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FundamentalsShampooMonK/r/seduction01/02/22 12:43 AM
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A few days later, we went out for dinner. Beforehand, she even joked about "checking out my place" a couple of times, which I took as playful flirting. Dinner and drinks went well, with more good conversation and making out, but it was a weekday and getting late, so we called it a night. If you meet any girl at the club just know most of them DTF. If she joked checking out your place, that was your cue to bring her back home after the dinner/drinks. You always plan for logistics to bring her bac…
/r/seduction17/06/25 04:28 AM
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Ehhh idk I always ask and never get told no, but I read the body language and make sure there’s 100% chance of yes before I ask I mean yours is different though lol, you're already reading the room and setting the stage for it to happen organically. I also used to say stuff like, "I'm going to kiss you now," with a smirk while waiting to see her reaction, and 99% of the time it's usually receptive or when I know she's been waiting for it.
/r/seduction14/06/25 02:55 AM
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Well, I hope mine was useful at least lol.
/r/seduction11/06/25 12:16 AM
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Hah, same here now. The girl I'm seeing, she literally asked me how many rounds can you go? I said 5-8 on a good day. She had such a shocked pikachu face and literally tells me she needs a break lol.
/r/seduction08/06/25 09:45 AM
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Okay, so I will say this from experience. This only works on most women that are sort of emotionally damaged. Push and pull. You still need to show her some interest aka gentle persistence. She also has to be attracted to you somewhat. If she's a good girl/inexperienced shy woman, she is not always going to chase. Will she initiate/reach out here and there? Yes, until you both have slept together/gone on a few dates and she's attracted/comfortable with you. Chasing for a challenge is a masculine…
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:56 PM
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I’ll be honest it caught me off guard but I do find her attractive and would donkey fuck her the first chance I got(I’m a married man) ....
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:30 AM
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The attraction/interest level wasn't that high to begin with. Also I've noticed avoidants or women who tend to be emotionally unavailable do not like vulnerability as much, or tend to stray/pull away from it.
/r/seduction22/05/25 10:29 PM
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Authenticity trumps the whole alpha male strategy, because let's assume this is a woman you actually like or want to keep seeing? Then she must see every side to you: humans are flawed, imperfect, still showing sides of you, vulnerable, kind, assertive, playful, stoic, indifferent, relaxed, happy - you must show congruence.
/r/seduction22/05/25 03:54 PM
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NRE = New relationship energy - aka honeymoon phase.
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:29 PM
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This is going to be lengthy. - 1) You must be a man of purpose. Listen, ignore the red/black pill. As humans, we are inherently and internally lazy. If we can get our best choices/mates without putting in the most effort, we would do it. But most actual women with some common sense/self respect and not those ho's you see trying to chase after celebrities/athletes, know full and well which type of man would want to be with them. So be a man of value, be kind, humble, and you must HAVE ambition. K…
/r/seduction15/05/25 07:52 AM
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Last minute resistance.
/r/seduction06/05/25 05:45 PM
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Fair enough to each their own, I'm not shitting on your game my bad if I came off like that, just not something I would recommend or suggest to most new seducers/new beginners because it can sort of throw some women who may be on the fence but want to still have sex/unsure. Unless your calibration/ability to escalate is on point, a good fair amount of women will have their anti-slut defense walls up. Being very direct like that generally works if she is immensely and sexually attracted to you/ov…
/r/seduction06/05/25 05:33 PM
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I'm going to disagree with this. This is not advice I would recommend, but to each their own. I don't kiss until she's at my place, within 10 minutes. It invokes mystery/anticipation. She thinks, "when is going to kiss me?" That anticipation turns into nervousness/excitement. I let her sit down, relax, make drinks/coffee/matcha if she looks tired, and we sit on the couch. By 10 minutes is when I start making moves, going for the kiss. Then after I hold out my hand and tell her to come with my lo…
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:36 PM
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Okay, so this gets brought up a lot for some reason on this subreddit. To put it succinctly - on average within the first 10-20 seconds, the woman has already decided in her head if she'll sleep with you or find you attractive enough to entertain that notion. Your goal is to not only be calm, assertive, defeat any LMR, but also get investment on her end - be it by getting her to deep dive, getting her to move with you, telling her to touch you, you must also make her feel comfortable enough with…
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:20 PM
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My coworker that I've been seeing at my weekend serving job is extremely shy around me, she's friendly with everyone else, but clams up immediately - sometimes even stuttering and being unable to form coherent sentences and always looks away/looking down when I make intense eye contact; even she showed signs of interest - at least trying to mirror my actions when I put my hand on her shoulder briefly or pushed her gently. If I hadn't been confident enough in myself to keep pursuing with playfuln…
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:53 AM
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Is it your first time or? Welcome to the gym, my brother in Christ. Pick a plan that meets your goals Don't be nervous or intimidated, most people there are actually really nice - remember getting jacked as a natural is a long and slow process.
/r/seduction17/04/25 03:49 PM
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Being a boyfriend implies many things, and responsibilities, like having to meet friends and family, and much more. Lol, not always. Most relationships start off as casual/FWB's, genius. But hey, since you know everything, why are you even on here?
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:16 PM
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Exclusive with a good FWB .... So a girlfriend? (I have no idea why you even agree to this, FYI: since you said you're moving. Also a woman's feelings/emotions can change in the course of a few months my guy.) Also no offense OP, but most likely you ain't giving it to her that good... Focus more on giving than receiving, what I mean is foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay. Trust me, all you need to do is preheat the oven. Once she's so soaking wet and emotionally/physically stimulated all you need to do…
/r/seduction14/04/25 12:43 PM
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My condolences - clearly I lack the 'essence.'
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:51 PM
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Question is... What do you provide in return other than just sex - for those millionaires you are looking for? Lol.
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:33 PM
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Yes, what you described is literally what is a fundamental principle in seduction/PUA. When women do this it's called 'hovering,' it allows them to have plausible deniability if you don't talk to them, but also allows them to come closer in proximity by 'putting,' themselves out there for you to simply say hi aka approach invitation signals. This also tends to happen when women flock to men who have higher than normal social proof.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:23 PM
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Check OP's post history lol. Just straight up lying on this sub for karma.
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:46 PM
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LOL I just did mine and got fuckin' roasted: This user is a Celtics fanatic with a surprising side hustle as a breakup guru, dispensing tough-love advice while simultaneously analyzing NBA roster construction. When they're not diagnosing the Celtics' playoff chances or telling people to ditch their exes, they're probably curating a killer dubstep playlist for maximum self-improvement gains. Thanks for sharing, just had some awesome laughs.
/r/seduction24/03/25 02:40 AM
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Your post history is wild lol. Never get invested into one girl.
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:55 PM
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I agree but I'm like 99% sure the OP you were replying to was making a joke.
/r/seduction19/03/25 06:36 PM
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Yeah I don't agree with this at all lol. When you treat her like a gf then when other guys try to hook up with her she will always compare your actions to theirs. ?? Sexual connection is supremely important. Intimacy with a deep emotional connection allows you to seamlessly transition into a long-term one. You should not be trying to act or treat her like a girlfriend off the bat. She has to earn/qualify that, otherwise why are you trying to be her boyfriend? You need to operate from a lover/sex…
/r/seduction19/03/25 06:33 PM
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Great mindset to have 👍 Yes, it would've been an enjoyable experience if you got more out of it. But as long as you keep learning and growing. You'll be able to meet other fantastic women. Also realize that some women especially off of a breakup tend to be unemotionallly unavailable/hot or cold. Word of advice is don't come on too strong - simply match their energy. If they go cold or ghost, you do the same.
/r/seduction13/03/25 03:00 PM
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The asking her how Saturday was is just too much man. She doesn't want a boyfriend, she already said she wants something casual and you guys haven't even hooked up yet. To her she already knows you're going to be very needy or clingy. Love is free man. If a woman wants to leave you let her go my friend.
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:51 PM
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If she only broke up 3 months ago all you had to do was play your cards right and you would've been smashing in no time... when women say they want something casual - they just want to have fun no strings attached aka fuck around.
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:49 PM
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Nah man don't send anything bro. I'm trying to be real with you. I've been that guy. Due to my childhood trauma and anxious attachment. If I like someone or connect with well, I tend to get a little attached. I don't know if you suffer from that as well. But listen you will do well better off if you don't send a single thing. The guy or ex she's talking to may fall off and she may contact or reach out to you. No response is a response my guy. At least wait a month and even then when you're talki…
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:42 PM
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Brother in christ do not that send that please...
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:37 PM
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Uhh, well.... I hope it works for you, but that's a very needy/desperate text lol.
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:29 PM
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Notes: PRE to this date she mentioned that this to be a casual date, and the ex bf and her are in contact although she claims no feelings for him Reasons for ghosting: She's talking to her ex still and most likely is still in the picture and used selfies as a way of reigniting jealously in her ex. Or she just wasn't feeling you, to be honest 1 hour and half face time call for the first date??? That's way too much investment to be upfront. If you meet someone else on any kind of dating app, assum…
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:03 PM
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Compliments are always unnecessary. You did a good job, next time get her out with you at those parties and then create good logistics if you both are feeling each other. Only compliment without the intention of trying to get something in return or if she reciprocates/invests/complies. She's just your friend, nothing more. No need to give away free compliments for no reason.
/r/seduction12/03/25 10:17 PM
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Okay, so my question to you is... Why does it matter? You've been posting multiple threads about her based on your post history, like dude get a grip god damn. The moment she said she's married and the let you know means she's not that interested in you or maybe you're coming on way too strong. Flirting is fun, most married women who tend to 'flirt,' and have 'work,' husbands tend to lean towards the side of cheating. Go find someone else my guy.
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:00 PM
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..... I don't understand why dudes will fuck around with married women. That being said, dude she's your co-worker. Which makes it even worse. Go find other single women that won't obstruct nor potentially hinder your workplace/job. Is she attention seeking? Maybe, but fuck around and find out I guess, if you don't value your job that much.
/r/seduction11/03/25 04:37 PM
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This is good advice but not enough... If anything, it's the exact problem I've had with seduction nowadays. Thing is man... Manipulation, push and pull, being able to incorporate pregnant pauses, creating sexual tension with deep eye contact even at a point where it's deemed by society as 'creepy.' These are important tactics you can sprinkle in and out of your game here and there. Physical escalation can happen without touching. Yes and no to this. You can create sexual tension by intense eye c…
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:10 AM
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Personally, the man should never be the one trying to tie a woman down to a relationship. Your goal is to figure out is she worth your time and effort/investment? Is she good enough to be with me? I've had my fair share of girlfriends and LTR's, the best and fulfilling ones were where the woman genuinely desired and wanted to be with me - proposed the question when we're casually dating, "so what are we? where is this going?" It's not even about the power shifting in her side, it's your masculin…
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:50 AM
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I mean you're calling another dude an incel who's going through a rough phase in his dating game, quick to insult and turn around then act like the victim here lol. You sound like the female here if anything, but go off. Funny to see my simple post getting downvoted. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction25/02/25 10:26 PM
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I’ve been in this sub for a while, and I have yet to see any life-changing seduction advice. Everything is just the same repackaged, safe, generic advice that leads nowhere. • “Just be yourself.” • “Be confident.” • “Love her well, and she’ll love you.” Uhh, what? Users like Hunterpua or Daygamecode do not even stress this at all. Lol, this sub preaches the exact opposite and if you write that fooli cooli bullshit, you tend to get clowned? Only newbies and bots tend to post that romcom stuff. Th…
/r/seduction25/02/25 02:40 PM
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Don't give your ex free attention bro, even you admitted it's over. So just let it be. I know it sounds harsh, but right now? You're mentally and emotionally not ready to move on, and even then by the time you have put in the work and the time investing in yourself. You won't even want to reach out. TL;DR Tell me I’m a B*tch or something so I can move on, logically I want to but my emotions are acting like a simp. Last week I encountered a HB9.5 and didn’t do shit, wtf is wrong with my brain? Is…
/r/seduction06/02/25 11:54 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:33 PM
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Well, not trying to get too political either. People tend to forget that the Obama Administration was deporting a shit ton of immigrants as well. It just wasn't as publicized or on the news as it is today. Trump administration is also trying to end birthright citizenship, and cracking harder on immigration.
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:22 PM
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Most promiscuous city you've been to? Las Vegas, without a doubt. Bueno Aires is a close second.
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:20 AM
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I disagree with this statement. The problem with the 'Passport,' bros is that everywhere you go... You still need to hold frame, you still need to maintain some shred of masculinity/being traditional because most women overseas tend to hold traditional values; some dudes think if they just go overseas and do the same exact thing in the Western world, they will expect better treatment. Otherwise, women overseas will take advantage of you or know how to be able to get naturalized, (obviously with …
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:14 AM
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Catching feelings for a girl who cheated on her boyfriend for me but wont break up with him When they love bomb you like that, it's because they are mentally not right in the head, it's a signal that they may have some sort of BPD or narcissistic problem. OP, you're going to learn a powerful and painful lesson: do not commit to a woman who has cheated on someone to be with you. This is not a honorable woman, nor is she a good person. If you decide to resume seeing her, eventually her love bombin…
/r/seduction27/01/25 02:42 AM
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I mean don't get me started on how messed up the system is. We have a client who's a divorce lawyer and I'll tell you this. He is never running out of work. Choose your woman wisely. Marriage should only be reserved for a ride or die.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/25 01:47 PM
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It's crazy because even the mods doubled down by admitting this: This triggered so many incels that you all reported it over 150 times. Post breaks no rules, sitewide or subreddit specific. Post will stay up. Have a shower. Cry about it. Their rules are literally: Rule 11: Don't be a dick Don't be a jerk. Empathy is rewarded, being horrible will get you a one-way trip to Bansville. You've been warned. I guess being openly misandrist is not breaking any rules.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 08:19 PM
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Any time people mention patriarchy to me, man or woman, I already know that their heads are filled with mindless TikTok brainrot. I know that's not where it comes from, but it does seem similar to that to me in terms of how they are able to express themselves, especially with statements starting with, "I feel like.." Men have and always been the disposable gender. Are the 1% mostly men? Yes. Does your average man have the advantages that people claim they have? Resounding no. I'm just exhausted …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 07:22 PM
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Manifesting a 'soul,' partner on Reddit of all places lol.
/r/seduction06/11/24 07:53 PM
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This ain't the subreddit for you man... News flash: There is always going to be another man more muscular, better looking, far charismatic than you. Are you going to ctrl+alt+delete or do you pick yourself up and work on your deficiencies? As men, the harsh reality is... The world doesn't give a flying fuck about you. Work on the problems you have. If you have an ugly face, peacock. Adjust/adapt. If you're bald, then go work out so you're that 'stereotypical,' buff dude who may instill jealously…
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:06 AM
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If women didn't give a shit about dudes being masculine... Why do they always talk about how they want a real man?
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:40 AM
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Congratulations, do you want a cookie? Get over it and go hit the fuckin' gym. Sounds like you have little to zero confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:33 AM
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Protip: When talking to women, always assume they are talking to someone else. Your goal in life is to become the best man you can be so any woman that is interested in you is afraid to lose you. Also jealously is a female trait. If you got the time to be 'jealous,' and be insecure then you need to be hitting the fuckin' gym....
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:29 AM
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1000% agreed. I used to post on the subreddit ExNoContact to help other people that were struggling like me with their exes. What I come to realize is this: People will only treat you based on how much disrespect you allow them to throw at you. Way too many people would just allow their exes to walk all over them and they knew it. They just accepted it rather than realizing their self worth/value. If your girl is shutting herself off for an entire month rather than coming to you for support, not…
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:25 AM
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I’m just super anxious I haven’t heard or seen her in a month now and only see her heart my messaged 1-2 days later. Girlfriend? You mean ex right? Think about it. If I worked at a job and didn't show up for a month without any communication whatsoever, do you think I'd still be on payroll? What I've come to realize with 'avoidant,' and all of these mindless bullshit stuff about 'attachment,' styles is that you are better off with someone that is MENTALLY and emotionally stable and willing to be…
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:17 AM
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Yes. As soon as you guys both meet, (assuming you really are an 'attractive good looking,' guy,) lean in and kiss their cheeks. That's it. If they pull away, don't take offense to it. Just smile and resume convo.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:14 AM
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I dunno wtf you're writing here bro, no offense.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:12 AM
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Literally just lean in and kiss both cheeks lol. As long as you don't make it awkward, it won't be awkward.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:11 AM
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Correct.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:11 AM
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This isn't creepy though... Culturally in different cultures, it's customary to either kiss on cheeks or hand as a sign of respect/courtesy. OP replying to your comment 3 times is a little strange though, NGL.
/r/seduction04/10/24 12:50 AM
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So I'm not bragging or anything is just a simple question : I'm a really good looking guy for many reasons etc , ??? What does this have to do with anything my guy lol. " it's a pleasure and whatever its their name and stare at them sexy way xD", Just simply hold one hand like this. Obviously when you're introducing yourself, it'll be one hand. But you do it to gauge their interest and hold eye contact. If they pull away, then it's 50/50 about their IOI. You can kiss their hand, I mean there's n…
/r/seduction04/10/24 12:46 AM
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This isn’t even about running game I need to make her mine I’d wife it if I could. Imagine how desperate you must come off to her based on this sentence alone.
/r/seduction18/06/24 04:28 PM
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I put on about the same amount of muscle before ever using a needle. You guys are mostly bedazzled by the “10 lbs” that the screen adds… most actors that look massive are not nearly as big as you think. This is what people say to defend juicers, but hey man you wanna live in delusion, by all means. Jack Reacher/Aquaman/Chris Hemsworth are on something, which is perfectly fine as they have to do that for their roles, but you can keep pretending like they aren't on something. I put on about the sa…
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:02 PM
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I can't help you there unfortunately, I am awful at texting. Maybe you can ask hunterpua, he has provided some good information on that aspect. I only sext women I've slept with or had huge indicators of interest, like as in if I played my cards right would be able to pull her day game type of stuff. I learned my lesson with texting/snapping too much.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:07 PM
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If you think Aquaman is 'natty,' then you're fucking delusional, no offense bud. I bet you think Thor Ragnarok is natty too right? Point is he works super hard and most of you can achieve a similar level of improvement physically with the same work ethic. Make sure to clean your hands when touching food.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:51 PM
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Right now I'm following the doom* slayer PPL program from Natural Hypertrophy. https://www.boostcamp.app/coaches/natural-hypertrophy/doom-slayer-ppl-program
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:03 AM
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These are great points. Agreed. Most men today are overweight and just not attractive. A good litmus test is look at your entire naked body in the mirror. And ask yourself, if you were a hot woman, would you fuck you? Muscles aren't everything, but they certainly help your attraction. That being said Jason Momoa cycles and juices frequently throught specific acting roles, he's even said he just does whatever his coach or trainer does while he drinks a shit load of beer + is extremely good lookin…
/r/seduction04/06/24 04:21 AM
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Depends on you and the interaction/IOI of the women. I'm gonna be real. I had way more success when I didn't text women more than once or voicenote/call a week, sometimes even longer. Ideally once you smash more than once and she does have a solid IOI, it's better for her to reach out to you. Puts you in a position of power/leverage and she's the one chasing you. No matter what texting/calling will not increase her attraction too much although my best friend is a god at sexting; but too much can…
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:11 AM
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Sounds like 'friendly,' competition to me though. Had a few gals who would leave hair ties or their stuff inconspicuously in places that somehow other women would find lol.
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:06 AM
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For those of you that have solid game, what are your strategies for maintaining a rotation? Keep it simple stupid. Drinks & movies at your place or coffee/drinks near the vicinity of your place. Do not overinvest. Less is more, and what I mean is you have to space out the times you guys see each other, so if you have 3 women in your rotation, 1 of them has to be on the weekday schedule, the other two ideally weekends. I've tried 5 women before, but it's way too much work + managing emotions. Do …
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:25 AM
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There are real life relationships that can prove my point. They are successful relationships because the man understands competency and is still able to spark arousal for the long term However, it is up to you as a man to lead and set the tone. It is 100% your fault if you bring someone into your life and let them walk all over you. I agree, but the woman that's divorcing you rarely is the same woman you married. And what do you mean by set the tone? So if something goes wrong, the man is to bla…
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:58 PM
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100%. You can talk yourself out of a girl liking or being attracted to you. Text is literally one of the biggest attraction killers. In the past, I used to have text book fucking convos and wonder why women didn't want to meet up/have sex/go on dates/be attracted. Less is fuckin' more. That's the honest truth. This is why I always said frame/game trumps over money, because how you make her feel/have fun and allow her to be in her feminine, while you're in your masculine, usually by pounding the …
/r/seduction15/03/24 05:51 PM
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If she isn't striving to be with you for the rest of her life, I agree, regardless of her attractiveness. When a woman get heavily invested into a relationship bc she is striving to be with you (one man), it is a breath of fresh air, not resource intensive, as she is bringing a lot to the table: cooking for you, cleaning for you, bringing VALUE to your life, etc. is STRIVING to be with one man for the rest of her life. Opposed to, a woman who wants to be entertained, taken care of, wants to go o…
/r/seduction15/03/24 05:45 PM
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This is why marriage is just a tough sell. Giselle literally left the one of the greatest of all time players in Tom Brady, dude is a legend, has status, has money; for her fuckin' Ji-jutsu instructor. You can't make this shit up. I'd surmise Stephen Curry is gonna be the next eventually with Ayesha. That's the problem with women getting way too much attention and status, they think they can do better.
/r/seduction15/03/24 05:31 PM
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Disagree. The reason why being married is a hard bargain to have in today's society is that not only does involving the state limit your leverage, is that it inadvertently gives the woman some power in the relationship. Marriage in a nutshell is the transfer of power, leverage, and gives long-term security & probability of wealth, (assuming you have had some ability to generate income,) this is why marriage while getting the state legally involved is dangerous and why women push so hard for marr…
/r/seduction15/03/24 05:20 PM
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I did it boys. I got a thing going with a girl on a dating app and she has agreed to have a ONS this weekend. I have made a reservation at a nice place and everything. We will spend the entire night there. I'd be nervous beyond belief too if some random women on a dating app I've never really met in person decided to be down to smash, not to mention you dropped $$$$ on a reservation. I hope it works out, but this sounds like the perfect way to get finessed....
/r/seduction14/03/24 09:47 PM
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Yeah, I agree that's the only instance where getting married is a good idea.
/r/seduction14/03/24 09:39 PM
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Even if you were a billionaire, that doesn't mean jack shit, look at Bezos or Bill Gates. You need everything in order to ensure your woman would never leave you. You have to be the best man, but that being said, this is why getting married is just not a good move unless you involve the church and not the state.
/r/seduction14/03/24 09:21 PM
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Just emphasize that you’re okay with taking things slow if it makes her more comfortable. I don't know about this one, I've always realized the hard way that 'taking things slow,' unless she's genuinely a good or shy person, is code for - I'm just not that into you, but you can keep feeding me attention and validation for free. But from what OP wrote, it seems that he's giving off desperate/needy or clingy vibes.
/r/seduction14/03/24 08:07 PM
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It's a learning lesson. For us men, it is truly a numbers game. Rejection hurts, treat it like your best friend, that is what will make you stronger in the long run. As a man, our goal is to always self improve and never stop being the best version you can possibly be. The power to walk away is a great negotiation tool, but it doesn't mean shit when your value isn't warranted, keep it going.
/r/seduction14/03/24 08:02 PM
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Compliance, asking to see her jewelry for example, or telling her to show you her hand is also a great way of asserting playful dominance.
/r/seduction28/02/24 08:28 PM
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These are good ones, but why the hell didn't you tie this into how to 'seduce,' women on a date? Sexual attraction and interest is mainly based on non-verbal communication/physical escalation/kino. You can talk yourself out of a woman liking you, but if your frame/game/ability to get her excited physically will get you ahead.
/r/seduction28/02/24 08:25 PM
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Kino, or subtle physical escalating, (light touches ramped up to more intimate areas depending on her response,) to them and non-verbal communication is one of the best way to ignite sexual attraction.
/r/seduction28/02/24 07:58 PM
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100%. Women test the men they like or interested in to see if he's in his masculine frame. If he passes the tests, eventually they tend to lessen over time unless he starts losing frame.
/r/seduction24/02/24 06:13 AM
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As Kevin Samuels would once ask women: Rank yourself 1 out of 10, you can't use seven and face fresh out of the shower no makeup.
/r/seduction14/02/24 09:15 PM
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Dating a hot girl =/= being seen with her AKA Preselection is an absolutely powerful thing.
/r/seduction05/09/23 10:12 PM
1

I wouldn't invite a random girl I didn't really know to a festival. But carry on. 100% disagree, but respect your points.
/r/seduction03/08/23 07:40 PM
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You lashing out after probably turned him off, plus he had already came so he got what he wanted. A dude that has a 'dry spell,' for a year is not going to turn down sex unless he realized he didn't want to deal with you after or not physically/sexually attracted.
/r/seduction03/08/23 05:00 PM
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Was the lash out after or before he came?
/r/seduction03/08/23 04:10 PM
1

I don't know the scope of y'alls relationship dynamics, but you don't even know this person, you've been chatting with her for 2 weeks. I wouldn't even invite a random girl I've been talking to any kind of festival trip for obvious reasons. But good on her for declining and ignoring you. It's because your text implies that she would owe you something. Why else would you invite her with you to the festival? Because you want to get to know her and her awesome personality? Come on now. Let's be rea…
/r/seduction03/08/23 03:49 PM
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A girl I was chatting with for the past two weeks kept on telling me how cool it would be if she was able to afford to go somewhere for the summer. I asked if she would like to go with me to a festival that I was going to in a couple of days, she didn't reply. This was an all-expense paid trip, something that she supposedly wanted. Dude, even if she was interested, unless you have smashed her or been friends with benefits for some time, why the hell would you even invest that much MEAT in the fi…
/r/seduction02/08/23 07:21 PM
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Find your purpose. Journal daily and meditation/cold showers can help you mentally. Regulate and have strong testosterone, by working out, healthy diet, reducing stress/lowering cortisol. Read with the attitude that you can never stop learning which will also help increase and improve vocabulary, make sure to get plenty of sleep. Stop using pick up lines and honestly just have a casual conversation, and escalate when you are able to see something going well. At the end of the day, most attractio…
/r/seduction05/05/23 04:20 PM
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He's not average lol. He has the most important aspect of seduction in his game: preselection.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:04 AM
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What are your interests? Do you like to go hiking? Do you enjoy golfing? You said you go to work, can you attend social events/conventions related to that field? Since you're a middle aged man, I will strongly suggest you to attend support groups, a lot of them are just like you lonely and looking for support but connecting and understanding their vulnerabilities as man will allow them to open up to you and become closer, or even take up a basic fighting class like boxing. ___ As OP said, cast a…
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:24 PM
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When you're trying to seduce a woman, you try to get them to know them on a deeper level to connect emotionally, right? You deep dive, you ask them open ended questions. Gym bros are just like regular people, they want to talk about themselves, but of course their main focus is to get these gainz. Follow a similar format with your gym bros, obviously you aren't trying to sleep with them, (and if you are, all the more power to you,) ask them questions about what made them want to work out, and wh…
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:19 PM
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A man must be in between the alpha/provider mindset. Masculine enough to protect their woman + ability to have a foundation to provide for them.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:58 PM
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Take up a fighting class, join a male support group, (there's nothing wrong with talking about your problems but make sure you get a male opinion,) or sports league. Hell, even join a gym and start talking to the gym bros. Gym bros are the chillest and most uplifting/motivational guys you'll meet.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:57 PM
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Women know in within the first few minutes of meeting you whether or not you're friendzoned, lover/fuckable, or boyfriend material. As much as the top comments are shitting on OP, he did the right thing by not being needy or desperate, and let her come to him while showing some interest by coming to the night club she invited him out to which is a terrible idea most of the time.
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:22 PM
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The reason why fighting overall someone is dumb is because... It shows a lack of emotional maturity, show some self control and discipline. As a masculine man, your job is to protect your woman, and to play it off. If someone is being an asshole, simply laugh it off or don't act fazed by them. Most of the time, the guy being a complete dick looks like a complete asshat, and most women get turned off by that; (unless he's overstepping his boundaries, and there are moments where you will need to t…
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:39 PM
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Curious - I do two brushes one morning and night time. I don't use mouth wash anymore but a salt warm water rinse with double flossing. Is this okay from your perspective? I have had terrible dental hygiene growing up and have started following a routine and my teeth looks and feels way better.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:53 PM
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Very true just don't flaunt your wealth; otherwise you're gonna get finesse or gold diggers will hit on you. The best way is to do something low investment and let her find out how much income you have later on. A wise man once told me' "you can never lose women chasing after money but you can lose women chasing after them."
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:50 PM
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It's the implication. And if she's creeped out then clearly you weren't being sexy enough. At the end of the day... it doesn't matter what you say it's how you say it.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:14 PM
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If basic hygiene is too much for anyone reading this, drop the all game tactics and shit and stay in your lane. This is the problem with half of the posters here saying if that's too much, to get out. Because basic hygiene shouldn't even be discussed in a seduction forum, like come on that's the bare minimum. As for what caliber of women? I've slept with 9's while smelling like absolute nasty BO from a gym session. But either way this is all meaningless. If basic hygiene was all we needed, we wo…
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:47 AM
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Women are far more socially aware than men. I'm gonna say this. Being an alpha means you don't give a fuck what other people think and you pursue your passion or purpose. Beta males are men who constantly agree with women or put them up on a pedestal. The pool of dating men nowadays is so low because most of the men who are betas believe what women say about what they find attractive - even though Chad's and Tyrones are the one they really like but won't explicitly say it. Anyone can be an alpha…
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:42 PM
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So let's say I'm an ordinary guy looks like nerd geek. Sound and the way of talking has no basis with low experience and voice is low in decibels. Before saying loser, we might think it like very humble down to earth intellectual guy? Bruh, even nerds/geeks can look good... Get designer frames, upgrade your hairstyle, be clean shaven. Hair not groomed and shoes are dirty old. Clothing is not the best often wearing comfy sports stuff. Women notice the first things about you: your face, feet/shoes…
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:14 PM
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No, most of the comments here are saying what I'm saying... If it was that easy to sleep with women based on normal hygiene, this subreddit wouldn't exist. I've seen some blotchy smelly ass gross men who have slept with women because they had game.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:02 PM
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Because this information is a no-shit sherlock type of thing... Duh?
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:57 PM
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I guarantee you if you buy her flowers, you will most likely* remain in the friend zone. Do not buy your crushes or friends that you're interested in any gifts. You cannot buy her love or attraction. Physically escalate, deep dive, and first and foremost ASK HER OUT on a date.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:53 PM
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i usually get to know them over text even a bit before asking them out, it would provide a thin layer of safety at least. Stop doing this. You can maybe send them a flirty text with some witty banter/gif or meme. But do not use texting as a way to 'get to know someone.' Texting/phone calls are only for logistics. You cannot get to know someone through online communication, it doesn't work like that. The more you talk and try to get to know them via text, the less attraction they'll have for you …
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:24 PM
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so there's this girl i have certain classes with at college, i suspected she liked me for a long time, since she stared at me weird every time. I can already tell you right now attraction has an expiration date. The longer you take thinking she likes you, the less attraction she has for you eventually. even after she messaged me outta nowhere that she misses me (weve been doing online classes for just one week already) i try to drive the convo and she just leaves me on read, im like wtf how am i…
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:53 PM
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Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ? No. Do not buy any women any GIFTS of any kind unless they have been intimate with you. The reason why? In a sense, you're trying to buy her 'love,' and 'burning desire.' A lot of men nowadays would buy gifts for their crush thinking it would make them think of them more, but the only thing they think is, "aww that's nice." Why don't you do a better alternative, suggest you take her out somewhere fun and intimate? Asked r/da…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:47 PM
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I want to know why she’s staring, Who. Gives. A. Shit. People can stare bro, just focus on you, why are you going to the gym? TO waste your time lifting plates trying to get stupid dates? Don't completely ignore her, but you can say hi or wave at her. Be cordial + saying hi and being nice to an attractive women increases your social proof around other women. Once again, stop thinking about her staring, just do you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:39 PM
2

No. This is Reddit.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:38 PM
1

This is also why I tell people who get smart watches, I'm like bruh why?... Lol, you're telling me the 1 to 2 seconds you save on time was worth $200+?
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:36 AM
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You lwill never be able to raise / gage a girls interest level and/or escalate over the phone. I mean, you can but you have to know what you're doing or you need to be physically intimate with them before sexting.
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:53 AM
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Fair enough, but pretty often they’ll lose interest and ghost me when I’m talking to them about travelling or TV shows or something. Especially over text, which is naturally a boring medium. Traveling is a good topic to bring up... It's just boring as fuck to talk about through text. Because texting is just so emotionless and it's hard sometimes to grasp the context. Deep dive with questions like, "if you could wake up right now on vacation, and be anywhere else in the world, where would it be?"…
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:52 AM
2

You can't even tell this same way the guy you're replying to can't tell she's "old" What? Can you explain what you mean?
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:39 AM
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Yeah, I didn't want to clown OP's sneaker choice or his 'beanie,' but sneakers or beanies especially with that colorway is not good + other average Joe's who aren't getting any play are already rocking those. I would say for that specific dress, I would've gone with some casual black or brown loafers or boat shoes. I would ditch the beanie though. Brown/Asian men generally have really nice hair, I would accentuate by that using some pomade/wax to give your hair a glossy finish.
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:36 AM
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So do tell.. How can you explain how she looks quite old? If you look at a women's face or neck, you can usually determine her age. I would say she's bordering around 24-28. That is by no means 'old.' Only reason a white woman crosses the colour line is when the white men are done with her. Mad disrespectful ass comment too.
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:34 AM
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Clothes work together: Here is how I dressed for our first date. Before I used to buy nice individual pieces which may or may not have gone with other pieces, but now I am more consciously trying to find clothes that will complement each other. Not gonna lie bro... This is your style I'm not knocking it, but I would strongly advise you to invest in a watch, invest in a nice chain or necklace, and start wearing accessories like bracelets or rings to boost your attractiveness/peacocking. That bein…
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:19 AM
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Age is not a factor =/= brings up a HS girlfriend
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:05 PM
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Send it whenever you feel like it. Just don't send it after 10PM, or early in the morning. Sending it after 10PM tells her you literally have nothing going on at night, and early in the morning tells her that you were thinking about her. As for her response. Anything other than a hell yes warrants a reply. If she doesn't response, honestly..... I wouldn't even reply. But that's just me. I no longer invest time or energy into people that aren't interested. But if you'd like to see her, sure just …
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:56 PM
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You're thinking from very weak place, why should he reach out to her after sex, hes good looking, nice dude. If she wants something, she has to work for it also, he did more than enough by getting her in bed, now its time for him to lean back, relax and see if she wants him or not Enough of this the men are the prize bullshit - there is no correlation between the two in this specific thread, because there are several factors involved. If you're telling me its too much effort to send one single t…
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:30 PM
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I didn't say that insult as anything to be rude. That's the impression the woman in your thread is thinking in her head. I mean, touching base and keeping in contact with someone who you shared bodily fluids/genitals with, you'd expect some bare minimum of communication lol.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:51 PM
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I said I’m busy Sunday but Saturday is perfect for me check with your friends let me know. She said sure. What do I do here? It’s been 2 days since she said anything. To clarify the sure is she will to letting me know. I will say this for future reference. STOP putting the ball in women's court. Men need to be leaders, we need to be direct and state that we're not going to let people waste our time. ANY TIME YOU LET A WOMAN DECIDE TO GET BACK TO YOU, 70-80% CHANCES ARE THEY WILL NEVER EVER GET B…
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:47 PM
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From the time I got home until the day of the next date (1 week out) I did not text with her. I DID send a text saying I had a good time. The day of the next date (1 week later) comes around and I cancel for legit reasons. She does not even reply to my text. No “ok”, no “ok when should we reschedule”, no “no worries!” This is literally why. You didn't even talk to her at all during the week, so she already assumed you were looking to hit it and quit it. Not to mention you cancelled without even …
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:34 PM
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Dear Diary...
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:08 AM
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The wall is never defeated.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:54 PM
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So why should we care what you think, in terms of seducing the opposite sex? Lol. Women love to give politically correct bullshit answers all the time. Men do not. There's the difference, by the way don't let the door hit you on the way out!
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:53 PM
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Bye Felicia... You don't ask a fish how to fish, do you? EDIT: No one cares you had to announce that you're leaving this sub... Just go.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:50 PM
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Hey, I have this girl who comes here once or twice a week. We have great sex and we got very close together and intimate last time. Since then we communicate much less, she won’t return my calls or texts. When FWB's start to ghost you, it could mean any of the following: Sex wasn't great - or you were too much of a selfish lover. I couldn't care less if I cum, I enjoy making women feel great. You became too clingy or attached. Started displaying signs of wanting more or boyfriend terrority. Turn…
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:09 PM
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OP, I'm going to tell you something that took me years to finally understand... Any time a man asks a woman what are we, or try to establish/define what the relationship is - most of the time, the end result doesn't fare well for the men. The truth is most women prefer men who are preselected already, (that means other women are interested in him as well, which in turn boosts your level of attractiveness,) and unless that woman has genuine burning desire; confessing your feelings to her or askin…
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:54 PM
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How do I know when someone is just using Covid as an excuse? If a woman has to literally give you some crazy ass excuse, without offering to raincheck or reschedule another date with you - then chances are they are bullshitting you. I know emergencies occur and happen in life, but most of the time they are literally excuses or bullshit. They do not want to meet up with you. That's the unfortunate truth. A lot of 304's nowadays have no problem swallowing Chad's and Tyrone's loads in spite of toda…
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:13 PM
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You provided great information and most people should take this advice. If you're being labeled as a 'nice,' guy then it's time to stop being a little bitch and be more assertive.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:09 PM
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Any time I see people use the words 'controlling,' and insecure that tells me you have literally no sense of boundaries; and you're 100% okay with your S/O doing whatever the fuck they want. Relationships are about communication. If you express something you don't like, and your S/O tries to say you're controlling/insecure or gaslight you, then maybe just maybe.... You fucked up, because you're not setting your frames or boundaries. Leave women to their own devices, and they would suck the atten…
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:04 PM
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It's not the fact the stranger thought her partner was attractive... Maybe, after informing the man she was taken, she proceeds to talk to him for 20 more minutes? Like, that isn't disrespectful to her boyfriend? So if I'm investing my MEAT, (Money, Energy, Attention, and Time,) into you... Why is it so hard for women to politely decline no, and turn down other men's advances?
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:00 PM
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A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable. I’ve noticed a lot of people on here are looking for ways to engage flirty conversations with the same or opposing sex and I figured I’d give you an idea or two. Okay let's see. (Cue the fact that you're in a relationship but we'll ignore that for now.) He was working on his laptop and I was working on mine at the table right next to him. He smiled at me once, he didn’t hover nor did he stare at me to try and get m…
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:58 PM
5

He obviously has never walked into divorce courts and seen how many of them are men.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:53 PM
2

Marriage in America is quite frankly one of the worst things any male could do though? How is this cringe?
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:53 PM
0

Props for the Big Pun line... Boricua, morena.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:17 AM
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I don't know what is going on lol
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:15 AM
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He took you out to a bar and didn't exclusively plan on smashing? Then he's interested in other than just sex at this point. Make sure when he asks you out that you try to play coy and withhold sex, (obviously don't turn him down if he does show interest,) but don't make it a focus of that night or date. So you can gauge if he's seriously interested in more. And guys are pretty easy to read we make our intentions pretty obvious.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:25 PM
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Within that 10 months of talking to her, you should've invited her to visit you. Now, IG is never going to Trump physical interaction. It seems like it's never going to work out unless you both can see each other.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:11 PM
3

This is good advice. Going after women does require energy. Sometimes, you just need time to focus on you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:07 PM
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Even the greatest of Pick Up Artists have had their fair share of rejections and downswing. Hell, earlier this year I did 196 cold approaches in a span of a week in Georgetown, DC. Do you know how many numbers or dates I got? 5 numbers 2 dates, I got ONS out of it. I also had one women want to become a plate but she gave off too much crazy women vibes lol. Don't dwell on your failures. Dwell on the fact you took initiative and got turned down. To me rejection is still success. It's taking a leap…
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:06 PM
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- What are your views on sex? - Are you a virgin? - At what age did you lose your virginity? - You seem like a girl who has a very proper and innocent appearance but has some wild secret fantasies? This question would require some comfort level. Depends on how the conversation is going, if you are displaying traits of a sexy man that's confident, how you avoided shit tests or just managed to have a decent vibe going on with plenty of rapport; these lines could work, but I personally believe they…
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:06 PM
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What are unwritten rules in dating or hookups/FWB's in college? FTFY Have sex every time you hang out... That's the point of a hook up.. No sleeping over or cuddling - as it can create too much intimacy/women releases oxytocin when cuddling after orgasm which can make her fall in love with you, plus having morning sex = feels like casually dating. So if you want it strictly FWB/hook up, just don't let her cuddle. (I like cuddling so I will let a women stay over, but I set clear boundaries about …
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:05 PM
3

30s man here. single for like 6 years. used to be really successful back in college. your logic is also screwed because just because i get a 6.7 there and wonder what it means, it doesnt ALSO mean im not doing things irl as well. Okay.... You clearly came here seeking attention and validation based on what people online said about you... So what's the point of this thread? Like honestly? Did you want us to validate your attractiveness based on a 6.7? As of matter fact, what do you honestly want …
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:57 PM
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photofeeler gave me a rating of 6.7 across 80 votes, guys and girls, what can i discern from that That you should take online rating numbers with a grain of salt and actually see how you perform outside of that?
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:49 PM
0

Extremely sexist?... Okay you have your opinions, I have mine. Men that don't follow their purpose use other things in life to replace it, like drinking, women, sports, etc.. The truth is men were always born to be conquerors, to dominate, to succeed and spread our seed. It's biologically hardwired in us. It's why Genghis Khan impregnated about 8% of Eastern Asia. It's why Gladiator was well perceived, because it's the practical way of how we as men truly are. Primal creatures. Also your points …
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:28 PM
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A man must become 100% okay with truly being alone until he can truly make a woman become apart of his life. Anyways OP you got this!
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:30 PM
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Hey name I've been meaning to ask you but are you busy this weekend would you want to do something Great job asking her out OP, that took balls! I will say next time cut out the "I've been meaning to ask you," it gives off the vibe that you've thinking about this and just haven't had the balls/time to do it yet. Also try to be more warm in your invite, "Hey (insert name)! We should do something fun! What's your schedule like this weekend?" I won't take her answer as a complete rejection but play…
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:46 PM
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Yes. In America, you have absolutely NO EXCUSE to be fat or lazy... If you're overweight or obese, then that shit is on you.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:09 PM
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The rule is this: Do not ever make your woman your number one priority. No matter what women will tell us, a woman will never be 100% satisfied if you make her the center of your universe. A man's value is defined by what he provides or brings to the world. Men must create their value, women are born with theirs. So a man must pursue his passion and purpose, and never let a woman get in the way of that.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:09 PM
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Suppose this girl you’re dating for a long time now. She’s the prettiest girl you’ve seen. One day is no longer pretty. This is why I have told people on this sub many many times. DO not ever marry someone for their looks nor commit to them for a LTR. Are they kind? Are they sweet? Will they be loyal, faithful, and ride or die when the chips are down? Do THEY provide something or compliment your life? Can they be the mother to your kids, or a dutiful wife? Looks fade.... Who she is inside as a p…
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:58 PM
2

I shoot her down cuz of my nerviousness but it was nice of her to try. This guy... Lol. Bro, now she's gonna never do that ever again.
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:53 PM
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Why is this downvoted... This is correct... Never truly change yourself until you guys end up being serious past the 1 year mark.
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:35 PM
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From my experience with relationships.... Don't ever change or switch up your routine... She fell in love with the same confident and sexy man, so why would you change or switch up your habits? To the contrary… You stick exclusively with what you know works, and only do that with little to zero deviation. As Richard Cooper once said: Hire slow, fire fast. Don’t ever make the mistake of changing yourself too much. As you guys start to date and be together longer, start to be warmer and treat her …
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:34 PM
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Me 8:30pm : hey it’s ___ hope I didn’t interrupt the vampire diaries marathon… Cut out using "hope," those are words that make you seem meek/tentative. Me- 11- so are you getting ready for bed then? Her: 11-30 - yeah it’s been a long day and I’m pretty tired Don't text stuff like this anymore. It isn't good, plus she's already telling you she has had a long day = womanese for leave me alone. Me/ dang I just ate dinner haha you should be studying (joke cuz she’s a bio major) Her @ 7am - how do yo…
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:34 PM
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Yeah. thing is, I texted at 8:30 and she got back at 10:30 and then I got back at 11:30 ect. She replied 8am - 9am and bam that was it. Future tip from now on don't reply after 10PM, even though she did. I would have just replied after 11:00 AM the next day. So what did her 8am or 9am text say?
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:12 PM
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I second this salsa, Rhumba, any type of dancing is the easiest to meet single women and best of all most of them are usually full of females. I've had my fair share of successful closes during these. I will also say if you can enjoy theater plays there are a bunch of women who are surrounded by males that are usually very feminine or gay. If you promote your masculine frame taking them down is pretty easy.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:10 PM
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If she offers a ride home alarm bells be ringing in my head...
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:40 PM
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Hey what's up is one of the most lamest things to ever text a woman... Even if she had drank last night, she would probably remember some bits of that night... You should've made it clear you wanted to take her out on a date. Either way, you'd probably be a rebound. Which works in your favor, cause well do you want a LTR or a smash?
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:56 AM
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Sometimes texting late at night can give her the wrong impression. Like she might be thinking, "is he really thinking about me late at night?" they’re a med student so Ik they’re busy but I think it has to do with the way I’m texting too ig. I was just tryna exchange a few texts and then ask out. And before I could ask her out (or attempted to) she left it on read One thing I've learned is that no matter how fucking busy you are, you will always get back to the person and if you're interested ne…
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:54 AM
1

Okay so ask her for coffee. Or a walk in a park. Matter fact get coffee go for a walk in the park. Easy intimate first date low cost investment.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:36 AM
1

Criticizes my comment offers nothing to the OP, but some superfluous open ended bullshit. Yeah okay buddy. Have a good one.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:09 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:07 AM
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Very true respect her boundaries and tell if she's too drunk to consent. Be smart about it.
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:06 AM
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What's a good one? I'm thinking of, "I miss how wet your p**** quivers when I'm inside you," before she comes over to preheat the oven.
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:06 AM
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Oh snap I didn't answer this lol. I will answer later, got my girl coming over soon!
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:02 AM
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If you lean in for a kiss, and get rejected the kiss her neck. Make the rejection work in your favor. Or bring up a conversation and pretend like nothing happens. Do not act awkward that would be a death sentence. Logistics = her place or your place or somewhere private. As for late night drive depends on her interest level. If you think she would say yes then do it and escalate by parking somewhere private and start asking her deep questions while lightly touching her.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:36 AM
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Stop using texting to build interest. Simply ask what her schedule is like next week or this week to grab coffee and then go from there. There is no secret way to get her drop her pants for you via text.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:33 AM
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You want us to do detective work for you? Man up and ask her out. You gave us literally no context other one brief conversation that was awkward as fuck. If you want her, you gotta ask her out.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:30 AM
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Ask her what made her choose this major, what her dream job is, relate to that and try to crack a joke in and ask her out. Tell her you think she's an interesting and attractive person and you'd love to grab some coffee or drinks with her and ask what her schedule is like. Then get numbers or exchange if she says yes. That's it. No guessing and no what-if's. She's interested or not.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:29 AM
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Avoid coworkers... Do not shit where you eat.
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:28 AM
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You should've started kissing her neck when she laid her shoulders on you. When you physically escalated or got something in return, I would've led her back to your car. You letting her dictate and deny every move you make. As a man you have to be aggressive while not being too overtly pushy, and respecting her boundaries. From both threads you come off as very inexperienced and afraid to try to sexually escalate of fear of being rejected. Also you text too much. Stop relying on texting... Do yo…
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:23 AM
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Picture women as a creature that bleeds once a month, cannot decide what they want to eat, and shit just like you. Then it becomes easy. The important thing to keep in mind if a woman tells you no or is not interested, you can simply walk away and go after someone else.
/r/seduction01/12/21 10:09 PM
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That's cool. I rely on more direct upfront lines. But yeah those work just as well. At the end of the day it's not what you say but how you say it is and the vibes you give off.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:26 PM
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Stop thinking and start doing more. Your mind is the greatest enemy. Stop worrying about what could go wrong start thinking about positive things. When you talk to women picture you having sex with them. Obviously don't make it clear or voice what you're thinking. But thinking that will get you relaxed. Build positive reinforcement. Before you go on a date with a women, go outside for a walk make it your mission to say hello to everyone male or female.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:22 PM
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PAUSE
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:19 PM
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Listen dude I want you to think of every women you meet as someone who bleeds per month and doesn't know what the fuck she wants to eat. They aren't special, they are human just like us.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:18 PM
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What? What do you mean? You meet for dinner and then what? Deep dive, relate back to her, repeat the last 3 words of what she said so it seems like you're listening. Make a joke here and there and use a lot of physical touches. Start off light. And when the mood is getting right tell her you wanna go somewhere quiet to talk or grab a drink back at your place.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:16 PM
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I like this. But I feel like this involves a lot of planning and smooth talking. You would also need to display superb confidence which I think OP and the user above us is lacking.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:15 PM
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Your field reports are solid, and your game is very good. Love reading them, keep posting more King.
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:49 PM
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Tbh, sounds like she’s warning you, as in saying, “you said it once as a joke, ha ha, but men in her past who said that ultimately gave her the ick!” You’re getting a pass right now because you two are in the #getting-to-know #stage, but don’t make those TYPE of comments trends going farther. Yup, this is what I also gathered.
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:14 PM
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And then she said, in a very nice way, that she knows i'm just teasing her but she doesn't like guys in the past who judge her like that because they have not been in her shoes or truly know who she is and then clarified she's not talking about me because she knows i'm just teasing. Yikes, that would've turned me off to be honest... I want to date her because she seems like a good wife material so I don't necessarily care if it takes more time for her to be open about sex but not sure exactly wh…
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:10 PM
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If she pulls away after a second, chances are she's not interested. If she holds onto your hand for a few second, there has to be some semblance of interest.
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:52 PM
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How can I seduce a girl I want to sleep with? And how do you expect us to give us our wisdom with little to zero context?
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:41 PM
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Bars/clubs you rarely really need to carry conversation other than throwing in the usual sex talk/frame. Know how to dance, or at least look like you're having fun/good time doing it. Say your introductions, smile and display sexual vibes. And in my opinion, this works well. Walk away, and reengage her later that night. You may or may not lose her, but when you re-open her later that night she'll be far more receptive when you try to close/bring her home; considering the amount of losers, desper…
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:40 PM
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Refer to this. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qq3yhv/meeting_women_a_lot_nowadays_how_to_maximize_my/ Clubs are purely 80% nonverbal, 10% touching, and 10% verbal. If you can dance, show that you're having a good time, and don't act desperate, like a creep, (please don't do the behind grinding on a girl tactic,) chances are you'll get most women.
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:32 PM
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I knew I made a mistake, hard to type on phone lol. I meant most attractive women are entitled as fuck. but I've found that the conventionally hotter* the woman is, the worse they are at sex lol *I'm mostly talking about models/IG models and shit Yep same.
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:27 PM
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Talking to women is like talking to your male friends but you actually want to sleep with them. Just be genuine, direct, and above all assume attraction.
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:45 PM
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Maybe because those guys actually know how to talk to women and don't rely on texting mind games to get laid?
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:25 PM
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Try not to go to a night club with the intention of hooking up. I find that when the goal is is smash someone, it tends to not happen unless you have money and cop a table at the club. Just go there to have fun and if you bring someone back home, tell them to take off their shoes. Offer them something to drink and physically escalate then tell them you wanna listen to some music in your bedroom. Do not take them to your studio lol.
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:05 PM
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Maybe Clooney was the wrong example to use. But Clooney has awesome body language, sexy voice, and a playful smile. Disregard his looks, because while women care about looks, building a strong emotional connection can negate even the ugliest of man, (well sometimes not always.) Use him or Brad Pitt's videos to see how they talk to people. I would also use Charisma on Command YT as a reference point.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:52 PM
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Cool, i was actually hoping you would say all those techniques wasnt needed. Those techniques aren't actually needed though. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. George Clooney could go up to 25,000 different women and literally say with a purr and a smirk, "Hi." And putting aside his celebrity/status social proof, he would be able to have a higher success rate than the average Joe. I been trying to understand seduction and how to interact with women, but as you say, it messes with …
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:47 PM
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I use all of those, but OP seems like he's a beginner/inexperienced. I find that when you're new, and learning game. Trying to reenact or go over the steps/methods of push pull/neg in your head tends to mess you up and throw off your game. There's nothing wrong with just saying hey or even hi, and going from there. Displaying confidence is the most attractive trait.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:38 PM
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Solid advice, appreciate you King.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:33 PM
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This is a really good one! I've actually hit a girl with, "now that you've finally caught my attention... What are you going to do with it?" Hit her with a wink.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:21 PM
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Should you leave girls on read if they send a message that doesn't require an answer? Yes, drives them crazy. Most guys don't do it to them, so you exercising that action speaks volumes and does tend to spark their interest. I wouldn't do it on the chance that this is a genuine woman who you've been interested in/slept/smashed already, and playing these kind of games sometimes turn off women.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:17 PM
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Nah, IG doesn't work bro. Imagine how many thirsty dudes are hitting their line/DM's. They like your pics on purpose so you get hooked on them. They know what they're doing lol.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:12 PM
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Dude honestly I think the only one of them that was sub par with the head game. Not surprised, most attractive* women are entitled and they rarely provide anything useful to men in bed. They expect us to do everything and they lay there while getting their backs blown out. I think that the amount of times they demand to go through your phone correlates with their head game. Lol 😂🤣🤣 I let this IG broad know straight up, "I don't like it when people ask to check my phone. So either you can GTFO or…
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:07 PM
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this tuff bro damn. How’d you get to meet and bang these ig models though? My homie was actually friends with this joint, (they grew up together,) I met her at a club when we bought a table for Echostage in DC. And she was very attracted to me when were dancing, I was showing her my shuffling moves and she was with it. Sat on my lap, we started talking and she basically said, "whatever you wanna do tonight, I'm with it." So I knew I was smashing. How do you organically meet pretty women irl Cold…
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:06 PM
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Lol dude I went out with an IG broad with like 100K+ followers and this is exactly her in a nutshell. Took a hour to put on makeup, looked ugly af without it. Her head game was nice, but literally other than working out, she had absolutely no personality and nothing going on in her life. Clearly had some psychological problems that required actual therapy. Should've nut and bolt but her head game had me coming for more.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:45 PM
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If she's with her mum, that's a no go imo. Next time if there is no parent present just go up to look ask her how her day is going and just introduce yourselves. Shake hands and hold it for a few seconds to gauge her interest.. You'll find it easier to give her a direct compliment once you see her face to face.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:43 PM
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I'm Korean. This year, I worked on myself, hit the gym, lost a weight, and developed my game + fashion sense. And I've caught a lot of bodies this year, actually way more than in my entire life. For once, I actually had a rotation earlier on in the year when I went out for day/night games with my friend who's a really good PUA artist. I had another rotation going on after September after my previous rotations pretty much sputtered due to some of them wanting LTR's/commitment, and I didn't really…
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:17 PM
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What happened when you tried to physically escalate?
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:09 PM
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3 day rule has got to be the dumbest fucking rule I have ever seen.. Do you know how many dudes are hitting up her line? She's probably forgotten about you by then... Don't be a dummy, TEXT HER IMMEDIATELY NO LATER THAN A DAY! Text her immediately within a few hours with your name. I do something casual like, "hey stranger, nice to meet you, I'm (insert name,) :)" or something like, "happy to have met, this is (insert name) :)" This doesn't require a response nor a reply. So don't get hurt over …
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:05 PM
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Honestly? I love going solo. I don't have to baby sit anyone, nor my friends. I can move anyway around the venue, go home whenever I want. Eat, drink, and do whatever the fuck I want. Also the benefit of going solo? Social proof. This is what I recommend. Start talking to ANYONE. Even dudes that are by themselves, ask them how their night is going, introduce yourselves. Be a very nice and chill dude, and if they have female friends that they aren't interested in, they would be more than happy to…
/r/seduction01/12/21 02:53 PM
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Dunno why you're replying to me, also the OP didn't state that. He says buy them a drink and ask if they enjoy a show. I rarely buy women drinks either way... There's just no point. If a woman is interested, it doesn't matter if you invest any money on her.
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:47 PM
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Rule of thumb? Always have fun, be dancing, have great body language, and smile! Be in a positive mood, and women who see that will also gravitate towards you. Women want to be near people who are fun, because they are out there to have a great time. When you see someone that catches your eye, make eye contact smirk/grin and head nod. Chances are if they find you attractive, women will try to get near to you, or angle themselves in a position so you can talk to them. You can also always go over …
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:46 PM
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See someone that catches your eye buy them a drink No.
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:36 PM
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I wouldn't classify you as "been in the game for a while", and I mean that in the nicest way. Not at all, and I don't take offense to that at all lol. My body count is around 20+, but half of them have been random hookups, ONS's and other than a few relationships/LTR ones. But I've studied a lot of game, PUA tactics, and have gotten help from my friend who has worked closely with SoSuave. I actually asked him what he thought and he recommended me to just keep smashing and ignore bringing it up. …
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:56 PM
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So should I voice this when I see her tomorrow night? I'm going to be cooking dinner for both of us and we'll be netflixing/chilling. To be fair, I've had my fair share of hook ups at night clubs, bars, and EDM shows; but most of them were ONS and it was already implied I wasn't going to call them back.
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:21 PM
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Let's just say I was a little preoccupied with several things holding my attention ;) Well, do you suggest me to not bring it up until she does, or should I just let her know I'm not looking for anything serious but would like to see where this goes?
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:53 PM
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It's very simple. If you're a noob, you don't say anything and hope she won't mention it. But of course she inevitably does and then you'll tell her you don't want anything serious and then she'll leave crying and call you a jerk for misleading her. We met at a friend's celebration at a concert afterparty. So neither one of us mentioned anything about that, not on the uber ride back home, not at my place, or not in the morning when we had morning sex + showering together. I did tell her I wanted…
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:48 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Funny as fuck, can you explain what you mean SpecialPowers? But from my experience, women do not like to swallow though.
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:45 PM
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wants to date you she’ll speak on it if not she’ll keep fucking you, I'm cool with the keep fucking me part honestly.
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:45 PM
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Agreed, I dunno what I'm thinking LOL. I recently got in a relationship with someone who was very into me, and she cheated on me. I should be happy that I'm getting it in with no commitment.
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:45 PM
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Yeah, I'm just gonna enjoy the ride for now.
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:44 PM
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Haha all good my guy. But your advice otherwise was solid.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:03 PM
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Yea im not going to kiss her until she gets to my place. but yea if we could sit still and talk like normal people i have no problems eventually telling her how much i wanna make her my slut..i Keep the slut comments in the bedroom doofus.... When you're pounding her from behind, grab her hair roughly and say, "who's daddys little slut?" Do not bring that up in a conversation where it's you both talking... That's an HR lawsuit just waiting to happen..
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:10 PM
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So in the right moment just talk to her, and as soon as you run out of things to say you just kiss her and tell her how much you want her. This could be one of the worst advice I've ever read on this sub-reddit... Come on man.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:09 PM
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I think you can comment about their physical appearance, but stick to glasses, hair, fashion, sense of style, legs. Don't go overtly for boobs, and ass because those are very crude. And try to make it interesting not like a stereotypical boring compliment, "I like your glasses." Instead: "I really love how those glasses seem to accentuate your eyes."
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:28 PM
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Solid compliments that has always worked for me: "The more I get to know you, the more interesting you become...." "Talking to you is like a breath of fresh air, I sense this energy about you." "I really love how your glasses frame your face." "I love how warm your smile is... It literally brightens up the room like sunshine." "I don't know what it is about you... But you got this cool attractive vibe about you.. I can't quite put my finger on it, but... You've piqued my interest." *winks slowly…
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:25 PM
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2 weeks later, I texted her out of the blue telling her how is she, and if she is still mad at me. Uhh... Why would you text and ask her if she's still mad at you? Lol, that's literally bringing up negative emotions from her. Clearly engaging the logical mind is not the best approach. Women are not logical creatures most of the time, they are emotional. "I don't understand how you came to this conclusion. I'm extremely shy, in case you hadn't noticed that. In fact, women scare me and it's me who…
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:21 PM
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How should I go to Bars alone? I lack confidence to go alone and usually go with meetups. Body language, how you carry yourself. Avoid signs of nervousness * When it comes to body language, try and avoid nervous movements, looking around quickly, looking down at the floor, fidgeting, touching yourself and this sort of thing. Try to get control over your body. Stay still when you’re still and when you move, make slow, smooth movements. Keep it cool and keep your movements slow and smooth. And whe…
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:12 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:03 PM
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