| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Women who act in ways, that are consistent with the widespread understanding of how a slut acts or looks, are unreasonable to expect to be treated as if they are not the same or share enough similarities to escape judgement.That IS the topic starter you're arguing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/18 01:59 AM |
| 2 | When a Girl Says "Work for me""Why are you playing so hard to get, when you are already hard to like...." This is solid gold right here man. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 06:37 AM |
| 4 | When a Girl Says "Work for me"This sounds like your experiences are mostly with quality and/or older-fashioned women. In these cases, yeah your post is 100% correct, but that is not quite how the average poster's dating is. There are TONS of younger women >30 y.o. who have this "I'm the prize, work for me" attitude that really have nothing worth working for. Yeah they look good, but too many can't cook, are looking for pay everything for them, have no personality, have no integrity, etc. It's fine if they want to screen guys… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 06:36 AM |
| 0 | Being cockblocked by a well meaning friendArnold isn't Sarah's boyfriend. My question for OP is, why does Arnold have to be around for you to see Sarah? Just make plans. | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Any good information on bars in specific?No difference, except with drunk people. Be social talk to many people. | /r/seduction | 10/07/17 10:56 AM |
| 2 | So, women want to be tied up. Can I actually do this?First of all, you want to try a few things out yourself. Grab yourself around the throat with one hand. You want to find a grip that's not tight at all, but feels like it could be on a moment's notice. Once you're sure you want accidentally strangle someone, look up like 2 basic bond age knots. Personally to keep it simple, just use your belt. Put her hands together, wrap the belt a few times around the wrists to put them together and then tuck the loose ends between the wrists. You can practice… | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 04:40 PM |
| 3 | So is third date kiss archaic now?Canadian here. Haven't heard 3rd date kiss mentioned since after school specials on TV in the 80's. WAAYYY archaic. | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Outer game stronger than the inner game, thoughts on my latest coward-style approach. How I cheat daygame.But what are you learning by just dropping off a note ? Youre not acclimating yourself to a wider array of social situations, youre not really overcoming your AA. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | NLP Used For Seduction?that statement has nothing to do with whether there is an objective truth.... | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | NLP Used For Seduction?That's a personal judgement call, there is no such thing as objective morality. If she truly does have feelings for him, then sure, why not help? If he's trying to get you to teach him to "brainwash" her, tell him he's just seeing something that's not really there, and that there's other women out there. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 11:25 PM |
| 9 | What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom?"Nice talking to you" sounds way too try hard. Sounds like you already know you're getting ditched. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Instinctual response I had confused both her and me..."Why is that bad?" Give her a smile, " I don't know if you're one of those girls that goes zero-stalker after one date. Like you're cute, and all, but....." Not ideal but better than freezing up | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 10:09 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "If you loved me you'll..."I love you my way, not your way | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 02:16 AM |
| – | Is my lifestyle not enough? Am I not enough?With 100 advantages over most of the guys starting in this sub, it sounds like your only problem is you are whining like a bitch. For some completely unknown reason you lack confidence, and it seeps through your writing. Realize you are miles ahead of the competition, and shut up and learn to enjoy it. Find some way to drill it into your head, you don't have the 100 reasons for low confidence that most guys starting the game have. | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How to Slide into the DMs? - College QuestionSounds like a stupid question, since you already have your reasons (what you want) and bait (clubs and such) in your own post. | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | unique language barrier problemIf you didn't need some kind of translation tool or dictionary for all you've written in this thread, then the problem is truly just inside your head. From your responses in this thread, it seems like your English is better than the average person. It really sounds like it's just a case of nerves, you care too much about what your saying. Just relax and talk. | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | unique language barrier problemIf you have to spend time translating in your head, it's almost impossible you don't have an accent. Unless you've had a speech coach. Just because you dont hear it doesnt mean its not there. Most of the problem is how you feel about your perceived problem. If you need to, occasionally throw in some phrases in your own language, and then translate for the girls afterward. Not too often, just to seem playful and maybe buy yourself some extra time to think. Added bonus you get to play up the exoti… | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I like this girl but she wants me for her sister, what do i do?Go for the sister. This girl doesn't want you as much as she wants her sister happy. | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Shutting girls down in conversation?I agree. It sounds like you're a shifty listener. But now you're aware of it, so you can work on it. Change to your comments to something positive. " don't worry, you're better than that" " you'll get through this " | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Found out someone I was friends with in high school four years ago now does porn. ???How about asking a real question ?? | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 04:07 PM |
| 13 | Should I just straight up ask this girl for sex?Kino ladder. You already had her give 1 million signs. Don't ask, just work right into it. If you're asking us, you don't have the confidence to be able to ask her without sounding like a puss. She doesn't mean ask her, she means just man up. Girls don't like to agree to sex, they like it to happen. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 03:19 AM |
| 0 | As a woman, I'd like to know... What are some of the top seduction frustrations you have with women?That vimbasi blog looks more like a collection of buzz feed articles. I wouldn't take anything they regurgitate at face value. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, I'd like to know... What are some of the top seduction frustrations you have with women?This. Gender roles say it's always men that should approach, but seriously, that shit is lame. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do i risk several awkward encountersIt's only awkward if you make it/let it be awkward. Not everyone is made for everyone, and if a girl isn't interested, so what ? Don't let it be awkward, you're just not her type. Just keep talking to them like a normal person, and if she's not a weirdo, she'll realize that you aren't either, and things will be fine later. I'd avoid asking out people I have to work closely with, but back in school, I wouldn't be concerned. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Keep having thoughts of my EX doing something sexy for me. Need mental exercises to help.If you do it enough, the intention is to make it difficult to have that memory without the new stuff coming up and shifting the focus away from the pain associated with it. How well it really works depends on how real you can make your new additions seem to you. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Keep having thoughts of my EX doing something sexy for me. Need mental exercises to help.Run through this memory you're talking about, except add in clown music on top of it ( unless that's your thing ;) ) Then add in some other uncomfortable factors, maybe it's all happening on a school bus, or in the middle of a nursing home. | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 09:46 PM |
| 48 | gay as a circle, but really want to try straight sex. going to vegas (w partner), both of us intending to mess around. any advice for your hopelessly gay, straight-curious bro?Play the gay card. There's some women that will want to try to get you to change teams. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Cant find herTake that " confidence" and go talk to other girls, stop being stuck a vagina | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Why don't girls just admit they hate black guys?100% | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Text Game. Girl I matched with on dating app is a drag to talk with. When do I cut the line? Is there a general guideline for how long to stay in one sided conversations?This. The line to stop talking to a girl is when you stop enjoying the interaction. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in Montreal, QC Canada?Yup | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:30 AM |
| 3 | What's the difference between "neg" and "bantering"?Bantering is teasing in a way that doesn't have any insulting in it. It's meant to be fun and playful. Imo, negging is also should not be an insult, but more of a comment meant to unbalance someone's ego or sense of self-worth. To paraphrase Style "I love your nails, are they real?" ( when he obviously knew they weren't ) Saying something like " with a decent push up bra, you'd have a nice rack of lamb going on " goes beyond negging and is just crude, and possibly hurtful | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 09:07 PM |
| 6 | I asked a girl out on a dateYou already know. You didn't talk to her. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Gaming strippersOutside of working hours, they are usually fair game. Managers only care that your spending money, and not hogging all a girl's time / causing her not to earn. Tips, don't spend money on dances, spend it on drinks. Keeps the owner happy, and sets you a little apart. Don't spend all your time drooling, better to be there to enjoy time with your friends than to be random guy #37 that same hour that is staring at her ass. Talk to her like any other girl, but don't expect her to spend any time on yo… | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 10:08 AM |
| 2 | My experience with Tinder vs. DayGameThanks | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 09:17 PM |
| 2 | My experience with Tinder vs. DayGameSMV ? | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't show up + kind of FR and looking for opinionsYou don't have to ignore her, if you want to, you can just say she can make it up to you. It's your call if you want to offer, or just walk. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [30M] I'm sick of women being so insulting and toxic in the dating game and that my only option is to accept it and move on. It's making me hate women.More homes have a basement that is livable vs homes that have an attic that's liveable. Living with the parents but trying to gain privacy, teens often prefer to have their "own" living space. So they move to the basement. The stereotype is the guys that get older and never move out. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't show up + kind of FR and looking for opinionsYou got a girl to want to see you a 2nd time. That's a win. On the date, the chemistry wasn't right. That's OK. You had the balls to go for a kiss. That's a win. You might have gone for it without her being ready, maybe you didn't escalate enough before, maybe you just plain out misread the situation since you wanted to go for it so bad. That's fine too. You got to that point, you'll be able to again with another girl. This is all a big learning process, you have to just experiment and feel thin… | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't show up + kind of FR and looking for opinionsGo talk to another girl. Not all of them are going to click with you. That's fine. It's very unlikely that you'll want to pursue every girl you meet. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Trapped in my LTR...<3 this whole post | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Should I ask this girl for her friends number? Or what would be the best thing to do in this situation?Basically yes. If one wrote it down and actually reached out, she's the one that's interested. Her friend might be, but that's less likely. Up to you to decide if it's worth trying for her friend instead of her, but it's less likely to work out. Even if you fall flat on your face, you still gain experience, so just do what feels right. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 11:29 PM |
| 11 | Should I ask this girl for her friends number? Or what would be the best thing to do in this situation?Think about who actually wrote down your number. There is also a high chance that they spoke about you, and likely the girls decided Girl A was into you. Best way to fish and find out (IMO) would be to try and tease her, "OK I gotta know.....did you guys thumb wrestle or was rock paper scissors how you guys decided who would keep my number" Something along those lines. She wrote you, so you got her to be curious, at the least. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 08:14 PM |
| 2 | What should I do here? added girl on fb, messaged her, she went silent for a while, I unfriended, she messages me nowGrow a set. Either keep talking or drop it. Being fb friends or not REALLY doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a drunk friend wants to smash?First things first, offering you to crash on her couch doesn't imply she wants you to leave. Secondly, maybe she wanted to smash, maybe she's just a cuddly drunk. Only two ways to find out, ask, or start kino. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What do these signs mean?When I said talk to her I just mean express your concerns. Imo most "signs" of lying are too general and vary a lot from person to person. Asides from the obvious signs of contradicting herself. I just try to trust my gut. If i voice my concerns and I don't feel right after, I walk. Maybe because I don't feel she's being honest, or maybe I felt she didn't care enough about what was bothering me. Either way, my gut is more trustworthy than trying to figure out which way her eyes are looking or if… | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What do these signs mean?Tl;Dr below Well, it sounds like you're all of what, 14 years old ? It also sounds like you guys aren't serious at all, and you sound like you need a prescription for a pair of testicles. Lying to strict parents doesn't mean she'll lie to you, but it is a possibility. Ranting about an amazing guy doesn't mean she will go for him, but it might happen. Start a twitter account of your own??? If you do, make sure you actually use it, and not just as a way to control your communication with her. Real… | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 02:08 PM |
| 14 | How to deal with a girl who's been cheated onDon't even try unless you plan to be sincere with her. Leave them better than you found them, failing that, do no harm. | /r/seduction | 27/11/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Solidfied Social Presence and Popularity... But it doesn't translate to real lifeYou know what the secret really is? There is no secret. You just have to go out and talk to girls. Eventually you will realize talking to girls isn't scary. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Attracted to my Roommate (need advice)Oneitis much? It seems like you built attraction well enough, but not comfort. She's either worried about you being a man whore, or has her own boundary of not shitting where she eats. If it's just a question of comfort, stop seeing others ( or at least hide it) if it's her own boundary, suck it up buttercup. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 6 | A woman I went to high school with wants to grab lunch and catch up whenever I'm back home. Thing is, we never talked growing up. Do I take this as friends or an I supposed to make a move?If you guys never really talked, you have nothing to lose if it does "get weird". | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 01:25 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Told a girl "I wanna kiss you right now", backfired but can potentially open doors.You don't just say that and expect it to magically create good tension. You have to build up interest and attraction or you just seem like a weirdo. If your want to use a line like this, it has to be at the right time, in the right situation. It creates tension, but used how you did it, creates the wrong kind. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?In short, yes it is completely possible to 180 her opinion. Except as others have pointed out, your while post (pre edit) shows you want it too much, you're seeking validation and reeking of neediness. Oneitis. Stick to your revised mindset, or just blow her off for now. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 03:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Got invited to formal dancing by a couple girls. Asked for a friend to come along. Bad idea.Don't worry about it. You might have a new fun hobby, and you know who NOT to bring along to it. You enjoyed it before your friend's demeanor brought you down, so just keep enjoying it, without him around affecting you. I'm sure you have other activities that don't make him feel that way, doesn't matter if he doesn't enjoy all the aspects of your expanding lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | DAY 4 OF APPROACHING (caps lock guy)Not tomorrow. Today. Waiting for the bus. While walking through the food court. Anywhere. The goal is to talk. You only lose if you aren't approaching. Whether she likes you or not doesn't matter. You only win if you go and find out. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 01:32 PM |
| 3 | A game called "Go."It is pretty solid advice, no doubt. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | A game called "Go."Someone watched early Simple Pickup videos lol Its a good way to get things rolling for the night when you're feeling low energy. | /r/seduction | 24/10/15 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding possible disaster - asking girls out at workIf you're worried about it, only ask if you're pretty sure she'd be receptive to the idea. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?Could mean a few different "scams" Telling you she's preggo to test your reaction.....see if you're happy about it, supposedly to see if you plan to stick around..... Tell you she's preggo as a way to try and FORCE you to stay..."shotgun wedding " I'm sure there's many " reasons" to lie about it as ways to manipulate you | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 04:33 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave it a shot todayThen why bother saying your friends dared you to? Still has an implication of weakness in you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 04:29 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Gave it a shot todayThat doesn't fix it. Still leaves the impression you didn't have the balls on your own. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | How to answer 'Number of Sexual Partners'??In my own experience, the vadt majority of girls asking this are the ones who are insecure / dishonest about their own numbers. Often if I answered it leads to friction if my answer isn't in the ballpark of the fictional number they were planning to tell me. Nowadays I just tell them I stopped counting after I turned 20 (years old) because I grew up. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 10:19 PM |
| 5 | How can I improve my game at workRead the sidebar Don't focus on hooking up with your Co workers, talk to them like people. ask them to help you out. Female friends are valuable as social proof, wing women, and just experience to get more comfortable talking to girls. Stop thinking and just talk to them. Even if they end up not liking you, your goal isn't them, it's just to learn and grow socially. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, would you sleep with a girl knowing that she has a boyfriend?Yes. I would and I have. But don't expect to start a relationship with her and hope she won't do the same to you . | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 08:11 PM |
| 1 | My friend did a complete 180 turn.Funky cold medina | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck do you do with your hands when you talk?http://youtu.be/UUrgUHHo5iU Kino or this. | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 11:37 PM |
| 13 | No shoes in the house rule.Very common practice in Canada as well. | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Dancing at the clubsGirls get intimidated if you dance well, especially something like popping or bboying. By all means go all out and enjoy yourself. Once you've been noticed by people and you start catching smiles, start dancing leas serious, and more goofy. It makes you seem more approachable and fun. When you dance with a girl, forget ALL your perfected in the basement moves. As for "game" put it out of your mind, and just chat with people. Girls, guys, the staff. Introduce yourself, ask a few questions, say ha… | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 12:47 AM |
| 3 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Wordsing sounds like singspeaking :) I'm sure you meant words-ing. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 06:03 PM |
| 7 | 7 Long Years In The Game. Here's The Novel I Wrote About It. Free for Seddit Today. A Thousand Tiny Failures - Memoir of a Pickup Artist.Just grabbed it, will read later, thanks. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 12:04 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter