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Dude. You'll be right. This is completely normal. The only way you're going to get that true level of detachment is when you're over it. And by over it I mean you need to get to the point where you're so abundant with women you just can't bring yourself to care. Like the cocky stuff you can fake it until you make it but it is still going to be fake. And that's completely alright. There are no shortcuts to experience and you are on the right path.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 07:31 AM
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When she says I hate that you don't get mad she's implicitly saying she's annoyed that she becomes more attracted to you than she feels you should because she can't get a reaction out of you. I agree that you need to learn some push pull (I.e. mix up the asshole with some kindness here and there, don't be 100% go go go alpha all the time) but honestly you're doing good. The fact that she said that is 100% a good sign. Just let this blow over for now and pick up with texting for logistics like no…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:26 AM
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Gay culture will give you an insight. All biological males with male sex drives but half are psychologically women or some kind of hybrid. It's basically a 24/7 sex and drama orgy.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:16 AM
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How sad is that? I can run into a woman who’s on the same level as my girl once a month who’s giving me signals she’s attracted to me and curve them without too much thought, but the day my bitch meets a dude who’s a bit higher than me who she thinks she has a shot at commitment with, she will basically forget about all our history in a matter of weeks probably. It's not quite that black and white but yes it does suck dude. They aren't like us. You've just got to appreciate them for what they ar…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:15 PM
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Yep it's not ideal. The safest path is shut the fuck up and learn himself an expensive lesson.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:52 PM
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That's why he's gotta put all the WhatsApp shit with HR first so he has a documented paper trail.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:03 PM
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Women are wired for short term decision making. They aren't thinking clearly or logically when they make these decisions, they are rewarding their own emotional impulses which are essentially selfishly based. Women are born with an inbuilt feeling of responsibility to secure the best deal for themselves. Not you, not their partners, not their friends, not their parents. Themselves. And later on for their children. Even women who we would not consider selfish are still dedicated to this cause. So…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:16 PM
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Watch what she does not what she says. Her words are pretty but ultimately meaningless. She could fuck anyone else at any time. Whether or not you have an exclusive relationship with her isn't going to stop her. With that said best practice is to generally think very little and just do whatever the fuck you want. You've been open with her so get out there and fuck. If she stays she stays if she leaves she leaves. It's the risk you take. But I wouldn't work on overtly holding her to her word. Jus…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:14 AM
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I really like the sentiment but you'll likely have a zero % strike rate with the mode of delivery. There are a couple of issues here. The first is making it about sex. Of course it's about sex but making that so plain is going to make her feel like a slut which will make her run away faster than Usain Bolt. Second women do not like direct and overt communication. It makes them uncomfortable. You drop something like that on her and you will not only never hear from her again but she will tell eve…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:21 PM
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Your only option is the withdraw bud. This shit is textbook. Just got out of a relationship, feeling insecure, "Hmm who can I dangle my sexuality in front of to get validated?" The answer is anyone who'll respond. As soon as women get sexual with you via text but always decline the meetup then this is purely validation. The only way to win is to stop playing - ie withdraw. Let's face it, giving her the same or more attention isn't going to work so you have to do something different. Withdrawing …
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:16 PM
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What do you mean by not take their shit? Would not take their shit mean not reacting or calling them out and telling them to stfu and put them in their place? Always be assertive when it's not something personal. For example if she comes over and puts her feet on the couch you can easily say, "Woah, where do you think you are missy? Shoes off the couch or I will put you over my knee." Use the same sort of lines that make her feel little for just about everything you don't like. "Late? If this ha…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:51 AM
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It's literally the only card you can play. Just by engaging you lose. Besides which it's what they want - to try and shake you and for you to not budge. That's probably THE most attractive thing in the world to women. There was a post sometime this year on the main sub showing videos of this ice cream vendor fucking with people. He keeps taking the ice cream away in funnier and funnier moves every time they try to grab it. The women eat that shit up! From ages 5 to 95 they all squeal with deligh…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:18 AM
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The title question is rather broad and has one answer, your specific incident has another. The chick in question - it could have been anything! Don't ascribe convoluted ulterior motives to something as simple as this chick loving dessert. She also might have thought you were depriving yourself and wanted to help you enjoy life instead of being so serious all the time. But how the fuck will we ever know. In general women have absolutely no idea just how much work is involved for men to achieve an…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:03 AM
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Sadly I agree with you but this place isn't a democracy. The higher ups here are clearly American and with a real political bent. So it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 05:26 AM
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Calm down, you guys act like its the whole generation and not just a few screwed up people. The argument you applied here should also be applied to this subreddit. A few screwed up incels in here does not make this the new incel subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:20 AM
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It's a shit test, the bitch knows why. Women get asked out all the time. Shit testing is how they separate the wheat from the chaff. So you got her number and you got a response when you texted her. That's good. That means there was some attraction. But she's not completely sure if she's into you yet so she's giving you the chance to fuck up or not. Don't answer directly - that's mostly what the test is. Any actual answer is a fail. She knows exactly why you asked her out and she knows exactly w…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 08:52 AM
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Jeremy reminds me of Quentin Kenihan (less extreme of course). Quinten was born with brittle bone disease. When he came out of the womb he had 8 broken bones including both arms and legs. He ended up suffering through over 600 fractures throughout the course of his life. But when you saw the guy he'd make you feel embarassed for ever complaining about anything. Dude was three feet tall if that, confined to a wheelchair but god he had a life about him. He just never made it about his disabilities…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 02:46 AM
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An elephant never forgets.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:31 PM
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Believe all women. Somewhat self defeating logic as seen here.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 08:30 AM
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It's not the left it's the alt-left. You know, the ones who are against speech diversity. Time to isolate and shame the shit out of these morons before an entire side of the political spectrum is engulfed.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 08:23 AM
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It's right there in your post. She felt invalidated by some things you said and in a fit of emotion blocked you thinking, "yeah, that'll show him!"
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:03 PM
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Attention is like sex for women. She's been using you for it, she is not into you again.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:47 PM
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You're still not getting what frame is: any reaction that shows that you care. By DEERing (DEFEND EXPLAIN EXCUSE RATIONALISE) you instantly lost frame. It wasn't that you said something stupid - it was how you handled saying something stupid. Which was to apologise and backtrack. You need to lay off the good guy schtick. So much time and effort with your words to keep her from getting upset. Don't call her beautiful, don't portray yourself as a good guy who does things to please her. None of tha…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:01 AM
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I don't think the practicalities of getting your ex back need much of a guide. Just don't hold out much hope. You need to give it enough time to cool off. The further back things go in memory the more general they get. Right now she'll be mentally full of specifics and all the reasons you two broke up. Enough time has to pass for her to get general about it and start to remember the good times. After that I'm sure it's no different to any other girl. Just set up a meet and get on escalating. But…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:25 PM
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Look you'll hear over and over again here to just move on for multiple reasons. That absolutely doesn't mean you can't get her back. Of course you can. You attracted her in the first place, you just let yourself down a little by trying too hard to be a good guy. Countless people have got their ex back, it happens all the time. But the path isn't through communication, it's through attraction. Let's put it in our terms. If you broke up with a girl because she got fat you wouldn't just get back to…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:01 AM
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Where you went wrong This all started with your very embarrassing response to a simple gaffe: "I accidentally called it a plantation. Upon realizing the error, I immediately apologized, felt terrible and told her dozens of times that I thought the word plant stood for plantation. (Interracial relationship)" There was no need to apologise for this in anything but an extremely cursory manner. Apologies are for when you’ve done something wrong. Have you done something wrong? Even if you said it on …
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:30 AM
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Hey buddy, hope I'm not too late to the party as I wanted to give you some serious advice. I'm just gonna bang out a caveat at the start - I'll be saying "woman are" a lot in this post, do note that all women, like all men are a spectrum of femininity to masculinity. When I say "women are" I don't mean all women at all times, I just mean the vast majority generally behave like this to a larger or lesser degree. So let's get some more things cleared up firstly. Number 1, I'm so sorry that things …
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:29 AM
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At the end of the day it's not really relevant what your value is. All that matters is if you're getting the women you want or not. The best thing you can do is stop mentally measuring. Just put your best effort in lookswise (i.e. lift, haircut, style, etc) and then put yourself out there. The only real way to know how well you're doing is by actually gaming women. Hitting on them, getting dates, trying to get them home.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:41 AM
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That's a pretty wild story. You did pretty well considering your age and experience. In future there's only one response: no response. If it ever happens with a girl again don't react. Just walk away. Do not engage under any circumstances. As you saw from your experience the power they wield with their tears and their sweetness is ridiculous. They'll sucker you back in which just gives them the chance to fuck your shit up all over again. You have to be ice cold. No words, just walking away. And …
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:43 AM
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I'd argue that the expectation he must be banging other women is just emotionally-charged hampstering to justify the continued hypergamy radar. I'm really not too sure that's the case hey. I don't think they really need any justification, in fact hamstering is something that happens after they've acted, to justify it. It's not something that comes up first. With most of this stuff we (the men) have put massive amounts of thought into analysing and observing the patterns and acting accordingly bu…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/18 03:00 AM
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There is and there isn't a universal standard. On the one hand even Brad Pitt / Thor / Ryan Gosling / Michael B Jordan aren't each going to be attractive to every single girl. But on the other hand there are near universally attractive male traits. Physical: tall (or about 6 inches taller than her), chiselled face, broad shoulders, narrow waist, ripped (a spectrum), muscular (also a spectrum). Just google "hot guy" or "male model" and you'll pick up a pattern pretty quick. Behavioural: strong fr…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:35 AM
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That’s related to attraction then. If you just want them to be into you be attractive and non needy. It'll be flies to honey.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:00 AM
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Sounds like you're confused about the alpha / beta dichotomy. Beta is very much a legitimate strategy, the strategy really for most guys. A lot of women will fuck alphas but very few will end up marrying one. Being a safe, boring, secure provider type is a perfectly valid method of attracting women. It won't get them very turned on but it still certainly works.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:17 AM
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It's laughable that society perceives women as the monogamous gender when they instinctively apply plate theory from the day they get tits. So many guys who come through here learn a few red pill principles, put them into action and immediately oneitis themselves for their first good plate. Women are not doing this. Plate spinning is what they default to when they aren't in a relationship. Even in relationships they are always keeping their options open, texting exes, liking hot guys on social m…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 04:22 AM
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No response is best response. Otherwise amused mastery or agree and amplify. But if it's not been your go to for all these years she'll likely see straight through so that's why I'd suggest ignore. On another note if it's been ten years you have a choice to make. Put in tonnes of effort to try to turnaround her perception of you or break it off, improve yourself and get started on the right foot with some new chicks who never knew blue pill you.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 11:56 AM
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This guy is spot on. It's probably pretty unlikely at this point. But being friends with a hot girl can be great for your SMV. Best to let her go as a sexual partner and leverage your friendship into helping you get with other girls.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:37 PM
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On the internet this advice sounds insane but it is 100% my go to and I've literally never ever been called out on it: I don't respond to anything I don't want to respond to and I keep talking as if the conversation never happened. If you are a young college aged guy with similar aged girls it's going to be harder - socially and sexually they have the upper hand at the moment. But as you get older and keep improving that will pass. You'll become the prize and they'll compete for you. See what yo…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:35 PM
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You totally missed the point our dear Vandaalen was trying to make. Go back and answer his question. What would you do if they were 10? This isn't about removing their sexuality it's about treating women like little girls ala Sean Connery's James Bond. Please look up amused mastery and report back.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 08:20 PM
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Asian men and black women are the least attractive in general. This adds to the conversation: https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060 Asian men are perceived as the most femine males and black women as the most masculine females.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:52 AM
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I feel for you brother. Do you lift? Play sport? Virtually any sporting club will sort your social life out, even d grade cricket. What you missed out on isn't gone for good, you just need to be strategic. It's either online, bars or social game for you now and that's ok. You've got a good career ahead of you which is helpful and you'll be able to get your shit together as the years go on. Unless you're particularly good looking social game is the key. You can try and cold approach artsy types b…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:18 AM
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Buddy. Don't do it! I long for my ultra efficient younger days. Keep the home gym and just close around it. Laptop in bed is cozy as shit. Since you're a student they won't be expecting a wall st pad. You'll get far more mileage out of the gym than an entertainment system in both your personal development and your love life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:09 AM
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You think red pill guys are exclusively gaming tradcons? Hard to find one who's not a feminist these days. All the same rules apply. Agree and amplify and don't argue with them.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:01 AM
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Why'd you break up the first time? When relationships flow people just want to be with each other. Really successful long term relationships aren't usually ones that had multiple break ups along the way.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 04:53 AM
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You're trying too hard man. Half the time you've got to be a good guy, be nice to them too. You're all push no pull. Women don't actually like the asshole part of assholes, they like the strong frame. Every romance novel ever is an asshole who is nice to our main girl. You don't have to be so over the top with the cocky neggy bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 03:00 AM
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Appreciate the passion pal but you sound like a born again Christian. Just chill out a bit on what people have to do. Does it really make that much of a difference to you? Let people blow off steam or blow their dough however they want. Some guys true deepest desire is the player lifestyle. Some guys want to be digital nomads or play in bands. Some guys crave validation and attention like women. Let them. It's great for you to focus on your serious achievement businessman lifestyle but doesn't m…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 11:48 PM
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This isn't the total answer but it is a major factor: your SMV is drastically higher in Thailand than at home. An average white guy gets top 1% treatment over there. Ask the local bottom 80% of Thai men what their life is like with women and you'll realise the girls themselves aren't so special. Same as if you were a male model back home. You'd have a delightful view of western women.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:46 AM
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That's not untrue but be aware of the context. Women will happily share alphas for sex but rarely will they ever be happy to share commitment (resources). To illustrate think of all the tales of soft polygamy on the red pill (including this one): it's one man who has given his commitment to a main girl and she's happy to stick with him while he fucks other girls. That's very different to true polygamy where multiple women share a husband or boyfriend exclusively. The women the dude is banging on…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 11:17 PM
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I think the simplest evidence of our inherent monogamy is how we feel about other dudes fucking our women: horrified. We did not evolve to share but we did evolve to fuck around. And that's true of both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 08:51 PM
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I absolutely agree with your statement and you are correct. I'm just warning against absolutism in both your thinking and your advice. A bit of temperance you know. It's a pretty safe bet that it will work on most women most times. But it's very dangerous to believe ALL women will respond to that.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:00 AM
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That guy is retarded. Money, power and status literally get them wet. Obviously looks matter but with enough of the above even Danny DeVito or George Costanza can be nailing 10s. Not many but enough. Just ask around on this sub how many attractive young guys have had their girlfriends cheat on them with her ugly, older, out of shape boss. To your original question, almost no chance a 5 foot uggo can pull Kylie Jenner because social status is relative. The guy may be a millionaire but in that cir…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:58 AM
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I'd like to agree with you bud but there's a sizeable percentage of women who are lesbians or dominatrix who legit get wet for humiliating a guy, dominating a guy, having a man submit to them. It's stupid to assume every woman is the same when any even cursory observation will confirm they simply aren't. The red pill is about observing patterns of what works most of the time for most women. It's not as black and white as you seem to think.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:30 AM
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Why are you wasting your time on this shit? How is this helping you achieve your goals? Just let the world's morons be morons and focus on what YOU want to achieve. Leave everyone else out of it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:01 AM
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Yeah unfortunately life isn't a race to fairness and that's the biggest red pill of all. Life isn't fair, we aren't all equal. This is your lot in life being born a man: you shoulder the load. That guy is right though, the higher your SMV the easier everything gets. When you get to the top women fall all over themselves to impress you and keep you happy, including sexually. If you're not there yet the that's ok, keep going or date well below your current SMV and you'll quickly see what I mean.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:14 AM
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Even anecdotally 35 is very much not the average man's peak SMV in terms of alpha fucks as most guys are in far physically worse condition compounded with living a far less fun lifestyle than 10 to 15 years ago. But they absolutely are peaking in beta bucks SMV. And that's what you want to be careful not to confuse. When women are asked what they want in a man, even on online forums, they almost always describe what they're looking for in a long term relationship. That's why what they say they w…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:24 AM
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Yeah ok but where is the rejection? You've cuddled, have you made any moves? Hard to figure out from your post why you aren't banging her. Have you legit just not tried?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:04 AM
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Oh I see. Man that's awesome. Way better than expected. It all depends on how you're getting rejected? Need a bit more info on what the issue is or what the context is. The key to closing is continuous gentle escalation - all action, rarely words. Isolation first, so getting her alone. Then start with incidental touching. Sitting close, legs brushing, playful punches, hand on shoulder etc. Eventually all this is leading to you making a move. Physically you want to go slow with women and vary the…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:31 AM
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Buddy nooo. You have to keep reading the sidebar and especially try to get through the rational male. The understanding of relationships you're presenting is textbook Hollywood. And not how it works at all!!!!! Women want men they are attracted to. Not men they like and connect with. Men they are attracted to. Think about it. You're exactly the same. You could have the best connection in the world with some 2/10 landwhale but would there be ANYTHING in the world she could do to make you want to …
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:10 AM
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But friend how will you ever know if she's playing wifey material but used to be a huge how? Maybe she fucked everything that moved and has realised that it never leads to commitment so now she's reformed and rewritten history and starts acting, coy, innocent, hard to get and like she's only been with one or two guys, always long term boyfriends. Women are masters of self deception. She'll talk herself into it to the degree she believes it and you won't ever know. Next even if you do snag a virg…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:57 AM
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Sorry brosef, didn't mean to make it sound like what you experienced was prostitution. More just pointing out that the concept of trading sex for money is old and ingrained. When it's as overt as prostitution then we consider it dirty and shameful. But it's happening all day everyday in many subtle contexts and as long as nobody is open and honest about what's really happening it doesn't get called out. What you're labelling as horrifying and shameful - just girls looking to extract resources fr…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 01:13 AM
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Dear god it's like a guy just discovering that strippers exist. Dude women of every generation have acted like this. The only thing that's changed is the label. My man this is the oldest pact between the sexes: women trade their body or the promise of it to men for resources. Men trade their resources or the promise of them for sex. Plenty of other ways to interact between the sexes but prostitution isn't called the world's oldest profession for no reason. Edit: a word
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:47 AM
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Yeah I see. Ok I'm a bit old for student parties but I'm guessing if you slow it down a bit you will crack it pretty fast. Don't know how much of an option this will be for you but in the old days we used to plan dates across multiple venues slowly leading to your place with plausible deniability. For example you'd go from a loud nightclub or a place with live music to a more quiet bar to something to eat to I've got to show you the view/some item at my apartment. Even when clubbing this is a br…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 01:49 PM
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Yeah man but context matters. Are these dates or attempted same night lays? A bit of resistance is normal. Contrary to popular belief women need to feel attraction AND comfort for you to close the deal. We unconsciously label women sluts and dismiss them as valueless if they don't need much or any comfort to fuck you. It's gentle continuous escalation not consistent aggressive escalation. If you're not getting anywhere it's not a big deal, you're just going too hard too fast which sets off their…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 01:27 PM
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I have found a consistent theme with guys who are on paper very attractive but struggle in real life to get laid: Not skilled or used to taking initiative with women Way too high pressure on themselves to succeed in every interaction with women On the first point one of the most important skills is simply making the move. The move = the two and only two keys to making this shit happen: isolation and escalation. Being attractive is useless without driving your interactions towards those two thing…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 08:48 AM
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Don't kid yourself pal, whoever invented or commercialised domestic appliances had no such philanthropic motives towards the female of the species. Those were financial moves that paid off big time, nothing more, nothing less.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:06 PM
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You need the sidebar as much as those guys. Men and women are not the same. That's red pill number one. Terms like double standard are just blue pill conditioning, a bizarre attempt to convince us men are like women and women are like men. That is not the truth. Promiscuity in women is a deeply ingrained turn off for any healthy male. It is the opposite for women. Men want to be their partner's first. Women want to be their partner's last. Again, men and women are very, very different.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:48 PM
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He means next time you're in this position with a woman not next time you text this particular chick.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:47 AM
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I presume this isn't actually the embarassment that was coach red pill but rather some person or bot intent on reposting hot hits from every subreddit for karma. If I recall the original of this was a pretty popular post.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 10:45 AM
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It's exactly the same where I live. Gays, hot girls and dudes who have their shit together. Competition is intense. Anything but a hot girl would be invisible around here. I can barely even remember the last fatty I saw in my building.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 09:21 AM
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Ah I'm not in the US I'm afraid my friend or otherwise I would. Not too sure about the PUA groups but female friends will definitely work. Just need a couple of party girls to head out with, they'll create the opportunities for you. You still might fuck up and it will be competitive but you'll be off the bench and in the game.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:13 AM
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It's a funny old world isn't it. Nothing is as straight forward in terms of cause and effect as it sounds on paper. I fucking wish you were near me, I feel like I could get you laid within a week. Plates or plates friends would fall all over themselves trying to fuck a guy like you.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:22 AM
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Holy fuck bud. Sounds like you just need practice. Do you have any mates you can go out with? It's inconceivable you could be in a social circle and not getting laid. Even if you can find a few female friends to go out with they should fall into your lap. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:44 AM
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A brilliant article from a very clever and self aware lady. There's been a few around over the years. The big change from her day to our day is the shaming power of the matriarchy. Shame is a feminine tool. In a world of feelings over facts where your perception matters more than objective reality shame is a very powerful tool. Making someone feel bad can literally change the world - in that it makes them change their actions. Women use it on each other to great success and when they try to use …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 11:57 PM
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Unfortunately women don't live, compete and evaluate their mates in work or career - that's simply a component that goes into valuing you in terms of status and attractiveness. As men we judge ourselves based on our competency, particularly in a work sphere. The thinking goes something along these lines: Am I good at what I do? If yes I'm good, if no I'm bad. That's ultra simplified but you get the point. Women on the other hand aren't assessing their own competency to find worth but their physi…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 03:10 AM
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Or she had a boyfriend and got caught.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:38 AM
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Text should be fine dude, only the old and out of touch make calls these days (assuming you're gaming women in their early 20s). I'm 35 and was calling girls right up to my early 30s (gaming girls ten years younger). As the newer generation came through they treated anyone calling them as weirder as weirder. Eventually you have to adapt. They're just not used to it. Anyone the approach to being attractive is same as always. She's using the travel loophole to get away with something naughty and y…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:17 AM
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Women are loyal to their children almost universally up to puberty and would lay down their lives for them in the right circumstances. That is how we men are with "our" women. We love them in a way they love their children. We can give them a type of loyalty they can't give to us. In sex and relationships a woman's loyalty is to herself and not her partner. She treats men the way men treat jobs. Some are more loyal to their employer than others but most will take a better opportunity if it comes…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 01:13 AM
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How did you come upon the red pill and get all this started? Well done by the way. Sky's the limit.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 11:13 PM
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Monk mode is a period of time during which you completely eschew women. Or so it was traditionally defined. The idea is to go away from trying to win games and give yourself a proper pre season before you get back to it again. If he's working women he's out of monk mode. But props to him, he is nailing red pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 11:11 PM
3

It may be a long path but it's a good one. Remember the saying "the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"? Well it's not just the beginning of the journey. The entire journey is single steps. I'm happy to help brother, feel free to message me.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:33 PM
2

Hey bud, my comment wasn't directed at how you played it but at the newbies that see the number as a victory. I think counting nothing as success before the lay is a good mentality to avoid overinvestment. Sounds like you're going good though, hopefully you'll nail her.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:25 AM
7

I get that you feel successful but that would have been the atomic bomb of awkward for her to NOT put in her contact details. Numbers are somewhat worthless - count nothing before the lay.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:20 AM
2

How big of a deal is it to just ignore it? My go to response to literally anything I don't want to deal with from a plate is just behave as if she never said it. Literally no response and just keep the conversation moving in whatever direction I want. If she's getting to the point of throwing a tantrum at me ignoring her (almost never happens - most have the social graces to pick up on my ignoring cue) I will simply turn the whole thing into a joke. Example in your case, if it's an LTR and a rec…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 08:20 PM
3

Hey bud just wanted to let you know that she's not trying to trade your happiness for her sadness, she just doesn't understand male communication. You said something, you meant it and now you're sticking to your word. That's not how it works for girls. They often say the exact opposite of what they mean and on purpose. So just be aware of that. They also know they're not held accountable (it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind remember) so she never feels like she has to say TRUE things o…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 05:45 AM
6

That's what makes this place so good. It's literally just a discussion of below the surface not so obvious facts about women and strategies for maximising your own personal sexual strategy. There's no prescription for what you should do with the knowledge; that's entirely up to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:41 AM
20

Ah but imaginary rulebooks is how we navigate the world. The whole anger phase is borne out of a realisation that the other side was never ever playing by the rules. "I've been wasting my time being noble and they couldn't even do me the honour of reciprocity," you think. Expecting reciprocity is a fool's errand but it is a male concept and it's not going away. Unemployed puffy thinks, "I wouldn't do that to you!" It's a masculine appeal to fairness though it rarely if ever works. Many who succe…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:31 AM
2

Women are weak, hate overt communication and can't risk anyone not liking them. Notice how they can hate the ever loving shit out of each other but still socialise and hang out? She might have had tingles but her fugly friend put the kibosh on her getting any. Women demand a form of shallow equalism socially. If one girl's doing badly they'll all team up to get her back up to scratch. But if one girl's doing a little too well they'll all team up to bring her down. My point is there are so many a…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 11:29 AM
4

Claims most posts are a rehash. Posts a pointless rehash.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:18 PM
-7

Yeah. Not everything is some grand anti man feminist conspiracy.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 01:48 AM
31

I know it's an easy target due to today's environment but they aren't actually doing it for ideological reasons. The Boy Scouts are in massive decline and this is an attempt to boost enrollment numbers by any means necessary. They're desperate.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 11:28 PM
1

A&A (Agree & Amplify) is for sure your best bet in situations like this. Something like, "Bro you wouldn't believe me if I told you - it's like a needle!" Just stupid shit so you all laugh sorts it. Some other lines: It looks like a cashew only smaller. I'm not even sure if mine counts as a penis. It's basically an oversized clit. Look boys it's true, in even worse news my balls are HUGE which isn't helping the situation. You see how when you behave like this you're not in any way pushing back o…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:40 AM
4

There are countless. Here's the most recent. 47 yr old dude who was way less than average. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8c08zc/47m_twoyear_transformation_story/?st=JGHXWJ3M&sh=096949b4
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:35 PM
2

No fap is a crock of shit, the only issue is porn. You are 16, your hormones are rampant, if you aren't having sex and you never masturbate you will come in 10 seconds with a girl. Masturbation is normal and healthy, just don't over do it. You can't just suppress and deny the sexual part of you. If you are not having sex regularly you need to whack off at least once a week.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:32 PM
2

You do understand that her SMV comes from her looks and not her status right? She wasn't above you because of your job, she was below you because of her age and looks. That is the only reason she fucked you. Why would you think any guy would be intimidated about fucking an older married broad because of her job???
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 12:31 AM
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Not too sure about that one. Human behaviour is a spectrum, not an iron clad certainty (which is how we talk on here sometimes). Just as there are gay men who are more awalt than some women there are going to be some men who use sex to obtain resources from women. Not the norm though obviously and rare enough to be very notable.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:42 PM
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Do you mean what is a man's dualistic mating strategy? We want sluts and whores for sex and good girls and virgins for commitment. And just like women dream of Alpha Bux (i.e. getting Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks in one man) we dream of the perfect, innocent good girl who is a wild whore in the bedroom just for us.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:26 PM
7

He means IF she is pretty then she was most likely born with it. It's in contrast to a quality man who has to spend years working and building to earn it and isn't born with it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 01:46 AM
3

Can you tell us about when you were mistaken for being homeless?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 01:18 AM
2

Not sure where you live, in my country you need a qualification to work in a bar (it's cheap as and a piece of piss to complete, you just get online, pay your money and do the "course"). Once you've got your certificate you're sorted, it's as easy as that. The no experience will of course hamper you - you could stretch the truth a bit and say something like you've helped out a few times over the years at a buddy's bar or something like that. Just so you don't seem like a total noob. The key with…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:56 AM
2

Yeah it's not the norm but it's also not unheard of. There are a few barriers to entry though unless you worked hospitality while you were at college or something? If you've got no experience and a serious full time job it's going to look a bit strange when you start handing your resume out for part time bar work. But don't let that stop you, if it's what you're keen on you can absolutely make it happen. As with anything relationships are key here. On paper you're going to be a worse bet than mo…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:40 AM
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Duuuude absolutely yes! It depends on what you're going for though. It sounds like just getting laid isn't your number 1 priority but more of that fitting into a cool social group and having that awesome social life. Bar work is hard work but it will definitely give you that camaraderie and make it easy to pull. Thing is it's not the hard work that'll get you - it's the after work drinking. I don't know what your main job is but it's going to be tough to do your job as well when you're basically…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:41 PM
11

TL;DR 1. Get absolutely jacked first - a good body is non-negotiable. 2. Save and work long enough to get a decent leave of absence from your job (MINIMUM 3 months). 3. Go to a foreign country (worst case out of state) and do holiday work. 4. I.e. work as a lifty for a ski season, get a gig on a cruise ship, etc. The thing is if you haven't changed what made you so unsuccessful in college then whatever you try isn't going to work. If you were out of shape then and you're in great shape now then …
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:04 PM
3

Perhaps make a post about it?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:58 AM
1

There is absolutely no way to win anything by arguing. Your best bet is to read up on frame: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:56 AM
1

Jordan B Peterson. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL_f53ZEJxp8TtlOkHwMV9Q
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:34 AM
1

Don't argue with women, ever. It's feelings over facts, they're not interested in logic and you won't win by being right. The mere act of engaging with them brings you into their frame. To look at this more broadly let's ask a question: do people usually respond well to unsolicited career advice? What about being argued with at a party and told they're wrong? Is that the sort of thing "Chad" does or really anybody you've ever met who's likeable? As strange as it sounds the very best thing to do …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:50 AM
10

Jesus Christ dude. Killing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:44 PM
5

Wait so were you cheating on your 5 yr girlfriend with Sad Eyes?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 12:50 AM
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I agree except the bargaining stage is more like, "If I'm alpha enough she won't cheat or leave. If I just figure out the magic combination of alpha I can get a loyal NAWALT." You still see that a lot here. The endorsed are all at acceptance stage.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:47 AM
11

Losing your cool is the very essence of breaking frame. You want to be Don as in Draper. Guy: I feel sorry for you. Don: I don't think about you at all.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 02:26 AM
13

Hey buddy, that was my post. Firstly, you're banging this chick yeah? It's not 100% implicit from the way you've described the interaction. Secondly, the post was intended for macro level understanding, not really for micro level interactions. You're not gonna lose her attraction and get pegged as beta bucks by paying for things here and there and women aren't looking to use every man for everything. I was explaining why things are the way they are with feminism and women's entitlement to men's …
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:14 AM
23

Spot on. This absolutely works if you are obviously well out of our league, be careful if you haven't already established strong attraction.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:00 AM
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A quality (read: top 20%) man will attract all women who perceive themselves as beneath him. That includes hot but low quality women. And you can be damn sure they'll put on whatever act they think is going to appeal to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:51 PM
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You just need to read through the sidebar on the main sub and you'll get it. The rest will fall into place pretty quickly. Start with Rollo's book The Rational Male. That's most of the theory covered. From there it's just about doing what is prescribed.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:57 AM
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I get where you're coming from but marriage (lifetime security and commitment) is their end game. They might like you but not as much as they like that and if they have to throw you under the bus to get it they will. Think of commitment for women as like sex to a man. Very important and biologically driven.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:15 AM
17

It's hilarious you think a 30 year old will be any different intellectually than a 20 year old. Not that it matters.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:02 PM
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Emotional connection is good - with someone you're attracted to. Just the way you don't want to emotionally connect with a fat chick, she doesn't want to emotionally connect with a nice guy. And even then you might want to emotionally connect with a fat chick but you don't want to be in a relationship with one and fuck her. She feels that way too but not about fat chicks, about betas.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:41 AM
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Long, spergie, binary analyses appeal to clueless young autists who come here with little to no social, sexual or romantic experience. It's a tasty and believable idea for them that human behaviour can be broken down into perfectly replicating and predictable action and reactions. If you are real world experienced with this you're going to pick up fairly quickly that the poster is basing their thoughts on information analysis from what they've read on the internet and not observation and experie…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:36 AM
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All businesses have a lifecycle of a sale. Some are days, some are weeks, some are months. The amount of money you're bringing in today is based on the work of yesterday. Pipeline refers to all the leads you're working on that could be converted to sales. So to have a full pipeline means you're guaranteeing yourself future sales. OP is applying this idea to women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 12:29 AM
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Your girlfriend doesn't sound too bright but that's not the end of the world. One of my best friends is in a relationship with a beautiful girl who is super nice amd treats him like a king but is one of the dumbest people I've ever met. There are worse things than having a really nice, pretty girl who's good to you. That said this isn't one of those AWALT moments. Most girls are stupid, most people are stupid, but definitely not all. If it's important to you there absolutely are smart women out …
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:08 AM
6

Tonnes of military guys grew up without a strong father figure, often single mum and idolise her.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:27 AM
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I don't know what you guys are doing in your LTRs but mine have never ever transitioned to transactional. I barely have enough in me to fuck them as much as they want, some even after years. Just something to think about, obviously it's possible if your SMV is high enough and your frame is strong.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:04 AM
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Why the fuck aren't you fapping? What do you think you're trying to achieve? It's probably the cause of all of this. You're never sexual, no shit your body's starting to shut down the sexual part of you. You blow once every four weeks, no shit you can't last. Start jerking it everyday and you'll be back to normal.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:31 AM
18

Indeed. Polarisation is powerful.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:19 AM
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I like where you're coming from but having immense frame control means you don't enter other people's frame - it doesn't mean you are magically able to force them into yours. Take Trump for example. Motherfucker has the strongest frame you'll ever see - undentable - yet he's probably the most hated person currently alive today. He's absolutely convinced of his own greatness. He ran for President and truly believed he'd win - and he did! But just because he believed it doesn't mean the whole worl…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 04:00 AM
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You can be the biggest gorilla in the jungle but you still won't be big enough to dominate two, three or four smaller gorillas if they gang up on you. Having social skills and leadership abilities are critical to winning this game.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 03:47 AM
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Yeah man everyone's ex has good things about her, that's why you were into her in the first place. The point of the exercise is to retrain your brain. You want to program yourself to only see her negative traits, forget the good ones and to believe that heaps of other women will be better. That's what helps you to move on.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:23 AM
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Here's a practical exercise for you. Write a list of all the things you didn't like about your ex and then write a list of all the things your ideal girl would have. For example: Ex Selfish Thoughtless Stupid No tits Dream girl Kind Puts me first Big tits Smart Give it a try. Might help rewire your brain about her.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:44 AM
5

Yeah no worries man. It's crazy to think but there are answers out there to even the most puzzling questions. Truth and fact are just generally skewered and obscured by the morons with an agenda who decide in advance what they want to be true then go about trying to prove it. If we didn't have to deal with that everything would be easier. But instead it's finding ways to get around all the powerful people who want to control what we think. I want to know what's true. I'll decide how the world is…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:52 AM
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Yeah it's all good man, you will be for a while. There are some flawed premises you've got going still, not necessarily blue pill premises but flawed nonetheless. The most glaring from your post is your consistent focus on this guy's physical appearance and age. I know it's not what you're used to and not what's discussed in polite society but him being old and fat has nothing repeat nothing to do with how wet she gets. Do you know how many women have daddy fantasies? That shit actually turns th…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:11 AM
5

Calling her a gold digger for valuing a man's resources is like calling yourself shallow for liking hot girls. Money and resources and willingness to use them are an attraction trigger for women just the way big tits and skinny waists are for men. There's nothing wrong with her for wanting it and leveraging her hot body to get it. When it boils down to it that is the agreement between the sexes. Women trade sex and or the promise of it for resources and men trade resources or the promise of them…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:49 PM
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You may be right. I just know that most have us have made his mistakes. And there's not a single guy who finds the red pill who doesn't wish he found it sooner.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:51 AM
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Send him a pm with a link to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:43 AM
1

He also alludes to the bell curve aspect without enunciating it (that male IQ distribution has great outliers - very smart and very dumb - whereas female IQ distribution is far more concentrated in the middle). Honestly Peterson is the ultimate meritocratist. He doesn't give a fuck about your gender, all that matters is your traits. Not in terms of you as a person, in terms of you doing your job/succeeding in the world. And as he goes to great pains to point out: intelligence and conscientiousne…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 04:32 AM
2

Oddly aggressive response but ok. Just giving the guy (plus any new readers) a sense of the underlying principles so they can use their own logic to answer the question themselves. If you need a specific answer to help you make sense of such an important question: high school or college is irrelevant, there's no difference. It's a gradual changing of what they go for based on their options. At their core they are no different at 16, 21 or 35 it's just that at 35 they know they can't lock down Ch…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:17 AM
4

Women's job is to get the highest quality genes and the best provider. They don't mind using multiple men to reach this end. Here we describe it as a dual sexual strategy: Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks. Alpha Fucks is the good genes - Chad - the hot guy you describe. Beta Bucks is anyone they can lock down to provide for them. Hypergamy is the force at work that causes women to constantly be testing to see if they are with the best man they can obtain. When they are young they are at their hottest …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:07 AM
2

You can't control that. Learn from the metoo garbage. Those that acknowledge, fight or apologise get destroyed. Those that ignore win.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:45 AM
1

As you noted it's economically driven. Almost uniformly employers hate hiring women in the pregnancy window. They want before or after. Usually if they want a specific gender it's based on team balance or what clientele they deal with. Older people have it tough but foreigners are the least desired. Many will compromise on gender and age but almost none on race.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 11:48 AM
1

Not to disagree with your overall point James but I'd just like to add some clarity around hiring. I work in recruitment and have dozens of clients I recruit for. Almost none ever have said "man or woman, doesn't matter". 95% of business owners know if they want a man, a woman, what age and what race and though I'm sure they'll never say it publicly they always tell me since I'm hired to find that person.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 09:51 AM
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Dude. If you can do that your problem is solved. It's key. And we all find it hard but ONLY because it's not how we were raised. We're all in the habit of worrying fucktonnes about shit we can't control, we got trained from birth practically to live that way. But that's not how the likes of Richard Branson live. Motherfucker puts everything into what he does and then lets it go. Has fun. Doesn't worry about shit he can't control. (Like his sexuality cause I'm 99% sure he's gay.) But anyway yeah.…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:51 AM
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She is going to slip dude. Because she's not yours. You can't possess people, man or woman and women particularly are masters at playing up to what they think you want to see in order to get what they want. Of course she's lovely and "loyal" (lol) when she's with you. She knows that's what you want to see and she's spectacular at showing it to you. She's got her girl game on lock and here you are at home waiting for her while she's out partying. When she's in the club she's adapting to expectati…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:43 AM
2

I know it seems a bit strange but basically yes. If you read the entire sidebar first you will probably answer all your own questions. And for future reference the reason you're getting hostile responses is because the reality of your situation is super obvious to most of us. These guys like helping but not when a poster has so many flawed premises inherent in their world view. That's shit you can iron out through both the sidebar and lurking the main sub more, especially to read the comments. B…
/r/askTRP10/12/17 09:52 AM
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I recently had a threesome with a 24yr old non mother and a 21yr old single mother. I went from pussy to pussy and the single mum was tighter. Might be to do with her age (baby at 17) but it seems pussy can recover.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 03:49 AM
1

I have all my old buddies in whatsapp group chats and we still joke all the time. I leave them to their lives and have fun with my many, many young women. You have to make peace with the death of your group at this age I feel (34). Or you could work with younger guys? Up to you.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:36 AM
3

Right. You're at graduate level. And your advice to guys who can't get laid yet is "be yourself". Ok. Look man I'm more than happy to engage in this discussion to help you but you need to make an effort to both see nuance and shades of grey as well as to understand context. Your comments reek of someone who hasn't read the sidebar. This isn't about me. Guys are here who can't get girls or make relationships work. We are trying to help them. What you're saying is not only useless it's activey dam…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 04:02 AM
3

I'm starting to feel more and more confident you're a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:39 AM
1

Perhaps you should apply the same advice to yourself. And have a look through my post history. Like I said, I get where you're coming from.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:24 AM
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I'm sure you're going to have a great time over on the blue pill. Don't post here again until you've read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:14 AM
12

I get what you're saying but the guys here ARE weak. They're not at Red pill graduate and most never will be. Give them the crutches that work and hiding weakness is one of them. What would the point of your path be? Needing a girlfriend who understands you? Finding love? shudder It's that bullshit that created the need for the red pill in the first place. You are parroting that blue pill "be yourself and you'll meet the right girl eventually" crap. That's how you place the power in their hands …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:48 AM
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I think you're being a little harsh there. These guys understand that weakness is a turn off to women and they're smart enough now to cover it up. The long term solution is to not ever BE weak but if you are you damn well better hide it for the sake of the relationship. Your advice amounts to "Be yourself and she'll love you for who you are." Maybe she will, maybe she won't, but smart men know when to speak their truth and when to shut their mouth because speaking would hurt them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:36 AM
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You think an ugly guy with a bad body is in the same place as an ugly guy with a good body? Get a clue.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 11:04 PM
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It's totally ok to have strong beliefs and even to express them. But when you cross the line into arguing with people you've got to ask yourself, "Why do I need them to believe what I believe?" That's what you have to cure.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:27 AM
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Yeah thanks dude. Mastering game is a good mission because it's so multifaceted and complex. Takes a long time and can be very stimulating and rewarding. I'll add another layer: I have been ripped for long periods of time. In fact for most of my life I had an awesome body. I've also achieved great feats in the gym, on the field, etc. I've gone through pushing myself and achieving those things. Now I sit back in a haze of old man comfort. I'm soft and indulgent but I carry with me the confidence …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:37 AM
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I know, I should take a picture. My legs have always been completely fat free, even when the rest of me was ripped it was always remarked upon my female dancers legs and now even moreso with my belly. The thing about this is we make ripped our goal because it's a standard for attractive. But as men we need to be more fluid in defining what attractive is. When we look at women it's very fixed (tits, ass, hips to waist ratio, symmetry and so on). But it's just so much more behaviourally based for …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:52 AM
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I know! Farmer's daughter. I consider myself a very lucky man for now.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:15 PM
10

It's not good man, it's not good. Shaming mostly. Some have gone as far as to say it disgusts them. My best friend (huge white knight) has admitted he wants to go after my ex in the story. I laugh and say go for it! Good luck... But you can see in his mind he thinks I treat women like shit and they're all secretly wanting a NICE GUY like him they just don't know it yet... Ok... I have a lot of friends though, old and good friends so it is a mixture across the board. Some aren't judging me but th…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:04 PM
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Yep. Seems a mistake in hindsight - she always said she didn't care if I cheated as long as it was just sex. I didn't believe her but she went on to prove it. After we "broke up" we were still living together for a bit, still fucking and being like normal. I immediately - immediately! - fucked another girl. Went on a work trip to Bali that weekend and pulled my first new pussy in 4 years. It was glorious! Anyway I came home and told her all about it and she was completely at ease because she kne…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:52 PM
2

Do you know what dude you must know your shit because that is an amazingly close guess to what I think I should be. The skinfolds always calculate me way lower than what you'd think based on my belly because I'm getting 2-4mm on thighs and triceps.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:04 PM
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Yeah I've found it quite funny having some responses where people act like I'm describing a unicorn when I'm so blatant in my description of her as below me in SMV and as an ultra-hypergamous woman. But the truth of frame rings true through all these examples regardless. Regarding kids... that's the hard thing isn't it. When you're looking for a mother it sends you back to those blue pill days of looking for 'the one'. You're trying to find a woman of immense quality and reliability who'll stick…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:27 PM
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Hey buddy. I know there's somewhat of a consensus that having a good body/being tall/being good looking or whatever gets you the chicks. All I can tell you (which I'm sure many men can back up) is that my experiences with women are night and day depending on how I act. I'm not going to deny that my genes gave me a head start. I've always been able to attract women. But they used to have infinitely more power over me before I learned all this stuff. So maybe it's not advice for your typical incel…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:23 PM
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Alright I'm going to expand on this a bit but basically you've got two options. First, if a woman asks me a question I don't want to answer I literally say nothing and continue the conversation as if she hadn't said it. I'm not even kidding. I just completely ignore anything I don't want to talk about. I understand if you can't do that yet though, it takes brass balls. But because I establish that strong frame early it's literally never a problem. Your second option is to just completely joke ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:18 PM
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As with everything it's contextual. You can't pull this shit with the police when you're drunk on a Friday night. You need to have a keen awareness of power. Who's holding it and whose frame is strong/weak. If you ever try to directly attack a powerful person you will almost certainly lose. So there's no point doing that. Don't create trouble with women or men in the workplace until you yourself are in a position of power. And that's another thing to takeaway here - social hierarchies are imagin…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:01 PM
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Hahaha if it weren't for privacy I would showcase my little harem. I completely agree! If it was looks/body alone it should be IMPOSSIBLE for a big old dadbod like me to be nailing these women. But I guess you gotta judge em by their actions. If they're fucking me then something is more important than six pack abs.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:57 PM
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This is brilliant that you point this out because that is almost the complete point of the post. No I won't reply or I'll reply to fuck with him further. He challenged me and I took the wind out of his sails by joking instead of fighting. As soon as you engage in an attempt to defend yourself you are now attempting to control how people perceive you, how they think directly. A) You cannot do that. B) Trying to do that shows that you care and showing that you care makes you weak and gives them po…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:55 PM
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It's interesting that you say that dude and I think you're right. He is a good friend but I do have to be somewhat careful because quite simply his opinions are popular and mine are not. If it ever came to a social battle I would undoubtedly lose, frame or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:50 PM
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You're spot on, extreme physical weakness and only for a short time. I never mentally caved. That's why I wrote this: But what is unrecoverable is showing mental and emotional weakness. There is no coming back from being down on yourself and wallowing in self pity. This is the same concept as losers in sport. Nobody shits on the guy who tries his heart out and loses. But everybody shits on the self pitying guy who gives up on himself. That's what the takeaway was meant to be so you got it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:48 PM
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Hey dude. I've been lifting since I was 16 (34 now). I was very intense about it for a number of years, strict diet, insane training regime. I used to play a variety of sports but mostly Rugby League which requires very good cardio so for the longest time I had a very athletic body. After I broke my leg I got into powerlifting which was awesome, got strong as fuck but put on a bit of fat around the waist. The last year I just sort of dropped off and stopped lifting completely but I'm sort of bac…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:47 PM
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Thanks man. It could not have ended any better. We went out from when she was 19 to 23. I think I just accidentally overdreaded her tbh. Not on purpose or anything but it was a perfect storm. We moved back to my home town - she lost her friends but I had a ready made bunch. And my star was rising. There were women everywhere. And I'd made no secret throughout our relationship of how much I wanted to fuck other chicks. She had been pushing for marriage since about 2 months of us dating and I neve…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 08:41 PM
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You're right that we're collectively taught from birth to defer to women and to be weak for them, which they then despise. It's fascinating isn't it. This is rarely discussed and yet it's more or less the cornerstone of what's gone wrong. The men disappearing overnight thanks to WW2, a generation of men and women raised without that strong father figure and boom. 70 years later here we are, men who have no idea how to be men and women actively training and growing their sons to be worse men. It'…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:35 PM
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Interesting point, I hadn't really considered that. I think if it was a proper long term hardship I would have seriously struggled to maintain frame. I'm by no means an unbreakable man. This was just not near my limit. I remember her pushing me around the shops in my wheelchair just fucking brimming with glee at all the attention. People looking at her like, "Oh look at her, what an angel. She's so lovely to be with him." Lol. That surely was - like you said - only because it was temporary and s…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:23 PM
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It's more of a novelty thing here in Australia but thanks. She is a delightful plate and completely ok with my polygamy, threesomes, etc. Very happy with her atm.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:18 AM
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Yeah I thought I cleared that up in the post. Women's version of loyalty is devotion. What really happened was I kept her devotion despite being weak because I wasn't broken at all by the circumstances. Just would have been a bit hard to put that in the title. Also that LTR was a long time ago if that wasn't clear. We have long since broken up.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:13 AM
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We are pack animals designed to follow the strongest leader. Doesn't matter if it's Hitler or Gandhi. The most certain person gets the most followers and the one with the most followers almost always wins.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 10:25 AM
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Seems you have your mind made up to end it. That's good. Now you want a game plan and aren't just leaping into action. That's also good. We're no more well versed in the how than you will be since it's your life. But here's some ideas. Make up your mind about the living situation. You can stick it out with her (terrible idea), break the lease and both get new places or kick her out and get a room mate in. In my opinion breaking the lease is short term pain for long term gain. Better to take the …
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:46 AM
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Their posts are almost a copypasta at this point.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:55 AM
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I see the incels have arrived already.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:56 AM
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Marry post wall maybe. Get her when the SMV is lower but she's still got the genes that made her smoking hot when she was younger.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 11:11 AM
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Why don't you just read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 09:31 AM
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If this is true (which we have no reason to doubt you) then it's definitely your social skills. Countless women have told me they've seen a hot guy at a bar and lost interest when he opened his mouth. These are dates dude, it's not a loud club where they're drunk and you can pull to smash on looks alone. Women's attraction to men is a combination of looks and behaviour. You must have the looks down or you wouldn't get the match and date. So your behaviour is causing them to lose attraction. What…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:41 PM
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We can't see you two so we don't know but this is pretty common behaviour for girls with low self esteem. It's possible her view of her own SMV is far below the reality. Some girls are miscalibrated like that. The other thing to remember is it's a bell curve. We all exist somewhere, most of us smack bang in the middle but there are obvious outliers. Gay men and women for example. I once met a butch lesbian who loved like a man, behaved like a beta and had heart ripped out by a hypergamous woman.…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:08 AM
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Oh buddy. I feel for you. This is the red pill so I'm not gonna sugar coat it. You're fucked. Not because you need a social circle to get laid. But good god you need to counterweight your other values (looks, game, body, etc). Soooooo much of female's attraction to men is based on social value. It's ok to be how you are in the way it's ok for the nerd to hate football. But what you can't do is be the nerd who hates weights, hates running and hates playing football then say, "I'm an excellent nat…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:19 AM
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No worries buddy. It seems you're getting a lot of good input here. You should consider yourself extremely lucky. I would say most guys here never got teenage love, a chance to be firsts or even found the red pill until way later. You're way ahead of the curve and hopefully it continues.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:48 AM
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Your LTR is not loyal she's devoted. Devotion shifts with the winds. Women treat all kings the same - like kings. But when the king gets deposed she moves on to the next king. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with her. It's just women. And their devotion is a wonderful thing. Regarding your FOMO. It's harder these days. And don't think for one second she doesn't have it too. You are all bombarded with thoughts and images of other lives thanks to social media. Even the red pill is giving …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:35 PM
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I disagree with you. My power is in controlling what I do, creating my life the way I want it to be. My power is not in attempting to change a society for mass benefit when that society doesn't even want to change. I live to my own moral standards, contribute where I can and let everybody else take care of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:27 AM
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I see your point and I agree with your point. The idealism is where we diverge. There's no doubt things would be better. But it's a problem you can't solve. The world would be a better place if the guy who lied on his resume didn't beat out the honest person because of it. The world would be a better place if it wasn't who you know not what you know. The world would be a better place if nice guys finished first. You see where I'm going with this? I'm not attacking you or trying to bring you down…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:22 AM
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Perhaps. I read it as preferring fairness in these things. I suppose I prefer that too. But you have to be realistic. If that was not the point please feel free to enunciate.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:04 AM
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So? This is like whinging that drug dealers are rich. Of course you can succeed by breaking the rules. So what.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:12 AM
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Just use your brain for one second. If there was a secret you had that could hurt your chances of getting what you want would you be super relaxed about SOME people knowing? Of course not. You wouldn't want anyone to know because the more people who know the more the info can spread. And the more it can spread the more danger you're in. But women will admit super sluttiness with each other if they're close friends and especially if they do it together. Then they both have something to lose and i…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:29 AM
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What the fuck could you be struggling to understand? Women who are known as slutty have no trouble getting laid but a hard time getting men to stick around and commit. This directly hurts their dual sexual strategy and need for security provided by the commitment of a man.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:15 AM
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Why don't you try work experience? You could volunteer some places to get your foot in the door. Or sign up for an apprenticeship and get a trade. Plenty of options beyond what you're planning.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:46 AM
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Yeah look that was probably a bit of hyperbole in my first comment. I just meant you can't be nexting women for what is essentially their inescapable, biologically programmed nature. AWALT man, it is what it is. You have to set your standards just a bit before the incel "Only supermodel virgins with the identical taste in everything as me, who are completely loyal and chaste but will do anything sexual for me." If I nexted every woman for shittesting me, political or otherwise, I wouldn't have a…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:46 AM
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This comment just suggests you don't know women at all. Men need a Caeser, women need a consensus. They are sheep and they will change their "opinions" at the toss of a coin. Hot women fuck criminals. Attraction trumps everything. If women being herd like idiots is enough for you to next them you won't get laid in your life. Moreover why are you taking their words at face value? They don't mean it anyway. Maybe read this post for more clarification on the way women form opinions and make decisio…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:54 AM
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Dude! Hahaha. If this is as bad as it gets for you you're LUCKY. You're learning at a good young age. I can't even count how many fucking mistakes I've made. Anyway, see my second edit for advice on what to do now. 100% you can rebuild frame. Your man Trump is the king of it. No matter what he just never apologises, never even acknowledges the opposing view as possible. Trump is the sort of guy who could shit his pants in class, walk back into school the next day and be so sure of himself that Y…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:41 AM
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Hey buddy. Your conclusions are just a little off. Remember how women communicate covertly? You're taking her words on face value and trying to make them logic up with her actions when they clearly don't. The question you're asking yourself is, "If she thinks this why would she act like that?" Or rather, "Why would she - a woman - change her mind!" (SHOCK) Well spoiler alert it has nothing to do with your opposing political views. Women fuck dudes they disagree with all the time. SJWs fucking Tr…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:12 AM
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The way you describe yourself sounds very attractive. You have a good body, excellent career (at least you're almost certain to), high status within what you do due to excelling at it. Good social skills as well. I'm surprised that there's not more flowing into your lap, a guy of your description is usually surrounded with options because women in the immediate vicinity of a guy like that usually go well out of their way to make themselves available. Perhaps this is happening and you're choosing…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:14 PM
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What the fuck man. What has the world done to you? You're afraid of starting a conversation with a new woman in any capacity? I don't even know where to start. the concept of game is wildly offensive to people in my immediate circles WTF. The concept is offensive? Holy fucking shit. The concept of game is nothing more than dudes talking about how to pick up chicks. That's our favourite past time! Or at least it should be at university age. Just so I've got this straight you don't have anybody, n…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:46 AM
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He's not scared of her. She has something he wants (pussy). He's scared that if he tries and fails (rejection) it's proof he's not worthy. Which is his real fear. Rejection = failure = unworthiness.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:47 AM
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An outside the box solution: find a wingman who is great at approaching. They'll be the perfect person to learn off and perhaps observing someone succeed (and fail) while having fun will help jolt you out of your fearzone. Failing that you can use my opener. It's as simple as you can possibly get: "Hi I don't think I've met you yet. My name's______." And I'll extend my hand to shake their hand. I don't say it exactly like that every time, just some variation. "I don't think we've met yet, Ramess…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:41 AM
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Yeah too easy man, you're watching the principles we espouse in action: men helping men. The thing is, all things such as intelligence being equal, the longer you live the more you'll know and the better you'll get. Experience is a great teacher. And that's the best thing you can take from this place (after the sidebar): learning from other men's experience and having a better life than you would have because of it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:01 AM
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Dude there totally are but you only have to look at gay culture to see what gay mainstream is. Everything is a bell curve. Of all the gays I've met I have but one close gay friend. Why? He's a "straight" gay (their term). As in he is just like one of the boys. But he is absolutely the exception, not the rule. So yeah, nobody is against gays or thinks gayness is bad or whatever. Who cares seriously. It's more just being aware that there's not just AWALT, there's AGALT and AMALT too. As in hard wi…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:36 PM
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I get where you're coming from but gays are massively different in their psychology to straight men. I say that as someone who has worked in travel for a long time (80% women, 15% gay men, 5% straight men). I am completely down with whatever the fuck lifestyle (seriously who gives a shit) but culturally gays are completely incompatible with the sort of positive masculinity we all are trying to foster. It's no problem being friends with them or whatever but just be aware the idea that gay men and…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:11 PM
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Kudos man. I really respect you have the balls to put your pic out there for public consumption. You're doing great, very impressed.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 08:38 PM
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I think if you have a quick squiz at old mate's posting history you'll find that it's highly likely he made this whole thing up. "The better you are the more successful you are." Fact. I'm really just talking about the reverse which OP seems to believe: the more successful I am, the better I am. Let's discuss that. Donald Trump is highly successful. Is he good? Not everyone would say so. A lot of very evil people have been very successful. Fucking killed it at what they did. Likewise we all know…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 04:00 AM
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And on the way out you found $100 that A had dropped and A's real name? Albert Einstein. I'm only riffing you bro, you're doing good. Just try to remember: you're not good if you succeed and you're not bad if you fail. You seem to be lumping people in one of two categories. Your friend's not necessarily a loser, he's just not found his way. He'll get there. Tonnes of us started off bad before we got good. Likewise you've got a fucktonne of ego investment going here. You're putting way too much o…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:57 AM
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Ok brilliant stuff dude, we're all over it! First I just want to say: don't stop cold approaching if you LIKE doing it. If you want to do it, do it, do it for fun! My advice would be to STOP if it's getting you down. Cold approach will eventually work but if your goal is to get plates NOW and all the rejection is affecting your mindset then it's definitely not the right path. But if you're patient and you don't mind just doing it for practice then by all means. My advice was that using tinder or…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:03 PM
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At the end of the day what does it really matter if someone else has a faster path to the goal than you? When you get there you won't care. Put another way, if you were a self made millionaire would you give a fuck some people were born rich? Of course not. You wouldn't care. Other people's journeys don't matter dude, only your own. You will only care about this while you don't have what you want. When you have what you want you will not care what others have. You'll be focused on enjoying your …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:11 AM
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There's just... I mean... there's a lot packed into this one comment. Let's just start with your attitude about what you're looking for. Definitely you experienced some of the pro's of being with women. You should make a permanent list that you periodically update and review of what you're looking for, what's good about women, what you like in women. This will help keep you positive, driving towards what you want and also just feels pretty damn good to think of what's good about them. Women give…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 05:11 AM
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You disagree that men and women are different....? What on earth...? I mean you can disagree with anything. But facts are facts. You can disagree with them but you're wrong. There's only one truth in this instance. Men and women are built and wired completely differently both physically and psychologically. I strongly suggest you read the sidebar and not post until you have.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:04 AM
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How did you get the idea that men and women are the same? That what is for you is what is for them? Have you not read the sidebar?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 03:59 AM
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Dude. Those stories assume way too much responsibility for the outcome on the guy's part. They treat their behaviour like a magic formula - I did x, y, z and got a, b, c, "It's ME!" they shout. But is it? We're in the arena of relationship dynamics. Yes there's broad trends but nothing happens with 100% predictability. For example shock sometimes men turn down sex. That is NOT in the playbook yet it happens. And if you were women working the formulas you would be scratching your head if it happe…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:19 PM
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Hey buddy. You've got a flawed premise that is quite common in pickup circles: the assumption that women can assess a man's worth/attraction and invest in it as quickly as a man can a woman's. Man's attraction to woman is primarily visual. Within 0.1 of a second we know if we want to fuck or not. And the rest of our interest goes from there. Testosterone makes our sex drives powerful enough to drive us through a lot of shit to get to that sex end. A woman's attraction to man is not primarily vis…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:25 AM
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Failure is part of the process. Trying and not succeeding is an essential step on the path to the success. Be easy on yourself. You don't start in the NFL without many years of practice. Where you want to get socially may not even be the NFL. But whatever level you want to play at you'll have to practice before you get good. Nothing slows you down on the path more than intense, judgemental reflection on failure. Just let your failure be. Regroup and improve. You know what to do. It's in the side…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:25 AM
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Cool. Just wanted to make sure you weren't just discovering this stuff. I'm glad to hear.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 11:03 AM
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Hector I'm not saying your wrong but I'm just curious. How many women have you fucked like this? Cause one is a small sample size.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 10:56 AM
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I hate to break it to you buddy but she doesn't need closure. That's just what she told you. Remember the part about watching what they do not listening to what they say? That was the best thing she could think of when you asked. She didn't text him for closure, she text him because she perceives his value as higher than yours and is doing everything possible to setup a branch swing. She will fuck him without commitment, he'll ghost her and you'll never even know. She'll keep you in the backgrou…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 03:06 AM
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Firstly, while Chris Brown maybe better than you and while all our girls will cheat on us or branch swing for a celebrity it's important to note: you are not competing with Chris Brown. Hypergamy is about a woman going for the best man she can get. Most of our women cannot get Chris Brown. This guy has his pick of 10s night and day. Even some 10s wouldn't be able to get Chris Brown - there's literally only so many girls he can fuck and the truth is there's millions upon millions of smoking hot w…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:59 AM
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What is your actual question?
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:54 PM
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Congratulations, you're the biggest loser I've ever seen on this forum. Not only did you quit your full time job at the behest of your (idiot) gf (where does she think money comes from?!?!) you are now stooping to the level of women, i.e. being a whore by trading on your physical appearance for resources. You are a mess. Start with the sidebar and don't post again until you've read it.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 03:34 PM
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Hey bro. I'm proud of how you handled that. It's so fucking good to take that power back. Just a word of advice - I've seen you tell that story a few times now just by randomly browsing through asktrp comment sections. It's time to let go man. Letting her occupy this space in your mind, you're just digging that thought groove deeper. Do you really want to be focused on that story? It's not that great to be honest. Guarantee you've got better ones. And if you don't, you will. Not meaning to rile …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:40 AM
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Hah I don't see why you'd get shit for that, seems like an accurate assessment. The AWALT parts are the solipsism and rationalisation. I'm very much amused by how she struggles to see what was really going on. She's not wrong, it's just funny. She can do whatever she wants. I don't think she fucked up - Will probably just was not that into her and when she said she was leaving he pointed to the door. That's what makes him a legend. If he'd liked her more he probably would have told her about the…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 04:57 AM
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Have you tried not being a complete faggot? This whole post is pathetic. It amounts to, "Boo hoo I want something I can't have, pity me!" Grow the fuck up and accept that you can't always get what you want. You want her and can't have her. That's the end of that.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 09:01 AM
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I'm here for you buddy. Obviously can't be answering questions full time but I find enormous satisfaction in helping people out with my learning. It's been a long journey to where I am and I appreciate that so I'll help out wherever I can. I hope this post helps. I would like to go into more explanation for you regarding "crazy" but don't really have time to make a proper post. Broken down I would say stop viewing them as "crazy" and start seeing that they are slaves to their emotions, therefore…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:54 PM
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Thank you. It's a funny situation the red pill. It's an educational community but like 1st years, 2nd years, 3rd years and 4th years are all in the same class. Too much rehashing of the old stuff and the 4th years will be rolling their eyes; not enough of the basics and the 1st years will end up massively misunderstanding the material. So when I post I try to give either a fresh perspective or communicate the concepts in a way that will help new people develop a broader understanding. I would ha…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 02:55 AM
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That makes sense. The context of covert contracts is taken from No More Mr Nice Guy (here's a summary: http://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.html) and you're probably right about them not ever really being covert. I think we'd do better to call them a false expectation but covert contract has a nice ring to it and is good shorthand. So in this case our false expectation is that you are trading commitment for loyalty in an LTR. You think you are but you aren't. That's what I'm trying to exp…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 02:01 AM
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The thing you need to understand is WHY this bothers you. Why are you so obsessed with her chastity (except with you) and why is her value so intrinsically tied to it in your mind? If you've been on the red pill awhile you'll know exactly what it takes to get a woman to fuck you no strings attached. Do you think only the "bad girls" fall for it and the unicorns don't? Do you look down on women that the red pill works on? All women "fall" for it dude. They're hard wired. Getting upset that she wa…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:24 AM
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The appropriate qualifier to add to any woman's statement is, "Right now I feel like." So for the poster above, "Right now I feel like I am completely loyal to my man." When the time comes, the emotions hit, she's lost attraction or is mad at him about something, an alpha male is there and keen - boom, won't keep her word.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:02 AM
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Dude, I say do it! These guys here worry way too much about protecting themselves from negative consequences. Sure the chances of negative consequences are high - so fucking what! Embrace the good, embrace the bad. As long as you go in with eyes wide open who cares? I can almost guarantee you're going to have a good time. Fucking your oneitis when you feel like it, telling her to fuck off when you don't, openly gaming and pulling other women. And in the meantime your girl is going to be treating…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:44 AM
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Look I couldn't say without either a lot more info or actual observation. But from a very general perspective it seems unlikely she has any kind of feelings for him. Remember how fast women move on from relationships and then rewrite the past? And also remember how once you've slipped from alpha to beta in their view it's almost impossible to change it back? Women are designed to be walking congruence detectors. That's why they don't change back. The risk is too great. Once the beta alarm goes o…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:15 PM
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With all compassion and support bro you are trying way too hard with all this. You see your whole post is a presentation and it's carefully laced with alpha in all the right places. But it's off. Somewhere, somehow, it's off. There's something not genuine about how you're presenting your feelings. You do not need to explain and you do not need to apologise. You're allowed to do whatever you want to do. If you want to be in an LTR just say that you do. Don't tell us why in a pre-emptive defence. …
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:13 AM
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Yeah gotcha. I can see why you would think that. The test basically asks a bunch of if / or questions for: Introversion / Extroversion Ideas and possibilities based on thinking or Reality and Observational based thinking Whether you are more likely to consider feelings (your own or others) or objective reality Whether you find it easy to make a plan and see it through or whether you're more likely to have trouble with that It's not perfect but the answers give a guide to what your brain function…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:32 AM
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Hey broski, I understand if it's not of interest to you and that the idea in concept might seem astrological but that's only due to the bastardisation of Jung's original work on the functions into "personality types" that you can do via an online test. His original work on how people process information and make decisions is very robust, including the pairs they come in. Much like evo psych it's not physically provable just yet but the evidence is compelling none the less. If you are interested …
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:10 AM
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Hello friend. I'm going to give you the sort of advice you'd want from an older brother. Not emotional stuff about being a 'cuck' or all that other ego based garbage judgement. Just an explanation and advice. Firstly, for all the loveliness of this girl (and I'm sure she has lots about her that's awesome) she is clearly addicted to feeling like a sexual object. Think about how eagerly she would take her top off and get flogged by her friend's boyfriend in a semi-public setting. That feeling of b…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 04:03 AM
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Yeah see here's the major, major problem with red pill: all the facts are intensely clouded by judgement and emotion. Even the great Rollo's works carry an implicit judgement on the wrongness of the way women are and he presents it all from the perspective of men and how we're adversely affected by it. Dudes on here are quick to throw shade on all women with virtually no tangible evidence to back it up beyond a narrow field of anecdotal experience. I like to take a patient mindset. I'll explore …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:18 AM
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Try for yourself bro. It's all about immersion. Even after you cum in their mouth you still want to fuck them right? Or will a few minutes later. Remember women's arousal is like a volume knob, ours is like an on off switch. They don't get turned on or off as fast as we do. After you cum just keep the action going. Most women find a man coming sexy as most men do with women. They'll like that you're turned on and passionate. Remember men lead, women follow. Never is this truer than in the bedroo…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:22 AM
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Woah. Hell yes you should try it. Way more fun. Go no fap for a week and then ease yourself in by fapping with lube. You won't believe how much more free you are when you come quick first time. You can be so enthusiastic and just blow knowing you're going to give her the business as hard and fast and as long as you want second time. You also won't care as much about nutting second time. It's brilliant for immersion, highly recommended it.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:15 AM
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It's strange that you see it that way. There's certainly some overlap. But to say this is part of AWALT? Every girl I've ever met is hypergamous. Are you saying every girl you've ever met morphs herself to be a reflection of what she feels her partner needs? What about the women who are cunts to and bully their partners? What about women who drone on about feminism? What about the stubborn liberal women who are fucking Trump supporters? As written in /u/sadomasochrist 's comment up above what th…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 09:12 AM
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Hey buddy. This is absolutely NOT claimed by TRP to be more or less typical of most women. This type certainly exists though it's commonly recognised as BPD. Have a look at /u/CounselorToPa 's post titled Brother's Book: Chapter II: BPDs and Cluster Bs, F*ck that Shit, It’s Not For Me: Idealization, Devaluation, Discard, Repeat. Read the comments, a lot of men can relate to this kind of thing. The website for that post is here: http://www.bookofbrother.com/ You are far better off reading Rollo T…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:26 AM
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No worries. I like to study these things too. This video has no breakdown but it is an absolute masterclass in controlling an interaction through silence and pacing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wF7Dc6_Xudc See how he's relaxed, non-reactive but keeps dropping these gems with utter certainty. The pacing is absolutely critical. He never rushes. He lets jokes sits. He lets everything absorb. He lets the tension build up BEFORE he drops a line. Just lets things build and sit there and then when …
/r/askTRP06/06/17 07:09 AM
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Hah I'm guessing So Flo is somewhere in America? I am not American which is why I asked. If you have never travelled outside the US and have not been to Asia prepare to have your mind blown. Travelling between the anglosphere (Australia, New Zealand, UK, USA, Canada) is kind of like visiting your aunts and uncles. They have their own culture but it's clear they come from the same family. Visiting Asia on the other hand is, at first, like going to another planet. I love the anglosphere but I also…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 01:00 AM
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Where are you from? What do you know already?
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:52 PM
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Hey brosef it's almost certainly your lack of congruence between your gaming actions and the real you. This is extremely common in PUA and part of the inevitable progression towards a greater focus on inner game. Look I don't want to talk down to you in case you've already got it but I'm going to break it down for anyone younger who might be reading. PUA and game is all about demonstrating attractiveness through contrived behaviour. You act like you're a movie star and it works initially to conv…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:51 AM
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Cool should just kill yourself then. Or mope your whole life. It's not changing so make your choice. Seriously get it together man. Boo fucking hoo. You've told us what's against you now tell us what's going for you.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 10:30 PM
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Is this the vapid ballet dancer?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:51 PM
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Jesus Christ. It's not wrong in the sense that nothing is really wrong but it's an incredibly weak frame and a horrible way of approaching things. Where does it end? Jealous of the birds that can fly? Hot young women with their endless options? What about the stars and the sky? Get a grip man, you're not special, you don't deserve to be handed anything and how does it affect you if others were? If Chad's fucking a thousand broads it doesn't mean anything to whether you're getting what you want. …
/r/askTRP26/05/17 01:44 AM
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It happens bro. It's not your fault. We're all just doing the best we know how. Actually what you described happened almost exactly that way to one of my employees and he's literally the best looking guy I know (women constantly approach him, male model level, etc). The difference between him and you is he's back in another beta, blue pill relationship getting towed around by the nuts and hasn't learned yet. Learning the hard way sucks but the way I look at it is we all become better AFTER we so…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:24 AM
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Is.. is this your first day on the red pill? There's so many basic premises you've missed friend. The most glaringly obvious knowledge gap is the concept of alpha fucks / beta bucks (women's dual mating strategy). They get wet for the big strong alpha (masculine physical appearance, strong identity, doesn't easily compromise, has a lot of women interested in him, has high status, etc) but settle down with the beta (nice to her, provides for her, potential good father / husband, secure, etc). Rea…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:00 AM
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Hey buddy, there's real observable consistency to good story telling. This dude has a youtube channel called Charisma on Command where he breaks down exactly what famous people do to make them charismatic. This one below is on how Kevin Hart captures people's attention so I'd recommend starting with that one. But there's a whole heap on there that are an absolute gold mine. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vn_L4OPU_rg&index=21&list=PLefV978fp07dSgTtttgZwaP7bSwb5qfJJ
/r/askTRP23/05/17 01:32 AM
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Pity party aside bro there's a couple of answers. They aren't easy...but if they were you would have already done them. The first is status. I'm assuming fame is too high a goal for you so let's leave it at status which is essentially localised fame. If you can get to the top of any social scene you can look like Danny DeVito and slay all the hottest bitches. The second is cultural arbitrage. I.e. move yourself to somewhere that (a) your status is naturally lifted and (b) you become taller by re…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:50 AM
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Ah gotcha. Who I am as a person? My self image when I think about myself? Pride and a winner. I'm someone who takes pride. I'm someone who wins. It sounds like you've got women sorted which is awesome. I can give you specific advice on how to be successful in my areas (sales and business). But I think what you're getting at is how do you hold frame in the workplace yeah? Honestly it's all mindset. You can't win everything, you can't always succeed. You have to believe that failure is an ESSENTIA…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:46 PM
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My self image? Total, complete and uncompromising certainty in who I was. Not self belief like "I can do anything!" or even like "I'm going to achieve X." I would describe it as the epitome of "This is who I am, like it or don't. If you don't, I don't care." That is a VERY powerful stance to take into a relationship. I'm assuming you're young, I'm going to give you two bits of advice that you'll likely never hear: There is literally nothing in the world you can do that you will not do better if …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:40 AM
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A lot of the horror stories are men who used red pill concepts to attract women and then reverted to beta behaviour only to have their hearts ripped out. You can't just take on the alpha behaviours. If you don't genuinely become alpha then it's irrelevant. As you said, either her or the hardships of life will break you.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:21 AM
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I will explain for you but everything you need to know is somewhere in the sidebar. The definition of loyalty is making a commitment to someone or something and sticking it out no matter how adverse. Women's hardwired sexual strategy (known as hypergamy) prevents them from displaying this behaviour in relationships. Men and women are biologically hard wired with certain behaviour patterns thanks to hormones. All men are born with a polygamous nature. That means that no matter how attracted we ar…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:19 AM
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If you're truly detached from the outcome then it won't matter. Outcome independence is a good trait to work on.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:08 AM
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Hey buddy. I'm really glad to hear you say that, I appreciate it. I like the idea that we're all looking out for each other. Regarding the LTR in my post. It was a good experience but she was AWALT and intensely hypergamous. She has consistently cheated and branch swung on her partners in the years since. What I was getting at is that due to the nature of our relationship her AWALT-ness was never able to hurt me and thus we had a really good time. I held all the power because our relationship wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:00 AM
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I'm stunned that you have not experienced this yet but you said the company was male dominated and you may also be young. Yes this is exactly how women behave at all ages in the workplace. If you can avoid women in the workplace I recommend it.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 06:32 AM
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My friend if you're constantly improving then in my opinion you're killing it. At 4 you're invisible, hell at 6-6.5 you're mostly invisible but if you keep going it won't be long before you get the kind of attention you want. The key to all this is to just completely own who you are. When you're like that you literally don't care if people like you or not. Does Bruce Willis look like he's trying to get your approval? But it gets confused in here because success and winning is so much tied to sco…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:09 AM
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The only thing that makes someone an idiot is trying to control the behaviour of others. Rejecting them because you don't like it and setting a standard of what is and isn't acceptable to you is absolutely fine. I personally have no issue with a girl still contacting her ex but if I did I would simply make it clear that it was my line. If a girl crossed it I would leave. That's what all this is about. Setting standards for yourself and not backing down over them. A lot of guys will say I don't w…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:18 AM
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You're a smart guy, I'm impressed that you've been able to break down and recognise the underlying formulas and articulate them so eloquently. I actually remember you from your recent post. The red pill is guidelines on how to get to graduate status and those of us have internalised are here to share not mislead. You can have what you want. There's a path to it. I enjoy telling my stories, I hope you or someone else enjoys reading them. One more thing to note is that you can't earn "red pill" or…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:06 AM
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Very true. All young, reasonably attractive women have options but if you're dating really hot ones you're going to need to be pretty amazing to end up with the dynamic I described. I know what I am. I'm not in the league of 1%ers. I'm good enough to stay in control with women who are attractive to me and have fulfilling relationships with them. I'd like to lie and tell you I'm banging three 9s and they all worship me and only me... but then I would be like the other type of posters you see on t…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:32 PM
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Truth is I wrote this for me but I wanted to share it. Dear Skinny L is as easily distracted as they come, I'd be stunned if she was still looking at the red pill since we haven't talked about it for years. Plus my account is new so the odds are pretty low.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:27 PM
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Oh sorry brother, I didn't really think I needed to verbalise the sexual aspect. It was there though, we'd bang once or twice a day except her period when she'd give me blowjobs everyday. It was pretty good. Part of the dynamic was her serving me. She was very eager to please. On sex, and this is an aside but important to remember - the man leads and sets the tone. If you're a bit of an animal they're going to go along with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:16 PM
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Haha what? Why on earth would you think I wasn't fucking her or getting my dick sucked? Lol of course I was.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:12 PM
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That is the absolute best distinction. A woman will display all the outward signs of loyalty as she believes you're her best available option. That's not real loyalty. Real loyalty is sticking with your mates or partner through thick and thin. You make a commitment to them and unless they betray you in some way you stay. That's what fucks so many men up when it comes to leaving LTRs ESPECIALLY marriages. For many they can't make peace with leaving no matter how bad it gets. The amount of "8 year…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:07 PM
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There's a solid lesson there in how her new boyfriends reacted to her still talking to me and what the outcome was. They should have had the balls to downgrade or leave her if it bothered them or possibly been man enough to not give a fuck, not feel threatened or insecure and she probably would have quickly forgotten about me.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 10:54 PM
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Perhaps you're right friend, perhaps you're right. There's always a great deal of nuance lost in text communication. Perhaps in person we could come to a greater clarity. Either way it's not really relevant; it's not important for us to agree. If we have divergent viewpoints and missions so be it. Here's what I've learned in my life. I only really learn through experience. Sure I can think I get something by hearing about it. But I don't really til I've done it. Example: you can read every book …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:50 PM
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Oh man you're really getting hung up here. Ignore the lines and pretend you just wrote the principles of what to say. It's still the exact same thing: a super strategic way of behaving to manipulate a girl's response. You won't be alpha but you'll slay like one. PUA which is what you teach is all about using planned behaviour to manipulate. It's not about internalising what makes a man extremely attractive and becoming that. What you teach has its place but it's not for everybody. Look how frust…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:05 PM
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Not at all. It's a great idea. That's what game is at first. You're not Chad Thundercock inside but if you act like him you can slay like him. It's still not real.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:52 PM
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I don't think there's a collective "we" here endorsing anything beyond evolutionary biological truths but I hear what you're saying. We all have choices. Women to stay, men to leave. There are no contracts except the ones we make up. In Skinny L's case though you may be relieved to hear I left her with many many child bearing years left although she still hasn't used them for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:27 PM
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Hey brother I see where you're coming from with that. It's a bit outside the usual view. I guess I just wanted to share my own experiences with women that aren't negative and get across my appreciation for what are some of the immense positives I found in a long term cohabitating relationship. I never experienced a power struggle and I was never beaten down. My experience has been that being completely unapologetic in who you are while also having options means you never experience any of the "e…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:47 PM
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Not the guy you responded to but I'll engage. Everything about this is a super strategic and controlled manipulation. That's PUA not red pill. PUA is giving a beta an alpha script and telling him to read his lines. Red pill is becoming a person whose natural behaviour is extremely attractive as a byproduct of internalising truth and improving and changing who you are. Having a checklist of what to say and when in order to get a woman into bed is decidedly not that. Not against PUA though, it cer…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 06:32 AM
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This is textbook PUA advice. In other words how to externally act like an alpha without internally actually being one.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:57 AM
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Woah hold the phone. I've got red hair and consistently met women who live for it (full histories of just gingers). Obviously that's confirmation bias as I'm far more likely to end up pulling women with a predisposition to my hair colour. But I've never ever heard of red hair as a barrier to pulling women. Sort your frame out brosef, go lift some weights and follow the rest of the red pill advice before using something as stupid as hair colour for why you can't get women. In the meantime here's …
/r/askTRP15/05/17 03:26 AM
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Brosef I absolutely loved your post and it was highly upvoted and well received. A lot of people would have both enjoyed and taken inspiration from it. Don't let the haters win. Don't let em bring you down! That's true frame. Laugh and move on. Don't even give them a second thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 07:01 AM
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Indeed buddy sorry to say. It's a complex issue but here is some food for thought. The bottom 80% of men are more or less invisible to women. If she perceives your SMV as equal or lower than hers then why would she bother shit testing you? Just as you probably don't spend much time flirting with or thinking about women you don't want to bone. But just as some dudes will flirt with everyone from old ladies to fatties some chicks (and dudes) will shit test everyone. So just as everything with the …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 01:04 AM
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A rather stark contrast to the "fuck it" girl who went into the comments to defend every negative thing said about her then deleted her account. I saw she was still sending PM's to people after. Beautiful on the outside, worthless on the inside. This dude was the opposite of that. Ugly as fuck but adding value.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 11:25 PM
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Dude. You guys are it. You're exactly what I'm talking about. Physical appearance isn't a limitation unless you behave in accordance with it. If you behave how you want then you'll eventually win because how you act trumps all. But it's not easy and that's why I shared that link. I want these young guys to see that regardless of how you look you can act how you want.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 10:52 AM
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Exactly brother! If you can pull this off you won't have to give a fuck about how you look.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 10:29 AM
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Mate that's hilarious. The beauty of A&A is it's not about their reaction to them. It's about you not giving a fuck. By doing what you did you held your frame.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 08:09 AM
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Absolutely brilliant post. Understanding the cause and effect nature of reality is the final solution for me. It's what I've always been chasing. It takes a long, long time and a lot of observation and practice. Even just to figure out and master it in any given discipline takes years let alone for something as big and all encompassing as life. But we are figuring it out brothers, one area at a time.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 06:00 AM
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Agreed. It's hard to argue with people too and that just quantum leaps when you they're both angry and have just learned the definition of alpha and about not giving a fuck. So I won't engage too much. But I will continue to try to shoehorn a bit of guidance on the real goal which is getting a great life for yourself and finding that emotional place you want to live in.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:36 AM
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Don't misunderstand the main reasons for lifting in the red pill context. There are two: The process of it is extremely beneficial to your physical and mental health. Having a physically attractive body helps you pull women. If you get in the gym regularly enough to get the physical and mental benefits and your body is good enough that you can pull women with it then you're doing all you need to do. Those men who have an insane over the top devotion to their physical appearance aren't doing any …
/r/askTRP11/05/17 11:22 AM
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I love it bro, the best part is if you've got abs you're going to be carrying around a silent confidence knowing you're peaking, knowing you can take your shirt off and be proud as fuck. If you ever lose them though just don't sweat it, as often discussed there's a lot of ingredients that go into making you the perfect man.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 10:31 AM
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Exactly man you're getting it. Getting to that ratio is the hottest version of yourself. Either broaden your shoulders or shrink your waist. Abs are a by product of the latter. Which I suppose goes some way to explaining their correlation with hot bodies. If you've got abs you've probably got a good ratio and that's what makes you hot. But society is full of idiots who don't look too deeply into things, hence the truth is not common knowledge. See think about what the red pill is: truth. It's ab…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:39 PM
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Oh the buzzfeed article was to draw a parallel with what OP found in his ask women thread. That in popular culture you see the same thing. If you're interested in the science behind it you can check out the other two articles or hit google scholar with terms like hips to waist ratio attractiveness. It's well worn territory and has been asked and answered a thousand times so there's a lot of articles on it.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:34 PM
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Hey buddy. If you're struggling to get abs I've got some great news for you: they don't mean shit. Women exclusively respond to hip/waist/shoulder ratio in terms of universalities. Abs are purely a cultural signifier. They became fashionable and now if you've got them it holds status. But biologically it doesn't mean shit. Women outside of six pack obsessed cultures are no more attracted to a man with abs than without if they both have the same hip/waist/shoulder ratio. Take for example this pic…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 12:36 PM
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Hey buddy. PM me where you live. All my friends who live in my city are not just LTR'd but are pretty much impossible to convince to go for a drink or really ever do anything anymore.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 05:13 AM
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At some point every one of us gets told not to do something stupid, does it anyway and then has to live with the consequences. As rough as this lesson will be for your buddy it sounds like he's going to have to learn it the hard way. And as bad as that will be he will come out a better man with more knowledge on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 01:27 AM
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You can engage them. Just be aware of the consequences. They won't like you because you'll make them feel antagonised, judged, looked down upon. So just know that's what the outcome will be and if you still want to engage go for it. Just remember to own the consequences and not give a shit.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 05:18 AM
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It's written at the bottom of this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/676pte/success_with_women_cliff_notes_for_quick_reference/
/r/askTRP27/04/17 12:21 AM
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