Always assume attraction.

Here are basic tips that aren't congruent to 'basic hygiene,' because let's be honest. If that's all it took, men wouldn't be the leading opposite sex in virgins in today's society.

Albert Mehrabian once said that this is his rule for seduction:

Then there's Albert Mehrabian, and his 7%-38%-55% rule:

55% of communication is nonverbal

38% of communication is voice tone

7% of communication is the words you say

Here are my common tips for how to seduce women:

  • Fundamentals - Posture, movement speed, eye contact, expressions, voice, (use George Clooney or Brad Pitt as perfect examples of this and see how they talk with a guttural 'purr,) speech and fashion.
  • Be direct with your intentions - Obviously don't say you want to sleep with them, but use implication. Like if a woman is feeling you, casually say with a smirk once you've physically escalated and you know she's down, "I bet that our kids would look so cute." Let her know what you want, don't make her have to be guessing.
  • Cut scanning - Have you ever been to a bar or nightclub and seen those men who just stand at the bar looking around the place whilst having the most awkward/creepiest look on their face? Yeah, don't do that. Women are socially aware and far more intune with their environment than most men are. It also puts you in the chase position which is never a good way of approaching women. My solution? Talk to people around you, and try to position yourself so you can view the rest of the room while talking to friends/over their shoulder. Once you're talking to a girl, focus on her and only break eye contact occasionally. If there's something happening in the crowd, only look if she does. I will only say scanning is okay if you're outside of the crowd and staring into the mix, as long as you don't fixate on one particular girl. Otherwise, if you do it while in the middle of a crowd in a bar or walking down a street during the day, it shoots your attractiveness down.
  • Attraction has an expiration date- If you get signals and you don't go for it, the women will eventually move on or have less genuine burning desire for you. All women at some point will have a window of expiration, and the longer you take to bring her home or close, the less likely she'll want to sleep with you as she has bonded platonically and won't want to destroy that by sleeping with you for a ONS.
  • Move fast with women - Try to intrigue her investment by moving her somewhere intimate and quiet. The point of moving fast is to lead it to the next step.
  • Closing - Women generally never close. And if you don't propose or suggest it, chances are it'll never happen. Eventually, once you get used to getting dates and numbers, this becomes automatically ingrained in your head, and you start to self project that confidence. Women can tell who fucks, and who doesn't. That's the honest truth. Why is closing something women desire? Because it attracts them, and it excites them, and it encourages them to place their trust and comfort and hope in the man who closes that he will provide the kind of exciting romantic and sexual experience they long for. Women love sex as much as men do. Try to capitalize on that by being a sexy man.

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