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[–]ShampooMonK 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Stop using texting to build interest.
Simply ask what her schedule is like next week or this week to grab coffee and then go from there.
There is no secret way to get her drop her pants for you via text.
[–]Both_Assumption1275 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea what he said… maybe stick out and try calling her. Get used to asking women out you may have to see again in a respectful way. It’s how our ancestors had to do it.
[–]Imnachobear3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Right. I’m trying to close the date but ended up just getting left on read. Only exchanged maybe 5-6 messages. Response times were about an hour gap. I texted late night which carried over into early morning and then left on read* they’re a med student so Ik they’re busy but I think it has to do with the way I’m texting too ig. I was just tryna exchange a few texts and then ask out. And before I could ask her out (or attempted to) she left it on read
[–]ShampooMonK 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes texting late at night can give her the wrong impression. Like she might be thinking, "is he really thinking about me late at night?"
they’re a med student so Ik they’re busy but I think it has to do with the way I’m texting too ig. I was just tryna exchange a few texts and then ask out. And before I could ask her out (or attempted to) she left it on read
One thing I've learned is that no matter how fucking busy you are, you will always get back to the person and if you're interested never leave them second guessing.
I would wait till she replies, and then ask her out. You'll get your answer then.
[–]Imnachobear3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. thing is, I texted at 8:30 and she got back at 10:30 and then I got back at 11:30 ect. She replied 8am - 9am and bam that was it.
[–]ShampooMonK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Future tip from now on don't reply after 10PM, even though she did. I would have just replied after 11:00 AM the next day.
So what did her 8am or 9am text say?
[–]Imnachobear31 points 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Me 8:30pm : hey it’s ___ hope I didn’t interrupt the vampire diaries marathon…
F19 10:30 - hey no worries lol I finished that show a while ago
Me- 11- so are you getting ready for bed then?
Her: 11-30 - yeah it’s been a long day and I’m pretty tired
Me/ dang I just ate dinner haha you should be studying (joke cuz she’s a bio major)
Her @ 7am - how do you eat dinner so late? What time do you usually sleep? 😀
Me@ 8 - brown ppl just built different haha and 12-1ish Me- what’s your typical college day look like ?
Her@9 - it’s pretty boring I just work on homework and I had an 8am today which was pretty exciting lol
Me@930 - it’s time for a study break
[–]ShampooMonK 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cut out using "hope," those are words that make you seem meek/tentative.
Don't text stuff like this anymore. It isn't good, plus she's already telling you she has had a long day = womanese for leave me alone.
Me/ dang I just ate dinner haha you should be studying (joke cuz she’s a bio major) Her @ 7am - how do you eat dinner so late? What time do you usually sleep? 😀 Me@ 8 - brown ppl just built different haha and 12-1ish Me- what’s your typical college day look like ? Her@9 - it’s pretty boring I just work on homework and I had an 8am today which was pretty exciting lol Me@930 - it’s time for a study break
This is why I don't like texting, because a lot of this shit is boring no offense my guy. I'm keeping it real with you. Talking about school? Not to mention her mentioning she's tired she's going to be associating those negative feelings with you. Next time, she'll think of you as that stereotypical guy who talks about 'school,' with her. Boring.
Next time when you say time for a study break.
Text her this, "hey you've been working so hard on your homework, why don't you relax and take a study break and let's grab some coffee!"
See what she says and schedule a date after you ask what her availability is that week.
[–]Imnachobear3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeppp that’s where I was trying to head with the time for a break part. I thought of doing the same after
[–]RPslimjim 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t text before 9AM or after 10PM.
[–]BurnItDownSR -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
There is no secret coz the ways to stimulate a girl so well thru texting or in any context aren't hidden. Most guys are just too lazy to learn these things.
Its ok if you don't wanna put in the effort and just take lots of shots hoping to get lucky once in a while, you don't need to justify your preference by saying its the only way. Own the fact that you don't care if you get inconsistent results and you can't be bothered to lean how to communicate beyond basic social skills.
That's not a knock. Most people don't wanna be world class athletes or talents, I have a bunch of skilled hobbies that I don't care to get amazing at too, so if communication is a thing you don't wanna get amazing at its all good. Besides, basic social skills are usually enough to get through life just fine. I'm just pointing out the reality that there are levels beyond the basics that some people choose to go to and are very effective with.
Criticizes my comment offers nothing to the OP, but some superfluous open ended bullshit. Yeah okay buddy. Have a good one.
[–]BurnItDownSR -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually, I pointed out the fact that OP can improve his situation.
[–]Atangeloni -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Religious women like sex sometimes more than other women.. You can ease into the conversation with some questions about her sensitive spots or things that turn her on. Ask questions and ask questions that don’t allow her to use one word answers. And if you run out of questions go online and google, ‘questions to ask a girl’ and the websites will literally give you categories of questions like flirtatious questions or personality questions. Also after she answers give a little info about yourself related to the topic and then ask another question from there. Let her talk mostly and don’t talk about yourself too much just give her short follow ups about yourself when she answers.
[–]Fainting_GoatMilk -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read her Psalms in your Jesus robes.
[–]canadaleaf14 -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her if she wants to reenact the story of Adam and Eve
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk to her on Sunday
[–]RPslimjim 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
The easiest way to get this girl interested in you is to get interested in her friends lol. Toxic af.
You need to confident but you also need to play the field. If this girl sees that you are wanted by other attractive women the she will be inclined to give you the time of day.
Also, stop texting her. Next time you see her. Tell her you’re doing something fun and she should Join you. Get her in your frame. If she doesn’t come that’s fine because you were doing it anyways.
I remember trying something like this in high school lol. Unfortunately, at church she doesn’t have any friends and her family leaves church like as soon as message is over. Idk anything about her life outside of who she is at church
[–]RPslimjim 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Wait how old are you and how old is she
[–]Imnachobear3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
M21 F19
[–]RPslimjim 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
And I assume you have your own place and she still lives at home?
[–]Imnachobear31 points 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
No we both live w our parents. 5 mins apart to be exact lol
Edit: I dropped someone from church to her house one time haha not a stalker
[–]RPslimjim 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
And what’s your end goal?
[–]Imnachobear3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’d like to get to know her better and potentially pursue a relationship if we connect on a date or two.
Okay good. Just do what I said above in the other comment.
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