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RageNPlay/r/askTRP10/09/17 10:44 PM
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As already mentioned.. A girl with genuine desire for you will understand that you have needs. Just because she's got medical issues for penetrative sex doesn't mean she can't satisfy your needs in other ways. If she's not saying it's fine to smash other chicks or giving you head/hj, she's purposefully ignoring your needs. So, ask yourself if you would stay with a girl who doesn't respect or genuinely care for you. Cool.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:51 AM
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Honest answer: why does it matter? Texting is not the only way you communicate with girls right? I don't think you should even care as an alpha man. And surprise surprise, she won't care either if you've shown her you're someone who's worth a shit. Then you can spam all the emojis you want, which still shouldn't be much because if you're texting her, you aren't having sex or improving yourself
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:51 PM
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I think you got a few options that'll drastically improve your life. Option 1, as already seen, join the military. Air Force if you can get it. They'll probably value you a bit more if you have a degree. Option 2, start applying for jobs overseas with an authorized federal contractor. It'll give you similar opportunities as the military, but with a lot more freedom and a much higher annual salary. Both are good options, but contract work is probably better if you want to wipe out the debt as qui…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 04:25 PM
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Honestly, I think it's easier to smash a chick who can't speak your language. Google translate and hand signs are all you need. There's just a point where if you can't speak to them, you can't really progress. And that point is after smashing a few times. Source: Me in central america. Literally, Google translating a lay in a nearby city for next weekend. AWALT ever present. As for your question: you never need to worry about the effort you're exerting if you're always working on multiple girls.…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:29 AM
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<18: In US, did some side stuff working on computers throughout highschool. 18-22: After highschool, started college majoring in IT, focus in database administration. 18-22: 4 months later I started working at the good ole BestBuy in Geek Squad. I worked there for 4 years, full time and part time throughout college. Also had a short internship as a content management specialist. 23-24: After college graduation, it took a few months but I ended up working for my school county desktop support team…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:50 PM
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I got in luckily by applying for a position in a country no one was interested in moving to. The money is good, but I've found my workload is too light. I want something more busy, so after making a good impression I'm going to transfer. Don't use indeed. That's step one. Most good contractor companies have their own recruiters, so you get a shoe in if you apply on the company website first. Model your resume and work experience after the job description too. Most recruiters go by keywords. Obvi…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:18 PM
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So, I work in IT outside the states and I make very very good money mostly due to work locations in areas considered high risk. BUT, I work specifically with aviation guys, like mechanics, electricians and sheet metal guys. All these guys make more than me by about 3 dollars an hour. Aviation will never go away. My point is, pick something that can't necessarily be automated easily and go into contracting outside the states. Good money and you get to see the world. I plan to retire before 40. I …
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:26 PM
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Anything other than 'Fuck yes' or an offer to reschedule = NO.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:47 PM
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Tell your doctor the device didn't work then tell your folks. Next, some other questions. Feeling lethargic and tired has been something I've been dealing with for the better part of the last 5 years. Get your testosterone levels checked. Look into B12 and Iron deficiency Ask your doctor for Provigil. If he says no, you can order some generic Modvigil online. The medication won't fix your sleep issues or your potentially low test (if that's the problem), BUT you will at least feel awake and focu…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:29 PM
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You sound exactly like me. I went through the same thing maybe 2-3 years ago. You need short term goals and long term goals. (A mission) For example, I just got hired into a job in a foreign country and I'm making double what I was before. That was the first priority. So, now I can save money and build savings. I want to buy a small plane to fly for vacations and traveling later. That's more long term. For the time being, I want to improve my size so I'm working towards gaining muscle. I've gain…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:10 PM
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I was level 1 tech support last year, before that I worked in geek squad for 4 years. My background is IT and my degree is compsci. However, IMO the money and really fun opportunities come from getting certifications like sec+ and net+ (for starters) and then looking into contractor companies. Most require Security+ at minimum and almost all offer cool new work environments and good pay. As I said, last year I was level 1, this year and a certification or two later, I'm in a 3rd world country an…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:04 AM
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I don't know how old you are, but kissing is really kind of a joke. It's not hard and you get good very quickly. It's also 100% possible to fake it. Either find a shy girl or find any girl at all and if she says anything about your kissing, tell her most chicks you've been with don't like to do it. This can be interpreted in a few ways that could help you. Just don't say anything more than that. Good luck. P.S. you put your slightly open lips on her lips. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:36 AM
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It sounds like you're really gauging your success on lays, because comparatively speaking, you feel unsuccessful in other areas of your life. Do you really know if these other people are happy? I know a lot of chicks and dudes that show off happy lives on social media that have miserable lives outside of it. I'm talking debt, student loans, live with parents, barely own anything, stuck in shitty job, depressed, borrow money from parents. These people are not happy or working on themselves at all…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:44 AM
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Yo. This is not a date. It's a lunch with friends. And you're one of the friends. Just say no thanks or something came up and game other chicks.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 01:27 AM
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I'm in the same boat. So I'm eager to see what others say. If I had to guess, I'd say it's part of the acceptance step. It happens because your old worldview comes crashing down.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:30 AM
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Traveling is a good idea. It can help you make some discoveries, maybe learn something new about yourself. Honestly though, you need to fix that social anxiety before you travel. Traveling and being completely open to starting random conversations with passerbys is a lot healthier than traveling while closed off. That sort of thing could give you some regrets later. So get that figured out. If you need some tips for breaking that shell, talk at bars to the bartenders, talk to randoms sitting nex…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:03 AM
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Tell her you want to climb her like a tree. You can't change your height buddy. So, own that shit.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:41 PM
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Definitely happier. It's impossible to be happy when you're living the blue fantasy and making your mission in life about other people. It's empty. I remember thinking that I'd be happy if I could just find someone who could understand me. I was almost excited to think that by being empathetic and trying to shoulder everyone's pains and problems I'd be rewarded and respected. What a joke. Thank God I got a taste of "No one gives a fuck" from people I thought respected and valued me. Once your ha…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:12 AM
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You're over thinking all of this man. I don't think you need to cold hard turkey this sub or anything, but you need to take vacation or a few days off and just do something fun. I used to think the same way and really over analyze myself. And I still do sometimes. To change that I started asking myself questions like, "What can I do in this moment to address this?" If the answer is nothing because it's outside the realm of my control or if anything I could do might make it worse, I just stop thi…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:53 AM
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Highly recommend eating a lot more. At night make a turkey sandwich like after dinner but before bed. Hit the gym and just like the other guy said do a full body routine. Also take a teaspoon of creatine before you hit the gym when you go. I gained about 20 pounds in 2 weeks doing this - mostly water weight, but it later converted to muscle and I didn't look like a shit twig in the meantime.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:31 PM
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The only true answer.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:01 PM
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I think if you apply what you learn here you'll find that the only limiting factor is yourself.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:33 PM
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It's not hard. What do you mean?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:01 PM
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We're competing with other guys our entire lives. If you have an opportunity to make more money and live a potentially happier life, you should take it. Your concern is pretty stupid imo. Go where the money is.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:18 AM
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I used to get a lot of shit from one of my buddies cause he'd always say, "just be yourself man, people will like you anyway." Worst advice ever. Theres nothing wrong with being authentic, but here's a good one: do you say "just be yourself" to a morbidly fat person? What about someone with a self destructive lifestyle? Of course not. The way I see it if you aren't living your life to be the best version of yourself, you are living a self destructive lifestyle. OP: DGAF carry on bro.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:02 AM
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I'd probably evaluate myself because a girl that says that to you does not respect you or care how she comes off to you. It's a red flag regardless. If she talks about other guys she's fucked so openly, you should also expect her to talk about you in the same way. Edit: RIP your buddy. He needs red pill Jesus.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:25 AM
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I was homeschooled k-12. Go to school. Talk to girls. Participate in activities. My biggest regret in being homeschooled was the lack of outdoor activities and stuff. I don’t agree that you’re more socially awkward if you’re homeschooled, though that can happen. I think the high school “shitshow” is a necessary life experience. I wish I had gone through it. But I fucked up a lot things to make up for that and learned anyway. But you know how it is. Grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:48 AM
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This is very hard to read. Regardless of who he is to her, if she crosses a boundary you should take action. Don't let that shit slide. If no boundaries were crossed, you need to get frame, because it sounds like you're in her frame. All this concern certainly shows that. Work on yourself and make that call about boundaries. If you end up sticking it out, the easiest way to deal with blue pill tampon boys is to act like they don't matter. Refer to him as her "boyfriend", say he seems like a good…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:37 AM
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Here’s another tip. Don’t have regrets. Take chances on approaching and go for kisses when you think you have a chance. You can’t have regrets on missed opportunities if you take every opportunity.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:18 PM
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This
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:00 AM
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I know what you mean. That balance can be hard, but you’re right to be shifting to the indifferent end rather than the caring tampon end. You need to look into push-pull techniques. You have to show some interest and dangle a carrot for them otherwise they just leave, like you’ve mentioned has happened already.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:57 AM
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Solid. I think your response was totally fine. Funny how in her drunken state she responded like that and felt bad she couldn’t finish you off vs feeling like she was used and regretting it. She probably finds you attractive and your frame is good. If you were a pussy, that could have ended with a restraining order or something. I’d say keep doing what you’re doing, being indifferent and holding frame.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:32 AM
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My aha moment was googling “why can’t I stop thinking about this girl” I recall oneitis being thrown around a lot, and googling that brought me here. I spent days reading everything. My entire blue pill world collapsed. Went through anger phase and some depression. Then I realized how ignorant I was thinking I could control other people. So I stopped giving a fuck and started putting myself first. And I have put myself first ever since. I won’t ever forget how angry and depressed the realization…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:10 AM
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I see. So you want closure for a missed opportunity. I think it’s really important to live with no regrets. Take one more stand if it means you can have peace, but don’t expect to get anything out of it. Once chicks see you’re a pussy they don’t ever change that image unless you go through incredible social value change or get huge. If I were you, I’d not block her, but I’d stop responding to her and seeking her out. Id use that missed opportunity to fuel my gym workout. I’d approach other girls…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:34 PM
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Been there. Let me save you some trouble and heartache. Do yourself a favor and block her on everything. Whenever you come in contact just smile or nod and be indifferent. That’s it. You are giving this girl the power to control you by being so obsessed. You might be thinking to yourself, “if I just do x, I could probably get her to sleep with me.” But that very thought is flawed. You can’t control anyone. Especially women. They will lead you on for validation and attention and then go fuck some…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:17 PM
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Well reasoned. I spent a lot of time mulling over that reply. I think that it makes a lot of sense if it’s in the BEST INTEREST of a future family. But only then. Personally I’d never settle for a super ugly girl even if she has really good family values... but, an Hb6 that follows my lead and lives a healthy lifestyle to become better looking would be cool though. I think it could be really cool to watch a girl become so obsessed with you that she dramatically increases her value, whether it’s …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:55 AM
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So I’ve seen this too. It’s a good question. I think there’s a few factors: Lifting does not mean you are alpha. We know that lifting is part of bettering yourself but the two are not mutually inclusive. So, maybe you see muscular guys lifting, but they fail shit tests and act like pussys underneath that muscle. Maybe the two were dating before the guy started working out, so he looks better now, but at the time she was the best he could do. Maybe she looked good before but as he went on his cru…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:45 PM
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On the texting side, just taking longer to respond accomplishes this. To be honest, the other side is just being more busy. We as men tend to get overly invested in girls and we lose parts of our drive and time as a result of that. You have to remember that any woman you are talking to is a sidepiece to your amazing life. So, if you're missing that "amazing" part of your life. You need to get it. Learn a new hobby like a language, take up boxing, go to the gym more frequently, pursue hobbies you…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:42 PM
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She may suspect that your open availability for sex means you do not have anyone else in your life. You should be less available and maybe game other girls on the side. (not to say you aren't doing that, but if you are, you're doing a shit job at "hinting" at it.) Hopefully you get where I am coming from, if not just ask and I can clarify. I am interpreting your question assuming you are trying to plate this girl or vet for a relationship months later.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:13 PM
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ok
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:09 PM
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It’s not just asking questions. Asking questions is certainly a part of it though. You must display high confidence, pay attention to her, and also ask questions. Remember that conversations involve two people contributing. So never feel like it is ONLY YOUR obligation to drive conversation. If you carry that state of mind, your conversations will not seem authentic and you might come off as nervous or insincere. By presenting high confidence and listening, she will end up contributing more to t…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:11 AM
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Yeah that’s the joke. That’s fine. Don’t take my advice. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:57 PM
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Lol, did you like that? Funny right? Back to your post though. Based on your garbage fire, they don’t seem to have any interest in you. Cut your losses and work on yourself with a different social group. Improve your game.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:49 PM
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I feel like this is a troll. In the event it’s not and you’re just retarded, here’s my advice. She’s using you, the both of them like drama and you’re so weak you’re overflowing with it. Tbh, cut em off and talk to other people. Do some more reading so you can identify what I’m talking about instead of puking text like this. Good luck. Edited.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:40 PM
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Right on bro. Definitely. If you end up just sitting by yourself at home cause you’re not busy, find something to do you know? Hit the gym or go for a run (if you’re not somewhere you can mugged or shot), maybe play some games to treat yourself, or go to a bar and challenge some strangers to pool. Don’t think “sucks she wasn’t part of my evening” think “she’s missing out, oh well” because your life is that fucking awesome.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:55 AM
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Don’t do either. You already know what to do. If you’re positive she didn’t forget or anything.. Soft next. Best way to burn a girl or punish bad behavior is just pretend they don’t exist and have fun doing something else. Edit: Having already sent a confirmation text within 24 hours, sending anything else just seems kinda pathetic. Tom wouldn’t care, he’d go on with his day and make other plans with other people. It’s frustrating to see posts like yours asking for other answers as if your situa…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:40 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:42 PM
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You’ll look like an idiot if you try to always say the right thing at the right time. Once you apply yourself and train mind and body, you won’t need to worry about “foresight” since it becomes second nature - AKA going with the flow.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:46 PM
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You got this man. If you end up fucking this up you’ll know what to do better the next time. Failure is a prerequisite for success. If you haven’t failed, you haven’t ever really succeeded. We’re all on here because we failed in one way or another. The bottom line here is you need to give less fucks. When I say give less fucks I don’t mean “care less” that she’s done this with someone while in a relationship and still pursue her, I mean care about her less completely. Think about this, she was i…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:22 PM
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Read the sidebar and search the reddit next time. You could have answered this easily with a search or a read. For your question, maybe - maybe not. Who cares? Look at yourself caring about a girl you barely know “cheating” or doing “shady” shit. Did you two agree to exclusivity? Bone her yet? You said she’s invested in you, but it sounds more like you’re her orbiter who’s too invested. Bitch please.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 09:47 PM
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I think that’s a misunderstanding on bro sciences part. Lifting doesn’t help per say, but if you had lower levels due to being overweight and a shitty diet. Hitting the gym to “fix” that could help to restore T levels. Theory crafting here. Lol
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:13 PM
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You’ll get mixed answers about that here. The real answer is yes, but don’t get used as a tampon. It’s good to expand social circles, especially when it can help you find more attractive chicks (aka her friends). Just understand that there are real repercussions for you personally if you get “invested” as a friend, and you might get socially ousted if things go south with a hookup.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:13 PM
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Check the tinder subreddit. Great lines on there.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:42 AM
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Have a little respect for yourself. Go with a next and wait for her to contact you, when she does, say you want to focus on yourself and that she deserves better. Cut it off, continue going to the gym, ghost and block, and talk to other girls. It’s time to get your life back in order and recenter your focus on yourself. Edit: As far as cheating.. trp is amoral.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:38 AM
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Even the blue-est of pill cucks face the wrath of spiteful woman’s scorn. The most you can really do is play the game you’ve been practicing thus far and ghost at first sign of a red flag. Some people might recommend recording audio or video in your home. Illegal, but debatable I guess.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:49 AM
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He gave you good advice. As far as the gym membership deal, if you can’t afford even the lowest tier, which is blasphemous, at least get a pull up bar and do 50 pull ups (alternating hand width) and 100 push ups every day. It’s no gym but it’ll build up your back, shoulders, chest, and arms a bit. That’s how I started before the gym.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:40 AM
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Scam. Your body and attitude are the only pheromones you need.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 12:14 AM
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Chad exemplifies the qualities and traits that we as men should strive for. Leads to a happier life, richer lifestyle, more often unintentional respect, and better personhood. Chad isn’t a name as much as a proven lifestyle or something. So you should want it. But you’re right. I don’t know you and I don’t want to. So you do you boo boo.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 07:32 PM
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Here’s the problem, you say you’ve read the sidebar and you lift, but not knowing what amused mastery is and the insecurity dripping from this reply and your main post say otherwise. What would chad do? He would either have a witty comeback or amused mastery and more importantly: he would give ZERO fucks about what other people say or think and he definitely wouldn’t be thinking about comebacks an hour later. So stop caring, who gives a fuck? That’s the best comeback. Girls shit test, and guys j…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 07:12 PM
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Sidebar Look into Amused Mastery Profit If you suck at comebacks learn amused mastery. Also lift more. If you’re huge people are less likely to use you as a joke tampon.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:55 PM
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I’m no doctor. I don’t have that answer. If you haven’t spoken to a doctor you should, because it may be something that can be remedied. If you can get hard, you can have sex. You or she may have to guide you, but once you’re inside it should be the same.. again though. Hit up a doctor you sad fuck.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:46 PM
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I got cancer reading this. Can you give more details on the “broken penis” thing. Can you get hard at all? Have you tried viagra? If not get some medical advice, Jesus.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:29 PM
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I realized that everything I had been taught about relationships and being nice was not applicable to the real world and that people walk all over you. It took one girl who I thought was my best friend and a dude who was far more alpha than I was to help me understand that. Never again. I’ve been focusing on myself since then and the world has opened up.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:18 PM
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Tough question. I’d probably leave one or two pics up, but from farther back in the time line so it isn’t obvious. She’d have to dig to find them, which gives you negging fuel and raises your value if your ex is attractive. Could be useful for manipulation. But, I’m an asshole, so that’s just my view.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 09:31 AM
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This does sound good. Especially since her mentality is fragile. It gives her more closure by making yourself the bad guy.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:51 PM
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Cool. Then I would just say something like I said in my post. You could also exclude the “the time” part and say you just want to “focus on yourself.” If you think she might interpret “time” as an actual time limit.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:39 PM
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You can’t let concern for her mental well-being cause you to stay in a relationship you don’t want. Just say, “I need some time to focus on myself.” If she says “take a break?” Reiterate that you “want time and this is goodbye” that’s it. Give her a parting side hug and dip. Go full ghost. If you’re worried about her being a danger to herself, inform her parents but don’t get involved and certainly don’t let that keep you from leaving and doing your own thing.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:33 PM
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Highly recommend melatonin sleep aid. The ones that dissolve on your tongue are great. Cut them in half if you find they are too strong. They help me get good sleep even if it’s only for 6 hours.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:38 PM
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Your scenario is kinda derpy since it doesn’t take ages into perspective either. Some chicks settle for providers but wish they had a chad to ride. Some do it secretly while hitched. Women will always want chad. But, once women reach that breaking point when their value starts diminishing they’ll settle if they have to. The women unlikely to remarry are the alpha widows. All others are likely to either settle for chad or try to settle for chad. And if they can’t after years of trying, they’ll se…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:44 AM
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Don’t think so. Women treasure commitment. They like the spinning hamster wheel of feelings associated with a committed relationship with a high value guy that other women want. I believe women will always desire that exclusivity because they don’t want other women to have what they have.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:32 AM
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Lmao xD
/r/askTRP29/01/18 10:57 PM
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I’m in my last semester at university. The plan is graduate as a DBA, work for a year or two for the State or a local military base, and then start contract work (under military as civilian) to third world countries. I get to work for however long I want based on contract length, make a lot of money via danger pay and tax deductions, travel, and when the contract is over I can do whatever I want for hobbies (photography and traveling) and then do another contract whenever I need to. Gaming and l…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:07 AM
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One could probably argue just radio silence, but I don’t think that’s necessary. Say “no problem” or “sure another time” and that’s it. Nothing more. If she cares enough to see you again she’ll reschedule. Approach in the meantime. If she never texts - who gives a fuck, you know how it goes, million fish in the sea, and you’re the prize, her loss. Approach approach approach.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:38 PM
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I had to decipher your post to understand what you were asking. Why do you care what other people think about you? Your response was backpedaling too. Should have just left it at “okay?” In the end you were trying to justify yourself. Fun people show they’re fun, they don’t need to say it. Especially to their 10 month ltr. Don’t try so hard. And work on that insecurity. You shouldn’t care.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:22 PM
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They’re easier usually. That’s really it.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:31 PM
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It means she wants to hold a bible study session at her place. Bring your bible and a chastity belt.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:57 PM
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Right on the money.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:41 PM
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I think you should define friends first. It doesn’t hurt expanding social circles with better looking girls as that can in turn get you with hotter girls. So being an acquaintance can get you invited to social gatherings where you can push game. Long as you don’t end up orbiting these chicks and talking to them like they’re your best friend. Friends do things with each other, plan events together, and that sort of thing. There’s no merit to being friends in that sense with chicks. Use them as a …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:32 PM
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That’s a good point. If you’re an exciting person she probably will contact you before then though. The length of time for a next partly depends on how long you believe you need to be radio silent for her to get the idea that you don’t value her company - because you are high value and have better things to do. Based on the situation that’s what it sounds like she’s doing to you, so I’m going to go back on what I said. Hard next her ass, game other girls, post to social media. If you two don’t t…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:25 PM
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Next for a week or two. Just post stuff on social media and game other girls. Contact after a week or two and if she asks why you didn’t respond just say you were busy - no further explanation needed. But seriously, talk to other chicks. No girl is worth this much trouble or thought especially if you have abundance.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:36 AM
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Looks good to me. The part about dread the other guy is talking about is what I meant by being “less available” in my main post. I don’t think you need to implement dread, but you should take a minute or two and think about how much it would hurt you if this little fantasy came true. TRP is about putting yourself first above all else. If you are worried about losing her, you need to re-evaluate if you are putting her before your own happiness and wellbeing. Not saying you are. But you’ve got to …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:28 AM
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First things first, Dudes not a mutual friend anymore if he’s making moves on your girl and he knows you both are in a relationship. Second, mate guarding (bringing this up to her or anyone else) makes you look like a pussy.. good thing is you know that. So what’s the approach? Be indifferent, do you own thing, take up a new hobby that takes you away from your gf for a bit. Not saying you soft next her or anything, just be a little less available and when you two are together do couple shit and …
/r/askTRP21/01/18 05:51 AM
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Sounds like you know what most people are gonna say. I’d ghost her ass and start approaching other chicks. She’s already disrespected you. No point in messing around or trying to compromise - it makes you look weak and in her frame. She sounds toxic. Ghost her and move on.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:34 PM
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Go cold turkey. If she was as in to you as you are to her she’d be texting you a lot. If you’ve noticed her texting frequency drop over the passed few weeks, she’s likely losing attraction. Texting her multiple times does not help this case. So go radio silent. Game other chicks and if she reaches out to you to make plans that’s a bonus. If she reaches out and does not mention scheduling a time and it seems like banter or casual conversation, don’t respond. Wait for her to offer getting together…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:06 AM
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I don’t understand. Your topic subject says how can I stop being “blah blah blah”. If you understand that certain behaviors are not working, just stop doing them? You’ve already done half the work in identifying what makes your life worse, so just don’t do those things you’ve identified? Get some hobbies or something. Go hiking and workout. Take up photography. And stop caring so much about how you’re perceived by other people. Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:57 AM
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Get a part time job kid
/r/askTRP17/09/17 08:43 PM
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Get a part time job.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 06:02 PM
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I thought about just going radio silent. Seems fine. Appreciate the reply.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 11:02 PM
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Ghost her. Pretend she doesn't exist. She'll probably come over to you at some point and ask if you're mad or something. That would open up conversations again, but don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 02:22 AM
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I think approaching is a lot like bike riding in that it's not exactly "gone" if you don't do it for a while. So don't let that concern affect you. To answer your question. No. Keep at it, but be mindful of your time and classwork. You'll eventually reach a point of equilibrium where you are happy, because you're focusing on yourself, and that happiness will translate into confidence and motivation. You should always approach and work on your game, but always remember fulfillment comes from your…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 01:44 AM
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I've read your comments over. You seem to have a good grasp of what's happening to you. Self awareness is important. What you need to decide is whether or not the fake label and gifts you are receiving is worth the trade in fidelity. If you think it is, keep her, just always remember that she's not faithful and don't invest yourself. I would probably look for other plates in the meantime since she's doing that with you. I think as long you remain self aware and not invested it's an okay trade. E…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 12:28 AM
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