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Damn that's deep but spot on
/r/TheRedPill31/01/24 05:59 AM
0

100% correct
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 02:36 AM
1

“She loves having guy friends and even meets with them 1:1” I’m gonna give you the alcohol no chaser… this a huge red flag UNLESS she invites you to meet with these guys and is never at all offended or defensive if you ask to tag along and meet them. If she has never offered or would take offense to you asking to meet… really think deep about what that says. I have girl friends which at times I do meet… however I’d ALWAYS invite my significant other and offer it up no hesitating. Good luck, reme…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:19 PM
12

Well said. When life becomes too easy, well… we know what is to come
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 06:37 PM
2

Great post, I second this 100%
/r/RPChristians30/11/21 08:08 AM
8

For me it was alcohol/hangovers. 3-4 drinks maximum in a session cleared that all up and left me with zero fog/hangover
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 09:33 PM
0

Great post mate!
/r/MGTOW205/07/21 02:35 PM
15

This
/r/MGTOW216/05/21 08:42 PM
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Perfectly said, I feel more MGTOW are in this plane of thought but maybe go silent and are true MGTOW
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 07:33 PM
2

Think about how strong the concept and foundation of “you must get married is” If these guys can’t keep one, what makes you think you can? I never understood why you couldn’t be with someone forever without getting married. Truthfully, besides the bit celebration and the social media and external validation... what’s the difference?
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 04:25 PM
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Become a man of god for god. Keep on the path, I’m struggling as well but coming out it as the last sermon I went to helped me shift my mindset. Either you become broken, or broken open. Once broken open, you can learn and heal and and grow.
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 04:21 PM
0

This is spot on
/r/RPChristians19/12/20 12:57 AM
5

God and MGTOW has been my path as of late, looking for happiness I’m going to get spiritually and within rather externally
/r/RPChristians24/11/20 11:56 PM
4

Keep putting out great content 🙏
/r/RPChristians24/11/20 11:47 PM
2

Listened for 5 minutes, everything he said was facts
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 05:19 PM
1

Thank you 🙏
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 03:10 AM
5

You’re missing the point. I specifically said these are wild examples because they are not men whom women were naturally attracted to the way your average Chad has girls throwing themselves at. However these men had a purpose in life to create something and be a leader in their retrospective fields. I’m not saying chase money, I’m saying find what it is that makes you happy and be the best you can be at that... the rest (women, money, happiness) will follow.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 02:36 PM
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The bigger question is what’s your mission? If the thought about being a virgin is consuming you day in and day out then that tells me you don’t have a mission and purpose. Find your mission and passion, chase it with every once of energy you have, sooner or later women will see this and attraction will be imminent. You think Elon Musk was the females first choice? Jeff Bezos? Obviously two wild examples but my point is that only through your mission will you be the female magnet you seem to wan…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 02:23 PM
3

Texting is something you can do as banter AFTER you’ve been smashing. Until then, keep it to the point.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 06:43 PM
2

THANK YOU 🙏 Perfectly said
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 05:26 PM
1

Exactly. Being frank I’m still not there yet as I’m undoing 30 years of programming but each day it’s a work in progress to go my own way and become better. To me that’s what is at the core of MGTOW, going your own way to do what makes each individual the best version of themselves.
/r/MGTOW215/10/20 12:20 PM
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This
/r/MGTOW215/10/20 02:33 AM
5

This breakdown is 100% correct. Many PUA’s and people within the Redpill community still put too much validation on women.
/r/MGTOW215/10/20 01:32 AM
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This
/r/MGTOW229/09/20 01:10 AM
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https://www.charitywatch.org Do your due diligence, myself personally I love YearUp, it’s an unbelievable program.
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 10:07 PM
-4

Even though I’m getting downvoted, I appreciate your support! 💪🏼🤙
/r/MensRights30/07/20 06:10 PM
-8

I can attest, tossed out my flesh light after 3 uses. It worked too well and saw too much temptation with it. A good mix of semen retention and healthy jerking off is the 🔑
/r/MensRights30/07/20 05:23 PM
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100% If it’s a no but I can do Friday/Sunday that’s 🌊 It’s the “I’m busy” OR I’m gone this weekend” and being left at that which makes it a hard pass.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 10:26 PM
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Great summary. Biggest takeaway: If she isn’t meeting up after even one ask, MOVE ON!
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 01:14 AM
6

Long video but man, as someone who will NEVER get married, this guy just presents too many facts. The world opinion is so on the other coin that I could show this to 10 of my married friends and only 1 might pause for a second. Marriage is a hustle, haven’t heard it like that but it’s perfect. Once they get it, you are cooked. Be safe out there gentlemen, we need more men like this to step up and give advice to younger lads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/20 09:07 PM
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On a few occasions I’ve been Chad an can concur, doors open up and there is zero money spent. I’ve also been friendzoned, it all hits so much harder when you’ve seen the spectrum of female emotions
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 04:34 PM
1

Hahahha preach 🙏
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 04:48 PM
6

One of the best things I have seen on Reddit... much appreciation for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 10:05 AM
0

Interesting take, I’m still a bit young so most of the marriages are still in their infancy stage but I see your point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 01:06 AM
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Underrated comment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:18 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree with all of these except career oriented women, I’ve got no problem with a girl trying to make some cash. All the rest are spot on 💯
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:14 PM
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One can only read/hear/see so many of these stories and not come to the conclusion that the male has ZERO benefit of marriage.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 03:44 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 08:58 PM
3

What’s amazing is that even with all of the correct comments in this thread, she is still good looking enough some simpleton will still fall for the trap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 11:19 AM
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This just makes too much sense for most people in this world. Their heads would spin at trying to rebuff this and most likely the conversation would end by you getting called an asshole.
/r/MGTOW225/06/20 06:08 PM
2

Strong post, thanks for sharing. Still keep in touch with Francisco?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 08:21 PM
1

Strong post, thanks for sharing. Still keep in touch with Francisco?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 08:20 PM
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Strong post, thanks for sharing. Still keep in touch with Francisco?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 08:20 PM
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Discipline is what separates the dreamers from doers
/r/MGTOW224/06/20 01:28 AM
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Girls in their 30’ and 40’s get the same treatment from the opposite sex that most men got when they were in their 20’s. Constant ghosting, being lead on etc. I have zero sympathy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 03:46 PM
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There’s something to be said about living within your means and that’s different for each individual. When I made 30k a year I lived a completely different lifestyle then 80k etc.. Starting from the ground up really humbled me and I’m thankful it was never handed to me.
/r/MGTOW217/06/20 08:28 PM
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Great advice
/r/MGTOW217/06/20 03:18 PM
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I always had an inkling about red pill but reading Rollo’s book really put me on to the game. It took time to actually implement the ideas but man when you seem them work and it all come together it’s extremely empowering.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 07:48 PM
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It’s a shame that this biology that is ingrained in male and females isn’t taught to people as they grow. Imagine the pain and agony this would save many from as they grow up and understand the world for what it is. I sure know I could have used this advice growing up... thankful I found it at 30 and not 50
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 05:14 PM
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Untied crown royal bag... I’m dying 😂😂😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 03:56 PM
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Well said, you are not alone 💪🏼
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 04:04 PM
1

Similar story here about questioning several posts that didn’t align to the slogan of “a subreddit for men going their own way” I’d prefer to keep my topics about better ourselves as men and being the best version of myself.
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 02:30 PM
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But it’s not MGTOW related
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 12:24 AM
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Thank you
/r/MGTOW12/06/20 12:18 AM
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I’m in tech for a pretty big company... contrary to some of the belief one of the best support professionals I worked with was female HOWEVER I’ve worked with my fair share of disasters. My two best hires were 1 female 1 male so it really depends. I will say this, there legitimately are diversity quotas and that’s what will kill tech. Best person for the job should get the job. Period.
/r/MGTOW05/06/20 07:24 PM
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This makes so much sense it would have their hamster wheel spinning for days
/r/MensRights03/06/20 05:47 PM
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I absolutely love this and it’s changed my whole approach to texting. I used to be the orbiter who thought he needed to always stay in communication... what I realized after many years of hardship and failure is that YOU text when you want to meet up, period. Anything else is for the birds.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:49 PM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:47 PM
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Exactly this. Social media has shown men exactly what is important to the other sex... attention. A great quote I like to live by that fits right into social media: “people will show you who they are, believe them”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 11:48 AM
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Thank you so much for your well thought out post... truly inspiring the will and fight you have. I sure hope men wake up and realize marriage is far from the only way to go.
/r/MensRights02/06/20 01:14 AM
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It’s why the MGTOW movement is a downhill snowball
/r/MensRights02/06/20 01:06 AM
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Preach 🙏
/r/MensRights02/06/20 01:00 AM
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Thank you... maybe the most under appreciated sports car ever
/r/MGTOW01/06/20 11:13 PM
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Hopefully the world is turning as most of the top comments were much aligned to this thread advising to ditch the girl
/r/MGTOW01/06/20 11:55 AM
1

Hahaha that hairline picture... I’ll give them credit, that’s funny. I think we can admit that a man in his 40’s has TREMENDOUS value is he’s lived his life right. I think deep down that envy and jealous is the root of all of the FDS problems
/r/MGTOW231/05/20 06:19 PM
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Respect everyone’s here opinion. I’d say I’m spiritual and not “religious” even though I grew up in a strict catholic home. I’m not ignorant to call my god better than yours because I understand basically where you grew up is what god you’d believe in. What I will keep coming back to and what still makes me believe is that there at point was absolutely nothing... imagine that, just blank nothing and all of a sudden a Big Bang out of nowhere to start it all 13 billion years ago. Even the great sc…
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 06:12 PM
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This
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 06:03 PM
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And here’s the nut, this guy could ghost her for 3 months... she gets serious with the other guy and then BOOM, original guy initiates contact and she’d drop the other dude like that. lol, so easy to see once you’ve actually opened your eyes and accepted life for what it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 04:16 PM
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I’m about 5-5.5 and pretty thick. Never gonna be a girls biggest but I get texts back so don’t sweat brotha.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:58 PM
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To me #4 is always the most important when I’m hanging out with someone or even just plate spinning. If she’s engaged and has her phone in her purse and doesn’t even look at it. All systems go
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 09:51 PM
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It’s truly amazing that men in this day in age get married. I’m 32 and most of my friends are making the plunge. It’s a fine line between supporting them and telling them to watch out
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 03:38 PM
1

So simple, so true.
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 02:21 AM
1

I hope he finds himself here before he goes down the drain and loses himself completely. It will not end well for him, if only he knew about MGTOW growing up. I feel like even though I don’t want kids, I need to somehow teach these young men it’s a lie and to think for themselves.
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 02:16 AM
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And this is why I keep coming back to this subreddit... it’s comments like this that you can rarely find elsewhere, what a gem this is for how to live life: “The only way to win is to be better than you were yesterday” Salute!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 09:31 PM
1

Great post
/r/MGTOW212/05/20 04:43 PM
8

Underrated post
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 02:55 AM
3

Solid breakdown, all 📠
/r/askTRP23/03/20 09:38 PM
3

Well said
/r/MGTOW18/03/20 10:14 PM
2

Hahaha definitely a nice set
/r/MGTOW18/03/20 02:59 PM
2

In my BP days this is exactly how it went down 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/MGTOW14/03/20 06:49 PM
2

Wow... I wanted to have a little more faith in humanity. This is a prime example of why I exited the OLD scene almost a year ago and haven’t looked back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 12:28 PM
3

Unreal but true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 11:41 PM
3

This exactly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/20 11:31 PM
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That’s the biggest thing for me. Do I have trust issues... sure I think we all do to a degree. I’m not ready to gamble and take the risk in this climate. I’ll be honest gents, I’m early 30’s and through most of my mid to late 20’s I struggled with women. I have a baby face and honestly put them on a pedestal. Will I be good enough or will I find the one truly caused almost 100% of my anxiety or depression. It’s amazing, I look back at that kid who was 25 and it’s a completely different person, h…
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 11:25 PM
1

This
/r/MGTOW06/03/20 03:37 PM
2

I can’t tell if this is real or not... but the thought of this happening and the husband going along with it legitimately makes me sick.
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 05:48 PM
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Fair, I took it as his “game” is having his life in order and focusing on yourself. There’s some elements of MGTOW there and it’s a fine line, while I agree that’s a major factor in your ability to get laid, “game” still does count as someone pointed out I know a few dudes who don’t have it together and they are energetic animals with girls and pull a ton.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 04:48 PM
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What OP meant and referred to is NO unattractive women think a 2-3 in looks COULD ever pull a 8-9 high SMV male. On the contrary you had a dude for example like Post Malone.. all the face tats and looking homeless and he pulls the 9’s and 10’s. While I’m sure Post Malone got passed up many of times before he made it big, I’ll always take the option of growing and grooming myself into a position of power than playing the gene lottery and maybe having no chance at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:27 AM
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OP is saying living your life and spending all of your resources to get laid is a shit investment
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:09 AM
2

Why is this being downvoted??
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:08 AM
1

This is truth here... high value men getting cheated on for acting Beta or not giving her the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 02:07 AM
15

This is the cold hard truth.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:16 PM
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Seriously... it’s sickening
/r/MGTOW28/02/20 10:51 PM
1

Intoxicating yes... but is it healthy? I think you know the answer.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:55 PM
2

You are not RP
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:57 AM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/MGTOW21/02/20 10:44 AM
3

🥇
/r/MGTOW21/02/20 10:37 AM
1

I’ll certainly dig deeer into this.. I’m fascinated by the WW’s.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 05:40 PM
2

You bet, one of hbo’s best. Never finished the pacific though.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 01:26 PM
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I’ll say this, while I agree to your point of older generations being conned to an extent ... you can say that about some wars however WWII without a doubt was one we had to fight. Our land was attacked and there was an evil empire trying to mass murder and take over the world. Appreciate the comment and discussion, it’s an interesting viewpoint.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 01:25 PM
1

Like I tell people. You cannot be mad at women... either understand them and act accordingly or love them and play the roulette wheel. The choice is yours.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 02:34 AM
19

1000% correct about the way male higher smv resulting in the ghost.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 02:13 AM
6

Appreciate the recommendation!
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 01:46 AM
8

To each their own, I thought it was an instant classic.
/r/MGTOW20/02/20 12:10 AM
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Also, can’t hate on women... it’s who they are. Understand them or love them, the choice is yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/20 04:36 PM
2

What’s funny is she’ll tell her next BF her ex was “abusive”
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 08:15 PM
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“Need a decent man” LOL, making demands on Tinder
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/20 03:10 AM
5

If I wasn’t single it’d all be gone. I will say it does help keep you fresh in the minds... but I’ve found myself thinking about deleting it all together as well.
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 07:11 PM
5

This... once you internalize this, it’s all gravy
/r/MGTOW212/02/20 03:03 AM
1

“I have been at the gym 2-3 times per week” There’s your problem, hit it 5 times a week with a strict diet for 3 months. 100 bucks you’d be extremely happy with yourself.
/r/MGTOW211/02/20 10:00 PM
2

Sound advice
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:24 AM
10

This is actually gold
/r/askTRP06/02/20 11:52 PM
5

This
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/20 06:31 PM
1

Got to be yourself at all times.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:06 PM
5

Preach brotha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 09:48 PM
14

Solid post, nothing but facts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/20 01:48 AM
32

This
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 04:49 PM
2

Unfortunately this is true for many gents... myself included at one time.
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 01:43 AM
35

Well said
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 12:10 AM
5

This.... happened to me for a long period of time.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:21 PM
2

Terrific writing OP and we appreciate you sharing your experience. I have no doubt someone here will get hit with similar pillow talk and be able to use the valuable contributions and comments made here. My favorite post sex shit/comfort test.... “Are you seeing anyone else?” They’ll test you at the very moment they think they can get you to slip... stay present folks.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 12:01 PM
4

70 in Boston... unreal
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 12:52 AM
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The fact he 1 stayed on the date is nuts... and 2 actually asked her out after the whole or ideal is insaneZ men need to hold these girls accountable for how they act. When we have men allowing this behavior... I’m inclined to not be as mad at females because there are far too many weak men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 01:43 PM
2

I’ve slayed off it but it was honestly more effort than it should have been. In more recent years I got off it because these women are too entitled.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:22 PM
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Man I felt that
/r/MGTOW11/01/20 12:36 AM
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Gold
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 10:31 PM
1

This!! Well said
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/19 08:00 PM
1

Find your passion and do whatever it takes to accomplish it and live it. Rage gone ✅
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 05:48 PM
3

HAHA
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 05:47 PM
2

I’ve got no issues with this woman, actually isn’t letting him be an all time orbiter and giving him the real. She’s basically saying what I say to girls.
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 05:45 PM
1

Truth hurts
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:36 PM
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Casual or no relationship... short, sweet and 100% truth. Well said 318RedPill
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 10:03 PM
1

Hate crazy is she is good looking enough and will have dudes swiping right fast
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/19 06:12 AM
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Gold
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 01:35 AM
4

They were together 6 months before he proposed!!!? WTF
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 02:59 AM
35

Damn that was straight facts
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 03:00 AM
10

Imagine a clown world where one gets 400k a year to raise a child.... wild
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 01:55 AM
5

This... especially the keeping it in the dating stage with no commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/19 07:13 PM
1

Fellow Bostonian, live on brother
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 02:31 AM
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Took me 31 years but this is truth. At times I’ll catch myself relapsing a bit but for the most part not caring instantly creates an abundance mentality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 01:36 AM
1

Some of you don’t want to admit it but this right here is the truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 12:07 AM
2

Been in the exact same situation.. condom broke, I came in full load.. she took morning after and shit worked like a charm. Be smart young man, let this be a very good lesson.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:06 AM
1

“So be a man and just pay” it’s this attitude that made me stop dating
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 01:25 AM
1

Well said brother
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 12:52 AM
3

Underrated comment 🤣
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 03:23 AM
1

Terrific film
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 04:17 AM
3

Terrific analysis
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:45 PM
3

Way to keep a good mindset about it all. There could be a thousand reason why she was chatting with her ex. Here’s the thing, if you were official then you did the right thing and never look back. HOWEVER, if there was no guidelines in place and you were never official then you overstepped and lost frame. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:41 PM
1

Well written.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 11:01 PM
1

OP’s point was it’s okay to walk away if you’re not ready and not commit to something/someone if it’s truly not wha YOU want. Everyone is their own person. OP was simply letting men know his life didn’t plummet letting someone walk away. I much appreciated his post. Kudos for living your life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 11:56 PM
1

I’d say 6 months really is the proper vetting timeframe
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:10 PM
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I couldn’t imagine the pain you must go through... I personally thank you for airing out something that must be so tough to better the other brothers in this thread. It’s these exact scenarios where I just can’t see marriage being worth the risk. Stay strong brotha and keep pushing every damn day.
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 11:50 PM
3

It’s takes a lot of effort to do this but I must attest... it’s the only sustainable solution.
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 11:45 PM
1

I always struggled with texting. My best advice is less is more. Don’t sit around crafting these witty lines... wanna see her? Hit her up. Don’t spend too much energy on it.... trust me
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:31 AM
1

A+
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 12:57 AM
15

I can confirm this to be 100% accurate. I’ve always consistently playing between the 6-8 range. I’ve hooked up with one “9”. They really do get hit on at every moment... pats players, high rollers just comes with the territory. I make a decent living and I’d say I’m pretty ripped but there’s nothing about me that would “stand out” on Instagram or in social circles. It’s always been on and off with her but for that reason I’m probably one of the very few guys who don’t text her constantly and swe…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 05:02 PM
1

Terrific answer
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:03 PM
1

If 50% of someone’s pictures are a selfie or them posing... 10000% chance they are narcissistic. Just the way it is.
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 07:58 PM
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Has to be fake, no man in his right mind could be that much of a simp lol
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 08:51 PM
6

Fair point, I should add I’d never take a plate out to a “fancy dinner”. 100 bucks or so though sure. Considering the alternative (hooker) would be that or more plus illegal. If prostitution and happy endings were legal in America then you’d bet your ass I would go that route.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 04:35 AM
15

I’ll pay if I’m smashing...that’s my line. Others might differ but if we’re not sexual, it’s 50/50
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 08:39 PM
2

This has to be a joke
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 03:29 PM
2

Another option presented itself, you did the correct thing. Forget her and never look back.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:16 AM
32

“I know realistically it will take years to meet another like her” No you don’t, take her off the pedestal and you’ll meet another sooner than you’d think.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 11:52 PM
1

Internalize the fact she’s not that special.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 09:14 PM
4

I actually had to google the game to confirm if this was real or not. I thought it HAD to photoshopped.. I was wrong and I’m sorry for doubting the MGTOW brother’s here... how sad.
/r/MGTOW12/10/19 06:16 PM
2

This is absolute gold advice
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:12 PM
1

Two friends big booty mix vol 15... some of the sickest mixes I’ve ever heard
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:47 PM
1

Good Q, I was born in a Catholic family but my mother who pushed it was very progressive. Once I moved out and went to college she never forced me to go. To me I always found the teaching around God and a “Holy Spirit” very believable. I know what’s right and wrong, that to me is my conscious. My viewpoint on this could be very skewed as I’ve been extremely blessed in my lifetime, good health, wonderful family etc.. I’ve never had that misery and tough fortune that many people start out with. Th…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:14 PM
1

I have an interesting perspective as a red pilled man who does attend church weekly. I believe there is an ultimate power and there is a true soul. That soul once the physical body dies will be released. Upon being released I do believe how one lives their lives will ultimately determine how that soul intertwines with the universe. Church for me is a place for meditation and reflection. How can I be better, do better and do different than the herd. I don’t believe one religion is right and other…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:54 PM
1

I know common law does exist but I’ll be referring to this video every damn time someone asks me why I wouldn’t get married. So eloquently said in just one minute. I’m not sure how a logical male could argue.
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 07:30 PM
1

A lot of men and at times I’ve had to catch myself are one good blow job or fuck from a “smoke” to thinking back in blue pilled ways. I don’t think one is ever fully red pilled, it’s a constant work in progress as each day will present new challenges and ways to grow.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:17 PM
7

Unfortunately not
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:23 PM
11

Spot on response
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:42 PM
2

This is one of the best posts I’ve ever read on here. It’s a shame more men don’t read and comprehend this. How do I know this post is 10000% accurate? I was that guy chasing tinder, girls having a lot of random sex and getting random girls and was still DEPRESSED AF. I had no why, all my validation came from if I was scoring with chicks or if I got that text back. What a shame and what a lie I once believed. It’s been quite the journey over the past year, I’m so thankful that I’ve found this pl…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 03:11 PM
2

Like 30k. Word hard and be smart, you’ll be fine. My best advice (32), trust your instincts, it’s your competitive advantage
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:30 PM
3

“Stay strong and accelerate” some wise words
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 11:27 PM
1

Don’t do it my friend, messing with a married women isn’t commendable and there’s so many fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:54 PM
7

I’m sorry for the loss of your father and the complete betrayal by your brother. Please know that while we may never meet, you have a brother here on this thread that does care and believes in YOU. You are worthy of this life and please do everything you can in your power to look past the harm thats been done to you and rebuild. Its no easy task and I’m not pointing fingers, I just want you to know that you are capable of what you aspire to be and don’t let a single soul tell you otherwise. Best…
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 04:54 PM
1

Honestly reading the rationale male opened the eyes to be to honest I always thought marriage and the whole horse and pony was far fetched. I saw women’s scandalous behavior but almost let it slide. The past 6-12 months I’ve more consciously seen it in real life and society. I know the MGTOW thread can get a bad wrap but there’s some genuine guys on there looking to help guys not make the same mistake as them. That thread in particular bridges the gap and now I see clearly.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:43 PM
8

32... college and now. Really digested the pill and woke myself out of blue pill life about 6-12 months ago
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:44 PM
2

If she knows she can manipulate you it’ll never last. This right here shows you have some balls and won’t put up with the shit. Just be ready to completely walk away though if she doesn’t respond.. this honestly is your best play.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:25 PM
2

It was honestly years ago when I was in high school. I’d have to ask my parents but shoot me a DM if you want to know and I can ask them.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:23 PM
3

My guess is you are probably a bit younger than I am (32). I’ll say this and I hope it sticks. You’ll hear a lot on this site about “Alpha” or “Beta” etc.. I was as blue pilled as they come. No respect for myself, put women on a pedestal like you wouldn’t believe. Always thought my happiness came from them. If there is one piece of advice you NEED to live by it’s so what you want to do, when you want to do it, and how you want to do it. Simple as that. To me, that’s alpha. Live your life for you…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:23 AM
3

The value of the soft next is paramount. The no reply no reach out drives their hamster wheel crazy.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:07 AM
1

Same here and I had it bad. Know the risks but it definitely worked.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:05 AM
7

Soft next is the play remember this: “Once you feel avoided by someone, never disturb them again”
/r/askTRP23/09/19 05:10 PM
1

Great post, all the OP can do and read this. If he doesn’t listen then that’s on him.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:00 PM
1

Most of the used ones probably are one owner and were well taken care of. Just a thought.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 11:49 PM
1

Why don’t you just go with the hellcat. 700HP and you can get them used for 50kish.
/r/MGTOW18/08/19 11:47 PM
3

I’ve never been a great texter but someone here nailed it. “Say less, do less, expect more” until you are sexual with her, over texting will lead to less attraction.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:36 PM
3

Works for me but there’s no magic superpowers. After about two weeks of not nutting the energy and drive to bust a 🥜 is crazy.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:44 PM
1

Brighton mass, technically Boston but I’m in southie all the time.. Lincoln, capo, Broadway.. rinse repeat.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:11 PM
1

Moving to south Boston from Brighton in September, always down to wing.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 05:28 PM
1

You’re fine mate. Keep working on you.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 01:19 PM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 01:14 PM
17

He’s saying there a lot of RP and rap which I completely agree. Note: Pretty sure Travis Scott is talking about how big the pool is at his house that the girl thinks it’s an ocean.. not sure it’s got anything to do relationship wise.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:57 AM
6

This times 1000. That’s the risk, but if you can go in and keep emotions in check understanding it can go sour and you have to walk away at any second it can be done. Tough, but possible with the perfect mindset and frame.
/r/MGTOW07/08/19 09:09 PM
2

That’s your reasoning? Sounds like the excuse the chicks we all bash here use.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 08:09 PM
8

Be better, cheating does harm to all parties involved.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 06:45 PM
2

You’re doing everything for the validation of females, dangerous game to play. When you’re on a hot streak, nothing’s better and you feel unstoppable. Cold streaks however tend to turn into Dee depression and what you are in right now. Start doing things FOR YOU. You’ll find the rest will come in due time.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:21 PM
2

Tremendous
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 05:42 PM
3

I love this. It makes to much sense to refute. Saying that, if one were to date and get in an LTR they must act like the employer and enter the agreement on an at Will basis and can fire the employee (no emotional attachment) based off poor performance.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 05:40 PM
49

For some reason this hit home.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 01:02 PM
4

That’s really low free test. I’m at 118 and I’m 32. I’d look into it more.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:51 PM
6

You either got to live with it and let go or just don’t play the game. I’m about 5” and at times have thought similar things and even had performance anxiety but you either going to decide to live with it and be you or just don’t participate.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:17 AM
28

To me the definition of MGTOW. The ultimate do YOU
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 01:13 AM
2

You get paid for the severity of the problem you solve. Winning an NBA championship brings in MILLIONS of revenue.... WNBA, not so much
/r/MGTOW23/07/19 09:54 PM
7

This This This
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:56 PM
2

If there’s no validation seeking behind this, I’m okay with it. Odds are that isn’t the case but there’s a chance. Could be the unicorn lol
/r/MGTOW23/07/19 01:28 AM
3

This post spoke volumes... At 31 I’ve absolutely been struck with the concept that my life doesn’t need to conform to society and marriage and “the one” is not in my future.... I’ve never been happier
/r/MGTOW23/07/19 01:19 AM
2

Wow what a great post... Kudos. This is 100% accurate, no denying.
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:51 PM
17

It’s what happens when pussy is the main focus of ones existence. No other purposes for life... sad actually
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:55 PM
7

This, A+ response
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 01:23 AM
6

IMO it’s about the individual. I have plenty of friends who are not in shape but have terrific charisma and they get laid. Could they get laid more if they were jacked? Possibly, but my point is just because you are jacked doesn’t mean you’ll get laid more. It’s a piece of the puzzle. For me, if I’m in good shape feeling good I’m more apt to be energetic, confident etc so it’s a by product plus I like to be healthy. As my Pepere always said, look good, feel good, play good. Lifting for me is a m…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:28 PM
1

Stopping jerking off and porn has tremendously helped me. Everyone’s different, if you’re having issues, I’d suggest trying it.
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:16 PM
3

Tremendous answer. Poster needs to reconsider his values.
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:11 PM
3

College is about starting a career and finding your true self. Having fun and partying is fun and all but don’t go to college to get laid. Go to college to get a step in the direction of your life.
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 02:41 PM
3

You sound like a bitch
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:31 AM
1

ABUNDANCE
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:59 PM
4

Maybe he’s more alpha than you think. How you know him and how she knows him could be a lot different. Point being there’s no end all be all answer, different situations cause women to act completely different.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:44 PM
2

This is very good advice
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 12:44 AM
1

For anyone who is still learning TRP or wondering about girls flaking or when to text etc.. what itiswr1tten wrote is absolute gold and 100% fact. If you can mentally be in that mindset all the time, you’ll have success like you never thought.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 11:57 PM
0

I’ve learned the hard way of texting too quick after sex... almost always ends up with never seeing them again. Whenever I waited or did what said poster said about “when you want to see them next” immediate response. Quite the contrary to the blue pill thinking I grew up on but man it’s wild how much a difference there is.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:24 PM
2

Hahaha I like that “injured reserve” Appreciate the commentary from everyone, I’ll be sure to update should it come back around. Not planning on it but if it comes back all gravy.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:54 AM
3

Terrific way to look at it!
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:52 AM
3

It’s my only play and the route I was planning on going on. Appreciate the words.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:11 PM
4

Interesting take. Exactly why I posted this, wanted to see if she would text first but this is good insight, never thought of it like that.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:09 PM
1

This 👆
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:57 PM
4

Probably has a BF
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:58 PM
43

LOL... too good
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 09:31 PM
1

It is strange just a complete ghost tho, honestly I’ve been on a good one confidence wise and a hot streak as of sorts so I thought this was a layup post date but hey, that’s the game. Appreciate the wise words brothas.
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:56 PM
1

Yup, keep in mind this girl is a foreign exchange student so maybe she is a bit nervous or just not ready for something. I like the approach, wait a week, send something, if nothing delete # and never think about it again.
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:52 PM
1

So tough to tell but she could have found another guy, maybe didn’t think you were aggressive enough etc.. I’m just coming from a situation where a girl ghosted me after a good date that ended in a make out, so I can attest, the hamster wheel spins a bit but with no emotion involved I can say the best thing to do is move on and find new prospects. I feel texting too much can put you in a friend zone which is tough to get out of. Best of luck mate, just know this. This girl or prospect you had ca…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:40 PM
6

I heard a good quote that’s easy to comprehend but hard to apply. The ego says it’s something, the spirit says it’s nothing. Just gotta keep it moving.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:26 PM
7

Appreciate the response, that’s the logical thing to do, abundance and move on. Thanks brotha!
/r/askTRP19/06/19 05:56 PM
1

I’ll delete.
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 05:23 PM
1

Pretty sure there are MGTOW that still date. I’m not looking for marriage or kids but I’d doubt most of this sub doesn’t date occasionally, if this is the overwhelming opinion here I’ll move the thread. Best,
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 05:19 PM
13

6 LOL
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 11:26 PM
2

EXACTLY.... next her. Sorry bro, you’ll be better for it.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:07 AM
2

This is 100% fact. Be careful, I’d strongly suggest a hard next. If there is any kinks in your armor, you’ll be on the emotional roller coaster of your life. How do I know? Dated one for 3 years.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:49 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:19 AM
4

To quote big Sean... I could have a bulletproof condom and still gotta pull out. Sucks to have that mentality but as I age I become less and less trustworthy of females.
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 11:55 PM
2

Appreciate the responses here gentlemen... everyone has their own views and opinions. Happy hunting.
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:11 AM
1

Honestly it sounds generic but ABC, always try for the close. Someone said it here best.... who do you think gets laid more: The normal looking guy who is always in action, always approaching, always making moves OR the good looking guy who doesn’t make one move. It’s not rocket science
/r/seduction14/11/18 01:43 AM
2

While I believe these all to be great pointers, eye contact is huge, especially when you are on a date 1 on 1. I’ve called girls out for poor eye contact and while they first seemed offended, they told me later no guys ever done that and they respected it. Good luck out there guys.
/r/seduction14/11/18 01:26 AM
2

Doesn’t sound too beta to me
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:59 AM
14

Absolutely 100% correct
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:43 PM
-3

Maybe just mailing the flowers with a note? Just a thought, sometimes an unannounced visit could be a bit much for someone. Either way sounds like you in the drivers seat so just be confident either way.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:41 PM
2

Good luck, always remember. Happiness is within your grasp, it’s your choice to grab it or not.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:29 PM
2

If I knew I’d tell you, unfortunately it’s a personality trait that we posses. Like anything else it will take a lot of commitment and training to undo. Don’t beat yourself up over it but try to acknowledge small wins day in and day out where you overcome this and build momentum. I will say, as someone said before. Peak physical fitness (lifting) along with meditation and prayer is KEY.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:26 PM
2

Your comment could easily be mine. I struggle with the same exact thing. Countless blessings and every reason in the world to be happy but YET, if I don’t get that text back or if she’s not interested I’m crushed. There’s no real answer to your problem, I wish I could say I started doing Xx and found it to be extremely helpful. What has helped me is to acknowledge that my happiness CANNOT be determined by the validation of others. Really living this mindset is refreshing. Try it, truly try to li…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:15 PM
2

Update: sent a funny response testing her reaction. She responded quickly and I asked her about drink tomorrow to which she replied I can’t unfortunately with no set up of another date. Funny because the night before she was texting me “thinking about you” and then one shit test to cold. A slow next is probably the play here, and to think I had oneitis with her a few days ago 😂
/r/seduction06/11/18 07:20 PM
2

Basically everything but... appreciate the insight here.
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:22 PM
1

This is a girl I’ve been seeing for a few weeks but obviously have not had sex with.. hooked up but nothing else. All advice welcome.
/r/seduction06/11/18 02:41 PM
2

While long winded there was a lot of gold in that comment and I appreciate the time you took to make it Phfenix. It’s funny how I stumbled across this comment at a time where oneitis is/was hitting me hard. Reading this helped me see things a bit clearly and look at logic rather than emotion. I usually am good at this however during this stretch, oneitis had its grip on me.
/r/seduction06/11/18 02:31 AM
1

Stop banging a dudes GF and have some respect
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:09 AM
1

I recruit for sales professionals for a CRM firm. If you want 6 figure salary stay and sales but constantly move “upward” perfect one technology, move to a more advanced, so on and so on. NEVER get complacent, always challenge and in 3-5 years you’ll be at 100k easy if you are successful.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 07:49 PM
3

I’m 31 and my game has only improved. I’ve just seen so many angles and been in so many situations that I know how to play things out. I do look younger so I can still go to a younger bar but do not sweat my friend. Be the best version of yourself and you’ll find plenty of opportunities.
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:50 PM
1

A big thing is about having fun, it’s cliche but girls really do just want to have fun. Sounds like you might be putting too much emphasis on getting laid every time you go out, it’s a stench girls can smell. They have the spidy senses for it, just like they can sense a strong frame and when a guy isn’t putting the basis of his night on if he brings a girl home... they love that. You’ll be fine, be the best version of yourself. You want to be this guy that is getting laid all the time great, ove…
/r/seduction25/10/18 10:21 PM
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