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DiscussionRandomwoowoo/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:42 PM
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You've offended all men forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:44 PM
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It means you. You're gore. (<3)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:20 PM
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Vent more. I don't want to discourage you. Just follow sub rules, but please express yourself and frustrations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:07 PM
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Dude we're not disagreeing, was just a funny thought based on your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:00 PM
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I think when you find the right person they're going to see your reddit history and be so proud and happy they made the right choice. They're going to love your words and takes on the world. You're such a bright woman, Lillth. And you don't need me to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:56 PM
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apparently two of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:40 PM
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Gurl, don't get me started lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:37 PM
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All ex's were crazy. Using "Narcissist" incorrectly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:32 PM
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What keeps a conversation going for you? And we're not disagreeing on the compliments aspect. I would be curious or weird if I got so many so quickly, when they don't even know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:16 PM
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Are you reading Tinder texts? What's the context? But, yes, you're not wrong. Definitely red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:08 PM
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Probably the idea of being used for money, or the "beta bux" bullshit. I think there's some legitimate and some irrational fear about only being valuable until you have certain status. My parents, for example, were both dirt poor, from poor, white trash families when they met. But they had big dreams. And were working towards more. They rode the bus in a small city with poor transportation, until a man from their church gifted them a piece of shit car. And my dad lived above a funeral home, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:35 PM
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I am being attacked for having ambulatory existence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:13 PM
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I WAS SHOWING MY CAT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:08 PM
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Lol dang it I wasn't trying to show off foot, just that cat was also blocking me from getting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:56 PM
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Etsy is where I find almost everything now, because I can commission things and find personalized items so easy. Also we wait on the Steam sale and then remember we need new underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:55 PM
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Less than 10 days till loyl year! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:49 PM
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Ah, how splendid! I find myself immersed in this tome, and though the narrative holds a certain allure, the prose dances with such an overwhelming flourish that I must admit I am beginning to weary of it. It evokes memories of the youthful tales I once penned, back in my adolescence, when I would exchange each humble word for its more grandiloquent counterpart, consulting those online reading level analyzers with fervor, ever striving to ensure my work surpassed the lofty heights of undergraduat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:44 PM
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I can only handle one. She's a character with emotions lol. Your baby is so cute, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:41 PM
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You just jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:40 PM
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<image> We have matching babies!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:35 PM
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You got such a mate. He's so cute and loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:58 AM
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Doesn't exist. There's modmail that users can mail. Or me. But modmail is definitely the better option because I'm not always available. Not trying to be dry or push off-ish. I just have a life/work so can't always be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:00 PM
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As soon as males can carry the baby, they can have a say. As long as the whole burden of childbirth is female-only, females should retain complete control over their bodies and decisions. Men have to take the L on this. Someone is going to pay for the baby if it’s born. I’ve said this many times, but I dare any politician to propose raising taxes to care for all the kids whose dads have “financially aborted them.” These kids are going to need money for daycare, for clothes, for school, for food.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:47 PM
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So if a parent doesn’t give food to their kid who wants it they weren’t forcing their child to starve? Thats ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:40 PM
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Did she create the child through asexual osmosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:37 PM
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1/4 milk, 1/4 cup butter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:31 AM
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You need 1/4 cup to make Kraft Mac and cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:22 AM
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Yeah, pretty disgusting stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:16 AM
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You’ve been banned from chat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:21 AM
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Yes. And it’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:18 AM
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Hopefully you know I was joking, Stacy-lite
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:17 AM
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You added “lite” to your flair. What more you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:11 AM
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I love vicariously through moshi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:59 AM
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How’s your gf? Ready to be the 51st state?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:57 AM
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ahh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:52 AM
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I read the Canadian sub today. Mate, I’m sorry. I hope you’re not getting the vile hate I saw, because it was disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:40 AM
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"Y The Last Man," while written by a man, is a fascinating read into a world without men. It's enjoyable to read, and while it misses a few easy targets, it's interesting to see a man's perspective on the idea of what a world without men would really be like. "Woman World" is another take on it, from a woman's perspective. And deals with hard issues that would arise in a man-less world. I think both are worth reading, fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:58 PM
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Your opinions always welcome. Continue to wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:40 AM
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Your one day account…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:18 AM
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That’d be a good T-shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:33 AM
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I added it briefly out of curiosity when another user here said it was their favorite for women’s subs. It’s…interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:29 AM
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Have you been browsing LetGirlsHaveFun again?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:25 AM
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Honestly? Yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:13 AM
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Stimulant use can do that. Please, please be careful, though. The more you use the less you take care of yourself. Even people “in control” can lose it quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:09 AM
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The Midwest would be very angry at you if they could read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:00 AM
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Just dip them in ranch like an American
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:56 PM
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Hey all, I'm making an executive decision that we NOT gossip or spread rumors about specific users in the daily thread. Especially when they aren't consenting parties. It's creating an unwelcoming environment, and at this point is targeted harassment towards some. We all come here because we enjoy the collection of people we see day in and day out, and making some of them potentially feel unwelcome by gossiping has to stop. The End. Carry On.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:32 PM
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Never doubted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:04 PM
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He looks like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:56 PM
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You just want a woman over 40, girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:54 PM
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I can know by seeing. No judgement on you or others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:53 PM
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Too young. But best wishes for my brothers/sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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She loves youuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:44 PM
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What’s going on? Who do I need to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:34 PM
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Icantanswerdickstuckinmouth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:32 PM
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Did you see your new wife? You have obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:29 PM
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Communicate. It’s literally the best we can do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:02 AM
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Honest question, what are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:47 AM
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I’m asking in good faith, what do you think the best solution was?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:36 AM
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Not baiting you, but what was the vid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:17 AM
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I am friends with a few people who have been banned. So I get it. I just can't override it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:16 AM
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Return to work is such BS. Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:40 AM
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Leosandlattes just saying “you wish”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:37 AM
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I have a group chat that’s just called “pockets” and it’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:25 AM
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I don’t know other mods locations (except for one) or times they moderate, but I usually do 6am and 5pm PST, and sometimes things get left up because people are working or sleeping. The queue is usually long by the time I see things, but I don’t think that’s a failure as much as just people having jobs and lives. It’s all unpaid. And while I don’t expect you and I, as strangers, to agree just because I say so, but I really think the other mods here have the best interest at heart. I know I appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:55 AM
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It depends. Some things get through based on how the post is labeled. It’s fairly standard for a lot of subs to also have “this post has received X amount of comments, time to make sure it’s ok” notifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:13 AM
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Oh I was playing around, silly. Promise I wasn’t offended or anything, just making a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:50 AM
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Well all of us don’t have a group chat, but probably 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:48 AM
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Oh yeah. Or I’ll remember one time in 2004 when I told a waitress “ok, smell you later” and laugh at the cringe. Meanwhile to everyone else I’m giggling with no ear buds in and clearly a lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:44 AM
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I’m fine not being cool. I had my 20s and early 30s for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:40 AM
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Early 40s, like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:39 AM
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I get told I smile all the time so I must be happy. And I mean, I am. But usually I’m smiling because of thinking of something stupid or making up lyrics to “I want a hippopotamus for Christmas” in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:37 AM
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This sounds like me, but with older people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:36 AM
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Biden has the ability to delay it, if my understanding is correct. I think he should and then just post daily TikTok’s of him eating ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:24 AM
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😬 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:20 AM
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Accounts with less than 24 hours usually have comments banned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:46 AM
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My last name is one of the most rare. There’s three people with my last name. I’m ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:37 AM
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That’s so apt. I have people hand me shit all the time like “wtf does this mean” Acquired talent 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:40 AM
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God bless the people who deal with it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:38 AM
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I think a lot of people would die if they saw how I hold a pen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:32 AM
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<image> Shite handwriting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:29 AM
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You have such a good voice, you nerd. And it was a good pun. Sad others missed it Edit: I missed you put it back! Yass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:09 AM
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Totally fair. This is 20 students as a basis this year, with only 7 Indian small sample size, and just her observation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:08 AM
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Mine is equally garbage. I was told there’s a reason 7’s and 0’s are crossed, and it’s my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:05 AM
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That’s what I’ve read when I did I quick google, but majority of fine motor skill jobs are male dominated. Which doesn’t mean anything on the surface, but wondering now about women surgeons and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:01 AM
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Show it, coward
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:00 AM
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I like the thought process. Could very well be evolutionary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:59 AM
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Where did his voice go?? You know who you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:57 AM
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Let’s put Dr Oz in charge and find out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:49 AM
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I want to see the comic. Keep at it. I’m serious. Even as a random guy you don’t know. That said: I’m sorry you’re feeling down. Which I know means fuck all. But I mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:48 AM
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Hahaha fair! When I read any doctor’s handwriting it’s all gibberish, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:43 AM
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That’s an interesting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:42 AM
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Yeah, I’m curious why it might be. Reading these 3rd grade students letters you can almost immediately guess if the author is a boy or girl. Which is “weird” to me, considering these kids are pre-pubescent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:41 AM
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I’m legit curious why this would be. Not a “gotcha” question either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:40 AM
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So something came to mind: Do you think women hand write better than men? I hear a lot of generalizations of men have shitty handwriting, especially in medicine. But my best friend is an elementary school teacher, and she shows me letters they’re writing to the classroom’s elf, and it’s noticeable that the 8 year old girls write more clearly than the boys. I asked her and she said that the Indian boys write better than other boys (she’s Canadian for reference). I wonder if it’s cultural or ingra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:37 AM
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I know of many studies that show talk therapy helps for the majority. I know of none that says it’s ineffective or detrimental for the majority. You’re free to provide sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:29 AM
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My bestie in Toronto said snow yesterday was bad but it’s mostly clear. FWIW
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:25 AM
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Cheating is such a scum behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:22 AM
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I personally hate the spouse of someone who died running in their place and winning on sympathy, even with no experience. Isn’t a gendered thing, either. Just…no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:20 AM
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Pixie
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:17 AM
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I get the intention, but naw. You can’t do that without getting into trouble. Deserved or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:16 AM
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No. I personally got upset at the people who argued against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:02 AM
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I get it. I do. When people shit on my job (when I’m not anonymous on reddit) I’ll smile and move on. And a lot of men are adverse to therapy, which doesn’t help. Even though all the research we have shows most people benefit from therapy. But I get it. Thankfully, like the US elections showed, reddit isn’t the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:01 AM
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That last comment is excellent, IMO. And that sub requires sharing your credentials to post/comment, and the mods are pretty great about making sure bad actors aren’t just larping. That said, I’ll defend my profession till I’m blue in the face, but I know therapy doesn’t work for everyone. But there’s enough clinical evidence it’s beneficial that almost all healthcare systems and insurance companies are expanding their coverage and offerings for it. I work out of a primary care clinic, which was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:46 AM
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Always. Sometimes before it’s even over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:36 AM
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This woman at work is 61. A nurse, and a damn great one. She does the brunt of so much labor. I love her. Her husband died when she was 57, and she wants to move on, and this guy she's seeing now is just no good. And she talks about him and gen z and us millennials are trying to tell her...but her fear of being alone is so strong. I can't offer her professional advice, as she's technically "my employee" but damn. What I'm saying, I guess, is that even as someone trained for relationship advice..…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:04 AM
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Jeff Foxworthy did a bit on, what I think is still the best-selling comedy album of all time, about how the southern accent doesn't inspire trust. And I've experienced that a lot, but I also don't want to woe-is-me it. I'm very privileged. And for talk therapy I think it's only been a benefit. But I can see my accent in a heart surgery coming across as, "JESUS THE TRAILER PARK GUY IS GOING TO OPEN MY HEART."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:52 AM
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Don 't know where you live, but the first few weeks of daylight savings in the northern hemisphere fuck hard with brains, in combination with the colder weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:48 AM
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Most beautiful place I've ever lived. That said: I hope you finish your comic. I really do want to see it when it's ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:44 AM
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I live in Seattle, but I grew up in southern Missouri with a mom from Arkansas and a dad from Virginia. So the accent is strong lol. EDIT: so when I had to do my supervised hours of therapy the woman I was under told me, "I've never heard a therapist tell someone 'y'all aint gonna make this work if you don't communicate.'"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:37 AM
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No judgement! Just not for me. I love Vegas. But mostly for buffets and magic shows. I love a good magic show and save my money for the buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:35 AM
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Gambling here is so weird. Where I grew up casinos could only be on the water, not the land, so they were all riverboat casinos. Also, you can buy lotto tickets and scratch offs at 18. Which is gambling. But you can't gamble in a casino until 21. There's no sense to it. Also, I just don't gamble. I lost 2k when I was 21 and drove to Vegas, and never gambled or bought lotto again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:29 AM
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What the gambling laws there? How many wallabys you have to wager?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:21 AM
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I get a lot of people who love my accent, and some people who openly tell me "with that accent I didn't think you could be educated." USA southern accent, for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:15 AM
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One of the things I see the most is a mom or dad come in and talk about how they love their kid, but they never wanted them. And the guilt they feel because it was "just what adults do" or they were pressured into it, etc. I think too many people were sold this nuclear family / sitcom version of love. And it's awful when they realize this isn't what they wanted. "How do I be a parent when I don't want to be a parent anymore" is a question I've heard at work way too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:09 AM
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I feel for them if it's anything like lactose intolerance. I can still eat dairy, but ain't no one wants to be around if I do. Gut rot isn't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:04 AM
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How much are you stealing in this totally hypothetical situation that isn't real and you're not voice-to-text while spraying your clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:48 AM
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Indeed *tea emoji*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:19 AM
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You showed up on the last day? You nerd (<3)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:52 AM
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I hope not, cuz that one guy's flair says he's licking them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:49 AM
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Reminds me of living in LA where lane-splitting is legal for some ungodly reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:43 AM
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I was just warning others before they clicked. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:58 PM
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I shave my chest and underarms because I prefer the look. I also don’t grow thick hair on my chest and it looks weird when I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:42 PM
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The link is very nsfw and graphic, for the uninitiated. Don’t make my past mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:40 PM
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Meh, let the weirdos have their fun 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:07 PM
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I got several dates from going out to eat alone. Went to the same place every Wednesday for a self date and then the waitress randomly gave me her number. We had like nothing in common and realized that early, but still. Wouldn’t have happened if I’d stayed at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:54 PM
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I’d question myself about why I’m friends with someone who uses terms like “high value women” unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:13 AM
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The character that Ryan Reynolds is famous for playing in most of his movies I would think qualifies as a "cool guy asshole."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:08 AM
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Naw. Not yet. It’s going to stay in the 50s and 40s this week. But “the grey” has started. Where you don’t see the sun until like May
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:25 PM
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You and your Christmas in shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:23 PM
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I mean, right now it’s winter for a lot of folks on the right side of the hemisphere. Don’t blame people for not going outside as much. Can’t touch grass if it’s all dead and buried under snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:16 PM
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WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:53 PM
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I…can’t even be mad. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:41 PM
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Probably the banana head 🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:15 AM
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I’m open about my age. 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:08 AM
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I don’t like guns anymore. I liked them as a kid because it was something me and my dad did. That said, buying a gun at a gun fair in Missouri was super easy. You pay cash to some guy and walk away with a gun. Our homeschool laws were similarly lax. I had so many hurdles in life because Missouri just doesn’t care about homeschooling kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:04 AM
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Adore her. Shes a treasure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:56 AM
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Good luck! I had a lisp for years, not sure if that's the same. I had years to get over it but I wasn't comfortable talking in public until like 18. You got this <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:24 AM
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I hate gangster shows, for personal reasons, but I know Sopranos is great. Also, a great voice and agree with the below about a radio show. Both you and FunEducation. You two should do something together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:06 AM
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I'd listen, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:55 AM
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That's a good voice. Deep, but not monotone. Pleasant to listen to. I bet you have a great laugh, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:48 AM
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Did mine, won’t delete
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:34 AM
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Love it. You fit two answers into one!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:28 AM
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Hahah no spoilers, but that was a good emu and warble story. You tell a good tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:17 AM
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lol yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:13 AM
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What’s wrong with that?? I love a good DIY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:06 AM
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Welp, I thought of the story I could tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:04 AM
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Hahaha, that was amazing. Especially the neighbor impression. I would listen to you read shampoo ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:59 AM
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Oh I know. I just think people don’t expect my voice to be what it is. Not in a bad way. I love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:56 AM
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Wait what’s happening? Just scrolled down. Oh lawd. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:40 AM
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Nightmare 2003 fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:51 AM
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The number of people who believe that is too damn high, Sheila.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:51 AM
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I do love musicals, but Wicked was just so well done. I enjoyed it massively and had the soundtrack playing a bunch during cooking for the holiday this week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:45 AM
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Haha excellent reference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:40 AM
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The mystery of where women pee from continues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:27 AM
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I’m sorry man, that’s upsetting. I hope you can find something else fun to do or watch tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:14 AM
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And your avi probably adds into it, but no I don’t think you come across as a teenager lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:57 PM
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Like you have your house address saved in Uber and it still guided them to someplace else? That’s shitty either way. Sorry about your movie. What were you wanting to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:52 PM
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I don’t think you do, but it definitely seems to get your goat a little so it will probably continue to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:50 PM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:39 PM
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Braggart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:25 AM
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Love her. Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:44 AM
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Just saying. When I first joined I blocked someone and got a permaban until I undid it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:38 AM
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My mom says this quote literally every time she visits me. It’s her favorite movie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:36 AM
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No, just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:30 AM
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21 is Santa Clause. 23 is Home Alone 24 is Christmas Story
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:22 AM
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…what? You can do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:16 AM
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I have an order for my Christmas movies. Like an advent calendar. Yours is December 22. So it’s top tier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:10 AM
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Best Christmas movie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:06 AM
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My life. I was in the army before 9/11 so I’m grateful for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:03 AM
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Die Hard time. The holidays are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:57 PM
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Reminds me of the wizard in Holy Grail
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:52 PM
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I remember crocodile Dundee grabbing the guy and saying “he’s a Shelia!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:49 PM
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She wants to swaddle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:48 PM
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But with less axe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:34 PM
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The pipes are only calling for Danny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:28 PM
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“He still feels short”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:09 PM
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Johnny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:08 PM
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Myers-Briggs is fan fiction, like astrology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:37 PM
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That sounds like a friend. I’m not going to give you advice or bullshit. I believe you, and what you’re searching for is so real, important, and valid. I just hope you find them. I don’t need you to message me. I get zero dollars from it. But I’ll listen if you need to rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:40 PM
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I wasn’t being condescending. It was a verbal gesture. I don’t think I’m above you, and you’re not my lesser. If this is the last conversation we have, I hope you hear that. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:28 PM
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Possibly, you’re correct. I never said it was effective on all people. What do you think you need, personally? Not even therapy. Just what do you think would help? I’m not trying to prove you wrong. We aren’t fighting. I can be on your side, as a therapist, and admit when my line of work isn’t for you. I have no ego attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:22 PM
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I’m a male in the field. And I’m not even disagreeing with you on a base level. Which is why I recommend CBT to many men. A lot of men (perhaps, accurately) see therapy as talking through issues when they want solutions. CBT is all about that. It literally takes ten years to get accreditation, though. And this field has a high burn out rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:04 PM
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And as a therapist I would encourage you to do so. We get to pick our clientele more than our clients get to choose. And mate, spend years of your life, literally years hearing other people’s problems. You start to see similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:52 PM
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It sounds like you have no experience with CBT therapy. But if you’d like to share your therapist’s failings please do. In detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:39 PM
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You got it. There’s a reason they gravitate towards positions of power. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:23 PM
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Be civil. You can make the same point without the added incivility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:08 PM
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Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:06 PM
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Talking through issues isn’t torture, unless you make it that way. Asking “why” is the basis of any problem solving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:00 PM
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It’s not. Talk therapy is good. Even for men. But a common thread is “let’s stop talking about the problem and fix it” A lot of men don’t want to hear the problem, as much as they want the solution. Therapists can offer that. But a lot of men see it as a failure to ask. And this isn’t a “men bad” post. I’m a man. And I’m a therapist. And I grieve for men. Who won’t talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:58 PM
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That’s a good question. We only can gather evidence from those willing to go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:48 PM
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Because he conned me. And everyone he knew. It’s my job to “get” people. But he was so persuasive. And knew the right things to say and do. When I caught on, after he got caught in a lie he looked at me and said something akin to “I know you figured it out.” And it was scary. It wasn’t some bum ex. This was the guy with no empathy. And he was glad to pull the wool off. And I legit couldn’t handle him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:42 PM
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And while you and I probably don’t agree on many things, this is accurate. “He/she was a narcissist!” No. Not even close. Egotistical. Selfish. Awful. Yes. But as a therapist, I’ve known one narcissist. And he wasn’t some TikTok meme. He was the real deal. And he was truly scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:31 PM
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I hear you. I hear a lot of patients with this. I can come off dismissive here because this is a “free space” for myself. But I hear you. And your feelings are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:23 PM
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Not disagreeing. My point was only that “my ex was a narcissist” gets thrown around a lot. And until you’ve stared one in the face, you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about. They’re a different breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:20 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:17 PM
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I like you. That said, you’re correct that it doesn’t help with many things. Narcissism is a good example. And a diagnosis I hate getting thrown around so commonly. Egotism? Yes. But few people have met true narcissists. And even CBT can’t help them. They play the game too well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:06 PM
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No “woe-is-me”, black pill, or incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:51 PM
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CBT therapy is very helpful for “men” who don’t seem to benefit from talk therapy. But it takes 10 years to get accredited for. One of the longest accreditations in medicine. CBT is helpful for many men because it is based in tasks and lists, (to put it mildly) which many men benefit from. Talk therapy is clinically proven to help men as well, but the mindset is that it doesn’t, which is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:49 PM
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Sadly many times. Professionally and personally. And I hate it, because I’m scared of cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:54 PM
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If you’re going to call off for being sick, make sure you’re not posting TikToks of you not being sick. Lawd give me strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:04 PM
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You would never know that by a lot of posters here. A lot of them say “women” but really mean “this hot woman on TikTok who I can’t fuck so I blame all of them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:16 PM
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“You were programmed and forced to like me” isn’t going to get me going. In fact, that would be a complete turn off. The hottest thing about a partner is that they choose you, and you them. You take away that choice and you’re left with a gooner cum bucket with a script. That’s not going to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:08 PM
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Wahoo! Congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:51 PM
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I’m very good at humming
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:56 PM
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Haha. I just like to be the devil on the shoulder to push people into sin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:51 PM
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I doubt it. You don’t have the guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:32 PM
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You need it in your life, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:31 PM
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What’s the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:03 PM
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(I don't know why you left, and don't need to know, but wish you were back. Miss your takes, insufferable virgin) (that was in parenthesis to not take away from the original discussion)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:30 AM
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Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:22 PM
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Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:22 PM
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Be. Civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:19 PM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:14 PM
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Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:11 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:09 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:09 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:03 PM
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If you’re admitting that you’re just trolling here for funsies we can just remove the post. Otherwise post and comment in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:59 PM
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That’s delusional talk. It’s meant to try and rationalize why some “nice guys” can’t get laid. Most of them aren’t nice at all. They’re pretending to try and slip in panties instead of working on themselves to be desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:08 PM
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People forget before he did Toy Story, Randy Newman sang a hate song for short men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:12 AM
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Lol I am so glad someone got this stupid showerthought I had
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:47 AM
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I remember this one time I got an Airbnb next to where Rick Astley lived. He showed up with brownies and told me I could borrow every Pixar film he owned. ...except for one...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I don't think it is. I would be scared for people to see how I have flirted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:18 AM
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Yes, I say "fighting" but I don't mean screaming at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:11 AM
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Congrats, man. That's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:45 AM
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I have a few more weeks before it gets below freezing at night. Living it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:39 AM
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I suck at all instruments, but impressed when others can play. How long it take you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:35 AM
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Not a great angle, but you're very handsome. I don't like that "rate" shit. But if I were younger...yeah, would. Fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:30 AM
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I totally get and like that different people are different. But my flirting style is fighting. If we're fighting we're probably vibing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:54 AM
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I have an electric scooter...but I only ride in the bike lanes. That's literally what they're there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:51 AM
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That’s actually really cool. Well I would totally check out anything you shared. Good luck on the story!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:25 PM
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Shouldn’t you be out dancing instead of pondering butt plugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:19 PM
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Do you draw by hand or use an iPad? And I’m intrigued…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:19 PM
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Comic as in comic strip, or as in like a graphic novel? Regardless congrats. Writer’s block is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:16 PM
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That’s where my head went…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:11 PM
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Why do some people FaceTime on public transport? Like…I don’t get the appeal of someone looking at you while the bum behind you pees on the bike rack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:53 PM
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What kind of tail? Bunny? Cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:48 PM
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Top tier bait, I'm impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:40 AM
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Haha those are amazing. I would’ve loved those as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:10 AM
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I collect Nick Cannons
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:27 PM
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Love it. Do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:25 PM
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Bwahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:24 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:44 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:29 PM
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Omw now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:44 PM
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Lame. Kick them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:42 PM
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On Grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:23 PM
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Hahaha awww
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:22 PM
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Be civil. You don’t have to agree, but don’t attack other members.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:21 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:21 AM
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The fuck I just see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:21 PM
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If a local strip club burns down that technically means there’s hot singles in your area. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:42 PM
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Thanks baby 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:39 AM
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That ain’t gonna stop some of them at all haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:59 PM
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If it’s funny or weird we both do. Otherwise I doubt it. No reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:49 PM
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I can do it too! At karaoke I’ll sing Rainbow Connection as him like every time. And if you can do him, you can do a good Ray Romano almost guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:48 PM
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Do you live in LA? I miss it sometimes, and others I enjoy moving three miles and it not being an exercise in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:46 PM
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Come to Cap Hill in Seattle. You’ll be swimming. The university LGBTQ crowd is hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:44 PM
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Ngl I was driving my friend’s Mercedes and the battery died, and I spent forever looking for it. It was in the trunk/boot. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:42 PM
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Well ok then 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:39 PM
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You changed your avi. I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:38 PM
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I mean, most women who are dating older are statistically in the four year range. Even assuming age gaps of ten to fifteen years a better comparison than a 20 year old and a 60 year old would be a 20 year old and a 30 or 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:37 PM
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Who’s downvoting you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:35 PM
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Relationships are important. So important that I work with them professionally. Seeing some younger people get taken down certain roads I see as destructive towards their future I have an interest in. I mean it would be better for me financially to not come here and hope a few of you live near me so I can be your relationship counselor when you do get into one, but nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:34 PM
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If you want to keep being allowed to post here, you should drop the “partially trolling” part. While debates can, and arguably should raise emotions, they should be done, in this sub, on some semblance of good faith. Not going to remove the comment or post, but further “I’m just trolling” comments will lead to a temp or permanent vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:33 PM
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Do not provide contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:52 PM
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Do not provide contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:23 PM
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Gotta be a troll. He’s being just so dismissive of advice and just wants to wallow in a pity party.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:40 AM
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Do not provide contentless rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:40 AM
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I’ll take a little boring right now honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:33 AM
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She removed them sometime last year, is my understanding, and people just noticed recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:14 AM
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Did writing it give you anxiety? It seems like it would be an interesting read for sure. I hope you end up being super happy with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:07 AM
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Yeah, that’s bizarre to me. But maybe it’s just a US thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:49 AM
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Sit on what? The cake? That’s silly. You’re silly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:40 AM
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<image> Dawww
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:27 AM
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I’m a 41 year old white male. Literally no one has vilified me for being older, white, or male. Where do you live that this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:48 PM
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Not unreasonable. Just unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:53 PM
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So, do “men” live in squalor until they meet a woman? No wonder they can’t. What women wants to date a baby? And miss me with “dur if the baby looks like Chad” lies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:05 PM
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Hey, if you’d rather take a vacation because you can’t control yourself like a child can, just let me know, ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:53 PM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:26 AM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:26 AM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:25 AM
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Just a reminder that some of us cucky male mods care more about this sub getting banned than we do personal feelings of a few people. Not even saying it’s you that’s a problem. But admins don’t fuck around. And we kinda like you all, even if we don’t always agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:22 AM
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<image> I…I have to shop here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:20 AM
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“Mmm, yes Stacy, I too love humans. And isn’t the caviar divine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:20 AM
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Rain. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:19 AM
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Hahaha I just watched that a few weeks ago. Still holds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:12 AM
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Always
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:56 AM
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You know what that says to me? Memorable. Lol I’m sorry, because if you’re actually upset I don’t want to make light of it. But that sounds like a hilarious story to tell someone one day. Also happy birthday, tiny one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:49 AM
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Me: “YOU CAN ALWAYS PAINT THE FUCKING WALLS, ANNA!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:45 AM
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Watching Tiny House Hunters, and there’s always one of the two people looking who obviously just hates everything about whatever stick up the ass caused their partner to want to give up their whole life and live in a closet. And they’re always SHOCKED when there’s a washer and dryer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:40 AM
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The “I’m working on my art/project” ponytail and dressed down look, maybe with some sweat stains. Shut up I’m allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:35 AM
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That TikTok lumber jack 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:33 AM
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I love Frazier. Every episode is a play.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:12 AM
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What’s an old ass sitcom? We talking I Love Lucy or Friends or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:06 AM
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You should see the tattoos on my past partners lol. I walk the walk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:22 AM
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Alternative. Tattoos and piercings. Changing hair color. Comfortable in overalls or evening gowns/suits (depending on gender identity). I typically like artists, actresses, writers, musicians, etc. The type that repulse a lot of red pill men it seems 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:09 AM
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Megan Fox comes to mind. Like Transformers. Jennifer’s Body, era. I thought she was gorgeous, but I had no interest in her, and wouldn’t have approached her if the opportunity ever came up. Just not my type or vibe. Objectively attractive, but not attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:46 AM
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🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:42 AM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:01 AM
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No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:52 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:33 PM
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Your comment was removed for cope spam. Try not to just use this word here ad a gotcha catch all. It adds nothing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:41 PM
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Be civil. Continued direct attacks at other members will result in a temporary up to a permanent vacation from the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:38 PM
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I personally like holding hands and singing with all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:36 PM
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Be civil, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:32 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:50 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:50 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:38 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:11 AM
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Be civil. And stop ban evading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:52 PM
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What does Kamala Harris have to do with drafts in other countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:36 PM
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Breaking Reddit TOS - If you continue to break Reddit’s site wide rules re: gender identity you will be getting a neat vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:30 PM
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What draft? It hasn’t existed in 50 years? Do you even know anyone old enough to have been drafted?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:19 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:52 PM
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Omegle is probably the site. But I don’t know who the influencer is, unfortunately. But that sounds amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:26 PM
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I trust the facts of the people who were interviewed after they voted. They didn’t mention “muh male loneliness epidemic and females don’t like my peepee and scary trans use my bathroom.” I trust those people who said they didn’t like the direction of the economy, and voted that way. You’re coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:10 PM
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Economy was number one in almost every exit poll. Abortion was around 10-15% and still passed in almost all states it was able to pass in. Identity politics wasn’t in the radar in any meaningful numbers for any large demo. The idea that feminism, “wokeism”, gender issues or anything like that has any kind of meaningful impact is incredibly ignorant of facts. I thought you all liked facts? The dems ran a shit candidate, and Biden was already an average and boring figure. A woman can and will win …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:32 PM
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Publicly stating you feel lucky is being a simp. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:09 PM
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Loving your wife and feeling lucky is being a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:55 PM
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Just friends. She found someone a week later much more her type and they’ve been married for like 15 years now. Just wasn’t meant to be 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:04 PM
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I asked a girl out when we were both drunk and she said yes. We end up keeping the date, even though texting felt like both of us weren’t interested. At dinner she ordered fish, which I thought for sure was a sign there would be no second date, because fishy breath. And the conversation was…not happening. At the end of the night I walk her to her car, and she asks if I want to come to her place, and then leans in to kiss me. I put my hand up instead in a panic and she gave me the most awkward “w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:46 PM
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I believe you and 😒 “Hating things make us superior” is a cringe take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:59 PM
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I mean, sure those things have a big effect. I just meant for us pleebs who aren’t lobbyists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:58 PM
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Problem with 50 states setting 50 different sets of rules
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:57 PM
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I agree about the protest thing. Voting is great and all, and obviously 100% peaceful, but a good protest and march is where it’s at (politically speaking).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:38 PM
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Anti pet people are almost as bad. Just don’t have a dog and stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:21 PM
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No, no. That’s just when some states that are very red/blue get called by their expected exit polls. Connecticut will be blue and called early, shortly after polls close. Kentucky will be red and called early after polls closed, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:06 PM
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10-11 est is when we’ll have the first good look at the east coast. PA is the “biggest” state in play, so that will be worth to watch, but they notoriously don’t count all their early votes until after in-person votes, and early votes tend to lean left. So PA could be leaning red almost all night, then they start counting a majority blue votes, and that’s when the right wing people will start calling foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:04 PM
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8-9 pm EST is when polls will close for east coast states on the whole, and some states will likely be called immediately based on exit polling (these tend to be blue states in New England and red states in the south)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:41 PM
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Nope, I volunteer. You can donate the pay you make to a charity. But I should’ve clarified that yes you do get paid, just a lot of people volunteer on top
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:24 PM
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Working the polls this morning, for the fifth presidential election in a row. It’s basically just explaining how to use the ballots but this year we were all told to crack down on any political attire or posters/signs people bring with them. Like it’s always been that way, but had to pass a test by yesterday about what is and isn’t acceptable, and they’re definitely reminding us about “other country’s flags” a lot extra. Anyway. Love doing it. Maybe one day I’ll get to move up and count/recount …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:24 PM
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If they’re happy single rather than with men they’re not attracted to, then their standards aren’t delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:01 PM
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The majority of men are not single. Maybe in a specific age range they’re a slight majority, but that fades with age. The rest is just angry yelling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:15 PM
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Agree. Whole thing is fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:17 AM
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I saw (and verified) that there are no documented cases of squirrels giving rabies to humans, which makes this even more fucked up. Whoever called the police is awful, literally doing nothing (morally/ethically) wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:58 AM
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That squirrel did nothing wrong. My heart breaks for the people there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 AM
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I am an atheist now, but I miss the community aspect of church. Feeling that I belonged. Having friends just there every week in Sunday school. Youth group. Small groups. Lots of friends and meeting new people all the time. It’s the only aspect I miss of religion. It was such a good third space
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:49 PM
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Omfg 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:32 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:28 PM
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You could get an enema kit from a drug store, no meds needed. Just gotta live in the bathroom for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:27 PM
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I don’t see how they can be healthy and happy in that environment. Are the parents angry at birth control for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:26 PM
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With cute lighters so easily available as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:24 PM
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Coffee helps sometimes if you don’t have any meds around to assist. Also eat more fiber you punk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:20 PM
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I’d want to know why they had no friends, for certain. It’s a red flag to me if someone has only known/dated assholes their whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:19 PM
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If I were their kids I’d be going to get emancipated over the bathroom situation alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:17 PM
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Kids start smoking so young these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:14 PM
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Physically I tend to date skinny, taller people. Hair color, eyes, etc have all varied. But skinny and taller is what everyone in the past (and present) would have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:13 PM
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You’re always out of control 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 10:43 PM
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Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:46 PM
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I try not to but I am very guilty of eating fast. Don’t know where it came from, neither of my parents do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:37 PM
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I had a dog kinda like that. I would have people play dead and he would finally come up to them and see what was going on 😂 I hope you’re both having a good day, weather looks perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:22 PM
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She’s adorable! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:18 PM
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It absolutely is true for midterms. And it’s even worse in local elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:28 PM
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Yup. I know everyone is different, but I couldn’t be partnered with anyone who was apathetic to news and politics. Like my social circle is all about political discourse and action, and I couldn’t be friends who are just “meh, it’s whatever” to decisions that affect everyone around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:19 PM
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I’d respect him more than some guy that suffers in silence because of some warped sense of duty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:12 PM
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Telling people in potentially abusive relationships to “stick it out” is literally insane speak
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:00 PM
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Nah. Fuck that. I have one life to live with no sequel. I’m not going to be miserable just because past me made a decision
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:59 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:53 PM
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Some people just don’t really care. The majority of people in the states don’t even vote. They’re just watching Love is Blind season 7 and don’t even notice or care. A lot of people are apathetic to their own values, so they can get along with most people because they down the political stuff out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:44 PM
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Nice work, champ. Celebration time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:55 PM
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You're just trying to get a free shrimp cocktail, I'm onto you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:45 PM
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I wouldn’t be uncomfortable with my partner doing this, but in things that do make me uncomfortable we talk them out and try to get to the route of it. Same goes for her with me. So much of this could just be solved with a good heart to heart, rather than dude trying to put his foot down or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:08 PM
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Looks like it was “woe is me/black pill/incel content” I know they said they wanted to crack down on it more, so I imagine it was that, plus probably a last strike situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:54 PM
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Naw. I can tell if someone is into me and I don’t push or make extra effort for people not pushing or making extra effort for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:29 PM
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That’s actually a really intelligent realization. Thanks for sharing that, I’ll try and think of it handing stuff out tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:26 PM
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Sorry man. That’s a shit feeling, but I hope it gets straightened out and it’s nothing big in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:23 PM
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Getting them what? Flowers? 💐
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:46 PM
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Are they fertilized eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:20 PM
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You love to see it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:54 PM
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Nah. I think there’s just going to be some close counties leading to total recounts in battleground states. This election appears extremely close, and I don’t think either candidate is going to give up early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:19 PM
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I don’t think we’re going to know the winner for at least a week. It’s going to be a long fucking week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:48 PM
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Just put makeup on all the dudes who tell you this shit. Specifically clown makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:01 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:00 PM
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Point at them, yell their name, ask where the fuck is my $20, Carl?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:22 PM
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I think they and Hinder and Creed just represented the most generic shit that even your mom would love. It was/is easy to hate because so many mid people enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:20 PM
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I worship Joe Pesci
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:18 PM
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Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:15 PM
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waiting for doordash. got Ethiopian! Water is happening too. Thank you! Hope you had a fun night, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:52 PM
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I’m just dying at your comment. It is making me laugh and my head hurts but it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:49 PM
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lol I’ve always been skinny, but my hygiene during those days lacked a lot. Plus adderrall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:48 PM
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There’s a hangover. And then there’s this. I need a cocoon and a Time Machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:47 PM
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Go to the gym and hold him now to establish dominance for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:46 PM
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I got put on academic probation because of my WoW addiction when I was 22. I don’t like to talk about how many hours I sank into that game. It depresses me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:44 PM
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Already have a vasectomy, and she loves being off bc. It’s the good life, for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:40 PM
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3pm est. gonna tune in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:56 PM
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Hahaha this came up exactly like this yesterday. Always the kitchen table.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:45 PM
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Here’s a classic recipe for a creamy, cheesy hashbrown casserole! It’s a comforting side dish, perfect for breakfast or dinner gatherings. Ingredients • 1 (32 oz) bag frozen hashbrowns (shredded or cubed), thawed • 1 can (10.5 oz) cream of chicken soup (or cream of mushroom for a vegetarian option) • 1 cup sour cream • 1/2 cup melted butter • 2 cups shredded cheddar cheese • 1/2 cup chopped onion (optional) • Salt and pepper, to taste • 1 cup crushed cornflakes or crushed Ritz crackers (for topp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:38 PM
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lol every comment I’ve made. Ridiculous. Big toddler energy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:37 PM
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Thick French toast, please, with a sprinkle of cinnamon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:23 PM
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How was he not allowed to have his opinions? He has them. And he can find someone who shares them. Both will be much happier in the end. I could never date a woman (or man) who supported taking away rights from another group of people. Doesn’t mean I’m silencing anyone or forcing them to share my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:22 PM
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Is that were there’s a bunch of guys standing around and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:18 PM
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I think so. You were on your best behavior and deserve a gold star ⭐️ Edit: Downvoted for being positive to another human. Never change, reddit 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:18 PM
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What I’m taking away is that women sleep with 100% more people in their lives than men. Someone get me into politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:21 PM
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Ok 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:16 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re saying. I’ve dated two women in my life who have been the ones to cold approach. What do you mean they aren’t real?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:04 PM
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and decided to fuck the dating game “Jesus, Steven if you didn’t like the board game we were playing with the neighbors you just had to say so!” humping of shredded board and game pieces continues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:13 PM
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Fuck…I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:17 PM
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…so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:15 PM
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I mean you could be 20 and have slept with 40 people and not contract anything, and you could be 40 and a virgin who finally scores and get herpes from that one person and one time. Just always get checked and have your partner checked before fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:41 AM
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I’d follow her lead. I have had a step son before, fostered puppies and kittens, and my current pets are rescues. Love doesn’t come from genetics, it comes from the heart. “Muh legacy” means nothing to me, if that biological kid is a raging douche canoe of fire. And so maybe no one takes my last name. When I’m dead I’ll be dead and won’t be able to care. Means little to me. I already know I’ll never have genetic kids. Too old, and I’ve had the snip. But we may foster later on in life, and having…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:37 AM
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It looks like his chin and forehead are making an escape from the rest of his face and he hasn’t found a way to stop their migration patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:03 AM
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It is, you’re correct. Go to any grocery store and filet mignon cuts (from the tenderloin) have basically zero marbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:57 AM
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Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:49 AM
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Sean Evan’s from Hot Ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:49 AM
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That’s cool you know that! I assume my maternal ancestors just got really bored living in Nordic countries and the Vikings or something. Probably still had Vikings in the 1800s. I may be a little drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:28 AM
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Is that history of character why your ancestors were banished to kangaroo country? Are your parents and extended family hiding your true legacy from you in an attempt to to keep you from casting the most deadly spell of all: love? Also: nice. I’m sure you rock it and make other people wish they had chosen witch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:19 AM
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I know. Ugh. Their personality is as fake as their tan. Me and a group of friends went as all the evil exes from Scott Pilgrim: I went as ex number two (no)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:15 AM
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I’m ex number 2 (shush) from Scott Pilgrim. Me and a group of friends all went as one of her evil exes. We got some great pics together where it made sense but then people start spreading out more and more and the costume becomes less and less easy to explain 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:13 AM
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At a Halloween party and there’s two women dressed as Barbie and neither one of them are having it. Also someone wore the Palestinian flag like a dress and had a chain of small baby dolls attached to her leg and they were all bloody. Thankfully she had other engagements she had to go to. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:53 AM
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Every morning I come into the second bedroom I’ve allowed my partner to have and I kick a puppy while pointing at her. Her eyes turn to hearts and she follows me around in her ankle-length dress she bought on TikTok with the allowance I give to her when I’ve sold enough marijuana that the kids can smoke like a cigarette. She will then follow me around until I leave, cleaning and folding laundry as she does, of course. When I open the door to leave she will try to kiss me, but gets her lip poked …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:11 AM
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No I’m sending you to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:02 AM
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Real McCoy has my vote, as a former biker, fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:58 AM
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Haven’t heard help mate/meet in a long, long time. Damn. We really do come full circle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:55 AM
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lol you still mad at me?? I love his music and I’m not a forensic expert. Just hug it out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:16 AM
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Finger guns in the mirror and a glass of wine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:57 AM
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Some women walking around with secret milk and getting away with it like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:27 AM
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Love all this for you and him both. Makes my heart happy when others find that missing piece
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:01 PM
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Jealous. Sounds great. The hotel, not the haunted plantation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:43 PM
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The numbers at the bottom are probably the reason for that. Several dudes with triple digit numbers cancelling out all of the 0 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:38 PM
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Where was the 5-star from the 1800s? Unless that’s too personal to share. And I will have to look up Myrtle’s plantation, I sadly don’t know it. But yes to everything else. Partying and food. I’m unfortunately allergic to shellfish, but I’ll destroy some red beans and rice, a poboy, and some pralines. Mmm now I’m hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:29 PM
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That’s great you got some stuff planned. And I love NOLA. When I lived in STL I would drive down there for random trips (never Mardi Gras, not my jam, personally). Lots of history there, so would agree on doing that for sure. Congrats on the financial success and future apresonly experiences!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:22 PM
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Finally! Been waiting forever for this. Thanks for the write up as well. Also, make me a mod, cowards 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:19 PM
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I get that with the house. As soon as I bought one I found out that every problem is at least $1,000. You have a good head on your shoulders, but I would play devil on the shoulder and encourage you to travel if you have the opportunity. It’s such a good experience for the mind and heart. And stomach. Anyway, you don’t need unsolicited advice, either. But travel is so fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:04 PM
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Nice! Do you have a fun end goal? Vacation, car, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:55 PM
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Hopefully you don’t mean Sharp. I really like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:48 PM
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straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:22 PM
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I love that for you, truly. It really is a good feeling to find your person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:20 PM
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But for real it’s hard to read with this adorable furry fucker hanging around <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:19 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:17 PM
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You should flu away
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:13 PM
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Picking some up at the store later, you need anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:00 PM
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The thalassophobia sub is nightmare fuel for me. I can’t with it, and yet I can’t mute it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:59 PM
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I share that with my partner too. We both were slutty in college and we know it and joke about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:55 PM
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She had her baby two weeks ago, she just posted it like yesterday or day before. Sadly, I would agree with your wager, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:48 PM
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I refuse to play your game and set it on fire. There. Now no one can play.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:47 PM
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This reads like a Yogi Berra quote lol. In the best way. “Nobody goes there anymore, it’s too crowded.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:37 PM
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Oh, Sharp, you know only simps have platonic women friends /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:19 PM
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Ohhh, can you explain what gay culture and lifestyle are? I’m curious, as a bi man, what I might be missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:26 PM
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If I made a mistake I would want to know about it, personally. “Johnny, I think you missed a turn.” “Shit, did I? I thought this looked a little wrong. I’m sorry if we’re late, thanks for letting me know. “
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:51 PM
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Passport bros are just built different <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:24 PM
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Pretty much. Partner has a higher libido than me, but it’s not an issue. She just has “closet time” when I’m not in the mood. Much prefer to the alternative of once a week or worse, though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:49 PM
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Well, what is anyone going to do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:11 PM
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Not a realistic option, though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:01 AM
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Yes I know and support those laws. I also support transitioning before 18 if done under a doctor’s guidance. Do you have any science to show a more effective way of treating gender dysphoria? No? Thought so. “Woke mind virus” is a fun buzz phrase, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:41 AM
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My Stacy is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:43 PM
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You got this all planned. Sorry about the BIL, that would stress me, too. Don’t imagine you’ll post much while there but will be great to hear all about it when you’re back. So close!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:38 PM
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Every day I thank a different god that social media didn’t come out until I was in college
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:32 PM
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I would dress comfy and then change as soon as I landed in the airport bathroom. Unless they allow people to the gates there and people will see you as soon as you get off the plane. But that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:24 PM
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Mmm. Now I want a latte
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:14 PM
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Age gaps, in my opinion, only applies to younger people who are like 18-28. A 30 year old dating a 45 year old isn’t a big deal to me. A 20 year old dating a 35 year old is gross to me. And they won’t hear it from me in person. I’ll just raise an eyebrow and nudge my partner so we can judge them together over lunch. 🥗
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:07 PM
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How do you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:00 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:57 PM
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No idea who they are, but they look good together. I don’t really get the “looksmatch” thing, but…sure? lol as long as they’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:55 PM
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Nice. I just saw your other post with the sunrise had some 18 wheelers and was curious 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:31 PM
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I am. I’m often mistaken for “full gay” when I’m “just bi.” I’ve mentioned this before, but the social circles I hang in are probably different from “average” people as well. More artsy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:27 PM
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Are you a trucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:11 PM
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I mean call them out all you want. Just don’t expect it to change anything. And if it won’t change anything, I guess don’t see the point. But knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:42 AM
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I’m so glad I’ve never been friends or dated any women with this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:38 AM
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Well, only people with zero knowledge of how trans medical care and therapy works would say something like this, so pretty sure you would’ve been safe no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:37 AM
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“Girl power” is all about having the option to have a trad life, as well as the option to divorce a douchebag and focus on your own career. It’s all choice. You having the choice to get a trad wedding is because of girl power.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:28 AM
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In my experience we’re all the same, basic people. We just learn, and with that knowledge often comes hesitance. Not willing to jump into things you might’ve before, because you’ve been burned before. I think people also just calm down. Hormones aren’t the driving force. Clubbing is replaced with wine bars or house parties, now that people have houses, or at least apartments that aren’t all IKEA. But the basics stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:53 AM
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Aww. This is ridiculously cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:49 AM
3

Especially you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:15 AM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:10 AM
3

I’m 41, but know I’m surrounded by people who could be my kids. I still like them, though. Lots of fun, good people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:10 AM
2

lol the best part of this is “plus a cute lighter” I’m rolling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:09 AM
4

Totally fine with that too lol 😂 I found my people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:04 AM
0

I volunteered, I’m in the US. If Ukrainian people don’t want to die for their country they shouldn’t be forced to. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:29 AM
2

I am a man. I served in the army, too. I don’t think the draft should exist for anyone, though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:23 AM
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I admit that they could’ve subconsciously felt that way. But upon meeting me it’s very obvious I’m effeminate and a pacifist. I’ve never been in any physical altercation, and can’t imagine hurting anyone or even yelling at someone. But I’ve never struggled with casual sex or finding partners. It’s probably just that my social circles are very progressive and artistic leaning. Outside of my dad, I don’t know anyone who would allow a gun into their home, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:14 AM
1

I love tattoos, and I love the people who hate them so I can have all of the leftie blue-haired tatt’d people to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:58 AM
4

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:55 AM
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Exactly. There will never be an argument or debate, here or anywhere, that will make people change what they’re attracted to. I think some people believe they can come up with the perfect argument and all the people who aren’t attracted to them will just say, “ah, I get what you’re saying! I’m now attracted to people I wasn’t before because your argument was so good!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:52 AM
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I’ve never dated any man or woman who wanted me to be a physical protector.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:44 AM
1

Hence saying “biological males.” Logan Brown is an example of a man who was pregnant, and I’m not discounting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:09 AM
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To be fair, outside of arguments online like this, I don’t see anyone making large, coordinated efforts to eliminate the draft for men. So men, on the whole, must largely be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:45 AM
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Biological males can’t get abortions, so why would they need a right to have one? The better and more accurate way to frame this is: what medical reproductive procedures are denied to men? Because vasectomies are not banned in any states, nor are their reversals. The way you’re framing it is like complaining men don’t get a free annual mammogram. Of course they don’t. And it would be silly to fight for them to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:42 AM
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Are feminists, in your opinion, fighting to keep the draft for men only? From what I’ve seen most tend to agree the draft should just fully be abolished, even though it hasn’t existed for 50+years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:37 AM
1

lol fair. try and have the best day today!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:40 PM
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Yeah, I think this would be the simplest way to say it. A lack of respecting boundaries and social convention makes you a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:31 PM
1

Oh I knew it as soon as I hovered over it. It was well played
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:26 PM
1

I win! Happy cake day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:22 PM
1

Fair. Valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:12 PM
1

Your reply to him though had me cackling though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:54 PM
2

True. Any amount of fecal matter is unwelcomed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:52 PM
2

I think it was more like just a poo mist rather than a shit storm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:32 PM
1

That’s why I only go out in public with my stilts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:28 PM
2

Same for me. Work in healthcare, and had to use the last of my vacation time cuz we can’t use pto during 4th quarter after November. I’m gonna die when I get back for three months
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:27 PM
1

Maybe they speak French?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:33 AM
0

Which one? I see a couple newish people dropped multiple posts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:23 AM
1

You wake up out of control today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:23 AM
1

He’s hot. Like just my type for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:26 AM
2

Omfg I totally remember that guy. This was like a year ago or so? I can’t remember his name, but he had some wild fucking takes and revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:25 AM
1

Never underestimate misery loving company.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:32 AM
2

When are the results of the survey going to be posted?? I demand to take self-reported data on one sub as factual information across all genders everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:32 AM
1

Hopefully just a passing drizzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:30 AM
2

I totally get that. Being protective of our emotional energy (let alone physical wealth) is so important. When I finally found my current partner I was on high alert with all the hairs standing up on my neck, looking for signs. I hope you get a crack at your relationship goals, though. But also don’t blame you for being vigilant about selection at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:02 AM
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Would you say the three of them dropped it after a similar time frame, or were all three different? I only ask because when I experienced it myself, it was a full year and a half into the relationship. Like just enough time to experience all the major holidays together, and then the facade started to wipe away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:44 AM
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This was my experience in my last, previous relationship. I was working full time, she didn’t have a job. I was coming home and cooking and cleaning, she was playing Overwatch and getting high. It was fine at first, because she legit had some health problems. But when she started to refuse or procrastinate her own healthcare from doctors and therapists, I totally checked out. She would come looking for sex, but I was so unattracted to her after almost a year of this type of thing, and multiple d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:40 AM
5

Yes. A true mystery 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:33 AM
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It’s not my life, so my investment is minimal. I just think it’s sad, as an outsider looking in. If they’re happier, cool. I personally would rather be single than date someone shitty. But that’s my life, and the only one I control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:33 AM
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In your most recent post I found it interesting how some men openly admit that their options are so sparse that they’d rather date shitty women rather than be alone. The thinking seems to be that the average woman can choose from ten guys who are interested in her, and most women would choose the hottest guy, even if he’s an asshole. The hot guy has the halo effect in full force, and can get away with being shitty. It makes sense to some of these men for women to not go after the guys benefiting…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:18 AM
1

I’m gonna be sick 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:10 AM
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I’d just stop doing that kink. Kinks are fun, but I don’t need them to get off. And someone actively not wanting or enjoying something enthusiastically is a huge turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:24 AM
1

And when did everyone stop kung fu fighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:00 AM
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I’m in Seattle now, and Seattle dogs are disgusting abominations of mankind. Fucking cream cheese on a hot dog? This city needs to burn for allowing it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:10 AM
1

Sadly, facts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:09 AM
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I know in my youth if someone was getting a lot of attention that made me want them, even if nothing else about them was interesting to me. Grew out of that shit pretty quickly though. It was more of a young thing, like ooga booga brain. I think I was still figuring out what I want as my own person, but until I figured that out I just “trusted” that what others were seeing was what I should be wanting as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:07 AM
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My experience in the field is that a lot of men want therapists to give them answers and a to-do list for how to fix their issues. Which isn’t how a lot of therapy works. Therapists want you to self-discover and come to realize things on your own through guided conversations. You’re often meant to come up with solutions yourself, once you realize the root issues. Getting to those root issues is key. But a lot of men want to come in, sit down, say “I’m depressed and sad, give me a list of things …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:57 AM
1

Mmm now I want a Dodger dog. It’s been years and that’s all I can think of now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:40 AM
2

I bring this up anytime standards are mentioned, but I know my standards have only increased with age, not decreased. I would’ve hooked up or dated a lot of people in my 20s, but after learning about men and women inside of relationships, my standards just continued to increase. Recognizing toxic behaviors, realizing it was better to be single and alone for months, if not longer, rather than settle. I feel bad for the men and women who are so anxious to get into a relationship, or have sex, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:10 AM
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Men should have higher standards and be called out for trying to get their dick wet from just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:46 PM
2

“Experiments”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:44 PM
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Sincerely appreciate you writing this. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:23 PM
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I appreciate both your responses, sincerely. It was/is probably very much the environment of how I was raised. But just curious if it was "just me" or if it extends to others. I'd have no issues with a male babysitter. But would most women? Would most men? And how can we change that, if not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:11 AM
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I should just make a post of this instead of ranting here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:01 AM
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What's interesting to me is that the stigma drops the older the kids get. Young kids...why do you (as a male) want to be around them? But when you get to high school, and especially college, the stigma drops off so much. Like the ratio of female teachers in grade school was like 9:1 and in undergrad it was pretty even, then my grad school it was almost the full reverse. And, again, I get it. I do. And I don't want to just slam on straight men or anything, but I have to believe they are an even p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:57 AM
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I rarely make top posts here, but just thinking out loud: You know what sucked as a teenager...that as a male I couldn't babysit kids. No one wanted a 16-18 year old male watching their kids. And I get it. I know the risks. But even as a 16 year old male, I just loved watching kids play, and I loved my babysitters, and wanted to be like them. But my parents told me that no parents were going to let a teenage boy watch their young kids. And man, that sucked. I know in my heart I wouldn't have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:48 AM
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November. At least in my American college experience. You give the people who are moving off-campus or to their own places time to figure it out, and don't screw yourself either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:41 AM
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Totally fair. Smoking is how I gained friends in college. Mind you, I’m much older than most here (41) but long classes in college had smoke breaks and I smoked only so I could have ten minutes more with all those who smoked. It was a social thing for me, and seeing the people who threw caution to the wind just a tiny bit. I get it, and appreciate your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:32 AM
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Again, I know there are selfish people who are jealous of their better looking friends. But I refuse to believe that most people are so selfish they’d cockblock someone rather than just look out for them. Look, it’s not “game over.” It’s “try again”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:30 AM
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So I read your list the other day, and know you smoke, and have an aversion to vape, and prefer the real thing. You obviously know the risks of smoking, so what do you think is the reason that cigarettes pulls you in? Not a trick question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:26 AM
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I agree. Plus, what better ego boost than to be the person who someone wakes up to, sobers up, has some eggs and toast and is like, “ohhh, but what about that guy…” How fucking flattering is that. For someone to sober up and to want to text you. Best high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:22 AM
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Nora Ephron, though. I love her movies. But she knows the tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:19 AM
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Yup. It isn’t a “white knight” move to make sure someone gets home safe. And us men should be looking out for our drunk brothers as well. Are there probably some people with ill intentions who are jealous? Yeah. Honestly. Yeah. But if you made a connection, they’ll be there with your number in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:09 AM
2

your comment reminded me of an ex’s favorite song
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:03 AM
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Totally fair. Doesn’t make you lesser or the people who enjoy it better. In my experience, theater kids stick together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:00 AM
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What’s a style reveal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:59 AM
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I don’t believe in cockblocking. If she (or he) wants you, they’ll push for you. I remember hitting on a woman and her friend intervened and said “she’s wasted.” There was literally no ego hit. No problem. “Get her home safe, you guys need money for a cab?” “Nope” Went home and watched YTMND. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:58 AM
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Theater and poetry are useless…to men and women who don’t like it. I’ve hung around people in those circles for twenty years now, and the people who love it, love it. But the people who aren’t impressed, will never be impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:52 AM
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Literally nothing against those that do this. Am grateful. But I have the worst gag reflex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:21 AM
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I’ve had some women’s comments removed for anti-trans reasons, so I know at least that seems universal. Those are usually handled by admins rather than mods in my experience though. Don’t know about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:21 AM
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It’s implied
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:51 AM
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Putting tiaras on each other in the morning, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:34 AM
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<image> Welp. That ego checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:42 AM
2

“Me too! Who do you think took the bigger cock? I can barely walk straight.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:33 AM
1

Honestly don’t know how anyone does a job involving sewage. I would spend every day vomiting nonstop until I was fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:31 AM
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😍😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:28 AM
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I don’t know where this idea is coming from, other than apparently one reddit thread? Almost all my best friends are women. That’s how it’s been with me since I was a teenager. Just always had women besties and that’s continued for decades now. My male best friends are, with one exception, gay, too. I just never really clicked on a deeper level with many straight men. I’m sure there are exceptions, but I don’t like to do or discuss a lot of topics that stereotypically go with them. Never had a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:30 PM
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I mean if people want to give me and my partner a reason to hang out more by ourselves and save money from going out with people who will hate on one of us, that’s a bonus. We both have no problem dropping toxic people from our lives. And neither of us believe in leagues or rating people 1-10, or any shit like that. We both think that’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:27 AM
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wtf is this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:21 AM
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No one is jealous or worried about passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:16 AM
3

Stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:28 AM
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My eyes and my eyebrows. I’ve been told my eyebrows have their own personality. My sense of humor. I love making others laugh. My natural lack of body hair, except on my face and head. I know some people love body hair on men, but I can’t stand it, so not having to shave or trim like at all is such a great thing. My chest looks nice when it’s tanned. I have smooth skin. I remember everything. Especially small details.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:09 AM
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Some women trauma dump on men, too, and men are more likely to tolerate it rather than women who will more often tell their partner to go to therapy. A lot of men will often times accept their partner trauma dumping because they worry if they don’t let their partner trauma dump they’ll soon be single again. So they act as emotional doormats instead of standing up for themselves and telling their partner that it’s unfair to dump on them, and go to a therapist instead. Women call out trauma dumpin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:26 AM
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That’s neat you pick the unborn life. But as a male you have no say, so your pick ultimately doesn’t matter. I mean I can pick myself to be given a million dollars, but it’s ultimately not my decisions to make, so my pick doesn’t matter there, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:19 AM
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That would be hard to answer. Overeating can be a sign of a lot of different issues, but weight gain could be pharmaceutical related as well. Which wouldn’t really be my business so early on to ask about or pry into. I would pay attention to signals or signs, but I would be hesitant to continue dating, honestly. Not even just because of the weight gain, but because of how often depression and body image issues follow along with it, and seeing those things early on would probably be a flag for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:16 AM
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…his coffee and pastry? wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:21 PM
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If anything men should have higher standards and learn to be happy and content alone if no one meets their standards. I’d never, ever lower mine. In fact the list and criteria has only grown as I’ve aged. And I’ve always found someone who meets or exceeds those standards, no matter how high they’ve gotten. Some men in their early 20s declaring “it’s over” is just ridiculous to me. You haven’t even started, and you’re giving up and blaming women for it? Jesus Christ, grow up. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:28 PM
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Are you looking to get a ban so quickly after being back?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:35 PM
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Part of my professional life revolves around relationships, so I am always interested in seeing how people approach them. I also like to talk about my own experiences, especially when they don't align with what some people view as universal facts about men. Lastly: It's kinda fascinating seeing some younger people thinking they got all the answers, when you know they haven't even started living life yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:30 AM
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I bought a house about a decade ago with a woman I was dating, but we never married. Worst thing on earth. Still feel the echos of that mistake years after we broke up, even though we’re no-contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:05 AM
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Confidently incorrect is a whole vibe as well. And annoying as fuck to deal with in-person. Someone so sure they’re liked. Or that they know more. People insisting the wrong actor was in a movie you’ve seen a hundred times, and even if you show them a google search they’ll say even google can be wrong. Confidence isn’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:42 AM
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My dad told me to never put more work in than your partner. Not that there won’t be times when one of you is struggling and the other should pick up the slack, but just in general both partners should be making the same amount of effort to make sure the relationship stays healthy and succeeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:53 AM
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Not about consent. I know (hope) she is consenting. But she doesn’t actually desire me. I could be anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:53 AM
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I’ve thought about this, and I don’t know if I’d be able to get it up for an AI sex robot, or immersive holodeck. Like, a lot of the joy of sex for me is mutual desire. Both wanting each other, when we could be with any number of other people. But me and her are choosing each other, mutually want each other, and know we care about each other. I don’t know if I’d be able to get, let alone stay aroused for a program that by its very nature is “forced” to like me and be into me. Like, it has no fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:51 AM
1

That’s a lot of empty Gatorade bottles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:45 AM
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Spam is so good, my god. I made spam musubi last week and I am still craving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:44 AM
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Aries. But I apparently don’t fit any of the stereotypes of that sign. Which is fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:28 AM
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Safe travels, sir. Enjoy it all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:26 AM
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Just get some at the 7/11 there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:24 AM
1

Saw this. I wish I could leave that sub, but their takes are so bad I can’t help but keep scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:10 AM
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I gotchu. You’re gonna have lots more to post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:25 AM
1

When I opened the results all of my dead ancestors floated out of the envelope and slapped me in the face, saying, “boy, you know you’re pasty,” and then we went for schnitzel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:10 AM
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Don’t forget him swaying in his fully loaded depends to November Rain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:53 AM
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Boeing’s are made down the road from me, I’ll put in a good word for you on your journey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:48 AM
1

Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:23 AM
1

He’s a man. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:17 AM
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Having you and your partner both being switches is ideal for me. And that extends beyond the bedroom. We have a pretty close 50/50 push and pull for who is the boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:51 PM
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Are you intentionally misgendering someone? Like for funsies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:41 PM
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I know an acquaintance on there who has an average social following. She got on there because she knew someone who referred her. Apparently the referral is the biggest thing. You still need to have some clout, but being referred by someone with lots of clout is even more important. All about who you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:09 AM
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/r/ tragedeigh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:04 AM
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This is close to the kind of camping we do now that we’re older. I love cooking one-pan dinners over a fire but still having some creature comforts. Might get a camper van in the next year or so for adventures here in Washington/PNW. Get away and still have AC and a fridge 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:58 AM
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Yeah, this. Like in the US if declining birth rates are an issue, then just let in all the illegals to replace the white people choosing not to have babies. Make all the illegals citizens overnight so they can pay into social security and Medicare from week one. “No, not like that! The color is…all wrong!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:17 AM
3

What in the conspiracy….
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:00 AM
0

The overwhelming majority of men are getting laid. We just hear the most from the 20% or so who aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:44 PM
3

What can be stated without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:35 PM
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Again, I don’t really regret it, because I am who I am with all those experiences. And I like who I am. I just don’t really reflect on those one night stands. Like I’ve never wanted to look them up on social media or anything and see where they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:01 PM
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I was desirable in my 20s, and dated and/or hooked up a bunch. I don’t regret it now, but I also know I didn’t get much out of it. The reason being is that I rarely, if ever think about the people I just hooked up with. Like I remember the fwb situationships fondly, because I truly cared about those people, we just weren’t meant to date. But the ons and hookups with people at parties? I never think about them, so they honestly might as well not have happened. And I imagine it’s mutual. Like 15-2…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:21 PM
1

I love it as a hobby. The only thing about it is that now everyone gets me Legos for Christmas and my birthday, and I’m like “y’all know I like other things too, right?” “No. Lego.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:16 AM
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<image> On the web browser (not on mobile) it's located on the right side under "user flair" I don't see an option on mobile browser, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:00 AM
-1

No, you can do it in the web browser as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:53 AM
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I enjoy it, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:34 AM
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<image> Things I need: better cable control, a frame for the print, and a bigger case for my Legos. Or: stop buying Legos (lol nah). I’ve been in our new condo for 6 months now and still haven’t finished my office, meanwhile her studio room is fucking pristine. I’m losing the competition I didn’t know we were having.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:26 AM
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On the mobile app go to the main page of the sub and tap the “…” button in the top right, and the second option should be for setting your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:14 AM
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I mean I wouldn’t date someone without intelligence, but I honestly have no idea what “status” means in this context. Like my friend and social groups go from high six figures working for Amazon to barely scrapping by while painting for Etsy sales. There’s more women earning more than their male partners than vice versa, in fact. And I can’t imagine not bringing my partner around because they’re in someone else’s perceived notion of being in a lower “status.” I’m sure some men and women care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:30 AM
9

“Haha, let’s get another round of drinks. You’re so cute and funny. That reminds me of this joke. So a horse walks into a bar and the bartender says, ‘what’s the overall valuation of your stock portfolio, Richard?’”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:30 AM
5

Literally first thing I thought. I would never bring up how much I make in a conversation with a stranger. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:48 AM
1

I was home schooled and had very religious parents. As soon as I got a job at 15 I started drinking and getting high off anything I could smoke or sniff. Only lasted a couple years, and I’m lucky I don’t have an addictive personality. I just wanted friends so badly after so much isolation because of home schooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:43 PM
34

Don’t know why this simple concept can’t just hit home for some people. You’re allowed your standards. I’m allowed my opinion of your standards. You’re free to tell me to shove my opinion up my ass. 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:38 PM
0

For a hookup, sure. It would take me weeks to know if they’re actually compatible for a relationship. Religion. Politics. Dating history. Family life. Views on children. Meeting their friends. Etc, etc. I can know if I want to know more in only 5 minutes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:57 AM
3

This reminded me of this time at a party when I was in my mid-20s, and I was talking with this girl. She went to go get a drink and her bf comes up and says, “are you hitting on my gf?” “No, just talking.” “Why are you talking to her?” “She seemed interesting?” “Oh yeah? What’s so interesting about her?” Like bruh, you don’t think your gf is interesting? That’s a skill issue. I just shrugged and walked away and he just kept glaring at me the rest of the party, which made me giggle a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:21 AM
1

Same. I’m the one that cleans the bathrooms, so I don’t want more work for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:17 AM
6

As you said in another comment chain, it’s “the other thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:35 PM
7

I think it’s dangerous as well, because it leads to the thinking, “if ex got this, I deserve this as well.” That is a deranged way of looking at it, not just as relationships are concerned, but humans in general. We grow. We learn. We evolve. What worked previously is inconsequential. It’s what works now that matters. Grow up. Edit: I remember arguing with a guy here once, where his ex opened up about she used to like being choked and spanked during sex, but she didn’t enjoy it anymore, and he f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:18 PM
6

There are no sexual needs. Only wants. Anyone telling you otherwise, including yourself, is a grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:45 PM
7

Agree. This insecurity isn’t just a red flag, it’s a tsunami.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:39 PM
2

It seems to be the numbers thing to a lot of guys. They get two likes a month. Then see this Chad-bait post get 800 likes in a few days or whatever. And they lose their minds. Like I would never date any of the 800 people who liked a profile that wrote pedo/abuse shit in the profile. So those 800 people mean literally nothing. I might as well have zero likes, because the interest of awful people means nothing to me. Some guys just get upset about the numbers. But if you’re willing to fuck, let a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:33 AM
-1

That’s something that is bizarre to me, too. Not trying to be graphic or overshare, but I cannot get turned on unless my partner is showing she’s equally turned on. Sometimes we’ll start and one of us realize the other one isn’t really into it, and it’s always, always ok. We’ll kiss and turn on the tv or whatever. There’s nothing fun about having sex (to me) unless the person is enthusiastic about it. And yeah, “the other thing” is just awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:04 PM
1

Yeah, I’m going to be shocked if we don’t see a huge push for ending no fault divorce soon. It’s already being pushed some places. Then you just get a mail order bride from your local human trafficker, and boom: wife slave for life. lol I want off whatever ride these people want us to be on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:54 PM
0

In the past those men couldn’t all talk to each other like they can today, and that socialization led to a bunch of angry young men coming together and somehow not accomplish anything but get more angry. You’d think the chance to come together would lead to some kind of peace in the knowledge they’re not alone, and that their experiences and emotions are valid. But instead they continue to just be angry at women and use social media to complain about them. Sad, honestly. Waste of an opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:18 PM
3

All the women I know with tattoos are more than happy that some men find them unattractive or trashy. Makes filtering easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:31 PM
4

You’re totally ok to want that. Absolutely. Me and my female partner love each other being slutty in our past. It was a bonding experience. But people wanting low N count is absolutely ok. Have whatever standards you wish. Just don’t shame others for differing (and I’m not saying or implying you did)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:05 AM
2

I’m not sure women have the upper hand. If a man has standards he’ll filter out just as many women as a woman would with men. Thirsty dudes and desperate dudes are only doing themselves a disservice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:26 PM
4

Why would you settle? I’d rather be alone the rest of my life than settle. What an awful thing to do, not just to yourself, but to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:24 PM
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You and me both know what this question is. Good on you for at least trying. Also Duke Nukem better suited you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:53 AM
-4

So prove the evidence. Not anecodtal. Not some TikTok or YouTube star. Prove redpill is right. But you can't. "Cuz women lie" Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:35 AM
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The point is you have to have evidence to prove a point. The red pill has no evidence. Never has. Never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:33 AM
-4

You’d have to believe that the concept of “looks match” matters to most humans
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:22 PM
-4

They didn’t specify looks, but it no doubt factored in. They were talking about a party, and not a club, so basing on that premise: Maybe there’s a dude with stains on an old tshirt. Maybe there’s a dude smoking. Maybe there’s a dude talking about drug use. Maybe there’s a guy talking about religion. Maybe there’s a guy droning on about his work. Maybe there’s a guy with awful BO and rancid breath. A lot of those things may make a man (or woman) less attractive. And that says nothing of physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:20 PM
5

I honestly only find conflicting ideas about pink pill, so I don’t think I can really help, sorry, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:56 PM
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I think the argument being being made is that blue pill is the atheism of red pill’s religion. Red pill is a set of beliefs, and blue pill is simply denying they exist, not espousing beliefs of their own. Like if I said “I don’t believe god is real,” I don’t have to submit proof, because the burden of proof is on the one making the claim that he is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:40 PM
-1

Totally was! Wanted just a little more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:20 AM
-1

Yeah I think the taboo has always been a kink, and being gay is still (sadly) taboo to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:04 AM
5

I’m a bi male as well, and I’ve had female partners totally get off to me describing past sexual encounters with other males. I personally think it’s because it’s taboo, and something that will never happen. Like the idea that it’s impossible they’ll ever be involved. The Netflix show Sense 8 had a scene where a woman just got off watching two gay men fuck, even though she wasn’t a real part of it, which makes me think (based on the creators/writers) this might be a queer thing, but I have no pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:03 AM
0

Been happy in a relationship with one for years, and all my best friends are women. You’ll have to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:22 PM
0

Lol? From your own link women were the perpetrator 1 out of 12 times (not far off from my 1 out of 13 stat) and were FAR less likely to do physical damage. Do you know how statistics work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:35 PM
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Literally lies. 1 out of 13 men experience abuse by women, compared to 1 out of 4 women experiencing abuse by men Try again, and link your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:42 PM
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Not worried what a 28 day old account thinks, m’lord
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:36 PM
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I’ll just call you a liar and send a screenshot to my partner, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:42 PM
0

No, I don't believe random shit online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:14 PM
1

Him saying that is not proof. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:13 PM
1

So...no proof. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:10 PM
-3

Weird guys like me keep getting partners. Bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:06 PM
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Ok, babe :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:05 PM
-1

Same thing I said to you in my other comment: So, no proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:59 PM
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So, no proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:58 PM
1

Just pulling you leg. Thank you for your takes and good-faith arguments. Sorry if you took it any other way, because it wasn’t meant or implied
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:41 PM
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Whatever makes you sleep better, babe 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:40 PM
1

Sorry, baby. I’ll try harder next time I promise 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:30 PM
-3

Not screaming, sweety And, no, I’m not going to believe revenge fantasy I read online
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:29 PM
-2

No proof. I already got it, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:24 PM
1

Also: prove it's higher, baby :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:16 PM
0

https://scholarship.law.tamu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2065&context=facscholar#:\~:text=It%20is%20popularly%20believed%20that,children%20who%20are%20not%20theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:15 PM
0

Yes. It must be a conspiracy. Fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:14 PM
-5

So no proof? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:10 PM
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Provide proof it happened. Or else shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:09 PM
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I've known women (and men) who are drawn towards the 'bad boy' stereotype, but they are neither a majority of people I know, nor people I've befriended, let alone dated. If anything they're young people who have sadly not dated much, and 'needed' to FAFO to get it out of their system. Like at 21, when I started dating, I absolutely knew asshole men who got dates. By 30 that shit was totally out the window. And I'm sorry for any woman, or man, who has had to go through that 'phase' to get to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:19 PM
-1

Paternity fraud happens to (at the most) 3% of men. Physically abusive men are much more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:13 PM
-9

Women aren't sharing Chad, despite what RP men think, so I don't know where your data is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:08 PM
5

I literally cannot imagine having a mindset where morality doesn't matter in finding a partner. A fuckmate or something, sure, but morality has always played a factor in who I have chosen to date. For example: I would never date a conservative person. Their morals and mine simply do not align. A person who doesn't tip, or who treats people in the service industry as "lesser" wouldn't make my cut by a mile, regardless of how attractive they are. You can be a 10/10 looks person, but if your person…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:07 PM
2

I don't know, I've never been a 'bad boy' and have never struggled with getting with women (or men). I think it's certain women who are interested in that, but in my experience women have wanted humor and intellect over 'dark triad' bullshit. The women I've known who have gone for that bs have also been the type to play games, like hard-to-get, which I have no interest in pursuing. Maybe a lot of men have a type they shouldn't be going after?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:58 PM
1

I like your takes a lot, but the misuse of "then" rather than "than" makes me mad at you today. Also: I haven't had coffee yet, and I'm overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:53 PM
5

"More like 6 feet tall with 6 figure income and 6 pack abs amirite??" Brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:51 PM
4

Nah. Calling absolute bullshit on this. And if you let security at a bar photograph you, without permission, assuming any aspect of this is real, then you deserved it for not standing up for yourself and leaving on your own. This is the kind of revenge fantasy porn people write about but never have any proof of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:22 PM
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Murder is wrong, no matter who does it. It’s really as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:28 AM
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There is no male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:18 AM
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I like sex. That said, I don’t see other people as a means to getting it. That’s incel shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:58 AM
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The fact we allow capital punishment and have the highest per capita incarceration rate kinda backs it up, IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:27 AM
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Imagine this is your way of thinking and going through life. 90% of men aren't in relationships? GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:25 PM
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There is no solution. There is no answer. There is literally no red pill, blue pill or black pill advice that will work for most men, let alone all men. And THAT realization seems to piss some people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:31 PM
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So what if they’re spoiled and lash out? That’s only an example of someone you shouldn’t be involved with anyway. Bullet dodged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:29 PM
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Yeah, there’s this lie that gets passed around that “if only women acknowledged the struggle everything would be better.” But yet I’ve never, ever seen someone say, “thank you for saying men have it harder, I’m now happy and content.” Are some people really so fucking delusional that they think acknowledgment is going to improve their lives? No. They’re not that dumb. They just want additional ammunition, and THAT you do see here all the time. It’s never “thank you for seeing my pain” it’s alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:24 PM
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Dude, if most of the red pill men here would stop listening to advice from grifters, and stop pointing to social media via vids intended to piss them off as proof of “every woman is this!” then they’d be happier. They’d be happier if they had higher standards for relationships, and accepted loneliness as a fact of life instead of a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:20 PM
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I get accused of white knighting all the time, which is hilarious to me, considering I literally never contact anyone here and am not interested in anyone here, and am very happy in a relationship I mention often. Acknowledging the problems of women as a man takes literally the smallest bit of empathy, but unless you ride the “it’s all ogre for western men” dick train, some men here just don’t care what you have to say. They want an answer to questions that don’t have a universal one, and get pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:14 PM
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Poon 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:07 PM
4

Therapy does work for men. I'm a man and have benefited from therapy. I know lots of men who benefit from therapy. A lot of men choose not to believe it, when there is no medical evidence that men are immune to therapy. Only that they're adverse to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:33 AM
4

I'd wave a wand and make men not so adverse to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:04 PM
1

Then don't have sex with women. Problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:28 AM
1

1-3% of men, and I imagine they all have something in common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:26 AM
1

I have severe adhd. It hasn’t hurt me in the past with casual things, but absolutely hurt inside of relationships. Especially during periods in my 20s when I couldn’t afford or get health insurance (unironic thank you Obama for getting rid of preexisting conditions for coverage). Massive fights with multiple partners who just couldn’t understand why I couldn’t sit still, have a conversation about only one topic, look them in the eyes instead of anything moving in the background, etc. Getting som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:48 PM
1

Outside of some incel-adjacent places like SadPosting constantly spamming "you're not the father" vids, things like this just realistically don't happen in any meaningful numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:14 AM
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It's a misreading/misunderstanding of the data. Around 30% of people who got a paternity test (see: there was already doubt and/or accusations of cheating) turned out not to be the father. That is a far, FAR cry from "1/3 of men are possibly raising kids that aren't biologically there's." Here is an article explaining this BS that keeps getting spouted by manospehere podcasts and the like. The article is from 2010, and I've been hearing this same shit since at least 2004. The actual number of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:56 AM
14

He should probably seek therapy for whatever issues are driving his paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:51 AM
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Why would I, as a man, be having a child with someone I didn't fully trust? Like if it was a ONS and she got pregnant, yeah I'd ask for verification. But a partner? Fuck off with that. I'd deserved to get dumped on my ass for making such a wild accusation, and I'd never be fucking a partner I didn't fully trust (especially at this part in my life).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:50 AM
12

Not with some of their attitudes and feelings on women. Some dude in this very thread calling women “wet holes and meat.” Bruh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:04 PM
2

...race?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:59 AM
7

My partner makes more than me, but it doesn’t bother me or her. We divide home labor equally, and she knows that while I work hard, I work hard to be able to pay for the other things we enjoy (travel, shows, etc). We also split everything financially down the middle, and she spends (probably too much) getting me gifts and random things. It’s a pretty great set up, and we just work together. Communication is our biggest strength, and it either of us had an issue about the money either of us makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:25 AM
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Yikes. Imagining thinking this is true. I would be devastated if my partner wanted me to take this imaginary test. But I’d do it and mail the results from my new place with my new life. Literally would never have a relationship without full trust. Please don’t speak for anyone but yourself, especially if you’re going to make such asinine comments and pass them off as universal truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:11 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. Need better tier of bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:49 PM
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I’ve never dated or hooked up with women (or men) who valued masculinity at all. Which is good for me, because I don’t identify with almost any idea of masculinity. I mostly hang around artistic and queer circles, though. And yeah, like all of us work out and stay in shape, but none of us are conservative and/or macho. One woman on TikTok making rage bait doesn’t define women in this country by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:51 PM
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I love that this non-issue is such a big issue to the crazy conservatives. Keep frothing at the mouth over ten people in the whole world. You really seem sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:42 PM
3

Probably churches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:36 AM
11

I've been ghosted by some women after hooking up, and I don't know why they did. Because they ghosted lol. I don't think I'm Casanova, but I make sure both people at least finish. So it could be because I was a bad lay, but I'm more inclined to believe it's just because it was a ONS and they didn't want anything more. And...It never really bothered me? I don't know how it could, because I had like 1% emotional investment in them, and vice versa. Like, making out in a bar with someone you just me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:18 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. If you have a standard and don’t want to lower it, and you’re fine being alone if no one meets it, cool. I’d never lower my standards just to not be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:51 PM
1

Sounds like the problem is all these men who pump and dump women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:55 AM
3

What does “looksmatch” have to do with anything? People don’t date or mate based on that terminally online phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:46 AM
5

Well, thankfully you can’t “trans” children, so your made up bullshit doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:38 AM
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Well…why not? If things ended with my current partner I would rather be single the rest of my life than lower my standards just to not be single. I think some people who have never been in a relationship really can’t fathom how much worse it is to be in a bad relationship instead of being single with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:22 PM
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There is always risk in asking someone out. Especially if you’re cold-approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:09 PM
-4

But muh fisherman and fish narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 PM
-4

Which is it? Trophy husband or beta bucks cuck? Some of you can’t make up your mind about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:57 PM
1

Being social definitely makes you attractive to men and women. Why are you lying to others about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:31 PM
1

Mate, I’m bi and dated men exclusively for periods of my life, and experienced hate from others first hand. I’m still going to be here thinking age gaps are fucking creepy and weird, and still also a knowledge they’re legal. People don’t have to like or accept my sexual partners and I don’t have to like or accept theirs. Thankfully now hate against my group is protected. People in their 40s dating teenagers get no special protection. They should fight for their rights, I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:23 PM
0

I enjoy having sex with people, so I’ll continue not to lie to them in order to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:51 PM
2

I mean I was a virgin till I was almost 21 because I was homeschooled and raised religiously, so had like no social contact until I left home and went to college. I gave up that type of life and was very open about being a virgin. The first time I had sex was the most awkward and unrewarding thing for both of us. But it would’ve only been worse if I’d lied about my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:25 PM
-1

Women lie about the body count by default? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:17 PM
-5

Better shot at being a piece of shit who does whatever it takes to try and gain sex. That’s ridiculous and evil thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:09 PM
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No one owes you sex, so it doesn’t matter if no one will give it to you just because you haven’t had it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:01 PM
1

I mean they’re free not to care what others think. And others are free to think they’re weird and creepy. Freedom and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:44 PM
9

Just basing this off people I see in my work, where division of labor is a common talking point patients bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:45 AM
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I mean, assuming this is true, men don’t have to carry the kids, potentially give up their careers for a brief, extended, or forever period, and they traditionally aren’t expected to do much of the daily stuff with kids. Also, there’s probably some biology mixed in about passing on genetic legacy. I wouldn’t find these to be surprising at all, given the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:22 PM
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It’s been said kinda to death in this sub, but looks are important for getting past the first goalpost. If you’re not attractive to the person you want to attract you often times will never have a chance to show your personality and how your demeanor is won’t matter either. This is why even during the times I was single I rarely approached men or women at bars and the like. I didn’t want to be judged just on my appearance, and I didn’t want to try and start a relationship with someone just based…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:57 PM
3

I completely agree. Having higher standards only helps get better results. You just may not have more results. But I’ve turned down plenty of date requests from men and women in my past, because they didn’t make my cut. And I would always encourage people to just have high standards and not settle. Even if that means being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:34 PM
1

I’d be curious what objective statistics you’re using.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:51 PM
3

Sex doesn’t magically become non-degrading because two people signed a legal document, that’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:35 PM
1

I actually like that it’s easy to get a divorce. Like maybe not easy in the legal sense if you have substantial assets, but easy in that all anyone has to do is just file for divorce and that’s it. End of story, end of marriage. The reason I like how easy divorce is, is because if it’s so easy to divorce someone, that means that if someone is staying with you (and neither you nor them are abusive, manipulative assholes) they are staying even though it’s objectively harder to. It’s far easier to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:38 PM
5

I don’t know how you sorted the comments on that vasectomy post, but all the top ones I could see were saying “it’s your body, your choice.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:28 PM
4

Then those men shouldn’t cum inside women they don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:00 PM
2

That assumes that physical attraction is most important. I know men and women who are super physically attractive, but I would never in a million years want to be with them. Not even sexually. Their emotional and political maturity is completely incompatible, so they might as well be cave trolls physically, for as good as that makes them attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:59 PM
-2

Why would old men hit on young women? Of course those women would find it repellent and repulsive. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:49 PM
-2

Not everyone is meant to mate and reproduce. The faster some people learn that, the better off they will be. They can then spend their lives dedicated to other things. Or, they cannot accept it and whine about it online for years instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:48 PM
7

I’m glad there’s people like you out there, leaving all the hot tatted people to people like me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:33 PM
1

Reality is always better than fake platitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:16 PM
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Why would anyone sign up for anyone else dictating who you can be with, who you should be attracted to, etc? I don’t give a damn about some imaginary “collective society” when it comes to my personal relationships. I am not going to ever lower or adjust my standards for a partner because some dudes on the internet can’t get dates or laid in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:55 PM
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The fuck is this? Why would you post this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:36 PM
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Gee. With such charming words like this I wonder why you struggle 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:33 PM
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I mean incel subs get banned, as they should. This ain’t news. They need to stick to 4chan and .is and leave everyone else alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:25 PM
10

Yeah, well if you don’t believe in “leagues” or “smv” or “looksmatch” bullshit, that makes a lot of sense. I see all kinds of “mismatched” couples all day every day, and a lot of red pill men insist that’s cope and lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:48 AM
7

I mean everyone is allowed their preferences. They’re just not immune from criticism for their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:53 AM
1

You cosplaying a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:51 AM
4

Never heard this question either. Also why would I care about my daughter’s sex life? That’s just fucking weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:20 AM
10

I mean I’m a feminist man, and don’t care about n-counts, and I’ve never had a problem getting with women or men for sex or relationships. Seems like cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:14 AM
1

Why is that men’s business to try and change or to feel the right to complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:43 PM
3

One of the best things to happen to tv in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:54 PM
1

If you want to get banned you’d be more than welcome to link that old 15% does 85% statistic link here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:50 PM
6

Sex just for sex is awesome, what you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:29 PM
4

I think that’s a bold claim to make for all the millions involved in said situations. I’ve had fwb and situationships where we both knew and talked about what it was. I was best man at one of their weddings later in life. She and I remain close friends to this day. We just “used” each other for a quick bang back in our late 20s. Neither of us wanted to date. So, that said, not sure how you can make that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:27 PM
2

They said “a man” not “all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:02 PM
2

The advice you gave is awkward 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:37 PM
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It’s really difficult. Look at any thread anywhere on Reddit (just as an example, not like it’s hard facts or statistics) about therapy. Loads of men coming in saying therapy is a joke and a ripoff and they can get the same benefit from having a beer with friends. Which isn’t true, because no friends will let you trauma dump endlessly on them. And if you’re only revealing surface level things, you’re really not sharing are you? It’s not all men, it’s hopefully not even most, but as a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:25 PM
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I’ve turned down lots of women and men’s offers for sex as a man. I got some hurt eyes but nothing else. What do you imagine happens when you turn them down? They’re literally just people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:12 PM
0

I think it’s implied by the word “argument”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:11 PM
3

Bruh, can you please change your flair so the rest of us don’t have to be grouped in with your literally insane takes? Literally every post and reply you make is not only anti-blue pill, it’s just completely wrong about how men and women work. Why would you label yourself blue pill, unless you want to troll people? Or is that the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:32 PM
5

Sorry, but I strongly disagree. I want to be involved with any and all conversations about consent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:27 PM
1

Example of women shutting down male groups talking about consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:14 PM
3

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:41 AM
-3

Going after partners just because they’re younger is cringe af, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:02 AM
1

I ask myself this so much on this sub. I see a lot of people angry they’re single and yet aim all their anger at the people they claim to be interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:55 PM
1

Ngl the way you define a relationship sounds completely miserable. Like I would just rather be alone if I viewed relationships like that. I don’t want duties and responsibilities like that. Like it’s a job that others fill roles in. Naw. I would be miserable and alone inside a “relationship” like that, and would be much happier and fulfilled single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:46 PM
1

The graphs don’t say anything about loneliness. They say single. I’ve been single several times in my adult life but I was still hooking up or had FWB situations going on. I definitely wasn’t lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:53 PM
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Women don’t treat me bad at all. At worst they are indifferent, as I am to them. Where are all these man-hating women y’all are seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:24 PM
1

Is there evidence we can look at, without speculating, like hard evidence that women are in some way affecting the male college enrollment numbers? Because unless they’re directly causing the problem why should they fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:18 PM
2

Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:54 PM
2

What does that have to do with relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:19 PM
4

“Muh civilization” is such a tired argument. Society and civilization isn’t collapsing. Not even close. And men should have equally high standards. I do. I would never lower my standards just to not be alone. I’ve always been much happier on my own and just hooking up on occasion than I have been in miserable relationships. Men having low standards due to loneliness is definitely a problem. They need to be happy and content with high standards for any relationship, or else they’re just gonna be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:05 PM
9

You think taking away partner choice is going to decrease depression, anxiety, drug use and suicide? lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:00 PM
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Prefer that at all times rather than some other adult having a say in who I marry. Fuck all that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:58 PM
3

I love women with standards. And men. I have very high standards for any partner I have, and I hope they do, too. Who wants to date someone with low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:50 PM
3

Why would I have a problem with that? Or a high n-count? Seems very insecure of red pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:14 PM
2

Is liking women gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:23 AM
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Haven’t you given up yet? Or is that one of the other women-hating accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:05 AM
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Sounds like the red pill is losing (thankfully)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:26 PM
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And there is nothing men can do to get women to lower their standards, other than complain online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:52 PM
15

Not worth it based on OPs history of posts and comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:28 PM
1

That’s why I talk about politics with my partner. Because they’re my best friend 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:25 PM
6

Larping again on a new account, are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:50 PM
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I hate guys who make tactless jokes. And I have a huge group of friends. Some people are just different. Not all guys like roasting and punching down for jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:11 AM
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Yeah. I had the same with social media. My sister still won’t talk to me after years and years after that breakup because her and my ex were/are close friends. Lost a lot of friends, too, because they just couldn’t take my side, even though there was no evidence. I was upset about it for a bit, but now I’m over all of it. I learned. Know the flags. Would never be in a situation like that with anyone again. I’d never dated anyone mentally or physically abusive before, that was my one and done. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:16 AM
2

You die 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:06 AM
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An ex girlfriend got pissed when I told her I was going to be breaking up with her. She had only been physically violent a couple times in all the years we were together, but this time she went all out and hit me over and over with everything she had. I didn’t lay a finger on her, and locked myself in a room and called the police. When they came she said I had been hitting her and I got to spend the night in jail until the DA dropped the charges in the morning due to no evidence and the ex’s sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:48 AM
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I agree with this. Even when I was single I had standards, and never lowered them. I would’ve (and still would) be single rather than lower them and “just take what I could get.” Screw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:33 AM
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Who would want someone who lacks confidence, goals, is sheltered and thinks poorly of themselves? Like…who would want someone like that? Regardless of gender or age or anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:26 AM
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I think someone in their 30s dating an 18-20 year old is gross and should be shamed for it. It’s not illegal. But it’s gross to me. And I’ll tell them to their face. And have. I’m not insecure about shit. I’m a man. And it’s literally disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:10 AM
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I would never pay for a prostitute, same reason I don’t think AI sex robots are going to ever be a real thing outside of incel revenge fantasies. When someone wants you, and isn’t paid or programmed to want you, the sex is amazing. Even if it’s a one night thing. The lingering doubt of, “I paid or programmed that” would never get out of my head. I would and could never be satisfied. I want someone to want me, and that’s why I’ve always been happy with both hookups and relationships. They’ve alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:16 AM
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Yeah. My first love was a guy in high school church group who literally would’ve beat me if I came onto him. I’ve never sought that out again. I was just young and stupid (and bi).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:12 PM
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You’re literally dating. You’ve said as much. Why are you concerned. And would your gf feel comfortable with your feelings on overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:26 AM
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My current partner is a woman and 9 years older. The age didn’t really matter, and still doesn’t. She is beautiful, and if there’s a wall she has avoided it at almost 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:09 PM
3

Being funny has literally always worked for me. I’ve had people tell me that can’t even stay angry at me when I’ve fucked up because I can make them laugh. Humor is highly underrated. But, like a lot of things, it is inherent in some and not in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:55 AM
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Always. I’m open about it, and back a decade ago on dating apps I always listed it. Made sure it came up early in other cases. I want people to know me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:58 AM
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I understand the study, but it’s just not my experience as a bi male. Literally never had an issue getting a female partner. And I don’t want to appear masculine. I’m fine being considered feminine. Tbf though most of my female partners for ltrs have been bi as well. So maybe it is true more for straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:40 AM
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Sex was fine. Not the best. But it was fine. And I’ve never not gone down on a partner. Seems like a dick move, pun intended
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:47 AM
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I mean, I think we both value looks to an extent. But, yes. For me that’s only an initial impression. She/he can open their mouth and then I’ll totally get turned off by their lack of knowledge or nastiness, etc. There needs to be SOME looks attraction. But it isn’t by and large the only or even the most major thing. And I say this as someone who dated a person for a long time who I wasn’t initially attracted to, except just. And their personality won me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:11 AM
1

lol fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:01 AM
10

They can have empathy and still not be required or expected to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:38 PM
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“Non-feminist” Good luck, buddy. Overwhelming majority of Gen Z is feminist, male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:27 PM
4

An instagram link. Bold move, Cotton
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:23 PM
1

THEN WHY WONT YOU DATE ME UGH 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:21 PM
6

Nah. There is. It just might not ever be “you” which is why there’s so much cope here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:13 PM
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If you’re not attracted to someone you’re just not attracted. Nothing can “fix” it. No “logic and reasoning” is going to change it. So why complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:11 PM
5

All this says is that women are happy. Why don’t you want them to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:02 PM
4

Being angry at lucky people is so childish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:00 PM
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How is it harder for men? Literally never struggled, and don’t know any men without options or partners. This is such an online take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:39 AM
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Downvote me, coward
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:19 PM
3

Thank you for answering
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:17 PM
2

I’m like you, I think. Submissive and nurturing. My partner is outgoing but not demanding. Wish only the best for you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:42 PM
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Boundaries are for myself. Not a partner. I can have standards, but I can’t claim them as boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:40 PM
1

I absolutely agree that individuals matter and differ. Do you, personally, think there is universal advice? Me? No. Which is why even though I’d say I’m “blue pill” I don’t think that any platitudes from any “pill” are going to help lonely people. It comes down to the individual. And that’s so much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:39 PM
2

I totally understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:35 PM
4

That’s a sad, but valid, outlook. I think humans are meant for each other, but I totally understand what you’re saying. What, if anything, do you personally think would change things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:34 PM
2

Absolutely. We (humans) aren’t a monolith. I’m sure she appreciates you, or she better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:28 PM
4

Totally fair. Can I ask what happened? But you’re (obviously) in your right to say no. And I hope you’d believe that I wouldn’t judge you, or come after you, but I know this isn’t a DM
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:23 PM
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Thank you for responding. Do you mean black pill as in it’s all looks based? Or that there’s no point? Just trying to understand, and asked in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:18 PM
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I again am showing my age, but I definitely went from a “bad boys get all the girls” pill to, “just be nice and yourself” pill after a decade. I tried the bad boy routine and definitely got play, but I didn’t get fulfillment out of it. There was no joy. No smile in the morning. Just shame. Yeah I got laid. But it wore on me. And I know that’s gonna sound “woe is me” to people who can’t get laid, but it honestly did. Sex didn’t fulfill me. Being a partner did. I say this, but at the same time und…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:16 PM
2

I appreciate you answering in honest. I can’t offer advice. But appreciate your insight nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:11 PM
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I was so close to believing the “bad boy” hype as a teenager. Actually, I did believe it. But I saw through it when I got in a healthy relationship. I hope you have many months and years either your partner, if it’s meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:07 PM
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I think this really is this gist of it. No studies or research is going to help you. Just experience. And those experiences are going to lead us to different views and opinions, because of the people and relationships we have. I personally worry about people who form their opinions around others who have seemingly lived similar lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:05 PM
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I think that’s true to some extent. But I remember identifying as a libertarian in my 20s. But I changed my mind after a few years. Life experience definitely plays a role, though, and it can’t be understated. Thank you for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:02 PM
2

Do you mind me asking your age range? I don’t mean to get personal just curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:59 PM
3

Can I ask where you see these men? Like just personally (which is valid, to me) or online?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:58 PM
3

I agree. And thank you for your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:57 PM
1

Totally fair. Thank you for responding. I personally feel like the BEST sex I've had is in relationships, but the times I've been out of them the urge is there, and sometimes I feel it's there with the men and women I've slept with. But literally no judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:31 PM
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What do you think is “weird” about it being a complete stranger? Again. This is asked in good faith. Do you think that sex should only be with people who truly know one another? (And thanks for the tip)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:22 PM
4

Four in one. It’s also toothpaste, Ainsley
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:18 PM
9

Yeah I feel this. The intellectually curious thing especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:18 PM
0

Genuine question but with no “gotcha” Why do casual hookups bother you? If they’re single? Also: can I have custom flair? And if not you still better have the best Sunday ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:08 PM
-1

I don’t know how to judge myself. But I feel attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:00 PM
4

I’m not arguing that being masculine doesn’t/can’t work. I’m just saying it isn’t required. I have no idea what “stoic” even means anymore. But I’ve never been that. Always emotional, expressive, etc. So is masculinity attractive to some people? Sure! Just not universal. And men don’t have to aim for it to be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:55 PM
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I dunno. I have a high n count from my youth and stable relationships as an adult. I’ll trust myself rather than a random redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:51 PM
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Only thing I’d argue about is masculine. I’m bi, have never been “masculine” a day in my life. Still have never struggled with hook ups or relationships. I’m feminine as fuck. I just only hook up with gay men or bi women. I don’t need to ooga booga my way through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:17 PM
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Such a lie. Looks gets you in. Personality is what gets you to stay. Everyone wants to be attracted to their partner. But the idea that personality doesn’t factor in is bs red pill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:14 PM
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Ok, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:16 PM
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Age has nothing to do with it. If you can’t find literally anyone to date or hook up with, that’s a 💯 you problem. I’m 41, and have literally never known anyone like this. Doesn’t matter height or wealth or social status. That’s cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:08 PM
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I had a religious upbringing, and then was SA’d in the military. So I repressed a lot of my Bi life for years. Too long. When I came out though I was wholly accepted and felt so much better. The repression was what was bothering me. Not the expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:30 AM
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There has to be something really wrong with you if you’re actively seeking sex or companionship for multiple years or decades. I feel like the men who say this are early 20s and literally haven’t even had enough years lived to know what “true loneliness” is like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:42 AM
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I assure you: people are still fucking like bunnies everywhere. Just apparently not fucking a lot of the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:30 PM
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Lol worst advice ever. And I highly doubt you know some Chad guy having women pay for his drinks. And even if you do, his advice is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:20 PM
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The point I generally see being made isn’t that “more women are single and happy,” it’s that the percentage of women who are single and happy is much higher than the percentage of men who are single and happy. Women, on the whole, are more content to be single and happy than men. Doesn’t mean there’s more of them. That said: I’m also confused by how there can be such a difference in percentages of women and men single, considering how cis couples are still the majority, even in gen z. And I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:14 PM
5

Well someone above has the genius idea that women want to divorce beta after they get imaginary alimony and go back to fucking Chad. Genius reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:05 AM
5

Fee fees? I have no idea where this data would come from
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:57 PM
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Nope. It’s literally evidence of nothing. A question on a niche sub isn’t evidence of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:31 AM
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Are…are they telling you this? Because it’s super weird if they’re telling you this. Which is the only way you could know this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:14 AM
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I mean I’m fine having a relationship and being content. It’s cool if you’re angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:14 AM
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Yes. But that isn’t women’s fault. It’s just our stage of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:31 AM
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Guess it sucks to suck 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:45 AM
1

It’s weird why you pretend to be a female Edit: and if you want, I can show you your own comments bb
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:43 AM
-4

Poor men 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:37 AM
1

Manoesphere is garbage. Always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:36 AM
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Maybe men shouldn’t lie on the internet 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:33 AM
3

You work in the industry? Same. Hugs to you and your partner this Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:42 AM
1

They absolutely do. Because they need to. They’re playing a game. And “pussy” is the prize. I don’t think a lot of men here realize what love bombing is. Because they haven’t had the chance to. Players are the worst culprits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:36 AM
4

I had a girlfriend who could only cum through anal. And then another who could only by using a vibrator. Women’s anatomy is different, and conversing is the best thing for any healthy couple. Taking your ego out of it is hard. I struggled with it in my 20s. “Why isn’t PIV sex enough??!!” But eventually, if you’re mature, you realize you care about her/him and want to do what it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:27 AM
1

Absolutely. But what I often see is men not doing an equal division of labor, and then being pissed they’re not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:19 AM
1

The reason it wanes is usually due to lack of communication. Does she feel there’s an unequal division of physical or emotional labor? Does she feel like you let yourself “go” physically? This is why relationship counseling helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:18 AM
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My partner sends me a bitmoji when she gets hers, and blames me for not reminding her it was coming. But it’s all playful, and I go to the store if needed. She isn’t needy. But the cramps hurt her harder than other women I’ve dated, so I’m a bit more sensitive to her period than others. The fact we can talk about her period openly is one of the reasons she said she stays with me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:10 AM
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I “know you” from you posting here, so won’t offer bad advice or platitudes. You got burned recently. And it’s just gonna take time. Which is a shitty answer. But brother, it’s the right one. It’s just time. I know it doesn’t help. But you need to get over this last one and be prepared for the next. You owe it to her to be ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:06 AM
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I don’t know if it qualifies, but I had multiple moles removed by a dermatologist. Large ones. I had one on my neck that bothered me so much a shirt was uncomfortable. I also get Botox twice a month, but that’s for migraines. But I accept the help in wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:03 AM
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Why do you think your point of reference is more valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:43 AM
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Guess being a male who hasn’t ever struggled is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:42 AM
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I used Tinder in 2014 and it was great for hookups when that’s what I was looking for. Literally no one judged me (at least to my face) for it. I also used Grindr too. I also don’t have pics of me with fish or guns or lions, so that probably helps. You obviously are too young to remember the time period. I’m 41, so I was 31 at the time, and it was already common for people to meet on apps and it not be judged. I’m guessing you’re lower 20s and have no point of reference in that term of life. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:06 AM
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All the reading and studies and data isn’t going to help one man get laid. Not one. There is literally no man who will be undesirable to women, read a bunch of studies, and somehow get a cheat code from said studies and then become desirable. The data and sources people post here are academic, and interesting, but actually useless for anything other than trying to make a claim. If you want to find a partner, you’re not gonna find the answers in data and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:44 PM
1

They never will. They’ll complain online instead and stay bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:56 PM
8

OLD has existed for decades. Tinder has been around for 12 years. There isn’t some new phenomenon or gender war, like some people want to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:27 PM
1

Oh! Using the “r” word. So manly. So enlightened. Hows single life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:07 PM
2

Oh, please save us caveman! Ooga booga.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:56 PM
5

Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:50 AM
13

Are bi men not allowed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:02 AM
6

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:23 AM
17

Fair enough. I wouldn’t date women or men who are scared of bi people either. You can keep to yourselves, while I enjoy a world without you all 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:08 AM
3

“Just be yourself” worked for me. So I understand it doesn’t work for everyone. But I don’t think it’s universally bad advice. I’ve always just been me, and never put on an act or taken dating advice, other than “just be yourself.” Again: I see it doesn’t work for some. But it did for me. And I can’t be an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:34 AM
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Yeah. I had to pick a flair, and I don’t buy into red pill stuff, so I chose blue pill. I have always just been myself, and never had a problem hooking up while single, or maintaining Ltr when that’s what I want. And it’s usually with feminist bi women or gay men, since I’m bi, so I have no experience of women getting the ick from me opening up, or by being bi. I don’t doubt those women exist. Or that some women only go after some “Chad” drug dealer types. It’s just not my experience. So I can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:52 AM
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Either Psycho Killer or I Ran
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:41 PM
8

I love men who think like this and complain when they can’t wife up 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:17 AM
8

Get a pet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:16 AM
3

I’d say never lower your standards, but also speak with a therapist. On here, though, therapy is a crock and a scam and ooga booga. But honestly, if you’re not meeting anyone who wants to date you, it’s not hypergamy, and it’s not Chad. It’s you. But it is so much easier to blame outside forces than to look internally. And what’s more: blame the professionals who help you look internally. That’s such utter lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:43 AM
6

100%. I’d much rather keep my standards and be alone than in a relationship with a man or woman who was below them, just to “not be alone.” Would I be totally fulfilled? Probably not. But I’d be 80% happy single and keeping my standards, rather than 60% happy but I get occasional/regular sex and anxiety from someone I don’t totally respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:54 AM
5

So for those of us below all those 6’s, who have literally never had a problem? Lol pathetic honestly. It’s cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:39 AM
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I’ve never been “masculine” and never had issues with hookups or relationships with women. I’ve made it clear I won’t cause violence for any reason. I’ve made it clear I’ll never be some ooga booga man. And still, after 41 years, have never had issues with women. Strange 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:35 AM
8

How many relationships (not situationships, or hook ups) have you been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:32 AM
12

That’s cute. But now how it works in liberal cities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:31 AM
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Maybe for cis people. Why I only date BI or Pan women/men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:26 AM
8

No government group will let children starve. None. End of story. None of them are willing to be on the news either starving kids. This is why abortion will keep losing in all voting aspects. Poor you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:25 AM
2

So…there is no study? No evidence this is a basic human nature aspect for women? Curious 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:12 AM
6

lol how long you think jizz stays in the vagina? This is so ridiculous it has to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:43 AM
1

I dunno. My partner is hot to me. Why would I care about other men’s partners or opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:47 AM
1

I’d need proof and evidence of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:40 AM
1

You can’t be a faux nice guy and also physically unattractive and expect women to notice you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:24 AM
2

He’s probably better looking than you, and more charismatic. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:22 AM
2

As it should 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:43 AM
3

Love the new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:20 AM
3

Nah. Men and women shouldn’t lower their standards. I’m a man and would never lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:03 AM
7

Literally never had a problem getting female partners for sex or relationships, and I’ve been out as bi since I was 20. I’ve met some women who wouldn’t date me because I’m bi, so I know they exist. But they’re not in my friend circles, and I wouldn’t want them to date me either if that’s how they view bi people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:03 PM
0

I am in my 40s. I’ve literally never struggled with relationships or hooking up. And my friends haven’t either. I don’t get this mentality that it’s hard. I accept that could be a “me” issue. But I have a big social circle and don’t know anyone who struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:54 PM
5

Maybe because it works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:48 PM
0

Then be Chad. It’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:47 PM
2

The last two relationships I’ve been pursued over social media. I have a random TikTok account and Instagram and have people messaging me a lot. No way to know my height or not. And I’m not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:40 PM
1

Nope. You answered just like I thought you would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:34 PM
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“Spark” for lack of a better word. We both acknowledge we’re bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:33 PM
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Don’t you use my own words against me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:19 PM
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Partner and I are probably going to break up, and it’s sad because it’s not anything. It’s just…nothing. I’ve been in abusive relationships, and I’ve been cheated on, but the ones where nothing is wrong sucks the most. We talk. Communication is always key. And we have communicated on this a bunch, and explained things, but we probably are meant to be friends and not romantic. Not looking for advice. Just kinda a vent in a thread that will get tossed away. We’re good together. But probably not “t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:19 PM
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But just one knee 😅 (kidding)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:10 PM
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In American cultures the father of the bride pays for the wedding. Hence the movie “Father of the Bride”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:06 PM
0

Literally all my partners have perused me as a male, and I’m not Chad. I don’t get this outlook. I’m just me. I’m funny and people like me because I’m funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:01 PM
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I’ve met women with healthy father figures who have done things like OF or sell used underwear or send feet pics. It’s a game to some people, and their dads don’t factor in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:52 PM
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I’ve always felt an equal division of emotional and physical labor is a sign of respect. They respect the home we share, they respect the bills we pay, etc. Let’s not forget that even though (traditionally) the man proposes, it’s the woman’s parents who pay for the wedding. This isn’t always the case. But just speaking of tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:50 PM
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She’s saying women’s boyfriends are posting their nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:42 PM
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Proud of you. Literally don’t know you, but am. I hope you reach your phd dreams, sincerely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:37 PM
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I’ve seen overweight single mom’s approach men, and they (the men) reject them. Men should have standards. But they can’t complain about not getting thin “Stacy” types, while rejecting the rest. You ironically choose to be an incel more times than not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:36 PM
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I don’t think people come for advice. They come for validation. The people in like relationship advice who argue I’m always sus about. I think they’re lying and just stirring shit. The ones who agree are the ones probably most real. They just wanted others to back up what they’re already feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:33 PM
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I guess I can’t understand that mindset. Like, if you don’t want sex with me, cool. If you do with someone else, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:29 PM
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I went back to school for a grad program, and am currently paying that, so I feel you. I was a white male with rich parents, so didn’t get any financial help, but parents didn’t even help. But because of their income I couldn’t get aid. Not crying about “poor little privileged white male” but yeah. Had to work for it, but don’t shit on anyone for going alternate routes. Was also home schooled so almost all scholarships were out the window because of the state I lived in not requiring much to gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:25 PM
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Why would he have any right to be upset? Someone else was more persistent (which is gross) but got what they were after. He has no right to be upset about her sexual history. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:20 PM
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Ahaha your description doesn’t help me. But is freaking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:12 PM
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Ichigo?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:06 PM
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Best Buy (American electronics store) paid for my college if I worked full time and went to school full time. Was the hardest grind of my life, but came out only owing two years of school instead of four. I don’t know that I’d recommend it, as I was literally always exhausted. But paying off school at 36 instead of 66 was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:03 PM
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Have a stand, love it. Hate plugging into anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:00 PM
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I honestly always liked the one knee. Like two knees is begging. But one knee is respect. The act is actually showing you’re equal, but honored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:00 PM
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Yeah I’m gonna have to ew this too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:55 PM
0

How are you life choices turning out? Red pill working out? You getting laid left and right yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:45 PM
2

Exactly. You can have any standards you want. Just don’t abuse the word “boundary”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:07 AM
0

Then do it. Just don’t burden everyone else with your choices
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:04 AM
1

Mate, how old are you? And btw this doesn’t end with mocking or recommending therapy. You obviously seem too smart for placates and hallmark cards. Edit: a word
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:32 AM
1

Have you, personally, given up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:22 AM
1

I met my person online, but it wasn’t a dating app. I joined online communities for my hobbies, and genuinely messaged people who had good takes. One of them led me to them. I know death of 3rd spaces is a thing. I felt that as I got older. But showing genuine interest in someone with the same interests as me has led to a multi year (and hopefully forever) relationship. Talk to people. On discord. Or Reddit. Or X. Or wherever you find them. Also, assuming you’re a male, look up male grooming sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:17 AM
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A very lovely sentiment. Appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:43 AM
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I raised a kid for almost a decade with an ex of mine. She wasn’t wonderful, but he will be in my life forever. There is nothing lost in that. He was a little kid who liked Legos, and so did I. And we bonded over that. He’s turning 20 this year and we still text over Legos and games. His mom wasn’t the best. But I’ll never regret the years I spent with him and having an influence on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:38 AM
5

Man, I just hate games. I don’t care if you gave it up and make me wait. I don’t care about gender or perspective reversal. Just don’t play games. It’s not that hard. And I’ve dumped many people who try to play them, including “shit testing” stuff. Nope. You be honest. I’ll be honest. Your past literally doesn’t matter. Just be honest with me. And prove that honesty with your actions, rather than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:54 AM
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