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| 0 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsI haven't had sex since my last gf 18 months ago and still counting. She just up and left my life without no closure and blocked me from all contacts. We caught back up again through social media and only talked for a week. She ended up doing the same thing she did 18 months ago, just left without no closure and blocked me from all contacts. That's when I knew itll be a long while until I get laid again. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How to have an AWESOME night outDoes ceasing masterbation really helps with getting desire to approach women more often? | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceWYM? | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceI don't look at relationships as a numbers game I look at it as spiritual/energy attraction. Some guys (like myself) just wont ever get a woman because of the energy we unknowingly possess. No matter how you change your mind, how kind you are, how whatever, your spirt/energy trumps all that. Unfortunately, I live with a spirit and have energy that is below average of human nature, regardless how handsome I am, how well dressed, considerate to others, etc. Women do not see this, women feel and se… | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | MEN = BLACK AND WHITE / WOMEN = COLORS🤯 | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I don't have a fear of being rejected. I have a fear of people seeing me being rejected.I experience this before and I totally understand. I remember one time I was at the mall and I saw this attractive woman walk by. I tried speaking to her by saying " how you doing?" but she ignored me the first time. So, I spoke again quickly right after but a little louder so she can hear me. Clearly she didn't want to speak to me so she told me she has a man. Right when she said that, another woman was walking by and witness me trying to holler. She was so intrigued of me being rejected that s… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with first impressions meeting women.excellent response. but its hard to not. worry about people thinking negative of me because of all the evil stares. like some guys behavior around me is like they ready to fight. Whats even odd is that I'm a very small guy. I'm like 5'4 and weigh 125ish...like how the hell am i intimidating? | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with first impressions meeting women.Thanks that sounds like a great tip. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 05:36 AM |
| 2 | How often do you start seeing women you've just slept with?Sometimes it be like that. if you havent had sex for a long time (2 months for me, I get really horny and start to prowl hard and its also fun because lack of sex oddly boosts my confidence and desire to approach more) and you find someone to casually date, you tend to stick around or focus on that one woman especially if the sex is good. I'll go out and meet like 10 different women in a week. Out of those 10 maybe 2 or 3 will not flake or may let me take them out drinking or something either sa… | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | A specific behavior I noticed at the barHere is the thing, I use to get a lot of women in past with no probelm. this was before the ingstagrams and snapchat (like around 2011/12 ish) and me being a relationship and ultimately changing my ways toward women. But, what I notice that my friends to get a lot of women, is that he talks to 99.99% of women that he comes in contact with. I have never seen him see a women near him that he HASN'T said any simple thing to, rather was he was trying to pull them or not. What I learned is that he'll… | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Losing momentum in daygameWhat I normally do is what until crunch time. Meaning, if you are visiting a mall for instance, go like an hour before it closes, that way you feel like you wasted too much time and it'll pressure you to try to pull someone before it closes. I do this often on weekends. For example: Mall closes at 9PM, so i'll go between 7:30 and 8PM. I can roam around and see if I'll meet someone. This gives me an advantage sometimes, 1. I have enough courage to try to pull someone only within that time frame. … | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The reason why most men suck at gameThis was actually a nice little article, much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 07:00 PM |
| 0 | A specific behavior I noticed at the barWhen you come sit down, what do you do? Do you speak before sitting? Do you pull out your phone and attend to it? What are you wearing? Do you only focus on the woman turning her back suddenly or the group of women reactions all together? give us more..... | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys to approach mehonestly i love black sisters. i like mine a little classy and a little hood but I really don't have a preference. The goody black girls are kind of boring to me. I have never dated a latino or white woman (not saying that I wouldn't). | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys to approach meSee that's why guys don't approach you. You assume. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys to approach meYou'll most likely do things to show you don't like me, like stare at me from the side of your eyes or when i'm not looking thinking negative stuff. If i'm walking behind you, you might just stop and let me pass you so you won't think i'm looking at your ass,. If i'm walking behind you at a door, you wouldn't leave it open for me to pass and just let it close on me. You'd not say thank you if I left the door open for you if i was in a front of you, thinking i don't deserve a 'thank you'. This is… | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I get guys to approach meI'm black and probably wouldn't approach you either. Not that you are ugly but that I get the same result out black woman. See I'm a short skinny guy, alot of people say I favor Larenz Tate with good hair, so that gives you an idea how I'd look. If I looked at you, you'll either look off, keep from around me or make this face where you twist your lips to the side. Like a 'he ain't shit' look or something. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 05:15 PM |
| 16 | Getting lots of dates but still no resultsYeah honestly this sounds kind of creepy. You are coming off too strong and desperate to get a kiss based off your problem you're having. Tone it down bro. Keep doing what you do to 'get' the dates. Once you end a date, 'do not' go for a kiss (meaning not being persistent with your advances with every girl, its hard not to if you are intensely infatuated). I honestly think that 'not kissing' the girl at the end will land you a second date and more texts from these girls, try it. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU?I think its a good idea. It's something I think I need to seriously do. For a long time I have gotten completly frustrated with women that I believe that I'm cursed from having an abundant of women in my life. Like it seriously doesn't make any sense that I don't have any women in life whatsoever. I don't have any female numbers in my phone ( I deleted them all because I can't build shit with them, no matter what I do). So the only numbers I have in my phone are family, one guy friend, and like … | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Women avoid me at strip clubs?Nowadays I have a very bad view on women that I'm seriously thinking about fapping as mentioned in the redpill section. There are two things I think of women that keeps me from spitting a single word to them and not paying attention: I think this girl just want to be my friend anyway and I don't befriend women if not beneficial. So that means I just ignore them. She will tell me she has a boyfriend anyway, she has this in her mind already before I approach (which could be a sit test that'll keep… | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women avoid me at strip clubs?Yeah women have a preconceived notion with good looking men. See I'm a black dude and you can just imagine all the darted stares, turned faced black women give me without me doing or saying a single word to them. I observe women's behavior around me. They try their damnest to ignore or steer clear from me. Man if I was a woman I wouldn't treat myself like that lol. But hey I gotta deal it from all women and not just blacks. | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Women avoid me at strip clubs?Because women don't like good looking men for some reason. I have the samething happen with me.Girls think good looking men are stuck up and will not pay for nothing. I get this all the time from women everywhere. It could be a classroom full of men and women and if I'm the only decent looking one, they'll treat me like shit compared to the other guys that may seem to be less attractive then me. I'm not saying that to be conceited or anything but I just make observations. | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 12:25 AM |
| 1 | It's friday night and I have no plans. How do I find some ladies??go to a local bar close by tonight. go to a club where there will be plenty of ladies. go somewhere where a lot of people will be. | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How to become a great conversationalist?When you conversate with women learn to use what I like to call a "stabbing" conversation. (metaphorically speaking) Start your topics off with light topics then get deeper as if you're cutting through an object (or the woman in that case). For example: The outer surface of the object/woman would be topics that initiate simple small talk stuff like favorite sports, movies, and what she may like to do. Then you start to cut a little deeper asking questions about her family, where she's from, how … | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 12:58 AM |
| 6 | How to become a great conversationalist?Ask open ended questions instead. | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | The first time you tried to pick up womenI'm a black guy. My first pick up was when I was 17 years old in the 11th grade. It was this new girl that use to ride my bus with a FAT JIGGLY ass. She only been there for like a week. She use to wear these tight camouflage pants (and other clothing showing all that ass) and every time we get off the bus and she walks home in front of me, I just use to be so damn horny and infatuated by just watching her ass jiggle. Now the girl was probably a 4/10 in the face but had a sexy as body that made m… | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I get girls but I have no friends?? | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I get girls but I have no friends?I like that, it rhymed. I'ma put that in my verse bro thanks.....SIIIIIIKE!!! | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you use kino to attract a woman or after attracting a woman?lol | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?What is red pill and where can I find it? | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?Dude its easy to tell someone to calm down than actuality. The last few years have been disastrous for me with regards to women. Now I mos def only use texting for logistics and meet ups later only. But normally my texts are simple: Introduce myself (again), Ask her how day is going and ask what she doing this [any weekday]. If the answer is nothing, then bam I ask to meet up. But where I do fuck up at most of the times with women is that I ask them to come see me, I always get that " I don't kn… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?Let me give you an example of how I would approach a woman during the day. Hey, how you doing sweetie/cutie/sexy (or just without the names). She'll say fine. Now she might still be tending to her business (shopping, looking at clothes/shoes/items) and I'll ask what she up to, is she from around the way, if she have any kids. I get those answers. Then i might throw in a "i like that outfit you got on' or something like "i like your janet jackson braids' (while light touching her hair) and get a … | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?Hmm, I see. That makes sense. I knew it was a test question, but I figured if I lied and said I don't it'll be the obvious answer just for her to stay interested and or seem incongruent with my demeanor (I have a IDGAF-player-smart mouth-attitude-asshole like arrogant demeanor). | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?Id answer something like "yeah, I got a million hoes" or "yeah I got a couple GFs at home waiting for me to come to them after our date" or something like that. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?I did, but still not really grasping the concept of emotions. I mean if im talking to a woman and tell her 'damn you got some cute/sexy lips' and she laughs and be like "oooook, thank you' and when I follow with a can you kiss good? question, is that sexualizing? | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?I see, but I normally go for the hug all the time though. But how can I sexualize a woman at a public place within the first 15 minutes of meeting her as a stranger? | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?I think they get the player vibe man, cause they ask me that I lot (you look like you got a lot of hoes, you have a girlfriend, how many do you have lol). TBH, it's not like I haven't laid a lot of women in the pass (I think somewhere between 75 and 100 in my entire sex life, starting from 17yo). But it seems women don't communicate well to that (isn't that what a pua is? basically a player?). I really don't mind day 2s with any woman i approach. I just want to have an abundance of women around … | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?I think you just given the answer to my problem. You explained what I do and what I SHOULD do instead. Now I don't when know when and how I should 'SEXUALIZE' the conversation or interaction but normally after I give them hug after a number, I might run my hand across their booty. Not sure if that helps to entice the interaction with her. And what do you mean by 'time bridging the date' before taking her number? | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?Honestly dude, I don't really brag on my looks. Now all my life, I have been told I'm cute, fine, handsome or whatever. Sometimes when I'm in the mall walking or whatever, I might over hear some girl in a group say 'damn he fine' when i walk by lol. But I really don't like to use my looks as an advantage, I want to be treated like an average guy. I do have a very youthful look even though im 29yo (i look like im 22) Now I don't have a picture to upload [not sure how to here] but I can give you g… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?This, this is exactly what happens with me bro, 85% of the time. WOMEN ARE FLAKY FOR ME AND I'M PRONED TO IT. Woman will be all ecstatic high energy, cool, ask me questions, show IOI's, I rarely get kino from them, but I touch them though. But when I contact them, they FLAKE like skin cells, just gone. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?By all means I understand everything you say and its true, loathing woman is detrimental to my health. But it's like I have no other option bro, seriously. Getting a women's number doesn't mean nothing and I know that fact from experience. It's the easiest way for them to get me out their face but my thing is why just sit there and enjoy the conversation with me instead of saying I got a boyfriend, engaged,or just no. Now I don't just run with surface questions and small talk. If she talks about… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I cursed with women, does anybody experience the same thing I do with most women?The way you approach said woman is similar to how I might approach a woman. I pretty much approach on situations most of the time. Now before I ask for her number I do find out a little about her at the moment (like what she's doing at the moment, job related questions, school, etc). Now before I get her number I don't just outright ask for it, I ask what she like to do for fun, etc and then state "lets get out for some drinks or something" then get her number. Now I know getting a number is not… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.I don't see why it's unbelievable. on average I had sex with like 8 to 10 woman a year for 9 years. how many is that bro, plus a few i can't remember. | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.How many have you laid in your entire sex life ? | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.So you saying have nothing to worry about? | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.I stayed in the malls, walmarts and clubs every weekend bro. Until this day I still do the same thing only differnrce now is woman have become extremely nonchalant towards me now. I approach amd number close with no problem. But once I texted them to meet or come thru, no go for me bro. Most women think Im some pimp or player who just wants to fuck and leave a bitch quick. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.I've 29yo. I first had sex at 17. I starts having a lot more sex around 20/21 yo. I was having sex at least 9 or 10 woman throughout every year up until this point. So that's about 8 or 9 years. Now I may have done more than 10 in some of those years when I was younger then. So lets say I did 10 woman a year for 9 years...thats 90 plus some more that I can't remember bro. That's my entire life (starting from 17yo). Im not lying dude. I don't lie on my dick. And the reason I can't do what I did t… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 07:59 PM |
| -1 | I seem to attract guys more so than girls. What does this mean?Was what I said wrong? | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:59 PM |
| 0 | In the interest of expanding my mind, Ive been reading up on Camus lately. Here's a couple of quotes I thought you guys might like.Very powerful, I like that. Adding this qoute to my OneNotes on my Windows Phone 8.1 Lumia 640 LTE lmao (take that android, ios). | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I got a date!That's awesome. Have a good time (that should be your mindsight). But also don't forget to be flirtatious, that counts big time. Make a good first impression, enough to warrant her to see you again. On 2nd date its on like donkey kong. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Inviting Women HomeI had this problem for a long time. Not that I didn't invite women home but it wasn't often and consistent. What I learned is that every girl I met, I always tried to get them to come see me, for a very long time. I've met a lot of cute/fine women over there years and lost a lot too. I have this long lasting fantasy to meet a woman one day and bring her home the same day to fuck (My mind was so wrapped around women in porn and felt that I can just fuck a woman like that too, even though they wer… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 04:58 PM |
| 0 | I seem to attract guys more so than girls. What does this mean?For one, your'e in gay bar, now I've never been to one and prolly never will, but I'm 100% certain that you'll be hit on or watched; no ifs, ands or buts. Now your question is regarding just two scenarios a punk bar and a yoga class (obviously lectured with a punk instructor). Ever heard of micro expressions? expressions that are minimal to control but very noticeable. For instance, is your tone, voice and the way you talk punkish? do you have that sissy hand gesture when you hold it downward wh… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What's good practice for daygame and approaching?Here this thing, I was kind of like you. One thing about me is it took awhile for me to get comfortable with someone, male or female before they realize man this guy is cool/funny to hang around (eventually acting beta/alpha like). Initially I didn't elicit that behavior sometimes (do to trust, I use to get picked on or tested from cowards and started to become anti-social purposely for along time). Anyways, this is what I do (and realise this is how I acted when I was younger and had lots of fr… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How many times did you get rejected before you stopped caring?Rejection is nothing to me anymore as I learned these pass fee days. In fact it can be rather fun because it holdws the same weight as "trying" instead of. "not trying at all". How many times have you seen an attractive women in the streets, mall, store or anywhere and you hesitated to approach and then just withdraw from doing it al all, then you feel like shit. But, if you tried to approach any but still get rejected it feels better than not trying. Just yesterday at the mall, I saw this thick… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Need an opinion on this FR interaction I had the other day.Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Need an opinion on this FR interaction I had the other day.I presented myself pretty good, I was looking at her eyes and also skimming down her body as well whilst talking. I also smile sometimes too based on context. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Need an opinion on this FR interaction I had the other day.If that was a good way approaching. 90% of the time I approach women like thaty, its short and to the point. I make a funny statement as a approach. I then ask what she up to that moment or day. I then ask her name and introduce myself. I ask basics questions like: Are from here, what you do on free time. Then ill tell her to let me take her out for some drinks or something and keep in touch. Majority of approaches are like this. I'm asking is this ok for cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid the pitfalls of typical/bland conversation?imagine your conversations like a knife stabbing a watermelon or something. now when the knife touch the surface of the watermelon; those would be your basic questions like asking for name, where she from, age, etc. But then you start the pierce the knife through the melon, this is where you start asking personal questions (once everything goes ok, no awkward feelings and stuff). Questions like what highschool she went to, did she do any sports and why. whats her family/childhood was like, etc. … | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Phonecalls are the worst...I like that. I use to work in a call center with lots of beautiful chicks for three years. I'd never talked to the ones I wanted to. I have a few girls that I've messed around with but they're not as good as the ones I really wanted. Can't say that now since I got fired, but boy it was some beautiful chicks that use to work. I was getting so horny just looking and thinking about them. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 04:08 AM |
| 2 | How do I avoid the pitfalls of typical/bland conversation?When meeting or talking to women. Try to stay away from basic questions about jobs, what she like to do and simple stuff you'd ask someone at an office job. Instead ask more personal questions. like where she grew up and how was it like growing up. what fond memory does she have as a child. what was the most dumbest thing she ever did (good way to joke and laugh). sometimes I just make statements instead of questioning. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How to get it out of my head that my looks don't matter?Dude looks doesn't matter, despite the fact that You probably have a better chance than me with women because I'm considered a pretty boy. Women treat pretty boys more shittier than those that are not. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Success!!Its hard for me to get women nowadays and im not really a bad looking man (maybe 7 or 8 on scale). a few years ago I was getting more women then now, maybe 3 different women a month. now its like I get 3 different women in 4-6 months. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 03:26 AM |
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