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| 11 | What’s the best US City for a single man?My bestie calls San Jose " Man Jose" | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 31 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?You're just an NPC in everyone else's story. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 12 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?A better one is that you had plans but they canceled and you didn't want to stay in alone. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 4 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Or you just go to the same bar often enough that the other regulars become your friends. Pretty fucking simple. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:59 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I never claimed I got laid because of my weight loss. I gave my weight loss experience to say how it's easier to lose weight once you are able to have some self worth. Have you been fat? It's a conversation I have shared with other heavy people and other people who have experienced weight loss. It's how I finally managed to pull my head out of my ass and realize why I was going through cycles of being able to lose weight, keep it off for a few years and then pack it back on and then lose again. … | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Need your Guys' OpinionA lot of vibe is how you handle yourself, how you respond to situations, etc. It's your overall personality. LET'S and hookups are built on totally different grounds than one another. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I completely disagree. It's easier to start losing weight when you already feel good about yourself and feel worthy. As someone who was heavy for almost 30 years, I was incapable until I found the self worth to be able to. It's much easier to read books, watch videos, or listen to podcasts on socialization and changing those habits and learning how to change traits like humor. Once a person has developed those, it's much easier to have the self esteem/ self worth to begin to stick to a diet or e… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 05:58 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]You are a unicorn: a black nerd. I know you might feel like you don't have anywhere to fit in, but trust me... find a way to build some self esteem. Most especially develop a way to make girls laugh. My brother was 350 pounds (he died of a heart attack at 29 if that tells you anything) and that man took some women home from bars that I was jealous about. Because he could make them laugh. My male bestie is a soft spoken nerdy black guy with a lazy eye. He does the same thing, makes the women laug… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meetI'm 5'3" and there isn't a short girl I know who gives a fuck about height. I've even had a fwb who was a little shorter than I am. Being closer to my height makes kissing easier. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | What IS that in a bad guy that's so attractiveI don't think it's about attraction. I think it's about feeling "good enough" to be treated well. If you are treated with more value than you feel you deserve its uncomfortable and you believe it can't last or that it will turn sour at some point, then it will hurt worse in the long run. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What did she expect?It's more a social value. It has only been a few generations since "modern" medicine. I gre up knowing my great grandmother and of her 13 siblings only 10 made it out of childhood... And that was an accomplishment. All 3 were due to medical reasons. If you look at the "women can produce offspring" concept, women are really only fertile for a short duration of their lives, yet men are from puberty to death. In the survival of the species/population aspect, it makes sense. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | She came back for moreWords got blood boiling before physical violence even started. This logic makes it a small step from "if they would have kept their mouth shut in the first place there wouldn't have been a fight". | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/10/19 09:34 AM |
| 3 | She came back for moreWords got blood boiling before physical violence even started. This logic makes it a small step from "if they would have kept their mouth shut in the first place there wouldn't have been a fight". | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/10/19 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.I am getting done at work and will not be able to reply for awhile. I would like to have an actual discussion with you, if you would be welcome to it. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Eugenics and genetics are totally different things. Open a book, dear. Also, learn what a bigot actually is. Because only one of us is unwilling to have a civil discussion... I personally have changed many of my views on important issues with civil discussion. Going to have one or going to continue being ignorant? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.If you even read what I wrote, I have never judged based on race. So, no, I am not. I also am not Christian, I was raised in a Christian faith, have grandparents who are not, and I am neither of their faiths. Would you like to try again? Or will you take a moment to check your hatred and have some reflection? Have you ever actually sat down with someone who had beliefs diametrically opposed to yours and been able to have a civil conversation? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.You say skin tone. Then you say race. So what is it? Race is more than skin tone. Race can be a whole body frame/structure. It can be a culture. It can be absolutely anything. If I can not be sexually attracted to someone because of how they laugh, but not hate them, why can't someone be unattracted to someone because of absolutely any other reason whatsoever? BTW, Just like you're accusing every person who excludes a race of being a bigot, I'm standing up for them as not being one. I have never… | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.This... I have some absolutely droolworthy guy friends who ask me what they are doing wrong that they can't get laid. My 300+ pound brother could bring a girl home from the bar every night. My brother had confidence and humor. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 10:49 AM |
| 4 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.And what defines someone "being a ten"? Your ideals of beauty? Mine? Just because she's "a ten" doesn't mean I'm attracted to them either. There's plenty of supermodels who I wouldn't lay a finger on because their personality makes them ugly or because they are too skinny. Other "beautiful people" because they are just not my type or just dont do it for me. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.I personally don't find overly tanned white women attractive, but pale is sexy. Is that bigoted? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 10:24 AM |
| 7 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.I agree that anyone can be a bigot. Can you explain to me how being unattracted to someone sexually or for a relationship makes you a bigot? How does being unattracted to a physical attribute such as race differ from being unattracted to other physical attributes? Or personality attributes? Is it possible that you are just not attracted to someone with skin tones or hair types the same way that some people ARE attracted to them? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 09:02 AM |
| 5 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.My black step cousins have only dated white chicks, so if they aren't interested in black chicks does that make them bigots or just someone with a "type"? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 08:46 AM |
| 5 | Tinder girls that want to "get to know each other first"?Lol. That's hilarious if you think that's how it goes. Then see if you can get half decent chicks to fuck you with that attitude. I will put out for the ones who will take the couple days to chat with me til I'm comfortable shrug. They get to have repeated, extra kinky fun with me and guys like you can have your occasional one night stands if and when you can get them with chicks who are thirsty for anyone who will look their way. Good luck to you. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 07:28 AM |
| 5 | Tinder girls that want to "get to know each other first"?Personally, I want a fwb not a one night stand usually. At the least, I want to feel out if the guy is creepy, an asshole, or possibly a murderer. So yeah, I want to get to know someone before I meet them. I only have so much free time, I don't want to waste it. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:29 AM |
| 96 | Help with FBI've been the female in this scenario before. Chances are something is going on in her life that you aren't close enough to talk to about it. In my case it was issues with health/depression/stress/family issues. My FWB at the time ended up messaging me to the effect of "Can I ask you something that might be random?" "We haven't been talking like we were, Are you doing OK and whatnot?" It made a huge difference, not just between him and I, but also helping me understand how badly I was affected b… | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?Apparently YOU aren't on those sites much since you seem to think all women out for just sex are ugly since they need a stable... | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?Yeah, I can and I'm willing. So, let's see your ability to back up these claims then. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?The other thing is, it usually a guy who's the Dom in poly, with two women, or it's a two couple Poly relationship. Other than that, you don't know what the fuck you are talking about because in the community for alternative lifestyles, there's Monogamous, Poly, and Open. Open is when you are in an emotional relationship that's primary, but free to seek sex outside it. If that's the"I'm ugly but need to keep a stable" you're talking about, you're still showing you're an idiot because the woman w… | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?You must not be a very successful nympho if you mention the "online" circuit, your lack of seeing beautiful poly women there... MOST poly relationships are closed between 3-4 people, so you have no clue what you're talking about. Your attacks on me ad Hominem are tired. Its always the first go to "oops, can't win, she has to be dumb, dirty, ugly, and a whore.". Grow up, learn to debate properly and not be a twat. I'm done feeding trolls, I need sleep for work. Night gents! | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?Typically only? Just how many of these women do you know? And just what did you mean then? That YOU would pass? Who was talking about you, Mr. ego-centric? I was talking about your jackass comment generalizing a group of people you likely know dick about. Guess thats NOT in the opposite direction, huh? Also, argumentum ad hominem. Tsk tsk. Basically, just because the people I mentioned getting them hooked up with chicks doesn't matter that they ended up in LTR's or otherwise. Getting laid is eas… | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The broscience guide to getting girls. What do you guys think?Oh gods, if you men think this is what works I feel so sorry for you! I can safely say no man has gotten me in be with any of those tactics. None of that defines Beta from Alpha for me. Just good guy from dickhead... especially if you're going to classify the "beta" as a white knight? Sorry babe, most women WILL take a confident, assertive white knight.... | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?Ohh. Judgemental. I would think that anyone willing to share their partner with someone of the same sex would have to be pretty damn secure in themselves that they wouldn't lose said partner to someone better, but go ahead thinking that they must somehow be insecure. My poly friend are going to laugh their butts off at hearing they must be ugly and insecure, guess the guy must be hot and stacked to get multiple chicks in your mind too? Also, I was talking of open, and again, must be some form of… | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?THIS! So much this! Exactly! You can be confident, sure, alpha, take charge kind of guy while still being compassionate and caring and OMG that is sexy as all fuck. Ever hear of that mythological unicorn called a gentleman? | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?LTR is what they wanted, not me. I usually prefer my guys to know where the front door is. Lol. Besides, who says LTR means "stop dating around"? Monogamy ISN'T the only option on the block. | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Is becoming a "jerk" a necessary part of adopting a game mindset?I'm going to disagree on the "never listen to women" part. Guess what, I have tits and I have gotten a few of my guy friends long term relationships. Why? Because I don't give just shitty advice like that. She starts off with a good point though. Everyone here is focusing on attitude, start with looks. Then attitude. Then, for the love of all that is holy, LOOK IN THE RIGHT PLACES. Too often are my guy friends so desperate that they will take anyone who comes along an the relationship either nev… | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)I have to say as a woman I agree with this analysis. Also, I've done coke in the past. That being said... Additions to the assessment? Drunk people tend to be duller than people flying on coke. You weren't as witty or interesting than they were once you got drunk. Also, drunk people tend to zone, pay more attention to the music, lose track of time, think they are funnier than they are, be oblivious, ect. Also to note from other posts: I don't know what you know about drugs but here's some advice… | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)The guys give advice and the men clap each other on the backs. A woman does and it gets down voted because its too long... | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 12:34 PM |
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