When asking a girl out for a date, I usually find that a girl will probably say yes if you ask het out for something to drink. I've had multiple first dates where we want to a bar and ordered a few drinks.

However, often I end up sitting on the opposite side of the table. This is ideal for talking, but liek that it's impossible to touch her in any way, except for maybe taking her hand or something like that. Also, kissing is impossible as you have a table between you.

Sometimes, after going to the toilet, I would sit closer to her and then the interaction would be a lot better, but I feel weird sitting next to my date right away, especially if it's a blind date or a date via a dating site.

Say this is the table, and X is where she is sitting, where would you sit? and if you sit opposite of her, how would you KINO?

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Anyone has some tips?