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3

I’ve been in your position plenty of times. The more you think about what “went wrong”, the more you’ll get stuck in your head. It’s possibly that the reason has nothing to do with you at all. Or maybe it does, and that’s ok! Who cares about what one girl thinks about you? If you develop that mindset and focus your energy on what you can control you’ll be better off and will probably find a better chick lol
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:35 PM
3

Absolute savant
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:25 PM
5

No prob, one more thing to add about that. Just because she was in the moment at the time, doesn’t mean the attraction will always be there. So while you guys had that moment, her attraction may have died down since then. I don’t want to assume but it’s always possible that she’s feeling that attraction for someone else or that she doesn’t feel anything for anyone right now. The best thing you can do is to not text her anymore and open up space for other girls in your life. There’s nothing you c…
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:18 PM
8

It’s usually a test when they say that. If there’s one piece of advice to remember, it’s “never go by her words, but her actions.” Girls say shit all the time that they never actually mean (guys do it as well to an extent). But the fact is that she wouldn’t be making out with you if she wasn’t physically attracted to you.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:08 PM
48

Women can’t even guess height correctly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 09:36 PM
3

Not true at all. I’ve been ghosted after getting physical with someone. Either she wants to fuck or she doesn’t. If you kissed her and she ghosted you she probably wanted more and got it from someone else.
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:20 PM
7

I hate that this is true
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:54 PM
2

It doesn’t make a difference imo. A lot of comments here mention “energy” or “sexual energy” but the word they are looking for is just horny lol. If you come off as this horny dude it’s not a good look. But if you’re not motivated to make a move or have sex that isn’t good either. So the best way is to just know yourself and find a happy medium to have the best interaction possible during the date. Rubbing one off makes no difference in her interest level.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:51 PM
4

If I only tried getting with women who showed indicators, I would die a virgin
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:54 AM
1

I think you have to go to one of those camps..
/r/seduction04/10/22 01:14 AM
0

You have some good points. Yes, women generally value looks and money. But then how do you explain rich and buff dudes who still struggle with women? A lot of dudes work years and years to advance their careers and spend countless hours in the gym…just for women to continue to blow them off for dudes who aren’t even close to “high value”. You’re better off prioritizing getting better game than to try to be “high value” because game at least can help you get different types of women vs the typica…
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:05 PM
9

The term high value is really obscure though. Different girls value different things. A lot of the guys we think are “high value” are only like that on a surface level
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:20 PM
3

Rejection & indifference
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:17 PM
1

You are not entitled to a response. Why do you think that?
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:29 PM
1

Not everything is a shit test.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:22 PM
9

You didn’t get her to like you enough. If she was interested she wouldn’t hesitate. There isn’t really a come back you can say to that. Most likely the conversation was dying and you went for the KO before she was ready. However, you can try to brush it off and keep the conversation going or just move on
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:47 PM
2

My personal experience, there’s not really set number since it can be so random. Best way to go about it it is not have too many expectations when approaching. Don’t approach to achieve an outcome
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:21 PM
6

Here’s something to think about from the male perspective. Almost all men who have gotten laid after an approach didn’t wait for the “appropriate” time to do so. If you wait for the perfect time to approach, you’ll either miss your chance or her attraction will move somewhere else. I think you’re intentions are good but this isn’t the best advice for guys who aren’t getting much success with women
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:55 AM
8

Most girls tbh
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:31 PM
1

So you’re speaking for all women on that? Ok..
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:17 PM
9

I think you can briefly mentioned it as long as you don’t go into too much detail. Therapy is something you do for yourself, so it should be a personal thing until you develop a trusting relationship with someone
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:37 PM
9

Dude don’t overthink it. A woman who smiles at you will almost always welcome an approach. However, that does not mean that she likes you or romantically interested. It will take some calibration for you to get her there.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:41 PM
3

Girls usually are the emotional ones in the relationship. This causes problems for them sometimes because emotions often trick people into doing or saying things they don’t actually mean. There are countless examples of this, where a person will say or do something because it “feels right”. It’s why partners cheat, and why people hookup. I believe this is female nature at its core, and why you’ll find that women are naturally attracted to men who are “grounded” and not really sensitive to their …
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:53 AM
10

Enthusiasm makes a world of difference.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:45 PM
3

It’s a little bit of both lol
/r/seduction08/08/22 07:05 PM
4

I can’t believe I’m sharing this, but ask her if she likes candles
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:04 AM
1

I didn’t know what this was. Now I know my issues with dating
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:22 AM
1

If that’s your thought process already there’s nothing anyone can do to help you. Plenty of ugly short kings out there killing it, Stop thinking your situation is special and maximize what you have
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:29 PM
1

Yes you can, those are all things you can improve on
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:16 PM
19

Only if they cute ;D But in all honesty you can compliment a women if it’s coming from a secure and non needy place. A lot of people will just throw a compliment because they think it will get a girl to like them or it will get them something in return.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:34 AM
10

I honestly think both genders struggle equally, which can be a hot take. But my reasoning is because most guys who are frustrated fail to see the perspective other than their own. The sad reality is guys and girls can be equally shitty to each other, and while women are more selective on who they choose to be with, they also face a lot more pressure/scrutiny to be attractive, submissive, ect. A guy can work on himself to up his value and eventually find a girl. But there’s some females out there…
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:25 PM
1

No. But most of the time yes
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:02 AM
7

If you want actually meet someone, skip the bullshit on dating apps and go outside. How are you not grasping that concept? You can’t meet up with anyone if you aren’t getting matches. Have fun on your dating apps bro you clearly don’t need the advice.
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:14 AM
7

You’re completely missing the point. Oversimplifying OLD doesn’t help either, so not sure what point you’re trying to make. The goal is get matches so telling everyone to “just create an account and start swiping” is shitty advice. I don’t even know what you’re saying about 1 girl matching with 1 guy, they’re matching with hundreds which is my point. If you think dating isn’t competitive you’re delusional buddy
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:52 AM
25

Gotcha, figured there was a missing detail since a lot of guys are “approaching” strangers when it comes to online dating. Didn’t mean to come off condescending. My thing is there’s a lot of skills to develop when it comes to real life dating, and with online dating, technology kind of removes that out of the equation. It’s imo a losing battle since the majority of dudes are getting swiped left. You basically have less than 3 seconds to make an impression that doesn’t account for anything other …
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:59 PM
50

Didn’t know instagram was a dating app. Anyways meeting girls in person is always better, no matter how you twist it. There’s something you’re not telling us about your “success”
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:54 PM
1

TLDR; yes 🤣
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:54 PM
0

Enjoy the mentorship
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:17 PM
5

Nothing really kills your dating life per se, but logistics is a pretty important factor. I grew up in the suburbs, and I can say from experience that the majority hot girls do not live or go there lol. You can certainly find them, it’s just a lot more scarce and you’ll have to rely on cold approaching/social circle a lot more. If you want the best chance to find what you’re looking for you gotta look into getting your own place close to the action (meaning the cities or downtown areas). If you …
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:18 PM
11

1 conversation with a female isn’t going to do a lot tbh. Lots of people on this sub would benefit more by going outside lol
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:54 PM
1

Haha I’d respect the honesty
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:35 PM
2

Dude I feel ya dating apps suck for that reason. Don’t let it affect your confidence because in reality the attractive girls don’t need dating sites. They’re always getting hit on in real life. I do find it funny tho when fat chicks on dating apps try to catfish you by pushing the fat on their chest up and take tiny ass close up photos 😂
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:24 PM
1

That was an off night lol. Don’t be afraid to buy a girl a drink tho if you know she’s feeling you. Gotta gauge it correctly
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:39 PM
3

Assuming you’ve been chatting up some people already (I like to warm up socially and get into the mood), use your height to your advantage and slowly walk up and say something like “hey, you girls look like fun…my name is” or something along those lines. You can ask or say anything if you have good energy. Just don’t try to talk to one girl in the group. Engage with everyone and see if anyones feeling you. The rest is kind of the luck of the draw. You can try to isolate but it’s kind of tough wh…
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:34 PM
2

I got out alone all the time. It can be weird but after a while it becomes normal. Yeah dude you either have to have a good wingman or no wingman at all. That being said don’t completely bail on your friends (unless you really want to). Most people like to associate you with you you hang out with
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:21 PM
1

This goes both ways, but you can’t really teach enthusiasm in a sexual parter. I mean enthusiasm as in excitement to please your partner, not just enthusiasm in sex. This is honestly why getting intimate early on is important. It’s controversial of course but sexual chemistry is super important for a relationship to work. This is why I don’t believe in waiting for sex
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:47 PM
2

I read somewhere that there’s a paradox of choice that girls deal with regularly. It’s when you have so many options that you deal with a lot of anxiety and pressure on yourself on making the right decision out of those options. It’s a lot different with guys because we’ll gladly talk to any options we have for the most part, but for girls it’s more of an emotional thing in choosing who to hook up/start a relationship with.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:18 PM
3

Dawg ya gotta ask why you have genuine interest, and ask yourself if you’d still have that interest if she wasn’t busting it open publicly on the internet. It’s highly unlikely for anything to happen except you losing your money if she sees you as a “fan”.
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:36 PM
7

Simple, you bang the competition.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:40 PM
19

“Hey babe tell me about your ex. I need to compare myself him because I’m an insecure chode! LOL I’m such a red flag”
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:49 PM
9

Lol point proven. You have no rizz my guy
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:54 PM
28

Probably the dumbest thing I’ve read all year. Not everyone is a toxic tryhard like you
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:51 PM
71

*Stupid girls don’t care about red flags. I guess it’s true when they say you are what you attract
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:46 PM
245

You’re ultimately playing games regardless of what you say, and a lot of girls will pick up on that shit. I’m all for leaving her on read sometimes but it’s kind of obvious when you frame it the way you’re suggesting. Dudes have been ghosted for less 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:32 PM
627

This can definitely backfire if you don’t do it right, you have to have a follow up that works or she’ll throw up that red flag lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:59 PM
3

Not the best place to do it tbh. Lots of people are there for the experience, and you ain’t part of the show lol. But depending if you’re going with a group or not, just try to to be friendly and connect by talking about music, ect. Flirt a little a see where it goes. Don’t expect much and go for numbers
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:33 PM
11

Best way to go about dating is to never go by what women say, but what they do. You’re correct in that girls want to be hit on, and that will never change despite what they say or what people say about feminism and what not. Girls are very “flowy” and “feely” and if you’re struggling you’re probably struggling to connect with them on an emotional level. Once you understand them a bit and work on your looks, self esteem and confidence you’ll notice that girls will open up you more if they’re more…
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:06 PM
1

Something in return lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:30 PM
2

Verbal communication. Example: waving bands of 100 dollar bills
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:16 PM
8

Can you explain the biology part
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:48 AM
4

Self control man. You’re not supposed to give thirsty vibes at all when around women. Probably why you’ve been in a dry spell for so long.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:03 PM
1

Girls definitely have different mindset than us dudes when it comes to their reasoning. It doesn’t have to make sense from my experience, there won’t always be logic or reasoning there. But yes, usually she’ll know the reason. Same with guys when we decide we aren’t into someone. Goes both ways
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:59 PM
2

Exactly my point. If you need to fake a persona to attract women you’re ultimately manipulating. The funny thing is not everyone is going to vibe with the person you’re trying to be, so it can be a lose lose situation.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:17 PM
12

Hey dude, I feel you. There’s a million reasons why things don’t work out. Even if you think you can pinpoint a specific reason, you’ll drive yourself crazy trying to find the exact reason. Just know what whatever type of response you get from someone can usually serve as a form of “closure”, even if they don’t directly tell you “we’re done/it’s over” Is she sending one word texts? That’s a response. Is she not texting back? That’s a response. My advice is to not go by what they say, but they DO…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:11 PM
6

Disagree. I’m all for self improvement and fake it till you make it in certain cases, but if you can’t be authentic you’ll come off as a try hard. If being yourself isn’t attractive you need to improve on the inner game stuff
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:54 PM
3

Thanks for sharing man! Glad you hear you turned things around.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:43 AM
8

How do you get laid if you don’t chase? Just playing devils advocate for those looking for a happy medium
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:59 AM
2

Fair
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:34 AM
6

There’s a lot of conventionally attractive dudes that are dealing with the same EXACT issue you’re having..just for perspective. Guys who lack in the looks department but know how to make a women laugh are hands down way more successful with women than any good looking dude. It’s all about how you make her FEEL.
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:35 PM
3

I think the point I’m trying to make is that compatibility is more important than age. Not every person is going to live up to the expectation you have of someone their age. There’s a lot of lonely folk out there (men and women) because of these expectations and societal pressure. People aren’t choosing their partners to make you happy at the end of the day
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:35 PM
5

Ok fine but we’re talking about averages here. At the same time there are 18 year olds, 22 year olds, and 30 year olds who are at the same maturity level. I’m not saying they should all date each other. But maybe there’s compatibility there over someone their own age. It doesn’t have to be so black and white
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:55 PM
5

You’re assuming that everyone’s maturity is based on how old they are, which isn’t true at all
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:42 PM
5

I think grooming only comes to play when the older guy is actively seeking a relationship with someone they can control. Is it grooming if you’re just casually hooking up? People will see an age gap and automatically assume there’s a fucked up power dynamic which isn’t always true. There’s a lot of variables
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:38 PM
7

Every time I see this I am always surprised on how many people will form together to shame age gaps. But I’ve come to realize when this happens it’s usually people projecting their own insecurities whether it’s from aging or bad experiences from a previous partner. Age doesn’t necessarily equate to “maturity” as much as older folk would like to think so. All in all people should just mind their own business 🤷‍♂️👍
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:28 PM
7

If all you’re offering on top of the romance is money and security, don’t be surprised if she leaves you in the end. Things tend to get a lot less “romantic” when money is involved. Maybe money isn’t as issue for you, and that’s fine. All I’m saying is if you set a precedent to a girl that you are willing to pay for whatever lifestyle she wants, not only will you get used but you’ll also be attracting the wrong type of girls. If that’s what you want go ahead and sponsor these girls. But you shou…
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:13 PM
1

“I’m black where it counts” is a classic
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:26 PM
20

Especially 6 imo
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:17 PM
3

Ayyo where the hoes at
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:49 AM
14

That’s weird.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:50 PM
5

Sounds like you have good “on paper” qualities. I’m assuming, but I wanna guess you’re a clean cut, friendly type A dude with an agreeable personality. You’re the type of guy girls say they want, but in reality they find boring. I don’t want to come off as negative because there’s nothing wrong with you lol. It’s just that you need to try “some wrong” and stop playing it safe/being less agreeable. Start challenging girls instead of trying to qualify yourself. Think about this post: you’re basica…
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:15 PM
1

I don’t understand this at all. I guess this is why I struggle
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:51 PM
6

Only one way to get experience man Try peeing on her
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:53 PM
15

I don’t see the issue if it’s just family friends. You’ll get different opinions on here though. At the end of the day it’s your dick, so do what you want to do lol
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:40 PM
2

Don’t want to make too many assumptions, but how experienced are you? How long has this been going on for you?
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:43 PM
1

A good rule of thumb is to not tell random chicks too much about your personal life. Not unless you’re already smashing or you’re trying to get into a relationship. I’d be cautious if a girl is asking too many questions initially
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:51 PM
2

The only ones rating condom sex high are virgins
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:46 PM
3

Run into her. You’ll be forced to exchange information. Your premium will go up but it will be worth it. I hope this helps
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:21 PM
8

No. Going through a “hoe phase” is just seeking external validation which doesn’t actually make you confident/secure However if that’s what you’re looking for and your secure with that decision, then yes that can inspire confidence in a way It all comes down to you as an individual
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:00 PM
2

No but there’s a stigma with pickup. Mostly because most dudes aren’t smooth with it and creep out the majority of girls. Just don’t see it as “pickup”. Even the guys preaching it will tell you to not be too “gamey” because it comes off weird and unnatural. All it really is is socializing and flirting. Being able to take a hint and rejection well is key as well
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:49 AM
3

“Should I start learning?” Kinda weak and you let her guide the convo too long. Didn’t make it sexual or flirty at all and so she prob got bored. The last compliment was the final validation she needed from you and she split. Just my take. Try to use humor or push her buttons and see if you can establish a meetup sooner
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:44 AM
1

Confidence and respecting boundaries
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:32 PM
3

Again, take it with a grain of salt and don’t be so negative. My 2c.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:46 PM
1

That response and a downvote is all you can do. Good luck with them ladies guy 👍
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:38 PM
1

Dawg that’s the thing. I’m not chasing. So by your logic I’m winning. Doesn’t matter what you read on here, it won’t help you because you’re negative. It’s not drinking the Kool aid it’s called “taking dating advice with a grain of salt”. If you worked on a few things maybe you wouldn’t be so concerned with who is getting “their back blown out” 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:34 PM
2

You’re assuming a lot of bs. Good luck with that.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:26 PM
2

Not with that attitude
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:51 PM
0

I’m not, because I disagree. It takes a lot of hard work and trial and error to get where we want to get to with women. Not all of us are naturally attractive, charismatic or confident. So we gotta work on it. So to hear a post like this that discourages self improvement while a lot of dudes are going through the process is upsetting. If you wanna throw the towel and settle for low quality women go for it, but don’t discourage others who are putting in the work.
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:38 PM
2

It’s not delusional to think you deserve quality women. All this negative post does is reinforce a belief system that a lot of guys on here have. That women have all the options and that we should be glad with whatever we can get. FUCK THAT. If you actually believe this, then of course the self-fulfilling prophecy of believing it will make it true. You may be right about women having a lot of options, but thinking those options are better than you is the actual delusion. It’s insecure af. Stop p…
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:24 PM
3

Never do dinner dates for the first date. Some girls expect/look for those opportunities. Filter them out of your life.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:39 PM
2

Don’t bother
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:45 PM
1

When they ask what you do for a living, telling them “I’m this.” is the “logical” answer. It’s technically the answer to their question but girls communicate differently. That’s why they get bored when they heard those answers. You either need to jokingly lie or be vague in a funny way. Being too mysterious can be weird though. Just remember that strangers don’t actually need to know what you do until they invest in you more. Don’t give literal answers and learn to communicate with emotion.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:31 PM
16

Nah, saying you have a lot of options will suggest the opposite honestly. Dudes who actually have a lot of options will never feel the need to say that.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:56 PM
72

I have this problem too and I think the best way to get into the right mindset is to stop caring about a particular outcome and talk to everybody, not just girls. Don’t have a goal in mind. Just stop caring, and learn to be more social with everyone in the room. The most successful nights I’ve had are when I don’t come off as a thirsty dude and just having fun being in the moment.
/r/seduction15/04/22 11:51 PM
5

It’s the simps man. Simps are viewing and treating girls 5-10 like they’re 10s! Haha
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:21 PM
-1

The issue I think is that everyone views 8s/9s/10s differently. And the fact that dating apps give women so much attention from men that they view themselves as more attractive than they really are. So yeah the number system is really skewed
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:16 PM
7

This is just my own take. Of course every guy wants to date a super model. But there’s certain types of girls that aren’t “conventionally” good looking but I find myself really attracted to. Can’t really explain what it is. But I think this is why a lot of guys don’t approach mode types. It can be intimidating and when girls know that they’re a 10/10 it can be a lot of deal with. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:07 PM
2

Yeah dude, don’t blow up a particular spot because people will recognize you after a couple times
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:04 PM
4

I think there’s more to this story. For one you mentioned that you frequent the Starbucks where you approached the group of girls. If you do this regularly you’ve probably developed a reputation of a guy who tries to pickup girls there. You never wanna do that or be that guy. Not saying those dudes are justified in calling you out, but you should find other places to approach to avoid this situation entirely
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:38 PM
14

Ouch man been there. It’s just the nature of the beast though. Best to just let her initiate and move on.
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:18 AM
1

She just wants attention
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:13 AM
5

We had sex a lot within a two week period. I’m not saying this to brag but to gauge her interest level. And you’re not wrong! Finding a medium between smothering and striking the iron can be tricky.
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:11 PM
7

I hooked up with a girl at the beginning of the year and we really escalated physically from when we met. We got intimate and she gave all the right signals of a girl who was interested. It felt amazing and I had the notion to “strike” because what better signal to get than sex right? Turns out me trying to strike while the iron is hot equated to me over texting and coming off needy. If I just played it cool she might have received my intentions better and we might have still been a thing. But i…
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:57 PM
10

It’s not as clear cut as you’re suggesting. Sometimes the iron can be hot and you can cool it down really quick with your own behavior. I’ve done it and really screwed up with a girl that seemed really into me. Sometimes not striking the iron can be a good strategy if she’s attracted and you have options.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:44 PM
9

Going nude would be so alpha
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:58 PM
1

Money
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:36 PM
1

*hurtin
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:57 PM
0

No
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:46 PM
2

I have an idea for a rom com
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:01 PM
95

There is nothing quirky or witty that will work on someone who isn’t interested
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:28 PM
38

You gotta find balance. If you’re always waiting for the perfect moment in your life to “start dating” you’re going to be waiting a while.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:11 PM
1

This is my own personal thing. I’m a hairy dude and when certain parts of my body get too hairy it can be off putting. So I trim certain areas at different frequencies (once a month; everyone couple of months, ect) Just gotta find what works for you and naturally women will respond based on what they like.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:07 PM
1

Because we communicate differently. It’s really that simple. There is to a degree some anti-women sentiment, but you have to acknowledge this is a sub full of frustrated dudes lol. I think there is room for a women’s advice, but you have to understand that the female perspective of seduction is extremely skewed because a lot of women either aren’t sure what they want or they already get a lot of attention. Why would a guy take advice on how to get female attention from someone who receives male …
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:08 PM
2

I feel you man a lot of people who end up “players” come from a hurt place. I’m definitely not a player so to speak but I definitely keep my guard up emotionally after getting burned in the past. The best thing I can tell you is to go with your strength of having options until you meet someone that you feel deserves more of your emotional energy. It’s a challenge but good luck!
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:58 PM
2

Dude cmon, obviously eye contact is the same as oral sex. Get a clue
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:01 PM
4

This applies to a lot of things, but for change to happen you need to have discipline. Women are excellent at sniffing out bullshit, so if they can sense you aren’t being real with them they won’t take you seriously if you’re trying to have a relationship. I think this applies to your situation directly. If you want to have a serious relationship you need to stop fucking around and using your past as an excuse. This might not be what you want to hear because your past is what you’re used to and …
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:08 PM
2

This is just like every other catfish. Get some help man this ain’t “research”. You’re toying with real people’s emotions for your entertainment.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:03 PM
2

You should try to game your wife
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:16 PM
15

Because generally if a girl likes you, and she’s genuinely interested in seeing you, she will make it easy for you guys to hang out. If there’s even the slightest bit of doubt on her end she’ll give mixed signals that will lead to her flaking on plans or making excuses that will lead to you chasing her. Girls thrive off attention so even if she’s not super interested she’ll still be willing to give signals, whether they are clear or not. Not trying to generalize but this is my experience.
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:23 PM
13

If it’s confusing, then she isn’t interested. More times than not it’s the truth
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:04 PM
2

I feel like women cheat more than men, would you still be willing to die/protect them knowing that?
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:24 PM
2

Quality shit post
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:17 PM
1

This is my boundary rn. I strictly text until I form a relationship with someone, whether that is fwb or something more
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:18 AM
7

The insta thing where you fabricate social proof
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:25 PM
5

Dawg no. Most people settle so of course they’re going to project their shortcomings when saying you can’t do any better. Focus on the things you can control and score some baddies
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:28 PM
1

I’m pretty sure they break it down when they post on here 🤣
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:25 PM
3

I’m insecure
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:25 PM
1

This is just my take. Yes, she’s older and more likely to be direct, but she’s still a woman and won’t ask you out directly. If she’s striking up conversations with you out of the blue, she’s probably doing it in hopes that you’ll take the hint. Try to bump up from the small talk and ask her what her plans are or something that might gauge her interest. That’s all that can really be said, other than be careful with co-workers
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:11 PM
2

Reddit moment
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:23 PM
2

Never tell them what they want to hear. It’s stupid and toxic but it works.
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:40 PM
3

Don’t do movies unless you’re already smashing
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:14 PM
12

You won’t have issues finding girls that will help you with that. But you gotta realize how insecure and pathetic that can make you look
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:59 PM
1

Nothing wrong with a few drinks, as long as you don’t use it as a crutch to talk to women
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:33 PM
1

There’s definitely intangibles to taking to women that you’ll never read in this sub or in a book. Every girl is different. You can’t just say a list of lines, because in practice you have to react in real time to a girls response and other environmental factors. Most of time you’re going to fail until you learn to get good. But I notice that when most dudes on this sub crash and burn and don’t see the results they want, they go straight for the keyboard and start trashing this sub.
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:07 AM
7

Fucking lol
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:39 AM
3

This guy milfs
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:37 AM
58

“You’re too young for me”
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:50 PM
141

You’re not a dick for breaking it off with someone. Just tell her you’re not interested in the nicest way possible
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:10 AM
1

Wanna know how I know you’re full of shit? Because your complaining about results like OP, which means you haven’t done enough approaches yet. You aren’t desensitized to rejection and it shows. But instead you wanna complain and put down others.The only one that sounds like a bitter loser is you
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:21 AM
1

Yeah and they probably think you’re a douche
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:00 AM
2

Assume whatever you want if it makes you feel better
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:52 AM
2

Why are picturing me with my dick in my hand?
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:50 AM
6

How can someone you haven’t met be attracted to you if you haven’t introduced yourself or approached them? Seems like a really limiting mindset. I see a lot of posts like this and it always gives girls the power to be the selector. Girls don’t want to be the selector!!! WOMEN WANT TO BE SELECTED. They want you to be confident in approaching them, and if you aren’t…they’ll meet a guy who is. If you’re having shortcomings is easy to blame this subreddit, but it’s the girls rejecting you not the pe…
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:29 PM
4

You claim you’re speaking on behalf of them, but you’re actually just projecting your own preference. How old are the girls that went to your boarding school? Probably teenagers right? No one is bringing up girls that age but you, so even your sample size isn’t even relevant. I’d like to hear your take on a sample size of women who are actual adults and see if the age gap is as big of a deal as you’re saying
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:46 PM
8

So you’re basing one sample size (your boarding schools) and generalizing the rest of the world on that? Hate to break it to you but there’s plenty of women out there who date older men. Just because it’s not your preference doesn’t mean you need to say women who do have that preference have something wrong with them. Not the truth and I suggest you get out more.
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:33 PM
11

Kinda fucked up to say the only people attracted to him are psychologically damaged.
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:23 PM
5

You can’t escalate if you don’t touch her.
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:23 PM
1

I will say bro. That situation sucks, but losing 30 pounds in a matter of months is mad impressive, so feel good about that. However, I hope you didn’t do that to win her over or impress her. She doesn’t deserve who you are today, keep improving for yourself and meet some ladies
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:22 AM
10

Okay fine. Assuming that’s true, is your experience supposed to apply to everyone’s?
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:35 AM
5

How many times have you done it?
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:04 AM
9

I feel you. Just wanted to add: you know the classic phrase “you always want what you can’t have?” There’s plenty of girls that show interest in me that I’m not necessarily attracted to. So if those girls were the only ones I’d be getting with, I’d personally be complacent or unsatisfied with my dating life. I think there’s more to going after girls that show interest in you, because as you mentioned they make it easy. But I still think there’s that underlying dynamic of getting a girl intereste…
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:19 PM
37

I think this is good advice but you have to realize that a lot of people on here aren’t getting matches on tinder or getting to dates in general. So saying to only focus on girls who are “interested” is only helpful to a degree. There are guys who may struggle with certain aspects of their self esteem/image/personality that may be preventing girls from being interested at all. So you have to take that into consideration before suggesting that the answer is to only look for a certain type of girl…
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:07 PM
1

That doesn’t make sense though. Chocolate directly affects your fitness goals. Porn doesn’t directly prevent you from getting laid.
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:56 PM
1

One could argue that in either direction
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:51 PM
1

I’m working on this process right now. I’ve always had to rely on alcohol to be comfortable talking to people or approaching girls. It seems like I only have success when I’m drinking but I’m realizing I need to be able to feel confident and present without it. It kind of feels like a setback but I’m realizing I’m actually starting the learning process right now. Give it a shot (no pun intended) without alcohol or at least limit your drinks to 3 MAX.
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:53 AM
1

Yet you’re still here criticizing the sub. Why even make this post?
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:33 PM
3

Go practice falling down
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:33 PM
2

Try humbling her while being nice. Don’t tell her you like her especially if she says she likes turning dudes down. Say you like her bushy eyebrows or that she has unique face. Basically don’t give a fuck around her (or any chick for that matter). Gotta set yourself apart from the other guys she rejects
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:10 PM
4

Apple to oranges. I think he would’ve been friend zoned regardless, BUT I do agree that playing it cooler on his part could’ve definitely opened a door for him later on. But that’s still covering up the intention which you already stated you have a problem with. We don’t have to think like girls, girls aren’t sexually attracted to guys that think like women. So it’s not good advice to appeal to the women mindset, it’s better advice to know how to tune it to their emotions. Idk if you’re a guy or…
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:57 PM
1

DOUBLE DOWN
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:48 PM
3

I agree with you for the most part. I just hope you can acknowledge the decency on his part for being honest too. He might not be looking for a friend in this situation and coming clean about it is respectable despite the timing of the conversation. Friend zoning is not the same, but a similar type of rejection as denying a platonic friendship. In other words it gets kinda tricky with intentions
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:47 PM
3

To be fair you’re not really suggesting better advice. Sure, she friend zoned him, and he conveyed different intentions. Nothing wrong with that. There is nothing he could’ve said that would’ve changed her mind at the time. But you’re acting like he’s in the wrong for saying he isn’t interested in being friends. He’s not. You’re doing the most to give the girl the benefit of the doubt when in reality no one is at fault here. Not sure if you need to hear this from me - but plenty of guys have got…
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:29 PM
3

In the original message it says her dynamic with a guy she thought she was friends with blew up in her face. Not sure if we’re referring to the same thing. But if she had an issue with a previous guy and presents that to OP than she shouldn’t be projecting that onto him.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:12 PM
3

It blowing up in her face is somehow his problem?
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:38 PM
5

A lot girls check out months before actually breaking up. She’s likely already come to terms with not being with you. It’s gunna hurt but you have to have the talk sooner rather than later. Best thing to do to split on good terms is to keep your emotions in check try to be indifferent. Easier said than done obviously. Good luck!
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:38 PM
2

I met one last weekend. She was by herself for some reason and I struck up a conversation. The only reason I was there was because I was trying a new location out to work on approaching at a bar. Sometimes you gotta do some field work to find where to meet a certain type of person. But even then it’s pretty random. GL
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:04 PM
1

Bottom line: you don’t need to be Chad! You just need to stand your ground ;)
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:25 PM
12

You gotta hold frame. I promise you if Chad delivered the same line she’d be all over it. You just gotta be confident with what you’re saying. Her saying it’s corny line is a test and you can’t fold when a girl says that.
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:43 AM
2

What’s your aesthetic appearance wise and where do you meet these girls? Do you make decent money? Just out of curiosity.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:28 AM
1

Just my experience, maybe it’s prevalent to where I live but I notice a lot of dudes try super hard to come off as “nice” people pleasers but they’re actually major dicks. They over compensate a lot in front of girls.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:24 PM
1

I actually have not no
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:21 PM
7

The conundrum of the nice guy: thinking the world owes you anything just because you’re “nice” or a “good dude”. But really we all want the same thing, so the nice guys aren’t really that nice if they have to lie to get what they want. In fact, most “nice guys” are deceitful and manipulative IMO
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:19 PM
2

Consent my guy, it’s not complicated
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:22 PM
28

Don’t ever, and I mean EVER be rude to the friend. That’s the fastest way to lose the girl. Keep you’re cool with her and try to engage her in the conversation. Once the friend lets her guard down a little say something along the lines of “I’d like to borrow your friend/I’d like to finish chatting” and see what happens. Friends can be a major test and girls want to see if you’re confident with the shit they throw at you. Edit: this is female friends, with guy friends be a little more straight fo…
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:58 PM
1

Well that’s Inappropriate, but I always respond with small pp banter/jokes. Saying your dick is big is always a lose lose situation, even if it is.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:53 PM
2

The word red flag is wayyy overused in dating. Then again I’m probably a red flag
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:51 PM
3

I feel you dude it can be rough, especially on the apps. I’d personally keep working on yourself and maybe look into getting your own place with roommates. That way you can start meeting girls however and have one less problem logistically. Happy hunting!
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:31 AM
1

Sounds like she’s kinda prude or just stringing you along. If you’ve hung out with her 8 times and still haven’t been able to advance I’d say it’s time to start looking for other options. Obviously the logistics side makes it a little tricker, but it sounds like there have been plenty of opportunities. If you want sex, go get it from someone who will give it to you. That doesn’t mean you should totally cutoff hanging out with her, but waiting for have sex with one girl is not worth it to me unle…
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:17 AM
1

Life your life homie. You’re in the drivers seat
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:54 AM
1

While that’s true, most of aren’t high earners and need to game chicks. You don’t have to spend a ton to do it
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:51 AM
17

Most likely from better posture, good shit
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:19 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:08 PM
5

All these suggestions of “going to the gym” and “stop being a pussy”…the real answer is you need professional help. You need therapy to figure out why you feel so inadequate in comparison to others. Altering your physical appearance isn’t going to help you if you already feel the way you do on the inside.
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:59 PM
3

Advice: stop caring about what your shitty friends think. If you’re approaching chicks to impress your friends that’s probably why you’re getting rejected. Do you want to get with chicks or impress your friends?
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:59 PM
1

Definitely agree on the enthusiasm. Big turn off if it’s seeming like a chore for them.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:30 PM
2

Don’t worry about coming too strong with the flirting, you’ll know if she’s feeling it with her body language. But my driving point is the girl should be doing most of the talking. Just reading your post you come off as kinda jumpy and anxious. Girls can read that pretty quick, and they’ll feel the same way when hanging out with you. You gotta learn to be calm/chill so that they feel comfortable around you. Ask her a question about herself and make genuine commentary. Once you get those nerves o…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:38 AM
3

Your probably trying to talk too much (because of nerves). Try to listen more and flirt. Keep it simple
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:26 AM
4

You said it yourself, she doesn’t want to be seduced. Attraction isn’t a choice. She probably read that you weren’t sure what you wanted and bailed. I learned a similar lesson recently. But you gotta ask yourself this: do you actually want a relationship before sex? Be honest with yourself then make your intentions known
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:40 PM
2

Begone thot
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:24 PM
4

If she’s cool hang out with her. Just don’t push anything. Nothing wrong with just hanging out if you think it’s worth your time.
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:03 PM
2

How’d she fuck you then?
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:03 PM
9

I also had sex with your first cousin
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:10 AM
43

Some friend. I’d can her that’s pretty disrespectful
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:40 PM
1

I think if you over analyze and try to use literal examples from here it will come off as cheesy/insincere. A lot of the verbal stuff comes from chemistry and banter with your partner. If you feel like saying something in the heat of the moment just say it. Just makes sure it’s coming from an honest place. For example, and easy one is “that’s hot” or “that’s sexy”. But saying that won’t automatically work on any girl, which is my main point. Hope this helps
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:46 AM
1

I didn’t mean it like that. There’s no cut and paste way to do the verbal stuff. Ya just gotta get more experience and learn to do what’s natural
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:19 AM
3

Think of it as a push and pull. Ask her what she likes and tell her what you like. Validate her and say what’s on your mind. Some girls like dirty talk, some don’t. Just have fun with it
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:27 AM
-1

You wish he was trolling
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:38 AM
9

Comparison is the thief of joy. Until you stop, you’re always going to feel inadequate. Part of the inner game process is improving your mentality and realizing that you are good enough, and developing your confidence that way. That’s when game gets easier and you’ll eventually start seeing results. But is takes time and patience man, we’re all working on it so don’t get discouraged
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:12 AM
3

Face palm
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:38 PM
6

Sayys the guy asking how to date models on Reddit
/r/seduction04/02/22 07:54 PM
1

Lmaooo I was joking bro don’t do that
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:34 PM
3

Let me know when you find out
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:28 PM
1

Whip it out
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:17 PM
9

Then change the subject. You gotta take control of the conversation/vibe man or else you’re gunna get friendzoned
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:52 PM
1

Definitely! You’re young so it’ll take some time for you to really lean into your voice. It will change over time. But training is a great idea
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:38 PM
13

Yes. You should be focused on her when you’re with her. Makes you sound kinda insecure and will trigger alarms. What makes her think you won’t say the same stuff about her to the next girl?
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:33 PM
2

Confidence. There’s other factors too like vocal training and genetics (some people develop differently). I used to struggle with the same thing but noticed once I got older and little more confident that my deep voice kinda naturally flowed.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:31 PM
1

I get you, but you’re on a sub for guys who struggle getting women to WANT to have sex with them. And part of that is because men need to get women to that emotional level, through the song and dance you were mentioning. I’m not saying that means pressuring her into something she doesn’t want. I never said that ever. If a guy is doing seduction properly, it’s because he’s assuming attraction, being the man that he is, and letting the girl reciprocate naturally. You’re not giving good advice to g…
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:03 PM
1

Yeah basically
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:37 AM
2

“Coercion”. You know you’re on a seduction sub right? Lmao
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:31 AM
14

You’re probably not smart either
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:26 AM
12

Well then she’s obviously not reciprocating is she smart guy? Listen to what I actually said.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:19 AM
14

I did not say that at all.
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:01 AM
13

Dawg you’re taking what she’s saying at face value a little too much. If you escalate and she reciprocates you’re in the clear (unless obviously she’s saying no; consent always). A lot of girls say they don’t want to be a slut until they’re having sex.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:58 AM
1

I’m not fat, but I’m guessing a “more to love” mindset, with confidence and humor can go a long way. Otherwise just lose weight lol
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:51 PM
2

This is just a personal story, but I lost my virginity at your age. And it was when I hit up a girl that went to another school on Facebook. I’m not saying that’s what you should do, but there’s definitely a lot of girls who are down to explore you just kinda have to hit up as many girls as possible and don’t limit your options to just the girls at your school. Car hookups were definitely more prevalent when I was in high school, but sometimes girls will coordinate a hookup if they are house sit…
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:20 PM
6

💀
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:31 PM
1

Straight up, you just do it
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:21 PM
1

What is that?
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:55 PM
3

Dude posted on like 5 subreddits thinking this is good advice lol
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:49 AM
23

This sounds more like manipulation rather than seduction. Yikes
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:30 AM
3

Deeper issue with them or the guy? Curious to hear your take since I run into similar instances sometimes
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:42 AM
1

Appreciate it.
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:51 PM
2

Thanks for the response! It’s just been 1 long term relationship. But that’s definitely what’s going on in my head. Kinda learning how to date again. Any recommendations on how to approach seeing her? I feel like she kind of caught on to some clinginess, so I feel like I’d have to attract her all over again. I was thinking of cutting ties until she initiates but I don’t think she will honestly But yeah I’ll definitely be trying to meet other girls in the meantime.
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:58 PM
2

Don’t lie bro
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:07 PM
7

You’re missing the point. I’m generalizing on purpose because my driving point is people aren’t always going to be “in the mood” but they can definitely get there with the right approach
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:50 PM
6

I can whip up a better response later since I’m working. But think about it this way: would you want a girl that’s always saying “fuck yes” to everyone? I wouldn’t unless I was just looking for easy girls. Getting a girl to that mindset is part of the game and girls are expecting us to take them there. We’re the dudes and we are supposed to initiate. Girls are wired to want that. Tell me I’m wrong!!
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:07 PM
13

I disagree, and here’s why. I think it’s the guys job to get women to the “fuck yes” mindset. I think we have to be there first. HOWEVER people in general will not always be in that mindset, and you gotta understand that going in. You can’t always expect a girl to be in that mindset, there’s too many variables. I will say though that enthusiasm is an underrated quality that not a lot of girls display in a relationship. So it’s up to you to screen for the type of girls that are as id like to say …
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:56 PM
2

Hey man, I used to have the same issue (although not covid related). I used to have a lot of anxiety and although I still deal with it somewhat, it’s gotten a lot better. But over the years I realized that many peoples perception of you is based on what they can “figure out” about you when examining your behavior in a social setting. This is just a natural thing we do to identify someone’s social identity, and for girls it’s a way to distinguish threats vs sources of comfort/intimacy. I find whe…
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:48 PM
5

This guy gets it. Both genders have their quips but ultimately we all fuckin 😂
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:39 AM
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