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Lol
/r/seduction29/06/21 02:57 AM
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Love the negativity ;)
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:00 PM
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When did I say you shouldn't know how to approach groups? You need to do both. It's plenty easy to look cool "looming" over a group. They're at the bar to talk to people. Just false time constraint and don't be needy and creepy. You think they don't want some high value guy stopping by their table to bring the vibe up? Who cares if she's with her boyfriend? If you worry about the boyfriend you're going to miss out on a crazy amount of sets. "How do you all know each other?" Boom, done. Now you k…
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:57 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:20 AM
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Why? It's limiting beliefs. If you think it's weird then ya it's weird. But if you're just a social guy then it's not
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:18 AM
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Ok then don't jerk of 7 times a day. You shouldn't do anything in excess, that's common sense.
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:57 PM
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If she's acting submissive towards OP in that situation then she's acting submissive - it's an observation. Stop drawing conclusions about what OP is "assuming" about all women and making issues where there are none. Plenty of legitimate cannon fodder around here - save your ammo for when it means something.
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:31 PM
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Not fapping is just some external thing that ultimately doesn't matter much. Withholding didn't make you approach - YOU made yourself approach, and YOU did that. Now, granted 5-7x/day is completely excessive and will definitely impact your drive, but don't get in the mindset that you can't approach just because you're doing that. I would have never did that if I had released before. This is not a good way to think about it. You should make yourself approach regardless of the last time you fapped…
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:28 PM
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Yeah I can check aces on the flop and win the pot once in a blue moon but it doesn't mean it was the right move - it will lose you money in the long run. And it completely depends on what/how you're saying it. Talking about sex in a completely logical, boring, planned, permission seeking way, like you're trying to "get" something from her is basically always a bad idea with someone you haven't slept with and is going to hurt your game in the long run. "I've been thinking, i want to have sex with…
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:34 PM
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Thank you. Yes I mean if you're there you might as well. But the thing is... Most people's "game" at the bar isn't worth learning from. I suppose you could learn what not to do or just observe social interaction in general and what the girls are doing in response. But the real progress is going to come from actually being in set. There's plenty you can learn by just observing but at a certain point you need to actually jump in. When you're in set you have a first person view of how a girl is res…
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:42 AM
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True but OP isn't "At that level" (no offense OP). And that type of foreplay usually comes AFTER you've slept with a woman and AFTER you've actually had sex before. Someone with tight verbal or text game making clever foreplay because he's done it before is vastly different than verbally mentioning that you want to have sex in a basic way and asking for verbal consent and taking out a condom. One of those is foreplay, the other is super logical and emotion/excitement killing. It's not uncommon f…
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:18 AM
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But our objective here is to get women, a woman doesn't give a fuck of your self esteem nor your confidence if you look unclean with bad smell. The bar is way lower than you think. Obviously take a damn shower and dont wear dirty clothes, but outside of that it literally doesn't matter. And you would be APPALLED at the type of dudes that girls ACTUALLY go home with if you pay attention. Look dude i spend 10+ hrs a week in the highest volume night game venues in atlanta watching ugly, sweaty, stu…
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:01 AM
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LOL
/r/seduction24/06/21 11:39 PM
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I'm just sitting here hoping that you're way more calibrated than you're coming off as right now for the sake of these girls and the community in general. Your post is concerning at worst, and at best it's just straight up poor advice.
/r/seduction24/06/21 09:04 PM
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What I'm talking about here is neither. She legitimately is not interested in you and wants you to leave her alone, but she can't reject you because you didn't ask her for anything yet. You just went up and approached her. You opened her. She is going to respond to that open in three ways: green light - she opens and is receptive, yellow light - she doesn't REALLY open, is a little cold or standoffish but it's not a hard rejection (rejection means she wants you to go away and there is no turning…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:50 PM
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Sorry OP but please don't listen to the above poster. There is nothing that needs to be verbalized. The communication is non-verbal. And so is the consent as long as you're a decent fucking human being that can take a hint and you have some semblance of trust and comfort established between you. That's a really easy way to make things super logical and ruin any sexual tension. "Shall we have sex now?!" is about the least sexy thing you can say to a girl. Girls will make it very clear when they'r…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:40 PM
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Dont verbalize it. Initializing sex is not a verbal thing. Get her into a similar situation (aka one where sex can occur). In case you're not aware of this, if a girl is alone with you in bed, responding to your kissing, she is there because she is open to sex happening. She will let you know if she's uncomfortable. She might instinctively know that you're a virgin, either beforehand or while you're escalating. Doesn't matter, she's obviously open to it. She's giving you a window and you NEED to…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:34 PM
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This requires careful calibration. In a bar, her locking up or being a little cold could be little more than a shit test and she will respect you for not sulking away with your tail between your legs. In a train where she can't go anywhere, that's a VASTLY different situation. In a bar you can plow through, no harm done, it's expected and she can simply walk away. On a train you are VERY quickly going to become a creepy guy that can't take a hint and she will feel uncomfortable. There's a differ…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:24 PM
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Bro just talk to her. You're overthinking it, you don't need the perfect lines or game, just vibe with her. It's not your looks, its your vibe, dont sell yourself short, she likes YOU, not your height. If you value your job, i dont know that i would go for her right away, but at least talk and flirt with her, even if just to amuse yourself at work. If it turns into something, fine, but be careful in the workplace. I probably wouldn't bother with a girl that sits near me unless it's super on and …
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:18 PM
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It's not a sacred ground, it's a perfectly fine place to meet women. You just need to calibrate carefully. It's almost like social circle game in the sense that you will likely see each other in public many times in the future. She needs to know that you're not going to be a creepy, needy weirdo. IMO indirect or situational approaches work best. You can still be direct with your body language and subcomms, and eventually verbally once the set opens. And for what it's worth, girls respect a guy M…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:12 PM
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You have to sit down and gauge what is important to you. No one should be trapped in a relationship where they aren't fulfilled. It's your life, and you need to not waste it, but in your case you also have to consider the kids. Divorce is not something to take lightly, but it needs to be considered. But as a last resort. I will say that too many people stay in an unhealthy marriage "for the kids", but let me ask you, is growing up in a household with parents who hate each other really that much …
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:08 PM
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Go get em tiger
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:59 PM
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You're still just using something external to draw state. This is the exact same as the gym dude who is only on when his BF level is at a certain %. Or the rat race dude who can only pull when his sales have been good lately. Or the club dude who only feels good when he pulls up in a nice car and throws money around in the VIP. Or the kid who only feels good when he walks into his favorite bar with a heavy alcohol buzz and good music. There's no difference. You should be feeling that way ALL THE…
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:55 PM
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Because she's literally paid to pay attention to you. How hired guns respond to you should never be an indication of anything. There is a saying that i think fits well here and it goes along the lines of "idolizing a politician is like believing the stripper actually likes you"
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:52 PM
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Bro you're fine, and overthinking it. She's saying she wants your dick and is trying to work logistics with how to make that happen. The exact opposite of fucking around. Just go get with your other girl and either let her hit you up or hit her up the same day when it's convenient for you
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:50 PM
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Yo looks/clothes don't matter. The sooner guys get this through their head the sooner they can detach from ego and all this external bullshit that doesn't matter. You're drawing state from bullshit external factors. Just like the guys who can only be confident when they hit the gym consistently, draw state from that and get some temporary confidence and then proclaim "see!! Fitness matters. Muscles matter! That's what girls like!". No bro. You could have pulled that girl just as easily at 19% bo…
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:40 PM
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I mean what's the issue? She's your fuckbuddy obv and you have her where you want her and a ton of investment and you're almost overcomplicating things. Too much back and forth IMO, but if you guys like the sexting and foreplay and that's just how you are, then it's fine. Plus logistics and scheduling can be a pain. But honestly after a few of these texts, the scheduling would give me a headache and i would just straight up call her on the phone and avoid this entirely. You can literally avoid a…
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:34 PM
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So like when I say 100 messages, that's total. And that's usually only the cases where it's relaxed and we're talking over the course of like a week and she's kinda busy and not able to meet right away. That's also one of the reasons why I like snap. It's very casual and girls have no problem sending like 2-3 messages in a row, where on text that would feel weird. I don't think when you bounce to the number/snap is super critical. So like my normal interaction usually starts out at a relaxed pac…
/r/seduction02/06/20 07:43 PM
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You need to keep it alive. I'm guessing way too many people try to play it too cool leading up to the date. Don't do this. The pattern of a flake is usually as follows: pretty excited back and forth messaging the initial day or two. You get the number and make plans a little too fast with too little investment on her part. You make plans for 2-4 days from now. Then you try to play it cool, and text her very little. The day comes and you still try to play it cool, almost until the date, when you …
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:40 AM
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Yeah club is kind of weak on her part. It's very low effort or investment. A lot of guys wouldn't even bother if she's not even willing to out forth the effort to meet one on one. Club can be fine if you're already planning on going anyway and she's just a bonus, and if you're planning on talking to other girls anyway.
/r/seduction27/02/20 01:00 AM
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Here's the thing - practically speaking, looks don't mean shit. Money doesn't mean shit. Cool interests don't mean shit. Lifestyle doesn't mean shit They can mean something for "provider" guys for long term shit but if you're trying to fuck girls...what matters is getting out there, approaching, follow through, dominance, rootedness, how other people respond to you and respect you, body language, etc. The loser scumbag will take the hottest fucking high status bitch in the bar home if he's GOT I…
/r/seduction23/02/20 03:22 AM
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Should be apparent by what's being posted and upvoted. Head on over to the Sosuave forums. Tons of amazing guys with legit experience and it's been around since the golden days of this stuff a couple decades ago
/r/seduction23/02/20 02:59 AM
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Yeah but I mean that's like saying that a basketball game is luck. Sure there's some randomness to it but a killer player is going to consistently make a ton of baskets and do really well over the long term
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:33 PM
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How many women have you dated recently? This is 2020, and this is completely commonplace, regardless of the quality of the woman. If anything, whether the verbally declines is dictated by how much rapport you had with her. If you have a lot of interaction with a girl via text or call or even go on a few dates, she is MUCH more likely to be straightforward with you and be like "look I'm just not interested".
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:21 PM
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Gotcha. I just take issue with the fact that too many guys on this thread are attributing this to "luck" or looks. In the long term (and well short too), those things don't matter much. Even though it's his first real night out, he still put the work in and did it. It's the fact that you approach/engage and the things you do when out or in set.
/r/seduction14/02/20 07:13 AM
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Write down a bunch of ideas or convo stuff on your phone. Review it before you get there or in the bathroom and have 2-3 concrete convo lines that you can throw out in an emergency. Just simple stuff like: "tease her about her [whatever]", "talk about the last awkward date she had", "ask about her experience with tinder", etc. Could even be more boring interview stuff if you absolutely have to. Most guys put too much pressure to say the PERFECT player shit, but anything is better than awkwardly …
/r/seduction14/02/20 05:11 AM
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Girls dont pick up on guys that haven't already spiked her attraction massively. Girls can decide from across the room whether they want to sleep with you just based on your body language, how you carry yourself, and how people respond to you. The clock starts when you step in the room, not when you talk to her. Likely his behavior initially with the handshake did 90% of the work for him. Looks and "luck" make up a VERY small piece of it.
/r/seduction14/02/20 05:04 AM
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You're not giving enough detail. They say "yes", but do you make concrete plans? Agreeing to a date means nothing if you haven't told her where and when. You shouldn't even be angry if she just says yes and she bails, because you HAVEN'T MADE PLANS yet. So why would either of you care? You also need to explain where these girls are coming from. Flakiness is DIRECTLY CORRELATED with how much investment you have from her. Are you some guy on tinder that had a relatively boring convo with her? You …
/r/seduction14/02/20 04:39 AM
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Wow dude you're alpha as fuck. I bet you get enough pussy for the both of us huh
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:44 AM
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He definitely would. Not your job to confirm plans. Either make new plans and bail on him if you're not that interested, or keep the night open if you are.
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:59 AM
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What I have written down is: 1) Hey, i'm.... 2) Are you from [this city]? 3) Whats your name? 4) What do you do? 5) Who are you here with? These are just what i have written down from the audiobook - no idea if i altered them much. I'm pretty sure he changes them up though.
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:50 AM
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The purpose of all of the ones listed is logistics. For night game, logistics are as important, if not more than the actual interaction itself. It doesn't mean shit if you're a stone cold player, if the girl is only in town for the night and staying with her friend, there is no way you're getting her to leave her friend. When you screen for logistics, you learn these things 5 mins into the interaction, rather than 2 hrs later when you try to pull her and realize you wasted the whole night on a g…
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:47 AM
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Not really. If a girl is responding, she should be assumed to be interested. If she's not, then she has no interest. Ghosting is effective and commonplace, and is the least painful route for women.
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:42 AM
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not really. She might have been able to sense that she had higher value than him, in which case she dodged a bullet. Not that "dodged a bullet" is even the proper phrase. It's a coffee date. it's like the lowest investment date possible.
/r/seduction14/02/20 12:41 AM
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Not at all. To be frank, 20-22 yr old women LOVE 27-28 year old guys. I'm experiencing that now. For a while i was so butthurt that i had "missed my prime" and never get with a college girl again, but that is absolutely not true. It's WAY more easier to pull these girls at age 28 than it ever was in college.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:50 AM
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Ideally you want to talk to her a bit at least. I mean sure ask her out quick if you have zero other options but the best scenario would be if you could really engage her in a convo for like 5-10 mins and then ask her. Building more attraction/comfort in person really "locks in" numbers and dates. Shes a lot more likely to flake on some dude she only talked to for like 90 seconds as opposed to a guy that she vibed with for a good 10 mins. After class just tell her "hey walk with me for a minute"…
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:46 AM
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Yeah i really need to do more day game. Mall is a good place. You can bounce from store to store, you can actually shop or just act like you're shopping. Lots of girls and lots of "insta-dates" - you can meet a girl and pull her to come help you try on clothes or something, or get coffee, or go to the massage chairs. Normally when people are at the mall they have a few hrs to kill, and i've heard lay reports where guys meet at the mall and basically go get coffee and pull her home almost immedia…
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:21 AM
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I would wait a few days almost across the board. At least that's what i do. I'm kind of an ass though and hate texting so i borderline ignore them until i want to hit them up to do something. And i'm really not trying to get into any type of long term relationship, just more FWB or hookups. It depends what you're wanting. If you push and get the lay on the first date and only want to sleep with them occasionally, it's not crazy to wait even weeks, especially if you're both busy and have othr opt…
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:01 AM
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Wait a few days and text her ACTUAL concrete plans. Read the post Texting when drunk is generally a poor idea. And texting right after the date is generally a bad idea unless you just porked the everloving hell out of her. You can kinda do whatever you want as long as it comes from a place of abundance, but if you don't have that abundance, you have to "fake" it and just generally avoid being too polite or nice. Err on the side of less communication. Theres different philosophies about texting, …
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:51 AM
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That's pretty lame. Why would you text her "let's hang soon"? Just make plans with her dude. Wait a few days and text her ACTUAL concrete plans. She should be left wondering whether you like her at all, or whether you even want to see her again. Not have everything spelled out in a polite text soon after meeting. You think it's "polite", but it's not fun or mysterious at all and lays your cards out on the table too soon. Getting drunk isn't an excuse. Don't drink or put your phone away if it's l…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:45 AM
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Pretty shit attitude, but you do you i guess. And yes, since you're asking, getting drunk and texting too soon (and something probably needy or lame) is absolutely enough to get ghosted. Do that a few times and ideally you won't make the mistake again. Ideally, you have enough going on and enough girls you're dating to where it doesn't even occur to you to text her back that quickly, let alone worry about your "response time" at all. Girls can smell when you have nothing better going down. Nor w…
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:32 AM
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This sub is actually a joke. Try reading it from bottom to top some time and you'll realize the downvoted comments are the best info.
/r/seduction22/11/19 07:36 AM
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Yeah just try Cialis out. I think headaches are definitely an issue with Viagra. Believe it or not you might actually want to try a lower dose with Viagra. Try 25mg and maybe you won't have as much side effects. Also a few more herbal type stuff that works well for erection and sex drive black maca powder (killer stuff), ashwaghanda, horny goat weed, maybe L-arginine. Some of this herbal stuff can make you so horny and focused on sex that you kind of forget about any anxiety and just want it.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:54 AM
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Now, the other day I coaxed my girl into ignoring me and arguing just so she could drive me crazy. I’m just saying I use to punch a lot of dry wall and brake a lot of phones. Bruh what.
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:52 AM
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Once you get rejected a couple hundred times you start to stop worrying when/if they'll respond for the most part. You accept that women are flakey in general, and it will end eventually, whether that's before or after having sex with them, and having a needy attitude is only going to drive her away quicker. Rejection is just part of the game. Her loss. Don't take it so personal. It's a numbers game. She's not special. Spin multiple plates and improve yourself. Take responsibility for the fact t…
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:51 AM
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I straight up ignore boring questions or ones I don't want to answer in lieu of something more fun. I've learned that with this type of stuff you can simply change the convo to whatever you want.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:10 PM
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Gonna be honest, this stuff is pretty bad. I'm extremely skeptical that any of this happened with any girl that you hadn't already slept with before the convos. Or with girls that you haven't already talked with to the point where they've basically already made it known that they want to fuck you. Neither of those responses come off as "over-exaggerating" or joking, you just sound like a thirsty dude. Like i said, the only way this shit is legitimate is if you guys have already talked to the poi…
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:04 AM
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Dude you're rusty, it's all good. This game is cripplingly hard sometimes and you will move past it with more approaches and practice. Speaking as someone who got out of a long-ish relationship about a year ago, it takes FAR more than "a few weeks" to get the magic back. For the first few weeks (possibly months) i felt like i had never read a line of pickup stuff in my life. But it will come back. Take some time to work on yourself, get an easy lay where you can and stop worrying about being a s…
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:04 AM
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Thanks hun
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:50 AM
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Whether. The word you want is whether.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:48 AM
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How about the actual truth - "you didn't build enough attraction or really act like a man at all, so i'm going to go and get dick from someone who can actually do that and who goes after what he wants." Why do you need some bullshit to let you down easy when you can simply man up and realize that either ghosting or any of these silly lines both mean that you fucked up on the first date and didn't make it happen, didn't make her respect you, and that you need to get better. Instead of having an e…
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:46 AM
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No because this is r/seduction and it's mainly keyboard warriors stopping by from other subs that can only criticize and generally aren't even out in the field or giving others constructive advice on here.
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:06 AM
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Talking about your guys' ex is an EXTREMELY common talking point when first meeting a girl. The way he mentioned her was absolutely fine. It becomes weird to do once you start dating more and have more invested in each other, but being able to talk about dating other/previous people with someone you're attracted to on the initial interaction is generally a relaxed thing to do as long as you're not being toxic about it. Exes come up in essentially every successful first date i've had. If you do i…
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:02 AM
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indicator of interest. Typically more of a non-verbal behavior that indicates she is attracted to you.
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:00 AM
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Yeah it's very easy to criticize from behind a computer but it's a completely different animal to be standing a foot away from a pretty girl's face who you just approached in daylight, sober, and probably a bit nervous. Real world approaches are messy, real people get nervous, guys and girls both, and you don't have to do everything perfect to succeed. You just have to get out there and try enough.
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:58 AM
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It's fairly neutral when you're standing up like that but it's still a form of fidgeting and shifting around which is insecure and nervous behavior. Ideally you don't want to be moving around much at ALL when talking to someone who you want to perceive you as dominant except to emphasize your points and give more power to your story/lines or when making overt physical escalation moves.
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:56 AM
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Yeah there's like this weird inner game thing going on. It literally is anxiety - worrying about shit that might happen that ultimately doesn't matter and isn't even worth worrying about. Almost more like a performance anxiety. Does this not improve with repeated approaches? A lot of how to get over anxiety is just exposure therapy. Basically just exposing yourself to that which you're dreading and realizing that you didn't die, get arrested, or literally anything else that is bad except for lik…
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:50 AM
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Just do the question game. You take turns asking questions. Slowly ramp it up from more innocent ones like "when was your first kiss?" to stuff like "what's your biggest turn on?". I do this during tinder dates when i can't think of anything clever to say and once you've talked about sex like that, it's really not a problem getting her back to your place. People try to make this too complicated but the truth is, if shes meeting up with you on tinder, you generally just have to be cool, laidback,…
/r/seduction20/11/19 10:17 PM
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Does that make us sociopaths? 😆
/r/seduction20/11/19 06:44 AM
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Dude I'm not reading that. Crack is whack man
/r/seduction20/11/19 06:43 AM
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She's confronting him because she wants him to dominate her and she still wants to feel that push of security when he tells her no and orders her around. It's basically a shit test to see if OP's cousin is congruent with the dominant personality he's putting out. She can make her own decisions. If she really didn;t want to be controlled like that, she would say "peace!" and go fuck someone else. She likes it.
/r/seduction20/11/19 03:08 AM
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Or fulfilling a fantasy. He told her this right after fucking for the first time. She's a total sub that loves being told what to do and being controlled and bossed around. This shit is completely consensual and she's into it. OP's cousin has asked multiple girls before finding one with the same kinks as him and was excruciatingly straightforward about it. They probably have filthy kinky BDSM sex that OP's cousin obviously isn't going into detail about and she obviously loves it. I'm sure that t…
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:58 AM
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I want whatever drugs he has ingested.
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:41 AM
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I don't think there is a set time, and it depends on what happened. If you were a little needy, then it might be wise to wait a while. If you were killing it, you probably want to strike quick. Just off hand i would say maybe between 3-10 days you want to start setting up another one. It really just depends though. Ideally you want to kind of bridge this thing on the first date. Bring it up in conversation and say something like "we're going to do [blah] next week". If she's real into you, she w…
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:23 AM
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I would open the sets for him and bring him in. Determine some kind of signal or system for when he comes in, introduce him and pump his value. "This is Blah, this guy is the most [bullshit compliment] i've ever met." If you're good enough you probably don't need her, but if your girlfriend is cute, she can help bust these sets wide open. But it sounds like he probably wounldn't be able to handle like a group of solid 9s. 6-7's are generally pretty approachable if you're not needy (which you won…
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:16 AM
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Why would you not have both? Don't put too much stock in OLD but it is GREAT for learning. Learning how to text, getting easy meetups and lays to practice. Lots of flaking but it's a numbers game. Profile is CRUCIAL. But yes, Bumble is easier because they show interest. However tinder in my experience is for straight up hooking up, and you should definitely take advantage. On bumble i don't really count it as a "match" unless she opens you. Be aware that these apps use algorithms. They don't jus…
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:08 AM
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"hows your week?"
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:05 AM
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Honestly sometimes i think the world/culture has really changed. People don't feel the same way about monogamy and long term relationships. Maybe they've just woken up. They like to blame the "hookup culture" and higher divorce rates on kids/teens/partying, but maybe we're just evolving as a culture and realizing it's not usually healthy mentally or physically to be with one person the rest of your life, and i think women are realizing this too. Women have always really responded to sexuality, d…
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:30 AM
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What do you mean by "don't live alone"? If it's not with your parents, who cares if you have a roommate? Even if you share a room, just text him to clear out. I had a friend growing up that lived with his parents and would go to the weirdest places. Those carpool lots at night, back behind a dumpster (really dude?), in a bunch of trees. Dude was an animal. Point is that girls will go along with it. There's also those "lookout points" in a lot of areas where kids go at night to party. I've gone t…
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:10 AM
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Yeah i'm inclined to agree with this and just say to game girls outside of his workplace or tighter circles until he gets good. I read too much PUA shit when i was younger and definitely fell into the trap of needing to hit on everyone in my smaller circles, and pretty soon i think i just became known as too thirsty and locked myself out. Turns out cold approaches where you'll never see anyone again is VERY different from tight social circle game. Who'd have thought? lmao.
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:09 AM
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Social circle game is VERY different. I do think you need to take a more laidback, social approach when it comes to people you see regularly or work with. You really need to play it cool. A lot of guys straight up wouldn't game girls at work if it's a job they care about. I wouldn't unless i worked at a bar or something with quick turnover. For a career you care about? Not worth it unless she straight up comes onto you and you know she's not nuts and is down to earth. In pickup, you do have to "…
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:02 AM
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How the fuck is this kind of stuff being downvoted? I really have to start reading the threads in this sub from the bottom up for the best advice.
/r/seduction19/11/19 11:57 PM
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The one that Lenin man posted above
/r/seduction19/11/19 09:17 PM
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Yeah my main issue honestly is just the negativity. Like, a lot of pickup forums people can get aggro and everyone is trying to be all alpha and everything, but this sub just seems to like to bicker in an insecure way and pick apart different opinions in a completely disrespectful way. Like it's fine to have different opinions - pickup has tons of different styles that work for different people, but on here a lot of dudes just can't fathom anything outside their view or opinion and quickly just …
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:41 PM
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It's all good. Most of this stuff is mainly opinion anyway - not a ton of good data on stuff like this.
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:33 PM
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Well first off you can barely hear anyone speak so half the time your opening won't even be heard and it's not like you can have a conversation unless you isolate her to a quieter place. I'm talking more like actual nightclubs as opposed to bars. Dance floor game is a little weird and it's mostly about body language and kind of just "caveman"-ing it and being relatively aggressive and pretty masculine. Club girls typically put a lot more stock in social value, being "in" with the right people or…
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:29 PM
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I hate clubs but it works for some people. It's very non-verbal and status/social group based, but if you can pull it off then more power to you. I've always had more success at house parties where I know the owners.
/r/seduction19/11/19 05:09 AM
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Well you just doubled down on garbage. I will literally PM you a video of my dick in a girl if you really want to keep harping on this virgin thing. I'm a little disappointed in you, I thought you were more clever than this. Resorting to spamming "virgin" and counting my comment history votes. Believe it or not I could care less about upvotes from a sub that is generally misinformed and inexperienced. I don't even look at the upvotes after I comment lol. Sounds like youve given more thought to m…
/r/seduction19/11/19 05:04 AM
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It's infuriating. But if it's something you want to accomplish, just make an effort to really spend time approaching and learning. You're in probably the best environment for things to happen. In college, you just need to get out there, be social, and party and stuff. Join groups, go out with friends to house parties and just get used to approaching. I will say to be careful because college is SUPER social circle oriented game, so you probably can't be as bold as with randos at the bar in a big …
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:15 AM
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The end goal varies but to say sex is the sole drive and motivation is wrong. Are you sure about that? Yes people need confidence but the end goal is still sex. If you can't talk to people, it goes without saying that you can't talk to women and make sex happen, so yes, you do need to work on general social skills. One just has to come before the other, but the end goal in seduction and on this sub is still sex. I am really, super curious how many guys on here don't have the end goal of sex with…
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:08 AM
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Can you still have a "virgin mindset" while getting laid regularly with cute girls and being successful at seduction/pickup? And if so... does it even matter if you do have this "virgin mindset"? I suppose you can always get MORE results, but Virgin implies that you're not getting laid at all...but if you are, can you even say someone has a "virgin mindset", or that it's even negatively impacting things? That's like saying that the team that wins the superbowl has a "losing mindset". I'm genuine…
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:02 AM
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Right, yes i said the word relationship. The focus of seduction isn't on befriending women without a sexual aspect to it.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:57 AM
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The goal of seduction is to fuck. There are auxiliary motivations but the primary goal is to get sex or a sexual relationship.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:50 AM
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Pretty much is. You absolutely get better and figure out what works, just like any game/skill/craft. You "win" when you get laid or get into a relationship with a high value girl. That's the goal and you practice it and improve yourself until you achieve it.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:49 AM
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Well I lost it freshman year of college (and hardly even kissed a girl prior to that) but it was more that there were a couple long years where I was surrounded by smoking college girls and just couldn't close on much of anything that wasn't a completely mediocre girl even though I never had an issue with my looks. It's pretty maddening when you're in that environment and feel like everyone is banging these hot girls except you.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:37 AM
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Or get his hump on is more like it lmao
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:36 AM
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Ok cool I'll shoot it right over to you, let me find a bathroom.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:35 AM
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As I mentioned in another comment I had my dick inside the girl that I said that to so she must have been insane I guess. You're also a bit off on the virgin comment. I can screenshot the texts for you if you'd like. Would love to hit the bars with you and watch you in action. Bet your game is super tight. The approaches I mentioned were actually at the bars in the span of about 3 hrs. I worked 10 hrs that day. I actually don't typically attack or insult people on here. You guys are the ones get…
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:29 AM
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You want one too? I'm 6'1" by the way hun
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:24 AM
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It should be noted that just getting the number and getting out will be shooting yourself in the foot if the number is the main goal and you're not spending much time with them. There are different "qualities" of phone numbers and the best "quality" ones are typically the ones where you spent a reasonably long amount of time with her (let's say 30 min to 90 mins). Number closes after just a 5 min convo almost never pan out in a bar environment, ESPECIALLY if you don't meet up with her again that…
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:20 AM
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This is borderline bad/risky advice but have you tried not using a condom? It's genuinely shocking to me how many girls are okay with fucking without a condom after just meeting someone. The VAST majority of my recent hookups, they didn't even blink or ask for a condom when transitioning to penetrative sex. Kind of scares me, but... To be honest the process of putting a condom on is a buzzkill and gives her too long to have doubts. If she's watching you put a condom on, then it's "real" that she…
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:02 AM
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Dude I would honestly just try to get them both to your place directly. You've already had them over more than once, I'm assuming you've kissed them. Just suggest a movie night and then do the ole massage thing that used to be passed around in the community. I'm not really a threesome expert but I've heard that you want to make it more about THEIR fantasy rather then your own. I feel like slow foreplay and a long buildup is crucial to getting over any mental block they might have and getting the…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:55 PM
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It will get easier. The fear and anxiety never totally goes away (well unless you're absolutely on fire on those rare nights), but you do get numb to it. I've heard it described as approach anxiety being a survival mechanism. Approaching girls in modern society is almost completely risk free, but for humans in the past, approaching a girl or being rejected could literally get you killed/injured by another man or alienated from your tribe/community/whatever. The ideal place to get to is one where…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:47 PM
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A couple things to keep in mind: Be self amused - the goal here is to enjoy yourself and everything will follow. Don't be concerned with impressing her or saying the right thing at the right time. Literally what should be going through your head when you see a girl at the bar is "okay, how can I make this fun for myself?" Entertain yourself, have fun and be social. Attraction isn't a choice - men and women are already attracted to each other. You're already in a place (bar) where people come to …
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:24 PM
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You got some ketchup on yo face
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:20 PM
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You honestly just need to get over this hump and get it one way or another. As was mentioned, if you're absolutely not seeing results and are truly digging into good material and approaching women (most people aren't), then at that point you could consider trying tinder and just trying to get with a mediocre looking girl. I mean hell, if you have some money you could honestly consider getting an escort. You really just need to take a few months and focus on game and approaches if you haven't alr…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:11 PM
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I do think it can work, and I've heard of people that have done it. Also I think I've heard it called the Apocalypse Opener, and the main part is to absolutely hold your ground and your frame, and don't diffuse the tension with some lame comment. Hold it and wait for her to respond. She will probably stare at you wondering if you're serious, and if you hold your ground, even if she doesn't leave with you quickly, it can be a good way to start the interaction and get her to take you seriously. Pr…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:06 PM
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Well first off you should always assume attraction. Touching is VERY good, and is a good sign. Not texting back is a bad sign, but sometimes it's hard to tell with these college girls. But I'm honestly a fan of pulling back a bit at this point. Pull back but make very direct and confident moves, if that makes sense. If a girl wants to date you, and is attracted to you enough, she will make time or at least offer an alternative date/time to hangout. I don't know what these "events" are but you mi…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:48 PM
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Do not send her that message, that's an awful idea and will kill any attraction she has for you.
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:45 PM
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You're already fucking her in a regular basis. Stop overthinking things and do what you want to do. You're not obligated to hang out with her if she texts. For all she knows you were dating some other girl that night (well, minus the goodnight texts and all that). But yeah it seems pretty clear that she's catching feelings, and honestly you're starting to get a bit too into your head and allowing her actions/words to rattle you too much, judging by this post. You need to take a step back and try…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:32 PM
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Check your PMs hun. Sent you something super juicy and stiff 😋
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:29 PM
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Show up at her door with your dick in a pizza box, that'll work for sure.
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:15 PM
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U jealous bruh? Bet you're absolutely slaying that pussy out there, I'm jealous of how much you're getting laid. I'll send you a dick pic if you want darling
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:10 PM
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Weird because I said this same thing last week to a girl and fucked her a few days later. But you do you.
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:39 PM
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It's just an example. Hence the blah blah whatever. Ideally you establish something you can call back to during the initial convo. For example, you'd tease her with something like "you're not one of those crazy gym girls that's going to slash my tires are you?" (Or whatever similar thing comes to mind) And bust on her for that and then call back to it later by concluding that she's sane enough for you to get a drink with her. It's literal bullshit, you just need to not be boring. You can say wha…
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:30 PM
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Lol I'm doing just fine on that front but thanks for your concern
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:31 PM
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We're assuming that she even has a boyfriend. The "boyfriend" card is also a classic way to get rid of some chode that has proved himself to be not someone that they would want to sleep with. It can also be a test thrown out by a girl who DOES have a boyfriend and is completely open cheating on him with you and wants to gauge if you let that shake you or stop you. The type of guy that girls cheat on their boyfriends with are precisely the ones who don't give a flying fuck that she has a BF and w…
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:34 AM
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It's just frustrating because it's supposed to be a community where guys who need help with women can go to get it, but instead, because of the way that reddit works and the fact that the majority of the people that come to this sub are complete chodes that are both inexperienced and don't know what they're talking about, the garbage gets upvoted, and instead of growing better at this, the chodes read the bad info that has like 32 upvotes and further entrench themselves in a shitty mindset. An u…
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:31 AM
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ha right?
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:28 AM
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So the issue here is not your soft dick, but how you reacted to it. Obviously you want to blow her away in bed as much as possible, and it's not a great look to die on her like that, but at the same time, guys get soft for different reasons, and it's relatively natural. The bottom line is for it NOT TO LET IT PHASE YOU. It literally doesn't matter. It just happened, and you laugh it off, don't make it an issue, and just start going down on her or something. You're being too understanding, lovey-…
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:24 AM
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The shit that gets upvoted on this sub astounds me. I need to go back to sosuave and stop reading the garbage on this sub before I start allowing it to irritate me.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:16 AM
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Coming right out the gate with it like that isn't ideal. She gave him her number and didn't mention the boyfriend immediately, and even responded to the text at all, so likely she was attracted to some degree and the first text killed it. "I was wondering"? No, first off, just tell her what you guys are going to do together instead of "wondering" if she "wants to". What kind of lame shit is that? Do you think Brad Pitt "wonders" if a girl "wants to" do something with him? Or any confident man wi…
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:14 AM
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lol.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:12 AM
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Coming right out the gate with it like that isn't ideal. She gave him her number and didn't mention the boyfriend immediately, and even responded to the text at all, so likely she was attracted to some degree and the first text killed it. "I was wondering"? No, first off, just tell her what you guys are going to do together instead of "wondering" if she "wants to". What kind of lame shit is that? Do you think Brad Pitt "wonders" if a girl "wants to" do something with him? Or any confident man wi…
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:02 AM
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First off nicely done! Just getting out there is most of the battle. Dance floor girl - just move on, sometimes they're just not interested. You should get used to rejection or low interest and just move on - it's not a big deal and happens all the time, even to guys who go out constantly or who are super attractive. The second one you definitely could have been more engaging. "Interview" questions are a great first step just to get you out there and talking, but you have to realize that a girl …
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:42 PM
2

You have to realize that probably 8/10 times the average guy screws it up for himself. Even when it's a fucking done deal like a tinder meetup or a girl getting in the Uber with a guy or getting a girl back to their place, guys will still screw it up. Does or says something really unattractive and then it's done. The girl has to excuse herself or reject him flat out. How many guys have you known that couldn't make it happen, or how many times in your life have your screwed up an interaction with…
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:18 PM
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Lol okay
/r/seduction31/10/19 04:30 AM
1

Well i mean maybe the video content just because it's more of a pain in the ass to transfer/store, but the mp3 or ebook stuff is easy as shit to get ahold of.
/r/seduction31/10/19 01:18 AM
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There probably is more money in self help. I don't blame them at all - they were completely underwater for a long time and likely don't want to go back to that. "Game" is hard to sell, especially in the current climate. It's not a sustainable business model for a business that's as popular as RSD is. You really don't think that if they could make bank of strictly game that they would? You can tell that's where their heart has always been at, and they tried it for a long ass time and obviously it…
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:12 PM
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So he is aggressive with the sales tactics... I figured everyone was already aware of that. Doesn't mean the material is bad. Was hoping you were going to detail how the seminar went and not complain about them trying to upsell you. They're a business and you're an adult man - just say no. Buyer beware and these days everyone is trying to sell you something, so i'm not sure why you're surprised.
/r/seduction30/10/19 08:05 PM
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I definitely wouldn't use it as an excuse not to approach. Just assume that it's attraction, submissiveness, and maybe a little bit of shyness. Girls get shy and awkward too. I'm not a believer that looks make a big difference for guys but in college, height and being built will definitely help you. On campus living is a great way to get to know people. Don't be shy with your neighbors, stop by their door to say hi. In our dorms most people left their door open when hanging out. Or if people are…
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:41 PM
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It's common. Good on you for approaching. Just have to keep doing it. Having a bit of a "brain freeze" is perfectly normal. One good way to avoid this is to not give your mind time to think about itself. For example, approaching IMMEDIATELY is HUGE. What's the first thing that comes into your head when you see a cute girl? It's your natural, manly, sex driven instinct to go "she's cute - i want that". What comes soon after that, after waiting more than a few seconds to approach? "Shit what if i …
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:15 AM
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I mean for Christ sake at least replace beautiful with "interesting". Just because you're being direct doesn't mean you have to call her beautiful. textbook shit would say to compliment her based on literally anything that's not her body or face. Could be a necklace or something. Interesting at least sets the frame that you're not completely into her and that she kind of needs to qualify herself to you. "Interesting" implies that you aren't completely decided on her and need to find more out abo…
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:04 AM
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Right? Going back to fucking sosuave
/r/seduction29/10/19 03:23 AM
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You took a pretty bad opener and made it worse. You're complimenting her appearance and you're also apologizing for it in the same opening. And just because you saw a result from it once (did you even kiss or fuck her?), you're using that to justify it. And "don't hate me" could be used in so many better ways once she responds.
/r/seduction29/10/19 03:21 AM
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Yeah i'd sleep with her but definitely don't get too close. Treat her as a booty call and continue to go after other girls.
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:31 AM
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So dance floor game is not something I really do. But I guess my approach would be to go in full of energy, able to entertain myself and have a good time regardless and then just suddenly notice her and immediately take her hand or something. I do think physical contact is important on the dance floor but you have to be careful. Touching her lower arm and sliding your hand down until you are taking her hand and then either doing a spin move or just taking both her hands and dancing facing her be…
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:21 PM
1

Try to get with a group that goes to House parties honestly. Clubs can be pretty tricky at college. They're a little superficial and everyone is dancing and you can't always hear talking so it becomes kind of just a caveman type of game. They're kind of a trap. House parties are where it's at, but keep in mind that college is VERY social circle oriented and cliquey. The best thing you can do is befriend people that are renting out houses that are throwing parties. You can definitely game random …
/r/seduction28/10/19 07:12 PM
1

You just have an extremely negative mindset in essentially every comment and sound like you just want to argue. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:33 PM
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You just have a super self defeating mindset. No game is going to help you until you fix more fundamental issues. If you're so obsessed with "true to yourself" and against changing anything then maybe this isn't the right place for you. To improve as a person you have to make pretty massive changes to how you act and think, and if you're not willing to even entertain the idea of doing that, let alone try it, you're not going to get anywhere.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:31 PM
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God forbid you do and say things that you "otherwise" wouldn't if you want to achieve a goal. Sounds like a fantastic way to stagnate in every aspect of your life.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:26 PM
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Because the majority of people on this sub are very uncomfortable at bars and clubs and like to make excuses to themselves why they shouldn't go there to meet girls. Night game is just so efficient.
/r/seduction28/10/19 04:11 AM
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You sound like you're 12. Who the fuck cares what he calls it on an online, anonymous post asking for advice? Dude is asking for advice - don't be an ass.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:49 AM
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Keep in mind that the anecdotal report of some random dude on reddit is not exactly rock solid compared to the years of extensive research that's been conducted. Just because you didn't have good experience with cardio doesn't mean it's optimal. OP should really just read some sports nutrition and exercise science books.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:46 AM
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Both. Both are essential to reshaping your body. Building muscle and burning fat go hand in hand. You can eat at maintenance and recomp your body by burning fat and gaining muscle. Just eat clean, workout hard but safe, and you will see results. I've never been a fan of calorie counting, but it's worked for plenty of people. Those nutrition labels can be off by, what, like 10-20%? I mean your surplus or deficit is going to be that much anyway. Just eat super clean. None of that dirty bulk shit. …
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:42 AM
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Yeah it's fine, but...i guess why do you care? You're not seeing her anymore and you've already fucked her a bajillion times, so who cares what you text her? I mean i guess maybe if you want to leave her on the backburner for if she breaks up with the dude.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:39 AM
1

fuckidy fuck fuck - you can say it - it's okay man. Try it, it's fun.
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:36 AM
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Yaaaasssss
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:48 AM
1

So...you still have a lot of progress that can be made. If you've only had sex 3-4 times, you're not really in a position yet to complain about the quality of sex lmao. No offense meant. You are in the right place if you want to get good at sex. The culture you're surrounded by will give you a lot of opportunity to get with girls. I fail to see how this is anything but the ideal culture to experiment sexually. Use it to your advantage to become better at sex and at approaching/gaming. You are in…
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:47 AM
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I actually almost never go to clubs - mainly just bars. Dance floor game isn't really my thing, clubs are expensive and they can be annoying. I like busier bars that have a dancing area but still have decent people there. Don't really have any specific routine or lines per say. I have a really solid wing that is into the game and is ALWAYS down to go out, and I really just try to get into a social mindset and just approach over and over, hopefully just getting into state that i can ride out the …
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:29 AM
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Yeah that's a little bizarre. I don't think there's anything wrong with introducing him to her. You guys kissed on the cheek and it's obvious you're "dating". This is definitely not a standard case and it's rare that even PUA guys will straight up try to steal dates in front of people - maybe if they're really old school or something. I think there's two ways you can play it. Play it completely cool and be almost amused by it, almost going along with it in a playful way. Asking him/them "are you…
/r/seduction28/10/19 01:36 AM
1

A daygame approach is arguably more awkward for girls than nights. We all know that a girl will give her number to you just to get you the fuck away from her, and this is doubly true for daygame when shes sober, busy, frazzled, etc. Saying that day numbers are "better" is foolish. It's entirely on you and your approach. If you're shit at approaching and can't spike attraction, it makes almost no difference whether that was at a bar or a starbucks, she's not going to fucking meet up with you. You…
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:11 AM
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"Nightgame attracts mostly one type of girls; the extroverted party girl with possible addiction and mental health issues" Sorry but that's not accurate at all. Like, i get what you're trying to say, but we're not just talking about exclusive, snobby LA clubs here - there's all kinds of bars everywhere and a neighborhood dive bar, or a blues or jazz bar attracts a completely different girl than a club. Go to the fucking bar with a good vibe. It really sounds like you were just going to shitty pl…
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:38 PM
1

I have found that loving yourself and self confidence really comes down to your lifestyle and having a good balance of things on all front. Taking care of your body and mind through weightlifting/yoga and meditation. Reading and keeping your mind sharp and always feeling like you're learning things and progressing as a person. Accomplishing your goals in a career that is fulfilling to you. Making enough money to be comfortable and be able to go out and do the things you want to do, not having de…
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:22 PM
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You don't need to drink. It's not a high school basement party - people don't keep tabs and generally don't know or care how much you've had to drink. Just order a sprite or water. Bars are ideal for pickup because it's an incredibly dense gathering of girls who are already primed and heightened and looking for a guy to date or hookup with. They're drinking and they're social and receptive to approaches from random guys. You really won't ever come close to the sheer volume of approaches that a b…
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:05 PM
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It's not "be yourself" it's "be your best self". And let the best parts of your personality show through - not the shit ones.
/r/seduction27/10/19 11:01 PM
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"So straight away we can say night game will never work for me" It works just fine and honestly sounds like your only real option. A bar or club is the one environment where there is a very dense gathering of attractive girls, who are all primed for fun and sex and getting to know guys - nearly all of whom are sexually available and single and open to hooking up. You can try day game with what you want to do, but most guys don't want to spend fucking 6 hours in a day walking through malls and co…
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:56 PM
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HAHAHAHA so just now i got this response: "I'm down. sorry it took me a hot minute to respond i deleted the app for awhile" This is some voodoo shit. Like i get why they work, but i still didn't expect them to hahaha.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:35 PM
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Midtown is too rich for my blood. Rather not pay $8 for a PBR :P
/r/seduction26/10/19 09:12 PM
2

To a certain extent you shouldn't be worried if she rejects you. At all. I've had good success just touching her chin and turning her face towards me and going for it. Right in the middle of us talking or when sitting next to each other playing a game or watching something. Even when it seems not the right time for a kiss. Go for no. Rejection is okay. It's good even in some cases. It means you went for it. Rejection will spike attraction if you roll with it, unphased and then try again a few mi…
/r/seduction26/10/19 06:54 PM
1

I mean yeah you should normally be doing that anyway. Getting better at this is a learned skill and something that takes constant practice. The only real way to get better is constant approaches and reference experiences. And talking to multiple girls at once will give you that abundance mentality that girls can smell on you. You don't have to sleep with every girl you game. It's good practice to go after girls as often as possible.
/r/seduction26/10/19 06:14 PM
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I mean...isn't that exactly who you'd want giving advice? Pretty much any "pro" still lurking around seduction or game subs probably wasn't a natural and started at the bottom too.
/r/seduction26/10/19 02:45 AM
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I mean the best way is to just go after cute girls, whether they seem promiscuous or not. Don't try and talk yourself out of it, just tap into your inner drive and go for it. You'll find that these stereotypical hotties can actually be: interesting, easy to talk to, and rather boring in bed, and that the nice/polite looking girls can actually be: very bitchy, uninteresting, and wild in bed. It mostly just sounds like you're trying to talk yourself out of just going for it - so just force yoursel…
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:47 PM
4

It seems like you have a weird view of female sexuality. Kind of a Madonna whore thing. I hate to break it to you but girls are extremely sexual and this ideal of a "conservative" girl that you have in your head is just not true. These "pure" girls like to be fucked by dominant men just as much as "hoes" and they can and have let random men stick their cocks in them whenever they feel like it. And they enjoyed it. Try to avoid labeling girls as "hoes". Often the "nice", "religious" girl is more …
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:51 PM
1

K.
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:22 AM
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Here's the thing about alcohol - you think it works, but it DOESN'T WORK, at least not NEARLY as much as you think it does. It can be a very small TOOL that can help a little bit, but it will not replace confidence. If you can't approach and attract well without it, getting drunk will not fix it. I really like to drink. And one thing i've noticed after going out a ton is that my success is pretty much independent of alcohol. We use alcohol to try to feel comfortable but it's not true core confid…
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:12 PM
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This. It's not a job interview. You want to be entertaining, fun, social, and different. Let your personality show through and don't be afraid to be bold and a little goofy. But keep your intention. Your intention is to get with her. You're not a clown. You want to sleep with her, right? Or do you just want to talk to her and be friends? I'm guessing the former. Touch her - spin her around, grab her hand, put your hand around her waist, and ultimately you need to try for the kiss. Stop worrying …
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:49 PM
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.and I did ask her to fuck a few times (nicely) and she's not into me, but we stayed friends because I never tried anything that made her feel uncomfortable or that I was just trying to play her and had no other interest Please do not listen to this guy lmaoo. A nice guy asking her to politely fuck is about the most uncomfortable thing you can probably do to her. And the very reason why she had "no interest" in you is because you were afraid of going for her and being 'impolite".
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:48 PM
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You're taking it to an extreme and using hyperbole. Completely ignoring a girl and never even acknowledging her is completely different from being slightly aloof, mildly unattainable, and making her qualify herself to you.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:34 PM
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It's just...not attractive. Girls say they want direct and honest and nice but they play all kinds of games and reject the guys that pursue them too nicely and too directly in favor of the guys that they feel like they can't get. Of course you're going to "appreciate" a guy that compliments you and let it boost your ego, but are you going to go home with him? If a girl comes up to me and says i'm cute and that we should go on a date - sure, on one level I ENJOY that. It gives me an ego boost. Bu…
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:26 PM
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I disagree completely. Indirect game is pretty much built from the ground up FOR guys that are not conventionally attractive to game solid 10's. Not that physical attractiveness means much for guys, but if you're lower on that scale and shes high value (aka HOT), indirect becomes a very powerful alternative. For example, opening a girl at the bar over the shoulder with an off-hand remark that seems almost disinterested while other guys are directly approaching, communicating their interest blunt…
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:10 PM
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Night game leads are just flakey as fuck in general. It's a numbers game. Let's say you meet like 10 girls at a parties in a month and exchange numbers. only 4 of them might actually even be intending on hanging out with you later, and only 1-2 of them might pan out. But real talk - if she's asking you to walk her home from a house party, it's on and you NEED to escalate. Kiss her. Tell her you need to come inside and use the bathroom real quick, and then start hanging out with her and escalatin…
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:34 PM
2

If you're a guy with social skills, game, great appearance, dominance, etc, than literally ANYTHING you say to a woman can be an effective opener. When you're really in state, you can say basically anything and it will hit, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea the other 80% of the time.
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:17 PM
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Basically yeah. It's usually not coming from a place where you're higher value. It's usually from a place where you think she's above you and for whatever reason you're trying to build her up even more, "win" your way into her pants, and simultaneously coming off like every other guy. Incidentally enough, compliments become a better option if shes a bit less attractive. Compliment a 10/10, and even if it's not about her appearance, and you'll likely get blown out. That's not the shit she wants t…
/r/seduction24/10/19 06:16 PM
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Women sleep with people who aren't worried if they'll come off as a douche. They don't sleep with guys who are too scared to escalate when given a very good opportunity. She wants to sleep with you. Treat it that way and proceed with that in mind. Given your history with her you absolutely need to escalate as quickly as possible. Like borderline caveman. Don't ask her if she "wants" to come over. Don't beat around the bush. Go forward with intention, take action, and tell her to come over but gi…
/r/seduction23/10/19 08:38 PM
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I mean at this point i think you're just overthinking it. She's into you, you've giving her good sex and a fun time and she enjoys hanging out with you and wants to keep hanging out. Pretty much the ideal situation - hanging with a cool girl without the responsibility of a relationship, and it sounds like she's not giving you shit for seeing other girls and being catty or super jealous. I would just enjoy it. But be mildly cautious about coming off as needy. Be SLIGHTLY less affectionate and ava…
/r/seduction23/10/19 06:08 AM
1

Oh for fucks sake.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:23 PM
1

She likes you dude
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:19 PM
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You don't.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:18 PM
2

Take a shot of whiskey and just go for it dude. She already wants to meet up - it's in the bag.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:18 PM
1

Hard to say. I would definitely let it be for even up to a week or so. But if she's the one who typicially initiates plans, I would wait a bit and let her. IME a girl who initiates plan making is very interested. If you're the one who always makes plans then maybe give it a week or two and reach out very directly with zero hint of needyness or that you did anything wrong. Act like youvr just been busy and straight up tell her (don't ask) what you guys are going to do for plans.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:11 PM
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Yeah it's a combination of there being multiple schools of thought and multiple ways to skin a cat, and also the fact that the majority of people posting on here are not qualified to be giving dating advice. A lot of people parroting stuff without even really internalizing it or even understanding what it actually means or how to apply it. Reddit is a weird society hive mind thing where it's not the best or most factual advice that gets upvoted but rather the most popular or the most clever, by …
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:08 PM
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Poor guy. This shit is so unbelievably insane.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:02 PM
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This is great stuff. Your analysis seems really self aware and spot on too. Great attitude. I got shot down HARD repeatedly in Saturday and admit that i let it put me off for most of the night but wound up having a solid set later on where I was absolutely on which kinda made up for it. Haha one girl straight up denied me the phone number in front of the group, saying she was "with" her friend there (female). Asked her "you guys are dating?" And she said yes again lol. Another girl that looked s…
/r/seduction22/10/19 10:33 PM
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I don't agree with that necessarily. If she's spending this amount of time with you, it honestly seems like she's scared of catching feelings. If she's spending all evening and then most of the next day with you and being affectionate, talking about meeting friends... that's not typicial fuckbuddy stuff. Even if you guys are having sex frequently, that's not something girls do with guys they don't like. IMO you were actually in a bit of a position of power at one point. She was getting scared th…
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:44 PM
1

Sure man
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:39 PM
1

I hate them. Movie dates are suitable further into the relationship when you're comfortable just sitting there with each other, when you're both cool with splitting the bill, etc. For an initial date, there's almost no time for actually talking/flirting, and movie dates in general carry this very bad connotation because every chump guy since the beginning of time has taken her to an awkward "dinner and a movie" and probably spend too much on her hoping to get in her pants. It also makes things a…
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:35 PM
1

Don't pay much attention to her. Just proceed as usual, being mildly standoffish but not so much that she thinks you're mad. It shouldn't phase you that she doesn't respond but at the same time a high value guy wouldn't go out of his way to be friendly or nice or chase her if she wasn't replying. Don't be the "nice guy" because judging by your post it sounds like you didn't push for a kiss or much of any touching or anything really sexual. College girls lose interest FAST if you don't escalate q…
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:27 PM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:25 PM
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Options 1 and 2 are bad. They are weak, typical of what chodes have done in the past, and communicate unattractive things. Particularly the chocolate. Are you trying to A) date this girl or B) be her friend and thank her for helping your mom. I'm guessing A. Also you should not wait any longer. Take action. Hesitation will only hurt you. The window is closing and the worst thing you can do is do nothing. Talk/flirt with her a bit more. It sounds like you guys haven't really had much time to inte…
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:20 PM
1

I disagree. She's into you. And regardless you should always assume attraction.
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:17 PM
3

Yes. James Bond in the club doesn't work. Girls want the guys who bring the party and who other people think are fun. Don't be the chode standing on the wall nursing a drink. But also don't do the lame thing where you dance and hover around a girl trying to get her attention. You should be dancing to entertain YOURSELF and then if you see a girl nearby, go at her with intention and open with something, maybe like spin her or something.
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:11 PM
1

Get two types of fragrance/cologne (or samples), spray one on each wrist and ask which she likes better
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:10 PM
2

Sure it's polite but why would you break that tension.
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:02 PM
2

Alright give me your top tinder lines and I'll try them. But NOT that baby shit lmao. I'm not trying to wind up on someone's screenshot on Twitter
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:14 PM
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What the fuck lol You should make an ebook lmaoooooo TEXT GAME - Step 1 - Send her "I'm tryna put a baby up in you".
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:06 PM
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Text game is important to a degree but in all honesty you should text as little as possible. I'm not even as much of a fan of using it to build sexual tension or flirt as I used to be. Dating has changed and these days girls are so fucking flakey and will misinterpret everything. Especially if you're talking about numbers from a bar approach or OLD like most are these days. Yes it's true that girls text way more than phone calls but texting remains a very poor means of communication and one that…
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:52 AM
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Oh Christ you sound like fucking Yaron from Wet Hot American Summer. And also "women sense my power. And they seek the life essence. I don't not avoid women Mandrake. But I do deny them my essence..."
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:37 AM
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Just to be clear - you've never had sex with this girl. You're "seeing" other, hotter girls but not having sex with them either and basically holding out for some girl that you've basically only talked to and not done anything sexual with. A girl that says she's never fucked or had a BF, which either makes her a fucking liar (baaaad trait for a future wife) or she's completely inexperienced with dating and sex at age 21 (another bad trait for both a f-buddy or a LTR, and one that a high value gu…
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:18 AM
1

So many huge red flags here it's not even funny. Not to be rude but it sounds like you have a ways to go in terms of inner game. Meet her if you want and if it doesn't cost you much money, but in all honesty you should just run away. I'm confused why she's even meeting up with you if she made it clear she doesn't think of you in a sexual way. Regardless you don't want to mess with a girl that [says she] had never had sex or a BF.
/r/seduction22/10/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah that's a tough one. Like anything else in the game, it seems simple in theory but then when you're in front of them it kinda goes out the window. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself. Kino is important, but take it slow. Typically the first touching that happens is a hug or a handshake. Get comfortable bringing girls in for a firm hug. Not a wussy hug where you don't press your chest against her and just barely touch your fingertips on her upper back, but an ACTUAL solid hug like you…
/r/seduction21/10/19 08:31 PM
1

This is great. You could even use this on a girl you just met when doing night game. Just isolate from her group of friends to the patio or something and then run it.
/r/seduction18/10/19 09:44 PM
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I didn't watch the video (sorry!) But I think some of the best advice to live by when it comes to girls is: "never give them a straight answer". Girls don't want a straight answer from someone they're attracted to. They don't want boring interview questions. They don't want supplication. They want to have fun and experience a wide range of emotions. The more you can misinterpret and tease them and bust on them (giggity), the better. Role play, flip the script, make it a game, or just spout absol…
/r/seduction18/10/19 09:32 PM
1

To see how you would react to it
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:13 PM
1

It really just depends. This is just one of these cases where you have to gauge it based on other info. But regardless, you should not sit around waiting for "signs" or even be worrying about this question. ALWAYS assume it's on. Questioning whether she likes you serves ABSOLUTELY no purpose. Is she responding to you? Yes? It's on. You should always be pushing for a meetup regardless. Sending a text takes almost zero effort on your part so you lose absolutely nothing by assuming it's on and tryi…
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:24 AM
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet honestly. Seems like your game wasn't on point based on what you said (no offense) or you might have gotten farther with her, but it's probably not even worth it, and she might have just rejected you just for the fuck of it or for an ego boost. Having her over and not making a move was a crucial mistake. She doubtless would have been down to hookup the first night if you went for it. It is almost an absolute certainty that if a girl comes to your place during the …
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:09 AM
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Niiiiice. For the record man, get that 60% of my full potential shit out of your head. As you've already demonstrated, that stuff means fuck all. The more you make excuses for not approaching, the less success you'll have.
/r/seduction17/10/19 11:58 PM
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This is good stuff.
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:09 PM
2

If she really wanted to hang out with you one-on-one, she would do just that. She doesn't just "accidentally" invite three dudes along on your date. The wording and intention behind your text was not good to be honest. I think that better response on your part would be: A) a cheeky comment standing your ground and reinforcing that this is a one-on-one meetup, but doing so without insecurity, B) bailing/ghosting/something came up, or C) not even caring that they come along because you are the pri…
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:51 PM
1

Well first off - ALWAYS assume that it's on. Never put yourself in the friend zone. instead, take action immediately and act through your intentions. It's fine to be there for her, but be very weary of falling into the trap of being the person that she vents to but doesn't sleep with. She has girlfriends and chode men for that. It's probably not too late, but you need to take action IMMEDIATELY if you want to push this towards dating. Don't be the shoulder that she cries on unless you want to ju…
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:33 PM
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I like that response - i have to remember that lol
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:25 PM
1

I think your major mistake was asking your friend to talk to her about YOUR dating situation and what YOU should do. That's not attractive to her at all. You think you're getting "insider" information, but instead you're letting her know that you're unsure of what to do and whether she likes you. ALWAYS assume attraction. You will know pretty quickly if a girl isn't attracted to you - there's no reason to spend time worrying about it or asking people to ask her about it. Dinner and a movie, is..…
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:20 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:20 PM
1

Agree to disagree. That's a really bad mentality to have. Any completely average or below average looking dude can look as good as he needs to look in order to pull 10's with a haircut, tan, good posture, clothes from Target and a half decent workout/diet routine. An extremely hot guy who is getting blown out on approaches is still just a chump whose getting blown out. What girls value in a guy is very different from what guys value in a girl and short ugly guys with solid game bang 10's just fi…
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:40 PM
1

Yeah man if she's hot I would still try to bang her just to show yourself she's not special (and if she's hot, welll... 😁). Just be careful, she just seems like the kind of girl to play mad games and try to get in your head
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:07 PM
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She's a party girl dude. She's out there getting dick from all kinds of dudes and being toxic and in your face about it meanwhile you're getting lovey dovey on park benches with her. I really wouldn't waste your time. Try to bang her but please for the love of God don't fall for her. Her immediately talking about the guys she hooked up with after meeting you is a massive red flag. Telling you about all these guys she fucked is not something a sane girl does. The fact that you want to lock her do…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:54 PM
2

You need Jesus
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:51 PM
1

We chatted and hit it off a bit but after I got up to talk with other people I felt that vibe fading for a minute and usually I’d give up but I said fuck it I’m the man and if I want her I’m gonna do it. So I pulled a power move I put on All Falls Down and Slow Jamz by Kanye and I know every word to both. I saw her singing Syleena Johnson’s parts and I mad that unbreakable I’m gonna fuck you later eyes while sing and dancing a bit to myself in front of all my boys. Once I did that her body langu…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:42 PM
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You don't have a strong enough frame to just order a water or diet Coke when you go out for a drink? Who cares if it has alcohol? You're going to compromise your health goals because you're worried she will judge you for NOT drinking alcohol? Lol. Who gives a fuck? Do what you want to do. She's not meeting up with you to drink, she's meeting up with you to MEET YOU and interact with you. The alcohol/food means fuck all. She's calling you weird just to be playful and test your frame. If you act w…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:37 PM
1

You're assuming that A) she's telling the truth when saying she just wants to date, and B) that she doesn't enjoy great sex. Don't be your own worst enemy. What do you lose by still going out with a girl and escalating? Not much, you can still practice, and it will actually result in lays believe it or not. Escalate and be sexual and don't do "provider" things with her and you will know where you ACTUALLY stand instead of relying on words which could be complete bullshit just to test how dominan…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:33 PM
1

That can be really hard. Usually when that happens, it is because you didn't spend ENOUGH time with her. My 15 min convos never really result in a date, but if we really vibe for a good bit and she gets comfortable with me, there's a much higher chance of response. It could also be your text game and response time. But if you're spending a lot of time, then that's not the problem. I wouldn't text the next morning. Like ever. I frequently wait a few days even to text, and ideally you want to text…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:15 PM
2

For all intents and purposes really doesn't matter. Stop worrying about the words. You can spew absolute garbage if you can't think of anything else. Sure it's better to be clever and seductive but saying generic "hey how are you?" and being seen talking to a cute girl is immensely better than never opening her at all for fearing your line isn't good enough. It depends where you're at but in my city people are very friendly and you just have to be social and not be the guy standing by the wall w…
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:01 PM
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I replied: "Thanks, you too", after this we had a brief conversation and I noticed several indicators of interest. My problem is that I want to seduce her without seeing myself as a needy. It is a place where I usually go and I know that I will have more approaches with her. I would like to know how I should act from now on during the next approaches. The work is already done dude. You've spiked attraction, now all you need to do is continue the interaction. She sees you as dominant and confiden…
/r/seduction06/10/19 04:53 PM
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There's no way to stay "on" or in state. Some things can help, sure, but if you're an introvert you have to just expose yourself and accept that it's going to suck. You can't wait around in life until you're 100% to do anything. The more you sit around and worry about getting in state, the bigger the negative impact will be. Accept that there will be tons of nights that you're off and just get blown out over and over again, and accept that things are awkward and uncomfortable. Approaching is sca…
/r/seduction06/10/19 11:27 AM
1

Talk to him
/r/seduction06/10/19 10:56 AM
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