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3

Sounds like you’ve already gone on a few dates just make a move dude. Realistically you should make a move on the first date.
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:59 PM
1

Oh, I was talking about in my area, not in this sub lol
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:49 PM
0

Not in my experience lol, but maybe that’s because everyone here is ripped and rich
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:17 PM
2

Money + Job will not magically get you women. I know plenty of dufus guys who make shit, work in lame ass jobs, and don’t have issues with women. It’s all mental.
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:54 PM
2

Eh, she’s sort of rejecting you as a person lol
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:13 PM
5

Lmao they love the “flattered” line
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Agree on the first part - though can it really be suggested that most guys will not take a shot? How then have we perpetuated as a species for so long?
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:11 PM
2

The catch-22
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:50 PM
3

Pretty strange thing to tell people bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:38 PM
2

Thirstier is the word you seek
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:25 PM
3

Yawn. I’ve been happy with myself for nearly a decade. What else you got?
/r/seduction17/05/20 09:08 PM
2

I see your point and I don’t disagree, but usually things aren’t so black and white. There are other factors, for example - who initiated the previous conversation? If it was them, I wouldn’t have any qualms about starting a new one a day or two later even if I was the last person to send a message. Another consideration - if someone claims in their last message that they’ll get back to me, or they’ll keep me posted, etc. I’m not going to nag them for updates. They either update me or they don’t…
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:56 PM
1

It should be 50/50... no? Are we supposed to start double texting every time if we have the last word in the previous conversation?
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:55 PM
1

Easily avoidable ailments
/r/seduction31/03/20 11:35 PM
1

What was the terrible date idea? Don’t leave us hanging.
/r/seduction31/03/20 03:00 PM
16

COVID-19
/r/seduction31/03/20 02:37 PM
4

And during this quarantine? You can’t exactly meet people face to face - and there’s no telling when we will be able to return to normal.
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:29 PM
1

You’d recommend calling someone you’ve never met? Or only met once?
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:24 AM
2

Well in all other areas I am usually praised for a wide variety of traits. In person I get by just fine. It’s the damn text communication that leads nowhere. It’s why I hate using it for any reason other than setting up plans.
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:10 PM
-1

I think I am naturally mysterious, but the more time someone spends with anyone the less mysterious they are. Eventually, you are no longer a mystery. What does that spell in the end?
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:21 PM
1

It’s corona szn
/r/seduction16/03/20 07:20 PM
1

All of them? You must be a wizard.
/r/seduction16/03/20 06:30 PM
2

If someone asks me about jazz you can bet I’m going to talk about Pat Metheny. Sorry to disappoint 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction16/03/20 06:27 PM
-7

Usually they dismiss you before you have the chance, at least on the apps
/r/seduction16/03/20 05:50 PM
12

Lol intuition? More like an innate ability to always be wrong about every assumption.
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:46 PM
2

Those damn Rooks
/r/seduction01/03/20 12:13 PM
37

number 1 is a great way to not be in the mood later
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:46 PM
10

Instagram is just as good as phone number if not better, because you can see their stories and they can see yours.
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:37 PM
1

Is there some kind of device similar to a Geiger counter that can indicate to me the level of interest I should reciprocate? Interested in reading your article once it’s written.
/r/seduction24/02/20 03:56 PM
1

Meanwhile if you don’t show enough interest, you have the same problem. What’s the right amount exactly?
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:13 AM
1

Makes some sense, I suppose. I have many friends and can easily make new friends, whereas I also enjoy my time alone. That said, what has historically been rare, for me, is to have an intimate partner to spend time with, when it’s time for everyone to go home. For the most part, at home - I am alone. Sometimes, you don’t want to be alone. So for that reason, it’s hard for me to sympathize.
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:57 PM
1

Not sure how I missed the point. I understand what you’re saying, but many times I’ve seen contradictions to this claim.
/r/seduction21/02/20 12:33 PM
-1

Lonelier in marriage because they’re used to getting around the city, unbelievable They never know the same loneliness as men
/r/seduction21/02/20 12:29 PM
3

Lol bro I’m not familiar with many “dead beat baby daddies” with athletic bodies and strength.
/r/seduction21/02/20 12:23 PM
5

Lol, I guess they must not like me very much
/r/seduction21/02/20 12:19 PM
5

Well if you ever end up buying art you might have to hold the frame in order to hang it on the wall
/r/seduction21/02/20 12:18 PM
2

Lol you can approach, and they can seem interested and give you their information, at which point you’ll never hear from em again.
/r/seduction05/02/20 07:14 PM
1

I hear ya brotha. Been there, done that. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Just have to move on to the next one.
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:06 PM
4

I’m gonna be straight with you and suggest that maybe the card is what did you in. Even if a chick is into you, getting heavy with the emotions prior to hooking up with them (let alone before fucking) will often derail the train. Gotta keep your cards closer to the chest.
/r/seduction26/01/20 03:40 AM
0

Ha! Came here to say this. Seems he doesn’t have the mental capacity to learn how to spell.
/r/seduction14/01/20 03:55 PM
1

Those two things are the same thing Someone who doesn’t care what other people thinks of them = someone who is their authentic self no matter what. That’s literally the definition.
/r/seduction12/01/20 01:46 PM
3

Authentic men are authentic because they don’t give a fuck. Once I was with a girl who was talking shit about elevator music, well, I happen to like elevator music and I said it right then and there. What do you know... she loved it
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:26 PM
1

At some point you’ll have to display some form of interest if you’re ever going to get anywhere. If you’re not going to check them out, then why would you talk to them? Just because someone’s got a hot ass doesn’t mean you “care” if you succeed with them or not.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:24 PM
2

Whenever my ex-gf and I would go to expensive restaurants, we would always joke that I was simply inviting her to my dinner that I would have gone to regardless. That said, I’m not going to pay hundreds of dollars for someone I’ve just met. They have to earn it.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:21 PM
7

It’s a catch-22, because when you aren’t interested, they are - which is not satisfying because... you aren’t interested. When you are interested - they aren’t. Jokes on them though because we can simply pretend not to be interested, and they fall for it every time. Then they pursue and pursue until you finally decide to drop them. Checkmate.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:37 PM
6

Porn is definitely unrealistic and as much as I liked watching I decided to completely stop a while back. Went from looking at it 3-4 times a week (hours at a time - sometimes more) to not at all for several months. I have periodically watched some here and there since and I find I don’t care much for it any more, and quitting was pretty easy. Ultimately it is an addiction that most men cope with.
/r/seduction09/01/20 03:14 PM
1

Check ‘em when you want. Don’t when you’re busy or don’t wanna.
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:03 PM
1

Very true. This way, at least you accomplish something, because women also rarely will call / text second as well.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:04 AM
1

Nice, though what did you say that was so funny?
/r/seduction12/12/19 08:36 AM
1

Ha, reading that actually cheered me up. Thanks :D
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:20 AM
1

Pardon the lengthy reply. Well, the 30-45 minute stories are reserved for special occasions and are usually told upon request (friends who've heard them will suggest/beg me to tell them in front of new friends). Just some ridiculous events that occurred in the past. They're fun, and interactive to a degree. They're long because I have to appropriately set the scene, and often times I'll end up going on tangents when the story leads to them. Most of the time, it's not even really the story that p…
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:51 AM
2

Thanks. I haven't read Models yet. I was planning on reading it. Seems like some guys never need to read a book like that. I try to treat Women like everyone else. For years I never made a move on any of them. I made a lot of friends, but I never achieved anything closer than that. While I don't feel as though I live with a constant ulterior motive to sleep with every woman I encounter, at some point, I would like to get to know someone more closely. You seem to be right, they can tell, and it d…
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:09 AM
1

I'm aware of how I sound on Reddit. Why do you think I hate texting so much. When I talk, people listen. That's a fact. You'd probably even like me if you met me.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:53 AM
4

Your definition of "put my self out there" and "ultra-confident" must be different than mine, because I think I embody both those things, and my experience is vastly different than yours. I don't want one woman, I want what you have experienced. Unfortunately I don't live in a city, and the city girls don't like that.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:45 AM
2

Girls have been sleeping with guys since their day’s in high school Would have been nice to have been included in that
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:32 AM
1

I’ll keep hitting the gym, it’s the winter now - not so easy to display the gunz. I think I look pretty good these days, I’ve got visible abs, though my frame is still on the thinner side. I have gained a good amount of weight over the last 6 months though. Progressing at the gym, I know how to do. Progressing with women, I really have no idea. Thanks for your time.
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:18 AM
1

I’m not that young, I’m in my mid 20s. You’re not wrong though, I’ve always been more mature than most people my age. When my friends were drinking bud lights I was out buying high end wine glassware. I enjoy house parties and the like, usually if we end up telling stories, I can keep a group of strangers enticed in one for 30-45 minutes with plenty of laughs, which usually results in requests for more. Now those sorts of opportunities don’t really seem to present themselves that often anymore, …
/r/seduction10/12/19 06:12 AM
-7

Eh, I wouldn’t say I’m struggling. Had one just recently. Doesn’t stop the majority from flaking or ignoring.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:56 AM
1

It’s BS really. They make things far too difficult. Women always want me until I want them back, at which point things never go anywhere, and believe me, I don’t “smother the fire”. Something simple like asking them out for a drink, as you suggest, and I never hear from them again. Ridiculous.
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:23 AM
1

Thanks, I’m sure I’m not as great as I think I am, but then again, knowing that I possess that knowledge, maybe my idea of how I am perceived by others is fairly accurate. Thanks for the gym advice, I see it on here often. I am more dedicated to the gym than 90% of people I know. I try to go every day, but I go no less than 5 days a week, and I am usually there for 2-3 hours. I have done this consistently for over 6 months, and the improvement has been noticeable. Even before that, I was approac…
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:08 AM
2

Yeah, I don’t disagree. I’m not trying to be an asshole, I think sometimes I just find it hard to contain my negativity. I don’t consider myself a pessimist, really. Though I will be the first to admit that when I’m in a bad mood, I can be unpleasant to be around. I have definitely learned to take things less personally over the years, but I think I still have a ways to go. I’m not even talking about when it comes to women. Just life in general. There are some extenuating circumstances I’ve been…
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:44 AM
-10

Eh, it’s more of a recent development. When you constantly receive years worth of unsolicited praise from friends and strangers alike about how funny, interesting, intelligent, well dressed, and well spoken you are - and have nothing to show for it... at some point, you become an asshole. Then again, aren’t we constantly told that’s who people gravitate towards? Another lie.
/r/seduction10/12/19 02:59 AM
-38

Yawn. Been there done that. My presence commands attention, respect and admiration from those who know me, but in this arena it gets me nowhere. There is clearly more to it than this.
/r/seduction10/12/19 02:50 AM
1

First I’ve heard someone say that. Oh well.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:48 AM
1

I know you’re not supposed to always swipe right. Honestly there was a point in time where I did that (years ago) and I’m still using that same profile. I wonder if even after all this time my ELO is still screwed. Maybe I should delete the account and restart.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:44 AM
2

Easy. Do they respect you? No? Then they can buy their own drink.
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:37 AM
1

Evidently. I’d be curious to know your strategy. I am lucky to get 1 or 2 matches a week. Then again, the other apps seem to have more activity in my area. Still, I should have better results.
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:55 AM
3

100 a week? That’s a lot. Are you male or female?
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:40 AM
2

Yeah, I’ve got one friend who has become the flakiest guy ever over the last few years. I rarely message him anymore. We only hang out when I run into him. He has this reputation across our entire friend group. We tried to have an “intervention” for him, but tough to get people to change their ways. He’s also really good with women, probably because he’s a flaky prick.
/r/seduction09/12/19 02:55 AM
3

Yeah it’s bad. She seems selfish. By all means go out with her again and see if she continues the same behavior.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:46 PM
3

You already know the answer or you wouldn’t be here
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:26 PM
1

Seems like they consciously think that way sometimes
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:18 PM
6

Bro, don’t describe people as “points above you”. No one is above me. I have accomplished more in my time than 90% of people my age. That’s not to say I haven’t also failed miserably. Failure is the worlds greatest teacher. Everyone is unique and has their own set of skills that can be entirely different than yours or mine. There is no objective point system, certainly not one based on looks (well, unless you’re obese or something). Your “league” is what you define it to be, and only YOU restric…
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:29 PM
1

What the fuck did I just watch? This dude goes from a power walk to a full on sprint like an early model Terminator honing in on a target, jumps and does a 180 and delivers the worst pick-up line in history “I’m not being rude, you look quite fun to talk to”. Yikes
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:03 PM
55

Seems like this is 90% of people and I find it very unattractive. I lose interest at the first sign of these things. I’ll stop pursuing just like that.
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:11 PM
1

I guess it’s unfortunate there are so many losers out there that will do that shit.
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:07 PM
1

Oh I approach, and have been approached myself. Approached today as a matter of fact. I have no issues doing so. What I take issue with is when they start to act all slimy afterwards. If you aren’t interested, don’t give me your number and quit playing games! I really don’t have time for it! Much to do! Places to go, people to see!
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:44 AM
2

Nice. When I have interactions like this, I’ll get the digits and never hear from them again.
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:08 AM
1

Subconsciously wants to see how I react to rejection? That’s preposterous. I see no evolutionary benefit for such behavior. If a girl is going to give me a rejection test (depending how overt it is) I will just assume she’s disinterested, laugh it off, and move on. Ain’t nobody got time for games like that. If they are so fueled by drama, they should stick to watching HBO.
/r/seduction08/12/19 08:00 AM
1

Wait what? Not sure we’re on the same page. I’m saying, I’d a chick is into you, and you are into her, and you suggest going to your place/her place whatever, why would she start making yo excuses if in fact, she does want to go with you? Side note: must be nice for them to have their pick of the litter. Life must be so easy.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:53 AM
1

I don’t think I would
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:42 AM
2

He’s full of shit!
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:49 AM
0

So stupid, they should just drop the excuses and go if that’s what they want.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:49 AM
4

I had actually thought of an interesting concept. A software that could take your writing samples (for example, perhaps pulling from Reddit comments, etc.) such that it can intelligently create responses that read similarly to how you might write. The second aspect would consist of analyzing large datasets of tinder/hinge/bumble message activity (not restricted to any one person, but as much data as possible). This way one can perform analytics to identify successful message strategies vs. unsuc…
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:35 PM
3

I can do this, I will look into it. Maybe I’ll even make a premium product out of it.
/r/seduction05/12/19 04:41 PM
1

Step 1. Be an asset manager 😂
/r/seduction04/12/19 09:39 PM
9

Agreed.
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:10 AM
1

No one should try and interrupt a perfectly fine relationship. It’s none of your business. I’d say the rest of the post is good.
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:13 AM
1

Must be nice to have your own place
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:06 AM
11

Seriously this dude sounds like the wettest towel.
/r/seduction29/11/19 10:42 PM
1

Oh it was the last day? Didn’t catch that. Well, maybe he can still swing it if he acts quickly.
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:06 PM
1

Fast track to friend-zone based on what...
/r/seduction27/11/19 04:46 PM
1

It’s what Jeb Bush didn’t have
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:51 PM
1

I like that. I’ll give it a shot.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:35 AM
1

K. Hmm. So just to clarify - I should NOT be texting even after a proper first date letting them know I had a good time? And instead wait a few days and make, as you say, ACTUAL plans? Because the only difference between what you’re suggesting, and what I’ve been doing - is the “nice to meet” message. Again - I’m not chomping at the bit to send those, just figured it was common practice. Surely I read somewhere to do that, otherwise I wouldn’t have been doing so. Say I receive a message like tha…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:56 AM
1

Make plans? At 3:00 AM? I had intended to make plans later in the week. You know... wait a few days. I had considered the message a sign off for the evening. I usually after a date (and in all fairness, in this instance it was not a date - but an extended hang out nonetheless) to just let them know I had a good time. Now to make plans so soon, I can see how that would be too eager. Look guys, I’m open to advice here because I frankly don’t know the rules. Saying I had a good time lays my cards o…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:49 AM
1

Ha! Firstly it was a long night out at the bar. And I simply sent a “nice to meet let’s hang again soon” to be polite. After all we spent a good few hours in each other’s company and she said to text her, so I did.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:38 AM
1

Frankly it’s always personal. They decided against seeing you - the person. Whether we choose to place significance on the opinion of someone with poor taste is another matter. Take responsibility? Generally I fucked up? Nonsense. My most egregious offense would be texting a bit soon (having had a number drinks), and that’s enough to do me in? If that’s the case, I would think instead that it is they who have fucked up by missing the opportunity to get involved with me. Now I’m not against self …
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:12 AM
1

Is it advisable to offer flakes second chances? I worry that leaving the door open to meeting after they decide to flake is inherently disrespectful to oneself. Typically when a girl flakes, I lose all interest in them. That said, I like to take the high road. For example, one said last minute that she woke up sick. Absolutely ridiculous tall-tale. But hey, I didn’t really care so much to meet her in the first place, but I’m a man true to my convictions. I simply said to her, “No worries, anothe…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:06 AM
1

That was me up until a few weeks ago. I look forward to returning to an office setting.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:00 AM
5

Yawn. Lame advice. Been there - done that. How exactly does that help?
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:59 AM
1

“I stopped you because I like blonde girls so I want to take you home” ...what?!
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:50 AM
1

OP is a chick
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:16 PM
4

90% of people are more interesting than him based on what?
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:05 PM
5

Has that ever worked?
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:02 PM
2

Text is where I lose. Always. How is the right way to go about it?
/r/seduction18/11/19 12:14 AM
3

Ah, I just never would have thought to ask that on a first date. If someone is going out with me, I wouldn’t have assumed they’d be in anything serious with anyone else (of course I would expect them to be seeing other people, just not seriously) I do like those sorts of questions - just looking to improve. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/11/19 04:31 PM
2

“Do you have anything serious in your life right now?” What is meant by this question? Seems pretty broad.
/r/seduction17/11/19 04:23 PM
1

Let me know how that works out for you 😂
/r/seduction14/11/19 11:53 PM
10

Asking if they’re willing to cheat sounds sleazy
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:13 PM
7

I saw that - there were some responses that contradict much of what we read here. Though, you wouldn’t ask a fish how to catch one, right? Remember that these Reddit women aren’t really a good representation of women in general.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:16 PM
5

Well, I’m a male so no, but I don’t think they are as marginalized as they seem to think
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:10 PM
8

It should be pretty easy based on how many times I come across Asian guys complaining they are marginalized and that women don’t find them attractive.
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:53 PM
1

Your mature response tells me you’ve got the right attitude! You’ll do great man
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:07 AM
1

How much tax return lol
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:04 AM
6

Then the game I shall play 😉😎
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:11 PM
2

They don’t want an interview, they want excitement? Is my job to entertain others? Well, I want excitement too, who’s going to excite me? Must I do all the work? The girls seem to looove interviewing me.
/r/seduction06/11/19 04:49 PM
6

As I start to see more progress with women, I am glad that I don’t have any of these other problems. What I do have is a deep financial hole to dig myself out of, which I will. Best of luck to everyone.
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:22 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:34 AM
1

Surely, at some point in the evening, if you’re chatting up some chick, you think to yourself, “hey, I should try and see where this goes”. You’re a human male, are you not? You say you aren’t “trying” but surely you’re “doing” something to succeed. Enlighten us.
/r/seduction30/10/19 04:19 AM
1

And why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who demonstrates early on that they are incapable of basic communication?
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:38 PM
1

I did precisely that, and received no reply to my follow up. It’s pretty rude, I’d rather they be up front. And frankly, there’s no way she knew enough about me to make an educated decision about me, nor me her. I’d like to think if you had a decent time, a second date would make sense.
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:20 PM
2

Bro, what’s the problem here. Seems like everything went fine. Be glad.
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:54 PM
1

I certainly ain’t ugly, I just don’t get how some people go out to a bar and literally bring strangers home
/r/seduction29/10/19 05:26 AM
2

I think for the most part I am skilled in most areas of social interaction. I'm just not good when it comes to women. Never have been, have never really attempted to be until recently. I don't have a problem talking to them or anything, but I have rarely made moves toward anyone, that's what I'm trying to change. I've been reading a lot of advice on this and other subs, mostly relating to overall personality traits - and they all more or less amount to things I have always done, and do naturally…
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:40 PM
1

Enlighten me, I'd say I'm all of these things.
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:31 PM
1

I've noticed this too. It's the "simpletons" that seem to have the most success with this stuff. Sometimes I envy how easy things are for them with women, but at the same time, I would never want to be any of them. I would rather die alone than be such a 2 dimensional person.
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:31 PM
1

What do people mean by "Dress Better"? It seems to be a very subjective term. I would think that any bar I walk into I am one of the better dressed people in the room. I might have a similar style as others in there, certainly nothing that stands out like crazy, you know - A nice blazer, nice pants, nice button down shirt. All well fitting, and quite expensive. I like how I look, and I receive compliments - in fact, I often need to debate whether or not to wear such clothes to the rowdy establis…
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:00 PM
1

Hm, I’ll go out to restaurant bars alone sometimes and just chill, though I’ve never gone to “bars” or “clubs” alone, though I suppose it’d be sort of the same thing. Usually I’ll talk to the bartender(s) and sometimes I’ll run into people I know. Maybe chat a bit with the others at the bar, but that’s about it. I’d be curious to give it a go at some of the more happening spots.
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:25 PM
10

Today there was a cute chick outside of the sandwich shop with a dog. When I left the sandwich shop, I stopped and pet the dog and said hi, smiled and then left. Quick and easy. Give it a try.
/r/seduction22/10/19 08:50 PM
1

Ah yes, I should start watching HGTV and Grey’s Anatomy. Of course I take part in other activities like running, going to the gym, going to bars, reading, wine/food tastings, going to museums, etc. Though seems like most women I know have mostly “female” hobbies where the day-to-day is concerned. I’ll also add that I knew a guy from my old job. He was the cringiest motherfucker on the planet, and he would do all sorts of yoga stuff, etc. just to be around women (I think). Either way, didn’t work…
/r/seduction16/10/19 01:42 PM
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I hear ya, I have yet to meet a single woman who is into music production (at least the entire start to finish process of creating a track.. not just singing into a microphone or "DJing"). I've certainly met no woman who knows the first thing about synthesizers/samplers.
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:41 AM
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hmm, I find this one interesting. The other day I ran into some guy at a bar that I had met maybe 2-3 years prior - that being the one and only other time I had encountered that individual. I must have made a lasting impression (I always do) because even after all of that time, he recalled my name. And yet - I'm still single, so there's that too.
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:38 AM
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I’ll say I give maybe 1/2 of a fuck right now, and maybe that’s the issue. I am that guy when it comes to all other aspects of life. Work, friends, etc. people enjoy my presence and tell me all of the time unsolicited. I’m invited to nearly everything. I think my issue comes down to 1. Needing to move the hell out of my current area, and 2. Giving less of a fuck when it comes to strangers. Hey, it’s nice you’re with 6 different chicks, and easy to Snapchat and show that, but when you’re me and y…
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:56 PM
2

These days, sure yeah. If she notices, might even crack a bit of a smirk. I’m also making sure to look people dead in the eye. I have no problem with it.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:48 PM
1

Well, surely this was the case in the past, and it’s what I’m actively attempting to change. The area I live currently is not great for dating in general. Most people are much older than me, and the rest seem quite lame. The city is surely better, but seems most people there aren’t interested if you don’t live there. Trying to move there soon.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:40 PM
13

I AM that guy. It doesn’t translate to hookups / relationships in my experience. Surely there are things I haven’t done in the past I am now trying to do in order to escalate, but I think there’s more to these interactions then just being “that guy”.
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:26 PM
2

In my case the apps have probably made things worse. Can’t get anyone to meet up except for one girl and it didn’t go anywhere. I think my area is not great for them.
/r/seduction08/10/19 05:01 PM
1

I thought it would be a nice romantic letter, then I started reading it and honestly I would crumple it up and throw it in the trash. It reads very strangely and makes ME uncomfortable. How do you think it will make HER feel? A romantic, poetic letter to someone you know well is a different story. Also the somewhat smart line? Yikes! That’s insulting and you know it!
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:01 AM
1

True - my baseline weight is around 130lbs, and that’s from not having many meals a day and not exercising. I have likely gained 10+ pounds (need to weigh myself actually) in the last 2 months alone just from having begun drinking a lot of protein shakes and lifting/exercising almost every day for 2-3 hours.
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:58 AM
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Lol, it would be great to receive a text like that! The last girl told me she was “getting furniture delivered and won’t be available” Offered no alternative. It was pretty clear then lol but figured I’d at least suggest some time the following week. Crickets. No worries! Honestly wasn’t my best performance on our date - it was my first since becoming single again.
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:37 AM
1

Time to rise to the challenge then
/r/seduction01/10/19 08:59 PM
2

I was thinking about this the other day. And yet, as easy as it is for them, some things are probably easier for us in our lives. Work, money, and other important things.
/r/seduction01/10/19 07:08 PM
2

I’ve got something similar going on, let’s see what happens
/r/seduction01/10/19 05:13 AM
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