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Honestly, it's the "gentlemanly" thing to do, especially in the first dates. If the girl is well mannered she'll suggest to split the bill, especially if it's an expensive dinner and not just a cup of coffee. Say yes, don't insist on paying for everything by yourself.
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:56 PM
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Haha this is pretty funny, I might give a shot sometime just for the heck of it.
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:45 PM
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"Oh hey, insert_name_here. How have you been? That was a pretty cool concert huh? (or pretty crazy day huh?). So .. I've be meaning to ask you (or I've been wondering) if you'd like to go out with me sometime." Honestly it's a very simple situation, no need to worry about it. Also don't over-think or analyze every small detail. Just go for it! If she says Yes, "okay cool, can I have your number?". If she says no at first, but then suggests another date or time, take it. Otherwise at least you'll…
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:44 PM
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Well it's been a few months since all of this happened but I'll try to explain. You see, as soon as I seduced new_girl and got really close to her, I realized that there were "other fish in the sea". And even though crush_girl had started noticing me after that, I didn't think for one second about talking to her, because in some way I had found something better, and the crush feelings faded away.
/r/seduction21/08/13 04:27 AM
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Exactly. Even a small random compliment is a million times better than just silence. And hey it's been 4 months, any progress?
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:34 PM
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Haha at that point from my POV I thought I was just "experimenting" and trying different lines. At the end I was surprised by how much everything worked out for the best.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:33 PM
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Thank you! I'm glad to hear people are still reading this and finding it helpful.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:31 PM
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You used a nice girl to get the attention of a slut? I wouldn't say "used". I didn't get to know a nice girl and game her just to get the attention of another girl. Let's just say that getting the attention was some kind of a bonus. Nothing happened/will ever happen with crush_girl though.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:30 PM
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Nope nothing happened and nothing will ever happen.
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:26 PM
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Thanks for the awesome reply, good for you man!
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:25 PM
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If you're afraid of sounding like a jerk just tease her about it and then hold it. In some situations girls don't do this just to test you, sometimes they need to search for something in their purse or they need to text or.. It happened to me the other day, I had to hold a cup of coffee for a few seconds, so I said "Ugh what am I? Your servant?", she teased me back and said "Oh boo-hoo! Cry-baby! Come on please, just 5 seconds". I smiled and took the cup. However, if a girl is asking you to hold…
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:10 AM
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I never thought it was such a big deal until I stopped doing it, especially when trying to participate in group conversations to meet people through my friends. Stop checking your phone. If you're checking for the time you'll look like you're bored, you don't want to talk to anybody, and you're just waiting to get the hell outta there. If you go on Reddit or something, you'll get sucked into it and spend at least 20minutes looking down at your phone and isolating yourself from everyone else. No …
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:50 PM
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Look at the side bar and scroll down a little bit, you'll see the list of the mods, and there's also [message the mods]
/r/seduction11/03/13 03:21 PM
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Yeah I can't see it either. It may have got caught in the spam filter (sometimes it happens). You should message the mods about it.
/r/seduction11/03/13 03:05 PM
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Lucky bastard. My hands are freezing all the time. It's a good thing during the summer though.
/r/seduction09/03/13 11:13 AM
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"When you put someone on a pedestal, they have no choice but to look down upon you"
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:23 PM
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It was basically because I wasn't nervous around her. I was still blinded by crush_girl. I read a lot of posts about witty replies and shit tests. That definitely helped. Also try to learn sarcasm and practice whenever there's a chance. Eventually you'll become a "natural" and feel that you have a cheesy joke or a pun for any situation.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:30 AM
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As I explained we're kinda busy studying right now. Next week is midterm week. We did however agree on going out the minute it's over. I know exactly what you're talking about that why I'm trying to keep her interested and spice things up whenever we're texting.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:27 AM
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2 months ago I didn't even what a "shit test" meant. There are some pretty cool posts in here. [Common shit tests] [Agree and amplify] I don't want to sound like an ass but just google "shit tests"! You'll be amazed with the top results.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:23 AM
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Yes. HB=Hot Babe. The number is the rating. 6 or 7 is usually the average.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:18 AM
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No need to force yourself to talk to strangers. Just hangout with friends. Make some new ones. You'll eventually get to know more people and even meet cute girls without the need to approach random girls. Don't worry too much about it, it will come.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:17 AM
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YES that too! Imagine if one of new_girl's friends was actually the crush. That would've been too perfect haha. Thank you! You too man!
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:16 AM
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That HAS GOT to change man! Just take baby steps. Start by making guy-friends. You'll eventually find yourself participating in group conversations and you might feel confident because your friends are there with you.
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:14 AM
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Yes having conversations has definitely helped. Sometimes even joking around with my guy-friends helps me come up with witty and sarcastic replies. As I mentioned in another reply, I loved watching House and never missed a single episode, his sarcasm and wittiness are very unique. Watching sitcoms also helps. Also being around girls in general helped a lot. Just try to understand how sarcasm works, and remember that people will generally accept anything as long you say it with a smile or a smirk…
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:09 AM
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Good luck bro. Yeah exactly just get to know people and make some friends. You don't have to start by hitting on the hottest girl around. Baby steps work!
/r/seduction07/03/13 11:01 AM
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Thank you! As for the kissing question, she laughed at first and said: -HAHA you do realize that according to the rules you WILL have to answer this question too right? -Yeah but you have to do it first! Hah! -Dammit. Then she blushed and said yes, she'd let me. I never know when to pull the trigger and when to hold/back off. There are some really good posts in here about that. Just try to act "casual" as if you don't really need that girl. Make her understand that you're there if she accepts to…
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:58 AM
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A little to the left! Let's just say : REVOLUTION!
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:54 AM
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As I explained we're kinda busy studying right now. Next week is midterm week. We did however agree on going out the minute it's over.
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:52 AM
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I will upvote you, you can't tell me what to do! But hey, great points. I couldn't have explained it better myself. Thank you!
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:51 AM
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Some guys are so self-confident that everytime they get a boner when they approach a hot girl they just don't give a shit about it and even push it up against her if they're getting physical or are in a closed and crowded space.
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:46 AM
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Like a fuckin' boss!
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:43 AM
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I read a lot of seduction and "game" posts and articles, and not just on reddit. Sometimes I'd put random keywords (like social games, seduction questions, flirting, etc..) in Google and go through the results. I tried this one game that I had read about in some pick-up forum: You tell her that you're gonna ask her a few questions, and that you need to hold her hand while you're asking (Just ask a couple of random questions). Then put a finger really close to her nose without touching it and ask…
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:41 AM
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I'm just lucky most girls here have never even heard of Reddit!
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:30 AM
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You have to realize that being the extremely nice and polite guy won't get you anywhere. Improve your sense of humor, and practice sarcasm. Try to be a smart-ass and come up with witty replies and snappy comebacks. TV shows and movies helped me a lot (I loved watching House because of his sarcasm and wittiness). Read articles and posts about shit-tests. And practice. If you can't find girls, just practice on your friends. Hell sometimes I even practice on my mother. I tease her all the time with…
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:54 PM
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Thank you it means a lot!
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:33 PM
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-Good good, now ask her about what she's gonna major in.. -But.. She's not even in college.. -Don't go off-script god dammit!
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:31 PM
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Gotta go out and find them! Visit parks, coffee shops etc.. Other parts of the campus is a good idea too. As for that particular shit-test: When I told her I woke up 5am to practice, I was amplifying and exaggerating. She wasn't really asking a question, she was kinda teasing me and making fun of me, implying that I'm slow and that it took me a long period of time to come up with that compliment or whatever it is that I said to her. Saying "I just thought of that" or "I dunno I've been thinking …
/r/seduction06/03/13 11:27 PM
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Holy shit it's you! INTERNET HUGS That was an awesome piece of advice man! And I'm glad you liked this post!
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:35 PM
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She sounds like a great girl. I hope everything works out for you. Yep that's pretty much it, just go out there and have fun. You won't miss anything. If she ever changes her mind, you'll be there!
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:10 PM
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Yeah that should be good too. She needs to know that you're interested, but not to a point where you'd spend all your time pursuing her. Watch out for the shit tests; if she says no when you ask her out don't get pushy or anything, just say something like "Well you have my number, call when you change your mind, see ya". That's all that I can think of right now, I'm not really an expert when it comes to this kind of situations. You're probably more qualified than me to answer your own questions!
/r/seduction06/03/13 10:06 PM
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I feel that it's all worth it when I receive replies like this one. Thank YOU!
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:25 PM
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True. But to be on the safe side, I prefer shaving or keeping it trimmed. If you find out that that particular girl likes long beards you can grow one and make her think that you did it just for her.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:25 PM
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You can definitely fix this. Just try to ignore that night, she'll only think it was awkward if you act like it was. Go out for another walk. If you wanna stay close for the kino, don't go to restaurants or coffee shops. A walk in a park and ice cream should be good enough.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:24 PM
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Haha mine is Olivia Wilde.. But it shouldn't stop us from finding happiness with other people now should it?
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:20 PM
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Awesome reply! I actually like that "pattern". In groups it's easier to get the girl to notice you, plus you get a glimpse of her personality and right there you can decide if she's worth it or not. Also no need for openers and weird conversation starters. You shouldn't feel bad if you still can't approach random strangers though, as long as you still hang out with groups of friends.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:18 PM
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Haha yep that's gonna be my major!
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:10 PM
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¿por qué no los dos?
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:08 PM
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I giggle everytime I read this comment! Edit : 4 hours later, I still giggle like a little bitch.
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:38 PM
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True. Some girls find 3-days-beard very appealing (Kinda like George Clooney)
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:35 PM
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I don't really know what kind of questions you're looking for but I'll give you some examples : Have you ever broken any rules? What was the best day of your life? What is the most important thing in your life? What type of music do you think I listen to? There are a lot of interesting questions on /r/AskReddit. You can even ask the weird ones and then give some suggestions you saw in the top comments. Example :"If you could reengineer the human body, what would you change?"
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:33 PM
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Glad to hear that. And don't worry about the striking-out, it's all part of the game!
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:16 PM
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IT WILL! And good luck, come back with the results!
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:13 PM
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Haha yeah it's a nice stress reliever. Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it.
/r/seduction06/03/13 07:11 PM
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Well now that she has noticed me, and after all that's happened in the past 2 weeks, I feel confident enough to hit on her. But I won't. New_girl and I have gotten really close and like each other a lot. We can't stay "just friends" at this point. Plus, she made me forget about crush_girl. She's definitely a keeper.
/r/seduction06/03/13 05:45 PM
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When I was 16: cute girl in my high school, 1 year younger than me. Every single time I think of approaching her I just chicken out and decide to "postpone" it (My stupid brain : "This is not the perfect chance man, let's just let it go and wait for another, it's ok we'll get her next time"). It went on like this for weeks. Then one day, 2 friends of mine had had enough of my shit and literally threw me at her. bump "Aouch!" "Uhm.. Hi.. I.. I.. I'm sorry.. It's my friends' fault they.. Uhm heehh…
/r/seduction22/02/13 09:29 PM
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Been there, it's called approach anxiety (read it, it's really good). Now if what you say is true, there's absolutely no reason for you to not have the courage to do something about it. You do realize that us guys are the ones usually doing the staring right? If a girl is starting at you, it means she's interested, and she probably wants you to talk to her. So what are you waiting for? If a girl is interested, the chances of you getting rejected are pretty slim. Always keep in mind that she migh…
/r/seduction20/02/13 12:10 PM
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I'm not really sure about this but if you start the conversation again just to ask for the number or something you might sound kinda needy or clingy. She probably hasn't come over there yet, so give it a few days and at least wait until she comes to ask her out. And she'll probably let you know as she said she would, so don't worry and good luck!
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:59 PM
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Don't bring up random unrelated topics just so that you can give your opinion on them, and don't kill the conversation with one word replies like "Ok" or "Lol". You don't have to talk all day, you can take pauses " This has been fun but I kinda have to go to do bla bla, talk to you later ", and you can just resume later " Hey I'm back! So what have you been up to ? "
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:55 PM
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That's the thing with close friends, they know you too well, that's why they notice every small change in your personnality/behaviour. I'm not saying you should ignore him but don't take his feedback too seriously. You changed into a better person, and he'll eventually adapt to the changes.
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:49 PM
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I read this just after reading the other response I got from ARealSocialIdiot, it's like they complement each other. Now that I have taken a step back and tried to look at this objectively, I totally understand what you both are talking about. I dare you to prove to me that she isn't Haha challenge accepted my friend! Thank you for the encouraging words!
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:33 PM
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I read this at least 10 times. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it. I would've probably said something similar if one of my friends was having this problem. It's ridiculous how quickly I lost my objectivity and how I haven't been able to think straight all day just because for once it happened to ME. Took me some time to snap out of it, but hey, at least I did. Now that I think of it, at least I didn't blow it up by forcing myself to talk to her with the risk of sounding stressed o…
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:17 PM
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True. I've probably read most of them already, I'm just wondering about the "regret" feelings I got. AA isn't really a big problem for me, but for some reason it happened to me today and I'm just worried about how what I felt after it and how to deal with it, because I don't believe that I ever chickened out before.
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:40 PM
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I'm not really an expert but you should first understand a girl's tolerance for touch, don't put your hand on the back of a girl you've only known for a few minutes. I guess you could start with the arm/elbow or even shoulder, like : Girl : "Ugh I've had a really bad day bla bla [something bad happened to her]" You : "Oh I'm really sorry to hear that" touch elbow or arm like you're comforting her Also you should look confident when you're doing it, as if it was just a normal thing you're used to…
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:35 PM
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Hello fellow Sedditors! I'm a sophomore in college, and there's this cute classy girl I have a huge crush on. She's always surrounded by the same group of friends (and I don't know any single one of them) or just random guys hitting on her. I started to take care of myself and dress better the past few weeks just because of her. And today, for the first time, I saw her walking alone, and she was coming my way. It was a perfect scenario, exactly like what I had imagined several times. I thought t…
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:15 PM
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