| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 34 | Text Game and When She Texts A Lot? | RaxSnax | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 06:05 PM | |
| 13 | De-pedestalizing my oneitis hurts | RaxSnax | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 11:17 AM | |
| 1 | She doesn't want to rush into things and wants to "get to know each other" | RaxSnax | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 07:46 PM | |
| 1 | Feedback on my Text Game with this girl? | RaxSnax | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 04:40 PM | |
| 1 | Second Date/First Date Redo? Tips for Escalation | RaxSnax | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 07:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How many women did you approach before you got a date?I personally just find the ratio of numbers and dates / cold approaches far too low for my tastes. I have no trouble talking to strangers in line or that I'm sitting with and shooting the shit for a while so it's not AA either. Just giving myself the highest chance of success. That's why I've never really liked this whole "Approach 50 girls a week" method of game a lot of books teach. Then again, maybe my AA was never as bad as I thought | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 10:06 AM |
| 3 | How many women did you approach before you got a date?Exactly. I don't cold approach a lot. I pre-screen sets and just make my interest known. I approach less women and it probably is a contributing factor to dry spells, but I find my success rate when it's good is very high | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 06:05 AM |
| 3 | First things to say to a girl you dont know at allI've been doing it for about a week and it already seems to be doing some wonders for my mindset. It's definitely frustrating at first but keep with it. I try to dedicate 20 minutes in the morning and at night every day for meditation | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 12 | First things to say to a girl you dont know at allYou're getting too in your head. Try practicing meditation. It'll help you get into state and the flow. In reality, it'll never matter really what you say, more why you say it and how you say it. Try not to over think. "Hey", "Yo", "How's it going?", "Lines pretty long eh?", "I want to pee in your butt". Anything! (Okay maybe not that last one, but you get the idea) | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Feedback on my Text Game with this girl?Feels good. I've been in the game for about a year now and working on myself, so to achieve this feels awesome. I know Seddit hates movie dates but I've made it work and did what I could with what I've been given | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Feedback on my Text Game with this girl?Yeah I know. I was like "Ugh I probably shouldn't have done that." I'm probably going to be picking her up and the earliest showtime I could find is a couple hours after she gets off work, so I was thinking of taking her to dinner before the film. Both give us time to work it out and escalate | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How to OVERCOME your FEAR when talking to or asking out WOMENCan you go into more detail how you got to this place? I feel like I was in it for a while earlier this year and lost it once I attracted a girl and we casually started going out(didn't go anywhere). This post pointed out exactly what I noticed most of all: when I try to put myself out there and get with someone and put myself on a timer, I turn into my needy, unconfident self. It was when I said "fuck this" and decided to focus on and invest in myself that I actually managed to attract a girl. … | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | 5 Cheap & Simple First Date Ideas That Don’t SuckI've done the ice cream thing before. Never the after part(we did it late at night) and it went pretty well | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How would you game hot girls that know they are hot and are highly sought after?You'd be surprised honestly. There's a girl in my Public Speaking clas(ironic I know) whose a solid HB8, though she suffers from a little bit of RBF(Resting Bitch Face) and it turned me off of her. I've started talking to her more though and she seems more down to earth than I'd have ever thought. Wishes more people would approach her, feels kinda awkward, ADD, recognizes her RBF, etc. Not stuck up at all. I'm not Quasimodo, but I'm certainly not Sam Worthington either. | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Acceptance: 5 Steps to Let Her GoThe purpose step really speaks to me in this article. Obviously a relationship with a great girl is nice to have, but meeting and dating girls is something you do on your way to achieving what you need for your goals. That means girl or no girl, your purpose and drive as a man should always be priority #1. "I'm sorry RaxSnax. I don't think it's gonna work out." I think most guys struggle here because they don't know what's next. Forward is unknown and scary, so they stick with what they had in t… | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Text Game and When She Texts A Lot?Exactly. We're both 18 so this is the world we kind of grew up in. Texting often may be something older women don't mesh with, but I feel like if you have the connection that you can text someone back and forth over the course of the entire day, from good morning to good night, and do it multiple days in a row, you have something intimate. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | GUYS! I have my first date tommorow, any tips?Get the fuck out of your head and just roll with it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 05:28 AM |
| 2 | After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go wellTIL I, unintentionally, had an awesome first first-date with a girl | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | De-pedestalizing my oneitis hurtsThanks. I don't intend on being a dick to her at all, but if she contacts me(not really holding my breath at this point) I'll probably keep it short, cordial, and end it on my terms. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Walk away from friendship, or accept it for what it is and go back to fishing?A little late but I'm in this same situation. There's a mismatch in our investments, I want romantic whereas she wants platonic. The thing a lot of people recommend is breaking it off, but the tripping point is the fact that us not dating seems out of her control. I'm taking 30 days of no contact to get over this oneitis and accept I may never talk to her again, and I've been happier over the past few days, but there are still doubts like I'm the one being a dramatic dick here. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over her but i do not want to stop being friends with her.How do I do this? I've tried no contact before, but I've fucked it up. She tells me parts of her day just "aren't the same" without me there. Do I just say "Hey, I've developed feelings for you and it's best if we don't see each other anymore"? Or just cold turkey, radio silence? | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over her but i do not want to stop being friends with her.Not OP, but in a similar situation. For me, it's not that there's nothing to talk about. The conversations are great and I try to be clear with my intent. I've been listening to a lot of Corey Wayne and he is very straightforward about the fact that, if you want one thing and she wants another, the best place you can end up is the friendzone and it's better to say "Have a good day, nice knowing you" than drag on a facade. It sucks though, because the reason we can't hook up is something that fee… | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 11:45 AM |
| 3 | How is everyone doing this year ( thus far ) ?Just found this sub yesterday and still rifling through the info in the sidebar(end of the semester sucks), so nothing yet. Eager to start though. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 10:51 PM |
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