clawjelly Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem.		clawjelly	/r/MensRights	13/09/14 10:01 AM

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5	Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult? what exactly am I doing wrong? Well, now you know why "escalating to sex on dates is so difficult". If that's what you want isn't what they want, it's close to impossible.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 02:24 PM
20	Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult? If your only intention is sex, you need to find a woman whose only intention is sex. That's not most women's only intention. Hence your issue is expectation vs. reality.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 08:08 AM
7	how do you guys turn a girl on? This. Your job as a man is merely to entertain her and don't drop any stones in her way. The rest is just a time game, at some point she will want to bone your brain out. When that point comes varies from person to person aswell as on the situation and various other factors you probably don't have any influence on. So keep focused on the stuff you have influence on: Don't put her off.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 04:33 PM
6	Getting laid with tourists, is it a good idea or not really? Engage physically before.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 05:59 AM
1	“Men should always lead” gets blown out of proportion Exactly. It's a rule of thumb, not a freaking stone tablet from the gods.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 08:46 AM
2	Europeans In german speaking countries you're mostly get to know girls through your social circuit. Hence having a big social circle is almost a must to be able to form closer relationships with girls. Which isn't easy if you don't know the language. Hence expat communities is your way to go. As a guatemalteco you'd have to play the foreigner card. You're exotic, you're latin. Middle/North-Europeans are usually more closed off and they don't embrace sexual tension as easy as latin people do. Hence a lot o…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 08:06 AM
2	Direct approach: “can I sit down here?” Asked a girl this a few days ago and she literally said, “no you may not sit down here.” So? That doesn't make it a bad approach, just means that girl had other ideas. Or is it better to just sit down and start talking? Would you accept such a behaviour by somebody else? Probably not. So why would you do it yourself? Cause in the first response I’ve giving them a reason to end the conversation right away That's just the risk of initiating. Trying to eliminate that by being overly pushy is a bad …	/r/seduction	06/04/24 07:30 AM
7	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym But at least in 9 out of 10 times it exactly does mean she's disinterested. Hence it's better to exaggerate in this context for the sake of people unable to read those subtle cues.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:44 AM
2	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym I have a specific routine and don't just aimlessly wander from machine to machine You're an efficient person. So am i. I usually have little time for training, hence i want to make the best out of it. If she's that kind of efficiency person, obviously it's not gonna happen. Some gyms are entirely filled with efficient people. Point is not everybody is like that. Some people simply train looser and more relaxed. They see the gym a little more like a socializing place than a purely workout focused…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:42 AM
6	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym We don’t like With all due respect, but why do you think you're speaking for all women everywhere? See, this always amazes me: Apparently every woman sees herself as the archetype of female desire, when in reality women are just as much a heterogeneous group of ideas, desires and wishes as men, if not more. I wouldn't even dream of speaking for all men, yet here you're proclaiming to know what "we, the women, want".	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:26 AM
11	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym It's like with everything dangerous: If you don't know exactly what you're doing, don't do it. Working on powerlines, swimming with sharks, flying an airplane, hitting on girls in the gym - If you don't know what you're doing, you will only accomplish to get hurt. Most guys simply don't have the socials skills to pull it off without coming across as a creep and no staff wants creeps in their gym. That's why it's a rule of thumb, not a law.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 09:15 AM
2	"Be authentic" is terrible advice I don't see anything bad with saying "life sucks, and I hate it". Well, most people consider this negative, especially being confronted with it from the getgo. There are people out there which don't think life sux and well, most people would rather hang around those people. That's just the way the world works. I mean it's cool you're okay that your present status is far from perfect, but other people have their own issues and in general they prefer something positive before they accept the negat…	/r/seduction	09/10/23 08:22 AM
1	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? “I’m not really welcomed here because I’m black” Yea, these kinds of thoughts become self-fullfilling prophecies. Take it like this: Yes, there are a few people who will hate your ass no matter where you go. But that's usually not most people and it's not a personal thing. They just don't know you, hence they have preconceived ideas that most certainly are wrong. I haven't been welcomed everywhere, but in most places. Point is: You're not even giving them a chance to accept you. And if you gotta…	/r/seduction	16/08/23 06:34 AM
1	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? There are loads of stories from women who married guys starting like "He wasn't my type, but his charm won me over". You hardly ever hear a man say it like that. Women just have a very different set of expectations for a man, mostly being about safety and status. Looks have become more important to women because of them being less and less dependent on men supporting them, but it still trails behind. While they judge "looks" far harsher than men do, they put less emphasis on it. As such trying t…	/r/seduction	16/08/23 06:13 AM
1	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Being interesting is one part. Having game is another. It's all about talking to a good amount of women, to a certain degree it's still a numbers game, you're just bending the numbers less in your disadvantage.	/r/seduction	16/08/23 05:37 AM
2	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? But looks is what one of the things that opens the door for your game. FTFY. Sure, looks can help a lot. But it's not as essential as game.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 11:28 AM
26	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? 50+ countries, 2 wars, pilot, blacksmith, beekeeper, speak several languages, etc etc. Wow, man, you're crushing it!	/r/seduction	15/08/23 11:05 AM
9	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? "I don't like bald guys, short guys, fat guys, or ugly guys. Unless I'm in love. Then all bets are off." Exactly. There are countless stories from married women going like "He wasn't my type at all, but his charme totally got me hooked!" That's also why online dating is pure poison for the average men's confidence. If men are reduced to purely their looks, 8 of 10 men just stand no chance to female expectations.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 09:53 AM
10	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? I'd put game before looks. Women will overlook your visual shortcomings if you make them have a great time.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 09:43 AM
152	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Travel. I've been to every contintent beside Australia. And try to stay away from touristy stuff, don't just do "vacation", get to know local people. You'd be amazed how cheap you can travel that way, people are often very helpful, when they get to know you as an honest, nice person. Try to live like a local and you'll understand a lot about your own culture. (Edit: And that way it's actually safer than traveling like the average tourist! Because we dressed so casual local style in Rio de Janeir…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 09:36 AM
2	JUST BE YOURSELF is the most brilliant and simultaneously the STUPIDEST advice on the planet, if you don't have a clue what it means! Sry, was meant as a tl;dr sorta joke, encompassing the headline. I'm quite fine with myself, thanks for asking. And i agree with the gist of what you wrote, at least as far as i got from a quick pass-over. Don't have the time to devour the whole wall, sry.	/r/seduction	06/06/23 10:36 AM
4	JUST BE YOURSELF is the most brilliant and simultaneously the STUPIDEST advice on the planet, if you don't have a clue what it means! "Be yourself!" Me being myself... "Oh, not like this..."	/r/seduction	06/06/23 07:33 AM
16	why is online game stacked against men? This. I was watching some average looking female friends of mine tindering once: Subjectively 3 out of 100 (!) guys got a like. Go figure.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 10:29 AM
5	How to be more sexually seductive and flirty as a guy? Easiest is to jokingly imply she got sexual first. Ask a question with a double meaning that can be interpreted as sexual and call her out when she is going for the sexual meaning. "I like team sports" "Like which ones? Ball games?" "What... Are you asking me wether i like testicles...?!" "Gosh, you really got a dirty mind,..." Watch any Craig Ferguson interviews with a female guest. He's the GOAT on this.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 09:41 AM
1	A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again? If you bump into her, act like you don't even remember her... Really? We dated? Nah, i don't think so, i would remember...	/r/seduction	14/03/22 07:19 AM
2	Seduction "culture" has ruined many interactions with girls Dude, routines and openers are the basic starter tools. They are literal the seduction equivalent of baby walkers. If you rely on them too heavily, you're not developing.	/r/seduction	25/02/22 03:48 PM
4	As a man you can't seduce women with just basic hyigene Jesus christ, just talk to her normally and give out hints that you're interested in her. You're assuming that everyone had a "normal" upbringing and nothing ever could turn their natural instincts on their heads. Each of these points up there is an issue for someone so much so, that that person doesn't naturally know what "normal" defines for the majority of people. I still have huge issues giving out hints and i'm 45.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 09:34 AM
1	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : Beside the "Hearing"-point these are not even seduction, they are basic hygene. If you're failing on any of those and are looking on r/seduction, you're missing the point big.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 08:19 AM
11	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : she wants someone CLEAN, clean fit, properly maintained Those are the very basic expectations i have on any human being that wants to interact with me.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 08:16 AM
6	Threesomes have to be initiated by women Yep, can only second that. I once almost stumbled into a threesome with two beautiful russian ladies. They got very tipsy and horny, finally just talking sex things. One came up with the idea of a threesome. For once in my life i was smart enough to shut my trap and let the conversation roll on. It was almost happening, but the second girl flunked out at the last moment. Good times, good times.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 04:28 PM
6	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Well... I often had the opposite issue: It was on, i just didn't get the memo.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 12:13 PM
2	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? You can't just go up to people and start talking if they aren't even aware of your presence. Sure you can, if you do it right. You can make them aware of your presence, don't walk up from behind is the first rule. And if they didn't send cues, don't just start spouting off lines. Ask for the way, the time or some other random stuff and check how they react. If they seem open, you can try to lead into "Do you know cafe xx? ... Do you like it? ... Wanna go for a coffee with me...?" Just accept a n…	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:10 AM
27	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? So... Are you the last unicorn?	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:02 AM
2	Why do women like abusive men?🤔 the guys they overlooked Yea, that's proto-"nice guy"-speak. You haven't been "overlooked", you just had (and apparently still have) the wrong mindset. now they've come off that train ride, yes that's washed up. Nodody is perfect, we all learn. But that's a condescending, disrespectful way to talk about people. With that kind of attitude you won't get anywhere with normal, healthy women. Why didn't you ride that train? If your answer is something along "women weren't interested", then there is a…	/r/seduction	12/11/20 10:28 AM
3	Why do women like abusive men?🤔 only projecting your good side Issue is, we like people for their qualities, but we love people for their weaknesses. Instinctively we all know that nobody is perfect. Perfection is, in the end, nice but boring. Humans, and especially women, are emotional beings. We have a need for drama. For a lot of men this is what watching sport is all about. For a lot of women it's romantic stories, soaps or even talk shows. Hence being "the right kind" of vulnerable is sexy. Being perfect is not. Projectin…	/r/seduction	12/11/20 10:13 AM
2	Tinder matched two girls from the same house I'd come clean and tell girl 2 that you matched with girl 1. If they aren't nasty, they'll appreciate your honesty and if girl 1 doesn't work out, you have still have a shot at girl 2 bc you've proven your honesty. You already have a topic to talk about - "Oh, we just weren't compatible. I guess you were better matching with me all along..." Playing dump and "oh, you also live here?" will only make you look shady.	/r/seduction	08/09/20 08:16 AM
12	7 days vacation, 40 approaches call for a dance Most women love to dance and it's a great way to get her comfortable with your touch. Girls love to feel a mans arm holding them safely and with gentle dominance. If you can't dance, take dance lessons. Additional plus: Usually more women there than men.	/r/seduction	20/08/20 09:59 AM
3	7 days vacation, 40 approaches This might be a country-related requirement though.	/r/seduction	20/08/20 09:52 AM
6	An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach. So what? If you resort to violence, you're a asshole. Full stop. If you can't handle booze, don't drink. If you can't handle rejection, don't talk to women. It's not only the law, it's basic human decency.	/r/seduction	07/08/20 05:07 AM
12	An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach. Considerate Considerate as in "she's a human being, so she has her reasons" and especially "not knocking her unconcious".	/r/seduction	07/08/20 05:00 AM
2	Such on point advices are what we need! Well, i've been told a lot of times already "Why didn't you do something, she was obviously into you!" So yea, can't say that's my experience.	/r/seduction	20/07/20 02:38 PM
1	Men cannot outsmart women in seduction (and shouldn't) You have absolutely NOTHING to fear. Yea, can't help it, still feel like a piece of garbage everytime a woman is not interested.	/r/seduction	10/06/20 09:00 AM
2	Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub? That's why we're here, so welcome to the club. ;)	/r/seduction	11/05/20 07:02 AM
4	Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub? seduce my boyfriend Generally afaik this subred focuses more on the seduction process for people not already in a relationship. Seducing somebody you know is already into you has a very low rate of rejection. If you need advice on that, you're probably rather young and/or your relationship also is probably rather young yet. First off, men are generally easy in that regard. So just go with whatever feels good to you, but keep it direct. Putting on something sexy and flaunting your assets usually …	/r/seduction	11/05/20 06:39 AM
5	Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub? Dating != Seduction. Seduction is the Art of leading another person, most often towards a sexual encounter. Dating is the social protocol for checking for and initiating relationships. They share similarities, but it's still two very different concepts.	/r/seduction	11/05/20 06:12 AM
3	Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you. One reason for flirting is to find out if you would like to date someone. The date is there to find out if you might be interested in a relation. And so forth. It's a step by step approach.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 07:27 AM
1	Girls want sex too, you’re the one that messes it up. Why do successful rich guys throw away half of their money for a hook-up? People are people, safe life is boring, taking a risk is sexy, money can't scratch every itch...	/r/seduction	22/02/20 09:10 AM
1	Girls want sex too, you’re the one that messes it up. They aren't making it easy on us either :P	/r/seduction	22/02/20 09:05 AM
1	The Purge - Announcement (2019) Purge week got real old real fast. The influx of shit material here is staggering, making this basically "red pill #2". I'm out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/19 06:39 AM
8	Why is the bar set so high for male attractiveness, but women can be fat, ugly, lazy, no job, no hobbies and still have plenty of people who want to be with her? They don't have it easy. Nobody has it easy, They just have a different set of issues to deal with. Yes, the sex thing is their easy one, but i wouldn't want to be bleeding from my genitals once a month and having that influence my personality for a week. Life is a shit show, welcome to reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/19 05:38 AM
1	Eggs are Expensive. Sperm is Cheap. Acknowledged in the post itself. Yet you ask why people call it "pseudo-sience".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 05:59 AM
6	No women in my day-to-day lifestyle You chose a male-only lifestlyle. That's not wrong, it just doesn't expose you to a lot of women. If you're only running around in the woods, you won't catch any fish. My type of girl doesn't go to clubs What does your type of girl do? Is that something you might be interested in? Not going to pick up a hobby just to meet women "Just" is the wrong word here. Either you're the most manly masculine mind on this planet or you're a stubborn coward who refuses to have fun at "less male dominated" hob…	/r/seduction	20/08/19 09:57 AM
1	Eggs are Expensive. Sperm is Cheap. That statement is a crude simplification. That's why people with a sense for subtlety probably disagree with you. I'm always going "Yes, but... well, no, but... actually it's not that simple..." It's good for a book title, but not a lot more. You're not wrong, but at the same time, you're not right. People can and will derive all kinds of conclusions from such a simple sentence (like "Alpha Fucks and Beta Bux" for example) and as such it's pseudo-sience. The whole notion of "Alpha" and "Beta" is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 09:17 AM
1	Eggs are Expensive. Sperm is Cheap. Exactly. This is where understanding something through simplification usually fails: It's not that easy. You can only explain a tiny little aspect of a whole system through a simplification. If you just extrapolate this radically onto the whole system, you're grossly missrepresenting it. But this is what ideologists do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 08:45 AM
2	Eggs are Expensive. Sperm is Cheap. "Beauty" was an indicator for healthiness and as such it became a mating factor for humans. In the stone-age symmetrical faces indicate good genes, big tits indicate ability to nurture a baby, brawny man-bodies indicate physical safety for the offspring. But just as the definition for "healthy" varied through the times, so did the definition of beauty. Rubens painted beautiful women for his time, as being a little chubby wasn't easy living on a farmers diet around 1600AD. Nowadays, with our exce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 08:33 AM
1	Stop Being SO SERIOUS: It's Killing Your Game Serious...? I heard that word before...	/r/seduction	31/07/19 12:03 PM
1	Q4M: How often do you hurt women? Physically never. But i'm not afraid to speak my mind, even if i know that i might step on toes. Too many women in my life tried to control me via guilt, my insecurity on how to treat women and fake tears. Coming from a broken home, i know how to comfort broken souls, but i had to learn where manipulation starts and how to say no. If you're cool, i'm cool. I'm not out to hurt feelings. But if someone pushes me to fuel their ego, i'm also not holding back either. I surely don't hold the other che…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/19 12:01 PM
12	Q4M: Is it possible for a hot girl to turn you off with her personality so much, that you don't even want to have sex with her? True story: Had a short affair with a beautiful black godess with what i'd consider a close to perfect body. Kicked her out after 3 weeks as she kept throwing tantrums when the world wasn't going her way. She was pretty stunned, seems like she never had that experience before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 08:25 AM
2	How can a 21 year old virgin increase his chances of getting laid? you referring to the stuck-up bitches Not necessarily. Women have all kinds of attitudes. There are the stuck up bitches, but there are also the insecure ones that just don't dare to be any less subtle. Don't imply your idea of what she is/isn't, as it might make you act in a certain and maybe wrong way (which i did a lot due to applying too much "game theory"). Act on what she gives ya, hold your frame, don't play a game and you're always on the safe side. if a woman/women really want(s) you Su…	/r/seduction	13/06/19 09:25 AM
4	How can a 21 year old virgin increase his chances of getting laid? no girls have been interested Not to sound mean, but are you sure you really noticed? I was (and still am) horrible at telling wether a girl is interested in me. In hindsight at least a dozen girls wanted to fuck me while i was a deer looking into headlights. Also a lot of girls are horrible at showing interest. They are literally going like "I smiled at him once during a 1-hour course, he should have picked up on it!"	/r/seduction	12/06/19 09:09 PM
1	Keanu Reeves hover hand photo with fans "Brave new world" by Aldous Huxley is the next scifi that will become reality after "1984" by George Orwell... Oh dear, humanity is doomed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/19 05:11 AM
4	Why are chores woman's duty? Why does she...? WHY does he I guess you're missing something, try read more closely. Ah, fuck it, lets spell it out: NOBODY is making her do it, SHE IS DOING IT TO HERSELF and projecting his comfort as support for traditional roles. Nowhere in your example HE MAKES her do the things, he just went to bed. The rest is YOUR projection of the situation. edit: format	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 12:38 PM
10	Why are chores woman's duty? she has to get up to iron the shirt Why does she...? Who is forcing her...? The issue i see is that a good amount of women have that tendency to do these things because they either feel it as a duty, they want "their man" to look good and/or a general "nest-building" attitude. Most men probably welcome this perceived selflessness/traditional role thing for the comfort, blissfully ignorant of the implications. Without talking about it, this will lead to conflict. I had my fair share of that. I al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 10:07 AM
1	My problem with this place Well, think of real love like "the person that has the perfect combination of advantageous traits to keep my hormone level high" then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/19 12:11 PM
2	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? Maybe it's booze related?? My bet is on cigarettes and/or genes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 01:42 PM
1	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? in this conversation Again, a rather tiny sample size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 01:41 PM
3	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? Just to get that right: Are you saying a cougar is a sexual predator...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 08:17 AM
2	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? smooth pale skin ... Age makes you lose these things. Not necessarily. Skin gets damaged from UV rays, not so much from age. This picture of a 69-year old truck driver gives you a hint, as he was mainly exposed on one side of his face. So always wear sunscreen, kids!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 07:51 AM
4	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? like everyone else does Yea, i wouldn't generalize on that too much. People have different tastes and you might have a narrow view due to your peer group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 07:40 AM
2	Q4Women: Have you ever been manipulated into having sex by an older man? So you deny the existence of cougars?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/19 07:37 AM
1	Is it wrong to choose porn over women? "Wrong" is if you do something you don't like and only do for some external pressure. Ignore what society "thinks", "prefers" or "dictate". People are idiots, especially judgmental ones. I stopped worrying a long time ago. Their freedom stops where my freedom begins and that includes their judgment. Most people don't care what you do anyways. The quiet ones that just do their thing. Those you have to directly ask for their opinion and that is usually "I don't care. Whatever makes 'em happy." The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 10:27 AM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? Even that wouldn't have worked for me back in the days. I was really insecure.	/r/seduction	09/04/19 09:40 AM
5	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? If he didn't ask back he either has bad manners or doesn't care. Or is VERY shy. This comes down to body language.	/r/seduction	09/04/19 09:39 AM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? I can fill a book with those encounters. Just from the top of my head i remember 5 girls...	/r/seduction	09/04/19 09:37 AM
1	Most Red Pill is common sense advice Do you think we're just brainwashed into having feminist beliefs? To a certain degree yes. A lot of feminism headlines aim at the emotional side and totally fall apart once you check the numbers. Once a person is invested emotionally, facts become more and more irrelevant. That's just one basic of PR (or propaganda). The idea of emancipation is ancient and was successfully abused for what feels forever. There are lots of things I disagree with in mainstream feminism. Sure, but if you call yourse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 06:22 AM
1	Most Red Pill is common sense advice Does it really matter? Once a woman declares herself as feminist, she ate up a good chunk of the "patriachy is ruining us, men are evil oppressors who support rape culture by mansplaining and manspreading, OMFG shut up and watch ur privilege"-bullshit and has stopped thinking for herself. She's just burned soil as a romantic endavor, as she's judging any move against the bizarre feminist rule book.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/19 05:53 AM
1	How to get over redpill rage? taking the high road and turning the other cheek just doesn't work. Bullies don't stop bullying because you believe you're too good to fight back. "taking the high road" is not synonymous with "turning the other cheek" or "too good to fight back". Just means you're not continuing the circle of abuse. I don't know what bullies you're refering to here, but i haven't had any issue with bullies since elementary school. it's not practical to expect someone to take the high road Yea, no question there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 01:39 PM
1	How to get over redpill rage? it makes me uncomfortable Yea, but you already got several hints that those girls were abusing their sexual power over you, right? And you still expected them to respect your request? They didn't and you were upset...? Just don't deal with assholes, wether they have a dick or a vagina! These are just assholes with vaginas! The point comes to: Are you mad at all women for the things that a few women did to you? Because that is stupid. Be mad at those few, otherwise you're setting yourself up to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 07:06 AM
2	How to get over redpill rage? Pretty much, yea. That's what's called "growing into a real person". If you dabble in the same kind of bullshit people with an adolescent or even childish mind do, you're basically on the same level as the people you despise. Just ignore these people. Find stuff and people that are really worth your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 06:44 AM
1	Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating? The saying "men age like wine" is actually true in both directions: A good vine processed with care and a lot of knowledge can over time turn into a great wine. But that's just not how most wine is made, most is cheap grape juice fermented quickly to score a quick buck. And if you leave that for some years or even decades all you get is third-class vinegar...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/19 04:34 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (02 December 2018) Yea, the post quality dropped a lot recently, quite to that special point...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/18 04:06 PM
6	Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this? boundaries exist more for unattractive men than attractive men If that was news to you, you've got a mountain to learn...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/18 03:55 PM
5	The redpill should teach men to be more aggressive rather than "self-improvement". Oh wow. If that is meant serious, you shouldn't be allowed to interact with humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/18 09:41 AM
6	Why Don't Men Value Success In Women? Well, being secure in yourself isn't given naturally to everybody. And rich women don't lose their natural tendency to value men with status, so it's not like this idea comes from nowhere. "Pretty Woman" seldomely happens the other way around...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/18 12:25 PM
30	Why Don't Men Value Success In Women? Your story still doesn't discredit that theory. Did you actually marry your spouse for the convinience of her additional income or was that merily a bonus? Are you sure her salary was as much priority to you as yours was to her, when you two engaged? Is she making more money than you? Nobody says that an additional salary isn't great, but wether it has the same appeal for both sexes. I've seen a study where about 40% of male, but 80% of female participants said the income of the partner is an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/18 06:09 AM
1	What would you say is the worst dating advice YOU have been told and why? Yea, i think you're putting too much into it. It seems to me that "apologizing" (or "defending" in your case) and "explaining" is used synonymously too often, when they are actually referring to very different concepts. I might tell this phrase to a young girl to explain the behviour, but not apologizing it. It just illustrates that behind every bad action doesn't necessarily stand a bad intend. Kids can develop a crush on another kid in a very early age (i had my first 5 years old). They often …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 02:47 PM
10	What would you say is the worst dating advice YOU have been told and why? In german we have a saying: Was sich liebt, das neckt sich. Was sich nochmehr liebt, das schlägt sich. The translation is, people with a crush tease each other and people with a huge crush hit each other. From my experience this only applies to kids up to 12 years old...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 08:42 AM
2	How Often Do Men Avoid Talking to Women From Fear of Rejection Versus Lack of Interest? for these guys, even if a girl is throwing obvious IOIs at him, he will assume that he is misreading them or it's a trick or something. I've been told this is me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 11:06 AM
2	Men do not age like wine. You're a little too fixated on that analogy. But i'll try to interpet it a little closer: Wine only gets better if it is red, made from the right grapes, fermented with care and setup correctly to age. In this case you get George Clooney. When you leave a pack of cheap wine on a shelf for a month, you get the average man in his 30ies. Women are like milk: If you treat milk greatly and leave it in the correct location with enough care, you get a great, mature cheddar. But most milk goes bad after…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/18 06:15 AM
1	Men do not age like wine. No male demographic is in as much demand as the college athlete with a family home in the Hamptons. This is pretty much the top demographic and it's very, very, very narrow. There is at least 1% women who find that type obnoxious, which makes about 3 Mio women who wouldn't touch that with a pole. If your goal is to compete with that, you're an idiot. younger guys would be shaving bald spots onto themselves. You're confusing source and effect here. Bald spots aren't sexy, but a guy who doesn't gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/18 05:52 AM
2	Bisexual Beta Male Bonobos and Sexual Selection So one hole or mouth is as good as the next regardless of gender. More like "If the best option is not available, might aswell go for second best... or third..."	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/18 07:59 AM
1	Bisexual Beta Male Bonobos and Sexual Selection "Men might be a little more bi than we think." "So you're saying you hate gays?" Chillax, Cathy Newman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/18 07:57 AM
4	Masculinity (or "Toxic" Masculinity, if you will) is the creation of women and women alone. It is the cumulative result of countless generations of mate selection by women since humankind began, and it has only been allowed to propagate as a result of women choosing it. Change my mind. Yea, you're missinterpreting my metaphor here. I'm not saying we're "mindless pawns". But humans hardly plan over hundred of thousands of years. And i wouldn't say that "acting according to our evolutionary impulses" counts necessarily towards "free will". Free will manifests itself usually as an action against evolutionary impulses. tbh i'm under the impression you're giving human mind far too much credit in the evolution of our species regarding the first ... lets say... 100k years? And even i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 10:58 PM
6	Masculinity (or "Toxic" Masculinity, if you will) is the creation of women and women alone. It is the cumulative result of countless generations of mate selection by women since humankind began, and it has only been allowed to propagate as a result of women choosing it. Change my mind. Red Queen Hypothesis Yea, but the way you're framing it is as if women planned that all along - "Creation of women". You only create deliberately, as in "with a plan" (as in "creationism"). That's where your statement falls apart as silly. As much as men have no "great patriachy plan", women certainly don't "plan" to only give a certain amount of men a chance to breed. It's just what the bio-social system is set up: Create the best offspring. Women are not the players of the game, they are meril…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 08:54 PM
12	Masculinity (or "Toxic" Masculinity, if you will) is the creation of women and women alone. It is the cumulative result of countless generations of mate selection by women since humankind began, and it has only been allowed to propagate as a result of women choosing it. Change my mind. Are you saying women are to blame for an evolutionary process? I'm sorry, that's just silly. As much as i dislike feminists, but this is such an oversimplification of a very, very complex system. As such you might say that women are actually responsible for humanity not living in stone age anymore, as they selected the best men. Can we please keep these kinds of discussions to what people are conciously doing right or wrong? Maybe like in a lifespan of one or more humans, not in like millions of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/18 08:35 AM
1	Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspended The inability to consent due to intoxication is not the same thing as revoking consent after the act. Not technically a revoke Once drunk, a drunk person can't consent and as such any sex that person has beyond that point is henceforth automatically against his/her consent. Isn't that the gist? Wouldn't any drunk sex by this definition considered rape...? these campus issues are far removed from my actual life. In the real world no one cares who has drunk sex. Wouldn't be too sure about that. As…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/18 03:08 PM
1	Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspended I'm not "encouraging" anything, don't distract with that weak attempt at turning my words. For anybody able to read sarcasm, it's clear i'm hinting towards the very obvious possibility for abuse of this "no possible consent when drunk"-idea. Women (and now men) are already using this possibility and i'd argue it's not making our society better. As a feminist you should be actually offended by this full relief of responsibility. Unless you're fine with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/18 12:53 PM
2	Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspended Even better! Get drunk, do the fuck you want, blame it on "legally i couldn't say yes!" and if you're a real piece of shit, get someone else kicked from school... Not technically a revoke, more like a blank check for a revoke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/18 11:26 AM
9	Male student has sex with female student (both drunk). Later, he accuses her of sexual assault. She is found guilty and suspended Isn't "But remember, i was drunk, i cannot have consented!" one of these revokie-thingies? There's a good bunch of feminists standing behind that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/18 07:21 AM
12	#MeToo is a Workers’ Rights issue and NOT “Buyers Remorse” barely talented philandering racist Question is: Do you know that many details about Michelle Williams? Hollywood doesn't really care that as much about reputation as it cares about publicity. As long as you don't pull a Mel Gibson, the only importance is how many people your name on the billboard attracts. Also the academy awards haven't much to do with actors salaries. Most of the richest actors (like for example Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, Bruce Willies, Arnold Schwarzenegger, etc.) never got …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/18 06:07 AM
15	#MeToo is a Workers’ Rights issue and NOT “Buyers Remorse” Michelle Williams, Oscar winning actress, received $85 for reshoots that her co-star Mark Wahlberg got millions for. This has nothing to do with #metoo or harrassment. But anyways, salaries in hollywood are hardly compareable with any normal salary process. They are based on how many people the producers think a certain actor can lure into cinemas. In general men aswell as women prefer to watch men (for different reasons), hence male actors in general earn more money. I hate when actors salaries…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/18 05:55 AM
1	Tips on how to build sexual tension in conversation Oh yea, ASD is one of the most important concepts. Tripped me up more than once before i knew about it.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 04:07 PM
1	Tips on how to build sexual tension in conversation Well, sure, that's true to a certain extend and most know it's part of his act. Still, compare Ferguson interviews to any other late night show, the women's reactions are very different. He's using a lot of what is considered "game technique" and he does it very naturally: Push-pull, validation, etc. It's more than once a female guest states she's surprised she's blushing. Also he's great at reacting when women slip a word with double-meaning. Hardly any other show features so much dirty talk in…	/r/seduction	21/11/17 03:55 PM
3	Tips on how to build sexual tension in conversation stuff like this all the time Yea, there's the problem. The dosis and the quality is what matters in that regard. "More is less" is a great point, usually you want her imagination going and that's not gonna happen if you keep talking.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 09:29 AM
1	Tips on how to build sexual tension in conversation A great technique is what Craig Ferguson does in the late late show, when he interviews a female guest: Jokingly pretend that she's bringing up the topic of sex all the time and joke about how her sexuality/desire/horniness is getting in the way of a really nice date. You gotta keep it classy of course, but if you pull it off, women love you. That way you can easily compliment her without sounding pretentious by mentioning her outfit as a prove for that.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 09:20 AM
1	U.S. Continues To Ignore Massive Pedophilia In Afghanistan - The Dancing Boys known as Bacha Bazi I've seen the documentry from Vice aswell as PBS Frontline. This is horrible. I live in Europe, where we had a massive influx of afghan men and i don't even want to imagine how many of those are broken personalities that would need massive therapy to get beyond such a trauma (which they don't get of course). Hence it's not surprising that a lot of recent sexual harrasment and rape cases were commited by afgans. It's so numerous already, that it's become a horrible dehumanizing joke in itself. Th…	/r/MensRights	20/08/17 09:55 AM
5	Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly. The annoying part is when some random girl goes drama like "Oh no you didn't just say that, did you?! Why would you say that?!" Keep your cool. Don't even react with anything more than "So?" and a "Deal with it."-face. Watch her freak out being unable to deal with you dismissing her control-attempt. If you want to mix her up real good, say something along "Hey, you're actually kinda sexy when you're trying so desperately to be outraged..."	/r/seduction	08/06/17 08:51 AM
1	Quick tip: When rating girls, don't use a 1-10 rating system. Use a binary system instead. Yea! Binary systems are great!	/r/seduction	08/03/17 06:38 PM
7	THANK YOU! "Fuck it" mindset and everything happened naturally. I'm 24 so those social years are kinda behind me Whut? It's never too late to be social, make friends and get laid. I'm 40 and to me your post sounds like written by a 90-year-old...	/r/seduction	08/03/17 11:45 AM
3	Why are so many guys meh at sex? It's men mostly complaining about lack of sex, a good sexual reputation helps a lot. This is the "Junior with 5 years work experience"-problem. You can't get a reputation if you can't learn and you can't learn without options. They were normal. Yea, my argument was meant as "Obviously you can't judge from the looks on a men's performance". there are many things which many women are likely to like And sadly loads more they don't. As it's still up to the man to court, it's still a tricky game and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/16 08:10 PM
2	Why are so many guys meh at sex? I've never had this kind of encounter, where I didn't have to teach someone slowly what I liked. Well, i suppose that means the first time you have had a sexual encounter with that man? Of course that person won't be able to magically guess your intimate desires. Do you assume you met all his desires, just because he didn't say it? Not to pee on your parade, but i had women who were very unwilling to hear my constructive citicism. For some women that's already a turnoff... These guys weren't Bra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/16 07:49 PM
2	Advice for a 47 year old beginner. Wow... I'm 39 and most people guess me somewhere around 35, so well done for yourself there, mate.	/r/seduction	11/10/16 03:51 PM
1	Hard to meet women because of depression, lack of intimacy contributes to depression.. how to break cycle? Yea, i can afford it. It's just everytime i start one it seems something drastic happens in my life (mostly changing jobs and having to move) which prevented me from pulling through. Also as it's "only" a weak one, it was never high on my priority list. Might try again next year, as this year was already quite a drag for me. Both of my grans died and i had to arrange loads of stuff for one's funeral... I just need vacations.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 09:51 AM
3	Hard to meet women because of depression, lack of intimacy contributes to depression.. how to break cycle? I'm 39, my mother committed suicide when i was 20. I already developed a depression in my teenage years, which went overlooked due to the heavy manic-depression of my mother. Sadly due to my unstable life, i never managed to get a therapy going. At least i'm a smart cookie, so i could help myself a lot and "just" turned it more and more into a chronic, but handleable dysthymia. There are still days where i call in sick as i can't handle to face the world. Depression is a bitch. Don't take that l…	/r/seduction	23/09/16 10:04 AM
12	Stop looking away from hot girls Maybe 30%. Never believe what women say about what they "prefer". There are loads of stories kinda "He wasn't really my type, but somehow i fell in love with him". Being self-secure with yourself is at least 60% of the equation.	/r/seduction	20/06/16 08:05 AM
3	Stop looking away from hot girls https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqhnCrQhjPA	/r/seduction	20/06/16 08:01 AM
1	How to Have a Sexy Vibe Around Women The smile-examples are pretty cool. The first is the "I'm in control and enjoy the atmosphere"-smile. The second is the "I'm a nice guy, don't hurt me"-smile. Girls love the first and hate the second.	/r/seduction	12/05/16 07:19 AM
4	Start ignoring her the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 08:28 AM
1	Anxiety around girls + Travel = Where to go? Thats a freaking tough question, kinda like "Which child do you love most?" It's less about "most", but more like what flavour you like. They all were awesome. In Kenya me and a friend went to Mombasa, as we had no credit card back then and needed money. He and i were the only white people in a freaking ocean of black ones - quite an experience for a young european (i was about 22) who barely has seen a black person before (i'm from Austria, we hardly had any black population in the 90ies). Peop…	/r/seduction	29/04/16 10:35 AM
2	[Question] Does anybody have any advice on going on dates with Celebrities? She's a person who has a pretty cool job. That! If "actress" makes you star-struck, imagine she's a dolphin trainer or something cool like that...	/r/seduction	28/04/16 09:04 PM
2	[Question] Does anybody have any advice on going on dates with Celebrities? Maybe don't say you know all about her, sounds a little stalkery. Just say you googled her and you found out. Also confess that you never heard of her. If she's annoyed by that, it's a red flag. Otherwise she should be happy to tell you about it. Just check what she wants to talk about.	/r/seduction	28/04/16 09:01 PM
1	Anxiety around girls + Travel = Where to go? As an european, i have been to Thailand, Brasil, Afrika and of course to loads of european cities. As far as i can say, every place is awesome in its own right. So just travel! But check into hostels or couch surfing, not hotels. You'll meet loads of fun people like that. Don't go around too touristy, try to get to know some locals. You'll experience the more real version of the places that way. Don't be afraid about foreign countries, most people speak at least a basic english, so you'll get ar…	/r/seduction	28/04/16 08:57 PM
2	Here is a recommended place to meet attractive women 4 hours of dancing?! Cheezes, i had no idea how long this takes...	/r/seduction	16/04/16 08:04 PM
2	CMV: TRP and TBP cannot debate each other because they have very different definitions of what is considered "successful" in the dating and sex market Thanks for clarifying what goes on in my head reading both sides...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/16 06:12 AM
3	Hard truths a d insights on bad women in best standup ever from Bill Burr Bill Burr is the best.	/r/becomeaman	14/04/16 05:29 AM
0	CMV TRP men are angry because physical looks, unlike before, plays a large role mate selection. They are even angrier because women have little sympathy for their plight. their site creates a market that is inherently unfair to men How that? Sorry, if i sound dump. But OKCupid as a site isn't advertising to a certain group of people, are they? Again, sorry if i got something wrong there. So to keep the gem-analogy: Of course a gem hasn't got an intrinsic value. But if rubies think that smaragds are looking worse in average than vice versa, that's quite objective data, no? Unless you can prove smaragds are actually objectively worse looking...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/16 09:26 PM
20	CMV TRP men are angry because physical looks, unlike before, plays a large role mate selection. They are even angrier because women have little sympathy for their plight. I'll just leave this here: Just to illustrate that women are operating on a very different scale, here are just a few of the many, many guys we here in the office think are totally decent-looking, but that women have rated, in their occult way, as significantly less attractive than so-called “medium” Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex. "Your Looks and Your Inbox" - OkTrends Going along that results, in a world …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/16 06:09 AM
7	12 years as a Mgtow where has time gone? where has time gone? Maybe it ...drumroll ... went its own way...?	/r/MGTOW	21/03/16 07:57 PM
2	Finally a safe haven with like minded individuals One step at a time, dude...	/r/MGTOW	11/03/16 06:11 PM
1	Have you ever had sex with someone you aren't attracted to? Why?!? Beer. Lots of beer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/16 02:42 PM
9	Dating an Alpha Widow- My 2 year journey from BluePill to RedPill and the things I learned... Or 37...?	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/16 06:34 AM
1	What triggered your Red Pill journey? Lets see... Girlfriend of 5 months fucked her sweetlove (now husband) while i was out of the country for two weeks. Left me, got together with him. Still tried to get me drunk and fuck with me a week later. Then complained that i shouldn't have fucked her friend. Girl flirted heavy with me one night. Next day i told her "i think i have a crush on you". She replied with "wtf don't stress me!" Found out later she got a bf, a guy i knew. He had a kid with another girl at that time. Girl i dated tol…	/r/askTRP	01/03/16 07:59 PM
1	How to counter a cockblocking white knight? And i don't even think Tyler handled that situation especially great, just a solid "good". I'd laugh my ass off at a threat like "Don't stand in front of my acting like a dick!" That shit is hillarious.	/r/askTRP	19/02/16 07:06 AM
1	How to counter a cockblocking white knight? You had your best ally with the girl. She was flattered, so it wasn't even catcalling in theory. The guy was interrupting nonchalantly. Just make her defend you, kinda "Was i catcalling you?" to which she will say "No!", as she already feels more positive towards you than to the jerk that interrupted a nice conversation. I'd probably even play it cheeky answering her "No" with a coy look kinda like "Hmmm... Maybe a little bit... But then again, these blue eyes are hard to resist." and just playf…	/r/askTRP	19/02/16 06:59 AM
3	Told Female Co-workers I Prefer To Split The Bill on First Dates: I'm Just An Asshole and Lonely on Valentine's Day. You should have followed up with: "Alright, then i better make sure i get my dollar for your 77 cents..." Police will never find your corpse.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 10:03 AM
9	Told Female Co-workers I Prefer To Split The Bill on First Dates: I'm Just An Asshole and Lonely on Valentine's Day. controversial shit This already is "controversial shit"...? Wow. Greets from europe. I got looked at suspicious once on a date paying...	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 09:59 AM
1	How can you criticize women for not bringing anything other than looks to the table, and in the same breath say that even if women did have good jobs, interests and personalities, you wouldn't care because looks are all that matters? I don't even care for cooking. I cook better than any woman i've met so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/16 04:25 PM
2	Whats up with MGTOW? Nah. Social chameleon is quite taxing on energy. And i have better things to do than adapting to my environment. I'd rather shape my environment to adapt to me.	/r/askTRP	11/02/16 04:16 PM
3	Red pillers- please clarify your position? Not sure I understand Depends what definition you mean. Patriachy as a system built to oppress women - Well, that's just feminist conspiracy theory. Patriachy as a system which reflects a recent state of human social development on the basis of biological roles of males and females that holds advantages and disadvantages for both men and women (especially more advantages for people who strongly identify with these roles) a system whose validity is debated nowadays due to the technical progress that has devalued mens …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/16 04:24 PM
1	Girlfriend was raped, what do I do? Wow, thanks, i never thought about that this way. This explains quite some women i know were raped.	/r/askTRP	04/02/16 12:25 PM
2	Something I learned from a gay guy hitting on me knock him the fuck out Hold your horses! I don't see any reason to act violently to such a situation. He handled the situation quite well.	/r/seduction	29/01/16 09:59 AM
59	Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy. Chad Thunderbanana trumps Mr. Providavocado each time.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/16 11:35 PM
12	Guys who are Alpha among men but Beta around women I am glad she gave me a chance Right there.	/r/askTRP	21/01/16 12:41 PM
8	The First Law of Feminism hostile to women/feminists Er... Those two shouldn't be as easily aligned as that anymore. Most feminists are women, but feminists are just a small percentage of all women. I'm rather dismissive of feminists, not women in general. And i know quite a lot of women who hate feminists. Thats that little nasty trick feminists pull on critics: You argue against feminism, hence misogyny. Sorry, no: Being critical of feminism isn't the same as hating women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/16 11:09 AM
0	Plate asked me how I got my muscles.. "I masturbate furiously." It's a stupid question and deserves to be ridiculed.	/r/askTRP	15/12/15 02:44 PM
2	Women were always working Isn't it more like "Women always worked, but men worked more"? After all a lot of work until very recently often consisted of heavy physical work in tough conditions, which women just couldn't do until technical advancements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/15 01:32 PM
1	Military man gets sued by 11 women he knew but didn't impregnate. Totally. Every time i hear one of those stories, i'm like "Wtf is going on over there? Are they all crazy?!" Here in Austria you can be screwed by the law, but you have to very stupid or naive to let that happen (not that this isn't happening). Isn't that why they got the 2nd Amendment? For the case when you get screwed by their government?	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/15 12:47 PM
3	What struggles do men and women face everyday? Just meant it as an example. NYC is usually the poster boy for public harrassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 11:47 AM
3	What struggles do men and women face everyday? "Strongly correlated" in this article doesn't mean that you're automatically smart because you look good and vice versa. Don't just read the headline. "Correlation" means the data shows there is a certain tendency. It doesn't actually say anything about the distribution. You still get a lot of variety over the whole spektrum aswell as exceptions to the proposition, which the article withholds. Then again i grant you that a correlation coefficient of 0.414 for men sounds far more than i expected.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 11:45 AM
6	What struggles do men and women face everyday? Cheezes, i've seen a female friend of mine tindering. She was disposing of like 96% of men without batting an eyelash. My personal is around maybe 60%. And she's definately no looker... 3% acceptance vs 30% acceptance - equal my ass. I stopped even trying since...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 10:20 AM
4	What struggles do men and women face everyday? Being harassed, followed, and spoken to sexually in public Move out of New York. or at work Is a case for HR. Being blamed for either not being pretty enough thus disappionting or angering men, or being too pretty but not interested in a specific man thus angering or disappointing men is annoying. Ditch that person immediately. Knowing men do not listen to what you say is annoying followed by then being told why you are wrong no matter what the topic is. This is senseless generalisation. If that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 10:11 AM
3	What struggles do men and women face everyday? As a man: Having to be really careful about whom to talk about my problems to because otherwise i'm automatically perceived as weak, unfuckable, annoying, socially dead. Having to work so freaking hard to get any woman to sleep with me swallowing loads of rejection while at the same time hearing from female friends how they just stood at a bar. Yea, like most guys i only wish i was "the player". Seeing with how few ambitions some women get through their life and still complain about me making mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 10:00 AM
11	What struggles do men and women face everyday? Cheezes, that thread turned into a female victim bitching contest real fast. Not being taken seriously because I'm an attractive woman. Yea, can't feel sorry for that. This is balanced by the shit men do for attractive women on a daily basis (which most attractive women seem to take for granted). And it's a fact that being attractive and being smart only align in small percentage of people. Most people are neither, some are one or the other, hardly any is both. Hence the necessity for you to pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 09:39 AM
1	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? Yea, i used to date the third one i think...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/15 05:41 PM
1	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? Yea, major aspect of dark skin is it protects better against sun, which is quite a killer for skin. I know several white women who loved to sunbath in their early days and look like raisins now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 07:26 PM
5	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? Exactly. If a woman in her 40ies wants to blame something for her not being married, she'd go more correct to go with Feminism, Women's magazines, her female friends and ultimately the decision to be a "serious" person looking for a "serious" relationship to start a "serious" family. If you're 40, want to be married, are not and still think men are to blame, i guess you can't be helped. By then it's too late to stop reading articles that tell you "It's not your mistake". I could turn the whole t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 07:16 PM
3	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? And i bet those women are still single and still blame it on men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 06:49 PM
3	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? Hahaha brilliant! I love Garfunkel and Oats and this one is great!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 06:30 PM
24	Is there ONE straight, kind, solvent single man in his 40s left in your country? If so, then why aren't you seeking a romantic commitment with a broad in her 40s? That article is so funny. The woman writing it seems to overestimate her market value enormously. As long as you're female, 20-something and not too shabby looking, guys will flock to you. After 30 this stops. Yet a lot of women seem to haven't gotten the memo and take that attention for given. So yea, when no guy hits on her, it's of course because the men are childish or boring or some other stupid reason. "Why should i get pro-active, i never had that problem!" I also wonder wether those "bri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/15 07:03 AM
11	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) I guess... Then again being a selfmade millionaire would probably help...	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 10:05 AM
44	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) Very well written! He even breaks his own rules and spends money on her (cat) and yet "he acts so immature sometimes". ... I loled. Also in the update she calls him spending money on the cat and the burial "interfering with family matters"... What a bastard! Hamster is a master projector.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 09:56 AM
11	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) Not really. You need something in your life that consumes your attention so thouroughly, that you see women more as a distraction to your passion. Sigmas don't give a crap about anything beside, especially about womens emotions. Their passion prohibits to care about the whole alpha-beta-drama. Being on a Reddit-board about women is already the anti-thesis to being a sigma.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 09:51 AM
7	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) I love how smart the guy demask her with that little question: "Do you feel jelous i paid that vacation for my sister?" Any mature person without gold-digger-syndrom would have said "No, i'm happy for her!" But this is a phrase no greedy person will EVER get over the lips. Of course she was "disappointed"... Gold-digger-checkmate!	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 09:41 AM
1	Mike Rowe Responds to the NYT Modern Man article It's a logical fallacy when people say owning a gun is a risk. Guns can malfunction and go off accidently. People shoot their relatives and other innocents mistaking them for burglars. And lot of guns are used for suicide. Thinking that you're completely immune to such incidents is the actual fallacy. Without a gun, there is no risk of gun malfunction, no innocent can be shot with said gun and killing yourself is a lot harder without a device manifactured to deal lethal damage. So yes, owning a …	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/15 05:06 PM
1	I have had 5 different women in the past year say "if we're both still single at 30, lets get married. THIS was a GREAT read! I hope i'll be as wise and fun in your age, which is ... only 16 years away... Yikes! :D If i ever meet you in person, you have earned yourself a beer on my behalf.	/r/seduction	21/10/15 04:16 PM
0	Mike Rowe Responds to the NYT Modern Man article European here: I don't care about the whole "collectivist safety". My personal safety is: I live in an appartment in the 4th floor without elevator. Most pizzamen hate my house. The worst problems some have with security is bycicles getting stolen, which are located at ground level. And i have an evil bike lock. And i don't argue that there aren't reasons in the US to own a gun. But the "self protection"-argument is simply as much bullshit as that OP-article. Every real security expert's advice …	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/15 03:34 PM
1	Self-improvement is going very well so far, yet I still can't get myself to approach women. Anyone can give me a good kick in the ass? Exactly. Do that with some dozens women. After that you'll do the same with another set, but this time try to keep the discussion running for a minute. Ask them additional questions: What trains go, which would be a nice place to drive, etc... After that another set with 5 minutes. If you're still insecure, come back here. I was sent to Las Vegas businesswise on a gambling exhibition recently. I took on the challenge to make pictures of all the booth babes. Was nervous like shit asking the first…	/r/askTRP	21/10/15 12:27 PM
1	Should I next this girl? I'm a newbie. Eloquent, clear, informativ, truthful. That's the post life should be made of.	/r/askTRP	21/10/15 09:58 AM
2	What are some of your worst shit tests? The worst ones are the unimaginative ones, that don't give you anything to work with. Usually dump Girls that ignore you completely, don't say anything or even worse say something stupid like "You're [something derogatory]". Actually not a shittest, but i once got told by a girl that she saw me being interviewed on TV. I wasn't. That was one of the moments where i found out how much worse girls are at hitting on guys. Which is a great way to come back at them saying "That was a horrible line". "…	/r/askTRP	15/10/15 10:02 AM
4	TRP is about blunt honesty. Is therr any point for me to continue if I got an UGLY ass face? Right that! Also: Accept your "ugly ass face" as a feature, not a problem. Women instinctively feel when you're insecure about your perceived weaknesses. It's total pussy-killer. The creepy part doesn't come from your face. It comes from your attitude. On the other hand a guy who seems to be totally in touch with his weaknesses is a pussy magnet. Accept it, make jokes about it, play it like "yea, i'm a ugly mofo, i don't give a shit, i'm a blast to hang around". You can be the best-looking guy a…	/r/askTRP	23/09/15 09:22 AM
3	Co-worker winds up as the beta provider of a single mother with four different children. TRP fan fiction! I'd read that... Think of it, i just did.	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 01:09 PM
1	European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas? Sure, it exists everywhere, but it submits to local mentality. So you gotta learn things partly new once you're in another country. But then again you got the foreigner-bonus, so it sorta cancels itself out.	/r/seduction	21/09/15 05:36 AM
2	European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas? The "reproduction rate" is dependend on the income, security level and health of the family, not on the religion. Once roman-catholic were known for reproducing like crazy, while average middleclass muslims have a similar low birthrate. This "germans will vanish"-myth is rightwing propaganda.	/r/seduction	21/09/15 05:33 AM
5	Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me. I get it on with my gramophone.	/r/seduction	04/09/15 12:08 PM
2	A lesson in holding frame from Jon Stewart Oh that stuck up b.... Ha! You gotta see a real pro handling her bitchieness!	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/15 03:12 PM
2	Question for redpillers, without going off topic, why do men slut shame women? Because every woman who has more sex than oneself is a reminder of the one's own failure to get sex. A man having sex is treated as success. A woman having sex hardly hits the news. Hence men put her down to feel up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/15 12:52 AM
2	I assume many Bluepill subscribers agree that its bad to "put the pussy on a pedestal", what's the best way to explain that without going redpill? TRP tries to put women down I'd say it's overcompensation. To find balance after an extreme, people tend to go into the opposite extreme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/15 12:29 AM
2	how many people have you had sex with? tiny chance Pun intended?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/15 12:25 AM
1	how many people have you had sex with? Somewhere between 10 and 20 i think. Didn't really count and once in a while i get a "oh, there was that one!"-thing. One or two 10's and some very kinky chances. At times, when i'm in a good mood, it's easy to pull. But i'm getting old... :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/15 12:24 AM
1	How does TRP explain a lot of women being attracted to acoustic guitar players (nice guys who write love songs) and/or poetic, idealistic song artists? Wouldn't their pussies dry up if women truly were repulsed by niceness and chivalry? What about chick flicks where there's idealistic romance? Sure thing. Badly played music is not accepted as music whatsoever. But the relation between being beta and being musical able is highly out of proportion. You can cover a huge lot of whineyness and insecurity with emotional songs. Look at Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins or Radiohead! As much as i love those bands, i still gotta admit some of their songs are VERY whiney... You wouldn't get away saying any of their lyrics to a girl, but add some chords to it and you're gold! Just try getting laid with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/15 07:16 AM
1	How does TRP explain a lot of women being attracted to acoustic guitar players (nice guys who write love songs) and/or poetic, idealistic song artists? Wouldn't their pussies dry up if women truly were repulsed by niceness and chivalry? What about chick flicks where there's idealistic romance? Because music is canned emotions. Chicks dig emotions hard. If they don't get their emotional kick once a while, they throw a tantrum to create it artificially. If you can play music, you are a "creator of emotions". Some chicks will easily overlook your missing alpha-status for it, as this is hitting right into the subconcious brain. Had a great demonstration of that last weekend. I was on a birthday party with my guitar, playing some tunes for friends. Some chicks on the neighbor table were al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/15 02:45 PM
7	Fake Confidence is like Fake Tits Well, hello there, we're here to crush your childhood memories!	/r/seduction	01/06/15 05:36 AM
0	People bringing down your value You could aswell point out the stupidity of his joke, kinda like "Well, no, i can't touch that. I guess you're either too blind to not see that i'm short or you're too stupid to make the connection. Hmm, looking at you i would guess... blind?" First: You're showing him how stupid his remark was in the first place, as it's so uncreative and unfunny, you rather chose to take it literal. Second: You show you don't give a shit that you're short, as you're directly pointing out your own weakness to h…	/r/askTRP	25/03/15 06:49 PM
2	Thoughts on Sigma males? At least i had those several times. Being raised in a conservative country with fixed social roles and being bullied my whole life for my loner status, i tried to fit in and actually had to unlearn trying to give a damn. But once i did, i had that Jack Sparrow mentality to it. Elizabeth Swann: There will come a time when you have a chance to do the right thing. Jack Sparrow: I love those moments. I like to wave at them as they pass by. Jack Sparrow is probably the prototype of a sigma! A loner b…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/15 01:42 PM
4	Thoughts on Sigma males? Wow, i'm 38 and never stumbled over the sigma-idea, but damn that rings all the bells of my life. I was baffled reading this. Especially the "mostly because chasing tail usually seems like a waste of time" is my love life in a nutshell. All the great 9/10-girls i was with i simply just picked up easily on the way. Mostly they came to me. And i dropped those girls easily the moment they gave me temper. I'm not afraid of rejection, but rather of boredom. "Sigmas usually acquired their outsider sta…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/15 01:19 PM
1	Thoughts on Sigma males? Thanks a lot for those posts. Didn't know that something like Sigma existed, but damn, your posts sounds like the perfect description of me. The positive as the negatives. This sure helped me to embrace my own weirdness and the believe, there might be a girl for me that digs those kinds of traits :D	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/15 12:51 PM
1	Thoughts on Sigma males? Word! It's just that i hardly give a damn about social rules, as i experience them as limiting. Hence i perceive people playing by those rules as sorta boring and predictable. "contemptuous" is maybe too strong a word, but lets say "normal" people hardly rock my boat. Maybe if their convictions are really strong, i perceive them as entertaining to mess with.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/15 12:30 PM
5	Thoughts on Sigma males? Why would someone that has no trouble attracting the top 5% of women have such a conflicted mindset? Because sigmas don't buy into a social rank system, they act outside of it and play along their own one. They don't perceive those 5% women as the same value that the general society does. Their goal isn't alpha. Does this concept make sense based on evolutionary and historical arguements? Yes. As mammals we tend to live in enclosed social groups ("tribes", "social circles", ...). Sigmas are a gr…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/15 12:24 PM
4	So Why does Cracked Constantly Push Feminist Propaganda? -[They answer on Tumblr] Hmmmm... I'd like to actually see some of those "secret camera videos women have taken on the street to catch the verbal abuse" ... Any links?	/r/MensRights	23/09/14 04:44 PM
2	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem. Yea, that girl does sound a little like a bitch. I have a female flatmate which has tendencies towards that topic. Of course she's got a boyfriend that is soccer/footballer, nice guy, but according to her all his sport-buddies have chauvinistic tendencies. I'd say it's her insecurities which those guys probably don't know how to handle... Who knows. Anyways, for some reason she recently thought that she could take out her frustration on me complaining about some supposedly chauvinistic comment i…	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 08:08 AM
2	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem. Well, i still think she was a friend, even if not the closest of the close. Our ways just split about 15 years ago and it seems she just went that sad road of denial and idioticity. She really sounded hurt by the words, so it's amazing how internalized she has those abstruse theories already (which, had i known, might have taken into account). It reminds me more to a victim of a religious cult than "just" an ignorant supporter of a crude movement. Yea, feminism helps us all, doesn't it...	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 07:57 AM
1	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem. Yea, i was just shocked because it was what i considered once a close friend. Obviously this can happen in the best of (friend-)families...	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 07:45 AM
1	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem. Alright! This was obviously a code black then! Sounds like an agent movie. :)	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 07:44 AM
2	Ex-Schoolcollegue unfriends me after i point out her last "feminist"-link is a radfem. Thanks. Yea, i've always been a rebellious character, so this was probably just an accident waiting to happen.	/r/MensRights	14/09/14 07:42 AM