RandoRambo1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is this a rejection? Or is her reasoning actually the reason why?	Field Report	RandoRambo1	/r/seduction	27/07/24 09:43 PM

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1	How do YOU hookup at clubs? You don’t. And this is why men and women are no longer going to clubs, like they used to, to get laid. Clubs now are just sausage fests to such a degree that they need to damn near give women free drinks, free entry at the door, AND pay them to even show up anymore. Clubs are mostly just dudes sweating and thinking they have a chance. Women aren’t at clubs anymore, they’re at bars and the gym. The gym especially, because that is where the kinds of guys they are actually aroused by happen to be l…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 07:55 PM
143	Where to look for a sex casual friend? Women who are married. I wouldn’t suggest this, but many women refuse to sleep with their husbands (“honeymoon phase” wore-off, loss of attraction, etc). These women love their husbands and genuinely want to be with/ see a future with him, but they don’t understand why there isn’t any romance or sexual spark between her and her husbands anymore. Women fulfill this need very often by using men who are coworkers, friends with benefits, ex boyfriends, or guys that her girlfriends introduce her to. …	/r/seduction	02/10/25 03:27 PM
14	What is the best career for game ? Male nurse	/r/seduction	31/05/25 12:51 AM
1	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? Man mistakens a K-Selected species for an R-Selected species. Women aren’t men. Women like different things and prioritize different traits than men.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 04:54 AM
1	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? bro might be cooked	/r/seduction	08/04/25 04:50 AM
1	Do you realize that an average looking woman can have 100+ men show up at her door, willing to fuck her, within 1 hour? Welcome to day one of understanding the game. I don’t know where the fuck you’ve been your entire life but congrats you’re here and that’s all that matters. We all start somewhere. To answer your question: Yes, women have an insane amount of options, and 99% of those options will never “hit”, will never get a chance,.. Women are so selective with the men they actually fuck, date, marry. Most men don’t have the courage at all to approach, and of the 99% of men who do approach, will not get a chan…	/r/seduction	08/04/25 04:45 AM
2	What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results? If you are struggling with dating as a man, it’s not because women’s notch count, women’s attitude, or “hookup culture”, it’s because you are unattractive. Most of your problems as a man really are your fault (a result of your behaviours and choices). And that is great because you also have to power to change, and to improve your lot in life. Biggest realization was my lowest points are my fault and I’m responsible for those as well as having the power to fix my life.	/r/seduction	30/03/25 12:02 AM
2	I get zero action on dating apps Most women meet most men via: - social circle (guys her girlfriends introduce her to) - ex’s - coworkers - fwb’s - girls nights out Women very rarely meet with guys from dating apps (unless you are too 3-5% in looks and/or money). Women are banging guys from the 5 avenues listed above, with the vast majority coming from guys her girlfriends introduce her to. Figure out how to be that guy. A really great starting point is to get female wingmen, be hot enough that these women trust you, and that i…	/r/seduction	17/09/24 07:49 PM
13	For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and bad 1) Online dating is one of the main methods people are meeting, but usually only ends up being hookups not relationships/ongoing. Also the guys who do really well on dating apps tend to be guys who have maximized on looks, and portraying a fun lifestyle. Meanwhile the average man (90%+) is invisible and gets absolutely no action. 2) Social circle game is still (by far) king when it comes to attracting beautiful women, simply because this has always been the number one method women have used to s…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 11:05 PM
0	As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman? Most women are higher bodycount than you would feel comfortable with to begin with anyways. The average lifetime partners for millennial and gen z women at this point are probably 10-20. If you think it’s less than 3, I have a bridge to sell you. Go hang out with platonic girlfriends and just observe them and their dating during 18-24 alone and you will see how ridiculous it is to expect anything less than 5 in a lifetime. However the notion that women have 30+ bodies is probably as rare as a wo…	/r/seduction	14/07/24 07:01 PM
1	13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteran Okay, then the second half of mine may apply. This may be just a soft rejection, maybe her ex came back, maybe another guy got in there and is better than you and she’s going to see him for a while, or she may actually just be busy. Give it time, and check in with her at a later time. If she’s really that into you, she will at least have some incentive to reach out to you and keep you as an option. The worst thing you can do is bombard and come across desperate or needy. Be attractive, don’t be …	/r/seduction	04/07/24 07:01 PM
5	13 years+ into game. Need advice from a veteran What a lot of guys do wrong is they do not spike a woman’s emotions enough in-person (build tension, escalate to kiss and/or sex, leave her with butterflies in her stomach), and instead come across too platonic in person. After coming across too platonic in person, guys will try to compensate for a lack of emotional spiking on the date, by texting her consistently immediately after the date to try and set up another. This transition between the in-person date, and the lack of feelings you made h…	/r/seduction	04/07/24 06:47 PM
1	How bad is it to have 2 girlfriends If both women are under the assumption that your relationship with them is “exclusive”, then not the best idea. However, unless you have had that talk, I hate to break it to you, those two chicks you’re dating also have multiple men in a rotation, and you’re just one of them. Women are natural plate spinners, and often have a rotation of men when “single” aka non exclusive. You’re never her only option. So if you’re not exclusive, you’re not the only one dating multiple options.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 09:35 PM
64	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? This chick in my class was so into me. We would go to the gym together, then go for food after; she would drive us everywhere because I didn’t have a car, and we would go back to my apartment. Alone. And I wouldn’t make a move. This happened for like 2 months and she met another guy. I wasn’t over my ex and was still broken/not ready to date but looking back I’m kicking myself because she was sooo hot and really into me. That could have been a great relationship but I was just not functioning wi…	/r/seduction	14/04/24 11:35 PM
1	How to seduce a married professor? Don’t	/r/seduction	31/03/24 04:06 AM
43	How important is penis size for one night stands? Penis size is like height and balding. If you let it get to you and affect your confidence, that is unattractive. The actual size of your dick, your height, and balding is not the issue and doesn’t make you unattractive. Your lack of confidence is what kills it. As long as you’re not micro peen, work the clit and apply a little pressure when you stroke. It’ll be aight	/r/seduction	20/03/24 05:01 AM
6	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move Looks, money, game, status, frame, social proof, preselection. Have all of those at or above average and you will be in the top 10% of desirable men. Most “attractive” guys MIGHT be even remotely proficient one or two of those categories, and the rest are severely lacking. By simply having no weak points, being above average in all, you will be competitive with the top % of guys in each of those categories who have that strength, but have a ton of weaknesses in those other categories as well. Be…	/r/seduction	18/03/24 07:18 PM
14	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move Women dont have game like we do. Their version of game is making themselves available to be approached. This is why in pick up it is so important to notice and capitalize on a girl’s indicators of interest (prolonged eye contact from across the room, preening and making herself look better in your presence, turning her body to face you, touching you and closing the physical barrier, opening her schedule for you, following your lead, etc). Women who were originally attracted to you will put you i…	/r/seduction	18/03/24 07:12 PM
4	What do you do the next day after a one night stand? I consider the morning after text a part of aftercare. A morning after text shouldn’t be enough to push a woman (who is interested in you) away. Guys are so scared to lose the girl that they avoid doing the basics in which they would be doing naturally had they stayed out of their heads. However, don’t do anything that would imply you are pushing for exclusivity, commitment, trying to make you guys “official” or posting pictures on SM, etc. many guys will rush to post pictures of them with the g…	/r/seduction	12/03/24 02:38 AM
1	Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLD Bars and nightclubs make money off giving you the illusion you will get laid. You will go to a bar or night club for a year and barely get a kiss close. The problem with bars and nightclubs is logistics and getting women to separate from their friend circles to go back home with you. It’s not going to happen and even if it does you both live too far away because you suck at logistics. Don’t go there. Go to places where the logistics are better. This would include hobby groups (soccer, dance grou…	/r/seduction	09/03/24 06:16 PM
8	I can easily make female friends but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend? You lack the ability to keep interactions with women in a sexual frame. This comes across like you are afraid to “put the pedal down” and make things sexual. You have all of the difficult things down when it comes to game (humour, charisma, charm), you may even have looks. But you could be the most high value guy, and if you are not willing to keep things in a sexual frame, or to make things sexual and “man to woman”, the conversation will never get deeper, and she will eventually friendzone you…	/r/seduction	07/03/24 12:46 AM
1	how do I develop a godlike confidence chill vibe? Experience	/r/seduction	20/02/24 03:54 PM
3	Please help! 20[M] why is my dick not acting up? You’re testosterone plummets when you get lean. Some guys get ED when they’re anything lower than 10% bodyfat. Diet plays a role too.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 01:25 PM
4	Please help! 20[M] why is my dick not acting up? I used to have this problem when I was competing in bodybuilding and was too lean. My test was GONE for like 1-2 months before a show and had a few girls where this problem happened. Once I gained weight after -show and going into the off season (testosterone increased), and my libido came back. This probably has to do with hormone levels tbh get checked.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 12:05 PM
3	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with A girl doesn’t put you in the friendzone, you put yourself in the friendzone. The way you leave the friendzone is by either learning from your mistakes and walking away, or simply “upping the alpha”. It is possible to overcome the friendzone because the behaviours that took the interaction from being into a sexual frame into a neutered, non-sexual and friendly frame are the same behaviours you can emulate again. If the girl really liked you (and wanted to see you win instead of get friendzoned),…	/r/seduction	20/02/24 01:05 AM
1	Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life? Only when they are used as a sedation to prevent you from getting off the couch and meeting women, pursuing your career, going to the gym, improving relationships with friends/family. Then yes. Its okay to be horny, its weird to think its not. Porn is okay if you’re not using it to hide from your shitty life (similar to video games, smoking weed, etc). It’s like a hammer, you can use it to build a house, or to kill someone. It’s doesn’t mean hammers are a negative thing. Porn is a way to maintai…	/r/seduction	19/02/24 07:21 AM
1	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? What is your frame? What are your boundaries? Is she acting right? If so, who cares. The first few weeks and months are literally you deciding if she’s worth your time and the first sign of a red flag, you walk. If she’s “manipulative”, that’s one thing, all women are manipulative and attention seeking to one degree or another. This is in their nature bro. But it’s up to you to decide if it’s too much for you, your boundaries/frame, red flags, etc.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 02:11 PM
1	Best job for young Men Be a manager of bartenders and waitresses at a bar. You will automatically have command presence and be looked up to/adored by a group of beautiful women. This will give you preselection because other women following and responding favourably to you will encourage the other women in that group to follow and do the same. This is will also help you become better at speaking with, gaming, and getting along with beautiful women, giving you level of social momentum that is very difficult to fake. Cus…	/r/seduction	18/02/24 05:42 AM
1	Lost this super hot girl at club. How do I get over it? Clubs are humiliation rituals for men. You could have $1 million dollars, bottle service and VIP section, be famous, and have a golden dick and you still wouldn’t fuck a chick at the club. Promoters give you the illusion that you will get laid, selling you overpriced drinks, letting “ladies getting in for free”, only posting pictures on their IG and posters of hot women because then YOU’LL go to the club because you think that’s where the hot chicks are and that’s where I’ll get laid. In reality…	/r/seduction	14/02/24 12:36 PM
13	Seasonality in seduction September-February is Cuffing Season, where women are looking for a soft, comfortable and secure beta male to cuddle by the fire place, and bring home, as “the boyfriend”, for family Christmas dinner with the parents. March-August is the Playoff Season for sluts, where women will break up with their boyfriends/husbands, or just straight up cheat on them behind their backs, with the bad boys aka “alphas”. IF a woman can pull one of these alphas into a committed relationship and get security out o…	/r/seduction	08/02/24 03:14 AM
17	What do you guys talk when you’re flirting? Cold approach is about your ability to use inner game and social momentum, to open the girl, create enough connection with her as possible as quickly as possible, build attraction, and then close (number close, kiss close, or insta-date). The “flirting” is the play that occurs within the set (teasing, banter, using humour to make her laugh, building attraction). When you’re texting a chick, understand texting is anti-seductive. It kills arousal because so many attraction cues (body language, voc…	/r/seduction	04/02/24 09:08 AM