One of the most difficult things in life is to start something. Your first girlfriend, your first customer, your first house... There is a huge knowledge base on how to get from zero to one. However, once we get to one, we kinda slack or we think we have already achieved something. This is not true. As Tom Torero puts it, One is always close to zero.

Most posts in this sub start with "There is this one girl" "I have been talking to this girl" "A girl I saw", young guys limiting their potential to one person. What if that girl doesn't text me anymore? What if she asks me to leave her alone? I will stand there alone, with my dick in my hand. 0.

There is a concept called compound interest. And while this concept applies mainly to finance, it is a very important factor when it comes to your love/sexual wellbeing.

A couple of years ago, I decided that I want to go out during the day, for 30 days straight, 4 hours per day. My goal was to approach as many girls as possible in that 4 hours period. I also decided to tell one of my wings about it because I knew it's a difficult journey to go through alone. I had more dates/hookups in that period than in the whole year.

It started very slow in the first week, but by the last everything skyrocketed. Compound interest kicked in. Imagine 10+ girls all texting you at the same time. I didn't care if a girl didn't respond or that my dates didn't go well. I just didn't give a fuck at all. That's what made girls want to hang out with me.

Compound interest is what happens when a person goes for abundance. The first one is difficult, the second one a little bit less difficult. But then after a certain number, it all goes berserk, out of control.

Do you want to know why that girl is ghosting you? Why she doesn't answer your phone calls after 3 dates? Why she freaks out and runs away when you misinterpret her being nice to her being interested in you? It's because she knows you are in need of love and affection. She smells it and it turns her off.

Do you want to know why you aren't going for that kiss when you should have gone for it? Why you are staring at a girl in the gym without having the balls to say hi to her? Why you are afraid to ask out that girl who you've been texting for 5 years? It's because you are afraid you are going to lose the little you already have!

Guess what? That little thing you think you had is going to go away. So why cling onto it? Go out. Meet more women. Get more numbers. Get more dates. Get more girlfriends. And work on yourself along the way.