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| 2 | Anybody with success from Tom Torero’s methods?I didn't discover Tom Torero until very recently and I was already getting results with my current style so I didn't try his style per se but I applied some of his mindsets. One of my friends who asked me to help with getting his dating life in shape used his methods at first and they seem to work for him. It all depends on your personality/looks though. You can try it for at least 6 months with hundreds of sets before deciding if it fits you or not. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Anybody with success from Tom Torero’s methods?Tom Torero is one of the best when it comes to approaching women during the day. His whole strategy is a relatively low risk but still, what he calls the London stop is something that most guys are terrified from. If you are a beginner, then his video about daygame for beginners is a gem. His strategy involving approach anxiety is very efficient as well, warming up by doing what he calls hit and run makes you go out of your head and into the now. I recommend his youtube channel to people who I k… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:43 AM |
| 3 | What is the most interesting/original cold approach opener you have used, and how did it turn out?I don't know about original, but a couple of years ago when I was in college, I went to a girl and asked her about the directions to the space science department (there was no such thing on a 1000 mile radius). Her answer was that she has no idea where that was (which was expected). I then followed by saying " I have this invitation to a research that will benefit the entire human race, I was asked to find a girl who is willing to go to Mars with me so we can start a colony. It's no pressure, we… | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 07:37 AM |
| 1 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceMake the time and move to a place near the busiest street/square in your city. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceAs I said in the post, I always look for wingmen who I am friends with, who I know are going to push me into sets and are going to approach girls as well. A live in a metropolitan city of 7+ Million people and we have huge amounts of young girls walking everywhere. If you live in a small city or a town, move out. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 06:54 PM |
| 5 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI know I have to do it too. Go out. Be rejected or accepted, who cares! Dude, if you can live by this quote and schedule going out in your daily calendar, I would be afraid of the monster I will release If I were you! Let's stop finding excuses and act more! Something we should write on a wall. I am glad you liked it! | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI am happy you loved it! | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:43 PM |
| 4 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceWell, nothing is easy. If it was easy it wouldn't be worth the effort. Thank you for the encouragement. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:43 PM |
| 5 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI know, I am happy you loved it! | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 6 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI actually got that from a book called "Zero to One" By Peter Thiel, Co-Founder of Paypal. Very interesting book for business. I also found out that most concepts in that book applied to meeting people in general. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 15 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI just interrupt people! As busy as they seem, they are also very bored. I would be pissed if a salesman stopped me or a person asking for change. I would be happy to be interrupted, any day, by an interesting and attractive woman. That's exactly how girls are. So my advice is to just force yourself into more approaches to remove that weirdness and then you'll perspective will change. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:40 PM |
| 8 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceYeah get more approaches and experiences and you'll drastically change how you are and how you see the world around you. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:38 PM |
| 29 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceAlways dress and groom on point, and until it becomes instinctive, always think about showing good body language, making eye contact with everyone, and keeping things fun and light. Always. At the store, walking the dog, on the bus. Very sound advice. I totally agree. Make talking to people in general a habit. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:36 PM |
| 10 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceIn the streets, simply. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 8 | So this is it?You forgot making a schedule for going out consistently. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone help a 24 year old virgin get laid?Tom Torero and the willpower to improve. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl Im seeing is on a trip and asks if ‘id want her to think about me’Yeah and drop a couple of tears while you are at it. Yeah and send me a couple of letters to prove it. No, thinking about me is just gonna make you weep and cry, I want you to have fun, babe! | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Should you always go for the kiss when she lets you have your arm around her?It's possible. A 2 hours date that is just conversation might get you to the "we're done" zone (I don't know why they call it the friend zone, girls don't want to talk to you but still consider you a friend? does that even work?). My guess from what you said is you didn't take a chance and that is not attractive. But it's okay. Next time go for the kiss even though you aren't sure it's going to work. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 02:13 PM |
| 12 | I just complimented a random girl.That's great! Keep on improving! | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Should i even do something?There is only what one way to know homie. These questions are very common, and guys intrinsically know the answer most of the time. I think unless you approach a girl and talk to her and she downright rejects you or goes home with you, you shouldn't bother asking questions about her. I am sorry to say this, but this is just creepy. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | What they ACTAULLY want you to say to themI actually liked this video! I guess that the lesson here is, in doubt, just convey your intent as clearly as possible (without putting your heart on a sleeve). We read posts about guys who are confused about a girl who is treating them like a normal human being and they never showed any type of intent and they wonder why girls see them as creeps or weirdos. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I dont like talking to girlsSo get a wing, you'll have someone to talk to the friend and to have fun with when you are not in set. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Game through a language barrier.in my opinion, Google translate and lots of physical escalation/games. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 08:13 AM |
| 66 | An unexpected benefit of studying for the MCATVery good point. Always keep yourself busy even if you aren't. Good luck with your test. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Created a tinder bio with a male model. And got DMs telling me to come straight over for sex. Moral of the story: it's all about personalityWhen it comes to Tinder, it's 100% looks. There is no doubt about that. When it comes to real-life dating, it depends on so many factors. Looks is one of them. Expectations are another factor. How you carry yourself is another factor. What is it that you do with your life is another factor. And so on. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Help me figure things out pls M(23) clueless on what to do next in regards to a girlChances it's already dead before it started. One thing this subreddit should emphasize is (as Tom Torero puts it) One if close to 0. I am gonna give you some though brotherly love but bear with me. Now let's say this girl is special and you really like her, Do you think she is thinking about this situation the same way you are right now? ...we sunbathed and had a conversation for an hour. This is called very available, especially that she is the one who approached you. ... we just laid down sunb… | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Game in collegeIt depends on your hobbies and what you enjoy doing outside of school. At college, the best approach is to be social with everyone. Accept invitations for almost every activity (including smoking weed if you're into that). Be fun to hang out with by trying to get experiences (again, by accepting every invitation that comes your way). If you are okay with being a 5'5" Asian, everyone will be okay with that. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 12:39 PM |
| 6 | What to do about girl who basically ghosted me for a couple days?I don't think you should stay in touch with her at all. I know I wouldn't. I think you should invest your time in learning new things and improving yourself. You can literally cold approach girls in the street and get dates, so my advice to you my friend is to forget about her. If you go out and do stuff for the next 6 months and you come back and read this post you will cringe dude trust me. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | When are things too late?It's always too late when you picture a huge lifestyle and you want to achieve huge things. It's never too late if you start small and keep your expectations low. Do not overthink "career" "relationship" "basic citizen". Start with yourself first. Sit down and look around you for things to be fixed, in your room, in your house (If you can read the 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson). Then do cardio or go to a gym if you can. Fix your fashion and your look as best as you can. Update your resume… | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 07:27 AM |
| 2 | [For Beginners] 3 EASY APPROACH ANXIETY FIXESI basically talk about three principals that will help you overcome approach anxiety: 1- Lower the criteria of what an approach should be. It means that if you have crippling approach anxiety and you always picture your first approach as this beautiful interaction, you are putting so much pressure on yourself and you might never approach anyone. So what I suggest is to walk up to a girl and make a sound, it could be hi, a random vocal sound or a fart. And to consider that a good approach and to … | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | [For Beginners] 3 EASY APPROACH ANXIETY FIXESI made this video because I answered lots of questions over the weekend about people trying to look for solutions for approach anxiety. The guys who asked these questions are mostly beginners and are looking for some magic pill to make them not feel the fear at all. This video is targeting beginners who are still struggling with their first approaches or who never approached before. Thanks for watching and make sure to subscribe for more videos. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:13 PM |
| 3 | No where to go.Your issue isn't unique and I will copy/past an answer I've given before. This answer is based on the fact that you must do lots of cold approaches (ideally daygame) to get the results you want. One thing that I saw clearly in this post, it's that you are scared of rejection. Now the cure for that is to face your fears, step by step. First, think about approaching girls, how would it feel. Secondly, Approach a random stranger, girl or guy asking about a random thing (the time, directions, opinio… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 12:51 AM |
| 5 | AA ass kickerYour situation isn't unique, so I copy/pasted an answer I've given before. One thing that I saw clearly in this post, it's that you are scared of rejection. Now the cure for that is to face your fears, step by step. First, think about approaching girls, how would it feel. Secondly, Approach a random stranger, girl or guy asking about a random thing (the time, directions, opinion) After that, Approach a random stranger, girl or guy, only saying: Hi, I just wanted to tell you that [insert complime… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 12:43 AM |
| 5 | (20M) how to deal with crippling insecurity about height (5'6) and looks in general? It makes me struggle to even strike up a conversation because I feel its only going to be embarrasing since I can't compete with guys around me who are just objectively more attractive than me.One thing that I saw clearly in this post, it's that you are scared of rejection. Now the cure for that is to face your fears, step by step. First, think about approaching girls, how would it feel. Secondly, Approach a random stranger, girl or guy asking about a random thing (the time, directions, opinion) After that, Approach a random stranger, girl or guy, only saying: Hi, I just wanted to tell you that [insert compliment about something they did, or something they wear]. Anyway, have a good d… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend wants to fuck me anally with a strap on.The equivalent for that is your husband coming home from work and ask you to piss or take a shit in your mouth (or both). Respect his decision because if he doesn't want too and you force him somehow and he does it, that's just gonna create resentment for years. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?Guess what, not all of them will. So the only way here is to learn to be good with women in general. Start small if you are a noob. Measure your success yourself by going out consistently and keeping track of your improvement. If a girl likes you she will have sex with you, if she doesn't I don't think her feedback is going to help. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:29 PM |
| 9 | My girlfriend wants to fuck me anally with a strap on.If you are uncomfortable with it say NO! Personally, I find it unacceptable to be fucked in the ass by anyone. If it's your thing more power to you. But if you do it for fear of losing her or anything like that just don't do it! Do not listen to generic advice about how it's normal that couples do this or that it's a common thing! Think for yourself. If you think it's emasculating then it is. Edit: Replaced "girl" by "anyone" (Yeah, you almost got me there). | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?Yes and no. You learn to play a guitar and people see you play and they give you feedback. If they don't you see yourself play and you compare yourself to yesterday and you give yourself feedback. Now what is your goal with women? To please that ONE person you "like" or to be good with women in general? If it's the former, then trust me they can give you feedback and they will have the power to retrieve anytime, so then what does that make of you? If it's the latter then you have the power to de… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What to say if a girl asks you if you missed them in person?Dude you can say anything. I miss your positive attitude towards life. I miss your kindness. I miss your walk. I miss the way you eat. You get the point. Something that applies to all human beings. It doesn't have to be something specific about her. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What to say if a girl asks you if you missed them in person?No... (Silence) I am joking. It means you pretend your answer to her question was a no, you don't miss her. Then, after a 2 seconds (or so) of silence you say I am joking with a confident smirk. This introduces a little bit of negative spike and then gives her a relief in form of a positive spike. It makes you less predictable and more fun to flirt with. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Is success in attracting women one of the key points in gaining real confidence and gaining the drive to push further for more?Confidence = Repetition You aren't confident about your Guitar playing capabilities when you buy your first guitar. However, after 1 year of practicing (by repetition) you become more and more confident. One lay with a hot chick or one positive experience with a girl that is viewed socially as attractive isn't going to be enough. In my opinion, there is no overnight confidence fix. Also, can you please introduce punctuation to your writing, I appreciate the question but the formatting made it ha… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | First DateHarsh but true. This girl sees your messages and doesn't even consider telling you to go away. Otherwise, she is dead and you'll still have to move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What to say if a girl asks you if you missed them in person?I would say something like: No... I am joking! Of course I miss your clumsy sense of humor (replace this with anything that's nice or cute about her). The thing is you don't wanna be a dick and at the same time you don't have to be all over the place by showing how you've been thinking about her all the time, especially since from what I understood, she isn't a girl you are dating. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:39 PM |
| 3 | How to meet a girl after being out for awhile?Start with hi and a normal conversation about anything, just like you are talking to a friend. Then "btw, I will be in town ... so I am visiting/attending this place because ... so feel free to join me..." Her looking at and liking your posts is a good indicator of interest, however, you must not skip an initial light conversation. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | How to Open Exclusive-looking SetsIt almost never works when you open the whole group unless you are a funny extroverted person (which I guess you are not from relating to your post). As exclusive as groups seem, you always want to open a single person and then acknowledge the group. That way, the group knows the premise behind your approach contrary to when you talk to everyone all at once and you get the confused looks. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong of me to reveal my feelings to my co-worker?I don't think it's wrong but I think it's not a good idea. Even if she is attracted to you, it doesn't work that way. You can't just reveal feelings to women you haven't already slept with, especially if they are co-workers/friends. Also, most men often misinterpret a girl being nice to them with a girl feeling attracted to them (I am generalizing here because I don't know how your relationship is with that girl). It also depends on how long do you two know each other. Girls put you in a certain… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | I can approach women on the street, but only if I am sure no one nearby can hear me talk to her.It's normal. I have a fix for that, approach more and push yourself into situations like that. Start with the easy approach (in which nobody is going to hear you), then use the momentum of these approaches to put yourself on the spot. I often feel the same in my first approaches but it goes away a couple of interactions after. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Semi-cold Approach Failed: Any AdviceI am happy for you for your first approach and I wish you live to see your 10,000th. I am very aware of the fact that you can be too excited about your first C.A., however, I would advise against thinking about it / talking about it so much and advise for going out again and doing the same thing. Like if I learned something from cold approach pickup, is that whether you are just starting or you had an off period, you should avoid talking about your first 100 approaches or something like that. Th… | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | So I just made my first approachYou don't have to worry about level. You just need someone who can push you to start interactions. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals of daygame cold approach?As far as I am concerned his is not. And even if he is what he preaches works so I wouldn't care anyway. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Flunking the first interaction. Do I still have a chance?First of all, why is everyone just looking at coworkers? Street and coffee shops are full of cute chicks. Now if you still wanna hook up with a coworker, I advise you see it as a marathon more than a sprint. What I mean is you don't wanna make things happen in the first interaction. You have all the time in the world to take that relationship to the intimate stage. At first, you introduce yourself. Maybe next week you have a quick conversation about the weekend. Then next month you are already t… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals of daygame cold approach?If you are looking for a source on Daygame fundamentals, I highly recommend Tom Torero's YouTube channel. He is one of the oldest and best in his craft and his advice is applicable everywhere. Question: Can you move to a big city? Because if you can you will be able to approach every day and you'll get more results. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 01:33 PM |
| 3 | So I just made my first approachThat's a great start and you did well. I am sure that if you keep going with a person who already approaches, it's going to push you to do so as well. Try to look for more wingmen as 1 is next to 0. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Sporadic approachLots of people feel exactly like that. Even though I approach on a consistent basis, if I stop for more than a week I feel the same again when I wanna get back. It's completely normal. The problem is that you are overthinking the approach. You are thinking 20 steps ahead while the only thing that you must do is say hi until it sticks. There are multiple solutions. Get a wingman. Someone you can challenge and they will push you and you can play games with (like the throw away a sum of money if yo… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 08:01 AM |
| 3 | [Question] are there any podcasts that talk about seduction?Yes, I listen to Tom Torero's Podcast and they are usually around 30~35 minutes. He also knows what he is talking about. Highly recommend. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:48 AM |
| 3 | How much do nice teeth matter for looks and attractiveness?It matters like this: If your teeth are okay, it doesn't take anything from your other attractiveness traits. If your teeth are like pearls, big and white and perfectly in place, it adds points to your overall attractiveness. If your teeth are hideous, which means you need cleaning or/and braces, then it takes points away from your attractiveness. Bottom line, if your teeth are in place and are clean, you are a lucky person and don't stress it out so much. Optimize as much as you can but work … | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Quit obsessingI understand and relate to your situation. There are two things that happen when you see a girl you like: You go talk to her and you find out if she is into you or not. You don't go talk to her and you fantasize about her being into you. My first advice to you is talk to lots of girls. Many people can't stop fantasizing about every girl that looks at them (even though it was an accident). Talk to girls wherever you go. I have two solutions for you, if it is a work/school environment, just be fri… | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 10:51 AM |
| 4 | give me your best kiss close linesIt's usually a random thing we were talking about that I interrupt and I go for the kiss. It makes it more organic and less robotic. It also introduces the fact that you are very spontaneous. One other thing, with girls who I feel a great connection with right off the bat, I interrupt her with an shhh and grab her face and go for it. It just makes it very hot and makes me feel manly. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Feeling very lonelyThere are so many questions in this paragraph that need answers. But I will answer your main one (I guess). You meet and flirt with attractive girls but don't have the courage to escalate? You are overthinking about escalation, that's all it is. By flirting you are already escalating (verbal escalation). You have to start small and make your way up (or down for that matter) until you have the girl aroused and want to sleep with you. If you are afraid to touch a girl then look at her and think ab… | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Going on my first date tomorrow, need tips on conversation - Silly yet Engrossing ConversationsTLDR; Silent moments are normal. Overexaggerate and take out of context her sentences. Prepare some games to play with her. Prepare a folder of 10 pictures of travels or activities that you can talk about. Escalate physically and verbally (slowly). Don't try to pick up where you left it in the text messages. Well everyone is facing these same problems. It's okay to look retarded and to sip on your drink. You are not a talking/entertaining machine. With that out of the way, I have a few tips … | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.That's probably what happened. I am also surprised that it took 7 months and I didn't even know she had a LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Yeah my reputation is a mystery to me right now and I don't think it looks good. Me reporting her to the police wouldn't work in this case because she went to HR (she has the "right" to do that). It's HR who infringed the law by not calling the police first. Settlement is being negociated It will take a couple of days though to be finalized. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 10 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.I won't call it a shithole I love my country. Third world country still. Woman rights here are taken very seriously since the beginning of the 21 century. I'll give you an example: beat your wife equals jail time. Divorce your wife? She gets the house and gets a part of your money till she gets married. Companies are called upon to hire more woman regardless of competence and so on... Trust me I am lucky I have seen worse happen to MEN in my environment. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 07:03 PM |
| 4 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.I am more of a fight avoider but when I had to fight in the past I did. My father, as caring as he was providing for my siblings and I, he hadn't spared the effort to discipline me with punches and kicks. I can take a beating as long as I keep my head protected. My trick is to aim for the side of the head, temples if you can. If the opponent is protecting aim for the body as to make them lower their guard. Stomach and ribs are a good target. But just don't get even one punch in the head, if you … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 06:20 PM |
| 8 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Thanks for the advice. I answered this somewhere in this thread. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 06:06 PM |
| 3 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.First of all the court system in my country doesn't work the same way as the US. So there is no jury only a Judge. Also evidence can be taken by any means possible. The problem is having sex out of wedlock is avainst the law (although widely practiced) so I must not presen such evidence for my own safety (prosecutor might come after me too). No red flags whatsoever. Complete sweetheart. When I ask her to hang out she is always available and she had a good social circle and interesting hobbies to… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Yeah exactly I just hope the settlement goes through. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Nobody wanted to listen to me. All I heard was you did this and this is what happens now fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:54 PM |
| 3 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Trust me you don't want to live here especially if you are coming from a 1st world country. As much as I love this country for making me who I am and am grateful, I am gonna immigtate in a couple of years. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 11 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.It's actually very close to that. I have a 5 year plan setup to leave this godforsaken country to study in europe. Hence the two jobs. I am saving money like never before. This saves me 1 year (2.5 remaining) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:49 PM |
| 8 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Thanks for the advice. I answered this question somewhere in this thread. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:48 PM |
| 32 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.I am lucky I got a work inspector who is on top of his game. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:47 PM |
| 15 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.I see your point. Although this made me so angry and I am still to get the reputation repercussions from lots of co-workers, the work inspector said that suing her would result to nothing more than a termination which she is might be getting if the settlement is finalized. She didn't commit a crime by going to HR. Had she gone to the police that would make a solid case. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:45 PM |
| 10 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.You are 100% right. My past experiences made me think I might get away with that one. Now I learned for good. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:42 PM |
| 28 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Well when you put it that way it looks like a win. Still, it's been only a couple of days and I didn't get in touch with my co-workers except the woman who told me what she heard from HR about the situation. She also said that I have been the subject of talks in the lunchroom and it's far from being positive. I guess reputation is going down for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Done with reading all of this stuff and never doing it!Genuine advice from a guy who used to do the exact same things as you; You are the only one who can keep yourself accountable, Also don't wait till saturday night, are you going to the grocery store? to the gym? to the dentist? talk to every girl in you way. DO IT NOW! or else you'll make more excuses Saturday night, nothing is gonna change until you change your patterns and habits. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Girls who act diva and say "I know" when you compliment them.you should Neg them a little bit, especially the hotter ones, example: I like your dress, but it is too blue (Got it from RSD Julien) One of my friends tells hot girls that their nose wiggles when they laugh! Something like that, it should be playful. For these kinds of women 9s and 10s, it's not practical to go with a compliment without backing it up with a neg. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you show strong intent without telling a girl she is hot?You know that old saying in the pick up community "don't say something works or doesn't till you use it infield!", I think that's the case up here! | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Is social media necessary?If you already have success with women and a good social circle, you don't need social media, it's just a waste of time (unless you are advertising a product or a company) | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 07:57 PM |
| -2 | How do you show strong intent without telling a girl she is hot?You can even make it playful and challenge her, I usually use this line (I got from Julien) " if you do this for me, I would tell you something you don't know about yourself" and she will do it, and then you can tell her "you are hot", she will be like "I know that", You can say "no you don't, you are an insecure little girl". Just sharing a technique, I recommend checking Julien from rsd , he talks a lot about intent in his videos | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 07:53 PM |
| 12 | How do you show strong intent without telling a girl she is hot?I would say Through eye contact, if you have a laser eye contact the girl knows what's up, also if you are challenging her by talking in a breaking rapport tonality (you voice is high at first and low by the end of the sentence), vocal projection as well, and being in front of her so she can see who you are, and finally the proximity between you and her. All this and I didn't talk about physical escalation, but if you execute the above well, the girl is gonna fall in love instantly (unless she i… | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Tinder matchYou think she is pretty hot and has an awesome personality, Awesome. But what do you have? what can you bring to the table? I am really sorry to say this, but how can somebody suggest a way for you to take this girl out? it's a tinder match, you know who you are, you know what your standards are, what you are capable of, you should about how awesome you are rather than how awesome a girl is! Do you have any experience with going out and picking up girls? any experience at sending texts that conv… | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?making you food healthier; Finding Ambitious friends who will support you (or a mentor); meeting more women; | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Really simple tip for your text game.That is a very valuable tip! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | I fear what others are going to think about me/my actionsto get over it, you should go against it | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 12:50 PM |
| 19 | I fear what others are going to think about me/my actionsIf I approach a girl, they will say "oh he is a player, he is a sexual predator..." If I don't "oh he is shy, he is gay, he doesn't have balls" If I get a kick ass girlfriend "that guy is an asshole, look at his girlfriend" if I don't have a girlfriend at all "Forever alone, he is weird" If I want to start up a company "man are you crazy, stick with your shitty job" If I stick with my shitty job "Oh he is a looser, he is driving a 1987 Honda" If I try to handle my nutrition "Oh you're being fanc… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 12:26 PM |
| 35 | How do you guys do it?It's a very good thing that you want to change, Courageous of you to do (in a world of comfort and technology...). It's is also awesome that you have the end in mind (which is the way you want to become or look like in the future) Let me tell you this, You are thinking about changing too much that nothing changes, you want to replace all your bad habits with good one at once, this can't happen, Pick one new habit, let's say going to gym consistently, Work on it for a month, then for the next mon… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle table positioning at a first or second date?If I was a girl, and a man sat across the table from me, I would pull my resume out of my bag, and start talking about my experience in selling furniture or making pancakes or smtg... I am not trying to be a dick, I am just making an image of how does it feel from a girl's point of view! of course I am not a girl, But I got lots of feedback. I would personally sit next to her, and talk to her in a natural way, then I would start escalating, if I get a soft "no" I would step back, keep talking (n… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The Simplest Way To Start Talking To the Hottest Women, Take The Leap.Yeah they can, If they put in the amount of effort that is necessary to become social guys. I used to be an awkward shy weird... name it guy. I think it's a decision to make towards yourself! Ps: If you need more help, send me a message! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 08:18 AM |
| 6 | 90% References 10% TheoriesThat is The most underrated Point in attraction, The Information overload! Your post is a Gold mine! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkJFR_SAmFY This vid talks about the same thing! | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:52 PM |
| 5 | For the guys who have tried the "Wait..." lineNever tried that line, but I guess there are two scenarios. Wait... "go for kiss"... Kiss happens! Wait... "go for kiss"... Failure (for any reason) ... No fuck is given... Talk and escalate more... Wait... "Go for kiss" ... I guess you got it! Hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:50 PM |
| 3 | What if my city doesn't have a good place for a first date?This are not my idea, but I use them and they Work (Thank you maximilian From RSD) Take her out while you are doing errands, Go shopping or to the grocery store. I can stress this enough: Women agree to meet you because they want to meet YOU! they don't want to drink coffee in a fancy coffeeshop or watch a movie (they can do that with friends or themselves); they want a unique experience! Give them one! I take first dates on errands and grocery shopping, I make it fun, Sometimes I don't buy anyt… | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 12:48 PM |
| 12 | For Men Who Want To Read Tons of Books But Have No TimeI asked myself the same question when I first tried this method a while ago, but with reading and listening in the same time, retaining is effortless! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.True, We have been socially conditioned, and we should praise ourselves for breaking out of that shell! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Number One Limiting Belief When It Comes To Meeting And Attracting Women.Well thanks for the encouragement, as Men we should only see the things we control directly, other people's reaction are out of our will :) | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Porn/Masturbation to numb the massesOh sorry I didn't make it specific and clear, I just liked the post and though that it is full of value! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Porn/Masturbation to numb the massesThis is not TLDR, This is Pure Value!! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 07:19 PM |
| 24 | A little motivation for you, if you are starting something new and/or hard this year.Absolutely true. People give up to early, instead of thinking of this as a lifetime journey of improving, they want instant gratification. the process of trial and error should be a continuous habit. I think people are conditioned to quick results, like "the 7 minutes abs", these products sell in an enormous amount due to the lack of understanding of how the process works. Bryan Tracy says : It's crazy how people want to eat desert before eating dinner, you can't eat dinner while your stomach is… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 11:30 AM |
| 5 | Can game work for a sort of autistic nerdy dude?Repetition is the mother of skill. The best guys in the "pick up" community have been diagnosed with much severe mental problems. And most of them say that learning success with women was some kind of a cure. Just start doing what you need to do and you will see for yourself, I can only give you promises, Only you can give yourself proof ;) | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Top 5 Psychology Books to Succeed in Life, Love and BusinessThese authors aren't scientific journalists who read a little bit of literature and found a good story. My dear friend, this proves that you have watched only 1/5 of the video, First of all, in psychology books, it depends on what are you going to apply these principles on (business, relationships, studies...etc); So it makes no sense to say this book is bad and this is better, this list is based on a PERSONAL preference which doesn't have to be the same as everybody's. Secondly, you are calling… | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Today after RSD Foundantions something just clicked in me.You should check out Tyler's latest videos, the way he talks about inner game concepts and self improvement is so philosophical and deep. | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Picking up girls in the city1) Keep doing what you are doing 2) Watch some content about starting conversations, body language, eye contact etc. The best source of information in the universe is real social dynamics RSD on rsdnation.com and youtube TylerRsd (and there are other instructors) this content is all you need and it's free 3) Get a wingman, doesn't matter how good he is (even if he sucks) you are going to learn faster. 4) good luck bro and may all girls give you their phone numbers (and other things) | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 10:36 AM |
| 1 | I get so many numbers, but getting the dates is the hard part..Dude it's great you are getting phone numbers and text replies, I think you should take your text game to the next level, here's a video made a while ago by RSD Julien check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWSf0CAwUlc and this one is made by Max : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGHD_lrZlkE Hope this helps | /r/seduction | 22/12/15 08:45 AM |
| 1 | What should I talk to her about on the way to my house?unplug man, Talk about whatever you want to talk about, have no filters, if you love video games talk about video games, if you love playing chess or wrestling talk about it, trust yourself and be genuine. Girls can sense guys who are genuine and those who just want to please them and get their validation. In a video, Julien from RSD shows a girl his android phone and tells her it's an iphone 6 while taking her home. in this case it's called pull talk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9Lv84OX5jE… | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Top 10 Self-Help Book To Get That Girl (And Get What You Want Out Of Life)I would add The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden Awesome book. | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Did she just invite me out?Wait for your mouth to heal ;) | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Did she just invite me out?She is definitely asking you out! Why would you think otherwise? Go out with her, convey men to women personality, and reward her for asking you out ;) | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice: Girl responds to email a month later, want to reply with humourIs this Jeff Allen? | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Seeking out day game girls or spontaneously make it happen when the opportunity presents itself?The best video to answer to your question is Owen's From RSD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEltf4UuFss and this one as well https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jl2zGwscJuE I hope this answers your question! | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice: Girl responds to email a month later, want to reply with humour"Your email took so long to come out, so I had a pregnancy test" | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | great video explaining the basics of Body Language - Indicators of Interest (IOIs)without approach signal, it is very hard (almost impossible) to be accepted by a girl. Congratulations, you have won the title of "limiting belief of the month" | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Preventing FlakesI think the changing point that made a drop in "girls flaking on me" ratio is overhyping the date idea, which means I can invite a girl to do some shopping with me, and I over exaggerate on how awesome shopping is gonna be (girls love to have fun and never want to destroy the fun) example : Hey, You should come , I mean Omg you can't believe how awesome is shopping in "...", you get to push the shopping cart yourself and I can ride it, can you believe that? I also need your expertise on the "...… | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 09:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep from being boring?This problem might be related to the fact that you think a lot about what you are going to say next before saying it, it's related to not knowing if what you are saying is good enough for the girl (or girls) to hear, I guess that's what screws up the flow at least in my case. I saw a video about it the other day https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtlEHP4wzb8 I hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Can't get past AA...I choke every time.Question, Do you think that you are going to bother women if you approach them?! or you are going to add to their day and make them happy? The answer to this question will make you figure out what you need to do in order to cure that AA! Please answer :D | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you physically escalate?You're welcome man, I think everything in life ( not just in game ) is a process of trial and error, bottom line start doing things you don't know how to do even if you're not good at them. and improve as you go ;) | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you physically escalate?In fact physical escalation should start by... you know what?! I can't explain it better than Tyler for RSD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3UFqEbsgzw Hope this helps!! | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What to say after the openerby watching stand up comedy, you just register cool lines, witty jokes as well as different kinds of charisma (the stand up guy makes thousands laugh the shit out) so when you find yourself in a situation with a girl, it just flows. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 10:05 AM |
| 2 | What to say after the openerThe reason why you run out of things to say is that you think what you are going to say next is unworthy, or maybe it will piss off the girl, I think that you need to start approaching more women in order to start flowing; Also I recommend watching stand up comedy (yes it helps!) I saw a video the other day about running out of things to say : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtlEHP4wzb8 | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Mystery Method vs Tyler's Six Steps. Which one is better/more suitable for a Green Pick Up Artist?Owen explains it in details here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuzOWmqGevw | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Mystery Method vs Tyler's Six Steps. Which one is better/more suitable for a Green Pick Up Artist?That's so true, not only Owen helps increase success with women, but also it pushes people to improve every aspect of their lives including health relationships and business. He has also a video where he warns people of too much Theory and less practicing! | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Mystery Method vs Tyler's Six Steps. Which one is better/more suitable for a Green Pick Up Artist?No no that's not the point, minimizing time BETWEEN not DURING! means after you finish an interaction (even if it's a pull), You should approach the first girl you see! it doesn't mean you should eject or ditch the girl if there is a connection or just an interesting conversation! | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:12 AM |
| 10 | Mystery Method vs Tyler's Six Steps. Which one is better/more suitable for a Green Pick Up Artist?In my opinion, you should go with the Tyler's six steps because it's the natural style, easier to implement, and makes you stay in the moment without rehearsing canned material. But Mystery Method is full of useful stuff like body language, voice projection etc... (Tyler's method is inspired by Mystery). There is also max from RSD who is a "new" badass. also you should take massive action to get good fast. here's a cool video about tyler's six steps https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_N45DRU4TWo Ho… | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:00 AM |
| 5 | Cute Chick At the Gym! (Help)In this situation you should shit where you eat (joking). No seriously what the worst case scenario? you say "hi" she is retarded enough to tell you to go away, you just avoided a crazy sociopath girl, best case scenario you say "hi" she says "hi" a couple of minutes later you are in a coffee shop together, and who knows what happens next. I think the "don't shit where you eat" is sometimes a bullshit excuse, sure at work you want to avoid being creepy but still you can say "hi" or ask coworkers… | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Can't seem to get things going..I think that if you like her and she is kinda into you then you should pull the trigger asap, or she is gonna get bored and look for someone else (negative motivation here, sorry!) One of the ways I pull the trigger (I got it from MAx from RSD) is that I say "I am a vampire" and bite her neck... and it goes from there hope this helps | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How To Keep The Conversation Going And Never Run Out Of Things To Say.I started watching Kevin Hart's shows, that had an impact on my wittiness on set. And sure that helps facilitating the way to the lay! | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How To Keep The Conversation Going And Never Run Out Of Things To Say.I totally agree with you that with time it comes naturally and filters disappear; I would also like to add watching stand up comedy because it kinda helps! | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 07:15 PM |
| 5 | What's your opinion on RSD and its instructors and products?The reason why these guys are rocking is that their style of game is natural, and it doesn't require techniques or routines. Also they put out loads and loads of free content via their youtube channels. tyler, todd and julian are veterans, Max is a new guy but he is very good too. I like ozzy as well because he teaches mainly about how to face fears. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Question about 2nd dateTo be honest I couldn't read all the text so I read only the last two lines (sorry!). If she agrees to meet you, that means she wants YOU and not the coffee or drink or salad... Don't put too much pressure on where you are going to take her! I would take her to run some errands in Walmart, and then I would ask her if she wants to come with me so I can drop the groceries at home and then go out later, that's a valid excuse to bring her to your place. Again the errand idea might sound boring, it's… | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How to get a good conversation in the approach?Hello man, I am 5ft8 and bellow average looking guy from morocco, I will tell you two things that I hope will help you, First you have the looks advantage which is something 99% of the "pua" community don't have, 2nd thing is that Girls want you to be "you", as cheesy as it sounds it's true. you run out of things to say because you are filtering in your brain (before you say something there is a process in your brain that determines whether or not girls are going to like it) You don't need to ca… | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried RSD PIMP in realty ?Lots of value from that product, But you could get almost anything for free, just watch couple of videos from tyler's or Max's channel on youtube (RSD tyler & Max). hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Video Examples of Approacheshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pR8LTd-SfBs The best out there from Real Social Dynamics (RSD) Also check out RSDTyler and RSDMax channels on youtube; Also Get a Wingman because you can approach in front of each other. also from women point of view: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWyTv7JSAZw I hope this helps (I was there at first and trust me one you start approaching you gonna feel like you are the BOOOOSSS!!! ) | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 10:08 AM |
| 14 | What self-growth/development books do you guys recommend?I am going to make a few recommendations of books that I read but check them out first at Goodreads.com Think and grow rich - Napoleon hill The way of the superior man - David Deida Status Anxiety - Alain de bouton Feal the fear and do it anyway - susan jeffers The power of now - eckhart tolle (gonna change your life) this list is at the top of my head, but in goodreads they make recommendations based on genre so check it out. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Met an average girl the other day and she is taking.make it sound fun and interesting and adding value to her life; and it won't seem too forward. overhype the movie, you couch, you TV screen, the drink. It's all about the emotions behind it. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Speech therapy.your friend is right! Think of it like this, if you have a not so deep or a squeaky voice, and when you talk to women you are insecure about it, women can sense that and they will be turned off. But if although you have the worst voice on earth, but you are 100% okay with it and you accept it as part of yourself, women in general do not give a shit. To be okay with your voice around women I recommend getting more interactions. It's also not bad to have a speech therapy (it's self improvement) bu… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for tutorials or books in the same vein as this sub or self-improvement?For books I can suggest some but you gonna find a more complete list in goodreads.com for the books that I read and worked for me: Feel the fear and do it anyway - susan jeffers think and grow rich - napoleon hill The game - Neil Strauss the 7 habits of highly effective people - Stephen covey Antifragile - Nassim Nicholas Taleb The way of the superior man - David Deida If you are new to game a I recommend reading/watching content but based on your experience infield, which means you should take … | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Can't flirt when I want to"I find myself being more successful and accidentally flirting with girls that I don't want to be successful with. " You have just responded to your question :D I think when you date girls who you are interested in, you kind of put them in a pedestal and you censor yourself and everything you say goes through a filter. That's why you don't want to start flirting with girls and you want to stay in that safe area where girls are nice and friendly. The thing is you should know that girls love to fl… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 07:56 PM |
| -1 | Tinder dateWhat I usually do and worked for me several times is go for the date as soon as possible and for the next day (without being needy), if the date is more than two days away I hit the girl with some "intermittent value giving messages", which means every day a message containing some funny stuff about your day or something that happened to you (only funny stuff). The morning of the date I recommend sending a text like "I just finished working out, I want to be totally jacked for our romantic date,… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Are Openers That big of a Deal? Animation VideoWhat you did is awesome, only 1% of men do that. You will open more girls and notice that when you are spontaneous, girls burst laughing. and when you just say a rehearsed line, they give you shit. I recommend opening with random stuff, when I started out I used to walk down the street with a buddy and when I see a girl, I open with the last word that my buddy or I said. Trust me you are going to have fun! Keep if up! | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Tips for ConversationsYou should check out girls tinder accounts, I personally have lots of female friends and every now and then they show me their accounts. 1000 unread "hello" and "hey" and "what up princess". Getting matches is a great thing, it shows that girls are interested in your profile and therefore it's attractive. But the fact that some guys see this match as though the girl did them a favor, they fail to make the girl wanna interact with them. Now I have done quite some time on tinder and got some dates… | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | A Quick Thought On the Importance of Inner GameI totally agree with you bro, canned material and techniques can help a beginner start getting and idea about game. But inner game is a lifetime learning and improving. You use it to get girls and other things in life i.e. work business lifestyle... I think people should start working on that more than routines and techniques. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Motivation to ApproachAt first you are not going to want to approach girls not because of lack of motivation but excuse making. This is probably not what you wanted to hear but motivation comes through the process of doing things i.e. you start to get motivated while working out at the gym but when you are sitting in the couch you make all kinds of excuses not to work out. Now what I suggest is getting a wingman. Go the the rsd inner circle group in facebook and get one. I hope I didnt disappoint and that this helps.… | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 10:07 AM |
| 12 | How do you pull girls in a club ?Bro, there is this awesome video by Maximilian from RSD you should check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=riheA5x9WaE Hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 11:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you go about gaming at a bar when you're by yourself?I am gonna tell you something you are probably missing here! the fact that you know the bar staff is so cool. Use that to your advantage, socialize with the staff then with random guys. you can talk to couple of not attractive ladies, and then your feet will take you to that beautiful tall fat girl you like (I like'em too bro)! hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 11:30 AM |
| 6 | How should I deal with mixed reactions?If she is really interested as her friends say, You should cut the crap and ask her out. No foreplay just go for it. If she says no then you should know that she is the one that missed an opportunity. Maybe the reason why she is frustrated during text sessions is that she is expecting you to take a move. so go for it bro!! Hope this helps! | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Serious Type and TextingYeah, In fact you can talk about random things and then exaggerate them. For example: Today I met my Math Teacher in the supermarket.. and damn she is hot with glasses on. and go on from there. you should like through in like words that give the girl a hint about your intentions. another thing that my friend does is tell the girl: you don't seem slutty. I hate slutty girls, are you one of them? oh God tell me you're not. and after that you ask about the craziest/sluttiest thing she has ever done… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Serious Type and TextingA buddy of mine sexts a lot. He doesn't use humor in his texting, only sexual things. Girl love that too (unless it's creepy and disgusting), Keep it light though, hope that helps | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 09:42 PM |
| 3 | how to develop a great sense of humor and how to make others laugh?something that worked for me: I recommend watching Stand up comedy, really helpful (Kevin Hart, Eddy Murphy...) | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Gaming on the holidays?From my point of view and if I understood well your question, I would recommend watching a video by Julien blanc (Rsd Julien) called How To Game Under A Missile Attack where he emphasizes on the fact that Game is the same everywhere and every time . hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 08:43 PM |
| -1 | How to stop wanting a girlfriend?I totally understand what you are feeling, and this might seem like something irrelevant but You are considered as a Hard Case Scenario. But it's not as bad as it sounds (sometimes it's better to know what the disease is before looking for a cure). This pain and anxiety is not going to go away just like that by itself, you need to take action about it bro, obviously you care too much, you look for validation and hope people will like you. I suggest you go the other way. please know that what I s… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | So for pure cold approach is it better generally to ask for a date or number first?once you have been out of game for a while, you think back at what you used to do " who is that guy? it's not me, some superman used to do that!!". now when you go back to cold approach pickup everything is weird. takes some few sets to get yourself back on track. for your first sets back in cold approach I recommend simple interaction (greetings + compliment + question and eject) until you get used to the adrenaline again! for the closing I think you escalate properly and calibrate all the way … | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 02:37 PM |
| 1 | avoid being awkwardI think from my past experiences and what worked for me is that I used to feel the same way, but it stopped once I started talking to more PEOPLE, through cold approach etc.. when you start conversations with random people (girls guys old lady with a stick) you begin to relate to everybody, you gain the confidence to talk to anybody without being "awkward". also when you friends introduce you that means you are already a good friend. hope this helps :D | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What are some good first date movies?I agree on the fact that movies are a bad strategy for a "first date" for so many reasons, one of them is that a movie doesn't make you relate to one another, you don't know more about each other, and the fact that I am an average looking guy it's not in my best interest to take my first date to a Ryan Gosling movie (in her head she will be like oh look at how hot he is, wait who are you? I don't date guys like you :s ). Now remember that when a girl wants to meet with you for a first date she w… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How do I overcome a negative first impression because of my speech impediment?I guess I relate to this for I used to have a woman's voice :D! Yeah that's right i used to sound like a woman and I discovered seduction and attraction via PUA stuff! and I went out there and it was awful! But let me tell you this, one little advice changed that. A friend of mine who is less good looking that I am told me that I should embrace the fact that I have a woman's voice and be in peace with that! It took some time to be that okay with such a uncomfortable thing but I went through it b… | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 02:15 PM |
| 16 | How to stop living in my head?I understand what you are experiencing. this is called daydreaming or "mental masturbation", it's actually very common and the majority of people suffer from it (more that you imagine). Now the reason why I say this is because I used to daydream, like 75 percent of my day. Now this has numerous causes, not living the life you expected yourself to live, being afraid of taking opportunities in life... So to be more practical the way to remove this bad habit is by replacing it with another one, or … | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 02:07 PM |
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