TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

RandomAttackHelpMe Archive

View 6 posts and 1,491 comments by RandomAttackHelpMe on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 1,491 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I have more to say about this but can’t say it all right now do I will say this: Why do they those things? Cause everyone else went on and on and about “equality”. Plus yes, there is something no a lot about having this general baseline sense of appreciation and then noticing a lack of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:45 PM
1

Well yeah a car accident is a car accident there’s going to be more similarities than not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:27 PM
1

You’re really overthinking this. No. Not biased. If I walk past a horrible car accident and realize it’s a horrible car accident, is that biased? Or if you put your hand into a flame?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:43 PM
1

My own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:07 PM
1

"A lot of guys think that just because they pay for everything that let's them off the hook from planning things like mother's day."- No. Usually some flowers and a nice dinner as a sign of appreciation would do it, but apparently that's not good enough. "It is my belief that males are not doing their share of emotional labor in relationships. WDYT?"- First off, other's people's personal business isn't yours. Something I think many have forgotten and we need to go back to remembering that. And y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:49 PM
1

Here's a comment: "My husband asked me what we are getting his mom for her birthday... dude it's your mom! Men do better! I don't understand why we have to teach them." But if he hadn't asked for your input yes?, be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:41 PM
1

Jesus. That is some fucking insufferable soccer mom perfect planner shit from her. Her husband is on a work trip, you're planning a girls day out mothers day event, what does he have to do with this ? You need to avoid people like this. People like this CANNOT like diplomatically try to work things out with you cause you're just supposed to know. Grow the fuck up. They do that, cause well, in my experience, they don't want you to be able to say know or don't want to here your input. And lets not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:40 PM
2

But it’s a different story when the shoe is on the other foot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:11 PM
-1

I still think there’s no such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:50 AM
1

You're saying people never lie about that sort of thing? But you have a whole can of worms there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:01 AM
1

Also if a person makes excuses for the attractive abuser, which is a whole other issue, and disdains the ugly one, I'd tell them to get the fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:00 AM
2

What about attempting to take people on an individual case to case basis, which I try to do? Attention is also overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:58 AM
1

"Like it's still creepy or weird , but women especially will make excuses , ex "oh he used to be abusive but he said that's in the past and he's trying to change, he didn't know better" often that's a legitimate case for people."- If I heard anyone say that, guy or girl, I'd go bitch I'm out. I've been around a situation or two like that, not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:57 AM
0

My thing is, they're business is there business, just don't make it mine or anyone else's problem and don't complain or lecture people about "inequality and unfairness" and you date/associate with people who do not uh, perpetuate said ideas or values. I can accept contradictions happen in life, but when the other person(s) has not boundaries and can't handle their shit, then it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:55 AM
1

Chat is THAT dude!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:53 AM
1

Also, this is not to discount that sometimes people can sense, through micro-expressions, someone's psychopathic disdain for them or humanity in general or mental illness. It's just that women vastly over diagnosis this and will look over it for good looking men. You kind of have a point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:52 AM
0

HV men can do anything without being creepy.- No. Not happening. People will eventually realize they don't have to deal with certain shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:50 AM
2

Cornyness is cornyness one way or the other and I hate that shit regardless of how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:49 AM
1

Yeah but about when someone is playing stupid asshole headgames and they're trying to make you jump through hoops and for what?, and you won't play along cause yes, you think you're above such things, and they get "icked"? If you're over the age of say idk, 20-25 and you use terms like ick, you're a fucking asshole child, child asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:48 AM
-2

The original comment I was replying to got deleted. Anyways.... I have much to say about this whole thing, but I've been very tired. Look, I got to say, this fucking bullshit about "pretty privilege" and "getting away with it whatever the fuck it is", is just that, fucking bullshit. Yes. Some people are more attractive and we all have eyes. But this is some of the most fucked up childish fucking bullshit ever. Each time this issue comes up, many of you seem to really wholeheartedly believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:46 AM
1

When did average all of a sudden mean not well educated? And not well educated in what exactly? Cause I have met many an average person who is well educated. Guess our ideas on this are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:40 PM
1

Surprise surprise, contradictions happen in life and everyone has a system
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:23 PM
1

How old are you? Are you like in the sixth grade? Posers? Really? Cause that's how you sound. So more gatekeeping? I stopped giving a shit a long time ago. This passing the criteria jumping through hoops shit gets dragging and exhausting after a while. People who adhere to that shit so hardcore cannot for the life of themselves stop and think beyond that. Like the Tupac shirt thing? Let it go dude. California Love is a great song. I do agree we need to dial back the internet usage a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:46 AM
1

It's not just average people who do this stuff in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 AM
1

Well if they're happy I'm happy. If I can get along with them and all is well, fine. Why would I have issue with someone I have no reason too because they are "average" ? This scapegoating needs to stop. They got rights too, something you seem to forget. Why do or would you or anyone care so much? Those statistics seem a tad too one size fits all. Seriously. What is with this obsession over this? I get the red pill thing, but what does any of this have to do with that? Why even make this an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 AM
1

I meant to post more will later
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 PM
0

No, not nec., yes people can have preferences, as much as I think that stuff goes into total fucking bullshit territory, as long as they don’t make it my fucking problem I don’t give a flying fuck what you do, just don’t make it my problem or get pissy with me when I have my boundaries and make it clear I don’t give a fuck and it’s not my problem. See, what you all recognize but don’t watch to admit is you damn well know everyone has a system. Why deny that? And the examples you give are maybe j…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:46 PM
2

Say what the fuck now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:38 PM
2

Well also, when certain people hammer on about fairness and equality but don’t exactly practice what they preach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:34 AM
2

This applies to lots of other different things and people, not just these dating and gender issues
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:33 AM
4

It’s mostly about getting laid. What the fuck is this golden age shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:25 AM
2

Yeah. That’s nice and sounds nice but some of you clearly have not been around enough people who just do not give FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:15 PM
3

That’s all well and good but not exactly realistic. You talk about this like you think all of these people or you are expecting them to be this 24/7 zen fucking masters, And in my experience, that’s just not happening. Manager other people’s emotions? Exactly what do you mean by that ? You think you’re going to be able to control others and expect them to just shut up and not be expressive? Sure some people do need to know boundaries and when to back the fuck off, but you try and do that with en…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:35 PM
–

Here we go. I had a feeling this was going to happen. I said to myself, “Oh if he wins, are they going to go all in in blaming Rogan for this?” Long story short, I do like Rogan and his show and his approach to it. He’s had on so many different people on from so many different perspectives and backgrounds and careers. Not to go into 90 million different things at once, but him bringing Trump on, which he has every right to, is bringing this into a whole other area. Even I’m critical of such thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:14 PM
2

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:39 PM
1

Not always
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:38 PM
2

Not quite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:38 PM
2

Well where is the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:38 PM
0

No. Doormats/suckers/naieve people, have no sense of awareness of what they’re doing or why, some people do believe in such things, charity/volunteer work/doing favors within reason/two way streets/family and friends, something you of all people should know about. This is what most people believe and denying that is a bad idea and dumb, and ignoring this or taking advantage of it so much will eventually come back to bite you in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:37 PM
1

Yeah that’s all bullshit given by the many examples I’ve seen that say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:59 PM
3

Well like how are you even going to begin trying to solve these problems if they don’t say what they are????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:58 PM
1

You mean trump??? Naw I think someone posted that stuff saying it was him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:37 AM
0

That dude got set up I’m convinced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:15 PM
1

Yeah. I got one for you. Earlier today while I was out, I rode past these girls and one of them had a shirt on that said milf in training. Says a lot right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:55 PM
–

You know it's funny, and I'm glad you mentioned this, cause I was thinking about something similar in a related way earlier. No, I don't think those people are entitled. I hear what you are saying. Perhaps some misjudgments. They did what they were told was good/the right thing, although I suppose there are some limits to that, they were told to expect a certain outcome if they do this or that and they got screwed and everyone else went oh well! It's shitty I agree. My example, given in the one …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:43 AM
–

"And I think I'm like on the border, at least I know how NOT to make problems, I know what is socialy unacceptable, BUT I don't know how to actualy do it right. I know what NOT to say, but I don't know what to say. I know the lines and I don't cross them" But what do you consider or think isn't considered socially unacceptable? Do you know how many NT people I've seen do what is considered socially unacceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:16 PM
2

Well what exactly are you as in anyone, entitled too? I think there are some commonalities most people agree on, but even then, no one owes you respect, and if you are disrespected, how will you handle it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:12 PM
2

You misunderstood me. Also, what you just described is knowing how to make a deal and negotiate, something a lot of people do I do think entitlement is bad. I've dealt with plenty of people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:40 PM
10

There is nothing wrong with feeling entitled in situations where you've earned things. And those would be? Again, a sense of mutual appreciation is one thing, but where we going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:37 PM
17

Feeling entitled = thinking that because you did the "right" things, you are owed the desired outcomes or rewards Yeah, and there's LOTS of people out there with that attitude one way or another. It's not just the you owe me sex guys who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:36 PM
4

Attitude and awareness is what it all comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:35 PM
3

My only thing with this debate is, and there's another thread, while yes, I agree, you can't force anyone, but at the same point, you know how many NT people I've seen and do and "try and get away with" the same shit you all say to ND/Autistic types that oh well, you just will have to accept you can't do that because no one owes you anything and you'd better behave!!!, ??? Yeah, no one owes no one nothing, you going to tell this to the NT people with the same attitude they feel they're owed some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:32 PM
1

I’m not a tradcon and even think they aren’t always realistic. But is it really dumb for people to say hey maybe let’s not fuck each other over and dare I say, expect it not to happen? Why are people like you so hellbent on doing this shit? Why do you even think marriages and relationships are successful? You do shit like this and then have the gall to be surprised when people say nah no more. You do realize that if Trump wins how fucked you types are yes? Have you even considered there is a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:21 AM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:31 PM
-1

Well, as I've said before about this sort of issue or similar ones. Many of you clearly have not been around or dealt with enough who just do not give a FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:16 PM
1

Im literally not reading ur comments 😂 im replying to this thread in general where you guys are basically calling the dudes who actually have sex and relationships with women cucks. Meanwhile, yall moan about being lonely. Yes. That is what this has turned into and there are many reasons for that. And ok, so you guys want no strings sex, but not relationships? And then you wonder why women arent banging down your door, when in our eyes guys who want no strings sex are both a risk and not appeali…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:14 PM
5

No, most guys are bluepill and they won't understand such thing because just world fallacy dictates that the reason would be not your looks but [insert there random external factor]. But it's not just guys who say or believe that. And yes, we all have eyes, but to define someone just by their looks or care about that etc., I got to say. So let's say you have two women who have managed to cure cancer and AIDS at the same time. One is very hot, one is well, average looking. Is the whole debate or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:13 PM
9

I'm pretty sure this sounds like satire. You guys need to adjust your satire radars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:57 PM
–

Yes. Yes I do believe people are or make themselves miserable for their perceived lack of such things. I see your point, but that way of looking at or approaching these things doesn’t really apply like it used to and there’s many factors/reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:31 PM
–

I don’t buy they aren’t aware of these things. Sure maybe they are in denial and/or look the other way, but they are totally aware of it. But the not necessarily positive side to this is at least this making enough people aware how this whole “equality” nonsense argument is total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:29 PM
1

By disagreeing just for the sake of it? By teasing people to the point of making them feel bad? By acting selfishly? By being sexually aggressive even if it makes women uncomfortable? By being intentionally offensive? By refusing to apologize even when they're in the wrong? By refusing to compromise on things? By being intimidating and easily angered? Yes and no to most of/all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:48 PM
1

if you are a genuinely nice guy you will lack the 1 thing necessary to ever pull off the personality swap to begin with: Apathy. That's not always or necessarily limited to nice guyism, take all the lingo and gobbeldygook aside for a moment, there is no way realistically for anyone person to give a shit about every little thing all the time. That's not being an asshole, it's self control. I think more people should do that. I used to work in an area where every other s.o.b and their brother and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:47 PM
3

I see no reason to try to appeal to the sample that you wouldn't actually enjoy dating, so what's the point in worrying about it? There's a whole social and psychological thing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:26 AM
1

A little while why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:28 PM
1

Not exactly what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:53 AM
2

At some point 3rd wave feminists and their chokehold on society hijacked the term “nice guy” and concocted this entire cock and bull story about how the only ones saying this are passive aggressive nerds who h8 women and are truly not “nice.” You do have a point there. Many people have experienced this and see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:38 AM
2

Chicks have no effect or are part of this at all? Right. Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:34 AM
–

A little bit of both I'd say. But yeah, you can't deny the impact and influence the internet has had on this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:33 AM
-1

For the introverted no friends having dudes an extroverted tall hot guy with tattoos MUST be an absolute dickhead and not just a regular guy who’s extroverted and fun. I see your point, but something is to be said for certain peoples experiences. I’m assuming it’s the neurodivergent black and white thinking that permeates this sub. It hasn't been just neurodivergent types with this problem in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:32 AM
-2

Oh am I glad you made this post cause this brings up something I've been thinking about that relates to this and another issue perhaps none of you may have considered. The just world fallacy part. The idea if I am good and do good things, good things will happen to me and I will be appreciated or recognized for it, which is something I know I try to do, recognize and appreciate those things in others, I do believe in doing that. And that's not the worst thing to me, someone wanting such recognit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:31 AM
4

and the men who can’t get relationships are good people who no one appreciates because they’re bad.” There is something to be said for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:13 AM
-2

Why this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:10 PM
-5

????????????????????????????????????????? Know what the means to me ? Oh wow hey someone or some people agree with me. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:19 PM
0

Why do you think all that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:03 PM
-4

No. It happens regularly. I've seen this shit happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:03 PM
1

It's not just feminists. This is a long ongoing social problem I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:02 PM
17

People already mentioned that it goes both ways. Feminists are lecturing men while in the same time bashing and despising them. Of course men are not going to listen and would rather do the opposite (including listening to likes of Tate) This sums up a long term on going social problem. It applies to more than just these gender issues. Do you know how long and from how many people, men and women, I've seen do this shit constantly? A lot and a long time. The good part is, people, men and women, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:01 PM
-1

You are having a total misreading of this. I see the factors you describe, but the reasons for something like this are much more simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:59 PM
1

What injustices would those be? Where are you going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:39 PM
1

?????????????????????????????????????? Who said anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:36 PM
1

What’s up your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:35 PM
2

Yes. Maybe not exactly like that. But I have seen it happen. Or even if you haven't seen it happen, there's many stories out there about it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:08 PM
1

Well that's just it. This is the conundrum you've found yourselves in you made yourself. I don't think men should be responsible for paying for abortions. I just don't think men, or anyone for that matter, should get to decide what I do with my body. Ok. But for those who don't have enough money, what do you propose? And I'm no a diehard identity politics left-winger either. If anything I consider myself independent politically. But since the right will never be in support of women's freedom of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:16 PM
2

No. I asked about Roe v Wade in more technical terms. It got overturned because they made it happen. The right in this country, and some of you seem to have forgotten or don't realize they have been around for a while, this isn't something that just popped up slightly before, during, and after Trump. But for many of you, you have this whole I don't want to talk about or realize the right wing cause I am so against this and therefore think it shouldn't be happening. That's like saying you don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:13 PM
1

Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:10 PM
2

I'll get back to this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:04 PM
2

Yes but they don't always know or think it's casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:04 PM
1

True. But not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:03 PM
3

I don't believe in forcing things, but why is the idea of monogamy and commitment etc. such a bad thing? All things considered, that's what most people look for. Forget looks and leagues and status and mgtow/mra/ red pill and feminism and blue pill this and that, forget all of that for a minute. Who's happier? The two people committed to each other and making it work? Or the person, man or woman, who just thinks monogamy is so outdated and can't work or it's a patriarchal construct, and I'm neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:59 PM
3

I never said anything about blind trust. I agree about naturally trusting and being taken advantage of. I don't like naivety. I've always been bothered by it in many ways. I'm not looking at this as losing control. Surprise surprise! Almost everyone on this earth looks for and believes in finding trust, loyalty, commitment etc. Forced? Who is forcing it? Is it forcing or a number of people, men and women, going, "Something isn't working here and we need a balance" ? People will react in that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:54 PM
2

It's simple. They want to beat the system. What do you not get about that? Plenty of men do want commitment, family, and stability. But see, the way you word it, an expectation, feels well, weaponized. Instead of agreeing to work together and be loyal and committed, and wanting stability, if someone, man or woman, feels like they're on this expectation hamster wheel, they don't like it. It feels forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:09 AM
2

Not quite, I meant more so as a cause and effect/response to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:07 AM
8

Not what I meant or where I was going, but of course you're going to jump right to that extreme. What you're talking about is a whole other thing no one was trying to bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:06 AM
2

You're delusional if you think Iran and Russia have a shot against Nato. I wouldn't assume something like that can't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:04 AM
3

This attitude is the reason why liberal democracies have below replacement birth rates and are being, at the very moment, outcompeted by authoritarian regimes like Russia and China. All this "nobody owes you anything" mentality accomplishes is creating a generation of demoralized and atomized bohemian individuals with little to no investment into society beyond the bare minimum, an unwillingness and non-enthusiasm of serving in public functions or defensive applications, and a general apathy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:02 AM
5

The problem is that most of these fucks in this subreddit want megan fox, yet they look like jonah hill. And? Why is that your problem? Why this insistence on like thinking you can go to someone and tell them they can't feel that way cause they look a certain way? I suggest not giving a fuck and let them deal with it, guy or girl. Oh and Jonah Hill is hilarious. Why diss him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:01 AM
3

Average women and ugly women don't get chad a lot of the time. But yet, they feel they deserve or are entitled to said Chad and "should never settle" You'll say this shit to the guys who do need a bit of a reality check but never the chicks, and you're so adamant and stubborn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:00 AM
2

Liberalism is and has not been working for many people, hence why do you think you know is probably going to be president again? But apply that 90 percent to any other aggrieved group and it's a different story. Why is it always coming back to this model tier chicks with you types? Why do you insist on grinding that shit in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:58 AM
0

Yeah I get the analogy, and I agree I think a lot of our expectations and standards HAVE been skewed by media Yah think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:54 AM
1

Add some salt and pepper, mmm, tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:54 AM
3

I think they're delicious! I'm on the fence between boiled or baked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:53 AM
1

The real way for men to get more sex is Jordan Peterson's idea of culturally enforced monogamy. That way Chad is taken off the market and everyone just pairs up. I don't know if that's what he meant by that. I don't think Chad factors in. I think he meant more so encouraging a sense of trust, loyalty and stability and family amongst people, Chad or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:52 AM
7

I would take anything Jordan Peterson says with a grain of salt, he is a quackadoodle Is he? I'm not super into the guy, but he has a point about things and I can see why people go this guy gets it. As for the previous posters mention of his idea of enforced monogamy. Why do you think Peterson said that? Do you think perhaps he was seeing this lack of stability and trust amongst people and that everyone using each other isn't good and maybe encouraging said monogamy would help others and make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:50 AM
0

My assumption being that a majority of redpillers are conservative or conservative-leaning. Please let me know in the comments if you aren’t though Yes. It's conservative degeneracy. Look at Andrew Tate. Just to be clear, I'm not dickriding the guy and I believe he's guilty of what he's charged with, and I just saw a thing on him, well someone who interviewed him, and it was very telling. But yeah, he's such an example. Universal healthcare/free contraception (I’m not talking about condoms, I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:45 AM
2

I will tell you why this happens. It's because of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:39 AM
5

Some people need to be dragged down or taken down a notch, or need a foot in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:38 AM
2

How would you insure such? Side note: Say what you will about them, but the tradcons are sort of talking in the terms you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:37 AM
1

Why do you think all that is? Where do you think this all comes from? You think it's more than one party responsible for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:36 AM
1

There's another post just today from a man complaing about women wanting commitment with comments comparing women asking for commitment to sexual coercion lol. A lot of men with options don't want monogamy, they say it here themselves, and the ones who do wouldn't if they had a lot of options. Why do you think those things are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:34 AM
-2

I wasn't even trying to go there with what you're saying. I even said it's not right, I'm just not denying it. You brought in this other shit I never even mentioned. You're doing the whole bringing in 90 million other things that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. Well as for your take, I, I guess I get it. You're talking about very specific things and people though. So only attractive people are in your pur view/line of view/life outlook? Hey I have eyes too but I don't only go hot chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:13 AM
0

How do I say this? They want to have their cake and eat it too. Wife and kids at home, girl(s) he sees on the side. It happens. Some of the women/wives are ok with it. I'm not saying I agree with it or think it's right, I'm just not denying it happens. Well, they feel they missed out they didn't get to have as much casual action as they may have liked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:53 AM
6

Hookup culture gives handsome and high-status men a lot of incentives to delay and/or permanently forgo marriage, kids, career, community involvement, etc. You think it's only very handsome/attractive guys that do this shit ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:45 AM
2

This is just my opinion but I think after hooking up so much, it gets old and they still deal with loneliness and depression since their relationships with women have no solid foundation. Having & maintaining shallow relationships is tiring & doesn’t bring fulfillment later on in life. Yeah. This. No one wants to talk about or admit this. Or for this whole endless hookups and casual relations thing, they don't set people up or prepare them for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:44 AM
3

Nah. I believe it. It actually sounds pretty nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:43 AM
2

If men were so happy with that then why do so many of them go into promiscuous mode the second they are attractive or rich enough to do so because they now can? Men here constantly argue about how men need "variety" and will seek it if they can get it. It's called the beating the system/making up for you feel was lacking or missed out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:42 AM
2

Yes. Pretty much this. However, for this they don't hate women thing, maybe hate is a strong word, but they see them as disposable. Like I've said, all the player guys who are like I fucked this bitch, I fucked that bitch, stupid bitch this, stupid bitch that, it speaks for it's self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:40 AM
1

The ole double bind strikes again, can't win either way. It's called trying to beat the system while accepting it's their for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:39 AM
3

Have you ever seen a handsome and high status man ever suffer the consequences of hookup culture? Yeah. It's called his hoes find out about each other and ditch him, and then his main girl finds out and eventually leaves him. Or they stay with him, and if so, fine, just don't make it anyone else's problem. You made the bed you lay in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:37 AM
3

But I do think they sound a lot like feminazis and rad fems do, screeching about men’s tears and kill all men. I got to say, I'm glad you brought this point up cause I've been saying the same thing a while for myself. Point is, even with all the extreme radicalism, and anger, and hatred, and bad ideas, etc., fair to say you know the deal/what I'm saying?, what I don't get is, how do these people not see the similarities there? How do the angry militant radfems and the mra mgtow redpillers, not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:36 AM
2

You say that as if people have never said or felt toxic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:32 AM
-1

Really? Why? Perhaps I am misreading this, but you think people either well, fake it online, meaning you will say all of these things, either about yourself or others, just to make a point or troll/piss people off? Or that online does bring out this "true" side of others, a more negative/dark/nasty/unpleasant side to them, and I'm trying to say on topic, but this is one of those unpleasant realities about people some of you either want to flat out deny or act like it doesn't exist, and offline, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:32 AM
1

It's fine. I'm not mad or anything. The post wasn't directed at you. It was an overall take on the issue. and that any laws, or cultural taboos that are effectively of the form 'hot person can do it, not hot person can't' are going to cause problems, because they amount to effectively negating people's capacities to do things. Is that correct? Bear with me, just trying to understand what you're saying. Like I said, they don't give a fuck. Laws? I didn't mean this in a legal sense, although there…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:23 AM
1

I appreciate the effort, but no, not what I meant. It's not whether someone is "hot or not", yes we all have eyes etc., It's this idea that somehow someway, it is only these very hot people are the only ones who can and will say whatever, or have whatever attitude, and somehow "get away with it". The point is, these "not hot" or just normal average people, can and will do the exact same thing, and it has NOTHING to do with "they're not hot so therefore if they do this or say this that because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:34 AM
2

What doesn't make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:25 AM
5

I’ve seen plenty of examples of those who do stay when the mask slips
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:43 PM
2

I’ve said it before and will say again, these not hot people who you feel they must be making up or compensating for lack of said hotness must be saying that to themselves is not what’s happening. No. They don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:36 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:32 PM
1

Not quite what I was going for but I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:04 AM
1

Well, yeah……….. the
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:51 PM
1

Oh lots of ways in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:50 PM
3

Yes. It’s called the endless proverbial social circle jerk amongst us men folks. It’s confusing and bewildering at first for me as it was many other a young fellow. But once you realize the bullshit that it is, you learn to ignore it and downplay and invalidate their bs and see that pisses then off even more. Yeah. I like fucking with people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:50 PM
1

First off, what the fuck even is a perfect sense of humor? Have we really reached this much of a level of being up everyone else's ass over every minute fuckin detail? Really? Some of you guys are still on this shit? Hello!!!!! Don't you types have a major election to worry about?!?!? ​ I came to this thought when I found myself laughing at a meme which was blatantly misogynistic. Immediately afterwards I felt the sting of guilt for doing a Bad Thing. And? I do that all the time and feel no guil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:29 PM
3

The thing about you're post you're leaving out, and I don't even think you're totally wrong despite my previous post, looking at your other posts, and no, I am not going through your posts trying to tear you a new one, you seem to be leaving some things out perhaps you are not considering. See, yeah, going out and trying and doing other type of things like not typical guy stuff as you mention, and it's not a bad idea I feel, but see, most dudes, like, it's not so much they're so much into their …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:23 PM
4

I am saying passive hobby so what do I mean by that, a passive hobby is any interest that involves consumption of media. This includes video games, TV, movies, social media usage, pretty much 90% of entertainment and internet based activities. Note passive hobbies are not a bad thing they are just not interesting as they are the status quo. Lets consider the argument that hot people can be very boring, many may even only have passive hobbies and generic interests, but they are hot. Only hot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:15 PM
1

Yes. Or just not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:00 AM
1

and be as ethical as you can be about it You do realize that's not how it works or is what is happening anymore yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:25 AM
0

It is a 180 and you prove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:06 PM
0

Not always
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:05 PM
0

Well that took a 180 Not what I meant. You don’t seem to get it. And why is it always those knee jerk responses? I will get back to this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:22 PM
1

Well wait a minute If anything, shouldn’t this be a learning experience? In that this is what one should not be doing and a little more aware of? Or like I’ve said, drop this check list thing every one does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:59 PM
1

I disagree significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:38 AM
-2

Hey can't blame him. They/you all made this the game. As long as he says all the right things right? This is something I've been saying for a while. You have this checklist for potential partners or social relations, you are very stringent cause you have "standards", you tell everyone this list, they say "oh, all I have to say what she wants to hear" they say it, you're dumb enough to follow it. That's on you. This is the social environment. Just make sure everyone says the right thing, no drama…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:35 AM
1

I’m full blown independent at this point and have been for a while. I have no allegiance to either party. I don’t like how they run things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:01 PM
1

I can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:29 PM
1

Yeah see, my experience tells me otherwise. You know how many “non-hot people “ I’ve seen do that shit so many times? A lot. Know why? They don’t give a fuck. The discourse around thought issue really needs to change cause this ain’t happening anywhere near the amount or for the reasons some of you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:28 PM
-5

Stupid how so? Cause as I see it, they're guy is closer to winning than the other guy. Morally shitty in politics? That's just pot and kettle to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:50 PM
1

What exactly is "pretty privilege" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:49 PM
14

I prefer the term independent myself. It's my pronoun. That's a joke folks. Moderate or neutral always bothered me. Cause people who use that word make it seem like said person can't make a decision on said issues. Well, if you ask them what they think, they will tell you, and if it personally bothers you so much, that's on you. I also think that yes, with said extremes, and while it does need to be dialed back, you can't deny that it's happening, hence why I prefer independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:48 PM
-1

Pro choice on everything? So then all drugs should be legal for anyone and everyone to do when and where ever? Have you seen Portland Oregon, or areas of certain cities? Yeah. Real hard no on me for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:45 PM
2

Totally agree. But yet, while I agree echo chambers are a problem, you can't deny or overlook that people do search out commonalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:42 PM
1

See, this is what I like. This is what I relate too. Yes. Focus on policy, legislation, what does or doesn't get passed, yeah. That's where I've been coming from on this sort of thing for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:41 PM
2

It's not just white men anymore. I don't know if you're aware or paying attention, but most of the majority non-white people(s) in this country, Black, Latino, Asian, Arab, are more conservative. Not even so much politically, but each person is a case by case one on one thing as I see it, but more so an awareness, an approach, a social belief. One are I used to work in had a large range of people coming in. The aforementioned people and also many Europeans. Russian, German, English, Irish, Frenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:39 PM
1

What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:19 AM
-1

Well dislike to what level are we talking here? Make up your mind, do you want them to be neutral and have no opinion or strong and outspoken even if means a little negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:55 AM
-1

See, I don't disagree with that. Most people wouldn't I think. It's more like, idk, letting these petty things get in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:47 AM
-5

You don't seem to get it. No one can or should be forcing anyone to do anything they don't want to do I agree, but this thing where everything is about compatibility and any little upset means they should split, I don't see it that way. My experiences tell me otherwise. But yet, they will play this game of man and video games bad, therefore, all video game players are bad. Woman into stupid celebrity gossip crap, and she's a grown adult mind you, good no matter what no criticisms that say otherw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:31 AM
1

Well, that really says something doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:57 AM
1

You'd rather be with someone crazy who will fuck up your life than stay alone? You'd be surprised how often that happens. I used to know two people who that shit played out amongst our pier group for like a good 4 years. It started to spill over a little if you would and everyone clearly saw the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:57 AM
1

Men who demand chastity yet want to put as many notches in their belt as possible. That, that's nothing new. It's they want to beat the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:54 AM
0

But somehow, men act like it's the opposite. That they HAVE to try and go for the shallow immature headcase bitch. That they HAVE to try and succeed on dating apps even if everything points against it. That they have to try and fuck everything that moves basically. Why? Hate fucking or haha! I pulled one over on the ungrateful bitch and now she knows how it feels!!!! I've been around so many people who do that. Not even the hate fucking part or anything that has to do with sex, it's this whole I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:49 AM
1

endlessly moaning about women who don't want to date short men endlessly moaning about women who use dating apps endlessly moaning about women who have hook ups or just date more than 3 men in their early 20s endlessly moaning about women who have nonsensical icks or absurd standards endlessly moaning about women who enforce toxic masculinity/hate bisexual men/act like bitches etc. ​ But why do you think they are doing that? Point is, part of this is a reaction to what many see as an imbalance. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:47 AM
1

Honestly, I think it comes down to this: Psychological warfare exists. Manipulation exists. The vast majority of men are unfamiliar with the rules (or lack thereof). TRP lays it all bare and wrenches the power away from women. Now it's an even playing field. Read TRP and your bullshit detector's effectiveness increases. A lot. Yes. Agree. Especially the bullshit detector part. It even applies to non-dating/romance scenarios and situations. Well, maybe not the rules for what you're talking about,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:19 AM
1

I see. I meant it as two different things. The first and second. But I wanted to hear the posters take. Nevermind. I'm kind of all over the place right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:18 AM
0

Yeah. I can't see myself sharing feelings over stupid celebrity gossip crap and dumb internet crap and trends. Sure. If something sounds like it is important or hey look at this, that's one thing. And how old are these people? They are adults yes? Perhaps instead of this sharing their feelings thing, they need to stop being so into said things mentioned before. Perhaps they aren't judging the person but the taste. Or, or, as some like to drone on about, it's a different story when the guy is int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:17 AM
1

I responded to the wrong person. I corrected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:49 AM
1

​ I used to think like that, there's still some of that there, I did mellow out though. I don't swear by apple, but their products are and have been good. I'd let that go. Like I can't make anyone do anything, but holding phones against people just seems so unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:49 AM
3

They hate all/most things I like. It’s just not fun to share your news or interesting things with a person who really doesn’t like these topics. That's my problem. I think certain things are total crap and don't hold back if I feel that way or when asked. I don't mean it personally but way too many people have taken it as such. What about honesty? Accepting you will not always hear what you like or get what you want? What if said "news" or "interesting things" are just arbitrary, superficial, su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:46 AM
3

Doesn't voice any controversial opinions Bad taste in music and movies ​ Such as?????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:42 AM
1

I mostly agree and see what you mean, but there's a little more to it I feel. Part of it is what is, and this is debatable, the "expectations of men", or what is expected of them. Hence, this idea of hey you are doing ok right? What's all this other stuff? Oh red pill?!?! That's not a real thing!!! It's just this made up thing by angry guys online who can't get laid!!!! Let's not even get into when the shoe is on the other foot, cause that shit just goes over everyone's head more and more it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:18 AM
4

Well if they complain too much or things didn't quite go as expected.......
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:14 AM
1

I don't know how else to say this, but you come off as rather naive on this particular issue. They can still be "highly educated successful men who serve the community" and still not quite be or seem who you think they are. Yes, there are those who do good and well in said positions, but this off the bat they all must be good and want to do good and no scandals thing? Again, comes off as naive. You can also do bad things and not have any charisma about you.- Very debatable/ it can or does go bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:06 AM
2

That's their game right there. I'm not even hardcore into the red pill stuff, I don't deny it though, but this is thing people do where they are either trying to deny the truth, or don't want to hear anything beyond their own two feet or outside of their bubble. I'm not saying you have to do anything you don't want to or have to bare yourself with the burdens and the weight of all the problems in the world, but it kind of gets to me when people do that. I know everyone wants self control, but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:16 PM
1

I never got that impression. If anything, to me it's more so what to be aware of and how to navigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:14 PM
1

Yes. And I feel this guy, not to blow smoke up his ass, is one of the people actually responding this, as many others have sort of slowly but surely started to realize, this shit has gone too far and we need to dial it back. Hell some states are proposing legislation to age restrict it. I am not one for censorship, but this is what happens when people do not know how to or refuse to put the breaks on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:13 PM
1

Clinton's also a kid toucher abuser, I'm convinced of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:02 PM
1

Are politicians really want you to use as a good example of charismatic? I've always tended to be skeptical of overtly charismatic people. Far from a bad boy? Where have you been oh only the past 100 or so years? All the scandals and controversies and shit those guys have done? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:02 PM
0

No but you'd be hard pressed to deny the impact it's having and the problems it's creating, which is why this guy is essentially breaking down and pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:59 PM
1

If anything, he's saying they don't have to be or make things so complicated, which I think can and does apply to a lot of other things than just there relationship dynamics,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:58 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:57 PM
2

True, but he cuts out lots of the bullshit. if anything, he's counteracting a lot of what you describe in a more realistic thing. If anything, he's the tail end of all this. Plus, he kind of does dig in more on some of these chicks and there inane ideas. He takes a look at some of them and goes "Here's why you're wrong."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:56 PM
1

Yes I've seen his stuff, he's pretty good, again, for those who haven't seen him, he's pretty realistic and tends to be fair. He's more direct and I don't feel like I'm watching someone totally full of shit like some of the others in this whole redpill manosphere thing, I am not totally against it or have anything personal against anyone, except maybe certain clear exceptions where there is a problem and lots of questions, like Tate, or totally disagree with some of it, but some of that stuff ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:51 PM
1

Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:53 PM
1

And shit like this is EXACTLY why this whole "tradcon" thing is taking off. What do I mean? Well, for a while, the saying was "enjoy the decline". But something they didn't consider or underestimate people turning around and going "Hey! Who says we have to let it decline?!?! We can stop this by retooling it!!!" Notice I nor they are trying to "Save it", cause well, that's not always realistic. I'm not hardcore into or agree with the tradcons but I'm not surprised this is happening. It's brushing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:29 PM
2

Not always. Long story short, I used to be a bad mix of WAY too sensitive and angry/short temper growing up. It didn't help. So for a long period, when things like that would happen, I wouldn't know how to "properly" handle or respond. I put properly in quotes cause well, sometimes it's proper to say hey go fuck yourself, different thing for now. But as I got older and got more aware and learned, I realized there's a difference between certain things like that which people will do. Part of it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:18 PM
0

Yeah. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:03 PM
2

Yeah, I get that, and I mostly agree, but ever been around or dealt with certain people who just can't turn it off and chill out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:02 PM
4

Thank you. Pretty much said the sameish thing myself albeit worded a little different. I've known some people with autism, or Asperger's, or other such symptoms, and they're not like what people think of them to be. They don't believe everything they read, but it's been easy to fuck with them in a joking way. That is speaking to a bigger issue. An ongoing problem of either media literacy or people forgetting the barriers and navigating what they read online. Yeah. It's a problem, but calling peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:16 AM
1

I've seen people do the right foot left thing in scenarios different from what you describe. ​ I've seen FnF and Whatever, I'm not getting autistic vibes from them. I think that word needs to be stopped being thrown around in such a misapplied way. What don't they get exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:11 AM
1

I never said anything about statistics. Just I know what I've seen and I'm not going to lie to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:09 AM
1

True, I meant it as an example. I just think people tend to knee jerk generalize some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:00 AM
1

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:45 PM
1

I have seen a fair number of dudes with accountability problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:38 PM
1

When you say most, how much? What percentage? I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but this idea gets thrown around a little too literally or generally, most of them I think figured some things out. Or I've seen non autistic types of people do the same sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:35 PM
2

Poor dude didn't realize he was talking to a scammer. But that's most red pill guys and passport bros... Only the really dumb ones. I got news for you, these passport bros are more aware than I think you may give credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:33 PM
1

One dude was dating some girl in Thailand (never met her and we live in the US). He would photoshop her in pics with him so it looked like they were actually together That, that's kind of good one/clever, pretty hilarious in comedy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:33 PM
1

Yes, and many of those who do such are not neurodivergent. I mean, I don't see someone with autism like, becoming an evil dictator, or the types of people you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:32 PM
1

I see your point, but you talk about this problem like it's only these neuro divergent type of people who do this. I mean more so the part of why you shouldn't say certain things to someone or the need to mask and take on the personality of guys they deem as more successful in dating. Do you know how many neuro typical people I've seen who will say whatever cause they don't give a fuck? Plenty. Long story short, think of people who are like a mix of someone who never quite left high school mixed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:56 PM
1

Well I disagree. If not solving but maybe being aware. I see your point and do agree that yea, there is something to be said for letting shit go or turning the other cheek not letting stuff get under your skin but that doesn’t always cut it. And that’s part of it not the problem right there. You say we just have to accept certain people are idiots and whelp! That’s just it no otherwise! But yet you won’t say to said idiots maybe they need to back off and be a little more realistic and calm down …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:06 PM
1

ie, If I eat a cake, and that cake is the most delicious cake I ever had, I don't suddenly NOT like cake for the rest of my life because it will NEVER be as good as that one cake. I see your point, and agree or have felt the same myself, the problem is the number of people who do not. This idea of "never settling" can be applied to so much more. Cause the thing I'm not seeing discussed or a solution proposed too is, what do you do about the larger? overwhelming? amount of people who are told and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:07 PM
2

Long story short, it's the game with these people. It's a lot at once. I'm not quite awake, but I will elaborate more later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:16 PM
–

I meant it in a general sense. That's what I hear whenever someone seems surprised they must make sacrifices sometimes. You have the right idea, but the application is a bit off I feel. You think it's all about who benefits and who doesn't. It sounds all very transactional, or you're doing things by this checklist means. Define unhappy life. Well, who said they have to sacrifice themselves? The way most relationships work whether it be social or romantic, both parties, or sometimes one more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:48 AM
–

Do you mean actual costs of living like bills, food, gas, tools, appliances etc or this my man better make enough money to spoil my ass whenever I want him to shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:48 PM
–

You say that as if people never have to make sacrifices. How do you get to be a certain age and not realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:46 PM
14

But yet, we have this ongoing issue/debate over the idea of everything being transactional and why that is bad....... You tend to either like narrowly view things or don't realize the contradictions. And well see, I see what you mean by the sugar daddies seeing it as transactional, but yet you seem to overlook the said issue of it being transactional as an issue. Yeah no one should be up in everyone's business, but when you make it everyone's business cause you can't handle your shit, or say eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:52 PM
1

Cause the cat is already long out of the bag with what you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:07 PM
2

I get that. I've just seen people do the same thing albeit for different reasons or scenarios. And it's not only these super mega hottie 10 chicks that do it and when they do, it's not cause they're desperate or insecure, they just don't give a fuck most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:06 PM
2

The same is true for the bipolar Princess whose daddy fulfills her every wish. She only gets to throw temper tantrums at men if she's hot because then there's sex with genetically superior woman on the table and men will tolerate the pain & agony to maybe get into her pants. Yeah pretty much. All thought I've seen plenty do it for reasons other than sex and ones that aren't "hot". But that's a whole different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:56 PM
–

Cause to best put it, they want to beat the system. I will elaborate more later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:53 PM
–

Care to join? Our cock talk is for all to participate. Perhaps get your rocks off as you watch us get ours off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:15 AM
–

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:16 AM
–

You clearly don't understand anatomy/the difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:28 AM
–

You're way overthinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:22 AM
–

No this unfortunately happens to some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:16 AM
–

I just tried to look it up. I couldn't find the one I saw. I'm not trying to make light of this guy and his problem. I'm not going to sit here and demean or derogatize someone who had a tragic issue like this happen to them through no fault of their own. That's fucking low to me and I'm not going there. It's not like it's this horrible thing that will scar you somehow. It's just well, something is clearly missing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:15 AM
–

No. You don't seem to get it. He was not trans. He was literally, born without a penis. Just a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:10 AM
–

Um, no. That's not how vaginas are/work. No. It was a literal hole. Picture where the shaft is ok? Got it? and now........ No shaft. No balls. Like a literal hole with nothing there. Like if it had been cut out. That's what it looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:55 AM
–

You know, there's uh, there's this like mini documentary I saw once about a guy who was born without one due to some medical problem. Like there was just this hole there. He was clearly frustrated but accepted his scenario. He was married and well, the wife fucked other guys. That's A LOT to take in going via the various pill takes. That's an all 3 rolled into one scenario right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:38 AM
3

And water is wet. We've all heard this one. I see your point, but why are you so bothered by this if it doesn't affect you directly? Because the reality is, it's not your personal business. Well, perhaps they are not superior to them, the cat is long out of the bag, but how people say one thing and/or do the other. Like if someone says I don't like assholes then they go out with an asshole........ Or I got to say, if he's a well off guy with his own place, makes good money, is stable, but she en…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:20 AM
3

I feel you are overusing or misapplying the word hypocrite here. I used to be like you. No really. I used to see everything and everyone and this and that as hypocrite this and hypocrite that. I had this way too one size fits all approach and did not know how to shut it off or refocus it. I eventually realized it's all a case by case one on one individual person thing. You can go on and on about hypocrite this or that, but what do you do when the other people or persons well, just don't give a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:18 AM
3

To be clear, I don't hate you, I just think you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:09 AM
4

I didn't say all that. What I do mean is I feel that we, as in everyone, including me, have to have and maintain this baseline sense of appreciation. No. You can't please everyone at once. But there does seem to this lack of general appreciation/gratitude amongst certain people. While we can debate about this, there is something to be said for when and if someone says to you "All the things I've done for you or gone out of my way to do and THAT'S your attitude?!?!" I'll say this about your point…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:06 AM
3

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:57 AM
3

You missed my point. Also, you, they, them, the people who always fall back on this argument, really need to think about how you apply this entitlement thing. Hence why I feel you missed my point. You act as if this entitlement issue only happens in relation to these sort of things. It's not. And the pot calling the kettle black comment came from people who I've seen be or act entitled, but when you do it?!?!?! Oh no!!! We can't have that!!! Now that is where your hypocritical argument would app…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:52 AM
3

Have I got news for you! That's something just about everyone fucking believes!!! Surprise surprise! People, man, woman, old, young, gay, straight, democrat, republican, army, navy, air force, marines etc. look for a sense of appreciation and/or credit/giving credit where its do!!!! And how is this hypocritical? Why is that so bad? I know I myself believe in doing such. As do many others. I've been thinking about this and have some things to say. This notion that somehow someone or some people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:52 AM
2

Again, no. No they will not. You say this as if dudes, or people in general, don't know their own limits. I think dudes would rather just jack it than get with junkies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:45 AM
2

Yeah. I was watching a thing once where they talked to these professional dominatrixes, and they said their most regular clients where these c.e.o/manager/boss types.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:15 PM
1

Oh and it's not only scenarios or situations when it's been said "nice guys" scapegoats if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:50 PM
1

Pretty much yeah. But also, well, not so much to get a reward, which yes does happen, but they're on such like autopilot or have certain habits, they can't shut it off, or have no sense of turning it off. That's been my experience. I'm not trying too sound to self righteously full of shit here, but I've experience this sort of thing or been around it on the regular well, since I was a kid I think and do often feel, based on certain experience, I have a slightly more better detailed sense of awar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:47 PM
2

He ain’t willing to bang or date janet reno. Hey there's plenty of guys who would have I bet!!! ​ Well, what about when the moral failure is when and if it's certain other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:42 PM
3

So yes, it's good that people are seeing things are not always fair and will not always get their way and if gets everyone to just back off a little and stop being up in every inch and crevice of others and not just their personal business but they themselves. It makes them more aware of hey, outside of my own bubble, it doesn't always go the way I feel it should and I will have to handle/accept that. It's good it's all out in the open and despite some perhaps passionate arguing, everyone is let…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:41 PM
2

On the one hand, while people do have a sense of outcome dependency no matter how much people might want to deny that, one can also fall easily into this trap of if I believe and/or do this, others who either share the same beliefs will therefore believe or do the same. It can easily turn into so if I do this, I will always get the reward or prize, and when it doesn't, they don't know how to handle it. Hence why the good negotiation skills and sense of awareness helps. Or like I've experienced, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:38 PM
2

I meant it as an overall saying, not just you or you personally, I will get back to this in a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:32 PM
7

Listen, I can't and have no intention or desire to try and force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, or be all up in anyone's business, but what does attraction have to do with this basic idea of a sense of as I have long said we all need to try and do this a little more, yes guys and gals, a baseline sense of general appreciation. Yeah it's your business, but when you put it like that, you make it sound like it's this very special specific thing that is only reserved for a few certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:31 PM
1

No. They will not bang any woman. Despite the common knowledge, most dudes if not already believe in or know their limits, learn what and who to avoid and/or why. It's not even a looks/leagues/status thing, yes that happens but different discussion there, most dudes will not sleep with drug addicts, sure probably fellow addicts will, but most non addict dudes will not. Nor will they single mothers for the most part, well I don't mean to sound like I'm shitting on or dumping on the homeless or mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:28 PM
1

At this point, one side complaining the other about being entitled is really just the pot calling the kettle black over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:25 PM
1

So all humans have the moral obligation to reward people that share their sense of morality. Mmmmmmmmmmmmm, yeah but I can think of scenarios and times I've seen or been in where that's not exactly going the way you think is or will. I say one should have good negotiation skills and awareness on how do make such deals where overall, everyone is fair and on the same page and everyone is mostly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:24 PM
2

Well, why do you think just lower your standards and you'd date/get laid a lot more is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:23 PM
2

It's good people are realizing this, and I don't say that for reasons you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:22 PM
2

But yet, who chose to get with or stay with said abusive guy(s)? Ok then. See, this is one of those as I can best put it, double standards everyone looks over when this issue comes up. I am not making light of abuse, but it seems everyone looks the other way when and if said person, and this isn't even the same as we're discussing here, if they are more important, or "attractive", or are "higher value/status" etc. ​ Or it's not they would become the abusers, they eventually do learn to be more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:22 PM
14

Is it always "entitlement"? I ask because I think it gets misused in some ways. Like surprise! despite what you might want to say or have been told, most people are kind of a little outcome dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:17 PM
–

I wouldn't quite word it like that myself, but have been saying/feeling pretty much close enough the same thing myself for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:43 PM
5

Yeah, have we really reached the now we're going to shit on the poor and homeless phase of this? Cause fuck that. I'm not saying you have to carry anyone's burdens, but you're a lowlife piece of shit if you do that and I will not deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:55 AM
3

You say that as if it's only guys or certain guys that say that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:54 AM
1

Wtf do "Woke Karens" have anything to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:53 AM
2

Oh no. Quite the opposite. I think you are going to see some big changes in response to this. Are you aware of this ongoing debate between the redpillers and tradcons? Do you or they see where this tradcon thing is coming from? It's the unforeseen side effect of the enjoy the decline mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:51 AM
1

In my experience, it's more a social environment thing. As in, both the men and the women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:34 AM
0

Yes and no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:33 AM
1

Because of unrealistic expectations for men. Or he's not a manchild when he looks good and/or has lots of money. If he has no job or car or enough money and plays video games all day? Loser! Looks good and has money? He's just taking some time off when he does that. I'm not saying this out of anger, just don't bullshit me when and if you do that. That went off topic a moment, but yes. Even with all this equality bullshit they teach you, not that I don't believe in a sense of fairness, but you, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:33 AM
2

Yeah I kind of just said the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:11 PM
1

Oh thank you. This is another thing I've been hoping someone brings up. What do I mean? Well, this is indicative of a few things. First off, this may admittedly sound like an odd take, but I think this is in it's own way, a good thing. What am I saying with that? Things are balancing out. After how long now to sum it all up quickly, people bring outside totally non-related shit into their own personal lives, and I can get into specific examples if you'd like, basically first off the top of my he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:10 PM
1

You're kind of overthinking what I said. And what is that final gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:37 AM
1

Not quite what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:42 PM
2

That's fine. That's not what bothers me. What bothers me is this righteous crusade shit people do over things like that. Plus, plus, it causes certain people to realize their own view or argument is shit. In this case, in that, it causes them to admit they look the other way when certain people do things or their own habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:42 PM
0

Well yeah that's kind of how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:04 PM
1

Ah ok. I figured. Good thing you mentioned this. See, despite my wiseassy slightly? curmudgeonly? approach to this, I do want to see everything go smoothe and everyone to be happy. But back to your point about the punching too high thing. I'm glad you mentioned this cause this taps into something I've been noticing. So these chicks who go on about "I want a high value man", don't seem to realize there are some limits. What do I mean? Well first off, the way they talk about it, they seem to lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:03 PM
2

That that's pretty good I got to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:01 PM
6

I know. But, we all know about Leo and what he likes!!!! There was a video made by this lady a while back where she was like seriously stating, we all need to stop what we're doing and go all in on how Leo only likes em younger and his 25 years cut off date!!!! I don't worship celebrities and I have raised an eyebrow at Leos antics, but it's their business, and I think there's far more pressing issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:57 PM
1

You know what he means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:52 PM
1

How is it either of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:51 PM
1

There is something to be said for a general baseline sense of gratitude/appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:51 PM
1

But yet, everyone goes on and on and on and on about equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:49 PM
2

Yeah, and this is their problem to deal with, no one else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:48 PM
4

Who said anything like that? What is the difference between lowering your standards and being realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:48 PM
4

Who is that referring too? The women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:46 PM
1

I’ve been friends with women who have told me exactly this basically. I don’t think that the women on here are always honest because there is an adversarial relationship with the men here You think? Look, I get what you're saying, and what even these gals are saying. I'll say how I've come to handle it/accept it. For those who feel they can't meet someone good enough, or feel they're above others, or only believe or look for someone "high value", or a certain economic bracket, etc. I say fine, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:45 PM
4

Struggling with what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:34 PM
0

but it's not my responsibility to educate a potential partner on my needs or theirs. Then how will anyone figure out what they want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:39 PM
1

Well, when it seems like just about everyone has unreasonable expectations and there is no willingness to budge or let things go, everyone else will be like "Screw this and/or I don't have to deal with your shit." And that creates things like people, or large groups of them, breaking off, and thus therefore having an impact on things like elections. Just saying. I think my expectations are pretty realistic. At the most, I just don't want to get fucked over. But if you're coming at everyone or al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:28 PM
1

See, see. I like that. Like that a lot. Really. I think everyone is an individual and they have individual experiences. One gender tends to hear certain messages more than then other at times but overall Well yeah, but given certain things, that can easily turn into pot and kettle. You can't guarantee your partner. It's a lot of compromise. Even after being with my partner for over 14 years, there's still plenty to compromise and work on. I love my husband but neither of us are perfect partners …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:21 PM
3

I heard of a similar thing once. Howard Stern back in the day, say what you will about him now, had this guy who he just had had enough of sex/dating and he chose to swear it off. So he point blank just said I just jack it mostly. He seemed quite content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:26 PM
2

Good point. I've said the same thing albeit a tad different. I think very few people can be alone that much that long. However, as per the other guys post, there is something to be said for the fuck it all approach and not feel you have to worry as much. Does it mean said person doing that is actually more secure with themselves? Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:25 PM
2

There's something to be said for that. But I don't know if it would work for a vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:23 PM
3

You're not wrong, but there's some stuff here that made me raise an eyebrow. Nothing personal to you, I just saw some stuff that made me go "Waitaminute". First off, people, and I guess in this case women and the whole Disney prince thing, I guess the guy equivalent would be finding the smoking hot supermodel. This is not some out of left field concept for me I don't understand or comprehend, but for me growing up, and I wasn't even super into Disney, I actually was more into the live action stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:22 PM
1

I think it's part of it. But you said it here: economy (cost of living), job opportunities, quality of life and so on. See, and this isn't blaming anyone for anything, I think a certain portion were not taught about how to prepare or handle these things and it causes this constant panic mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:30 AM
1

But people here take it to mean that they shouldn't go for someone with an average body instead of someone who is ripped/looks like a model, etc. There's this weird dehumanizing aspect of ranking people based on physical characteristics, wealth, etc which weirdly ignores building a connection and cultivating a relationship. I see what you mean, but let's be real. We all have eyes. We all rank and judge things on a certain level. Realizing that or saying that isn't bad I feel. It's realizing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:50 PM
1

I see. See, in my experience, and I see your point on abusive, cheating, etc., but I will get to that. In my experience, people who "never settle", are or end up being very controlling, demanding, entitled, will not budge on anything. Fine, I don't have to always be right or get my way, but I have boundaries too. But when you can't lay off of me, it's like, well fuck you too. I have this reaction cause I've come to realize I grew up with a lot of that happening and people doing it to me. Yes. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:50 PM
1

Or if someone's personal relationship yardstick is how much the other person likes or is into Taylor Swift........
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:29 AM
1

I ask cause when I hear things like positive mindset, a few things come to mind. Someone who looks at things through this happy all the time, no frowny frowns soccer mom bullshit thing. I've dealt with this, I can't stand it. Maybe I am just not in the mood. It can and does I feel, create this bubble. What do I mean? See, I don't want to be the person who is so in my own bubble, and I've told I do seem spaced out at times but that's different, where I'm so in my own, I ignore or deny the tragic,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:28 AM
0

Seems like having a positive mindset & outlook aren't required to meet his standards Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:18 AM
0

He's not totally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:17 AM
2

It's not just idiotic manosphere rhetoric. I'm not even hardcore into any of that and I see his point. Take away the lingo and some of the reasoning, forget about some of the more arbitrary and superficial parts, which anyone complaining about that to a certain point just becomes the pot calling the kettle black. It is at it's core, all about learning not to, and avoiding, and looking out for, to not be fucked over. And you can't fault someone for that. You think this is the only case of someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:17 AM
1

I believe in boundaries and awareness. Yes, I hear you on gold diggers and people who would use or take advantage of you or others. Just when I hear standards and expectations, it hasn't always been a positive experience with the other person(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:13 AM
1

I've seen very high levels of entitlement from both. But you bring up a good point. This is my take: We tell people when they're young, "Don't do this, don't talk back, don't steal, don't be entitled, be fair, put others ahead of you. Always help others. Do that, and you will be rewarded." You, man or woman does this, and you see others doing those things, like entitlement, like talking back, like being lout and obnoxious, like being unfair, like taking or stealing things. And most people, and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:09 AM
1

What vague platitude? Are we saying there are never times where it's both?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:08 AM
1

You say that if men are the only ones looking to others fulfill all their needs. And, if someone does find a positive relationship from lacking one, it can help/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:55 AM
1

But when too many are doing it?????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:54 AM
1

I got the chocolate bar in the end and my way worked for me. But at what risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:53 AM
1

Special treatment and entitlement go hand in hand. Yes. Totally agree. But special treatment isn't always the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:52 AM
1

Just don’t be entitled to believe everyone will share them or accept them. That happens way more than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 AM
1

Yeah but when said standards get to be too unrealistic and no one is willing to compromise......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 AM
5

Sometimes it is both parties. And sometimes one realizes it more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:49 AM
0

Well, sometimes standards are bullshit.......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:49 AM
1

Yes. Thank you. Been saying the same thing myself sort of. Yeah. This whole everything is transactional shit. I don't like it. It's one thing when and if two or more people, sit down, try to get on the same page, work out a deal and everyone is happy. This is what happens when you tell people to "never settle" no matter. They can't or don't know how to deal with it when someone goes, "yeah fuck you I don't give a fuck".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:48 AM
1

Sort of yeah. A shit rolls down hill sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:46 AM
2

all my boomer parents (4 of them) expect me to be their emotional support child when not one of them emotionally supported me when i was a literal child I, I know that feeling/what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:45 AM
1

Or, or, people learned to grow up and realize you will not always get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:45 AM
2

Yeah. The example I use is, there's some lady who has a nice house by the beach, nice back porch for her and family and friends to enjoy, have parties, watch the fireworks. In other words, corny shit if you would. Now, you have these followers who follow her and go either I want/must have that exact same thing no matter what and/or along with, well since I'm so valuable, someone should just get it for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:43 AM
-1

Yes. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:42 AM
4

I think part of it was a few things. It was the environment mixed with a sense of "hey I'm rich/successful/live here!!! I should get what I want!!!!" They are either taught this, more on that, or they just decide to go fuck it! Why not?!? Which brings me to another point. These people, while successful, weren't exactly all 10s as some of you guys frame this. These were not mega hottie instagram ready 10s living their best and flaunting it. These were not mega hot alpha chads with their pick of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:10 PM
2

Hoo boy am I glad you wrote this. Because this is an issue I've been wanting to discuss. I have come to the conclusion that this is mostly a social environment behavior and not always a gendered issue as this tends to go. I also think the debate needs to be reframed a bit. I will get to that later. So as an example, I used to work in an area where every other asshole and their brother were entitled. Seriously. About 10 people I worked with, and these people were not dumb or clueless, all pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:10 PM
–

I guess what I'm saying is going way over your head. Well whether it be for sex or anything, or it's the cliche sexy woman with big tits, curves, nice ass who the guys are falling over for and she knows they will do anything for her. Or it's just any scenario when someone is trying to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:21 AM
–

To get what she wants. It can be socially/sexually, it can be to get a discount, it can be to act like a spoiled child throwing a temper when they don't get their way. I've seen full grown adults who should not only know better, but will tell you that you should know better do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:17 AM
–

People can be manipulative. What was hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:59 AM
–

I see. Just, purity seems like a very specific thing. Why not just call it making sure I'm not getting fucked over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:48 AM
–

Are people really THAT focused on this being pure thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:42 AM
–

Some lads even go as far as judging ladies for "being used" by many lads, but then proceed to blame their own sexless, and single lives on a lady as if she is repsonsible. Why cant ladies have fun without there being an angry mob of lads acting as if her behvaior is hurting them? Because it's gone beyond all of that. First off, after a while, when anyone keeps getting used, something I do not like seeing happen to someone, they eventually start to put two and two together and realize how sucky i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:41 AM
–

Really? I could go on about all the examples, but the most obvious one is she tricks the thirsty/horny/desperate sucker into getting him to do what she wants. Or they're just entitled. Sex may not even have anything do to with it. Well maybe very little. They will think I am woman, you are man, therefore you will or must do what I say or ask for due to that social factor. I've seen and had it happen to me that last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:37 AM
–

Yes this in part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:36 AM
–

Cause want to know why? It's not the "double standard IE he's a stud, she's a slut/ho", It's not the evil patriarchal boogey man, it's not she's for the streets etc, it's not nec. always she's not sleeping with me. It's cause everyone, and I mean everyone, regardless of age, race, height, gender, religion, looks level etc, has a system. What do I mean? Everyone has a sense or awareness of fair or unfair, right or wrong, trustworthy or untrustworthy. Etc. So, if a guy has his own system of those …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:33 AM
1

By we, I meant the side trying to win, not me. I'm not this diehard conservative, there's things I don't agree with them on, but the left has totally failed and have no plan. See, I tend to watch more conservative leaning media. Why? To see what they are planning and where it looks like it's probably going. They're the ones going we can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:29 AM
2

Yeah, about the last part there, the homeless and jobless, I see one side making sure that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:07 AM
3

I've seen some shit. I'm not saying I'm smarter or had it so hard or anything like that. I'm not this naive pollyannish school boy. Yes. People either can and have found out the other person is cheating, or they stick with them for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:33 AM
5

In my experience it is mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:55 PM
2

The most obvious albeit tragic example I can compare it to, as sad as it is and I'm not saying this coldly or without compassion, but does this not happen? The parent(s) who will say and declare up and down "My kid would NEVER do drugs!!!!", and the kid gets hooked and becomes a junkie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:30 PM
3

Oh, this isn't about sides or partisanism. This is about, who is focused on winning and is looking like they most likely will, vs who is not. That's all. It's not about me or my beliefs, or how I feel, it's where is this all really going? The two party system ain't going away or be broken anytime soon. I agree with that statement in that we do need changes, but it's not happening anytime soon. "if you want things to get better you've got to take responsibility for your share of creating that cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:28 PM
3

They eventually get caught cause people eventually put two and two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:24 PM
64

Nothing can touch me. Those tend to be the ones who get hit the hardest. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:49 AM
5

I hate when tradcons say that enjoy the decline is not a viable strategy. Just get yourself at a place where you're confident you won't be affected no matter what happens. Yeah, I see a lot of that changing. By that I meant, they're right about the decline not being a viable strategy. That was the norm for a while, then it changed. They realized, "Hey! We DON'T have to be on a decline!" That's what's been happening. They've realized they can win an election. What do you thibk they've been planni…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:48 AM
2

But when it all comes back and bites you in the ass....... You go on and on about the doomers. You don't see the change coming. Complaining/being concerned about the state of world is nothing new. A lot of it comes from people who just cannot accept changes, which are not always good admittedly, or they cannot think beyond their own two feet and have such a rigid view of things. I can appreciate and admire a certain stubbornness and stoicism in a person to a point, but some of these people just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:44 AM
2

Oh I think it is something that needs to be spoken out against. These little petty things turning into big issues is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:19 AM
1

The movie the rabbit hole? I haven't either. I use it at as a figure of speech mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:41 AM
2

I see what you're saying and know what you mean, but stuff like this is why I say if you're going to go down the rabbit hole, learn how to navigate the rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:26 AM
4

But then why is no one saying to her maybe she could cool it with that? I am not saying anyone should be forced to do anything, but is it so bad to say to someone to cut the certain shit over this sort of thing? I mean, you want to talk about unrealistic expectations........
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:24 AM
2

Oh I've dealt with some creepy women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:23 AM
0

Yes. I witnessed something very similar to this growing up with someone I used to know. It's not an exaggeration when people say this. I saw it firsthand play out between two people who one should have known to end it sooner and save everyone eve just around it some major headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:22 AM
3

Maybe she has a fart fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:20 AM
1

I don't think it's entitlement at all when they've been raised their whole life told to act a certain way and told this is the way they're meant to act for the reward they want. I'm not entitled if you tell me you'll give me 5$ if I move your fridge, and once I've moved it I come ask you to give me the 5$ you promised. Yes but the problem then is when they're told, or not told I should say rather taught, what to do and handle things when it doesn't pan out like that. Dealing with this realizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:19 AM
1

The idea that any “little” thing could be the wrong thing isn’t some big and scary idea; it’s a liberating realization if anything. But isn't that just encouraging people being WAY too petty about things they shouldn't be? Yeah one should know when to walk away, or avoid certain people, and have boundaries, but this shit about they didn't have the right clothes, the wrong brands, finding or making problems where there are none, being over judgmental over nil issues? The point of this is the oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:15 AM
1

There really are too many levels to this shit for people to wrap their heads around. Is there? Cause sometimes I think some of this is more straightforward than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:05 AM
0

Well, I don't know if I'd quite put it like that, but I know what you mean. What I saw in my impression was that after Obama was first elected, the left saw it as this greenlight to go all out with all of their half assed/not well thought out bad ideas done in the name of knee jerk ideology emotional approach. By that I mean, early on, I felt and saw something similar as you describe. And that is, they all thought that had ended racism cause they got their guy in and turned the social debate int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:04 AM
4

Cause there's a fair ring of truth in there based on many a persons, men and women's, lived experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:09 AM
2

"Oh if guys eat their peas weird, that's such an ick." That same very thing happened in an episode of Seinfeld but the genders were reversed.......
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:07 AM
–

A little bit of both if you ask me. They're becoming more independent, men that is and I say good rather than full on right wing. Certain women, only those so much in their liberal bubble are, or were?, upset the men weren't going along cause of their own made up rules so to say. This is what happens when you not only make politics your identity, but bring into every angle, crevice and dimension of yours and others personal lives. You also seem to be totally overlooking the vast majority of cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:00 AM
–

First of all: "liberal vs conservative" is pure murrican's point of view, they measure reality by eagles per football fields. Well, we kinda did this to ourselves and we haven't been able to stop and made the stakes oh so too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:53 AM
–

Pretty much this. Although I wouldn't quite word it all like that. Oh and I think it happened a bit ways more before 2012. I started seeing similar enough things happen in 2009 when after Obama first got in. Say what you will about him, I'm not really trying to get into a deep dive into it, or his policies how he handled things etc., the guy tried if you ask me. I'm not blaming him for this. Again, he, his policies, how he handled things is one thing. But I don't think it's his fault for the sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:38 AM
2

As for the Lauren Chen thing and the whole married by 25 thing above it, that all comes from the number of people who have, ironically enough, realized that one size fits all magical liberalism as I call it, just isn't working. Instead of focusing on one thing at a time, or certain specific things, you/they're bringing in this exceedingly unrealistic long list of liberal expectations you magically expect them to adhere to and they all went "Yeah fuck that".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:17 AM
1

Mormonism/religious fundamentalism is a more narrow, specific thing. Even people outside of that structure see the benefits of traditionalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:13 AM
2

Oh I so disagree. Look, like I've said before, I don't buy into this if we just go back to the 1950s we will be all right thing. Never made any sense. This is coming more from most people realizing that loyalty, trust, appreciation, commitment, stability etc, are good, and this long term/form social experiment of the opposite of that just ain't working for them and perhaps older generations weren't totally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:12 AM
–

No. I think it's people realizing nearly 24/7 365 online social and social media space isn't the way to go and they've all been putting too many eggs into one basket and it ain't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:08 AM
–

First off, the positive is that, now?, people are FINALLY talking about this and realizing this. This issue that has been building up, pretty much online where just about anyone can read it anytime, and for the better part of a decade with some key peak moments. Two main big ones are Trump, and that social media sjw shitshow over that ghostbusters remake. Perhaps they finally realized that endlessly arguing with angry fanboys who admittedly need a reality check for 5 whole fucking months in what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:05 AM
2

First off, for starters, Really?!?!?!? They're just realizing this and similar concerns are/have been an issue NOW?!?!!? This shit has been going on for a while albeit not nec. always for the same reasons stated. To begin, I do agree with this sense of disposability with people being an issue. But I will get into related concerns afterwards. I am not mr. blue pill simpcuck white knight male feminist here, but I don't like seeing this happen to people and want to generally see everything go smoot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:56 AM
1

I remember after the whole Casey Anthony thing, this one dude I said yeah I’d fuck her. I was limey, RRRRIIIIGGGHHHTTTT ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:38 PM
1

Oh I so totally disagree with all of that and you are so wrong about this .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:01 PM
1

Understandable but some of you seem to be leaving out some key details and concerns
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:56 PM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:42 PM
1

Well, let's not phrase this as a win. You still had a horrid case, someone was murdered despite them not being good, and this guy got played and is now in jail for life. I see your point, but you're bringing in a little too much outside personal feelings here. Let's stay on point. But yes, you're right about the manipulative nature of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:41 PM
2

Yes. This. This applies to everyone. They need to be taught or made aware of what can and does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:40 PM
0

This has nothing to do with hatred. You're bringing in outside issues to a single very bad issue. This doesn't help. Bringing in this laundry list of sjw concerns to best out it isn't how the legal process or system works. I'm not defending anyone here, but you seem to neglect certain legal processes and concerns. You seem to be turning this into a moment for the movement. Not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:39 PM
1

Yes. This. The mother sounds awful admittedly, but this dude got played and used. Again, some of you don't seem to get this. And what about mental health advocacy? Hmm? Where are the people going this guy was clearly taken advantage of due to his disability? Where was the people trying to make him aware of this? I got to say, that all seems to be sorely lacking here. I have no sympathy for anyone here, the weight of this isn't lost on me, but many of you seem to be leaving out lots of key detail…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:36 PM
0

I see your point, but they still murdered someone, as bad as what her situation was, it's not lost on me, this isn't something that happens and it's whoop! no big deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:33 PM
1

Yes she did. From an article about what happened, in the court proceedings: Gypsy-Rose let him in and allegedly gave him duct tape, gloves, and a knife with the understanding that he would use it to murder Dee Dee. Yeah. This is not the time to turn this into a rah-rah you go girl! type of thing. This is murder. That is something that has lots of consequences to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:33 PM
1

No one is saying what happened to her isn't wrong, but if you kill someone, that's not something that just gets swept under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:30 PM
1

Even with that, there's still a slew of legal issues. What don't you get? A victim who snapped? That's a bad way to put it. So oh what? Every time someone says something nasty to you, you can snap on them? You really want to go there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:29 PM
1

No one is less sympathetic here if at all. The issue is not lost on me, but even with that, you're talking about two people who got together to murder someone. You don't see the issues with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:27 PM
0

Even then, there's still lots of legal issues and concerns. I mean, if you just up and kill someone, even if abusive, there's still going to be a lot to go along with that. Well, wait a minute. Wait a minute. If he's autistic and got manipulated into it, that's still a big issue. So she manipulated him into it, so that does count as involvement, premeditated yes?. She gets a lesser sentence. He gets life. Yeah. Something is amiss. Both are guilty if you ask me. I understand the issue at hand, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:26 PM
1

Really? We've reached that level of cultural and moral warping? I know that's a heavy statement and I'm not trying to be mr.culture war(rior), I don't think the righteous crusade has to be the reasoning behind everything. Yes. Abuse is bad, and while we can discuss what happened, she has lady fans praising this? And what happened to the guy tricked into doing it? Does he get a pass? See, this is where we really need to have a large sit down in the table about limits to certain things, certain aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:18 PM
1

So men: what is it about dangerous female inmates?? Some guys have a real hard on for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:12 PM
4

It's a different story when the shoe is on the other foot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:59 PM
2

But, but, when she complains where's all the good men, or why won't men commit, or when she realizes she's been/being used........
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:49 PM
2

While I see your point, your argument is an example of an ongoing problem with these things, it's just more pot calling the kettle black back and forth back and forth. You, as in anyone, could go on and on and on and on and on about well what about when they do this or that?, which is good cause that means people are paying attention and/or are aware of this, but it also highlights the issue. Instead of trying to find a solution, balancing it out, or maybe even just learning to let some shit go,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:48 PM
1

Well, I wouldn't quite word like that or as long, no offense, but yes. This is what everyone has to come to recognize and step out of their bubble a little bit. What do I mean? He used the Klaus Kinski example, and what he's saying is true, I want to be careful with what I say, not to condone anything bad or even say I agree with or am ok with certain things, but more so the how and why and how to handle these things. In that, if you are with someone like that, whether it be platonic or romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:40 PM
3

There is been a constant trope about men being terrible partners, manipulative, violent, and neglectful online. You hear the outcries of women all over social media crying about "where are the good men"? If you look at TwoX, most of their posts have an abundance of terrible instances they have had with men. You are aware this is nothing new right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:01 AM
2

Because it's this test of endurance thing people do or this reverse twisted maliciousness that people do. People seek out drama and toxic behaviors either to try and change the person, or they realize the bubble they were brought up in isn't the everything and everyone is good as they were told. Plus the exposure to certain things teaches you how to handle or be aware of certain things. Then you have toxic people who cause drama. Sometimes it is intentional, sometimes it's there nature. The mali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:01 AM
4

Plus in JWB's case, his dick got cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:55 AM
1

This can be in terms of anything - emotional support, emotional response, financial support, love letters, helping more around the home, sexual exploration, grand gestures, etc. So without getting into the sexual parts and aspects, just because I feel that's a different category of it's own and peoples own personal boundaries, I will discuss the other aspects here. But emotional response? The fuck? So is this some you expect the "right answer and or response or feeling" shit from someone? Well i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:07 PM
5

it's just subtly but not so subtly actually about butt sex. Isn't it always?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:50 PM
0

Yah think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:51 PM
2

Economy ? Individualism ? or is it media? or national wealth? or legislation? or what do you think contributed to all of this? Little bit of all that and then some Also, and I'm not even arguing for some sort of unrealistic ardent traditionalist we need to go back to the 1950s clinging nostalgia bullshit thing, cause even I don't agree with that and think it's unrealistic, but a major shift or change or shift and change away from whether you want to call it traditional values, and there is a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:26 AM
1

Cause of $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:25 AM
2

I’d say, why the fuck are people jacking it at the beach? Why are they doing this during a nice day at the beach that everyone is trying to enjoy. Jesus. There’s children around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:28 AM
1

You're not totally wrong, but sometimes it's not always that. Sometimes it's this stubbornness of people. They can wait it out and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:30 PM
1

Yes. But see, we were all so like young, dumb and had a narrow angle view of things. We, as in everyone, this guy let it spill out into like other things. And weird thing was, he'd start cussing her out over something, and someone would be like "hey man chill". And he'd get all DON'T GET IN MY BUSINESS AND TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!!" And other times he'd come to us and say what do I do etc. ​ But like, it wasn't even she was just trying to change him. There'd be times we'd all be hanging out and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:29 PM
1

I've seen both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:24 PM
1

Well, if she wasn't ok with it, why didn't she come to her sense and leave sooner? I don't know about desperate, more like she thought she could change him. Or they tried to make it work. They went sort of heavy early on. By that I mean, we were all like 16, 17 years old. They started talking about getting married. Now some people can have that level of maturity or the importance of what it takes to do that. It wasn't these two.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:03 PM
1

I'm not trying to justify anything. I'm just saying this is what happens and being aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:03 PM
1

With that out of the way, if you don’t wanna be monogamous you don’t have to be - long as you’re open with her about it and she’s okay with it, you’re both free to do as you please. Yeah, doesn't always play out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:08 AM
1

Also “earning women” is kind of a fucked the way to see it - they’re not trophies, they’re individuals. You can be poly or have multiple partners and not dehumanize them. So much tells so many otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:07 AM
1

i’ll start by saying there is no such thing as a “high value male” because dictating human value by material standards is be Yeah. That's a nice idea, it really is, and I don't even totally disagree, but it's not going to apply to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:07 AM
1

Not always. Lying and manipulation does happen, but sometimes they are straight up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:05 AM
1

i am 100% positive those men lie/obfuscate that they treat people this exploitatively to women they are pursuing. Yah think?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:04 AM
1

Yes. I've seen the same. Maybe it's not he calls them sluts to their faces, I've seen emotional/verbal abuse, fights that start from or over petty little things or lack of communication or people just can't let shit go and yes, she will stay with/fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:03 AM
1

No, they lie. What I've seen and what is the part no one wants to talk about or admit is she will still stay with him or keep coming back to him when and if he lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:02 AM
1

I wouldn't quite put it like that, but we all know and have seen this sort of thing happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:01 AM
1

If a man tells you straight up he’s not monogamous… why would you stick around and hope to change his mind? Really? You haven't heard the I can change him thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:58 AM
1

because I know I want to be with a man I respect and admire. Those men tend to be HVM. And I want to know if I am being a bit naive. So you only respect and admire people who you see as high value? Ok. Well you're in for a rude awakening. And yes, VERY naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:58 AM
1

While it would be nice if we could all just be mature adults about it That's not going to happen/not how that works. I’ve rarely found that to be the case. At some point, the feelings sneak in and that fucks things up. Yah think?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:56 AM
1

Im curious if this something most HVM and their partners know and accept. Should women accept this as common knowledge? Yes. This has long gone on. She stays at home and takes care of domestic duties, he goes out and sees his other chick(s). Long as he comes home and doesn't tell her, everything is "ok" IE everyone is clearly in denial. Hey, you do what you want. It's not my problem. No one made you do this. You make the fucking bed, you fucking lay in it, like anyone else does. No more of this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:56 AM
1

Fr, what self-respecting woman is ok with a guy who constantly cheats? You'd be surprised. Or, or, like I witnessed, and this went on for like 5 years, I shit you not, it pretty much spilled out into the social environment. Basically, this now former friend went out with this girl ok. I'm not going to get into the whole story cause I'd rather just cut to the point. So they went out, they'd fight/argue, from what I mostly saw, she'd say something he didn't like or they'd fight about expectations …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:51 AM
–

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:19 PM
2

Omg. Why do I have to explain this? Those are your options. You can either not settle or take what is available. I'll say this. I am not trying to, or have any intent, to try and make or force anyone do anything they don't want to. But, but, when I hear "never settle", all I hear is a load of fucking bullshit. Why ? Cause my experience with people like that is, nothing is ever good enough for them, they have no sense of compromise, and/or unwilling to accept sometimes sacrifices and get upset wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:15 PM
1

You missed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:03 PM
1

Then why even bother posting or discussing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:03 PM
1

Entitlement is a term almost exclusively deployed by privileged people who want to feel morally righteous about defending their privileged status. Yes. Can confirm. I used to see this like almost everyday where I used to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:17 AM
1

Who is being a woke Karen here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:17 AM
1

I don’t like this whole talk about entitlement. There is some agitated group of people online who are obsessed with finding entitlement everywhere. They start long discussions about entitlement even if someone farted. Is the one who farted entitled? Or are people surrounding him entitled to his fart? While true, there is a reason for it. Yes. Entitlement is an overused misapplied word that can be turned into trying to find something that clearly isn't there, it starts when you are around or expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:16 AM
1

See, I was "with you" initially, your post pointed out something I had experienced first hand and it was one of those "Ah! Nice! Someone gets it moments! It's always good when that happens!" But now I see you're just refusing to negotiate or compromise and think that by twisting everything around and denying things, like peoples own experiences, that contradict your point, you sort? are like the examples in your post. Or you just have as one poster said, straw man arguments etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:13 AM
1

“Women reward bad guys with sex” There is so much to unpack with that damn phrase. The fact the word “reward” is used so often definitely indicates entitlement because it implies seeing sex as a reward for your actions instead of an activity 2 or more people consent to. Are women not allowed to sleep with whoever they want as long as it’s a consenting adult? Who told you women give out sex like trophies instead of having her own standards for guys? You can claim to not be entitled, but when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:06 AM
2

" Why is it upsetting that fat girls are able to bang guys hotter than she is? You’re not obligated to fuck fat girls, so what’s the problem? Why does it bother you that women don’t have to fuck their looks match? If guys want to lower their standards to fuck a consenting adult without commitment, how is that your business? Is it because average looking girls don’t want you for hookups? BTW, to my Americans, fat is your average, so wanting a non-fat girl means you only want 33% of the population…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:05 AM
1

Yeah. OP is right. I've been saying the same shit for a while now. I used to work in an area where this same type of attitude was the norm. " Actions speak louder than words. In this case, attitude speaks louder than words. It’s one thing to get sad or disappointed, but when the complaints become about finger pointing, it’s a sign of entitlement. Don’t act like society and people not giving you what you want is an injustice. " Oh yeah. That happened ALOT. Grown ass adults, who had money, throwin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 AM
1

Yes and that's sad. I'm not angrily piling on someone whom that happens to, it's just let's be real here too you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:04 PM
-1

???????????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:20 AM
0

You missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:14 AM
3

Abusive friends and family, entitled people with an attitude who were it's never their fault, demanding people who think you're just their to serve them, forceful people. Plenty. Usually something happened to them and they just couldn't get a handle on their shit and no one says nothing to them about responsibility. It's all bullshit sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:13 AM
0

You really think you're the only one who's seen the worst of people?, men or women? I'm not going to get into the obvious example of people who have lived through genocides, wars, gangs, addiction, slavery etc. That's too easy. As I've said before, many on here need to start thinking outside of the box/beyond your own feet a little more. In that, it's not just one type of person or personality who does these things. I used to work in an area, where the people there had money, we're talking docto…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:11 AM
3

I'm not projecting anything. You just said this in another post: " If I still act manipulative and like an asshole to women I don’t expect people to forgive me because of my childhood" So you're not responsible for your actions then? And you admit it came from your childhood, just like this fictional character, and you don't see the similarities? Wow. You really are one dumb mother fucker. Hey, my rule is, your business is your business, and I don't give a good fuck what you do, you and/or they …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:05 AM
4

Yeah, you don't get it. Who is saying she didn't harm Forest? Or like I said, if Forest perhaps had someone to help him, it would have been different. No one is dismissing anything. Where are you getting this from? Oh I can read plenty well, something tells me you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:54 PM
3

What is your point? Your example has no relation to the argument at hand, I can't stand when people do that, and you've shown your hand by showing that you clearly cannot stay on track and when someone calls it out, you throw a temper tantrum. What's my name have to do with anything? Really? That, that's it? Just admit you have no or a very shitty argument and when someone says otherwise, you can't handle it. Just like every other controlling self righteous mother fucker I've dealt with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:52 PM
1

Well, actions do have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:47 PM
2

You are just in denial and grasping for something cause you clearly have no self control. You have no argument, or very, very poor ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:46 PM
14

Who is saying it's right? There's saying it's right and then saying it's what happened or happens, two different things. I don't think the story "gives her a pass", I think it does hold her accountable but does not deny the tragic nature of her. You guys seem to have no nuance and take it all so literally. Chill the fuck out, learn to see the finer details. It's people like you who do not get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:45 PM
5

Men are held accountable for their reaction to trauma, women are made to be martyrs for theirs. I've seen so many examples that say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:43 PM
1

Wrong read bro. And no, I am not blue bill white knight nice guy simp cuck any other buzzword etc. people use when they can't think beyond their own two feet. Men still carry on after trauma? You know dmx? The late rapper, you know he was sexually abused as a kid and had drug problems, that's what happens. The catholic church abuse scandal? Really? Get real and get your head out of your ass man. This is not a good path to start going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:41 PM
19

Yes. This here. Pass for what? While yes, she is of a tragic nature, this is what happens to people who when that happens to them when they have no one to help or seek guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:39 PM
1

While I see the point, you may be looking at this too literally/solely through the whole red pill glasses. And maybe missed the point. On that note, I try to avoid this approach with such things, just saying. Yes, having an awareness is good, seeing everything through that filter can/will drive one nuts. Like if you look at or watch or read everything through that lens, you're going to go nuts I'm telling you. I've seen it happen in many ways with other things. That being said, you did get that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:37 PM
–

Uh, those are qualities people look for or appreciate in others one way or the other. You act as if it's only some select magical few that do those sort of things. Some of you folks really need to stop acting like that's the case. It comes off as weird and wooden. Modern? How so exactly? Define that for me. Positive outlook? So then what if someone is not pro Trump per se, but they have realized "Holy fucking shit, he's going to win again?" Then what? What about those kind of conflicts and thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:30 AM
–

Wow. This whole post is so unrealistically faggy, it speaks for it's self.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:42 AM
–

They have a selfish mindset which doesn’t show it’s full strength until they have a partner trapped with them, they don’t help with the kids or housework, spend thousands of hours on video games and complaining their wife’s aren’t “servicing” him ?????????????????????????????????????????? Do you have any arguments that aren't just cliches and/or realistic examples but aren't happening anywhere near the level you seem to think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:40 AM
–

Define wanting more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:36 AM
–

Wow. I just read through that article and how does one manage to not see the obvious, totally contradict themselves, and go off into 5-6 unrelated things at once? This is like really bad, but it ties into so much of what is going on or has been going on. I have much more to say about this but I am tired and will get back to it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:34 AM
0

That's like what he's saying. As per my previous post, it sounds like they've got themselves twisted into an ideological pretzel not!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:02 PM
1

I'll tell you what the problem is, the word its self: progressive What do I mean? Well, in my experience and observation, people who base or determine every.single.thing.and.decision. based on whether or not it fits into this ideological belief, cannot make decisions either for themselves or in general, refuse to compromise or sacrifice, sometimes you must do that, and if you cannot accept it, don't make it my problem. It's the ideology part. You, as in anyone not just the OP, cannot seem to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:57 PM
2

Why is one "esteemed by his community" and the other is demonized? You make these declarative statements like these assertions are purely random. You mean there's some sort of lottery the community has where they determine one man should be worshipped and another should be demonized and blamed for everything? I see your point with your whole post here, but this whole one should be worshipped while the other or others are somehow if not demonized then they are for sure singled out, happens more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:18 AM
1

Yah know, funny you mention this, cause you ain’t going to believe the shit I just heard. Now I’m just some guy posting online so you may not believe me. I’m not going to sit here and beg to be believed but I can only assure you so much I am not lying. So I am waiting for the train. These two girls come and stand and wait for it. They start talking and one of them say’s about the guy she’s seeing some shit he she asks him along the lines of like would still love me if I was a year younger or it …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:56 PM
1

Women aren't valued for their career status, not sure why you are bringing that up? You think men get horny by an MD next to a woman's name? I, I'm going to have to get back to you on this one, not only cause I'm tired, but this has got to be some of the dumbest shit I've heard in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:21 AM
1

And how many can like, make a decent amount doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:20 AM
1

You use a tiktok influencer as your measuring stick? You know, there are people out there with actual careers, like doctors, lawyers, financial field. But you just choose to overlook all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:42 AM
5

So my question is, why do women like this have no trouble finding men, but a lot of trouble finding men for commitment ? Like what's going on in these situations ? ​ Idk. She has to have enough dicks to find the right one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 AM
2

What exactly is a "feminine job" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 AM
1

Why would they stop just because I say so? I’m just another resource to those people - when have they ever listened to someone they want to take advantage of? If they did, they wouldn’t be who they are. Well, that's kind of the point. Again, someone both proves and totally misses my point. Well perhaps they need to be told/reminded they shouldn't take advantage of anyone. Do I think we can find ways to help them reform? Sure. But individually, most of us are not equipped to do so, be it by resou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:03 PM
1

I'm not entitled to anything except human rights, feelings and thoughts. Doesn't mean i am always right, but i am entitled to have them. No. You can't say you are entitled to them. Wait, that came off wrong. It doesn't make it right, but in most peoples experiences, peoples feelings where they think everything is valid or ok is bullshit and therefore, maybe they aren't entitled to them. I don't see everything as a transaction. Some things are indeed transactions, some are just feelings/emotions.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:17 PM
1

Why do you think i mentioned boundaries? Yet you are the one unhappy that others missed your point. Ntz ntz ntz You did miss my point in that it was about boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:15 PM
1

At least you admit it’s a problem, but no. Women suffer subscription to conspiracies and hate groups at a far lower rate than men. Thanks? I guess. But my take is a little a different than you may be expecting. Well, I won't lie, I have some conspiracy tendencies tbh. As a general rule, I don't flat out deny nothing and think set ups, abuses of power, do happen. Long story short as an example, I don't think Epstein killed himself. But with that last part, about who subscribes to conspiracies and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:15 PM
1

But the topic of this post is relationships. Why would i enter a relationship with someone i don't like. Why torture myself? Now what I meant, but I see your point. I think this applies to scenarios instead of just relationships. Well, what's the difference between not torturing yourself and then having, as I can best put it, having such "high standards" where you put yourself in a bubble and realize there will be struggles and challenges beyond your own two feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:11 PM
1

But you don't think someone should be telling them to cut the shit and act right etc, when people have no problem saying that to others when they are upset? Tell them to not act like a demanding spoiled child all the time? I think people should not be going to level at all, unless it's an actual emergency. I just have a bad association with people who have done that through various experiences I've had. "I found gray rocking the obnoxious ones effective. You don’t feed them and they leave you al…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:09 PM
1

See, that's a nice idea, but sometimes it's inevitable. This is why I firmly believe, one must step outside the bubble/think beyond their own two feet for a bit and realize you will encounter situations/people where you have to now how to handle them and just not keeping them around is the way do to it if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:51 PM
1

Sure, and you support them however much you can handle while simultaneously protect your own wellbeing. Some people are down temporarily and will pick themselves up. Some people are perpetual victims and tough talk won't help them anyways. Not quite what I meant. Oh supporting them would be the last thing I do based on certain experiences with certain types of people. By that I mean, people who will take no shit, tell you to fuck off and go screw, take no disrespect etc, they'll complain but you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:49 PM
1

I did. What about them? Conspiracies and harnessing emotional states are two different things if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:44 PM
1

Because they are vulnerable to cheat codes and social media influencers. But why? What are they reacting to or not getting? What is not in there tool kit to be able to tell when it's a problem? Also, your response is really the pot calling the kettle black. You think these dudes are the only one with that problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:43 PM
2

How do you both prove and totally miss my point at the same time? I don't know if I've seen that happen before. Yes there are boundaries. Any sane person realizes that, and that goes both ways, something people tend to forget. ​ Who said anything about rapists? Where is that coming from? My point is, no, not all feelings are valid and just because you feel them, doesn't mean everyone else has to go along with it. Again, you both proved and totally missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:42 PM
5

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:38 PM
4

Everyone treats anything as they please. Superficially, deeply, as a transaction, not as a transaction, however you like. The issue is finding someone who has the same views. No. There is a big difference between we made a fair deal and agree with it, like you did this, I will agree to pay you this much for said task/work, vs everything is all about what I can get out of it or I am entitled to this deal or discount. Two different things. Or what do you do when the other person or persons decide …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:38 PM
2

How does manipulation relate to anything here? That's fairly manipulative I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:58 PM
1

I’m responding to the comment that it’s delusional to think a guy can make/trick a girl into feeling certain emotions. Have I got news for you! It ain't just dudes that do that to chicks, or vice versa. Here's a standard example: "Yes kids, santa is real."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:57 PM
0

It's part of growing up. No big deal. Yeah but, some people are not "growing up".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:56 PM
1

Vehemently disgusted by men's irrational belief in conspiracies. What? Where did that come from? Who mentioned that? How does that relate at all to the discussion at hand? Is this you trying to bait someone or you clearly have no detailed counter point like at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:55 PM
1

If men cared about connecting with a woman, they wouldn't be paying for and consuming social media grifter content. Well, then why do they? I agree a good part of this is a scam, which is another issue, but why has all of this taken off with so many guys? Cause perhaps, they were not connecting, or whatever they were doing wasn't working for them, and on a side note, perhaps it was a reaction to ridiculous cultural standards and expectations from yes, some chicks. By that I mean, if you're const…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:54 PM
1

Everything about this post is disturbing evidence that men actually believe red pill and PUA grifters instead of their own social experience. I see your point, but what evidence is there that this is where all these dudes are coming from with that? Or, and we can debate concerns over this, maybe they realized it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:50 PM
-2

Or what about emotional control? I don't expect anyone to be a robot, that's not a path anyone wants to start going down, but this whole everything one feels is somehow justified is total bullshit. So if someone feels ENTITLED to something, that makes it ok? When you have all of those "angry white men", that's ok? When gangbangers want to kill each other in public when people are caught in the crossfire, that's ok? What Putin pulled over there is ok? This shit show in the middle east cause every…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:49 PM
0

you can feel however you want, but if you don''t recognize poor choices then I have no sympathy Yes, this right here. Thank you. It's no one else's fault you bought a phone, don't know how to use it, and when the coupon doesn't load, you throwing a temper tantrum like a spoiled child doesn't help matters. This is just one example I've seen more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:45 PM
4

That doesn't justify why women "should" be chasing emotional highs? Yeah, what is this everything has to be a high shit with people? What are they going to do when they have to deal with disappointments, you're not always going to get what they want, what do they do when the other people or persons just you know, doesn't want to deal with your shit at the then given time?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:42 PM
6

Also, relationships are not business transactions. "I don't like this handyman as a person, but boy he can fix my sink." Yes but, we are treating more and more things like a transaction, that is the bigger issue I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:41 PM
-4

Good or not, healthy or not, everyone is entitled to feelings Yeah but, have you never dealt or been around people who are clearly full of shit because of said feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:40 PM
1

Riiiiight. The Proud Boys are "proud Western chauvinists" for no reason whatsoever. What does any of that have to do with winning elections and the like? Do you even have an argument or point that isn't repeated internet talking points? Or do you just parrot what you read and hear? See, this is your and people like you problem, you are not focused on winning elections and finding solutions, you're so focused on these right wing types and things, you think by stopping all of that first will someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:09 AM
1

When did I ever even say anything remotely like that? You sure do have a way of twisting and distorting things into things no one said or meant? How does pointing out that liberalism has failed correlate to your poor kitchen and shackles analogy? I don’t need to come up with 90 million things or half assed analogies to prove it. I just need one: Trump didn’t just magically go away and that it looks like he is going to win again is enough. And this shows it’s failed cause you guys clearly do not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:53 PM
0

We get it, you're mad about women having rights. We don't need eighty paragraphs. No. When did I ever say that? There you go twisting things to your liking. I just think liberalism has failed. You don't seem to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:24 PM
2

Sometimes it's an idea or awareness that takes hold. It can also apply to other things than just dating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:23 PM
2

See, I don't disagree, but I've seen such that tells me differently. It's the whole I refuse to think beyond my own two feet and/or only out for myself thing. I can accept someone may do that, just don't make it my problem or get all pissy when I decide I don't feel like dealing with this sort of shit. Well, you can't be a doormat constant shoulder to cry on either, cause what about when you need something and no one is there? All of this and other similar things factor in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:57 AM
4

It's only failed if your only metric of evaluation is the sexual success of young men. No. That's just one way of looking at it. And this is a place where these sort of things are discussed, why would you so callously dismiss it, or go straight to that example? See, I can tell by your response alone you don't get it. You're so caught up in ideology and partisanism you can't see beyond it. ​ And you think this certain metric evaluation is new? You think this is just something that popped up out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:49 AM
3

Why destroy it? It's inevitable. This is something people go through in relation to things beyond just these dating issues. If they'd explain, who'd listen? I say that not to bash anyone, but the cat is out of the bag on this one. Take the gender part out of it even I say, we all know or have known someone who just, when they realize that there is this thing going on that happens to exist beyond their own two feet and sense of things, they just can't accept it, so they then therefore have to tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:44 AM
3

But it all catches on and goes mainstream if you would. Usually cause people catch on to what's happening and can relate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:05 AM
2

You think this is all by some sort of accident? You think this happened in a vacuum? That it came out of nowhere? I'm not trying to sound like an or be an asshole here, just, what do you think happens when so many people have 24/7 access to the internet, they sense something is up, they see the similarities, and this sort of thing happens. I'm not super hardcore into it or anything, I'm not going to spout off 90 million talking points. But what I don't get for the life of me is, this thing where…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:03 AM
1

Yeah 100% agree, I'm not super Red Pilled either, in fact I often argue with people who call themselves Red Pilled because they think "all women are whores" or "only date virgins" or because they express extreme resentment towards women which is very toxic. Understandable, but I think things like that happen to someone for a reason. Or I should say there are maybe reasons why they did that. To me, the Red Pill says certain truths about dating and women, if you decide to become misogynistic becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:14 AM
0

Well it speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:25 PM
2

Funny you mention all of this. I came across this in another forum, I won't say where cause I don't want to start a cross forum angry mob thing of shit thing that results in well, shit goin down I don't want to go down. I've been looking for an opportunity to use it. " I have met three men I know for sure are players who have had casual intercourse with many women and they are the worst misogynists I have come to know so far. All of them believe women are cognitively deficient in comparison to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:12 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:25 PM
2

Who said anything about forcing anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:58 AM
1

I’d say it’s pretty serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:24 PM
2

I think it won't go that far and that rather some of TRP's ideas will be absorbed by mainstream society without TRP gaining society-wide support as a movement. In other words, as far as women's and human rights are concerned, it will be a correction of the bull market rather than a major turnaround. I hope that men in the US are not doing so badly that they have the motivation for some bigger gender clashes. ​ They already are starting to be absorbed in such a way. It's one of those things that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:03 PM
3

Both actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:54 PM
1

Notice how certain types of cultures don't need this pill nonsense. Italians, french, Portuguese, Spanish, Latinos and most of the Carribbean doesn't have this problem. Most of Asia... they don't have any of these virgin phallacies you read here You know, he's totally right. I've noticed with foreign people I've interacted with, and I love them all, I really do, they've been much nicer to me than the locals much more often than not, foreigners, like the types he's mentioned, are way more laid ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:52 PM
4

If feminism is objectively correct and moral from a feminist standpoint, then of course anyone who opposes it will be immoral and oppressive from a feminist standpoint. But that's how it works with any ideology or religion which claims a monopoly on truth and morality. Hence why some of the ideas won't work. Who exactly is being immoral or oppressive? There's being oppressive and then there's people going "Fuck this shit I don't have to deal with this if I don't fucking want to", which I am big …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:51 PM
6

You can't negotiate or make deals or compromise when one person or group or side refuses to do that or realize sometimes sacrifices need to be made, you're not always going to get what you want, team work is important coupled with this idea of doing such is somehow "settling" or "I'm being oppressed." They did this to themselves, they have to deal with it, and if they refuse to even try to work with others, that's on them and it's no one else's problem. This is where things are starting to go I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:49 PM
2

If feminism recognizes that different women want different things within feminism, why not allow TRP the same privilege? Because that's two conflicting goals with two groups of people who are often more full of shit than they realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:45 PM
3

A power that would be more than enough to negotiate with feminism and female sexual strategy from a position of strength. Like many times in history. That's a nice idea and I'm not even totally against it or trying to diss you in any way, but you think with how divided society is and with so many people with unrealistic expectations, that's possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:44 PM
15

This is easier to answer than you realize. I'm not even hardcore redpill or anything like that. I'm not going to do a long winded post about what I do or don't agree with it or relate too etc. See, when people have this realization about things, and it could be anything, not just limited to redpill stuff like how they apply it, and they feel changed, aware, awoken if you would. So then they use it as a means to see the truth of things and they get a little obsessive with it and can't maybe tone …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:43 PM
2

You mean the actual work place or the area? I'd rather not say for privacy reasons. It wasn't anything shady. It was for a major retailer. But that wasn't the problem. It was the whole environment of it all. Long story short, and I could go on and on about how bad these people were. Seriously. You had to know how to handle them. They displayed all of these habits and attitudes everyone describes on here as somehow someway it's just these very attractive 10s and/or successful people, which some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:40 AM
7

Entitled = I am a pretty woman therefore anything I do you must tolerate. Disrespectful = talking down on people, talking back and combative, lack of conflict resolution skills etc I've said this before, and I'll say it again because it bears repeating. A majority of people, both men and women, need to stop telling themselves and believing this shit. This notion, this idea that it is somehow only these very attractive and/or successful people with this entitled, demanding attitude cause they thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:21 PM
1

Most would agree that forcing anyone to do anything is wrong. But what you're also seeing happen is many people, and not just "hot chicks" or "very attractive people who you all magically think just somehow get away with things others won't", are having high standards or are high maintenance to the point where nothing is good enough and there is no mutual appreciations like at all. You can go on and on about "entitlement" all you want, but if you're not even willing to try to work with others? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:00 AM
–

Well, yes. Like I said, pettyness or grudges or holding things against someone can go either way. That was more my point, and this thing of people not seeing that is the issue. We can go back and forth on who did what worse, but eventually, there has to be a stop button/this is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:18 PM
1

Yes, and then you cited examples that 1. are way less common (most men like Star Wars, and so do most women, unless it’s an autistic special interest level love in which case Star Wars isn’t really the issue) Why does everything have to go to the autism level? Star Wars ISN'T the issue? or 2. are actually fucked up (supporting a sex offender for public office). That, that's too easy. I don't want to escalate this cause I know where it will go and what it will turn into. All I did was use an obvi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:23 AM
1

I agree with that, but when the shoe is on the other foot......., which is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:00 AM
2

I'm not idolizing anyone, it was an example. Innocuous? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:31 AM
1

Dudes freaking out over lady posting sexy pics online is what I meant. I'm not against Jonah on this, you should some of the counter arguments being made, it's more really dude? for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:09 AM
-1

It was the first thing that came to mind, a sort of in the moment stream of conscience thing. I'll explain. Well, we've heard and seen the anti-onlyfans redpill manosphere response to this, which as I've said, is an awful lot of mental gymnastics for something that is just a scam. The main argument has been they don't want their lady or potential lady to be showing her private goods out of "respect" for him. So my mind just went to that argument. I get it, but like, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:08 AM
2

Let me be clear too, it's not just in terms of personal sexual relationships, it's an all around social environmental thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:07 AM
-1

Hence my point. No, I'm not a diehard Trump guy, I have my concerns but I don't lose my shit and meltdown at the mere mention of his name, but yeah, it's a different story when it's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:48 AM
-1

Yes, but the way things are now, that's easier said than done. Instead, it's well if we date I have this list of rules and expectations that I want you to follow to be with you or in order for me to be with you. Chicks do the same thing a lot of the time. I don't agree with it but not denying that it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:14 AM
-2

It was a hypothetical off the top of my head sarcastic example merely to demonstrate the example of it's a different story when the shoe is on the other foot. Point being, we can look to many examples of the lady finding out something like that and her dumping him and her getting all sorts yeah dump his useless ass etc. Or, or, what it, just what if, he was a Trump supporter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:13 AM
1

No. Cause I wouldn't get upset. It's happened. I think you misunderstood me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:29 AM
-4

That's what that was all about? I got to say, why are dudes freaking out over this? I've said it before, I'll keep saying it, yes, onlyfans is a scam, and if you pay for it, you're a sucker/idiot. But like, guy meets girl, all is well, everyone is preverbally happy, he finds some bikini pics of her and ends it? Yeah, going to have to say that would be a no from me. Of course the flip side is, she finds out he's like a massive star wars nerds and dumps him, but that's TOTTALLY DIFFERENT right lad…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:43 AM
0

Yeah well even then, I think it'd go over his head, hence the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:05 AM
4

You can fight it all you want but very few women are asking for a nice guy Never said that. Whole other issue. Yeah, who said anything against banter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:43 PM
1

Don't get it twisted either, I don't expect anyone to be this people pleasing doormat, but when there's no balance or negotiations......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:26 PM
5

You both missed and proved my point at the same time. You can't sit there and claim it's ok for one person to somehow act more superior than the other, I feel perplexed even thinking that as I type, and then somehow scold the other person for calling it out or doing the same and then on top of that lecture/complain about "equality". Pick one of those and focus on it. " It's easier to trust a jerk who acts like a jerk than to trust someone who's actually nice. "- Fine. Just tell them to stop maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:25 PM
1

oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:48 PM
1

Lol and I agree it’s def self-centered people just trying to arbitrage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:22 PM
1

Well see, I agree with both examples, but have seen and experienced so many examples that contradict both. As I've said before, some folks on here clearly have not dealt with enough people who just do not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:01 PM
1

To allege to find OnlyFans creators gross, but to frequently watch porn and their content? Your values don’t match your behavior. You’re a self-righteous hypocrite. To allege to be conservative or traditional, but are a several times over baby daddy. To go on and on about sexual degeneracy, but you yourself are promiscuous? Your values don’t match your behavior. You’re a self-righteous hypocrite. On the flip side, a man who only thinks that sexual hedonism is degenerate for women but amazing for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:00 PM
3

Women can - justifiably - feel deceived in this situation. ...........................
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:58 PM
9

nice guy is someone who is only nice for the sake of sex/relationships and feels entitled to it as a return. You say that as if it's only these stereotypical nice guys that do this, I've seen so many examples that contradict this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:54 PM
16

they think they are superior to all those assholes, who make their intentions clea But when it's the assholes who act superior.......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:52 PM
3

You were a "nice guy" but a very non toxic version of it. You didn't mislead the women on purpose. But when it's someone she is interested and he leads her on, gets what he wants, and then bounces, different story right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:51 PM
2

I don't disagree, but we're kind of already passed that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:42 PM
–

My feeling is different. I don't hardcore buy into any of them, but in my own odd way, I do appreciate them. Why? I'll explain. I'm not this hardcore redpiller, I'm not here to dickride hero worship anyone, and having to say that before these things says a lot about where we are now, I can assure you, I'm not going to various comments sections and message boards and typing top g over and over. So what do I mean by an appreciation for them? Because they so fly in the face in the name of this ongo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:41 PM
1

I've been sort of saying the same thing albeit with some significant differences. Well, they aren't already shamed for OF etc? Allow me to explain. It's so obvious OF is a scam. Arguably, the greatest scam of current times. Yes. I said the greatest. Yeah. We can talk about financial scams, info/id thieves, that sort of thing. And yeah, those are "real" problems. Let me me tell you why OF is the greater scam. Cause even with all the evidence, they're still getting suckers to pay for it. They're k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:30 PM
–

not Tully McMuckass selling a course on how to get women. ​ But Tully's the best of them!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:15 PM
1

She uh, she's kind of an exception. You/she said it herself: She hung out with coke/meth users, probably herself too. Do enough of that shit with and around certain people, and yeah, you tend to lose inhibitions and find yourself in situations you might not be too happy with, ​ I see your concern, but I wouldn't like look to her as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:08 PM
6

Exactly. I wouldn't quite word it like that but I said the same thing. It's one thing when two people cannot make it work and they divorce, sad as it is but understandable. Another when one just totally fucks the other one over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:26 AM
1

I got to say, even though I do tend to raise an eyebrow at it, I love how people get so worked up over DiCaprio only being into what is it?, 25 and under?, chicks. Of all the other ongoing concerns, this bothers them? How about you know, trying to win elections? I don't defend people like a paid groupie, but it's his/their business, how in the hell would you even stop it from happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:09 AM
1

You answered your own question: They're celebrities, they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:07 AM
1

I'll tell you why, and I'm not even die hard republican/conservative, republicans believe in teamwork, two way streets, mutual appreciation, generosity, an actual sense of general generosity, not this "hey I gave money to insert might be total bullshit or kinda legit liberal cause hey I am totes so generous me me me", they recognize commonalties and accept differences etc. Left/democrats are all fucking ideology first and foremost. How many liberal social media or dating profiles do you see no r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:06 AM
2

I just came across an example of something that perfectly illustrates my point(s). I'm not going to post the link cause I don't do shit like that. I never met this lady and have no problem with her. I am not mad or anything, but can't help but go, "are you shitting me?" Yes, she's nice looking, but she's a married mother seeking a divorce cause she claims her "husband is a jerk". Surprise surprise, she has an onlyfans. You can imagine comments. "You're so hot/fine/fire/pretty etc" "You go girl" …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:50 AM
1

Perfect example of what I was saying: " This is an incel, that discovered sex workers, but still acts like an incel. Sickening. " But, but, when it's the rapper, or the player, or the superstar athlete, or the rockstar, or TopG himself Andrew Tate, that's sarcasm folks, it's a different story. How many rapper out there have songs about all dem bitchez and hoez they dun fucked? Countless. But some guy buys hookers it's the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:36 AM
2

" This dude really be jerking off with one hand and pointing fingers with the other" I have seen and experienced that type of shit so much, not even for anything near the same reason as given, that I'm not surprised when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:28 AM
2

Whole other discussion here. It's basically this social double standard. When it's the jock or the rockstar or the million/billionaire, hey, it's ok, myob, she/they're free to do what they want etc, even if she's just one of his side pieces. You or someone who did the same?!?! Just unacceptable!!!! And these are the type of fucking people who go on and on and on and on and on and on about "equality for all", as long as it fits in their per view and rules. ​ See, I don't even initially disagree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:26 AM
1

" Hopefully this clown never procreates. " Damn! That's just mean! And unnecessary! The fuck ?! I wouldn't even say shit like that. Only if maybe the person in question was really fucking bad. See this shows you their true colors. This is the level they've taken it too. Guy gets hookers cause he struggles? Well he'd better never have children!!!! Whole other discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:20 AM
1

" It’s amazing what a guy will pay for a bit of attention & 10 minutes of meaningless sex. " Jesus, they really are in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:18 AM
1

What's ostensibly worse here is this blatant denial of male sexual needs, despite the fact we all know everyone has such needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:17 AM
1

" honestly this guy needs more self respect and needs to respect women more. It doesn’t matter his race or height … you work with what you got and work on it." They're still saying this shit? Never mind all the examples that contradict that. I'm not saying you shouldn't be respectful, just we've all seen and know the times and experiences where this ain't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:16 AM
1

One of the quotes: " It seems he thinks women on these sites are simply “stuck up white girls”seeking wealthy men." ​ Well, yeah. That's mostly been the case for some time. I'm not saying it's right or I agree with it, just that's what's happening. Where have they been? See, this is why it's not good to put yourself in a bubble, you end up in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:14 AM
1

Well it's not real, but those who swear buy it will say it is, and that's what bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:13 AM
1

"Guys like this make me sick" "This is absolutely revolting" But the guys they dated/fucked who did the same thing? Or kind of agreed? They weren't a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:11 AM
1

I hear what you're saying but not surprised. No. I'm not sympathetic to the people doing this. However, this is just a small scale example of a large scale example. Everyone finding or trying to find something problematic, offensive etc., and continuously being more and more petty about it. It solves nothing. They're like a constant ostrich with it's head in the ground. The joke of it all is, while they're in their echo chamber of ridicule, everyone else, like political rivals/opponents, IE in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:11 AM
1

Few more things I meant to add: I have absolutley ZERO fucking sympathy for any of these people. This was a rotten area with some rotten fucking people who would turn on you over the pettiest shit. This one fucking bitch threw me under for 10 cents. I didn't give her 10 cents off cause I didn't like her attitude. She was not stacy hottie 10, no she didn't give a fuck. I may have had to hear some shit over it, but in the end, I won. She never came back. I'm not going to beg you over 10 fucking ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:07 AM
2

Going to have to say no and severely disagree on this one. I've said this before, and I'll say it again cause it bears repeating. This belief that some people, or most people?, have that it is somehow someway that it's only these super alpha red pill chads or mega hottie Stacie's are somehow someway the only ones going around thinking or saying I can or cannot say whatever I want based on some sort of privilege, which may not actually be there or be this thing some of you think it is, and are ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:01 AM
1

Didn’t the blade runner sequel already like predict/confirm this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:01 PM
2

Um ok. Whatever floats your boat broseph. Just keep it away from the rest of us. You’re fighting a losing cause. I don’t know why you keep doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:38 PM
5

I cared about relationship success. You'd be surprised how many dudes want the same. Even some of the players.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:48 AM
5

and wasn't born with a penis Yeah, no chicks with dicks is def. a big one for the fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:47 AM
2

So leftists and liberals are WAY on the back foot on this topic. But they are with many other things too. I'm not even diehard conservative or anything, but many and more and more people are realizing this leftism stuff ain't working. Why do you think Trump won in 2016 and there's a good chance he's going to win again? You think this just happens in a vaccum? It just comes out of nowhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:45 AM
2

Yeah. Been saying the same thing myself for a while. I don't know if I'd quite word it like that, but I think you're spot on. Tate, etc. how that took off is not nec. cause of leftism, but a reaction to it in that many people realized this ain't working. I have a whole pretty realistic cause and effect social history of this if you want me to get into it. And it applies to whole socio political issue overall, not just Tate/Redpill/Dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:41 AM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:30 PM
0

Or any other place a candlestick wouldn’t be sticking out of 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:29 PM
2

Well, we’ve seen the effects of infinite non ai generated porn, so how much more weirder/worse can it get? I believe the answer/solution to this is a scene from the big Lebowski: Jackie Treehorn: “Interactive video porn dude!, wave of the future!” The dude; Yeah well I still jerk off manually.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:28 PM
0

Men on OLD apps that think a girl in their league of looks is settling and she must be Miss Popular Sociable Interesting Queen Bee while he can be a dull, antisocial video game addict are common. And chicks never do the same? I'm not turning this into bash on or hate anyone, they never apply a list of expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:19 AM
1

​ Most people want someone too good for them. And where do you think that comes from? Hmm? Oh only perhaps the constant barrage of never settle being spewed over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:18 AM
2

Chicks ain’t down with dudes who take dick
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:17 AM
1

Cause like 2 chicks, it’s hot,duh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:23 PM
1

Why did they pick the most stereotypical looking internet nerd types for this picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:49 PM
1

This sounds like people with some fucked up expectations, which seems to be a lot of nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:47 PM
2

No. No way. That’s a definite hell no for me. Don’t care how hot she is, no way I’m going near that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:49 PM
1

Or would you say the same thing to chicks who do the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:21 PM
1

You say that as if it’s only those type of guys that do that. It’s not. I don’t even disagree strongly, just I seen the same thing happen with so many types of people and situations. Point is, we’re scapegoating here a bit. On that note, going to say the same thing to those drag queens dancing in front of the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:20 PM
3

Oh I believe you did, just I don't think this happens like people say it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:10 AM
5

”my friend has this idiot boyfriend. He’s lazy, has no job and get this, she has to constantly wash the sheets as he sleeps naked and leaves skid marks. On HER sheets. I’ve told her to get rid of him but she says he’s an amazing guy” I don't believe this actually happens. I've heard of this. No dude is that gross, unless there is a medical problem or perhaps special needs. I just feel this is some sort of urban legend they made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:30 AM
1

Not me,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:59 AM
0

To paraphrase Jackie Treehorn,”Interactive high tech reproduction dude,wave of the future!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:13 PM
1

That’s a real top g right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:28 PM
1

But why 400?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:22 PM
3

Idk but it sounds fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:19 AM
1

Yes it’s all one big add with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:16 AM
1

Pretty much yeah.Even the guys who watch porn all day are going “Ppppppppphhhhhh! Suckers!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:15 AM
1

You kind of got the point when you said most swingers would be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:10 AM
1

I know I appreciate that. Just I’m speaking from specific experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:08 AM
1

So how do you explain white chicks with Asian guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:41 AM
2

2 different baby daddies. She’s a certified top g dick slaying player.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:40 AM
1

Thank you. But my example extends and applies to other scenarios beyond just dating. For example, this idea cause they are not a ten,they are less likely to stab you in the back or screw you over in some way. No. That doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:35 AM
1

What we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:50 PM
1

Yeah it happens more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
1

So, do you think it's plausible that a MULTIPLE women would CHOSE to stay in a harem with a violent man who beats women and threatens individuals and their families when they cross him? They would also be comfortable sharing one man with multiple woman and not have the freedom to date other men? Well, we all know that happens more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:05 PM
2

Well, to a point yes. If they see what's going on and are more aware, as in the post, I can't fault them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:02 PM
1

Point is, one action led to another that could have been avoided had everyone tried to be on the same page. Like if you let your wife get dicked down by other dudes, can you really be surprised if this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:01 PM
2

No, it is this conservative degeneracy. It's the whole I will be as big an asshole, arrogant, fuck lots of chicks while I have a wife and she'd better not fuck anyone else, and I don't care if the other chick(s) I am fucking are married or seeing someone long as I get my fuck on. Maybe throw in some drug use while decrying drugs. It's been going on a while and was a reaction to the overreach of over liberal forceful progressiveness that started with under Obama. It's 4chan, it's pepe the frog, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 PM
1

I heard about the previous charges. It seemed like a misunderstanding. Ok but wow. I did not know all of this other stuff. I think this is real, these charges and the arrest. Like why would they be watching him if not? Why would he be out of country? And yeah, he did convict himself by going on about how he loves Romania cause it's so corrupt and you can just pay off officials and he openly said in one of his videos that he and his brother run this mafia where they can make people who mess with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:52 PM
6

I got to say, all the hatred and insults directed at this guy really are doing nothing more than proving the whole anti western woman feminist pointing out the double standards thing right all the while making fun of his weight. You're not helping your own case. This is why people turn to mra/redpill/look up to people like Andrew Tate. You don't seem to get it. You seem to underestimate people's willingness to turn around and go "Eh, well fuck you too."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:52 AM
2

This is the greatest line ever typed on PPD. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:47 AM
9

He's not wrong............
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:42 AM
2

Yeah, when orangutans get horny, they will go after women and try to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:41 AM
2

She fucked the monkey? They do that in those countries sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:40 AM
1

Is it ten from the same guy or 10 different guys? Or 5 from one guy and 5 from another?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:38 AM
3

Chad can kill and they will still be wet for him? I don't care his age or how hot he looks, if he killed a lady and her baby by speeding, throw him in the hole for life. Everyone makes mistakes? Wow. Ok. And you wonder why someone like Tate gets as big as he did. Like I say, it's conservative degeneracy vs liberal snobbery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:34 AM
6

born in the worst time in the planet’s history. Well, perhaps a stretch there, but he's not wrong overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:34 AM
3

Samuels was nowhere as bad as the others. Dude made a lot of sense and had the right idea overall. Yeah I still think it's fucked up people were happy when he died. Guy did not deserve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:32 AM
4

How to get rid of ridiculously high standards? How about don't even fucking have them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:31 AM
1

Is this like from an unused seinfeld script?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:29 AM
2

I like to go from hand holding to the sex asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:27 AM
11

Don't you get it, this is their game, grift, agenda etc. As long as they get what they want and the guy gets screwed. Empowerment for yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:24 AM
2

I'm a big fan of the old flying dick attack. Always works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:23 AM
7

Dude beat the shit out of Rhianna after she caught him cheating. He got to go on and have a career and all that, fuck him and whoever still like liked him or wanted to fuck him etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:22 AM
2

I’m pretty sure all men who are horrible don’t look crazy. So true. And this goes back to a point I've been trying to make/emphasize for a while. Some of the people on here really, really like hardcore believe that it's only these 10s/ Stacy mega hotties/ Bad rad Chad big ol swingin dick banging and hanging thundercock, that because they are one of those types of people, they are the only ones allowed to be bad, horrible, toxic, entitled etc cause they are said 10s chads stacties etc. They are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:19 AM
10

Aare they wrong though? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:12 AM
1

Nut on the face pics or it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:12 AM
3

Does getting dicked down by 2 or more dicks on the regular really make her a winner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 AM
3

You're surprised? Oh I agree it's bad, but I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 AM
3

If a swingers wife gets pregnant, how will or does he know it's his? I've often wondered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:10 AM
2

Who wins? Not this guy here in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:10 AM
5

They instead baselessly gaslight about how the lonely one isn't actually a good person, somehow. All the while they fuck/date not so good people, in the regular sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:07 AM
1

I'd say point is overall, while I see the point made, there is this overall lack of mutual appreciation, a focus on two way streets, teamwork, and there needing to be more of a balance. Cause it's already gone so far past that, how much more and longer can it keep going? Oh what? You want to act like the other person(s) don't have a choice? Bad idea that will bite you in the ass faster than you can blink.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:07 AM
3

Not blaming anyone but I think men’s mental health would be better if women were more honest and direct in what they valued But then, the whole or their whole side of the structure would crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:04 AM
2

I'm glad this was posted as I have much to say. I started hearing about this guy earlier in the year, Andrew Tate this and Andrew Tate that. I guess I was late coming to the party on this one as I tend to not get caught up in every social media trend or get sucked into it. I try to avoid those things. It's nothing personal, I tend to just not drive myself up a wall over these things. I then came across some videos of him, listened to him, and said to myself, "Well holy shit, he's not saying anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:24 AM
1

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Greek style!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:54 PM
3

Friendly pub guy definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:52 PM
1

At least 2 I’ve known come to mind and they were both very different people.One guy was super fucking bad toxic, the other was more reasonable and grounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:04 PM
1

I wouldn't put it that way, great service? I just think there's other ways to teach someone that without using/leading them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:01 PM
1

Yes. I have/have had lady friends. Coworkers, classmates, social circle, at times. No. I didn't feel used or led on, it never really got to that point cause despite some of my anxieties and insecurities, I was wise enough to not go full red pill mgtow quasi? incel? "YOU LED ME ON AND NEVER GAVE ME THE SEX I NEED/DESERVE!!!!! AAAAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!! THE WOMEN ARE ALL BITCHES!!!!!!!!!" Was there some simpy times growing up? Yeah, but this was more looking for an emotional connection or attachment a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:38 PM
1

The penis is mightier?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:11 AM
1

Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:10 PM
1

Yeah. Onlyfans was only going to last so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:22 PM
–

On my first point, when he was asking everyone else what should he do, well, when he asked me, and I told him they should break up, he goes, "Oh but you don't see her good side and how good she can be etc", and I'm thinking, "The fuck?!?!", I'd seen the fights they'd have, I saw the blowups, I saw the constant breaking up, he goes and sees someone else, I wrote about this in a previous post, they get back together, same thing happens over and over. Like, this dude was TOXIC. I don't just throw t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:01 PM
1

I'm not on the stalkers side but I think it's disgusting that you're willing to disfigure a random member of your gender for a crumb of attention No. No. That is not what I was going to do it for. You're a little too into this hardcore red pill thing. Not everyone does these things for those reasons. I wasn't doing this for love or attention or for someone I barely knew. I was not white knighting, I laid this all out in my post. no wonder the male gender is in such a dogshit position when men li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:54 PM
1

You seem to miss the point. Did you even read the post? would she seriously assault another woman, go to prison and have a criminal recond after? What? Where did you get that? you are literally the definition of a white knight to be willing to jump to "defend" a female you are barely affiliated with and for the love of god, I hope you don't feel morally superior to the "stalker" No no and no. Where did you get any of that? Barely affiliated with? No. Willing to jump to defend? What? Well, jesus,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:22 PM
–

I roll my eyes when I see someone hell bent on staying in a toxic relationship from the beginning all so they can go around telling everyone who will listen how hard they've struggled for their relationship to be successful. Yeah, I used to know two people who did exactly that. It got to a point where he was asking all of us and everyone he knew and we all told him, me included, you guys need to break up. It was more him than her, but really, really long story short, he had/has LOTS of issues. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:57 AM
1

That's not really controversial/what you'd get crucified or torn a new one over, lots of people relate to/agree and have experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:55 AM
–

Young persons game? HELL NO!!!! Plenty of older people like to fuck as much if not more than younger people. Some of you guys REALLY need to get out of the bubble you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:48 AM
1

It's called a howdy, as in, "how'd HE land HER?!?!?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:46 AM
3

I may or may not be, I'm having a test in January, someone I used to work with asked if I was autistic cause she has a brother who is and she said I reminded her of him. Anyways, I have read about the symptoms, and I do relate/identify with them. Well, I've shot my mouth off, lost my temper, didn't keep my mouth shut about insecurities, bought/collected/hoarded too much stuff obsessively, I got kicked out of my apartment in part because of this, obsessive tendencies/talking about interests at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:44 AM
2

Would he though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:40 AM
1

"us poor men must provide protection to women in this Mad Max hellscape" form than in the "us poor women are at so terribly disadvantaged because we are endangered damsels in distress in this Mad Max hellscape" ​ Well, see my above comment, on that note, they do say protect/try to look out for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:40 AM
0

Again with the "protection." I would hate to live in whatever Mad Max hellscape the people in this subreddit are hanging out in. Yes. As much as I love mad max, I don't see how people, not you, apply or equate that with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:39 AM
3

while a woman consistently paying for a male friend will have people whispering in her ear the friend is a mooch and a loser. Or like maybe, people don't mind doing things for others within reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:38 AM
3

Or like, people who know one another and/or work together, happen to work together and talk with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:36 AM
0

Will receive more than they give, whether it's initiating and leading conversation, entertaining, emotional support, listening, financial treats, physical protection to ward off problematic men, useful advice or help. Or like you know, people who work together just get to know one another and while no one is overprotective or babying anyone or one is giving more and whatever sort of true in some ways but it's way too much applying it to every scenario. physical protection to ward off problematic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:35 AM
3

No. I've had platonic friendships where everyone tried to get on the same page and agreed to try and work together and no one was asking or feeling like what's in it for me, everything is transactional. It is possible to have normal social relationships with women and there's no bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:27 AM
1

Yes. I can/do. No. I am not simping. No. I am not white knighting. No. I am not kissing anyone's ass. No. I am not a feminist/male feminist. Mainly cause I don't think everything needs to be done through ideology. I do believe in teamwork, two way streets, working together, not minding doing favors for others within reason and not being a doormat and knowing when to say no and having your boundaries. Giving others the heads up and looking out for others but not smothering/babying them. I've work…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:09 AM
1

Funny you mention this. Because did I come across something that is rather telling. I don't think anyone will be surprised per se, but well, it's come to this. Anyways: ​ https://www.youtube.com/c/BasedManiaOfficial/shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:30 AM
1

Oh but I really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:43 PM
1

Meh, it wouldn't bother me that much after a while. At the most, I'd try to suggest watching something else, but I wouldn't outright like leave or betray or reject them "cause of my standards." I will explain my whole thesis of conflict if you would later. I am busy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:30 PM
1

Well, I get that, kind of. But this stuff gets to a point where others get sick of it. But it's not a joke, it's your preference, which is fine, but it's a different story when it's someone else, when the shoe is on the foot, when you're not the only one in the room right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:17 PM
1

Yes, I didn't say they didn't. But when and if you present these to others, don't sit there and act like a spoiled child cause you didn't get the answer you wanted cause someone says it's petty and unrealistic. I was going to write this whole response how stuff like this ties into the current social/political climate and how this approach, isn't working in the favor of people like you who never mind the "right wing propaganda" poltical aspects, and what propaganda do you mean?. I will get to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:03 PM
1

And you just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:16 PM
1

That's just petty and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:27 AM
1

Or let me rephrase that. Yeah. That's kind of exactly what I mean. I try to avoid using terms like "perceived value/league/status", cause while I get those, well anyone else can turn around and not care, and that's just a little too putting people into boxes for me/kind of robotic, not a fan of that approach. Uh, it's not just a woman thing, nor man thing. And it's not women have higher/men have lower, I don't think that happens quite as much as people think. Cause I have dealt with many people …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:17 PM
3

To continue what I was saying, it's not like they're looking for validation, desperately or not. Although, some of the examples I dealt were looking for validation, but it was different anyways. Well, it was different in that it was like they were trying to fish for answers to get some sort of thumbs up from you. My main example is, so in this area I used to work in, and to give you anm example, it was upper middle class, yeah, they had money, think lots of doctors and medical types, real estate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:15 PM
2

My point was/is, after having read enough on this board, I have gotten the impression that many on here have this idea that it's only these super hot 10 stacey becky chads etc who have this attitude problem and can say whatever and somehow "get away with it". I am telling you right, that's not what is or how it happens and it's not happening anywhere near how or what people on here seem to think it is. You think it's just these aforementioned 10s that do this. Telling you right now, it ain't. Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:12 AM
2

Not exactly what I meant, but yeah, I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:06 AM
9

No seen the exact opposite many times. Long story short,and I will post more later, but my impression of the views and attitudes related to this issue is, a good portion of the people on here clearly have not dealt with enough people who just do not give a fuck, and let me tell you,they ain’t exactly all tens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:52 PM
4

But the last part and first part of your post is the problem, it’s not equality as has been so engrained socially as an issue, it’s upholding toxic masculinity as they go and on about. Point too is, these are adults,so they made the bed they lay in it,not my problem or anyone else’s so better get used to hearing that a lot more cause that’s where things are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:19 PM
4

But why are you defending this? Ok attractive/attractiveness is one thing but the behavior is another. The point is,everyone talks about how bad/toxic/abusive it is,which it is,but when people point it out, forget red pill blue pill white knight symp stuff for a moment, you somehow turn it around back on people like the op with the whole oh men do it too, contradicting the common narrative here that has been said over and over. This has been a large part of this issue,you say it’s wrong etc then…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:14 PM
1

Hmm ok. I’ve seen the opposite happen more.Not saying the other doesn’t happen, just I’ve seen the former happen much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:49 PM
1

Guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:23 AM
1

Which is more frequent though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:58 PM
1

Man hoe(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:22 PM
4

But yet so many people have seen girls get and stay with guys like that. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:12 PM
1

Yes.This right here. Said the same thing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:54 PM
1

Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:59 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:59 PM
1

See, that's all fucking bullshit to me, cause I've seen yeah, NGAF. What are these so called privilege's?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:58 PM
2

It was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:44 AM
1

??????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:43 AM
1

But it's not just "angry hateful incels" that are the problem. Yes. It's a problem. But a specific one. What I mean is, they're not the only ones who've adopted this fuck society outlook. It's normal people who have as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:31 AM
1

Come on if it’s a threat that anyone takes seriously wouldn’t they have done it by now? Why do you think Trump won the first time and will probably win again in 2 years? This exactly. This whole thing has been people, not nec.dropping out, but shifting from that and this replaceable sense, whole other discussion, they tried to enforce this ultra liberal ideology worldview, started seeing people as expendable, they picked up on it, worked together, and gave everyone one big collective fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:29 AM
0

There are almost no forgotten women, because even the most ugly women have access to free dick. I got to say, since when? Who's fucking the unbathed,unhygenic,fat, or skinny, crack addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:22 AM
1

Are they shitting on men to do so? But that's what the debate, if you can call it that, has become. No debating, just shitting and shitting on each other in the name of whatever the ideology is. I don't take it personal, it does get old though, it's more no one seems to know when to just put the brakes on. I’d say men aren’t even the focus. That's the other game. This is group/person/belief etc isn't the focus, you/they/them are bad/sexist/racist/transphobic/homophobic etc. I say this and then g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:20 AM
3

“ I’d have no issue with the gays if they just weren’t so in your face about it” Well, they're kind of right about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:18 AM
2

if someone’s fat that’s their cross to bear That doesn't help. We should instead be encouraging them to lose weight out of health concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:18 AM
3

Being fat, let alone morbidly obese, is NOT something you should feel comfortable with, normalize, or even promote. They deserve every speck of hate they get Yes. I agree. I am not trying to be mean or shallow about it. It's not healthy. Not to brag, but I've lost almost 30lbs recently. I was 230 and now at 205. There was this story I heard about a dude, he got up to 800 lbs. He started to lose weight. Last it said he lost 500. So yeah. Like that is not good for someone to do that to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:17 AM
1

Lizzo herself often speaks out about the ridicule and animosity she receives for simply celebrating who she is Or are they sometimes just trying too hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:15 AM
2

Wtf is pretty privilege? Like really? That someone can say or do whatever cause they look good? If you believe that, and not you the poster here, you clearly have not been around or dealt with enough people who just do not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:14 AM
1

I kind of said the same thing. But idk, in a more debate moderatory sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:13 AM
2

I'm not going to get into the whole attractive/unattractive thing with either of them, it's pointless at this point and it's just people either trying to be the loudest, bullshit virtue signaling, trying to prove a point no one gave a fuck about already, and weird celebrity defense/worship. My point is, lizzo's weight is not healthy. It's not. So why encourage it and then like, take it way too personal when people point it out and then go on about acceptance? What does this solve or prove? Stick…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:12 AM
1

No, or very few can. Or some reach that zen self control thing where they like it and enjoy it, but it's not raging horny constant hard on dick ready to fuck mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:35 AM
1

Meaning? Is that a dig? Well all I can say is, one day you’ll see I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:41 PM
2

???????????????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:53 AM
2

It’s reflective of who you are and what you are into No. Not at all. You say that as if people don't watch/read/or listen to things they don't like or agree with. That's kind of not naïve, but a limited view. Not only if you don't listen to things you don't like or don't agree with, how will you learn and be aware? It's very limiting and putting ones self in a bubble I believe. Plus, not as many people nowadays are following that MO. They are realizing stuff is going on beyond their own two feet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:43 AM
3

But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:00 PM
2

I get that I do but that just ain’t reality in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:03 PM
6

Also seen plenty of people with zero chill and they have someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:51 PM
1

Media is now on the list of dealbreakers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:48 PM
3

If argumentative is one of your chief concerns, hooboy are you in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:47 PM
1

Chad thunder cock has now entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:13 PM
1

Yeah, I've known a few Larry's, as well as some Shemps, Moes, and Curlys. I kid, I kid. But I know the type you are talking about. 2 guys I've known come to mind. One was a fucked up dude, like he is legit toxic. I don't throw that word around willy nilly over something someone said that upset me, this dude is fucked up in the head for real. But yeah, he did well with chicks even though he wasn't exactly "Successful Chad". Another dude was by all means, a fairly decent level headed guy, not exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:06 AM
3

Yes. Even before. I uh, I just felt that way. I bonded a lil too much after first time. In other words, I couldn't shut up about anxieties and insecurities, and thus, making her feel like it wasn't good enough, what we had going, not just the sex, which well, was REALLY good, like I thought we were supposed to be in love, and be together etc, instead of just shutting up, letting it grow, and appreciating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:01 PM
0

No. No it's not. To get the obvious out of the way,buddy of mine once said "If you lower your standards, you get laid A LOT more." And well, he did well for himself. I must say. He wouldn't sleep with just anyone, well, that's debatable. It's just he didn't have this extraneously long list of requirements and didn't just go for total 10s. In the end, he was happy. The other is this idea that there is never any negotiation or compromise. Well people that stick to their standards so much sure are …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:37 AM
2

Let's be honest. As I've said before, there are actually very few people out there who would be ok totally secure with this.Very few. The rest, are just trying it without realizing the effects or they heard everyone else is doing it so hey might as well try it. Which reminds me, I found this article on yahoo the other day which is exactly about this. This guys girlfriend mentioned about trying swinging cause she has some friends who do it and she thought "Hey maybe this would be a good idea and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:15 AM
6

Wtf is “best sex”,and wtf do “hot people” have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:49 PM
2

I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:30 PM
9

Lol at the mental gymnastics women do to avoid confronting the elephant in the room that clearly suggests chad is having sex with multiple women. Yes why do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:51 AM
4

Dirtily wronged how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:50 AM
4

men are quite lazy and dumb. No. More often than not, they are more than well aware and choose to show or discuss their interest in it. Most of the times though, they just don't a give a fuck, or it's just more petty judgmental bullshit IE oh you didn't watch this or hear that or keep up with this etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:49 AM
1

This applied in 2008, now most people try online dating once in a while. You know, funny you mention that. I was thinking something similar. I used to use okcupid fairly regularly back in the day, long story, habit, issues, etc. I did okish, a few dates, an almost ltr, but it could have been worse. My point is, regardless of how well I did, the whole sense,the envirorment, the sense, it was much more normal. By that I mean, it didn't feel like you had to meet this list of expectations and dealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:45 AM
1

However, they are looking for prince charming and mr perfect. They want the same quality of man that attractive women can get for relationships, and they come to online dating to try to get that. They want to have their cake and eat it. This leaves a weird situation where normal men are getting completely ignored by low quality women, even though there's no logical reason they should be, while women who are very low quality are chasing after the top 5% of men. So in other words, the chick equiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:41 AM
2

As I've said before, "the wall", while I get the concept of it, is bullshit. Or the concept is bullshit. I speak from experience and observation. I'm coming at this more from behaviors and attitudes rather than looks, although I think we can all agree that we've all seen some good looking older women. What I mean by that is, this idea that once women like hit their mid 40s, and then start to become this like kindly grandmotherly hallmark made for tv movie type and like by the time they hit their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:37 AM
2

Well one can only be so alone and lonely for so long but I do see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:59 AM
2

Oh she does know more often than not if he’s got his side chicks.She stays with him as either one or a mix of these which is out of convenience,she knows he will always come back and be there,she’s ok with it,or she not only knows the shitshow that will entail if she leaves but also no other dude doesn’t want to deal with or hear her shit all while seeing no other guy is good enough. I’m not even judging as much as saying you make the bed you lay in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:57 AM
1

Oh hell. Yeah I've been there before. The thing is, you just gotta be an asshole and say "yes I'm going to be drinking. Yes, I'll probably be pretty well drunk when I get home. No, you don't have to wait up for me" It went back and forth like that. He'd lie, or he wouldn't, she'd get upset, they'd fight. It wasn't as simple as that. It was, oh and I meant to mention this as part of the laundry list of problems, they were two people trying to make each other into someone else neither of them were…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:52 AM
1

What if I ask nicely? I really want to hear 'em, because going off what you said so far, this is a pretty typical game cheaters will play. You know, when you get that itch for someone different, you cause a big fight with your girlfriend, that way if she does find out you fucked someone else, you can be like "WE WEREN'T TOGETHER AT THE TIME!" That didn't seem to be exactly what was happening but I see what you're saying. See, from what I saw, he wasn't really a cheater from the traditional view.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:56 PM
1

Yeah. Same both ways or like 50/50 or 60/40. I used to know one guy who had female friends, I don't know how many he slept with, a few I can confirm, but he wasn't a cheater as much as like every time his long term gf who I will not even get into the laundry list of problems that were there right now, who were like on and off again and should have like ended it sooner. Seriously. I remember he was going around to all of us, friends, acquaintances etc, saying "What should I do?" Everyone like all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:35 AM
1

for example, with most women you kind of have to be delicate in a way and very understanding. you can't be overbearing. you must be able to have vulnerable conversations without being judgmental, force your opinion on them, or be condescending First off,why? Why is it on me,or anyone, to be delicate, wtf?, understanding, well to a point. Not be overbearing, judgemental,and not force my opinion on anyone or be condescending? Not that I vehemently disagree with those things, but you know how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:17 AM
2

What exactly does pretty privilege mean in this context? How are you using this? That how chick staceys can say and act however they want and then like once they hit "the wall", more on that in a few, like they get real and become more appreciative etc and the like? Let me tell you something. And keep this in mind. This notion that like, this "pretty privilege" thing exists, it's not what people on here think it is. Let me tell you something. This notion that only these very hot and successful p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:28 AM
7

Yeah you’d think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:10 PM
1

Yeah I get that but what if it’s everyone everywhere on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:01 PM
1

But if everyone is amoral, and there is no boundaries, or collaboration,, team work, mutual appreciation etc, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:16 AM
1

On that note, most hot guys who fuck tons of chicks, tend to not be the raging asshole type I feel. Sure, they're a little cocky smart assy, but I don't think they're the nightmare types. Yeah, maybe there are problems between him and whoever he has relations with and that's a case of it being on them, not the raging asshole nightmare type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:45 AM
1

I've seen non good looking guys do the exact same thing. Again, yeah,looks,attractiveness, I get it, I do, we all have eyes etc. My point is, there's a good portion of people on here who seem to like wholeheartedly believe that only very attractive people are the only ones who do those type of behaviors. I have seen first hand, they are not. And no, it's not they're insecure,they're trying to compensate, they're "2s who think they're a 10" etc. I'm not saying those things don't happen, the truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:42 AM
1

Yes. This has been my point, well a lot of guys, some girls too point, where fine, it you date the uncaring, abusive, misogynist,manipulative guy, that's your problem. Stop making it everyone else's. They get sick of of your shit. This is one of those things where saying just be more feminist etc doesn't solve it, and that whole movement/ideology has yet to accept or catch up with that. Yeah, they won't admit they will fuck that type of guy cause they are attracted to him or cause he's hot cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:00 AM
1

I have seen many not as or attractive people say whatever they want and not worry about whether they are attractive enough or not. I've said it before. Some of you guys really need to get rid of this idea that all of these not as attractive people are somehow standing around waiting to get the permission or think they can't get away with it cause they are not as attractive as hot people. They do not give a fuck. I have seen this first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:56 AM
1

You say that as if no one tells assholes to go fuck themselves. You act as if people will not stand up for themselves or retaliate physically should it get to that point. I have dealt with people like that, no I am not being internet tough guy and making up a bunch of stories how I kicked all these people's asses or something, but one area where I used to work with pretty much a good majority of them were like that, they thought they could act like entitled demanding spoiled children and threw a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:54 AM
2

But you can see his point and similarities to the point at hand yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:16 AM
1

I would add r/dating to on there,cause I read that semi regularly and see similar issues brought up here and other said forums.For instance,lot of posts or similar enough ones from chicks on dating sites and apps surprised with all the dudes looking for just sex and it’s like oh where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:14 AM
1

Why are we picking on bagpipes and their enthusiasts? Most bagpipers aren’t these as you put it,”Highlander fetishists”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:02 AM
7

AF/BB is the cause of paternity fraud and not someone lying/manipulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:05 AM
0

Also hot or not,no one should be using anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:17 PM
2

Cause they can’t decide or don’t know wtf they want or can’t compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:12 PM
1

Below “average” but financially secure.Cause “hot but poor” ain’t gonna solve problems l.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:11 PM
1

You are,but not everyone else clearly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:49 PM
1

It relates to your main idea/argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:38 PM
3

Ok I should elaborate more.So poly open relationships become the latest rage in alternative lifestyle trends.Certain people or more than that,so worried about not being on that train cause they just can’t handle it,try it out and then they realize what it really feels like and it’s obvious not enough to say “just don’t be jealous/insecure bro!”as a solution to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:16 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:07 PM
1

I try to take each person on a case by case individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:04 PM
4

Or,or as I say,VERY VERY few people can actually make this open relationship polyamory thing work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:01 PM
2

Yeah that dry sex in the dark thing is a stretch.I think our idea(s) of in the past come from like pre and to the end of Victorian times to like 50s traditionalism from movies and tv and and stuff and that wasn’t quite the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:59 PM
1

Yes.I do/did/have every day.This acting like still in highschool shit needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:53 PM
1

I love dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:46 PM
1

If someone is upset by a comment about a dog,they’re a fucking idiot.Seriously,this shit over being upset over every comment needs to stop asap.This seems to be mostly an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:16 PM
2

You don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:04 AM
2

Why should I care about his experience? Cause that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:55 PM
2

He's right you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:53 PM
1

Regular chick or chicks on rotation ie plates and wife it girl that you have kids with and in a few cases still seeing side chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:12 PM
1

I also roll my eyes with a bit of resentment when I hear get it have their shit together cause I grew up in alcoholic home and have so many people without their shit together and still have said success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:46 PM
1

And if not those things established by 35 or later,or earlier,then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:44 PM
-1

That man is still hot.Def silver fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:25 PM
1

Women overwhelmingly support the green energy fraud, policies in support of which have caused the price of crude oil to triple over the last two years. Without that windfall, Russia couldn’t afford to attack Russia, let alone Ukraine. Ooh! Good one I like it! But really, how much of this green energy new deal thing was from most women I got to say. I can see cuckoo liberal bullshit, but overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:02 AM
2

Nobody shame anybody for doing anything that doesn't hurt anybody else. We tried and even fully believed that for a long time,but then the pendulum swung too far in one direction. What direction would that be? All the pc woke shit that's been going on for a long time. You went from myob/do your own thing/privacy etc, to fucking people over for not saying the right things or cancelling them,and protests over little things. That whole gamergate shitshow. That plus a mix of said entitlement issue a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:58 AM
1

?????????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:21 PM
1

You would? Even "super hottie mega queen godess diva stacy hot chick total 10"? Or some mix of those. I ask cause my experience is it's people say one thing and do another or don't hold anyone to the same standard. Now let me be real here. I can accept contradictions happen in life. I think pointing out all the unfairness's constantly, although it's good to be aware or notice them, doesn't help. It'd be like dealing with some kid constantly going on about how unfair things are when maybe they ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:47 PM
1

Who says anyone has to deal with anyones dumb unrealistically shit if they don’t want too.You all seem to forget people still have fucking rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:46 PM
1

Yeah I’m big on not dealing with certain shit,with or from anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:35 PM
2

Thank you.Said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:33 PM
1

Also 1 in 100 anything sounds like total bullshit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:30 PM
1

I don’t totally disagree,but are you going to apply this same idea/argument to other people with the same problem and not just frustrated dudes? Cause I have seen people with the same problem/attitude/approach
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:29 PM
0

Yeah def watch more.Or use like a good sexy example like Chris Hemsworth as Thor or Jason Momoa as aqua man. Pattinson is a decent actor but that twilight shit is gay as fuck.Even if a chick said they liked twilight I’d be like “fag”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:15 PM
1

Ooh! Chick version of neckbearders! I like best comparison yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:12 PM
1

Gay ass sparkly twink fairy gay fag twilight is your comparative measuring stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:10 PM
4

The 60 year old kinky exhibitionist part has me laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:54 PM
1

Oh I’ve always or long felt that way over peoples petty shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:38 PM
2

Hmm. And we all thought the tide pod challenge was bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:33 AM
2

I know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:30 AM
–

Thank you. Been saying the same. From what I've seen, most of the majority non-white groups, black, latino, arab, asian, are more conservative or independent than full of shit cuckoo liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:47 AM
–

Well, I was thinking one thing, but then I read your example and see you are coming from a different point. Anyways.... Really? You have to wonder/ask why people are looking for a more traditional means? To be clear, I am not this ardent traditionalist who thinks that if we just go back to the 50s all will be well. No. That is not realistic. My take/observation is: Well, most people look at this nothing but casual, whether it be sex or hook ups or "nothing serious" or "no catching feelings" etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:44 AM
1

I'll tell you one thing it is based on your take on it, and the general idea,which I get and am not saying that it doesn't happen: It's total fucking bullshit. Why? I'll explain. Old(er) people are horny as fuck and still like to fuck. Ever heard of the old people fucking away at nursing homes? Yeah gram and gramps are still horny and like to bang. I used to work with someone, and she was great, she was very good to me, we got along very well, and yeah, we talked about banging maybe and I though…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:19 AM
–

What are non offensive looks exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:01 AM
–

The reason why I am questioning this is cause this isn't trying to meet someone on an individual one on one case by case basis, which is what I try to do, it's another checklist approach of the same shit said again. For instance, I wouldn't hold a short chicks height against her, but if she seemed like she would fuck someone over, then I'd be concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:00 AM
–

I see. Why would the hobbies and job thing bother you? And the height thing? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:56 AM
–

Define bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:37 AM
–

You specifically pick a bed that is made of glass shards then complain that all beds are trash. Ooh I like that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:36 AM
–

Thank you. Pretty much said the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:36 AM
–

We all have to put up with or manage shit we don't want to. I don't get where this putting up with shit we think we shouldn't have to comes from. Well that came off wrong. It's almost like this mmm, not inability to recognize said shit, but I have these high standards so therefore said shit should not be happening, which is not how it works, make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:35 AM
–

There's a deep issue here psychologically that I think is extremely toxic. It drives people into this cycle of thinking "there's got to be something better if I just leave this person/situation" when it has nothing to do with the other person and everything to do with your own mental freewheeling. It's more of a FOMO thing than a physical issue of getting cut by shards of glass. I was going to say something/feeling something similar. As I've said before, no one should be forcing anything on anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:33 AM
–

Point being. We will all reach 60 years old, with luck. And I'd rather live a free happy content single life, than be in an uncomfortable, miserable and painful state for the next few decades. Could you though? Could you, or anyone, really go that long without cracking or feeling yeah, a tad needy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:23 AM
52

If those women can be happy and single as the alternative, then don’t change a thing. But if they want to bitch and moan about how the men they date won’t commit and everyone else isn’t good enough, well, the problem is that they’re not compelling enough to secure commitment from the men they chase. (Ie: their “standards” are too high) THANK YOU. Been saying/realizing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:42 AM
7

Or ororororororororor......while yes, you can't nor should force anyone and if things don't work out or people don't click etc, and perhaps there is no attraction, you could at least tell her or anyone else to stop thinking they are better than anyone. I have been thinking about this. I think this is where things are going to have to balance out. This whole "no settling stick to your high standards and never make any compromises or sacrifices"is not only total bullshit but unrealistic. Cause tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:41 AM
2

Porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:18 PM
2

As per the understandable concerns about government,it would be more an authorized fair and legal process rather than the man taking over and running everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:05 PM
2

Can confirm:have seen the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:31 PM
1

I wanted to read this why remove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:49 AM
3

I would have to agree with this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:47 PM
2

What’s wrong with video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:45 PM
1

Def missionary with a virgin who’s given thousands if not millions of hand jobs,maybe even a few bj’s I’d let slide
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:44 PM
1

As for examples mentioned #1,”nice guys” as you so aptly put it,aren’t the only ones with that sort of problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:32 PM
1

This analogy/comparison makes no sense at all.How are those two things even remotely related? When people go to see a comedian,it’s cause they want too. Yeah Unless it ends up being a bad or shitty comedian.PUA is a whole different ballgame.A better example would be like a skeezy sleepy business type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:21 PM
2

He is a dreamy man but isn’t he? I don’t care,I’ll say it,he’s a man crush,I often think of him as the cool older brother I never had.And gtfooh Taylor Swift! A man with such beautiful blue eyes cannot be bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:20 PM
1

It's late right now, I have to be up early, already should have been asleep, will elaborate later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:35 AM
1

So replicants basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:15 PM
1

Well there’s more to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:43 AM
1

I heard about that. Def made me go "Eeeeeeeerrrrrrraaaaaaarrrrrggggghhhhhooooooooooooeeeeeeeeeuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhmmmmmmhooboy!" That being said, I can see where Peterson is coming from, but idk, is it me or has he gone a tad off balance and is a little too high on his own shit? "Medias distaste for him" Yet you cannot deny that this guy has tapped into something like no one wants to talk about and has had people go "Yeah this guy gets it". If he can do it, why don't his critics? Same thing with Roga…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:43 AM
1

Musk has maybe said some things I've rolled my eyes at, but there is nothing about him or what he's said that makes me hate him with a passion like so many others, Tesla cars are questionable safety wise. Again, him giving people like Bernie Sanders and Liz Warren shit is not going to be enough for me to hate this guy. People seem to hate him cause he's rich and successful and is representative of "the toxic tech bro social scapegoat these liberals with nothing better to do than just stand there…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:16 PM
1

True that/fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:08 PM
3

Again, I've said this before and I've said it again: It is not just these very attractive super ultra mega pump and dump the chicks chad types nor is it the queen bitch stacey types so super omg hot chicks who think they can just be an insufferable asshole. I have dealt with many people who aren't exactly 10s and have done the same thing. It is not insecurity or jealousy, not saying it doesn't happen, nor is it this idea of I am not this very attractive person who has to worry about what I can o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:07 PM
1

And that surprises you they're paid for it? This has always been going on, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:03 PM
4

Rogan is nowhere near deserving the amount of vitriol and hated directed at him, but I can see some of the fair well thought criticisms against him, I get that, what has Rogan actually said that is so offensive? He himself, not his guests, ok yeah Alex Jones has def. said some whacky things where I've been like wtf man?!?! But he has points, Jordan Peterson? Again, I can see why people go this guy gets it. Robert Malone? Well, better get used to hearing more stuff like that, but that is one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:01 PM
1

Maybe, cause despite what you think, and this guy doesn't fall into the total asshole I hate this guy category for me, I'm not a groupie for the guy, but I know he is, anyways back to my main point, you don't hear about it cause he's not a total dirtbag creep who would get in trouble for it, just saying. He has WAY too much to lose for that type of shit to get him in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:59 PM
1

Yes. I was never anti marriage or having children, it's what I've wanted. I'm in my mid to almost late 30s and well, I thought I'd be married with a fair number of children myself. Seriously. I figured If I had gotten married 28-29 years old, I'd have like 5-6 kids now. What happened? That's a long list. Depression, isolation, anxiety, self consciousness, kind of coming home, spending too much time alone, not moving out on my own etc, hell I live back at home now. So yeah, it feels like I'e had …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:39 PM
2

Well, Kanye was married to her and had a kid, so he do/did love her. Simp? Nah! He tried to tell her to drop him for her. Kanye found himself a new girl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:15 AM
1

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:51 AM
3

Oh please! He's clearly Kim's rebound dude after the shit Kanye put her through! I've noticed that pattern with him and some of these chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:46 AM
4

No. See, this is what gets overlooked and underestimated on here. You all seemingly REALLY overlook peoples willingness to go "Fuck you and suck my dick you fucking cunt or go fuck yourself and your mother and thank me you fucking asshole" that they don't give a fuck if you're "hot and admired but rude and bitchy" as you put it. You seem to totally underestimate people not wanting to put up with your or anyone's shit. Where is it said they have to? Or they have no awareness or negotiation skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:40 AM
2

Yeah. I mean, isn't this what all the "nice guys" have long been saying? As I've said, even though some of those guys need a kick in the ass, they are right about this. It doesn't even nec. always stem from "I didn't get the hot chick(s) cause I'm so nice and all these assholes do", it's they're seeing what is a lie that contradicts what you told them, as in the aforementioned be better part etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:37 AM
1

If you don't realize you are being used, that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:16 AM
1

It's a common behavior. It's the guy who pumps and dumps the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:16 AM
1

So in general what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:15 AM
1

Me? I wouldn't be so bothered or worked up that half assed "talented" pop singer doesn't know who DaVinci is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:26 AM
1

Something on a related note I have been meaning to bring up. I am convinced, as through my own observation and experience, part of this "lonely bitter entitled incel guy thing" has more to it than just misogyny and mental health issues. I am pretty certain a large part of this is social environment and influences. What do I mean? ​ I live in an area, and I am going to realistically assume this is a common outlook or experience for most people, were the social coda/towing the line thing is myob/l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:14 AM
1

I must say though, while I mostly agree with the idea of this post, the counter argument to it will be/is hey maybe they want to fuck these guys casually themselves. Just saying. Yes, they can, but the inevitable counter argument is always why was I used, where is the good guys etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:11 AM
1

Let's be realistic here, endless promiscuity, or polyamory on a related note, is a thing very VERY few people can actually do in the method it's done in.Most people hear about it and think "Oh yeah sounds good lets just go along and try etc", then the reality kicks in and they see they are being played or used etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:03 AM
1

Yes, mostly all of this right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:59 PM
1

How does enjoying casual sex mean you hate women? Cause I've seen it first hand. Like these guys ain't exactly treating them they would their mother or an elderly relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:58 PM
1

And what do they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:51 PM
1

And what do they do when you tell them it's not ok? Well, idk, it may be telling of them as a person how many people they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:51 PM
–

First off, let's call of what it is, amateur porn, no different than any other. What OF and the performers did was somehow convince everyone is that this is a special unique thing. Why is that? This is clearly an outgrowth if you would of this never ending 24/7 social media of there being like no boundaries or at least awareness of yeah, a mutual enough appreciation IE people deluding themselves these performers or social media stars and influences give a fuck about them. Like I said all, for mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:10 PM
1

Then there's this, and I must say, he has a point: https://www.reddit.com/r/Cringetopia/comments/rtxnxw/straight\_chad/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:52 PM
1

Or why do you think the "misogyny" levels are the same? Like are we really the "misogyny" police? I say that in quotes sarcastically cause this idea that one is going to police and stop all bad thoughts or anything is ridiculous. I say it also cause in my experience, people like this don't practice what they preach as much as they jump on the opportunity to scold someone when they can. Well how or do you handle it differently when you don't give them a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:50 PM
1

So what do you do or say? you NEVER let anything go?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:43 PM
1

So what you give them a pass and continue to scold "nice guys and incels" who while yeah, some of them need a reality check and a kick in the ass, but because they are not "popular or high status?, you like scapegoat them? Most normal dudes aren't mysogynist. They see this and well, as per the social environment, it's not my business, I can't tell them what to do, etc. That has been the prevailing idea around this some time. That's my take on it. I see it as hey you made the bed you lay in it, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:07 PM
–

You're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:58 PM
–

I got to say, this made me laugh. Good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:37 AM
–

I never said they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:33 AM
–

I disagree. They can re calibrate them. They just refuse to and not make any compromises or negotiations. We are talking about actual adults here yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:31 AM
5

Have you talked to most of these guys who engage in mostly casual sex or for a long time? It's always stupid bitch this and stupid bitch that, I fucked this bitch while I was setting up another and then fucked her, I fucked this bitch and degraded her, bitch like it, bitches were put here to be and are meant to be fucked, I cheat on my wife, I cheat on the girl I've been with for a while has done so much for me and I have 2 kids with her, I saw this happen myself, they use these chicks, they pum…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:31 AM
–

Well what did you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:27 AM
5

Thank you for saying this. This has been so obvious in relation to this particular issue and no one wants to point it out or talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:23 AM
–

"Still, with the right type of effort, you can have no small degree of success reigning in out of control standards." Why is it our or my problem to get these people to reign in or control their out of control standards? They're the ones who need the reality check and to be told to go fuck themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:16 AM
–

"There's no way in hell men would if positions were reversed. And women know that." Just lower standards and you will get laid way more bro!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:15 AM
–

I am not obsessed with them, I don't hate them, I don't care if they do it. I think the main issue people have with it is that they are clearly suckering these guys out of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:12 AM
–

This has happened as a result of years of hearing about "equality", "fairness","oppression" "privilege" "imbalance" "why are there are not fat women on the cover of the si swimsuit issue?" "why is this or that not more feminist?" etc. I could go on and on, You reaped what you sowed and you offered no deal, no counter help, no social negotiation, no trying to help or be there for these guys. All the while just shouting and screeching "BE MORE FEMINIST!!!!!!" etc. ​ "But on an individual level, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:03 AM
–

"compliance to the law." You make it sound as if anyone who isn't a tatted up, smoking, drinking,possibly drug using, 6'3 built, gets into fights or will look for fights, rides a motorcycle or truck, is this yippy skip zippy yippy doo dah yappy yip goody too shoes who never has a bad thought or action or walks around cowtowing to any sort of authority figure and thinks all cops or law enforcement are good and will not take a stand for themselves or follows every perfect law to a t. And that is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:51 AM
1

On that note, just to reflect a bit, I remember about what? 2 years ago?, this whole only fans and same thing with twitch streamer girls remember that?, started and took off,I heard about this and was like "Really? Seriously? They do this and pay for it etc? You got to be shitting me here." and like I knew something was up with this and certain parties were clearly being played. I was not then nor now angry. I am not sitting here filled with any sort of anger or bitterness and resentment rubbing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:26 PM
1

Nobody owes you kindnessI get that, but don't sit there and piss and moan when and if someone decides they have had enough of or don't to deal with your shit and they themselves decide to tell you to go fuck yourself. I hate when people do that. Nobody owes you a job Well, I mean some need help or direction or motivation with that and getting themselves up etc.Nobody owes you friendship Kind of lonely otherwise eh?Nobody owes you commitment Well, well, uh, if there is no mutual appreciation/team…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:02 PM
0

Also, in terms of "what they deserve"?, whatever happened to nobody owes you anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:56 PM
0

Yes. Of course it's cause they were dumped or used. I don't even think it's the venting it's self that bothers people as much, it's more the I fucking told you you so aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:55 PM
1

This was posted in the AITA. I can post the link if you want. The thread was on here. He must have had some idea. As for point 2,really? I kind of said the same thing, not every guy paying for it is a sucker per se. But this issue has been brought up so much that there must be something happening. Part of it too is, not even getting into red pill internet diatribes,no offense,it seems a majority of people out there realize what is going on, they pay for what is essentially just amateur porn, why…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:50 PM
8

I said the same thing, paying for only fans is paying the hooker without banging her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:28 AM
2

I don't hate or judge anyone for it unless it's really like wtf/bad/holy shit. However, I think this only fans thing has set off many peoples alarms not cause of judgment or telling anyone what to do, but as many have pointed out, these "simp man payments" are being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:26 AM
1

Never mind labels like "red pill" or "nice guy/simp" etc. Common sense will/should eventually kick in and most of these guys will realize they have been being played or taken advantage of. There was a post about this the other day where I posted about this and said the same thing. It was all about this guy who's sister had an only fans, and he told the fans/followers she has a bf and she is playing them. It was an AITA thing. I thought the OP was right. Can't fault someone when they point out to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:23 AM
1

I meant to add one more thing;These only fans chicks come off as very entitled.A good portion of these profiles read as just shut up and pay me for my videos.No sense of mutual appreciation etc.I think even pay to watch porn sites have a better sense of appreciation.A much better sense of hey welcome aboard thanks for signing up go on and enjoy.Not that I pay for porn but you catch my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:08 PM
1

I was thinking about the whole onlyfans thing and this issue albeit with difficult details. First off,for the life of me,I do not see that with all the free porn available 24/7,they pay these chicks.I obviously can’t dictate to someone what to indulge/get off on,but with all the free porn available you can’t find something to indulge the needs? These guys are getting played,hence why I don’t disagree with the AITA post,more on that later. As for the performers themselves,they know what they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:47 PM
0

No,but I see what you are saying.Don’t confuse or conflict self control and not letting shit get to you or under your skin with the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:54 AM
3

Yes but this is the point. While the “nice guys” need a kick on the ass,these chicks too need to think about the idea or impact or implications of bitching about said ex. If you do that,don’t be surprised when you get the but I’m the opposite of this asshole cause I’m nicer.It’s chick niceguyism,same idea different applications
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:47 AM
3

But yet as per pretty much the point of that article, how come no one went to Henry's 4 other ex wives and went "Hey stupid bitch, why are you with the guy who got arrested 5 times for domestic abuse?" That is what will happen. These "nice guys" or "nice people", got sick of that shit, decided it's not my problem, strong independent person and all,and just figured why should I fix it only to get used?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:49 AM
1

Cut the bullshit and let's be honest, very very very very very very few people out there can make polyamory work. It's been sold as this experimental idea that clearly that for those who thought it might be great and all that only to realize it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:32 AM
4

Why do they keep going for assholes and take no responsibility? Just like how the nice guy is left to deal with his woes, as is the chick who just can't pick em right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:29 AM
2

I used to know someone like that, well, he was good at handling rejection, but girls he dated or was invested with, this one in particular,yeah, his "toxic" side came out. I put toxic in quotations cause not every stressful or frustrating thing a person does is toxic, but I'd get off topic. Anyways, he did this in other situations too. Social/platonic, not just romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:28 AM
1

Again, I have seen plenty of non self identified non nice guys or people do the same shit, there may even be an understandable enough reason behind in that they feel their is a lack of mutual appreciation and respect, just saying. Not defending anyone, but again, these "nice guys" are somewhat scapegoated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:26 AM
3

this sort of applies to me and I can relate to points there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:23 AM
3

He is the relative who lets his wife run the show. I can see how and why that's a problem He is the buddy who will do anything for anybody, but who's my own life seems to be in shambles. Same as above, but have seen not "nice guys" do the same He is the guy who frustrates his wife or girlfriend because he is so afraid of conflict that nothing ever gets resolved. Mmm, not the same He is the boss who tells one person what they want to hear, then reverses himself to please someone else. Again, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:21 AM
4

I don’t disagree in general,but I have seen plenty non “nice guys” do the exact same things you describe and they get almost no shit or nowhere near the same amount of shit as “nice guys” do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:05 AM
0

It's not me saying fuck you to everyone immediately, it's others. My point is, I often get the impression some people or parties on this forum live in this bubble in which these conflicts or frustrations don't happen and people are these robots with no expression beyond this sort of happiness no matter what/show no other emotion. That is a bad approach if you ask me. ​ The looks part was it's not just these hotties/10s that do this and you somehow magically think everyone else is just ok with it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:24 PM
1

No, my experience tells me attractive people don't get as much a pass, and lesser attractive people can and do. Pass for what exactly though? Again, you seem to underestimate people's willingness to go fuck you if need be, regardless of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:09 AM
1

So i used to be friends with this guy, we had a big falling out, long story, and he had been on and off again with this one girl for about 5 years. It was a shit show. They started dating after they both went through some very personal losses. His mother died on or around his birthday which uh, was a very tragic day, I'll leave it at that, and her father died from alcoholism/drinking too much. Basically, even though neither of them admitted it, they were looking to each other to fill these very …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:29 AM
1

I don't give a fuck how hot/successful/high status or value or whatever the fuck it is, if I need to tell them to go fuck themselves and then suck my dick and thank me, so be it. You guys really seem to underestimate that defiant side in people in this forum. ​ And no, we don't always just give people a pass cause they are more attractive etc, they just don't give a fuck as I've said before, IE I've seen the same sort of behavior and habits in people who aren't exactly 10s, and they're given a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:13 AM
1

He's generalizing a bit, but he's not wrong. Maher has said some things I disagree with and he's made some cheap shots admittedly, but one thing I do give him credit for is consistency in his ideas and approach to these things. His basic idea has always been, "look if you want things to stay "liberal and free and have bills/laws/legislation's etc passed etc for what we believe and want to see change", you need to cut the bullshit and focus on that and not focus on stupid politically correct bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:00 AM
1

Where you been the past 20 or so years? Hell, you just described pretty much the environment/city/school/social aspects I grew up with and around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:55 AM
1

You mean divorce etc? Or like, daddy not being around enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:48 AM
1

Well,yeah. Many have said that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:39 AM
3

All I will say are these few things. This idea that "settling" or "negotiating" or "not dealing with any sort of conflict or disagreement or arguing or debate or even a lil drama and therefore will not tolerate any of it and if you,where it's a long term partner or even a social acquaintance/friend etc, I will drop you as fast as I can", I cannot relate to that outlook or approach. I totally get not wanting to deal with certain shit at a given time, not dealing with or avoiding certain people, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:47 PM
3

Well, what's the difference between weaponizing and/or then being proud of it and/or standing up for yourself? Also, we're going after people who naturally want SOME if even a little, appreciation for their work and efforts? No I'm not going full on "nice guy give me the magical cookie here", so what? Why do you think people get jobs/work in the first place? And yet the opposite is to tell anyone, say said maybe unemployed guy to, get proverbial job. We're really way off balance if this starting…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:44 AM
1

This is bad. I cannot and do not agree with this. This is not what I want too see happen. However,however, I think this is coming from a place of something more than just "projections and insecurities". This, as over the top and unrealistic as it is, is coming from this place of this of being convinced that someone or certain people are lying to you, you are getting played, you will be betrayed,dumped, or they are so convinced they or someone is being ripped off. Thing is, as bad as this is, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:59 PM
1

Yeah. Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:49 PM
1

Yeah. Exactly. Oh they work in and with and for the interests of the working class all right, as long as they are liberal and think all the right liberal things etc. That comes from that understandable enough, as I put it, independent individual fuck you sort of defiant sense from people. What do I mean by that? Yeah, of course you can take the stand on the hill in the name of your own ideology/party and have it be a liberals only club. No one is saying you can't. Yes,you have rights and free sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:26 PM
2

Well put I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:23 PM
–

Well I'd say it's a little more than that. They'd turn their neighbors in if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:16 PM
3

Well,people who stay with someone who is constantly cheating on them or are abusive have more problems than just unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:08 PM
–

Yes, I've noticed that too. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:05 PM
–

Well again, back to my point. Perhaps if leftists were more worried and focused on things like getting the people they want elected and so forth and not stupid culture war shit or losing their shit every time some talk show host that "triggers and offends them", perhaps things would be different. But no, they want to blame everyone else for not doing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:01 AM
–

One more thing I meant to add was, this is an example of many things coming back to bite you in the ass. Which if you think that can't happen, you're an idiot. I'm not going to get into the vaccination issue, I will say I have my concerns about it. I'm not an anti-vaxxer nut, I have long felt they haven't exactly helped the issue, but I do have my concerns about this covid vaccine. I will leave it at that for now. ​ As may have said, my body my choice, in relation to the vaccine issue. Meanwhile…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:45 AM
–

I have some things to say about this. This is not going to be about partisan ideology left vs right, this is not how dare you say or believe this, etc. No, this is more cause and effect. However one may feel about this issue, ask yourself, why did this happen? Like really try to think about this beyond the typical oh those evil nasty backwards christian republicans who hate women made this happen. While that angle is part of this, there's a little more to this. If a law such as this, or for anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:39 AM
1

I said this before on a similar thread and it bears repeating. I don't even totally disagree with what you're saying. Yes,we all have eyes, we all find certain types attractive,one reason or another. But this notion that people who "Aren't 10s" are going around worried so much about what everyone else thinks or are looking for this validation from people who are 10s,or 9s, and think they can't have or wouldn't dare have this arrogant or other similar attitudes simply cause they "aren't 10s", is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:46 PM
1

I don't know how it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:39 PM
1

Like my hobbies tend to be reading, I try to read I do, watching tv/movies/music,yeah video games, I found they help reduce anxiety, sports, I try to keep up and watch, shows/concerts? Picky about those. I don't drink and don't do bars or clubs. I pretty much am just used to this getting up,going out,coming home, and doing it again. ​ See, not having or hearing this advice kind of fucked me up. I was convinced when I was younger, and I'd be lying if there wasn't still a bit of an emotional hango…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:54 PM
1

Stuff like this taken from that: Learn hobbies women are involved in and get really good at them. Do enough interesting and exciting things to make yourself a very interesting person: travel a lot, live in a foreign country, learn a new language to fluency. Learn improv, comedy or some kind of performance art.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:46 PM
1

And then there is reminders like this. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oowaoo/non\_redpill\_individuals\_what\_advice\_would\_you/ What I could or should be doing, improvement, wait has been up and down, I lost like 20 lbs a while back, put some back on, trying to get back down. Again living back at home etc. Routine. I go to work, or did, or school, come home, do it again. Oh no car as well. Social life is non existent, so stuff about joining this or doing that or learning to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:44 PM
1

Oh I know I have an impulsivity problem. Used to drink,yes it could be a problem at times but stopped. Only did a weed a few times, and they were so far apart. Never into gambling, but buying stuff yes. Sex addiction? Well there has been nowhere as much to have one. Porn though? Probably. EMDR?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:03 PM
1

I kind of keep making the same mistakes. For instance, I tend to buy way too much stuff and have for a long time, I know it's been an issue but tend to not solve it,hence,not enough money. Like I am not even going to get into it. I know that is the key,but almost like,not refuse,but put it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:52 AM
2

I wouldn't say I gave up, I just didn't try enough or didn't focus or "improve" enough, or I'm not even going to get into the whole I think other people are "fake" thing,although that one is still a lil embedded in me. I did like for a while at least from like 2014 to last year, which was my own lil shit show even in of it's self, it was work,home or work and/or school home, get up,do it again, felt some fullfillment,didn't focus on said improving in those areas. ​ I am 35 almost 36 in another m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:32 PM
11

What about not a virgin, but little relationship experience by mid 30s? Like if you have gone so long with little dating/relationship,or sexual,experience,how fucked are you? I'd get into my sordid depressive history with this, let's just say I started to see myself fucked/it being a problem as early as 16. Yes, I am in therapy currently and we've only kind of scratched the surface on this. ​ I have mentioned I thought I'd be married with children,feeling behind,etc. Like it gnaws away at me. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:19 PM
1

What about a little over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:33 AM
–

Oh what? People just can't give gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:16 AM
1

In a sense,yes. But my idea is different from yours a little. Well,being THAT concerned about someone's likes and interests,behavior,and really? We're worried about opinions now?, seems a bit ridiculous, unless of course they're nuts/bad etc. And well since everyone is so seamlessly worried about red flags and deal breakers, well yeah why not if need be? Too much posts? How much is too much? When I hear mystery, I think like not creepy,but not as forthcoming or straightforward as need be. I'll t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:08 AM
1

It's not so much cause everyone else does it, more like it's a different story when the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:06 AM
1

Eh it's been one of the other at times. What gets me is people who are upset when someone, me or anyone, is argumentative. I've seen worse examples than what you said. People not wanting to hang out. Well, it, along with other factors, did sort of screw up a potential great relationship once. Had I just kept my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:05 AM
1

What do you need me to clear up? I think I was pretty clear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:03 AM
2

Yeah, yeah. Pretty much how I feel but not quite as eloquently worded. Yeah, sciences, like climate science are real, I'd have to disagree with the hardcore deniers on that, nothing personal, just it is something that happens. But see, and I am somewhat surprised they haven't gone there already, they would say well then we need to do something about or get rid of said asphalt,metal,man made stuff like buildings etc. It's gone from a legit issue/debate/concern to let's see how far we can push it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:07 AM
1

Because when pettyness as I see it abounds, it concerns me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:20 PM
1

Well that's debatable isn't it ? How often are people told "just lower your standards"? And well when stuff starts to get considerably petty, it's a whole other debate. But yes, if so many people are noping the fuck out of there, why might that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:36 PM
1

Yeah I was going to kind of say the same thing. But again, having similar values can turn into this list of expectations one must follow at all times, and we know that isn't realistic. I'm not calling for all out chaos and no control, but what do you do when one has that awakening, that awareness, that "I don't have to deal with this shit cause no one else holds themselves to the same standard and it's a different story when they waiver so why the fuck should I?" Well, all I'll say about the abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:48 PM
1

Well that's a petty deal breaker I feel, even though I agree that it is a problem. Yeah, I think climate science is real, but I'm not going to chop off someones head who says other wise. I agree in realistic environmentalism, preserving natural spaces,animal protection and of endangered species, stopping pollution, clean air and water etc. ​ Yeah like plastic in the ocean? Sad and bad yes. ​ And is it really a deal breaker or is it just more I am so liberal and will only associate with others wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:32 PM
1

Then stuff like that is why I think there are these problems. You have a list of what one must believe? Yeah that stuff always sounded like bullshit to me. When most people, men or women, see that, the freak out, and in internet parlance terms, nope the fuck out of there. Having standards and general realistic enough expectation like trust, appreciation,reliability,teamwork,etc is fine. You have a list of what one else must believe? That's controlling shit. Religion? Really? I'm not even religio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:26 PM
1

Well see, as for argumentative, I grew up around that, I was like that with peers, so it seemed, and does I think, to be ok. This thing where people expect others to be like robots, not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:22 PM
1

I'm a guy, not gay, and I've dealt with plenty of other guys, even some women, who do that. I'd go into more extensive details, but to quickly sum it up, they want this feeling of power or control and be able to like, put you in this corner to get what they want. It's a habit among the locals where I live, which is why I hate it mostly, and like will fish for answers or try to get a deal out of things, or expect you to be this doormat. ​ And when you don't, it's "Oh,they're disrespectful, they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:21 PM
1

Well, "worth keeping", eh,not how I'd put it. Perhaps it's an opportunity to not nec. one up them, but like, use it as to why it's a problem and why they need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:14 PM
2

Another thing is that people have to stop taking criticism as an attack. If you can't argue about something without going at each other's throats over it, then somebody needs to check their ego. Oh yes so much, but we are still quite a ways from that. But you just described about mmm, 95%? maybe too high, of the people I used to deal with at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:34 AM
1

the fact of being too willing to accept somebody else's authority and willing to obey them without questioning anything they want you to do No,they know that it means that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:32 AM
2

See, my experience(s) have been different. Every time I've had arguments,I've been called argumentative, and speak my mind, discuss, etc. most people, not always just women either, get all upset and take it personally. I have had more heated debates over music, I have gone through and still haven't quite totally let go that most music for the past 20 odd years has been total crap, than I have political things. I think people who take political stuff to the personal level that it's gotten have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:32 AM
3

Yeah,I agree with that too, but why does it have to be a dealbreaker,or maker,for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:29 AM
2

Challenges? Yes. Fucks you, or anyone else, over cause of some dumb shit IE micro agression triggering pc shit/must believe the same as me or doesn't hate Trump as acceptably as I feel and doesn't let shit go esp.petty shit and holds grudges? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:28 AM
1

i meant that this shit about men being more self controlled or self regulated is total bullshit. It is. i have seen so many guys get pissed off over stupid little things and take it very personal. And men do hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:50 AM
1

I am getting tired, but I have much to say about this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:50 AM
0

I in fact, have hugged many men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:47 AM
0

Men are NOT emotionless, we are just more emotionally self controlled and self regulated. We also express our emotions very differently than women do. For example: Men do not cry, we rage. Men do not talk, we act. Men don't hug, we acknowledge. I've seen so many do the exact opposite of every example you just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:46 AM
2

Well why do guys brag about having side chicks/ho's?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:18 AM
1

I meant to say, I believe a large part is 2 combined things: Financial success and status and it being a cyclical social influence, what do I mean? So I used to work in an area that you could describe as mostly upper middle class. It wasn't Beverly Hills or Miami, but these were people who had $$$, think lot of lawyers, doctors,financial types, they had money but there was this sense of both yeah bragging a little but yet wanting to "keep it real and stay true to your roots and never forget wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:17 AM
1

Yes. Toxic behavior exists. You'd be hard pressed to deny there are many people who need a reality check. It's not just men. Most basic example is someone who gets way too drunk and all that nasty, angry, belligerent, resentful etc behavior comes out. Or someone thinks if they just yell enough or belittle someone enough, or up and decide they will get whatever discount they want, or the people working at a place will do what they want them to do at the push of a magical button, and if they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 02:05 AM
1

Well I will tell you my experiences with these types of people. I will start off with well, as I can best put it, still a problem but not as bad as the other 2 which were BAD. ​ So I used to work with this guy, we got along fine. We would joke, talk about like real shit, life experiences, etc. So he'd been with his girl sometime. They had 2 kids together. That right there should have been what made him change or stop. And like, she was devoted to him. I never met her, but from what I understood,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:16 AM
1

I though of a related enough example. This is true. So we used to have this semi regular customer come in, this bitch was like pushing 80, and to use the parlance related to the general sense of discussion on here, she had her sugar daddy and her simpcuck. And to my understanding, uh the sugar daddy was getting more, yeah, let what I just said sink in. I know this cause she told everyone. I was trying to remember what she threw me under for, IE complained and I got shit for it. I refused to open…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:25 AM
6

I have seen,experienced and dealt with plenty of non-conventionally attractive/well yeah not to be mean but otherwise "ugly" people with those habits. We all have eyes yes, but this belief that it's about looks is very limiting I feel. No, it's not always necessarily desperation or awkwardness, they just don't give a fuck. ​ You really think like I said, non-conventionally attractive people go around worrying or anxious about oh no, I am not hot or attractive therefore I can only express or say …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:42 AM
1

Im also speaking from experience. Every shallow person I know always end up in some shitty relationship that they blame on everyone else. Mmmm, that's generalizing a lil too much. The people I've seen, and it wasn't even for shallow reasons, blamed it more on the situation or the other person, I saw one main shitshow. Who fucking cares? You going to start eating tode pods just because other people are doing it? Who fucking cares? Well, we obv. do cause we are all talking about this. I used to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:00 AM
1

Well, yeah. That's a nice enough idea, but what I've seen and experienced tells me otherwise. The idea isn't bad or wrong per se, but uh, not everyone goes by that. Caring more about looks and hookups over personality and relationship will give someone less than savory results. But with more and more people doing just that,it's going to spill over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:16 PM
2

I meant it more in situations/scenarios even outside of tinder or other type sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:39 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:38 PM
2

Well, I was/am not. I am not good at being alone esp. for long periods of time. I tend to feel needy tbh, but I try not to act needy. That's not some tough guy thing, more like self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:25 PM
1

Well, yeah, shaming has problems. But for the way too thirsty dudes, there is something to be said for the whole not giving into or getting sucked into things idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:47 PM
3

Yeah, the "hate sex" thing, I get it. But yet, no one really asks dudes why they do it? I know, hornyness, but some of them do seem to like, not enjoy anymore after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:46 PM
2

Well, yes, but you think tinder is the only example of this scenario where this happens or applies? I get this is a social/dating scenario place, but aren't all scenarios social?, but this is a habit I see a lot of people doing. A sort of putting all the eggs into one basket and expecting said results whether as a control and/or entitlement thing. And I've not seen just dudes with this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:45 PM
3

Define single for a while vs way too long, cause I think that factors in for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:42 PM
2

Really? Is it really that foolish to do that, sending in for something "unqualified for" instead of hoping for a chance or learning a new skill? See my point about the whole trying to beat the system thing. ​ Well, while researching is important sure, let's be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:41 PM
2

And the reason people keep complaining about shallowness, is my guess, being told or hearing don't be shallow it is wrong etc and then when they see people doing what contradicts this, idk, they can't handle it or see it another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:39 PM
2

I see your point and mostlyish agree. However, I think there is a reason people do exactly what you just described, and it's not only scenarios related to things like tinder,dating etc. Maybe it's where I have lived and worked mostly and these types of attitudes and behaviors are the norm. But I've seen firsthand this thing where when people don't get what they want on the first time or try, they think if they keep trying or digging in someone will budge. ​ I used to see this sort of thing a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:38 PM
1

Mmm, idk about being a pick me. From what I understood, even from him, she was very devoted to him, there for him, all that. They even had two kids. Yeah. He was/is taking her for a joy ride. She even got them a new place. Even I was like that's messed up man. I am not "white knighting" anyone here, I just don't agree with that sort of thing when I see it. But see, that's the point, the game with these types of people, it's not just men and not just limited to areas of love and dating, they try …
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 06:04 AM
1

Blaming these women for falling for the 'same lies, tricks, etc' instead of blaming the men doing it. I blame both. You made the bed, you lay in it. Well if you keep falling for the same tricks and then complaining where's the or a good man, what do you think people are going to say? It's the whole nature of people etc. Well FDS preaches waiting for sex until commitment has been established. RPM hate FDS but they also hate the women who sleep with them. Almost like we can't win either way? Well,…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/20 01:03 AM
1

Pure, unadulterated victim blaming. Victim blaming? Who is the victim? They chose to and then complain about it.Most people would be like tough shit/not my problem. Like I say, everyone has a system. This is literally FDS, which most RPM hate. I'm not this red pill platitude espouser. It's common sense. Well how would you expect someone to respond?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 06:39 PM
0

Here's something related to think about. This is what I mean by making the same mistakes and doing the same shit. This is the type of shit that needs to stop. I am not bashing, or dishing, or judging, or hating, or going after anyone. I don't care if someone is gay or straight, I.Don't.Care. Speaking of which, you know 45% of the gays voted for Trump. That's a large portion. Oh what? Going to sit there and tell them they aren't real gays? Isn't that toxic gatekeeping? You don't know what someone…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 03:04 AM
0

If entitlement nothing to do with any ideology, then why did you bring it up as a response against liberalism and feminism? This is your argument bro. Yes because a number of people, not just men, have realized this has not worked for them. I'm not this knee jerk right winger, I'm just not going to lie to myself. Why do you think the past 4 years happened? You think this happened in a vacuum? What were you not paying attention too? Other people think I shouldn't have rights since I'm a woman, or…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 01:39 AM
-1

Entitlement has nothing to do with a belief or ideology, although if one(s), such as liberalism or feminism start to edge toward entitlement, glaring example, that shitshow over the fucking ghostbusters remake, people will notice. So better get used to be being called out on that next 4 years. I am not even like diehard conservative, just will they/you be able to handle this? When did I ever say fighting for equality, although that has taken on a VERY different meaning for MANY people, don't hav…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 06:13 PM
-1

Who am I insulting? Cause I said and realized almost no one wants to deal with someone who acts like a spoiled brat and throws an even bigger tantrum if they are told no? This applies to many scenarios. ​ Who said there aren't issues between the black community and the police? Totally different issue from I am talking about. Ironically enough, you know who passed a lot of bills resulting in said incarceration? Biden and Harris. I am not even going into right wing cuckoo stuff, this is a fact. ​ …
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:30 PM
0

Who said anything about owing anyone anything? Ripped off could also mean you get cheated out of money,cheated on, robbed, or say not proper accommodations for a disabled person. I am not worked up about anything. Where have you been? The number of unfair divorce proceedings that have been happening. I'll give you a perfect example Someone was telling me once about this person they worked with who got a divorce. She took like $20,000 dollars worth of her husbands collectibles like baseball cards…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:15 PM
0

Getting ripped off, kind of self explanatory. Whether it be someone stealing your money or cheating on you. Or the countless stories of unfair divorce proceedings. ​ I don't recall what I meant when I said deal with this. All I can think to say is, learning how to handle whatever issues or frustrations may arise. I never said anything about me being owed, it's other people. You would be hard pressed to deny that we have an entitlement problem that goes just beyond the typical people who have iss…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:56 PM
-1

Well when one size fits all liberalism doesn't work for a number of people and it doesn't know when to back off a little, it needs some self awareness. Why does it have to be who deserves what? As the saying goes, no one owes you anything. I'd even say this to a dude. When you start going into who "deserves" more, you start sounding like a spoiled child who didn't get the shitty toy at christmas. You know how many grown ass adults I've dealt with who feel they magically deserve a discount on som…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:40 PM
0

Think they're the only example? Shitty humans, or no one has listened or reached out to them?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:25 PM
-10

Yeah, right. Ok. You got me. I am such an trp devotee. My gig is up. Wow. Good work there Sherlock. I am being sarcastic of course. Like can you come up with a response that isn't just internet finger pointing labeling?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 06:23 AM
-1

Are you serious? We are throwing temper tantrums over some bad words? I'd hate to see what you're like when a real emergency happens. Who thought this was a good idea? I am plenty calm, in the words of a great man, "I'm calmer than you are. Yeah waiving the fucking gun around?!?! Calmer than you are. Will you just take it easy, man?!?!"
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 06:05 AM
-1

I know he's gay. And? I see the satire of it of course. Did you ever read about the research and what he found out about it and men and the search for meaning. That is what the story is about, male spiritual decay. In related internet terms, think of the whole project mayhem thing as an allegory, or a heads up?, for the whole altright/mgtow/redpill thing. It was happens when someone is not helped or heard or has no guidance etc. Don't you see similarities there at all? The thing I liked about it…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:45 AM
-4

Well no one is saying it's good. It's just that to simply say it's bad isn't enough, esp.when it's so commonplace or encouraged. I am not naive, but like I said, this goes back to a person not wanting to be fucked over. I am not some puritanical fire and brimstone type. I am not prudent. It is just that most people pretty much if not at first after a while, believe it should be in a committed setting. No it's no one's business what you do, but if you go telling them or make it an issue they will…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:25 AM
0

I wasn't asking you to remove anything. I think they can be full of shit sometimes too, but that quote I read cracked me up. Yeah, I can see the obsessive part. I just think that's cause no one guided them or coached them probably.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:09 AM
0

Peterson has his points, the fact that he's caught on with so many people should tell you something. I don't hang onto his every word, but I can see why people go yeah this guys gets it. What is wrong with weightlifting/fitness? Shall we go into the countless examples of people lamenting angry fat out of shape basement dwelling internet trolls? The whole alpha/beta thing is their for a reason. Some people are simps. Not even in relation to men and women relations, but they don't know how to stan…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:43 AM
-3

Well, it's not so much I am hurt that as much as I think most people look at this, they see someone sleeping around and being used, that person goes on and on about where are the good men/people? Why can't I find someone to stick around or commit? Why does this keep happening etc? Everyone else keeps telling them to stop doing that while they keep complaining about it, and they just get sick of it and go well I told you so and you didn't listen. Oh it does hurt to see other guys sleep around mor…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:39 AM
-8

And that is?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:14 AM
-5

Oh I remember where I was trying to go with that. See people, and does it seem to be more guys than women that do this, although I have dealt with women who do the same sort of thing, have this inherent need or belief in trying to beat the system no matter what. Even if it means thinking someone is trying to rip you off even when they aren't. It goes back to not being this like compliant robot of a person, which is understandable, but even that can go to far. I will give you a perfect example. T…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:14 AM
-9

I know you will not want to hear this, but it needs to be said. No, I don't see myself as a redpiller, but I see where it comes from. Dudes, like anyone, have a sense of judgement,in that, after so many examples or experiences, they realize they don't want to get fucked over. In their mind, someone who sleeps around, and yes, we will get into that double standard issue, although it may not be what you expect, is more likely to lie, cheat,use them etc. He gets what he wants, and then decides if h…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 04:11 AM
-13

Because maybe there is a problem with the current liberal narrative?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:55 AM
-17

100%. There’s this straw man idea of feminists being “crazy 200 lb blue haired liberals that want to take away men’s rights” and to be quite honest, Well, cause they are. I am not trying to be mean or shallow, I am not going to spout off a bunch of trp/mgtow/manosphere repeated talking points we have all heard 90 million times. Feminism is no longer about the general sense of equality most decent minded people strive for or even if they aren't going on and on and on nonstop about it, cause there…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:54 AM
1

Bad example, esp.even when a good amount of women don't agree with it.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:25 AM
1

I have heard this many times before. I understand. I do. I can relate to the part about questioning if you were raised right or if something is wrong. I mean, I'm white, so insert mandated joke about white privilege here, and like, i grew up in like yeah, sort of white boy world, so while I can't say I grew up in the impoverished or struggling or lower income black community, or black community in general,I have long heard this and I get it. What I have seen though, is there does seem to have be…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 07:47 PM
1

I hear you. Well, not red pill in as much as the dating/self improvement issues per se, I should have been more clear and meant as a general idea.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 07:04 PM
2

Even though there are issues with the red pill thing, it has or makes some good points.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 06:55 PM
1

Being bitter is awful and it’s a quick way to repel people away from you. See, this has always bothered me. Perhaps my experience is different from others, but,mmm, how do I sum this up? There's this little game people play where they say it's ok for this person to be bitter or angry or upset, about what may even be trivial things or not. But you, you this person here, you can't dare say or express those things. And what happens is, most people catch on and end up going fuck this.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 06:54 PM
1

I can relate.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/20 06:52 PM
1

That's nothing new. People have been doing that sort of thing since the internet has been around. While I do see the issue, I think perhaps unless it gets to like a really bad level, just let them. Let them get it out of their system. Like I totally get not wanting to deal with certain shit from certain people, but this,as I can best put it, unrealistic standard or expectation that certain people hold others to a T over this stuff where they expect them to like hold it together with no expressio…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 12:37 PM
1

Like I don't want to sound all internet tough guy, and I am not saying go looking for fights, but there was and is a few people who well, I know I could take them if need be, we used to have this one guy who would come in and walk up to people like he was looking for a fight. He was this like medium height skinny guy. Like if it came down to it, I know I could take this guy, and a couple others who like, probably needed a good beating. Like this one creepy mother fucker we used have, and there w…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 06:04 AM
1

But it wasn't just him as an example of this sort of problem. The area where the store was, like, A LOT of people with these sort of habits and attitudes.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 05:58 AM
1

Well, the discussions/issues between he and I and others weren't really based around any sort of pill idea, he was just a fucking idiot who didn't know when to stop sometimes and could be surprised when and if someone went well fuck you too essentially. Well, he did have a kid and like, idk, things I think ended between him and the mother. Yeah, he was a supervisor. He was just basically on this petty stupid power trip. So this wasn't quite a redpill incel thing. In fact if anything, he had some…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 05:56 AM
1

Verbally put you in your place kind of thing. It wasn't even fellow employees, well one guy, but they put a stop to his shit, he was kind of fucking dumb anyways, he'd follow people and try to catch them stealing, I think you can see the issue there. It was also customers and the general social vibe of the area. You think it's just these angry,lonely, have a hard time finding love type guys with an entitlement problem? Sorry, but you're way WAY off with that one. That's sort of my point. You bla…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 05:25 AM
1

Or it's just a more one dimensional view of things. I don't want to get all full of self righteous full of shit stuff here, but the denial of this sort of thing I feel is widespread.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 04:33 AM
3

While I can see that, my experience with this sort of thing is it's been more of a one on one thing. Could be they have a shitty attitude, could be they know no one will say nothing or won't stand up to them, and even when and if you do, they still act surprised. I'm not saying you should go looking for fights or act like a nut over every little thing, whole other related issue, but when you stand up to someone and they still like knock you down or act like you shouldn't talk back, are to me, so…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 04:29 AM
7

You'd be surprised how often the "douchebags" are not "put in their place". It doesn't always work like that. While I understand and have experienced such behavior from certain types of people, and it hasn't always been just dudes,the idea, I sometimes feel forums/boards like this tend to focus these issues and conflicts on one specific group or type of person, not realizing or flat out denying this is a more widespread social environment of influence problem I feel.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 03:47 AM
1

Because they realized it didn't work for them and they were played.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:46 PM
1

Well, yeah. Although I wouldn't quite word it like that.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:34 PM
1

Hey, you're fat shaming.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:20 PM
2

And this thing about never having to compromise on things in life, I'd say this to anyone bringing it up, is total bullshit. That's just not reality to me. I'm not saying one shouldn't stand up for themselves, but this whole I'm too good/nothing or no one is good enough, is eventually going to get to a point where no is going to want to deal with your shit and deal with your problems. ​ You say work harder on themselves? This always comes off as one of those very. very vague ideas that when the …
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:18 PM
1

Um, I agree overallish with where you are going with, but let's not even get into some of the ironies.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:16 PM
2

It is because of the endless complaints about where are the good men and the x amount of guys, who yes, some need a reality check, going hey, I am a good man. Look at me. Pick me. I am here etc. And then being told they are not good enough cause they do not "measure up" over what are arguably often petty things.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/20 09:15 PM
6

And? Well, who are the ones falling for the lies and tricks? It's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:38 AM
1

I think it inflates everyone's egos. The consequences are people, and this can be any one, man, woman, any age range or "looks" range, they think everyone owes them something, this long list of expectations and standards that not only would no one ever "measure up", but these people cannot budge on it in the slightest yet will complain when they don't always get what they want, this sense of constant attention and that the world revolves around them, this need to always dominate and win everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:24 AM
1

Whole other can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:13 AM
1

Sometimes there is an acceptable level of shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:13 AM
1

Not that I don't see the issue here, but don't you get it? There has been this increase in this behavior where I will do the thing I complain about cause I can and you can't do nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:12 AM
1

Stuff like this still fucks with me: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fyo0jb/people_who_lose_their_virginity_later_are_more/
/r/ExRedPill12/04/20 11:46 AM
1

I have been having sleep problems lately, actually somewhat do to related issues, so I can't quite think clear right now, but I can't stop. I can't stop reading purple pill debate on here, the red pill thing, btw, I'm not the sociopathic predator type you describe, but issues of seeing others do that is a whole other thing. I have a whole lot of issues I am trying to work through.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/20 11:45 AM
1

I’ve seen men on here delude themselves so much that they believe women have somehow "lied" to them. As if woman are some mythical creatures who don't also desire an attractive partner. They use the example that women told them they want a "nice, funny, smart guy" as if that means women are willing to take any "nice, smart funny guy" that comes their way, regardless of the fact that he looks like the mucinex man. Newsflash! We also desire someone who is pleasing to look at. I'm not sure why some…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:33 AM
1

Now I know what you're gonna say "A woman can lose weight, short men can't just grow some inches!" As if men don't have a plethora of things they find unattractive in a woman that she too can't physically change: broad shoulders, labia size, height, loose skin, saggy titties, unattractive face, skin color (because black woman are ugly, duh!) I am a lightskin black woman who recognizes the discrimination that dark skin black woman face, do not take offense to this. I'm white, I like non white chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:31 AM
1

I’ve had men on here call me shallow and argue with me about wanting a tall guy and then turn around and say that they don’t date fat b*tches ????? Their argument was always that being fat shows your lifestyle and lack of restraint. As if that somehow made them more righteous. ​ Well, when you're going by the mcdonalds and the 3-400 lb lady on the razor is in the drive thru line, perhaps time to lay off of those big macs for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:31 AM
1

It's only now that the tables have turned, that men are suddenly discussing beauty standards this, beauty standards that, women don't find me attractive blah blah blah. Suddenly, now the media's showcase of beauty standards are unrealistic but where was that energy when only women were on the receiving end? Let's take the height debate for example. It's no surprise women want a tall man. The same way weight is an indication of attraction for men, height is an indication of attraction for women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:30 AM
1

A woman’s worth has always been based off her beauty. An unattractive woman has no worth to men in society so she's casted away. From the time a woman is a child, she is taught that her beauty is the most important thing that is of value. Doesn't matter if she is smart or talented, as long as she can make men's peepees go up, she'll be fine. And even if she's all three, the other two are of no value, because the only thing she will be seen for is her beauty. My point is, women have been judged f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:28 AM
1

It's only recently that women now have the options to be selective about who they chose to date. Before, men had more control in the dating world. As long as he was well off, it didn't really matter what he looked like because wealth=status and status=attraction. Women weren't allowed to make their own money so they relied on the wealth of their husbands. And even then, most women were married off by their families, most times without their own approval. While men, had the pick of the litter, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:26 AM
1

The list can go on and on. Every day women are picked apart and scrutinized for their looks on social media. An attractive woman posts a picture and some Jabba the Hutt lookalike feels the need to make a nasty comment to "humble" her because women aren't allowed to be attractive and know they are attractive. ​ You have to admit, without making this into some sort of shallow aspect, I am just not going there, social media has made so many people full of shit and inflated egos and heads up asses, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:24 AM
1

Really? Really? I only read the first few sentences and am wondering why is someone asking this? Shall we get into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:19 AM
2

I've had/have both, it's miserable. I'd say more but it's late. If I had to pick one to be, I think person A tbh. I am not a virgin, but there was a period where I might as well been one. At least there's an emotional connection there and SOMETHING hopefully more fullfilling/deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:18 AM
1

I can relate.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 06:57 AM
2

Even when its saying something pretty milquetoast imo (like that short men are unattractive), Well, why do you think that is? I don't care what you do cause it's not my problem and as long as you don't make those things my problem, unless we are going out. I'm not saying some of these guys don't need a reality check, but this is a reaction to something in society. For years/a very long time now, as this is not something that just happened overnight, the pc/feminist/sjw/super unrealistic liberals…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:37 AM
4

Oh, you deal with enough entitled people, both men and women, you will quickly see how appropriate that label is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:23 AM
1

Yeah, I can sort of back this up albeit from a different angle. Without getting into a shallow thing, let's make this be more about attitude than anything, cause well, i have met and dealt with well, not the most attractive types who are well, nicer and more appreciative, and dealt with well, to give you a perspective, average to not so average looking to pretty good looking, mostly older women, say between early 40s to mid 60s, some in that younger range, say 20-35,who have the sort of attitude…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:21 AM
1

Yeah pretty much. Mentally healthier? Idk, there's still a lot of lingering issues related to what i have discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:13 AM
1

They're not the only ones who do this,but yeah they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:30 PM
1

I moved out, I am not living at home anymore. The meds have helped. I could get REALLY depressed, they have helped with that. Well she and I are seeing each other, so it's been more than a one time thing. See, without getting into a whole written document, this stuff about "average" or "below average" etc, was never brought up in my house, not cause it was taboo, but I just do not recall anytime growing up parents discussing this sort of thing with me. So I think that in part due to other things…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:30 PM
1

Well, without getting too personal, I guess I am what you consider average, not ugly but not exactly chad alpha pussy slayer dick king who has one new chick after another every day, a perception that messed me up a long which led to some of the problems I am still dealing with. ​ Anyways, I just fairly recently got out of a very long dry spell, the last time I had sex before this was seriously, 2 previous presidents ago. I tried, online mostly, also I was out of work and living at home longer th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:43 AM
2

Yeah, that, that's all I've ever wanted, and here I am, in my 30s, and it's still a problem finding that. Course it could be just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:24 AM
2

Bullshit, know how many chicks I've seen get with what you would call well, "losers by the standard definition?" What do you call a guy who's long term gf just had their 2nd kid and he's still getting with these other chicks? Oh and he lives at home still.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:51 AM
1

Not quite what I meant, I meant a more, mmm, not even general mysanthropy as much as when you see how things really are, your perspective changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:35 PM
1

Again, if you saw some of the people I had to deal with, you'd say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:28 AM
1

Not always. For some reason, whenever I tell certain women to go screw and fuck off, and I am not even trying to fuck them, I'm not even going there, they get more upset in that spoiled princess way. I think it's the area. I work in an area where a lot of people, both guys and girls, are on the high maintenance prince and princess level. These are adults, full grown fucking ass adults, holy shit, I've seen some of the kids not act nowhere as dumb and spoiled as these fucks, it's this controlling…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:28 AM
1

Yes, and guys do deal with that, albeit differently. Why do you think the term haters is thrown around? They're angry cause no one guided/helped them or like, they are/were lonely TOO long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:19 AM
1

I already unplugged, don't give a good flying fuck one way or the other and it feels great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:43 PM
1

I get what you're saying and mostly agreeish to a point, but even as much as I role my eyes at intagram,tinder, etc, can you blame those either solely or in large part? Yes, I see the effect, but is that solely it? And well, what exactly do you mean by degenerate liberal culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:41 PM
2

And when guys do it, it's "shallow sexist etc". I can't tell anyone what to do or be all up in anyone's business, I actually try not to do that, but yet we are sort of confronted with these issues aren't we?, but yes, we, as people, are becoming more and more shallow. I'd say this to a dude even, if you have some list of demands you feel everyone mus measure up to, or hold to some ideal you won't "settle for less", fuck off and get real. I'm not talking about making anyone doing anything they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:51 PM
1

No, you missed the point entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:45 PM
3

Because no one told them this, that is why. They said just be yourself, you are fine, there is someone for everyone, equality, fairness, etc. I'm trying to be as non-shallow about this as I can, I have eyes, but I personally try to not go that direction right off the bat. ​ That mixed with a good few decades of "equality for women and blaming the patriarchy and therefore, all men ever, except for those who tow the liberal sjw feminist line right?" DECADES of that shit, and dudes have had enough.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:01 PM
1

People who go against prominent societal messaging , there must be some flaw or trauma causing it. No, I disagree. I think some people get fed up with certain shit and decide to go fuck this, hence such problems. Also, be careful being so quick to blame such things on some sort of abuse or trauma. That's treading a fine line. It not only minimizes such things, but you are probably severely mislabeling why that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:09 AM
1

Oh, I disagree. I think plenty of people foresaw it. Hence, I give you this scene sir. Someone saw the forest through the trees on this one: ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGEULzufWus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:16 AM
2

He has a point. I agree on the free speech thing. However, there is something to be said for pushing a media agenda. IG and all that know what they are doing, yes, I have eyes, yes even I have watched porn!!!!, but this mix of access and commerce has effect. They are trying to sell sex/porn non-stop. I am not mad, no no, just like "Really?" This isn't even the worst. There was a story I read a while ago about pretty much the same thing as mentioned, but much much worse. I know I joke around a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:13 AM
2

I hug my bros, does that make me gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:48 AM
2

I never denied positive masculinity, I merely was reflecting the issue of "toxic masculinity" and how it's brought up and has become sort of this pointless buzzword. I never said Rodgers was RP. When did I say that? Well, mra/mgtow/and red pill do have some fairly similar senses yes? I am not bashing them, all I am saying is why do people think these have taken off with certain guys and why they relate to it. Perhaps we have different ideas of what intertwined means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:37 AM
2

When did I say masculinity is toxic? Ok well we can ignore all the social habits and trends that do happen or we can realize it is intertwined. I said intertwined, not always right. Why do you think "players" are high fived and celebrated? Ye olde trotted out double stand of "he's a stud,she's a slut", cheating, etc. You think those guys are the sensitive types? Why do think mra/redpill/mgtow is a thing? I don't even think all those guys are bad, just this is happening and why deny it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:15 AM
3

What people call toxic masculinity is just not being a doormat for society to walk on. Women are attracted to "toxic masculinity" but don't say it out loud. Well no one wants to be a doormat, can't blame someone for that. I feel it's different from toxic masculinity. If standing up for one's self, realistically, not this my coupon didn't work or they're out of the product I want and there are 5 other places all within 5 minutes of here and yet I won't even go there bullshit, is seen as "toxic", …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:09 AM
3

Not fix them, but if these guys get laid, it will help them sort things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:06 AM
2

Yes, yes it is entwined. Where have you been the past 40 plus years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:05 AM
0

"I deserve girls much more than all those slobs.” Well holy fucking shit, you seem some of these guys and you can't blame a guy for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:05 AM
0

I see the concerns about entitlement, but that's a shitty thing to say to someone they don't deserve friends. I don't think this approach is helping the issue, which to me is what the focus should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:03 AM
1

He's right. It's more than just not sex, it's a lack of connection and emotional closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:02 AM
0

And where does that belief come from? Bad social influence. Not even ye old patriarchy boogeyman. If anything, ye old patriarchy boogeyman encourages a more non-culture/superficial approach to such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:01 AM
2

It's true. I am sick of people denying it. I work with this guy, we actually get along fine, we talk, we laugh, we talk about issues, so his long term, very devoted gf just had a second kid with him. The whole time, he was seeing side chick after side chick, think he told one about the other? I asked him what he would do if she did this? No, I am not whiteknighting, just if these things come out, I tell them how I feel. He said he would like, well, beat her. Yeah. And we have gone over what can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:00 AM
1

It is a cultural war after all so I admit there are two sides fighting and it isnt just the left dominating, however they are certainly in the stronger position due to having most of our cultural institutions and media/tech companies on lockdown But does having those media/tech companies on lockdown actually do anything to yah know, help them win elections? I'm not denying the influence, but kicking Alex Jones and Gavin McInnes off of facbook and youtube cause they said some things you don't lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:56 AM
1

Those are political outcomes, politics generally lags behind culture by a few decades. I would say no. If anything, one tries to catch up or mix with the other and it can balance out or fall in on it's self. That's pretty much what the left became under Obama. Ghostbusters remake war anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:52 AM
1

A very large majority of people decided to give you the finger, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:50 AM
1

ALL male violence is sexual? No. I would not say that. 2 drunken dudes in a bar fight ain't doing it cause of raging male hornyness or to impress chicks. Anger and rage build up and people fight. Chicks do it too let's not forget. Not ALL mass shooters are byproducts of loneliness, I think that is a more specific type thing. I thought the manosphere, in theory at least, was to help such frustrated dudes with these type things? I have seen non-toxic but straight forward types, Richard Cooper, Rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:44 AM
1

I meant public schools, elementary, I can't remember specifics offhand, but it was stuff like communism is good etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:42 AM
0

Not what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:31 AM
0

I meant what they teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:52 AM
0

No, you deal with enough princess, or prince types, you'll be ready to go fuck all on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:18 AM
0

You have heard about the public schools yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:16 AM
2

Well, where is the line between "toxic masculinity", and then people, anyone, man or women, having enough of things and going "Fuck this shit" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:15 AM
1

Well they kind of were/did, it wasn't even so much the idea of feminist influence in culture, most people probably don't give as much a fuck as you think they do, it was more they really were trying to turn it all into this ideological crusade where everything was supposed to be magically overnight progressive cause Obama was president, that's nothing against him btw, whole other can of worms there, and these angry fanboys were to do as they say!!!! They took an ideological approach and were sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:14 AM
0

I think for a while the feminists where, then when most dudes actually stood up to them, they backed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:12 AM
-1

These people are in denial and don't know how to handle or help the situation. Yes, technically, you shouldn't base your worth on how many people you have slept with, it's a nice idea, but the sort of collected and shared and experiences and reality of a good majority of people, and yes, mostly men if we're being honest here, tells us much differently. ​ Well, what do you think happens when you have a change in cultural values and a shift from traditions? I'm not even talking religious fundament…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:11 AM
1

You really aren't in a position to make a call on the kind of ego another person "deserves" Well idk about that. Everyone has a limit for how much shit they feel like dealing with at a given time. And no, I don't think dealing with all shit all the time makes you a better person, yes learning to work through things and be aware of things is good, but when people try to constantly suck you into their stupid crap or expect you to bear the burden of their petty grievances, or demand things at the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:17 AM
1

Well, just a guess, it could, COULD, maybe, JUST MAYBE, might have something to do with the article that came out about that guy in the navy? coast guard?, Sasson was the last name, who was planning this mass shooting. Anyways, in it, it said he frequently visited the MGTOW forum. I am not blaming MGTOW for this. No. But don't you see what is happening? These ultra leftist fuck saps, all cause they lost in 2016 and now are finally fucking realizing after so long, he's probably going to win again…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:17 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:41 AM
2

That is what I am/have been trying to do, find solutions,hence the therapy. I'm starting to get to where as you put it, "continuously whining", but depression is a bitch, I've changed in some ways, but some problems still persist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:34 AM
1

Yes, I agree. But it seems shitty to me to deliberately create scenarios/situations where they lose all and have or had no choice and are supposed to just deal with it? I just don't think that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:38 AM
1

I meant it sarcastically. Uh, I think anyone can band together for any sort of uprising, "Alpha" or "Beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:46 AM
1

Well, I guess we see this differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:45 AM
1

Oh no, I think it played a very big part. I think there is a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:37 PM
1

What straws would that be? Well, the job thing has grown in some areas. I'm not some MAGA fanboy trying to get in everyone's face, just how can no one not see how and why this is/has happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter