing fun things, you’re more likely to spend time with that girl if she’s following yo…
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:30 PM
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You can get choosing signals anywhere. The grocery store. Getting petrol. Anywhere. If you’re in shape, smell nice, dress well, you’ll get choosing signals and make your move their. You don’t have to go to a nightclub or bar. I spent some time in Wales and met plenty of women. Edit: and that’s where the social media and social circle game come in handy. It’s a brochure of your life, your sales pitch.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:14 PM
1

TRP is a praxeology. It’s not exact. You have blue pill alphas (mike rashid) and red pill betas (many of the men on this sub and the old r/asktrp sub). I like using terms like “red pill aware”. It doesn’t put you in any block but allows you to understand each section of the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:00 PM
1

Someone teach this man some Kino!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:09 PM
1

Usually my first date is a coffee date or walk in the park. The second will be at night at a bar. The third will be at my place and I’ll cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:53 PM
1

Girls flake all the time. I’m in the US with a decent sized social circle with some good looking girls. Those girls tend to have single friends and they’ll vouch that I’m a good guy. I call that “pre-vetting”. So now that their friend has pre-vetted me, the girl is less likely to flake and she also doesn’t want to get shamed by her friend. Also for social media, you need to have quality photos that show your lifestyle, flatter you, etc. basically you want to creat an inviting atmosphere so she t…
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:35 PM
1

You wait until you get choosing signals. Cold approach is futile. Social circle/ social media game gives better results if you’re social media and social groups are optimized.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:26 PM
0

TRP is the study of inter-gender dynamics. Any RP book will tell you that women is a by-product of self improvement. If you want to use it to “get” women then that’s fine, however that’s not it’s intended purpose. That’s a loose quote from Rollo. The creator of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:34 PM
1

Hey man good luck dude. I can tell you’re not really RP. You’re still immature in what TRP really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:07 PM
2

Hey man good luck dude. I can tell you’re not really RP. You’re still immature in what TRP really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:07 PM
2

Without him and the ground work he laid through PUA, etc. we would not have TRP as we know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:06 PM
1

He actually said TRP lead to the success of his marriage. His wife is like 2 years older than him and they got married when he was like 26
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:05 PM
1

Rollo is The Godfather if TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:02 PM
1

Married to his wife for about 25 years and they have a daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:02 PM
2

TRP is not about getting women. Get that out of your head right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:01 PM
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Certain caliber of women would 100% leave you if you had nothing. That’s hypergamy 101. If you have resources women will be attracted to you. The way to combat this is to not flaunt them. But she will know by the way you carry yourself. I’m a 6 figure guy but I live humbly. I have my Own place, I drive an older SUV, good job, dress well. It’s usually after I’ve been with a plate about 3ish months is when they figure out I make real money. Discovery over disclosure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:58 PM
0

Plain and simple, a beta is a man who pedestalizes women, you can even be a red pill beta, or a blue pill alpha (think Mike Rashid).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:55 PM
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It’s not unreasonable. It’s fucking nature. TRP teaches men to understand this, not to take it as offense. Fact of the matter is most men don’t want to put in the work for self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:52 PM
2

There is no short and simple answer. If you’re truly redpoll you should be focusing on yourself and improving your looks, situation, money, etc. once you’ve improved that, women should be a by-product of that improvement. Generally when you make that change your lifestyle and habits change. So if you’re lifestyle becomes more luxurious, and women are attracted to that, it doesn’t make you beta. However discovery trumps disclosure every single time. Be a little aloof with the fancy things. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:48 PM
0

You don’t. Gym, work, and school are places where you shouldn’t cold approach. If it goes wrong you’re forced to see them.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:02 AM
0

I mirror shine my shoes too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:03 PM
3

I always said, “the best way to date a girl is so show interest in her friend/ sister”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:18 PM
3

Exactly. I agree 100%. No one I know wears rings unless they’re married. I wear one on the opposite hands ring finger. It usually matches my watch. I pick a musky but light cologne. Something different and not popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:17 PM
1

Lots of those methods don’t work for 2021. The number one thing a guy can do is be visibly attractive. If you aren’t attractive then those methods WILL NOT work 9/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:15 PM
0

And those wives did not submit to him. Ephesians 5:22 1 Corinthians 14:34
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:11 PM
2

I gotcha. You just said you would need a man making x. So I took that as you don’t hav a man. Keep him close because he’s very rare! Good luck to you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:01 PM
2

That’s the thing a true RP man doesn’t complain. He understands and then fixes himself. In my blue pill life I was spineless and agreeable. I went thru my transformation and understood my faults. Fixed them and improved. TRP saved me from putting a bullet thru my skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:59 PM
1

And those men aren’t red pill. There are a lot of posers on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:27 PM
0

As a Christian it is very compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:08 PM
0

Funny because I’m RP and looking to get married to a wonderful feminine, supportive, and peaceful woman sometime next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:06 PM
2

Well on a primal level, men are designed to spread their seed. The human race almost died out in prehistoric times. Ejaculate and evacuate is a thing. Testosterone just makes us horny. Shoot I can be out with one of my long term plates and see another woman and get an instant boner. I think it’s nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:00 PM
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He has a few books on it and has been doing this since the early 2000s. He also doesn’t believe in prenups. It’s funny how folks get an idea in their head of what TRP is when the guy who literally created it, said he’s doing it to save men’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:33 PM
0

Your mom was not your dads equal. She was his helpmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:31 PM
0

The Godfather of the red pill has been married more than 20 years and has a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:30 PM
1

Put the stats of the guy you want in the delusion calculator. Understand that the man you want is in the top 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:30 PM
0

Christianity is fundamentally compatible. How many wives did King Solomon have? There are a plethora of red pill quotes in the Bible. Isaiah 4:1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:28 PM
1

I’d call it red pill aware. Remember Rollo is married and has been more than 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:24 PM
2

By some of the definitions I see here, red pill men don’t want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:24 PM
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If they aren’t improving their situation that sounds like black pill and not red pill. One of the biggest abs most famous Red Pill personalities has been married more than 20 years and has a daughter. His name is Rollo Tomassi.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:22 PM
4

Remove your need to be right =/= men can never be wrong. It just means don’t attempt to dialogue when neither side will get anything out of it. Men process thru logos then ethos. It’s reverse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:21 PM
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Your grandmother just like many of our grandmothers were so wise. I don’t condone cheating (sex outside of the marriage/ LTR), however a man having sex while married/ LTR is much different than a woman having sex while married/ LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:18 PM
1

I suggest you watch some folks on YouTube. Rollo Tomassi, AMS, Rich Cooper, Kevin Samuels, Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews. Those men are the pillars of the Manosphere. If it doesn’t come from them it will be tainted IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:16 PM
2

Just like religion, feminism, MRA, etc. you can’t pigeon hole it because it has many off shoots. You get black pill white pill purple pill. At the heart of it tho TRP is the understanding of inter gender dynamics to help men improve themselves and their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:10 PM
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Kevin Samuels said remove your need to be right when talking to women. Just say your piece and move on. I feel like that’s true here. No point in arguing because it’ll get you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:23 PM
5

OP you do not understand TRP. This post makes this obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:18 PM
7

What’s the point? I never cold approach anymore. Just for practice?
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:36 AM
6

Appreciate that king
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:26 AM
9

TRP saved my life. I had a plan of action for self deletion. The night before I planned to do it I found Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. Since then I’ve improved so much. Got back in shape, moved up in my career, started living the free agent life style (coach Greg Adams), and just being me. So for me when I see a guy struggling I’m always gunna introduce him to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:34 AM
1

Okay good. Just do what I said above in the other comment.
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:29 AM
1

And what’s your end goal?
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:25 AM
1

And I assume you have your own place and she still lives at home?
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:24 AM
1

Wait how old are you and how old is she
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:23 AM
1

The easiest way to get this girl interested in you is to get interested in her friends lol. Toxic af. You need to confident but you also need to play the field. If this girl sees that you are wanted by other attractive women the she will be inclined to give you the time of day. Also, stop texting her. Next time you see her. Tell her you’re doing something fun and she should Join you. Get her in your frame. If she doesn’t come that’s fine because you were doing it anyways.
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:17 AM
1

Don’t text before 9AM or after 10PM.
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:12 AM
4

BECAUSE MEN ARE ONLY AS FAITHFUL AS THEIR OPTIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:08 AM
3

I’m dating casually and dating multiple women at once. I used to date only one at a time but that just didn’t make sense because if it doesn’t work out then that’s time wasted.
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:08 AM
4

The reason we get rage is most men find TRP after a tough spot in life. Watch the matrix. Neo went thru a period where he was mad and upset and lashed out but he eventually understood in depth, IMO that’s generally the process most men take when taking TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:05 AM
6

Plate spinning is literally how women date these days. A younger millennial or older Gen z woman has at least 3-5 guys in her DMs ready to go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:59 AM
4

Honestly. I say focus on yourself. Look good physically and dress well. Smell good. Have a good job. Do fun things. Optimize your social media. It’s much easier to seduce her when you have a lot going on compared to being like most average men.
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:58 PM
0

A guy posted here last week showing a study where it was reported that women were lowering their body count when asked if they knew someone would be reviewing their answers. They then looked at women and told them no one would review this answers and it was much higher. It was a very interesting study give me sometime to find the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:53 PM
4

Dude you’re missing the point altogether. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:00 PM
5

I’m going to ask you this again. In plain English. Will a white woman from an affluent wealthy family with connections marry or have an LTR a black guy? LIKE I SAID BEFORE. We can pull easily. We can fuck easily because we are fetishized but many white women and other races don’t see us as LTR/ marriage material and lot of that is fueled by racism.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:52 PM
3

But will they marry that black guy if they’re from An affluent family? Plenty of white women like black dick but more often than not women who come from wealth and status won’t seriously have an LTR with a black guy unless he’s like a CEO or a politician, etc.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:43 PM
8

Testosterone. We are built/ have evolved that way. It’s that primal and image drive to spread our seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:18 PM
3

Women really fail to understand how powerful testosterone is as an arousal/ mating device. Men just process things differently than women and that’s fine. It doesn’t mean they care any less. It’s just different. Men like looks and women like words. That’s why men lie and women wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:17 PM
2

The premise is that your top tier guy is having sex with top tier, average, and below average women. The fact that you don’t knew many men who could do that is kind of proving my point. Logically, women tend to go for the best for sex. Women have unlimited access to sex. Most men don’t, the ones who have the best shot of having sex with women are the men in the top tier. Edit: like I said it’s a loose rule. Stop trying to Gamma male this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:13 PM
5

I have both, but some families would literally disown their daughter for dating a black man. Then you have to understand how shallow many women are. How their friends will look at the situation. Much more than having good qualities for an LTR.
/r/seduction01/12/21 02:57 PM
1

It’s just used as a loose rule. You’ll make yourself crazy trying to find out the exact number. Edit: to clarify this is for single men and women. Not couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:50 PM
1

I ask that because on average men die sooner than women. So if you retire at 65 and have enough savings to make it to 75 you’re fine. Avg age of death for the US male is 75. For female it’s 80. So there is generally 5 years extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:50 PM
4

Southern United States. Racism.
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:26 AM
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Both lie. Women lie because they want to maintain purity, men lie because they want to obtain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:18 AM
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20% of the men are having sex with 80% of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:05 AM
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My question for the WGTOW women that don’t make over 6 figures. Who will take care of you when you retire? Your basic 401k likely won’t last long enough to keep you afloat longer than 10-15 years especially with inflation rising like it is. Also what if you have health problems? This is mainly for folks in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:27 AM
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The typical RPM doesn’t like a woman who’s competing with them. If I’m driven in my career I want a woman who’s driven to support me in my career. I want a woman who will raise my kids. It’s hard to do that if she’s just as ambitious as you in her career. For non RPM, I’m sure it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:04 AM
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We can pull for sex but for LTRs it’s a different story, especially in the south.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:46 AM
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Good work. I’d actually move away from getting numbers and adding each other on social media. If your social media (IG) is optimized and you’re active it can be a big help.
/r/seduction30/11/21 11:03 PM
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I exclude entertainers and athletes from the high value discussion as stated above. They’re outliers for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:02 PM
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I’m a HVM. I’m certainly not going to be in an LTR with a woman like Madonna. More than likely I’ll get an adjustable 6 who’s got good values and is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:49 PM
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Or that the CEO spends so much time with this person anyways. She’s already acting like his wife without being his wife. I worked in IB and consulting and many MDs married their assistants because “It was like we were already married”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:40 PM
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Madonna is in her 60s acting like a teenage girl. Remember when she sexually assaulted drake? Please don’t use entertainers and athletes in the high value discussion bc they’re outliers and do not represent the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:38 PM
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Date casually vs. LTR should be made apparent. Falling into the cohort as well, many of my married peers have a wife that’s a SAHMs or wives that work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:35 PM
5

You’re going to get downvoted for this but you’re exactly right.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 01:03 AM
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It’s my personal preference to drive. I stay pretty sober at these clubs. But if you want to escalate you have to understand if she’s there by herself (super unlikely) or if she’s with girl friends. If she’s with girlfriends it will be much harder. Especially harder if she has some ugly friends because they’ll cock block your advances. All that being said it can be done. Just keep bumping into the same girl. Buy her a few drinks. Ask her if she wants to come back to your place. Make her feel saf…
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:54 PM
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How far from these clubs do you live? 5 minute drive?
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:49 PM
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Just dance with her and have fun. She’s literally at the club to dance on dudes. Don’t try to take her home don’t try to put your hand down her pants. Ofc get hard but just have a good time.
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:47 PM
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I agree with you there. A woman can definitely be independent but strong in her feminine energy. Ultimately I think that’s what many men want today. I enjoyed our discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 02:44 AM
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I’m not complaining. I’m stating an observation. I didn’t think RP women were independent in the sense that I mentioned above, so I’m showing a dichotomy between the two.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 02:42 AM
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I’m not MGTOW. Look at the user name. I’m a red pill man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 02:37 AM
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I’d say that modern day feminism contributed/ created everything you just said. Yeah it’s sucks trying to do everything. That’s why men and women compliment each other. I don’t feel bad for independent women. I just watch them struggle to find a mate.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 02:21 AM
3

Fax!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 01:03 AM
5

I wouldn’t say that’s entirely true. If a traditional male spends his 20s working as a single bachelor then marries in his 30s I’m sure he’s learned how to cook.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 01:03 AM
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Because conservative men take care of their families. That’s traditional. It always has been.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 01:01 AM
1

One of my plates is a single middle aged woman. All of her friends are single and middle aged and hate the fact that they haven’t had kids yet or that they have to freeze their eggs or that they haven’t found a good guy yet. It’s out there, you may not see it because it’s not on your circle. Coming from an African American family, it’s very prevalent.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:59 AM
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False. I literally have seen one of my friends do this. He’s red pill in knowledge but blue pill af in practice. He can recite Tomassi, Rich Cooper, Cory Wayne, but when pretty girls are around this mother fucker will cozy up and be so agreeable, etc, etc. He’s 35 and hasn’t gotten laid in about 4 years.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:55 AM
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Modern men think an independent woman can do it all because Independent/ moderate women act like they can do it all. They said they don’t need a man right? That assumes they can do both a man’s and woman’s job.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:53 AM
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Many trad con men know that women are the compliment to men. He doesn’t mind stepping in from time to time to give you some space to recharge because he knows it’s a tough job. Also, you seem to be in your feminine energy which is what truly drives us men. A man will literally go to the ends of the earth do his family when the wife is supportive and peaceful. You’re doing wonderful and I’m really happy you posted this because it shows men and women how each party in a hetero marriage compliments…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:52 AM
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r/blaze_eternal here is what I’m talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:47 AM
2

You can be decently attractive but if you do not have a track record of routinely dating attractive women, you’ll have a scarcity mindset when you do date a 9-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:46 AM
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Just know that once you turn 30, the pool of available men seem to diminish.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:45 AM
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May need to lower your height. About 10% of the world population is over 6 feet tall. But I think other than that, it’s very doable. If you want a fit man, look at local workout groups and make nice. Men will come up to you and may propose dates, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:38 AM
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Some guys don’t mind. Is your face attractive? Good skin? Furthermore I think you can find a decent guy. What would your ideal guy look like? Age, height, salary, race, fitness level?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:15 AM
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Why do you rate yourself a 4? You seem to be fit. Are you feminine?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:11 AM
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I clarified my previous statement. Marriage/ LTR changes things. You am still be secure and comfortable with yourself and still mate guard. Competing for women is either beta nor alpha. The type of women I date only date certain type of men. They aren’t dating the average guy. However in a situation where I’m exclusive with a woman, you either get rid of the orbiters or I get rid of you. There is a line that she will not cross. If a woman you’re with has a friend and you know that he’s only frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:09 AM
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I’d say the n-count number where a woman can’t pair bond is closer to 25ish. And if the guy is really good in bed and satisfies you, that number will be higher. You have to understand that many women are having mediocre sex. So a woman could have 100 sexual partners and if they’re all trash, and the 101st parter is amazing. She could possibly pair bond with him. And if you want an attractive male, I’d need to know your stats. Height, weight, age, number of partners, salary, occupation, number of…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 11:57 PM
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The only way to get past this is to improve yourself so much that your routinely date 9-10 caliber women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:53 PM
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So this is the reason why many of these FDS women will turn into 49ers. Shout out to Coach Greg Adams.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:47 PM
1

Let me preface. If I’m in a committed, exclusive, LTR, then I’m making sure no emotional cheating is occurring. I would eventually marry that woman and the risks for marriage are just too high to not mate guard. However, a short or long term casual thing changes things immensely. However I don’t believe that emotional affairs are that common for the secure HVM. For the average joe, yeah sure I could see that, but for someone like me, emotional cheating is an easy way to get replaced. I’d even ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:41 PM
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You’re okay with your woman cheating emotionally? A woman cheating emotionally will eventually lead to her cheating physically. And if the orbiter is good at sex, or makes her feel better than you make her feel or it’s more exciting, you just cucked yourself. Not all orbiters are created equal. Some orbiters could be RP men who know your woman quite well. And given the opportunity, it could start a situation you wouldn’t be fond of. This is anecdotal, but I’m acquainted with a particular woman. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:45 PM
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I think this is fine for casual dating for the short term and the long term. However if you’re my wife, and you have my last name, the orbiters stop. I think there must be a mutual level of respect from the wife and a male friend. I don’t think it has anything to do with confidence but more so respect. A marriage is different as the risks are much greater. The man has everything to lose in a marriage so why would I openly tell my wife to spend time with her orbiter? Edit: word choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:34 PM
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This is a textbook example of what happens when a LVM gets what he perceives to be a 9-10. Thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:45 PM
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She’s 21 dude. Come on man. What do you expect lol. She’s a few years away from the epiphany phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:43 PM
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You’re basically paying full price for a used Bentley, when guys like me rented it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:20 PM
2

If you had other viable options, you would either wait for here while still having sex with the other women/ plates, or you’d soft next and forget about her all together. Women who know other women want you will gladly have sex with you on the second or third date. Every time I’ve waited more than three dates to have sex with a woman I’m pursuing, the sex has been less than stellar. Some of the best/ longest casual relationships I’ve had with women, we had sex on the first or second date. Men, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:18 PM
1

“Yeah I like to play the field”
/r/newTRP26/11/21 09:15 PM
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I’ve had this happen multiple times. I’d get a text around 9pm with the girl dressed nice and she would be honest and say, “yeah I was on a date but I had to get out of there”. Just because you wouldn’t do it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:24 PM
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To your last point, that’s a good way to get blocked and never talked to again. Discretion is key. As the guy posted earlier, actions and words aren’t lining up. I’ve seen girls on dating apps that said they didn’t do them. Shit I’ve even seen some on seeking. Do I bring it up? Fuck no I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:20 PM
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But he backed it up with data.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:18 PM
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