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I'm between you and him age wise. What he means boiled down is to just chill and live your life. The more you put yourself out there, the more you'll learn about life. I get being 21 and needing all the answers because I was in your shoes. But you can have all the answers handed to you and without experience to back it up with they won't have any relevance in your life. Lift, meditate, learn, live life and most crucially....fuck up. Keep fucking up until you get it right. It's the only way you g…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 07:32 PM
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It was a funny story. Props for sharing it
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 02:10 AM
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Living up to your namesake I see. Solid answer Subotai. OP this is the exact mindset you should have.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:13 PM
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Why make this post if you wanted to hang out as a friend? Lie to us, but don't lie to yourself. You don't want to be her friend. And that's precisely why you shouldn't pursue her.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:11 PM
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No. I prefer crazy shit to happen though because it's exciting. Biggest wish is to find some aliens tbh, that would be amazing.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 02:26 PM
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Do you know what love is? Have you ever loved someone else in your life? What did that feel like? Like you'd die for that person right? Transfer that energy to yourself. You'd do anything for someone you love. So do it for yourself. Eat right because you love your body. Workout because you love yourself and want the best for your body that keeps you alive. Meditate because you love yourself and want a clean mind because you love yourself. Be kind to yourself because you love yourself. Work to st…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:56 PM
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Did you not read anything I wrote? It doesn't matter what frame you have. Obviously you have to calibrate in whatever situation you're in, but the point is for her to join your frame.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:18 PM
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Get a harem and you won't be writing paragraphs about one girl.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:49 AM
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It's vibe. That's what it all comes down to. Do you understand the basic vibe and can you get down with it, or are you blind to it and keep missing the beat. It's literally like a dance. Those that can time their movement to the beat, are good dancers. (Passing shittests, emotional tweaking from happy to confused to anxious, etc. Slight dread, aloof, etc) Vibe. Those that can't, you see how much they flounder. (Nervous, in your head, what to text, what does she mean by this, etc, etc) Get outta …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:46 AM
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Hire a prostitute and find out happiness isn't found in a woman. Your life needs to be straightened out dude. What are your goals? What do you want to do in life? What hobbies do you enjoy? Why are you alive? Grab a journal and start figuring this out. You need a mission. Mental health isnt a joke. That should be numero uno for you to get squared away. Mind right. Doctors and meds or meditation. You know what you need. Then get your body right through exercise and diet. I'd tell you to forgot ab…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:31 AM
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The way naturals act is what you should be paying attention to. The gibberish from their mouth is as blue-pill as it gets because they don't have a clue on why shit works for them. I met three naturals in my life. The first was the most narcissistic person I ever met. Social and self-centered. Whatever conversation he was in, he had to be the center of attention and thus he would dominate it. Clue one. Short dude Second dude was my cousin. Casablanca type. Women were his life. He just naturally …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:16 AM
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Dude. Holy shit this is awesome.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:22 PM
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Security dude. Use the free time to do some productive stuff. Read a book, learn coding, start writing, whatever. If you need working out, go to the gym. You get ahead in life by utilizing your brain and adding valuable skills to your inventory, not being a mule for someone else.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:09 PM
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First one is gold. Thx, going to use it from now on.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:36 PM
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Social media done right is one of the most powerful tools a successful person, be it man or women, can master in this day and age. Connections, money, social proof, recognition, and much more can be garnered from putting in some amount of effort into it. My personal problem with it, and by and large in life in general, is that I dislike sharing things about me to people. The more private I am, the more at ease I am with myself because 99% of what happens on social media is both a waste of time a…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 03:50 PM
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You are spot on. This place is like a tool like any other. There are some very good content for how to live your life well here and there are other's that have no use whatsoever. Pick what beniefts you most and discard the rest. As to your earlier point about being careful to make money my God, I made it in jest but there is some truth to it. I've come from the poor of the poor and have had the fortune of being given minor wealth as well which I blew it all. None of the shit I ever spent my mone…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 04:47 AM
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My man. Dude it is quite refreshing to read the thoughts of people who think like you because your shoes is where I want to be in a couple of years. I rarely comment on here but just wanted to tell you big props. You seem to have found the nugget of truth in life. Still working on my ego because let's face it, the thing is one gigantic bubble in which to protect our feelings from the world. Validation is like crack. I get why girls are so addicted to it. But really it is a false confidence becau…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:58 PM
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I think this is by far the worst post I've seen on this site. But like everything, there's room for growth and a way to learn something new. I want you to break down this story for us OP, and to help you, I'm going to provide some questions that you can answer for us. Racist cop, tale old as time, what where his motivations for his actions? Put yourself in his shoes and tell us what you believe his thoughts where, what he felt during, and after the gouging of eyes. Detail matters. Pick the wife …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 10:17 PM
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YouTube, there is a learn programming subreddit and they might have some free sites you can check out. It's a fun language and a useful skill to have in this technology age.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:52 PM
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I want all to be RedPill because a redpill man is a man of value. Do you realize how much we can understand life if we had men of value running our society 24/7, 365 days a year? Having sex doesnt make you Redpilled. Every Joe, schmuck, and Arnold has sex. Understanding how relationships between men and women work should be basic teachings in school so we can focus on things that actually matter, like for example the limitless expanse of space. Your mission is small if your mindset is like this.…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:09 PM
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We're not doctors or psychiatrists. This is a personal problem that should be discussed with a professional if it is a problem.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:35 AM
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I know. But what exactly do you propose instead? I made that comment in jest, but I really don't see a way forward unless we have a total overhaul of how we view everything. Anything less is like patching up a sinking ship.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:29 PM
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Lol, okay I'm sorry for thinking big minded. Bro....women aren't the enemy..... This isn't a war between "waman" and men. This is about improvement of your life from a loser to a capable man. I want people to be better, to improve their lives and become whole people, because that's the type of society I want to live in. For this, I'm striving to be the person who I envision is a good role model. If I offer a friend advice on how to be a better person and he rejects that advice, ok, that's on him…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:11 PM
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I'm not being a jackass. Do you think the state the relationship between men and women in this world is in now a good one? No. I'm just tired of caring about people that don't want to change. No matter how many times I screwed up with trp fundamentals, deep down, I was seeking to better myself. If someone doesnt have the capacity to want better for themselves, no amount of change or advice will change them. Obviously what's good for the few isnt good for the majority, but if the majority don't h…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:54 PM
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The best book I can recommend for this is the 'Power of Now'. It will teach you how to develop good habits. Pick one habit you will stay consistent in for one month. Add another, and keep adding one more every single month. Gym is a good one, but it could be something as simple as making your bed. It's your mind you have to change, not anything external. Consistency is key. Second point of advice is to pick up meditation, this is a valuable activity that has endless benefits for your life. There…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:14 AM
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Here's a short answer: Stop caring. The long answer. Stop caring. But care. But ultimately, stop giving so much thought to what you 'should' do, and instead focus on what you 'want' to do. I want a nice body. I need to workout and eat right to achieve this goal. If I don't, I won't get a nice body. End period. I want a cool car. I need to make money to get this cool car. If I don't, I don't get the cool car. Erase from your vocabulary, what you 'should' do and replace it with what you 'want' to …
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:05 AM
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Lol You're over-estimating them. A handful may have the capacity to do something about their anger, but majority are pacified. Video games, internet, porn, even robot 'girls' now. Their mind is broken to the point that they don't want to actually see what's going on. I mean really, we all came from that place. We all know how much delusion we pumped ourselves with before discovering trp. I dont mind. Let them be happy with the scraps. I'll dine on the actual meal.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:53 AM
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Living up to your name I see. That's the plan Senpai
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:49 PM
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I actually haven't even thought about kids. That's like so far into the future. Cheers for your birthday!
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:08 PM
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I figured this one out as well, going back to the whole vetting. I know exactly the type of girl I like and want in my life. Growth minded one supremely, fun and support close second. Well now that I did, I'm freaking out. It's the emotion of caring I'm unused to man. Mainly because of the vulnerability aspect. But trp hammers you're not suppose to care. And I haven't. It's the balance that is confusing if that makes sense. Balancing channeling a ngaf attitude, and one where you're an emotionall…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:58 AM
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Lead the life you desire and seek counsel from those wiser than you for guidance when struck.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:18 AM
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I agree with you man. It's actually cute how she tries to shit test me sometimes. I'm just really thrown off guard is all. I'm used to not caring. This is new territory for me. Vetting is key too. Knowing what you like and want is a great insight for this.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:15 AM
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I'll marry her and you'll be best man. Real homie Appreciate the advice though.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:07 AM
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I've figured my stuff out. I know what I want, and who I am. I meant end goal of trp regarding women. What point should one drop a woman other than her doing all the red flag things listed? Idk
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:04 AM
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Yeah I know man. Cheery life ain't it.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:45 AM
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I second Graphql. It's so much easier and efficient than REST.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 08:36 AM
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Zero problems with this and I agree fully with your message. The problem however, is that control and emotions are two things that, as far as I am concerned, have never run tandem with each other. You can either have emotion or you can have control. Emotion is like water, while control is the dam's, canals, moats, and etc, that you build to control the flow of water. But no matter how big of a wall you build, sometimes a furious hurricane will dismantle your structures. Anyhow, this is how I see…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 04:45 PM
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We're a globalised society right now. The idea of nationalism, which it literally was/is, is being replaced by the idea of globalism.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 01:53 AM
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How does immigration destroy the nation?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:09 PM
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We have too much to say when we are genuinely interested in what we are talking about. Unfortunately, majority of conversations are boring af Example of my mind when talking to someone: Boring, boring, ooh look cool thing, mention cool thing, get distracted, boring, boring. I need constant stimulation otherwise I just will not be able to pay attention to you for long. Which is why I've learned to drive conversations. But sometimes too much driving is not feasible because you have to share. I str…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:32 PM
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Honestly I disagree with this. The number one thing having game does is that it makes you more aware of all the social dynamics that happens between two people or a group. This is huge. Example, to some level I'm an autistic dude and I've had to learn to read people's body languages, emotions to better understand what they're feeling and trying to convey to me. You wouldn't be able to tell how much I used to struggle with this basic human function now, because whenever I have a conversation, I'm…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 05:38 PM
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Thank you for writing this. Even though consciously I understand the message and have for sometime, I have a hard time internalizing it. There is no endgame. Only the here and now. On average, how much do you meditate in a day?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 12:38 AM
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Our future will either consist of facing the realities of our human nature, or we will double down on the fantasies our minds manufacture for us like we have been doing for eons. Either way, your individual future is in your hands.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 02:21 AM
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Was exactly like you bro. My car broke down a couple of weeks ago in the middle of a busy intersection. It literally just died(my alternator went out) and the entire time I was trying to kickstart it again, I was calm. Those annoyed faces in the windshields staring back at me? Smile and wave. And like you, a year ago, I would've been freaking out and making the problem even worse because of the way I grew up. Deep breaths and a calm mind will get you far in this world. Condolences for the shitty…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 01:58 PM
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Lmao that was a fun read. I'm an ardent believer that story telling is the best way to get a message across because it engages us in a way a wall of text with instructions just can't. Suffice to say, it was depressing to read it as well because I could picture myself in narrators shoes. The utter meaningless of doing something over and over again with no regard for 'a' bigger picture. He lives an empty life where he'd rather be the observer than be the one who takes control and just ....does. I …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 06:13 AM
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You're 50? Holy shit. I always figured you were in your late thirties. Come to find out you're double my age 😂 Truly an Uncle.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:18 PM
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RedPill advocates making your external world flawless by being a put together man. You've got that down. That is only a small part. The bigger and more important part of both men and women journey's is our internal world. There are very few people who work on themselves internally and that is tragic. And the path of internal work is something that you alone can do for you. I suggest to start writing and putting your thoughts down. Journal everyday. Meditate, learn to understand yourself better a…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 08:20 PM
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Dude you need to help him with his mental state first before any physical gains can be made. I have a shit ton of brothers. And not one of them is going down a path I know will benieft them in the future, but they are all arrogant pieces of shit and I can work with that because it shows resilience on their part. What you need to do is understand the mental state of your brother before anything else about his physical reality. What are his hopes? His dreams? What kind of a person is he? Learn who…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:49 AM
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Dude you're so lucky that you have this place to help you understand the world better. The world is chaotic and amazing. If you've read the sidebar, you'll know the basics to build a strong foundation for your life and if none of it make sense, ask here and you'll get the answers you need. Your mom has been through a lot from the sounds of it and she'll be fine if you're gone. Fact is, this is your time to define who you are and face the world. As they said, call her everyday if you must. She'll…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:47 AM
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Listen to this man OP.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:33 AM
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Went to college with a dude who was 5'2 and no one could own a room more than he could. Of course this translated into lots of sex for him. He taught me that honestly very little matters as long as you're 100% secure and confident in yourself. You can look like complete shit and if you own that, you're set. As a sensible dude, he obviously dressed well and groomed well too, but it was his no fucks given personality that was king. So answer: no fucks given. You're short. So what
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:45 AM
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Damn. Did not know that this was something I need to express, but it's good to know for future reference .
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 04:45 AM
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What? Dude if you want to fuck sluts, go fuck sluts. If you dont want to fuck sluts, dont fuck sluts. The whole point of this subreddit is for you to realize that you can do whatever you want, whenever you want. Frame = your reality. What is your reality in this situation? Either reality A, fuck a slut. Or reality B, dont fuck a slut.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:36 AM
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What do you think?
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:30 AM
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Just one thing. Why in the hell would I be in the frontlines of a war? Dude this place is a gift and the number one thing it taught me was to reject anyone's else purpose other than mine. You go and fight while I take care of your wife....and the state or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 06:56 PM
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Adderall is 100% my favorite drug. But I've never been anywhere near someone that can prescribe that and tbh, it definitely is a last resort. Coffee doesn't do anything for me and I'm not even addicted. I just drink it for the placebo effect it gives my brain sometimes. Meditation is the one I haven't done on a regular basis, and that's where I'll start. Thank you
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:07 PM
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Yup. I've tried it and didnt help.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:03 PM
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I've heard this sentiment alot. To be fair I do use it as a crutch sometimes to "feel"like I'm being productive. But curious as to your reasoning
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:02 PM
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Yeah I figured this was the best approach. Thanks
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:01 PM
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What is it with you and jumping down people's throats when nofap is mentioned? Chill out.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:01 PM
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Dude you cant prepare yourself emotionally. Enjoy the present moment with her now and when the time comes for you guys to part ways, part ways and let yourself feel the negative feelings you're dreading. You are trying to escape that and you cant. It will suck and you will be in pain. But that's life. So why worry about it now and let it poison you? I practice meditation sometimes and one of the concepts of it is that the reason people suffer so much in life is because of two principles, desire …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:27 PM
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Thank you for this. Very insightful read.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 10:51 PM
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Lmao....The picture of him sneakily packing his room up and her catching him in the act is hilarious. Bonus points tripping out the door with one shoe on attempting to run for his life. Hahahaha
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:13 AM
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Err what
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:05 AM
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Yup, thank you. Appreciate the response, and I'll go reflect. Thank you
/r/askTRP19/12/18 10:00 PM
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Ok I'm sorry. Jesus. :/ Leader to myself....Leader to myself....Leader...to...myself..... Please don't tear me a new asshole but how do I become a leader to myself? There isn't anything I put value to in my life. Money is useless and so is family, as well as career. Being the big bad gym bro is cool but again that doesn't really give me any value. Okay how about intellect, I pride myself on being an intelligent guy but again, it's not something I put any real work in. I like to learn so I learne…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:46 PM
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No those are all perfectly normal people but every single action where they lose emotion is a perfect striking opportunity. It's like a fencer losing balance at a key moment, it opens you up for attack. And a keen opponent will 100% capitalize on that. Unless you lose emotion in a controlled way like a psychopath would ;) Lmao okay I'm going to stop. Good talking with you bro. Thx for advice.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:07 PM
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Thing is....Life is BS. Not one thing people "value" means anything other than the notion that it does in their own heads. I value making people smile and I do that. A lot. People follow because majority of them are sheep and they can't help but follow. I despise that in anyone. So if I can't value a follower, and a leader is as rare as the moon farting gold nuggets....and I clearly don't want to be a leader....Where then can value come from?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:04 PM
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If I can transport my intellect, then I think I could be a successful psychopath. I'm already quite good at learning things and if I was strapped with no emotions.....Well Jesus. Learning socializing isn't hard if you just pay attention to how people interact with each other and take your bs ego and emotions aside. If you don't focus on yourself, you can quickly pick up on basic social cues. But I don't have an answer for grandeur. I think if you manipulated people enough to make them feel that …
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:59 PM
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<3 LMFAO I'm joking but thanks dude. Cheers
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:55 PM
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You're right. Let me give you a virtual kiss :* and maybe a hug? ;) Thanks dude. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:52 PM
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Lol.....Okay you're right. I crave attention like a fiend craves crack. I get mad when I don't have it because if you're not the center of attention you're not "winning" whatever that means. I guess I need to meditate. Thank you random person. Appreciate your help But I still stand by my statement that it's easier to win at life if you're a psychopath. No emotions==Major advantage.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:51 PM
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I hate myself for needing anything from anyone. I hate myself for desiring love and companionship. I hate myself for not being a psychopath. I care about others thus why I can relate to them and they to me well. I can read others emotions and body language because I had to learn how to do that and also because I am sensitive. I want to not feel. Not care, and not need shit from anyone. In life, those that feel lose and those that have no emotions win. I will always lose and I fucking hate it.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:36 PM
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I'm in a different continent from my home and I've been here for the past month. I know how to meet people, so easy friends. Not one single person I knew a month ago from this entirely different countrt but I've made some lifelong friends already. I am lonely as fuck. But not because I can't meet people. I'm naturally a friendly person so people want to be around me. I'm lonely because I don't know how to accept myself, and I don't know how to even get started on that process.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:25 PM
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What is there not to respect....I'm a cool person and I know I'm better than a lot of people. Wtf is it that I'm missing. I look at myself and I see a cool dude. But no respect. How does one not respect a cool dude. I've achieved a lot. I inspire people for goodness sake. So what exactly am I missing.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:16 PM
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This. If you're laughing, she's laughing. If you feel awkward, she feels awkward. Girls respond to whatever state of mind you're in. So don't worry about what she thinks because at the end of the day, this is about you and how you feel. Just have fun with it and you're all set.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:46 PM
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See I don't really agree with this. I went for 40 mins before I faked cumming for my first time. It literally takes me a shit ton of time to cum even now. So who knows, he may end up fucking for hours on end. Everyone is different
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:53 AM
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I'm sorry if this wasn't clear in the post before. But.....I don't care if me or them approaches someone or not.....I'm just tired of them talking about someone that has no bearing on what we're discussing..... Like for example....As I stated above.....I was sitting at a Burger Joint when one of my friends decided to veer the conversation on someone he found attractive that was also at the joint. I told him to go say hi, he declined. So I assumed we'd move back to what we were talking about.....…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:07 AM
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Get a condom and bang.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:41 AM
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I've approached a 1,000++++ women and I've rejected myself far more than any women ever rejected me. Whatever you believe about yourself, they will take center stage in your mind forever plagueing you until you take a hard look at some of the core beliefs you have about yourself. I'm so grateful for all those rejection because I truly give no fucks about anything now. I absolutely love getting rejected. It's hilarious to me and the majority of my nights out now, I go out of my way to get some re…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:40 AM
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Why what *Edit: a word
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:58 PM
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Trying to find meaning knowing damn well none exist. I'm slowly starting to get the hangout of it however.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:51 PM
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You have to set up plans when she's infront of you. My phone is filled with girls I cold approached and maybe 1 in 5-6 has hit me back up because I failed to make plans when I had them right in front of me. Also a little sidebit, but try to get a solid interaction going between the two of you on that first interaction. As you said, she was hot, so you have to stand out to her. Text her a funny thing while she is in-front of you as well. It helps solidify in her mind the interaction better. Calli…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:26 PM
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My father taught me to bow down to everyone. He's given me everything in life but he's as blue as the sky. My uncles are all the exact same. They all have good families and women they could be with for the rest of their lives so they never needed to learn how to be anything other than religious yes-men. It's the toxic masculinity shame. When you're ashamed to express yourself as a man and own your own sexuality, the result is a lot of thinking where you try to get laid without making the girl re…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:43 PM
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Are you me? I've always been told I was good-looking and there have been so many times girls have either outright asked me out, or made it as obvious as kissing me in front of the entire class for a whole ****** year and still I did nothing. Just turned 23 and I'm never going back to that. I cringe at how pathetically low self-esteem I was and still those girls wanted to be with me. It's not regret....I'm just so angry that I let fear of intimacy and my own sexuality stop me. Growing up in an en…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:58 AM
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Freeloading is what I do best. But you're right though.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:12 AM
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Yeah he would. Thanks man
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:12 AM
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This is the thing I can't wrap my head around still and no matter how many examples both from my life and from all sources including trp I have at my disposal, my brain still refuses to acknowledge it. I don't need anything from a women, or a man, or a child. I'm fiercely independent and I hate relying on anyone in my life. It isn't even about pride, but rather I hate the fact of needing someone else for something I can do by myself. I'm not arrogant, if I have a weakness, I ask for help, learn …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:13 PM
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Dude, don't react. Have you learned nothing from this place? He was joking and even if he wasn't, frame it as a joke and have a hearty laugh and move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:45 PM
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I'm 23 and going with a friend of mine for part of the way. I heard they were easy man but I grew up in the west, and don't really have that concept in my brain. Definitely going to be at the Thai water festival which is one of the events I'm looking forward to. 5 girls in 30 days though, any tips for gaming them?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:46 AM
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I'm sorry, let me clarify. I'm under 25 and I think screwing the girl and/or fighting him are two very useless endeavors. The first because as stated in another post, you don't give the other guy room to do much but retailiate and retailiation is going to happen. And second because fighting isn't cost-effective anymore. Touch anyone and you will get sued in the best case scenario and end up in prison in the worst for assault. Both are lose-lose. Personally, I've always just laughed and walked aw…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:34 AM
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Elaborate
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:16 PM
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Curious....but how was prison?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:24 AM
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This is soldi advice. Not OP but thanks.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:12 AM
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Very good idea. I think I will for the next month
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:30 AM
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I've been chewing on this response for the past couple of days now because I don't really have a response. It's quite literally the answer I was looking for even though I already knew it. If you don't mind terribly however, can you expand on how Chaos Theory and Error Theory? The way it has applied to your life specifically. I've been doing research on both and would like some more insight. Thanks man
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:29 AM
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What is it actually to be alive though? I began working at a corporate job earlier this year after graduating and it's boring and lame. Zero mission to my goal in life. And so is everything that everyone does on this planet once they disengage their passion from it. Great realization, great freedom afterward and yes it is super liberating because you can do anything. But dude.....I smell air, pet an amazing dog, and fuck a great chick. Then what? Right, be on your mission. Which again is as frui…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:01 AM
1

What
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:06 PM
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I feel weak for having such thoughts. Especially because there is nothing wrong with me and I know the thoughts are pure bullshit. It's also usually the exact same thing it has been since I was a teenager. I knew I never wanted kids and I saw the BS in the religion I grew up in, and discovering TRP just kind of pushed me over the edge recently. There is no meaning in life. Nothing I do or say or be has any meaning at all. It's like being adrift in space with no tether to a spaceship or a planet.…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 04:04 PM
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My cousin came from a poor background and is self taught. But guy can walk into any corporate building and can charm his way up the ladder. It honestly blows my mind how he can bend people to his will wherever he goes simply with his personality. I want that superpower lol He grew up in the country and is mostly at his dad's ranch majority of the year. He comes to the city maybe 3-4 months out of a year to get away from home and do "construction" for a bit. I've grown up in city.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:12 PM
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Lmao.... Ok I'll bite. Put simply I hated my mother. She was absolutely fucking crazy. There's a period of time when my dad was gone from the family when I was a wee pup (3-9) that she was head of household. He was out working for his growing family. Eldest son. I have more underneath me. My mother when I was growing up was a women who didn't like the word no. It was her way even if she was dead wrong or the highway. 85% of the time, her way was dead wrong. I wouldn't call her a narcissist but h…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 12:57 PM
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I've talked with all kinds of women, well maybe except corporate or Uber rich or princess or queens for that matter. American girls mostly. They bore me, which means I'm boring.....well that was easy. School/bars was before. Which also means I have to expand my horizons.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:42 AM
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They are both average. My cousin is scrawny and around 5'8 but dude has insane charisma. I've never seen anyone like him. I've seen him time and time again outwit guys much bigger and with higher smv then him purely because of his social handling of the situation. It's actually comical really if it wasn't so annoying at times. Also spending time with him I learned that nothing mattered to humans than a person's social rank. This was before I stumbled across this place. My friend is 6 foot and fi…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:59 AM
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That's funny because I grew up in an all male household from uncle's to Dad and all brothers. Only females were my mother and grandmother. My friend has two older sisters and my cousin is extremely social in a way most guys really aren't. But is it too late for me to get that circle language if I start spending more time with women? Im just bored with them. They don't ever really offer anything substantial. Hmm.... When I've observed both my cousin and friend around women they have a tendency to…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:39 AM
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That is indeed hilarious.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:58 PM
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Are you me? I can't stop with the stupid smile too. I remember first time it came out was when I was in Sunday school and I was surrounded by quite a lot of teenage boys which made me super anxious about heirarchy and all that BS. I was smaller than majority of them, much less stronger, and socially incompetent but I had my smile. I could never stop smiling and laughing, even though internally I was anxious af. That was the freakiest thing actually, that I couldn't help having that smile in my f…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 10:38 PM
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Everyone here has covered everything I would have said, but I would like to add two things. The first is about discipline and the second is about you. I graduated 2 months ago and if I could redo college all over again, I would have bought a planner a week before school started and hammered out a schedule for the upcoming quarter. Then I would've struck to that schedule as if my life depended on it. College is the best time to learn how the obnoxiously hard skill of disciplining yourself with ev…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:13 AM
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We need to bring back Elders from our tribes of old. Now every Grandpa and grandma are bitter mfs.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:57 AM
2

A couple days shy of my 24th and yes I feel the same way.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 06:16 PM
1

My skin becomes better when I shoot a load.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 11:20 PM
1

Dude having Acne since I was a teenager has been the biggest confidence killer in my life. Especially coming from a family of guys who never had any acne in their life constantly telling me to wash my damn face. Anyhow the older I have gotten the less acne I have on my face which has been a godsend. I'd say my Acne is 1 and 2 which essentially means I can't get rid of it. Mine however is like 90% hormonal and as you mentioned that's the hardest one to get rid of. I'm trying to do Nofap but when …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 11:14 PM
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As
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:23 PM
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This makes no sense....
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:09 PM
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Wrote down all my reasons of why and all came up as surface level reasons except one. I'm terrified of intimacy. I learned to hide myself as a young kid and everytime I've let myself be vulnerable, I've been burned from friends to past relationships, and most importantly to family. I don't think anything terrifies me more than being vulnerable to anyone and this hinders me because in order to develop real relationships with people, you need to be willing to be vulnerable. Funny really, it's easi…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:47 PM
1

You are right. More than anything, this failure is teaching me more than I care to admit and at the end of the day, that is the most important part, what I learn from it. Thanks and appreciate the answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:19 AM
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Poking fun was probably one of my favorite things to do my ex. It never failed to amuse me how worked up she would get over the littlest things. Spot on on the danger aspect as well. Whenever I was with her, there was always this sense in my body that something was off and I should be vigilant and aware. At the time I didn't really understand it and thus I never paid attention to it, but the feeling of danger was always there. Scariest part was that I told her all my weakness. Every single one o…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 06:55 AM
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My ex admitted to being BPD. She was batshit crazy and to this day a part of me still wants to be with her as fucked up as that is. I don't think I'll ever stop not wanting to be with her but as you said, it is like walking on a landmine with the possibility of getting blown the fuck up. She made life interesting in a way no one ever has, and major perks for the sex. Best sex ever hands down. But the cons far outweighed the pros. The most sobering part however is that you can't win with a BPD wo…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 06:43 AM
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Which I don't understand really. Even before I discovered abundance mentality, it seemed strange to me for a dude to fight another guy over his women cheating on him and vice versa with girls fighting other girls for their man cheating. Soo stupid.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:15 AM
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Yeah I'm not doing anything with her. Just an example. Though curiosly enough, it's not just her. Majority of girls I work with are super flirty.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:07 PM
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PDA? As for activities, I was thinking of doing Salsa. Cool dancing class which I did before.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:09 PM
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There was a girl from work yesterday who put her arm in my shoulder and internally I was visibly shaken. Wtf We'd been talking all day and I knew she was interested on me, and here she was initiating contact which is a total green sign and I just stood there looking uncomfortable. Not just her. There's binders of this shit.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:03 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt, but have you considered doing psychadelics? I've heard they can offer a different way of viewing life. Like how everything is quiet pointless at the end of the day thus you can pretty much do anything you want that's within your power. Don't take life so seriously man. You'll be dead one day so who cares if it has meaning or not. Go out into the the street and make a fool of yourself. Go dance on top of a mountain. Smile at a shark. Jump from the highest point of …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 06:04 AM
1

Yes. That works
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:09 AM
1

Carbs ✓ Fat ✓ Got it. Yeah I have a bunch of kale and lettuce
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:31 AM
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I've been coddled all my life. Don't need anymore of that. That's why I posted here knowing exactly what would come of it. I think too much. That's my plague but it makes me introspective which can be a double edged sword. Thank you so much man. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to respond to this.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:19 AM
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Can I mail them to you? What's your address?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:17 AM
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Will do :) Thank you man.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:17 AM
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I appreciate your input man. It's okay not to have pity for me, I don't really deserve it. Nonetheless, thank you for taking time out of your day to respond. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:17 AM
1

I eat protein + vegetables mostly. Fruit smoothie in the morning, meat + lettuce for lunch and I usually skip dinner. 23, 5'9, and I weight 165. Currently with a martial arts gym. Soon as conctract ends, I'll switch to a real gym and start strength training. Thank you man
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:16 AM
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I'm generally a happy dude. That's why what happened last night blew me away. I've never experienced being that low in my life. I appreciate your input man. Cheers
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:12 AM
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I'm with a martial arts gym. I used to go once a week because I didn't have the time with full time work and school to be able to do more than that. I'm done with school now, so I'm going to dedicate more time to go now. Also kind of in a contract with them till the end of November. They have free weights+ an hour of class M-S. Sundays free. The intensity of the classes depends on the instructor largely but they are great workouts and I learn to fight. Will get on a program as soon as I finish m…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 02:10 AM
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Just came back from gym. I don't do it regularly. But this is the first time I've seen how much of an effect exercise has on my mind. I do martial arts class, 1 hr of intense training has completely changed my mood. I'm sorry. You guys are right. Don't plan to ever give this shit up again.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:37 AM
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Just came back from the gym. I feel much better. First time my mood changed 180 degrees. Well I understand now why lifting on a regular basis is so important.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:36 AM
1

You are right. I'm fairly used to it, and I won't ever do it. I've given myself that choice a lot throughout my life and I've never acted on it, it is just the idea that floats through my head. Anyhow, I asked myself last night if I wanted to go through with it. Hard no. Okay, if that is the case, then I'll never entertain it again. No matter how shitty life gets and that's one promise I can at least keep to myself. No point in thinking about something that I will never do. We're going to die on…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:57 PM
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I do yeah. But I don't really push it to the extreme where there is pain. You are correct though, pushing through the physical pain will reinforce that area of my brain. Appreciate the advice man, thank you.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:52 PM
1

I understand I am self-pitying myself. I understand I am a snowflake. I understand I have zero right to feel this way. I understand I have lived a great life. I understand there are billions of people alive today that have it a billion times worse than I do. I understand I'm a piece of shit for feeling this way...... Realizing this is why I am even posting it on this thread. Because it is not normal. It isn't fucking right that I get to have the life I have now and feel the way I feel. It simply…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:43 PM
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Lol. Okay I'm still learning this whole RP thing so you gotta give me a break here. But damn. Thats.....damn. Currently choking on the pill. Give me a min.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:47 AM
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Lol. I said traditional because all she kept telling me about her future was she wanted a husband and kids asap. Honestly only girl that I ever met that has told me that at face value. But what do I know. And yes. Being friends with girls is a great thing when there is no attraction between the two of you and you can honestly admit that to yourself. However, I started being friends with both and it's only after I hung out with them a lot that I realized maybe I didn't want to just be friends. Bu…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:41 AM
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Didn't realize I was an orbiter. Gonna quit being one. Thanks for the realization man
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:15 PM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:14 PM
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<3 Thanks love. I'll go do that ^.^
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:13 PM
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I prefer harsh truth too because I know I can handle it. I may resent you in the moment but I'll be so grateful to you internally as I am right now and suffice to say I'll thank you for it as well. As to what I get out of these two women, really not a lot. They're a fun pair but that's about it. I admit, I wanted to fuck them both but I think that's about as far as I got. Funny really. You asking me that question has just made me realize that all I really want was to sleep with them and I've gon…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:13 PM
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Lol I like that response
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:06 PM
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Soo drop them....Noted. Harsh truth sucks but it's the only thing that is most valuable. Appreciated it man.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:05 PM
1

Ah thanks!
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:49 AM
1

I looked on Amazon and there are a lot of "multivitamin" bottles. Just wondering which one you use so I can base my shopping on it.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:18 AM
1

Jesus it just gets worse. Umm....yeah :(
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:10 AM
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<3 Appreciate you man. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:34 PM
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Solid advice. I'll do that and report back.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:49 PM
1

Soon as I can afford a doctor.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:48 PM
1

Any specific brand of multivitaminss recommendation?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:48 PM
1

No worries ;) Thanks dude
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:46 PM
1

The more I sleep, the more tired I am :P Also doesn't help my sleep that I dream constantly about B's.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:46 PM
1

Can't afford a doctor at the moment. But suffice to say I don't think I have any of those. I'm pretty much fine except for the low energy.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:45 PM
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I understand it's completely unrealistic to be Bill Gates rich but I believe I can easily attain a couple of million dollars by age 35. Don't really need a family to start and if I actually commit to increasing my finances, I don't really see any reason why I shouldn't. To top it off I'm really happy living simply. A nice apartment, decent transport and basic living. Don't think that is expensive. And to your point about women I don't really need help in that regard. I may not have killer game b…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:23 AM
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Hey Todd, first off thanks for doing this man. Been following you for quite some time and your Women product was the best program I ever had the pleasure of purchasing. Bit about me, I'm 23 years old, and about to move out to my first apartment with a buddy of mine. Almost graduated from Uni with a quarter left and essentially with my whole life ahead of me. I understand being good with women is a skill every make should learn because not only does it increase having better connection with women…
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