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Awkwardness is a choice. It's the stories you tell yourself that dictate whether or not you'll feel it. You're fearing you'll be called out for stalking this girl and her friends, and it's making you feel awkward. Why not flip it on its head, perhaps she's the one stalking you, huh? Perhaps she's known the whole time you love hanging out at that place, so she's been running this hidden agenda persuading her friends how this club is totally the place to be. Isn't that a nicer thought? Tease her t…
/r/seduction24/09/16 03:07 PM
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I wrote a comprehensive post about the subject of touching, but essentially it are your beliefs and the stories you tell yourself, that makes touching feel awkward. Nothing wrong in that though, most men have these preconceived notions or beliefs that say, for various reasons, and that touching is bad. Just need to change them. Touching is absolutely crucial to attracting any one girl. You cannot get sexual with any one girl without touching, no matter how smooth you are with words. You can, how…
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:45 PM
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"I know... My mom says I look like a model cheeky smile" "Thank you missy" Politely accept the compliment for what it is, or be flirty about it. Both work
/r/seduction11/09/16 09:37 AM
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I started doing it right from the get-go, because I just found the whole seating arrangement of sitting opposite each other rather awkward. And lemme tell you, out of all the dates I've been on, I have had no girl complain about me wanting her to sit next to me...nada. Just say it, even if she puts her bag on the seat opposite you, "why don't you come sit here next to me? I just find the whole sitting opposite each other awkward...I mean it's like we're back in school doing oral exams you know, …
/r/seduction12/01/16 11:29 AM
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I used to suck ass at touching and escalation, but I guess you could say I 'cracked the code' for the lack of a better explanation. Read my blog post(see below) and apply everything in it, and I guarantee you that the girl will never have met anyone else as aggressive/touchy as you. Women make decisions about a guy, ESPECIALLY at bars/clubs, based on how aggressive you are. Because they don't wanna go home with some guy who isn't going to be able to seal the deal. They want the most dominant guy…
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:28 PM
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You'd be surprised though, you don't actually need a cue to touch the the girl. You can touch whenever you want, regardless of her saying something funny or just listening to you talking. Try it next time you have the chance to, you'll see that they don't care if you're touching her 'out of context'
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:21 PM
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It's a mindset thing - a belief of yours that is making you believe that it is wrong to touch the woman, or that she is going to freak out if you touch her. The only way to change that is by doing it in spite of that fear. This is going to end up a long ass response, as I suck at writing short, so just check out my blog post on here: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1 It literally covers exactly this topic and how to resolve it. I used to suck...har…
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:19 PM
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Works just as well during conversation. Wait for the tiniest lull and go for it
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:12 PM
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When I found out just exactly how powerful agreeing with her and escalating is, I never looked back. It has a 100% success rate for me. Seriously. I have had girls by my lap, giving me a blowjob, then stopping and going "I should leave", and then just continuing the blowjob after I said "yeah, you probably should". I have had a girl about to give me a handjob and tell me she's leaving, only to then tell me "okay but talk to me about something non-related while I do it" after I told her it was pr…
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:40 PM
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I don't like the idea of revolving your identity around attracting women, as in catering towards a specific woman or type of woman. Do what makes you attractive in YOUR eyes - what makes you go "hot damn, I'm fucking hot shit!". Notwithstanding that it's going to give you amazing feel-good emotions, it'll also make you far more congruent as you'll be doing what is attractive to you rather than someone else. You're not always going to be someone's type, that is life. I'm blonde and blue eyed, and…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:06 PM
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Alright here's exactly what is happening to you... When you were first texting her you didn't have relationship in mind, she was just some girl who you fancied chatting and flirting with, but ultimately you weren't bothered about where it would lead - as such, you subconsciously didn't care whether it came to an abrupt end or you two stopped conversing. Fast forward to today...turns out she's pretty cool! She's funny, flirty, you feel as if she just gets you and on top of that you're actually st…
/r/seduction07/01/16 01:42 PM
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I used to have major issues with getting an erection during sex, no matter how badly I wanted to just screw the woman's brains out. ...turns out I had a masturbation/porn addiction. The term for what I had is called PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction). A symptom of it is an absence of morning wood - I realised back then I hadn't had it in years. Stopped looking at all porn, and masturbation. 4 weeks later I was able to get erections again like I hadn't experienced in ages. Bonus points of a…
/r/seduction07/01/16 11:18 AM
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Honestly, the best way to learn how is just by doing. I mean, it's when you're taking consistent action that you really learn - that you spot mistakes and learn from them. However, I'd recommend you just have fun with it - pick an opener that makes you laugh or smile and use that one. I advise against using direct openers, since it's pretty much instant-death if you can't follow them up with amazing banter or you're really good looking. I saw the absolute best results when I used routines / scri…
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:01 AM
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I've used a lot of different fragrances as trial and error, as each fragrance will smell slightly differently depending on the person's natural scent. But the one I've landed on that has gotten me the most compliments is Bleu de Chanel. Only other person I've smelt wearing it was my friend who introduced me to it...and I 'never looked back'. That fragrance gave me compliments on almost every single date I went on. So if you can get a sample of it I recommend you check it out
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:54 PM
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Hey man. I saw your message and had to comment - like you I used to get oneitis all the time. Exactly how you described it. I did find, however, once I just started screening a lot harder and going on dates on a consistent basis even when I found a girl I'd see potential with, the oneitis became almost nullified. Never really came back actually. For me the missing piece in the abundance mentality equation was using online dating....it's just so great for building abundance
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:04 AM
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When I first started out I was crippling shy most of the time around women. So for me personally, I opted out of finding a relationship until I had slept with at least 30 women. The reason why is because I felt that I had a massive amount of personal growth to do, and getting into a relationship too soon would deprive me of all that personal growth I could be making - all those insecurities I could be ridding myself of. For me, I realised it was time to find a relationship when I found getting l…
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:00 AM
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Being known as a player isn't a bad thing, actually. It's a great thing, and women want to be with the player. If a woman teases you about being a player just tease her right back "and you wouldn't have it any other way" or "and you fucking love it". I went back to my home country last Summer, and the capital city has about 20k people...of which many frequently bump into each other at the same bars everyone goes to. I was crushing Tinder, doing day game and even approaching girls at the gym. And…
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:52 AM
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"Hey listen, I know you want to do friendship and I'm cool with your decision, but I'm not that type of guy. I don't do friendship with someone I'm attracted to, but thanks anyways." Whenever you get friend zoned it is 95% of the time due to lack of escalation on the 1st date. Women make up their mind about a guy super fast - some faster than others. If you don't make a move and make your intentions known right away, then women will immediately just assume you aren't sexually interested in them …
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:23 PM
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Great points mate. Glad to see I'm not the only one who believes in using text for things other than just handling logistics.
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:09 PM
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Oxford Circus is great. Sometimes you'll see other day gamers there, but it's basically the ultimate proving grounds. It can get really intense as people move fast there, but it's far superior than any other place to nullify approach anxiety and fear of rejection. I did 120 approaches over 7 days there, and after that I just didn't have AA anymore. Also OkCupid is amazing here in London, I recommend you take advantage of it
/r/seduction05/01/16 12:38 PM
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Haha, I know it's mind blowing isn't it. When you put up a 'fight' or start pleading, which is even worse, the girl instantly gets off you and her pussy slams shut like a clam. However, if you just agree with her or pretend sex doesn't even matter it confuses the hell out of them and gets you exactly that...sex. Counterintuitive, but works brilliantly. When the girl says "no, we're not having sex" or "no, we shouldn't do this" it is her logical brain's last desperate attempt (LMR) of cockblockin…
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:55 AM
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Answered this exact question not too long ago, so I'm going to copy paste my answer as I feel it is the perfect formula to achieve what it is you want out of this encounter...you dog, you ;-P hehe. ...... When I was single this became a very common occurrence for me, and so here's what I did that worked every time... Step 1. When you open the door, greet her like you're seeing a friend "haha heey there you are! Nice to see you :)" and hug her. This cuts past the awkwardness of the whole 'first t…
/r/seduction04/01/16 09:17 PM
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I used to dabble heavily in using emojis, I'm talking as hardcore as 2 or 3 in a single text. Never hindered me. Use them if you like 'em, or don't.
/r/seduction04/01/16 08:11 PM
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I'd avoid going on dinner dates - it's terrible seating most of the time, as you'll be sat on opposite ends of the table with the girl and unable to escalate her. Not to mention dinner dates have a lot of terrible connotations attached - people instinctively imagine all sorts of awkward movie scenes. Going to the movies is almost identical - escalating is so much, much more difficult due to seating. Also most people hate talking while watching a movie, even if it is whispering, so that eliminate…
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:54 PM
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Absolutely man...I used to suck at escalating, but then I discovered exactly how important touching is and just wow, haha. I even tried motor boating a woman without even really flirting with her, just made sure to escalate her physically first haha. If you wanna do some research on it check out this blog post of mine: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1 Everything I write in it is what I used for the motor boating and God knows what else, lol
/r/seduction30/12/15 02:20 AM
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Honestly, and you'd be surprised, but it's all about touching. I've been talking to girls about politics and physics before while getting a handjob simultaneously. Talking isn't as important - touching is king
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:09 AM
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Touching is a big subject, if it's to be covered properly, but here's an excerpt from a blog post of mine: "Whether you're the kind of guy who is already touching a lot or hardly doing any touching at all, some of this might be either a little bit or very far outside your comfort zone and so it might be very intimidating at first. When I first started, I was not a touchy-feely kind of guy, I hardly did any touching at all, and for me it was very fucking scary when I began practising this stuff. …
/r/seduction29/12/15 11:56 PM
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I've been out with my girlfriend to places plenty of times when I've been plain intimidated for various reasons. She's always been shocked afterwards when I've told her, since I looked completely calm, comfortable and confident. What did I do? Dominant body language, smile, and have slow body movements. Dominant body language is doing everything to opposite to making yourself small - think straight back, shoulders back, etc. Only a confident and comfortable person would (normally) do this. Same …
/r/seduction27/12/15 09:52 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. What you need to do is expose yourself to women as much as remotely possible...and I'm not talking naked under a trench coat exposure, lol, but interactions with women. As a virgin, you may or may not have a lot of sexual neediness simply due to the fact that you're now making it your mission to get laid. So you need to diminish that and any other neediness by crushing in as many interactions with women as possible. Go on Tinder; set up an OkCupid account or whatever. Just messa…
/r/seduction27/12/15 09:41 PM
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I used online dating as the primary way of honing my game, and it gave me tons of growth. But I also understand why the consensus agrees with your point, since too many people would fall into the pitfall of using it just to get laid and not practice all their material. Whereas I also took it as an opportunity to also test out everything I knew
/r/seduction27/12/15 09:24 PM
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You can handle that in several ways. E.g. you can show it doesn't bother you by acknowledging it and changing the topic, or you can use humour. "Haha sweet, that's pretty cool. Hey btw did you ever get the chance to check out whatever?" "I know right, so annoying! I had to get like 5 bodyguards cus girls just won't stop hitting on me" Both convey it doesn't phase you one bit, and that's the message you wanna deliver. I prefer the 2nd approach personally.
/r/seduction26/12/15 11:56 PM
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To be fair, online dating can be an amazing way of improving oneself. I could do approaches on the street and regularly did, but for me it was online game that transformed me. Because I took every single date as an opportunity to test new stuff and push my comfort zone in one way or another. Essentially I was able to test all the material I had learned and even came up with a lot of my own stuff. I wouldn't rule out online dating.
/r/seduction26/12/15 08:43 AM
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Look at you, the man with the plan. :-) hehe. Great plan mate. Just a few adjustments/tips... Don't worry about looking for a ring, just approach whatever woman you fancy. A lot of women, even if they do look all grumpy, will light up with you approaching her. Imagine if you had a cheque for 1 million bucks to hand to hand to a woman, would you care if she had headphones on or looked grumpy? Fuck no! You know she'd flare up. Well, YOU are that million buck cheque, mate! Approach whomever you wan…
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:35 PM
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A lot of women at clubs just don't go home with guys. Women frequently make out with guys at clubs, but would never leave with any of them. (Not saying it's an impossibility, just saying this applies to a lot of them) Try and pull them out of the club. Flirt with them, build sexual tension, escalate them, and start moving them around the club until you get outside. Once outside, take her away from the venue. "Hey let's go grab some drinks." "Check it out, let's grab those seats over there." "It'…
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:28 PM
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I'm not nearly as jealous as I used to get. I'm really calm and confident in myself these days, but that what you have written is going too far. She MAY be saying this to test your reactions...yes, the 'testing' never really stops, but that's another long topic...and what you have to do is do what you currently are doing great at, staying unaffected. Second step is, you need to assert yourself to her that this is not cool and you do not appreciate it. Do it in a calm and unaffected manner, you c…
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:09 PM
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2 people didn't try this text before down voting me. :-P You'd be surprised what actually works if you were just more open.
/r/seduction25/12/15 10:51 PM
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Text her. A lot of women really dislike phone calls, especially with someone they've just started getting to know better. The reason is because they do not want to get end up stuck on a call having a potentially awkward conversation with someone who could turn out to be some creep. Also texts do not require some type of commitment - they can reply when they see fit/have time. Having said that, you can get some really great work in and be able to solidify a date much easier over a phone call. If …
/r/seduction25/12/15 12:08 PM
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Absolutely understandable man. No need to take such crap from anyone. I suppose it was a valuable lesson nonetheless; you're far less likely to take similar crap from another woman in one of your future dates.
/r/seduction25/12/15 12:05 AM
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Let me just say that I am not trying to be rude or anything, but you must realise that this is your own doing. You have to realise this since only then will you be able to avoid repeating the mistake. She did this only because you categorised yourself in her mind as just another 'chump' who gave her 2 dates of all inclusive. It may have happened on the 1st date, but most definitely on the 2nd date when you didn't call her out on her bullshit excuse. "Cheers, give me the cash and I'll hand you th…
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:37 PM
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It's because you set the precedence by paying for not just the first, but second date too. Of course she is going to assume you're paying again. She's taken you to be just another one of the hundreds of chumps she has dated who all paid for her. Don't be passive aggressive mate, she can't read your mind. Verbalise yourself to her. If you want nothing more to do with her yet walk away having stood up for yourself: "thanks, but no thanks. I'm not one of those guys." If you want to attempt salvagin…
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:25 PM
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Don't entertain that thought pattern. Show her it's a silly thought by deflating it with humour. It accomplishes both nullifying her worries and killing the topic. "And for all I know you could be some hairy old man in his undies texting me right now missy! Lol"
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:15 PM
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The reason you don't get seen as a sexual candidate by these women is because you didn't flirt enough with them; you weren't dominant enough, you weren't aggressive enough as a man. When men don't show their intentions women will just assume you're not sexually interested, friend zone you and move on to pursuing others. For me personally, what tipped the game completely for me was when I learnt to be more touchy and escalate more. Once I did that, EVERYTHING changed. I haven't been friend zoned …
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:00 PM
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"Hey, I know you haven't been able to stop thinking about me, figured I'd say hi :-)" Works great
/r/seduction24/12/15 10:39 PM
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I'm afraid I'll have to disagree with you regarding pick-up lines not working. When I was still in the early stages of my game I'd use scripts all the time, and they worked amazingly. They are great for building natural repertoire. You are right however in saying reality is not always so compliant...no script/routine will have 100% success rate. Having said that, I don't like OP's routine as I find commenting a woman's physical attractiveness that early is usually instant-death if you can't foll…
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:23 PM
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Great stuff mate. Regarding twirling girls...you don't have to worry about doing kino before twirling the girl. I used to twirl girls as my opener when I was pushing my comfort zone. Make eye contact with her; extend your hand out and reach into her personal space as she walks close to you, and twirl her as she grabs it. If she doesn't grab it, just point to your hand with your other hand, and she'll grab it. It works perfectly, as people always feel compelled to grab whatever object that's in t…
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:40 AM
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Negging is a dated concept. The premise of negging was that it was assumed a girl had higher value than you, and so you had to knock it down a few notches by fucking with her self-esteem. It's not necessary to do that, just use good ol' fashioned teasing. Teasing demonstrates that you are a dominant, attractive guy. E.g. She accidentally knocks something over or stumbles in her words: "hey listen...I know I'm like really hot, but you can talk to me like a normal person" If you're making out with…
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:23 AM
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Run as fast as you possibly can. This is the kinda girl that will key your car or steal your cat if you cross her.
/r/seduction22/12/15 09:03 AM
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Oh, well you see that changes it quite a bit. Since you've both been sort of physical with one another before that makes it a lot easier. I say, just escalate her as you would with another girl. A funny thing I would often do is whenever a girl said something 'cheeky'/mischievous I'd smack her in the ass and say "naughty girl! No more!" Never had any negative experience with that - so if you wanna do something ballsy you can try doing that. About her being busy...she may have felt a bit guilty f…
/r/seduction21/12/15 06:58 PM
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Hmm... When you say a friend you are reconnecting with, does that mean it is a person whom was once a friend in the past in which your relationship with was purely platonic, but now you wish to take it romantic/sexual? If the time period in between you last hung out as friends and now was months ago, then you can escalate her as you normally would with a girl. Reason I advice that is because people can change, and it has been a long time since she last saw you; she won't remember exactly who you…
/r/seduction20/12/15 08:42 PM
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A lot of times you can 1) throw them out there with no context at all as a mean to tease her, 2) use them to throw back at her if she's flirting/teasing with you, 3) as a mean to pass one of her tests. For example... 1) Me: "Btw, I've just been thinking, and our date has been going pretty well, and so maybe if you're lucky... I may even let you hold my hand really briefly later on tonight" 2) Girl: "I bet you're gonna miss me a whole lot when we go home tonight..." Response: "Hah, you wish" 3) G…
/r/seduction20/12/15 08:31 PM
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I believe you completely misunderstood my overarching point mate. I said one's body language can either be dominant or submissive. You interpreted that as meaning someone asserting dominance unto someone else - not what I was conveying. You are correct that one can express oneself in various ways via body language, and that's gesturing. However, that doesn't pertain to the point I was making, and nor are they in the same category. Keeping your head down; looking down immediately when someone mak…
/r/seduction20/12/15 07:46 PM
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No worries brother. Hope things work out better for you soon
/r/seduction19/12/15 10:05 PM
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Sounds like an insecurity to me. People, especially women are extremely self-critical. No matter how many compliments they receive, their insecurities can still delude them into thinking they're not all that attractive. Don't need anything clever to say, can just say something like "well, I personally think we're both smoking hot. Just sayin'..." If it turns out it WAS a trap, you'll still pass because you're cheeky enough to add in that you yourself are smoking hot. Works either way
/r/seduction19/12/15 10:02 PM
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Cheers mate, but flattery isn't going to get you into my pants though, and don't even think about trying to buy me a drink, because that's not going to work either
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:43 PM
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Delete her number and never text her again. I'm sorry to say, but she is never going to date you. Once girls friend zone you it is over, there is no going back on that. The only way you can change it is by hitting on a whole bunch of other women; sleep with a bunch of them and become a dominant and attractive guy...maybe then, after all that time of not seeing you will she find you sexually attractive. I'm sorry brother, I know it sucks and it's not what you were hoping for, but it's the cold bl…
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:21 PM
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Like the other guy mentioned, the 'chase frame'. I love flipping the script on a woman and make it appear as if she's the one chasing me, and I'm the one evaluating her. How you ask? Simple, listen to shit that girls who play hard to get say, and use that against women. Keep these 3 phrases in your head and watch girls' jaw drop as you use it on them... "Maybe if you're lucky." "Maybe if you play your cards right." "You wish." Girls never hear guys say that kind of stuff, and a lot of women's br…
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:15 PM
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Excellent question. I was you back when I was in high school. I was fat, insecure and severely bullied for a large part of my life. As a result I grew up as a typical Nice Guy - afraid of standing up for myself, lied a lot to avoid confrontations, and so forth. I read No More Mister Nice Guy and it was the exact game changer I needed - the biggest takeaway for me was that I had to stop lying to people. And I made sure to implement that into every aspect of my life. I would NEVER lie...even if th…
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:07 PM
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Great question. And I hate to just throw out my blog post, but the fact of the matter is that it is a lot to cover. But the short of it is...you MUST become an aggressive guy that touches women if you want to sleep with any of them. Escalation is king! You can get away with talking about physics and still get laid. I shit you not, I've had girls giving me handjobs while I was talking to her about freakin' politics and family matters. It sounds way out there, but WHAT you say doesn't matter that …
/r/seduction19/12/15 05:54 PM
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Here's an awesome thing I did. I brought a bottle of Captain Morgan (rom) in my bag, and 2 glasses. Obviously you can substitute it for wine or any other drink. And then I'd make a playful role play out of it..."alright, so check it out. I brought some [drink] with me for us to share, but it's like tooootally illegal and bad of us to be drinking in public, so we gotta be like super ninja about it. I'm talking while one of us is pouring from the bottle the other has to be on a look out for people…
/r/seduction19/12/15 05:34 PM
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Glad I could be of help, mate. Any questions, always welcome to pop em my way. I enjoy helping my fellow brothers out
/r/seduction19/12/15 05:29 PM
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Any time! I'm happy to help out. If you ever have any questions feel free to shoot em my way. :-)
/r/seduction19/12/15 01:05 PM
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Sounds to me you picture someone being dominant or dominating as someone being domineering, but they are both very different things.
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:05 AM
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Trust me, touching is paramount to being able to seduce a woman. You cannot get a woman to sleep with you without touching. Read my blog post, http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1 And you'll understand why exactly you need to be a guy that touches women. I guarantee you, if you start doing more physical escalation, your success will improve dramatically. No exaggeration
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:34 PM
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Here you go mate: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:32 PM
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Most species on this planet have the capacity to be dominant or submissive. Chimpanzees; dogs, lions, cats, humans, and so forth. It's in our nature and our behaviour. Just think body language; you either have dominant or submissive body language - standing tall vs slouching.
/r/seduction18/12/15 09:30 PM
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Hey brother! I used to have that EXACT same scenario as you just last year. I had been into pick up for about 3-4 years, but even then girls just would not get interested in me at all...and it was frustrating me so f*cking much. But then I found out what it was... I wasn't touching/escalating nearly as much as I should have! Lack of touching will get you friend zoned every single day of the week. I took an online course and learnt about the importance of touching, and as soon as I started applyi…
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:26 PM
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The terms may be over used, but the nature of being 'alpha' and 'beta' very much still exists. The appropriate terminology would be dominant vs submissive
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:17 PM
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I haven't experienced any of the things that you mention, or know of any woman that behaves in that manner. But then again, I haven't met every single woman. Crazies aside, you gotta look at it from their point of view; a lot of women, especially attractive ones, have been getting hit on every single day of their lives since they became legal...some even before that. By whom? Well, the majority of them probably being sleazy and creepy guys that find either cat calling or "hey sexy girl, what you…
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:12 PM
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Peacocking isn't exactly a form of over-compensation. So I don't get the correlation between the two...?
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:25 PM
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He has quite a few products on www.bradp.com that are .PDF format. But if you're looking for just one thing to help you get back into the game, check out his 30/30 Club. I'm a member of that program, and it's amazing. It gives you new products and action plan every month, covering inner game and outer game. If you read The Game by Neil Strauss, you can also look up Diary of a Pick Up Artist on Brad P's website. It's basically a compilation of well written and informative field reports. I learnt …
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:12 PM
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When I was single this became a very common occurrence for me, and so here's what I did that worked every time... Step 1. When you open the door, greet her like you're seeing a friend "haha heey there you are! Nice to see you :)" and hug her. This cuts past the awkwardness of the whole 'first time encounter' experience that can often have a stiff atmosphere. You immediately set a friendly (friendly, not friend-like) vibe that makes her feel far more comfortable with you - important; not just for…
/r/seduction17/12/15 12:35 PM
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Don't concern yourself with whether or not she sees your profile, mate. She's your ex and in your past, and that's her loss. If she were to see your profile I'm sure she'd only get jealous.
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:58 AM
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Put yourself out there. As long as you put yourself out there, women will start falling into your lap...at which point it's your job to make they stay around, of course. :) On a related note: before I got into a relationship I was doing online dating mostly, and got to the point I was having women over at my place 3 times a week. You can get more than that too, if you have the time
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:00 AM
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I'd advise you put her on the slow track. By slow track I mean don't focus on her, just text her now and again but don't keep her as the girl you're focusing on. Start hitting on other girls and going out on dates with other women while you work on the girl in your slow track. Alternatively, what I always do of a girl postpones/cancels on me 3 times I'll give her the "in or out" speech and goes like this: "Alright what's the deal miss Sassy Pants, I thought you were pretty cool and was under the…
/r/seduction17/12/15 10:54 AM
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Brad P. That guy turned my whole life around. I studied pick up for 3-4 years and just never saw the results...I mean I slept with a few girls, but I just never saw the progress I had hoped for after such a long time. I went on a lot of dates, but nothing was happening..girls just didn't get interested. What was different with Brad P is the way he explained everything; he put everything into words that made me truly understand it all - why touching works, how to flirt properly, etc. And it made …
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:06 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and guess she probably doesn't like texting, because most guys send boring crap that doesn't excite her - e.g. "Hey what's up?" I used to ignore girls myself if they wrote that to me, as it just didn't capture my attention enough to break free from whatever it was that I was doing to text back. So if you can be that guy that sends her fun lil txts that cracks her up and gives her a big sideways smile...she's gonna love texting (you). Just keep texting her being funny, but avoi…
/r/seduction16/12/15 07:59 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and guess she probably doesn't like texting, because most guys send boring crap that doesn't excite her - e.g. "Hey what's up?" I used to ignore girls myself if they wrote that to me, as it just didn't capture my attention enough to break free from whatever it was that I was doing to text back. So if you can be that guy that sends her fun lil txts that cracks her up and gives her a big sideways smile...she's gonna love texting (you). Just keep texting her being funny, but avoi…
/r/seduction16/12/15 07:59 PM
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I personally would stop pursuing the idea of going for an immediate date. What I mean is, text her as if you hadn't talked about going on a date yet. Banter with her, flirt with her and then after a few exchanges suggest going on a date. Women's state can change from one day to the other. She'll be all over the idea of hanging out soon one day, then the next the sound of a date is 'meh'. But that's totally cool, you just need to remind her why she originally was all over the idea of a date...by …
/r/seduction15/12/15 01:30 PM
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Hey mate. Definitely know where you're coming from. Blown a lot of potential like that in my past. At this point, honestly, your best option of recovering is by doing the stark opposite of what you have done so far...be more flirty, tease her more, be less responsive, play harder to get, and do make sure to ramp up escalation. For flirting/teasing you can ask her "how's my 3rd favourite brat doing today?". For being less responsive you can just not text her right away; maybe make it the last thi…
/r/seduction15/12/15 01:16 PM
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I wrote a comprehensive guide on touching in my blog, actually. Covers every aspect of kino and mindsets, etc. Check it out here: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1 I think you'd really find it useful and insightful.
/r/seduction11/12/15 05:51 PM
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I'd be able to help you out more if you wrote what it is you did you feel was needy
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:17 AM
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Awesome job, mate! Glad to see you took action. The way I see it is there's two reasons she brought her friend: A) She didn't think it was a date but a hang out, or B) her friend was there as a 'chickie buffer'...a chickie buffer is basically a friend she takes with her in case the guy turns out to be a total weirdo/creep. Either way, it's annoying when it happens without your knowing. Next time I would make it a point she comes by herself, but in a humorous way, e.g. "Btw this time let's leave …
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:41 PM
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Definitely hear where you're coming from mate. That's how I feel about the first women I slept with, back when I didn't know what I was doing. But, if you think about it...there has to have been something you did, that they must've really liked - you did something right! Women do have sexual needs like a man does, but she chose you for a reason man. You were for what it is you did more awesome than other guys out there! Don't sell yourself short. What that is called is 'Creative Avoidance', it i…
/r/seduction05/12/15 08:59 PM
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That's what I like to hear, buddy! Always give it a shot before walking away from the situation. You are awesome man - see yourself as the million dollar prize that any woman would cherish to have. If you ever need any advice or anything, feel free to drop me a message whenever.
/r/seduction05/12/15 08:46 PM
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Can confirm. Went to a party earlier this year where people were snorting Coke off a table; offering each other to try GHB and God knows what other drugs were there. Party went on for 3 days straight....I only managed 1 night, lol
/r/seduction05/12/15 12:13 PM
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You may be surprised, but it honestly has nothing to do with luck, at all. It's about how much action you take to put yourself out there to meet women, to improve yourself and to ensure all these cool things happen to you. I went from being shit and clueless with women, to finding amazing friends who invite me to the coolest parties ever, to being great with women and being able to get a blowjob from a girl, I literally just met, up in some skyscraper all in 1 year. But it takes hard, hard work.…
/r/seduction05/12/15 12:06 PM
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I actually wrote an in-depth blog post about this topic some months back, which has helped a lot of people out. Basically, it's all about touching, and not so much what you say. You can literally talk about politics while getting her super turned on at the same time, if you apply the right touching. Anyways I cover it all in my blog. Definitely give it a look-see: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1
/r/seduction05/12/15 11:17 AM
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It is only weird if you believe it to be weird - which you have inadvertently stated by agreeing with her. It is not weird at all. Only important factor to consider about age is whether or not she is of legal age. That's it! Nothing more. If you're attracted to her, why should age get in the way of you pursuing her? When a girl throws you a curve ball, in this case being age related, you just deflate it with humour or ignore the emphasis she is putting on it. E.g. "I think it's super weird if we…
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:03 PM
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Forget about the idea of not having to 'game' the girl. Actually, don't even think of it as you having to run some game on her at all - think of it as flirtation. You being cheeky, teasing and fun. That is what causes a woman to be attracted to you. Have fun flirting with her! Don't think of it as a game you're forced to play...realise that teasing or flirting with a woman is a very fun and enjoyable activity, not just for you but for her too. Women love flirting. I am an incredibly affectionate…
/r/seduction03/12/15 10:53 PM
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Here's the thing mate...DON'T wait for that move. 99% of women will never make that first move, and will let the guy do that job. Women are just as afraid as you are going out on a limb and risking rejection. Happened to a friend of mine recently...he was really into this girl but just too afraid of making a move, and ended up never doing anything. Heard from the girl next day she just thought my friend wasn't interested and moved on. Another thing, some women will just not even show any signs a…
/r/seduction03/12/15 10:36 PM
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I actually used online dating to get to where I am in life right now. Had slept with 8 women last Summer and by Summer this year I had been with over 3 times that number. Not saying that to brag, but more so to demonstrate that online dating is definitely a viable route to enhance your game. You get significantly better at texting coupled with all the experience you gain from going on dates - just remember to use every date as an opportunity to push your game/comfort zone in one way or another s…
/r/seduction29/09/15 09:48 PM
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I accomplished it by literally staying in the game for a whole year and practising it almost every single week. I didn't go out and do cold approaches all the time, and honestly I didn't even do that much of it; lazy and in my final university year so busy with studies. But I actively gamed girls on online dating at least 4-5 days a week. When I did go out on dates I always made sure to push my comfort zone in one way or another; my touching, flirting routines, pulling for same night lays, etc. …
/r/seduction29/09/15 09:30 PM
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20 Questions - Always starts out innocently and ends up super dirty. The Nervous Game: Put your hands on her lap and ask her "are you nervous?" And just move your hand further and further up until she says yes. When she says yes, you switch and she has to do it to you. Fun, fun, fun!
/r/seduction17/09/15 06:03 PM
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By action I was more referring to being physical with them. But if you're getting kisses then that is probably not the issue at all. Sweet dude! Yeah being vulnerable definitely allows you to connect so much faster and on a far deeper level with a person, as you experienced with this new friend of yours. I just inferred from you saying you always ending up chasing them, that you meant you perhaps went too needy on them with too frequent texting, etc. Texting them once every few days is perfectly…
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:53 PM
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Haha that is fucking awesome, man! There are so many girls who would love nothing more than be with you - girls can get obsessed with height. What you really need to do is to own your height. Own it. Stand tall; straight back, shoulders pulled back, head high (not so high you are looking down your nose) and take wide strides. A guy, especially someone as tall as you, is going to look very.fucking.attractive when being unafraid to stand out. People normally are afraid to do something that will ma…
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:42 PM
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Can be a number of things... You chasing them too hard - that will scare them off rather quickly. Are you making a move (i.e. making your intentions clear)? If not, a lot of girls will filter you out based on a lack of action. They don't want to go on numerous dates in hopes of the guy eventually making a move. To note, not all girls are like this and many are very forgiving. Does your identity have any substance (think hobbies, knowledge you possess, achievements, transformations, etc.)? In the…
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:31 PM
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