| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 115 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myself | RayMedia | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 10:34 AM | |
| 2 | How do I take it to the next step with a girl in my class? | RayMedia | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 07:32 AM | |
| 2 | What are some things that we should avoid doing? | RayMedia | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 02:33 AM | |
| 0 | How to transition from college related texts to something else? | RayMedia | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 04:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | A guy asked me out , how to decline politely ?He was being sarcastic.. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected? So what?Am I the only one who thinks it's insane to tell your crush you love her? | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Deep VoiceLots of girls have complimented my voice but then again I'm single so I don't really think it helps that much. It's a bonus to have, I guess? | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I take it to the next step with a girl in my class?Thanks for your advice on the above post. I don't have her fb, instagram, snapchat, anything. But if I'm gonna ask her for something, I want it to be her number.. but after I get it, I'd probably not know what to text her afterwards. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 09:23 PM |
| – | How do I take it to the next step with a girl in my class?What would a good response for "I have a boyfriend" be? I've seen some people on Youtube going for the "Oh, I have a boyfriend too!" | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:10 PM |
| – | How do I take it to the next step with a girl in my class?I clarified that I was on my phone for the whole class..not only when she started saying "Do them in groups". But anyway dude, we live & we learn. Next time I'm gonna go straight for it. But what should the next step be? That's the important question for now. We talked for a bit so I don't think I've ruined my chances. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:39 AM |
| – | How do I take it to the next step with a girl in my class?You're absolutely right about the "taking so much time thing". I was on my phone for the whole class so hopefully when I didn't immediately ask her to solve the paper together she noticed that it was because I was on my phone, not because I'm scared to talk to her. I actually was a bit scared to talk to her..but immediately after we talked, everything went great. Held eye contact the whole time and it was a cool short conversation. Anyway, I think the seat change was nothing huge really. I hones… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What are the best ways to get to know a girl for the first time on a college campus without scaring her off/seeming too forward?Wish I had the confidence Cody has..and I'm not talking about cold approaching hot girls only. This guy is fucking free styling to hot chicks. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 01:06 AM |
| 21 | How do I [20M] get a girlfriend or lose my virginity?False..I've been focusing on working out for 2 years and I still don't have a girlfriend. Having a fun life won't magically make girls appear in your life. I'm not bad-looking but I HAVE to work on approaching girls or it won't work. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 08:29 AM |
| 3 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceGood reply. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 05:01 PM |
| 14 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceThis is what I hate about /r/seduction. There are SO many condescending opinions that I don't know which one to follow. Some people say always mention that it's a date & to stop being a pussy, while others say never say it's a date. What should we do then..? | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 08:02 AM |
| 1 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfIt would've been way better if I'd just talked to her when she smiled in the beginning. 90% sure I wouldn't get rejected if I'd done that but oh well, I'm learning! | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfEscape was my first ever rave last year! Holy shit man..that first rave feeling is unexplainable. Have you bought your ticket yet? | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfGreat idea! I might try that. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfNext time, my friend. I promise. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfStill haven't gotten that first kiss so I'm waiting :P And trust me, I've always gone there for the music and only that..but I've realized that nightclubs, festivals, basically anything with music, have the best vibes. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfI love hearing these success stories man! The max I've done at a festival was have girls grind on me, etc but I've never actually had the balls to talk to girls at festivals. I'm most likely going to a huge halloween event called Escape and I'm planning on talking to girls there. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfI hope so! | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 07:43 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myselfOhm nightclub in DTLA. They played hip hip from around 11 to 12:30, which I didn't like that much and the transitions were bad. Then they played trap for a bit and it was fun but they switched back to hip hop after a while. It was good but I feel like the music could've been better. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 07:42 PM |
| 8 | For those that approach A LOT, does it really improve the quality and success of your approaches?I want to start doing this too, but I go to community college and I don't wanna be labeled as the guy who approaches all girls on campus. Where else would be a good place to start? | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | How to *actually* love yourself.That wasn't my question or maybe I didn't explain it clearly, my bad. In the first post you said "If I can't get a woman by the age of 40, I'm done." Do you mean you're going to be "done" as in stop trying? | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | How to *actually* love yourself.What exactly do you mean by "I'm done"? | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 11:05 PM |
| 5 | How to *actually* love yourself.How old are you? I'm turning 19 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend (I don't really count middle school :P) and I'm a virgin. It's bothering me, yes, but I'm trying to improve myself as much as I can. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 08:27 PM |
| 22 | How to *actually* love yourself.That's a really sad way to think. Honestly, I'd be devastated if I had to live my entire life single, but I'd still accept it and move on. Life doesn't revolve around women or vice versa. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask her for another date? (Flake)No, only mention it if she asks. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask her for another date? (Flake)Oh, man, you are fucked! Kidding. But you need to come up with an excuse/joke as to why you screenshot the chat just in case she asks you, and it better not be "Cause I wanted to ask Reddit for advice". Good luck :P | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Should I ask her for another date? (Flake)Wait, please tell me you didn't screenshot that and it showed up on her side? Cause she'd probably be like why the heck is this guy screenshotting our chat | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so affected by dry spells?I know, I've seen it around so many times haha, but I was pointing out that the comment didn't have a happy tone. I also think this bot should be banned. I see it everywhere on Reddit and it is annoying. | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so affected by dry spells?I..don't think that comment was happy | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 12:04 PM |
| 1 | I've been a lurker in this sub for over a year, and while there has been good content, a video recently posted by /u/jamestusk2017 about rejection is absolutely CRUCIAL viewing for anyone who's remotely serious about this. It should be stickied. Here's why:What was he supposed to open with that wouldn't be too direct? I'm curious | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerFriendliest interaction I've seen on here in a while. That's cool haha | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys ever had a girl ask you out on a date first? 21 years of my life and I never had a girl ask me out or told me that they liked me.Hahahhahahaa holy shit this is so funny | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Your opinions on being called "cute"YES, that is exactly how I feel man! I didn't think anyone would understand what I meant but I'm glad you did. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that we should avoid doing?I thought most people do movies then dinner, but then again I'm not experienced | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 05:55 AM |
| – | What are some things that we should avoid doing?I don't do all of those things except for the first one. I was going to ask this girl on a first date to a movie. Why do you think it's a bad idea? | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone?205 days here. Same thoughts! | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 07:10 AM |
| 1 | 2 month textWhy would you want to give her a hard time or not text back? Has she done something to piss you off? If she hasn't, then just text her back.. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 04:32 PM |
| 3 | 2 month textSo what exactly is the purpose of this post? | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 05:11 AM |
| – | I'm getting more direct with my feelings towards women, but I can't seem to handle rejection when it "hits home."There's no "manning up" in a situation like this. Of course someone telling you they won't fuck you because you're short will lower your self esteem, but just know that height doesn't mean shit to SOME girls. That girl has a specific type, just like you do. She likes tall guys or whatever, no big deal..it's impossible to attract every single girl. So don't let that bother you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Am I the only one who hates playing these games? I perceive it as sad when people act like they're busy when they're not (even though SOMETIMES I do it). Of course I'm not saying reply the same exact second she does because then you'll just come off as desperate, but I'm saying why wait a whole hour to reply? The way I do it is if the girl doesn't take long to reply, then I'll reply within 10 mins. Can you explain your point of view on this? Maybe I'm doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from college related texts to something else?You're absolutely right, man. THIS is what I wanted to hear, but I know it's wrong for sure. "Just wait ‘till the end of the semester, don’t take any risk, any chances at all, that how we get hurt, and we fail, by trying" but I know it's wrong. So last question, do you recommend a straight up date request, or should it be first casual lunch, etc so that we can talk for a while and then I can invite her for a "date" another day? | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 06:18 PM |
| – | How to transition from college related texts to something else?Alright, thanks! Read my reply to Jack, it'll explain more why I think it would be awkward. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from college related texts to something else?So the thing that's scaring me about inviting her out is that I've already done it twice. Once it was a group hike and she was busy. Second time it was a roadtrip and she said it'd be cool but kinda weird cause she doesn't know my group. Now I know I made a huge mistake by inviting her that 2nd time, but she asked me for my spring break plans first. So I don't know. She said no twice already, the 3rd time she says no will be hella awkward for sure. That's why I'm being a "puss". I don't want to … | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 11:08 PM |
| – | How to transition from college related texts to something else?The huge issue is that it's an English class, and she's the one usually asking me for help with assignments. Sometimes I think she's just using me for the class and ask for help, and other times I think she's really interested. The issue is that I'm kind of shy when it comes to these situations. When it comes to me talking to people, I'm confident, but when it comes to asking a girl out, it's so hard. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 11:03 PM |
| – | How to transition from college related texts to something else?So you honestly think it wouldn't be awkward if I asked her out on a date and she said no? In my opinion, it'd be hella awkward. A girl who just said no to a date is sitting in class right in front of you. That's why I want to ask her after the semester is over. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 08:09 PM |
| 3 | A selection of /u/gotthelowdown's comments related to interaction and seduction. Great read.This guy fucks. | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | When a girl looses interest in me, I want her even more but when her interest is very clear I loose mineCould you elaborate more on the "building confidence again" part? | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | The less fucks you give the more fucks you getThis is EXACTLY how I feel. I'm picky, and my friends always tell me that I need to settle for less. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Never met her before, Slid in DM's, Now What?Idk about everyone else but I don't think i'd ever ask this: Me: (7:53PM) do you give out your instagram to everyone or did my stranger things line earn it? lmao I also think this was one was a bit cheesy (but it worked so why not I guees): Me: (9:02) Send picture of baseball bat lol ur weird (lmao) Also, you should change the way you type. You give off an "ayyy lmao" vibe. Other than that I think you're doing fine | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Seddit this is just a general question to see what some of you seduction savages think. And to guys that are on the skinnier side of the spectrum do you or have you noticed a difference in the way your treated and thought of by girls and guys when you went from being a toothpick to muscularIt's the sad truth. You're more likely to get compliments from your guy friends. No girl will come up to you and say "Yo, your arms are way bigger now!" | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Moronic question: Should I approach a girl on the street who only hold eye contact for a momentAccording to the comments, there are 4 types of people. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Seddit this is just a general question to see what some of you seduction savages think. And to guys that are on the skinnier side of the spectrum do you or have you noticed a difference in the way your treated and thought of by girls and guys when you went from being a toothpick to muscularActually, I noticed a big difference when I put on muscle. I got a lot of compliments from people ( mostly guys :/ ), and my confidence has gone up a lot. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 06:13 AM |
| 17 | Infield of Me Gaming A Hottie + Her Sister At Target lolI'm a freshman in college and I'd gladly take some tips from you since you say it's so easy, but for me it isn't tbh | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Top 50 Mistakes to Avoid in a RelationshipIf the 2 people in a relation follow rule #1: "Being the first to say I love you" then none of them will say "I love you" Also can you explain #20 more? Insecure as in what? Thinking she'd cheat on me with them? | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 12:44 AM |
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