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Sure - happy to speak tomorrow.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:13 AM
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Really don’t understand this behaviour but fair enough. Sad news - I really don’t give a fuck what background people have as long as they are decent human beings.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:13 PM
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Just do it buddy. I have changed my career path from civil service to private equity. I can all be done, at least in larger cities. Good luck.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:09 PM
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Yes. Allows you to avoid learning through too many mistakes you need to make yourself first.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:57 PM
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Isotretinoin, prescribed by your dermatologist. Worked wonders for me.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:12 PM
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Broseph, just get out there, talk to people and take up some hobbies. Through new friends you meet more friends, and it is like a virtuous circle. The girls will come eventually anyway. Just put yourself out there and don’t waste at home playing computer games only.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:11 PM
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True words - from a German
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:40 AM
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“This isn’t working for me anymore” is probably slightly more neutral...
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:49 AM
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Word. This. Just keep doing what you’re doing. I’ve been through this, answer is not to focus on women but to focus on yourself now. Hope your LTR works out if you like her. But focusing on your own success is the conditio sine qua non in your life for now - you’ll get better balance in your life once you’ve established your career and rise through the ranks.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:39 PM
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Ignore and next if she is fucking other guys. Let her chase you if she wants you. Don’t give her free validation.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:21 PM
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Yes of course. Never stop learning.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:46 AM
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Nah, especially the latter response suggestion makes you look a bit weak I think. Can’t force her to come, just because that’s what you agreed. Just tell her to sod off if she doesn’t behave.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:04 PM
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I actually think you’ve done quite well. You clearly told her that you don’t tolerate her bullshit, and her response indicates that it has worked. Just don’t apologise for saying what you said as it’s the truth. Yes, you could have ignored her or reacted like you don’t care, but then you would run the risk that the same shit would happen over and over again. Rather just show her that you are ready to walk away. And walk away if she continues to give you shit. I find it too much hassle to have to…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:02 PM
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And you wouldn’t want her anyway after turning you down. Next target.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 10:55 AM
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metoo
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:10 AM
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Well it’s a bit much to assume that ALL females in LTRs are fucking chads. Many will, but clearly not all.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 01:46 PM
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100% this
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:00 AM
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Good on you for learning German. A solid language to speak.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:02 PM
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Yeah probably no harm done, but just not required.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:55 PM
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Not necessary if it’s just a plate. I would avoid gifts unless a serious and value add relationship.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:24 PM
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Yup - I’m sure she’s the unicorn! 100%!!! Just kidding. Of course my own development is the priority. But currently things are going well and she’s giving me a lot - so it’s a good arrangement for now.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:46 AM
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Dating app in that case. I was spinning plates but she just stuck around. So now we are a couple.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:49 PM
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Yup I’m 32, my girlfriend is 21 and hot.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:11 PM
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Mh I broke up with my ex in a slightly too emotional manner. Dated a few other girls over summer. Renegotiated the term sheet with her. She found out I was seeing other girls. Big scandal. Back together since and it’s good as she’s treating me well (however am of course looking after myself). So no harm seeing how it goes in some cases.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:16 AM
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I just don’t think I need that. I create my own opportunities, and network with people with whom I don’t have a dating past. Good if your approach works for you though. I prefer to just move on to keep life simple. Of course some people might be happy to put up with listening to fascinating stories about Chad banging your failed date, and of how good a friend you are. I’ll skip, unless she has something to offer I genuinely want, which is rarely the case.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:42 PM
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I don’t see the point of staying in touch with failed dates personally. There are so many other people to hang out with. Would I want to go out hitting on girls with my former failed date? Sounds like torture and just unnecessary to me. Who needs a wing woman? “Look, here’s the guy I turned down, yes I’m still single, but maybe you’ll find him appealing”.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:47 PM
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100% agreed. I was „friends“ with a girl who I met on a dating app because it was beneficial for work for a few months as our companies did a deal together. However once the deal was done it got weird and annoying, and I dropped her.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:45 PM
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You won’t have time shagging all those pussays for sure.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:44 PM
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Quite funny. An escort who doesn’t bang. Yeah that must be the TRP unicorn!
/r/askTRP29/11/17 09:59 PM
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Joining ISIS - what the hell...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:31 PM
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Yeah makes sense. I’ve dated many women and it’s tough to find one that really is good LTR material. My current girlfriend is 11 years younger than me - and I’m 32. I need at least three things - physical attraction, intellectual stimulation, and evidence that she is really caring for me. Not easy to find. Surfing is an excellent activity too. I’m a surfer myself - though it’s freezing cold in the UK at the moment!
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:18 PM
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Yeah it’s a good thing to do for a while, but can be resource consuming (both time and money). Especially not helpful if you got lots of other things going on in in your life. I want to focus on my job at the moment and plating is just a distraction. Always important to follow TRP principles though when it comes to optimising your SMV (also relevant in a LTR) and to pursue your own goals in live.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:56 PM
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Glad to hear that you are on a good course. Keep it up. Yeah dating is expensive even though I always split bills. Go for after work drinks only etc if you want to minimise costs. I am now in an LTR again with a good quality girl who looks after me, I prefer that to dating at the moment. Running costs are a bit cheaper than spinning plates! ;-)
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:44 PM
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Nah it’s not worth keeping women who you don’t get on with around. What’s the point. Move on, leave them behind, and let everybody be happy.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 10:32 PM
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