RandomlyChosenTitle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Do you guys think I am right to say no Just say no and leave it at that. Their request is selfish and your refusal doesn't require any further explanation.	/r/askTRP	09/05/19 05:56 PM
2	Trying to swallow the redpill, not easy Short answer: your frame is shit, you aren't leading the relationship, and you give way too many fucks about fixing her feels. You've got a long way to go as far as unfucking yourself. You should post this over at askMRP and take your ass-kicking. You'll get a lot more value asking people that have dealt with / are dealing with similar situations.	/r/askTRP	07/05/19 05:46 PM
0	Fascinating situation whats your insights? she asked him "what would you do if you had me for a night" My guy asked me what my "intentions" are with her and if I'd be cool if he tried shooting his shot Sounds like she already gave it to him and he missed it. Anyway, unless you're already getting oneitis, who gives a fuck where some girl you haven't fucked yet is getting validation?	/r/askTRP	24/04/19 05:01 PM
2	How to not be the provider male Dinner dates are trash for all parties involved. He doesn't want the inflated bill, she doesn't want the expectations, and neither want the forced conversation that inevitably ensues. All around bad idea.	/r/askTRP	18/04/19 01:05 AM
16	How to get over a one night stand? Molly will take your oneitis and magnify it 200x. Just remember that your feelings are based on a drug induced judgment of a stranger in a perfect setting and on her best behavior. In other words, a fantasy. There are no unicorns, and if you met with her again you'd undoubtedly be disappointed.	/r/askTRP	18/04/19 12:58 AM
5	Going to college late? Lots of people older than that. I was 30 when I went back for grad school and there were undergrads that were older than me.	/r/askTRP	18/04/19 12:50 AM
3	is hypergamy only about money and status or can it be looks Hypergamy is about securing the highest value man, and what determines that value is subjective. It's not even fixed for the same women at different points in her life.	/r/askTRP	12/04/19 06:08 PM
3	Marriage is about to break down, want to save it. Would love some advice she kept being mad at me... she is angry... She feels left out of the relationship.... she doesnt even want... she cant properly talk to me... she tries to... she start criticising me. I quoted and highlighted the above to show you just how deeply you've fallen into her frame. The problem isn't that she feels left out of the relationship, it's that you're the drunk captain. Leadership 101... the buck always stops with you.	/r/askTRP	11/04/19 01:54 PM
2	Thoughts on the Betaization Process - Alpha Fucks, Beta Sucks and the need to cut down her ego. In a word, frame. Like OP said, check out the MRP sidebar. What you're talking about is being the oak, which is possessing all the requisite alpha qualities but with enough beta sprinkled in for comfort. The latter isn't necessary for spinning plates but is vital in a marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 05:56 PM
1	"If you don't bang her now, you'll regret it when you're married' - 10 years later my coworker was right. I should have banged her and I'm kicking myself that I didn't. Agreed, which is why I phrased as one he "let" get away. OP is obviously still caught up in her though and doesn't even realize the bullet he dodged.	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/19 05:35 PM
3	"If you don't bang her now, you'll regret it when you're married' - 10 years later my coworker was right. I should have banged her and I'm kicking myself that I didn't. Getting hung up on a weekend of sex that you passed on a decade ago is the pinnacle of scarcity mentality. Ask yourself why it even matters at this point. I bet what you'll find is that you're still seeking external validation through sex, and even after 10 years you're basing part of your self worth on this woman's genuine desire. Knock that shit off and be the prize. Anyone with even the slightest amount of game plus red pill awareness should be able to pick up a decently attractive post-wall …	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/19 02:47 PM
98	Having a baby is the Mack Daddy of all shit tests. That's only reality if you let it get that bad. Handle your shit at home and at work, have a rock solid frame, and get back to the old relationship dynamic. I had no issues whatsoever after my first kid was born. Amused mastery was my best friend when it came to shit tests from my wife (gf at the time). Just remember that you aren't "helping out with the kid" but "raising your kid." You're also an adult that's entitled to free time, and if there's anything at all I can offer as advice, it's to m…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/19 07:30 PM
1	How do you all handle depression? At moderate to high doses, psychedelics will inevitably make you face your own thoughts, fears, regrets, or anything else you may have mentally buried. When you hear of someone having a bad trip, it's usually something along these lines coming to the surface, and because they aren't prepared for it, it causes their mind to spiral out of control. The idea of using them therapeutically is to purposely bring these things to the surface so that you can deal with them directly. In addition, you'll of…	/r/askTRP	14/01/19 02:50 AM
1	How to be "hot" instead of "handsome"? Start with Models by Mark Manson. It's limited and a bit self-indulgent, but still probably the best book I can recommend for developing inner game. If you don't think of yourself as a sexual being, then women are going to treat you accordingly. That's honestly like 90% of the battle.	/r/askTRP	10/01/19 06:33 PM
4	How do you all handle depression? I've had a couple bouts of depression; a short and relatively minor one in my early 20s and an extended, soul crushing one for most of my 30s. The short answer is that you need to do everything that your depression makes difficult. You lack energy, but you have to exercise (I cannot overstate the importance of lifting). You don't want to engage people, but you have to socialize. You can't work up a single fuck to give about anything, but you have to find something you care about. You can't focus…	/r/askTRP	10/01/19 05:10 PM
4	What did I do wrong? Next girl I approached at the minimarket said hey. She instantely tried to turn me off by saying if I wanted to know directions to somewhere I could ask she shop assistant. These types are a blessing when you're just getting into approaching, even if they don't feel like it at the time. The mindset you quickly capture talking with these types (i.e. "I can say anything I want because I have nothing to lose") is where you eventually want to get with every approach. Just keep working at it.	/r/askTRP	10/01/19 04:24 PM
2	How to be "hot" instead of "handsome"? Handsome means nice to look at, but not necessarily attractive. The latter requires frame, game, and looks (in that order). You probably project a safe, friendly persona. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it does mean that you'll need to be more diligent in making your intentions known when you approach. Work on flirting and subtly adding a more sexual vibe to your interactions with women. I can't stress the subtle part enough, because if you try to run before you've even mastered crawling…	/r/askTRP	10/01/19 02:50 AM
3	Why "I am the prize" mentality is bullshit and what you need to do instead You could be a metaphorical Lamborghini but if the Ford Focus is out there everyday, putting in the work, trying to make the sale, then 9/10 he's out fucking the Lamborghini's women while the Lambo sits at home and lavishes himself about how he is "the prize." Given that Ford advertises incessantly while Lamborghini doesn't bother, you just undercut your own argument. Lambo doesn't need to peddle bullshit in order to be in demand because they have a quality product and social proof. Ford knows t…	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/19 09:18 PM
6	The Death of Santa Agreed. I know at my core that I do not need women. I know the absolute worst aspects of female psychology. I know that m-f relationships will always be imbalanced and that I will always carry the heavier burden. Yet I still choose to keep women in my life. That's love, not some hapless BP pussy that clings to the object of his oneitis like his life depends on it.	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/18 07:49 PM
4	How To Tease A Girl And Spark Sexual Attraction This is especially so for women. Regarding the date, a man will tell you what he did while a woman will tell you how she felt. Tying into the teasing point, it really doesn't matter what you actually say as long as you're outcome independent and your verbal and nonverbal cues are congruent.	/r/TheRedPill	06/12/18 05:26 PM
1	How To 10x Your Confidence With Women (By Entering A Flow State) You're right, all drugs are completely the same. Next time you have a headache and run out of aspirin, just grab some fentanyl. Only an idiot would bother to distinguish between completely different drugs amirite	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/18 05:59 PM
3	Calling out a woman for trying to make you an orbiter. What do you have to gain by calling her out? Fuck the new girl and soft next HB7-8. If she wants to win your attention back, she knows how to get in touch with you.	/r/askTRP	02/10/18 12:55 AM
2	Didn't escalate, girl gets disappointed Sounds like you made up an excuse to that you could justify letting the fear get the best of you. Next time, adjust that thought to "failure is part of the game, therefore I have nothing to lose by escalating." I would actually take it a step further than that and adopt the mindset that escalating alone equals success. Maybe she'll respond, maybe she won't. Who cares? You've improved your own game simply by having the balls to take action, and it will pay dividends later. You'll also develop out…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/18 03:35 PM
2	Treated a plate badly, she sleeps with best friend. You rid yourself of a clingy plate and your friend got a piece before she left. Sounds like wins across the board to me.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/18 06:03 PM
1	Fempowerment \| Rollo: "Say no and you’re a despicable misogynist. Say yes and you’re tar-pitted in “yes, but” caveats – mansplaining – that are disqualified because you’re a man. " I take more of an enjoy the decline approach. Feminism as we know it is already in its death throes, which is exactly why there's been so much effort to try and explain its inevitability.	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/18 06:51 PM
3	I thought I had it figured out. It feels good to think about being vindictive, but you're ultimately attacking your children by doing so. Their mother is the most important woman in their life, so whatever damage you do to her influences them (esp the younger ones). Get out of her frame and do what's best for YOU. I'll add this on to the other advice you've gotten. You no longer owe her anything, and that includes a timely decision or transparency regarding what you plan to do. Lift, read the sidebar (here and MRP), do fun shi…	/r/askTRP	12/07/18 04:34 AM
0	Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect? I actually think you made the right call agreeing to meet him. He knows where you live, and the last thing you need is for him and a bunch of his friends to show up unexpectedly. The fact that he didn't just show up already tells me that he probably doesn't want to fight, but refusing to talk could set him off. Then you get jumped in your own home after the gf lets them in. As for this talk, he probably envisions a scenario where you're overly apologetic, he gets to play badass for a few minutes…	/r/askTRP	08/05/18 05:14 PM
0	Friends sister (HB9) is dating a 6/10 (at best) beta AF/BB Our body agendas evolved long before the creation of birth control. In such a time, the rational thing to do for a woman that was just separated from Chad was to assume pregnancy and lock down Billy asap. Someone socially clueless is actually better here, because that's someone that isn't going to ask questions when she springs the news about "his" baby. Important to note that now this is all happening subconsciously. She's most likely being honest when she says she loves him for all those…	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 02:23 AM