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Would you rather they giggle but continue the conversation or that it dies out and they start looking for the exit sign? Yes it's not a smooth transition from the last topic, but when you're clinging to keep the convo going, anything will do. This is the way I do it. I've continued the convo with Pickles and it ended up in a close.
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:43 PM
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Wanted to add: there are always sets. Talk to guys, talk to the bartender, anyone. Some of that plays into social value as well.
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:38 AM
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Either open a new set or take a break. I like to go outside in the smokers section and open with a situational opener. Do what makes you feel comfortable. It's all about routine. If your routine is broken, take a step back and restart. If you went in by opening a few practice sets, do the same thing. It's also easy to get in your head telling yourself that everyone is watching, but really no one is paying attention even if you've approached every set in the club.
/r/seduction21/05/16 03:36 AM
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Not weird at all. I've done plenty of lone wolfing. A few tips in no particular order: - Create your own opportunities. Unfortunately with lone wolfing you don't have any social crutches to rely on. The more time you spend alone not talking to anyone the more time you give your anxiety time to build itself. - If they ask, say you're out making new friends. They usually don't badger you for details about where your friends are, and if they do, just change the subject. - If you run out of things t…
/r/seduction21/05/16 02:24 AM
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I entered too deep in the game. I took what I learned in the red pill world quite literally. For example, it is said that a high value male sets boundaries and sticks by them. A lot of friends ended up hating the new me, because if they made a mistake, I would hold it against them. I didn't know any better, i assumed this is what was meant by sticking to your boundaries. I picked a lot of fights and didn't take anyone's shit. I succeeded somewhat with picking up women, but I became an asshole. I…
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:02 PM
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I've done plenty of lone wolfing. I moved to a new city 5 years ago for a job, one where I knew absolutely no one, so I practically had no choice. 3 years later, I restarted lone wolfing after I destroyed all the relationships I had made out of stupidity. That was my fault, but again I forced myself to get back out there on my own because you can only count on yourself. No one's going to go out of their way to help you. A few tips about pre-gaming, limit yourself to 2 drinks at home and 2 drinks…
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:10 PM
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".. and take you out to dinner tomorrow night."
/r/seduction02/01/14 10:39 PM
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To build on #7, it's important to DHV your wingman, in his presence or not. Women like men who have strong friendships. Telling a good story about your buddy is not only high value but it's a nice Segway that would transition the discussion smoothly when you switch targets. Assuming he's done the same, then both of you are golden.
/r/seduction09/11/13 12:07 AM
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I think you're going somewhere with this. How can someone who's interested in a deeper connection put that aside for access to a wider pool? It isn't simply saying ok tonight I don't give a shit about connection, If my dick is happy I'm going for it. Someone Like that has and always will look for a connection first, even for one nighters. So how do you change that mindset if you truly want to go the different route?
/r/seduction06/11/13 04:05 AM
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Watch out with the friends. If you start reading everyone's palms, you'll be labelled nothing more as the "dancing monkey".
/r/seduction03/11/13 08:03 PM
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You might have what is known as resting bitch face. Make sure your flirtations are being received (smile, eye contact)
/r/seduction02/11/13 01:42 PM
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Glad to hear this man. Make a list of things you wish to do. Start tackling one by one by substituting some tv time. Watch out for tv withdrawal symptoms, it will be easy to relent and sit back down on the couch. Most importantly, once you do something productive, talk about it as if it were a new episode of breaking bad. For example, I recently wanted to learn about different types of scotch and I spent a few hours learning about the process. Then I found a scotch factory and took a tour. I tol…
/r/seduction01/11/13 02:49 AM
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The key takeaway is you picked up on her clues and acted; when conversation died you switched gears, when she set a time limit you escalated. Good fuckin job m8.
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:49 PM
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I disagree. Being financially healthy gives you the ability to not worry about having a second income (your partner's). I believe Jrix is right, that you tend to look for something that you are missing rather than what you already have.
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:02 PM
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Sleep less. Opportunities don't wait for sleep. Stop making excuses and MAKE TIME.
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:55 PM
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Nice. My new pickup line: purple monsters or red dinosaurs?
/r/seduction19/10/13 12:06 AM
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I'll take another route.. If you don't take action, your DNA will go extinct. You are an original, no other has the same DNA as you. If you don't go out there and face your fears, you will pass on nothing and life will end with you. Face your fear, embrace it, for you will not die. Learn to befriend your fear, as if it is some big joke. The problem with motivation is it works In that instant. Then you go back to your routine and forget all about it. Fear on the other hand is a whole different an…
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:53 PM
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And then they say to do something you love to gain confidence. But are you gaining confidence in that situation or at your core? How do you spread that feeling to other aspects of your life. Well visualization is one. I read a sports psychology book recently, this doctor works with all the major pro athletes. Visualization helps you remember the feelings and emotions you felt when you succeeded at something or felt confident. Closing your eyes and feeling that precise moment in full detail is co…
/r/seduction17/10/13 05:35 AM
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Don't stick your dick in crazy bro. Stay far far away from this one. What you're doing is fine. I wouldn't divulge any of that unless it was serious.
/r/seduction13/10/13 06:03 PM
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Real men take what they want. Your friend, he'll understand. Stop putting other people's needs before your own.
/r/seduction12/10/13 11:18 PM
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Very eloquently written. Have an upvote.
/r/seduction12/10/13 11:00 PM
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http://youtu.be/Tzm6TEManmQ Get yourself motivated daily, I watch this every morning to get me going. The important thing is for you to take some time t figure out what you want to achieve in your life, what are some things you want to spend time doing. It's not complicated and don't make the goals too lofty either. For example some people start working out, learn a new hobby or write. It doesn't matter what it is as long as you enjoy doing it. The rest will follow... success, women, happiness
/r/seduction12/10/13 12:19 AM
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The reason we project better when we're in a relationship is because we're not seeking validation. If you adopt that mind set at all times you'll get better results.
/r/seduction11/10/13 10:58 PM
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Very interesting. I see a lot of myself in those points. I recently made a conscious decision to change and become a man. I read No more mr nice guy, The way of the superior man, and Models is next on my to do list. I feel invigorated, and I'm happy to finally start building some life blocks that will serve me well in the future. I just turned 26, but until a few months ago, I have to admit I acted like a child. I dated an older woman, who was in her early 30s, and I feel ashamed at some of the …
/r/seduction09/10/13 03:30 AM
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Slow down your speech a tad. She said she had time to talk so you shouldn't have been rushing from topic to topic. Take the time to listen to what she has to say. It seems like you were already thinking of the next thing while she was speaking. A little silence doesnt hurt anybody, rather it's a good way to build some sexual tension. Otherwise you're golden. Looking forward to your next vids
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:08 PM
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To add to your point, women function differently than men. You could be real handsome with no people skills and no one will want to be around you. OP seems like he did all the right things. Good work OP.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:56 AM
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Up voting so more ppl can read this.
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:23 PM
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You're boring m8
/r/seduction06/10/13 01:01 PM
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Having no expectations is what leads you going home happy and in a good mood. Most guys set unrealistic goals which end up ruining their night. Your only expectation is to have a good time with the people you're with. If you meet someone, it's a bonus.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:59 PM
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Correct. The thing about asking for her number is not that it's weak, rather it gives her the opportunity to say no and back out. Saying "give me your number" not only puts you in the dominant frame but makes it difficult for her to say no. Most girls would rather give it than get into a potential embarassing situation / conflict.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:52 PM
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Roller blade there in tights. She'll love your confidence
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:49 PM
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Hi Michael, can you explain your body language in this video, specifically the hands on the hips? Was this deliberate or did you just go with what was most comfortable? Cheers
/r/seduction05/10/13 10:20 PM
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Use it as motivation and know you're not the only one. We're with you bruh
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:42 PM
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But the cuddles man.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:33 PM
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When a girl says she's not going to sleep with you without you having to mention it, she's going to sleep with you. - Ashton Kutcher, Spread
/r/seduction02/10/13 04:44 PM
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So the solution is to just carry her out? Surely there must be a better way.
/r/seduction01/10/13 03:32 AM
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It's often repeated in the seduction community to avoid alcohol in order to keep your composure. Good work demonstrating that you don't need it to interact and have a good time. Some people feel awkward empty handed, a glass of water works as in your case. Two questions: 1- did you get shit tested for drinking water? How did you respond? 2- did they offer you a drink at their table? Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction01/10/13 03:23 AM
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Do you have examples on how to get her attention
/r/seduction30/09/13 11:23 PM
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Thank god for muscle memory
/r/seduction30/09/13 04:20 PM
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Beautiful.
/r/seduction30/09/13 04:18 PM
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Maybe add some value while you're at it. What can you contribute to this thread other than your negativity?
/r/seduction30/09/13 12:43 PM
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Agreed. Focus less on "game" but more on being a man.
/r/seduction30/09/13 12:27 PM
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If you don't want to chase girls as bad as you want to breathe, you don't want it bad enough. Seriously, if you're not gonna put 100% and just half ass it, then stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:51 AM
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I have never tried it, but I can tell you that you only have 2 opportunities to approach. Okay maybe 3. While in line and she's in front/behind you, you should say "don't you hate it when you get your perfectly brewed cup of coffee.. Only to find they wrote your name horribly wrong? My name is Adam, and they always write Ali, Andy, or anything that starts with an A.. just never Adam. What's your name?" Boom, there's your convo. You can also go direct at the serving station, while she puts her cr…
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:39 AM
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Thanks but not really what I'm looking for. I've got the theory down, I'm looking for real examples of conversations. How did you open? What was her reaction? How did you transition? Time stamps also help determining some of the dynamics.
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:20 AM
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Terrible advice. Out of sight out of mind.. by saying what you're saying you're bringing the issue at the forefront.
/r/seduction30/09/13 02:55 AM
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It could be your body language. You need to accept who you are, that's inner game. Once you have that down, you'll display a sense of confidence and that is what women find attractive. Fake it till you make it if you have to, but if you go up there all tense and looking for validation, that is what is "ugly". It has nothing to do with your skin color. Validate yourself first, and the results will come.
/r/seduction30/09/13 01:08 AM
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This is great. You know what I like most though? At the end, when the cops asked him if he was the naked man. Probably 75% of men would've lied and said no to avoid the trouble. We're a soft generation. This guy owned up to it, consequences and all, because a real man takes responsibility. Thanks for the share bro.
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:28 PM
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Start with pg questions. You'll end up with craziest thing you've ever done. When it's your turn make sure your story is sexual. Next question she will most likely continue the sex theme. If not you can neg her for jumping ship. Some questions I ask: - what is your favourite position - what are the most times you've done it in a day Etc I'd cap the sexual questions if she starts getting uncomfortable and doesn't answer. But then you'll have your answer: she's not a sexual being and you can scree…
/r/seduction29/09/13 01:40 PM
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Play the questions game. Ask her what was the craziest thing she's ever done. Escalate sexual questions. Judge for yourself. I always play this game right when meeting someone new or at the latest on the first date. It has never faltered.
/r/seduction29/09/13 08:03 AM
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A few things and some have been mentioned above. It is internal, you need to start believing in yourself and be accepting of who you are. If you don't like the way you look, change it. Workout, find a gym partner, and put the time and effort to cultivate that body you want. It's not as hard as people say, you just need to want it bad enough. Make if second nature, like ok I'm done work/school time to hit the gym. It is NOT a chore. Second of all, once you start believing in your self, your doubt…
/r/seduction29/09/13 07:17 AM
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Great. I agree with all 3 of your solutions. Have an upvote!
/r/seduction29/09/13 05:30 AM
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Go for it.
/r/seduction28/09/13 11:20 PM
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He said he's known her for some time. I don't claim to know everything about women, but my interpretation of this is her warning him that she has some baggage.
/r/seduction28/09/13 09:31 PM
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What the hell.. since when is someone opening up and sharing feelings a test or a sign to back off? On the contrary I feel this girl is comfortable enough sharing some deep secrets with you, and isn't afraid to drive you away. It's a take me as I am kind of thing and indicative of someone who has self-acceptance.
/r/seduction28/09/13 08:38 PM
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Say the truth perhaps? "I couldn't even tell you I know how you feel.. because I've never had that feeling. But I do believe experiences like these build character. I'm sorry that happened to you, you are a stronger person because of it."
/r/seduction28/09/13 08:36 PM
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Hey, who do you know here?
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:46 AM
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Start off by focusing on your form. That means low weight. Squeeze at the top. Drop slowly. As a general rule of thumb, 2 seconds up, 1 second hold, 2 seconds down. Drop your rest time between sets. You'll be good to go. Judge from then on if you can handle more. The key thing is to keep tricking your body, never let it get used to your routine. Get swole!
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:10 PM
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You haven't figured out what you want in life yet. I've been in this situation. Be real to yourself, find out whether you want to be single or have a ltr. It can't be both. Once you know for sure you need to give it 100%
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:17 AM
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Point #3: relax
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:14 AM
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This is my opinion, but I think she controlled the frame from the start. You told her you were free later in the week but still accepted to meet that night. How would a high value guy respond in this case? I'm busy. Also, you let her postpone twice and all the way to 1145, that doesn't demonstrate someone who's busy with their life. Maybe you managed to stay congruent, but it seemed like you were also making yourself attainable at the bar, which is why she shut down and stared ahead rather than …
/r/seduction25/09/13 11:13 AM
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How did you approach in the library?
/r/seduction25/09/13 05:09 AM
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Wouldn't you say Alphas are group A and rAfc's in group B? Isn't the whole "fake it till you make it" a representation of what embodies group A? On another note I'd like to know if someone from group A whose entourage is group A can date someone from group B whose entourage is group B? Can they inter-mingle, provided neither completely enters/accepts they are a part of the other group now? What is the long term viability of this type of relationship, or is it impossible?
/r/seduction25/09/13 12:11 AM
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Those feels :(
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:20 PM
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Really proud of you m8. I hope one day we can all get to this, it's what we all strive for am i right? What exactly did you do to work on yourself? Cheers
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:58 AM
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I totally believe you LyingPervert
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:23 AM
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Keep texting to a minimum. You want to intrigue her just enough to set up your day 2. After I get an agreement for a date.What I like to do is tell her ill confirm the day before. Ill text her something like "I've been craving tacos/margaritas/whatever, better be up to the challenge." And then the next day, around mid day ill text "tacos/margaritas/whatever hmmm can't wait". This helps me two fold: assuming the sale, I'm not confirming if we're still on, I'm assuming it ... and getting her excit…
/r/seduction21/09/13 05:59 PM
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Check out the demonic confidence by Lucas west. You may be able to download a torrent. It's a 21 day challenge, approaching 30 women daily. It starts off easy like asking her for the time and walking away. The key is progression, and you'll be amazed at the results. Some tips if you decide todo it: Take it one day at a time. It seems overwhelming to do this for 21 days straight but if you focus on achieving today only you'll go a long way. Make sure you have the time to go out every day for 21 d…
/r/seduction21/09/13 05:52 PM
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When I get their name, I pull out my phone and open a notepad. While I'm typing her name covertly of course I'll ask her a question to get her talking. Then ill store my phone in my pocket. The simple act of writing it out will have me remember it, but in any case I can always pull out my phone and text pad and it'll be there. It's saved my ass more than you know.
/r/seduction20/09/13 11:26 PM
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"You make me want to be a better man"- Jack Nicholson, as good as it gets. Look this sounds tacky as hell. You've probably seen this clip, she asks him for a compliment and after some amount of stalling, he gives it to her. But it isn't a compliment about her, it's about him, and how she's making him want to improve himself. "Leaving her better than you found her" is as much your self-improvement than it is hers.
/r/seduction20/09/13 05:25 AM
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