Dating Site First Messages That Work

Dominic_Farussi · 2018-02-19T07:41:09+00:00

I always go with tease. Ex. Matched with this girl who was posing next to a surfboard by the ocean. Said "You should get a shorter surfboard cause that one really gives it away".

Just say something that relates to one of their pics and implies funny stuff.

martianartisan · 2018-02-19T12:59:01+00:00

Even if you get an effective opener you will still be trapped by time wasters who are there just for validation. Looksmax & get a professional photoshoot. That way they'll be attracted enough to meet you IRL. You can't create attraction from text

dzlgwade · 2018-02-19T11:21:35+00:00

Personally I don’t use them. I’ve been on tinder for a few days and out the 7 matches I’ve decided to actually go after, 6/7 worked with just “text me (number here)” I even said hey to one and she just responded with her Snapchat and number w/o me asking. Point is, if she’s into you and you’re attractive, she won’t make it hard for you. TAKE GOOD PICS. Pick up lines are stupid as fuck IMO. I’m not some old guy saying that. I’m 18.

RageNPlay · 2018-02-19T07:42:44+00:00

Check the tinder subreddit.

Great lines on there.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-02-19T13:50:36+00:00

It's not about the message itself, it's about what's being sub-communicated with it. If you'd read more of the material here you'd know that.

Title	Dating Site First Messages That Work
Author	mrbfs
Upvotes	2
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Date	February 19, 2018 5:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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