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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/snbz7s/i\_truly\_want\_to\_thank\_this\_sub\_for\_helping\_me/
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:44 PM
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Very true at a certain point the number becomes arbitrary, a lightbulb just goes off in your head and you're like "what's the point of all this effort"? Also I am at the age where I have to think about settling down, obviously not right now, but I considered where do I want to be in 3-4 years?
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:42 PM
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My Top 10 (no order) Emily Ratajkowski Penelope Cruz Kate Beckinsale Morena Baccarin Ana Akana Janina Gavinkar Jessica Lowndes Im Jin Ah Victoria Justice Maria Menounos *Subject to change whenever I feel like
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:31 PM
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Work out at least 4 times a week Stop watching porn Fake it till you make it
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:07 AM
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This is a repost https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/220cuv/ive\_been\_a\_good\_girl\_a\_slut\_and\_everything\_in/
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:49 AM
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It should be, though I think a lot of men still struggle with what I call "video game logic", they think to themselves "if I keep trying, hitting the restart button, give her enough attention, say the right thing, eventually she will like me"
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:34 PM
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Any tips?
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:39 AM
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Appreciate the advice king 👌
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:07 AM
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That begs the question how would I go about that? Should I just text her in like 6 months and be like "you still single or what" or do I kind of build to that with more "hey what's up with you long time no see texts"?
/r/seduction12/07/21 01:49 AM
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Eh I actually do alright for myself, problem is it's a massive numbers game, I get a decent amount of likes on tinder maybe about and through cold approach, but women either ghost or just don't want to meetup. Frankly it's just exhausting atm, idk if it's because of covid or what. Just wanted a way to increase my ROI.
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:48 PM
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C'mon that's the advice women always give "just be yourself". You had to have some "killer instinct" or something that allowed you to be so successful with women, I understand if you're adamant in your belief though and won't press any further, can you at least offer like 1 tip or something?
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:04 AM
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Fuck me, I hate me! I need the scoop baby, at least tell me how/where you approached women or what did you use in terms of pick up lines or something
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:35 AM
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40 at 22? Please teach me your ways
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:23 AM
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Did you use online dating at all?
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:58 PM
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I think if a guy is respectable and can take no for an answer there is nothing wrong with approaching a women, you'd be suspired how often on Reddit men write that they approached a women at the gym, on the street etc, and get a date from it.
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:30 PM
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So basically the entire human speices will go extinct because men shouldn't approach women who are strangers?
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:15 AM
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See thats the thing, I want you to picture the guy you want to be approached by, I imagine this guy is not a douche, he is kind, conisderate, etc. Now when women write stuff like never appaorach us, that is really only going to disuade guys who take your feelings into account in other words, if a guy is a jerk and reads that women don't want to be approached, he is going to be like "nah screw that, I'm still going to do it", but the guys who you want to be appraoched by are never going to becaus…
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:15 AM
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Nice to see posts like these every now and again. I think way too many men are influenced by what they read on subreddits like r/askreddit or r/TwoXChromosomes where basically the general consensus among women is "Never approach me! Not in the street, not in the grocery store, not even in the bar!". Sure sometimes you have to read body language and determine if a woman is really not in the mood to be approached, but to say "never approach us" is just ridiculous.
/r/seduction29/01/21 10:12 AM
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If you're struggling with confidence I recommend making a tinder, even if you're below average in looks you're going to get a lot of likes.
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:52 AM
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I think you have to consider where men might come from. For example, on one of the askreddit threads where the question was "What sucks about being a man?". Do you know which response was one of the highest upvoted? This one "having women become less attracted to you for having feelings, then being told toxic masculinity is your fault". Now even if this hasn't happened to every guy, I'd bet money that many men at least fear that this will happen to them. They don't want to lower their "frame" be…
/r/seduction28/12/20 08:44 PM
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Be a man, act like you have all the answers - Bill Burr
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:53 AM
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You're getting downvoted but you raise a point. Plenty of men who are basically misogynistic pull a lot of women, after a close, they always say something like "you should have seen this bitch, slut, etc I pulled last night." Why is this? Because since they see women as beneath them and thus they are way more confident, relaxed, and forward when it comes to them.
/r/seduction12/12/20 03:12 AM
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Don't want to be a Negative Nancy, but don't set your expectations too high. Girls give out their numbers for a variety of reasons, they didn't want to reject you publicly, they might just want you to leave her alone, etc. But dating is a numbers game, the more you put yourself out there the more likely you will find success.
/r/seduction19/11/20 01:35 AM
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Number 4 “People always think that I am dumb and vacuous. You cannot look like me, and survive in this world, especially this town, by being vacuous.” Okay and when ugly people go out they are thinking "people always think I'm ugly and hideous". You can prove you aren't dumb with conversation, can't do that with looks. Number 9 “Men become so sexually excited when they get in bed with me, they ejaculate prematurely. It is an occupational hazard of being super hot looking. Regrettably, when you l…
/r/seduction07/11/20 02:10 AM
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All of these reasons < All the reasons being ugly sucks
/r/seduction07/11/20 01:58 AM
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Several reasons More risks for women when they have sex, they are the ones who get pregnant and thus have to be more selective. Why risk getting pregnant from a 6/10 dude when you can at least be with a 10/10 Competition, online dating is mostly men, I believe tinder is 70% men and 30% women Men are the ones who have to be initiators, it's can be harder for a lot of men to go up to 50 women get rejected, and still have the confidence to keep going, women, on the other hand, can just wait until s…
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/6tzcb6/we_females_do_have_it_easy_o_o/
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:02 AM
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There are so many r/relationship_advice posts where the girl is like 24 and posts about her +34-year-old husband or boyfriend, I would say you're fine. If anything the rule is half your age plus 7 so 24 is fine.
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:39 AM
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Yes, 24 hours is nothing, especially for us guys, ask any dude here and they probably have had to wait even 5+ days for a response. It's still the middle of the week so he probably got busy, sidetracked, or isn't fully sure when he will be free, so he doesn't want to give you a soon to be false answer.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:57 PM
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Only 24 hours? Oh honey
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:53 PM
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Yep, the Pareto principle (roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes) applies well here. The top 80% of women compete for the top 20% of men.
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:56 AM
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Does no one notice this a fresh account? Such an obvious bait.
/r/seduction13/05/20 01:50 AM
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The Dating game has changed drastically compared to a few decades ago. In the 1960s-1990s you were limited by the people you knew, friends of friends, and the people you met at bars, parties, clubs, etc. There was also the sexual revolution of the 60s which helped get rid of the stigma, but then the AIDS epidemic hit in the 80s and made everyone more cautious. Then when everything started to bounce back, you get this whole slut-shaming idea, which inhibits the game as well. Now women can make ti…
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:02 PM
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Because girls don't need to? Even if your average or below-average if you go to bar/club, you are going to get approached, especially if you give IOIS, and if you make a tinder you're going to get 200 matches a day. Men are the chasers, while women are the selectors. I compiled a brief overview below on how each sex can best succeed in the dating world. Rules for men Be handsome Be confident Have money Have a six-pack Have interesting hobbies Be funny Be 6 ft+ Rules for women Don't be fat
/r/seduction10/05/20 05:26 PM
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You shouldn't be working out and developing yourself just for girls, you should do it for yourself. And if you do have a below-average face, yes that is one strike against you, no reason to give women anymore by being boring, or scrawny/overweight or having bad teeth. Glasses or certain haircuts can also help turn a below-average face into at least average. I get it certain things are out of our control, like our faces (and believe me I dislike my face) or height, but that shouldn't stop us from…
/r/seduction10/05/20 09:51 AM
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Thanks dude, I got rid of tinder because it really affected my self-esteem, currently improving myself will definitely use this advice when I go back whenever that might be.
/r/seduction07/05/20 06:52 AM
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What's your profile like? What kind of bio? What kind of opener do you use?
/r/seduction07/05/20 06:24 AM
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1k matches and you banged 70 of them? That is a 7% success rate, which is in line with my statistics. Don't get me wrong, that is impressive, wish I was half as successful. Also what would rate yourself looks-wise because if you're guy with 1k matches you in the top 1%. Most guys cant even get 1k matches in their lifetime.
/r/seduction07/05/20 06:18 AM
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Copying my past comment OLD can work but you have to very very good looking because those apps by nature are superficial. You can't really express your personality with a short bio, and 4-5 pictures, so all people see are your looks. And even if you get a match here or there women always have options on OLD (I think Tinder is like 30% women and 70% men), so if you are not at the top of your game you are just going to ghosted because she got 1000 matches waiting for her, and odds are one of them …
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:10 AM
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What would rate yourself looks-wise?
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:05 AM
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OLD can work but you have to very very good looking because those apps by nature are superficial. You can't really express your personality with a short bio, and 4-5 pictures, so all people see are your looks. And even if you get a match here or there women always have options on OLD (I think Tinder is like 30% women and 70% men), so if you are not at the top of your game you are just going to ghosted because she got 1000 matches waiting for her, and odds are one of them is way better looking th…
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:22 AM
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Let me break down Tinder for you 40% of women use it for validation and as a self-esteem booster 10% are bots 40% are just there to advertise their snapchat or instagram The final 10% are there to actually hook up or find dates.
/r/seduction06/05/20 01:35 AM
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"These techniques would never work on me or my friends" Ripped, 6ft, rich dude uses these techniques "I'm in"
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:32 AM
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A girl giving you her number means absolutely nothing, guys ask for their numbers all the time, dm them on Instagram daily, they have hundreds if not thousands of matches on Tinder waiting for them so plenty of times they will give you their number (or a fake one) so you leave them alone. I have had a good amount of short approaches where I thought I did terrible in (bad eye contact, stuttering, etc) and they will still reply to my first text. But plenty of other times after I approach I think t…
/r/seduction23/02/20 07:57 AM
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Off the top of my head Barney Stinson- How I met your mother Joey- Friends Boomhauer- King of the Hill Honestly, I was probably too harsh in my first comment, you can model whoever you want, but just try to take context into account. Iron Man is a poor model imo because he is a billionaire, and he is a super-hero in that universe, two things that are almost impossible to be in real life. Barney Stinson in comparison has a well-paying job obviously but he isn't a billionaire and doesn't go to the…
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:48 AM
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Unpopular opinion: Iron Man is not a good model to follow for one reason, he is a billionaire, he could be the ugliest sad sack on the planet, but will still get laid because of his money. I would rather model someone who is a little more realistic. And plenty of fictional characters are more realistic than him.
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:36 AM
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New account? This is bait
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:00 PM
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In my opinion, this isn't the best advice, case in point. https://www.boredpanda.com/social-experiment-guy-created-fake-tinder-profile-hot-model-pictures-germanlifter/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic Compassion is nowhere to be found and yet look at the success rate.
/r/seduction05/02/20 02:21 PM
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They're keeping you as an orbiter or a safe option, they like having you validate them, I would say drop em.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:37 AM
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Go to askwomen or twoxchromosomomes and ask for dating advice, and the only amount of help you get will be "just talk to us, be yourself and be nice". Then when you do just that watch those same women make a thread titled "THIS CREEP ASKED FOR MY NUMBER AT A CAFE/WORK/SCHOOL AND I STOOD MY GROUND AND SAID NO"
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:25 PM
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My paladin is stuck on devotion aura, been trying to change to retribution, ty!
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:47 AM
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We were sitting at the bar so he just left on the back of his chair, but I see your point.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:23 AM
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Because they might steal?
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:10 AM
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A gay guy once asked me to watch his coat when he went to the bathroom. When he got back that basically led to a whole conversation, he wasn't hitting on me, but I thought it could be a good opener.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:16 PM
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What's a good number of days to wait?
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:23 AM
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I maybe wouldn't rush into a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, hang out with her a little and see if her personality makes up for body. If anything you'll see if you're actually compatible.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:33 AM
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Also used to Even ask some women for feedback when I was new and knew they were just being nice, though I rarely do now because I know if I do that, it solidifies me as non fuckable and hopeless at least in her eyes. No girl will date a guy she had to tell how to get her and coached, it's no longer genuine for her. Wait really, thank god I have only done this one woman, and we weren't compatible anyway. Get this we make out in a club, a week later go on a date, we end of making out in the bar, a…
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:43 AM
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This all gets really easy when you realize that girls are wimps, they're terrified of rejection, and will follow your lead and play any role you want them to. I have to disagree with this part. Girls are not terrified of rejection unless the man is very high value like top 5%, girls don't care if they get rejected because thanks to Tinder they have 4000 rebounds waiting for them. If a 7 guy rejects a 7 girl her first thought isn't going to be "omg he rejected me, how is that possible?". Her firs…
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:29 AM
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0:41 Very strong intent, giving away your power, double edged sword but you won anyway Not being a dick, but what would you recommend instead?
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:58 AM
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As long as she is constructive I have no reason to be offended.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:32 AM
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I would rather a girl say stuff like this to me and offer feedback rather than just ghost me. I know we're supposed to just move on, but if the issue is something I can fix, I'd like to know. Edit: Nvm Night_Hawk1 raised a good point that asking women for feedback is terrible, please don't do this.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:23 AM
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Then what's the point of me doing the non-nerdy shit? One of the cornerstones of this sub is to have hobbies besides playing video games because it gives you something to talk about and it makes you more interesting. I mean don't you ask dates what they like to do? And even is its underwater basket-weaving I ask how did you get into that?
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:41 AM
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I wish more girls were as direct as you lol, thank you for your input.
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:11 AM
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Now I'm intrigued because I'm guessing you're a woman. I have to ask, when you look for casual sex, what do you mean by straight to the point? Like if a guy approached you at a bar and he was an 8/10-10/10 would you just say to him "come home with me" or drop easy hints, or would you least talk to him for 30 mins or whatever?
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:06 AM
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Regardless, I’m not sure why you would be talking about Star Wars on a date. Because a lot of advice of this sub (even when your goal is just casual sex) is to just be yourself, be passionate about what you talk about, and a common conversation topic is movies or simply the question "what are your interests or what do you like to do?". I mean I'm obviously not going to go up to a girl at a bar and say "I'm topgun157, I thought you were cute and I like Star Wars".
/r/seduction18/11/19 03:01 AM
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Well, I seriously doubt I or 99% of men can just go up to women and get sex, unless it's Tinder or something and you put in your bio "I only want sex" and you're in the top 5% of men in terms of looks, money, etc. We have to build some rapport and talk about some of our interests, especially on a first date. Unless there is some strategy I'm missing here lol.
/r/seduction18/11/19 02:57 AM
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Intriguing I always try what I think Tony Stark would do, but I have a couple of questions, so how did you approach women, did you use a pick-up line? And where did you go looking for women? (daygame, clubs)
/r/seduction18/11/19 02:54 AM
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And if you don’t feel like you can open up that part of yourself, is it even really worth a relationship pursuing? I'm sorry I should have mentioned I'm more interested in casual sex atm, though I'm not opposed to a relationship, so do you think your advice still applies in that case?
/r/seduction18/11/19 02:50 AM
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I watched a few of Todd V's videos and he seems to know what he is talking about, but is this video true as well?
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:09 PM
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Cold showers are a good habit?
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:02 PM
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Post this on r/TwoXChromosomes and watch it be removed
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:27 AM
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Don't women hear compliments all the time and they just automatically think you have an ulterior motive when you say them? She already knows how hot/beautiful she is so telling her she is just feeding her ego and makes you "lesser" and everyone else is already telling her that so it's unoriginal, lame, and makes you like every other guy
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:31 AM
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Co-ed sports teams, unfortunately, the co-ed leagues by me are like 90% dudes and of the 10% who are women are either already dating someone in the league, already have a boyfriend, or are not attractive to me.
/r/seduction21/10/19 04:24 AM
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For some reason people are downvoting you but what you're saying makes a lot of sense to me and helps me understand Tinder a lot more.
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:41 AM
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Because apparently we get viewed as shallow for wanting a good looking woman, we should lower our standards for the 200-pound whale. And, funny story I did do that once, I remember on Tinder I matched with a girl who was a straight 3/10 and was definitely on the fat side not obese though. I figured whatever I haven't gotten a match in a while might as well talk with her, we sent about 5 or 6 texts before I said: "I noticed you're less than a mile away, you dtf?" And she responded "sorry but conv…
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:52 AM
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I should have also mentioned I only follow girls after a successful first date, does that change the narrative?
/r/seduction20/10/19 07:49 AM
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Some advice, with the "?" you sent, girls pick up on that as needy and defensive. Instead, wait a bit, maybe a day or 2 (not sure how long you waited) re-engage with her a funny story, image, etc. Now she said she will let you know because of A) she is too nice to tell you she isn't interested or B ) She is looking at other options and maybe you'll be the only guy that's available to her.
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:05 AM
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Those channels are fake right? I mean there is one video where the guy gives random girls piggyback rides and they are cool with it.
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:00 AM
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I'm guessing you live in Tampa then? Florida is known for its beaches and you don't have to drink or smoke to enjoy them, plus there are always people there both men and women looking to have fun or meet people.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:29 PM
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How long should talk before trying to get the number, I know it all depends but what's a good estimate 5-10 minutes or something?
/r/seduction16/10/19 04:20 AM
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List of conversations I can recall: What are you drinking? How do you know X? Where are you from? Oh, you have kids how old? Have you been here before? Where do you work? How do you like your work/what do you like about it? Politics but in a fun way Clothing was another frequent topic We also talked about nationalities and music as well as movies/actors a lot A lot of these provide a lot of segways for me, for example, if someone says I'm from Texas, I ask stuff like do you miss it/what do you m…
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:26 AM
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If it makes you feel better I texted the girl whose number I got this morning and didn't get a response, yet, I mean I thought we vibed well but I guess not, it sucks but it happens
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:13 AM
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The best part is the confidence boots you get. I love how at the end of the night I was able to say "you went out, be proud of yourself" instead of "you stayed in and played video games all night again huh"
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:11 AM
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Honestly, I would give myself a solid 6-6.5
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:10 AM
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23, I haven't had much experience going out even with friends lol because I was in an LTR for 3.5 years so I felt I never had a reason to go out a lot
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:09 AM
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Dive bars/ lounges, this was around 7pm-10:30 and they weren't so busy that I couldn't find a seat, after that was the house party for another 2 hours, but I definitely would have stayed out longer if I didn't get that invite.
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:08 AM
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My nervousness peaked right before I left my house, I think once you're on your way to your destination, you relax a little, just think of everything as a small victory. You left the house that's a victory, you got on the train, bus, or drove to where you wanted to go, another small victory.
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:07 AM
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Hey that takes a lot of courage too I know because I did that before as well, it's all about taking small steps
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:58 PM
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Alcohol helps although I kind of hate having to use it a crutch, but you know, you gotta do what works
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:52 PM
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That's understandable, hell with the 2nd place I went to, my confidence took a hit when that girl acted rudely and I saw that there were barely any single women there I did think that maybe this was a mistake. But then I thought to myself "I'm not going to let one rude girl ruin my night, you are here to have fun"
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:51 PM
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Sorry should have clarified both these women were married and I didn't find them attractive anyway, and I went back to their table after getting the number from one of the girls at the bar
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:47 PM
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In my subjective opinion, yes there is a double standard but it's not amoral. I think it's easier for an attractive woman to approach a man and get him interested, compared to an attractive man approaching a woman. Yes, there are men who will be "old-fashioned" and object to being the one approached, but for women, there is no game to be practiced because you are already masters at it. Men in society are expected to be the pursuers so they have more to prove and have to better than average, whil…
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:23 AM
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I wish I could set up a date within one week of the meeting seems like I always have to wait awhile for them to not be busy.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:05 AM
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To provide an example for OP, let's say a girl says she likes idk Maroon 5 instead of immediately agreeing (I like them too, I always like x about them), say something like "oh you like Maroon 5 I might have to leave now", with a playful teasing tone, this allows the girl to validate herself to you and create way more sexual tension.
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:05 AM
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What's another good option at bars?
/r/seduction01/10/19 02:40 AM
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Almost every women's advice for men is "just be yourself!". Of course, many women also say they favor personality/confidence over looks, but countless social experiments have debunked that. Confidence is extremely important, but looks are what get you in the door to use that confidence imo.
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:26 PM
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/thread, I'm not eager to friend-zone myself
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:46 AM
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Nah I mean in my experience women are the ones who don't treat men like people, since they are the ones who ghost a lot or reject men in humiliating/disrespectful ways. Of course, some men don't treat women like people of course but also they are the ones who are more successful with women (PUAs for example)
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:12 AM
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Kezia Noble is a female pick up artist?
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:33 AM
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I really do appreciate your post, but you have to understand something, women in the context of dating don't make much sense. It's really alarming to me that people actually have to write books on the subject of dating or picking up women because it's become that complicated. Literally look up on Reddit all the problems men have with dating (ghosting, flaking, harsh rejections, being used as a free meal ticket, just off the top of my head) while the two problems women seem to have is either they…
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:29 AM
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"That we all like just being treated like people" isn't this kind of ironic?
/r/seduction23/09/19 02:12 AM
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Where did you approach her?
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:06 AM
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You know what's weird I just got a notification about this now. But wow she swiped on the top 12% of guys, of course, it's going to be a waste of time. Even other women admit how easy Tinder is for them, this one guy on Reddit and his girlfriend made profiles and swiped right until they ran out of swipes over 3 days, he had like 20, she had 200.
/r/seduction28/08/19 05:47 PM
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Exactly, women are more relaxed because they expect to be approached or at least talk with people.
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:56 AM
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Is it true most people choose rock?
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:42 PM
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Nah I'm just really paranoid lol
/r/seduction09/08/19 05:24 PM
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I would think this situation is to good to be true and think it's a trap
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:28 PM
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" Another friend was talking about her husband and their sex life (they are in their mid 20’s) and again, made me feel like I am a massively inferior person because I am still a virgin. " My dude, they are already married, you have all the potential, I don't know if you would prefer a bunch of one-night stands or to focus more on meaningful relationships, but you still have time. I suggest looking up r/datingoverthirty and cut down on masturbation it lowers your testosterone and demotivates you,…
/r/seduction08/08/19 06:34 AM
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How often do you go out to meet women? How often do you approach women in a given night? How would you honestly rate yourself in terms of looks, fashion, and confidence?
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:35 AM
1

Don't a lot of girls just use Tinder as a self-esteem booster?
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:14 PM
1

Very informative, appreciate it!
/r/seduction05/08/19 05:54 PM
2

"Millennials are addicted to their phones!" Not true because I usually have to wait a day or more for a response.
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:32 AM
2

Fantasyland, because even if you look like Brad Pitt, women aren't going to approach you, unless they're are tipsy.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:54 AM
3

Well, you're definitely the most humble ;)
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:52 AM
1

Really? I thought I remembered reading somewhere they met in college, but I could be wrong
/r/seduction25/07/19 04:54 AM
3

Shit I wish women were that obvious with me lol
/r/seduction24/07/19 03:50 AM
2

Well one of them, Joe is kind of average looking but his wife is hella cute
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:43 PM
14

Shit, that's my weak spot, what's your secret? It's hard for me to approach in the street because usually people either are busy and on the way to something or they are more on guard in my experience (which makes sense)
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:50 PM
14

In those 4 hours, where/when did you usually approach? Like after work would you just bar hop, and on the weekends you would go to meetups?
/r/seduction22/07/19 07:02 PM
1

It depends, in my opinion buying drinks for a girl gets your foot in your door, but she will quickly slam that door right in your face if you show that the buying her a drink is a massive crutch for you. Guys probably buy drinks for her all the time, it's up to you to separate yourself from the rest, engage with, gauge her interest, see if you can escalate. Of course, every girl is different and there is no full-proof method, do whatever works best for you.
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zf4A3Jbrj5w
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:13 AM
1

Nothing turns off a girl faster then a pie chart, go bar or go home
/r/seduction16/07/19 11:10 PM
0

Many moons ago...
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:21 AM
1

Thanks dude, you're a lifesaver
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:02 AM
0

"But while texting don't show that you are excited about the date and stuff", oh no, was it bad of me to text great :), when she agreed to a date to which I then followed it up with the "I've been wanting to go to X line?"
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:55 AM
1

Sorry, do you count the "I have a boyfriend" girls has rejections?
/r/seduction26/06/19 08:25 AM
2

Why do you think they hate you?
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:58 AM
1

He was in Titanic, that's all women care about and gave him a massive headstart.
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:46 AM
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Even when I was with the "love of my life" for three years whenever we would have sex, as soon as I finished I would always think to myself "I'm putting in all this effort for that?" (meaning working out, paying for meals, etc) . The sex was great 99% of the time, but idk man it just almost always had that feeling, not sure if it's just hormones, PN clarity, or something else.
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:12 AM
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Not asking to be a dick, but do you have an example video of this? I feel like most PUA on Youtube just edit out their rejections so it makes it look like they have a 100% success rate.
/r/seduction08/06/19 07:47 PM
3

Approached dozens of women over a couple of months, even the 4-5s have boyfriends, it's so easy for them since they always have a line of guys waiting for them, especially on dating apps and guys are always willing to settle for sex (not judging I do it too). I have gotten a few numbers but I would say a good 80% of women I approached were taken.
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:23 AM
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For males, if you're not in the top 10%-20% in terms of looks, Tinder is a lost cause, it will either take too much effort or time, or you just have to get extremely lucky.
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:51 PM
1

Bring up the topic of sex
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:04 AM
1

Strict upbringing instilled belief that you treat women with respect, always put their needs first, realized how toxic that is in reality. Media and tv influenced me to believe that nice guys don't finish last which I realized is bs.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:09 AM
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Nah, she politely declined, but I accomplished my goal
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:49 AM
1

Been debunked, on his website there a phone number for business inquires, all these girls are actresses.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 12:26 PM
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